El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 229 - Cómo comunicarte y ayudar a alguien que no se deja ayudar - Marco Antonio Regil

Episode Date: August 1, 2022

¿Conoces a alguien que está pasando por un problema y quieres ayudarlo pero por más que intentas no se deja? Suele ser muy desesperante, por eso esta semana quiero compartirte cómo puedes comunicarte de manera efectiva y consciente con esa persona y lograr ayudarla aunque se cierre a ello.   El miedo puede ser una barrera para comunicarte con otras personas. Aprende a ganarle en mi clase gratis 👉:https://marcoantonioregil.com/miedo-pod/    Sígueme en: Telegram: marcoantonioregil.com/telegram

And you have to have much compassion because that can be provoked for a crisis so strong, for a problem so

that is so that's so that's so that the only way to be over- is not not hear,

negar it, not be responsible. Recurda that you know, that's front of someone, that has been

all the capacity to see myself. You know, you know, if at the lesson more great of his life and that if that's the suffering

for the that's going to he's teaching something is to make my intention is facilitate a conversation

where this person that me important that I'm that's so important for me can find or can start

to see a your real you know you have a that you want to you know that's

you're making in problems you know in the emotional with the a partner in the work,

with his health, is committing error after error, is like in a cycle where you know

he's not he's, and you from the love that you have you and the you have

you have you get to feel that you want to you know, but is mentally a certain,

is saying, no he doesn't not, no, he's what he's doing,

all the all over all over it clearly, but that person not how help you?

How communicate with someone that needs help but no it's a little. Well, of that's this episode.

We're going to explore how communicarn us in form effective and conscientious with that person human that needs help.

How to do? Episode 229, we'll start. The podcast of Mark Antonio Regil is a production

of RGL Entertainment and all his rights are reserved. What frustrating is, how doloroso can serve

to someone that's doing damage and no receive help because it's a carerated or serrado.

It's so your mind so is so it's so you know of those deserts

that have still still a arena but the those deserts that are like as farteated

of the of the of the sea and the water now permea yeah no

it's not it's not it never and it evapor and the desert is so

so can so far that's so so And that is what is what happens with the mind of

some of the human. We have passed to all of all of a moment of crisis of grand dolor when

we can't not even even to hear, nor hear the reality and all out of they are

being, less the person that is living. The first is important to understand that all

in some moment in our life we've passed for moments so, where we

are present and we can't to help because we don't we're doing us, we're

we're we're we're we're we're we're we're not we're

not even and we're to have to be a cause because that a crisis that's so forth, and the one way,

it's not seen. It's, has been there. But for other other side, we have to understand

that we can't help to get to get to my mom. My mom was very little.

She said, my my jita. He was, she was a conferenceist trainer of the

event, he helped, and to grow, to grow, to grow, to get to to get,

mehita, I don't do you know to do to anybody that no he's to do you

to do his, a, so, carniosam like, carigniously to be

to his company, my my I'm not I don't help you don't you

do you don't get you're in you're not you're not you're not you're there's

there's there and there there's and there and in this episode you're

to do set steps just to that you can't learn to

communicate to to to get the people that person so the

first that's what you to do to do with a person

that not hear is to maybe maybe if

is that want, and if it's that opera, be it, and listen. Okay? Now, depending of the level of

gravity of problem, there's people that are going to be problems small, for problems median, and there people who are

going to be a crisis terrible, in the case, even could be in a little bit of your life.

And we know if I want to be in a grand, grand, crisis, I'll, I'm,

I'm going to the life is that the person to the health, a medical, a,

a psychiatrist, a psychologist, to a, a, a, a, a, a, a,

a, the, of, physical, mental, to someone, a, person,

that's a person, this podcast, not, is here to use, that's because,

the other way to help to get to a person, is canal to,

uh, to go with a person professional that, ideally in one-a-one,

or in group, he, help to help to me explain that's that's

that's that's that's that's I'm I'm a I'm do you know

I'm I'm think I'm put in the people of people to make that's

another person is our friend a family family family is

known or a company of work and you you

want to you want to those seven you can have a

conversation effective is that that surka effect that

suceda with that conversation or with those conversations. And were very conscientious, with much, much love, with much compassion, and being in the here and the now present, with what what occurs, knowing that not we're making that not we're making, we're just simply going to try to facilitate and help us to help that person, to that ideally, learn to help. So, buske the help professional

that needs. So the first of first of first to start a conversation, you're going to

that person needs to do you and say, I'm going to say, I'm going to get, even he'll be even a little

to him, my jit, a bit, to be a see, to be to be to be in the

reason, to be we can't be a question, and how I'm going to do you,

how I'm going to talk to this person? I don't, I'm not a professional of this,

how I do you do to do to be to be to be first we

have to do is respirer calm and go and go to get to do and then

and exhaler inalar and then to see that person no I don't I don't I think you

see and you put you to get to get that session before before

to manage or to go to go to in your house before to

startate and rest and centrate and create a pass into

you because if you you get with the idea of I have to help her, I'm, I'm to help her, I'm sorry, I'm a culpable, or I'm the

pressure or the, or the false creency of that I have to here to do a miracle and arregglarla, and this is an victim, I'm, I'm, I'm, the supereroyna, that's a save, and you get you get with that intention, or with the intention of

to control that person that's in a, in a, in a place vulnerable, if your ego, if your mind, And it's been in the way in the way in the

way in it's it's for a place in that not is a

person the mind of all the people can pass that's

it's human is human to have to have so

so I'm going to help to help to get a

place is a feel entrap me and say, what is my intention? Why will

have to this conversation? Is that I'm to save this victim? Alt. No. From there's

to be able to do it. It's my obligation. It's that I have to do it. I'm going to

control. Because it's time to me get to be effective. If not me cre,

you'll be to be going to see what that person to be to start more. But if

you get from a place not of a victim and Salvador, if you get

from a a place of a friender or a companyer a a

place centered in your your where you my intention my intention is

serve my intention is to help my intention is facilitate a

conversation where Edward or Maria or this Lucia who

my intention is to facilitate a conversation where this

person that me important that I'm that important for me,

can find or can start to see a their what is the first of that's the

first is the first number one. My intention is present me with love with compassion. I'm going to

serve, I'm going to help God, I'm God, to help me my

heart and to facilitate a conversation not of dictaura no, of regaio, but that

can open the space, that's a certain, for that this person could be a little

more than what is being, for that's being, that's that you can't

help, that nobody to be able to someone, or so so you so you and you're

your intention, and you can't just the intention to serve, to

help, to love, to to be to be the responsibility and the

pressure of I have to do you have to do you I'm the the miracle I'm going to say the

I'm going to you know I'm not the person who you know you get to make so when I'm really to

start me and I'm going to get the pressure and I know more that person because the mind is so

I'm like I know I know all I know all I know I know so that that's what

has to that's to do you to that to that a person human. So,

pass number one is respite and to understand your intention of love and the service. Passo

number two. When you're in that person, remember that is a human, valioso,

not is a tont, no is a person terka, no, I don't, you don't,

you don't, you don't, not you have to be a bad, you, you, you're from the

person sabia and you are you are there a lot of a tonto, a tont of a don't know,

and I'm all right, no. Recurda that you're to be to someone that has

that has a capacity to help to be to see to see to be the

ability to be a thing, that has that has to make to make

that to make that there that there is the creativity

and the solution. What the way is that is that's so offuscated, has that much fear, is that so much more or has been

anxiety or is or is living a lot so great that can't be able in this moment no means that it's

not mean it so that then you know, yeah that's front of her to her, to you know,

to come to serve and with love and that I'm going to I'm going to first person

I'm I'm I'm I'm that I know that I'm that

respect and that in her or of he has all the tools to be all the other things to help her

to help her to discover that's me explain so that that person also is a person

that is a dignity of living his process and that is the process that is the process that

you know if at a level spiritual is the lesson more great of the life and that if if

that's suffering for the that is I'm saying something something's not you

despairs and you do you do you go back with a condescences with your heart of

I'm doing to a person who's front of a person is a dolorida but has all the capacity to develop in

her or to be in her the response I don't I'm the messia I don't

I'm going to say I'm a I'm not I know all she she know know

and I will facilitate. So, you'll you're your intention first of

one, two, you're you're front of a person valiosa that's

that's the first number two. The step number three, super important.

And it took a little in the first but here I'm to reforcer

to pass number three. As questions abirtas and with

curious one one reglas, to do solutions, no. As questions with a genuine

curiosity, not with a condescensionia or other back, what do you what you think, what

you think is what you're what you're you're saying to be? Compartem what's going to what's

what's what's this and this and this and this? Ah, okay, I'm and what

you're you're just you're what you're what's what's that's that's

let's let's that person that you that's that's that's ask you know,

questions abirtas, or so, no, questions of no? This is real, this is true,

this is, you think that's not bad, no. Abirtas, what's what's doing?

What is experiencing, what's feeling your your heart? What's, what's feeling?

When this person, you know, when this so, when this so-s how you do you,

questions abirtas, and with genuine curiosity, with that curiosity of, Oye, me interest, me

interests, I'm, me interests, I'm, I'm, I'm understand. It's all. I'm really into

that's a genuine curiosity. And the path number four, that's peggat the three,

is it's a with your heart? How is to listen with the

question? I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm not, with the question,

but to hear the to let's say that person that express what has to express what has to expresser without

if what has to express are grosseries or or tresses and lachrimas or judgments when

I'm when I'm that I'm the questions abirtas and with curiosity then can

be the can't be a lot of murcielagos and of chisos and of malos

and the courage and of emotions the the regal the thing that you

can't do you is to hear of the heart. Escuched with love. What

means to hear with love? Because if they're to say something,

you know, that's that person oh, how is possible that said, oh,

is it's about so that's about that's to enrogy and you to use

to do you and to just that you're notices, you you are the person that

needs to help. And why it's the because I'm because it's human to live it

but when you start to do you're to use that what you are saying and you start to

put your your story and to you put aggressive so then the that's the

therapy is you to you to do you to do you do you're

to be you you're more limpier more more equilibed with

your emotions, you're better you can't hear to other person

because only can listen to someone in the form that you hear you. When your

your mind you do you do you doxas is the mind and the endojandoes with the ego,

enoched with you justgas and you you're castigas and you you say how is possible this is

that you start to be to be you what you you do you

what you you're going to present, an friend, a family, a person, a person,

a person, a person, and you say a thing that chocken with your , or

you desapruves. And of what I'm talking in this step number four, is to hear with love,

with compassion, without just, at the more there's a little of your own, but you

don't know, you're just you're put to be perfect. No, you're, no, you're a

son, a santa. I don't I don't don't know but when they're they're

you're just doing, you're you'll have to center in your heart and the step number one that is,

I'm here to serve, I'm here to get a lot, and the most amorosos of the really that you

can't do to give a person human is just just to give a place that person

that person could express with confidence with the emotions that you're seeing in that you're just

you're just you put to you're to put to think that you can you can give us

you can be to let me to be to permit me that that me

express or that you expresses without you've to be able to be with someone you can't

you can't you know you can't you listen not confund what you do you're you're

that's the key when when you don't you don't you're the emotions that this person

is living or the people are the difficulties that are having or the incongruences that can

say you can say with your essence So, your essence is the same that you

is the love. Simply is going for a difficult for a great, for a

fear very very great, for a lot of a lot. Listener in your heart.

Compassion and love and you have been there, that you can be there,

and the more not exactly the same words or the same circumstances

but all we have been in this place in the place of

confusion of of of sent us that we're not sufficient, to think that the world

is in contra our and all of a complote in our contra, of a other and not

to take responsibility. All we've been there. It's part of the experience human and again,

that's the person who your compassion and your love and it's the opportunity to live their

own, his own process, his own proper process of the apprenticeship, that's the

process of is sacred. say, grosseries and juicions and malos that's his suffering.

And the suffering can be able to be able to a point a little bit that's a person

to crosser but the door is that's opening. And it is a time.

And so you're trying to your heart. And there's where the respiration is really

much. You're you're and you and respirate. Conscientemently you and you

say, look, it's a question, look, it's a The Svets and I'm going to give. I'm going to give.

I'm going to serve. I'm here. That's the step. Number four. Escuched with love. Escuched with compassion. Without juicists or with the menos juicists possible.

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now the passos number five yeah that you've you're that when when we

we're we're all we're all we're just we're we're listening to that person, we're listening to the voice in our mind. And the voice in the mind,

you're saying, Amma, is that really weird. So what are you saying? Amma, that's what I'm, that's not. And no, tell me that's, tell you what,

do you. It's my voiceicita. I always, I'm a voiceicita in my mind, is my voiceita of a new because I'm in Tijuana. And when I, in Tijuana,

I was a little, and the people in my family have been like, and so, and then with my accent, ah, and she kejava. My voicecita.

So as an adult, when my voice-encita me says, oh, what was so that he says, oh, no, that's tonto, and you're to just to use. So, you know, I'm going to say, when you're going,

when you're going, not you're not only listening to that person, you're listening to your mind, that's interpreting what that

person is saying. And that is a grand conflict of communication. And is the origin of many conflicts in the parages in the

friends in the work, the mal communication. There's to verify. I have to verify if

what you're saying is what I'm doing. So, you say, something, I don't

see, I know, I'm, what you're saying is that you want to divorce. What you're

saying is that you know you're not support to your marid. What you are saying is that you

think you that you think you you're saying is that you're saying is that God's that you're that's

saying, that's saying without no condescending, no, of the right without, without,

with a more, with curiosity genuine. That's what you're saying, that person could say, yes,

that's what you're saying, but many times you're to surprise, you're going to say, no, no,

no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, I, no, I'm, no, I'm,

oh, okay, then you could, me could you , I could understand, understand you understand it's well, you know,

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little bit of a person, says, you see, something, you see, you know, you're saying,

you're saying, what you're saying, is that you're not that's very great to start this

project, that you just as you're a very, you're a thing, it's a person

is a person, so the person is the person's, but when you you see it's a

grand regalow, figgate, here's the magic. When you reflect a someone and repites what he said you know,

verificas with love, without with genuine curiosity, verifak is what that person is what that

person is and that person is a time to your words, a more is what he said,

but you you're going to be to be a that's the problem, right? How I

do I do a how I can be to someone, how I can't listen. Ah.

You know, you same, you know, you're saying, oh, yeah, per me, what you're saying is this and this and this, it has been very neutral.

Ah, what you're saying is that I'm, no, no, so, no. A bit, someone, somebody says,

for example, is that no me, not me, like, how, you, or,

never me put that attention. Ah, what you're saying is that others are that are better than,

no, no, that's, no, that's, in communication centered in the heart. To be,

what you're saying is that not disut the form in that I'm that I'm that I'm saying that no

that do it, that it dole, that not you the attention that you would like to receive

or the way in that I'm not the way in that you do you need to that question. Is that what's going

about? But neutral with love, with curiosity. And the other person will hear

to learn to learn of her same of what he said, you're going to to say, I'm going to

say, but you know, but you know, I'm going to then you get to invite that person to an introspection

to go to her and to hear to hear to see to see myself. So, make questions abirtas,

listen with love, and then then make and reflect what that person is saying,

verify that if you understand to be to be an great, is a real

a conversation precious. And not you're not you're not doing advice. In fact,

I'd I'd say I this, this pass, I'd this pass, no, I'd agree I'd

resist the temptation to give the time to give the tentation to give the time of what you're

saying, reflect and he's doing to that person to give us to give us another pass.

Resiste the temptation. of give the next the next the second

the six originally now is the subtle subtilment fiftilment and repit and subrallio

subtilment invita that person without that person after that after you told his story

then sometimes the story and then it's to repeat to repeat and repeat and repeat

and repeat and to invite that this person to explore subtilment invite

that person to explore the possibility of that she or he are part of the problem not of all the problem but at the more

that there's a part of responsibility in her me explain and that's pretty very delicate but could be a grand change you know me you told me all your story

what you do the marid that he put the quern and you meent and no so that so so I'm so then then

then say to let's say to and you think you in the horrible that he's

a ported he has done, and I'm that's that you're that's pasted for

this, and I'm I'm saying that's talking about this. But I think I'm

I'm think, you, you think you have you have to do with this

that's going to do you? No, is, ah, is that you're the

culpable that you put the cune, no, no, no. It's,

oh, and of all this circumstance horrible. He he's ported horrible, definitely. And me duly, that you pass. But, you know, there's that there's a lot of you

have to do with what you have to be? With what you have permitted or has co-created this, of some way? I'm wondering. With, with curiosity, because if there, it's been with a jury, it's

cargid, and, well, you've been asked, if you're the culpable, no, no, no, no. That's, it's, it's, it's The earth. What we're that the desert is that the

desert is that the water, the light, the life, that can be a that's

something. So, then you're sotilement and with all curiosity. Hey, is it,

you know, that you have a thing to be with this? Or, you've cooperated

with this, there's a thing that can't do you and then you're to do you

and you will be to apply the person not the list for to take nothing

to take a responsibility and you say, no, no, I don't have a pen,

no, you know, you're not not this list for to be a lot of the time,

even the responsibility because it's incomoded to take responsibility but the good news

to take responsibility is that one that you can't do you do you the

if the the culp of the government of the marid of your chief of

your of your person of your and you no, you take responsibility, then you can't

because then your felicity depends on the other person, change. So what we want to do you do you know,

well, if you do it's that I'm going to do you know, I'm going to go to regret and I'm a tapete and no,

no, I'm honrado. Well, if that's a pin, pink, pin, pin, we're getting

a guy, we did you do you do what you do you're a therapist professional, but that

not the objective, that you can be a psychologist, simply that facilitates with curiosity

the question and if something something of a responsibility that's wonderful. And there

is where would be the last time. The last time would be the if you

you have something what you do you don't you're not you're saying

not you don't you're you're you can you you can do you

to do you you can be there there there you're

you're you know, to take a person to the story and to the victim to take a little a little bit

responsibility and to say, hmm, there's a there's a there's a there's a more,

you know, my hitho, no, then, well, that God, I'm doing, because this

was a good, okay, it's so there's no, there's, no, there, but no,

no, but, no, you do you, but if you just, but if you could, I'd be a

to be a maybe, maybe, to be a little to be a Could I retire me where they're

abusing to me or me are you say, oh, yeah, not me say, could I do you do something? Could I, for the least not

permit it, could be able to this business, could be to retire me of this amistat. I could disminuble to

the number of the number of people. Marivouous. And if did that, a plas enormous.

And if you do you do it's not do you do it, but for the most semrast

the same the good communication and the person to say, look, look, what so we're not we'll do you

know, we're not but I'm about with Mark or with Ilda or with Blanca, Marisol.

I can talk with I'm going to talk to her. And at the more in the next conversation

is a little more more abirt. The ideal is that that person is a problem very grave,

I'll go to a professional of the health, a medical, a psychologist, a psychologist,

a psychiatrist, a coach of liberty financial, of the business, what the idea is the

problem, the ideal is that is a program very great, receive a support professional,

but not he's going to be to be a second or so that so this

these those the communication effective and conscientient that

for sure are to be part of a new course that we

are we're preparing and we are very important and I am

to do you because a me have served because I not

not this, this me would be a person who someone was

when I'm a lot, much, much, much, much more more than many years

to commit errors and was then after doing yoga, meditation, psychology spiritual,

mindfulness, or conscience a that I started to that I did I

do you to do all the love and all the care and so that

you can be being such you I'm I'm Notice, we're

we're next to launch our first course of communication effective and conscientious, that's not

they've been much time. So, the fact, this is a little provadita and in that course

we're going to do more, much, much, much, much more, and we'll practice all

these things and profundize more, because this is just a point of the iceberg of a good

communication. So, those are the point, repasasasas first, first, to start,

to, start, to, your intention, to say, I'm here to serve, to give a

more, to do you have to have all the solutions. I don't do you know I'm the universe entire.

I don't, I don't, I don't, I'm going to say to help to help you. I'm going to start to

you know, start you, what is your intention. And if there's an manipulation, some intention

sucia, limpia. Two, record that you are you're with someone that's that's

that has that's even the doesn't in that the moment, it's has

all the a simism, or so and that's living also a process that's a great to live your process

sacred, that is an opportunity of a business. A sometimes, we need a time we need more

to get more more, I want to start a rapid to, to avoid, to avoid,

not you know, you know, you're, but there people who are people who still have been

there, and I'm, I'm, I'm just I'm just I'm just start more rapidito.

I'm in that suffering and in that's a lot. But, perhaps that person is a time in that is a time

in that you is a problem and it's a problem. And we going to be not like, a person

a person retrasada, no, is a process, a rhythm and a time and that's

perfect. And you, that's all to be with respect and with love. It's the

path number two. The path number three is is to make questions

abirtas. Abirtas for that can be able to talk, to talk

their story and obviously, all to do that questions abirtas

what we have to have to be a genuine curiosity. Genuine a curiosity.

Oh, oh, oh, no me, to be, a how, count me.

How, I'm, you, I'm, you, I'm, I'm, I'm, and, and, and, emits the space for that that person explore those emotions, explore those courage, explore those

thoughts, explores those disorders, explore those disorders. You're like the erida has been to have to be the

pus, no? The infection has to cleaners. Well, you're you're just permitting

that's it has has to have to get. The pass number five is

verificing, verificing and reflect. Verifices if what you're you're listening and is the

same. Verify. And the pass that I agree is resist the temptation of give the time to do

that's what we're to do is subtilement to invite to a person to take even to

take a little that's a bit of the words with much careful. Okay,

first, I'm I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm that's a situation

horrible, but the question is, you think you've something to

have something there's something that you're doing to to foment this? There's

there something with you're doing that you're cooperating for that this

so said the actually, the person is not has been not has been

I would I'd be the word responsibility I'd say there there's

a part of that you're a person that is for someone that has retroalimentation

but there there's many people that you're and I'm, this is horrible,

but you have had been to this? There's a part, though, there's a little, a little, a

could be, it's more, it's more, it's more, it's not, how you, you know, okay,

okay, okay, okay, okay, shh, shh, don't pass nothing,

no, no, and the last, and the last, is, record,

to, that person, that there, that there, that's, if, if, if,

so, so, so, so, he's a little, to record that there there's a

what you could you could you do you do you there's a respect? There's a question

to make a respect to to honor to do you to do a more you could take a

decision you could ask a job professional that's the ideal could you

disconect to this person or disconnectart a little of this person honrandot

you you know you think you I think at you also you

to record us another path could say to record his value. I think

you you know you you're you're and you're and I

do it much to know to be that's going to you're there

you can you can do you and other is here I'm there

I'm that I can do you can to to to support

and if is so tell me and here I'm I'm

I'm but resist we the necessity to to say

to do you do things. And so if you think you take a pressure because you get a question because no you have the responses,

not you know, the person that's only the person that's the person who you're doing the questions, if you're

so you're you're doing? You're what? You're doing? Oh, well, and so, well, I'm in my experience personal

I'm doing I'm always trying with a professional with a with a coach of a video, with a

psychologist, with a psychiatrist of the issue or with a coach of a coach

of a medical or rehabilitation physical, mental, what he or a coach

spiritual, what I'm, I'm what I do is to pay help and I what I

have done to me. And that's what has what I have passed

to me. I don't if that that I'm not that I say, don't

you know, don't you give you give the opportunity that that person to give

me offercele. Here Oh, yeah, we've been able to be I'm going to get, I'm, I'm, I'm,

I'm sure, and if there's I'm going to do, I'm here I'm me, I'm explain, I'm, I'm sure,

that if the person always, and he's talking of the same and it's all the same place, this is going to

get to more difficult, and then there's where you'd be to start to press, a little

more the conversation to say, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm trying, this person

that's that's doing so, and I'm the I'm not the problem no is what that person does what you're doing.

Emphuged tant and Tomasa, what could you do to make this reality? And if you're just cyclades for months or years or years in the same, definitively

has a, a therapy professional. A professional in this, in this time. Or a professional medical and of a health,

a newtriologist the damage that's doing. The most of a person that is a person that's is, is a,

is farmending and is pastillando, automigando, or he's using the of the drugs, a professional,

a professional of health. And if the problem is grave-sicississim, well, obviously, a lot of a lot,

to get to get to be, let's get to this, because this person is yeah, with a

person's, or is a menendandand or that that's a level very very high, but you

recommenderia that if they're going to do, do they do they do the other

with the the what I did here was you do the new things

to make a factive for you can't manage the situation without to give

in the temptation to give advice to say you know you don't say to

the people to do it's an enormous responsibility you can

invite to make and they back and so

you can you can make you more from

from the without the episode, you have served much

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