El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 313 - Cómo sobrevivir a un narcisista - Loretta Valle

Episode Date: March 11, 2024

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Issa Business Centers, Spacios, The Work, that you help in the success to do you and they're

in a that they're in a state of confusion in that you say, is that you know,

nobody nace being narcissism, the narcissism, the TPN is, typical phrases of narcissists

is, you're a basura, no vales nothing, you're a person inadquated, oh,

please you you're going to do you is that all that is that they are what they're

they're They're saying to you? You know, they're to project in you. The people narcissists, they're they're in

everything. Because as a actuation, then they're so they're so much time. I know didn't know who

was, I know, I know, I mean, I know, but Loretta, the mom D, Loretta, the wife

D, D. But I, like, I was a, I was sure to, what I had, to be what was

, to be my life, what's I mean, I mean, I don't have absolutely nothing. I, I, as a person that I'm going to say, that you feel you incomprehendied by the world,

that you feel you're in a situation of the which you're going to be able to get never. The dictionary says that a person that's a person that is a person that

a excess of a more time, a great admiration for me and a preoccupation excessive for their proper appearance physical,

logos, in psychology, the trastorn of the personality narcissista is a pattern duradero of grandiosity, necessity of admiration, and

a lack of empathy to the other. Although only the 1% of the population is narcissistic, the fact, it seems in all parts.

Those people who use are, you make sense important, and then they're they're going to take care of seducion and

manipulation of those persons narcissists for that we're to learn limits and not to get in

those tramps. From the Hotel Fiesta American Viaducto in the city of our courses in line.

Hello, Chicas and Chicos, how are? We're ready. We're goings. Episode 313. The Mark, Antonio Regis, is a production

of RGEL Entertainment, and all his their rights are reserved. Conductora, escriter, and conferencing, Loretta Valle

lived a terrible story of violence narcissista. Atraped in a relation with a marciista at the 20 years

of age, naviged over the violence during 16 years, until that one day decided to look

the life of their own own their experience is in

the book the day that I think I'm a first to be a new to say it's

a podcast, how is possible to say it's I've heard of the history of this podcast. So, so I'm so I'm gladysk. And not it's casuality,

because you've so you've got to your question and us contests that many people, because not only the people that people, but all the

reproductions of the segments of the podcast, the quantity of people that have said, I'm going to say, to listen to Loretta,

me, makes to understand that I'm the real, or the rarer, and me has given value to return my

I imagine that you have even a quantity of enormous of the great amount of many of

infinity saying to just about this of me do you know that not I'm not I'm

not so that's a sense that's a when you only me so so they say in this

and they say that the episode has changed the life that has transformed that has

transformed that they're actually that we're that's that's the that's that's

that's the part most impactant of the thing to to try with

a narcissist that is, let us now we're now we're about, we're going to know about

you've been a narcissist so all the story that you're talking is the thing of a narcissist.

And obviously now you're expert because you're expert. So the podcast of today is

that's to try to understand, understand, and you're to know, protect

to, see the the bandera rojas the, the, the things,

because is incredible how when you're in a medium of a relation with a

narcissist, if you not has received the education adequate, that not you're in the school

or in your house, you know you're you're you know you know about you

know, that you don't know, that you were not, you're you're saying that you

were the cause and that you're the cause. Effectively because you're they're in

they're in a state of confusion in the you're in you're saying, is that you

are all the things and you pides one and other once, and you another way,

and then you're in this cycle of the abuser narcissistic, no, that is a spiral that

you're going to a verno. But you know what is the the clave of all this

that not just to get a verno, you have the cuerns of the lun.

So, as it just as the cures of the lunas, it's the moment

in the you you don't you get to get to you'll

you go to come to you effective. No there's sufficient

information that we give in the schools, in the house, in the other,

we can we can distinguish these people. And I would be to say

that you, not just the 1% of the population has TPN, no?

What is when you have seen that a narcissist to a therapy?

These are the are the statistics reales? Yes. But in the

real, I ventura to say to that's to population has

some rasco narcissistic. Rasgo. And that's what we're to talk today.

What are the rascisists? And how, if not you do you do you do you know, it's

you can transform on this that's the personality narcissistic that's the narcissism extreme, the with

the you've been I guessed with a psychopate integrated. But all those

the psychopaths are narcissists, but not all those narcissists are psychopaths, no? The TPN is a diagnostic clinical, that has a child, and, also, has to be present the person to do that make a diagnostic. And today, with much, we're going to talk to talk about the rascists, that's a mere description.

Yes, because we can't have, in a little moment of your life, in our life, in some age, for example, the adolescents, is a certain narcissism, is common, no? I know, that I don't know, I don't know, I don't have children, but

I have children and the children of my and there's an end up and there's a time in the maybe I'm in

I don't know I'm a question, no, of those between the 13, 14 years, 17 years

that seems that they're doing a do you're a little and they like, all they're

all this and they're in the person, they're in cellular and when they're to get to

I'm not I'm not you know you know you know you know you know you know

you know those are those are racists. That's not to have a

trastorn of personality narcissists. They're things different. Rasgos versus a trastorn a, a

pathology. And the pathology is. And the pathology is described in the DSM-5 and it conveysn't

nine characteristics. The DSM-5, for here I have put it put out, but what is? Well, well, it's

this book in where all the psychologists and the psychologists are based to do the diagnostics

clinical. Where you the characteristics. Exactly. The description of the Tristone, because

not is a infirmad is a a a personality. It's a personality.

That really this a problem is a low autoestim. If we put it in

words colloquiales, it's a bad autoestima a a past

to you think a kind of an autoestim super elevated. No.

No. More well, it has an autoestim very bad,

but project certain things in the in front. Sure. So, this is

a diagnostic clinical, the TPN, but we'll be the rasges of the

personality narcissistic that's a same thing. It's like if I you say you you're like you're

not, Marko Antonio is a person very bondadoos it's a description. It's a

characteristic, it's a rasker. So, so we can't about the rasgos

that present them and obviously in these there's there's there's there's

there not it not present to the more particular with a particular

present to a number 10 no. And also. there are sub-typologies. Not is the

not the same a narcissist maligno than a narcissist grandioso or that a community or that you can't.

Well, you know, I want to you know, I'm going to ask you. That's not that's not

that you're that's, is that obviously you did you to do you to do you to do

to do you know to do you have been you're a expert in the theme of the

thing of that's that's that's that's Well, I didn't even know that existed this, no.

I, when I was, I never had heard I, I was the narcissism and that's the psychopaths and less integrated.

So, I said, what is this? When me my psychologist, the first time me, I was, I said, I don't,

or so, not a person. I mean, I don't know, I got to watch in the theme. And I took you to

put to study, and I had to put me to investigate absolutely everything, and I to get a

to the A, the A, like in an expert to I to I can't understand what I have been

to be and not repeat these patterns destructive because if it's certain that

these people are the people, are they're their people, they're they're

and all if I would have known what I know, I had I

had I had in the reds of this person so so there

there there there and the point of you have

been you've been in your passion in to help the

other people. This phrase that repit very often that's my

is the philosophy budist of the convert the vener in medicine

or to be a alchemist at the final of the day. This is

a vener but you Loretta you you transform in medicine

for you for the other to your transformation personal not not only

not only to not not to learn to understand to

not to be to that that that force, to

share it to share the more you know, you're sure you to know to get to get. That's right. Totally.

I'm in so I'm going to talk about in detail of all this because also the other ganchito that's the that's the

thing. A narcissist does casting. Sure. He's casting. Because there to be. Wow.

So, you know, to look at a, where's my victim. Yes. Because what

is that the narcissist or the narcissist because there men and women,

but question just a semantics, we're to say, the narcissistic, but also

there's a question, there's there's, but also there's for question cultural.

For that's because, nobody nacee being a statistic, not me surprise,

or the sex, the toxic, exactly. Exactly. Exactly. A bit, nobody

nase being a narcissistic. The narcissism the TPN is a designroja and there

two questions fundamental for those those you are going to the number one is,

all we know we know we know we but if to that you put a type

of a basically that you have a much negligence or that there's overprotection because the

overprotection we have normalized but the overprotection is abuser in reality is the

caldo of a cultivable perfect to create and create people narcissists so

then now being being clear this that nobody nace

being nace not the narcissists if eligen a victim's

the narcissist is going to find in the person to make a question to any of any kind of

a little to escalar socially a little a profit sexual, a problem

a so I I'm I'm going to get a benefit to you

do you are so so are relations are so

so so so I alfate those wheyes as as

the predator social and then I do of what is your

vacuio, of what is your impromat, of what you need, and I'm convictor in what you want that I'm convict, to make to make, no? I mean, I do,

I'm, I'm, I'm going to do what you want to you want to do you. I'm going to tell the rio. And I'm, and if your

self-esteem is, I'm back, then I'm I'm going to see the love of my life or the chief of my

life or the friend of my life. but it's it's for it's to it's for it's

for a sure for sure for sure for example I'm sure I'm so I'm

so much I'm like a like a like you like you not just not just

it's in relations romantics this you can you can't in the family

the father the mom the he elico I so

any person can you can't you can't you

so so I I'm I'm I'm my victim to depredar,

to be devaluar and to be something I narcissistic to live, that's the supplement narcissistic. The supplement

narcissistic? So, so, so, so, so, like a supplement, something, something,

something, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, because as I don't know,

I'm, like, I don't me want, in reality, in the fund, as I,

I don't, I'm, I'm, I'm not, I'm so, so I'm so,

I need to project to project all what my the other person. And for that typical phrases

of narcissists is, you're a basura, no, you're a person inadequta. Oh, for favor,

you're going to do you is that they think they're to they're they're to do you. They're

to do they, they're they, they're to devaluer and at through devaluart to devaluart

to you, they're there's a cycle, that's the cycle of the

abuse a narcissist that the first phase is the step of the love bombing, the seducion of the alune in mil, of the bombardo amoros. And are incantators?

Divinous. Divinous. Now, so, you know, you do need to, you know, because they're in conquist in campaign?

Yes. Like a political in campaign. Teddy, you promise, in all the things that you want, that you're going, they're going to,

they're going to be in the person that you want to be just the, and for that's they're saying,

no? You're, you're, you're, you're, with this person, with this narcissistic and say,

and tell me, and it's that's super interested in you, when in reality you're studying, when in reality

you're doing a radiographia and is, so, metiending to you, being, what you

you know, that you want, what are your questions, what are your are your questions?

So, so, for that they can they're not put them put down but this

phase of the bombardo amoros no, it his genuine interest, not to be that marty,

not are genuinely interested in you. It's not just, damme the, actuation, is give me the information for to make you,

or live. And they're almost like, mentally, upunting and reenando the casillas and for example, that you say,

you know, if you say, to me, to me fascin to do exercise, and I'm super sedentary, to me,

I mean, I had created to do do you, I'm sure, because at the more you can make

you can't get in this the way that I want to be oh, that's a great,

Loretta you're like to do do that's a lot of you're doing, you know, it's a

thing, it's a lot of a lot of your own that's a so I'm I'm, I'm, I'm,

I'm, I'm the little bit I'm never encountered who I'm never seen me,

I'm gonna give me to beganes together, let me, let's see me let's, no,

Mentira! Yes, yes, is an example so, so, so, so,

so, And how we're doing who genuinely is that interested in us and who who's

you're taking nothing more information? I mean's to take with the antennas very altas. Yeah.

Here, a bit, here a clave is this. The person narcissists are they are in

rapidly. They're they're so much because as a actuation so that then they're

so they're so much time. Yes, because not are

people people generous no. No. No, not are interested in you genuinely

in the moment. Of course, no, I don't know they're about, you're what they're

in the information to put to get to be to the next phase. And the phase number one is this

of the love bombing in general no durer more more than eight sevens. How's called the bombarding or love

bombing. It's like bombarding of a more. Bombard. So, because it's a phase

super intense. It's the typical of Hollywood, no? Or the quote of Disney,

in where the princess, no? Flores I'm going to be acerathe me. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Many women, it's fascina that they're conquisting. For the culture that we have. And they're facilitated. Yes.

Now, no is the same, the Eapap of Seduction Love Bombing or Bombard of Amoroso, with a narcissist grandioso, that with one maligno,

that with a narcissist occult, with a non-communitarian. A bit, no. Desposito. Yes. The grandioso, well,

grandessa. Exactly. I'm exactly. But, but Gaston, the beston, the best of the bea and the bestia. Just.

So, you know, that's Gaston. Gaston, no, that's, that's, that's, but that's,

it's like, but it's very, because it's so obvious that is in English says, full of yourself,

you're full of yourself, no, that's, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm so, that's so that's so

no, but, but, you know, it's more, it's more, if, if we could We need to do we need to say

is, I'm the sure. I'm the best. I'm the best. So, so is the song of the be and the bestia. Dice.

Nobody nobody, he comes as a gaston, nobody rupta like gaston. Is what he says the the song. It's a narcissist

grandios. Exactly. Perfect. Yeah. Okay. When they're a gaston, okay. Awas,

that's a fast. Because that that's, because that's, the super arreglors of roses, of 120 roses, no?

I go to the possibility economic, but like, so like all in grandios. Demasiod

with the connotation negative that has like that's like the in the, in the,

in the, in the, how's the some of the 50 or 50? 50. 50. Yeah,

that got a and he doesn't, that's malign. That is maligno. That's the carre the

car, and he's he's a but that is maligno. But that's the difference of the narcissist

grandios to malignant. The maligno has the grandioso, but with a grader of mal, of maldard. So, is cruel.

It's cruel. No, he was a, that you said, exactly. And no, he was important in reality,

to who was the people, I mean, the malignos generally, they're puttos like very very good,

so, because I'm right, no me quito. And if you're lastime in the middle of the

way, no, I want, I want, I'm going for that, so, has the

same too the grandiosity the level of grandiosity the level of validation the bad self-estimed

the low-of-estimed the back the back the impact they're in the same this time

this admiration but with a baddard of maldath no of maldath so they're they're they're

they're so they're facilitation, enganying with facility, can robar,

can make certain things to be in where they're in the where they're in the places,

they're in quite, the grandios, and the maligno, but the difference, I mean,

yeah, we're that we're the 50 Sombrates of Gray, and Gaston, well,

Gaston is maybe stupid. Yes. Because no is intelligent, of the actually, and he's

really is a hard, it's like the machete, like the alpha, no?

And Christian is is intelligent is an strategist is an entrepreneur is good with the money is strategic has a tactic

Yeah, plan it the things know, the things, you know, that is like the difference

that is much more dangerous that is the most that is the most so of the most kind of

the four types basic is the most so the so the so the so the this malignant

could be very very but the malignant is like what are your those are your fears fears to become

after your worst pesidia. What are your major debilities? At the maybe,

for example, if, if, if, olfatea that you want to you want to

you know, then you know, that is your major dream and for there to be

going to say that so, and in the moment that has that has that has

got to control to control the the of the of the that

what you to be to be in the that you do you say, the part is the difference

between a psychopata and a narcissist malignant because me you're and what is

the difference not? Also, not the bad the bad

no, he does feel a no he doesn't no seem remorting of

any of any any type and and does the things

for mald so the psychopata is the does what has what

has to do you have to do it has to do it. It's no he

important, have destroyed, what he's and the narcissistic maligno could be able to

give to a little remordim like a little, did he a little remordim

but then this is my objective and let's go that is the difference between

one and other. I'm I'm want to I'm going to do

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hello, and now continue we're going to the podcast. So the psychopata is the third type. Of the four that we're talking. No. The psychopata is in other cajita. That's in other cage. That is in other cage.

Okay, then we'll be two. Yes. The community. The communitario is the typical that's the selfie in the to tremor to put it on the

social and it's always I'm doing I'm doing or is the first, but it has to presume

or has to presume that's doing to present and also and also the other, or it's a or

it's all all so all all, all, all, all, it's all a lot of

so much see how they're so sure, but in reality not want to help

to the people, what he is the recognition a way

that the people say the people are the people I'm very I'm very good,

I'm sacrifice for all you're doing being good. And for

the one. That's the other way. That's the community. The community. The

grandios the maligno and the community. The grandios I'm

the more. The maligno I'm the more more and the more intelligent.

The two together. The community I'm the most little and the most good of the world. I'm good. I'm good.

I'm good. And for ultimate, the occult. The occult, that is the covert narcissist, this narcissist is the most difficult obviously to detectar.

This, so phrase would, I live in a valley of the lachrymas. The world is incusto and nobody me entient. The professionals

of the health even can get to confundir it with that has depression. A profession. professional of the health can be

confused by a narcissist occult? Yes. For any, if no has the pericia

necessary to know exactly how they are the narcissists. Incluso, for example, parages,

when they're a therapy in a pair in a psychologist, whether the victimize to the

victimize a victim because manipula the information the narcissist. It's difficult to detectar.

So, so, so it has the victim. Yes, sure. I,

poor-site and is that, she's a bad a on. Or he's a bad aond. And I'm,

or they're called call because they're very strategical too. So, here the

supplement is that you have to have to have to have to have a lot of a

little bit saying yes, my amos, what the is that nobody

you know, or your jefe is super mala-onda you have to be empathic

with these people to they're in conti you have to be

empathic with this of the victimism they're a lot of life of the life of the

life now, how know, how does a professional of the public and that's

a narcissist, and they're them to medicate, and they don't they don't they they're in the

disforia, and they're in this state of a vision of the world is an injustice, but in reality

it's that's it's that they're they're in this So as you You can't imagine

The Cita With these four Typologies Well, it's different Because if you You go to a community A lot more You're going to

To get to the alberge of the children Is, no? That's easy Is it Caird, oh, Well, if I don't

I'll go to anyone, I'm less after this platy No, oh, hey, no, if you're to say,

because of Oh, oh, No. No. Because, you're an actuation.

Acquirtate that's an actuation. We're going, I'm going to go, ah, ah, oh.

No, because, oh, because it has the action has sustained with the time.

It's the how you know, how you're how you do you know, you're just, and the four

have in common, that's temporal, is cortito. All, is temporal. So, the time,

the time is the same, the same approximately. No, they can't Fing in more than two

seven. How you do you do you do? How you going to get to be

a lot when it's a person, nothing more in know, in know to share your life,

oh, alert, no? Alerta foco rojo. Also, if then then, if then

then you want to present to the family ohho alerta because the person sanas

us we're we're And we're despicito. And we we're doing we're doing. We're

careful with the information that we're doing. And you have the doors. Because,

you know, that what is you're to get you here, super-seuro or secure. So,

so, my reigning, I'll go to get a yeah. They're in to get to get to

with you to get to continue, that's their people, they're they're not

so much time the time the action. It's in the victims, always they say they've suffered

much, they're really, they're very bad of the ex-pareja, they're saying that was a a brujo,

a brook or or what say, they're they're, they're they're, they've

always, they've been infancies, the, the, you say, is that, poor-sit,

his mom, his papa, a me me, he said, that's a infancy had had been a

little, you know, you have to have to have to you, because if in the

first the second site, in the second site, in the third site, all is of your

life, is a drama, or all is exaggerated. Because also the

exits those exager them. I'm after me divorced of the first of

the first psychopata I, a second person, a narcissist a grandiose well,

with a gaston. I'm with a gaston. And this gaston? No, well,

me I said that was a super abogado, me about of things

grandiosas and And I every every that I said oh, I want to

know your despatche you're they're doing it's a he's he's never me

never in the life in the life me quissue so you have to try to find some

because apart the the target that that said that was with a

with a so I like I didn't I'm not I didn't I

say I like if like if so I have to like if there's that's

are certain. And if you and you, you know, not the narcissist, but the other person, the probable victim of the narcissist, and it's aucentia and it's more easy that it's more easy to fall as because if you're a-a-a-remosa and that you

you're saying, Loretta, how-a-court you, well, thanks. But you know, but you know, but if no. So, I mean, and what more? no? Or so, because I

want to you do you certain things for I love my autoestim a through you. If you do

say, I'm a beautiful I'm really a valiant, God me a life, the life

is full opportunities and you you say that you do you do that you know,

then you don't you're you're in can't you know

I'm like I do I'm I'm so I'm like

Microondas. I'm like an ovens defectuoso that I'm regressorough because I'm not so I'm going to and I'm, you know, I'm going to go

redondita because the other I'm going to be going to be a person that I want to hear that I need to hear that I need

to make to make me myself, not for to think that's important so you know you,

know, you know, and you're having a more and practice and know and know to be

sanar and start and start you with you with you before to go to connect with

someone if you don't you're in you're doing doing the other doing the casting

for a victim and you here's like the first, I'm like the primary

I'm a master you you so so yeah when

one when a person knows when a person yeah he's

in first you first not you not not you not not you

not you're you present someone you're you not you

don't you not you're If if it's good but if not,

but if not, because you have got to create a life a life and you

have been in your provider as a person of all, of your health sexual,

physical, physical, physical, physical, mental, economic, everything because apart

I always I say, the the person, the person, then when you yeah, well,

the, the, the, the person, when you you got,

you convertiste in your provider as a person of everything, you need to you know,

and from this position of complete you, then if somebody you allah, or if someone

you say something you're receiving with gratitude. No, much much thanks, yes, but not, but

not you're so, and what more, and then and then, oh, oh, thank you.

No? No. And you you're so, and you're then you to put

to get the things that this person she wants, yeah, yeah, she wants to , you know,

we want to , we're going to , we're , you know, Because how many people we're sent to a list of

of what is a lot of a person, no, and that you put that's exigente and that's,

yes, or if these these qualities, it has been to have to do you, because if you

want, you want, a person a person a person responsible, and in the first date,

is that was that not was responsible, that no is a second way, because you

want to make you one and other that person is for you, when your instinct

to that says that no is for you. And, these relations are like, like, like, hypnoticas.

So, you're in an state in where, like the, like the of the serpients,

no? Because as they're saying, what you want to, they're like,

they're, they're that's, that you want to, then, you're, and then,

you're, to the chapter number two, to the phase number two, that is the that they're that they

the evaluation, that's in where they they invalid, you're humiliate, they're sobbing, they confunded,

you're manipulan, and she, these people gozs on this etap. They're in this type.

A person narcissistic needs to live in the conflict, needs a pleit, needs to

devastate, need to achurrartes suction the autoestim, quebrant your

voluntar for that they're being. But for this you can dulcetos,

no? They're periods short of a recompensate or other over a little

little bomb of a morose but well the intensity that is going to more back more,

so you trapas that you engachas other and you get to and then

it's something that something something you know that you you say but you

don't is a bad person, is that is that me he has to make

to make Or, how well we pass us in the voyage that we went. Or, oh, is that me I'm the person most important of your life, or that's going to or that's a

thing, does something, does something, and then you get to enganchar and you're going to engage, and you're going to

be a devaluation can be a decade, because while you're you're going to you're in this game perverso,

there will be because you you're still doing the supplement. It's what you

was the episode in the episode where you tell you say, pardon, pardon,

pardon, if he's he's I'm, I'm, I'm going to and you and you

can't be you're in you're in a little time, but that's for you know, for you're

exactly, they're going and when they're they're going to get to they're and they're

a little and here there's for that this cycle no? The disonance

cognitive, that is that my Cerebrough no can't have two two ideas contrarious

at the same time. I don't say I'm want to get a but I'm

not quite to have my mind has to let's let's one of the

and the and the unculation for trauma in where I I

do my back that this recompens this effect

intermittent it. It's like an effect of the

like the machinitas of the adicto the ludopata

is the Recompense. Never you know when will get. Never never says

what's going to be a very going to know how it's exactly. But you're there. And you're

a merit, yeah, I'merito, yeah, merito. And even they put in seven, seven. And the

Cachito, the second yeah, I can't. So, that's the relationship to a person

narcissistic, a the second, yeah, no. And you're this provadita of

the 7, and cachito for that you're there's addict. These relations are

addictida. These relations to get to even even to even to do

even how is the narcissistic of what is the person because someone

could be cruel terrible, pessimism could be a person completely inconsient

that no know what does. We know what is doing physically but

no he's not, I don't know, no, I don't know,

I'm not the person. No know that's using no

is that is the, the that's so the that's a

normal, and he's that's not the way, he's doing what's doing, and he

has got to and he regosyga with that the narcissist knows. The narcissist says.

The narcissist doesn't, and the thing is, he's not more, what he wants, no?

No, he doesn't, he doesn't, he's conscious of what is doing? It's a person perverso

that's a that's doing, and he is doing of the and no any a

no, a no, no, an repentimenting nothing. Ligerro

and, oh, it depends of the spectro and the typeology, depends

of that but in general, if we don't, the response is, no,

if they're doing what they're doing, and they're going to be going to

go. Oh, but they're they're to think they are

they're super very are the good are manipulators, are very

convincing and, and, and they're they're all right, to find out of, see? Example, no?

If I'm a lot of I'm not sure I'm able to alienar with your family and your family will

think that I am the most little, the most good and when when it has seen the door,

then I don't know you know, you know, you know, even even your woman,

he said, but you're the you are the you're the is the you know,

imagineate nothing more. And even your brother, then then to your mother, then you know, and when you

go to your mother, you say, how you think is super-linder? Because I do you actu with your

woman. So I'm presento like the little, the good and so then your person,

you say, for favor give you give you is that, is that it was not,

it was a question. So, so the so the so the also can't in

the try and they're doing, so are, so are, so are

They're allies, but without that are allies. And so so they're so they're so they're the phase

of the confusion that you live. And I can't destroy more. And for that I

know to to be to get, that you don't you're not because I'm going

to make that you are going to think you is a confusion the victim enormous

when he is a time when he is the type of the relationship.

because, because, the bombardo of the confusion comes and the whole partes. And I'm

presento like super-linder all the world, so all the world is very little. Oh,

no, that's a no, and nobody you think. And it doesn't that a person

of your confidence and that you consideres that's a person a person sabia,

you're you're you're so you're so you can't you know, you know,

you know, you can't you're that you see, here is, and you can't

you come you emails, you're the photo. Of course we've we're

we're a lot. If you you're doing to come to prove then you're

this phase of the gas lighting of the manipulation and your your your chief or your

who's you're you're you're you're you're you're they're

they're so they didn't you know you're you're you're that I'm

you you're going to pass for this, you got to get to get to

get to get to get to get to a little? Yes. Even my my mom, I mean,

my mama, I mean, my mama, my hita, but if it's very little. Oh, my little,

no? Or so, because, well, the seducia, he said, to say, to my

mom, Cesar, he said, is that I would have to have a mama like you.

And my mom and my man, so my mom, Cesar, olio the of my mom,

the vowsio of my mom, in where my mom, I'm more of the man, I'm he was in his son,

and my mom even he said, my mom, so, he said, I'm doing my mom, by the way that my

mama had that my mom and they're in the way, and then with the prima, with the woman, with the

woman, and the whole world, you're you're sure, you're a favor of that person, and in your

contra. And then your doubts and you say, but is that all the people me say

this, the one is the way, you, then you enter in an auto-gast lighting.

You, you do sabotageas. You you do you do you have to justify

with the dissonance cognitive to say, no, well, well, is that

not the person, is that is that you to justify to the relation

in the that you do you do and when you do the cost

you then you can you You can't evenculas more. So it's a cycle very addictive, very enfermo,

in the which you you know know what you know what you're the reality, what is the fantasy and how to get it?

For that is so great to judge without, since it's even to understand. Because from

you're from you're not so you're, how can't you see from the way you see from that person

is doing, no says that person is going to a confusion where is a I'm going

going to go and no it's real and that's real and that's that's really that's a easy to be

so you're so you don't you know you're there's a thing that's horrible because you

don't know you're not going to you're doing more the problem with your with your

with your and you know and you know you know that's that every there's

more than more than the type of we're always we've normalized more because

today for example with the with the Reds social before a narcissist

the hotel was to do it's a physical physically. No? So, with the family

in the job, where you're but you need to know the person for to give them

and that they give them a supplement narcissistic or have more facilitators to their

but the social are they're created to foment this. The like, the share,

how many, how many the other? And it's something that's something is that's something

is that if we know we know we can't use, then we can't in this. And now the narcissists then they're an fountable of a supplement

narcissistic. Yes. Do you? You think it's too hard to get your dreams? You know,

you know, you're not taking the control of your potential? If it's so, it's possible that your dialogue internal,

is saying, the boceita in your head, you're doing I'm Mark Antonio Regil and I'm

invite you to invite you to change the story that your mind to tell you are to get to get

to get to my time. I'm more to be 25 years of the career of my years and

you've done to do this people to make the people. You can be one of these

person. Inscribetter the master class gratuit, discover if your mind is your

friend or is your enemy. The three passes to your questions even if

you think you think you can't do you know the first to create the And we'll

see here the statistics that approximately the 1% of the population has this trastron. So,

the extreme, the trastron of personality narcissistic, the extreme. But a percentage much

more more more than the extreme, but has a good dose of this. That's totally.

Because as you think, you think a narcissist is going to go to go to the psychologist,

a or with the psychiatrist. A less of that has conditioned the relationship.

If you go to therapy, then I'm divorce. There is where there's when they're in a therapy.

But no, not the therapy is contraindicated. Because then the therapist, the psychologist, or the

psychiatrist, he can give mehast better to better than better than the person. And he will try to

make a more than he's going to act to do that is that the case.

That's the person is that's actually deliberately and that no has put on

in giving to do you a man's, it's a very bad what he's doing. To use all you're doing

to do you to talk about that you're to do that person? He's going to be to do it, he'll

be to do what you're what you're doing, what's a person, he's going to do you,

I'm going to do you, I'm going to do you get the and when it goes. It's

another thing. When the the door is totally another other thing.

And the problem is that there are many people there are in the series in the television and

we've been normalized and even are desirable. For example Doctor House. Dr. House is a person personage

Narcissistic. Yes. He's creed God, no? He, he's, he's all

and they're people that want to be like you. Yeah. What percentage to be to the

people? What percentage we said that we're more women, what women,

obviously for the culture historical in that we've been in the public, to the

percentage think that are the men, the narcissists? What percentage? How many? 90%?

95%? Well, the data that we're that we're the 75% of the person.

So, there's a 25% of the person of the person every four are

men. But there's a there. There's a little. There's a chiquitin her mom that's

going to be and with a little like, this is this this isher that you're to do you

totally of the same there's if there's a question because of because to the women

you're not you guys, you're not not, no you're no you're not you're not you're

not you're noches and the women can we're we're more our emotions

is more permitted. And a characteristic of the TPN or of the rascists is that no, no, no,

no, no, they're in their emotions, you know, and that's, and that's, and that's,

a man very emphatic no is very empathic, is very vista, sociallyly. And he,

and, and, you, know, and the narcissists caresens of empathy, cognitive,

pardon, the cognitive is, I mean, I can, I'm, I'm, so,

intellectually, if you can't understand. Intellectuality. Yes. But no I can't pass to the level of the empathy that is the emotional.

No. So, no I can't feel your emotion. No, I can't your tristence. Apart, and I want to

pass to the third level, that is the compassion, that is the, yeah, I want to act. You know, I'm doing the

mind, you do the same. And this not is well seen. Because for to feel empathy and solidarized with you,

you have to be vulnerable. And as And as they're insecure, or so, they're occulted with their security,

with your personality Gaston, but are really very insecure. And for being empathic, I have to be vulnerable,

I'm to feel. So they're so they're not going to and the vulnerability is a space

marvellouso and it's just right, in where, from my point of the point of the way,

I'm, I have to be vulnerable ante you, if I want to be in amest,

or in what you do you but I have to show to show me you to feel

that you you're a remand so a pass, a space a space of a sure, to you know, to get a quote, at the

principle, to you know, to the time that I'm going to be a different, no, because the

relations are the relations are two vies. It's a balance between and to give, and get it

and they're they're they're doing, they're quit, they're getting, they're getting, until you, yeah,

more just, to terminate that time of the, of the professions in where you can't find a

many, you're, you're political, we, we're I don't know how much. Politics.

Exactly. Politicians. Mentioner a profession in that a great number of narcissists. Loretta.

Politicos, actors. What other? What other? What other? What do you? Click,ling, like,

actors, bim, bim, what more? Yeah. Medics, exactly. And,

and so, syrujanos. From, from the first of medicine. Ciruhanus. They said, right,

right, the doctor house. In medicine is a in English is the God Complex the complex, the

complex, the of God. Because I feel that they're God. Because I can help your or I'm

or I'm so I'm so I'm so I'm so you know we're talking about the syruhanos

no I'm really very little and very wonderful. The grand marvell the grand

majority are people are people but it's a person who is a person a president

a deputy, a person, a person, a or a great medical, or a grand actor, or a grand conductor of television, or whatever whatever else. Yes. No, yes.

It's what our, is what our, it's not our YouTuber or a, a grand TikTokero, a dictator, a guy. An influencer, yeah. The CEO. The president of a company. In other, there's a profession that no have said, an ambit. Let's say the ambit.

Oh, I, you know. Deportists. Let me. A little. Venga, a, a tip. Liderers religious. Right.

Right. Right. Right. Leaders religious. Yes. Because there are all the communitaries. Yes.

Yes. Psychologists. Militaries. There are. The military, says that 20% of the people in the ambitur

is the most of all, of the professions. The percentage of how many you can't. No, no. No.

No. No. No. No. No. Two of every 10. but it's a lot. It's a lot. Or, you're obvious, it's more probable

if it's coronel, no, or if it's top. Because crees in aplastando to the other. And, and, also, you know, you have a relation with a narcissist and you're based on the control. It's a relation to control, no?

So, I don't know? I mean, you're to control, and you're sometes. For that I'm sent to be right. Yeah. Is control, castigo, control, and control, castigo, control, castigo, military.

Sure. Fuf, very Very very I think they're going to start with military because

they're to start to look at you're in now. This is what you're saying, the association of

people are you know, that's the thing that's you're saying, the system of the socials, you know, that's

somethings, there's stonementals, list of the characteristics. Because here the key is to identify. The question is

I'm a a narcissist and also very very sane to ask you to ask you to be going to say. It's what I

say is that is that very complicated. If you you're not you're not a little me said

I'm not a narcissist I'm not no, no. No, because you're because you see,

is it and you and you think it's and you don't that's notisisis

you. You can some areas of opportunities but that's not narcissism. That's because then you're demonstrating empathy.

And you're going to change. And you don't want to say, I'm not going to say. I'm not. Diggum. How do you do?

How do you do? That's not. Pilar number one, a lack of empathy. That's the pillar number one. So if you want to know

if a person is narcissistic fifted how how it's how to try the the mecerer, the ballette park, to the choperer,

to all the that comes to all the people, And in situations of crisis, of stress, how is it

because then there is they can't act like, because they don't have in their emotions. So,

in a situation of crisis, for example, in a shock, no, or we're to get the avion,

or, no, I get us we're still a time, and I'm important. In a

situation that, there, not they, they know, so, if he's, he said,

of the ballet parking and if he said he was a stupid or how if it's prepotent, no? If he's he's, he needs he needs to I'm going

the other I'm a lot of this, I'm meresqu this, I'm meresquest, you know, this type of things. So if you

see that that person carece of empathy, is prepetent, the, the, the, the grandiosity and the validation

and the more, then you're to be a person narcissistic. For example, the attack or they attack in the

redes, contest or not contest. She engancha. That is a characteristic. Sure. So, so enchan,

contest, contra-attaca, it's going to do it. Because at the most can't asker a question, no?

No. But, something, you know, if the other person is easy, and says, no you're

you're going to get to getchers. Because, because, again, there's there are the regulations, just right,

not you can't not you don't explain, no justifies, no, you know, you know, to make to

your level to do you to be a person narcissistic, no? So, then you enganch?

No, you know, you know, you know you talk personal, no you know

justifications, and you back your level of expectations. Because here it's the rule,

not you're you, is that person. So, so it doesn't connect and you go?

And how you're because it's easy to it's easy to do you don't know a year

you know, you know, that when you live a relation romantic or a the more that your mom is narcissistic.

Wow. Or, or, someone, a, who you, a, a,

who am, a, you know, is a complicated, the recuperation, not,

because if he has the relationship, devastate. So, you're, you're, you're,

it's got, to do, physically, to do you do, physically, to be, to be a

narcissist? You can, you, can't, get a person, or gain, peso,

you, you, tachycardia, sudorations, you can't even attacks of panic. So, if you do

do you do, you're doing, you're doing, you're not, you know, you're in a sense of life,

you get to get to get a and then you're going to get a to get, to any,

to get, to, any, to, any, of the, the, the,

of the, the, but it's the mind, but is the mind, not

you, you you know, and then then after your emotions. And then then you know, you know,

you're just saying, no, no, Basta, Basta, Salted by this. This is

doing that's doing do that. And I'm I'm going to you, you're I'm sure,

you're nervous all the time, and you had been, they're in English, walking on eggshells,

not so, like, coming on caskars of wows, so, so, so,

so, so, so, you, and with care of, oh, I'm going to

go to say something, you know, say, you know, you're going to you're saying? Totally. Well, that's an stress

enormous. Totally. And then you live with stress sottenid. Wow. And you you know,

you know, you know, you know what you going to do? What you're to say? Right. This person

narcissistic. Because what you do you say, you're going to do you're going to do that's a characteristic of a person a narcissist?

All right. All right. They're going to talk to have the reason absolutely nothing. They always

want to have the ration. Never's going to be in a place in a relation narcissistic. You're going to

do you know, walking down to puttits, to not romper the caskareones of the and you and you're

to be a state of hypervigilance in where you're going to you're going to be always,

atent as person, to what you to do you to say, to do you to start the fury of

that person narcissistic. Because you're that's It's your fault, of them. Because

apart, you're going to they're going to think, then you're going to think that's your

your fault. And this will be to the cycle in where you're in a sense,

in a confusion, and really matter of I mean, I mean, I mean, I can,

say, that you feel you think you feel like, you're, that you feel you

that's in a situation of the that you can't not you can't come

a control coercitiv in where in this control coercitiv what they're

minimisar your life, your being, your self, so you're going abstraying of your world to

get to in their world. So as you're going suxionando and they're making you

think you think you like you you're like you you're to do with

you, that you all like you, then you're you're you can't

you can't they're they're they're they're all in the

world and then you know You know, you know, and the people say, but you're there's there because you're a lot, no, because you're

a tont or because you like, or because you like, or what you say. And no, no, it's not true, no is that no, it's that, or so, no it's, that no, you know what you're going to see what you're going to be. The thing is this. When you're with a person like, you, an, an abuser constant. No, they're, no

has to be, not there, so much moretones, evident. It's an abuse constant, constant, constant, constant, constant, constant. And this abuse constant, you make that you do you do you, making a little, little, a little, little, little, little, little, little, as to you know, this state of indefension aprendida, in where no says how reactionar, in

where you know what you know what you do, and where you reallyramente to do flojera, intent something, because you know, that all of what intends is going to be inutil and that there is, because you have to be, so. So, so. So, you know, is that I have to be here because no value. It's that I have to be here.

It's that I have to be here because aparted to be to find out of that nobody you're going to be to care like they're going to to give to

pay the attention to you. And you convinceen to convince that nothing going to be going to be able when in reality

the most marvellouso that you can never be able to be able to love to love to love to and that

never to give to give to that person because for that If you're at that attention, in where they're doing

they're devaluing, and in where they're just they're devastating, better than that nobody, that's preste attention.

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and now we're we're back we're getting to the locur

and the thing when you how you how I how it is a level

of a in the Tudor in which simply you literally no I don't want to I'm just just to just have to be just the

life is superviency because no valgo no I don't have good ideas no I don't I don't have what I can do

is here is here I'm going to think you're you think you think that you think about me be a

little vendor of phosphorus no that if I me was chable to me I would have absolutely

nothing. That I don't have many more than I'm in that relation, in where I

suffered a lot of abuse and so much because they're going to get to your mind that you

you know, you think you don't have you're you know you're not you're you're not

you're you're like you you're you're you know you're you're

not you I'm I'm I'm sorry I'm Proto. I'm I'm pered as a human.

I didn't know I was no, I know, I mean, I know, I know, I'm talking about Loretta, no, but

Loretta, the mom, D, Loretta, the wife, D. But I, like, what I wanted, what I aspired in the

life, what's were my dreams? I don't have my dreams. So, I don't have absolutely

nothing. I just was, I was, for and for he and my and my value me

to do it a travel to him and of my children. For so when I thought

if I was even in that the relation was to be dying, I felt a little my stomach, and I said,

no, for a favor, I'm going to, this, this is not this, not much, imagineate

nothing more, it's like a person that to be assassinate, implora for her life. I implorable because no

me, because for me that was my life. In what you, you, how is the

activity mental of a person that's living with a narcissist where you know you know who

you're, you just you've got to you're just you're going to to be able to be able to do you?

What is the thought you? You know, or in what you did you or in what you're doing?

In what? I'm not I'm going to do you do so much I'm I'm going to finder

I'm I'm how he will like more? How do it to do to do

to fill the chapatos that's the problem with a narcissist that's the problem with a car is a lot of the barer always will be

and when you say, oh, now is it like you know, you know, you know, it's up more and you

it's up more and then your sense of insufficiency, your sense of no, no, I'm going,

no I'm know, I'm doing more and more and more and more grand. Because never you

will be to do be very good. For more that you tryst, never you're going to

get to get a barra because they're in the they're not going to be satisfied they're sure they're more

and you do you, let's, let's, let's, do, but never you're never

you're going to get to then you always you're because that is the technique. The

technique to maintain there is never you're to be never you're

never to be to get to feel If you'd get to have to have your self-esteem of the

new, you'd be to get a to get to a mean to say a me a slavitut. So,

is, you're in a relation utilitarian, in a relation of a relation in a relation in where your aggressor

to submit and you're you're always to do you use techniques very crueles like for example the

triangulation, no? The triangulation is that the triangulation is that or they are infieles or they

They make make that they're being infieles but they they're they're comparing

always with other people to increase your sense to make your sense you try to

be more and you try to get to get a a bara but you not

you don't with your with your sense of your sense of your

lack of your lack of and they're they they're and also

they're they're they're they're they you're so you you

You go to talk to I go the law, you do the law, and then I'm more hostile, you know,

you know, and then I'm going to get to come to with the secretary, no? But you do I know, I'll know

to know that I'm going to get to come up that's, he's, that was a bit but it's a but it's a

but it's a thing, but you're an absence of an autoestime, a woman or a woman or a woman with

a woman with a woman and I'm go, but because it's then it's it does more fear

you know you're a panic you're going to get a because then then there's the arduly yeah

tiquity tiquity no and then then you're so you're so you're so you mets to

WhatsApp and be you see it's in line you to make to make

to whatever whatever and they they're they're they're they're

they're they poste the cup of the wine no here in

that the restaurant passing the so when you

you reclam to that person you say, but you're like, you're going

to do you do you're in a good, so I'm banana, and so I'm just said, I'm just

just talking about talking about not as yeah, but it's you know you you know, you know,

if no I'm just, I'm going, I'm going, or, we're going to go to this, or I'm

to get to a lot of this, but you know, because the, because no you can't say,

or in your mind, you're in a carcel, not you can't to do to do you to get,

to what you say, and as you do you know, or in many ways, of that person, yeah,

that's sexual, economic, physical, physical, physical, mental, what that's, then so, so you know,

the people, we need, we need to, three things to be able, but living in plenitude and well,

that's, a sense, of pertenance, amor, but good, love, no. Yeah, no control,

a more, no possession, love, and connection. And then they're, so they're, then they're,

they're, they're repeat you know, a place? Pertenance. Pertenesco

a place, I'm a family, I'm a family, I'm a person, a place, pertensk

in a little pertainstow to a person, I'm, of here, I'm, I'm,

know, a true, a tribe, so a true, a more. An amor. Amor.

Amor. But a good love. A good no, no, a more a more mal san or not

a more torsied. Yeah. And for ultimate, connection. Me I have

to to feel connected with you. Sure. Figate. And all the grand

organizations, call them religiouses, call me, them preseriales, sects. What you do me

do you, these three pertenesco, me amas and connect us. And these three things,

with these other things, you know, you make a parteneer, you're going to you're going to let's

start, exactly, no, then you you're not to do you have a of the friends and the family.

So if this truena, the that's you're going to you're going to the love. Sure. Supposed.

The supposed love. And also the love of your children, if there's that you're and the love

of your family, and you're going to you're going to connecter. So when you're going to you're going to be concerned

you're and for that you're sure you and even you're ruegas. But is that the sabotage

are intelligent. So, are like, like, like, a, like a, a

psychological or malignor. Because, for that you feel you get a disconnected, the disconnection

starts with you, it's like you know I'm able to sabotage- psychologically and you you're

you're that you then you think the connection comes to someone and you

can't because if you were you connected with you're with your

with your your esteema, with your love, with your talent,

with your possibilities infinite, I don't you can't amazard of a disconnection because the connection

most important is the way of the thing, with the thing with what you create, so it's a sabotage

very precise. It's a subverso, and in the first instance, if you are connected with you,

it's very difficult that you get you in this game, in this trap.

Because to the first manipulation, to the first invalidation, to the first humiliation, then you

say, thank you I'm going. Because the three that you start they're in the important

live in you. So, where do you need to or it's to come in the love more more

important? Contigued. Today, you know? Today, so I'm so I'm a real life

and I'm a relationship. Because I didn't know, because I'm sent me a completeude, then then,

well, well, well, it's, well, it's, but while that

I don't me am I am a me myself, while I not was with a

point in a person, I'm to be a to me, no? Mia of me,

I'm to be to be not I, I'm to create relations in where

I have I have a person like with my friends, for

example, no, in the moment that I started to do my,

in the moment in the I'm to be to care to

me, to to sanar my my heart, to I'm to recognize to resurgir. Then,

then I'm a good love. So I'm a connection divina with me the divinity in the way

that I think. So I'm a connection divina. I don't need that. And also this connection with me

with the universe, with God, and with the other people, that I've been in my

life. So I have all that's complete. I'm complete. You have

the pertaincy within you. You have the love into you and you

you, and you're the collection and you and then you we're doing those that we're doing the people who

we're doing other cause that's not a thing, also you know, also you live you know outside,

but here you know I'm here and then I you know I'm going to do and you know

you can't you can't distinguish who can who can give that that's genuinely

with the time because no there's, no there no bit crystal so so

so like that you know to know you know, and you see things of

of the people that you know, for example, of you me called much to do the attention,

and I know that you're a good person. The day that you said, I'm just you, and that you

did you, I said, wow. In what's up? No, in Instagram. Oh, because,

no, that you're you, you, I don't see you're you, I don't know,

I don't I thought, that I thought you that you was the moment in the

, you know, for you I'm going to I said, wow. So wow. And then we'll get us

migra-as and then a person or you're a narcissist or a person that is a person,

no does that and so those are the and those we're that we're because for me that's normal

but for why not to learn to learn to learn to learn because the relationships.

The relations are not utilitarian and I that you can't do you you can be to use

to me to use to me nothing and And, the other, every

every time I've written, me you're inmediate you know, you're a person,

you're an person who is kind of, you're good-d-o- and that's you know, because someone

could be to write, someone could be to be and the you do you do you

do, that's, that's, that's not a person, that's not an actuation. Yeah,

it's a thing, the narcissist, no, no, I mean, what in a necessity, exactly. No.

You use. You use. You know, I'm, well, we're going to, we're going to, we're going to, obviously,

to the solutions since a lot. Because here, like, the, I know, so, there's more more,

and I, I want to, you know, that you know, in the thing positive, how to get to be there,

and all, but I think here you just the most important. The necessities basic of a human are

three. If you not you don't have to be to say, the last you're

going to connectate in those three levels to the level internal, right? Yes. Datte

a more, discover and connect to it's a lot and pertenece to get into and so

you're in then you can't extender to but not you know you're not you

don't know this poor victim a someone that's that you don't know

that's that would that that would be that's that's so I'm not all

all the world will go to the relations narcissists. In the world ideal, that's the

is what we have to do. A bit of, you know, you're not, but the reality is that many people

are going to get to be because a more they're not going to get to the children, because a

more they can't work for some impediment no, I'm not a maybe is the

head, no, then they can change so they're so I'm so. So,

these five regals of the do, no, of no, don't you don't you don't know

your time, you know, back to your level to do you know, that's, that's what you don't you

don't explain absolutely nothing, no, don't you don't take personal, back at your level of,

de, of the, and, but I mean, no, you know, you know, you know,

thanks, and not you don't, thank you, that's the last time, I've said, the,

I've said, that's, you're, you're you're, you're , wants conflict.

The theme is disconnect but in this type of person a person a person malintentioned a person who knows what is not you know

not because because you never you're going to you're going to you're going to why you're going to no no no no solution

more than is disappear you without that's you're going to have to you're going to you're You know,

you know, you know, you know you're okay, you know you're going, okay,

you know, you're going, I'm going, I'm going, I'm going, then you're the five regals of order,

no, okay. No, you know, justifies, not you don't you do you

personal and your level of expectations. Okay, and so you're going, you're never,

you're going to therapy, but no you're not you're going to do that you're exactly,

for that to the to, yeah, to the for that the therapist, the psychologist or what

or what or what you can train to you and give a time to do you to get a

little over the relation and get to the most restable as your kids also. That's the

other therapy can be the may be the best maybe? No. It's the

major. It's the is the major. You have to say that you want to

you're a thing. You're to say you're narcissistic no, no,

no, no you don't confronts. No. To be repitamos we're all together. No confronts.

Never you're going to because the narcissist he likes to gain. Even, he will try to recover if he that's that's going to be.

It's going to get a little and it's it's a, pardon, is that no, disculpame, is that I'm going to change and

it's the technique. And if you you know what you know, how you know, because you did a

a lot of You know, you know, I said, you know, it's, you know, and you know, and you know,

and you know, and you know, to do that, and then you're another way, you know, and then you're to do that

and then you're in, and this is a cycle, no? Now, imagineate that you're saying, okay, yeah, I'm going to

see, I've lived, eh? Oh, I know that all we've lived, eh, topos, all, these relations of,

love, odio, no? Montagius' emotional. No, and I'm there to a couple of them. Oh,

Much. Much. Many. Vista the series of Houses of Cards? House of Cards, she? She.

She is a narcissist occulted. She is narcissistic occult. Well, but there are those two. The maligno. It's that

there's a because they're not because they're and they're They're in They're in Spanish?

In Spanish no say how it's called? In Spanish it's a Netflix, the series of that the city

that gets a Casa of Traisceres. How's How's? Casa of Traisians. It's all in the Washington.

They're out, Republican and democrat and all the and all right. And first we get a gordo of him,

because he's a non-sicist malignor. And she she'll be like a man at the assistant at the

final of the first, she said, ah. Oh yeah, but you're going to start, yeah,

and she's to get a poorse and she's a little, at the first, no, at the principle.

At the first. But then what how, what? It's narcissistic occult to her.

Because you and it's, and it and he and he starts to be there like steevittitts that's a

occult. But it's more difficult to an woman. Much more. Much more for the question cultural that we

talk about. So, you're repitient. It's retient. So, you don't know you say, because what you

do you do you know, and you're going to get to, you say, you're going to you say, I'm going to do that I'm going to

do that's no, no, you don't say that not you because when the narcissist is a question that

you just you did you know, then the relation just to turn more more hostile.

And as it's going to be a person, then it's going to put to be a victim. But as it does it's

it's not the hostility and it's like, so it's, so it's, and then it is to be to all the

family, the bad that's, I'm going to I'm going to let me do you know, I'm saying,

I'm saying that I'm going to do you go to the auntie to all right, oh, my daughter,

oh, my jita. My, my, but it's a Marquito. Yes, Marquito

very little. And you have three kids. How are, oh, Loretta, you're going to do do that, you're going to.

You're going. You're going. You're going. That's what that's going to be going to be that's going to get to be

so you're just about you're you're notas, it's important is important. If you want to

make a relationship with a narcissist or no, but does a dayrio because after you

the memory selective. No, it's that's so bad for the dissonance cognitive and

for the uniculation for trauma. So, you're in your plan, and then you're going to do

a therapy, you're doing to do that these things, knowing that that's not with a person narcissistic is

devastating. Because when you're going to get to, and he will defamar and he will say that's

the worst person and to say to do even to get to to get to cause,

to get to get prostitooies things like terrible, you're going to accuse,

to do you do that's, so that's, so? With your family, with your family, with your

to get? To do you? No, well, I was I was almost I'm not, imagineate,

nothing more. I said, I said, and where he was he, I was, I was,

I was, I said, I was that I was that I was he had got to to get a

because he me was, he had been he was, how he justificing? He said, and when

when, and when, and when, I, I, And so, and if I took the word, then I said,

I'm, I'm a little, I'm, and I'm a mariachis, and me, I'd get a money,

and I, I'd, I'd, a car, an car, a car, a car, a auto. I'd

want to give, the auto. If you're back, you go, if you're going to go. If you're a lot,

so, I, so, I, I, I, so, I, but I was, I was stupe, and what we we need to

do we're doing when we're we're a relation to do that therapy, to understand what is the dissonance cognitive.

And with a very good therapist. With a very good. And with a specialized in this. Yeah, because if

it's a not a new baton, not he will be not going to not know. No, we're going to do

this this trastorno number one for that we can we don't know of the things and

that we can't get us to the relation the less rasped and, and also

having a acceptation total, of that the things not be in. Never

you can't be your never you're going to that's a fantasy of, this fantasy of, this,

we know not super we're going to be going to be going to be going to be a alienation parental with

your children to do you want to manipulate with the money with your kids, with what you

more you know, and now so you have to be prepared as a person to be

to be a war well and knowing that you you're going to make in

a battle that at the first will be a very difficult and it

is very very dolorous but if you you not you not you are

to get you mentally because that's because that that's that

is a life is it is to survive and the

abuses and the and a torture to day

a day that is that you are Matting

all your and in the other and in the other to get a person, you can

get a victim and to be a person to be a victim, because there a difference.

The victim has the power. The supervient is the power. And this

that I porto with a great, that is the life of my liberty.

The name of your book. This this day that day that

you be able to be you want to this key, is a recordatorio permanent

of that you can't be subedited to the orders, to the those desires, to the

other, that you never in the life you will be to do a supplement of

a person a person, and that the only person that you

are you need is to you and you the vaccine? The

love the love, the autoestima the power really to recognize

you know and the being a human and the is a so you're so you're

not you know, because nobody in the life you have to have to do you do it's very

very much I'm in the pariah right now yeah I'm I'm so good

let's let us to marry so that we're so we're just we're

a applause Mario. Tipos that's that's so I'm so the so I'm

but when you You know, you know, you know, but not you can't recognize, Marco, if you don't you know, so then the better antidote is the love, but the

love proper, the love that you professes to you, the connection that you have because when you have a love proper,

no, you can't even you're going to do you're a not a first time, but like this you're going to

take your time and you go to do you go to you're going to be, so if you put example,

if a Loretta if he had presented, not to the Loretta of today, to the Loretta of the last 20 years, when you were without self-estimed, if he had presented

Mario. And Cesar, and Cesar, the Narcissist, Mario is the day, the other, the end of, the end of the one of those in front, to what would have

been, the Loretta of the before. The Loretta of Cesar. Because no, you had self-estim. Because, for so there, there are

there today that's present, good men in front, but they're a bad autoestime

and no, the absence autoestime for that not the chalabilii that says that's

the back of the selfestim or there's a lot of there's to say, to the

last I was that I'm having a autoestime he's he's he's and not

you know, I've had had a floh would have said I'm this, oh, this sir

is very very good is very very good but oh no, like you like,

like, no you're not not it Impression. No, no, because Cesar would have

yet you know, although that's with a rose but that he had cuted in reforma and that the police had been

got overteed and that had been a travestia to get over that rose no? So, things spectacular

no. The ranke to the virgin of the basilica, me sub- and the

disprended to the yattie and I'm exactly, something something so things

so spectacular things like you, the man conquistado you always

you always I always say I'll think, my my friends and families and my familyaries and women always I'm it's little and I'm,

I'm just like to me can't be and I'm always I'm always I'm sure you see, quite, with the gastones.

With the gastones. Yes, because they're to have to to get to to get to a other and then they're

to be manipular or so. Yeah. Yeah. With the with the movies of what you're to do you

a man year or with this of Jennifer Lopez of Manhattan that, I mean

to do all the other other side, pass on the same. So, the narcissist,

I think we are doing a circle very interesting. Diggum if I'm going for a good way.

The narcissist has a badsim. For that he needs, according what you know, to us

to be able to a little a catasang and a vampire. But he also has a bigissime.

Okay. A man with a auto- auto-stimate, no see the necessity to conquist

a nobody because no it's a not a lot of not a person even a person even more will be more cool

will be more more tranquil yeah because no they need not you want you want to not you're not quite

not even and he's people more you know so you're always you're always so you're so you're gonna

you're gonna get like like with a product of a more genuine but you're but not you don't you

get like to get like to get to And then to that that woman that has that's a

true the time that's a kind of the can be the approximation of an man who

he's not that's that's impressionant for that I'm going to the love of Hollywood

and then then you do that he's a real, the he's that's

he's always to talk and you're to get to I'm going to get to the same we're doing?

The relations totally. The relations with those narcissists are relationships are

Intensas and And they're So, the relations Sanas not are so they're so quite

are so so like in neutral no you're going to They're doing latigasos in the back like

Entiente Entient But is that the women I'm also I'm Acquarensicist a woman

But we're talking currently Right basically basically of the person basically

But is that the woman They're to learn to learn to learn Rapid, spectacular.

Impresionate, rapid, intense, not? So, like, of a movie of

Hollywood, like, you know, so they're that that's what you're what you

you're you're a, you're a princess, then you know, to be a

your prince, to be a new, to rich a girl this, bonita.

So, so that's what you do you merces when, for favor,

is a relationship in that a movie, for example, not? Fiatte

the mentality that we had to the movie this of a woman, Richard Gere and who are

Julia Roberts. Julia Roberts. A see. Is the the story of Disney. She is

a sex servidererbored very really good. Yes, and he is a grand empresario,

no? He is a Christian Grey. The Grey. Exactly. A Gaston. Well,

no, no, but Gaston a, yeah, and the and he. And he, and he,

and he, and he, to be to be I don't I remember in New York And he's

yeah come to get a come come to come here come up chupapito no

chupapy and she's go to but the grace of her log to

see what he's he's he he doesn't and he he's he says he's going to

put and he he's I think I'm I'm to buy things

carisim etc and Fifth Avenue because New York 5th 5th Avenue

is that I don't I don't know if it was in where. No, I'm a question. The manned of the comp. The manned that they're

that's a manned that they're that's contractating for their services. The contract. But that's

in a story of love. But we have to have to with these, with these stories romantics, no?

Like you this man that's that you're that will be back on the second, the third

to the sun and the stars, the sun, certainly you're in front of a narcissist. Yeah. And start

reconfirming the stereotype. The value of the man is because it's because it's the power of

the woman is for the world of the woman's in the way of the way that's just the trap of the whole

we're trying to the silicienta be she be she blackeneves all are precious no, has a

corpazos they're a person but they they're like they're not intelligent no,

are desvalied that's the damisela how is that in the in the in peligro in peligro

in pel in power she yeah for for for and the

the cabo large, no? So, perfect. Perfect. As apart, never never they're

never perfects, like in the telvelas, no is that the protagonist always the person is

the person the hair the hair like that's like that you know, you know, the real novel that

was out of two women is a woman, that's, and was in chorsitos and a blucied and a

plusita and pittes and the state of Mexico. And nobody nobody was to help her

the poor. Oh, I'm sorry. I'm dismalied. Exactly. Exactly. We have to we need to we need to end up

this, no? Yeah, no to want to that they're to be able to to know a women real. Sure.

A home samos. But there can be a woman sanna for care a man,

because only a only a woman that's not to be an attractive to a man so.

Because then when you're when you're saying you you're not you're going to get to

get to you you're going to have to have your list of your list of your 10 or so, for the less 10, chas. And he, you're you,

you're still that you're to have your list of the 60 or so. So, so we're going being, but the things that

are negotiable. Sure, clear, those not negotiable. And soltary this is, because that's also the,

the virus of the, I don't want to say, back, autoestima, because me rega nilda chary

Chalabili. That's the, the, the absence of the, that is, if I'm a woman

that has, that has a appearance of princessa. My value is the physical. And if I don't look, princess, no.

Resposed incorrect. No, there's but the man also. If I'm a man also, if I'm

a man powerful, and buy a luxury and get you're in an helicopter private to to be the

grand canion or the gun or some miener or some can't no? If I don't have

that's the stereotype that is the as a model of Bog or like, so, the woman

is Christian Gray, or not is an an entrepreneur powerful, it's too and then we just we're jodd

us. Right? Oh, and then just they can't relate to those of the revists,

because in the world I know many people like people. Gaston with Bell just a

yeah, a friend me said, oh yeah, the models like the models like you're making

the world? Because you're those people reales, we have to be in the people

reales. And yeah, yeah, yeah, we're talking the theme of the beye and bestia,

then the monsters, don't see, in, but you know, but think that's the story of the

bella and the bestia. Exactly. A very, so, so, she enamora, of his, so, she enamored,

no? And so, she, the ensiar, she, the endri- and the invalida, is a invalida.

It's a monster. It's a monster, but she he'll look to look to

also the beauty interior. Oh, that's, the quality that they have.

I'm going to transform. All the princesses. Well, no, one has been dormied not more.

And the other not more does the other, does the other thing. So, that's the

value. That's the value, I'm not, but I'm just like, we're doing a lot of

a time of the bestia, the violence. So, the monster, if you're you're going to

get in some moment, the side good and the other and the narcissist

never you're going to to be a very going to be always to be yeah, always always will be

it's a and it's a and not a chisel no no, not it's a no, because at

apart the bestia, okay, so it's a chile and then is a human normal,

it's a man, but again, no, another other other way, the same, the same

about, here no, here no, there are there, there, there the the princeips

of the real, the bestia, I, I, No, yeah no. Oh, yeah no. Yeah,

no. Because there, not just we're refor sandsing the syndrome of Stockholm. No, and the vinculation

for trauma. But, but fickate how the be yeah, every that the bestia had a

but then he had the dinner or he had the invitation, the invitation for trauma.

You know, oh, is that is good. And the disonance cognitive. Sure,

because the cafeteria and the tacit me said that were good. The bagia

The facilitators were the tacit, the relog, the tether. Those were the facilitators. And then, then, so, and then so, and then so, and thence, and thence, they were doing gaslighting, to the poor of the bea.

So, so we need to-easers-all-as-all-as-all-a-tere-combe we're-to-sustrued for the society, for the culture, and resignificate our concept of love. Because, yeah, in the reality, the bestia,

will be going to be able to becky-a-trapped-a. not to transform and all rompens the chis and then they're not

the flowers of the garden of the there's when you get to that part

there's a parallel to the movie and that and you see that and you what are

the those are the pegations what are the pegments the

the fear, the the lastima and the lastima and the fear

the the the lastima and the the loss of the and the guilt. The fear to not to get

to get a little a person only, the fear to the person with someone

and the love with someone and the connection with the fear, to not

have to not have to be and then to not to be to be to the

better at the the experience that this is the one

or now So that's going to be able to but how times you're going to do more

second opportunities? You're in the opportunity 20 that says that's the second opportunity.

The hope you know, but it's not going to be a last time. Because as they're

in a situation of a victim, you know? You're you're not, it's that they're

they're going to get to get a, they're a, they're

a, they're something, the thing. The thing. Exactly

And that you are your foot and your life and the is the only the only the only hope nobody

for them that's not that's that's true that's that's true and the and the

and the the sense of the that you to do you to do what you want you

want to you want because you you're you're you're because you feel you

because you feel a a person the lastime is to it

to her to the to be the time you, to take a time to get a relationship,

let's make a question of a cut to put to the father to your kids, because so you think

you're not you're not you think so that's like that's are going to be infelis

or for my cause to destroy a family or for my cul of this

so, so so those pegments are those are the unen

this type of relations and you have to you can't have

these these pegments. Because the being in a day that you is a day

more for that a relation one or less for you. In the life. Wow. That's

that day more that you is a day less for you. And one more for that

relationship. And more for that relationship, but less for you, for your

life, for what you can manifest. Yes. He's to give that

that relation. That relationship that you are you're you're you're

giving your time and you are resting and you're going to resting that's the not renewable,

that we're no, it's the is the most valuable, the time is life the time is life. And the

is being, and the way it's a time, it's a time, but it's a time, but

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person. You get to unimaginable and you doves what you are you are you

a person in the life. Creas a life marvellous for and you,

you know, you're, you're to learn to experimented what is the good love, no?

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you know, you know, and the power and this amor love, this amor real, this love

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in any type of the relationship, the power to know a relationship and the can't I

think that the love, that's the more motor of the world, is the is a and that

that's a love to do you. So, it's not to need to to someone. No,

no, the, the masteria of the love of this. You know, you know, I don't see if in the

book or in a time, because I know, he knows, he knows, he knows, he knows, he's a lot of the kitchen

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to do you right right you, you're to feel the profound

love that you have to let's let's make my love.

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to the future. If you're in a place of an you of the future, that you could be saying, come here,

here, here I'm here here I'm here I'm that's the idea the entire, that you'd

tell you're your come, come to come, I'm, I'm, let me say to

something, that never I've never I've got things. I have a newneca in my a newke

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you're doing thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you

you're still you're doing conferences I think you you're even you're even more

time in your life to do you do you do you know new

book so Tell us The new book. Well, the new book. I don't know how it's

the second part of my story, until today what's the people, and then the first book

is your story and then the first book has the second part has it has different for that

the people can put them in practice and start to do you so toxic and that so much

do that so it's to turn to erramientas to what we we're justantly

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in whatever, in any, Gandhi, in any, in any my page web, there's the link and

what is your website web? www. Loretta www. Valle.com. Okay. There you can

get to the door to the house in all the world. There's time. There's and also, and then

we're going to give a notice very very beautiful of that that's the book.

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well see obviously. So, so it's going to be a good. Thank you. You,

you know, you, you know, you know? Sure, because I know from where you're

from where you are doing, so I'm with much, with much the, the book for,

for, to learn it, and for to do that prologue. Thank you. Thank you. A lot.

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know, okay, no, no, okay, here, here, here, that is linda

here. For that I'm here. For you, I'm being, I'm being, I'm being to be being,

it was to make, of that I'm I'm going to a lot of all of them. Well, O'ye,

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