El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 321 - Sana los acuerdos invisibles de tu familia - Anamar Orihuela
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Issa Business Centers,
Spacios of
Work,
that you
help in the
business
and the
abuela,
the bared,
obviously,
it's a
woman who's
a new-
and the nietta
and the bidsnieta
and she prostit
to do you.
A hour
to do a
therapy with
her
and we
did it
was an
alliance
with the
women
of the
families.
What are
the
the
people are
the realties
families?
All the
families
have
they have
contracts
and
not
verbales.
Nobody
says
They're established.
In this family,
the women
not confiamos
in the
family.
In this family,
nobody is
exitoso economically.
All this is
inconscient.
Nobody knows
that it's doing.
And in the
regular no-verbal
is a
always a alliance
with the
pain, the
carencia,
is an alliance
with what the
system
no has.
That's very
very strong.
There's
there.
There's experience of
patients that I
have taken
that I'm
still that
I'm
feel to
my mom.
I mean,
you can't
have a
relation
because you
have
a relation
with
a
Subo to his
his
his
level and
he put to
his wife
and a
his wife
to compete.
So,
so here
nobody
is always
our
alliances,
the
reglas
verbales
are
memorisated
in the
memory of
our
memory of
the episode of
today has a
very,
very,
very,
very interesting
that has
to be
with
secretes
familyaries,
with
sombras
with
traumas
that were
not in
our
life,
but
we're
heredamos, is
that's
the
abuela,
of mom,
papal,
abelos,
tatarabuelos,
we're not
only only
the color
of the
color of the
color of
the color of
the
people,
but we're
not,
they've
especially
if not
those
resolved
they're
in our
lives,
they can
present in
two,
three
generations
after.
That's
just
sometimes sombras
families,
or secretes
familyars or
accuards
not
verbales
that's
established
to be
be very interesting the
theme, because
they present them,
is that's
for example,
someone in the
family,
he prostitue,
someone in the
family,
killed a person,
someone in the
family,
triedioned,
violo,
abused
of someone,
but it
was a secret
because it was
a verygues
to be that
so.
So,
although the
children don't
know,
the niets
not know,
the bidsnietos
not
know,
can repeat
a pattern of conducta
of something that
we don't even
know that
what's
it's interesting
the time
no?
And obviously
we're going to
talk to
how sonar it
for that's
we're going to
get a podcast
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has given
to millions and
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and one is
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that's that
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reasons of
those
the people we
we've been
and that we
don't understand
we're not
a lot of
what I've
given and what
I can't
can't
but this
of the
rules no
verbal is
that's
establishes
in
family
the
secretos
family
the matrimonios
energetic
that's super
interesting the
thing,
Namar.
It's very
important and
is that really
it's quite
it's
that we're
not we're
individuals,
or so that
in reality
we're part
of a
system
a living,
our family,
our
families,
our
those generations
that we
are,
it's a
system
a system
we're
part of
this
system
and many of the things
that today
we're doing,
we're in,
we're doing
as part of
the herency
of the system
and as well
we're just
not only
we're done
the eyes
and oh,
is that
it's that
the surprise,
the
kind of
that's a
form of
about of the
abuel
that you
know,
there are
there who
there are
even who know
even who
even who
even who
not lived
with their
father
and
they have
a series
of the comportments
of this herencia.
So we're part
of a grand
arbor,
of a system
and we have
to investigate
and be curious of
what happened
there.
The people
indigernas
when they're
their
their antepasasas
are like
God and
they're resan
to the
abelos
to the
mother,
a vuel,
they're
they're asking
to do
his antipasasas
they
do they
they're
they're
a energy that
is alive
in the
present.
Totally.
So, really, there
many cultures,
no, in Japan,
there are many
cultures that
have just this
conscience,
to honor
to the
old people,
to know
their history.
I've always
thought,
how little and
that would be
that we'd
would be that
we'd
know what
what was in
the history
of our ancestors.
Because
not have
no doubt
that we
all we're
reproducing
that history,
those
dolors,
those nudes,
and that
we need
we start we start investigating,
always,
to know,
and the fact
that's that
this is so
this is too
there's just
there's many
things.
Why not we
start with this
what are the
the lealtities
or the
contracts invisible
that's
or the
regulations,
nobody's
says, but
they're
so, but you
can't do
those
the families
They have
contracts and
regals
no verbales.
So,
so,
some situations,
for example,
in this
family,
the
women,
we're not
confiamos
in the
women,
we're not,
we're,
we're
we're,
we're not,
we're
not,
we're,
we're
we're just,
we're,
we're,
in this
family,
nobody is
exitoso
economically
all,
we,
we're,
we're,
we're,
we're,
we're indeutados.
In this family,
the,
the men are the 30 years.
Uh-huh.
So,
there are many,
there are many,
even when we're,
famous,
like the,
or,
or,
stories of,
of persons
that there's a
real no-verbal,
and it's a
situation where
this in the
system, no
pass.
Uh-huh.
In the system,
no,
there's
abundance, in the
system,
the,
the,
the,
the
women are,
are the women are
not confian
in the
women are
they're not
or they're
or they're
or they're
or they're
in this
family we
we're in this family
we're
the infirmat
is as part of
the not of
and that
this is
not you
don't you
don't you
in the
family you no
you don't
you're not
you're going to
you're
you're you
you try in your
inconsiente
an alliance
with that's
system of these
women,
for example,
that were violented?
How,
how many women
were women
we've been in
families where
there was much
violence?
And today,
you,
for example,
maybe not
you're not
the woman
violentada,
but if you
say, the
regal is,
I don't
to permit,
I mean,
to me,
not to be
to be a
violentar,
I'm going to
be a
violentator,
because I
want to
be part of
my abuela,
of my
mother,
who were
they've
been
there's
a
violentatoras
so I
will be
to reproduce
that I'm
not know
I'm not
I'm
know how
I'm
my
regal
no-verbal
I'm
I'm
a regular
no
verbal
with the
women
of my
lineage
or
with
the
men
the
men
the
men
people
we're
all
we're
we're
in
our
masculinity
we're
we're
not
we're
controlled
by
the
women
so
here
we
we
triarched. And you,
of a repent,
you can represent the
obeja negra
of the family, because,
this is a personage
very interesting in systems.
The oveja
is that the
person that represents
something that
is a problem.
So, how?
You,
you're going to
be exitoso economically?
How?
You if you're
going to have a
family?
A bit, no.
You, who
you think is that
is, no?
Or,
that represents
the negated
of the system.
Here,
we're
disciplined,
we're
perfectionists,
and the
Obeja
Negra is
the artist
destructurated,
that no
be deseclure
the reglas,
that is
chaotic.
So,
really,
all we're
we're representing
a paper
in the
system.
We're part
of a
system
and we
serve to
the
rules
no verbales
of this
system,
of what
has
been
permitted, of the things that
have done, of the those nudes
that have, that's been
there, of the nudes of
the dolor that's been
trapped, traumatizing our
system, because just in the
chapter earlier, we
about the
areas, the
areas of the individual,
these dolores
that have in the
body, these, those
have to be at
level individual, but
those we have
a level collective.
Uh, so
that, that, that,
that, that,
that, that, that,
that, that,
that, that, that,
that, that,
that, that,
,
be women
solas
when you
are the
the child
of that mother
and that
that's
that regla
no-verbal
here the
nobody
me says
that I'm
it's a
practice,
it's a
world,
it's normalize
and for
that's the
thing, so
so how you
know,
how you know
how you know
those
are the
rules
no verbales
of your
systems?
are
systems
so systems
of
repetitions
that
have
been
the
people
and the
people
the
people
you
don't
question
is part of the
life.
And the
actuan.
No,
we're not
about
of that
because the
regulations
are inconsient
and we
are,
and are
some,
they're
we're
many
aspects.
The first
for
pertenencia.
So,
we're
we're
we're,
we're,
we're,
we're not
a natural
of the
tribe.
Exactly.
Nobody
wants
said,
the
upestado,
the
desterado,
the
redasado,
nobody
we're
so.
So,
So, you see the
regla no-verbal
because
you're
part of
the system.
You know
that regal
because
as a
little,
you know,
you know,
you know,
you know,
so you
imagineate,
you're a
little
in a
family
where your
mom
you grew
a little,
your
abuela
you're
so-
and then
you,
at,
all,
at that
that's a
the
that's a lot of
that's where
is where it's
where it's
and it's where
the regla
no verbal
of the system
now I'm
now I'm
a woman
that's the woman
a woman,
a woman, a
woman, a
woman, and with
this I'm trying to
carry the
the dolor of the
mother of the
I'm part of the
the
story.
All this is inconsient.
Nobody
nobody knows
that's
that's doing.
So,
because,
a bit,
we're going to
understand
that we're
that great
part of what
we're doing
and act on
the life
is our
really,
what we're
doing,
that's what we're
that we've
brought here
to the,
to the
that's
that's all
to be ready to
be able to
get to
work,
be disciplined,
be disciplined,
to make decisions,
but it's
still still
the grand
majority of
the aspects
that govern
in our
life,
are in
the
inconsient
and in
in those regals
no verbales,
of things that
over all
us are in the
plan affective.
For example,
how was the
money in your
system?
How were the
love?
What were the
people?
How was it
lived the
love
the
life?
The success.
The success.
The liberty.
Of the
the liberty,
of the
person, in this
family,
all are
all are
scientists, all are
scientists,
you have
to be scientific.
And you
have to
and then
if you
did it
list,
well,
you know
are part of that
system.
Or they're
so they're
not really,
I don't want to
have a religion.
Yeah, I
know, I
know, I'm
not, I'm
not, I'm
not going to
that religion
of my family.
I'm going to
another religion
or not
practice a religion?
Yeah.
Although it's
is almost
is the
extreme?
It's the
extreme?
Uh-huh.
So,
when the family
is a
no,
there's much
religion.
I'm ateo.
I'm
am the,
I'm,
I'm the,
I say,
the,
uh,
the,
because as
because as
we've
we're
we're
we're
all we're
in the
system
in their
necessity
evolution
our
our
our system
advanced
with us
so here
nobody
is
nobody's
so
if you
you're
you're
you're
with
people
with
more
because
we're
we're
we're
talking
the
the
reglas
no
verbal
and
in the
regular
is
a
alliance
with
an
the pain
the
problem, the
is an
alliance with
the,
with the
system
no has
that's very
very strong.
So,
that can
have an
alliance with
the
problem,
with the
poverty,
with the
crisis,
with the
fracacacus,
with the
misocrib,
with the
question,
with a
thing,
there can't
be alliances,
although the
results are
there can be
there's a
question that
you know,
that's
not so
it's not
difficult
to
get to
what are
the
alliances
that you
have your
abelels
and he's
the creator
that's
the creator
of the
constellations
familyaries
that
after seven
generations
after.
Seven
generations
after
you can
be able
you can
be
hered
and you
can't
continue
reproducing
this
and you
tell you
I said
reproducing
this
door and
we're
this
alliance
because
we're
we're
because
we're
Cargare the
Dolar
of the
system and
for
love to
our
parents.
Here's
here the
word
Helinger,
theologo
and spiritualist
Alemann,
creator of
the constellations
family.
I imagine
that this
you refer to
this
said,
and we
know,
we're
not sure
we're
notces of
our own
and ancestors,
and our
different,
we're
we're just
we're
being conscious
to
them,
and liberate
to the
influence.
So,
so,
so there's
there's
a solution.
We're
going to
talk
to
talk about
the
information. And you will say, is that
really is very difficult
see what you
see. So,
really,
uh,
eyes that no,
they're doing,
says John Bradshaw,
uh,
eyes,
uh,
so,
this that no
see,
uh,
uh,
actually,
uh,
really,
not you're going to
know,
you're going to
talk about
that's,
but we're
doing the system
today's is
actuando this
and this
alliance with
the
carencia,
with the
women
solas, with the
women violent,
with the alcoholism.
With the
suffering in general.
With the
suffering in general.
Yeah.
And there is
where,
I mean,
we accept them
these alliances
to be part of
the dolor,
to be part of the
tribe, basically.
And also
to repair them.
To repair them.
Because for
that's repetimus.
So,
the compulsion
of repetition
has to
have to
the opportunity
to repair them.
And this
for the
world
spirituals
about
when I
sano
I'm
a
generation
as a
way of
that's
so is
precious
I've
I've
been
patients
working
a
family
family
where
his
his
his
was
in
his
house
and
he
said
he
he
did
he
in
relation
to
a
therapy
a
therapy
of
the
work
to
all
all
all
all
the
the
no-verbales,
are memorized
in the memory
of our
body.
I,
for example,
I can't
have to
have a
patient and
we can't
be working,
as a
recent, we
were working
that she
has a
partner,
but finally
she has
an mante,
no
can't
be comprometer
is,
is,
but not
is-
and then
then,
working this
that she,
for her,
the more
infiel,
the most
bad
person,
at the hour
to do a
time to do a
therapy
with your
we've done
that it
was a
alliance
with the
women
dis-leal
of the
family
and how
we know
we know
because
corporalently
without
she
she was
something that
she said
I'm
I'm
infiel
to
your papa
no no
no
those are
those
those
those
are the
so
inconsient
she inconsient
she
she
he does
do
something
that
that needs
to
need to
and
So then a therapy
where
emerge that
is a
a therapy that
is a work.
Yeah,
we're going to
talk about
with more
more than the
next segment we're
to be able to
the secrets.
So,
sana she has
a sad,
and obviously
sanas and
and then
your kids
or your
not going to
repeat that pattern.
So,
it's the
liberate the
energy and
the nudo of
this system.
Okay,
get in the
podcast
because more
about about
to learn
how liberate,
how to
we're doing
we're going to
we're
we're going to
we're
this.
Before
to
the first
block,
I'm going to
talk to
the matrimonies
energetical,
because that
also is a
type of
that's a
kind of,
and it's
like very
obvious,
but of the
that's
it's super
common.
Yes,
it's
a lot of
okay.
So,
then we're
in that the
system has
his
hierarchies,
uh,
has a
has a
word,
that's also
the system
of,
the,
the order
of the,
the,
So, the parents are in a
gerarchy
than a hierarchy
than the
kids.
The kids
are a genera
major than a
general than
the general
has a
little bit of
the hierarchy
within the
system.
So,
not it's
not a
not a
little
a
or that
even a
one,
a brother to
a manor
a mano
major.
So,
the
children
have to
get
in a
little
and
what is
when,
for
example,
a
matrimonio
not
have
a relation
a
soodable
then
the papa
has a
his
his princess
his love
and the
and he
he he
considerate
is that
his mom
and she
put
always
this
his
priority
and is
her
and her
and
her
and her
husband
there
she
she's
the
she's
she
she
she's
but
this is
her
princess
what
does
the
father
is
that is that
sub to his
to the
same level
of hierarchy.
Or even
or even
more up?
That's a
matrimonio
energetic.
That is a
matrimonial
because now
he's
a little
he put to
his wife and
his wife to
his wife to
and to
feel that
he has,
that has the
relation with
his papa.
Are these
women
or
have 30, 40
and that
they can't
establish a
relationship a
because they're
or they're
a couple of
a pair,
that is your
father or
his mother.
And that is
something that,
not is that,
you know,
is that you
have you
know,
is that you're
going to do you
and you're,
and they're
going to say,
no, what
you're here
with the
back over
a little,
a point no.
Like,
whoa,
the Cerebrough
me is
being,
wow,
me's doing
whiltas,
I mean,
you can't be in a
relation,
because you
have a relation
with a
mom.
So,
the
places are,
the
place is
occupied.
A bit of
example,
every one,
every one of
the places
of our
system,
has a
kind of
an
energy,
okay?
So,
the place
of my
partner,
if I
do you,
I,
I occupied
the place,
I'm,
I'm the
partner,
or of my
mother,
then,
then I don't
have a
responsibility.
So,
I have
to
have to
that contract
that's
a matrimon
energetic
with my
father,
because,
it's a
question very
dolorousa.
So,
if the
father
and you
do you
do you
do your
woman,
no,
no,
has to
have sex
evidently
is a
matrimonio
emotional.
You know,
this,
you know,
this,
he rompe
your
relation with
your
mother,
because
you put
to compete
to
compete with
the
love
and the
attention
of
the,
of the,
I mean,
the,
I,
let us
put to
compete,
so,
the,
it's,
it's
a,
eternally,
fiel to
him,
in this
matrimon,
and in
a life
of much
insatisfaction.
All this
is done
the
inconsient.
So,
of a
time,
or they're
in a
therapy,
or they're
saying,
no, I'm,
what more
that's,
but always that
a person
to come
to my
father,
or I
I'm
who
I'm trying to
or I'm
feeling that
I'm
there's
I've
even I've
even though
I'm
I'm still
I'm
am still that
my mom
my mom
always this
this
also makes
of the
carency
no
imagine
you know
imagineate
you
a
that's a
that
not has a
relationship
and that
has
how you know
that's
how you
do you
do you
do it's
I'm
my son
I'm
a man
I'm
a
his mom
has
divorced
and the
he said
he said
he said
he said
he said
he said
he said
all of his
his wife
oh Mark
Antonio is
like my
because
I'm
to all the
reunions
or the
interviews when
she
had gained
premiums
for his
and
he said
that was
his
he was a
he was a
part
so
so it was
so
so it
for you
not
I'm
because
I'm
because
I'm
because
I'm
I'm
so you
No, because, that's the
the theme of the contracts.
What?
No, it's
not a lot of
when someone
fallacy?
No, it's
Oh, Christ
Baja
to the cross.
For that.
But,
but we can't do
do that therapy.
No,
we'll do a pause.
We'll see a
pausita.
When we're
a pause,
we're in the
thing, no?
We'll continue
about the
matrimonios
and how
resolve that
and how is this
of that,
and how is this
that, no,
it's a
God,
oh, God,
of what
I'm
going to
and
also
we're going to
and we're
about to
talk about
when in a
generation
before,
the case
typical of the
songs
rancheras
or the
songs were in
a cabaret
where I
found she
and he
know a
the vuela
that's
prostituia
she was
she was
she was
she made
a secret
family
and then
and the
nieto
the bidsnieta
even
they don't
have an
necessity
economic
and
apparently
not have
no necessity,
it's prostitue.
This is
how it
it's solosionate
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we're going to
with us
here.
This,
before
to go to
the secretes
familyers,
this of the
matrimonios
we're in
us,
we're doing,
us,
especially.
A bit of,
let me say,
that's quite
say that's
because really
we're supposed
in families
where the
parents
not are responsible
and conscientious
of their
needs,
in matrimonios
where in this
idea of
being
felices for
ever
in
reality
no
there's
no
there's
no there
no
there's
not a
not much
we're
we're
from our
from
our
co-dependency
in
relations
that
not
you know
and
so
it's
very common
that in
this
in this
entorn
the
father or
the
mom
take a
a
child
to
get
that
not
to get
those
how's
how
of
us or how
you've
lived
mom's and
papas
that's
they're
talking about
about
and they're
about
of your
and the
questions of
father
of
a
situation
with the
money
things
that as
you know
you know
you know
you know
you know
you
don't
you know
the capacity
to
digerer
and that
that is the
form
in that
a
a man
to get
to
the
same
the
same
So,
you invite
to
talk about
about
about
about
things that
not have
to be
with your
age,
making you
see,
a little
an adult,
an adult
a little
a little
a
exact,
and lethando
see,
your
and so
the
and
because
as
the
noblesa
of the
young
that we
we're
the only
that
we're
we're
a
mother
to hear his
lachrimas,
uh,
send you
have to do
something to do
do you know,
be a perfectionist
for that she
get to be
yeah,
get to be a
get that
another example
for a
yeah,
oh yeah,
but with
many different
different
women divorciated
well normally
the children
are the
mother,
normally the
there are some
there are
some of the
people who are
the woman who
doesn't
the one,
two,
three,
four
children,
she's
only,
is, it's,
not that's
not that's,
especially if
not have studied
this or
if not received
an orientation,
it's very
common that
mom or pap
or divorcedado
,
he'll,
come into,
and looking the
role of
a pair of
some of
his kids.
It's
quite common
and I
want to
say, the
thing has to
be with
the
fact of
the
factiva
that we
have been
we're
actually,
effectively
we're
going to
see,
but as
you can't
recargart
in your
children, because it's an abuse.
Well, no, there's education, no education,
psychological, emotional.
Nobody's prepare for that.
And so, for so
we're going to
these examples of that my
my mom,
my mom, was in front
in the coach and my
spouse at last, no?
My mom is
like the wow
of the,
the,
the, the,
my, the,
you are a X,
so that,
so,
so,
many times,
they did some
more, that
they did
a
his
two
because
really not
those
they're not
not they're
not,
but their
their
amos
and they
my
my hit,
I'm
my little
and I'm
a very
a man
really,
you get
at the
altitude
like I
and is
competing
with the
no
or so
to be
to be
you
you do you
do you
do you
because
try
so the
camis
because
it was
because it's
her
I mean, I'm...
I'm going to hear all the rues
that are here
from...
So,
like when my perrito
is a keha,
um,
oh,
oh,
you know,
so you're saying
that they're
talking of you?
Uh,
uh,
well,
uh,
welcome,
so,
it's very,
it's very,
it's very,
it's very,
it's,
it's,
so,
no,
no,
no,
no,
with a suor
,
clear,
or with a
sure,
of,
so,
so,
so,
so,
so,
so,
so,
so,
so,
as it's suterrune
and she's a matrimonio
I've got to be a lot of
one of the things
more cabroses that I've seen one in therapy
To be a bit of
That's a bit more
Chismessito spiritual
She was a
She was a mother
A very matriarcha
He's a son
He's super dependent
Economically
Economically
I was she was the
Fuerre the first
So it's the best
Toes to cause to
Toes to your kids
to your fandas
So, no
you permit
to develop
a
individuality.
So,
I'm overprotectorate
and so
they're going to
be able to
keep up
your palm.
Uh-huh.
Never's
going to
go to
be there
a telenovela.
Horrible.
Yeah.
It's a
macabro.
But it's
inconscientite,
eh?
I mean,
it's for
a fear.
I'm a
fear,
I'm not
to be a
fear,
I'm getting
a lot,
so I'm
then so,
I'm going to
over-
protect,
those
go to
them,
I'm going to do.
I'm with the
money, as
my mom,
because also
they're doing the
patriarchs, as
as they're going
to do you
and they're going to
and they're
going to be in my
palm and I'm
under my control.
If it's a
many people,
where, ah,
you're not,
you know,
the papa or
the abelos
you're a
big, but
that's a
department.
It's a
price.
It's a
no, no,
no, no, no.
The price is
what?
Who manned in the
family?
As he is.
The person
the
is. And this
fulano
vivied with his
mother.
The mom,
for the
supposed,
he said,
in his
his terrano
various
houses,
I had
his children.
I said,
in some
my patient,
is that
the mom
is so
inferman
that when we
when we're,
when we're
when we're
when we're
when we're
going to,
no,
no.
She entered
to the
no,
don't,
don't,
no.
How when
they're
doing the
love the
mom
the mom
the mom
enter.
imagineate in a
time when she
started much
to be in
banning
to be here
my hitho
yeah tallyate
yeah
salgance
bruce
so horrible
so it
that's
like a
vienna
to be a vienna
yeah
I mean
these things
pass
so it's
like a
like Ursula
like the
the mansal
the
blacknanaves
so
so that
is
and this
has to
have to
with
the
matrimonio
and
I'm
saying the kuchy-cucci. And also like
to, uh,
sootava the
door and it's out of the
door and it's salia. No
I said nothing, but it wasot
a lot of the door and
it's not, you imagine
the level of suffering
of a system
collapsed in this
sense.
That horrible.
But,
to let's go
to say,
this don't think
that's something
very common, eh?
It's very common?
It's a
common.
It's a lot common.
It's a lot
common that the
moms,
uh,
make
children
dependents
affectives and
economic or that
the papas
do you
do not evenes
affectives
and they're
a dependency
that then
then you can't
you can't
your own
your own
because that
the place
you're
because you
know
you're
you're
you're
you're not
so you
so then
we're
so really we
we're
we're
if you
if you
you're
if you
you're
you're
you're
you're
your mom
and your
mom and
you're
your maximum
you have a matrimonial
energy.
Very probably
I had a
noviour
that I'm
that I said
when we were
like we're doing
like carandos
so.
So,
so I said
is that
is that I
to go to
confess
and I'm
saying
I'm just that
I'm not
I'm sorry
I'm sorry
I'm
and I'm
and I'm
sure
that's
that's right
but why
because
we don't
we don't
do we're
not
only those
that we're
we'd have we'd have
done
of my
papas.
Oh!
Imagine
at the level
of control.
Aha!
So,
yeah,
suffraised
to be
avergonsabat
that we
had been
done to
the other than
his father.
And I said,
confiast
you,
you're very
agust
and I was
and I was
and she
confessed about
and we
was a
is an
example of
an
education
based on
the
in the
in the
fault
of
and the
part.
It was
like with
the
kind of
energetic,
it was like with
a mom.
So,
so,
so,
so,
so,
yeah,
because,
when the papas,
they were,
they're,
they're,
they're,
exactly.
So,
when the
parents
not
connection and
have to be
together,
they're
using,
they're
they're
so,
and then
all his
energy
is a
turn to
in the
child.
So,
the
he's,
the child
is the
great pretext
for
that they're
so that's
just the
this
is
a
kind of
in a
dysfunctional,
no.
Oh,
then we're
a
person who's
a lot of
a new
and then
that's,
imagine two
people who
have been
a
matrimon
an
energy
and they
and then
they're
and then
they're
that's
after you
know,
so when
you
put you
put to
your
mother
front
to your
family
when
you know
when you
know
you know
you
when you
when you
you're
a
adult
you
you
your
family
nuclear
your
priority
you
are
your
fathers.
No.
Yeah,
no is your
mother.
It's your
wife, your
husband, your
son,
your
children, they're
your
family,
you, you,
you,
you, you,
you,
you're,
when you
still,
you're
when you
do you
do this,
you know,
then you
have a
matrimonion
energetic.
You can't
be
between
or
among
someone
that's
someone
that I
can't,
but I'm
a matrimon
with my
Anna, that with my
marino
or the
other than I'm
absolutely.
We can
we're doing
we're in
not,
so,
because finally,
what is what
is what is in
a matrimonial
that really
you feel as
like a
priority,
should be the
people,
the people,
the people,
and the people,
are like,
all doing
some of the
little bit of
doing yoga
facial
here.
Sire,
you,
you see,
you're saying,
you're going to
keep on.
Siviv
you're going to
all of us
so,
you're going.
because more
we'll talk about
about the sanation
so can't
be done
you know
divorcee
of the matrimon
energetic
never is
a lot of
solutions
just in this
question
in this question
I said
a little
I had a
question
a
consultant
that said
that said
I was
I wanted
to work
because
not could
do your
own your
family
if it
was
what
was
that
and
and on
a
little
in the
really
her brother
always had
been
his protector
her
support,
she was
she was
always
been very
very
alliated
and then
when a
party
when she
had
when she
had
always
always
with the
brother
for the
brother
never
never was
never
never
never
and
she
she
was
giving
the
major
power
to
her
and
but
in
reality
she
was
was disposed to
to leave that
that,
that,
that,
that,
that's,
that he
doesn't,
or he's
culpability.
No,
in, in
reality,
for she,
she,
she, she
has,
she has
more benefits,
for the
protection,
the
connection,
and the
vincal
that this
he did,
and I,
what,
what I
did,
is,
if you
you,
you,
maintain
this
this
lot,
comod,
with
this
a
relationship
comod
with the
one,
you
you're
going to
do you
were
that,
because those matrimonies
have those
their own
and is that
in reality
never can
reconstructs
your life
that is very
frustrating for
who you
because never
you're at
final,
at 100
with you.
And because
in reality
you can't
you can't
you can't
and you can't
because it's
like a
form of ataske
you know
and it's
you know
and apart
that's horrible
to be
to get to
someone
or start
with someone
or start
with a
priority and our
family not is the priority
your priority is your
your brother is your
your brother is your
your mom
your mom
and here what's
so why we're
so for that we're
for what we're
for that's family
so that's
so really we
we have to do
we're doing
we're in the
little the
the child
the new interior
so can be
so can do
make a divorce
of the matrimony
energetic
that's because
the case
was the
woman
the adult or no
well in the
next segment
we're going to
let's talk
of how
we're
in the matrimonions
energetic
although the
other person
has
fallen.
Yes.
It's a
question
that's a
question.
Okay,
but the
secretos
familiares,
yeah,
we're not
we're
but the
secretos
familiares,
this,
why,
what's the
abuela,
the abel,
the abelalal,
the abelal
how and
why he
could have
affected, no,
the example
that I said
I was,
that I,
that I
just in a
book very
famous that
is called
secretes
secretes familiares.
We studied
some one
a book
horrible,
so,
because it
about about
about
How is possible that if the
was a prostituta and nobody
knew it's up in the family,
and now there's reasons,
yeah the conditions
changed,
why the nietta,
why the bisnieta
could have done
with this?
Okay.
This has to be
with the,
the not,
the not
to be verbalize
the things that
don't know.
Uh,
so,
all those secrets,
for example,
think you're
what are the
secrets that
never have
said to the
parents?
Uh,
what are the
are the secrets
that are
the secretos
between
brothers or
the secrets that
never
you're
to say
to your
family.
The secrets
are things
are
that you
guard
that you
guard
energetically
for
that
and that
that
if they
if they
were a
person
or if
they were
that my
brother
or if
they were
those
secrets
are
they're
so I
know
I don't
I'm
not I'm
not going to
let me
my family
someone
she's suicide and
and that my
nieters
know the
system
borre
those figures
because
what's
that's
that they're
that's
those secrets
are
for a
and they
and they're
and they're
so it's
a sentiment
of indignity
so the
thing
not just
not just
not just
not just
with what
it's
what there
what there is
what there
is to
this
me
does it
because no
because I'm,
because they're
to rechazz
because
no me van
to make a
secret.
I don't
call to
my orientation
sexual.
Because that
that's,
that's,
that's,
I'm so,
and that
has a
need a
need to
get,
because,
because then
it's an
energy
torada
into,
into your
own,
the,
so,
the
things,
the
thing has to
have to
have been
to be
with
this
sentiment of
being
to be
to beckon
it's
for that
we're
we're
we're
we're
because
we're
we're
we're
we've
we've been
the
dignity
so the
so the
so the
that's
that's
that
that's
of that
that
that
and what
what
is that
a
past
that
that
be
a
a
secret to the
abuela of
the
abel
then
there
there
there
generation that
a person
a person who is
the Obeja
that's the
secret.
Actual
the secret.
Actual the secret.
For example,
I had a
case of a
patient that
always had asthma
that always
sentia that
was always
problems with
the garganta
and well,
it's incredible
how we get
there,
but we
get to the
story of
an abelah
aorcared
for her
parja
she was
she was reproducing
a nudo
of a
situation
dolorosa
and how
they got
she didn't
she didn't
she didn't
know
not sure
not that
not
how they
knew
how it was
for that
it was
it was very
interesting
because
when
we were
we're
we're
revisando
the
symptom
because
I
work
with the
symptom
the
body
the
the
the
person
to give
I'm, I'm
like if me arekaren,
I see a
woman here,
and she's
she's a description,
the symptom of
the thing,
of the,
that was like
to hear of the
symptom.
Ah,
was to hear the
symptom.
A part of the
symptom,
we started to
see the
image of that
they were
and a part of
there,
she could
do a
investigation
of what was
what was.
He was to
ask,
to investigate,
that's super
interesting.
We,
we were
in this
program
we've
seen
the
book of the
secretes
of the
of the
of the
of the
exactly
exactly
in a
record
so I'm
a
and the
time
to do you
to do
to visit
to
all our
all of
all the
people all the
people
all the
people
obviously
not
this is
we have
weh
and we
we can't
we can't
we
we can
we can
we can
we can
about
how
how
to verify
because
you say
my mom, my
papa,
they're married,
the abelos
were like,
so it's like you
like you're
like you're
like you're
like you're
like you're
that's the
story.
But here
the interesting is
that when
you're going
to be past
with my father
to my
years, you
they're
they're going to
tell you
they're just
they're
to have ever
when you're
they're like
and they're
so my mom
that's not
so no,
no, no,
look,
look,
what happens is
that you
no,
nothing to
have
nothing to
many
years,
and many
those boys or
those boys are
people who
don't know
there's a
nobody who
there's
and they're a
idea of the
stories and so
we did
we're doing
and we
did it.
It was very
interesting
what each
one of
the
people
we're going
to say
all over
aubel
no you
goy
don't you
goy
yeah
yeah
yeah
yeah
because
really
really
we know
really
we
really
We know the history official.
Aha, the that we
the acceptable.
The acceptable.
When you're a child,
but adult and they're
young,
you're just a great story
that's the story
official.
The grand majority
of our parents
have an history
not-contated
that has been
with secrets
of situations
that we're reproducing
so, for example,
as you never
you never
to say to
you're going to
do you want to
to be able to
okay, but
generally not.
Normally not.
I mean, no, no, no,
not, no, no, not.
Normally no, but my mom
was very, this,
this,
a, okay, okay,
okay, okay.
Well,
imagine us that the
mom, no,
so the mother
not,
they'd,
I'm,
I'm up to
aborting.
I'm,
I'm up to
aborting.
I'm,
you're going to
say, oh,
you,
abusable,
abusable,
of me,
not,
not,
you're,
you're,
you're,
you're,
you're,
you're,
you're,
you're,
You know, these stories, generally not
we're going to say to our children.
Or the boyle, was prostitutes,
I was there,
or we were the uppedrados of the people,
because in reality, the abuela
had with all the people, no?
So, what a verguenza!
What a verguenza, because we're
the most povres and we always
trailed the sapato rotos.
And then, nobody was
we're going.
What a verguenza, no?
So we're, we're not?
We're, we're, that we, that
all these aspects
us make
guard a
very much
you're
you're not
you're
so you're
doing so
you're doing
something
in a
way of our
need to
make a
carpaz
status
and all
these things
finally
they're
that's
what are
that's
making
making
making
making you
in terms
of
our
in terms of
our
and
the
and the
fact
that all
that
when a
mom
was
he was
was
at
point
to
aborting
to
that
that
that's
he could
have
much
predisposition
to the
murder.
And he
no
know the
is a
secret.
Uh-huh.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Okay.
So,
how?
Like,
if they were,
if they were
to be
a possibility
to aborting
to,
how the
he can't
have a
pre-disposion
to be a
very,
oh,
because no
has to
do it
all depends
the context.
Oh,
these
episodes
always
end up
me therapy
to me.
It has
to be
to
because
not
the
same,
everything
everything
all has to
your
mom.
But if you
were at
a point of
to move
and you
were in
a situation
where you
took as
energetically
the
death,
so you
can't have
a predisposition
to the
death,
a
that's a
place,
to,
we're,
we're
in the
world,
let's
predisposion
to the
most we're
no,
no, no,
but
I'm referring to
that,
I'm not,
to
suicide, to a
that a conflict with the
life, with accept
the, for example,
the time of biars
respiratories,
a thing very
very strong with the
skin, a
thing like a
conflict with the
life.
Okay,
yeah.
That's,
we can be.
We can't
go.
So, so,
but all this
can be sanar.
All this
is.
So, it's,
we can't
have to be
to give us
a lot,
and it's
you can't
sanar.
What do you
see in the
second and
the last
segment of the
podcast?
Okay.
We're about
how
sanar,
then those
these secrets
family and how
to end up
those matrimonies
energetic, of
how to cover
conscience and
to let us
for that
not we're
going to
our own
our life.
Because if
we're not
that we're
in a
pariah,
with someone
that's trying
the same
that's where
it's where it
does it.
Well,
after the
pausa, we'll
be ideas,
tips,
to help
to be able
sanar,
advice,
to be able to
do this
that maybe
we've been
herdating
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talk about it
was interesting
that's interesting
the conversation
yeah
what
they're
the moment
honestly
how do you
know
about what
they're
saying
don't
don't they're
not they're
there's
the majority
that they're
there's
there's
inconsientes
or that
No, no, they don't know.
No,
and apart,
also one could
hereder
things marvellousas.
So,
not everything is
as well,
there's a lot of
those are
those are
problems, but,
so,
that's so
that's a
beautiful.
And that's
important to
validate,
and I
think that
I think that
I think,
I think,
I think,
that nobody
can accept those
dones
without,
without,
without,
first,
the,
the,
it's,
it's,
it's,
it's,
it's,
in the
same
partetitit
totally.
When
you
you're
enoched
or when you
know that's
inconsient
of a
part of
this,
for example,
a person
enoched
with the
never will
be able to
accept the
don'ts
that you
have the
when you
when you
you have a
problem,
it's a
form of
disconnection
and of
this
and you
you're not
you're not
you're not
you're
going to
get to
you're
to get to
your conflict
and
then they
then
the
what is what
a
lot of
a
person
the point
he
reconciled
with her
mother,
he
he's
things that
were
marvellousas
and that
their
nojo
never let's
them
so that's
so that
so interesting
fifte
the psychologist
francis
Anne An
Anselin
Schutzenberg
does that
is the number
or no
yeah?
Yes
Yes
it's
says
determined
realities
are
so difficult
what we
we're
talking
of the
secretes
of
family
no
Dicestered
Determinades
are so difficult
that the
parents decide
call them
in the
first generation
is something
is something
is something
a secret
of family
in the
third
is it
in an
impensable
genealogical
is that
that is
that is
it's not
prohibited
you know
you know
the
movie
a very
of cocoa
yeah
coco
that just
that just
about
that
a lian
family
where
they can
the
abuela,
the abuela
the bula
co-
the mother,
the mom
of cocoa
the mom of
co-to
this,
odia
to his
party because
she went
because she
abandoned her
music,
so she
doesn't
that the
guitar
and nobody
can't
talk the
guitar
that's a
little
what is the
phrase,
in this
family
no,
in this
family
in this
family, we
we're
that is
something
because the
abelel
abandoned
to the
bula
abandoned to
the
mother
so you
no
is to talk a guitar.
So,
so the system
reprimed
the music
and then
always is the
Oveja Negra.
The Oveja
Negra is
Miguel.
Miguel,
the
boy,
is the
little.
So, for
example,
in another
other
movie that
about
about this
that we
about.
It's
in can't.
Encanto.
Incant,
so,
the,
no,
he's not
about,
every one
of the
characters
of this
movie
has the
the
paper
that
we've
We've got
done
of the
systems.
Uh-huh.
There's,
for example,
Luisa,
that's the
future.
In a
system,
she's
the rescatara
or the rescat
or the
hero.
Yeah.
It's
always the
obeha
that's she
the other
the star of
the
film.
But in
both
cases,
according
when they
go and
discover the
real real
history,
no,
it's like
like when
Miguel
Baik
busks
and he
and
all,
and so,
and
it's
and it
and it's
it was like. No, no, because
we're not because we're
we're talking with the
interpretation of the
problem and with
many resources. And with
a story. And with a story.
Of course, there's a
other movie also that
about just the memories,
of how one can
go editing the memories
that you put in a chip
and then when you
you'd be you,
it was all your
story within this
chip.
And how,
at the hour
of this
person,
and to revisit the memories
that record about
with much
blood, with much
aspects,
he'd have found
that in reality
was a
interpretation of
the mirada of
that manned
that's a
story.
And it's
for that
we're,
when we're
when we're
trying our
history,
we have to
get with the
adult to
actualize
these realities
and what
is what
in the
movies.
So,
so,
so,
it's,
it's,
it's a
look,
a
man,
of the
new
I'm going to
talk about
I'm
going to be
about.
I'm
I'm
I'm going to
I'm
I'm
I'm
I'm
I'm
and I'm
and I
remember the
that that
that's a
house when
I was
a new year
I
was a
that I'm
a little
I'm a
normal no?
It was
the
place where
we're
my
year I
saw it
two
years my
brother
my brother
for
a
reason was to
that
house and we
and we sent it
a photo and
the triangle
was a
little bit of a
little bit of
this is
an example
of what we
know what we
know what we're
doing it's
all it's a
huge more
great,
enormous, it's
dolorous
and reconcilable
if we
want to
our history
and going
with the
mind of
our children
then will
be going
going to
be able
being the
world that
the world that
the same
to the
but what
we need
is to
learn
to develop a
a mirrored
an
a adult.
the adult is the adult.
the adult is curious.
has a,
has a car of arrements
a lot of the years
and the experience.
So,
an element
fundamental to sanar
is construct
us an adult
because the
great majority
we're going for the
life,
being
children of
40,
of 50,
how you
know you're
a kid?
Because
always the
other.
Because you
never
assume the
responsibility.
Because
over-dimension
all.
Because
nothing
has
because
you need
someone
that you
do you
do
because
it has
has
a
vision
like
infantilized
so
so,
so
we're
living
the
life
from
that
the
thing,
very enchud, and passive.
So, so we're living...
Indefenso.
In defense.
A person, me has to rescat.
Someone, mom,
someone has to do you,
to do you know,
we're doing to do you.
To us.
God,ito, salvame.
Jesus.
So, you know,
my mom, virginita,
Jesus, or whatever
say, salvame.
Cargame,
salvame.
Totally.
So,
today we are,
we have,
we have a narcissism,
a narcissism spiritual,
no?
So,
the narsisicism
spiritual.
So,
The children are narcissists
for naturalize.
They're just,
their mom,
her father is of them.
My mom,
my father is of them.
My mom.
My father's
for me.
My father's,
my mom.
My,
my, me, me, me, me.
That's,
that's,
that's,
that's,
that's,
that's,
that's,
but in reality,
so,
many times
we're living
the life
as a little
times
personal,
thinking that
God's,
we're going
to do you
doga,
the yoga,
the meditation,
all
the
that's the knowledge that I have
and I'm really
the responsibility of, to be,
of what it's
it's,
of that you end up your
camera, no?
I mean, that you,
that's, that you're responsible
of the things more,
more common is
like your reactions
violentas,
that you
are responsible
of your
fear, of the
form in the
way in the
you're talking,
of how has
relevado to
your parents
with you
about your
kind of
you,
these
these doleons
and those
are you're
reproducing
without
and question to
not you're
question about
why
why all the
women of
your systems
are so
why the
people
always have
things with
the alcohol
because
there's an
abuse there
there's an abuse
we're
we're never
to negate
what
what's
and we
convertamos
in adults
in adults
that they
are
that they
investigate
that are
curiousos, that
assume the responsibility and that
know that there's a
first thing. So, passu number one,
would be, I'm the intention
to sanar.
That's my intention.
My intention is sanar.
To who's the intention?
If you're just to
stop it?
I mean, I said,
to go to pay
to suffer, to
give a $100,
then I'm going to
do my $100
dollars.
Or those invest in
therapy or I go,
I have the intention
to sanar.
If I have the intention
to sanar, I'm
disposed to
disposed to
have
what I
think is
the truth
with new
eyes.
Yes.
I would
say the
intention and the
intention and the
intention
but one day
I'm going to
go to
get to
get a
thing I'm
my hitho
we have
the grand
intention of
many things
but to
when?
The
lunace
uh
the
lunace
now for
the year
now for the
new
the
new
the
the intention
the
the
disposition the
the
Voluntad
and
the
and I
would say
I'd
say the
love
the
I'm saying
the motor
the motor
the motor
that
we're
to move
for
for the
really
think there
there's
that there
a reality
more
more
more
amourous
is the
love
you know
we
know
we're
and appreciate
for
we
and
visualizern
with
this
merceiment
and
in
those
realities
that
we're we're
not we're
not doing
not so
those,
standing with
with parishes
only for
money.
No,
we're not
we're in
positions where
always I'm
always I'm
doing something
something that
never
you're not,
you're always
you're doing
you're playing
with the
life,
not you
the life
really,
no,
I mean,
we can't
be able to
be able to
and of
all
and of
all right,
but
not
live
so I
think
we need
we need
to
create a
auto-compassion
that is
a mode
of a
model
proper
that we
help
to get
the motor
and the
that
that that
that's
that
that we
think
we're
we're
really
very
intentioned
so
this
this
world
is
this
and the
and the
love
and
also
sometimes
means
I'm
going to
go
to
go
the
desire
because
I'm
because
if
I'm
a
And I'm a lot, full of pus and all.
Well, I'm going to put a
and the doctor me will be able to be
a pus, me going to be
something to sanar, and me
will dole. But it will
do, but it's
a matter of that, because that's
a more. Amor not is
to avoid the dolor.
Yeah. A lot, I don't know
I'm going to always, but a
sometimes the dolor is necessary
for sanar. And see this,
ver the secrets
familyarers, darkewarmness,
that you're going to be,
you know, it's a lotrimonio.
It's.
Dole.
Dole the therapy and the
Sanation is the
thing is the thing. I always
I always say to my students,
it's going to get a moment
in that you're going to want to
want to want to
any kind of
any kind of
the money, the
traffic and I think
that's something that
also is very common
I mean,
many times
it's a job
to investir a
in a therapy
or invests
in a job
of a job of
a service
but a
bolza and some
the
lot
you know
another
other stuff
another iPhone
vending
oh because
that's
me do
see you
know
the status
so you
a new
a little
yeah
yeah
yeah
here's
my value
so here
so here
and so
and then
really
we're
we're
I know
I was
I know
a
person
a
yeah
a little
so
a guy
so a
very
he's
very
car
is lim
or
no
no
No, not so, not so, not
this, who?
Not so, but it's a,
it's a person who,
that,
that, uh,
be a story
full of infidelities,
of abuse with
women,
of noho with
them,
of the rechazz.
And I thought,
how can,
how can we dedicate us
the life to,
do a,
and not to,
a, a,
a, a,
a,
a,
one's a dorm,
but it's a dorm,
not?
Because it's a,
do it's a,
do it,
to do a,
do it,
to do
Lujo,
could
be a
form of
evading the
reality.
But at
final,
the reality
you'll
get a
reality.
I think
that it
could be
that all
we're doing
that we
say a
thing.
The A
VG is,
it's,
to do,
to us
will get.
And to
all us
get that
factura.
And it's
there
we're going
to be
what we
do we
really what
we need
because
the
aspects
dolorosos
and all
these
alliances and
all these
situations
that
we don't we're
our disorders and
our
their injuries,
they're
they're in
the veges.
And so
they're more
great.
It's,
as it
like we
never
me,
I never me,
I never
me dole
here,
never me
tronable here,
and it's
a moment
in that you
get a
physically,
so it
happens with
the world
emotional.
And the
no,
no,
no,
it's
cargating
with more
more
things not sanadas.
And then those
erred us.
And then you
are you're going to
because,
that's a reder,
because not because
not because not
those have said,
it's not because
not they're,
it's in the
system to
the system to
we're
I always
in that,
I mean,
me,
I think,
in the
sanation,
in my
sanation,
putting
to liberate
to my
her and
putting
to give
more
permissions
to give me
a couple of
a model
like a
reference
that's
me inspired
to be
something.
I mean
you know
heredes
casas
no hered
this
money,
you know,
an
life of
a
life of a
personal
full of
respect
of
love,
of
compromise and
and the
really
you've
invested
into
so
you
have
not
so
her
Salud emotional
Herodd
good
habits,
the habit
of communicate
to talk
to explore,
to revisit
to say,
and see
me read them
a casita
also,
no,
no,
no,
not we're
not we're
not even
but that's
full of
phantasm
and it
doesn't
that's
that's an
that
that's an
that has
that has
that has
that
has a
particular,
no,
because
then then
now,
you're
you're
to have
to represent
to
the abuel,
no,
if
you
you're
is what
you're doing the constellations
I've never
you've done
a constellation
familiar,
who's been to
the man?
Who has done?
Who,
no,
have done the
hand?
Who, who
didn't even have
heard of a
constellation
familiar?
Here,
there are many
that no.
I never
I've done,
I've heard,
but I've heard
stories, Claudia,
Alcarazaki,
here in our
producer,
there are various
people of the
people,
they've done
a maraville
that they're
doing and they
do a voice
to other
people in the
family is,
like a
gestalt,
that,
massive,
not?
as
as
as,
as,
what happens,
what happens
is that
this camp
of the
we've been
this camp
of the
is represented
for these
people who
are the
people who
this,
of this
interpretation.
So when
we're
about us,
of how
with the
murder
not they're
not
the
contractors
in this
representation
you can
you can
just
the
because the
people
actuant
the
camp
but you
how
they're
they're
how they're
they
didn't even know,
and you're my
family,
or not just
you're the
abuela,
you're the
mother,
you're the,
the mom,
oh,
my,
you're,
no?
Just because
they're
at the
disposition of
the camp.
And there's
a
time, the
camp, of
the camp,
of who's
that's the
energy.
The energy.
It's the,
is the,
it's the,
we're,
we're,
we're,
we're,
we're,
we,
we're,
we,
we're,
we're,
and we,
and we,
and we,
we,
evidence
scientific.
I mean,
just,
just because
then the
end in the
crucifions
that's
that's a
thing,
that's a
yeah, that's
no,
that's,
I think,
I think,
there have been
many,
many,
many,
many,
many,
many,
many,
many,
many,
many,
people,
of this
type of
theories,
but are
so,
so,
how,
how,
how you can
make,
you know,
how can,
in
relation to
the camp
and how
so it
there
scientific?
So,
no,
evidence
scientific, but
if there,
for example,
grandes
like Verheelinger
that's
a job,
to work
to work with
the camp.
Of course,
of there
came the
concept,
no,
John Bradshaw
or all
these that
have dedicated
all his
life to
work to
work with
this energy
and that
really
really,
not,
no,
not,
not,
not,
not,
but who
people were
we're
with the
alma,
with trauma,
with nudes
energetical.
I mean
has been
very clear
that I
know that I
need to
prepare me
not only
only for
for
comprehend and
to work
psychologically
to be able
to be
to help
it's
and able to
have to
have some
sometimes even
even after
some
because of
the
you really,
those need
you
you want
to be
really
at the
service
of
someone
for example
I
had a
a
a patient
that
a
asthma, a situation that
had a day
since that's
a new
a car,
I really
like I'm
working with the
symptom of
her
she said,
she was
was a
exeated
that since
well,
total, the
case is that
a,
a woman
was fixied
in the
house where
she got
and in
a way
she was
she le
like,
in what
the matter
of the
school
you're
they're
the
more
to
know?
Well, no.
So, really, no.
It's something that you have to
learn, because if it's
because if we
don't know,
because if we're trying
energetically,
if we're
to find us to
our patients and
we're doing,
and there the
only that we
is our service,
the faith,
and you,
and you understand
that these
realities are
not are scientifics
and that are,
and that are
to validate them,
because no,
because no-se-
because not-se-mitted,
No,
no more
it's responsible
to say this
this is a
evidence
scientific,
but a much
people have
done a result
and you know,
if you have
a mind
abirate and
you want to
and then you
know,
now also,
making justice
to this
thing of the
science,
well the
psychology
was recognized
as a
150 years.
Not
not mean
says that
so 50
years
not served
the psychology.
Or the
meditation,
the mindfulness
he has
recently
in the
last few
decades.
Sure.
Scientifically
but
it's
It's just
more
than 2,000
years, more than
2,000 years
of that
we're practically
in the India,
in Asia.
So,
the science
little to
have been
to prove
some things,
others not.
And
there's always
there's a
thing that
not is
recognized
scientifically
that maybe
that's
that's
not,
so,
so,
because
also because
for the
investigations
scientific
are required
presuppest
that
many
sometimes
not,
the,
the,
the,
those,
the,
those,
the,
It has to be
someone.
It has to be
someone with
an grand
presupposed
to create
to find out of
that that
reality exists
like what
what's
in the
mindfulness
and that
that's
we can't
do it
but that
that existed
and I
know.
I think
we know
that we
can generate
that
investigation
but
but without
people
we're
we're
we're
we're
we're
we're
and that's
real and
there
many
many doctors
psychologists
that
have
have been
done books
that are
these
realities and that
have done
these things and
that are very
profound and that
it's like that
it's like the
thing of the
thing of the
thing of the
things,
no, the
things that exist.
It's also
the years
youngs,
now the
psychology
modern,
it's
a,
I'm,
how,
when you know,
when you're
when you're
when you're
when you're
when you're
so,
thanks.
So,
Suions Lusid,
so you're
the name
that the
psychology
modern
and the
So,
you're
yogicos is the
name that
received from
since many
of years.
But it's
a camp
incredibly
interesting.
But to
who is
an interest
about that?
Who will
do you
do that
people
have a
life?
So, the
people are
motivated and
have millions
of dollars
to put
to do you?
The
science,
it has been
demonstrated,
what has
this is very
important.
I,
we're not
we're just
calificing
to the
science.
We're
just about
saying that for
that there's
studies
scientifics
has to be
someone with
much money
very motivated
to get to
study that's
and why I'm
what I'm going to
what I'm going to
to do you
do that product I
want to
do you know
to the
benefit?
To the
to the
humanity
us benefit
but there
no there
no I'm
a company
private
or maybe
there is there
we know
we're doing
just doing
you're
doing it's
responsible to
say oh yeah
this is responsible
to say it's
personal, decided
to maintain me
with the
mind
very abjured
because I
know,
but what
don't,
but what do
if tomorrow
is?
Yeah.
And also
he presta
much to
chat,
a charlataner
yeah.
Just for the
natural
so I
always, I
think it's
very delicate
to work
with energy
and with
the camp
I know
a much
constellators,
I know
a much
constellators,
I know many
close to
you know
very
very
camp, if
you know
what
can't
get to
get to
because
in the
camp
is all.
This
this
body
energy
that we
we're
that we
have
all the
different
and from
all
malditions
to
brusions,
after
brus
to
bads
vbras
then
so that
you put
to
you put
to
the camp
of a person
that you
know
Well,
you can connect with that
energetically.
I mean,
not is
anything.
I think
that you have to
have to have
much
because there are
many options
that you
do you can
do you
do that's the
time.
And that's the
problem.
And the
fact is that
we've done
years and
years studying
to be able
to do the
better
and with the
more
resources,
no?
So we
we have to
be very
selectives,
very adultos
at the
way
to choose
a
solution.
The
The advice final is
to dissolve
accords,
no verbales,
matrimonios
energetic,
even if the
person
and the person
and so
secretos
familiares
because I
know, I
can't like
barnisar to
all,
this is the
solution.
There's
a therapy,
there's a
job
internal,
but some
some
tips that
you can
make to
do you
do this?
Yes,
for example,
they're
a,
a,
a,
a,
a,
a system
familiar,
to his
abuelos,
to his
fathers,
his brothers,
and making
this
the
different of the
system of
repetitions
that they're
in relation to
things like
the money,
like the
children,
the
patrons,
that are
they're
they're
they're
what are
the patterns
that's
the
and you
see that
you're
you
those patterns.
The
fact is
to observe
in
what areas
of your
life
you're
allied
with
your
system.
I
I think we could
do even
exercises
like when
you're
when you're
a
kind of a
question
that you
know a
a man
with your mom
with your
mom,
then you
would you
a ritual,
you know,
a ritual
of divorce.
A ritual
of divorce
literal.
So,
do you know,
ask us
something that's
something that's
something that's
something that's
something that's
I'm saying
me,
so.
You know,
you know,
we're doing.
We do we.
We do.
We're doing,
in the,
in the,
in the,
in the,
in the,
energy
of the
people who
came to
run per
the accord.
So,
is something
that you know,
I'm explained,
you know,
we've done
quite,
intuitive,
and perceptive.
And because
you have to
do,
say,
ah,
yeah,
I'm,
the difference.
The difference is
that you
don't know
the difference is that
you know,
is the
person,
who has to
go to the
encounter
with that
with that contract
you know
you don't
you're going
to do you
know for
so I'm
I'll say
I'll give
this tip
no
then the
general
see your
well you
write a
letter and at
the
maybe
you'll
say
but I'm
saying
if
the
if the
work
that
that's
not
you're
not
not
but you
know
but for
the
question
but I'm
that's
what we
do you
just
is
is to get to the
child with your
body,
your emotions,
and your
sensations,
from your
cerebral reptilian
and your
cerebral limbical
to the
contract,
because if the
child is
the child,
he has to
know that he
will be
to be a
good,
that has in
you,
someone who
he will be
to be a
that is dis-leal,
that no is
culpable,
that can
give us
that responsibility
to his mother
or a
father,
and that he
will be
be
being.
And that's
something
that's a
thing is a
little to be the
little bit of the
connection
that has the
that's a
manned
you know,
you know,
you know,
you're going to
do you
don't you
do that
we're going
to run per
this
accord but
you're not
to get a
your momita,
to your
brother,
to your
brother, because
we're going
to renegotiar.
So,
is.
We're going
to renegotiate.
That is
the
clave,
the word
clave.
So,
the
the child,
only
can't
the
contract if you
you do
you do you
do you
do that's a
real of a
thing to get a
change.
Something he's
going to
not to get to
nothing because
he has done
the way.
And now I
want to say
you know
is a
metaphor
a beautiful
that is a
system of
that has
has a
has been the
power
executive
of many
and that
we need to
learn to
know,
I always
to be
to be
much
more to
do
to know
our systems
lastimated
that's
sanarlos, me
I'm explained
some day
we'll be
some of them
but to know
but to know
so the
the new is who
did the contract, the
alliance, the
accord, that's
the
that we're
to have to
work and
you'll
say,
you need to
work to
the therapy.
Not it
not easy
to sitat
a
doming
that not
you're doing
that's doing
nothing and
put to
write to
give you
it's
really
you know
you know
you know
it's
it's
it's
that toques
things
that you can't
do you
can't be
you're in
really
you're doing
mentally and
not serve
of anything
or serve
a little
or is the
expert is the
therapist
a professional
a professional
of the
health
qualified
to put
to put
to the
podcast is a
point of
the podcast not
the podcast is the
podcast is the
point of
the
that you
can
that
it's
to make
a
recorrent
to
and to
the
Pess to
that,
you know,
to cause
a lot,
and a
time you know,
it's the
real thing,
it's the
thing.
Ooh,
because on the
other
other side
there's
there's
that you.
Sure.
In the
other
other side,
recuperas
your
real real
you,
on the other
thing you have to,
always be a
always the
thing, the
thing,
the do you know,
the doctorate,
these mechanisms
are very,
much castrante,
liberate
of that
to discover that you have
done to do you
know,
and to be a
process.
And to live your process.
And you have to
you have a choice.
Yes.
You have a
disordering.
You have a,
to have to have a
torment.
Yes.
And you have to
be able to
be there in the
torment.
That is precious.
And it's urgent
to be,
just here's,
here's so.
That's,
that is,
that's,
to know,
that's,
to be,
to be,
to be,
to be
in a torment
accompanied of
you know,
when you
you're
you're
staying
your torment,
you know,
you know,
you know,
Dr.
is in psychology
spiritual,
always us
said, in the
masteria,
they said,
all the
people are we
our dignity
to live our
own own
process.
Yeah.
So, no
carryer in a
nobody,
and you
carerreirest
you,
the dignity
to live your
process,
no,
because you
did you
have to
get to
do you,
and your
friends
have to
no, no,
no, no.
No.
Every
every
no,
proposal.
To live your process.
And there's a
the process
a year.
And there's
a process
to do you
do a year.
And every
in their process.
The theme is
that if you
metas
to the process.
Exactly.
That's not.
No, I
know, I
know, I'm
not there's
not right.
It's not.
The dignity
is disconnected
no,
I'm not.
I'm not.
So,
it's not.
It's that
I'm,
oh,
no,
it's like,
it's like,
it's like,
it's like,
it's like,
it's like,
it's like,
because
something,
well,
that's
right.
Exactly.
Bendita
Ignorance.
No,
no, no,
it's bendita.
I'm
sure that
never is
bendita.
And really
to
lose the
fear to
to end up
to get us
because
we're going
to be
all the
life
and
we're
and to
get
to get
the
fear
is
is to
understand
that the
is
to
that
that's
that
the
most important,
no
is a
Cancun
or
Spain,
or Vancouver.
It's
to be it.
It's
like that
it's so
simple,
like that
morning that
you
just made
you're
a fraud
like that
you're
that you
were you
you were
to be able to
care.
And that
moment,
to be
a testigo
of that
reality,
no.
That's
that really is
the
time.
No,
it's so
that's
so
Mara Origuela, we have
an
applause with
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a good
thank you
thank you.
Bravo.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you.
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We're going to
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Well,
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