El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 211 - ¿Cómo rescatar el deseo en la cama? - Santiago Molano

Episode Date: March 28, 2022

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This episode is presented by Hotel Fiesta America, Merida. I think part of this comes, obviously, of the theme religious, of that the sex is peccado, of that sex is mal. And then there's this repression. The only form of saying that you is exploring,

exploring with curiosity and with disfut. I'm how do you say that my spouse? And how will say that I'd say that me would say that I'd like to do certain things, or that me excite some things, or that's something?

No, in the house is missioner, tierno. It's that if we love us the sex no is important and that's a treasonousa no,

so as we know we know it's not it's important it's much the love the love is beautiful and when

we know oh, God, God, God, we're done to be to be

to carici the cuchy the love is so, the love is so, the problem is when

pass the time, then you're to be a rato in a relationship, many

partners, they're going to to lose sexual, they're going to get the sexual, and then they're

to get in the routine and then they're going to be in the years or years, if they're not even

to talkers. They're they're doing they're at family, but yeah, no there's nothing of

that gillet and in this podcast, we're going to talk about because there one way that the

desire to the desire that's this is the episode 211 we're we're goings The podcast of Mark

Antonio Regil is a production of RGL Entertainment and all of his during the last 15 years Santiago Molano has accompanied to millions of persons and parishes in his processes of transformation and auto-conocimient

creator and director of the center, the Talley, has done millions of conferences and talliers in the United and America Latina, brindando herraments

specificas to help us to do a better version of us ourselves. From Columbia, Santiago Molano is in the podcast.

To you, my dear Santiago, what was what you do you to do

to do in the thing of the sexual as part of what you

and you do you do you do you the first, let's the

the way that I was more and I started at the

therapy to to work with more and more to

make I'm I'm I'm the difference that there

between what we we we we And in the reality, I mean,

to be surprised with the number with the quantity of women that are saying, I have my relationship that is perfect,

but my sexuality is disastrous. The worst day of my life is the day that my husband want to have

sex with me. I don't see the hour and that that's not and that's that I'm do it

and I'm think it or I'm know, I don't know this kind of, I think,

I'm don't know, or the frustration of saying, no see, I'm cast very chiquite

and I feel that no vivi and I've been a man that this is basically is to get them

to get them to get to him, you know, understand also working with a amount of of the

person of the person who's the same that all those insecurities that also that we can talk about

because we have we're that we're so much we're all that we're so,

no? So, no? And then and properly then, and then if I'm going to

take the decision to a relationship of a pairha, stable of long-plazzo, I said, well, the time

now passed, and evidently, the spontaneity no functioned. And no me has functioned, and with this parreys,

and with any of the life as you all the life. So I'm going to the life,

or I'm to get a way, and also a way in construction. Because is that one

never is, and that's the other, never we never we're never we're a product terminated.

Of this what I am in construction. And it's what entusias, I know, to know, to know,

to be that, today is? Oh, it's a week. Well, my name is Wednesday. But, but maybe I'm going to be I'm going to do.

I'm going to go to every one that's going to know, no, I know. I mean, I mean, I mean,

what I'm saying, all the rest of the spontaneity rich, but for the most, for the agenda, one in the a week.

Because the comportment human, that is obviously your area of expert, where you've

years of experience, the theme of sexual is important. It's, not it's not all,

but how it's a help, how it's a good you say, we've been we've tried

to be like a a, like a, a, a, but at the order of,

in reality, we're totally distortional the function that compel the sexuality in the life of the human.

And I think that this distortion initial generate or it's over a time or time or he a lot of

in many aspects of the life. What is that distortion? Let's see for there. Because we know that

sex and sexuality not is the same. And there's much of some of that there's much

people who there's that I'm not, I'm not not being to be able to be

all the people, to say and say, and I'm saying, oh, this not is not working

well. In this moment, talk us of those distortions, of the origin of the problem. I'd say the first is

that we've associated the sexuality with an aspect reproductiveive. And then we have to remontarned culturallyly

a quantity of itos that we're to get to get to disconnect us of the sexuality as part of

our natural and we have been the principal function of the sexuality of the human is the

equilibrium energetic. Okay. We can say in that order to say it's that's an

important like the food, the we're in the thing, the thing, the for complete, the violence and the aggression, but

no still scandalizing the sex. It's that's a lot. That's not that people see trompas in the car and us seems normal, but if, if appears, no-se, no-se, a person in Instagram, is the end of the world and it's an

scandal absolute. Or that's that's a video of a party having two relations sexuales, no pass a lot, but that's filter a video of people getting trompas in the case, then it's the day-a-day, and that's my part of it. I'm just

very bizarre. Yeah. The theme is that is that we're not, so the sexuality, not we can separate and put them in a covache, in a closet

there's in a closet there. I think part of this comes, obviously, of the thing of the sex is a

bad, of that the sex is malo, and then there this repression. Of the example, I was reading

an article where says that the other times in sex than the sex than the women, and that is

that the origin of this is because the women are reprimed in a through different religions

of, if you're good, and you're a good he has a good a good wife, you're the sex is socio.

So, then there's part of the distortion, no? I'd rather even to question those ciphers. Because,

first, for naturalness, many students show that our different people know that we can't be that we're not

that we're a woman in an interview a private of, let me say what in reality what in reality what in reality

so, so because of what I know and what I know in therapy, accompanied to the person,

this quote that the men's we think of the women think that they're in not to be

and not have any of the idea no, but nobody critic a man for thinking a

man who that's like, oh, that's so how they say they're in, in Colombia

but a woman that's that's thinking in sex or in their sexuality

oh, no, that's that's all that's that's that's that's

because it's like that is like a man that that's a man that has a

many more has a more romance and and I it seems a it's a disaster because basically

also what we've done with this is to install this culture machista and this idea of to continue

disconnected with something that in reality is one of those that's that's that can connect

with things more because finally in the sexuality I think is also

the pleasure to live the connection with we're we're doing we do with the

beauty with the ecstasy is almost like a ventana that we're what the potential

that is in us but but that you're like to tildar or of cochin or of no important

because how relationships don't know where this where we're not important and that's

a great that's a disastrous no so as as we know this is

not it not important it important it is that, no, sexuality,

all what I do in my life has been to be with my sexuality. The sexo is,

okay, the acto, no? But it's a consequence of that my sexuality, how me

I've seen, how I'm so I'm so I'm like I know, how I'm so I'm

doing during the day, how I'm that's, that's, that's part of my sexuality.

Oh, is that we're not, we're we're not we're the genitality and the

genitality is only a dimension of the sexuality. that the first organo-sexual

of the human is the whole your your skin. No? So, not are the genitales. We've also also also

to think that the sexuality is exclusively to our genitales and it's much more more more. So there are

the things not my sexuality are in my genitales. The sexo is socio, it's the devil is a peccado. It's a chino.

It's not all. It's to try missioner Tierno. It's where it's where you know,

but this is where this is, this is, in what what is? In what moment, we'll live this,

with the people, and the common, and the infidelity today, both of

the people, because that's the other quote, that's the other quote, that's the

people are the people, but the people, are the men, are the men are infelel

with other women, and much people that are women who are they're also and that effectively

they're they're going to find out to the house what they're not have done to do you or with your

partner, or not it, or because no, they're not there's or because they're not

so they're so they're so it's so it's so they're they're not. Or they're not,

how do you say, what I'm to say, I'm saying to do you do that I'm going to

do this go and I do this I'm going to my Paira, no. Because... About those,

we're we'll call travesura and then that's like if like to

or what we know what we know what's whatever we're like a thing we're like a dimension of

we're we're we're so it's rare or if we like on a lot

or this is strange or things things ridiculous like for example and medieval

is like think that not a postura like the missioner

is but the perrito is bad but no because

do some of those things that I say, oh, see, oh, so in the world we live we're

like the time not not over. Well, the regetton yeah came to normalize

the per perrero, it's a trotado. It's been that there's scandalize in the

middle of all, I think that we think we we're we're in the

world some type of progress generally we we're we're we're

that the processes in the cycles evolut we we pass the

the other other then you know, the distortion, too, you know, the contraparte or the form to the other side, and in this exploration, I think that finally, there are cadaveraliener, that no, only only find that this is important, but also have understood that,

as all the important in the life also the

time, because that's the other. When in a pair of a party, when a

party is a person, generally the sexuality at the time

during the time of the time. The desire is

spontaneously the and the fact and it does and it does

the thing is that is the basically of a process biologic of

a process bio-chimic that is it has like final that the species

perdure. So, after a time is that this process that has been with a hormone that's

a man that's a hormone durer of two to three years, not more. It's like, that's

without the after the couple of three years, the desire sexual not is going to do

do that spontaneously and that you graphical the frequency of the sexual, you know,

the number of pariaments or a relation of a marriage in an in an exel,

the first three years is so And then, paulatimely commenced to be in this

for a bit of because also there's a common edonica, what is that is something that is

a measure, but the the brain to register it's a regular, every every

the pleasure that is the same, because that's the grand question. It's when you

when you know, when you know, when you know, you're not the chemics, you're

you're the chitels, it's more like, this, coquettear with that person is that novedat.

The grand question is, how do you do to make the interest sexual, the desire sexual a through

the time. What is what is like inevitably it's going to be to be not it has been a

real. So, look, biologically it's going to be to be now.

The time is where it's where can be a point that can't replace and there's

A grand problem that we have we have confused the love with the sexuality.

So as it's not we're not the same, we've got the love. I don't see that's

heard of this. Much. I think I'm the more. I think that's my love.

It's that's me made that I'm my family, no?

And no, it has absolutely nothing to have a other. A bit,

a one other a little I'm said, Mark, when

when they're when they are the paris of my consultory, I'm going to if they're

doing relations sexuales. If the response is if the response is it's much more easy to help us

but if the response is that you have not have many sex and they've been in the same time,

the problem is much more more profound. It's very difficult. It's very difficult because because,

because also it's when you tell you, is that basically there's there's a

relationship. So, then we've also, we're doing socius in an apartment,

we can't have Inversions, we can't have some children but we're not we're in a pairha.

Now, the theme is that the only way after the time is that we're going to we need to

that sexuality is a need to get to get a health. I don't I'm going to spend that

spontaneously I have the same state physical that when I had when I had 16 that he was

and I ran to because I and could because I, Now I have 40. Necessito I'm,

I need to do this hours, I need to have been things, because if no, I know if you know

those people that the 40 years are so much no? So, so with the sexuality is

exactly the same same. I don't I'm not I'm my spouse with the six years,

16 years together, that spontaneously that's the same thing that the first time that I

in a discoteca and that basically me I wanted to try on

like Like a bit. I feel like that's a beautiful and I feel like that's a carvernichol, I don't provoke to try me. Sure,

because that's the first stimulus is the first thing is the that we're that we're trying that we're when when

when it's when it's when it's sexual natural, spontaneous, no it's not

that's that's that's that's when it's when it's the time that's

a work, that into to be in a life, the sexuality is fundamental and that

like, like, whatever that we need to get a and make a and make a

question of it a time, so, for example, what we should have in the relationship

a minimum, a quarter of frequency minimum, maximum, no, there is

a maximum, all what that's a minimum, we're going to have a minimum, and now

to say, and what is that's a minimum? Well, depends because not necessarily

the minimum for me is the minimum for you, but between your

a couple and you, if we're going to say, oh, how'd be there's a lot of you?

And if you put to me, for the minimum, it would be a one of the time a

time. Akeh a whatever. Okay, but that that's decided with

the mind, yeah, not it's that's that's just that's just that's, it's not

when me nasca, it's when when I'm when I'm alborote, no, no,

but more every they're to be interesting, is that is that is that

it's that we're And what we have is an accord, then I know the Miercala. The Miercels

is a day like all the important, so you gestion and you have in your agenda, no? I'm the podcast

with Santiago. You prepare for that. You're all list, you know, you're getting to get a

cabriado to the podcast. If you're doing it, if you're if you're you're about a

other thing for the traffic because here you have to be able to be not going to

get a bad or not. So, when the you and is to stay in my agenda and I'm clear,

well, so the first is that I'm so much. Hey, interesting. Because you're your cit,

look beautiful, is that you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, but I, but me,

I'm, I'm, you're saying, because is to try to the sexuality, to the love physical,

also, also, like, something, because it's when you know, when you're on your,

you know, we're saying, oh, yeah, we're, we're just, we're, we're just, we're,

we're, a voyage-cito, or you know, you're in a time, and when you're in a while you're in a time, you know,

well, when there's when there's time and when we're until we're to get-nobos. It's regress to be new-boos.

It's to go to get an man to, only that the majority of people who want to the other of the

house, when the most practical is to have it in the right. No? Tal-qual.

But, but you try to try it, but to start to get to get a

connotation negative to the love because a fact that a peccable a manned

a prequel a sound spectacular. It's a other that's interesting is that

I don't see if you did you know when when they came to these books of the

five the five of the people who know who who all the

people all the people and the she she she she was

a yeah great and you think that was what

was what it's a world of a quantity of things that probably they're not they're in

a question. I'm know. Of course. Of the actually, they're

the issue of the act of sexuales in the parages in the three books and then

the 50 shades of gray or the 50 Sombras of Gray. No, not all they're

there's a fantasyas like, how it's another thing we have been yeah,

well, is that everyone doesn't all the people have to be a quarter

for this, well but for a little a cajoncit so, A caroncito, no?

Your toys, your robespital, the essence, aromas, vellas. It's, and the other that is very important is the theme of the service to the client. The sexuality is fundamental. So, hey, you know, you're that's exclusivity. Have to know that you have a restaurant,

and you want to give you to do you, how do you do? Well, you know, and present it the best of the best service possible. question what you what you like

how you how you what you like that that's chever and for that's

because also I'm really the if I want to give you to give me to I need to

know me to know to say the sexuality the first dominion is understand

that even more than than more individual What? What is the relation that I have with my body? Because the other is that if I want to

to be, I'm comfortable, then what should be to be able to live a life as well, be physically, to do you? All that is important. With that with the time,

we're saying that no are important we're not going to make sure. I'm Mark, Antonio Regil, and you have a question?

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but question and ask what he likes to your amante, to your partner, to your client, as you know, to do you? And to talk

with interest, no? With curiosity. See, what you do? Tell me more. I mean, what interesting is that as we can't

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food is more lucca and apart of all, when the client you say, oh, yeah,

no, I got them so they're so you know, but I'm but you're so I'm, but explain to

you, or how you're going to prepare a different. What we're saying is that in the measure that

we know we know we we know the we're not the sexuality, like the love to the pleasure that

we're going to do the responsibilities that I do you apporto my pleasure, you apportas the two we're both

we're more that's more that the sum of the sum of individuals, and that's the beautiful. Because

also we don't even as we do you don't know. If you get us a trap to come, to you

do you know, the way to the person is the same. No, car with that. Sure. And there's

where in it's where in it's where it's I'm going to to be a obligation and not it's not a

obligation. But how we've got to that's that you're doing, we're going to have to

have to planer, we're going to try it, we're doing to do a cinema, for,

for, like it time to come to get to when we're nobos, now

I'm going to do you do this but how it's a obligation that, oh,

and the night, because there's get the of the of the

head. Oh, no, it's that I'm doing the head a or I'm

very very tired of I'm yeah, oh, is that how

I'm going to that's the question. For me, the effectively that's

a obligation. Ah, is the way, that's that's

to have to have many excuses, no, I'm I'm stressed,

me do you're a little bit my mom me made

and me I've got the piece, we're always to have a

excuse, now we're not so you have two you're not there. So, there's

millions of excuses for that you do you know, if all the all we we're

talking, metel the the the real to have children,

then you and you all the time, but you're saying that's

saying that when you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, you know,

you know, you can't people that can't Well, Cuerpals and health perfect,

no, there's a good. Well, let us get them to the thing,

know, I know, know, no, so, know, so, are people,

they're doing, do you know, do you, know, you know, when, when,

when they're? Sometimes. Kieran or not they're? Sometimes. So, the interesting of this

is the same thing, is the same the same that's, the measure, you make,

the more frequency there, you, the habit and the discipline and more

the time and more the same the sex is equal to go to the gymnasio the time

more than to do you do you know it's a cause when you're sure you so you know

these people that with the premise I go to when the when I when I when I

provok well the first that I'm never I'm never train always is difficult

always me a flogera because my state physical always

is bad so it doesn't not get to to do disfruite.

But when I'm always when I think when I wincer that initial, the disfruiter that I,

is because in the measure that I'm training, I'm going going to well. Yes, yes,

yes, so, and the more I think it's exactly exactly the same.

So, it's a kind of but it like, it's like, today's

and the Wednesday, and the then the last you now, you'll be you,

if the if you're like all, if you're going to get with your car of cull, no, and with your mal energy, and if you expect to pass it, no. Now, how it's Wednesday, is that I'm prepared,

I'm a bit too, I'm put a bonito, how you was when you know you know, and me I'm just because there's, because there's to have to do you, have to coquettear,

there, I can send a, a WhatsApp, a message, with careful, I go, to be to, go, to be in the office or in the, in the, in the,

the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, the, those, photos basic, without a

basic, yeah, or simply to say, oh, I'm saying, I'm going to I'm going to

do you, I'm going to get a little you're going to get a little bit of a night, I mean the

to say, is that is that we'll let me come to the same from you know, is to

get to do you, to be to be notions. If you're your relationship is

like the novios with the nouchel no, let's presentada to your party.

there's a There's a sumpat. It's a sofa that I'm in the house and then

you know, my 10% that you know, because that's the other that's too we're

not too we're doing, and we know, we know, we know, the people,

something that should be something is to take, for the most to do the

education sexual, but the education sexual not the education that's the

thing's our number of our we're not we don't have no idea

how function that they have done that's stimulate. Sure.

You should be a good, we're going to we're going to do this a course of massage. We'd be we're all to know

our body. There's there's there's enceas there. It's so it's illimitated

the access that we tendriams and the and the different, but also what you

want a relationship, because you know, when you're when you're when you're when you're

when you're a person, that has that this and that this can be like it

in a person, it's the no merit if we've got a lot of two months. Now, when

you're going to you're going to you know what there's a much work, there is there's a there's a there's

there's not, the thing is that the people, we're going to do the person. It's a plantita, it's a

to sender it, have to regal and that and that's in a little bit of a little even when you

even though I'm just thinking, even I'm thinking I like the photography, I'm like my

cameras, my lents, the boxes where those of photos, me interest, I practice,

I go to a talliers and it's a hobby, not is something in my life. So,

is a young. So the sexuality is the same. The sexuality is the same. We're doing, we're doing

together, tantra, or, or, respire, or, or give us or,

or incisement. Try it. We're, we're, we know? We know, we're we're people,

we're we're we're not we, that's the other. Yes. It's important.

It's important. important, then I don't see, the the real,

the stuff, what you like, what you get the only way of

the only way to say, is exploring, exploring with curiosity and with that's,

for that so I think very when you when you say, it's like,

it's like, it's a, and it's a hobby, but about's important.

If it's important for you, you, you should check before to

have to to someone to know if that hobby is a partied. For example, for me, it's my hobby is super important.

What I mean? I would say, I don't would be with a pair or with a woman for the that part not be important? Because for me is

fundamental. Yes. No? Yes. And if one of those two people have problems or rogues

very strong with sex, it can be incompatible because at the more the form in that you want to give to do you want,

more pispyto, more jubotot, more stremendito. You want to another person that says, no, no, no,

no, That's, that's a suse. And you're tremendous, because the love has a education religious that reprimme or it reprimed. So, you know, if that person wants that same game, not only only the

game, but if he wants to to do at that level. And, and in that also, it's cheery because, look, taras in the sexuality, in some way, in major or in the middle, media, we have all, because the most rare

that you findres is that you see as people who have a san education sexual, is that have had been

some parents that have been those parents that are that are that just in this for one

for a normal. Yeah, always. You know, always. It's a little bit about, I'll be

there, it's a car, they get them in the man, right? A lot of

that's that's not a question, I'm to me, I'm, my mom, that I'm

that I don't do you, I don't know, I don't I don't know, I'm I could have been to

five minutes because I'm talking to my doctor what you're what you're what you're what you're

what I'm saying, even I'm saying to say, I'm saying I'm gonna my mom at the 40 years

and we're to get a really, we're not to get report, no me jodd.

No, even even in barasos not planed because if you don't have education

sexual I'm I'm with a little and he said he's

he's very very very very practicate of his religion, no, I'll say what. But it's that no, is that the

theme is the abstinence. So, that's, the education sexual that he does his is the abstinence. So I go, is that you're trying to do you know, that's energy that we

bring us in the thing we're saying, no, you're just talking, no, you're talking to a, preservative, of, of, of, how planar, no.

He says, no, you know, don't think a sex. And, all to say, you, you're playing with all the design natural and

sagrado and universal that It's here we're we're to do we're to beleart with the energy more power

maybe, I know, so that's this is this of reproduction. Look, the result of the obstinence

Mark, in where he's practice and, and so, where it's practice and so

the information and the results that generate, aberrations, better than it,

it's coming out the worst way. The price that's very high because

basically is what you say, is is, is, is, is, in contra of the naturalness, salvo that, salvo that

those cases where there are people that are in a way of the practice, the capacity to get a energy

sexual, of a way different. But for years, years, and not it's because

yeah, and not it is that spontaneously if not you do it, so it's not, if not it's,

what you do you do do it, it's like what you do you're, like, like you're

doing, but the people that practice the abstinence like a practice

spiritual canalize that energy a time through your respiration, the recycle, the encounter a place,

I don't get the energy there, and I want, me, I want, I want, me, I want,

no, the contrary, the, the, the Mue in the Kundalini famous, no,

that's... I'm not conscientient of her and the power, that's, he has been

to channel to another way. Yes, that's another way. That is

another but he study to study it, we have to study it and prepare and canalize

what it is nothing more reprimed because for repriming the energy is where it's where it's where it's

a form of the thing is a because it's an addiction you know even that even so in that

there's a certain evolution look for example like a industry that traditionally was much

that the women have had been to reclame a new there are

there there's that we're that's that's that's it's that's

for me, no has nothing to to be in my opinion particular, me seems that is much more more than the reality,

much more more, I don't see, yes, I'd like I'm real, erotic, let us,

you know, beautiful, of good, good, educated, that the porno traditionally, I don't know,

I'm I remember the first time that I've been a movie, I'd, I,

I don't know, I'm, I don't know, I'm, I'm, I'm, because they were an atrocity, no?

It was an atrocity at all the level. If that was what was so good, I clearly not wanted to that. But in that also also, in all the industry, for example,

the juggetes, the access to the information that every day more, the recognition of the importance of the effects that have the sexuality in the health,

right that's the way to the topic of the health mental, the sexuality has a fundamental in that's a equilibrium energetic

in terms of in terms of mental but the pornography the pornography you can be creating

expectations that are completely false and you can't even your

because you're expecting that your sexual that your this week this this week

it's it's a it's a it's a it's a distortion absolute now

the thing is what you you're a film erotic, where it's well, where there's

other quantity of things, where you say, oh, this is a way, and this

what? What's, that's like, that's all. And as well, and as you

do you? You know? Yeah. Me suen, I'm good, me, I just,

I'm used more, me got and finally, what's going to do you is like your

own menu, that's valid. Is, so, as I'm respect, and the

time is the time is parted, uh, to do you do this kind of a

construction constant. Because in the media that we're going to we're going to that's kind of that

is a capacity to go and it's really good because, because in instead of something

it's being something that something that something that's unn. What you do you do that's

that's we're going to let's we can't just like you're just like, is,

if we've done without that's sexual, let you do you make you

the love because to do the love is really a really a great thing

a beautiful, nothing your is, I'm going to give a attention this area

of my life that's so so so so that then

start with a question no you don't you don't

you don't let's let's exactly the the final the

finality not can be the penetration no No, no. So,

just, just a little a plattica, could be, could be, it's like that, but you feel, to be,

about, what you've done, what you have done, or what's done you've done, or some other

that's, you know, we're going to, we're going to, let me in the tone. You know, that's, that we'll come,

because, I'll go to the same. It's, we'll go, we'll come back, we'll, we'll come back, or a session,

a session, a session, a session, not much, not just, not just, You know you're going to

do you do acuestate you, no we're to do you do you're doing but I'm just to give me

my body and it's that's it's a start doing it and then it starts ericioso change to your

time, start you know what I need is therapy because I know I'm because I'm know

that effectively what I'm a okay okay I'm I'm sure I'm a

let's a do you do you don't know there's there many there millions of solutions.

The theme is, deja to get to the idea in the case that's important because, oh,

me, well, it's important so, so you know, is to start, the theme is to do it,

is to do get a result different doing the same. Milles of the solutions,

the theme is put you in action. Tal qual. Tal qual. And, and a little to

not a little, and it's a little to you pass to in the way to have trotado

to go to run a marathon. Yes, but I have to see a look at

you know, I'm to see you in the programs in the programs, and also you know,

I said, never I have been to gory and I want to get a problem,

you know, you're so, you're and probably probably the first train

are two not and there's there's there I'm so I'm

sure you take a arm in a middle, but but you

the maraton. And that that's a thing that you mentioned about the auto-conciency of the

body, if my my body, that can be a reason for, there's a person who, you, have you, have you got to

get a lot of the rope, no, I'm going to be here to go to go and the house, and we're

going to a pandemic where we recrued for years, literally, were two years in

where we just to get to the same frequency that we did you do you in your

experience, trying with what the percentage of people think you think you he has to have

sex because he's really because he is a up to be up a

or he has done the or whatever thing that can affect I'm I'm going to there's

very common is very common that that we don't have a real a real

relation with that we know we that not we don't

we try with with but the interesting is that when you don't

you know you don't you know you know to respect the vehicle of the other, no?

And I think there's two things. When there's a valoration, when there's that there's a true, there's there to know who

there's a bit of, because that's the other. Is it if this is valuable and if this is important for me, then I'm,

I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm a work of art. You, an hour of art you, not you

do a lot you know, you know, no, you're chas in any that's in the

whatever So, it's Like when we We understand that this vehicle is agrado and that's

important, then we learn that we're and naturally you can't you know, you know, because with

who can't you know, with who has that form and has that same relation. Now,

that relation also is not, no, never is time to start to start to start

and we're not in a stereotype esteticos, but it's in no, it's

that it's that you can't feel you can't be able to respect to what you have to

you know, I'm going to I'm going to I'm going to get the first I'm when I'm a little

my spouse too. But if is important that if I'm a mante, that if I

have my hobby, that is I'm I'm, I'm sure I'm like you're

to be able to play football then it's a moment that you say you're I'm going to

be able to get to the rodillas. No, no, no, no, no, no, I'll do it to be able to do that time, probably probably not, no, no, you can't play professional when you have 40, but if you're the sufficient, you're going to be able to play football

all the life. And as, as well, this is my hobby, and I'm going to be able to practice while you're in this planet. So, it's about, you know, and say, you know, is that I'm I feel gordito. It's that a little

a woman that's after having amamantated three children, yeah, my peaches, yeah, no

I'm don't get, and I'm really to be able of the or my my

pampas, my nalgas and I'm grew up much, so I'm not I'm really to

get a good, and it's not to say that, how to manage that? I think, that also the relations

can't and that communication and that that level of confidence that's

also, and And also I think to get to have a point of connection where is,

finally that is the end of the other is that time, well, the time and the time

and it's, and it's that's that finally you don't have sex with a person human,

and what you do you do you know, your company, and you start beheels

in places in the places in where you don't the not you don't the stras,

in the cellulitis, in the past because it's part of what we is part of our history when we're able to have to be a story

and respect to the history of the story of all, it's much more than simply to look a maniky that's that's the standard

of a vaya that's not. No, no, it's not it's so, that we can't build that

we can't we can't go back to the stereotypes of the stereotypes pendejos that we're

that's what we're called what we're because for me, cadaver man is a person human, but the

beauty is in the eyes of the eyes. And that beauty is a part of the mind that we're to give us

to the time, that in any that's condition to or to our person,

when I I'm going to be a good, it's to be good, because there are people,

we can be set and have people, and that they have any different different

of the complex with the other things, what you're going to find is that,

and that's the beautiful of the life, the compatibility is, and so, as you can be able to

be very attractive to a much to be there other people, there are other, no, Mark, no, you know,

you know, no, you know, I'm not me latet and then so I'm not sure, I'm trying

to get in the stereotypes or that's that we're a life sexual, we're to be

to be models, and, and actors of Hollywood, what we need we need

we need to see or so, and to have a life of sexor is a good relation with us. and that's, and that's statured, and that's we're making

that we're feeling to the orgasm, is that we don't know, is that no I can't do do, is that I'm is that no sir, is that there's that there's that there's a problem

with me, Disney, I'm a logro that I get. And there's people that there's really.

It's like, if that were something we're to carry you. It's just like the orgasm of the other is a

a little like you, like you it's, you know, you know, when in reality,

and for you say, that's so important to learn to be to do because that

pleasure is what we do you know, immediately what you get you is in a

person and then the other will be with that, or with the stigma with the idea

that I'm a malamante or that I'm not sufficient and is no, it's, it's an orgasm is a result. And, that's not, it's not,

it's just because, and there's, and there's a thing, is, is very pretty much,

is that generally when you get to the orgasm, it's all it's a thing, there's a

kind of things that we don't, we're trying when you when you're when you're when you're

when you when you're, when you're, when you're, the result gets. So that's a good

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the other, and pointuals, include me something that maybe not you have asked

if you're to get a question, the chispa, the desire sexual, or to recover the

desire sexual, then the things that I can get basic of this

podcast to put in practice and if I don't have that to have in the

mirror for that not me see that how can't make that

that's that the sexual with a part a

part of a part of how can recover then that of that sexual with

someone with who I have been to get to get to get to get to this podcast? I would

say the know of the same and not only at not only in the sexual

but I'm doing in the relationship with us second, to understand that the

sexuality go more more to the encounter to get to be and start to

understand that the way our connection with the pleasure to be

there Third, like all the important in the life is the

system and it's it and it is that

the term is that what I'm what I need to need

to invest time energy study to I'm I'm

I do I'm I'm that I'm that I'm

so the I'm I'm I'm I'm a I'm

the most illusion me is what is what I can learn every and when you get you're

with that attitude student, it's like the kids when they're in the garden infantile no, for so they're

well, for that that's a illusion and that, and that innocence bonita of

that the life, that's every year, we're going to get a so, no,

like, little little little to be, oh, I'm going to do I'm doing this

today, I'm what I'm can't perceive different, and probably if we

we're probably life, first we'll be enamorated and second, probably we're to have a life sexual very

satisfactory. My dear Santiago, the people that want to keep to get to find more of

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be able to be. And the things of the towers not only are only the non-aselior. No, of the actual really we're

much the time of auto-conocimient tanners of marriages, more than the sexuality, where, you know, the topic of

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