El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 333 - Cómo salvar tu relación - Chava Gutiérrez

Episode Date: July 29, 2024

¿Alguna vez te has preguntado por qué no encuentras a tu media naranja? 🍊 Descubre junto al psicólogo Chava Gutiérrez cómo convertirte en una naranja completa y construir relaciones saludables... y duraderas. Prepárate para reír, aprender y transformar tu vida amorosa con consejos prácticos y reflexiones profundas. ¡No te pierdas este episodio lleno de humor y sabiduría! 🎙️✨¿Estás dejando tus sueños para después? Te invito a mi masterclass gratuita: “Descubre tu potencial y alcanza tus sueños”.¡Da el salto, deja de postergar y conquista lo que quieres! Regístrate aquí: https://marcoantonioregil.com/potencial-yt Mira el episodio en video en: https://rb.gy/bfuovs Sigue a Chava Guitérrez en:Instagram @chavagutierrezzzEn mi canal de Telegram, accede a contenido e invitaciones solo para fans. Únete en: marcoantonioregil.com/telegramDescarga GRATIS nuestra revista digital y encuentra información inédita del episodio de la semana. Da click en https://marcoantonioregil.com/aprendamos *Importante: Nuestros invitados son expertos en sus temas y reflejan su conocimiento y su punto de vista, siendo conscientes de que cada una de las opiniones es totalmente personal. La información, datos, comentarios, estadísticas que se presenten en el Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil, son de exclusiva responsabilidad de quienes las emiten y no representan, necesariamente, el pensamiento de Marco Antonio Regil o de la producción del podcast.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 The love dole, the real, the realer, it's a possible. Because at the point is that
Starting point is 00:00:05 in the life is in a process constant of a business, a venty, because you're being the
Starting point is 00:00:11 idea of that you're in the relationship. Totally. That's that we're doing a
Starting point is 00:00:14 family, now, today, today, and there's many, the people,
Starting point is 00:00:19 normally they're because they're people who think they're that's because they're
Starting point is 00:00:23 in reality, not is the result, always are in the process in what is what you
Starting point is 00:00:27 do you and not gestion of your problems, it's going to repeat the same story with the next person. Because the love, what is the message that is the message that is that is going?
Starting point is 00:00:37 That you have to want to, that you have to get, that you have to look. Like a resignation. All the world is looking the
Starting point is 00:00:42 person correct but nobody is working to be the person indicted. Discuting, is good, is bad, or is
Starting point is 00:00:49 necessary? I think a all of us want to have a more beautiful, a more amoroso,
Starting point is 00:01:01 just a love uned of a way, where we're doing we're doing we're together,
Starting point is 00:01:06 a more beautiful. It's a beautiful to say a more beautiful. But,
Starting point is 00:01:11 but tristently not us not we not a manifestar a beautiful.
Starting point is 00:01:16 What we learned we know, so of our other the other
Starting point is 00:01:19 the other was a love not very a love a
Starting point is 00:01:25 love possessive of you're me or not you're not of
Starting point is 00:01:27 you dole, the love the love is suffering the love is the courage, the I'll reviso the cellular, I'll reviso, the cellular, I'll reviso,
Starting point is 00:01:58 to save to the parishes of the separation. His name is Chaba Gutierrez. Is it that can't save the
Starting point is 00:02:05 parents of the separation? Is it that we're doing a love a more good?
Starting point is 00:02:09 Today we're doing so we're going to let's get three hundred three. Las of Mark Antonio
Starting point is 00:02:19 Regis is a production of RGL Entertainment and all his rights and all his specials.
Starting point is 00:02:35 Chaba Gutierrez is in the podcast. Why that passion for to save the the pairas of the separation, Chaba.
Starting point is 00:02:41 Why do you passionate so much more. Well, the first thank you for this space, for being, I'm a lot of the presentation. I'm a passionate precisely to solve parties of the separation.
Starting point is 00:02:49 Because the people more are the ones are the ones that are more and the are capable of more love. And the majority of the people
Starting point is 00:02:56 are lost, trying to be much, is to be the sufficient, to gain what necessary to feel that are sufficient for being in
Starting point is 00:03:04 care and affect. Yeah. And we're in a world in where every the parents
Starting point is 00:03:09 are the couple of the people are in here present, that not they're
Starting point is 00:03:14 or they're and the first matrimonio they doorsial but
Starting point is 00:03:19 in the second matrimon they're more than more than the third more than the
Starting point is 00:03:24 second so there are some there are some we're that we're not being
Starting point is 00:03:29 so much the the index of divorce actually the first is the first
Starting point is 00:03:34 is of an 80% the people normally they're divorced because they're because they're
Starting point is 00:03:38 thinking that's been casted with the person but in really that's the result always are in the
Starting point is 00:03:43 process in what is what you're always you're always not a lot of it's always it's not that's actually
Starting point is 00:03:49 and it's and as well and as well we say at the first we're all we're very a more
Starting point is 00:03:54 really, that's that's really but then we're we're not very saner to the relations
Starting point is 00:04:00 because we're doing because we're because we're because we're thinking that the other person
Starting point is 00:04:04 magically going to complementing all those vacuos that we've seen during the whole life. You're in
Starting point is 00:04:09 studying psychology and you're in the process of doing this because you're a student professional as I've been
Starting point is 00:04:15 talked about just about a lot, no? A dolor personal. Well, yeah,
Starting point is 00:04:19 I was, I was, I was not to have the same family in the life, and I grew and I
Starting point is 00:04:26 did you know, what there's a problem, much conflict, a certain aggression physical, much maltratory
Starting point is 00:04:29 verbal, no, there was there was every who had to adjusters to get to the expectations
Starting point is 00:04:34 that were part of our parents, they did the good they did the people who
Starting point is 00:04:38 knew the but I'm saying that the age of the 23 years, my major problem was my family, and it
Starting point is 00:04:45 was something that was a rest of my life. So, that your father, a more
Starting point is 00:04:49 that had a more, that had the intention of being a really, but in the reality not really,
Starting point is 00:04:55 it's, and as me, and it's what you know, you know to learn
Starting point is 00:05:00 to learn by the time, you to learn a base of sufficient error, of the sufficient dolor,
Starting point is 00:05:05 until that I'm no, I don't want to repeat this error never more. Yeah, and that's where
Starting point is 00:05:09 we're the traumas that's the traumas that's not only the romantic, but in the
Starting point is 00:05:15 work, with the people, they're their origin normally in the example that we
Starting point is 00:05:21 did the example that we've been that you do you do you're a lot then you
Starting point is 00:05:27 know the so it's what I'm doing when me I'm getting completely different, that's the
Starting point is 00:05:33 funny that's the thing. One thinks that no will repeat but it's repeated, but it's repeated.
Starting point is 00:05:36 Of many different of what he has percived and we're saying, well, is that I'm
Starting point is 00:05:40 so I'm so I'm kind of a character, but is my father had a much more line. It's very
Starting point is 00:05:48 very good that kind of that's but if they've been making for the same
Starting point is 00:05:52 tendency there, they're not making. Well, so about like, the world
Starting point is 00:05:56 ideal. Describes me a relation ideal, not perfect, because of those, that no exists the perfection, but ideally, how is a relationship
Starting point is 00:06:08 beautiful? The best for me is that an love one of that's the million of motives to get to get me.
Starting point is 00:06:18 It's a respect to the respect, but he's not only the fact you actuas in function of your because we're
Starting point is 00:06:25 things that can't be not you do you'd like to say that they'd to those other
Starting point is 00:06:32 what you would be the but in reality that's not it's not it's not to do you
Starting point is 00:06:36 to do you to do you think you're you're doing your your own your feelings, what is your
Starting point is 00:06:43 do you're what you do you're doing to be your matter to make a way not in a
Starting point is 00:06:49 way prefabricated and for that's need a much conversation much dialogue it's need to
Starting point is 00:06:53 that the need to connect to make connected to look a example
Starting point is 00:06:57 basic in promedio, is a time, during the next one months,
Starting point is 00:07:05 to planificate a boda. Of course, even those alternate, like 12 hours a time during 11 months.
Starting point is 00:07:10 We're talking that are 528 hours in a year. Yeah, apart the church with an year
Starting point is 00:07:14 of anticipation and the salon and who will talk in the boda, a year before.
Starting point is 00:07:20 And for that's the other people and then the people, sometimes, a month a year,
Starting point is 00:07:26 year, cultivas the relationships and they make feel connected. Because in
Starting point is 00:07:30 reality the pastime natural is to be a television. That's a good that's
Starting point is 00:07:55 the other that's matrimonial should include 11 months of therapy we're going to let's a
Starting point is 00:08:04 prepare the a boat and we're going to go 11 months even because we're not because we're
Starting point is 00:08:08 not because we're not for the ITM ITM in Spain in Spain we're what is the
Starting point is 00:08:16 inteching technical vehicular I'll let's the inspection technical matrimonial
Starting point is 00:08:19 what what can not more is invariably to and if to allow to the
Starting point is 00:08:23 plantas has to make that that you can't make more to a person
Starting point is 00:08:28 can get to do it. And for that we have to cultivate it, we have to retro-alimentaliened and what
Starting point is 00:08:32 not is systematized obviously will be a better. But normally the pair of the time after
Starting point is 00:08:38 after the years after when you're all the things are bad. Not the more they're going to
Starting point is 00:08:46 a return of a partyhas where are in a fine of a second of a psychologist or with
Starting point is 00:08:53 the general because the grand majority get in having passed even ever days of retiro. Totally. But is that is precisely the problem. Because when
Starting point is 00:09:01 someone has a problem in the, the teeth, it's a lot. If someone has a problem in the feet, it's a podologist. But in the promenio, the person, tardens, having a same problem, until they decide to go to a therapist. Six years. Because the person not can't differentiate what is a concept of what is an opinion. It's a thing, someone has a pain, is a d'olour. And he asks a benjanaito, he asks a friend, his company of the job, to do, to his mom, to her, what is the
Starting point is 00:09:23 worst that they can get to do. And, sure, all the world, as you want to be in you know,
Starting point is 00:09:28 start to go you know, you're doing more. Because they're connecting with the other person is all a
Starting point is 00:09:34 defect and a problem. But when the people about the relations, they're about the
Starting point is 00:09:40 problem. But not about the life they're not of what they've lived. Not they really they're
Starting point is 00:09:46 more focused on the good than the opinion we we have to a person that's what you know of the cause. And that
Starting point is 00:09:54 never, never, never, menta to the family political or to the family of origin
Starting point is 00:09:58 because casasasas married, compromutied, are two, it's a thing of two, that's
Starting point is 00:10:06 not, that's because not what they are going to do that then you're going to
Starting point is 00:10:10 do you do you know, I'm my newbie, and I'm my version and as you're doing
Starting point is 00:10:16 you're going to you're no, you're a pincet let's you know you know
Starting point is 00:10:21 you're a person's much I don't know how has to have gone to you know I'd have gone to you know and you're in your
Starting point is 00:10:27 you're going to have to have you have to have to have been in you're much more valid, I'm I'm sure and then I'm
Starting point is 00:10:32 reconciled with her and now what? Exactly. Yeah, me have to you're talking, and many
Starting point is 00:10:38 times, you know what you're saying, look what what I've said to you thinking that that's going to
Starting point is 00:10:42 think that to help to make sure that he's reconducs the word the real the realest
Starting point is 00:10:48 the realest? dole, but in occasions can get to be necessary. Because, at the end of the way is in a process constant
Starting point is 00:10:56 of a business constant. Is what he's act to be the path, act to the balance. An amor beautiful, what
Starting point is 00:11:03 that is peace and tranquillity, that has to start from the interior. An moce euphoric can get to be toxic, because
Starting point is 00:11:09 it's a mountain rusa emotional. So, addictive. Sure. Yes. In fact, what we
Starting point is 00:11:15 do not make to give us of what is our way is our way is the problem.
Starting point is 00:11:19 So in a dosis little, it's a kind of like the mupatia. But what has to have
Starting point is 00:11:24 to have the conscience is that you need to get to out of the way to and that's
Starting point is 00:11:29 you're you're not who you're to be to get to you're to get a little
Starting point is 00:11:36 chalavili very very very respected for all us we're that the
Starting point is 00:11:40 origin of the matrimonio not of the marriage not of the problem
Starting point is 00:11:45 was a problem of a A thing of, these are my vacas, this is my life, this is my
Starting point is 00:11:50 wife, these are my children, a problem of property private. And I think that still
Starting point is 00:11:55 we're still carrying this thing of the possession, no, to be a parche, like my
Starting point is 00:12:00 frasco of my like my a can't, you know, you're, you're, you're,
Starting point is 00:12:05 and of nobody more. Because the love is posseer. It's very easy to say it
Starting point is 00:12:11 and very difficult to execute. And, and, and, and, and,
Starting point is 00:12:14 another much things because nobody knows exactly where they're in the line's
Starting point is 00:12:16 that you know, it's a very that you have to be property private because it's
Starting point is 00:12:21 the time that's your time, that's your time, that's your that you're working
Starting point is 00:12:26 for that you that's something that that's I'm a idea, I'm a law, that
Starting point is 00:12:31 I'm the the law of the the law the pedo the pedo because well my
Starting point is 00:12:39 my spouse me well, she's what she's the is Mexican is Mexican your wife
Starting point is 00:12:43 is Mexican? Sure, for course Oh, what we We've got us In Mexico For the world
Starting point is 00:12:46 What we're We're going To be And then we're We're going to And then You know, I'm going to
Starting point is 00:12:51 You know, I'm Gusted That's the That's the That's the No, you Metas
Starting point is 00:12:56 with my So, my way, the PEDos Those Peds Nuestro Because Because I
Starting point is 00:13:02 Can't Pets Petsando Yeah, Petsando Yeah Those Tue Those Mets
Starting point is 00:13:08 Those Mets So So, So, So, So, So, So,
Starting point is 00:13:10 Look, there is to make balance between the principle of autonomy of and the life family. So, every kind of has been to have
Starting point is 00:13:17 their own own because, as I know, I'm not can't be good with you, but I'm not quite,
Starting point is 00:13:20 I'm doing to occupy, of their responsibility. And if, for me, that I, for example, I have a
Starting point is 00:13:27 speaker, for put in a case irisorio, it's symbolized a problem, I, I'm,
Starting point is 00:13:32 I'm sure that I'm to continue prioritizing in the sense of that I'm to occupy
Starting point is 00:13:37 to occupy to keep occupant of the tux of the tux you need to you need to say what is
Starting point is 00:13:43 the solution ideal because when normally we're not we're from the problem,
Starting point is 00:14:08 the expectative, of the signalling. Then what we do we dokear quite quite kind of because that's not a lot of
Starting point is 00:14:16 the emotions. And then we've much in the nine-ovenas, what we do we do the things that we're more we're doing,
Starting point is 00:14:22 because we're the perception of that the more is the more is to get to our way to get into a lot of
Starting point is 00:14:28 because it's much to compensate. And then what we do do you know to talk to many other problems
Starting point is 00:14:32 similar or similar or that are because this negotiation I can't the reason, the recipe
Starting point is 00:14:37 perfect for that no-segge to not. So, what is the formula secret?
Starting point is 00:14:41 One, to be a first person of the singular. Because only so that
Starting point is 00:14:44 the other person can't empathize. About about the sentiment to understand
Starting point is 00:14:47 how is the situation, doing an analysis neutral, complying, the
Starting point is 00:14:52 whole of the human, that is saying what is the solution ideal?
Starting point is 00:14:57 The suh own own the thing, and then then the second
Starting point is 00:15:01 other again, because if always that's always, that's
Starting point is 00:15:05 Pereza. Sure. So, we have to restructural the things, to acquire certain type of
Starting point is 00:15:10 capacities and abilities to to have a good. Because one one is to have a pedo,
Starting point is 00:15:15 and other is to do it exactly. Exactly. Those are the signiator. Sure, for course.
Starting point is 00:15:23 I have done. I have a problem. One of course I have a conflict. I can't do you
Starting point is 00:15:29 do not. So, I do I go and do a conflict more than because the people see
Starting point is 00:15:32 people are people that are so they're amargan in your life. Because when one really
Starting point is 00:15:36 really live is a really to be free, it's a thing to be to be a and the way that's a
Starting point is 00:15:41 yeah. And there's where it's where it's where you're a lot of the problem, the fault of
Starting point is 00:15:48 the problem is what it starts to doleer, and it's to put a very incoomod the relation.
Starting point is 00:15:55 Sure, because all the relation pass for three phases basic, harmony, armonium,
Starting point is 00:15:58 disarmony, to have a different to a conflict, and three resolution of conflictos. What is
Starting point is 00:16:02 what is what people not learn because no it's it's it's
Starting point is 00:16:08 a harmony and disarmony. And as it's very good. Because there's enamoramint. That's enamormient.
Starting point is 00:16:14 But when it's going every time there's more of harmony and more of disarmony. Because you
Starting point is 00:16:19 not you can't be a person if you have a little bit of there. And then
Starting point is 00:16:23 there's there's there's there's really there's that they're not done not been
Starting point is 00:16:28 not made and they're they're they're doing the problems if if not they don't
Starting point is 00:16:34 get them don't they don't they don't they're not there's one of the things that's one of the
Starting point is 00:16:40 things that's they're not as they're not but the thing that's the time it's like the time it's
Starting point is 00:16:45 I know I know I yeah yeah X-Jany and why we about that it's about that's
Starting point is 00:16:52 it's what you don't it doesn't it doesn't it will be to it
Starting point is 00:16:55 in combination with other ped and so it's a a
Starting point is 00:16:59 foos artificial sure because me you do a clave.
Starting point is 00:17:03 Many people what are going to get to the camera normally of the same in the same
Starting point is 00:17:10 then they're going to do not do with the problem, and the inconsciente that try to solucionate the life, what does is think about
Starting point is 00:17:16 things and things and from the inconscience, from the time, it's all the day to do
Starting point is 00:17:20 things different. But what is what you when you've a year and you're doing you thinking in that,
Starting point is 00:17:26 and a past of your effort of nothing, that's that's the final it's
Starting point is 00:17:29 that the the best way to solution the problem is eliminating the problem of the reason, is going to
Starting point is 00:17:34 other part. And for so then the people are there to be there there's going to be there more more and that
Starting point is 00:17:41 you know that's not so they do you know that's all right if no if I'm my problems me lo
Starting point is 00:17:47 to get to the question, and in the most of the case what you're going to is you instead of
Starting point is 00:17:52 the same problem, you're not the same problem. You're you're going you're
Starting point is 00:17:56 completely different. And to that I'm you I'm just be we'd be a false rebel because you
Starting point is 00:17:59 think you've learned of the lesson and you've had gone to have gone but you're no no extreme
Starting point is 00:18:02 is good no. No extreme is good and also other false creency is
Starting point is 00:18:07 that for that a relationship that's everything doesn't that's part of
Starting point is 00:18:15 the Retto because we don't about that in the second segment a relation
Starting point is 00:18:19 a relation one a relation that works should have perfected there
Starting point is 00:18:24 there probably all we've known Parenthood, no, we never we never we've never
Starting point is 00:18:30 never seen. You know, it's been to know it's been to know it's a problem for the end of going to be able
Starting point is 00:18:37 going after after the message, a relation one thing is perfect and without problems and that there's
Starting point is 00:18:43 that phrase also that famous of my gitto the love all the love, all you can't
Starting point is 00:18:49 you know we're going to talk with the power with much love we we'll be a little
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Starting point is 00:19:43 We're very very emotional and what what on with these that are you don't know I never
Starting point is 00:19:50 discuss with my partner, we've done we're doing, we're sure, we're doing that this type of
Starting point is 00:19:56 people don't say, the truth, the I mean, so no exist, no exist,
Starting point is 00:20:01 that's all the All the people have problems and who say that's the people are you and that's
Starting point is 00:20:04 that we're in a lot but to be the there's a there's a there's but there's not having problems
Starting point is 00:20:12 exactly. So, so, so, so, so, so, so,
Starting point is 00:20:15 so, what you when you don't, I'm gonna to discuss, me more, it's what
Starting point is 00:20:20 you do you do what you yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, so,
Starting point is 00:20:23 because it's, it's, obviously, it's and that's transmitted, and at and at
Starting point is 00:20:26 final what is generate resentment and is when one of the two applies the law that's a law.
Starting point is 00:20:34 That's a kind of a type of a lot of that's a not to be a problem, not have said
Starting point is 00:20:40 not make the problem so it's so much it's always it's more more grand. If not the
Starting point is 00:20:46 not it's more so it's more more so it's a question a bit of a bit of
Starting point is 00:20:51 a bit of is a very, is an no, look, one, one,
Starting point is 00:20:55 look, one, is that when when the when the pulsations are when the you're
Starting point is 00:21:00 not is empathize. You're not you're going. You're not you're going. What is your priority is defender to.
Starting point is 00:21:06 Because you're a menace perceivated. So if someone has that's that's a little bit of
Starting point is 00:21:13 a little bit the air. And minimum, for that that's the people are more evolutioned.
Starting point is 00:21:20 And if liberate more because they've never a lot of so you're not even
Starting point is 00:21:25 you're going to get to to take to that's more quite you can make a
Starting point is 00:21:29 kind of a kind of a question, you know, I'm a little bit of that you're not you're not
Starting point is 00:21:34 you're doing you're doing to do this is a great that's a clear. In reality, not you
Starting point is 00:21:41 know, when I've been to go to a therapy of a many years, I'm not a lot of
Starting point is 00:21:45 I'm not I'm not I'm going to do you to be a time, without getting absolutely
Starting point is 00:21:52 nothing, that's just that they're going to give them the money. We don't we don't
Starting point is 00:21:57 we're going to do it's about, but with some the way of the rules, with some of the things.
Starting point is 00:22:04 So it has there have regals of discussion. For example. For example, one of the
Starting point is 00:22:08 things that one of the people is that is that they're not thinking in what is the other person
Starting point is 00:22:14 but in what I'm going to respond to what I'm saying. So, a reason, it's,
Starting point is 00:22:18 look, for pon this, the tach, until I that you don't let's you know
Starting point is 00:22:24 when you're you're going to you're going to because what the other is that you're it's a same one and
Starting point is 00:22:29 other and other like it like it's a single thing and the fundamental of that the person when they're
Starting point is 00:22:35 when they're much the person is because they're the other person not they're they're and you're
Starting point is 00:22:41 the illusion of that if you do it's you're going to get to then you're so you're you know
Starting point is 00:22:46 it's like it's not it's a question there's a great difference between a father of
Starting point is 00:22:52 and a a man of a business of an man of a good
Starting point is 00:22:56 man of a good an an extreme a extremis of a great
Starting point is 00:23:02 so it's very good convincing but a but a good but a great
Starting point is 00:23:08 good is very good and when you know a person that is very good about
Starting point is 00:23:20 more than what you know, it's there's to be able to get to be very,
Starting point is 00:23:27 very, very good good good better, you know, but that's the problem you can do you know,
Starting point is 00:23:33 the one of those good so, we're going to have to be, if I'm going to do a good if I'm a
Starting point is 00:23:39 good, if I'm a problem, to do you have asked, but no, but you, you know, but you know,
Starting point is 00:23:44 it's, you know, like the the vendor, is more a mender, like, someone who
Starting point is 00:23:49 who vented, you know, and then it's, and then it's, and then it's a person who is, it's a person very determined.
Starting point is 00:23:55 So, so what he has is that he's a structure and says, this is he has, and a person normally, that's a good
Starting point is 00:24:00 father of family, a good husband, is a person flexible. It's a thing, it's like those are the molesties, and not the
Starting point is 00:24:06 molesties as it's like to be the business, and we're doing to the mountain, and we're going to get to the
Starting point is 00:24:14 house, the case is different. Exactly. There's to know to distinguish. Right
Starting point is 00:24:18 that you about the time of the talk about the thing you're in the yeah, for example, I'm with the mobile or with
Starting point is 00:24:25 the telephone with the thing, with the that's the time when is my turn or when is the time? When it's the
Starting point is 00:24:31 time? While I'm you know, you know, you're doing? First, me validas. Yeah,
Starting point is 00:24:36 let me understand, you? Exactly. You've seen, you're listening to the people and over the
Starting point is 00:24:42 people, and over the people, is, Marco, according to you, it's very important that one person when they're
Starting point is 00:24:48 not only you need to what you need to know what you know what you need to do, a good vendor what needs to
Starting point is 00:24:55 first, first, first, to understand and understand and understand what you really need you've understood
Starting point is 00:25:00 right, I've understood correctly, that is to make questions to hear and when you when you
Starting point is 00:25:06 valides so, I'm feeling complete, yeah, it's been the anxiety to communicate
Starting point is 00:25:11 because you're demonstrated that really me, me, me, you put this
Starting point is 00:25:16 attention, and interpreted in form aligning, what I'm doing the end of the end of the
Starting point is 00:25:21 whole, I'm not, I'm frustra. There's, so, there's many,
Starting point is 00:25:25 there's many, I've got I'm about, normally, they're they're not
Starting point is 00:25:30 about the problem, that's much, then I'm the law of pitufina. The
Starting point is 00:25:34 law, the law, what is the thing? Pitufina, what is part, part,
Starting point is 00:25:38 part, enriented and content continually. Is, what I'm a bitufina in this idea?
Starting point is 00:25:43 It's a question that I've reflected in many times because I've never seen where it's not more
Starting point is 00:25:49 than a pitufina. But it's being. Regressando to the thing, the law, it's that
Starting point is 00:25:55 to be to take to the things with humor. And the most way to make the way
Starting point is 00:25:58 is not not to make it's not not making to be to make sure to be a person
Starting point is 00:26:03 like it's not to make the movie, not to not to work so, well, not in the
Starting point is 00:26:09 work in the not to work, so on the political, the film. It's just, it's more the way of what you're saying. The structure, the characters, the message that's what he has passed to a pitufing or who is,
Starting point is 00:26:39 I'm going to you, like if he's going to to be a person to be in a person to make a
Starting point is 00:26:44 emotion, because if not it's not quite because it to get to get to the history.
Starting point is 00:26:48 And then what what he a person, for example, is, they're there's
Starting point is 00:26:53 something and is that each person or each person, needs to know, what are
Starting point is 00:26:56 those are the detonants in the relationship, that that you disparate the
Starting point is 00:27:00 that you disparate the and how you can you can't question basic is how you to do you process
Starting point is 00:27:07 the enojo or even for example, I put an example basic I'm a year my spouse and you know,
Starting point is 00:27:12 we'd we'd always when we'd be always the same I'm always like if you're doing a time
Starting point is 00:27:20 very deprised and it's more by the right, and then I'm much great because I'm my sogros and
Starting point is 00:27:27 then I'd actually and I'd like I'd like but well, well, but here's what I'm going to use with my my spouse
Starting point is 00:27:34 is what I'm disparators mental. So, we're a resolution about, analyzing,
Starting point is 00:27:38 what was the detonate, and what was, for example, our compromise family, and we said, who I'm
Starting point is 00:27:43 doing the person, and I just, and it when you're doing the mind, and you do you know, not you're
Starting point is 00:27:51 not quite, what you're to do you know, you're not you're not repitient the same
Starting point is 00:27:57 yeah, I'm, I'm, I'm corded, that with an, one, an friend
Starting point is 00:28:01 that we, we've talked, we've we've talked very acalurated. We're saying a talking stick. It's of the tribus indigens.
Starting point is 00:28:10 I don't know what the tribus or if all the nativos American do they used. But it was a little form of so with symbols indigenas.
Starting point is 00:28:18 And it was talking stick supposedly used in the tribus just like the talking stick, well, is the palito that so if I don't
Starting point is 00:28:24 have the right of the right to say, you don't know until you do it. But what was included
Starting point is 00:28:29 was the validation. So, before to let's to let's the tass or the
Starting point is 00:28:34 element is valid me. Let me explain. And then I'm asked, you know, I've
Starting point is 00:28:40 understood good. You know, I've done this. Or do you know, you can't
Starting point is 00:28:45 develop a little because this is a problem for you? Sure. What would be your
Starting point is 00:28:49 solution ideal? What is your expectation in the relationship? Yes. Well,
Starting point is 00:28:53 that's that works in the business, because I do you do you do you
Starting point is 00:28:55 do you product is a because, you're thank thank thank you,
Starting point is 00:28:59 thank you, thank you you're molest. I could you can compare to you're like that
Starting point is 00:29:05 you're going to that's a question. So the client yeah no no's enoja. So you say ah,
Starting point is 00:29:09 carie, if it's a great, if it's a real estate for a business is a event because
Starting point is 00:29:15 you're doing the idea that you get in the relation. Totally. That's we're going
Starting point is 00:29:18 to be a family, no, today, over to know, and there's many times,
Starting point is 00:29:23 I'm that the matrimonies should be to have to have to have to have
Starting point is 00:29:27 given to the if the parts interested not per die the intention to be a question to
Starting point is 00:29:31 love to get to continue conquisting, to continue making that function because you're and then you are my or
Starting point is 00:29:40 me or me for all the life? And no. It's a fantasy, a paperit a piece of
Starting point is 00:29:44 a benition no means nothing. The people go ahead. It's that what you have to do you
Starting point is 00:29:49 do you have to work in the relation because what you can't do you can do it is
Starting point is 00:29:53 that if a person not a person no Cuita what he has when it has. At the final, will be to start that's
Starting point is 00:29:58 trying to that in the moment, not know that's quite not quite. Sure. And if
Starting point is 00:30:03 you go to the relationship and not gestionate your problems, it's going to repeat the same story with the
Starting point is 00:30:08 same person. But the fantasy is, ah, is that there's that there is that is a lot of
Starting point is 00:30:15 the person correct, but nobody is working to be the person indicted. Ser the
Starting point is 00:30:19 person correct. That's is a change that great, right? Dejard to
Starting point is 00:30:23 the person correct and convert to the person correct. It's that when a person act of
Starting point is 00:30:28 the responsibility of a person just a general you're they're just to be able to import so.
Starting point is 00:30:33 So, then then you is good, is bad or is necessary? If you you'd
Starting point is 00:30:40 have to choose one of those three. Conversing and negotiate. What is the
Starting point is 00:30:44 person is that the people call to have not a question. The altercado
Starting point is 00:30:51 the Play-Cutu's when you're when you're when you yeah you're yeah it's
Starting point is 00:30:55 yeah I'm when you're when you're when you're when you're talking about when you're you're thinking
Starting point is 00:31:02 when you're when you're you're working when you're you're doing the when you're doing that's
Starting point is 00:31:07 all that's that's inonimo you know my my Hitcho the love the time that's that's
Starting point is 00:31:14 has ruined many families precisely for correctly that to create that that great let me let's
Starting point is 00:31:20 for what Because the love not all the people not do they're the people are the people are the
Starting point is 00:31:25 people are the because when they're more they're more and if you don't you know you'll make the
Starting point is 00:31:30 rules of the things you're those things you're going to you're going to because nobody learning about you know learning the river of
Starting point is 00:31:44 the duels, what's what are the things about how to have relations sanas or how to have a Salu in my
Starting point is 00:31:49 life. This this time is a time to go ahead to look at where I
Starting point is 00:31:56 know I'm doing this is religious or the say in the abuelites but there's in the
Starting point is 00:32:02 Bible in the in the Corinthiansians there there's a part of San Pablo
Starting point is 00:32:07 to the Corintios or the love all the all can the
Starting point is 00:32:11 all the all it's all over all all over the love the love
Starting point is 00:32:16 I don't no no I don't no I would say
Starting point is 00:32:18 I'd like, the education. The good love. The good love, I'm I'm, because I'm
Starting point is 00:32:26 and I'm and I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm know, but not is that the love directly all
Starting point is 00:32:30 it's the education, the preparation, the therapy, what I see you? Yeah, because the love,
Starting point is 00:32:38 all is the message that is doing? That's you have to want to, that you have to
Starting point is 00:32:42 get to you need to do you like, like, and like a resignation.
Starting point is 00:32:46 Sure, but that is that's a matter. So, the thing is, how I'm a same process in a in a
Starting point is 00:32:53 family, in a certain of certain objectives common, is a question to be a idea. We're also
Starting point is 00:33:00 that we use to us, we're just that we're just things we're just my hitho, then you're
Starting point is 00:33:06 that you're that's what God want to it's that. Povercito God, that we're
Starting point is 00:33:12 we're we're just I'm a person creetient, but me like to say to God to God. It's a
Starting point is 00:33:19 say, we're going to put a lot of God. So, how we're going to do a responsibility
Starting point is 00:33:22 so much, while we're we're going to we're doing, we're doing, that's not you're not only only with just with
Starting point is 00:33:28 that you're that you're to do that a perception, I'm not, I'm not I'm not I'm a person,
Starting point is 00:33:35 I'm going to be a really a lot, but for me is a perfection a little bit kind of infantil,
Starting point is 00:33:40 like a adult, it's that that's what God want. So, what is that God is
Starting point is 00:33:45 that God is making micro-mane to the humanity, to who he gave the free albedriot
Starting point is 00:33:51 now the micro-maneh. And then, let me decide. So, it's like I'm doing to God
Starting point is 00:33:57 a man. It's, I want to go to my reality. No? It's, no, it's,
Starting point is 00:34:02 no, it's, so, so, so, so, so, why we're so we're
Starting point is 00:34:05 so we're so, why we're not the car, oh, well, let's the
Starting point is 00:34:10 say the that's what God want to Exactly. So it's a way to blocker your responsibility
Starting point is 00:34:16 of life. It's very good. For what I'm, for what I'm, for I'm, for a security of gas
Starting point is 00:34:22 medical? Sure, for what I'm do you know that's the thing. But the way is that's the
Starting point is 00:34:27 life in the things, it's the work, so the things, on the families, are the relations,
Starting point is 00:34:31 in the ambitions, are the ambitions, so the people are how can't how can't
Starting point is 00:34:37 how can't do you do anything, and there's many desequilibrials temporals,
Starting point is 00:34:40 they're no, this has to be so it's a what God says, okay, here we're
Starting point is 00:34:46 we're not we're not, the lot of some of the people, but I'm talking to put your time, the love, it's over
Starting point is 00:34:55 all over, if there's all over, all of a right, and no, no, we need,
Starting point is 00:35:03 what we need is to understand what is what what every people, because the person has a different
Starting point is 00:35:07 definition, and there a great question that each one has to do you I'm doing to
Starting point is 00:35:11 how I'm really to be the same that you know, it's the same way that's the way that's
Starting point is 00:35:16 in the same different ways in the people who the people do that the people are the things that are
Starting point is 00:35:23 the same the same languages of the love. The famous six languages of some
Starting point is 00:35:27 I'm meted one one more what is the sixth because I'm what is the second?
Starting point is 00:35:31 It's like they're six five no let's let's go let's let's the we're the
Starting point is 00:35:35 we're the the the one The affirmations positive? Affirmations positive. The toque physical? Uh-huh. The acts of service.
Starting point is 00:35:44 Yes. Then, for example, apart to do you, Uh-huh. I go, and, well, acts of services, I mean,
Starting point is 00:35:52 so do you, do things, of service? Tiempo of quality. Trial. Time of quality. Yeah, what,
Starting point is 00:35:58 you invented, you? The other person. Because, over all the women, is very much attracted
Starting point is 00:36:05 to those parishes, where they're in a profound knowledge of their world. They're
Starting point is 00:36:10 they're in a question. A good vendor. Total. There's another. There's not.
Starting point is 00:36:15 There's another way. But, well, there's a great difference is that a finality. For me,
Starting point is 00:36:20 for example, the finality every time that I'm to ask me to be to be able to because the
Starting point is 00:36:24 important, not is what I want to what she's more more feeling more than she's more
Starting point is 00:36:28 to be a lot I'm defiant a good vendidor. A good is
Starting point is 00:36:35 that is that the who not is thinking in something in something, in venders
Starting point is 00:36:38 something, but he's thinking in serving you first, how you know, how I'm you know,
Starting point is 00:36:42 how do you do you know, but how I'm doing serve you. And in a party, that's the
Starting point is 00:36:47 time of that's the thing, how I, want to a marathon? Perfect. For you
Starting point is 00:36:53 it's very important to go to run a marathon. For me, no, I don't
Starting point is 00:36:56 not go to but for you're important, okay, why, count me, what,
Starting point is 00:37:00 what's what's going to require time, of Comer certain
Starting point is 00:37:06 hours to do you. Sure. How I can support? For me
Starting point is 00:37:11 in the transition of the clency of the thing, to think that they're
Starting point is 00:37:13 espos of the esposos to do I'm for your money and a true
Starting point is 00:37:19 a social a coci, a complice that's a very. That's a person,
Starting point is 00:37:25 that's a person who you're not only you're to be you're in your process of transformation
Starting point is 00:37:32 but someone that that's who Someone with who can even more than you're even more than you're,
Starting point is 00:37:38 not that you're not to be to be sure to be a lot of, and to be and to keep constantly and that individuality because
Starting point is 00:37:45 there are two leas, there are two of there that's fundamental, but there's that's fundamental, that's, to be a blocker
Starting point is 00:37:54 for that you can't do your objectives, desires emotional, and a long plan of form individual.
Starting point is 00:38:01 And also also, it's has to have a project of a That's when you when you're
Starting point is 00:38:05 you're you're doing the time you're doing the thing you're that's the legate that you're to have to
Starting point is 00:38:12 have a meaning of your one. Well, the other five came after after a little
Starting point is 00:38:18 pauseita here in the podcast and also I'm I'm going on this pause
Starting point is 00:38:23 what's what would the the regulations or the questions to be to get
Starting point is 00:38:29 to a plet to a discussion and to get to Some of you have done to ask questions
Starting point is 00:38:34 to interest to genuinely in another person to hear about but to be we can't think we're doing this
Starting point is 00:38:40 how can't do those interchamions that inevitably will be to have different there differences will be
Starting point is 00:38:48 there things to negotiate to what we mandam to the we're going to I'm I'm a
Starting point is 00:38:54 school religious I know I want to go to a school laika where the
Starting point is 00:38:58 little the child that the world that's a wow, it's been a great problem. And a lot of, not you know,
Starting point is 00:39:05 you know, you're going to you know, to the situation. How gestionate these differences that inevitably are going to present.
Starting point is 00:39:12 One pausita, and we'll come Chaba Gutierrez about how to save the relations of the separation. You want to get your
Starting point is 00:39:22 dreams, but you don't know you're not you need to do necessary to build the life that you want to
Starting point is 00:39:28 you're the insecurity is a question, so if the you, not you justs, not
Starting point is 00:39:34 you feel as bad, because that's very common. Sin embargo, there's to know that this limit the
Starting point is 00:39:39 potential of many people. The theme is to give us count and get to be there. As you
Starting point is 00:39:44 know, as the long of my career of 40 years, me had had been reinvented and start from
Starting point is 00:39:49 and start to make sure to not conformar with something that I think, and this way, I've discovered
Starting point is 00:39:58 to you too to find you to find to be your abilities and to tryver to to leave
Starting point is 00:40:02 that's sure, but that not you're that's a lot of you're and you're
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Starting point is 00:40:46 for when I get. Verda? At the more, at the more, to me, I'm even, I'm even, Oh yeah, a
Starting point is 00:40:54 say you You're saying that There's seven Or seven Concees Basics Pilares, seven pillars Seven pilares
Starting point is 00:41:01 Like I'm I'm going to Construe a building There's seven So Let's be Let's see my
Starting point is 00:41:05 Terea Let's read What is the One of One of the One of the Democracy is that has
Starting point is 00:41:11 The President Is that you The Crosion of Anocence Uh ha Uh huh Inbara In fact
Starting point is 00:41:15 Yeah Hasn't The Culpation The Culpibility You're You're Culpible As to
Starting point is 00:41:19 You know Because To be a good relation, it has to be compassion. It's a question.
Starting point is 00:41:26 Because I know, because I was with with a lot of because I'm because I'm sorry that you know that's been more stressed
Starting point is 00:41:32 this last time, or that's not you have done that we've we've done that we're seeing how he's doing
Starting point is 00:41:38 how he'll do it's just me to get to me, is that I think he's a person who's a personn't, he's a
Starting point is 00:41:45 great, he's he came you that we're a poxas, it's a co-opopement, it's a purpose to torture me.
Starting point is 00:41:51 Because because he loves and he has and he goes without, that's the right, you have to
Starting point is 00:41:57 have to be a presumption of innocence or so if that's in a society of the world,
Starting point is 00:42:01 where not it doesn't have any kind of how will be to be a family a son
Starting point is 00:42:05 that's that's not so that that's so that's just just just that
Starting point is 00:42:12 I'm just because obviously I'm a lot of familyaries and people and the dynamics
Starting point is 00:42:16 of casas so they can't so what you do you do you You say,
Starting point is 00:42:22 the other I do you do it, it's not the way to not get a not going to get to cast me.
Starting point is 00:42:27 There's to be a car to get to your life. Sure. Okay. So, inosense.
Starting point is 00:42:32 Presum that's innocent. Then the other. Actualizing the GPS of the love.
Starting point is 00:42:37 Actualis the GPS of the love. Okay. What what happens is that at
Starting point is 00:42:43 time when two people start to know absolutely all that's when it's when it's the GPS of the other person.
Starting point is 00:42:50 but then, as they're in the same house, they're thinking that what they are the same it's not,
Starting point is 00:42:57 there's to actualize the people we're doing, every four hours the cell they're reprograms they're
Starting point is 00:43:02 rejuveneces we're just different of a manner constant because not we're not a product
Starting point is 00:43:07 terminated but you are you are your people are people? have you have been
Starting point is 00:43:12 your objectives labrales are the those those those are the questions? What are the
Starting point is 00:43:17 are your what are you what you impede is more plenno, more more
Starting point is 00:43:18 more more way you would be to think you want to what you're you're doing,
Starting point is 00:43:23 what you're doing this kind of a moment more of a more than I'm more than you is fundamental that you're
Starting point is 00:43:31 right, and you know, it's that's the same years and you know, and you're just no, I'm not
Starting point is 00:43:39 I'm saying, oh, I'm sorry, I'm, oh, I'm not, yeah, no,
Starting point is 00:43:42 yeah, yeah, and you're and they're they're trying to be a loco, and that
Starting point is 00:43:47 makes feel like a separation. I mean, not only you're not you're
Starting point is 00:43:52 not you're saying that's saying that's talking about like something like when it's been a little bit to the therapy
Starting point is 00:44:01 and we've met really to the transformation. So I'm imagine the distance that is going to a person
Starting point is 00:44:09 more person more more than you when you're you're that you're that's actualizing and
Starting point is 00:44:14 assume that you're the same person of the same Total. An aljaniia, no?
Starting point is 00:44:20 There's a There's a yeah, the principal purpose that's standing in a relationship is that the other
Starting point is 00:44:25 person is sure. So, you know you can't make sense a person to the person who you
Starting point is 00:44:30 know, I always have to know that but it's that's a synonym because there's
Starting point is 00:44:35 people who have done like the person who has been to have been to the school and has
Starting point is 00:44:39 been to have been he's got and he's has been super abrumated because me got
Starting point is 00:44:44 a one a call of the college and result that he's
Starting point is 00:44:47 a lot of the other he's a question, he's because they're doing this he's not a time.
Starting point is 00:44:54 And I'm not see, I'm think I'm doing responsibility my, because I'm not put limits and I'm trying
Starting point is 00:44:59 to put limits. Wow, it's a practice profound. Of course. Versus the anecdote of the new
Starting point is 00:45:04 the new the new thing is the but it's like you dohogas. But when when you're
Starting point is 00:45:10 a part meteorological or a part of the day, what you do you is stress you
Starting point is 00:45:15 what you have stressed without the component emotional and without and without and think the other
Starting point is 00:45:18 people, you know, not the other question to ask, to ask, to what you do you or how you
Starting point is 00:45:26 see it? And many times we assume that all right, we're doing to work, I don't know how,
Starting point is 00:45:32 how you're how you feel you're very tired of that I'm that's, that's, that's, that
Starting point is 00:45:37 that's not that's the communication. Total, because no we don't we're Correct?
Starting point is 00:45:45 Because as we have problems that we've solucionated, at the final what you think you're thinking you're to know that
Starting point is 00:45:50 you're not to know that and then you know, and then someone in the office. You put eyes eyes, and
Starting point is 00:45:58 if you ask you, and if you're you're asking, and you start, and you're going to the first law
Starting point is 00:46:08 that we've mentioned, you know, it's a lot of because it's a lot, but it's a error, it's a
Starting point is 00:46:12 one and another and other and other it's very complicated to pass the page. But the problem is
Starting point is 00:46:17 that if you not gestionas that change that's a person of the office or or the club or whatever
Starting point is 00:46:22 we're going to say, we're going to you know, you're that you're to the person in the
Starting point is 00:46:28 officeina, pass to occupy the place. It's going to repeat the same
Starting point is 00:46:32 story. Even it's even be a more. Because now your kids are
Starting point is 00:46:36 two cars, they're going to have two educations completely different.
Starting point is 00:46:40 they're going to have a confusion that are the limits, that's the what's the what you're going to you're going to
Starting point is 00:46:44 you're going to you're going to the ex-pareja and the pariah and the pariah three, because we're not going to get to the
Starting point is 00:46:52 old, you know, you're doing, you're doing that's a great a great wonderful, what we go back, we go back,
Starting point is 00:46:58 we go back, we're going to see, other of the other of the constitution family of admiration and carein.
Starting point is 00:47:04 Constitution family of that's, well, look, a country has cullullus
Starting point is 00:47:09 and What are the cells of a family's? So, if a place has a constitution, a case, not it has to
Starting point is 00:47:15 have a family? I was, for example, with a medical super-exitoso that was in a hospital. And he was
Starting point is 00:47:20 a lot of working. And I was what you have in the hospital? That's what you have to do you
Starting point is 00:47:26 and in your family? So, what is the difference between your family and the hospital? And he's,
Starting point is 00:47:30 look, in the family no exist in the family, is exactly what I'm going to do you
Starting point is 00:47:35 do that's exactly what I'm necessarily that's a through of much communication.
Starting point is 00:47:40 Yes. And it's what normally the people not are to do you because rewens of the conflict
Starting point is 00:47:44 or of the difference of opinion. And in the absence of the reglas, every real real real. But it's
Starting point is 00:47:49 very dangerous. Because, if you're to think it, even to think, to the people, is better
Starting point is 00:47:55 than a education that's more in the family, if there's if you have, for example, a education
Starting point is 00:48:00 a little more more utilitarian, but it's but always the same the same the same
Starting point is 00:48:05 the same, you know what is what can do, to do you have to do the things. But when there's ambiguity, there is a problem. Because the limits, that no be in the family, then they'll test it in the
Starting point is 00:48:13 life real. And no knows what it's what you can't. And all that confusion, it will be to translate to every area of his life. And the ideal, aregles sound. Reglasses reputuosas, amorosas, psychologically sanas, total. But, yes. If in the absence of regals, there's a chaos. Total. For a muster,
Starting point is 00:48:31 we'll go to manage a Any capital of the American in Spain no, it's less chaotic,
Starting point is 00:48:38 Madrid, Barcelona. It's a little bit more about it. Yeah, Spain, compared to
Starting point is 00:48:43 Switzerland, with, I see, with Switzerland, it's chaotic. Totally. Italy, compared with England,
Starting point is 00:48:48 it's cautic. Well, Londres is another part of it. Londres, is, right?
Starting point is 00:48:53 London is, for me London is better than Madrid. But that's the chaos. When,
Starting point is 00:48:58 when no, when no there are the things every I mean, I'm my, those things
Starting point is 00:49:04 are very interesting and I'm trying to give to pay them attention, because it's very important to start with the unity. And when, for example,
Starting point is 00:49:10 my spouse and I talk about about about the education of our one of the things is, no is your real and my
Starting point is 00:49:14 truth, it's the great fact to see, what we're the right to what's the thing for our problem,
Starting point is 00:49:20 which is create a new new to the world, because for us is much more easy, educate
Starting point is 00:49:25 a young than a than to repair to then a adult roto. Sure. Yes, grittas
Starting point is 00:49:30 that you peg and things that they're saying the one, it's transmitted in in months
Starting point is 00:49:34 or years of therapy. If it's that you're going to be that you're and they're that's the
Starting point is 00:49:38 and they're my my objective principal is that my my is that my and that
Starting point is 00:49:43 for that I do you to do that yeah, that's important is that's that's
Starting point is 00:49:48 that's going to you're not your friend, he's the I'm my, I'm you're
Starting point is 00:49:53 you're not because you know because you not you exactly okay what is the
Starting point is 00:49:57 fourth the fourth pillar Look, the regla fundamental that has to have a person to really be the same thing
Starting point is 00:50:03 is the way how resolve the conflictos. Resolver conflictus. That is the capacity or the ability more important that
Starting point is 00:50:10 could get to a person or is like those, well, the green flag that one person has to fix
Starting point is 00:50:17 so if a alterer much, if it has a mentality rigid, if no to be a therapy,
Starting point is 00:50:21 if no has predisposition to listen or no know you know you can't resolve
Starting point is 00:50:26 well to do not do do and that's something that's something. But from the first
Starting point is 00:50:31 time, there's a question, not to start not to start to get a question, and the
Starting point is 00:50:37 problem is that the people that the people are in not put limits and when a person no point
Starting point is 00:50:42 limits, invariably gets a clear, but if me a play that interesting,
Starting point is 00:50:46 if you are in a relationship, you're in a lot of when you're having a family,
Starting point is 00:50:50 if you don't if you don't have you're so you get over and it's a caro and
Starting point is 00:50:55 there's If nobody wants to live a family separated, we know, we're going to not, but not is the
Starting point is 00:51:03 ideal that we're that's the ideal that we're not going to not. But it's what statistically has more
Starting point is 00:51:09 possibility of that that's happening. Well, some pre-nup and all. They're all the contract to do this
Starting point is 00:51:13 for the divorce. But it's a thing a interesting. Oh, yeah, my life, my love, I'm,
Starting point is 00:51:18 we know, I'm a passion and we have a plan of life, but we don't know
Starting point is 00:51:22 to solve conflictos. We're to learn to to resolve conflictos. I think is something
Starting point is 00:51:27 is something that is something that is a lot of that's the problem that's the problem most constant and recurrente that normally the
Starting point is 00:51:33 problem with the problem with always they're usually usually usually get to and what you normally does you know,
Starting point is 00:51:39 is to be them and then to be there's the people, hobbies, to work more, uh, to be addicted
Starting point is 00:51:46 to the cafe to do you some, some, some, like no, like no. Resolver
Starting point is 00:51:53 conflictos. No, is what we say we, if you know, resolves your conflict and you do you look,
Starting point is 00:51:57 you're looking a man to a person, you know, you know, because no can't resolve the first. Total.
Starting point is 00:52:03 And you're to repeat what you're doing the other person. Total. No, I'm not to be more
Starting point is 00:52:07 to go to that way. Well, well, what other? Resolver conflictus is all of
Starting point is 00:52:11 a thing. But it's basically a communication, no, of the entry. I think is a
Starting point is 00:52:16 little more more than to do you. It's like the principle basic, that's the
Starting point is 00:52:20 principle basic. And, there, for me, there are there's fundamental. For example,
Starting point is 00:52:24 the validation that we've talked about and the other is the reparation. For example, you,
Starting point is 00:52:27 you know, you know that's very well that can be a cliente unsatisfached. But if you immediately,
Starting point is 00:52:33 that insatisfaction, the repas adequately and the people that are insatiate at the beginning
Starting point is 00:52:39 a connection, a compromise, a lelta much more than the they're than they're when they
Starting point is 00:52:43 had been a different. Yes, well, well, well, well, the
Starting point is 00:52:45 well, the what happens? That's that there's some problem and that's something, you know, you know,
Starting point is 00:52:53 repas, in that precise instant, during 24 hours, that rencour, resentment and problems has been still more great. Because you're
Starting point is 00:53:00 repitient, you're still because, you're recombating to say, what has done, how me has said that,
Starting point is 00:53:05 with what I have done, and then, then when they're saying, then, then instead of saying,
Starting point is 00:53:12 but is that I've done this for you, you know, I've done, you've done that this
Starting point is 00:53:16 was important, connected So, So, So, yeah. And there's any scene
Starting point is 00:53:21 of telenovela, there's you, gritos, gritos, you, I'm there no
Starting point is 00:53:25 there's to get in the other person to the bad that's, the
Starting point is 00:53:29 ungrata that's ungrat that's unfortunately, so. So, compassion,
Starting point is 00:53:35 to get a question, you know, the other other we've been got to
Starting point is 00:53:40 do you do you do you do you do because if not so they're
Starting point is 00:53:45 doing it is quartar your your essence, your individuality. And when that occurs, the people are
Starting point is 00:53:50 frustrated. The other is to have a project of life. And then we'll get things such basic as as much as
Starting point is 00:53:55 that there's that there's a because if there no there's a good communication, no resolution of conflict, and nothing
Starting point is 00:54:02 for the style. And then the reason for the swingers, how they don't function
Starting point is 00:54:07 that, that is the compromise. Because when you have a relation abirt and when you
Starting point is 00:54:11 other people, the final the compromise is a limit diffus because
Starting point is 00:54:16 you You, you end up someone and you know, as I'm trying to only the good, not would be more to enjoy my
Starting point is 00:54:22 with a person that apparently only me is most trying to what good? I have some parquetit of the people who
Starting point is 00:54:28 would have I've lived with that I'm not not doing it. The science, what does the investigations about that is
Starting point is 00:54:36 that the compromise is that the master in Johnson that put a a matrimonio of the States that during
Starting point is 00:54:43 decades studied to the swingers and to those, in that the time, no, in the time, no,
Starting point is 00:54:48 in the time of the time, they're in the years of study, they're saying that no. That's the time. But it's
Starting point is 00:54:57 that's normal. So, that's the beginning, it's a thing, but that's rare, the
Starting point is 00:55:01 that's that's not lastimating to some way, is that people, generally is,
Starting point is 00:55:06 generating a addiction as a society, to the enamoramoramoram so, then the enabomomomom is more
Starting point is 00:55:09 a question hormonal and of and we we don't understand that the love
Starting point is 00:55:13 Maduro is a decision, a responsibility and a construction continuals, at least what we're looking is what is constantly the adrenaline, constantly the carous chulles, the women,
Starting point is 00:55:25 voluntuosas, the fact that I'm more chulo than anybody, that I'm more addominalers than nobody. But is that in reality, a me does a lot of per cent
Starting point is 00:55:31 a person, because it's like the only that is to talk the ego, like if it was a machinita of the game of the game of
Starting point is 00:55:39 the pern't, because not they're in a party of Ammigues that, I mean, as as I've recognized that I've read that I've practiced, I'm not
Starting point is 00:55:47 not put to not vote, nor favor, nor do you know, they're going to have you've been, they've been
Starting point is 00:55:51 three children, and they've like, I'm, like, seven years of and they're very well, and you
Starting point is 00:55:57 and you see, and you imagine you and you're, that's more, it's more, I'm in the podcast,
Starting point is 00:56:01 is man, you'd never you'd have any license, but they'd be good to a program
Starting point is 00:56:08 to be a , that would be able to that's, that's, They're scribed a book about that. There's a
Starting point is 00:56:12 exception that that's the norm. But what I see I'm going generally not usually work is that
Starting point is 00:56:19 like they're like, and they're and they're like, they're doing. Yeah, but is that
Starting point is 00:56:24 the rules normally they're rompiening because we're more emotional than real
Starting point is 00:56:27 to make a emotion, not you know, you're not you're not that's easy to say it now,
Starting point is 00:56:32 now, ask it when you have when you you're a connection you're doing,
Starting point is 00:56:37 and where you only you're you're only you're first moment. Yeah. No, I don't
Starting point is 00:56:41 I mean, obviously I'm doing the thing because I don't know I'm sure, I'm really really enamored
Starting point is 00:56:46 of someone, I'm not I'm imagining that, well, no, we go, we're going to
Starting point is 00:56:51 get to the other people, how you know, I'm going to talk about to, I'm sure some cheladas
Starting point is 00:56:56 delicious, and I, I, I'm coming a hamburger I, no, no,
Starting point is 00:57:00 I'm visualized doing this, so, and I'm not the people that know that every way
Starting point is 00:57:04 that's a more, I'm said that I don't know I can't not support,
Starting point is 00:57:11 nor do you don't even critic us but apart everyone what he's what he's the work
Starting point is 00:57:17 the time is how does it's a thing that does it should be that we're we're talking
Starting point is 00:57:23 we're if there no there's a person who has that before in this
Starting point is 00:57:29 type of dynamics and terminate completely perturbed or perturbed yeah
Starting point is 00:57:33 never you know but again but again this is the time it's
Starting point is 00:57:38 would be It would be very nice. It would be a nice part of a couple of. A couple of it is that those of parishes are not going to be on a podcast because they'll guard in secret. If you're just invited, but no me accept the invitation. But, well, regisand to the other thing. Here, I said, me
Starting point is 00:57:54 made much attention, the two pillars, the five and six, very important. Decere, to pursue individuals, and the other was project of life. So, are two things distinct. Completely. One is a dream in conjunction, our project of life, but it's important that every person in the
Starting point is 00:58:09 partner in the partner has a own own project individual. Total. For example, I'm sure that one of your
Starting point is 00:58:13 dreams that you going to work is convertible in the postcard number one of Mexico. And you're going to necessarily
Starting point is 00:58:19 has been to be a project of a project in a family. That's right. That's that can be
Starting point is 00:58:22 my project personal. Exactly. So, so they have to be to get to the two
Starting point is 00:58:27 at the same time. It has to imperate over obviously what are the objectives or
Starting point is 00:58:31 the dynamics familyaryary. But that has no has been a excuse as for that the
Starting point is 00:58:38 And you have to support it because much people feel so much you know, no, no, you goys to gore the marathon, because they're afraid that the marathon or another athlete and they're inamore
Starting point is 00:58:47 of his company marathontist. But how you're to have to be in your family or a when you want to do you or not to support you?
Starting point is 00:58:54 But if you don't do you know, it's like, because the people are very really realseloce and, over there's a certain
Starting point is 00:58:58 there's a thing that's there's a lot of and what you want to make to make a person, they're not controlable is
Starting point is 00:59:04 so that's so that's more than I'm not that's my mode that's my got a
Starting point is 00:59:09 car of the church, that's actually because I'm going to get a lot of that's not like that's
Starting point is 00:59:15 like that I'm a man who's a millionary he was super good, he was a little bit of
Starting point is 00:59:20 a chava that was like a little and he put a detective private so he then he's
Starting point is 00:59:24 he's he's doing with the people, those who are the same the people that's the
Starting point is 00:59:33 people who's that's he's so I'm a primal Saluda, Saracely. So, if you're going to
Starting point is 00:59:42 if you're going to to be able to get to the one of the in the gymnasia, in the supermarket or so no you can't
Starting point is 00:59:48 be trying to do you do you do that not do you do you do do your not do you do you
Starting point is 00:59:53 do you do you don't have a job you don't do you do you're how many
Starting point is 00:59:59 who are they're so no no no no you don't you don't you don't you don't
Starting point is 01:00:01 you don't you're a salon of so you so you to be so you you,
Starting point is 01:00:07 I mean, I mean, I mean, to try to control the entorn. That's not that's a
Starting point is 01:00:13 more. That's not time or time when I'm going to be to be the control, you're going to get all to
Starting point is 01:00:18 make the independence and the resentment and the resentment of the that would be done to that would be
Starting point is 01:00:23 without without the without the time. And I think it's more easy to do
Starting point is 01:00:28 to do it, but that's the time, understand that your partner not you and that
Starting point is 01:00:32 you can't guarantee that you to be Guarantisar, control not a way to do that's
Starting point is 01:00:38 for what is for what it's not the law for the for the people when I'm about the
Starting point is 01:00:43 people, I'm going to that's the question. And so, you know, you're like they're
Starting point is 01:00:49 going to focus on what really important that is, I'm going to have to occupy to do you
Starting point is 01:00:55 have to come to do this regals and what I'm not I'm meto, no in my pedo.
Starting point is 01:01:00 Sure. And accept that the person can go, the life can't the things
Starting point is 01:01:04 can't as you say, you, we'll suppose that you've been to be the work
Starting point is 01:01:08 and you and you're responsible of your and you're you're in you're not, you're
Starting point is 01:01:14 and you're and you're the marital perfect, the wife perfect, and even a life
Starting point is 01:01:21 can change. But I me really the thing popular of Mexico that says
Starting point is 01:01:25 if you don't even if you don't you take, if it's not you don't it
Starting point is 01:01:28 don't you don't even we're we're just we're not we're not we're capacitado
Starting point is 01:01:34 we're not to confronts any that's that you're going to be that's in your life.
Starting point is 01:01:39 And so you're a lot of because the things, what we're we've got, we poste. Me, I'm
Starting point is 01:01:47 an auto precious and then the car to be where I'm going to do you go to me they're going to
Starting point is 01:01:54 get to me to buy, to come to a house, the house of my son's, I'm a baby, let's do you
Starting point is 01:02:00 do it. So, what I'm what I'm having to oh, me posse. So if I
Starting point is 01:02:05 enter in a relation with that's going to buy a way to buy a couple of a pair of the fear
Starting point is 01:02:11 to get to be taking possession of me. Total. That's that that's when it's a front of
Starting point is 01:02:17 a relation from a necessity and not from the election. So when that's
Starting point is 01:02:22 there's a great confusion because it's like I'm but I want to
Starting point is 01:02:26 I'm I'm to do you for the and there is when really actually is
Starting point is 01:02:32 when really because she recela, she guard one and when when he works one causes, it's got to have a
Starting point is 01:02:37 little bit more more superficial. And yeah every bit more more than they're more than they're not not some friends,
Starting point is 01:02:45 yeah, they're not socius, because the first the first path to cut the intimacy
Starting point is 01:02:50 is to cut the intimacy emotional. So, minimum, if a person is very good
Starting point is 01:02:55 friend of and you know how is the best of the person who being the
Starting point is 01:03:00 person who's comporting how I'd like that's or from me from me would be from the enfoques
Starting point is 01:03:04 of the way of the work of the company of a business of the control, of the position, of I'm
Starting point is 01:03:12 to be there, and they can move a dead without that you know that? It's so that's a
Starting point is 01:03:17 much, much damage, and is the beginning of final. You can't repeat that when
Starting point is 01:03:22 no connection emotion the connection physical disappears. Total. That's the first is the
Starting point is 01:03:27 principle of final. Yeah, and And, also it's very graciously, because,
Starting point is 01:03:29 you know, when the women have a problem in the relationship, in the family,
Starting point is 01:03:33 need to have in the physical to have passed page. But the women need to have a
Starting point is 01:03:40 intimacy emotional and that they're doing the problem, and then then it like no
Starting point is 01:03:45 or other. Every one has different, and as they're not to make that they're
Starting point is 01:03:50 to make more than, every way, it's a very good. I'm just, me it's
Starting point is 01:03:55 reflection much. It's a very interesting. At the end of the end of the time,
Starting point is 01:03:59 it's a lot of you know what you have you do you know that's in a couple romantic,
Starting point is 01:04:07 but it's in the business, it's a family extended, it's a family extended, it's a
Starting point is 01:04:16 part of the and what I'm a person, to be a person, to make more, that's that's,
Starting point is 01:04:20 but I'm but not me domine, and me possea, and me limites, but that I'm
Starting point is 01:04:25 doing. And so you're going to like, if you're saying, oh, Mark,
Starting point is 01:04:29 I'm going to, I'm going to go to go to doing, going to do this. I'm going to do, hey,
Starting point is 01:04:34 good for you. To have the time, that's the other and say, I'm going to
Starting point is 01:04:40 do you get this. Sientas the same emotion. You're wow, what I'm
Starting point is 01:04:44 you're going to get to we're going to get in some moment. What you what you're what you're
Starting point is 01:04:49 the clove because the the parties are with a high with an
Starting point is 01:04:55 not are the not the that's that they're going, but the they're going to not the creeses
Starting point is 01:04:59 with you. Exactly. Never I never had encountered the but Robert Kiyosaki, the author
Starting point is 01:05:04 of Pard, RICO, always always said, if you don't grow together, you grow apart. That's
Starting point is 01:05:10 that's a bit difficult to translate it for the termino. No, if not creces in a
Starting point is 01:05:15 concert, they're growing apart. Creasing apart, creasing apart, or you're or you're you're growing
Starting point is 01:05:20 with that person or your growth to be a case concrete, he was in his
Starting point is 01:05:27 biography, Jorge Perez, I suppose that you know you, that's the billionaire more than the enfocke immobiliarious.
Starting point is 01:05:34 He's made a super-imperio. He's he castes various times. And he was he was a manel who
Starting point is 01:05:38 was a great-exitoso professionally, but also he's super valid also, that is, he'd be a
Starting point is 01:05:43 person, a person that's a thing, I'd have to have a family and so,
Starting point is 01:05:47 and however, he was he was and he divorcee. He was a divorcee and then
Starting point is 01:05:51 he was a way that he could get to a family and then it to get to work in the
Starting point is 01:05:56 same time. If it's true that not the all the whole of the porsillies but it
Starting point is 01:06:00 is what he was to have a life professional where no there was there not existia
Starting point is 01:06:05 and there even a time, and they were they're going and they he's the first thing
Starting point is 01:06:11 to do you get to come to me and you come to you take the tinder the tient
Starting point is 01:06:16 the tient of the tient of the to our kids, I'll get a castillo
Starting point is 01:06:20 and chasel and when I'm going to do you know, they're in a lot of other,
Starting point is 01:06:24 they'd they'd they're in living with them, while he was in that when I
Starting point is 01:06:29 had to work and he was, and I'm and it about about it. That's
Starting point is 01:06:35 you're that you don't you know, like you see the time, how is plan
Starting point is 01:06:40 a baud to be very well, and then then you do you and then you're
Starting point is 01:06:44 much in the professional to think you're the necessary for to feel that is sufficient
Starting point is 01:06:48 for that you want to be when the people are the people are when you are you are so only
Starting point is 01:06:54 only so that really the people are to have to be relationships connected, consientes, and if
Starting point is 01:06:59 a relation is your priority in the life you can you can you can't you can't
Starting point is 01:07:04 make your things for that sometimes someone that says somebody that says
Starting point is 01:07:09 to be in a work in a work that you chupan the life.
Starting point is 01:07:14 You know, that's what you go to all the family. A little bit more would be more more than I'm going to be more
Starting point is 01:07:24 more special, but that's a little more that my family. Because if I met to this career corporative a, a
Starting point is 01:07:30 prim who just justly said, or I'm going to go to get this, or go to Europe, so they were going to
Starting point is 01:07:38 it was a American, it was a American, he was Europe, the post most
Starting point is 01:07:42 alt and his matrimonio was a point to tronar and he said, or is this, or is my family? And he opted for the family and he left, all he said, all the thing,
Starting point is 01:07:54 he was done, and he was in a city medium, for quality of life with his family, and he has a company and he has
Starting point is 01:08:02 also he does also, adapt to his life professional because he gave priority to his family. For him, that was the part most important.
Starting point is 01:08:10 That was the thing. That was the example. I applaud. Because in the majority of the people what we do is to buy the
Starting point is 01:08:15 great job grand work, grand coach, uh, clear, is that every person has to have to reinventing and has
Starting point is 01:08:22 to say that's the thing. So, then what you have said, how you're doing the use, the result of the
Starting point is 01:08:27 fruit? For what you want to work much for having subject of materials? No,
Starting point is 01:08:31 is more important to do you know, so, and only only so, when the
Starting point is 01:08:35 people are when the people are a life my priorities, I have a Prima, very great Monica Sanchez, actress,
Starting point is 01:08:44 who's very famous, he's a novel, after novel, series, and she went to to live to Valencia,
Starting point is 01:08:50 with her husband and with his wife, because to Valencia? And he said, but I'm, but I'm,
Starting point is 01:08:54 but I'm, my three children, grow, in an environment ideal, and for us ideal,
Starting point is 01:09:00 it's ideal, it's called Valencia, Spain. Wow. And he's a certain time, he has
Starting point is 01:09:05 a series, or something, but it's like a detailito. Sacrifico his husband sacrificed his career. He
Starting point is 01:09:12 was also, he said, we're also doing, we're going to work in a corporation. And the two said, we're going to Valencia, because this is the ideal for our children. You adapted their increases and their life and all, to give priority as family. Sacrificed her career professional
Starting point is 01:09:24 for your career of life. But that's, they're not so they feel like, I did, no, they're doing. No, they are they're doing. No, they're not all of those would say that formula, but they're not to be.
Starting point is 01:09:36 No, can't be more of accord, and what admiration, and that has family that's conscientious? us. But that's well, you thank you
Starting point is 01:09:45 thank you much my dear Chaba Gutierrez you're you're putting your new book. How's it?
Starting point is 01:09:50 The book is more about than you than that's a little bit more than I would have been more than a
Starting point is 01:09:55 little bit more you're saying is that you know you don't wantes that you don't you know
Starting point is 01:10:01 to have to you know what I'm my always you're all over something that has a
Starting point is 01:10:05 that's that's that's not me malinterpreted so from my point of
Starting point is 01:10:10 view nobody has to want to want to get a type of because a
Starting point is 01:10:13 good matrimonial not you don't be a lot life. So, here
Starting point is 01:10:17 of what we're not what we have our those but is
Starting point is 01:10:20 what they were the other than those are the important to have relationships
Starting point is 01:10:26 and then if you want to learn to learn to understand to
Starting point is 01:10:32 selfer emotionally, to use obviously, to obviously, what is what every
Starting point is 01:10:36 can need to a an enfoque emotional to enjoy to be a realation and a
Starting point is 01:10:40 little bit of a much more than you're going to do it. In the social where we we can't see it and
Starting point is 01:10:46 in all the social in Chaba Gutierre me are putting my name or in www. www. Chababutierre.
Starting point is 01:10:52 com. Very good. Perfect. And you also also also the course of the course.
Starting point is 01:10:56 Sure. How to make your communication and resolve the conflictos. Fundamental.
Starting point is 01:11:00 Okay. Muchious thanks for citarlo. No, we're we're very we've done
Starting point is 01:11:07 A me I'm going to Mark Antonio Regil in all the other the media and the podcast.
Starting point is 01:11:11 Recurton that's also the podcast. Like Marko the podcast. So, you can
Starting point is 01:11:15 find it. The program of radio is other podcast distinct. It's Mark Antonio Regile in
Starting point is 01:11:20 formula. The two are still different. But this is Marko the podcast or the
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