El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 168 - Cómo superar el duelo - Yolanda Morales

Episode Date: May 30, 2021

¿Qué hay tras la pérdida física de un ser querido? ¿Qué hay más allá del dolor, la tristeza y todos los sentimientos que acompañan el duelo? ¿Cómo puede superarse? Esta semana en el podcast, me acompaña Yolanda Morales, una mujer admirable que sufrió la pérdida prematura de su hijo y aprendió a caminar con el dolor, encontrando en él su misión de vida. A partir de ahí se ha dedicado a ayudar a otras personas a salir adelante y transformar el dolor en su mayor maestro. Ella nos comparte en este episodio: Cómo vivir el duelo o prepararte para él, si es tu caso. Qué decirle y qué no decirle a alguien que ha perdido a un ser querido. Cómo reinventarte y tomar la decisión de sacar lo mejor de ese dolor. Sigue a Yolanda Morales en sus redes sociales: Instagram: @911yolandamorales Facebook: 911 del alma YouTube: 911 del alma

There are things in the life that we can't avoid. Perder a a person is something or you know or not a

going to be a good us and it's something ironically, is something for what we're not it's a but at me

in the school no me did it in my house not me prepared. More

it's a bad you about this but that's and it's a year and in a

year in a year we've been in this pandemic more of this duel. And much

people me I'm asking, what I do? How I live this process? Or how I'm prepared for

this process? And for that we've invited to a woman that has to do not to do this to do this

to do this or that's going to go to do this. It's the episode 168. How Superar the

Duelo with Yolanda Morales. We're The podcast of Mark Antonio Regil

is a production of RGL Entertainment and all his rights and all

the decision to live and not survive. Ace six years when he was many years,

including a his son a child of 17 years, funded a community for who have been

to have a person a man. She is a clear example of that the pain

your great master, well, not only only only could superar this

great perid, but at through she, he could find his

his mission in the life, and at the Fecha has helped

a hundred of families to find a new significant in the

life and to the role of the world of Duel. Yolanda Morales

is conferencista international, Licenseia of Mercad of the Empower

Mindset Coaches Countora of Raudel. It's coach of a life,

and a masteria in a psycho-engineeria and actually a masteria in bio-emusion

in Spain and is fundator of 911 of Alma, a dedicated to

to support to the people who suffer the duelo of a man, in this thing that

for me is sacred, we're the welcome to our great and your thank you.

Thank you. Thank you. This program special, we do do with much love and I want to

the final, the people to get a thing to to be this duel or be to be prepared

as the best possible for this duels, Yolanda, because it's so important

and no no, they they're in the school, no they're in the

family, nobody they're this. No, it's a thing, Marco,

Antonio, that is taboo, that's that, that's, that, that's,

that's, that's, not the time because it's, so it's very important

that we know, that we know, that the death is part of us,

as we also, as we we've, we've a a time of partied

and that we can be with this being with our felicity, from our

realization, and that we can transform that that's a love to

love to the other never to never a mother, because even

even papa, mom, is very but we are programmed

to a thing, we it's like, Nobody, nobody, nobody is what you what was the what you

know, tell us. We're in a, uh, comita, Daniel and you know,

and they're they're they're my cunea and me said, Danny, he took an

accident, what he was, he went to the sea. That was the, the response.

In that moment, my life was like a shock spiritual, mental, physical,

no, I didn't it, it was a negation, it's a piece

to what I'm doing. It was perfectly sano. It was a president of

the association of the student of the person who was a little to children, to do you know,

to do you with a life for the end, a little a little a little

that's a lot and you know and then you start to know

to do you know to make to make to the family was 30 of December, Marco, imagine

my, my isha, was in Disney, with all of his primos, in mode of avion. So, no, there was a way to localize her. So the people

started to, I, I'm sorry, much in the Facebook, and when my his, he went to the hotel,

then, then, and I'm so much, and I'm so, but no they said,

who they said, and she was, and she, I had He's been a lot. Obviously, you think you're your mom or your papa, but not your

brother. When they say, me mark and me say, the only that I'd say, mom, I'd like, I'm just me that's my only thing was, I don't have the menor idea of how we're going to start, but we'll go to go. My husband,

I've, whilted loco. I don't know what I'm, like in the movies, that you go to the morgue to recognize the when I wanted I saw the body of my child and I was never to be to be able to

to be able to my child opening a box and see a your child where you know you where you don't you don't know

is there where you're in the side it's a thing I think I know that I know

what is the infirno and there I think Mark because I want to be sincere. I said, I'm a lot of

life, I'm going to and I'm that I'm to make to get to your papa and your mom

and I'm I don't have remedy. And it was like a place in a place the place more

espantoso, no so I can't describe, nor I don't know. The people had

to get, the hours pass and they don't don't, no, they don't, not,

I don't know where at the 3 of the morning, he made a story of Danny and put in the belorio all the

story of Danny. So, every person that was he told all the story of

Danny and it was like a ballerio with more light. Like celebrating his life, like

honoring or doing an omenage. Exactly. But in that moment well

obviously I don't I don't I know I'm I was, I was enojured with God, he's got a father, me, I'm a quote, Mark, and then I go,

Padre, I'm nohahed with God, and no I have faith, and me contested to a little intelligent that me says, I go and reclamale, you're in all your direct, he'll to hear. It's a response,

obviously, very intelligent of the father, because if I had said, Mark, the times of God, are perfectos, are perfectos but in that moment

are phrases that you know you know you can't you do you and that's and that's

very important because the people I'm including before the before the my mom one

one creed that has to say something and you try you and when I was I was like

I'm like no me a brazo just let me me that you just me that you're not just you

don't me you don't me that my mom is an angel Because all they're doing, you know, I'm not, I'm doing,

you know, I'm doing, you know, they're doing to do you know, it's like, not you're about, you're not

you're going to you know, to me, the angelito, I'm going to be the no, I'm going to, I'm going to be the here, I'm here.

I'm going to the mother Teresa of Calcutta, I want my my child here. And then another that me said,

is that he, uh, he was called because it was he was very because it was he did have made

of having made of I've made, I'm actually, because I say, kids good. You're going, you know,

you're in a lowcura, in a grad of a total. And not help in those phrases.

No, no. And there phrases peores, because there are phrases that, that's

that's that you can't be you're not, you know, did you have to have left us

a little to be a little a year, I, yeah, no, no, there people

there's there people, there of has the minor idea of what

he says and what I do do you do make a emphasis Marko

is when you say you are you are you

were to do you and you get all those those

those those social and they write they they

they they they to how how so how

so how he was and with with with

bad words burlando because it was a accident in a

accident in where my do you know my so I'm not a

little there so he was a murder instant and

he desnuc so so um that you imagine

a mom I'm a I'm to get to see

and I know and people and a murder

of the moment dolorous, a moment difficult. A moment where you want to you

want to you and it's more, you can you do you to get a

that's a great of the problem that's very delicate to let a

phrase so we're to put to put there there there's

there there a man there there a one of the one of

the one of a morning and a and it's upropellas, what you're gonna in the reds? Is that how the papa was to festeher with a

new of five years, the papa has he's done a pedasos. The papa, yeah, he's, he's, like,

to get a manned, and still to get and to get and pizotearla, but like, we don't

do we make consciousness of what we can get to cause in a family. And we don't we don't have the respect

for this process sacred that we're having more than we're more than we're right? So simply is what is and we're

we're going to say things with good intentions or culpando or justgating better. It's better. What is what

we can do? When someone fallece and you do you're what we can do we need to listen to what we need to

hear in our I'm with you. Here I'm going to move. What you need? What I'm going to do for you? And to play a little, Mark, to make a beletta. Imagineate that you're a beleta.

Observe. From how to you abraza. You abraza and a braza with the same intensity. You're sueltas. Sueltal. He wants to cry. Yorra'er with her.

He wants to be attacks of Risa. It's it. It's, it can't be

any type of reaction, in that's not all, it's

you know, it can get a point where they're a

and not that's that is that is that is that

all of his psyche, is a here is an okay is

observe to other and offer a a water

food and To take her, to breathe, to that that type of people not contaminate to what is the nucleus

family. So, to be like some little cellulas of the children, to care to

those people, to get them to be those who are fresh and simply with a love,

Mark. Yes. Service, love. Exactly. And, and to help.

Not to ask. What happened? What happened? But how it's the body? Because

then there people and then the world is there there's there's a raya,

Marko, where the people and they're in morbo. Yes. And that is so

me make very so it's because they're because of they're to ask

a little to ask something to think they're they're they're doing to say or do?

And the reality is that no. With your presence with your

love Basta. And as the, almost all the religions antivues

are the thing, the person that's living the dole, no work, no

they're not they need to be to be to rasurar not, no it has to

have to do to make the the way, and the family is there

and the family is there to be all the all so all get,

I'm you're to No, is that without, you're going to get on a side,

give you, that's enoge, God will understand, God is a more, God, God,

you're going to be able to dole, in that doormeter, that I say, that I'm

a dolorometer for you can't describe the intensity of 1 to 10, where the

10 is the most intense. Sure, the dolorometer is personal, because it

is subjective. You can you can say that You've got you've got to your perritte and you try it's a 10 and I can't say that I'm a 10 because I've got my and so duels totally different.

I'm explained. So, it's very important that sepan that the duelo is that the duelo of a child if terminate. What the past is that the people confunded, Mark, the, the duelo with the dolor, the duelo and the the of the time

they're working parallel the duelamety. The duelo has the negation,

the ira, the depression, the acceptation and the transformation.

And one thinks that they will be to be like they in the book

lineales and you live like a mountain rusa. And it

normal? Normal, totally normal. And so so, while you know,

while you you, you, you're trying with the dolorometer at the time.

And the people get and you're to say, you know you're the woman, you're the

woman, the woman always has to be the man and they say to you're the man of the

house. You have to be you don't you can't you know you don't you can't

you can't you can't you're not you're saying to your wife, is that your

father, is that your father. And result that we're in a society

where not you can't live the the dolor of the daughter of a mother of

a mother, where the society not accept the and it's part of our life.

Because no there's a person in the world, Marko, that not live a

duel in my life. I get messages all the time of Marko, I've

to to have a person, I'm I'm I'm a man, there I

say I said a I'm I'm I'm what I'm, how do you what I'm,

how do? What do? And in a message of text, we can't answer that.

This episode is an intent of to help a little to find a certain clarity. Let's do a pause.

Yolanda, when we go back we're going to ask about this importance of the time.

There's a time specific to superal the dolor. There are who it's over in question

of months. There's people who live years with this. It's bad. It's a

time determined. That's what have to make us to let us know when the time it

or there's or there or there's things, or there's ways to find the equilibrium

to live our process and accelerate the more possible a sanation in our a pause.

A pause. A pause. And I'm and I'm and I'm that the first number one

to manifest what you to make to make the path from the part of

a gratitude as a style of life. The style of is to valor what we have.

When we're thinking in what we don't we need, what is what the mind does automatically, especially when there problems and there's and there's pressure and that we're living

times of retos, is concentrate in what he has felt. And if you you're going to that story, and if that's the only story

that you tell you all rattito, you know, you know, you know, the bestions that you have the bestions,

aggratees the bestions that you have. For that, we're, we're 21 days of gratitude, a experience,

a program precious, disponible in line with 21 days of meditations, 21 activities of apprenticeship,

experiences of gratitude, autodagnostics, and a community precious of that could be a more information. Be a Markoantone

Regil.com diagonal gratitude. And now we'll be to the podcast. Yolanda Morales,

mom, tanatologist, a natologist, a conferenceist, a woman to be a lot of other people to superer the duel, to how, to come to superer this duel. You created a organization that's 9011.

It's an emergency in the cause because it destroys the soul that you're doing, the duels the disequilibria

of the moment in the time you're so you create 911 of the alma like a way,

to canalize your dolor, to find a to find out of the thing to

some way? It's that when when he when I'm met to internet because I

want to accelerate my duels to be that you're but to accelerate the I'm not going to say, it's like if you're

like if you gestionarer a baby, you just to enterer, that you're going to renazor and you want to go to happen when you're in the vintre to your mom to return and no can't gore. It's the same. So, you have to expect,

live it, the day-a-day, what toke to live to live all day is, also for today, not start thinking in the future, in the future, not not start thinking, because it's agovient.

When you want to accelerate it, and when you evades, it's a dragon, that's a dragon that's alimenting. And the way to make that

that's a dragon, chico, is, I'm going to give permission to cry, today to cry, me going to

do my space, and you, you're going to you're going to be the time, to be a person, to start, the type of

duels that you have. If it's a duel for a death, if it's a duel

for an accident, if it's a sequestro, if it's a question,

if you have you're to be to be the way, I've tended to

have no have any body to to be to be to be to be

you know, you know, you could do you didn't do you do you don't

start this piece of, or enter this tone of the, like the the song

of the I mean, I feel in my, in my, in my, in my, in my, in my, in my, in my, in my daughter of, and the doubt of

that could have been been made better, I'm being a better better, father, I'm had been able to, I'm going to

be a, but you, but you didn't, Mark, no, you're you're,

because you're who you couldn't be with the things that you're, you, then you,

then you're going to learn things, where we're going to be better

people, but no have to autofagelar us with the culp imagine

you, because I went and I'm never had been to have been been to

have been been to have been had been a destiny me had had to live

the accident was the only difference but he had been

the elevator or had been had been that he had been

that when you one one one a rall no

there is like the Ditcho that when you talk,

when you talk, even you don't you don't you know,

even you don't the first to the the duels

that is the anger, the enoho. The enojo comes

because your psyche because you can't sustain that pain

and the enoho is what to be part in that

part in that the duels. After with the time

and with the and then you're going to to go the enojo

and you go and you feel your and your

and that that's in one or a in zero I think

me that when I get to to get to

groups of parents that have been I know

I'm I'm I'm to suicide me a person

and I I described some who had tried suicide and I said, this is not going to

do you the sanation. So, not I'm to honor to my other a great thing

that I have to defundamentar is the that because yeah no me dole,

I'm I'm a my my son- or yeah no am a mom,

the that because I'm so I'm feel or I feel and I

feel to be the respect to be that she went. At contrary, you honrass

to your mother with your sonrisa, you honras to your mother, being happy, Marko, doing what you appassionate, entregn't to the people with your programs. I discovered my mission of life, a raise of the

death of my son. I knew that had this don't. I've always I've been, but I've developed more stability where I'm this community, but all of this community, but all is, okay, I want to

but then here's this this is the help these are the tools. You know if you

want to be to make or no. And when we're a a person kind of when we're

when we're doing and expressing our suffering that's the process of the right?

Exactly. If I see to you're in instead of you're trying to

I'm that you know what you're doing because it's to get to

hear that. Here's the here. Here the key are two words. Uh,

listen. And the silence. And the listen with love, and listen with

the cellular, yes, I'm I'm attending, but figureate,

no, no, no, vending to the eyes, we're doing a

signtonia with the person if you know, and say, and say, here

I'm I'm going to go, you desahogat. And not that the other can't do you know because I don't know to do you know, is your obligation

to solution to that problem, is the other thing, is to hear with love and just to be there just to be present,

you know, expressate, grita, you know, and know, talk, what, do what you

want, I'm here, I'm here, I'm here to be to say, I'm not, I'm to

docent the point very, very, very important. The duel is a barca personal. When you, someone of the family

die, we're going to suppose that your mom, and you have your brothers, if you

want to take the paper of your mom in the family or the paper, undes the

barco of the other person, because it's a person. Every who has to live

their duel, but also, there is a duel as a nuclear. But I

can't I don't know I can't live the duel of my my wife. I don't live the

duels of my husband. Because then I'm not going your opportunity to grow

and to get your resources internal to put to make the things. The most

is, there is, we have to make the process that the emotions fluey and if someone

to the person, that is their problem. Exactly. And, And there's peridded

of peridies. Because I don't see if you did you when you your mom. So, you know,

you're doing your mom. And then what is the time? Marco, is that is hurting the necessities

to their around to his friends. I know. And then there's and there's

going. And there people that is a and there there's a new that's there.

No, there there's in the everyday with when when

when I think, is that is that maybe not know to be to be a me, and I'm,

or not know, and others are in the past, extend in the man, they're going, I'm,

I'm a daughter, a producer of television, that I've had no to work with her,

I don't get a an avion, I got an back, and in the night, he went to

the time, and I'm just to get a and to dispeed me to do your name

just Fernando Landers Fitton so the is the it's like it's

imagineate that you your life is a train and so that people that

you you have you know Marko and it and it is that this am

that you know that's you're you're people who people who

see who they're not not all they're not all they're

not all they're they're they're you wow me surprise

who Who I thought that they were the most are the most very necessarily and who who's not even in the rotation

in the rotation they're If you have your men's no, no, so you have your

men, but we're going to a family that a mother or a father that have had a man who

have to question what need to need to what needs to get to get to do you

to do get to do a more other needs a

massage relaxant and a maybe other, to be a quarter a couple of

a couple of hours to be and you need to get and I'm I'm not I'm

I'm going I'm going I'm living in San Diego I'm born in Tijuana San Diego

was my house there I'm there I'm and I felles

and I and I think me I'm going to get to get here I'm

I'm I'm I'm and I got her a job in Miami I'm

I need I need I'm I'm convivated with her and I needed to talk of

and there people who because that is part of how reaction the other I'm I said,

because I'm because it's because it's your necessity because it's because I'm because I was saying

it's that and I said it's that I'm I'm saying I'm I'm not I'm not all my my mom I'm

well no not all but it's but it are but it's but it's but

it's different. No one process of duelo is equal because because we're unites

and irretiveible no exists a process of the way to depend of your religion

if you're super religious or is light of the sex feminine or masculine

because you're the people the culture how those castra in that

can't you can't feel not can't because they're so they're so people

who said who did that who those women are the

men they're me explain, I don't who's he's a

because it's a minute. So, we're going to use the game of the woman

and the Superman. And no exist. Exist the man and the

woman that is, that needs, that he doesn't, that he,

that he, that he, that doesn't get a nobody, you,

you know, to learn to all those polarities and know

that are part of your life, Mark, And respect your process and the Of course, is there's There's people that,

There's to be To be a part of the Paird, of the Ser Kerido, and there's people That's going to say. And there's people that To be able to sanar, and there are people who

want reclure to sanar, and there are people that are apparently sane in MES, and there are people that time has their process. And no, there are Regists.

Not to do you. No, there's just. Exactly. And we're going to do a pause here because yeah there's a bit of

a lot of but in the last one of the we're much we're going to be a little but in the last segment

I think we'll we'll be the time. What ritual you recommendas and you you used the tanatology

so we could be we can't we can't help us and us and give us and then

you know to be that's up the help the help the help the coach professional

that you get in in this process but well something we can

learn in this podcast, pauseita and continue us. And before to continue, I want to remember that the gratitude is an habit that you can't be creating

because a bit of how I'm going to thank you the difficulties. Ah, because in every difficulty there's a lection and in a

difficulty there an opportunity of the opportunity, but we're used to thank you, train a mind to

that you need to be especially in the difficulties, the benditions for aggrace is an habit that you

can form For that we've created a program a beautiful, of whom I feel happy and and so that's 21 days of gratitude. Those 21 days

include, 21 meditations guided, I'm to get to get to the hand, that are meditations diagonal,

orations, where we're simply to say, thanks, and thanks, and thanks, in all the areas of

our areas of our life. And, and, every day of gratitude came with a

time time with a activity of gratitude, that you you're going to be to be

and with the other and know of the others that's that you're on the group private, where you're going to be able to know to

all the other students or practicants of these 21 days of gratitude. So, be a Marko Antonio Regil.com

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to podcast. I'm I'm from Yolandita from Houston that he's he went to

put her a car of a doctor in tanatology a woman that's a woman who he's a

life to help to get to get to get to get to get we're we're

what is the time necessary there there's there can be there

no there depends of the person and there there's

there there there there's there doesn't if you

me would have costed in my camera without to this seven years right, not would

be here talking with you. It's what you do you and that decision that

you take is every that you doves to dole every anger is is

give you give a okay I'm to worry but because I want to

want to do because I want to make I want to make I'm

transform this dolor in love to the first to me, then to my nuclear

and then to the other, the order of the factors is alter the product.

Yeah. And the process that I can, I don't I want to do you do,

I can't do you. No, you can. If you do you do you do you

not me refer to pressionar but there I'm something I'm

doing it I've been in middle I've I've I've two

years I'm I see the out of a real an article that said

there's a thing that there's a a lot of I'm

I'm not I'm don't I'm not I'm want to get a time to

a coach professional I'm a coach professional and I'm in a to get to to you,

and the to you will be to be to be to be to be to be

a lot of because you know, I'm a person unica and so you

know, so the coach there has has the ability to

the thing to let to the time that

the moment that's, what was, the most that's I'm

that saner so the so the sanation v the

a time to sanar other things that had been disparated as a consequence of the part of my

mom and then I did know it was, I know it that's, but what what was

what was what was the catio that's the catio was not about your partida

but it about what was over it's that he's that sometimes Marko we're going for the

life like cabos desbos me have to study have to I have to be to have to have to be a company.

But never we're what we're really to do with our and we're really doing a plan of and we don't have a mission of a and a purpose

for where to and we're going and we're as the question that when when a trancas or the murder of your mom the cabo relincha

and starts and then it's all the aspects the spiritual, the spiritual, the physical, the social, the partner, the and you're going to

to know, your life is a disaster. Who am I'm explaining? For what I'm here? What I'm going? Exactly. It's worth the pain to live. Mejor me go. Abres the eyes every

and you're again. Oh, God. Oh, no. No. So, there's where you need so. So, then you say, a good coach,

what he's doing to do do to work to do to create a trage at your Medita. Exactly. I, what I have to do is rasker and see your resources

intern. What has Mark, Antonio Regil, to be able to get a little. So I'm to get to

find your resources internal and what are your resources external you have to get to do your

measure. And at my time, and if so, and if are 20 years, and if are 20 years,

and if it's 20 years, and yeah, about, that's not have to be a good

duel. The coach not got not really not you and you you just you just

you just you're you're you're you're you see that you're

yeah me and you know I'm what you when when she when you

I'm saying is that I'm my my little my son my

day I'm I'm wait I'm sorry I'm I'm no

I'm I'm I'm don't I I know what I'm going to do But I think I said, in 10 years

I'm going to be doing people In 10 years I'm still I'm still I'm saying In 10 years Well,

I was at the 3 years I'm going to people I've got four years I'm doing families

entire And here The chist Marko is To make make a Ander to the family

Entire A papa a mom, to the kids that are and that can't

be a family. Because for that's disintegrate the families. Because they know they're

doing to dole. A perid provoked a divorce. A pergible that the family

entire is desmorone. A perid a whole the whole of

that you and you, and you you, you want to you said, you want to you said,

about the thing about what you about the thing the the fear the

when you when you do a little the family is that all the family is to get at the

one's up and one's up. Well, at the three years, my husband, for trying to do you know

a depression profound. To me, we, we got to do you got to do this

and we're to live to Monterey. My his, she was to graduate in the D.

He's gotu here, I, no, he was a depression

profound. To my my mom, my her her a autopella,

because my met you, and grave-sima, I get a point, Mark, in that I said, I want to go to airport, I don't know

more, and I want to go to get more the news. In that moment, I receive a call of the Tech of Santa

Faith. My husband was in that the director general of the Tech of Santa Fe. And me

said, Yolanda, I'm a at the al-almacent of the Tech of Santa Fe for the 15 of September, for a

sombrero, and I I have a card of your son, that's he's, he's he, he's he, he'll be a bit.

You know, you know, that's, he has a 70-anniberser, and then, he'd to ask a

exercise where describe their his, his, his, his, his, years, and

resulta that we know, we know, if a morning and a manna, my

his, he had 17 years, Mark, my The other than his son, he was a time. And, he was a month after.

No, you know, a second of your life, of your instant. Lucha for your dreams. Do you,

do you go after your dreams, and where you do your bucket list, your list of and you goomying and

if you to part to to the Sue No 2 or the at least you you've left a way

to say, me went trying to do what I wanted to do and not what the other want to be.

To start the podcast, I'm about the tannatology because finally you studied

tanatology after the part of your son? Yeah. What is the tanatology and how

he can help the people to start this circle or to process the pern of a person

is a, a science that study the murder, but from other perspective, of what you can't do with your dolor, what you're going

to do, how you're going to do you how you can transformer in an, in an something something

for you, in an apprenticeship, how you can't transformar, how a through your

programs, you can give a papach, a contention, with the only made

of put you on a microphone because you have the don't the

talk of it's to find a sense to do to your thing

to do you know and it can be care and

they're they're they're despid of the life and help

them to help to get a a process

more to start in in the case in the case

you have you need moment, what you need to to leave in this area, in this plan,

for that she could, he or she can feel more tranquilla in the moment of partied and that your

soul is that's really a question, of questions of that if was enojated with papa

or mom, reconciled the pardon, also the questions economic, the,

the preparation, the talking with the people before the to be dispedire

to be aft, something that already with the COVID not we're

not being to be a time to do a time a time of a computer

no, or in cases that came in the intubed

and you not not got there not there there there there

there I've got people with with those parents with the

parents with the people is a it's a It's a So, there's a So there's a

a ritual, where it's aemege what is the despedida in the hospital with a or with a or with the

brother or with the child, you can you can't understand that is a dual

virtual. If if you if you could, if you could be you,

you can't do you, you can't do you do you do this exactly, where

you want an anecdotas, a anecdote, or what or that, or that

the person, the most important that impact in your life, what way

in the life that's a person, or where in a

photo more representative and the anecdote of that photo and they're

going and all that all that's going to do

another other other other other other other that you

know, so to prepare for the or to navigate better that

well. First that, recognize that if not you can only, it's a value, know,

that is a part vulnerable, that will be a person who can't help with more clarity

because you're the objectivity and you get the clarity. So, there's

there's a person, you know, here are these things and that have more

more than more more than me, what what what comes to when they

when they come to me can say, Marko, no can

of the of the other or you don't you know you know

and so I'm there's there's there's there's there because

they're talking with someone that's they're talking that's

you know as a that's that we we have we're

we're we're that that's not means that I'm that

I'm but I don't I'm from the nine hundred 11

of help you being here to helping to these people.

No, I'm from my dolor. I'm that's the problem.

It's exactly the reason for the podcast is the podcast is, for the course we're

the way, because it's the way in that I've been able to give to my life and

that I'm that's, that's, that's, exactly, and then, apart, you know,

and then you know, we're not we know if we're there's there to your

dreams, we're going to Salire ahead is a decision Marko because you you also you can't

have been put up in the camera for the part of your mother and not

and not and there is that the duel never terminate what you say

what is a moment that is in the point more that's

a point that's a person that has been that's passing and not

know how you can listen to a ferris, that has to be a papa, mom, or the

brother or the family sanguine, because a basis, no can't help. And in occasions, there are times that the family is going to, and there are those people who are they're rescatting of this

situation. So, make a list of the people that always are with you. And talk, let's. Not you get alone. There are moments to be alone, but there moments where you need

to vomit that of the pain. Acubertate that the the the is a symptom your symptom is a

vener that you're in your body. It's to get it, you know, and knowhals,

gestionar but give you want to get a going to go to want to

I'm going to I'm to know because I want to you there's

there's a great you know because you're the carty of the

door but there's always there force and hope and that's

going to understand. When I'm going to not I'm going to be going to the feeling

but I'm processing. It's a last thing that it's a way to do the matter of the plan of the

exact. And something I said my masters when I was studying psychology spiritual and I was I

living that peridia that gave much that I'm say those holes of the dolor

me said, you know, you're at the point that you're in a mind that

you're you're in the after the after after after there there's a

there's like to be in the wall and you know it's in the middle of the and the

walls are to come and when they're to be they're they're to be a little

more of time there's a little bit more the time of the water is going to be less further

if you you're going in vertical in diagonal in horizontal and the and you and you

and you you're to know those Olas. And so that I get a point in

that it there's a time and there a certain time and it a certain but if you're living this

a lot, you know, you know, you know, that's not that's not this, this is a

same, right? Exactly. It's like you're a Mark, Antonio Regil after the death of

your mom and before the death of your mom, you're a man, you're a man,

with much more more, you know, of the to be a mother a man,

so it's a new in you. And that's the person that's the

person that the problem where the problem where the great master. Yolanda,

much thanks for having been with us for having a brother and love and benditions

to all the people that's living, the perid of a person

in this in this year in this year in the year the so if

you have been so you still you you have served you send us

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