El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 135 - Aprende a manejar tus emociones

Episode Date: October 5, 2020

Las redes sociales suelen mostrar personas siempre felices que sonríen todo el tiempo...pero esto no siempre es auténtico. Pensando en esto, ¿es válido mostrar tus emociones de forma auténtica o ...es mejor hacer como que no pasa nada y sonreír de oreja a oreja todo el tiempo? Todas tus emociones merecen un lugar en tu corazón, merecen ser reconocidas, aceptadas y escuchadas. Tú tienes todo el derecho de darle ese lugar a lo que sientes y aprender a hacerlo puede hacerte más libre de lo que quizá eres hoy. En este episodio del podcast, las emociones tienen un lugar muy importante y por ello hablaremos sobre cómo aprender a vivir con ellas, darles voz y aprender de ellas para luego dejarlas ir. ¿Qué puedes aprender? ¿Qué es la positividad tóxica y por qué la solución a nuestros problemas no es aparentar que no pasa nada? ¿Por qué mostrar tus emociones no es una debilidad y es mejor darles espacio para aprender a manejarlas. ¿Cuál es la diferencia entre controlar y manejar tus emociones? ¿Por qué tus emociones pueden ser grandes maestras en el camino de tu vida?

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Starting point is 00:00:00 If I look in the dictionary, the word onrar, says, to show respect and consideration to a person. Of that's the time. But not only only of honor and respect to a person that you're your
Starting point is 00:00:13 or you know, but to the emotions that are in you. And the emotions that are in you not only only are the joy. Of course,
Starting point is 00:00:20 the five emotions basic are, are joy, trustes, asco, ira, and fear. Some principles
Starting point is 00:00:26 psychological, very biggo, very studied. But today, it seems that there's a devotion to the joy of all the joy, that no time of and to celebrate the algering, that's other four emotions, that there is where is the problem, we're going to be the positivity or the positivism toxic.
Starting point is 00:00:47 Something that is intoxica because we're negating our ram, our arco-iris complete of emotions. And of that's the podcast of this week. learn to honor your emotions not only the aligree all the
Starting point is 00:01:01 two completeas episode 135 we're goings the podcast the Marko Antonio Regil is a production of RGL Entertainment
Starting point is 00:01:08 and all his rights are reserved and recognize onrard every part of your
Starting point is 00:01:14 process is part important importantissima of your design one of the the
Starting point is 00:01:21 concepts most the concepts more when I studied psychology spiritual, that as I've shared, many times, was an before and a
Starting point is 00:01:29 after and a después in my life, is that the solution of the problems not is a through to bringartes or bringartes the problems or to make like no that's succeeding,
Starting point is 00:01:42 to do it, to do it, and simply put a car of a legria, no important what. And, look, that me have known,
Starting point is 00:01:54 They're talking of that that I'm happy, of that I'm sorry. Sin embargo, you know, you have shared with you have the time of the
Starting point is 00:02:02 moments more difficult and difficult of my life. I've yearado with you in the media social for the partida of my
Starting point is 00:02:09 mom. I've done with you my partida Lucy. I've shared when I'm really tried.
Starting point is 00:02:15 And I've received much critiques. Muchism critiques because there are people who can learn to
Starting point is 00:02:21 this type if you're because she has her perrita or he's a year
Starting point is 00:02:26 and he has been to be a mom. That's not is a really
Starting point is 00:02:30 to get to him. I've read that's that's other things.
Starting point is 00:02:33 Even people in some interviews and have asked for
Starting point is 00:02:36 why that that that that and for not
Starting point is 00:02:41 not that for me and that's where is where is where
Starting point is 00:02:45 that's that there's that there that most your
Starting point is 00:02:50 other emotions your your your ira, your fear, are symbols of debility.
Starting point is 00:02:56 There's this idea, and that is the idea toxic, of that you have to be being always, no important how.
Starting point is 00:03:03 And, oh, when I do these examples, I'm doing with all the respect and carey because I
Starting point is 00:03:07 know the people that part this positivity, it's don't know how,
Starting point is 00:03:13 and only it's a your sonrisa, and only muster the positive and all the
Starting point is 00:03:16 bad time and you know to do you're to be to be motivation,
Starting point is 00:03:21 it's with the best of the intentions. I know. I remember, I said, I said,
Starting point is 00:03:28 the generation more young, not know what about, but when I was a new there was a program of
Starting point is 00:03:34 television very famous and very exitoso that's called X, E, too. And it was the great René Casas
Starting point is 00:03:47 to who he made a brother to give him he was a much more young still.
Starting point is 00:03:53 And I was in the TV, I was, he was, he was a and the phrase of the program was,
Starting point is 00:03:57 it's always he, and the force will be in a good nights. So,
Starting point is 00:04:01 so I'm always sonrue and the force will be this phrase that's saying
Starting point is 00:04:08 no, no has nothing to me I'm explain, but simply is incomplete.
Starting point is 00:04:12 If you you're in a place or if you're you're talking to a person
Starting point is 00:04:16 that's that's that's that that that's metida in
Starting point is 00:04:20 pensamments negative that that thinking in the torment and how all all going to do do you want to
Starting point is 00:04:27 because not it's a pain and the life is injustice and in this in this nube there's like I think what
Starting point is 00:04:35 was the character of Charlie Brown of the caricature Charlie Brown where there was a personage that was a new a newgris
Starting point is 00:04:43 that was always going to give him when you're when you when you when you talk you
Starting point is 00:04:49 a person that's in one of his emotions or in the negativity obviously, that to say
Starting point is 00:04:55 he's that's that to be a that also that's a time that's
Starting point is 00:05:00 a opportunity in the difficulties obviously give us this advice
Starting point is 00:05:07 or give this is important is important the problem not is that's when you
Starting point is 00:05:14 don't you when you say you don't you're you're when you don't
Starting point is 00:05:17 when we start to that we're going to be content, start to be able to
Starting point is 00:05:25 get to get to get to get to get to the other extreme, is to say, someone who's saying,
Starting point is 00:05:32 that's not, that's not not going to produce good results. But if we go to we're going to
Starting point is 00:05:37 we're going to see, and this is what has been in the last time, especially at the
Starting point is 00:05:42 networks and at the some of those motivators or motivators that not you know they're not
Starting point is 00:05:47 they're not you don't you simply they say sonry, and say, and say,
Starting point is 00:05:51 and say, and say, and say, They say they say, they're with good intentions. The problem is that when we're not honramos to all our emotions, we're ignoring the process human, psychological, natural, for the whole those those beings pass us. Of some way, we've believed that being able to be able to be able to be
Starting point is 00:06:11 and is the way. And we're not only those moments of trestess, our moments of ira, our moments of fear. No is cool to put that in the networks social. For so when I have I've done with you've
Starting point is 00:06:23 in the social or you've shared with there's there there's and there who
Starting point is 00:06:28 there's a like that's like you because you I'm going to learn to you. We've
Starting point is 00:06:33 constructed to an altar to one of our emotions that is the joy.
Starting point is 00:06:38 And that's I'm a very much that's but when I bring
Starting point is 00:06:43 the process and I not I'm able to all my emotions not only only
Starting point is 00:06:50 my emotions and no honor, no I know I'm not no know with respect with love to the sabiduria that can be behind of
Starting point is 00:07:00 the process of the emotions then so it's where we we're in this term that's that's critical
Starting point is 00:07:06 every more of the positivity or the positivism toxic no? is negate to you negate to
Starting point is 00:07:11 you. Negar when something when something you do ask or do you do
Starting point is 00:07:16 your humanity negate your process of when you knowjas, when something
Starting point is 00:07:21 you get a lot of you get a and you get a lot of the and you're going to get a me and not give a time
Starting point is 00:07:27 when you know, don't know to your mind, not to hear a your mind, is also negate to
Starting point is 00:07:33 you. Now, one thing is honor to all the emotions and other thing is convert
Starting point is 00:07:39 or identification with those emotions. Some things very different. And for this
Starting point is 00:07:45 episode of podcast because I think is very important that to honor all our emotions. Our emotions are like an arco-iris,
Starting point is 00:07:54 right? They're colors, have metices, and all, just are part of our experience human. And something that I learned in psychology
Starting point is 00:08:02 spiritual, something I'm there, something that honed there was just to all my emotions. A concept that I've learned,
Starting point is 00:08:11 that of all the heart, I want to share to give you, is that when you when you have a problem, when you The
Starting point is 00:08:18 out of the because obviously we don't we're in the one thing is to honor the fear,
Starting point is 00:08:23 that is honor the is to recognize the and say in this moment I'm
Starting point is 00:08:27 doing I'm having my no I'm want to keep there
Starting point is 00:08:32 onr not means I'm I'm to be to not
Starting point is 00:08:37 to honor is to recognize and to recognize to
Starting point is 00:08:41 to that the emotion that that I'm not
Starting point is 00:08:44 saying that to be installed and be a person that's a manned by his fear, or manned by his trestess or mannighed or managed for his ira.
Starting point is 00:08:56 Obio, no we want to install our in those emotions. No, would be productive, no would be to our spirit, to our soul,
Starting point is 00:09:05 to our own, our life, our souls, us would robberia the energy to construct, but for other side, if no
Starting point is 00:09:15 we honor us, we ignore us, we're like no succeed and the on the on the thing I have to be happy, I have to
Starting point is 00:09:22 be sure I'm and I'm these other emotions, there is where we're in the other extreme that also
Starting point is 00:09:31 that's not us doesn't know that it doesn't don't know it's not going to
Starting point is 00:09:36 produce energy and not our knowledge to make our our life that the final
Starting point is 00:09:40 of the is what we're we're to can't our dreams. So,
Starting point is 00:09:45 for one we're the two extremes from my point of view, it's not you know, it's not
Starting point is 00:09:49 you know, in the anger, in the tristesse, get to be there, permit that that's
Starting point is 00:09:55 your life, that's all the time like the personagito of the newbe a little
Starting point is 00:10:01 time or like the pitufo grunon, no s' you, don't you, the smurfs
Starting point is 00:10:04 or the pitufos that, oh, the postres, ohio the flowers, odio the
Starting point is 00:10:09 soul, odio, oh, you're, you're living there, but the other extreme is in the I'm sorry, no, no, it's not just a feeling for the inside, I'm going to be a
Starting point is 00:10:18 portade, in English, it's like a, like a, like a fachiae in a building where I'm going to put a car that all right, even, even though I'm I'm doing for the world, because, because the cule is to be being, because in Instagram and in the radio social, all the world is all the world is positive, so, then I'm going to do, like, I'm I'm going to negate
Starting point is 00:10:37 my emotions and not I'm going to give space to my emotions. That is the other extreme. None of those two can't give to the
Starting point is 00:10:44 equilibrium sano to to grow, to be able to learn to learn to a way where the
Starting point is 00:10:53 felicity is something something that we're in form organica and authentic. And we to talk
Starting point is 00:10:59 that is the topic of this podcast. So what I want to establish in this first segment
Starting point is 00:11:04 is that. From my point of view, what I have learned and I've practiced in my life that has done in my
Starting point is 00:11:11 way, is this equilibrium, where I'm my joy and I'm my but as you have seen,
Starting point is 00:11:18 also I'm also, I'm also, I'm my sorrows, and my lives of course, and those have been
Starting point is 00:11:25 where I've found you found out of the reasons and maybe one of the reasons for those that
Starting point is 00:11:29 I can say, I've been done my process, and I I've learned to honor my emotions
Starting point is 00:11:38 complete, not only the joy. That is the all. Because we're all. And for not
Starting point is 00:11:46 to get in that positivity or that positivism toxic, then there have to learn our emotions. We're going to
Starting point is 00:11:54 make a pause and continue us. The life us do possibilities precious. The
Starting point is 00:12:01 life is a realal for to enjoy. And the life is made for that manifestes
Starting point is 00:12:06 your dreams, that you make your but if your ideas that you have in your mind, the voicesita
Starting point is 00:12:12 in your mind, you're telling stories that they don't need, that they're they're
Starting point is 00:12:17 they're that they don't need that they're that especially when there problems,
Starting point is 00:12:21 is when you have when you have to start to start to start you're
Starting point is 00:12:25 like your person or your enemy. If you you're so
Starting point is 00:12:29 so it's very clear it's your enemy but the part the
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Starting point is 00:12:46 Discover if your mind is your friend or is your enemy? What story is you're telling? I'm here today so I'm going to take this class and we can't learn and learn our emotions, allas, joy,
Starting point is 00:13:01 a tristesse, asco, ir, our our fears, learn to learn to learn to
Starting point is 00:13:06 my great Jane Johnson, one of the great coaches that has
Starting point is 00:13:10 made by my time, and I got so that I'm a coach that
Starting point is 00:13:15 in peace, Gavie Kachacha, that also was my persisted. In English, is what you resist,
Starting point is 00:13:23 persists. In Spanish, we could say so, that you that's resists, is to if you
Starting point is 00:13:30 have, MEDO, obviously, no you want to live installed in the MEDO, but if you resisted your MED, you do you do
Starting point is 00:13:37 do you do do not exist, then that that's a need. That fear will take even more force because
Starting point is 00:13:44 you're trying reprimed it and control it. For that personal, and what I learned I
Starting point is 00:13:51 learned is that the emotions not they control. And I do with much respect because there
Starting point is 00:13:57 people, people, motivators, videos in YouTube, where they say, learn to control your
Starting point is 00:14:03 emotions, control your your fear, control. I don't use the word control because
Starting point is 00:14:08 I know, control is, is, I'm, I'm, I'm going to require a force. I don't do that
Starting point is 00:14:16 that's not my philosophy. That's not what I've learned, and that is what I'm parted
Starting point is 00:14:21 because not has been my process. A me not doesn't try to control
Starting point is 00:14:25 something. Because if I want to control something, there, there's a power
Starting point is 00:14:28 that reprim and that so, it's, if I, if I, if I, you,
Starting point is 00:14:34 if you, you know, what's your mind is think in that, the person that's, no, the person,
Starting point is 00:14:40 and the first you're, what you're going, is think in that person, or, or I think, you know,
Starting point is 00:14:46 you know, you know, and the first that you're going to be, you're going to, the money, the mind,
Starting point is 00:14:51 the mind, what he's, to try to do more, to do the the thing, so, so I'm
Starting point is 00:14:56 saying, no, I'm I don't have I don't have I don't have no no that's
Starting point is 00:15:02 to try to control I'm going to manage manage manage that a while you're
Starting point is 00:15:09 surfier the emotion a little a little but you get to surfier to learn
Starting point is 00:15:15 to get to get to to work to learn to get a calm and accept the
Starting point is 00:15:20 revolk that you to be to get the a o' and patel I'm
Starting point is 00:15:24 I'm just I'm that example that the emotions are like those
Starting point is 00:15:27 that are going, and there are a lot of you can't to get to do you know the
Starting point is 00:15:32 if you know you know or if you know you simply make that the o'clock to beient to the
Starting point is 00:15:38 door. Abres the boca, pataleas you can't get to you can't you know that you
Starting point is 00:15:44 do you do you know, not to control but to manage your emotions manage your
Starting point is 00:15:51 all your your heart, your assco, your ir your mind, all those those
Starting point is 00:15:54 those So that is the step. Passo number one, record that what resistes will persist. What you resist is
Starting point is 00:16:04 persist. So if I have a fear, I'm not going to resist the fear. Of actually,
Starting point is 00:16:14 one of the techniques that I use to communicate me in public and when I do classes of how to
Starting point is 00:16:19 talk to someone to to talk to someone and me say, I'm saying, I'm I'm afraid,
Starting point is 00:16:25 the ultimate that I don't, no, no, no, no, don't, no, no, no, no, no. All contrary, use that fear. Honra, that fear. Because where does that
Starting point is 00:16:34 that fear? Well, it's an emotion. And if I'm afraid to be able to talk in public, a lot of because there's a lot of people, I'm going to
Starting point is 00:16:42 have a lot of, so let's suppose that I'm going to talk, that me invite to be in public in a conference of or of, or
Starting point is 00:16:49 the, or, or, of, the, or, or, of, economists, or, or of maestro that's many times
Starting point is 00:16:56 to talk about many people and publics very educated very exitos and I'm a fear and I'm
Starting point is 00:17:05 what I'm going to say? And I'm what I'm going to say if in the public there's people
Starting point is 00:17:09 there's a say you know and so I'm I'm afraid and if I'm I'm I'm sorry and if
Starting point is 00:17:15 I'm over what I'm to say I'm not I'm not I'm the syndromes that's this
Starting point is 00:17:21 and this is this is this and if this this is that the mind the mind it's to put up
Starting point is 00:17:23 justly my enemy not my amiga. The technique that I use is honor
Starting point is 00:17:29 my my fear. And say the word. The Bible is the word that is
Starting point is 00:17:34 the fact that you do it a conference that I pass very very
Starting point is 00:17:39 very very soon I'm the honor to give people of people and people
Starting point is 00:17:42 and I have certain of having 35 years of experience in talking
Starting point is 00:17:46 in public I'm still still never nervous so
Starting point is 00:17:49 the first the scenario and not occulted my my mind. And I'm saying,
Starting point is 00:17:53 hello, good good, good, good to be with you guys. I'm saying to
Starting point is 00:17:58 I've been super-emotion is an emotion, I've been being very, I've been so I'm
Starting point is 00:18:04 that in this public, there's people there's people super-destacada, there people spiritually-
Starting point is 00:18:10 very very developed, there, there's people who have been really that there
Starting point is 00:18:14 I've been there, I know, I'm to learn of you So I'm nervous and emoconized for the honor to be here with you and I'm honored and say to you
Starting point is 00:18:23 that I'm gladysk that I'm allowed to be able to be here front of you. And I'm going to do my best effort to make my bestpource to be able to do something that
Starting point is 00:18:32 is a good. I'm happy to be here and I'm nervous and I'm emotional. If I'm my conference so,
Starting point is 00:18:40 and in fact, I do you do this is a technique that I always use when I have my fear or nervous,
Starting point is 00:18:46 if I I honor my my fear, honro to my nerves, and I say the truth,
Starting point is 00:18:52 immediately in when I say the realtor that the fear of me, the fear of the
Starting point is 00:18:59 fear of your because no I don't I'm trying controlling,
Starting point is 00:19:03 not I don't wantchurr it, I'm doing, I'm I'm
Starting point is 00:19:08 don't know I'm saying, I'm here you are, and you hear you
Starting point is 00:19:14 hear you and that is the first PASO, to learn to manage
Starting point is 00:19:18 our emotions. The first is to recognize that an emotion is present, be the and honor
Starting point is 00:19:27 it's a hear you hear you hear you see, obviously this is obviously this
Starting point is 00:19:31 I have to do in form educated, in form care if I'm so I'm
Starting point is 00:19:37 annoyed and I am inoj I'm with my team to work and I am
Starting point is 00:19:42 no I'm go to get pataliando and grittando as person inconscienty and saying grosseries,
Starting point is 00:19:47 that would be a form inconsient of manage my emotion, let's the enojo so I'd
Starting point is 00:19:53 to breathe. But respirate is repriming. Respirar is, I'm going to do you, I mean,
Starting point is 00:19:59 I'm going to be I've been I've been in this moment, I've been on these
Starting point is 00:20:04 these last a emotion of much frustration, of much courage, because this and this,
Starting point is 00:20:11 this, and this is going, and this is, So, me provoked, even of aggressiveness, there's even of agresiveness. There's a part of me that I'd say
Starting point is 00:20:19 things very very fervous, without say, and without insultar, that that would be the incongue a sonrisa, I'm honoring
Starting point is 00:20:26 that I'm ira, that I'm courage. That is the equilibrium. No, I'm not let me make a pedasos, no, to the ira
Starting point is 00:20:36 that take control over me, but I'm to manage them. Las communicate, I'm talking in form Conscient and in when I'm going to
Starting point is 00:20:46 I'm going to I'm going to that the rio of emotions fluey and I can manage much better what I'm
Starting point is 00:20:55 in front of me if I'm so I'm I'm going to I'm going to a great a greatness enormous
Starting point is 00:21:03 a little more of three years that my mom fellesio and I still giving conferences of the
Starting point is 00:21:08 Cresimento personal during these three years and there days in the conferences that I felt completely
Starting point is 00:21:14 destrozzed. Tal-bezzed to you're in some of my conferences. Because we were doing a part of
Starting point is 00:21:20 them all a month. We did tithers and all. I didn't get to talk to
Starting point is 00:21:26 how transform you, how to do your dreams reality, how to do you want to do you want, without
Starting point is 00:21:32 recognizing that I had a greatness profound within me. And I what you was, I'm
Starting point is 00:21:39 feel like to be going to you, I'm I love to be with you. I want to say to, today I'm going to
Starting point is 00:21:44 talk of the topic of how manage our our thoughts and our emotions and I'm saying that I'm justly today I'm living
Starting point is 00:21:52 a process very difficult because my mom felleceo and I've been with a great thing. But that that's a
Starting point is 00:21:59 time and that and that and that thing. And from that's the side of my person that in this moment
Starting point is 00:22:05 is in a process of a process of a lot, I'm have been functioned and me
Starting point is 00:22:09 have served and I hope to be some of the people and I'm took to
Starting point is 00:22:15 yorrable and a sometimes me took to say it and say I'm in a
Starting point is 00:22:20 moment difficult and so I'm I'm onrando my and when
Starting point is 00:22:26 I'm my tristesa then when I liberate that that
Starting point is 00:22:30 freedom of that when I know that to learn to honor that emotion then
Starting point is 00:22:37 then as a consequence of to give a liberty and honor to my emotions. So it's very different. Honra to your emotions and manage and permit you guys that fluelled with education and with conscience
Starting point is 00:22:52 and that your sonrisa regrece. Like a sonrisa of satisfaction and liberty and peace of that I'm honoring to the other emotions and not like a a force,
Starting point is 00:23:04 even me stay getting the frigate, even if I'm taking the frigate, the devil and the difficulties and I'm suffering. I'm going to smile. No matter how. Some people get to advise that. Because that is the system that's using and maybe they're using.
Starting point is 00:23:19 I don't know what I'm not. I mean, that's not me function. Never I've practiced. No, I've learned it. I've learned that honor my emotions, that expressar my emotions is the way of my liberty. And when I'm sorry,
Starting point is 00:23:34 much and the people identify, oh, Marko, you know, that's really not always I'm sure
Starting point is 00:23:38 I'm sorry because I'm doing that not always I'm seeing in conference, you know that's
Starting point is 00:23:44 you've seen that you've seen since I've seen since much, you know perfectly that you're not always
Starting point is 00:23:48 that I'm so I'm I'm going because I'm what I'm and because I'm not my other
Starting point is 00:23:56 emotions that feel you to know the people me identify more with the sonrisa because
Starting point is 00:24:01 is the that's the more present. But why is it more present? Because I'm trying to to smile. No, that's the
Starting point is 00:24:09 positivism toxic. Is my my smile present because I'm permit my life. I've been to learn many
Starting point is 00:24:15 things in my life, but something I've learned from my mom is that she was that not in the form more
Starting point is 00:24:22 a lot more and I also sometimes those expressable not in the form more than
Starting point is 00:24:25 and I have to learn to expressal and to manage them in a form
Starting point is 00:24:28 more more more more but I from when I I learned to express my emotions because
Starting point is 00:24:33 I had a mom that was expressa. That's something that's always me has served, that's always me has done. So I'm not saying that we're saying that we're saying
Starting point is 00:24:44 that we're saying that we're creating our felicity at the time to live our process because justly the solution is brinkartes
Starting point is 00:24:53 the emotions. The solution is a through to honor your emotions. Brinkartes the emotions is something that
Starting point is 00:25:01 I never recommend. The solution of a conflict, no is brinkar me the conflict, brinkar me the emotions. The solution of that conflict is a through to live and manage and honorer
Starting point is 00:25:17 those emotions. The salida to the problem not is up, on top, for on-in-siminginginging, controlling. No.
Starting point is 00:25:27 It's a a through to give a voice to those emotions and manage them.
Starting point is 00:25:34 If you have a little, is infected and it and the only, the solution
Starting point is 00:25:40 is to put a a circle and not to make and do it. No, the solution is
Starting point is 00:25:46 you're going to be a professional will be to be a professional, it will be to dole
Starting point is 00:25:52 much because they're to puttar to get the infection, the pus, the
Starting point is 00:25:55 thing horrible, blank, marrious horrible, desagradable, and it's doleer, will doleer,
Starting point is 00:26:01 and then to put alcohol or a disinfectant and then it will be to be to be arden,
Starting point is 00:26:06 you're but what you're going to sanar? That is the equivalent. Sonreir all the time
Starting point is 00:26:14 no important that you're thinking that's not dole and not to work
Starting point is 00:26:19 in the error. The solution is to open the the year, you're
Starting point is 00:26:24 fatalear grit deprimed to do what you have to do in a space adequate
Starting point is 00:26:31 with intelligence and maturity and you do you're going to do the time of the house
Starting point is 00:26:36 there's there's there's there's to learn to learn to learn to live your
Starting point is 00:26:43 process of the pain to be you can't you're infecting and that
Starting point is 00:26:49 can't get to start here in the palm of your and at the more caries to your
Starting point is 00:26:54 muke and to you're you can't cut down because it's infects the end up to the extremity. Vivir those
Starting point is 00:26:59 emotions and you will be in your life the freedom that you did, the love that you did you
Starting point is 00:27:06 to let me let's get that's the great difference of a a sonrisa that comes genuinely
Starting point is 00:27:14 of the heart to a fungida that it's with good intentions to solutionar
Starting point is 00:27:21 something on over in the way to go to the For that's so,
Starting point is 00:27:27 learn to honor your emotions is something that important. A Prender to manage your emotions
Starting point is 00:27:34 has been as a requisite to learn them to let's. We're going to a pause. This
Starting point is 00:27:42 that we're not only a lot of a level physical, a level pandemic physical,
Starting point is 00:27:48 a virus that we're to control is a level mental and emotional because we're
Starting point is 00:27:53 living what many experts, they say an agotamient of the pandemic, agotados of to not live how we
Starting point is 00:28:00 get a lot of not able to get rid of course, and be able to talk about us and give us and appapacharned and enjoy the
Starting point is 00:28:08 life, concerts, viages, vacations, reunions, familyers. It's an agotamint of the isolation.
Starting point is 00:28:15 It's normal. It's normal. It's normal. And every every time it's a problem to manage
Starting point is 00:28:20 our mind and our emotions. Because that the more the longer this is a a retort
Starting point is 00:28:25 more complicated. For that today, the first is to make the first is to make that's being
Starting point is 00:28:35 like our friend and we're doing the things more difficult as long us stories that complicate
Starting point is 00:28:42 more what is complicated or our mind is trained to be to help
Starting point is 00:28:49 to help to be to manage better the things to be in this incommodity, in the center of our
Starting point is 00:28:55 peace, in our creativity, in our creativity, in our possibilities infinite. If you're seeing this desistairation, number one, I'll tell you, it's normal. You're a human and it's normal that you're still. Number two, and very important, we have to learn. And for that you want to invite to that
Starting point is 00:29:10 this class gratuit, that millions and millions of people have seen and has served as long as During this time, the class gratuit that you can't
Starting point is 00:29:19 be in line, in the or the day that more than you can't be in your cell and your computer or in your
Starting point is 00:29:25 tablet, it's your name, it's your name, or is your life? What story you're talking? Dallie click
Starting point is 00:29:33 to this inlaces, for you do you ask and repit is gratis and you can be today
Starting point is 00:29:38 you're going and you're going to continue. We're on the podcast. Let's learn to let's
Starting point is 00:29:47 resumir, what I'm going to take if what I want to learn to learn my emotions. Pass.
Starting point is 00:29:54 Number one, recognize her. You're not you're still. Recognize it's simply say, you know, you know,
Starting point is 00:29:59 is that I'm saying, I'm not, I want to say, I don't know I'm not I'm not. I'm experimenting
Starting point is 00:30:10 tristence. Because I my job, I'm, I'm a family, I did a family, I,
Starting point is 00:30:15 did my health, I've an accident, he canceled a a visit, I'm going to a time
Starting point is 00:30:20 difficult, I'm not, the emotion. Is it's saying, you know, I'm not a rechase.
Starting point is 00:30:24 No, two, is that. Accepting the emotion. No, to beleart with the
Starting point is 00:30:29 emotion. Not to be to be to be able, to do you know, it's like
Starting point is 00:30:34 to have a little and want to get a little bit to get to still still still with
Starting point is 00:30:39 more more force. So, so, not we do this we're going to
Starting point is 00:30:44 accept to say, oh, yeah, you're here, perfect. You accept. You're about it. I'm not going to I'm going to keep here all the life. But justly, we're going to process her, No, no I can't do so just, so I'm just to process it. It's that all right.
Starting point is 00:31:21 You'll say to someone. It's that, I'm, I'm, holy, I, per die my job. Ah, but something, something, God, you know, God, you know, God, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, wait, for you're going to
Starting point is 00:31:32 bring down the pass? That's a rationalization. To me, before the people fellier, and I had to talk to someone, no, if it had passed, that falle someone,
Starting point is 00:31:42 and you say, I'm going to call to give them, what I'm what I do. What I do? What I do? What I do? To me I'm pasted the process of my mom and I did that when you have a tristence of that level, no, you need to tell you nothing. The only thing you need is the presence and the love. So, because I mean me passed and
Starting point is 00:32:01 and still still me, and I still see succeeding. That I'm, I know, I adorable, my mom, my mom was all right all right. My mom was all right. I'm sorry. I'm sorry much, but you have an angelito in the sky. Thank you. I see that it's a good intention, but the concept of the angelito in the sky no is honor my emotion.
Starting point is 00:32:21 And that that's, I have an angelito in the sky or my mom lives in my, that today I'm sorry, and I'm going to do, or all over something, or well, but yeah, it's been on peace, or, oh, okay, good that you've, so, the
Starting point is 00:32:34 people think, and it does with good intentions. I'm going to do it, I did to do before to understand this. the people want to like to the
Starting point is 00:32:43 side positive it's like rationalize the things to be a logic and there
Starting point is 00:32:49 a logic and the emotion that's the feeling that is the process
Starting point is 00:32:55 to the person that the person that is living the you or or I
Starting point is 00:33:00 or someone must have the dignity to live your process
Starting point is 00:33:05 and to get to to get to that I know I
Starting point is 00:33:09 and I do do that my mom yeah no live out of me, but I'm in my
Starting point is 00:33:15 heart of my and in my and I have been present right that I'm doing this podcast and she
Starting point is 00:33:19 is with and when I do you a conference the I feel a lot but I
Starting point is 00:33:23 don't get to that that I did that I got a I'm a feeling I'm
Starting point is 00:33:30 I'm I'm my pass my my depression me my due
Starting point is 00:33:34 years the depression the I'm I'm angstia I felt that the
Starting point is 00:33:40 life yeah not it was worth I'm and I'm I'm going to and I'm to get a
Starting point is 00:33:47 my mom into my mom into me vived, not like a idea but I'm and I'm
Starting point is 00:33:53 to get to extrana because I felt in a new relation in a new relationship. I'm
Starting point is 00:34:09 It's not even if I you know to you, no It's not even but now live into you, you're not out of you. I'm going to
Starting point is 00:34:14 the opportunity to live your process and not going to be a click in you, that's something that's that's something
Starting point is 00:34:21 to be to do you. So the third step is time to that emotion, see that emotion, living that
Starting point is 00:34:28 emotion, abandoning that emotion, not for simply, but if in that moment is present and
Starting point is 00:34:33 you're still you're the right to be the right to all the liberty to be a bit of
Starting point is 00:34:39 to be you're you're in the way to the same to that's a not brinked
Starting point is 00:34:46 the tristess so number one, recognize and honor. Passo number two,
Starting point is 00:34:52 accept it. Passo number three, darts time to get a time to that emotion.
Starting point is 00:34:57 Passo number four, give a voice to that emotion to listen, listen, listen,
Starting point is 00:35:01 say, if you you'd mean you you'd grosseries, that say things incongruent, that say things
Starting point is 00:35:11 depressive, that say things negative, obviously there's a place for that. You're going to do with you or with you
Starting point is 00:35:18 or you're going to a psychologist, a life coach, a therapist, a professional or a professional that you're to do a
Starting point is 00:35:25 place to do do it, or you're going to do you're going to do you're going to do because what you
Starting point is 00:35:30 are saying, no means that that it simply your emotion that is talking. Pass. Four,
Starting point is 00:35:36 give a voice to that emotion No, the juskies. Permitel. And,
Starting point is 00:35:40 and pass five, after to hear it, ask her, what is here to see me? If this
Starting point is 00:35:49 this problem so profound or this emotion that's being that's
Starting point is 00:35:53 so much, what I'm to learn to you? What are to be to teach? What are
Starting point is 00:35:59 to be to be to learn? And listen to let's you can listen to
Starting point is 00:36:04 a to your connection divina, to a a spiritual, to your
Starting point is 00:36:08 high-ser to be there's a lesson to learn to learn to this suffering
Starting point is 00:36:13 of the emotion. And remember that always all this we're going to involve
Starting point is 00:36:19 in a in an an envoltura in a context of love because the
Starting point is 00:36:26 love is every one of those paths. Darte what what
Starting point is 00:36:30 solution the medicine is is to apply the love
Starting point is 00:36:34 to the place to dole but You can apply how to
Starting point is 00:36:39 that's aterrissue that concept? What is to make your emotion and honor to accept that's here and observe her
Starting point is 00:36:45 and observe her and give you feel it's that you do you want to you're rationalize before
Starting point is 00:36:51 time. Permitel your time let you listen it let me make that make that
Starting point is 00:36:56 make all the penner that's that's that's all that's all that he he'll
Starting point is 00:37:00 do you that's that's just just just just just permit that
Starting point is 00:37:04 And the path five is, questionale, this suffering, this pain, this anger, this courage, what do you
Starting point is 00:37:12 want to do you want? Those five are the application of the love. It's what I have learned,
Starting point is 00:37:18 is what I practice, is what me serve. And at this, you are going to be a but you're
Starting point is 00:37:25 to be genuinely after after you're after been grittable after after
Starting point is 00:37:29 after having passed your process. Evita that positivism toxic, to bring to the process
Starting point is 00:37:35 and to be and say in the reds social is the only that's the only that is to smile to ignore the social.
Starting point is 00:37:44 Not you know that you, that you put to do you put to share your emotions in the reds social.
Starting point is 00:37:49 I don't know. It's something intimate. But not you do you go with the finted not you go to the
Starting point is 00:37:55 false door of that all has to be good and if it's not is all the and at a
Starting point is 00:38:02 more being a person exitose, to be all the time. And if I'm
Starting point is 00:38:06 a person that's that I'm a good. It's a thing that I'm a very profound.
Starting point is 00:38:12 And we do it. And we're doing it in our course in Lime just because
Starting point is 00:38:18 this is just a probadita and a point of a port of this. So,
Starting point is 00:38:22 so we're we're really these steps you to serve and you help to continue
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Starting point is 00:38:59 thank you. Thanks for your time. Thanks for start present. I'm very happy and I'm
Starting point is 00:39:04 very happy and for start here with you and this episode. We're going and we're we're doing
Starting point is 00:39:10 and we're talking and you know, and if you want to be part of a class or a course
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Starting point is 00:39:25 if your mind is your friend is your your What story you are
Starting point is 00:39:29 and there I'm going to share in form much more more profound part of my experience and you go to be
Starting point is 00:39:34 to be able to see how not always I'm trying. Thank you know, change your story and change
Starting point is 00:39:41 your life. Until the next.

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