El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 318 - Cómo amarse a uno mismo - Gabriel Rolón

Episode Date: April 15, 2024

¿Te cuesta trabajo quererte a ti misma o a ti mismo?¿Puedes amarte “de más”? ¿Cuáles son las consecuencias de no amarte?Según la revista Psychology Today, más del 85% de la gente en el mun...do entero tiene problemas de amor propio. Por eso, llega al podcast por primera vez, el psicoterapeuta y autor argentino, Gabriel Rolón, quien nos comparte algunos secretos para amarnos como merecemos.¿Estás dejando tus sueños para después? Te invito a mi masterclass gratuita: “Descubre tu potencial y alcanza tus sueños”. ¡Da el salto, deja de postergar y conquista lo que quieres! Regístrate aquí: marcoantonioregil.com/potencial-pod Mira el episodio en video en: https://bit.ly/episodio318 Sigue a Gabriel Rolón en: https://www.instagram.com/gabriel.rolon En mi canal de Telegram, accede a contenido e invitaciones solo para fans. Únete en: marcoantonioregil.com/telegramDescarga GRATIS nuestra revista digital y encuentra información inédita del episodio de la semana. Da click en https://marcoantonioregil.com/aprendamos *Importante: Nuestros invitados son expertos en sus temas y reflejan su conocimiento y su punto de vista, siendo conscientes de que cada una de las opiniones es totalmente personal. La información, datos, comentarios, estadísticas que se presenten en el Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil, son de exclusiva responsabilidad de quienes las emiten y no representan, necesariamente, el pensamiento de Marco Antonio Regil o de la producción del podcast.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Issa Business Centers, Spacios of Work that You help to help to do you know. I said
Starting point is 00:00:07 in the Bible that you amar to your progimo but the problem is when you do you
Starting point is 00:00:12 know you know you know when you know when you know you know that our
Starting point is 00:00:17 culture us have that has something that has something that's we're
Starting point is 00:00:22 not having no problem when we're to sacrifice for
Starting point is 00:00:25 other person for our people for our the fathers, brothers, the sacrifice,
Starting point is 00:00:30 the love is sacrifice, and it has to doleer, and when we do this it's a lot, but when it's about to me, there's
Starting point is 00:00:37 a certain a question, and to be the consequences of not know that we're not saying, we're not
Starting point is 00:00:45 a person, we have gone to be able to people to get to the other books, this is the
Starting point is 00:00:51 most new, the felicity more than the illusion. Gabriel Rollon, is today with
Starting point is 00:00:56 us on the podcast to talk of why not we don't know we don't know about us what are the consequences of not amarn us
Starting point is 00:01:03 and obviously what is the solution to this problem so if we are ready to learn together we're goings episode 318 the Mark
Starting point is 00:01:18 Antonio Regile is a production of RGL Entertainment and all his rights and all right Gabriel Rolom welcome to
Starting point is 00:01:34 welcome to how you how does thank you welcome to thank you thank you honor
Starting point is 00:01:38 to hear you in the podcast. Oye, the 85% of the people in the world, according the
Starting point is 00:01:43 book, psychology today, says that they have problems that that's affect the love and there's
Starting point is 00:01:49 a lot of consequences that can be to the consequences, even to the depression. Why is
Starting point is 00:01:55 that we're that we're that we're only to love to another person? Well, there's a
Starting point is 00:02:00 thing cultural from always, you know, you know, the sacred scriptures,
Starting point is 00:02:05 in the Bible yeah it invite to love to the other
Starting point is 00:02:10 if you is more it's you're to put a other mehia
Starting point is 00:02:15 is you know you're you the attitude noble that's put the
Starting point is 00:02:21 other mehiel to let me let me let me think how is
Starting point is 00:02:25 how it's how it's this time this thing of the self in the
Starting point is 00:02:29 world in the places and the other the and the
Starting point is 00:02:34 other to the autoestim. One of that one says, Egoism. It's a bad. It's not a feal.
Starting point is 00:02:41 We're a lot of to be able. Amar me to be a go out. But I'm and I'm
Starting point is 00:02:46 the problem. What is the problem? What is that? I go see. A certain quota of egoism is indispensable for
Starting point is 00:02:53 living the life. For sure. But, but, for example, let me, metamone
Starting point is 00:02:59 with the love a second. Asy as the word egoism has mal a preence, the
Starting point is 00:03:04 word that love inconditional has very good press. You know, I'm not, I'm not, I'm unconditional
Starting point is 00:03:11 you know, what is the what is the what is the thing? Amar inconditional you know? Because inconditional
Starting point is 00:03:19 means it means to say without any condition. So, you know, when someone does you
Starting point is 00:03:23 amas inconditionalally it, even you agree, even you agree, even you don't be
Starting point is 00:03:27 that you tryions, even you don't stay with you, even to you don't take in
Starting point is 00:03:32 the mind you equal because you're inconditional. So, look at how the words play, no, the worst that you can't pass. No, there's a limit to the inconditionality. What is? The self-esteem. That's it.
Starting point is 00:03:44 I mean, I go back. Because more to come tolear, me to start, me begins. It has to be limits. For sure. And, and, also, I'm going to say, look, the, love, the love, the love, no, is illimitado. That's another
Starting point is 00:03:58 that's established. One, no, no, no. The The love, like all in the life is an energy, in this case, an energy emotional.
Starting point is 00:04:06 And you you know a quota of love. See? Imagineate something. Imagineate that
Starting point is 00:04:11 you were this this vase and that the love and that I'm not you know
Starting point is 00:04:17 I'm profoundly. And then I'm going to my water, and I'm do I'm do you, I'm
Starting point is 00:04:23 do you know, but imagineatel no, because you are so so generous, so good, I don't,
Starting point is 00:04:28 I'm going to go to all, all, my water, and you She's in water.
Starting point is 00:04:31 Exactly. You're going to see. I'm going to get without. So, so what happens, I'm going to I'm going to
Starting point is 00:04:37 I'm a good. Because all my love, what's the person celos. I mean, I think that in Mexico
Starting point is 00:04:45 is prohibited by the and the cellos. Yeah, in Mexico, no, in the Argentina, no knows how
Starting point is 00:04:49 we're a lot of it's a problem. It's a thing. What's the thing? What's the
Starting point is 00:04:56 has been called all the other? No, guardo self-o. And then the other and he he's a
Starting point is 00:05:02 marvelous how will be how will be to be in a place? This person will go to a love to other
Starting point is 00:05:09 and he will do you know to do this. I don't have I'm not to love because I'm so how many
Starting point is 00:05:16 times we've said to someone you know you're you need to you know never
Starting point is 00:05:20 you know you're going to you know you need to make you you're to respect that
Starting point is 00:05:25 those things what we're you're you're more it's more you would say with the cruelty
Starting point is 00:05:31 of the term, be more egoist. Because the problem is to have a quote of egoism. The problem
Starting point is 00:05:37 is being totally egoista, that no you know that's or if you want,
Starting point is 00:05:43 transform that in something in something in something, but it is the egocentrism. I'm
Starting point is 00:05:51 not the same an egoist than an eg egentric what is the
Starting point is 00:05:54 difference? The egoist is that the person that imagine you
Starting point is 00:05:57 imagine you that there if we're in Argentina, I'd say, I'd say, a Miserie, a croissant. A crossand over the mesa and we're four. So, I see we're four and there's a single croissant, then before that he'll aggrisang,
Starting point is 00:06:10 I'm a little bit of an end uproista. Here's a gandallia. Gandalliast the croissant. It's a goodyce. I'm so, but that's an attitude egoist. The egocentric, agarrazzar the croissant and no If you ever
Starting point is 00:06:25 He's not that there's that there He's that's a quite. He's not so
Starting point is 00:06:29 meted in him or in it or in it. Exactly. No, exactly. No, no
Starting point is 00:06:34 exists the other world around me. For that's egocentric. No, I am the center
Starting point is 00:06:39 of the universe. My ego is the center, exactly. Exactly. So, so,
Starting point is 00:06:43 so, so, so, so, so, when, when the love
Starting point is 00:06:47 property, when the autoestima and it doesn't measure. Uh-huh. So,
Starting point is 00:06:51 so, so, exactly. what is the most lastime. No? Enferma. Imagineate,
Starting point is 00:06:59 like if I me would be a lot of me and you know to do you know, well,
Starting point is 00:07:04 it's horrible the link that's a pathology. Yes, because we know we people
Starting point is 00:07:09 like this, or is a bad person or not he does know what? Because never take
Starting point is 00:07:16 in account the necessaries of the other, always it's a he, he's a
Starting point is 00:07:19 particular. It's a patology that's a two fendos One is that that person has been
Starting point is 00:07:28 that person has has been has been has been a problem of self-estime because not you think
Starting point is 00:07:35 that the has that he has a self-estime pathological she passed back back with the
Starting point is 00:07:43 self-estime and is a problem of the self- and that is something is something
Starting point is 00:07:46 that is something that can be something that is no no no
Starting point is 00:07:50 the person human has been almost not So, they're in the infancy?
Starting point is 00:07:56 They're in the infancy. How has been the infancy? You know, you have a little,
Starting point is 00:08:00 and for example, there's, the abuela and you say, oh, that's,
Starting point is 00:08:07 you know, that I'm that you see, but so that's, but it's, yeah,
Starting point is 00:08:11 the, no, it's percius, and it, and they, and they, and they're, and they're
Starting point is 00:08:16 all the time they're they're all they're so much, because he's like he like he,
Starting point is 00:08:20 like he, so, he's, when you crias someone you're trying to someone that's creating a
Starting point is 00:08:26 really the center of the universe so they said so they're and so he's identificed with
Starting point is 00:08:33 that's so so like if you you say you say a little that's
Starting point is 00:08:38 that's that's he's going to have to a lot of self to be
Starting point is 00:08:42 being somebody in some he's not not able to be not
Starting point is 00:08:45 so so so so there so there are the those those
Starting point is 00:08:49 those One I've I've seen a patient and me I don't
Starting point is 00:08:56 know because I'm I'm in I'm can't I'm that I'm
Starting point is 00:09:01 think that it's prohibited no in Mexico it's and it sounds
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Starting point is 00:09:41 the ballsa and the mother he says you know you're you're
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Starting point is 00:09:58 moment of the woman, because she was she was about and she was she had grabbed to her to a way
Starting point is 00:10:05 that she did a way that she's about me. That me me ques only because no serve
Starting point is 00:10:11 for nothing. I'm I'm going to get solo because no I'm not because no
Starting point is 00:10:15 self-stimate zero amor self-more no work no serve for not. And then
Starting point is 00:10:19 then she was guarantee us to do you do that how? Eligient men who
Starting point is 00:10:26 not they were going to do you know they're doing all the every time that they're going to
Starting point is 00:10:31 do you know that's exactly the prophecy that's a self-couplied because she was so no sir
Starting point is 00:10:39 there's a vacill of that's a so you know that's a mind if you you think you you think you
Starting point is 00:10:46 something you say now I'm have to do have to get to verify, I have to create a reality that that can't
Starting point is 00:10:52 that's a that's a that's a thing that's your life? It's a going to be a conditioner,
Starting point is 00:10:58 to be a other. Because, you imagineate, you can't have grown in a house where
Starting point is 00:11:05 your parents were not. And you can't identify you with this and be an man
Starting point is 00:11:11 that in his relations of love when you are the relationships where you trytas
Starting point is 00:11:16 mal, with indifference with delalat but also can be someone who reaction
Starting point is 00:11:22 against this and says, I don't want the same the same my wife my parents.
Starting point is 00:11:27 So, you're you're an opposite. Now, for the positive or the negative
Starting point is 00:11:33 the model you're to be because a little person. So I don't want
Starting point is 00:11:39 this. So you're with someone and the first play that you're saying this
Starting point is 00:11:42 this is this this is here. And by the person that's but
Starting point is 00:11:45 let us we're we're we're no, I don't I don't I don't
Starting point is 00:11:51 I want this in my life. And then it's very difficult that's you're
Starting point is 00:11:56 because there is a problem because there no reason without a other reason so
Starting point is 00:12:00 so that all this that we we're doing in the is does
Starting point is 00:12:05 know after after how we manage that that
Starting point is 00:12:09 is the ingredient indispensable of the that is the love I'm
Starting point is 00:12:12 I do to do to another look I I
Starting point is 00:12:17 me I'm going to permit to tell to a story personal.
Starting point is 00:12:22 Okay. Total, no we're not nobody is a talk about. Comenten
Starting point is 00:12:28 here about about the story person. Nobody is a
Starting point is 00:12:31 man. One once a time, many years, I know
Starting point is 00:12:37 I know a woman. I know a woman of those that you see,
Starting point is 00:12:42 you you're you're and you know, and well, I started
Starting point is 00:12:47 to talk with her, we'd we'd we're in a day we're
Starting point is 00:12:52 we're we're in a moment or well these things we're
Starting point is 00:12:58 we're we're saying and I did a so I'm I'm in problems because
Starting point is 00:13:06 I'm going to love to this woman and why I'm because she
Starting point is 00:13:11 I'm in a moment where she was she was there was
Starting point is 00:13:16 not was not was But, well, we know we've seen three, four, five times. And in a moment, I said, I'm going to be ableknot, and I'm going to be able to get into a point where, if I'm detainee,
Starting point is 00:13:32 I'm going tolear two, three, seven, four, and yeah, it's not. But if I'm going to runny the heart, this woman, to me. And I don't want to suffer that that's a the moment
Starting point is 00:13:49 no can't come to make sure we can go to work the same in the same a couple
Starting point is 00:13:55 in a person to be then I'm in a day so it came to dinner so it's a place in a
Starting point is 00:14:02 little and when he said well I want to say something this is the
Starting point is 00:14:07 last this is the last time so why? So I'm he said because you you're not
Starting point is 00:14:13 you're not you're not with me a vinclusive of love. And I now I'm going
Starting point is 00:14:19 and I go to but if I'm going to doleer much much I'm going
Starting point is 00:14:24 I'm not I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm want to want to
Starting point is 00:14:30 know like like I'm like I'm I'm I'm
Starting point is 00:14:35 I'm I'm I'm I'm to be to be to I'm
Starting point is 00:14:38 to she she don't know so I don't know so so I'm so this is
Starting point is 00:14:44 the last this is the last time we You go to record with much carino.
Starting point is 00:14:48 If you I'll go into two months, you're going to get to with a time.
Starting point is 00:14:51 I'm going to record with a carino. It's been a pleasure to know the carerer and I'm
Starting point is 00:14:58 the counter, me and when I do two steps to go to me, I say,
Starting point is 00:15:04 par, I'm okay. And if I'm also I'm do you, I'm doing the opportunity
Starting point is 00:15:13 to try to try and I do you and I have two years that I
Starting point is 00:15:18 have to that woman, the love more more the love more that's my life is your
Starting point is 00:15:23 wife? Yes. Wow! But why we're we're together? Because you
Starting point is 00:15:28 put you a limit? Because I said, I have a more I'm a love
Starting point is 00:15:34 more, dignity. I'm my dignity. And if I'm with this with these
Starting point is 00:15:42 accrues inconditional of my part, I'm to lose that dignity. And it's more,
Starting point is 00:15:48 you're not going to to be able to love me if I'm a indignor. It's more. I'm more, I'm a option of that you
Starting point is 00:15:55 think you're so I'm going to go to get me and today it was a true. No, no, I went to
Starting point is 00:16:03 do two passes and my kids, par, par, no. And I'm like, I'm
Starting point is 00:16:08 like, I'm up to get me, and I'm every day to your side. I'm,
Starting point is 00:16:13 I'm glad I'm happy. And you know what? And, All the time, install a idea that at times
Starting point is 00:16:20 in the pairas we don't escape, no? Although at a few, you know,
Starting point is 00:16:26 sometimes, you know, a couple of a night, we're not we're doing with something
Starting point is 00:16:32 that's kind of there, then it doesn't get to me, the
Starting point is 00:16:36 I'll give a and I say, I'm, I'm don't you don't
Starting point is 00:16:41 get, that even we're not going to enoched, you're going to you're going to
Starting point is 00:16:44 my life. I said, I said, I'm saying, it's, that's difficult to
Starting point is 00:16:49 be able to you know, because me abrace. But just because, because I think I'm
Starting point is 00:16:56 to establish those limits that you don't go to renunciate to my love. Because if
Starting point is 00:17:03 you're you don't me do you I'm am I am sure, I'm my amor
Starting point is 00:17:09 own, I only only I'm a love, I've lost. I've been the love of you
Starting point is 00:17:13 and the love to me and the love to me to make. So I'm I'm the right because the
Starting point is 00:17:18 life was disposed so to do you know that's the decision is my. Wow. What lection
Starting point is 00:17:25 Thank you. Thank you. An apprausso. What thing so so great. That beauty. And it's
Starting point is 00:17:33 really that because if not you you know you put limits, the other you devaluas
Starting point is 00:17:39 under the eyes of the other. But, for your You do do, you know,
Starting point is 00:17:42 you're about the more a risk a little bit that's, that's, not
Starting point is 00:17:48 when somebody to be in someone, he says, Mark, Antonio, what, what type
Starting point is 00:17:54 extraordinary that's really, really, really, that's, no, no,
Starting point is 00:18:00 that I'm that, I'm very I'm very very much and I'm about, he's
Starting point is 00:18:04 never be being not. Because, because, like I'm know, no,
Starting point is 00:18:07 I'm know, I'm I think. No, me be being I'm going to or somebody
Starting point is 00:18:39 in your job, where you're, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, you know, where? I'm just, , they're giving an preemone, for your love probably. It's, you're not? And so, you're not, I'm sorry, I'm, I'm not, it's, it's a question, you know, I'm not, I'm consequences enormous to not to not to be that. Sentim me
Starting point is 00:18:45 that I'm that I'm not going to receive a love. But there's there's a person who's
Starting point is 00:18:50 that's a somebody that's that's that they give us to do that they're not to see to that
Starting point is 00:18:56 they're going to that they're going to try to that. That's that you know,
Starting point is 00:19:00 that's you can't give to that you to be able to be boycottes something
Starting point is 00:19:06 when you are to do the the success. The autosabot. Exactly. The boycott,
Starting point is 00:19:11 is a relation, a job, a business, or what that's, you know, you're going to get a carer. You know,
Starting point is 00:19:18 you know what I feel like. The last time no I'm did do. No. I know what did do.
Starting point is 00:19:24 I'm going that's a person who me a man, that me has a lot, and you know, you know, you
Starting point is 00:19:30 know, I'm encarruing, me encarue to have an eventura like to and that's and that
Starting point is 00:19:35 person, dege to confide to love me, dege to value me, I'm really because I'm
Starting point is 00:19:40 because I'm that I'm that I'm that I'm that I'm know that's I'm doing my graduation,
Starting point is 00:19:47 I'm sabotage my dreams, my metas, I can sabotage that's that's a kind of a capacity to
Starting point is 00:19:53 make a because I'm because that is not mind, because that's that I'm sure, my person
Starting point is 00:20:01 human is a person a puja permanent between two impulses that guide their
Starting point is 00:20:08 one to build and projects and other for destroyer so why
Starting point is 00:20:18 someone someone fomated two and I'm why? Why?
Starting point is 00:20:23 Why someone is put in risk the things that does
Starting point is 00:20:27 he and he's a 250 kilometers per hour in
Starting point is 00:20:30 the autopista because there there a force in
Starting point is 00:20:33 the human that is a human that is a impulsed to do you and the
Starting point is 00:20:39 other, they're all the call them, we're doing, pulsion of life, pulsion of
Starting point is 00:20:45 death, pulsion of death, pulsion, like, of a pulse? The impulse. Of impulse.
Starting point is 00:20:49 Sure. It's an impulse to live and an impulse to mourn. You have seen many
Starting point is 00:20:57 people, or have you have seen that's being and with with the
Starting point is 00:21:03 with the differentments, they're and re-naces like the genis and they're in a lot of the way of the
Starting point is 00:21:10 you know, the love you know, and you know other people that you say, you know,
Starting point is 00:21:16 no? To one one no, one was the person of the one's the question of
Starting point is 00:21:23 when the when you when you when you do you guys when you you don't you do you
Starting point is 00:21:28 don't do you don't do you creative for the that's the end up to the other energy.
Starting point is 00:21:34 And you get a depression, the culp, the melancholia, the decano, the lack of the desire,
Starting point is 00:21:42 the depression, the depression, the depression. Exactly. So, if,
Starting point is 00:21:48 if, if I'm at this fault, this absence of love, if I'm
Starting point is 00:21:52 super-duro with me, this can cut me the asses, to cut any whatever illusion,
Starting point is 00:21:57 whatever plan that I have in the life in the personal, professional,
Starting point is 00:22:01 any of a partner, playing in a team, there's a people, there's a that you can
Starting point is 00:22:05 be in a team ganado, if you know, you're doing it's a person that's
Starting point is 00:22:09 not a person, not you can't be part of an team ganador. No,
Starting point is 00:22:13 not because no, because no can't have a life a win a
Starting point is 00:22:16 so, so, so, it's a thing, to know, to know,
Starting point is 00:22:21 to know to know, why? Why not we're about the next segment?
Starting point is 00:22:25 How, how how to find the equilibrium, how can how I
Starting point is 00:22:30 can't know how can in what moment me has a time, and in what I'm going
Starting point is 00:22:34 to be going to be a person who not take in a consideration the needs,
Starting point is 00:22:40 or the rights of the other, and also, you, you, you,
Starting point is 00:22:45 you, you know, about the question, Gabriel, to what I'm, to the
Starting point is 00:22:49 point, a erida of the infancy, like the , you're really this, this has done
Starting point is 00:22:57 to tend to love me. So, so we'll let's do those things. After a little bit of a pause,
Starting point is 00:23:01 we're going with Gabriel Rollon in the podcast. We'll know. I'm going. I'm going. I'm going to
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Starting point is 00:24:05 enormous importance of to learn to learn to talk about we're saying how to find that equilibrium,
Starting point is 00:24:13 right? Until where is love and where it's a lot of a pathology? Because we've
Starting point is 00:24:19 known to someone for there that that actua like if were the only person
Starting point is 00:24:25 that has a to be happy. And also the thing of, because we're so hard with us
Starting point is 00:24:32 because in our culture we don't know, I'm not only to the things that we do we're
Starting point is 00:24:38 to do, but to do it but I'm making me pedasos every that I'm
Starting point is 00:24:47 think I'm about, I'm when I'm putting my expectations, I'm
Starting point is 00:24:52 I'm when I'm so when I'm so I'm when I'm gordo, when I'm that I'm flaco, that dialogue internal
Starting point is 00:24:58 that nobody is a count more than I, but that is constant all the time. It can be very very dangerous
Starting point is 00:25:04 also. So, that's a torment. The human we suffer we do not. Because, conclusively.
Starting point is 00:25:10 Sure, because we think we're all the time and because those different voices that are
Starting point is 00:25:17 in us that are, that's that they do you, do it, no, I'm going to,
Starting point is 00:25:21 no, I'm going to, I'm better, I'm we're, we're we've got us
Starting point is 00:25:25 because we're a lot of voices and if I do do you do and if I do so if I do it always you know because you're
Starting point is 00:25:35 because you're because you're because you're because you're that pizza and then you get that you like you're like you
Starting point is 00:25:43 because you're not you're like because I don't do you know because I'm a good to what's what's going to what's
Starting point is 00:25:49 so always there always there something that's yeah because we did we the other. So you have to evaluate,
Starting point is 00:25:59 and I'm, I'm talking to what I said about, I'm just, of what we're of the Pursion of Mewarty. The Pursion of Mewarty
Starting point is 00:26:05 also also the thing that's that makes that you, that's flagelles all the time. Why?
Starting point is 00:26:13 Because something something you didn't get less in the channel, because some someone said that I'd preferial
Starting point is 00:26:21 not to be to be, and one said, it's, it was the cause me, flagellas, if I
Starting point is 00:26:25 not would have done this, if I would have done the other, and it's like a torment, a auto
Starting point is 00:26:29 castigue to do you to make, that's not the man, for the supposed, as we said,
Starting point is 00:26:35 of the rages of your story of the how they're to do you, of what you did you did you,
Starting point is 00:26:41 but for other side, you're the way, you know, because we're not the culture
Starting point is 00:26:46 exitista, that you that you make sure that if you don't have seen that you
Starting point is 00:26:51 don't exist, and there cultures that have more more than the people are the
Starting point is 00:26:57 stress for the excellence and they're they're in excellent but for the other side but for other
Starting point is 00:27:15 they're not, but for other side, that's a country with a lot of levels of frustration, in the life, because, because not are not far enough always
Starting point is 00:27:22 something, something. It's part of the life. It's impossible that we can't it's part of the life.
Starting point is 00:27:28 And this is it's a little of complexity but I'm going to try to do you know I'm saying I'm not you
Starting point is 00:27:35 don't you know the the fall that we're going to occur in the life can take three
Starting point is 00:27:41 ways different to manifest to generate three things different one is the one is the privation
Starting point is 00:27:46 the sensation of being the other is the frustration and the other
Starting point is 00:27:54 not you ask you nothing more than a term an article but not you ask you know that nobody comes with a muccio
Starting point is 00:28:00 to nothing is a way symbolic privation frustration castration when we when we
Starting point is 00:28:07 we feel when we we don't neveria fault us or that we're we're not that
Starting point is 00:28:14 no that's that is another that's that's another that that's a that is a very
Starting point is 00:28:19 let's be to do you do you to do you to do you're Yes, yeah. Digibumme a person. One of going to do you.
Starting point is 00:28:25 Yes, let. Dibucam a mukechito. Of paltos? How you want, of you want, like you. No, it's for more than,
Starting point is 00:28:32 for an experience that I want to do. Okay. See? There's a rapid. Yeah, it's a barbara. There's a barbara.
Starting point is 00:28:41 Well, there's a little a mukechito. Look, did you what you did you? What did you? I put a mukechito
Starting point is 00:28:47 with a sombrero. I'm going to make more more torpe than you. The Myo is content and is
Starting point is 00:28:56 encirled No, just try you Sombrero Well, put it or put in a phone to
Starting point is 00:29:01 me or put in you knowches and if I'm I'm gonna look at yeah, he's
Starting point is 00:29:07 a little a there's a That's that you that's that you're because
Starting point is 00:29:11 a less that you don't you know because never seen you've never seen
Starting point is 00:29:15 I did you know I did a I'm you know you can't you you can't
Starting point is 00:29:20 you we have two people. Because no I'd feel like. If there's a thing,
Starting point is 00:29:26 that's a thing that's there's a there's a problem there's private. There's a something that's a little bit
Starting point is 00:29:33 that's a person. It's a private. It's a private. But also there are amputations emotional.
Starting point is 00:29:38 Because a because a because a father's not a child to the father's a
Starting point is 00:29:43 he doesn't a child and a child. And a child would be a child. A child
Starting point is 00:29:49 a child a child. A man never never to end are vending things in the
Starting point is 00:29:52 exactly. That's a signora he has a care of her and he's a car
Starting point is 00:29:56 of her and he's a car of it. That's the privation. And you know what that's
Starting point is 00:30:00 a feeling a and it a lot. Dolor. Dolour. Yeah. We're a
Starting point is 00:30:07 frustration. Let's frustration is what we generate a when we we feel when we
Starting point is 00:30:13 we're something that is something we're I'd have to have to I.
Starting point is 00:30:20 I'd an friend, a partner, your father, your company, your friend, your company, to ask,
Starting point is 00:30:56 a bit, I mean, he's, and I'm he, I'm going to be quite, I'm going to
Starting point is 00:31:02 say, but, at the person, you know, you know, you know, and you passed out of
Starting point is 00:31:07 my time, you know, you're going about it and he said, and he said, no, thank you,
Starting point is 00:31:13 my question, me said, he said, he'd that I'm a gratitude that you did you,
Starting point is 00:31:18 so, so, that's sensation of fruptation generates enoho and we we call
Starting point is 00:31:28 castration to that we're only for being a human, never you never will be complete,
Starting point is 00:31:33 you're going to say, what you're saying, you're a lot of things that you don't of
Starting point is 00:31:40 that you get a that's angustia so that's that generates for the death
Starting point is 00:31:46 for the that will for what you don't tendree, for a moment me makes a
Starting point is 00:31:52 time to your and you say we're going to you're because I'm because I'm a need
Starting point is 00:31:57 to get a problem so that's these these faults in some time of the life
Starting point is 00:32:03 all we all we're we're we're not a deprivation this not should
Starting point is 00:32:09 I don't have to be a lot of the life of I'm
Starting point is 00:32:13 I'm I'm not I don't I'm I'm I'm I'm
Starting point is 00:32:16 I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm that's like, for example, you'd have a person and you can't
Starting point is 00:32:21 feel you feel like that you're saying that person was part of me and now me fall, you know,
Starting point is 00:32:28 and you're in a lot of this person. If you're not, to me come to do with all what I did, with all what I said for her,
Starting point is 00:32:34 there's frustrated you, you're so you're not, so all this false, and always there in the life not, you
Starting point is 00:32:41 don't know, in the life, we know, you know, the liquidator that is our case with the
Starting point is 00:32:48 the things that traverses them I'm it's a because, now I'm don't know
Starting point is 00:32:52 it's part of me or how me to be to happen to this, all this. Like a
Starting point is 00:32:57 kind of of the Deneff. Ciud of Mexico. Ciudda Mexico is called now. Yeah,
Starting point is 00:33:02 well. I'm sorry. Well, you're going to say, well, but I'm saying, well, but the puchas.
Starting point is 00:33:11 So, so that's our idea our case, and to let me a level medium
Starting point is 00:33:16 medianamently not so much because you know these ideas and these emotions augmenting the anxiety in your
Starting point is 00:33:24 and your and our psyche only can tolerate a quantity of that that's that's
Starting point is 00:33:31 a lot of a pressure like a yeah you've got a poste you did you
Starting point is 00:33:36 back to you're you're you're you're you're for it's for a
Starting point is 00:33:41 so you're very anxious to the other day you you're to pay this or
Starting point is 00:33:46 renunci, or I'm, or I'm or you, or you, or you, it's a known-in-the-cernoste in the car, ah, well, you're saying, no-se-to. Exactly, you, you back, and you're playing with someone. Because you're in a car. Why? Because you're
Starting point is 00:33:58 in a case. Well, that's an excess of anxiety. And there's to have to have much care. Because if you, you can't administra, the level of anxiety that you have, you, you're going to suffer much.
Starting point is 00:34:10 You're going to drive with much, you're going to repenting much, you're going to you're going to you're going to you're going to you're going
Starting point is 00:34:18 and you're getting you're going to go ahead you're going to you're going to the way of the anxiety what is
Starting point is 00:34:27 creating? You know what I'm I'm very anxious, I put the clothes I'm put the report and I was ready to
Starting point is 00:34:34 get to talk the piano what I did me went to see to see I went to a friend to I'm going to
Starting point is 00:34:39 get a friend I'm to talk to And gestioning the emotion correctly. Exactly. And and as you, you're going to to get you
Starting point is 00:34:48 better or worse with you too much too. When you when you're with that self-esteem medianamently
Starting point is 00:34:54 stable, you know, you know, you know, say, hey, para, you're confis
Starting point is 00:35:01 of you. It's a lot of this enoch. I'm more, maybe, more,
Starting point is 00:35:05 we'll say something I'm saying things that I'm want to say, no, no,
Starting point is 00:35:10 no, no, it's, I'm not you're when you're very misstomated you're in
Starting point is 00:35:15 your own your own the world is the world because of the other when you're not self-estime
Starting point is 00:35:21 the culp always is your and you flageelas any of these these they're in
Starting point is 00:35:27 the life so one one of a form of love would be to get my emotions
Starting point is 00:35:33 to learn to get to get them and to learn to learn to be to be
Starting point is 00:35:37 grittando to to be to someone The things happen. The grace are the second
Starting point is 00:35:43 or I'm or I'm or I'm going to you're going to your wife. He says a day something that
Starting point is 00:35:49 you can't be the principle of the final. And that's not. All the contrary.
Starting point is 00:35:55 Because you're you're doing something because you're doing something for you. You know, you're nothate
Starting point is 00:36:00 and you got to the guy of the radio formula. And he said he's, he's,
Starting point is 00:36:06 he's, he's, he's, he's, he's, he's, he's, What what he cost was
Starting point is 00:36:09 to get to to get to get us. With it. With you, with you know, with you, with you, with you know,
Starting point is 00:36:14 you knowh with someone and you're doing and you're doing to do you know, a good. When one
Starting point is 00:36:20 is anojohn when one is you know how much, when one's got to do you. And that's overawful. And so, but that's all the No,
Starting point is 00:36:38 there's impossible. And less, I know, that's that's never, and it's a lot of because it's for a lot of
Starting point is 00:36:44 because one thing is vociferate and that nobody, yeah, you've heard three or four and yeah, but that you get is
Starting point is 00:36:49 grabbed? You know, the chick, not the chick, a model extraager, here in the city of Mexico,
Starting point is 00:36:55 that they chocked the sonnids of Mexico. So, then he's, he's, he's, who are the organi-
Starting point is 00:37:01 , so the cylinder, uh, yeah, a me, I mean, to get them to be
Starting point is 00:37:04 to be able, and he said that was a one of the city of Mexico had the sonnors had some of the day next the agency of models it was but for the
Starting point is 00:37:12 because it was a minute where he per die the control no gritted no more expressed that he was he was gonna
Starting point is 00:37:21 that's what you that no because the things not because the things not allas yeah and apart he called
Starting point is 00:37:27 to the people not did a because one I don't like I don't like the regatone but yeah it was convocation
Starting point is 00:37:33 not they didn't money. This is, ah, they called contamination auditive. So, I see it all the road in contrae of the poor organillers. And he's kept without a job. And you know, what's the words that are you, they're saying, they're consequences.
Starting point is 00:37:47 They're going to, have been quiet. The, the love, I'm going to be scared to be call out? Yes. Me, it's not, I can't say, look, look, to see, look, in cities, look, in cities that grand, because they're a little rudeosas. I, no,
Starting point is 00:38:00 I see you. Like I I don't know I don't know I'm not like to get to go to the play
Starting point is 00:38:04 to the I'm not I'm not I'm don't know in the sunbrillas and the
Starting point is 00:38:09 hoteles all inclusive would have to fendstrass no no I'm going to do you sometimes
Starting point is 00:38:14 but one of you know like you know you don't you don't you're not
Starting point is 00:38:19 you're not more than more than more shows to me me would be a very
Starting point is 00:38:23 very but no I'm not so manifest you're a personal.
Starting point is 00:38:31 So, well, but that's you have to do it's always quite quite. Because all the time you're putting in
Starting point is 00:38:36 risk. In Argentina and it's used a phrase, no see, here's a person, no, nobody
Starting point is 00:38:42 resists his no, no, I know, I know, I know, that, what does,
Starting point is 00:38:46 what you mean, what you mean, what means, what you say, is that you're saying, that you're
Starting point is 00:38:52 that's just, you're going to say, my mother, my woman is ruby, And you're going to to find out,
Starting point is 00:39:00 who you said, I never would say, I'm going to because you know, because you don't know, because you're saying about saying
Starting point is 00:39:05 something, but well, then you have to have much careful. Because as the Arabis, one is the words of the
Starting point is 00:39:11 words that call and exclaw of the that you can't be you know, it's very good, you can't be
Starting point is 00:39:18 a slave of the word of the same, you know, what you say, you do do you know, and more
Starting point is 00:39:23 today, that's kept grabbed for for ever, for every and they're they're to get
Starting point is 00:39:28 of context and they're they're doing they're and they're they're they're in they're
Starting point is 00:39:30 and they're in front of me has been to have been to medial between friends that's they're
Starting point is 00:39:36 not and they're saying things and say people, all of you know, none of
Starting point is 00:39:43 you know, let's say, let's be a favor, we can't we can't we know, because until
Starting point is 00:39:50 that can't even, can't be both have a gesture for you're for you
Starting point is 00:39:54 because they're being that are horrible, that are really, that's things spantosas and in
Starting point is 00:40:01 the morning to get to get to get to get to so. So, if tomorrow they're still
Starting point is 00:40:05 thinking they are saying, they're here. Why? Because all that also has to
Starting point is 00:40:11 have to be with the autoestim. Because I say a that you get a and you
Starting point is 00:40:16 and if you don't you're not very solid in your autoestim you're, you're
Starting point is 00:40:21 to be to frustrate you're to be to be to get to be
Starting point is 00:40:25 agreder. And I also, if I'm my auto-stim, to say, ooh, pardon me, Mark, Antonio, I'm sure that it was a joke, no quix, but if I'm sorry I'm wrong, I'm going to replicate what you've said. And so, and we see, like, who looks,
Starting point is 00:40:40 I'm, I'm from my Argentina, no, I've never a debate presidential Mexican, but you've been how, a lot of times, you're saying, you can't say, no, they're not they're saying, you can't agreder, too. So, are people that are
Starting point is 00:40:54 seeing if they're going to have the equilibrium to manage the life of millions of people and not can't manage a discussion in serious? A critic.
Starting point is 00:41:04 That lapisera with the is a lapiscerer to be able to control their enojo Yeah, get it to a discussion, a retroalimentation.
Starting point is 00:41:12 Exactly. But it's going in Mexico, in States, in Argentina. It's a mal modern where there a poor tolerance
Starting point is 00:41:18 to the retroalimentation. Or you're you're with me, or you're or is right, or is right, or is up, or is above, or is above? Sure, but you know, I'm that I'm pretty, that's the discussion is, the
Starting point is 00:41:31 end up and then it's the hard. The discussion, the devil, and it's termina the strong. Because in a state of debility and erred, you said, you
Starting point is 00:41:38 did you know, I'm sorry, the most important of the two, I mean, that's going to be more more important, I mean, you know, I'm going to be a discussion of a
Starting point is 00:41:49 I go, I'm enojo, what it was, and my wife and I have established a phrase, which is the second.
Starting point is 00:41:58 Two, in reality. One is a question. I, when there some thing that's a question or
Starting point is 00:42:05 something, it's all right, but if I see that's up to the tone, I'm you, you,
Starting point is 00:42:11 we're going to separate for this, for this thing? And so, no, or how we
Starting point is 00:42:15 don't we want to to separate for this a tonteria? Oh, it's a tonteria?
Starting point is 00:42:17 So, because If you're not saying that's a tonteria. Conversemol. So, just we'll play for something, for what you and
Starting point is 00:42:25 you know, we're not we're not, you know, not you're not sure, not to getcharty. Exactly.
Starting point is 00:42:29 Because if you can't get that you're that's a love you, it's a little that you'll get a priority
Starting point is 00:42:34 and then the ego and I'm going to get this conversation. Well, but for that's she's
Starting point is 00:42:38 to her to remember me to or I'm to you, or I'm to know, who's
Starting point is 00:42:43 who's got the more the more the more that's Who says, we're going to we're going to
Starting point is 00:42:48 to separate in serious for this the one of the one of the is to be able in your love and part of the love is your
Starting point is 00:42:56 auto-amor. Exactly. Because it is to get a discussion to you know, you know, you know,
Starting point is 00:43:02 what? The second phrase that we use us much we're always we're always when you're saying,
Starting point is 00:43:09 it's just for you we don't we're going we're not we're doing this. And that directly
Starting point is 00:43:17 apunt a auto-esteem, to love because I'm talking about, in serious, you want to this woman
Starting point is 00:43:24 that's a I'm, I don't want to be this man, that we're doing, we're doing, so we're not we're not.
Starting point is 00:43:32 And we're this relation. Sure. But for that relation not that not we're we're in
Starting point is 00:43:39 that we're in that place that you're in this place, that's what, I'm saying, I'm No, I want to be this.
Starting point is 00:43:46 That's, that grita, that he's, no, no, I don't want to. And you know, I think, it's the same in a team of a time. A little bit of the time is, oh, no we're going to be this team. Exactly.
Starting point is 00:43:55 A family that's a family. Oh, and we don't want to be this. This is not the reality that I want to live. I don't want to be part of this. And auto-amor is not participate in that. If you're going to
Starting point is 00:44:05 get to go to glows and to give to grotes and offender, I, like, I love, and me am, no participes. Exactly. I mean, there you, there's a key,
Starting point is 00:44:14 to medir, you know, when you know when you will be to be able to your autoestim? When?
Starting point is 00:44:21 When, when, not to be about about you're in any emotion. When you're
Starting point is 00:44:27 not you knowhous, you can't be able to but you can't be so much and you
Starting point is 00:44:31 can't be really, but you don't be really, because a all of things in
Starting point is 00:44:37 the life that we can't get, that's that's that's, that's,
Starting point is 00:44:39 see, that, that, now if you you say something, I'm disbarranco, me,
Starting point is 00:44:46 I'm going to get to be my autostim, if you're saying, hey, you know, you know,
Starting point is 00:44:53 I'm saying, no, I'm so much, we're doing this. If you're if you're you're not, it's,
Starting point is 00:45:00 it's just me it's just me it's just me before the back on the camera, I'm not, no, no,
Starting point is 00:45:05 no, no, I don't want, no resuena with me, no resuena, no resuena, no resuena,
Starting point is 00:45:10 no resuena, no resuble, no, it's, that you say, I'm back to the table, I'm talking
Starting point is 00:45:14 the other something something. What's the thing? What's the thing? You're put up
Starting point is 00:45:21 that you're not like you? And it's not it's just like it's just no resue no, I don't have any
Starting point is 00:45:29 I don't have no, I think that's a thing you're happy but to me no and with that you're
Starting point is 00:45:35 with the and you're that's a man who's you're a man to be a a lot of of the
Starting point is 00:45:42 other note where they were they want to do you don't have to do this. I don't have a
Starting point is 00:45:46 image, I'm going to show you want to what you know what you do you just like the
Starting point is 00:45:51 because the autoestiming is a piece in that you you're you know if the
Starting point is 00:45:56 piece is a big you're up you and if you're to be in the sotano
Starting point is 00:46:02 so you then you then you need to in a place that you can't
Starting point is 00:46:06 give your life to be a way is a form of self-amor. Sure.
Starting point is 00:46:12 I have to start to talk about about the limits at the beginning. And also I think that
Starting point is 00:46:17 in those cultures. Yes, exactly. In many cultures, like the not the
Starting point is 00:46:22 American's, not it's the people, not to be to get to many people, but for us to say
Starting point is 00:46:28 that no in the United if someone says, no, no, no, no, no,
Starting point is 00:46:33 no, no, no, no, no, no, no not my cup of tea, no, no,
Starting point is 00:46:35 no, no, no, no, No, they're no problem in decision to say that no. And here is, ah, to the Japanese,
Starting point is 00:46:44 also, to say, no, so, they're saying with the obligation of, and then the chantage, because,
Starting point is 00:46:52 no, in Argentina, as you're gonna, but here, but here, you know, I'm gonna do to do a
Starting point is 00:46:57 dinner, oh, I'm very can't do, many, many interviews on, on a conference,
Starting point is 00:47:01 oh, Gabriel, no, don't say, we're, just a riteite to, just,
Starting point is 00:47:05 just, is that I'm just, I'm, just, I'm, You don't say you're not, he's a shantajito
Starting point is 00:47:11 and he's met with, yeah, too. Also, the Argentinians are so? Yes, much.
Starting point is 00:47:15 And it's difficult to resisted. Because, because because we need to be married, all we need
Starting point is 00:47:23 to be loved. And when you say, no, you know, you know, you know, you know,
Starting point is 00:47:27 you're a little because you frustrastered. Yeah. I'm going to, look, I've,
Starting point is 00:47:32 I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, they're that you admire. It's a second.
Starting point is 00:47:37 It's just a can at the end up. They're just they're in a question. I'm saying, look, Gabi,
Starting point is 00:47:43 I said, I'm doing the television, I go the podcast. Now I'm to change. I'm going to go to
Starting point is 00:47:48 another. And you know, you know, I'm going to you're trying a little less. Because I'm
Starting point is 00:47:54 frustrated. You have to to say to us other that you're to come. I'm going to you.
Starting point is 00:47:58 I'm going. So, so, so it's just to do, it implic to put, always
Starting point is 00:48:04 you say that you're going to, you know, put in a risk the vehicle with the other so you
Starting point is 00:48:09 know, you know, okay. And, and also, I'm, the risk of that the
Starting point is 00:48:17 other kind of, I'm, to be many, it's, because, because I,
Starting point is 00:48:22 I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm not, I'm not, I'm in the many, many times
Starting point is 00:48:29 and many times I'm going, many, many, we're, we're thinking, we're we're going,
Starting point is 00:48:33 don't see, they're no, they're they're not, in the hotel. And I'm I need, this.
Starting point is 00:48:38 This people with the people with I'm trying to this, I have to say you know, I'm just
Starting point is 00:48:43 I'm going to be too much. Because we're not too, we're not we're not we're not we need to
Starting point is 00:48:50 we need to this question to be able to total, no pass. And so it's what I'm saying the
Starting point is 00:48:56 sajone is it's, it's all it's very they're not. They're not they're not
Starting point is 00:49:00 they're no, they're no, we're they don't they let's important. No, they're problems in that for the
Starting point is 00:49:07 same reason that's the same way. The same the connections human are not so those are the pause.
Starting point is 00:49:15 When we're going to go to get us, we're going to talk about the importance and say that no. I would like that we'd
Starting point is 00:49:20 also that's because there a difference there's a pro and consas in all the cultures and that also
Starting point is 00:49:25 a little about the thing of your book. The auto-amor is a mind of the question.
Starting point is 00:49:32 That's a question that we we'll just for the the second and the ultimate segment of the podcast. A pause-tita. We're continuing. We're, we're with Gabriel Rolland, here in the City of Mexico, in the podcast. We'll get us. Don't you feel-as-mall. Because that's a lot. So, you know, it's a much common.
Starting point is 00:49:57 But, but it's to know that this limit the potential of many people are to find us and start us
Starting point is 00:50:04 as far as you know, it's all over of my career of 40 years, me have been to reinvent
Starting point is 00:50:09 and start and start from the other way, just to not conformar me with something that I'm
Starting point is 00:50:16 my life. And in this way, I've discovered some that can
Starting point is 00:50:19 help you too to you too too to find to be to give to
Starting point is 00:50:23 that you see that's sure but that you don't you be happy and go for what
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Starting point is 00:51:02 a applause for Gabriel Rod that's with us to be that in your book, the felicity more than
Starting point is 00:51:08 of the illusion. Before to go to the pause it, we've about the difference of the
Starting point is 00:51:14 culture Latina and the Zajona. No, there's there's there's there,
Starting point is 00:51:19 consas. There's exactly. And the Zajon's, know, because no they
Starting point is 00:51:24 don't they don't the the vincal personal, the amist, the relation. They're more individualists.
Starting point is 00:51:30 It's like my success, my career, my health. They're not having problems of autoestim of auto-amor.
Starting point is 00:51:36 No, if it's, surely they're too. But it's like it like it. Like,
Starting point is 00:51:41 it's important, their career, this, your profession, his logro, when no it's a hard,
Starting point is 00:51:49 because it's an exigency. Of course, we, we're, we're, we're all what we
Starting point is 00:51:53 we can't have to rare and that and that's and that's when you're in you're in the other people,
Starting point is 00:52:00 you're in some you're doing to you're just you're just just to make a call you a little bit more and say,
Starting point is 00:52:07 yeah, I'm I'm just destroyed, the really I'm a man, the type of a time and the time, wait,
Starting point is 00:52:13 but, damn a minute, that I'm gonna make a call me, let me, we're we, we'll, we'll, we're
Starting point is 00:52:19 we're talking, we'll, we're we're saying, we're just, they're not, they're just, they're I know, so that I mean, my co-cnazbov,
Starting point is 00:52:27 my cousin, in the United, and his hermann, my wife and my cune, a few, why is so, why it's so much, because they're in other culture? No, it's that care
Starting point is 00:52:39 less, he's this way? And he says, too, she, they're in all right, so they're not invasive, but they're in this way. They're like, and I think, and I think, and I can't put to learn
Starting point is 00:52:51 the equilibrium, no? Sure, is to be able to accept it, the differences. Because the world is a place full of differences. And if the different
Starting point is 00:53:01 is a dangerous, aggressive, or aggressive, or molest, we're going to serious risk. The humanity has passed
Starting point is 00:53:07 for moments where the different is it's been very bad. Differences religiousas, differences
Starting point is 00:53:13 ethnicas, differences of gustos sexuales. Well, we've lived... Partidos politicians.
Starting point is 00:53:20 Partios. Yes. In our cases, we're passionate the part of the football. Inchadages, they're lastimed because one of
Starting point is 00:53:27 one of an team and others of other, I mean, I think that's a grand part of the recorritory that anyone has to do, in a way medium, mann't sano and is be tolerant.
Starting point is 00:53:39 And for being tolerant, as a carity being intended, it's about house, there's to be to learn to
Starting point is 00:53:44 one of one first. And that's, that's what you are saying, that there there's an enormous opportunity
Starting point is 00:53:49 of auto-amor there, is the conflict that the major part of the immigrantes
Starting point is 00:53:53 Latino as the world that's going to be the world for the great
Starting point is 00:54:16 to you're going to be in a security, no extranaz the fault of order. The inflation. Yes,
Starting point is 00:54:27 what is in Argentina right that's living over horrible, an inflation. So, they've been in
Starting point is 00:54:31 this conflict to get you kind of a trapado between two worlds. What do you would you
Starting point is 00:54:35 do you know, you see, because you're getting you know, you know, you're
Starting point is 00:54:42 the worst of the castigues in the culture grida? Sure, and the distierro.
Starting point is 00:54:46 The distierro. The stierro. The not. No, no. If you were , it was
Starting point is 00:54:51 a No, no, we're expulsed. You chemos. Because, and think, what other could have to have to be a world where nobody
Starting point is 00:55:02 about your language, where a nobody doesn't know of your and you know, who are, who's, well,
Starting point is 00:55:09 because is that a, a, one little in Argentina, that's called, in an work of the
Starting point is 00:55:16 theater, it's called Maiden Lanus, which is a locality of Buenos Aires, and the movie
Starting point is 00:55:20 is made in Argentina, no? And that's the story of two Parishas Amigas, the woman of one, was her mother, the man of the that she was here,
Starting point is 00:55:31 in Argentina, I'm sitting in casa, pardon. And they went. And they triumphed on the States of course, I mean, I'd go,
Starting point is 00:55:38 corrhidous in that in that same time for the dictator, and the two that were here, they were poor, the Anus is a place
Starting point is 00:55:45 very humble, of people a person, a personerer that's many and the other triumphed in the United.
Starting point is 00:55:52 Terminada the dictatorship, they're to visit. And then those who are the one, the armana that triumphed
Starting point is 00:55:59 in the United, he said to get a that's a surprise that he's to get to
Starting point is 00:56:04 live to us to get to so. And then in a scene, she said,
Starting point is 00:56:08 she said the Jolly, no? The Jolie of the Anus of that the place, of that
Starting point is 00:56:13 the barrio, then they they're saying like a great surprise, well, we have, we're,
Starting point is 00:56:18 we're, we're, we're just, we're, we're we're, they're going to live to
Starting point is 00:56:23 the United with us and she she's why? How? Because she is the
Starting point is 00:56:34 mario I'm going this tallyer mechanic that's vending this house to do
Starting point is 00:56:38 and I go and she she's she's she's she's the married of
Starting point is 00:56:43 the she was an she was an man she was I'm he's
Starting point is 00:56:46 I'm he's he's you're you're you're you're this
Starting point is 00:56:49 because you're because you they're going to and they they're auto new, and there's a
Starting point is 00:56:55 place to have a department or a beautiful, and there's a little bit of a student, and the
Starting point is 00:57:00 woman, he's, no, no, you're going to go to go to you're going to
Starting point is 00:57:04 go to I'm going. And he's no, he's really, no, he says,
Starting point is 00:57:10 in serious, because you're a perdedora, because you don't have a good, because
Starting point is 00:57:15 you're not you and my mother, nased a quadre difference and you look at
Starting point is 00:57:19 the she's the person, and you he's agredir. And the other, and he's, he's just, parat
Starting point is 00:57:23 a little, he's he's just a lot of he's like, he's he's, no to say, no
Starting point is 00:57:28 to say, that's what he says, but you know, you know, you know, you're right, I'm the
Starting point is 00:57:34 servant of her, but I'm here, and no put my father, no puss, he,
Starting point is 00:57:41 could my daughter, but someone will be happy, because I'm to be back,
Starting point is 00:57:45 because I'm he said, when a he came the same he cameo the thing, all the
Starting point is 00:57:50 barrio was going to a jarra because they'd because he's the chloe because
Starting point is 00:57:56 you're the man you know, you know, you're going to do you and you're to do you
Starting point is 00:58:01 a little coach and a little car but you but you don't to do you and get to
Starting point is 00:58:07 me here I'm here I'm here I'm I'm over but here are all those
Starting point is 00:58:09 that I want and it and the scene and the movie because
Starting point is 00:58:13 all they're all they were the four And if you look, each one said, from his
Starting point is 00:58:20 life, of his world, and, and so because each one, and because each one
Starting point is 00:58:25 he's, and he's, how that woman so poor, and he found his auto-amor
Starting point is 00:58:32 in that barrio, where they were, and the people, and they were someone.
Starting point is 00:58:37 It was someone. It was someone. And, well, this, this is all
Starting point is 00:58:42 the time in the life. The life does put into this, and the people,
Starting point is 00:58:47 and the of doing charles in Mayer? I know, what was the major question that me did you? In all the
Starting point is 00:58:52 other the other people to do you know, no, not there to be doing the sun
Starting point is 00:58:56 American, we don't we're so too. We're so so. So, well,
Starting point is 00:59:01 all decision has a cost, a decision has a question, a
Starting point is 00:59:06 person, only has only have to make the decisions whose costs can pay.
Starting point is 00:59:10 A sometimes the cost is to be to be going to be
Starting point is 00:59:15 better more. A Sometimes one is, Dehame, let me that not is better me but I'm
Starting point is 00:59:19 near me to the way, and one that's bad, and one is a cargo of the cost that you're to live your
Starting point is 00:59:26 life. And there's the auto-conocimient because for one person, the price of to go to a country or
Starting point is 00:59:30 to get a culture, it can't be a but for other not. Exactly. For other,
Starting point is 00:59:36 the most amorosos that could do you get to where it's with all the carencies
Starting point is 00:59:39 that could be in that you exactly. Because one one has to be be who's
Starting point is 00:59:46 who wants. A lot of a little, a little, a little bit more but closer. And as the changes more
Starting point is 00:59:52 things more are the other than the economy's, more is the United, much people are going to Mexico just like,
Starting point is 00:59:59 seeing the people of Venezuela, people of Argentina, Mexico is full of Argentinus. This thing to have to
Starting point is 01:00:06 immigrar, looking something more, and it can be that you can't be that it can be doing so,
Starting point is 01:00:12 but it's that it's a more amorous to get to get a decision, Look, one, one I was, I was working
Starting point is 01:00:18 with a grand artist Argentine, very important, that was doing an exit a tremendous, that he had no
Starting point is 01:00:25 he was never, and we did we need, and he, in the Camarine, me said, a success more like this,
Starting point is 01:00:34 and I'm more of a trestice. Wow. Because, because it's certain, me,
Starting point is 01:00:40 is going but this not is what I wanted. So, not you are going exactly.
Starting point is 01:00:45 And you can't have a job super well paid you're paying more than other, but not you don't you're
Starting point is 01:00:49 there? Let's the type of the galore ganierro that's that's really about,
Starting point is 01:00:55 so it's a lot of we're sometimes we think we're what we want to we're
Starting point is 01:01:01 for us and not so I'm just I'm saying we say we're going to give this
Starting point is 01:01:06 that is what that is what is what is what you want? Is what you there? There is
Starting point is 01:01:12 something in the in the The regal, the regal a good is the gift of me does a gift of a
Starting point is 01:01:19 guy who's the thing that's that's a great. So, so it's, then you know, to give a,
Starting point is 01:01:26 look, for you get a ton of money, and I'll say, how, how do you and what's, how much,
Starting point is 01:01:31 me know, because I never would be this in my house. Right. So,
Starting point is 01:01:35 so, so I think that also, the the first, the love much, but not so
Starting point is 01:01:40 not so, you know, how much you know, that you And so that's, I'm
Starting point is 01:01:45 that's the that's the that's the that's the thing that that's we're doing we're doing
Starting point is 01:01:49 we're doing we're we're doing know what because when when when you love someone
Starting point is 01:01:56 you have an power immense over you you best a word to destroy
Starting point is 01:02:02 you yeah he's in a discussion to make a a
Starting point is 01:02:06 secret to you you do you you're a great you're
Starting point is 01:02:10 a person that that's to use that power. Even in the moments in that in those moments. So,
Starting point is 01:02:16 on that not they're not. No, they're not they're. No, they're not.
Starting point is 01:02:25 No, they're not they're, so what you do? No, I don't you do I, I don't
Starting point is 01:02:31 I'm, I'm not sure I'm, I'm that you can let's get to be lastimar, that you can't you, well,
Starting point is 01:02:38 what you're saying, what you're what you're going to what you're, if you're if, in definitive, a bo,
Starting point is 01:02:42 to you never you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, my mom no, you know,
Starting point is 01:02:49 well, and the person to the person to the, that you know, to the world, and the other
Starting point is 01:02:56 the love, and the does it, no, it's it's not in the worst even in the moments.
Starting point is 01:03:01 There's where the love, no, for the voyage to Paris that they
Starting point is 01:03:03 they're they're for the secret that they're not used in the because,
Starting point is 01:03:08 because even enoged they're more than you. I'm that's information that you can't erie but renunciable
Starting point is 01:03:15 to use it because I'm exactly I'm not for me it's the most of the way of the
Starting point is 01:03:21 most the I'm that's the great, what interesting all this you know and that's
Starting point is 01:03:29 part of the auto-amor you know with the auto-amor this renunciable to use it no I'm
Starting point is 01:03:35 because I'm because I'm disposed to par to make to be because I It's more the
Starting point is 01:03:42 path. But I'm going to get to me more with me. If I'm going to get you,
Starting point is 01:03:46 let you let's do you not you do you're I'm going to I'm going to because my auto-conceptive
Starting point is 01:03:51 my auto-imaging will be to a person that's that a person that's a exact, me important
Starting point is 01:03:58 more you than you're not you that's very important. Now, many of those pleitos greats that
Starting point is 01:04:04 are people that are that they're that's they're that's they're at flotet the
Starting point is 01:04:09 of the infancy Yeah, Your love Also, your love to work in your
Starting point is 01:04:13 life to give you to give you a priority to say for me I'm going to I'm going to
Starting point is 01:04:19 work in my series in the infancy because I am I'm am not to be
Starting point is 01:04:23 and not to be lastmando to the other I'm I'm that I
Starting point is 01:04:28 had meant I'm had said that had been been a ex combatient
Starting point is 01:04:32 in the war of Marvinas and that he
Starting point is 01:04:35 had had all the time that had his
Starting point is 01:04:39 companions of that they reproach about those and they're all the night, because you're you're
Starting point is 01:04:44 you're just you're just you're just back, and then after the long moments of analysis
Starting point is 01:04:49 very difficult, he, I'm able a fact, because I do you, and I'm on a
Starting point is 01:04:54 thing, and I'm saying, that's, because you know, what's the thing, it's a man,
Starting point is 01:05:00 I never, I know, never, I know, I know, but the woman thought that she,
Starting point is 01:05:03 the child, so, and the thing, because I, because I, because to be to be someone. So I'd say, but
Starting point is 01:05:10 why? And I go, and if you've never stood in Malvina, I'd, you know, all the nights, you're gonna' all the nights, you know, that they're saying, that, that inculpa, that those abandon after? What is that? I said, well, so, you're gonna, I'm gonna,
Starting point is 01:05:21 I'm gonna, from my reformatorio, of my home. He said, I said, I said, I'm asked, and me manded to, and me said, because I didn't you can't respond. Because I know, who's my parents? To be, I'm abandoned them in a house, I don't
Starting point is 01:05:36 never, never. I'm not. I'm not. I'm no nobody. No, I'm sorry. And then invento that story
Starting point is 01:05:43 to try to try to try to be a person. And I said, I said, and I said,
Starting point is 01:05:51 because I was not because I were the because me maltratable, because me
Starting point is 01:05:54 I was I was I'm going to my friends I'm I'm going to get to me, they
Starting point is 01:06:01 said that no, I'm not, I'm not I'm not I'm not I'm not, you know,
Starting point is 01:06:04 you were very chisks for to do you know they're not you
Starting point is 01:06:08 don't you don't you're not you're not you you're not you're not the
Starting point is 01:06:14 mind you not you not you not the only the only the only you
Starting point is 01:06:18 was you was fantastic thanks to that you're a woman
Starting point is 01:06:22 you you know you you don't you you and we
Starting point is 01:06:27 we're we we're we're so that that's that
Starting point is 01:06:31 that's a cause to be able to talk to his family and say, well, look, the truth, let me in the I'm in the but I'm
Starting point is 01:06:38 an hero. Obio. And if it's an errant. Because more than have been to have been to the
Starting point is 01:06:43 malvina's, or say, salient to get to and it's a new. It was a and he was.
Starting point is 01:06:49 And he was and now to have to say, let me. This is my true. That's another
Starting point is 01:06:53 story. That's another story. That's another. But well, but I said your family what did?
Starting point is 01:06:59 Me, said, me They've been abasaron, yurraughts, I'm contubed I'm contubed I'm sure now they're
Starting point is 01:07:04 not of your mentira, now are you don't know about the man, the child who supported the
Starting point is 01:07:10 infirno, the who took courage to to get to get to the nada and without to nobody
Starting point is 01:07:15 in this man that they they're doing now they're so they're so much so I'm so I'm
Starting point is 01:07:20 so I'm that you acceptes and that you want you're but it's a
Starting point is 01:07:26 process of therapy to get to get there and the fact
Starting point is 01:07:30 it's like but for that's that it's that you to invest to to get to to work to work with a professional
Starting point is 01:07:36 of the mental to be able to get that and be the things and be free of the and the
Starting point is 01:07:43 of the verguenza because I'm sure I'm totally now. Now you can feel that's
Starting point is 01:07:48 that's that's he's something but before before without the therapy
Starting point is 01:07:51 without the self mental he's I'm sure sure I've
Starting point is 01:07:55 been been been been been been a of
Starting point is 01:07:57 not I go, for that the day that he called, I'm, I'm, I'm going to go, I don't have
Starting point is 01:08:06 many, I'm not and I'm saying, I'm doing very simple, I'm a revolver in the hand. I'm saying,
Starting point is 01:08:12 if I'm doing a opportunity with you, I'm going to be a lot of a bit of a psychopata me want to
Starting point is 01:08:20 me. Oh, well, you're not you know, but you're the story. But, the
Starting point is 01:08:27 really, what I'm the angusia. And me that that person not so that person, not the same.
Starting point is 01:08:33 Very different. No, no, I didn't want to disappear to this world, yeah, no, I'm
Starting point is 01:08:38 a right, and I'm a right, and I'm and I'm going to let me what that's, I'm three years. How?
Starting point is 01:08:45 Three years all the weeks. Three years all the times, to get to that's a
Starting point is 01:08:49 place. Wow. And that's a mouctor of auto-emore. And that's auto-emore, the
Starting point is 01:08:57 therapy, that is He opens the possibility of the Felicidad. To say, to conclude, I want to ask you,
Starting point is 01:09:04 something, something, something, something, something is that the auto-amor to help to be happy? Yes,
Starting point is 01:09:08 sure. For sure. Because, because you put in a state where you're in a receptive to
Starting point is 01:09:14 the felicity, when you are doing your narcissism, with your auto-estim, more said, that some
Starting point is 01:09:22 those are not we're talking to the same, when you when you're when you are more
Starting point is 01:09:28 tolerant with the with the most manage your your moods, you know, you know, you know, you know, less with the
Starting point is 01:09:34 other than you, and you know, that's a idea, I'm but I'm with the sameity. I'm to tell the point
Starting point is 01:09:41 where I'm to say, look, you know, that's the I'm going to go, yeah, and I'm going,
Starting point is 01:09:45 and that's that's a thing. That's a that's a love, that's that's a love, and
Starting point is 01:09:51 that's a person to be to be able to be a man, because it's know, you know,
Starting point is 01:09:55 who's the person that's not the person that's about the same because the person that's that you know,
Starting point is 01:10:02 because no they're to know the thing that's the thing. The Felicidad more than the illusion, this is your new book.
Starting point is 01:10:09 You're 11 books, you're 11, books, and this is to the eventa yeah in all the
Starting point is 01:10:13 libraries in digital, in version, in Amazon, in any place, a lot of a lot of the to the
Starting point is 01:10:20 things to talk to come to come, it's a good book. It's precious. Is that.
Starting point is 01:10:25 Yeah. And, yeah. And also I commented in the program of radio that me can't
Starting point is 01:10:30 in the audio books. And you pass to get yeah the version narrated by you in
Starting point is 01:10:33 an audio book. In brief. In brevet the version narrated.
Starting point is 01:10:39 I said to Gabriel that me my, my books favorite me can't listen
Starting point is 01:10:43 not one but much many times and then then I'm never buy them put them
Starting point is 01:10:49 resultators umarillo rosas this, to give the little to the little bit
Starting point is 01:10:56 to talk, but I'm going to talk, that I'm to be a my, to be a little bit of the book.
Starting point is 01:11:03 Yes, a book a little bit is a book too, exactly. Oh, and for
Starting point is 01:11:08 to start, you want, to give, you know, I'm, I'm going to these little bit of
Starting point is 01:11:13 these ojitas, because me said Gabriel, that in a program of the radio, the, the conductor, or the infitriom
Starting point is 01:11:21 that, some of the and there's so you're so you don't you don't know
Starting point is 01:11:25 you're not you're in how much you're not those who you're like those that you're not
Starting point is 01:11:32 the podcast not time the limit but we're we're we're getting with this flavor of
Starting point is 01:11:37 this flavor of the book to we're we're going to let's be those or three you want to
Starting point is 01:11:43 you know well we're one of one of those we've always we've been
Starting point is 01:11:48 we've been we've been never sanaran not Let's say that the sombrows of the past oscurek in the present. I'm going to
Starting point is 01:11:58 another. No, we're going to be with someone only to let's get a placey. Estemes with someone
Starting point is 01:12:05 when only with our vacuos we can't feel us wow, that is powerful. That is powerfulissimo.
Starting point is 01:12:14 You'll say another. As like all the amories, as not those amores are
Starting point is 01:12:21 living, not all the battles are be liberated. There are battles that convine ceder, even having reason, because to be able to be able to have a place and not reason.
Starting point is 01:12:36 What honor to know you in person. Well, the same I go, my God. Thank you for giving to Mexico. Thanks for being to Mexico. Thanks for being with us in this podcast. Thanks for the books that you're you're writing. That's your way. Well, that's your way. But Gabriel
Starting point is 01:12:56 us will have three books autographed and we're going to be a giveaway for those that's the so they're going to be in pendenters approximately. Let's go to,
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Starting point is 01:13:17 going to do to do this giveaway in this time that's coming the podcast. Oh, they're trying, yeah.
Starting point is 01:13:23 If it's got got goted the book of Gabriel is being super very. There is
Starting point is 01:13:27 We'll pass. How are, are two? Are you? Well, we're going to do a third. For sure.
Starting point is 01:13:35 Front to all in the podcast, those will be to give-a- and we're going to give-away. Gabriel, what are your
Starting point is 01:13:41 social? For your social? Gabriel. Rollom is the Instagram and Licenseado Rollon is the
Starting point is 01:13:48 X. The X. And for there there is a TikTok that if you put Gabriel Rollon,
Starting point is 01:13:51 TikTok, you appear. Perfect. Well, I mean me I'm found like Mark
Starting point is 01:13:55 Antonio Regile in all the and I'll think they're on the Instagram and
Starting point is 01:13:59 our list of our list of the Correos If we're inscrows our list of our list of our local
Starting point is 01:14:05 for that they're part of our community, the community of the podcast, of the community of Instagram and we'll
Starting point is 01:14:10 let us give us to know how we're going to obsequia how we're to do this apapacho this giveaway
Starting point is 01:14:16 of three of three books and so much many, many thanks Gabriel you're
Starting point is 01:14:20 that is the book number 11 and that's your your radio
Starting point is 01:14:25 social, you know some site of internet where the people you can't see.
Starting point is 01:14:28 There's a course of you have a real of you do you know about it. Yeah, yeah,
Starting point is 01:14:31 yeah there's there's many many there's many things that I've done
Starting point is 01:14:37 for the channel of YouTube that are very little there are some things there are
Starting point is 01:14:42 very well. I don't always I'm not so I'm very much I'm very incha,
Starting point is 01:14:47 very perfectionist but there some because the team of production has been to
Starting point is 01:14:53 get good. You thank you you thank you I'm doing this effort to travel for all the world and you're doing
Starting point is 01:14:58 good news and you know you know the doors about your podcast and the program of the radio also thank you
Starting point is 01:15:06 your heart of your good. Look, ohal the real to the Mexicans the
Starting point is 01:15:10 like the the book. First, for a question of me personal because those consider
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