El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 260 - Cuando ser fuerte es tu única opción - Loretta Valle

Episode Date: March 6, 2023

¿Has vivido o conoces a alguien que haya experimentado una situación de violencia? En la semana del Día Internacional de la Mujer, conoce el testimonio de Loretta Valle, una mujer fuerte y resiliente que logró tomar las riendas de su vida después de 16 años de vivir en un círculo de violencia con su ex pareja. Tu mente puede sabotearte cuando estás en una situación complicada y quieres salir de ella. Aprende a lograr que juegue a tu favor en mi clase gratis 👉: https:/marcoantonioregil.com/mente-pod Sígueme en:Telegram: marcoantonioregil.com/telegram ¿Quieres llevar del podcast a tu vida lo que aprendiste esta semana? Descarga GRATIS el ebook que te ayudará a lograrlo. Da click en marcoantonioregil.com/aprendamos  Sigue a Loretta Valle en:Instagram: @lorettavallemx    

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get to get to get to that he was to get us. As far as for $100 pesos actuales

you could they could be put you in the jubular for that you desankaras so it was a place

very So, I mean, we're talking and I'm talking about, just being a movie, me just down, just being, just down, never to see the scene, me's not being, I was trying to do a harker, but me to give to respirate what necessary, and

another time, and so, and other. That's a torture? Yeah, what I'm doing? What I'm doing? What I'm doing? A-so, what I'm doing? A lot. A lot of times is that in the world, one of three women, or has

lived a violence family, or it's a bit of our the carid America Latina and the Hispanics in the United

the numbers are more more than the problem. The circle of the problem is a very difficult,

and we just recently we're just a woman who did it after years to live this violence,

to get to do that and now he's and now he's just to give you this book that

the day that I decided be able to be this podcast, we're going to this podcast

is a podcast is a podcast very amoroso, it's going to be of a content very to be a

time to learn much. From the hotel Fiesta American via ductu airport, with our most public that's here in vivo,

ready to learn and grow. Episode 260. We'll start. The podcast of Mark Antonio Regil is a production

of RGL Entertainment and all his rights are reserved. Conductora, skritory and conferencing

international, Loretta Valle lived a terrible history of violence familiar. Atraped in a relation toxic, during 16 years,

naviged a truce of the violence physical and psychological, until a day decided to find the key of her own the new the day that I decided be free.

Today, he comes to tell us your testimony and to tell us how it's possible to get to a a new significant to your

life. Loretta Valle is in POTUS. Aplauso for a woman valiant, a woman hermosa,

a woman that has decided to give us a a little bit of a lot of a lot of

Loretta, well, welcome to the podcast. Muchism thanks for the invitation. I think this podcast will be

very sanator and very orientator for all the women and for all the women, because the issue of the violence

family with the women also is a thing that not a problem that my mom was a good, you, I'm, you know, and

it was a thing. It was a lot of is to learn in the here and in the hour. So, Loretta, thanks for being now activist. And obviously, we want to know your story,

we're going to know your story. How about all this? Empezo, the relation of nobios, you castes, did you, see this? How did it?

I was he when I was a receptionist of a house of change. My father me had said, you know, studies or you do you?

In the city of Mexico. In the city of Mexico. In the city of Mexico. And the reality, my father, like, I'm like, I'm just to say, no, no, I want to work. Because I mean,

I always me taught you know, that the women, not have your house? A bit of your carcad, a partarcade total,

and I'm from a family a very traditional, no, in where the women, we don't have to work.

Wow. So, not is that I'm, in my house, but my mom always wanted to work,

and my father and my father and my father, what you feel, no, you want to what you

want to be that, that was like the enseignance that I always had. So when I was, I was,

I was, I was, I was about, my papa, what I was I said I'm, I said, I'm saying,

that I said, I said, and my papa me said, no, no, you're going to be a carcels,

lighters, he, he had a idea, erroneous, no, of this profession, and I,

so, I, I, and I was, and I'd say, no, I'd say,

no, I'm to say that, so, So then I said, no, or studies or you? He, you're, like, oh, something, something that would give a fear. And then I said, okay, I'm gonna do. And I met to work.

And he never thought that he was to do. But it was a little bit of time. There I, well, to a man, eight years more than I, divorced. Well, that was he said in that moment, but I was in trams of divorcee in reality. Okay.

But I do you know, he said, I said, he, he said, He said exactly what I wanted to hear what I wanted to hear. And I, well, I believe absolutely all. He knowsco.

And when we make us nobios, he's made to to work to Tijuana, and, the distance, the fact,

that's like, we're all over to the cell phone, and be a phone, or a new of one of

a month that you, you know, you know, and there's a very, and all right, all you were

no, no, no, no, there rasgos of, zero, A be, there he was like, imagine

that you put us in the liquidator to put us in the but he's got in. present to everyone, but no he, he was he,

he was, he was, he was the he was he, but then I said, oh, he's a, poor-sito,

no, he said, no, he's not, and so, and then, he, know,

the family and and a day, me, me, he'd be a phone, not, he'd

be a little other way. He was, he was, he was in Tijuana, and I'm, because my

father, for I, to try, I'm, I'm, and they're, man, and they're,

like, Like, like, it's like, I'm going to be doing a other thing. And no,

no, I'm a bit of so, I'm married, and he said, I'm like, I'm going to do you,

we're going to, we've got a new vows for this, for this time. He said, I'm going to get to and thence

and thence a little to seegas, the cause, no? No, me di-a-siegas, totally,

I'm, you know, I've been, so, so, how many, so, so,

I mean, I, so, I, I have 53, and this, I mean, you had 19. Imagineate, I'm asking. I'm, I'm, I'm going to,

I don't have Facebook, no, no, no, no. A bit, no, they're in cartitas, and you had to be to get to the cartel, and you had to expect for all, no.

No, no, no, no, no, no, no, there's nothing, of these things. So, so, so you did you, say, I'm, I'm,

I said, and, I said, and, I said, I said, I said, I mean, I said, I said, I'm, I, said, I, did,

I, so, I want to casar me. So my papa put the grito in the sky. And, of a minute my mom he said,

oh, yeah, well, do you, because if no, we're going to let's go back. And like, he's got to.

Medio, me do you. So, we planed the boda. But in reality, I planned I'm

a lot. I was done. He was he was a divorce. As I'm had been done.

So I'm went to the tribunal ecclesiastic because for my papas was important

that I was important-it-so that I was in the Eccliction. For the Ecclical. So, I went to the tribunal ecclesiastic, here in the city of Mexico, and when I came, there were altairos and altairos and altairos of cases to mandator to make a Vatican.

And then I went to, the father, something I'm saying, I'm going to ask you. So I'm going to the father and I went to work with the father. And I said, I'm going to voluntary.

And me went to all the days of voluntary for that could be acceler the processos and I know

that the father when I know my interest mando the

manned the and then he could an matrimonio because

a cause for all those who are all the people who was

that he he casted to the father and that he cast

to the first he he was he was he was he was

he was he was he was never never still the matrimonial

registered between the Vatican. So, I'm cased for the church. And,

I said, I'm going to make the most family of the country, and I had I

had been married, when he he was to have been to have been in a

house of a house of change? Case of same, super common in the front of

that. He was he was the director of a house of another,

and he put it to the people to the people and the seven

seven months, still no there's a family. In the

first seven months, yeah no was the Prince Azul that I've changed.

I'm I'm I'm got to me and me they're and I'm got to

me they're I'm I'm going and you you're to get to get to get

to get of the discoteque of the moment in that's there's there's

there there there there oh video oh my oh He was not,

intros, no, and he kept to be a peolin, no, in the Thursday.

And they're in the discotheka. What's it? Passer. Pass. Pass. And I'm so, what's the

on, no? And he said, the mesa, the same. I'm like the table of the same.

And the bottle and all. And it's been a judge of the concurs of commisettas

mohado before to get to to get to come to me before. So,

so, so I so I get I said, well, here, What is what's going? So, from, since the principle,

I'm going to be things that I know, I know, but I was chava a chance. A me had been said, in the health, in the health, in the end of the death, and I was, and I said,

me, they said, and I'm, I said, and I'm, I made this, and I'm made, and I'm, but, well, the things not even,

that were, they're not too, they were very well, I'm going to I'm going to when they're accused of

this fraud. And the case of In the case of a case of a

cause they they're in a coupon and they're to put in the Pueblito of the mess,

to be that in the Kondos in the center of ratation social called the

Pueblito is a carcel and it and you seven months recently recently

you're you're what you sent you what you think you you're I'm

I'm going to be so they're so they're so so so I'm so I'm so I'm

so I'm my my papas, I told my parents and my papas my mom went to go and then my mom went to

get a boy and then I also they were to get to the carcel because they said that you know, you know,

they said that I was that they're that they're complice of the that's exactly I never I never worked

with them never in my life I was I was doing I'm doing the and the food and the house.

I was a ma'amad a man of a family yeah I was a my house. So, no.

My papa says that me try can to make in the carcelar. I don't be in the city of Mexico

I, and my mom is there and my mom to say, you're going to go to get a day,

passed a two days, and I didn't say, and I did a make a malet and I'm

doing. Because to me he said, the papa of my kids, me said, Amas, Cesar,

Martine's. And, and me said, Cesar, me said, I don't support to live this, so only,

then I'm because if I'm going to get to get to get to go. In that carcel, in that carcel, in

that moment, you could one, get to live there with the reos if one wanted. For you

they said, the Pueit of the Mesa. It was like a, it was like a city,

it was a thing, there was a all, of absolutely. If you were a family

of the sentenciated you could you could go to to live to the carcel to the public to

you know, you know, so you're you're, you know, you're, you know, you're

to make a director, and then you do you get me to pass and then then you get us

there's a house or they're cellas or they're they're they're gonna like

like kind of like like cellas, no like quartitos so

so they're not they're there and they're there barrotes for you're

quartitos chiquotos were departmentitos were at duplex the maiserones never in my life have you never even

in a movie I've seen I've seen I've seen this movie that has been this in the in the Pueblito

in the Puevito in the place yeah no no the other no no the other than it'smantellarer in the

2011 okay well so so moving to the time then you you get to you're going to

you're going to go to you're to be to to get to to get to get to get to

get to get a I'm in a minute I'm in a year I'm yeah I'm just a

little bit more when the when I said to take a carista he went to and I'm he said

and I say the little bit in the I'm saying I'm saying I'm and I'm

and I'm I think you I think I'm not I'm you're going to you and I

said you're so and then then I he he's he me, me bag, and

I was in the line, like, long, large, with all the people, it's a little bit of,

I mean, we're talking, and I'm, just doing a one more than, just being me, I'm doing a lot of me,

I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, because apart

I, I, I, I'm, I'm, so, I'm, I'm, so, I didn't,

I was, and I'm, and nothing, and what, and what, what, what, what,

what, what, the revision, not first I think I formed and the revision,

that was the first, that was very very very, that was very they're like they revising a

different in all parts for if you not you don't try's drugs. So, the revision

and then then I did the revision of all the things, I've to go to

the office of the director, and then then the director me did the pass

for that I could have to be access to where were

to you you were to able to to go out of there, I suppose.

Yes, but what you think? He's, I he said. He said I to him, to Cesar.

To your husband? Uh, the, he was my husband, he was that I'm

going to until he he was to get to not he? So he said, he was going to

get to be to be in the carse? So, so I know I know I didn't

go to get to all my stuff, I'm, I'm a malet because I

didn't get more than a balet. But I went to a maleta prepared

to get me there. Your your father did that? The family knew what

was doing? They were yeah that I'm because I was I'm sorry. I'm

and I did I did, I came the and I did it because I said that

I'm going to get to I'm going to get to. So, then I was I'm not they're

not they're not. Yeah, you yeah and I'm how you how many?

How many? How? How many? How many, how? How many, those were necessary

unfortunately, nothing more were nine months. But in that moment, you know I didn't know,

you know, you know, you're you're going to get to be you're going to you're in the carsel and

what's? Well, the life is very complicated there into, no? So my papa

not a caraka for that could we have to because if no you don't have money,

in that you're you're gonna have to do you do this title of the

maiserone in serious, or the car carifants you They'd have the title of property of your carraca.

So, so, they'd be in a property. Yes, for the power to have a techo. So if you had a dinner,

you could buy a carraca, but depending, like, it depends, like, for the way to get a little, not, chiquita, or

very great, there'd be a caracas, after duplex, but not you don't you go to imagine as like,

like, those maiserone, that were to the carcifants. That were that didn't, too, and they

they were, and they were and they're they'd have their life and their life out of

that's a oh, that's a movie. Yes, that's a movie. That's a

movie, it's a viviste a movie and not very very and what happened?

So, they're a caracca and well, to learn to live there

there there and then unfortunately we're we're two, we're

like the venado and the venad and the tiburon is that's It was dangerous. It was dangerous. It was dangerous to live there

into. So, it was a piquisle, literally. Like, for $100.00 actual, they could send you can't make. Or so, they'd pick in the jubular for that you desangrars. So, it was a place very dangerous. There was

prostitul. There was a school, bibliotheca, tienditas of viveres, no? I mean, like, like the tiendita, like the tiendita that you're going to the cornerstas. There's a restaurantcitos, there hamburgess,

of Hotogs, of Viria. And you could you contractar people in security that you protectia. The people there in front of because you were aided because

you were doing something because in reality there were those who were the maicerone and they were controlled absolutely all,

even to the concession of gas and they had also their laboratories of drugs and of all. So, so they were

there in front. When you did all this, what did you what I'm I repent? and me go and I go and I

go and I go and I that's a version of Loretta no. So that version of Loretta said in the

good and the and the duras and in the maduras too and in those that's you're you're,

you're, you're, what was, what was, what was, what was, I'm a one,

I know, I know, I know, that's a vision distortionated of the love and

that's codependency but in that moment I don't know it's but how it's been to

have been that the that the to any human would be to get us

there's a more that's the that you're in going to be going to be able to you're going to get to

get to do you. Effectively it was this I felt like that I'm literally. You're you're going to

give us in a inconditional this man I'm in the carceling in this infirm

here I'm keep to the time that's necessary and what what was? Well my papas

they put a help there there into redololol redoblors because no

They didn't that I were there I said, I don't go to get until he's not going to

and he's he's not, he's born another way, another way was he was the rena, the princessita,

the little because if no, who's he was because now I'm going to but in that moment

I said, oh, my back back my back back and then so those

people, to get to get to get to get to get to get to get

to the way? And how how they came to they're the the abogados

logos they've done and that that's the fact no, the fact,

that's, that's, okay, that fraud no, so they're not, so they're

not going to get to the nine months. Nine months after they, and they and what you say?

I'm in I don't me had done a because I was a so much I'm

so much, but I got there in the Pueble but I didn't the publicito,

but I know, I had had been hepatitis, then I had quited those

antinceptives, and I had I'm my period super irregular. So I said, well,

because the anti-conceptive those do you're so I'm my first my first

and my father and my papa was a architect, and my father in his

constructor he did he did a job to do and little

a little then there was there was he was going to get to the

media financial so so he financial, because it's very good, he, the is the Reis Midas.

What he's the time it's in gold. So, he went to have to have much, like,

he was with a sec of, the, of the, of the, I mean, I was, I was,

I got to, and I got to do it. And he got to the carsel still still,

no, in what that's, the violence? Still even, before, before, before,

before, before, when we came, and that my parents did not and that

still, it, again, again, I mean, like, good on the

one of the way, no, it's not the money, they were in the carse, he did a

little bit, he was in it, but in a while he's changed to make the financial, that was

before the year, before the year, before the time of started to change

again, and he started to get a much, every time, I'm

more, and the violence every and the time and I, but I

did all many I was, but what was the first signale.

When, when, when when when, when so I when was the first

act of the first to do it? It's that it's not a act of a lot of it. It wascaling.

It was first. First, insults. First, insults. A more,

yeah, I was, I was I was a so I'm said, so you're a, so

I'm a tell for or what or what I, I'm, me insults. First, were, first were,

me said, you're you're you're not, you're you're the only woman that says

that's the type of things, I mean, I'm manipulated. And so, who knows how me voltied

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money. And yeah, when I was born my daughter, well, you know, just started the things of the violence, psychological, very very, very very, and I

wanted 16 years. 16 years. 16 years I was I went to violence psychological.

The last years, I've had some of violence physical, but violence

physical, like a movie of terror of that he, for example, me

me, I was, I was to be to the part of the necessary,

and another and again, and that the torture. So, that's what I

did. Or, for example, me vacillab a car of of water in the car of for that I would get to

that I'm never, I gotro, to put me a eye morado and that that never. Never.

Never. Never. Never. Yeah. Patadas, or were like, asylas

or were corretisas, and then I'd trylaba and me chalabre of the pillow,

and me correted about so, and I'd had to and hauled for the passillo,

so that type of things and then I'd like the cat who he's

with the raton, no? That he he gets and he does he and then

he'll he'll let him and he and he he'll be that that's a

torture psychological. It was always when he was? No. In general it was

when he was when he was indistintinted and the last he came a moment

in that there had a sometimes that was not

It was not. No, I was, I was super preoccupied. It was infiel many times and the

repent, the things escalar and escalar and escalar and escalar until, after a day I said,

I mean, I'm menaceable with irse. But never, never, you know, you know, you got about?

Or, you said to do someone what was going? No, he said to me

a vergence. That's classic. A me me, I think because when you're

summed in the circle of the violence, you jurors that is the only that's that's that's not

that you're that's you're not, you know, you're not, you know, that's you know, that

you said, it was that you did you do you did you know, and so, I mean, you know,

I mean, I mean, I'm manipulated to a man able to that I'm able to do things

that I did you I, I'm, I'm, I'm, the pardon and promisey

that I'm to be to work to be and that never to never to do you know it's a

years and years and years and of the manipulation and when you're you're

control the mind. Totally. You're are erosion the autoestim no. You're

are doing a little to little, less, less, less, even,

until you you get a sort of they've a identity and you

know you just you just the mother the mother D,

but when I I had celotipia, I mean, the celos were enferred

and I accused of that all everyone wanted to be with the choffer, with the

scolta, with all me, I was about these things. So I'm mowed

much. I mean about 20 and I got to I'm protected with a

not, to be able to be able, to be invisible, I wanted to be invisible. I'm

getting to a restaurant, and in the other to the restaurant, I always

strategically was to look to the part of the mecero I never I'd

even even I never even to give you know I'm saying that she had I've got that you

have got to or something I'm saying to him to Cesar what I wanted to to him

to order to I'm not I'm not I'm going to I've done I don't know I've

I was doing a little a little and I'm going to I'm going I'm not going to

I'm not to be able to because I'm because me they were like the I was like the I'm like

I'm like over the bodes I'm gonna get a lot of my many more because I'm a

my bestive that I was that I was that he was a testive and that he never he was

he was only a and he was in Acapulco and a discotec me he called so I'm

always always I always living the defensive how I'm how I like I

go to make me to me going to because all time, I was my

with the guard, that was the car, that was the car, that was the whole, with the whole, the whole,

this was your carse. Exactly, no. So, me I'd had a all this ball of people,

and I'm not able to absolutely nothing without that he was a prison mental very strong.

And with the dependency in him, because he had a money, and he had didn't,

and you didn't, you know, never said, you know, never said, I'm, I'm,

I'm going to come, help them to count, the ultimate, because me

said, is that's more rar is that what you and the thing that's going to

a new she's a psychologist and he said, he said, yeah, that my

parents, like, they were starting intervene, because my papas were very

respectful in that, in that moment, a my father, he had diagnosticated

to get, then he then, then, then, he was, the last the

mentalment, we're so, so it, so, so, it was very

complicated because I sent you also I'm not I'm not my figure, I don't have

a woman, so I'm just only a person who I'm a person who me would be that you're where you're

during this time? So how you were you psychologically how you you're how you

did you? In that my kids, of my kids, well he was he was

he had to study to study to different continents but but for the

I was I was I'm I'm you're to do study out

yeah a decision decision of him, he, he, he made to a continent and a

the woman he was to another continent, to go to me, but I know I was in that moment and I had

the money to do it, but I had to pay the permission like a little so I'm not, so I

go to get around and I'd, I'd go to my kids, and I, I was the mom perfect, the spouse perfect,

the top perfect, no? The circle inmediate of people, well, is that

saw you, see a pook people, so, nobody I'm doing some of the

other people, I'm my little my little my little they're doing because I'm didn't know

because I didn't know, because they said, is that, for favor, reactiona and I

say, you're, you're saying, is that you know, I'm sorry, I was a totally,

you know, you're a codependency brutal, brutal, yeah. Like the syndrome

of Stockholm, no, that's the syndrome of Stockholm, So, vincentia cognitive,

all the addict a to get a to get a but I'm in the moment no, no, I mean

he was able and I'm so I think that that's it. No, no, if you'd

have been been there's been there. Exactly. But obviously you know know, no,

no you know, and you know, you know, you know, you think that all the

other them like you're like you're like you don't, you're that you're

that you can't you can't and for that that's Yeah, that's a person,

or at least in my case, and in the case of many other women, we'll

we're quite this sentiment, no? It's that you know, you're not, you're there, because it's

there, and you know, not it's there because you're a there, you know, you're not

you know, you know, you're not what you're going to, that's that's horrible, just to,

to, you don't, you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, you're,

you know, when you're you're you're that's easy from to say, oh,

you want to you're going to you're in obviously, no. You're the doing what you can't

do you know, and what was the thing? In what the moment the

the pain, I imagine that's that's what you the day that I

did you, the day that you're, when did you did you, or where you got you,

or what he did you do? What was? A day, I'm he's

he's, he said, he He marked, I said that yeah, that he had paid the

divorce. He had put a lawyer, he put a lawyer for that he was always a but never was

a boy and I'm a boy and I said, you know, I'm going to get to the year and it and when he

got overrachio in the morning, I know and I'm okay and I'm now I'm to get to the gorroro

now so we're going to and he marked to the abogated that he had put him he had putto,

he's And so in that moment, there were some telephones that were more grand than those of now. And, no? And me, me it was rebuttow and me it was to rune in the manner

for that I preendier that, that no, that no, that I could, I'm gonna, more than him, of him, and when I was,

when I had, he, like, against the that I was trying to do, to askixia, because I,

knew I'm going to askixir, not it was, it was, it was, it was, I, I,

and in the, in the, in the, the cub of the lus, I, yorando because I

had been to study out of study and I was I'm and he was the last year and the

chasas and the chustadisimas all they're doing this all they did you know my daughter my daughter

my daughter my daughter and they were so they were so they're all and in that moment that I saw

I see to the people to do I'm a I'm doing what I'm what I'm so what I'm

what I'm what I'm and in this moment I said I was like my my

daughter was the I'm in I'm going to I'm going to I'm going to to give to change.

I have to change. How I'm going to do? I don't have to do but I have to

do you know? And that was the moment in that I decided the divorce and I've

had passed 19 years from that day and and obviously that was the moment

but how you got because you had sequestered? with nobody. Well, the women were

for my papas because they were a one a little for my mom, because my

father was with the dementia senil. So my mom went and like,

and like he put an order, no, my mom put order, he called the

he called the policeia. And they put, they were, they did that, and then

no, yeah no he was going to come to come to the because, apart the

house, it was my house, yeah, it was my case.

Okay. The things changed in the moment in you decided now so, you know, you've seen your

your little bit in a picture, and you know like I'm like you did it really, and the moment you

started to change everything. There's a thing, it was not think that I yeah, it's just

you know me did a no, I had a time, there was a moment there was a moment's

in that I'm a man man, man, so man, so man so power, a man

a financial recognized So I said, but in what I met I? To what I met in this? And why I met in this? A moment's a summarily

complicated. But, well, I was a career of resistance. And I did a row of angels, I played with

my friends, and I offered a disculpa for having me alhado. Very linded, those me were,

and some am used. Some primas, they were with me six months to my house to

to help me, to be to be I was sitting there I was I entreaty my reed of angels bondados and

lindos. I started to retom the therapy because I had I abandoned the therapy because my psychologist

me said and me said and I just no more I didn't I didn't then I took the therapy and

I started a way of personal. And your kids? My kids in

that moment well he he was he was still maintaining out of the

country so there and so, so, so that's every way they're going to

more to be. They were in different continents, as you're a situation complicated.

Because I just was, when they were to come here, to pass the vera or the Navid or

things, so is when I was when I was been a process very dolorous. I've

paid prices altissim, altism, and the most that's that's the same. So, no,

I'm, I'm that's they're here to be the process of divorce, no. There was a judge that

had a, the patriot, but there was, the patria was I had I was, but in reality, I mean,

never, never, never, and when you're going to study out of study out, that I was

I was just yeah, I'm very content of that you were to be to be to be

with your father. And I have 13 years, a month 19 days, without

them, so, That has been the price more high that's paid for my liberty but also

now I can say that is what is what my has motivated for to be

because I did in some moment of the life I I have to teach to my

kids to the distance no I mean I have to become

in an example of a example of a man Tristan, fracasada,

that's suicide, that, I know, I know, I'm to have to be a woman

that they will be and that admiring. And that say, that's my mom.

And me I'm put up and I didn't and I didn't the

house, I made the house, I'm in a SOFipo and I did all

the money I, so I had so, I'm I'm overmohed and if

There's a moment in that I'm enoged much with the life and I said, I mean, what on? No?

So, all what I do do I'm all right. But my psychologist divina,

me still helping even though I didn't know and I started to learn many things

valiosas my psychologa and I learned what is the resiliency. I never had

heard that I never I got the the truck of the victim and I

did I did, I'm so I can't to do because I

to say, to be, how do I do? How do I do? I'm doing. And I'm good cookinging. So I'm

doing to do make a gallietas. And, well, I'm going to I'm going to the arretitit

or the pulserita and with that I'm still in those arretes in the pulceritas and the end up.

So, I used to get a to the callia, and they did the altos.

And, and, and, and, and, and, and, I'm

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I'm going to and I was to go to the center in the city of Mexico and I had with the people that

important things, I'd of alleria, I, I'd be a all, I, I'd be it,

get it, getel, yeah, and I'm pasting things and doing things, until that I

I've done to because apart I don't not have studied a and how I was I

to get you to get you to do you to get a place and I'm totally photopilation and I'm because I'm

to make to make a little clienta because they're going to go so I'm

so I'm so I'm so I'm so I'm put up a pistola a photoepiland and then

I'm I got to get to be in a little bit too time I'll work to be the encargated and the the dukeme

I started to care much and I did permit to bring to the subcursal so the

subcursal, it's the number one, to and then I got I got I was doing things that

not did before I'm paying for train to other and so so and so so I'm

so I did I want I want study. I mean, I want a title because I want to study and I want to superar. And then I said, what's doing? What is it? What is it? Because

no, I'm accansable the money still. And I said, well, I'm very well, English. So, me met I study to study a traducion. No, me doesn't know, but I wanted a big of a beka. And I studied and I'd and I'd have done. And,

then, I'd pass. And yeah, I had my title, no? And then with my first title, I said, well, well, now, now I'm going to go more, and I'm studying a little, a little, and my psychologist me helped me to study al-IFA, the Institute for the Family in Mexico, and I started to do that

personal, and I started to enter in all this world, and a little, so, a little, little, and a little, and a little, and one thing, with the other, and I began to do banquettitos, chiquitos, even, because I don't have a baguia, for more. So, but the, that I put, oh, yeah,

I put a man very elegant in my So, how's it? So, it's Loretta Valle, Banquettes Petit Gourmet.

Ah, right? And so, Sackandole a advantage to the disadvantage? Yes, and then

with, with the people, I know, I was so, I was to offer the

service personalized and I started to serve them in their houses. I'd

get to the way, I was, what you could you had to put in the

mess, I said, I'd I'd the recipe impregas for you did you

you're in you've got a lot oh, yeah, I'm then I'm and then

you're saying you're saying you're you're separable in the coo no, I say

what you did you you could you could be a, a mercos that was that was

mecerer of my father's because I'm Marcos he said no satcho I'm

and then he was me cerea while when I I I was just lava-plato. I was, I was to have you

cargapagab, I, I'd do. And I'm the fortune in that moment that one editor of a revista, go to a scene of this and says, who's irisive- this?

And then they're called on the next Monday of this revista and me they're saying that we want to be

and I'm and I say, me say, I'm saying, well, I'm, I don't know, because I don't

understand? How you can't the recipe and how's the that's. And then I, well, I do, and I'm

saying, but what you do you know, I'm like, and that's I'm sorry, and that I'm because I'm not

because I'm not a system of nutrition, but I'm doing all the everything, see, look,

yeah, get it, get it, get it, and then I'm going to get it, to do you,

to do it and I'm divina, divina, de veras that is that there are there's,

because what you do you know, what you're, I'm and I'm cancel a all,

apart me because they're going to do do a reportage because you're to get in

the revista of July. And I'm so, wow. And then so, and then he said,

what you need to you need for the flowers and I don't know, no,

I didn't know to say, and then I said, I remember that I'm I'm just, and then

he said, no, chata, del' for favor to the year to say,

I'm I'm I'm I'm all the I'm I was fascinated. And they were

an mega reportage myo, that at the hour that I said, but here I say I'm going to give to

five hundred hundred people, what I'm going to do? What I'm going to do you? What a executive?

It was the yeah, the, yeah, yeah, I was, yeah, I was the

first but with a super reportage that I said and now how I'm going to do you

know, so I'm so now I see that I'm I said, I'm going to and I said,

I'll see, I'm going to and I'm going to do you. And I'm going to start to ask you and me

and then you do the classes of the and a to do you, to say to all, and then then one of

that's that I'm, to some ex-embaugh and with those ex-embaugh the she came

super well and me he said, oh, you know, do you do those classes

of course of yes, I'm do you I said, I said, I said, I said, I said, I know, clear, clear.

And then, they started to groupitos of women, of embassers, and they're to give closas to the cuisine

Mexican, and then me started to pay super well, and I said, wow, of here I'm, no? And one thing

me left with the other, until that I'm going to be doing, I, I, I, I,

I still, I, and study, and study, and I, and I'm, I'm, I'm,

I'm, I'm, protocol and etiquette also to have authority and to be classes, no? So I studied

that's, I studied education, conduction, conduction, a situation. I studied of all what I did I was and I

focused to superar me. And then I'm going a section chiquititita of protocol and etiquette

in a programita of television. And in the effect TV in in women, women's

of success. Okay. I'm with a section of five minutes. And me evented. And then,

imagineate that, one thing, I'd say to tell you, I'm going to have after a little bit more program. And the book when came? The book, when did you? The book, it wascribier in 2011, because me caught. And then, the psychologist...

Caiced? I'm... I'm cae. I'm... I'm fractured, Tive, perone. In 9. Placast, tournillos, and other. Oh, God. Yeah. So, a little. The video me said, par. And you, did you? Do you? I'm

I know. I'm going to write a book. I said, I'm going to write. I'm a kid. I was going to write. So, I was a little, she'll get her. And they've got it. And then, then, well, it's true that they're publiced. But, well, then, well, I've got to do. Who? Who? The father of my kids. Me demand. So, yeah. And in the, but I got it. And I'm the demand, I gained, I'm all. And in the 2019,

I read, I'll publiced and I'm writing. The second part? The second part? Of the second

the story comes in the second book? Because this this just ultimately it's when I'm going to

go to see my kids. So, now, all what comes after. The depilation.

All. All. All. Let's I'm. I'm, I'm the

advantage between the rio, Lacer, and the PN, the IPL, the light pulsar, all. No, yeah,

you know, it's your story of superation. Yeah, it's been the history of superation in where, well,

now, as you know, now I'm a conductor, I'm a producer of my own, my own,

your program? Transformartte. Transformartes. Where is your program? In TV Asteca international?

Marivouos. Yes. What a yeah? Yeah, and what? Thank you. And what else?

Well, I'm an opnotarypta, I'm a coach transformational, I've created a proper methodology. This, I'm still studying, I'm doing, many things. I'm fascinated. And the 27th of October, I'mple a year of casada,

of recent casta? Yeah, so recently casta? Yeah. Wow. Wow. Yeah, and now, we know we know. Ah, no, no.

You know, you know, he said, me percied six years. Six years. Six years. And I said no.

He said no. So, I don't know. I'm very focused on my career. Because you, you know, I said,

I said, until I don't make a independent, at 100% in all, I don't want to choose a

partyha. So, first, I'm, I'm, I have to generate my economy,

my health mental, my health spiritual, my well, my best, emotional, all,

so, so, so, and so, so, so. the day that I feel

complete. That day from my completeude I'll like that. That's a great.

That's a story. It's a story. This is the story, the story, the heroina,

as well. And what me, and while you're, I mean, there are things that

are very things that is always, so you know, and capable, and the case, you've been

the way, you've been made, you've been done, had been been been

I could not you'd know that you'd know the day that you'd be the day that

you're doing and you and to not put to not put in not even to say to say

to say to the opportunities and all the everything is that you're just that you that's

a level spiritual emotional psychological psychological psychological to you you

did you and you started are two are two lives completely different

totally different This is what I did. Echle of reflectors to see into. Me, I was very to know me.

No, me came to be. Not was and I was who knew who was when I decided to know

me, then resurgie, re-nac-nac- me, me re-invented and me and I'm and I'm

know-morar a little a little of me. Oh, that's how beautiful? And what

you'd say, from this place, from this where Loretta A Loretta.

What would you say to the Loretta more young that suffered and that learned

and that did also in the version of what I knew it's in the tools that

this Loretta what you say you your love and your compassion to that

Loretta that that lived that that the movie that the

movie for 16 years. That no you don't you do you do

you're divin just that has done I've been re-significingingar my story, the power to my

inner-irited, the power of her, has been a wonderful, marvellousal. That little, that little, and I, we're imparables,

but from we're from our mind-cabes, with pieces desintegrated, desperdigated, and when I started to uner

these pieces, and I, I'm going to understand, because I what I said to my psychologist is, is that I'm the theory

the idea the theory that I'm trying the body the heart the heart so how connect the emotion

but I didn't even know what was the difference between an emotion and I know

I don't know that I don't know of these things I don't know for me

the violence were the violence were when it's so the violence is much more than it's not for me

fundamental to recover my power and then transform me I and transform my reality.

That's beautiful. And what I know if all we're we're seeing, is that the Loretta

of today be the success and valiosa and the other, no, it's one one and the

two have to exist for you for you know, I know, I know what has

been a thing has been a great in the moment in the moment in

that I said said a rato victim and that I think I think I

know that the reality is neutral I mean I'm a connotation negative no or positive

I'm I'm who so I'm so I'm so it's the life not it not it's

because to me if all this for what to me for what what I'm but what you're not

you can't you're not you know you know you to be this moment that's

wonderful that other people women, and say, who are you, if you've had you've lived that other part.

So, although it was a medicine very dolorous, you can, you can, do some way, thank you,

what you've done? You've got to there? Totally. Agradeer and understand the things,

no? I mean, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, my kids and my kids have been my my years,

my years, I'm, so, so, I, so, I'm infinitely. And if

this is they're listening, I, I, I'm, I'm I thank you, I'm

all the way has I did my ritual, I just I, I let me let me, I'm, liberate,

let me do you know, I'm deves nothing, no I'm do you know in the life, I go to

the other, I go to when you got to do I, I, it's the the auto

greatol most marvellous the past the person umas I think I think we

we're we're we're not in general and the pardoning is an auto-regal

I said I pardoned because I you know I don't have this

rencour, this and all these things that I'm not like in that they're not going to

my energy and me were getting the whole, I'm going to that I'm and for that I'm,

because I think that the things are like that they're that's that's a that's

what you're that. You know, you're saying being a mom that was a woman who

obviously, I'm moved you 20,000 things and I imagine that the

people that not being also, there's many, there's many people

that have been living violence and directly or indirectly. And at you're

impossible that no can't not be so much to hear you know, I'm

so much to be how you have you're a example of the one

is a really, and one decided be never, and decide reinvent

and transform and transform and change the story that can be

able recreat, co-crear a life completely distinct, full of felicity and of success. You know,

I know I know I'm responsible of all my life, and I am the way a life a great-

and marvellousous for and for me. And today I can't say, that, well,

for the people, we're, not it's not that we don't go to live to

an island, but I know I know I need to nobody, a person

that I need in specific, is a me myself. And I am, Mario, my

husband, I'm a Mario, but no I'm that I'm so. That's

beautiful. And that love is completely different. Exactly. Just right. Just right.

Exactly. From this position, no, of completeude, like you did you, of plenitude,

then one has the capacity to do you because I was this vowsio emotional,

from this fault. I wanted that me were to me were to me

mantubieran, because I know me didn't. So I wanted to do you want to do you know? No, I'm

maintaining solita. To do that? No, you know, to give permission to to nobody?

To nobody. I'm going and I go and I go solita what I want I'm much much too,

for power much for this because it also is so that there well, yeah, yeah,

no, but I'm you're still so, so you're so so much, so

working, Felis, going, being, doing, doing, and so, I've

made to be a woman independent. What I'm doing? What do you do you do? And that's,

obviously, Albert, you could say, wow, if she could, at the more I

could, what you would be to a woman that the that the decision

that did this program and that is right in where you're in a time in

a world where no know no, no know how how can,

and maybe that maybe think that that's going to be his life

for a same. What do you do you? Let's the reflectors to get the because

really you have all the resources to the into the to do it and so you do

because many times we think we not valemus but all the people all we're

absolutely totally both absolutely that you can't be to be

all right to all this all that you can't make a list of all the

competencies that you have and say in the way I'm going to get to get to get your

business, emotional, economic, physical, spiritual, sexual, all, you see your generator absolutely

of all because the day that's independent, that not it's easy to be it's a

question basic, but the fear is a question basic. And you say, and so with that fear

and with that emotion basic, that you put to copilot nothing more, you abientas

to your liberty. Because that the thing, the fact that the person is totally sure. So,

you're going to recover your power to a measure to you know to need to do a and the only

that will generate your your own. Because the felicity you're trying to get into. Nobody

more to do that. That beautiful. That's beautiful and I'm so I'm

what in some moment could have been seen as your debilidad it's your super power.

Yes. That's. Thank you. And what honor so great to know to know, thanks to the universe because

you brought here. Thanks to you. Thanks to you, thank you. Thank you. Thank you. You metista the heart.

No, you're sull. In fact. Thanks, thanks for exist. Thank you. Thanks for being here.

Thanks for that example. And I'll that contagies every more to many other women

Latin Americanas that have that possibility. And at the more, still no know they know. And at

after to you, they're going to say, wow, I'm I'm going to be free. Sure,

because I don't know better than another. All we are. And if I was

doing to do, whoever it can do. Thank you. Thank you. Let us an applause

with much love and admiration. Loretta. Your book is, your book this

and the are still, are still in Amazon, I imagine, in internet, in Tiendas of Libros.

In Amazon, in, in Tendas in Tendas in Tendums Digital and audio, book.

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