El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 324 - Cómo tratar la ansiedad - Sara Beneyto

Episode Date: May 27, 2024

¿Te has sentido abrumada o abrumado y no sabes por qué? ¡Puede ser la ansiedad! Que aparece en tu vida de forma inesperada, haciéndote sentir que no hay una salida clara.Esta sensación puede ser... agotadora y afectar tu vida personal y profesional.¡No todo está perdido! Acompáñame esta semana junto con Sara Beneyto, a explorar las causas y efectos de la ansiedad, descubre qué la desencadena y aprende técnicas efectivas para manejarla y recuperar tu tranquilidad. ¿Estás dejando tus sueños para después? Te invito a mi masterclass gratuita: “Descubre tu potencial y alcanza tus sueños”. ¡Da el salto, deja de postergar y conquista lo que quieres! Regístrate aquí: marcoantonioregil.com/potencial-pod Mira el episodio en video en: https://bit.ly/episodio324 Sigue a Sara Beneyto en:https://www.instagram.com/sarabeneyto_ En mi canal de Telegram, accede a contenido e invitaciones solo para fans. Únete en: marcoantonioregil.com/telegramDescarga GRATIS nuestra revista digital y encuentra información inédita del episodio de la semana. Da click en https://marcoantonioregil.com/aprendamos *Importante: Nuestros invitados son expertos en sus temas y reflejan su conocimiento y su punto de vista, siendo conscientes de que cada una de las opiniones es totalmente personal. La información, datos, comentarios, estadísticas que se presenten en el Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil, son de exclusiva responsabilidad de quienes las emiten y no representan, necesariamente, el pensamiento de Marco Antonio Regil o de la producción del podcast.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 San Pablo Natural, no bages the guardia, refuerces your defenses, Presenta. Neurovion Presenta. Of the the diagnostics, in 2019,
Starting point is 00:00:14 were 301 million of people. And it's demonstrated in numerous studies that the 80% of the people that have been
Starting point is 00:00:21 preoccupations excessively, the 25% only is real. The restant never ever gets to
Starting point is 00:00:28 happen. It's in our mind. the suffering mental that I'm having yeah it's a affecter my because I'm like in a state of emergency constant. It's very in the mind
Starting point is 00:00:36 the trastron of anxiety with the depression. When it comes a moment that is a shock, that's a crisis, then the attacks of anxiety for a time can present.
Starting point is 00:00:46 It's a need to to have a pern't subit of control over me myself. But in what moment is a infirmiso?
Starting point is 00:00:55 The anxiety is like a messenger. If you talk the door of your house and not you have been with more force
Starting point is 00:01:01 until that I'm going to hear of that's so that I'm so you're in the
Starting point is 00:01:09 present, in the here and the here now without we're to the
Starting point is 00:01:15 but how when the voice our mind we we're
Starting point is 00:01:19 to attack and he does the the sy and he
Starting point is 00:01:23 I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm so I'm I'm I'm
Starting point is 00:01:28 so I'm so I'm I'm I'm I and divorce and if I and if I'm going to and if this
Starting point is 00:01:34 is this airs and if no, that's a stress horrible. And when
Starting point is 00:01:39 it's a when it's when it's when it's to pass to the anxiety? And when they get
Starting point is 00:01:43 to give us to do the nada and certainly or they have passed you know, or know
Starting point is 00:01:49 someone that's a night night and I'm feeling that that can get to
Starting point is 00:01:53 not can't feel but the mind you can't say you can't how can't
Starting point is 00:01:57 how many the difference between the stress and the anxiety. How manage the
Starting point is 00:02:02 anxiety is can prevent is common that's a how to how how is a grade is normal and is part of
Starting point is 00:02:09 the life and in what moment we can say this is a time to go to get to the therapy, to give to
Starting point is 00:02:14 give to those attacks of the anxiety? Well, that is the thing of we're going to talk about
Starting point is 00:02:19 today, because it's a problem that's a million and millions and millions of people in
Starting point is 00:02:23 the world, some in form constant, to others us have done in form intermitentent
Starting point is 00:02:28 and we can learn how prevening, how gestioner, how manage, and understand
Starting point is 00:02:32 how you know, it's normal and where you is a time of attention. Today will be with us from us
Starting point is 00:02:38 because of the islands, Canaries, well, live in Cormaaca, but not see in the Islands,
Starting point is 00:02:42 Canaries, Sarah Benito, psychologist, creator of the platform digital of therapy online Cidosam
Starting point is 00:02:49 that's that has permitted to do a company to do many, millions and
Starting point is 00:02:53 many of people in all the world and their best beingstor their
Starting point is 00:02:58 lives. We're in the hotel Fiesta In Insurgentes Viaducto in the city of Mexico, and we've invited to our students of our courses in line. We're able to learn to learn together? So, we're going to!
Starting point is 00:03:16 Episomeo 324. It's a production of RGEL Entertainment and all its rights are reserved. Well, we're going to start with the podcast of today. If you're going to
Starting point is 00:03:42 content that we do that the video, activate the subscribe to our channel
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Starting point is 00:03:49 seeing or listening. That's us do you do you know that that's a little
Starting point is 00:03:56 to say to say that so that we're here to thank you thank you thank you
Starting point is 00:04:01 thank you when you when you did you do you a podcast you do a little
Starting point is 00:04:05 a little a little a yeah a all us a little a little
Starting point is 00:04:10 a little the day is present. Correct. And it's natural and adaptative
Starting point is 00:04:16 and it does it better. It's natural and it adaptative. We can't talk about
Starting point is 00:04:20 a little more of that. The fact of that something and that we want to do it
Starting point is 00:04:26 generate our body a little of anxiety. And that does it does that we can't
Starting point is 00:04:31 do that we're going to that we're not not not if we didn't we're
Starting point is 00:04:36 that maybe the the disempeachment, we'd be a bit more.
Starting point is 00:04:42 So, is fear, stress, anxiety, are like primos, are the same, no are the
Starting point is 00:04:49 same? The anxiety always has a little of a problem and stress,
Starting point is 00:04:55 and also also has much fear, but in levels symptomatic chiquot
Starting point is 00:04:59 so, when we're when we feel we're a way suavisite, we can,
Starting point is 00:05:05 we, we're to help to to make to make us or to to be done to make sure to make sure
Starting point is 00:05:10 that's a little more elevated, that's a problematica because that cause a interference in our day
Starting point is 00:05:17 to do you and far as to do that exactly the opposite. So a little to us to survive and to get the
Starting point is 00:05:24 more of us. Exactly. Okay. How we know, two questions to answer the order that you want to
Starting point is 00:05:30 how we know this anxiety, now not not us is doing and it's and
Starting point is 00:05:35 it's to about. We're we're doing we're not a when it's in a way to do you
Starting point is 00:05:44 to do a day-a-day. For example. For example, me impede to do the day-a-day how to get to the
Starting point is 00:05:51 day-to-the-cali, how present me to that interview, how to manage, how how to
Starting point is 00:05:57 talk in public. When you can interfere in the activities daily and we
Starting point is 00:06:03 we can say that we can we can't we're we're in this is persistent in the
Starting point is 00:06:08 time, every every is going to more the symptomatology and it can be
Starting point is 00:06:14 that's a a start in a problem. I'm I'm doing
Starting point is 00:06:17 things that I'm right. There is where I say oh, this
Starting point is 00:06:21 no is not not normal. Exactly. This this is this is a lot
Starting point is 00:06:25 to much is very common? It's very common. It's very probably a percentage of the population,
Starting point is 00:06:34 much more than the present a tristone of anxiety. Sure. I think the Organization World of the Health, but here I have the data, I think is the 4% diagnosedicated. Correct. But the major part of the people not are diagnosed. So, the diagnostic is that yeah was a therapy. Exactly. And that has a diagnostic. But what
Starting point is 00:06:50 what happens with all those people that have gone to therapy and that know they have been identified with some symptoms, but but, well, no, they've been to the
Starting point is 00:06:59 , but no are in these statistics, but they're much more more than you, learn to
Starting point is 00:07:06 do you know, of the diagnosticados in the organization in the health, were 301 million
Starting point is 00:07:12 of people, I'm definitely I think that are much diagnosed, yeah, yeah,
Starting point is 00:07:17 let me the manita who has seen of an some moment of your no,
Starting point is 00:07:20 the great majority, and the and what are those? And what are, and some of
Starting point is 00:07:24 some of you are diagnosed of you, some of are not diagnosed but know
Starting point is 00:07:28 that are living anxiety? Okay. Some who have seen anxiety in your life?
Starting point is 00:07:33 Levanted the man? No, there's one. Right, we're saying that you have seen as
Starting point is 00:07:38 a person that's said, passal here to give us a word and you know, you
Starting point is 00:07:44 know, the immense majority we've experienced the anxiety. Now, the,
Starting point is 00:07:53 yeah we're doing, if no I'm doing something that I'm doing,
Starting point is 00:07:57 that is a time to go to a therapy. When me incapacita to realize my objectives
Starting point is 00:08:04 my dreams, when there's something that's a cause is a
Starting point is 00:08:08 motive to attend what is what is what is and normally is the fear.
Starting point is 00:08:13 For so the anxiety is very related to the fear of to
Starting point is 00:08:16 the fear of to to be to to be to be a fear that I
Starting point is 00:08:22 do you to be a thing that's what is what is what
Starting point is 00:08:26 incapacita to do not the anxiety is an excess of future. I'm thinking
Starting point is 00:08:31 and creating a story that's what you would be the could be the thing,
Starting point is 00:08:36 you know, you know, and you start the turbulence, and you do you and if I go and I'm
Starting point is 00:08:41 I'm sure, and if I'm so I'm so I'm and I'm and the overcap I'm just
Starting point is 00:08:46 and I'm like I'm like you but you when you see the supercargo and you put
Starting point is 00:08:52 the sturt of security and it's oh, my mamita and then And so it's
Starting point is 00:08:56 more the anxiety. Yes, and, of that says the preoccupation, the majority
Starting point is 00:09:01 of the preoccupations are respect to the future. And it's demonstrated in numerous studies that
Starting point is 00:09:06 the 80% of the people who have people who are that's the 25% only
Starting point is 00:09:12 is real. And it gets to to happen. The restant never to happen is in
Starting point is 00:09:19 our mind. Yeah, but the mind says, and if I'm
Starting point is 00:09:22 say, and if I say, But, well, there's a percentage of population that's creed that will be going to be a success, but the reality is that never gets to be to happen
Starting point is 00:09:32 or very few times get to be to see. What if you say is that you start, is that your body, and it's to be in an emergency, even if it's an emergency.
Starting point is 00:09:41 Exactly. Because the mind no identifies what is imaginary of what is real. If you do you think and it, you know, to some way
Starting point is 00:09:48 for your brain, is real. And you start emotions and to create emotions and to create sensations physical,
Starting point is 00:09:53 like if you're living it. For that's very important to work in visualization. Then if
Starting point is 00:09:59 if you want to talk about a part, because it's super effective. More a little bit to say tips,
Starting point is 00:10:06 advice, in the second segment, we'd talk to how gestionar an attack of anxiety.
Starting point is 00:10:12 That's we're going to talk about a more, a attack, is a moment agued, no?
Starting point is 00:10:17 Here I'm seeing another statistic of anxiety and depression of America, the Association of America, the
Starting point is 00:10:22 Association of of the United in 2020 it's that's it's that's the 31
Starting point is 00:10:26 percent of all the adult they're an a problem of an anxiety
Starting point is 00:10:31 in a moment of their one one of three people so that
Starting point is 00:10:35 is super common now if I am this anxiety in form cronica, the
Starting point is 00:10:43 mental that I'm then you start to my body so you because I'm
Starting point is 00:10:47 in state of emergency constant correct and it's important
Starting point is 00:10:52 identify because when no is a time and this is the way this is the
Starting point is 00:10:58 way of the problem as a insomnia, like gastritis, like colitis, even problems like depression
Starting point is 00:11:05 also is very comorbid that means that means that's very the mind the problem, the
Starting point is 00:11:09 problem. So, it's super important. Because it is a really, they're
Starting point is 00:11:15 really of the people who have an anxiety, the have more factors of vulnerability to
Starting point is 00:11:22 to have a a stressorno depressive when when it happens in the life of a person a situation,
Starting point is 00:11:29 because the things we have to find to be more to the people that are the people who don't have been
Starting point is 00:11:39 we're feeling very very sad even where we can't we're with the depression but
Starting point is 00:11:45 that's the depression per se as this has to problem that that's that's a lot of
Starting point is 00:11:53 six months so one a person has a person who can't have a
Starting point is 00:11:57 episode depressive but it's that and it and it and it
Starting point is 00:12:02 and learn to learn that has diagnosed that with an
Starting point is 00:12:07 anteced of anxiety could that can that's maybe
Starting point is 00:12:10 that and it's a different a depression. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:12:19 the Cerebro Reptileano, is the superviveness, the, if I'm attack, I'm going to go to get, I'm going to go to, or I'm going to, or I'll go,
Starting point is 00:12:29 no? It's normal that the Cerebro reptilian wants to prevent what comes in the future to have been in the future to have seen that's a good. That's normal.
Starting point is 00:12:36 I'm going to a city that no know I'm going, there's a town, is there that they can be able or they can robar or can do that
Starting point is 00:12:43 is something, that's normal or to be previninginging the future. But in what moment is
Starting point is 00:12:49 a infirmiso, yeah is an anxiety that's a pain. How do I think I'm constantly.
Starting point is 00:12:56 Constantly I'm not the pros and the pros and the contra to actual. For example,
Starting point is 00:13:00 there is to differentiate a different the response adaptative of the stress and
Starting point is 00:13:04 the anxiety. The stress, for example, I'm going to put a example.
Starting point is 00:13:08 I'm going to be able and I want to sound the alarm
Starting point is 00:13:11 cymica. In this moment they put in march the mechanisms
Starting point is 00:13:16 of the Lucha, or escape, and, well, I'll go going. That's stress,
Starting point is 00:13:21 because it's occurring in the moment present. The anxiety, would be doing, me I'm doing,
Starting point is 00:13:25 and I'm going to say you, what you said before, easy, and he's, and me aghra in paos
Starting point is 00:13:30 menore. And if tiemble, and no I'm not able to get a time, and
Starting point is 00:13:35 if that one of one, well, all we've been a so, and if I'm
Starting point is 00:13:39 to get to get in quarry to exactly, but, but, but,
Starting point is 00:13:42 so is the most of The worst would that me agarre the temblower in the escalar and that's because the thinking of anxiety is
Starting point is 00:13:52 me going to be to die. I'm going to get in the way. If I'm not able to get in the
Starting point is 00:13:58 carerer in the carer. Nunca's never ever. Never had a sonn't a year. Never been a
Starting point is 00:14:05 is horrible. Well, but you salves. Yes, well, yeah, there's,
Starting point is 00:14:07 there's, there's, there's, there's there, one, one of course, but I'm
Starting point is 00:14:12 exactly, I'm going to do you exactly. Exactly. Exactly. So, if this
Starting point is 00:14:14 thinking is recurrent every day of all the situations that I'm going to and if it's a
Starting point is 00:14:18 thing that's not going to do you know what we're not being a incapacitante to do that so what I'm
Starting point is 00:14:24 so I'm so I'm don't know my duched so it so it's incapacitante and yeah
Starting point is 00:14:32 that's necessary to attend it's necessary to attender basically. Yeah, you you're suffering and
Starting point is 00:14:38 suffering and now there's now there there's the death of the change
Starting point is 00:14:43 a change, a thing, a thing, you talk a a stormote
Starting point is 00:14:48 to get a trapped, we're just we're doing, we're we're doing we're we're
Starting point is 00:14:55 so, so it's normal that a crisis is a disperer this anxiety
Starting point is 00:15:01 and it starts to more more recurrent Yeah, it's totally normal
Starting point is 00:15:05 and that is because we're we're a problem, a life. Normally, it's
Starting point is 00:15:14 a sudden infancy, adolescence, but also occur, evidently, in the age of adult, when our abilities
Starting point is 00:15:22 to confront what we're going to are more than are the event per se, we're doing we're doing a stress in
Starting point is 00:15:28 that moment, very elevated, associated to that situation. In the future, when we're living something,
Starting point is 00:15:35 that we're that's a other, you know, a lot, you say the same place, a place, a place
Starting point is 00:15:42 I was listening in that moment, so it's a mechanism of defense, that is the anxiety, in this case. If you're assaulting and, you're all the day, you're trying to, and you're going to go back to start out of salt.
Starting point is 00:15:54 You're going to be, exactly. For that's when there's a problem of anxiety, depending on where it's also, it's associated and it's regenerate another tristourno.
Starting point is 00:16:04 And for example, the phobias specificas like the agoraphobia, which is the most common, that is fear to to go to the way is going to
Starting point is 00:16:12 the person with the person that's a problem because the majority of the stressors of anxiety
Starting point is 00:16:17 or the attacks of panic are in the so they're trying to try to
Starting point is 00:16:23 try to if you like you the episode you see in an event
Starting point is 00:16:28 you start to develop a avion that's yeah it's
Starting point is 00:16:32 if you pass talking in public you you're you a lot
Starting point is 00:16:37 in public. Glosophobia, it's a name. Gloosophobia. Okay. The Greek, Glossolengua, phobia, MEDO.
Starting point is 00:16:43 Interesting. And for example, to be, I don't want to desviaring, but the people, I, for example, I like in the
Starting point is 00:16:49 altars, I've lived in buildings, I've used to be able, but if the space is an
Starting point is 00:16:57 phobia, but never I've been in a precipice, and I can't support, if we're in a little
Starting point is 00:17:01 a little, and you you're, you're, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm,
Starting point is 00:17:04 I'm, I can't any to the precipice nor see that someone see a very much
Starting point is 00:17:11 you know, that's a vertigo, see, if there's a little bit of a ventana, if I'm in a plane,
Starting point is 00:17:17 I'm in a day, I'm in a man, I'm a house and I feel like in the nubes, but no
Starting point is 00:17:22 I could go to be to be a ballcon because but never I've caught.
Starting point is 00:17:27 No, no, because I have that I'm because I'm that I can't have to get to
Starting point is 00:17:31 with the fire, with the fire, with the that I don't go to
Starting point is 00:17:35 the elevators, nor I don't go to get to the car, I'm going to
Starting point is 00:17:39 get to the window but I'm in the people, in those me include you, we've got something.
Starting point is 00:17:46 Or, or we don't record that we have something, but then in the
Starting point is 00:17:51 memories that there can be events, that a more not were a piece
Starting point is 00:17:54 but if for a one was, it was, to be a mess to the
Starting point is 00:17:57 world, no, could be a could be a worded to do
Starting point is 00:18:00 you other vertientes that are there's there's memory
Starting point is 00:18:07 genetic also of our ancestors that's six generations after
Starting point is 00:18:11 three demonstrated scientifically that affect so if my abelito they're
Starting point is 00:18:16 that did that Ibaly well not exactly but so so we're
Starting point is 00:18:22 we're we'regated the narisita of our and they say hey you do
Starting point is 00:18:25 you're to do we're not factors but that that that's
Starting point is 00:18:30 that that was that that was so he's like, how emperazes
Starting point is 00:18:34 the abhorred. I think it had to have passed out of the trauma first, that's
Starting point is 00:18:39 that's that's that's over yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's,
Starting point is 00:18:42 that's, that's that's so it's so, yeah, yeah, I'm
Starting point is 00:18:46 but, yeah, but you know, the cell things, they're six generations.
Starting point is 00:18:54 Three demonstrated scientifically. Three demonstrated scientifically and other three there's there
Starting point is 00:18:57 in, in process, much a literature to be so, so, so,
Starting point is 00:19:02 we never we needn't to get us to get us the time of the time I'm in
Starting point is 00:19:06 a child I'm gonna get over I'mentated like that's like I'm gonna not too no,
Starting point is 00:19:14 no, no, no, no, no, no, nobody was a maceo
Starting point is 00:19:20 so no no, so no everyone, everybody lived a little dramatic reina or prostituta
Starting point is 00:19:26 that's classic yeah, we're we're not we're there's a ball of napoleon
Starting point is 00:19:29 there there there there are there various Christos that I've known for
Starting point is 00:19:33 there yeah, yeah, but then then we don't know. So, no.
Starting point is 00:19:38 It's not that's there's not. Three generations that's that if if she
Starting point is 00:19:42 lived, something, for example, a, a, a, a ex-avuel, he
Starting point is 00:19:46 was incerer. And so, the his-nieto could try to bring problems, fear,
Starting point is 00:19:53 fear, to be a predisposition genetic. It's a claustrophic. Oh, that's a claustrophobia.
Starting point is 00:19:58 Oh, my problems, not, I know, know, No, it's that that's that's
Starting point is 00:20:03 that's all the possibilities. Well, and to that we summamos too, the experiences
Starting point is 00:20:07 of life, for supposed, the learning, the traumas, the traumas that we've
Starting point is 00:20:13 lived in our own but, but well, it's for alarmarse, it's only to
Starting point is 00:20:17 know that sometimes the responsibility is our to cut with that, and, and,
Starting point is 00:20:22 so, even, even, even, we can, we're, we're, we're,
Starting point is 00:20:26 we're, we're, we're, not means that for there we're going to to do you just means
Starting point is 00:20:32 that we're not my and now I'm responsible to be responsible to be in how I'm to find it.
Starting point is 00:20:38 So, understand or to find the explanation not to sanar. I'm having a trauma very well
Starting point is 00:20:42 analyzed and very well explained and those anxieties can get? The people that have
Starting point is 00:20:50 that has an anxiety a area, that's a space serrado. Yes,
Starting point is 00:20:52 yes, the phobias can get. The phobias have a treatment specific, particularly with
Starting point is 00:20:58 therapy cognitive conductual. And if you have to see you to see your not you're in a room
Starting point is 00:21:03 in a quarter in a while to get in that's a kind of a thing. But super, super,
Starting point is 00:21:08 aggressive. Yeah, in the carse, let me do that they do they do? It's a serious.
Starting point is 00:21:14 Yeah, yeah, every they use less, but if there's a type of that's called
Starting point is 00:21:17 inundation and is that they're that they expone to the end of in
Starting point is 00:21:22 the same before, so in the anxiety only can start to get to be a technique
Starting point is 00:21:28 that's used much used a lot of and it's and it's it was effective but very aggressive.
Starting point is 00:21:34 Now the substitute is called desensivization systematical that is that they're to make a progressive
Starting point is 00:21:39 to the stimulus that you do that's a fear of the airna to the and first
Starting point is 00:21:46 in imagination okay okay so I could be disminuying that anxiety
Starting point is 00:21:50 who's who you're to be at the The end of the encuests and I, this, we're
Starting point is 00:21:55 we're going to ask so, we're going to you know, when you're a phobia that's
Starting point is 00:21:59 that you, aurena, space, serrado, precipice, the, these, the,
Starting point is 00:22:04 the women, no see. The matrimonio, for example. Someone in my past had been to have been a
Starting point is 00:22:12 terrible because I've an anxiety with that with that. Okay, well. Also,
Starting point is 00:22:16 also, I mean, it's like, to be a situation. intense and irrational to to do it. It's like to
Starting point is 00:22:25 avoid to be not like the matrimonial or not me like the marriage. It's like me aterra, me can get to get to smear
Starting point is 00:22:32 to get a year. Yes, my jita. Yes, my jita. Yes. If I go in the music of the bodes and I think I'm have to be
Starting point is 00:22:38 to explore. There's a no, no. Okay, but then so you can be able to work. Yes, and as
Starting point is 00:22:45 and while and when the job and I'm disminuited because in the more the anxiety
Starting point is 00:22:50 the time the for example, of the 100% of anxiety that I can experiment in my life, can be focused
Starting point is 00:22:56 in certain things specific as where it's great part of that anxiety. Correct. So, so all you
Starting point is 00:23:02 do you do to work. All right, when, when, when, when the people, the people, the soldiers that
Starting point is 00:23:10 go to the war, a woman that was a person who was in a person who was someone who they were,
Starting point is 00:23:16 they robbed, a little, a little, a little, a little, a little, a little, a,
Starting point is 00:23:17 a little, something. When, when it's a moment that is a shock, that's a crisis, then the attacks of anxiety
Starting point is 00:23:26 for a time they can present more than more than after the episode and even for the rest of the life if no it
Starting point is 00:23:33 if it gets to get a to get a time? Let's get if after the pauseita we can you
Starting point is 00:23:38 get a attack of anxiety of anxiety? Someone has been a having a an attack of anxiety?
Starting point is 00:23:42 Who has given the who has been a an attack of who has who has been who has
Starting point is 00:23:46 who has who has I have got to give one for to to be to be to participate
Starting point is 00:23:51 in the encuels. No, the middle of the public said that's when it
Starting point is 00:23:57 a crisis and when we're going to us guys. We'll get to be a little
Starting point is 00:24:03 a pause a podcast. You know, you know, you're your body,
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Starting point is 00:24:47 continue on the podcast. Sarah Benito about the theme of the anxiety. I don't know the attacks of
Starting point is 00:24:54 the anxiety until my mom during the first year of my mom me was up in the night
Starting point is 00:24:59 and I'm feeling that I was thinking that I'm and I'm and I said p'ratate if I can't
Starting point is 00:25:06 and if we do we see we do we're talking with me I mean I know but wait a I'm able
Starting point is 00:25:11 and I've learned mindfulness and all this simply simply I said I'm still but it's
Starting point is 00:25:18 horrible the thing most horrible that has been the angustia more
Starting point is 00:25:22 horrible that's a that's a normal that's a present. Well,
Starting point is 00:25:26 it's it's not a not it's not really that's after a person
Starting point is 00:25:31 to be not there's not there doesn't because it's because it because
Starting point is 00:25:35 it's because it's like a situation there's a time, there's people who
Starting point is 00:25:42 have a lot of a time so it's so it's so much attack of
Starting point is 00:25:48 attack of anxiety is the same thing. And why this is this symptom when it's a bit, a bit, this symptom when it's
Starting point is 00:25:56 to do this, of no, I can't respirate or if I can't respirate, when if you can't respirate, that's common? Yes. So, when you
Starting point is 00:26:03 have a attack of panic, the symptomatology most common is that you can't be your pulsations,
Starting point is 00:26:11 your heart is your heart, then you're going to do a attack, pardon, a, a attack at
Starting point is 00:26:17 a car, a infarto, you're you're dying, you're saying that you're realizing, is to say, that's saying,
Starting point is 00:26:23 you're going to your body, you know, you know, a lot of a lotkecer, and as well, the Cerebr no
Starting point is 00:26:29 doesn't give a response to this is going, then they're going to be a more, then they're in panic, for
Starting point is 00:26:36 saying it, entran chaos, and then it's multiplicates the symptomatology. The consults cardiology are full of
Starting point is 00:26:43 people with attacks of panico, but creyending that they are doing a infartto, because
Starting point is 00:26:48 are very, very similar is the symptoms. It's like this congestion in the pecho, this dolor in the breast, the problem in the difficulty to breathe, to drag, even for supposed to
Starting point is 00:27:00 be able to be. Is it a other symptom that's common? Respiration, I'm going to be a parochardiac or what else can't? Sudoration,
Starting point is 00:27:08 sensation of desmayo, MEDO, so, so, the trastorn of attack of panic, is it denomina,
Starting point is 00:27:14 as fear, a fear, so, MEDO, the fear. So, so I'm a feeling a
Starting point is 00:27:20 rational, very, very very very and a certain, I'm going to
Starting point is 00:27:25 say, well, I think can be for this situation, but in that moment
Starting point is 00:27:27 is a fear of a bit of a burden of control over me myself. Okay,
Starting point is 00:27:34 these, these, those tips that Sarah, I know, the most possible because
Starting point is 00:27:38 obviously, because every every every every person, it can be
Starting point is 00:27:40 different, super important, because if not it has lived to give to
Starting point is 00:27:45 and you this information you can help much as you know if you
Starting point is 00:27:48 know I'm not used or practicated the mindfulness that is to be
Starting point is 00:27:52 to be to be to be when I know I know I know I'm
Starting point is 00:27:59 so I'm when exhaling I know I'm that so
Starting point is 00:28:03 I'm not I don't know I know I'm not I'm because I thought
Starting point is 00:28:07 I'm I'm even I'm he and I can't the
Starting point is 00:28:12 and I do I do you so if if you you have
Starting point is 00:28:16 you have the way to get you think you're going to get you're going and you're really.
Starting point is 00:28:20 Yes, that sensation of desperation of no what's the thing, is the fear of
Starting point is 00:28:26 control. There's to learn to to get to prevent, to do this the time that's a
Starting point is 00:28:32 episode. The way of the way to work is totally different. The
Starting point is 00:28:36 fact, the proposal that I'm a little can sound even even under but it's
Starting point is 00:28:41 what's the most effective is doing a day of day to that you
Starting point is 00:28:45 your wife, your child, your mom, your an friend, an friend, a person, no,
Starting point is 00:28:50 so, we have to know, as a person. Accompanian to that person. Yes, no,
Starting point is 00:28:55 is saying, calmate, calmate, no. No, because the brain, no,
Starting point is 00:28:58 so I'm, don't you don't you don't you don't you don't, if you're saying,
Starting point is 00:29:05 don't know, what I'm nervous, stressate. If that's what we can't do when someone
Starting point is 00:29:11 is a when someone is in a question, calm and no, no,
Starting point is 00:29:15 I'm going to be Quittance. If you're sitting at your side, respect, to accompany. And in all case,
Starting point is 00:29:22 I'm going to ask you to ask you. I'm going to ask you to help and respect the process of the episode.
Starting point is 00:29:30 Okay. Yemen us in a manita. We're in an attack of an anxiety. We're not we're not
Starting point is 00:29:36 we can't we can't do a paro cariaco, but no not you're you're doing. You know,
Starting point is 00:29:41 you can't do you do you can do this, I'm not, but I'm I'm afraid to not
Starting point is 00:29:46 to be able to I'm in the attack of panic what I'm the problem when it's the first is that I'm
Starting point is 00:29:52 going to see what I'm going to so that's the second time that I'm going to I'm going to when I'm when I
Starting point is 00:30:00 know that's a episode of panic, because then then you can get to because then it's important
Starting point is 00:30:06 to know that I'm important to know that I'm doing a yeah because the doctor is yeah after
Starting point is 00:30:12 after the episode of in those moments you're courting to the doctor. But what you do is in the
Starting point is 00:30:16 moment? In that my proposal is just to get to get to the episode.
Starting point is 00:30:23 It's saying, I'm seeing that anxiety, permitete to see it, permit it experimenter in
Starting point is 00:30:29 that moment, aterisa the sensations of the body, that are the most
Starting point is 00:30:32 desagable that you can be that you can you're only when you
Starting point is 00:30:35 take you the peak of the anxiety, when you start when you
Starting point is 00:30:39 when you start, it starts, it It's a episode of 20 minutes
Starting point is 00:30:45 but it but it it's a time in back, but it's that's that I'm
Starting point is 00:30:48 feel in eternal but if no I'm I'm think I'm I'm
Starting point is 00:30:54 I'm I'm I'm I'm to resisted the episode is
Starting point is 00:30:57 much more longer because the anxiety is that's that you
Starting point is 00:31:01 that you resistes persist there there there there's there
Starting point is 00:31:04 there's so I'm I'm so I think you want to you
Starting point is 00:31:10 want to you want to water and you put to patalear. If you resist, what you do you get,
Starting point is 00:31:17 but if you you're in your your body float, so, so what I recommenderia is, in
Starting point is 00:31:23 that you can do you can give you that time to that the anxiety to get to to get to
Starting point is 00:31:31 get to get to here, no, but more than, more, more, more,
Starting point is 00:31:33 I'm I'm , I'm I'm, I'm know, to make
Starting point is 00:31:38 that what I'm and that I'm safe. I'm in my camera, I'm in my house, I'm in my
Starting point is 00:31:48 present, try to I'm in a time, but I'm trying to get to make a present, is what we're going to do that's a little bit of a lot more different. It's like
Starting point is 00:32:06 to hear that that's going to say the anxiety. It's necessary for that we can't know for where to start to work.
Starting point is 00:32:13 A little the anxiety me is saying that I'm develando me much and that I'm going to not I'm
Starting point is 00:32:19 not doing my necessities physical. At the final I'm done two pernities to move my body and
Starting point is 00:32:23 we're made sedentary, persons more sedentary, persons that not so you don't see as we're
Starting point is 00:32:29 we've used we need to do activity physical. Maybe that's that's the message for me.
Starting point is 00:32:35 Maybe the message is not you don't you preoccupies so of these problems
Starting point is 00:32:39 that can be in your mind you don't work to do you know, you can't
Starting point is 00:32:44 be many messages, can be all the other people, every everyone has the
Starting point is 00:32:50 anxiety is like a messenger if you talk the door to the house
Starting point is 00:32:53 and you know the day next will be more more after
Starting point is 00:32:56 that that I'm to hear I'm what I'm what I
Starting point is 00:33:02 mean, I'm with the strategies previous that also can
Starting point is 00:33:06 conversar now, that are just as just as you, the mindfulness, the moment present is super important, aterisar in the here and the hour, techniques of respiration, techniques of relaxation muscular, progressive. There's a technique very good of Jacobson, that is very simple. It's, well, it's very
Starting point is 00:33:21 simple. It's, well, in a manner more discreet, as to a way a little bit more discreet, depending if we're just on, which is tensing a part of my my body in this moment. Because we don't we do with, yes, do you? Do you do it?
Starting point is 00:33:36 Vanga, Vanga. Okay, to be guillan us. If you're doing, you're doing the podcast,
Starting point is 00:33:40 oh-o, you're going to get much attention in the traffic, no, they're going to put in front to go to
Starting point is 00:33:45 do you. But if you're not that's doing anything, that's we'll be able to, we're going to
Starting point is 00:33:51 do it's very simple. What we have to do you first, first, one part, the accord
Starting point is 00:33:57 of the that we're to make to start, or the that we're going to start to start to
Starting point is 00:34:02 do the with the arms, with the way, with the we're going to do you
Starting point is 00:34:06 do you're going to tend to tend to get very, right, right, do you know, I'm going to
Starting point is 00:34:11 start to start the part of the contra-brass to the arm, I want to imagine that
Starting point is 00:34:16 with the part of my punio I'm talking the extreme of the part of the power and
Starting point is 00:34:22 the more that can in tension during 10, 9, 8, 7,
Starting point is 00:34:27 a measure I'm going to the number zero, tensed more and more and,
Starting point is 00:34:32 For example, in your case, Mark, you asked a tantito the brasos for the time. When you get to zero, what we're going to do it is
Starting point is 00:34:38 relax them totally in the trunk of the body. Oh, okay. Now, what we have to do we have to
Starting point is 00:34:44 observe the relaxation that is seeing my my body. So, so we're able to be able to
Starting point is 00:34:50 analyze that relaxation and our cells at final are understanding, we're sending us we're making
Starting point is 00:35:00 to be the part of the body. When we have much more practice, what we can do we can't
Starting point is 00:35:04 do this the body, if we're in a reunion public, but we're not going to do you.
Starting point is 00:35:09 But we do it with the point. Of course, we can do do we can do with the
Starting point is 00:35:13 hand or the body, all the muscles, and relaxes. That sensation of relaxation, that state
Starting point is 00:35:22 of relaxation, that is like a kind of a sort of the thing we we're to make
Starting point is 00:35:26 to make attention, mandating the message to the Cerebro, that we're like, so we're in a good.
Starting point is 00:35:33 So, so it's a technique that's a work that really a different, to start
Starting point is 00:35:37 to induce a state of relaxation. Another technique could be is... I'm really, I
Starting point is 00:35:42 know, but even if you go to be in a train, Maya, where you're where you're
Starting point is 00:35:49 and he's and he's and he's put a five hours there, then you, you can't
Starting point is 00:35:53 do you can't do in many different occasions. Yes, I use much
Starting point is 00:35:57 for example, when I that's I'm not going to be the very moment also, tensed all the body
Starting point is 00:36:03 because, well, it's a really much to relaxer and in consequence to conciliate the sun.
Starting point is 00:36:09 So in instead of the tension, you know, not only you know, in this case, it's,
Starting point is 00:36:15 I'm going to think, that's, that's not, that's during the attack of panic. No,
Starting point is 00:36:20 this is preventive. Preventive. It's is, is so, are things, are things, we're
Starting point is 00:36:25 we know, when I know the when I know me has done, I can put on a
Starting point is 00:36:30 semaphore. The rojo is the attack panic, the naranja is that's for getting and the
Starting point is 00:36:34 red is a status in the state of this type of strategies we have to practice in the day
Starting point is 00:36:40 to do you when we we're but we have to be observant to that
Starting point is 00:36:44 when I am sure, I'm also you can use because I go to know I'm
Starting point is 00:36:49 know I'm using I'm I'm that I'm that's the episode in that I'm prevening.
Starting point is 00:36:57 preventive. I'm I'm a love. I'm a time. When you're not when you're
Starting point is 00:37:01 trying to do that you're trying to don't know, you're you're not you're in you're in
Starting point is 00:37:04 you're in your own and then you get to get the technique of that relaxation we can't
Starting point is 00:37:12 combine with other with the respiration with the let's let's
Starting point is 00:37:17 let's say or with the repetition of a a word a mantra to the that's
Starting point is 00:37:21 it's yeah it's okay in best you're you're okay
Starting point is 00:37:26 I'm going to to work with this and there's where you get you normally the result.
Starting point is 00:37:30 Exactly. Okay, what other technique I've been? I've been talking about other technique.
Starting point is 00:37:34 Or for prevention or gestion? Well, this is very common but not a technique like,
Starting point is 00:37:41 are not a bit of a bit of a technique marvellous because, because it stimuler the
Starting point is 00:37:48 nerve vago. The nerve vague is a nerve that's a heart, it's a craneneal
Starting point is 00:37:53 that begins here and it's a end up the abdomen. It's a nerve that's
Starting point is 00:37:57 diversified in this zone. So when when we massage we're we're doing the same
Starting point is 00:38:03 we're doing the we're doing the we're just we're doing we're doing not they're this. Uh-huh
Starting point is 00:38:08 no. It's that I always I think there people put the podcast in the car now
Starting point is 00:38:13 now so then the ballante and stimulate here uh uh atras
Starting point is 00:38:17 in the end up we're we're doing we're doing the also we're doing the
Starting point is 00:38:23 vipipip the gutural of the can't We're going to cantar, we're
Starting point is 00:38:26 stimulating the nervio vago and it's a nerve responsible of the those states of relaxation. So,
Starting point is 00:38:32 we're also, for so it's also, there's also, the repetition, that's,
Starting point is 00:38:38 that also would be a mantra, is a word, that you can't another
Starting point is 00:38:42 and other once, the om, is the most known, um,
Starting point is 00:38:45 that vibration, can't, all that all that does all really to do
Starting point is 00:38:49 that's nerve vago that is very intimately related with the disminus
Starting point is 00:38:54 with the people are the people are the menhs do you know the men do they're so very
Starting point is 00:39:02 he's super good, I'm a monk Tibetan or my tatarabuel was in Monge
Starting point is 00:39:08 Tibet and you and you're that's herensia yeah I'm I'm just there's
Starting point is 00:39:16 really a super-relaj yeah so much solos solos Relagant of Mark
Starting point is 00:39:21 Antonio no is that I've talked to see it and then they're
Starting point is 00:39:24 and they're and they're and it's a meditation and it's precious yeah it's precious
Starting point is 00:39:31 so it's because it's like a massage in the garganta and it's like a a vibration
Starting point is 00:39:37 no for example also in the cantos gregorianos that's completely
Starting point is 00:39:41 different I go what is more more than to make the something
Starting point is 00:39:46 to give you chartes much more more califical in my
Starting point is 00:39:50 case would be a Berreo Gregorian. But also it's like very realajante all this
Starting point is 00:39:56 music that a sometimes can be like religious or spiritual or the music classic.
Starting point is 00:40:04 You can you can find the regenton I think to relax. In general to be
Starting point is 00:40:10 important is to be about. The fact is done that the 20%
Starting point is 00:40:13 of the better in psychotherapy is for about only just for the
Starting point is 00:40:16 mere actually for the mere and for stimulate the nerve or vaguely. So, go in the therapy
Starting point is 00:40:21 or they're or they're doing but that's very much. I'm really with my perro. Very well. And I'm
Starting point is 00:40:28 perfect. I'm so. Doble stimulation. Yeah. I go my voice and the voice and the peop. Oh,
Starting point is 00:40:34 my love. Yeah, my love. Yeah. Well, fantastic. Who is you know, you know,
Starting point is 00:40:40 you're, but it's a relaxant. Yeah. I see that they're rin, but those who have perrishos or gattichos,
Starting point is 00:40:49 me entient, but if I've seen that there's that you're going to talk to your and obviously contestate you only, if the perrott's not,
Starting point is 00:40:57 there's a sure, he's to go to get a teramia. But, well, that's just you're only to your dog is
Starting point is 00:41:06 a son. Yes, for the most of the mascots are super therapy. So, especially those
Starting point is 00:41:10 we've been so, because if no, with who you know, so, then to talk, communicate,
Starting point is 00:41:16 For that's for so, to get a coffee-cuit with a friend, with an amigua, oh, we're going to talk about. We're going to say, if you, if you, see, if you do it, if you're doing, too, so, if you, see, and to talk about what we're doing, too, and it's good to call it. Okay, me, me, I've seen, I've seen, no, no, I've seen, but you know what I've got to do. No, no, I've seen, but you know what there's,
Starting point is 00:41:45 what there's the women, so because the women tend to talk more. Yes.
Starting point is 00:41:49 Of what we know. The other people tenden to guard them more for them. I know. Well.
Starting point is 00:41:54 I, I, I don't have problems with that. But, I don't know. The majority of the
Starting point is 00:41:59 men, not not express their emotions. So if you expresses more, also, that's all
Starting point is 00:42:05 all this could help to prevent an attack of anxiety. If you had you took it
Starting point is 00:42:08 a period and then you're so, you know, and say, that's that can
Starting point is 00:42:12 prevent a attack of an or to give you lute. 100%. You go and you and seeres that energy
Starting point is 00:42:19 that's energy that's all right because when me lo call I'm exactly. For one side will be going to be
Starting point is 00:42:26 going to be chronified and making more more because not I'm doing so much that's the
Starting point is 00:42:32 messageer that was talking us the point and that we're that's very interesting. We'll
Starting point is 00:42:37 let's in a pause when when we come to start the podcast I
Starting point is 00:42:40 would be that we about we another type of anxiety social, that's the that's the people that
Starting point is 00:42:46 to be a new to places new, or how describe you a anxiety social before the pause? Yes, it's just what
Starting point is 00:42:55 is to say, MEDA, with other people. It can be public a one, one person, or 50. If, the
Starting point is 00:43:02 start in spaces with other people, is ancied social and is intimately related also with the mind to be
Starting point is 00:43:07 in public. And there people who can't do not work or go and it, it's it, it's Yes, yes, yes.
Starting point is 00:43:13 And it's that's and it's never going to any other and I'm going to Major, you've had ormiguees, entomacements, and calambers, especially in your extremities, is very important that acudas to the medical and talk about these symptoms,
Starting point is 00:43:57 because they're symptoms of neuropatia. The neuropatia is the damage of the terminities nervos that are extended for all the body. Its function is informartes about the stigulers of tacto and temperature that they're allde, to protecter to possible lesions. When these terminations nervosas,
Starting point is 00:44:14 they're dawned and they're to function correctly, can manifestarse in theolores or pern't a problem. A pain, that's a
Starting point is 00:44:23 problem, can't end up a infection grave that result in a biabetic. For that is that is very important,
Starting point is 00:44:31 to vital importance, to talk about the time. In this month of the neuropatia, with
Starting point is 00:44:35 Neurovion, we're we're trying conciences about this condition and the importance of its
Starting point is 00:44:40 detection Temprana. Escutha to your work. No, ignore the symptoms, and you knowres the
Starting point is 00:44:45 medical adequate. Cuitar your health is fundamental for a life full and active.
Starting point is 00:44:52 Here we are back in the podcast Sarah Benito, expert in psychology, here is in therapy,
Starting point is 00:45:03 here is the people, let's do anxiety social to come to the podcast? Yes? No,
Starting point is 00:45:09 yes, some. You know, you know, it's a tribe predesible, no?
Starting point is 00:45:14 So, is that there's a certain way, that's the kind of a place, you know, what I'm going to
Starting point is 00:45:22 to go to where they're to do you want to be to do you talk. For example, the Navidates
Starting point is 00:45:27 with the family. Because a other than the year, and you're going, and why, you're not
Starting point is 00:45:33 you're, and why, when you're going to do you, and how you're going to do you,
Starting point is 00:45:38 and so, and so, and I'm to get to ask you, Oh, hey, wait, let's, let's talk about the purée of papas, something. Something more
Starting point is 00:45:46 more simple, no? Passes, past, even with the family? Yes, yeah. Pasa with the family, because the people that have anxiety social tend to have difficulties to be
Starting point is 00:45:55 to be in any person. It can be of the amistades, they're questions to make amissed, of the family, that could be like what you said
Starting point is 00:46:02 is the tribe, but, for the supposed also, also with those families more less than that's only,
Starting point is 00:46:07 and that's people are to come a rob, super incomododod. Super incomod Super incomparable. So, wait a minute.
Starting point is 00:46:12 No, we don't have a relationship or like to ask? Why don't you have casted? What do you want to? No? No? Because you're,
Starting point is 00:46:19 because you're casted to? A little. A little. No? It's clear that between your and you know
Starting point is 00:46:25 to you're not? For what? Why, so? A bit. Oh, oh, my jiton. Yeah,
Starting point is 00:46:29 total. So, it's the anxiety not that's anxiety to start with other people. It's anxiety to express
Starting point is 00:46:35 to, to to ask, to to tell you to explain to explain Yeah, the anxiety social is very similar to the anxiety to talk in public.
Starting point is 00:46:46 The having to express you have anxiety to talk in public, but it's a bad. And the anxiety social can't be just for the mere fact of
Starting point is 00:46:53 being a lot of a matter, for example, for the mere of being, even the mainst of attention, even if you're
Starting point is 00:46:59 not you're participating, you can't be being being ancied social. And it's for that
Starting point is 00:47:02 fear of irrational, another, to think, that's being the center of attention, that all
Starting point is 00:47:08 the world is just fission in you, you're having a
Starting point is 00:47:11 fear of a not a lot of and you have a great them to
Starting point is 00:47:16 observe because you're seeing that they're all of all and you're
Starting point is 00:47:22 being bested they're just that's that the that's
Starting point is 00:47:25 so they are so they're obsessed on that all the
Starting point is 00:47:28 people is all the people and it has to
Starting point is 00:47:32 have particularly with the problems of auto concept
Starting point is 00:47:35 of autoestima has has also necessity of perfectionism. Extreme are people who
Starting point is 00:47:41 want to want to be impolute. I have to say the word precise, in the moment precise.
Starting point is 00:47:46 If I'm question they're to say something, I'm going to respond to anything. I'm going to
Starting point is 00:47:51 say something that impact to all of those who are asking? Are you? Are you? Are you?
Starting point is 00:47:55 Do you do you? No, no, no, I'm going to do you. I'm saying there,
Starting point is 00:48:01 a movie that's illustrating what you do you say. Okay. Also, also,
Starting point is 00:48:06 they tenden to like a relation with a test post-traumatic of a situation that have been in a year in a year, for example, in the infancy, they've been in the college
Starting point is 00:48:15 or a situation where they're ried of me. So, yeah, of some way, I'm socio to that what's going to be all the world here is being,
Starting point is 00:48:21 for something. I know, because, but, look, those two are sure are to be doing, so I'm sure,
Starting point is 00:48:25 they're doing to, so, so, I'm going to be about my around, as something, me to start to take all
Starting point is 00:48:30 personal. Another thing that also that also that is the erita of humiliation, which is just something, like a situation
Starting point is 00:48:37 where I've felt bullying or a situation in the methods of creansa where, because, not were
Starting point is 00:48:44 so, I would have been so much that would be a, the mind, it's remont to that moment,
Starting point is 00:48:51 and I feel like this anxiety social, that's the same, we're saying, symptomatology,
Starting point is 00:48:56 like, sudoration, tension, difficulty, to express me, even, it could be that tachicardia
Starting point is 00:49:03 or tartamudeo, So it's very important that we identify that if we're seeing any of these symptoms it may be that we're to question
Starting point is 00:49:12 but when this is recurrent and I'm trying to be more to be present in reunions with in reunions with or after
Starting point is 00:49:20 a rato that I'm going to be that's getting maybe it's experimenting from the school,
Starting point is 00:49:25 of the school, you'd say something and the salon and said, oh, yeah, that's idiot
Starting point is 00:49:29 that. From there there comes much. Of the because in the school I know that not all
Starting point is 00:49:35 those masters do do permit. There are masters more than there are people. But if it's like one once as the
Starting point is 00:49:40 master, it's real to you. Yes. Yeah, I mean, to those years, like the
Starting point is 00:49:45 kids don't have not have so they're to be doing to know the but the problem that's a
Starting point is 00:49:51 problem that's in the manes. Oh, that's a thing, oh, see what he
Starting point is 00:49:55 what he says, ha, ha, ha, the burl, the word, the or no matter or the
Starting point is 00:50:02 response was incorrect. Or not you see Or not you see Just for the mere The way of the year You try you're in the Camisa Ruggada
Starting point is 00:50:10 Yeah, or when the family They're reading to you You say something In the table, in the scene And all the Everyone does It's humiliation public The fear most grand
Starting point is 00:50:19 The human is to the Humillation Public Exactly That's the fear To make that That's what Detone the anxiety Social
Starting point is 00:50:26 Decied a friend Blair Singer A great master He said that In a funeral The person that they're people that
Starting point is 00:50:33 directs to talk about the difunto preferrilled to be the
Starting point is 00:50:36 different to talk in public about about the disfurt and if I'm
Starting point is 00:50:42 equivocal, and if not so incongruent and if not those commu and if
Starting point is 00:50:46 I'm irrespectu and I'm the most humiliation public
Starting point is 00:50:51 how so how so how it can how it so well
Starting point is 00:50:55 also as we've been as we've to work with
Starting point is 00:51:00 the attack of panic preventive, we have to understand the theme of the day of today is anxiety. So, all what we're talking are transornes of anxiety,
Starting point is 00:51:09 for those that the anxiety is present in all those. The same way serves for to work all. There are differences that, well, it's a way individualized, in a process therapeutic, in basis of the history of the person, but just the techniques of relaxation, the techniques
Starting point is 00:51:24 of meditation, that does help us much. The visualization, the techniques, they're called desensibilization systematic, which is very simple, is visualizing the moment where I'm
Starting point is 00:51:34 going to put to expose in public. So the exercise consists in describe at least three
Starting point is 00:51:41 situations for graded of less to more, of more, of the answer, let's the
Starting point is 00:51:48 example. Vena, let's go. Well, well, let's go. So, I'm like,
Starting point is 00:51:52 like, so in occasions, not, to learn so, in the practice.
Starting point is 00:51:54 Let's, let's let me put in sometimes, I'm when I want to
Starting point is 00:51:58 when I'm when I all the world is all the time. And then you know, all the
Starting point is 00:52:03 world and all the world and then you're going to what you're going to do you know, so it's a person and it
Starting point is 00:52:11 and it's a me pass, I mean, I want to talk to say, I think it's something like the example
Starting point is 00:52:16 that's a example, the example is there's a word, and no, I'm going to get to the
Starting point is 00:52:21 misa, yeah, I'm just, I'm just all the all the world me's all the
Starting point is 00:52:24 so I'm so I'm so, I'm going to put, in this case is in eight. I'm in eight. So, what I'm going to do is
Starting point is 00:52:33 put me to visualize, how I'm going to how I'm going to to get to get to the person without anxiety. In that moment, the anxiety will
Starting point is 00:52:44 get in imagination also. I'm going to use the techniques of respiration to relaxer, to calm, and to disminuble
Starting point is 00:52:51 the anxiety, at least has to diminish the 50%. If you've been the 50% I'm going to go to the
Starting point is 00:52:56 the next exercise, which is another thing that's that's the maybe in 10. You know,
Starting point is 00:53:01 what could be? In the same boda, we're not we're going to we're going to get to the
Starting point is 00:53:08 first, and my friend and no me see the name of the wife. Oh, oh, I
Starting point is 00:53:13 know me's the name. And I'm going to have to say the and I'm know I'm going to and if I'm
Starting point is 00:53:19 to present to someone, oh, my name. How do you? How do you? How? Irried.
Starting point is 00:53:22 Horrible? Horrible? Like a bad My name. I mean, I don't even remember
Starting point is 00:53:27 the name of the novi. I'm a customarer of that I'm accustomed to that I'm
Starting point is 00:53:34 accustomed to be the name to my name of the name. The zero to 10, how do you
Starting point is 00:53:38 cause? If I have to present to the no, once, my ita,
Starting point is 00:53:44 11. Perfect. Perfect. So, so we're to imagine to imagine us this
Starting point is 00:53:49 situation. My temor to a a boda is that no me
Starting point is 00:53:54 know I know the name of the number of the name or I'm in a situation
Starting point is 00:53:58 where I'm to have a thing that I'm a new thing and the same thing and me say,
Starting point is 00:54:03 oh, Mark Antonio how you do you? Okay. That's me pass very
Starting point is 00:54:10 very soon. Okay. And then that's a thing that's one thing. So, okay.
Starting point is 00:54:13 I'm to visualize how I'm going to go ahead in that situation, how I
Starting point is 00:54:17 look a strategy to what I can to say, no, to that person
Starting point is 00:54:22 of the that I can't I'm in, I'm what I'm like a something that's
Starting point is 00:54:28 a little bit to do you know, what I'm what you know. What you know? The fact I mean, the person.
Starting point is 00:54:35 But I'd like that I would be to know, who are, or me'd to know to know
Starting point is 00:54:40 to know. Yeah, don't know to know. So, you know, I mean, I'm saying,
Starting point is 00:54:44 a reason, no, no, that's a sound wrong, but I know much people,
Starting point is 00:54:49 it's impossible to I mean, I go, I go, I mean, I'm a carita in where you know. I'm a perfect. Perfect.
Starting point is 00:54:54 Where was? A person with a anxiety social, no could be. Ah, okay, okay, okay. So,
Starting point is 00:54:58 we're going to that's a person at the more the difference between a person timidness. And a person with ancied
Starting point is 00:55:05 social is that person with timidess is that it's a difficulty in this situation.
Starting point is 00:55:11 But one person with all the social will do all the possible for no idea to the
Starting point is 00:55:14 body. Okay. I'm of the who go to the Oh, okay.
Starting point is 00:55:20 For, evitarte this type of situations. But, well, it's a visualizing, see in visualization,
Starting point is 00:55:26 in imagination, how it's all right, how you do this situation, how you have to the preparation, or the ensuing, or the ensuing,
Starting point is 00:55:32 to prepare, and to ensuing, to do this type of situations, because, as a little a little recurrent.
Starting point is 00:55:39 So, how can do I'm going to start to make a more comod with that, yeah,
Starting point is 00:55:43 in my imagination, of the 11 that I said, I'd get to 4.5 of anxiety, I'm sorry, I'm ready to to confront that situation in my life.
Starting point is 00:55:53 Yes, yeah, you're going to you, you know, you're going to get, and, you're going to go to go,
Starting point is 00:55:59 going to pass this, me going to ask that or I'm going to live a thing, and, and then you, do you,
Starting point is 00:56:05 yeah, flocting, so yeah, we're going to go, all, all, situations,
Starting point is 00:56:15 ensue, what is what I'm important that I think I'm about what I'm about the person, that is that I
Starting point is 00:56:20 know that I'm that I'm know that I'm not that I'm don't know I'm not even to get in the just like no more
Starting point is 00:56:28 with this, just going to go to pass this, then then you're going to accept you and you're you're respirates,
Starting point is 00:56:33 you're just you're prepared for this and you accept as you're supposed that's the other techniques to get to
Starting point is 00:56:42 accepting the reality, accept it, what is, accept that what's going not to be playing with the
Starting point is 00:56:47 reality. Exactly. Accepting, abrassar what is happening but that's not mean conformar me.
Starting point is 00:56:53 I accept, abrace what is what's what's happening and I'm prepare for that the next time me
Starting point is 00:56:57 better. And it has nothing to say the real, no, I'm not I'm not.
Starting point is 00:57:02 You know, I'm not. You know, I'm just that I'm just, if, if I'm so, if I'm
Starting point is 00:57:07 agree, no? If I'm no I'm okay, so, how it's how it
Starting point is 00:57:11 is okay, that's it's a good, I'm a little a person who's very afraid that's
Starting point is 00:57:16 that's a force of what you do you know of what you do you're, but you're but you're
Starting point is 00:57:22 a alternative for this type of person that you have to like a thing, and I'm
Starting point is 00:57:27 my alternative is I'm to go to go to the bathroom. Well, one a
Starting point is 00:57:31 little a little a little more. No, no, I'm just me
Starting point is 00:57:34 doesn't It's valid. And you go and you go and you go and you'll imagine
Starting point is 00:57:45 so. No, like a like a like a like a yeah, to where
Starting point is 00:57:49 you're but it's like a way to make you know thank you thank you
Starting point is 00:57:55 for let's go a little now the next time I'm going to do you this moment
Starting point is 00:58:03 without saying it not not important as you know what you what you
Starting point is 00:58:09 do you what you transmit you you interest. There's there's to be
Starting point is 00:58:12 a place if you're going to go to a public and if you go to you're going to a lot of the,
Starting point is 00:58:18 the, the, the, the, the, when you're when you when you're
Starting point is 00:58:21 when you always, we're always we're always we're our favorite, but you know,
Starting point is 00:58:27 you've seen, and then you don't know, so you you're mentalizes. Yeah, exactly. If you,
Starting point is 00:58:31 you know, you're going to ask, that's, because the other, you know, you know, you know,
Starting point is 00:58:35 you know, you're sure, that if And I just think, oh, that's the thing to go to the dinner
Starting point is 00:58:40 because me going to be the question. Maybe this year I'm about it's always, because then they're like a
Starting point is 00:58:46 cause a pervida, no? And I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm going to ask what you
Starting point is 00:58:52 to be the question? And the same person? It's the same person of the family that's the
Starting point is 00:58:57 same question every year like a year, so you know, just you know, just like no just,
Starting point is 00:59:01 it's more mentalizarm that you're to ask me to be a to understand to the other person. Because this doesn't,
Starting point is 00:59:08 he's not not ever question, not ever really, when you're when you're and why you
Starting point is 00:59:13 have been, you know, when I'm, you know, when a me they're asking that's like, okay,
Starting point is 00:59:18 I'm going to get to do. Let me go. Let's go. Okay. Okay. What on? My jita?
Starting point is 00:59:24 It's a man, me, is a old, how you're, how you're, how good, how good,
Starting point is 00:59:29 you're good, that's, how good, and why? And, why, why don't have been your kids?
Starting point is 00:59:35 Well, You want to respond? Something is it? Something else. I don't know. I'm. Okay. You,
Starting point is 00:59:42 you know, you've had been a manchach that's grandot so, far as all the little,
Starting point is 00:59:48 the same one two chamas. Echensone one of the name, and all. Because I've never had a
Starting point is 00:59:54 daughter? Sure. That's, there's a problem with the marid? No, no, no.
Starting point is 00:59:59 There's problem? There's problem? No, Tio, no, no,
Starting point is 01:00:05 no problem. So, what what? You want ? If you want to You want to talk to him?
Starting point is 01:00:11 Why don't you have If you're being incommode this Tio, yeah, I'm just uncomfortable Yeah, it's incoomod
Starting point is 01:00:16 this Tio. No, well, I'm not going to talk about the question. No, no,
Starting point is 01:00:22 but I'm a Trio, you can't say what you can't to put you to put you to do you
Starting point is 01:00:27 so I'm sorry but for all those who have a Trio so I'm so much but it's
Starting point is 01:00:31 to try to the manner more to say to not you let's say no you I'm
Starting point is 01:00:36 to ask you to Tio I love, I adore, how you do the work the
Starting point is 01:00:40 talk about me. No, we're going to me. No, I'm thinking about you.
Starting point is 01:00:46 You know, I'm talking to you. Tell me to tell me to how you're well. Well,
Starting point is 01:00:49 I'm well, I'm because I'm not you're I'm going to this woken who's going to who's going to
Starting point is 01:00:56 be a who's going to who's who can't who's my wife to be my wife's
Starting point is 01:01:02 a person when I'm when I took the first, oh! That's good,
Starting point is 01:01:10 Tio, thank for No, Savidurial. No, no, not to get to not.
Starting point is 01:01:14 No, no. No, no. No, or if you're to talk to, you can't say, look, well,
Starting point is 01:01:21 the, well, the, that's, when, when God, me, when God's, when God's,
Starting point is 01:01:26 when God's, when God's, when God's, when I'm, then you know, and then you let's, then you're,
Starting point is 01:01:31 then, then, then, no, when the life me, when the life, me know, when the life,
Starting point is 01:01:36 when the concept is, is not, not, Well, yeah, it's You're just entering
Starting point is 01:01:43 to the terrain of that person. Yes, I'd not care I know to to go to
Starting point is 01:01:46 not a thing to no, for fortune for fortune. And if all in the family,
Starting point is 01:01:53 we're doing this anyone, no, no, no, no, you know, that's
Starting point is 01:01:57 no. Thank you. But, see, see, that's, I mean, not only
Starting point is 01:02:00 not only not only not really, so, not really, but it's that's that it's that
Starting point is 01:02:04 in our culture Latina, there are things precious, hermosas, divines
Starting point is 01:02:10 I like, I celebrate and I prefer our culture Latin a million times to the
Starting point is 01:02:14 Anglo-N that's I'm going to the United there's not a lot of you know, but it's
Starting point is 01:02:20 frio, free, frio, frio, frio, and distant the time. So I
Starting point is 01:02:24 preferio our culture and I prefer to pay the price that's this. It's
Starting point is 01:02:29 the imprudency of the lack of the limits, the, the, the, the fall of
Starting point is 01:02:32 the the amount and and it and also a little of
Starting point is 01:02:36 the ignorance no, no I don't know what's to ask you. So, for me this is very important. And I feel that my questions are you going to help.
Starting point is 01:02:43 What do you know? Why not you have not been able to have very? And I'm going to be doing you. You can't get yourself.
Starting point is 01:02:49 You're going to give tips not? Yes, not? You're going to give tips? No, they're
Starting point is 01:02:56 doing the Tate? So, really, that's what I want to say. The Tio would say, these questions
Starting point is 01:03:02 because he has a tenor to help, to give us. Because of your point of view. Exactly.
Starting point is 01:03:06 Because he says that you you want is the same that he is to have 500 chikillo.
Starting point is 01:03:10 So, so he's he thinks that all we're that you feel like your is like the he.
Starting point is 01:03:16 Exactly. And he wants to do you know, he does it and get to get them and paracens. Yes.
Starting point is 01:03:22 With his herramientas. With his tools. Well, so are saying how do you know,
Starting point is 01:03:28 like if you know, like you do you know, okay, I'm trying to do you see a
Starting point is 01:03:33 time level that's that's the anxiety is being so high and
Starting point is 01:03:38 dysfunctional, is to it's a impinging to do you do you need to do you do you know,
Starting point is 01:03:44 there's to do you know, when you have a diagnosis of a disorder of the
Starting point is 01:03:49 doctor, the psychologist has the obligation to derivate to do a for a
Starting point is 01:03:53 valouration to know, and you need you need a medication or no.
Starting point is 01:03:57 Much times when the anxiety super incapacitante is probable that's a
Starting point is 01:04:01 diagnosis of an generalised that is more common and And it's the psychiatrist, the
Starting point is 01:04:06 that's the recetra, the recet, for start to come to get a to come to you're going to make that you're to be it's
Starting point is 01:04:14 because the medication only not going to do that the part biologic. But the part psychological has to be able to
Starting point is 01:04:20 work because the day that we get them the medication, we have to have a way, then we continue to
Starting point is 01:04:26 those episodes or without to have to create a aderence or addiction, even to the medication,
Starting point is 01:04:32 because the medications many times for the anxiety are medications that are that they're
Starting point is 01:04:37 taking but they're to take very controlably. And also not they occur,
Starting point is 01:04:42 do you know, to take medication for si so, because, obviously, they're
Starting point is 01:04:47 to be much better, but then they're to need more more dosis of the
Starting point is 01:04:50 same, to get the same that there's there's there to be a
Starting point is 01:04:56 personal with the health, that's a psychiatrist, and a psychologist, and a
Starting point is 01:05:03 Never auto-medicars, obviously, and to understand that not is for that you depend on a pastile the rest of your life, but it's like a mulet, a instrument, a tool, you're going to, you're going to, I'm going to therapy, I'm going to therapy,
Starting point is 01:05:14 I'm going to do you, do you know, I'm doing the things, practice, mindfulness, all, and in some moment, if the medical, so I'll consider the psychiatrist, I can't a new a pastia,
Starting point is 01:05:22 that me help me work. Exactly. And for much people, that pastilla, can be the difference between being able to be able to be able to When we're in this type of
Starting point is 01:05:30 cases, to explain to the people who are the people who are the why not you're not going to you know, it's like
Starting point is 01:05:37 to explain the amopia, no? Yeah, that's, well, I have some little, I'm going to,
Starting point is 01:05:43 these lenses or lenses physical, and I'm going to know this, that I'm trying to get to this, I'm trying to get into
Starting point is 01:05:49 the lenses, I'm not, I'm going, I need, the lens, the medicine, the medicine is the medication,
Starting point is 01:05:52 a other, I need these I'm, so, and there we understand perfect,
Starting point is 01:05:57 but with the medication, a other sometimes we're sometimes
Starting point is 01:06:00 there's there's there's in a situation in a situation, I'm
Starting point is 01:06:03 like, that's that's a bad or that mullet to to be
Starting point is 01:06:10 that phase and then then then then then then then the chaleganism to
Starting point is 01:06:16 to be saying, oh, hey, say positive, no see how so,
Starting point is 01:06:20 don't know that's that you're not you want to say, no. In many cases,
Starting point is 01:06:26 it can't be, if a of a medication, like, temporally. There's no, you're not a psychiatrist,
Starting point is 01:06:34 I know, but there are people who are a period short or for a period long, but that's
Starting point is 01:06:38 only with your psychiatrist. Yes, the indications always are for the psychiatrist, and depend on
Starting point is 01:06:44 much of the case. Normally, the standardized is a year of treatment, but there
Starting point is 01:06:50 people who feel like well, they're not going to the therapy, no want
Starting point is 01:06:54 to keep doing doing And, well, I've done with the same medication. So, what happens is that, the day that I'm going to take it, so I'm disperal the attack of panic. And with a psychiatrist responsible,
Starting point is 01:07:08 because, for there, I've heard stories of those, no, you, when you're not, you feel bad, don't get the pastillas? No. And if you're just, I'm saying, you, I recet, others, but, and, that's,
Starting point is 01:07:18 that's not, that's a, no, the attitude correct. So, if there, if there are, so, if there are determined treatments, put questions, for example, the person
Starting point is 01:07:27 that has a fear to talk to talk a part of a pastit to be a
Starting point is 01:07:30 little bit of to be a right to be but not a but not is a thing that's a realercent if you have
Starting point is 01:07:39 to take a treatment a dayer with a different and it has that has to go to
Starting point is 01:07:44 get to another tip that has asked? For the answer yeah in general, to start
Starting point is 01:07:51 yeah the podcast, for the anxiety for the attack of anxiety, for prevening the anxiety, to be able to the anxiety,
Starting point is 01:07:55 to saner the something that has that's been in the tintero? Well, I'd would like to say to
Starting point is 01:08:01 all of those people who have been that people that are that they're that's that's
Starting point is 01:08:08 that's just a, a, a spiral where never we're the need
Starting point is 01:08:13 and then the anxiety and then the anxiety is that they're that's a help, that's
Starting point is 01:08:21 a person specialista in health mental because when and when we're not
Starting point is 01:08:27 we're doing we're we're we're we're we're and that we're not
Starting point is 01:08:30 a lot of so basically then basically then focus in not be perfected to be
Starting point is 01:08:37 imperfect to be imperfect right to understand that is part of the and necessary
Starting point is 01:08:42 for the necessary and no it's not of mal to get no
Starting point is 01:08:46 it's your process of to know yeah where where
Starting point is 01:08:51 I know you know you know you know you know I don't you want to
Starting point is 01:08:56 with with her, therapy? No. No, no, but what is that you have created
Starting point is 01:09:03 a platform where you have a group of people, no, that is, that is, that they're
Starting point is 01:09:08 incisional the therapys. I'm, Cidadosamente.com. We're not to 50 specialists
Starting point is 01:09:15 that are part of a group formed, of course. I'm actually, I'm doing
Starting point is 01:09:19 much more to work to work to them, to see to the case,
Starting point is 01:09:22 a capacitations and are super, super, super specialized. They're doctorates, and doctorate, maestria, and they're nothergant therapy psychological for all those of those people that can be necessarily that's totally online.
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Starting point is 01:09:48 to be over it, I'm going to, Entro to Zoom with all with all the good. Oh yeah, and in the rest of
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