El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 333 - Cómo salvar tu relación - Chava Gutiérrez
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The love
dole, the
real,
the realer,
it's a
possible.
Because at the
point is that
in the
life is in a
process
constant of
a business,
a venty,
because you're
being the
idea of that
you're
in the
relationship.
Totally.
That's
that we're
doing a
family,
now,
today,
today,
and there's
many,
the
people,
normally
they're
because
they're
people who
think they're
that's
because they're
in reality,
not is the
result,
always are
in the
process in
what is
what you
do you
and not gestion of your problems,
it's going to repeat the same story
with the next person.
Because the love,
what is the message
that is the message that is
that is going?
That you have to
want to,
that you have to
get, that you
have to look.
Like a resignation.
All the world
is looking the
person correct but
nobody is
working to
be the person
indicted.
Discuting,
is good,
is bad, or is
necessary?
I think a
all of us
want to have
a more
beautiful,
a more
amoroso,
just a
love uned
of a
way,
where we're
doing we're
doing we're
together,
a more
beautiful.
It's a
beautiful
to say
a more
beautiful.
But,
but tristently
not
us
not we
not
a manifestar
a
beautiful.
What we
learned we
know,
so of
our
other
the
other
the
other
was a
love
not very
a
love
a
love
possessive
of
you're
me or not
you're
not
of
you
dole, the
love
the love is
suffering
the love is
the courage, the
I'll reviso the cellular, I'll reviso, the cellular, I'll reviso,
to save to the
parishes of the
separation.
His name is Chaba
Gutierrez.
Is it
that can't
save the
parents of the
separation?
Is it
that we're
doing a
love
a more
good?
Today we're
doing so
we're going to
let's get
three hundred
three.
Las of Mark
Antonio
Regis is
a production
of RGL
Entertainment and
all his
rights
and all his
specials.
Chaba Gutierrez is
in the podcast.
Why that
passion
for
to save
the
the pairas of the separation, Chaba.
Why do you passionate so much more.
Well, the first
thank you for this space,
for being, I'm
a lot of the presentation.
I'm a passionate
precisely to solve
parties of the separation.
Because the people
more are the ones
are the ones that are
more and the
are capable of
more love.
And the majority
of the people
are lost,
trying to be much,
is to be the
sufficient, to
gain what necessary
to feel that
are sufficient
for being in
care and affect.
Yeah.
And we're
in a world
in where
every
the
parents
are the
couple of
the
people are in
here
present,
that not
they're
or
they're
and the
first
matrimonio
they
doorsial
but
in the
second
matrimon
they're
more than
more than
the third
more than the
second
so there
are some
there
are some
we're
that we're
not being
so much
the
the index
of divorce
actually
the first
is the
first
is of an
80%
the
people
normally
they're divorced because
they're
because they're
thinking that's
been casted
with the
person
but in
really that's
the result
always are in the
process in
what is what
you're always
you're always
not a lot of
it's always
it's not
that's actually
and it's
and as well
and as well
we say
at the first
we're all
we're very
a more
really,
that's
that's really
but then
we're
we're not
very saner
to the relations
because
we're doing
because we're
because we're
because we're
thinking that
the other
person
magically going
to
complementing all
those vacuos that we've
seen
during the whole
life.
You're in
studying psychology
and you're
in the process
of doing this
because you're
a student
professional
as I've been
talked about
just about
a lot,
no?
A dolor
personal.
Well,
yeah,
I was,
I was,
I was not
to have the
same family
in the
life, and I
grew and I
did you know,
what there's a
problem,
much conflict,
a certain
aggression
physical,
much maltratory
verbal,
no,
there was
there was
every who
had to adjusters
to get to
the expectations
that were
part of
our
parents,
they did the
good they
did the
people who
knew the
but I'm
saying that the
age of the
23 years,
my major
problem was my
family, and it
was something that
was a
rest of my
life.
So,
that your
father,
a more
that had
a more,
that had the
intention of
being a
really, but in the
reality
not really,
it's,
and as
me, and
it's
what you
know,
you know
to learn
to learn
by the
time, you
to learn a
base of sufficient
error,
of the sufficient
dolor,
until that I'm
no,
I don't want
to repeat this
error never
more.
Yeah, and
that's where
we're
the traumas
that's
the traumas
that's
not only the
romantic,
but in the
work,
with the
people,
they're
their origin
normally in
the example
that we
did the
example that
we've been
that you
do you
do you're
a lot
then you
know the
so it's
what I'm
doing when me
I'm
getting
completely
different, that's the
funny that's the
thing.
One thinks
that no
will repeat but
it's
repeated, but it's
repeated.
Of many
different
of what he
has percived
and we're
saying,
well,
is that I'm
so I'm
so I'm
kind of a
character, but is
my father had
a much more
line.
It's very
very good
that kind of
that's
but if
they've been
making
for the
same
tendency
there,
they're not
making.
Well,
so about
like,
the world
ideal.
Describes me a relation
ideal, not perfect,
because of those,
that no exists
the perfection,
but ideally,
how is a relationship
beautiful?
The best
for me is
that an
love one of
that's the
million of motives to
get to get me.
It's a
respect to the
respect,
but he's
not only the
fact you actuas in
function of your
because we're
things that
can't be
not you
do you'd
like to say that
they'd
to those
other
what you
would be the
but in
reality
that's not
it's not
it's not
to do you
to do you
to do you
think you're
you're doing
your
your own your
feelings,
what is your
do you're
what you
do you're doing
to be your
matter
to make a
way
not in a
way prefabricated
and for
that's
need a
much conversation
much dialogue
it's
need to
that the
need to
connect
to make
connected
to
look
a example
basic
in
promedio,
is a
time,
during the
next one
months,
to planificate
a boda.
Of course,
even those
alternate,
like 12 hours
a time during
11 months.
We're talking
that are
528 hours
in a year.
Yeah,
apart the
church with
an year
of anticipation
and the
salon and
who will
talk in the
boda,
a year
before.
And for
that's the
other people
and then the
people,
sometimes,
a month a
year,
year,
cultivas the
relationships
and they
make
feel
connected.
Because in
reality the
pastime
natural is
to be a
television.
That's
a good
that's
the other
that's
matrimonial
should include
11 months
of therapy
we're going to
let's a
prepare the
a boat
and we're
going to go
11 months
even because
we're not because
we're
not because
we're
not for the
ITM
ITM
in Spain
in Spain we're
what is the
inteching
technical
vehicular
I'll
let's
the inspection
technical
matrimonial
what
what can
not more
is invariably
to
and if
to allow
to the
plantas
has to
make that
that you
can't
make more
to
a person
can get
to do it.
And for that
we have to
cultivate it,
we have to
retro-alimentaliened
and what
not is
systematized
obviously
will be a
better.
But normally
the pair of
the time after
after the
years after
when you're
all the
things are bad.
Not the
more they're
going to
a return of
a partyhas
where are in
a fine
of a
second of
a psychologist
or with
the general
because the grand
majority
get in
having
passed
even ever
days of retiro. Totally. But is that is precisely the problem. Because when
someone has a problem in the, the teeth, it's a lot. If someone has a problem in the
feet, it's a podologist. But in the promenio, the person, tardens, having a
same problem, until they decide to go to a therapist. Six years.
Because the person not can't differentiate what is a
concept of what is an opinion.
It's a thing, someone has a pain, is a d'olour. And he asks a benjanaito,
he asks a friend, his company of the job, to do, to his mom, to
her, what is the
worst that they can
get to do.
And,
sure,
all the world,
as you
want to be in
you know,
start to go
you know,
you're doing
more.
Because they're
connecting with the
other person
is all a
defect and
a problem.
But when
the people
about the
relations,
they're
about the
problem.
But not about
the
life they're
not of what
they've lived.
Not they
really they're
more focused on the
good than the
opinion we
we have to
a person
that's what you
know of the cause.
And that
never,
never,
never,
menta to
the family
political or
to the
family of origin
because
casasasas
married,
compromutied,
are two,
it's a
thing of
two, that's
not,
that's
because
not what they
are going to
do that
then you're
going to
do you
do you know,
I'm
my newbie,
and I'm
my version
and as
you're doing
you're going to
you're
no,
you're
a pincet
let's
you know
you know
you're
a person's much
I don't know how has
to have gone to
you know
I'd have gone to
you know
and you're in your
you're going to
have to have you
have to have to
have been in
you're much more
valid, I'm
I'm sure
and then I'm
reconciled with
her and now
what?
Exactly.
Yeah,
me have to
you're talking,
and many
times,
you know what
you're saying,
look what
what I've
said to you
thinking that
that's going to
think that
to help
to make sure
that he's
reconducs
the word
the real
the realest
the
realest?
dole, but in occasions
can get to be
necessary.
Because, at the end of
the way is in a
process constant
of a business
constant.
Is what he's
act to be the
path,
act to the balance.
An amor
beautiful, what
that is peace
and tranquillity,
that has to
start from the
interior.
An moce euphoric
can get to
be toxic, because
it's a mountain
rusa emotional.
So,
addictive.
Sure.
Yes.
In fact,
what we
do not make
to give us
of
what is
our
way is our
way is the
problem.
So in
a dosis
little,
it's a
kind of like
the mupatia.
But what
has to have
to have
the conscience
is that you
need to
get to
out of the
way to
and that's
you're
you're not
who you're
to be
to get to
you're
to get
a little
chalavili
very
very
very respected
for all
us
we're
that the
origin of
the
matrimonio
not of
the marriage
not of
the
problem
was a
problem of
a
A thing of,
these are my
vacas,
this is my
life, this is my
wife,
these are my
children,
a problem
of property
private.
And I think
that still
we're still
carrying this
thing of the
possession,
no,
to be a
parche,
like my
frasco
of my
like my
a can't,
you know,
you're,
you're,
you're,
and of nobody
more.
Because the
love
is posseer.
It's
very easy
to say it
and very
difficult
to execute.
And,
and,
and,
and,
and,
another
much
things because
nobody
knows exactly
where they're
in the
line's
that you
know,
it's a
very that you
have to be
property
private
because it's
the time
that's your
time,
that's your
time, that's
your
that you're
working
for that you
that's
something that
that's
I'm a
idea,
I'm a
law, that
I'm the
the law
of the
the law
the pedo
the pedo
because
well my
my spouse
me
well,
she's what
she's the
is Mexican
is Mexican
your wife
is Mexican?
Sure,
for
course
Oh, what we
We've got us
In Mexico
For the world
What we're
We're going
To be
And then we're
We're going to
And then
You know,
I'm going to
You know,
I'm
Gusted
That's the
That's the
That's the
No, you
Metas
with my
So,
my way, the
PEDos
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So,
So,
So,
So,
So,
So,
Look, there is to make balance
between the principle
of autonomy of
and the life
family.
So,
every kind of
has been to have
their own own
because,
as I know,
I'm not
can't be
good with you,
but I'm
not quite,
I'm doing
to occupy,
of their responsibility.
And if,
for me,
that I,
for example,
I have a
speaker,
for put in
a case
irisorio,
it's symbolized
a problem,
I,
I'm,
I'm sure
that I'm
to continue
prioritizing
in the
sense of that
I'm to
occupy
to occupy
to keep
occupant of the
tux of the
tux
you need to
you need to
say what is
the solution
ideal
because when
normally
we're not
we're
from the
problem,
the expectative, of the
signalling.
Then what we
do we dokear
quite quite
kind of
because that's
not a lot of
the emotions.
And then we've
much in the
nine-ovenas,
what we do we
do the things
that we're
more we're doing,
because we're
the perception
of that the
more is the
more is to
get to our
way to get into
a lot of
because it's
much to compensate.
And then
what we do
do you know
to talk
to many other
problems
similar or
similar or
that are
because
this negotiation
I can't
the reason,
the recipe
perfect
for that
no-segge to
not.
So,
what is the
formula
secret?
One,
to be a
first person
of the
singular.
Because
only
so that
the other
person
can't
empathize.
About
about the
sentiment
to understand
how
is the
situation,
doing
an analysis
neutral,
complying,
the
whole
of the
human,
that is
saying
what is the
solution
ideal?
The
suh
own own
the
thing,
and then
then the
second
other
again,
because
if
always
that's
always,
that's
Pereza.
Sure.
So,
we have to
restructural
the things,
to acquire
certain type of
capacities and
abilities to
to have a
good.
Because one
one is
to have a
pedo,
and other is
to do it
exactly.
Exactly.
Those are the
signiator.
Sure, for
course.
I have done.
I have a
problem.
One of course
I have a
conflict.
I can't
do you
do not.
So, I
do I go and
do a conflict
more than
because the
people
see
people are
people
that are
so
they're
amargan in your
life. Because when
one really
really live
is a
really to be free,
it's a
thing to be
to be a
and the way
that's a
yeah.
And there's
where it's
where it's
where you're
a lot of
the problem,
the fault of
the problem
is what it
starts to
doleer,
and it's
to put a
very incoomod
the relation.
Sure,
because
all the relation
pass
for three phases
basic,
harmony,
armonium,
disarmony,
to have a
different to
a conflict,
and three
resolution
of conflictos.
What is
what
is what
people not
learn
because
no it's
it's
it's
a harmony and
disarmony.
And as it's
very good.
Because there's
enamoramint.
That's
enamormient.
But when
it's going
every time
there's more
of harmony and
more of
disarmony.
Because you
not you
can't
be a
person if you
have a
little bit of
there.
And then
there's
there's
there's
there's really
there's
that they're
not done
not been
not made
and they're
they're
they're doing
the
problems if
if not
they don't
get them
don't they
don't they
don't they're
not there's
one of the
things that's
one of the
things that's
they're not as
they're not
but the
thing that's
the time
it's like the
time it's
I know
I know I
yeah yeah
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and why we
about that
it's about
that's
it's what you
don't
it doesn't
it
doesn't
it will be
to
it
in combination
with
other
ped
and so
it's
a
a
foos
artificial
sure
because
me
you do
a
clave.
Many
people what
are going to
get to the
camera
normally
of the same
in the same
then they're going to
do not do with the
problem, and the
inconsciente that
try to solucionate
the life,
what does
is think about
things and
things and
from the
inconscience,
from the
time,
it's all the
day to do
things different.
But what is
what you
when you've
a year
and you're
doing you
thinking in that,
and a
past of your
effort of
nothing,
that's
that's
the final
it's
that the
the best way
to solution
the problem
is eliminating the
problem of the
reason,
is going to
other part.
And for
so then the
people are there
to be there
there's going to
be there more
more and that
you know that's
not so they
do you know
that's all right
if no
if I'm
my problems
me lo
to get to the
question,
and in the
most of the
case what
you're going to
is you
instead of
the same
problem,
you're not
the same
problem.
You're
you're going
you're
completely
different.
And to
that I'm
you
I'm just
be we'd be a false rebel
because you
think you've
learned of the
lesson and you've
had gone
to have gone
but you're
no
no extreme
is good
no.
No extreme
is good
and also
other
false
creency is
that for
that a
relationship
that's
everything
doesn't
that's
part of
the Retto
because
we don't
about that
in the
second
segment
a relation
a relation
one
a relation
that works
should
have
perfected
there
there probably
all
we've
known
Parenthood, no,
we never
we never
we've never
never seen.
You know,
it's been to
know it's been
to know
it's a problem
for the end of
going to be able
going after
after the
message,
a relation
one thing is perfect
and without
problems and
that there's
that phrase
also that
famous of
my gitto
the love
all the
love,
all you can't
you know
we're going to
talk with
the power
with much
love we
we'll be
a little
pausita
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Chava Gutierrez,
is it in the podcast.
Thank you for
that applause.
We're very
very emotional
and what
what on
with these
that are you
don't know
I never
discuss with my
partner,
we've done
we're doing,
we're sure,
we're doing
that this
type of
people don't
say,
the truth,
the
I mean,
so no
exist,
no exist,
that's
all the
All the people
have problems
and who say
that's the
people are you
and that's
that we're in
a lot
but to be the
there's a
there's a
there's
but there's
not having problems
exactly.
So,
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a therapy
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rules, with
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things.
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have regals
of discussion.
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example.
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one of the
things that
one of the
people is that
is that
they're not
thinking in
what is the
other person
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what I'm going
to respond to
what I'm
saying.
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a reason,
it's,
look,
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person is because
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question
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and then it's,
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person who is,
it's a person
very determined.
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is that he's
a structure and says,
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normally,
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father of family,
a good husband,
is a person
flexible.
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thing, it's like
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molesties, and not the
molesties as
it's like
to be the
business,
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to the mountain,
and we're going to
get to the
house,
the case is
different.
Exactly.
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to know
to distinguish.
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about the time
of the
talk about the
thing you're in the
yeah,
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the telephone
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turn or when is the
time?
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time?
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validas.
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let me
understand,
you?
Exactly.
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you're listening
to the
people and over the
people,
and over the
people,
is, Marco,
according to you,
it's very important
that one person
when they're
not only
you need to
what you need to
know what you
know what you
need to do,
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what needs to
first,
first,
first,
to understand and
understand and
understand what
you really need
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right,
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correctly,
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make questions
to hear
and when you
when you
valides
so,
I'm feeling
complete,
yeah,
it's been
the anxiety
to communicate
because
you're
demonstrated that
really
me,
me,
me,
you put this
attention,
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in form
aligning,
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doing the
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frustra.
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so,
there's
many,
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many,
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about,
normally,
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about the
problem,
that's
much,
then I'm
the law
of pitufina.
The
law,
the law,
what is the
thing?
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what is
part,
part,
part,
enriented and content
continually.
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what I'm
a bitufina
in this
idea?
It's a
question that
I've reflected
in many times
because I've
never seen
where it's
not more
than a pitufina.
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being.
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to the
thing,
the law,
it's that
to be to
take to
the things
with humor.
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most
way to make
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it's not
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person
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the movie,
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not to work
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well,
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work in the
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the way of what you're saying. The structure, the characters, the message that's
what he has
passed to
a pitufing
or who
is,
I'm going to
you,
like if
he's going to
to be a
person to be in
a person
to make a
emotion,
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not it's
not quite
because it
to get to
get to the
history.
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what
what he
a
person, for
example, is,
they're
there's
something
and is that
each person
or
each person,
needs to
know,
what are
those
are the
detonants
in the
relationship,
that
that you
disparate the
that you
disparate the
and how
you can
you can't
question
basic is how you
to do you process
the enojo
or even
for example,
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example basic
I'm a
year my spouse and
you know,
we'd
we'd
always when
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always the same
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like if you're
doing a time
very deprised
and it's
more by the
right, and
then I'm
much great
because I'm
my sogros and
then I'd actually
and I'd like
I'd like
but well, well,
but here's what
I'm going to
use with my
my spouse
is what I'm
disparators
mental.
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we're
a resolution
about,
analyzing,
what was the
detonate,
and what was,
for example,
our compromise
family, and we
said,
who I'm
doing the
person, and I
just, and it
when you're
doing the
mind, and you
do you know,
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not quite,
what you're
to do you
know,
you're not
you're not
repitient
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yeah,
I'm,
I'm,
I'm corded,
that with
an,
one,
an friend
that we,
we've talked,
we've
we've talked
very acalurated.
We're saying a talking stick.
It's of the
tribus indigens.
I don't know what
the tribus or if
all the nativos
American do they used.
But it was a little
form of so
with symbols
indigenas.
And it was talking stick
supposedly used
in the tribus
just like the
talking stick,
well, is the
palito that
so if I don't
have the right
of the right
to say,
you don't know
until you
do it.
But what
was included
was the
validation.
So,
before
to let's
to let's
the tass
or the
element is
valid me.
Let me
explain.
And then I'm
asked,
you know,
I've
understood
good.
You know,
I've
done this.
Or do you
know, you
can't
develop a
little because
this is a
problem for
you?
Sure.
What would
be your
solution
ideal?
What is your
expectation
in the
relationship?
Yes.
Well,
that's
that works
in the
business,
because I
do you
do you
do you
do you
product is
a
because,
you're
thank
thank
thank you,
thank you,
thank you
you're
molest.
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you can
compare to
you're like that
you're going to
that's a
question.
So the client
yeah no
no's enoja.
So you say
ah,
carie,
if it's
a great,
if it's
a real estate
for a
business is a
event because
you're doing
the idea
that you
get in the
relation.
Totally.
That's
we're going
to be
a family,
no,
today,
over to
know,
and there's
many times,
I'm
that the
matrimonies
should be
to have to
have to
have to
have
given to
the
if the parts
interested
not per die
the intention
to be a
question to
love to
get to continue
conquisting,
to continue making
that function
because you're
and then you
are my or
me or me
for all the
life?
And no.
It's a
fantasy, a
paperit
a piece of
a benition
no means
nothing.
The people
go ahead.
It's that
what you have
to do you
do you have
to work
in the
relation because
what you
can't
do you can
do it is
that if
a person
not a
person no
Cuita what he has when it has.
At the final,
will be to start
that's
trying to
that in the
moment,
not know
that's quite
not quite.
Sure.
And if
you go to the
relationship and
not gestionate
your problems,
it's going to
repeat the
same story
with the
same person.
But the
fantasy is,
ah, is that
there's
that there
is that
is a lot of
the person
correct,
but nobody
is working
to be the
person
indicted.
Ser the
person
correct.
That's
is a
change that
great,
right?
Dejard to
the person
correct and
convert to
the person
correct.
It's that
when a person
act of
the responsibility
of a person
just a general
you're
they're just
to be able to
import
so.
So,
then
then you
is good,
is bad
or is necessary?
If you
you'd
have to
choose one of
those three.
Conversing
and
negotiate.
What
is the
person
is that the
people call
to have
not a
question.
The
altercado
the
Play-Cutu's
when
you're
when you're
when you
yeah you're
yeah it's
yeah I'm
when you're
when you're
when you're
when you're
talking about
when you're
you're thinking
when you're
when you're
you're working
when you're
you're
doing the
when you're
doing that's
all that's
that's inonimo
you know my
my Hitcho
the love
the time
that's
that's
has ruined
many families
precisely for
correctly that
to create that
that great
let me
let's
for what
Because the
love not
all the
people
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the people are the
people are the
people are the
because when
they're more
they're more
and if you
don't you
know you'll
make the
rules of the
things you're
those things
you're going to
you're going to
because nobody
learning about you know
learning the river of
the duels, what's
what are the
things about how
to have relations
sanas or how
to have
a
Salu in my
life.
This
this time
is a
time to
go ahead
to look at
where I
know I'm
doing this
is religious
or the
say in the
abuelites
but there's
in the
Bible
in the
in the
Corinthiansians
there
there's
a part
of San Pablo
to the
Corintios
or the
love
all
the
all can
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all the
all
it's
all over
all
all over
the love
the love
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no
I don't
no
I
would
say
I'd like,
the education.
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love.
The good
love, I'm
I'm,
because I'm
and I'm
and I'm,
I'm,
I'm, I'm
know,
but not is that
the love
directly all
it's the
education,
the preparation,
the therapy,
what I see you?
Yeah,
because the
love,
all is the
message that
is doing?
That's
you have to
want to,
that you
have to
get to
you need
to do you
like,
like,
and
like a
resignation.
Sure, but that is that's
a matter.
So, the
thing is,
how I'm
a same
process in a
in a
family, in a
certain of certain
objectives
common, is
a question
to be a
idea.
We're also
that we use
to us,
we're just that
we're just
things
we're just
my hitho,
then you're
that you're
that's what
God
want to
it's that.
Povercito
God,
that we're
we're
we're just
I'm a person
creetient, but
me like to say
to God
to God.
It's a
say,
we're going to
put a lot of
God.
So,
how we're going
to do a
responsibility
so much,
while we're
we're going to
we're doing,
we're doing,
that's not you're
not only only
with just with
that you're
that you're
to do that
a perception,
I'm not,
I'm not I'm
not I'm
a person,
I'm going to
be a
really a lot,
but for me is a
perfection
a little bit
kind of
infantil,
like a
adult,
it's that
that's what
God
want.
So, what is
that God is
that God is
making
micro-mane
to the
humanity, to
who he gave
the free
albedriot
now the
micro-maneh.
And then,
let me
decide.
So, it's like
I'm doing
to God
a man.
It's,
I want to
go to
my reality.
No?
It's,
no, it's,
no, it's,
so,
so,
so,
so,
so,
why we're
so we're
so we're
so,
why we're
not the
car,
oh,
well,
let's the
say the
that's
what God
want to
Exactly.
So it's a way
to blocker
your responsibility
of life.
It's very
good.
For what I'm,
for what I'm,
for I'm,
for a
security of gas
medical?
Sure,
for what I'm
do you know
that's the
thing.
But the way is
that's the
life in the
things, it's the
work, so the
things,
on the
families,
are the
relations,
in the
ambitions,
are the
ambitions,
so the
people are
how can't
how can't
how can't
do you
do anything,
and
there's
many
desequilibrials
temporals,
they're
no, this
has to be
so it's a
what God
says,
okay,
here we're
we're not
we're not,
the lot of
some of the
people, but I'm
talking to put your
time, the
love, it's over
all over,
if there's
all over,
all of a
right,
and no,
no,
we need,
what we need
is to understand
what is what
what every
people,
because the
person has
a different
definition,
and there
a great
question
that each
one has to
do you
I'm doing to
how I'm
really to be
the same
that you know,
it's the
same way
that's the
way that's
in the same
different
ways in the
people who the
people
do that the
people are the
things that are
the same
the same
languages of
the love.
The famous
six
languages of
some
I'm
meted one
one more
what is
the sixth
because I'm
what is the
second?
It's like
they're six
five no
let's
let's go
let's
let's the
we're the
we're the
the
the one
The affirmations positive?
Affirmations positive.
The toque physical?
Uh-huh.
The acts of service.
Yes.
Then, for example,
apart to do you,
Uh-huh.
I go,
and,
well, acts of services,
I mean,
so do you,
do things,
of service?
Tiempo of quality.
Trial.
Time of quality.
Yeah,
what,
you invented,
you?
The other person.
Because,
over all the
women,
is very much
attracted
to those
parishes,
where
they're in a
profound
knowledge of
their world.
They're
they're in a
question.
A good
vendor.
Total.
There's
another.
There's not.
There's
another way.
But, well,
there's a
great difference
is that a
finality.
For me,
for example,
the finality
every time
that I'm
to ask me
to be
to be able to
because the
important,
not is what
I want to
what she's
more
more feeling
more than
she's more
to be
a lot
I'm
defiant
a good
vendidor.
A good
is
that
is that
the who not
is thinking
in
something in
something,
in venders
something,
but he's
thinking in
serving you
first,
how you know,
how I'm
you know,
how do you
do you know,
but how
I'm doing
serve you.
And in a
party,
that's the
time of
that's the
thing,
how I,
want to
a marathon?
Perfect.
For you
it's very
important
to go
to run a
marathon.
For me,
no,
I don't
not go to
but for
you're
important,
okay,
why,
count me,
what,
what's
what's
going to
require
time,
of
Comer
certain
hours
to
do you.
Sure.
How
I can
support?
For me
in the
transition
of the
clency
of the
thing,
to think
that they're
espos
of the
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money and
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a social
a
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complice
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very.
That's a
person,
that's a
person who
you're not only
you're
to be
you're in
your process
of transformation
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someone
that
that's
who
Someone with who can
even more
than you're even more than you're,
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not to be
to be sure
to be a lot of,
and to be
and to keep
constantly and that
individuality because
there are two
leas,
there are two of
there that's
fundamental, but there's
that's fundamental,
that's,
to be a blocker
for that you
can't do
your objectives,
desires
emotional,
and a long
plan of form
individual.
And also
also, it's
has to have
a project
of a
That's
when you
when you're
you're
you're doing
the time
you're doing the
thing you're
that's the legate
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to have to
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meaning of your
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at the more,
to me,
I'm even,
I'm even,
Oh yeah, a
say you
You're saying that
There's seven
Or seven
Concees
Basics
Pilares, seven pillars
Seven pilares
Like I'm
I'm going to
Construe
a building
There's seven
So
Let's be
Let's see my
Terea
Let's read
What is the
One of
One of the
One of the
Democracy
is that has
The President
Is that you
The Crosion of
Anocence
Uh ha
Uh huh
Inbara
In fact
Yeah
Hasn't
The Culpation
The Culpibility
You're
You're
Culpible
As to
You know
Because
To be
a good relation,
it has to be
compassion.
It's a
question.
Because I know,
because I was with
with a lot of
because I'm
because I'm sorry
that you know
that's been
more stressed
this last time,
or that's
not you have done
that we've
we've done
that we're
seeing how
he's doing
how he'll
do it's just
me to get to
me, is that I
think he's a
person who's a
personn't,
he's a
great, he's
he came you
that we're
a poxas,
it's a
co-opopement,
it's a
purpose to torture me.
Because
because he loves
and he has
and he goes
without,
that's the
right,
you have to
have to be
a presumption
of innocence
or so if
that's
in a society
of the
world,
where not it
doesn't have
any
kind of
how will
be to be
a family
a son
that's
that's not
so that
that's
so
that's
just just
just that
I'm just
because obviously
I'm a
lot of
familyaries
and people
and
the dynamics
of casas
so they
can't
so what
you
do you
do you
You say,
the other
I do you
do it,
it's not
the way to
not get a
not going to
get to cast me.
There's
to be a
car to get to
your life.
Sure.
Okay.
So,
inosense.
Presum
that's innocent.
Then the
other.
Actualizing
the GPS
of the
love.
Actualis
the GPS
of the
love.
Okay.
What
what happens
is that at
time when two people
start to
know absolutely all
that's when it's
when it's
the GPS of
the other
person.
but then,
as they're
in the same
house,
they're thinking
that what they
are the same
it's not,
there's
to actualize
the people
we're doing,
every four
hours the cell
they're reprograms
they're
rejuveneces
we're just
different of
a manner
constant
because not
we're not
a product
terminated
but you
are you
are your
people are
people?
have you
have been
your objectives
labrales
are the
those
those
those are the
questions?
What are the
are your
what are you
what you
impede
is
more
plenno, more
more
more
more
way you
would be
to think you
want to
what you're
you're doing,
what you're
doing this
kind of a moment
more of a
more than I'm
more than you
is fundamental
that you're
right, and you
know, it's
that's the
same years and
you know,
and you're just
no,
I'm not
I'm saying,
oh,
I'm sorry,
I'm,
oh,
I'm not,
yeah,
no,
yeah,
yeah,
and you're
and they're
they're trying
to be
a loco,
and that
makes
feel
like a
separation.
I mean,
not only
you're
not you're
not you're
saying that's
saying that's
talking about
like something like
when it's been
a little bit
to the therapy
and we've
met really to
the transformation.
So I'm
imagine the
distance that
is going to
a person
more person
more
more than you
when you're
you're
that you're
that's actualizing
and
assume that
you're the
same
person
of the
same
Total.
An aljaniia, no?
There's a
There's a
yeah,
the principal
purpose that's
standing in a
relationship is
that the other
person is sure.
So,
you know
you can't
make sense
a person
to the
person who you
know,
I always
have to
know that
but it's
that's a
synonym
because there's
people who
have done
like the
person who has
been to
have been to
the school
and has
been to
have been
he's got
and he's
has been
super abrumated
because
me got
a
one
a call
of
the
college and
result that
he's
a lot of
the other
he's a
question,
he's because they're
doing this
he's not a
time.
And I'm not
see, I'm
think I'm
doing responsibility
my, because
I'm not
put limits and
I'm trying
to put limits.
Wow, it's
a practice
profound.
Of course.
Versus the
anecdote of
the new
the new
the new thing
is the
but it's
like you
dohogas.
But when
when you're
a part meteorological
or a
part of the
day,
what you
do you
is stress
you
what you have stressed
without the
component
emotional
and without
and without
and think the
other
people,
you know,
not the other
question to ask,
to ask,
to what you
do you
or how you
see it?
And many
times we assume
that all right,
we're doing
to work,
I don't know
how,
how you're
how you
feel you're
very tired of
that I'm
that's,
that's,
that's, that
that's not
that's the
communication.
Total,
because no
we don't
we're
Correct?
Because as we have
problems that we've
solucionated,
at the final
what you
think you're
thinking you're
to know that
you're not
to know that
and then you
know, and then
someone in the
office.
You put eyes
eyes, and
if you
ask you, and if
you're
you're asking,
and you
start, and
you're going to
the first law
that we've mentioned,
you know,
it's a lot of
because it's
a lot, but
it's a
error,
it's a
one and
another and other
and other
it's very
complicated to
pass the page.
But the
problem is
that if you
not gestionas
that change
that's a
person of the
office or
or the club
or whatever
we're going
to say, we're
going to
you know,
you're
that you're
to the
person in the
officeina,
pass to
occupy the
place.
It's
going to
repeat the
same
story.
Even
it's even
be a
more.
Because now
your
kids are
two
cars,
they're
going to
have two
educations
completely
different.
they're going to have
a confusion
that are the
limits,
that's the
what's the
what you're going to
you're going to
you're going to
you're going to
the ex-pareja
and the pariah
and the pariah
three, because
we're not going to
get to the
old, you know,
you're doing,
you're doing that's
a great
a great
wonderful,
what we go back,
we go back,
we go back,
we're going to
see,
other of the
other of the
constitution family of
admiration and
carein.
Constitution
family of
that's,
well,
look,
a country
has
cullullus
and
What are the cells of a
family's?
So,
if a place
has a constitution,
a case,
not it has to
have a family?
I was,
for example,
with a medical
super-exitoso
that was in
a hospital.
And he was
a lot of
working.
And I was
what you have
in the hospital?
That's what
you have to
do you
and in your
family?
So, what is
the difference
between your
family and
the hospital?
And he's,
look,
in the family
no exist
in the
family,
is exactly what
I'm going to
do you
do that's
exactly what I'm
necessarily
that's
a through
of
much
communication.
Yes.
And it's what
normally
the people
not are
to do you
because rewens
of the conflict
or of the
difference of opinion.
And in
the absence of
the reglas,
every
real real real.
But it's
very dangerous.
Because,
if you're
to think it,
even to think,
to the
people,
is better
than a
education
that's more
in the family,
if there's
if you have,
for example,
a education
a little more
more
utilitarian,
but it's
but always
the same
the same
the same
the same,
you know
what is
what can
do,
to do you have to do the things. But when there's ambiguity, there
is a problem. Because the limits, that no
be in the family, then they'll test it in the
life real. And no knows what it's
what you can't. And all that confusion,
it will be to translate to every area of his life.
And the ideal, aregles sound. Reglasses
reputuosas, amorosas, psychologically
sanas, total. But, yes.
If in the absence of regals, there's a chaos.
Total. For a muster,
we'll go to manage a
Any capital
of the
American
in Spain
no,
it's less
chaotic,
Madrid,
Barcelona.
It's a
little bit more
about it.
Yeah,
Spain,
compared to
Switzerland,
with, I see,
with Switzerland,
it's chaotic.
Totally.
Italy,
compared with
England,
it's cautic.
Well,
Londres is
another
part of it.
Londres,
is,
right?
London is,
for me
London is
better than
Madrid.
But that's
the chaos.
When,
when no,
when no
there are
the
things
every
I mean, I'm
my, those things
are very interesting
and I'm trying to
give to pay them
attention, because
it's very important
to start with the
unity.
And when, for example,
my spouse and I
talk about about
about the education
of our
one of the things
is, no is
your real
and my
truth, it's the
great fact
to see,
what we're
the right to
what's the
thing for our
problem,
which is
create a
new new
to the world,
because for
us is much
more easy,
educate
a young
than a
than to repair
to then
a adult roto.
Sure.
Yes,
grittas
that you
peg and things that
they're saying
the
one,
it's
transmitted in
in months
or years
of therapy.
If it's
that you're going
to be that
you're
and they're
that's the
and they're
my
my objective
principal is
that my
my
is that my
and that
for that I
do you
to do that
yeah,
that's
important is
that's
that's
that's going to
you're
not your
friend,
he's the
I'm
my, I'm
you're
you're not
because
you know
because you
not you
exactly
okay
what is the
fourth
the fourth
pillar
Look, the regla fundamental
that has to have
a person
to really be
the same thing
is the way
how resolve
the conflictos.
Resolver conflictus.
That is the
capacity or the
ability more
important that
could get to
a person
or is like
those,
well,
the green flag
that one person
has to fix
so if a
alterer much,
if it has a
mentality
rigid,
if no
to be a
therapy,
if no
has predisposition
to listen
or no
know you
know you
can't
resolve
well
to do not do
do
and that's
something that's
something.
But from
the first
time,
there's a
question,
not to start
not to start
to get a
question,
and the
problem is that the
people
that the
people are in
not put
limits and when
a person
no point
limits,
invariably
gets a
clear,
but if
me a
play that
interesting,
if you
are in a
relationship,
you're
in a lot of
when you're
having a
family,
if you don't
if you
don't have
you're
so you
get over and
it's a
caro and
there's
If nobody wants to live
a family
separated,
we know,
we're going to
not,
but not is the
ideal that we're
that's the ideal
that we're
not going to
not.
But it's what
statistically
has more
possibility of that
that's happening.
Well,
some pre-nup
and all.
They're
all the contract
to do this
for the divorce.
But it's a
thing a
interesting.
Oh, yeah,
my life, my
love,
I'm,
we know,
I'm a
passion and
we have a
plan of
life,
but we
don't know
to solve
conflictos.
We're
to learn
to
to resolve conflictos.
I think
is something
is something that
is something that
is a lot of
that's the problem
that's the problem
most constant and
recurrente that
normally the
problem with
the problem with
always they're
usually usually
usually get to
and what you
normally does
you know,
is to be
them and then
to be there's the
people,
hobbies,
to work more,
uh,
to be addicted
to the cafe
to do you
some,
some,
some,
like no,
like no.
Resolver
conflictos.
No,
is what we
say we,
if you know,
resolves
your conflict and you
do you look,
you're looking
a man to
a person,
you know, you
know, because
no can't
resolve the first.
Total.
And you're
to repeat what
you're doing the
other person.
Total.
No,
I'm not
to be more
to go to
that way.
Well,
well,
what other?
Resolver
conflictus
is all of
a thing.
But it's
basically a
communication, no,
of the
entry.
I think
is a
little more
more than
to do you.
It's
like the
principle
basic,
that's the
principle
basic. And,
there,
for me,
there are
there's
fundamental.
For example,
the validation
that we've
talked about
and the other
is the
reparation.
For example,
you,
you know,
you know that's
very well that
can be a
cliente
unsatisfached.
But if you
immediately,
that insatisfaction,
the repas
adequately and
the people
that are
insatiate
at the
beginning
a connection,
a compromise,
a lelta
much more
than the
they're
than they're
when they
had been
a different.
Yes,
well,
well,
well,
well,
the
well,
the
what happens? That's
that there's
some problem
and that's
something, you know,
you know,
repas, in that
precise instant,
during 24 hours,
that rencour,
resentment and problems
has been still
more great.
Because you're
repitient,
you're still
because,
you're recombating to
say, what
has done,
how me has
said that,
with what I
have done,
and then,
then when
they're saying,
then,
then instead of
saying,
but is that
I've done
this for
you,
you know,
I've done,
you've done
that this
was important,
connected
So,
So,
So,
yeah.
And there's
any scene
of telenovela,
there's
you,
gritos,
gritos,
you,
I'm
there no
there's
to get
in the
other person
to the
bad
that's,
the
ungrata
that's
ungrat
that's
unfortunately,
so.
So,
compassion,
to
get a
question,
you know,
the other
other
we've been
got to
do you
do you
do you
do you
do
because if
not so
they're
doing it
is
quartar
your
your essence, your individuality.
And when that
occurs, the
people are
frustrated.
The other is
to have a project
of life.
And then we'll
get things
such basic as
as much as
that there's
that there's a
because if there
no there's a
good communication,
no resolution
of conflict,
and nothing
for the
style.
And then the
reason for
the
swingers,
how they
don't function
that,
that is the
compromise.
Because when
you have a
relation
abirt and
when you
other
people,
the final
the compromise
is a
limit
diffus
because
you
You, you end up
someone and you
know,
as I'm trying to
only the good,
not would be more
to enjoy my
with a person
that apparently
only me is
most trying to
what good?
I have
some parquetit
of the people who
would have
I've lived with
that I'm not
not doing it.
The science,
what does the
investigations
about that is
that the
compromise
is that the
master in Johnson
that put a
a matrimonio
of the States
that during
decades studied
to the swingers
and to
those, in that
the time,
no,
in the time,
no,
in the time
of the time,
they're in the
years of study,
they're saying that
no.
That's the time.
But it's
that's normal.
So,
that's the
beginning,
it's a
thing, but
that's
rare, the
that's
that's not
lastimating
to some
way,
is that
people,
generally is,
generating a
addiction as
a society, to
the enamoramoramoram
so,
then the
enabomomomom
is more
a question
hormonal
and of
and we
we don't
understand
that the
love
Maduro is a decision,
a responsibility and a construction
continuals, at least
what we're looking
is what is
constantly the adrenaline,
constantly the carous chulles,
the women,
voluntuosas, the
fact that I'm more
chulo than anybody, that
I'm more addominalers than
nobody.
But is that in reality,
a me does
a lot of per cent
a person, because it's
like the only
that is to talk
the ego,
like if it was a
machinita
of the game of
the game of
the pern't, because
not they're in
a party of
Ammigues that, I mean, as
as I've recognized
that I've read
that I've
practiced, I'm not
not put to
not vote,
nor favor,
nor do you
know, they're
going to
have you've been,
they've been
three children,
and they've
like, I'm,
like,
seven years of
and they're
very well,
and you
and you
see,
and you
imagine you
and you're,
that's more,
it's more,
I'm in the podcast,
is man,
you'd
never you'd
have any
license, but
they'd
be good to
a program
to be a
, that would
be able to
that's,
that's,
They're scribed a book
about that.
There's a
exception that
that's the
norm.
But what I see
I'm going
generally
not usually
work is that
like they're
like,
and they're
and they're
like,
they're doing.
Yeah, but
is that
the rules
normally
they're
rompiening
because
we're more
emotional
than real
to make a
emotion,
not you know,
you're not
you're not
that's easy
to say it
now,
now,
ask it when
you have
when you
you're
a connection
you're
doing,
and where you
only you're
you're
only you're
first moment.
Yeah.
No, I
don't
I mean, obviously
I'm
doing the
thing because I
don't know
I'm sure,
I'm really
really enamored
of someone,
I'm not
I'm imagining
that,
well,
no, we
go, we're
going to
get to the
other people,
how you know,
I'm going to
talk about
to,
I'm sure
some cheladas
delicious,
and I,
I,
I'm coming
a hamburger
I,
no,
no,
I'm visualized
doing this,
so,
and I'm
not the
people that
know that
every way
that's a
more,
I'm
said that
I don't know
I can't
not
support,
nor do you
don't even
critic us
but apart
everyone
what he's
what he's
the work
the time is
how does
it's a
thing that
does it
should be
that we're
we're talking
we're
if there
no
there's a
person who has
that
before
in this
type of
dynamics
and
terminate
completely
perturbed
or perturbed
yeah
never
you know
but again
but
again
this is
the time
it's
would be
It would be very nice. It would be a nice
part of a couple of. A couple of it is that
those of parishes are not going to be on a podcast
because they'll guard in secret.
If you're just invited, but no me accept
the invitation. But, well,
regisand to the other thing. Here, I said, me
made much attention, the two pillars, the
five and six, very important.
Decere, to pursue individuals, and
the other was project of life. So,
are two things distinct. Completely.
One is a dream in conjunction, our
project of life, but it's important that
every person in the
partner in the
partner has a
own own project
individual.
Total.
For example,
I'm sure
that one of your
dreams that you
going to work is
convertible
in the postcard
number one of
Mexico.
And you're going to
necessarily
has been to
be a project
of a
project in a
family.
That's right.
That's
that can be
my project
personal.
Exactly.
So,
so they have
to be
to get to
the two
at the same
time.
It has
to imperate
over
obviously what
are the
objectives or
the dynamics
familyaryary.
But that
has no
has been
a excuse
as for
that the
And you have to support it because much
people feel so much
you know, no, no, you
goys to gore the marathon,
because they're
afraid that the marathon
or another athlete
and they're inamore
of his company
marathontist.
But how you're
to have to be in your
family or a
when you want to
do you or not
to support you?
But if you don't
do you know,
it's like,
because the
people are very
really realseloce
and, over
there's a certain
there's a
thing that's
there's a lot of
and what you
want to make
to make a
person, they're not
controlable is
so that's
so that's
more than
I'm not
that's my mode
that's
my
got a
car of the
church,
that's actually
because I'm
going to
get a lot of
that's not
like that's
like that
I'm a
man who's
a millionary
he was super
good,
he was a
little bit of
a chava
that was like
a little
and he put
a detective
private
so he
then he's
he's
he's
doing with the
people,
those who are
the same
the people
that's the
people who's
that's
he's
so I'm
a primal
Saluda, Saracely.
So,
if you're going to
if you're going to
to be able to
get to the
one of the
in the gymnasia,
in the supermarket
or so
no you can't
be trying to
do you
do you do that
not do you
do you do
do your
not do you
do you
do you
do you
don't have a
job
you don't
do you
do you're
how many
who are
they're
so no no
no no
you don't
you don't
you don't
you don't
you don't
you're a
salon of
so you
so you
to be
so you
you,
I mean,
I mean,
I mean,
to try to
control the
entorn.
That's not
that's a
more.
That's not
time or time
when I'm going to
be to be the
control,
you're going to
get all to
make the
independence and the
resentment and the
resentment
of the
that would be
done to
that would be
without
without the
without the
time.
And I
think it's
more easy
to do
to do it,
but that's
the time,
understand
that your
partner
not you
and that
you can't
guarantee
that you
to be
Guarantisar,
control
not a way
to do that's
for what
is for what
it's not
the law
for the
for the people
when I'm
about the
people,
I'm going to
that's the
question.
And so,
you know,
you're like
they're
going to
focus on
what really
important
that is,
I'm going to
have to occupy
to do you
have to come
to do this
regals and
what I'm
not I'm
meto,
no in my
pedo.
Sure.
And accept
that the person
can go,
the
life can't
the
things
can't
as you say,
you,
we'll
suppose that
you've been
to be the
work
and you
and you're
responsible
of your
and you're
you're in
you're not,
you're
and you're
and you're
the marital
perfect,
the wife
perfect, and
even a
life
can change.
But I
me
really the
thing
popular
of Mexico
that says
if you
don't
even if you
don't you
take,
if it's
not you
don't it
don't you
don't even
we're
we're just
we're not
we're
not we're
capacitado
we're not
to confronts
any
that's
that you're
going to be
that's in
your life.
And so you're
a lot of
because the
things,
what we're
we've got,
we poste.
Me, I'm
an auto
precious and
then the
car to be
where I'm
going to do you
go to
me they're going to
get to
me to buy,
to come to
a house,
the house of my
son's,
I'm a baby,
let's do you
do it.
So,
what I'm
what I'm
having to
oh,
me posse.
So if I
enter in a
relation with
that's
going to buy a
way to buy
a couple of
a pair of
the fear
to get to
be taking
possession of me.
Total.
That's that
that's
when it's
a front of
a relation
from
a necessity
and not
from the
election.
So when
that's
there's a
great
confusion
because it's
like
I'm
but I
want to
I'm
I'm
to do you
for the
and there is
when
really
actually is
when really
because she recela,
she guard one
and when
when he works
one causes,
it's got to
have a
little bit more
more superficial.
And yeah
every bit more
more than they're
more than
they're not
not some friends,
yeah,
they're not
socius,
because the first
the first
path to
cut the
intimacy
is to cut
the intimacy
emotional.
So,
minimum,
if a person
is very
good
friend of
and you
know how
is the
best of
the
person who
being the
person who's
comporting
how I'd
like that's
or from me
from me would be
from the
enfoques
of the
way of the
work of the
company of a
business of the
control,
of the position,
of I'm
to be there,
and they can
move a
dead without
that you know
that?
It's so
that's a
much, much
damage, and
is the
beginning of
final.
You can't
repeat that
when
no connection
emotion
the connection
physical
disappears.
Total.
That's the
first is the
principle of
final.
Yeah,
and
And,
also it's very
graciously,
because,
you know,
when the
women have
a problem
in the
relationship,
in the
family,
need to have
in the
physical to
have passed
page.
But the
women need to
have a
intimacy
emotional and
that they're
doing the
problem,
and then
then it
like no
or other.
Every
one has
different,
and as
they're not
to make
that they're
to make
more than,
every way,
it's a
very good.
I'm
just, me
it's
reflection
much.
It's a
very interesting.
At the
end of the
end of the
time,
it's
a lot of
you know what you
have you
do you
know that's
in a couple
romantic,
but it's
in the
business,
it's a
family extended,
it's a
family extended,
it's a
part of the
and what I'm
a person,
to be a
person,
to make more,
that's
that's,
but I'm
but not me
domine,
and me
possea,
and me
limites,
but that I'm
doing.
And so
you're going to
like,
if you're
saying,
oh,
Mark,
I'm going to,
I'm going to
go to go to
doing,
going to do this.
I'm going to
do,
hey,
good for
you.
To have the
time,
that's the
other
and say,
I'm going to
do you get
this.
Sientas
the same
emotion.
You're
wow,
what I'm
you're going to
get to
we're going to
get in some
moment.
What you
what you're
what you're
the clove
because the
the
parties
are
with a
high
with an
not are the
not the
that's that
they're going,
but the
they're going to
not the
creeses
with you.
Exactly.
Never I
never had
encountered the
but Robert
Kiyosaki,
the author
of Pard,
RICO,
always
always said,
if you don't
grow together,
you grow apart.
That's
that's a
bit difficult
to translate it
for the termino.
No,
if not
creces
in a
concert,
they're
growing apart.
Creasing apart,
creasing apart,
or you're
or you're
you're growing
with that
person or
your
growth
to be
a case
concrete,
he was in his
biography,
Jorge Perez,
I suppose that you
know you,
that's the
billionaire
more than the
enfocke immobiliarious.
He's made
a super-imperio.
He's he
castes various
times.
And he was
he was a
manel who
was a
great-exitoso
professionally,
but also
he's super
valid also,
that is,
he'd be a
person,
a person
that's a
thing,
I'd have
to have a
family
and so,
and however,
he was
he was
and he
divorcee.
He was a
divorcee
and then
he was
a way
that he could
get to
a family
and then it
to get to
work in the
same time.
If it's
true that
not the
all the
whole of
the porsillies
but it
is what he
was to have
a life
professional
where no
there was
there not
existia
and there
even a
time, and
they were
they're going
and they
he's the
first thing
to do you
get to
come to
me and you
come to
you take
the tinder
the tient
the tient of
the tient of
the
to our
kids,
I'll
get a
castillo
and chasel
and when
I'm going
to do you
know,
they're in
a lot of
other,
they'd
they'd
they're in
living with
them,
while he
was in
that when I
had to
work and
he was,
and I'm
and it
about
about it.
That's
you're
that you
don't you
know,
like you
see the
time,
how is plan
a baud
to be
very well,
and then
then you
do you
and then
you're
much in the
professional
to think
you're
the
necessary for
to feel that
is sufficient
for that you
want to be
when the
people are the
people are
when you
are you
are so only
only so that
really the
people are
to have to be
relationships
connected,
consientes,
and if
a relation is
your priority
in the
life
you can
you can
you can't
you can't
make your
things
for that
sometimes
someone
that says
somebody
that says
to be
in a
work
in a
work
that you
chupan the
life.
You know, that's what you
go to
all the
family.
A little bit more
would be more
more than I'm
going to be more
more special,
but that's a
little more
that my family.
Because if I
met to this
career corporative
a, a
prim who just
justly said,
or I'm going to
go to
get this, or
go to Europe,
so they were
going to
it was a
American, it
was a
American,
he was
Europe,
the post
most
alt and his matrimonio was
a point to tronar and he said,
or is this, or is my
family?
And he opted for the family
and he left,
all he said,
all the thing,
he was done,
and he was in a
city medium,
for quality of life
with his family,
and he
has a company
and he has
also he does
also, adapt to
his life professional
because he gave
priority to his family.
For him,
that was the part
most important.
That was the
thing.
That was the
example.
I applaud.
Because in the majority of the people
what we do is
to buy the
great job
grand work,
grand coach,
uh,
clear,
is that every person
has to have to
reinventing and has
to say that's the
thing.
So,
then what you
have said,
how you're doing
the use,
the result of the
fruit?
For what you
want to
work much
for having
subject of
materials?
No,
is more
important to
do you
know,
so,
and only
only so,
when the
people are
when the
people are
a life
my priorities, I have a
Prima, very great
Monica Sanchez,
actress,
who's very
famous,
he's a novel,
after novel,
series,
and she went to
to live to
Valencia,
with her
husband and with
his wife,
because to
Valencia?
And he said,
but I'm,
but I'm,
but I'm,
my three
children,
grow, in an
environment
ideal, and
for us
ideal,
it's ideal,
it's called
Valencia,
Spain.
Wow.
And he's
a certain
time, he has
a series,
or something,
but it's
like a
detailito.
Sacrifico
his
husband sacrificed his career. He
was also, he said, we're
also doing, we're going to work in a corporation.
And the two said, we're going to Valencia,
because this is the ideal for our children.
You adapted their increases and their
life and all, to give
priority as family.
Sacrificed her career professional
for your career of life.
But that's, they're
not so they feel like,
I did, no, they're doing. No, they
are they're doing. No, they're
not all of those would say
that formula, but they're
not to be.
No, can't
be more of accord, and what
admiration, and that has family
that's conscientious?
us.
But that's
well,
you thank you
thank you
much my dear
Chaba Gutierrez
you're
you're putting
your new
book.
How's it?
The book
is more about
than you
than that's
a little bit more
than I would have
been more
than a
little bit more
you're saying is that
you know
you don't
wantes
that you
don't
you know
to have to
you know what
I'm
my
always you're
all over
something that
has a
that's
that's
that's
not me
malinterpreted
so
from my
point of
view
nobody
has to
want to
want to
get a
type of
because a
good
matrimonial
not you
don't be
a lot
life.
So,
here
of what
we're
not
what we
have our
those
but
is
what they
were the
other than
those
are the
important
to have
relationships
and then
if you
want to
learn
to learn
to
understand
to
selfer
emotionally, to
use
obviously,
to
obviously,
what is
what every
can
need to
a
an enfoque emotional
to enjoy
to be a
realation
and a
little bit of a
much more than
you're going to
do it.
In the
social where we
we can't
see it and
in all the
social in Chaba Gutierre
me are
putting my
name or in
www.
www.
Chababutierre.
com.
Very good.
Perfect.
And you
also also
also the
course of
the course.
Sure.
How
to make your
communication
and resolve
the
conflictos.
Fundamental.
Okay.
Muchious
thanks for
citarlo.
No,
we're
we're very
we've done
A me
I'm going to
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Regil in all the
other
the media
and the
podcast.
Recurton
that's
also the
podcast.
Like Marko
the podcast.
So,
you can
find it.
The program
of radio is
other podcast
distinct.
It's
Mark Antonio
Regile in
formula.
The two
are still
different.
But this is
Marko
the podcast
or the
podcast of
Mark Antonio
Regal
in the
other platforms
of podcasts
and here
in the
channel
on the
channel.
Del me
click to the
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you've learned
thank you
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heart of
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inspired
this I'm
going
I'm sorry
I'm still
so I'm
still still there
I'm
don't have a
thank you
thank you
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