El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 228 - Cómo saber si estás con la pareja adecuada - Eugenia Flo

Episode Date: July 25, 2022

Cuando estamos en una relación, llegamos con la expectativa de que nuestra pareja crezca al mismo ritmo que nosotros en todas las áreas, pero no siempre es así. Esta semana nos acompaña Eugenia Fl...o, sexóloga que ha ayudado a miles de personas a empoderarse para mejorar su relación y a saber si están con la pareja correcta.   Aprende a ganarle al miedo para tener la vida y las relaciones que quieres, en mi clase gratis 👉: https://marcoantonioregil.com/miedo-yt/    Sígueme en: Telegram: marcoantonioregil.com/telegram   Sigue a Eugenia Flo en: Instagram: @sexologa_eugenia/ 

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Starting point is 00:00:01 Hotel Laibacka, Monterey, present. And pretend we're having a relation of a marriage in the modernity based in a model archaical. This is a education machista,
Starting point is 00:00:14 that there are good, and there are new ones are to be to getzars, the bad are to do it's correct. Mentirte you get to where
Starting point is 00:00:22 you're going, that's the separation and the conflict, but not we don't we're doing the things well,
Starting point is 00:00:27 and then years after you're going to be with the a correct. And the
Starting point is 00:00:32 measure in that I know I'm going to know what I'm more more possibilities to be able to
Starting point is 00:00:37 be able to you know what you know, and I'm nothing. Nothing. No, that's a realbe.
Starting point is 00:00:43 That's you have to do you for that our partners us am. One of the conflicts most
Starting point is 00:00:50 important is that can present with the parja, so when you've much time
Starting point is 00:00:54 with the time, is that you start interests different. It's logical.
Starting point is 00:00:59 We're we're transforminons, you start to learn more and you you're a about you to
Starting point is 00:01:04 start to start with the parke to be in the pariah or also we're saying and if me casso and if
Starting point is 00:01:12 we're not we're just things and we are all this stress based on a question that's
Starting point is 00:01:18 maybe equivocated that the part of the party has to be that's well as well I'm
Starting point is 00:01:23 I'm not I'm not I'm so I'm we're a sexologist Eugenia Flo that comes to to decide how
Starting point is 00:01:29 to give us count if we're with the pair of the couple of or how negotiate
Starting point is 00:01:34 those differences with the podcast will be very much so that's the hotel live aqua in Monterey
Starting point is 00:01:41 O'Leon this is the episode 228 we're we're gonna do Mark RGL Entertainment and all his
Starting point is 00:02:01 master in sexology substantively Eugenia Flo has been and is mentor of millions of women
Starting point is 00:02:06 to who has helped in the empoderment sexual and erotic. It's a fundator of the center of attention integral to
Starting point is 00:02:12 the sexuality and more in the programs more exitos of radio and television. The sexologist Augenia Flo
Starting point is 00:02:20 is in the podcast. That's so, so is that is that's all that's all right about, we're going to
Starting point is 00:02:30 go. With the flow. With the flow, so we're going to be able to be that's what's what's the most important with
Starting point is 00:02:38 a party He doesn't want to control. Totally. And there's the problem, no? And condition. Conditionary. And the expectations, say the buddists,
Starting point is 00:02:48 that the expectation is the origin of the suffering. Totally. Of course. 1,000 of a quarter. And when we're about the,
Starting point is 00:02:55 of the encounter amoroso, with more reason, we have to have to be so. Zero expectations.
Starting point is 00:03:02 Zero expectatives. Serer possible? A bit, guys, chikas, think is that is possible to enter
Starting point is 00:03:07 to a relationship without expectatives, digel it, for that you know, don't, no,
Starting point is 00:03:12 you know, one can at the platica, oh, yeah, clear, well, it's,
Starting point is 00:03:16 but for the end of, no, I want, I want, I'm I'm something,
Starting point is 00:03:19 I'm, because so you know, so, so, I think, so,
Starting point is 00:03:24 I think, what you know, when you know, is, you know, and you
Starting point is 00:03:29 see, to see, to be like, like, that's to be to be
Starting point is 00:03:33 explored. And, we know We don't know if there's cascadas, if will be to be
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Starting point is 00:03:58 really what we should we have to visualize
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Starting point is 00:04:09 if you're informed, what is that psychology substantive? The sexology substantive is the sexology
Starting point is 00:04:14 that's that's ideology that's the sexuality human, study the how we have formed
Starting point is 00:04:22 as the subjects sexuado that we are the sexualism is an abanico
Starting point is 00:04:28 enormous and that's the world there human, exist millions and
Starting point is 00:04:34 millions of possibilities. For example, if we know we we're actually we're seven,
Starting point is 00:04:40 500 million of the people are there exist seven, 500
Starting point is 00:04:45 millions of different different of things, of the human, we're
Starting point is 00:04:50 like the people, in what we're in what we we're in what we we're not
Starting point is 00:04:55 we're and one of the major retos for us the sustantiv is
Starting point is 00:05:00 Menos Genitales more eros Menos less sexo basing to the restate of the
Starting point is 00:05:10 love in such a way that to work with a sexologist a putier
Starting point is 00:05:16 discolocart because you will say things things different to you can
Starting point is 00:05:20 a sexologist a sexologist or a psychologist a psychologist because
Starting point is 00:05:26 we're going to make on contra for example of
Starting point is 00:05:28 the medicalization of Cerebro. We're better indagable what is
Starting point is 00:05:33 blocker really the desire, that is conflictinging, and to work in it to be going to
Starting point is 00:05:41 do you, but to be able that's dependient of a pastilla, to be able to get
Starting point is 00:05:47 to get to that is natural and that for questions of education, the environment,
Starting point is 00:05:52 of the exigency social, of the desire, of the mal education
Starting point is 00:05:56 sexual or the disinformation, we will distortion concepts and we're generating existences,
Starting point is 00:06:02 exigencies, that not are with the reality of the sexuality human. And that's a great for a
Starting point is 00:06:10 for a country, for a Mexico, for Colombia, Guatemala, the United, now I'm really,
Starting point is 00:06:18 I'm, I'm really, at the first you know, when you know, when you know, when you're
Starting point is 00:06:21 all this is meal overhoel no, you get, someone, the chemica, to get the first
Starting point is 00:06:25 and you, so, so, so, Oh, yeah. At the principle, all is beautiful. Meelsovrojolas, we know-as, we know-sombollah, we're just to go to cinema.
Starting point is 00:06:38 Also, we know, oh, we've seen the podcast, oh, you know? But then then it's a, it's a, it's impossible. And the reality is
Starting point is 00:06:48 that it's impossible that you're identical to any other other human of the planet. It's impossible. It has to be different.
Starting point is 00:06:56 It's more, no, I'm not I'm And so, it was a different years, it was different. No,
Starting point is 00:07:01 we're doing every day in the best version of us. Of course. Of course. So, what I've
Starting point is 00:07:08 could have been to find to the long of 10 years doing this time, and with
Starting point is 00:07:13 hundreds of people, I'm going to focus right in the couple in the parages, that have
Starting point is 00:07:17 worked on me, what I've discovered, Mark, a little I'm not over, but I just happened.
Starting point is 00:07:25 The system is a mal. you know, what's the system that's bad the system that has imposed the
Starting point is 00:07:33 society, the religions, the education because unfortunately, and this is a phrase of the director
Starting point is 00:07:42 of the master in sexology that says one a pair is made for the sexo
Starting point is 00:07:49 what can mark the difference between my relation of a and any other
Starting point is 00:07:55 relation that I could to have been, is the sexuality that we we're
Starting point is 00:07:58 we're about the not we're not we're not we're about, the question about,
Starting point is 00:08:06 of what we don't we do we're about, of the desires, of the desires, of the
Starting point is 00:08:12 things that we've experienced and we have got to, of the things that
Starting point is 00:08:16 we've experienced and that we've provided some that we have been
Starting point is 00:08:19 a two people, that they are the same films, that they're
Starting point is 00:08:26 the same music, that they're to do that that's the plan of that's even could coincid but you
Starting point is 00:08:32 think? At the hour of that they can't, at the hour of that they
Starting point is 00:08:36 unen, to the more stricta intimacy the great majority of
Starting point is 00:08:43 the parties has many complications that we we're we're
Starting point is 00:08:49 we don't and there there some important Mark Difficult
Starting point is 00:08:55 Difficultities erotic. Difficultes erotic. I'm going to write. Fidate. No, it's that in real. This is super important. Why?
Starting point is 00:09:02 Because the people get here and says, Eugenia, this, I'm aculador precozo. Eugenia,
Starting point is 00:09:08 I have a conflict with the orgasm. No, I'm going to get a orgasm. So the
Starting point is 00:09:12 person think that she's not. And so he's going to medica and he's convinced of
Starting point is 00:09:17 that's bad. But point number one, what can be that is the interaction. neither you
Starting point is 00:09:26 or you the the dynamic that we do we're what we're on the table
Starting point is 00:09:33 or what we put us on the camera to play evidently every one does a one has a
Starting point is 00:09:38 costalito of so if I have a a not said that's
Starting point is 00:09:44 the past if I have a a bad concept of the pleasure
Starting point is 00:09:48 if I see like a I'm that I don't make you my
Starting point is 00:09:54 you know that the educastration sexual that's also the term. It's a not going to find in the
Starting point is 00:10:01 real academy of the language of it's a question. Is it a education of the sexuality?
Starting point is 00:10:07 So, we castraceing when we do we're because because because because of
Starting point is 00:10:10 the time. Sure. Because from the decision. No, you know,
Starting point is 00:10:16 no, no, you don't see cuchina, no do you do do you, so,
Starting point is 00:10:19 then we can't a monster and this is something that is something that the past that you can't understand,
Starting point is 00:10:27 because our parents, from the affand that we're not suffer us, without care, and with his more grand love, we endosan those endosan
Starting point is 00:10:37 those malas experiences of life, crevying that they're doing we're trying, obviously, and us are the better education
Starting point is 00:10:45 that they've didn't, I said, nobody's, nobody's say, I'm going to sabotage to my child,
Starting point is 00:10:50 evidently, no, because they're not, because they're not, they're they're
Starting point is 00:10:53 Right? So, then we're doing like a cadenita of victims of and it's not that's about that's not. It's not
Starting point is 00:10:59 that now there's a adult that's there's not there's they're going to a monster. A monster.
Starting point is 00:11:06 You're, you're, they're, they're, they're, they're with the sexo with what
Starting point is 00:11:09 more? With a with a suicide. Susiead. There's there. There are many,
Starting point is 00:11:15 there's many there's that people that they think they in their sexual as a
Starting point is 00:11:19 place soo and a very can't mention the word vulva yeah, oh,
Starting point is 00:11:25 you know, you know, there's a point, no, no, no, no, no no,
Starting point is 00:11:30 no, so this is real, so imagine that that that's a little, and that a monster,
Starting point is 00:11:36 a man, or a man, because also, the other, the
Starting point is 00:11:40 thing, the thing, the thing, the thing, I'm, I'm going to go, I'm going to
Starting point is 00:11:44 get to where you know, where you know, where's the focus-
Starting point is 00:11:47 rojo to that when when the They've got to the child, to sexo-service, pardon, sex-servidora.
Starting point is 00:11:53 I want to, but in a good under the chamba that does it does a good result. Because the woman
Starting point is 00:11:58 learn. Firtes declarations. Fertes declarations. The man learn to disociar the encounter
Starting point is 00:12:06 of the love. Sure. To disociar. To separate the act sexual and the and as well, and as it
Starting point is 00:12:14 and as it and as it. The pair no the pair of the pair of a word, because this is important. The difference
Starting point is 00:12:22 between co-gern and do you know, is the inclusion or no of erotism in the relation. Eros and love are a concept indivisible. Erotism
Starting point is 00:12:35 with love. For example, what you live in the pair of singers, that is erotism. It's sexuality recreational, tan valid as
Starting point is 00:12:46 the life erotic. But it's an a part distinct to my mind, to my sense, to my
Starting point is 00:12:53 senseions, and the vincal I'm I'm in you with you're in so you
Starting point is 00:12:59 have encountered here. A society that in the fond of that's
Starting point is 00:13:06 a time and he doesn't we're not we're doing people people people
Starting point is 00:13:13 not we're making we're making and we we're we
Starting point is 00:13:16 we're we Let's go to example of the women your mom you say that's a
Starting point is 00:13:22 good provider that has a good provable, that's a blah, blah, blah, blah, blah blah, blah. And that
Starting point is 00:13:28 has been that you get a little because it's a little bit that's a life. The real
Starting point is 00:13:33 that's a marmah. A poe no, a not, a a poe not, a poco no, not we don't
Starting point is 00:13:37 not we don't. No, no no we're a fetichista, uh, but, but you're more the
Starting point is 00:13:47 A good woman. A good woman. And you're done what you did this division. Because there's this education machista that there are
Starting point is 00:13:56 youngs and there are the girls. It's correct. The good are to be to getzars and the bad are to doves. It's correct.
Starting point is 00:14:02 And there are the chisters that the kids are going to see them to and the New York. So, so yeah.
Starting point is 00:14:09 So, so, so, so, but no is, not you don't you're to look
Starting point is 00:14:11 a woman integral, that's my husband and my ament. Exactly. They're We're not separated.
Starting point is 00:14:16 The little. Yeah. Because no we're not. So, Mark. So, I don't see a kid. Here in Monterey
Starting point is 00:14:23 says much. I'm not a child. Like if the other not born made a family. When it
Starting point is 00:14:30 came out of that came to that I'm for the new guys I made a and I'm and I'm
Starting point is 00:14:38 a little bit to tell they're they're to end up. Who? Who did I'm
Starting point is 00:14:42 I'm a man. I'm a man. I'm Canestine, for the children, and I saw
Starting point is 00:14:48 I mean, I saw, I met me, and I'm, how many, how many, how many, how many,
Starting point is 00:14:54 how many? What's a man? What is a man? A man. A man. A man.
Starting point is 00:14:58 A man. A man. Demererosa, to show his body, and that's homosexual, she has been
Starting point is 00:15:05 to get called, because your family is homophobic. Or, that's what we're that's another concept for
Starting point is 00:15:11 the papas? For favor, not seem homophobic. Because you don't know that chiquito that's perinked
Starting point is 00:15:15 to you, that you paris or engendrast? No we know. So, what we're
Starting point is 00:15:21 doing from the inconsience as a society? We have to get us to know
Starting point is 00:15:26 to the sexuality with a fundamental and to be radio passillo,
Starting point is 00:15:31 revite revite radio comadry and radio abelita and radio mom,
Starting point is 00:15:37 because mom also can't get because we can get because we
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Starting point is 00:15:45 things, we're we're always, we're going to get to our dreams, but
Starting point is 00:15:49 something when we're doing that we're doing, is that we have to our habits, we need
Starting point is 00:15:57 to get to the same to the comfort and to get a new,
Starting point is 00:16:00 and it all right, it's very very emosionate, but the problem is that in the
Starting point is 00:16:03 reality, at the question, the need the new us attack. Our mind
Starting point is 00:16:08 is where in the un-known is where we can't make the ridicule and we're the syndrome of delisi and if
Starting point is 00:16:15 me equivocal and I'm equivocal and if I'm bad and you get a paralysis of the analysis and there is where the
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Starting point is 00:17:06 a part of a right that's reflecting all this we're we're doing
Starting point is 00:17:09 we're not we're we're all a culture, a culture, an education about the about the
Starting point is 00:17:13 thing about and then when you're going to get to get beautiful beautiful, but you're
Starting point is 00:17:20 really the but you know the same you know, because to know, because to know, if I'm a
Starting point is 00:17:25 person, I'm correct or incorrect, then I'd I'd be to know if we're if we're
Starting point is 00:17:31 in the we're able to we're in the thing? And what what things at sexual and
Starting point is 00:17:37 erotic has experimented that you would be to be to make to make that you
Starting point is 00:17:43 have done that have provoked any more you know a little bit a little bit a displeaser
Starting point is 00:17:50 what is a displeaser we're going to imagine that my pleasure is darted oh car
Starting point is 00:17:56 yeah just just just is that you do knaldas. So there's a connection
Starting point is 00:18:09 there's a no, no, but you said he was to give her not, no, the is that I'm
Starting point is 00:18:14 not sure, I'm not I'm, I'm, I'm, a bit more, a bit more, example.
Starting point is 00:18:19 And I'm that I'm like they're to do it. No, to do it a lotgarten. But to
Starting point is 00:18:24 but a you know. So, then so what we do you do you're you're doing?
Starting point is 00:18:28 You're you're just you're a, you reprimed you're the the, the psychologist
Starting point is 00:18:35 the sexologist, and I'm the podcaster, no, I'm not like, that I'm talking. So, or you're reprimes,
Starting point is 00:18:42 or I'm a want to. It's a pervert, but what you're? We're going to get us. We're going to
Starting point is 00:18:46 try it. Because I valor of you, milcos, valouras, you, is a little person.
Starting point is 00:18:52 And, and, all the other things we're not to look at a time, it's very
Starting point is 00:18:58 important. I'm not I'm trying that all that all that's that the ecosystem of
Starting point is 00:19:03 the system of the thing not important. But if the sexuality that you and we share we, we don't let's
Starting point is 00:19:10 from the noviasco, and I, pardon, mamas, I'm being, really, I hope that no me odien. But when their kids are to casars and are with me and do a little bit, I say in a seat, I the first
Starting point is 00:19:22 that you know, is, and you know, they're in the camera, or only in the cinema, in the family, in the birthday, in the the day.
Starting point is 00:19:29 Yeah, they're in the camera. No, is that we're just that we're waiting. for favor in good on want to
Starting point is 00:19:34 you want a want to be a good question but that you know not you know that you
Starting point is 00:19:39 know this because you know a act to with a commoning sexological I'm saying
Starting point is 00:19:45 in what areas and obviously they're they're a guy you know how much you have relations with the
Starting point is 00:19:55 noviourn't but I'm do that because if no I'm not the first say that because when
Starting point is 00:20:01 And when we're going to be when you're going to be dispeinated, enojada. So, then I convert into that person complacent because,
Starting point is 00:20:09 my mom and my mother, I'm educated to do that the man. And then before I castrava the society,
Starting point is 00:20:16 when I'm castra I'm just I solita. No, and you know, that's, that's, that's a
Starting point is 00:20:21 interest to cast out, you, you want to the classification of the new, a new,
Starting point is 00:20:25 the family, material, the body, of a boda. No, you're being a a little. Because he
Starting point is 00:20:32 a little bit of a good. And then I'm going to and then I want to be a little bit a little
Starting point is 00:20:39 but the mom he said that's a clas on a man. Because the man that the
Starting point is 00:20:47 that that's a that to express you know that the that's in what the
Starting point is 00:20:53 one's that I say you let's I'm I'm when you when you
Starting point is 00:20:57 are you're free and you're autism, with pleasure. Travages your own orgasm. That's another
Starting point is 00:21:04 great thing. Because we're saying, the orgasm is of who's the job. Yes, but nobody
Starting point is 00:21:09 you say, how's the orgasm. I say it's how you. How? There's a process.
Starting point is 00:21:15 First, desanation. Entientace abuse sexual, malas experiences, educastration sexual,
Starting point is 00:21:22 false-criences, concept of distortionated, of concept of love, of pleasure, of desire, we're
Starting point is 00:21:28 subjectos sexuados and for sexuados we're sexuados we're we're we're not,
Starting point is 00:21:34 because so is, in the buskedom of the pleasure. This drink of
Starting point is 00:21:39 a coffee is a pleasure for my garganta. This is a pleasure for my nose.
Starting point is 00:21:45 The being to your energy is a pleasure for me. She's is putting
Starting point is 00:21:50 the podcast here. No, it's in reality because all that sounds a therapy,
Starting point is 00:21:56 it's a honesty but the I'm a love. Amor. I'm going to I'm a
Starting point is 00:22:01 therapy to sanar to get a thing. I'm impede living with plenty of
Starting point is 00:22:05 like the subject sexuado that I'm free of culp I'm I'm sure that all
Starting point is 00:22:12 you can change because also comprehend me help me to
Starting point is 00:22:17 understand to because that's that's something that's something so I
Starting point is 00:22:23 am to amart you, It's a decision that I'm taking but that's not that you
Starting point is 00:22:32 you have to be comprometive to corresponder me the love no is condition, what has been to do the
Starting point is 00:22:41 other for to have my love? If I have to let the sexology for that
Starting point is 00:22:47 you may ames, if I have to have to go to go to go to and be
Starting point is 00:22:52 more time in the time for that you me ames
Starting point is 00:22:55 I me questioner if that's a word. No. Because the love, the love
Starting point is 00:23:00 the love to get to get to someone, and then you want to get in a haulah. What you attract you
Starting point is 00:23:06 a person, then that's then it can't be that they're not, for example, when the
Starting point is 00:23:12 chikas me me say, that's the question he that's a piece? And one day he's
Starting point is 00:23:18 he's created an article. That's just is excess to be a Jorge Losano. Cuccarach
Starting point is 00:23:25 Come, but that's it. That's a question. No, sir. And no, yeah, yeah. Ah, ma'it. No, mamita. No, ma'amita, no. Oh, sir.
Starting point is 00:23:32 And, so, I mean, apart. If somebody has to be in real, love? No, it's a conquest of that. And the conquest
Starting point is 00:23:43 no is love. One of my mancuernas, psychoanist, Laconian, Luis Felipe Diaz, Barriga, me says,
Starting point is 00:23:49 what has to do a baby for you do and you do do you? Nothing. Not. To be a baby.
Starting point is 00:23:55 That's a, You have to do you and I have to do for that our partners are you. Entr, so, enter, as such as well, I'm not permit to to be.
Starting point is 00:24:06 If you're imperfect, I'm perfect, you're imperfect, you know, a pasto, I'm a past so different as coincidentes, says my maestros,
Starting point is 00:24:15 in what we're in that we're in that we're in that's some strange reason we're trying we're trying this truce
Starting point is 00:24:23 of life, this space So, if I understand that we're different but coincidimals in this point
Starting point is 00:24:33 is here where it's where it's different but coincidentes you know to grab us so. But before
Starting point is 00:24:39 to enter to the negotiation, I want to reinforce when when what you are you're
Starting point is 00:24:45 not so you're they're trying they're because he's about, Abla Savrozo Abla Savrozo Eugenia Flaw
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Starting point is 00:26:20 to care, to care, to care to do you presentas so, then you would be
Starting point is 00:26:25 certainly this security to you're I mean I like naguar like she
Starting point is 00:26:30 no I mean to get the car or the other corra or the other corra but I'm
Starting point is 00:26:35 so I'm not I'm don't have to you to you when you when you're so for so
Starting point is 00:26:43 you're in a security of an more of an love but when we're
Starting point is 00:26:47 in our cultures latinas when when we're to when we we're
Starting point is 00:26:51 to come we're like we we're we're we we're not we're
Starting point is 00:26:55 we're like to be a product apt for for all, not? Not to be acceptable. So, I'm going to
Starting point is 00:27:03 say what it is acceptable and what it's not really, I'm afraid to to say, for the pernora the pern't.
Starting point is 00:27:09 Exactly, for the fomom fear of missing out, because to love not is necessary. Yes. So,
Starting point is 00:27:16 so, for fear to you know, I'm able to be able to make me, like the woman ideal
Starting point is 00:27:20 that looks to Markos and to be what I'm, but, but, I'm, I'm going to
Starting point is 00:27:24 do you, you say, for example, for example, something, something not popular. At all the more is at the most
Starting point is 00:27:29 the most of the and the most you know the most you're not not you're not even or not you to say that you
Starting point is 00:27:35 don't you're to say that you don't think you you don't want to you know what you want to be a whole of the life?
Starting point is 00:27:41 That's five years. Change. And the and the other people are saying well, look at the
Starting point is 00:27:48 half of the refrigerator vegan a and I'm to do you respect and I'm going to do you're up my fruititas and verdura
Starting point is 00:27:54 and back my example no? No? Attrevers to do one and present So there's the origin of... Because meantira to where you It's where you
Starting point is 00:28:01 You know, where not you is the separation and the conflict But no we're doing the things Well, you're After you're
Starting point is 00:28:12 You're going to The pair of the Correcta? But never Never Never put you The first You know,
Starting point is 00:28:18 I was there's I never, I'd ever be to I'd I'd ever be to You know So, So,
Starting point is 00:28:23 so, if not we're we're going to to share you that is that sexuality
Starting point is 00:28:30 that's that's that's that's in the where it's the way if we're
Starting point is 00:28:37 if we're the rhythm the restum and the expressions that's basic because what
Starting point is 00:28:43 you're going to more more advanced so what's what's what's
Starting point is 00:28:46 she's what you're saying that you're you're in our culture latina how
Starting point is 00:28:52 how much parages to talk to about how these
Starting point is 00:28:55 men tryven to say to a new a new noviour what you
Starting point is 00:28:59 what's you've done you're that you the most of the majority is I'm gonna I'm
Starting point is 00:29:04 I've been I'm not with a new you know what you're not you're not you're you're part of
Starting point is 00:29:11 the because you are making you're making all the signals to make me me
Starting point is 00:29:15 you're not you're not you know you get some I'm expectatives so
Starting point is 00:29:19 so to be the most of the most of the most of the most of me for here,
Starting point is 00:29:26 for a guy, get, they're, they're, they're, they're they're
Starting point is 00:29:29 they're or not, or no, or no, or no, and for that the woman
Starting point is 00:29:32 does that never, but I'm a lot of but I think another theory,
Starting point is 00:29:36 that we can't put to prove and at the more and the way, it's,
Starting point is 00:29:39 no, no, it's, it's, but it's, it's, but for me it's
Starting point is 00:29:46 important that you know, we know, we know, we're the art of the
Starting point is 00:29:50 seductions is the art of the anger. The art of the seducion is the art of
Starting point is 00:29:55 the end of the idea. Sure. Because I when I want to seducing
Starting point is 00:29:58 me I'm going to someone I'm not I'm or make you or I put a
Starting point is 00:30:05 beautiful, I'm wap my character, I'm wapo my stress, I'm wapo my day day.
Starting point is 00:30:10 What you're saying basically is that you have to have the ovaries or the
Starting point is 00:30:15 of being sincere and say this this person is who I I'm what I'm going. And this is what I want.
Starting point is 00:30:22 Autoconocinemial, sexual and erotic. Sanation of my past and of any conflict that has, that we all, we're trying to, medium, all, confioms of a foot. All of two. And here's my costal and that's what I want.
Starting point is 00:30:38 Or yeah no I'm that part and I'm ready or ready to love. If is that's what I want. But it's what I want. It's what I want. Is to have the capacity to talk of those things.
Starting point is 00:30:48 Sure. Right, I mean, I think, I think, I think, I think, I think,
Starting point is 00:30:52 I'm going to get a lot of, okay, and I'm to say, I'm not I'm going to a little bit a lot of
Starting point is 00:31:00 a matter. In the the measure in the I know I'm going to know what I'm more
Starting point is 00:31:04 possibilities to be able to be a person, for a man who wants a family, a persone
Starting point is 00:31:12 that's over and that he's per in the house and that's traditional and that
Starting point is 00:31:16 to know to cook the dinner a night for the
Starting point is 00:31:19 very and a little so you don't, you're not, no,
Starting point is 00:31:23 you know, no, no, no, no, no, my passion is the scenario,
Starting point is 00:31:28 is via, is, is to do you, it's other thing, but also, but
Starting point is 00:31:34 also there there's to have a woman to admire a woman like, and you
Starting point is 00:31:38 see, and so, and so, so, so, so, so, I'm
Starting point is 00:31:43 more me know I'm going to have more more
Starting point is 00:31:47 a certain to say, well, I'm this five pretendienties. But how is Juan?
Starting point is 00:31:51 How is Louis? How is, you know, are the are the are the are the
Starting point is 00:31:57 Hugo Paco and Louis. Louis like that. Like, like who? Like,
Starting point is 00:32:04 how? So, that's all I'm the thing is, what the thing is,
Starting point is 00:32:09 the thing, if if I'm, if Because, what, that's good. Obviously,
Starting point is 00:32:15 obviously, I would have 20 years and have the servility to but normally between the 20 and the 20 and
Starting point is 00:32:20 you know, you know, and you know, and if nobody not's educat in sexuality. No, no, no,
Starting point is 00:32:26 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, uncativeness, so,
Starting point is 00:32:29 I'm, I'm in, I'm in, I'm gonna, yeah, I'm me, I'm met here, and I'm,
Starting point is 00:32:35 that, how's that's, that's, no, no, pure, rosario, here.
Starting point is 00:32:41 The planionment that's what I like I do the other is, before the first option
Starting point is 00:32:45 mandars to let's see it's possible negotiate. Okay. Let's let's do the negotiation.
Starting point is 00:32:51 How's the negotiation? So, it's a first that earlier when still when
Starting point is 00:32:58 still was very active the image of the woman complacient that's that that was
Starting point is 00:33:04 that was for being mother, the children, basically Eva, that was
Starting point is 00:33:09 created for Adam. It's correct. It's like So, so the
Starting point is 00:33:14 woman was the woman, she was a question, and it was even more seen,
Starting point is 00:33:20 that even even more that's that's or the more than to be a marid,
Starting point is 00:33:25 because he was, and it's curious, how, if you see, the sciences
Starting point is 00:33:33 have advanced, the internet has advanced but it's a way, that the
Starting point is 00:33:38 raza human like has been the same rhythm and pretend we have a relation
Starting point is 00:33:44 of a pair of a modernity based in a model archaical in where the phalocentrism, the coitocentrism, the machism,
Starting point is 00:33:53 and the repression of the women still prevailing in a culture like the culture like the and it's
Starting point is 00:33:59 for that we have a high-sentage of parages and the pandemic that's that simple
Starting point is 00:34:06 and simply have normalized has normalized the infelisida because all is that
Starting point is 00:34:11 the way, and I do the and they're in all the days in consulta. But that they're
Starting point is 00:34:18 with the conflict, with that the negotiation. How does it? It has, yeah?
Starting point is 00:34:26 It has to understand the couple of two. Two. And that important your desires
Starting point is 00:34:30 but also the life not not not the thing of the man.
Starting point is 00:34:35 No. U. There are various that have to have to have
Starting point is 00:34:39 to be on the new ones. We're in a culture machista. We're still it's incredible
Starting point is 00:34:46 but in the 2012 there's a lot of there's many there's a woman with this auto-castration no?
Starting point is 00:34:53 First to castra my abuelita then my mom then the society of the church and now I'm not they're all
Starting point is 00:34:59 like equal yeah yeah, minimal minimal because if I'm because I'm because I
Starting point is 00:35:04 know that's what is what I'm so the same right to satisfy that the woman, the same
Starting point is 00:35:09 the right to the How good that that's the thing. The woman has to goz annoten
Starting point is 00:35:14 there's there's a there's there's the page of the organization world and
Starting point is 00:35:21 digiten the rights sexuales universal the people ignore that we have
Starting point is 00:35:26 we have sexual universal and one of them is the access to the
Starting point is 00:35:31 party. Oh, I'm I'm sure I'm also. The right
Starting point is 00:35:34 the right the right to, the right to receive an education with
Starting point is 00:35:39 a the liberty of the expression. That's another point important. Until where I can expand my camp of pleasure to where no violent the rights of someone else? Sure, obviously.
Starting point is 00:35:54 But we have to comprehend the sexuality human and respect the rights. For that's important that the people know that has that has different,
Starting point is 00:36:03 and that they give to his children, his code, his rights, that's the margues, that they let her, that she has, to the
Starting point is 00:36:10 families, to the schools, maestras for favor, do you know. We need to have this information. Primoca,
Starting point is 00:36:18 so I'm going to I'm sure to say, I'm sure but the negotiation, the negotiation, the negotiation, here are my rights, no,
Starting point is 00:36:26 no, no, no, we're, we're talking both. It's just, here we're going to take in account what you
Starting point is 00:36:30 think you do, I think, point number two, that negotiation has to be able to do you know, not it's,
Starting point is 00:36:37 that one try to persuade more to the other for your own own for your own it's a need to be
Starting point is 00:36:43 equilibrium. If I get this accord to you know, you know, what you do you know,
Starting point is 00:36:50 that you can't be that this is that we're that we're that we're there's there's a
Starting point is 00:36:56 social there's there's because someone oh, I'm saying
Starting point is 00:37:00 that's that's important to get the more more sano possible to a
Starting point is 00:37:06 one the most Sano possible. And if you yeah, and if you you're in
Starting point is 00:37:11 a relation, before to think in separate in paint the querno, when to do you, a trio,
Starting point is 00:37:17 a new will come to get to your situation of a marriage, uh, and so,
Starting point is 00:37:23 be a sana. You thank much so. Let us an applause to the sexologist uh,
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