El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 338 - Daddy Issues: cómo afecta tu relación con papá

Episode Date: September 2, 2024

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mom, a marvellous but at the time, you made up and you put up and you're

not to help to create relations that future. A the kids we're many

responsibilities, Marko, that no they're that are to get a person in the life very

very furs. Ni- and a child and you can't I'm going to I'm looking a my mother

in my partner in my family or a my father in my pariah? We're we're going we're going to

we're doing all that that's all the that's done. Because if is a copac alcoholic or the boy

or the major act of an father absent is having seen because of having been he had been

that had made more the same the same those famous dad issues or mommy issues

are present in paris they're in in the man that you've to be the

father there's there's there's there's there's that when a person who

has a problem with the time, for the rest of their life of your life. A this

is he called Daddy Issues. It's is a thing that they're in people,

in a desire sexual intense to them to them or in the tendency to be

in relations abusive. But is a problem real? How is to know if

you're living? This This week we'll learn together together together about the data issues

and discover we're how to build relations and make sure our own our own own our own our doctor.

We're doing the city of Mexico, grabbing with our precious public that is in live,

students of our courses, Listos? Comeensam! Episodeio 338. The psychologist Anna Maria

Aristei is psychotherapist Gestalt. Count with studies in the development, manoe

of the conflict and assertivity, as the manhurtability, as much of their course,

and of the public, has oriented to people that are looking to make sure your life

and the life. The psychologist. Anna Maria Aristey is there in the

podcast. Welcome Anna Maria. Hello Marko. Oh, yeah, it's very

to be to be daddy yeah, not? Daddy Issues, Sugar Daddy. Daddy, Daddy Daddy. What are the daddy issues?

How is the point of of view of the psychology the problems of Papa? Well, it's like everything when you have when you've been a father

because mom generally still. Generally, yes. And mom is the that we're that's the but I have

a theory that I'm going to tryver to say. Atrevet. Me, I'm a meedito, but well.

A psychologist with with you go with Niedo. You're just going with us you're going to it's going to

see the public. We're going to be ready. There's a bit more a question. No, but not what

you're going to say, but first I'm going to I'm going to let's see you can the response.

A bit. You think that the women are castrante and controlators? Some at times.

A at a at a a basis. Some. I'm not not all and of those.

And of those that's that's that's that exactly Yeah. So, like there are guys

and control and then a few, and some. Well, I see I think that in the

in question of when we're going to we're many, not all some, some,

some, we're, we're, we're we're we're But the fact of that we're saying

not is that we're not. No, is that we're doing so we're doing so because we don't

have a figure masculine that does that make a equipment with us and us and it

be our team and our copilot to educate to the kids. Okay. So the

mom, a bit, you're saying that when a woman not has a copilot

that she has being that figure masculine also. So, and it's and it's

and it's and it's so it so they're so they're they're in their stances, like if

were the statue of the security social they, they're and they're and the and the

man, you get to generate. I'm in my characters. I'm sorry and

I'm sorry and father I'm sorry and parted, you're a strangeido emotional, that's not,

I don't have heard I've heard I've seen I'm excited exactly exactly. So,

so you know you know you know you know about you know so I'm so I'm

so I'm so and here here here here in the pre-adolescence and in the

adolescence the function of a mother is ceder the father.

Never that's that's so. Respira Respira Marko you

see you know you Well, Yeah. So, a see? A bit,

pre-adolescence, did you? Pre-adolescence and mom? Cedderle, the kids? Yes. So, how?

The mom had to, let me, let's say to the family. Want you? Let's that a family.

Here I took a family. Some of the family. Some of marcianitos. Exactly. Here we have a mom.

That part, we'd we'd also about too about the also, because then what we're

is that the women is that the woman is put at right of the

the place the right is the right is the right and what is the

other right that he protects a part more vulnerable and the time to to look at to look

to look at this. Let's get we're going to get much people that there we're going to

get to so if we say this or this in the people the people get there.

Okay. There's Papa is the right the father right. After

then the mom. From the side of the side of the left. And then

the other right of the right, I don't know. Okay. Because the man, standing the

right, the right of the woman, we have we have we're not because then

there's there's a I need that I'm that I'm not sure. That's my mother.

Yes. But to educate on a lot of a man, not more

more easy. Well, doing making a couple of obviously, it's more fast.

Exactly. So, so there would have to be a paris. In a other theory also

very really great is that the woman is that the woman oh, that's so

what a mollito that mollito and then and then they're not they're not correct? Yes,

that very ported those these are they're they're they're so they're and they

those other that are those who are that they're going to come to the discordia of that

out of it. You're a second house. You're you're going to Mark. He's

going to get a little okay. So, see how this. Viener in a

mom. In a pre-a-of-a- so much the time that's a lot of the statue of

the sameuro- - Exactly. And let ceda the children to Papa. Yes, how no?

That's what? That's what? Here the question would. What's the how do you in the man that you

for the father of your kids? I'll contested for the women, zero. No,

to be, contested. How's, how's, how many of you're in the home to

let me to let's let's get to let's have the three, four, four of 40 they've got to the one of the so,

so very so that's, so for that they're going to that they're, to be, so there's, then there's,

so there's, then we're, so, we're going, now, why the women, I mean,

and the women, have to go, they're, because, because, because, because,

because, because, because, Papa is who, is who he put alas,

to the to go to and go to and why Papa? Because

it's a part of the system family and because if no these

kids in their inconsient are to care and protect always to make

to make because no there is there is that and then

this this he's a man is to convert in the sposito

perfect of this woman. Tampo I don't when the people come to

talk to my life here the podcast. And there many people that are

like many that are so I do I do more respect to I mean

I want to say to say what you want you want you

say me that is I think what you have is

an example of a woman very very very very

that no I think that has been easy. No. He did a work stupendro and

marvellouso. And I think that you know you know is something like that for that the

men are that they're in the presence of his children. And in the presence

of us, the people, the we're doing to do do you or

we're doing on them. Sure. No? Yeah. And when the Papa no,

you know, just you just you just you know, simply no there's no,

there's there's no, no, there's no, there's no,

there's a theory of a woman that says that's, that the the worst

act of a of a woman against a woman, is to put to

his children in their under. Mm-hmm. See? Yeah. I do

I've I've got to think that the worst act of a

man to a woman is never to talk about to be about the

and that he's he'd know that so. I would be like the

bestamines of be me I'm I'm repeat the

question, me could repeat what I'm I'm to say.

The peor the How will you do it is a vengeance? Because, at the long, this man terminate

getting to only and he does a question of what he did he did he you know,

you're saying when papa yeah, okay, yeah, I'm, when he

when he when he when he's no, when he's, no, when it's not, no,

an act that no, not we don't, no, we're not, in this a war of parges,

is that when you you're when you you're about mal to your kids of your

parah, to who's the same to do you is to the people, you know, because

they're never to be able to a papah. But apart is very difficult because even being married and

you can't say to your little your son my jit can't a great erguido

like your abel no, like your father, that's bad back,

you know, you know, you're all, you know, so. So, then

these these kids what they say to this mom is how you want you take to me

my papa if you don't even you confiats in it. Yes, the

kids are in all of all. So, so when you know you have

about your kids, it's more that they go out and they can't and they

are you but they only they're only. No, because you

did you exactly. Exactly. Okay. Okay. So then we Let's see

to do and come to the kids barons the kids, they're going to

because father because father he's to be a man the life.

The kids are because mom, because mom and

she does make I'm I'm from from the front of

my question, that this not mean that this

not generally generally mom it so but for

that that you know the important that's the presence

of this man that's that's a lot of that this women, a bit,

the women, many times what we're I'm with all. I don't

need a man. Any to change a focus, nor to

not a lot, I don't need, but if we're much more easy.

If they they're being presentes but they're they're they're

also what they're also. It's would a part of the that we don't

when when a not is the present. Supponient that we're saying we're a man,

more or more than a more or more more than a alcoholic, or a

traditionaler or traditioner. And then there's better that there's a okay. Well,

when Papa is like you do you do you know, the major act of a more

of an parent of course is having been because of had been

had been has made more more than you exactly. So, so,

so. So, so. So, so much it's it. and I can't confess

I've been to have been much care with my children to be emotionally in many situations not they're

not they're not you're the child you're not you're but I'm but they're they're

a person very great mmhm I know so I'm okay and then there's

there's there's problems of papa or of the absence of father yeah those nens

a little-in-in-a-in-a-law-a-u-a-u-a-usen the absence of papa, or, or so-sa, because she separated, or Papa, amorosomely, was because it was a disaster, and the best of it was to be able to do, or because, even when, while, standing in the matrimonio, then Moma no-O-Cedio, and they're and they're going to put up with the polloosueless. Sure, is that, let's suppose that also.

I don't confied in this man. Sure. So, I'm going to get with them. Sure. And the Lord, then, that does his life. that now that's changing

we're doing we're doing we're more more presentes men, men, men, so that's

but then what then what's if mom only only is here to get to

this part yeah of the yeah the day of the day of the man you

they're to have marco yeah they're they're yeah and that

and there is where there's so of so of so of Ludovina, Ludina. Ludina.

Apparece here. And she enamela of this beautiful. Or of the little or of the little

in many. In many here. Here comes the other they're not sure. But what is the man is

going to look at a person someone that is the most similar to her mom.

To her Mom, sure. Until that not to go to a therapy.

After that not to be a therapy. Pubechito has been a

little this has been to go to God God and

God and and go to a way to come

to to stop a father, this that he's too. And the need, and the

little and the man, to be never he's the that's the issue

this is the daddy issue he he wants to make a little a new year in his in his

father yeah so he so so so so the problem

most this is that this is that this is that this is that

the camera to before to get to the the

the the the the the the the the

She was in the pariah. But the the child that's the he has a issue,

or the woman can't have not the issue? No, because this little will be all

the time to the time, if this woman, not he said, he was going to

get a knowhated because never put to take a papa. And he he's going to

to cover to this. A this and that chikita that has to be with the

Well, is that we're we're we're of all that that's

that's that's that's not the not the that's the wife to do the

father, and the he's not, he's going to that's what he's doing his he's in a

little bit even a so that's so that no, no, no, the new and

can't have that you don't know totally, okay let us let's go let's go

let's let's go to the they're at the camera see they're at the karence

No, no, not they're to be in to get something. Okay, then the problem

is that this we're to get into the camera. Because the the woman that's looking to

his papa all the time, what has seen is how mom is how much, and then this woman

will be to try to a son as a little my life my life my mom,

my love, my mom, you have done the car, my year, no,

degest the to have a to-obey on the my cell, the pasta, my life, the basura, you know, you know,

you've got the car-to-the- car-all-a- car-trait- that's- that- constrain-o- control-l-

if you see? There's the castration and the control because here, well, because

mom-in- and, he went to a, he had to be, and he became a the case

of the convicto in other I'm going to so typical you're baptises, baudas and so you're

years that you're not to be your friends and they're saying oh, how is that you're saying

you're doing how many you're quite how many? No, and that ends the passion in the

party of an way, that's the man, oh yeah, I mean, it's like it's,

it's, it's, it's, it's, but we can't we're his child in this

marital. Yeah, develed all the system family. Yeah, apart it's

very common that they're horrible. And it's a little and so, oh, oh,

oh, that's that's like a little Peter Pan. Peter Pan was sexual. No?

It's is that I can't with Peter Pan and then then never never ever

and you know doesn't want to live in the life in the life never

beautiful. There's when the solteria is when the thing to get we're doing. We've been in a pendulum very

very because I think there's many men many men, I'm going to say that no and what you

want to do you want. But now the women we've gone to go to the

other band. So now I go to vanguard of you. Well, a pendul, it's

obvious. Exactly. When it's abuser for hundreds millions of years, hundreds of

millions of the woman, because obviously when the woman is liberate, not it's not a

liberating, then it's going to the oppression to the freedom, and there's I'm going to.

It's obvious. It's obvious. It's natural. Sure. So, so we're we're doing

with much force and then we're doing a shocker very very with the women.

If the man is the enemy The enemy. Yes. And so, well, here not can't say

all the you can't say, all the time, it's more. It's more. A me don't,

I'm not, but I'm like, but I do it do you know, the other does a bono for every grosser

that's, no, that's to be. No, dillas. It's that I hear much that they're

all the men, are those men are some men are those yeah? Yes. Yes.

So, no, no, so they say, no, so I'm, Not not all. Not all,

a few. A few. A few. All we're all we're a few. All we're and the

women think I think we're we're doing. Exactly. So, what's what's

here the question is if all the men are those menhels, who is more

a pendejo? The pendejo? The pendejo? Uh-huh. Or who's to casso with a pendejo?

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on the podcast. Oh, Anna Maria manda a Tiro a CRE A lot. Oh,

I mean, he's done arms to the Pendejo you're an end up and who's

and who who who? Because a a little is like as like you're

like a not I I'm I I'm I you're

I I'm I'm and I'm and parted so I'm I'm

I'm I'm a lot yeah a new the The little, I'll say,

I'm going to say, yeah, yeah, she's going to yeah, yeah, she's a great-in-old.

But for saying a little and the little, the little little, the new-old or the

husband, as well, mom, he was a papa, like his assistant. Yes.

The that's the back the the back the and the thing,

but the thing, that has also, the child, how? Ah,

what is the question to put to put as as he the child. Oh, so he's,

he's assumed as a he's a okay. And then he's to get to get a

yeah. So, the the new year that has a party a party like a

family, and the he has only to get in the paper of his own. Exactly.

And he's a person to do like he exactly. So, so it's

the same thing. The same. Or, there other point.

This this can't try to a woman like to

a woman, like a who is this, I'm sorry.

No, if I'm confused. Pardonem. Pardonem. Pardonem. The son of this mom,

that no I'm going to get a in the game or that he said and he was he was

alone and the mom. So this is he was to try a a woman like if was your

a re- way. Ah, the reverse, her his wife? Yes. The

he's the he has the dog with the issue with the a partner to the

a partner as another case. And then so, how how are you going to you're going to you're going to do you?

Uh, with your to be a no, that's a day of no, that's not you don't you

going to put that it's going to it's getting a little put a bit a tapate that's

that's that's got that's a little bit that's a that's that's too that's

so that so that yeah so that another form the relationship mom, um

mom and he this, a father, a child. So, you know, it's a

not a not a parent, a mom with a mother, with a mom,

and I'm about you about I was that you know you know you don't

you're no, no, no, no. And result that you like you

you're not you're not you're not so you so you think you so

so you so so the quigir it disappears and the chingirimingir, mingirit, tapitoy,

no? The kuchy-kuchi. The attraction, the sexuality, the sensuality, the passion. The coqueto. The coqueto.

The coqueeo, all the, so it's so it's where there's where they're not more piecescettos that's going to

want to get more mukechate. Well, is that if you no coquetan between them, they're going to coqueteat.

Is that that is the theme. Yes, then then, then, those others and is the perfect pretext to to have an

man. Because the man's coquete the man, you know, he's not you talk about your like you

see, how you see? How you're how you're about your life? Ah, we're going to

do you and then they're going to work and, so there's so it's, so it's, so it's,

so it's so not, so no. Well, well, who's, well, to,

to nobody, yeah, so, so, so, a, Nobody. And then.

And then, so what is the function of mom? Well, cede the children to give the in the adolescence.

In the adolescence. But at what when they said to mom? Nobody. Nobody he said. It's how you

to know. And papa also didn't know the important that was not the oh,

and papa no, no, no. Because there are many people who we think we

that we And mom, educamos the same. It's the first time that I go this in my life.

You've been heard this in your life? Levanted the amount, how many who have been

heard this in the life. And the those who are not even because they're doing the

cellular, I know what they're doing it. Well, but a other question is,

does it does it does it does it? It's does it does it does it

is not the saying, because here the problem is, not just that I'm what this me

impressiona is that has that's when we apply us in our

life and you know, you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, yes, it's true.

And I'm not that I'm not going to make you know, but where you know, this

is with where does this? Of the constellations familiar. Of the constellations

familiar Bergelinger. Ah. Ah. Okay. So, so that I'm going to

doveling what you to work when you to work to work constellations

family. Yeah. I'm like the I'm doing like the okay okay okay okay

so what what's the thing the function of a mom is ceding the children and there

all my students me say no no are my are my are my

kids how you how I see to this to this insults to do

insults to do to do to to a pende

to this pender Go, yeah, has been here, Jorge Losano. And then

the function of a father if exercier your function would, rescat to the guys,

of the garras of mom. Of the garras of mom. Oh, so you know, to all the men

to know, I know so yeah. I've said so and to me too, is that me,

it's that is that accommodates, because if we're like we get to be so so very

protectors to the children we're we're doing many responsibilities Marko that no

they're they're they're to get a a bit very very

for example to make to do your mom to make emotionally

to your mom check this so so see I'm

I'm I'm I'm I'm your life because you can't you can't leave a

your mom a check that's that you do a call to leave

that that's that that you know, that you can't that

how she will get to get to that this matter that's

that another example that that you know that you that's

that's that's that you that you want to that that you

that you you see that you see that you beas that she's that you see that you know that's that's

that's check because if you're cast ah is that you're you're

a new the bruce maldita that me roba my my figure out okay

let's let's let's let's a we're to that we're that she

do you do you do you do you know no no no has you're

having and what are the that's the children. No me they'll be alone, no

abandoning, no me desampere. How my my life? You're going to go to see a little bit?

Yeah. That's the really. Yeah. I don't know I'd see what I'm really.

The fact, I'm really. Is that when I yeah, yeah? Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah, yeah, so. Okay. Yeah, so, they're telling stories, you know,

I know, no see who's he's got to get to and he and he did,

that's, what you? Oh, you. You know, you did, you know,

he, he, he, he, he, he, he did he did he

did he did his house very monita, to the momita, that's, he's, he's,

he's, he's he's been, you've seen, that's you've been and they do you,

and the very, in the year, so, she, she, they're all

every bit, she's to do this part. That family's so that little,

yeah. Yeah, or the other that said, no, well, He wanted

His momita that never he never He never He said He said That's How good

No? That's good, no? Yeah, Check. Yeah, because that woman has a panic to get herself

and desamparada So, so what would our function as women to have a project and a

way individual Independent independently of the person of being Moma of these

three Of course she She is a woman and has a

but it's it's a way it's a very logical and so but the

the labor to be a lot absorb that's that's that you how you

you know, that has to have to have to a episode here where for sure

he got there's quite the people where they they're

just that they they're that was important to have it's important to

have a you're mom, you'll get to until what music you like,

because you can't because you can't be in a three hundred percent. But what you're the I've got to

I'm bad the new things. Because you're still. Dallow all all and do it. It's that

nobody us said that the vocation of a and the mom, has had

caducida. No. Nobody us did. You, when you when I

when I Cases, if you, to me, I'm going to talk to talk to talk to talk to be

about this. We're going to this to be a couple. To be able to be that I'm when I caste that's her

ama that's a no, nobody. No, no, no, sure.

And it was a great, and it's one of the duels that we've been the women very

very furs when I'm so, but I'm don't let's let's let's say I'm

don't, I don't I'm saying. They're my sense of life. They're my reason to

do you. If they're doing that role, that's so I'm you're going to you're going to a car

for this. Right. Apart, they're going to even to get to don't know to the papat but they're

to go to do you probably the normally normally he's going to be going to get to

get to get into the family of the family of normally. And the and the there's

no no there's no more I'm not I'm not see to study another

place, they're doing a other other side. I mean, no,

there's, I mean, no, no, there's, so there's, there's, so we're,

so we know, we're, we're, we're, we're, we're doing, we're doing

what I'm doing my life. I'm done, I'm my life for you, and now

not they don't know to the mother, and then then you to enter the crisis of

the middle of the life and you're to be and to be to be

to be after the you're, I don't you promise that that's a I know I'm I'm going to tell you to want to

talk to talk about a anecdote because I'm in this debate in this crisis of the

life of the that's going to be that you do that I'm going to I'm I'm

what I have said I've been two two two and you one

one of one of the two nine and twenty nine and and

and they're and they're they're they're they're they're they're

And then. Okay. And you, and you, you know, you're, you know, you? No, you know, you're divorced? I, yeah, so, I see, yeah, many years. Okay. And what's the thing? Now, I'm the therapist. No, but. If we could we're, you know, that part of you. Exactly.

We're going to exhal, too. But, yeah, to me, I mean, I'm enchanted and to talk, too, and I think, and I think many, and I think many, and I think many, and I think, you can't see, identifications with this crisis that we know when

this when this they're you're going, to you're to see, to do you to do you

to my life, I'm going, I'm going, and that's my passion, another of the,

the other of the phrases that you never going to make a that a man can't,

you know? So, so it's to be to work with that because it

was very because my mom, that has a minute ago, ago, he said

to my my daughter, I'd be here that we would be to get a

a time, you know, so I'm I'm in, I'm also, I'm and then

I'm just, I'm want to do to do to do my and then

my mom to my daughter, well, and you want you want to you're

to do that and then so that's Anna Fernanda he's, no, no,

no, abuel, I'm I'm going to my mother, my mom will

to be to get a God, I'm that I I'm going with her. My mom will

look at least. No? He's going to his sense in other other side. So this is what

what you do you know a lot of people who not you know, because Anna Fernanda yeah never to have

sufficient of her mom. Sure. So only in the things in that we don't have

to care. But here here came another thing that talked after a little and that

I want to be what? What? What? What? What? they were,

mom, mom, a man, mom, and she was he gave to him,

and he abodero of them. And so this this is this little never

regress with the mom. Okay. Well, this is this is a

ex post perfect of papa. Yes, very very so, you have

to know, you have to do you, you have to know, so when when he doesn't

make a person, no, but no, but it can't a

part of this this man will be in competition constant with his suhru and then

it's not it's not it's not that this never is a my father my father no way

never even ever ever one ever one ever in a scene I'm a a dialogue like the

my my my papa My father was a man so marvellous Look,

it was a man exitoso was a very he was he was a lot of

he was a protector and my mother to be a marvilla not like this

the manido so so that's that that that

and so I'm puts that autosobotage but imagine

imagineate how so there doesn't there no No,

never. Now, that's that's castra a man, oh, Mark,

totally. Then, then you don't you talk and not you're not so because,

because it because it and then in the life, much we're we're

we're for convenience but no for election. For necessity and not for

good and it gets to something and get to do a very very

really And they're vivant but they're together, but then we're together, so, so, so,

so, so, so, and if we're, and we're even, yeah, when crees,

a little they, they, yeah, they're a bit of, uh, a few, and others, then they're

so, so, so, so, we know, we have this information, and if we know this,

we need to need to learn to put us, uh, our, uh, if no,

there's a mom, um, that's to know, what is what educ a

and she educar it and she and then also also can do you know the

that's she went to the is some of the and he he didn't and he he's

and the he was and the father he would have to know because I mean

they're more people and then there's and then it's many people people

people they say, what I have to do. Or how I have to educate? Well, you have to know that's a mother and educate it from your force feminine.

For that the children grow as the most complete as possible. For the two is a

meta super difficult because they have to work. And the less that the money not is a

problem in the life. But normally they're to be absent is the major part of the day.

And today day, you know, they're to come to a house. Before, they're going to

come to but you get to get to get to them to get. So, they're at the

school at the seven of the morning, and then you know to be at six,

seven of the night. So, so it. So, so so it's one of the theories

that we know that is certain, is that is that the mother, the better

are the conditions of the children. What are to do our children,

see a , that's the best of the best thing you can't do you and with

your own and with a life proper. Not a mom that is only a

mom and not has a more than to be a mom because even if

there have that they have solution the thing the

thing that you get to a point in the you know

you need you need something you do because

you don't you don't you say you when you have to have a baby, and then the

suitor says, ah, my new victim. No? Dises, oh, my new babycito. My new

victim. Well, but also many many many people are and they're and they're so much.

My mom those do we're going to do you do a vacation and I do this sometimes,

I'm a little dosified is but there many who are many some people

Indilgan Al-Chilpayate. Yes. Abusan. Abusan. Abusan. And the other that's the other

that has the mother, the suitor, that has a big of I'm from here I'm from here I'm fresh.

Yeah. And I know a a little and the abelita. And for the abel

is a great. The abel is the second mom. Well, in many families

in many a mother to the father, a father a father father father

mother mother Marco, I think so conscientious of the presence of this man.

Yeah, of the importance of the person of the man. But I think so, the

woman not is conscientious. The what is. The man is nothing more

more to generate. No. Because many times the man that's

not that when in reality what the most we're more than he's

he. Mm-hmm. Yeah. But if in the dynamic of the man

also also the kind of yeah it's it's it's okay, but here

I'm like the invite and what want to me is money. So then it's a job of the

two. One, one that's one that's one who and the and mom that's

and my mom, that's I'm, I think, I'm going to be a lot of many people that are

many. Much of. I think. But, but also also, and also I think

that the woman not mirro- recognize, and he Honre to to the man?

It's very difficult that we're and then. And of that's not I'm saying

that then the woman no needs to see a mirated, recognized, and amada and honored.

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Yeah, like, I think we're the root, of all this. Now, we're going to the point of view of the kids. Yes. So, yeah, we've seen that issue. And for what? And also, we've seen that that there's mommy issues. Yes, too. There's something.

There's a thing you want to the mommy issues? Well, it's that I'm going to say what what's we're saying,

we're we're in so we're so, so, figure it's that this is that's

this is the thing I'm if I'm my mom here, pardon, for the people that not

we're doing, if I'm going much at the side of my mom. And then I have to

go to go to my dad what he is that they're trying to get a moma. And then

then they say, no, no, wait a so, is that's with a but no,

povertyita of mom let me, let me come to come to come to come. And then

no, but my papa, my papa, my papa, no, better you know,

we're, we're going to come with a so, then those the kids tryin

aida and come of a Cucura, here. Because if they're going

with a father, they're they're they're they're they're they're

they're they're a mom yeah, they're they're so they say,

what would say, what would the phrase perfect, where the women, they're like if they

were caracol, is that you have said what would say, to say to say to say

to the people, you know, you know, you're all my permission to

to your father Tant or more than to me. Ah,

I see retorcied various here in the public. And there's how you know,

you know, you know, you know, that's all like to me. Exactly. You know

I'm not I'm sure. So, so, exactly. With that kind of like,

like, like, the poor of you that's the same, the subtexto is a

poor of you. Poverstitit. No, no, I want to your Papa, you know, like to me.

Sure. You know, I'm going to me. Uh-huh. A bit, no, no. Be,

me, for a little, here, I'm sitting at doing, I, do you. Amal it. Amal it.

Amal. Amal. A. Yeah, so, because then, and, this is,

it would be very curious because then they're oh, well, it's that that's not

that's not. Uh, no. That's that's that's with the those divorciated

and the castes. Standing living in the same house, is like, and what?

With who can you go to see to what? What movie are they're

to go? No, I don't want to go to see that movie. Well,

but your father he's he. See? Yeah, and from

the message. As I say, Camina with Garbo, no,

like you but it's very different when the pair is

a a matrimonio, a marriage divorced, obviously. If I'm a woman, she regressed, with my mom, he went to my three, two men's and I,

with my abelos, and my brothers, and were those years and were like nobios. So, I grew seeing,

to the abelito and the old, they were impossible. No, there, no, there was a griette between them.

Abelita never, about the old, it was a bad, the abeloror, and vice versa. And,

and it was, and you, he'd to be a respect to to the other when the other was a

when the other was a thing that's a that I think in what I'm a bit, a bit, and I'm

and there, but it's like, when you going to manage a car and they're

going to the car just can't manage one. Yes. Only one. The other is the copilot.

Yes. And the copilot and the pilot. And the pilot, the pilot

is a copilot. And at a the best of the copilot is call yourself the box. And to get to manage it. Well, the copilot. Well, the copilot. Well, the copilot. I'm going to, I'm, I'm going to, I'm going to carry out. Forbishop. A lot of course. A lot of them over, you know, it's not even a lot of people. I'm not going to be able to. I'm not sure. I'm not sure. I'm not sure. I'm not. It's Limites contunded with form a suave My amor

my amort chiquita Hermosa, I'm in the oria the camera Oh, that's up yeah, oh,

that a man that's a day, I'm a bit, I know, you know, you're going with the

people, that's been a day perimen to say, a woman you're hysterica.

It's been a bit of empathy. I, I, I, I, not to

you're not you But hysterica, no, how is hysterical, a woman? A bit, you know how's it to be back to the hysteria to the women?

Let me, I'm, I'm going to talk about to talk to a woman. Look, nah. It's that.

I'm a man, but I'm really a pure, women. I'm not. I'm very trained.

I'm very hysterica, no, cancelated. Well, I'm to know to go ahead

to you. But you know, but you know, but you know, you know, to say,

no, well, yes. Yes? No, well, you know, and no,

no, no, no, no, no, no, oh, oh,

I, pardon, me, I'm so, I'm so, so,

if I'm doing, I'm, so I'm gonna do you, no, no, a very,

illustri, yeah, you know, a, see, a, a bit, a,

a, a, a, a, a, he's, and, having relations.

Sexuales. Yes. She's noj. Come back. Tampo. Tampo so. Tumpo so.

What's the what's if in a house a man a day? Yes. No,

well, so, so I don't know. I don't I'm probably. Well,

clearly. Sure. You're to get a to get the no. A bit. No, a

You have a reason. Here, here the paloma of the pass. No, here. There you go.

You're going to say how. You're going to say how because it's something very very beautiful. If a

woman is very hysterical because we don't, there's, then so here you're so you're

so you're okay? Yeah. It's we can't say. So, when we

don't know we're very hysterical because we're just we're we're we're

we're terrible. And the Lord gets to the house and he says, my life, I think that you've been a bad day. Yes.

You're going to much. You, no, you don't you're you're

I'm I'm that I'm that that's that time that time that time

I'm gonna yeah! If the if the man gets me let me me know

but that no but that can't you confia in me, let me, I'm in car. And in two patadas

those kids are, they're in two patas, that day the woman says, I'll, I'll say, and he'll say,

so, so, so, I think that direct to, no, no, no, Marco, Marco, no,

no, Mark, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, we're, we're,

we're, we're, we're contundentes, Limits with conditions, sure, yes, yeah. So,

the women, I'm not to not to get to the car, exactly, I'm going to I'm going to

like the six, at the five pungance mal and we're making it and we

do it like I'm in order. Exactly. That's that's a alliance so,

for you to you to get with the you, that's that's that's

so. So, and the the and the So, So, So,

very Okay, but then so I know I'm women or women's we're not

we're not we're how we do we're so much we're a poor because if

not going to be a disaster in the relation. Yes, it's much a work

personal, much introspection, much to go to go to see to see to

your things, you're your things, as like, all this

personal, maybe Constellar also, and romper with this pattern of, I'm telling,

I'm doing my mother in my and my wife, or a father in my

paris? Because apart, imagine what responsibility that this man,

to do this this woman all the problems that he was, impossible.

No, it's impossible. It's impossible. It's impossible. No, so I'm to learn to make

to make myself and of me myself with what to me me felt

to, so for then I'll give me to me myself. Sure. It's the

only way. But if you want to repair to the way, what do we do you know, what we're children who are

adolescents and pre-adolescentes? Because we could we we'd be able to what they're to have to

have to have the tradition that no continue. So, but first, I have

to get to resolve it into me. So, so and then to make a bit of what is

but I'm going to but I'm but I'm but if I'm a boy that I'm my dad he's quite

my mom and my mom and my mom he can't the and that I can't

get in the middle of these two is a it's a beautya is a

because in the mentality of the adultente I think I there is this

this this this So, so, so. So, so, the he makes a little

a little a little a little bit and he a little a little with a

and he's a man, the system family is a order and the order, and we're

we're doing, what we're to do the other, pegatitos, pegatitos. That no we're not

we've that we've we've got, that we don't know a project of a and be

a project of a a project of individual and be a very if we can't

have a good relation of divorce would be the ideal and if we're going

to be playing as the those the ones are these are the are the

children are so for that the best the best

I don't I'm I'm not to these to the of the

of the one of rare, I'm a little rare, like the worst act of that's a bit of that's a bit of

that you're going to, but what's, but what is this man's went? These are you were a family very beautiful? Mama and the

children. This man, this man, a long, he's never, and when the kids are, this yeah no encage here. Yeah,

no enter with the family, and here here came a crisis much better than the of the half of the

life, because then I'm so I'm a and I'm not a about my

to be to the I'm in the I'm that's that's really, that's

retorted your example but is retorced is retorced that's that's that's

that's, that's, that's, that's, in where I'm, oh, what you

think, you're you're going to be a way, you're

I'm I'm getting I'm trying, regressando to the point of I'm going to I know that's

talking about much of the point of the point of view of my mom to see the yeah,

but I think we could we're more talking about the people, we're

not we not we're not we're not those two boys, what, what, what,

what, what I'm I'm going to make, I'm the relationship in my papas,

I'm my issues and I want to help I'm, okay, of other form, what signals can't find in me?

What questions can do? To give me, can't make to make sure that I'm those issues, those problems. Okay. First, I have to be how is my relation with the women and with the women. Okay.

Because, at the maybe I can't be a woman that I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm sorry, and I'm so I'm, and then

I'm, and then I'm, I'm, and, I'm, And no me can communicate well, I can't to get to

them, and there's like a resentment. In general, asia the women, or to the

women? Or to the women? Yeah. How is my form of communicate me? With the

other, I have to learn to communicate me, Mark, because we need to

learn to communicate from the adultess and it's something we're we're

doing. We're we're We need to learn to communicate us as adults. We need to be if I'm a or I'm a

because if I'm a boy of a child of mother, I'd have to take a other figure, make the

pauses, although not are they're doing, is to make the passes and say, what me

would have wanted to take of my mom, or what me would have to be to make of

my and now, and today, how I'm, that's much in therapy, clearly, and that

the therapy is the only form. There's much that you can't learn, there's much that you can't documentar, or you can't have therapies breves, or so, therapies there are muchism, but if it needs

a work personal. And to find the proper responses in you. Not to try to replicate in the children, because it's very easy. Oh, no, well, is that, I'm, and so, you, I'm took. So, you're freegas, and so you do is. So, no.

Because this has repercussions in generations. Yeah. Yeah, the relations with a mom, no, are good or bad or bad,

no, can exist juster. Where you've a marvellous mom, a wonderful but at

the same time, I had things that were the more sanas, because not they were in

their carita of the thing, then they didn't the information that we

didn't and then and at the time, and the time, and all time

did things, I'm that the more sanas, we're to put them to have

made much love and much support, but at the same time you manipuled and you he gave some

ideas that not you help to create relations sanas to future. So you can live the

two things in the same figure maternal or paterna. Yes. Another point very,

very important is to give me still to my kids. No? Or if

I'm am I am farrando to my papas. It's this part

of all the culp that we've so now I have to do to do my

father or me have to be my mom or I'm don't do I'm not a

life. There's a thing is like to grow and and maturar implicate

a sometimes to be to your system family. Uh-huh. That

phrase me is very very strong because it's really like a tryition.

If you you don't come to come here all the times

all the What, how? How? You're going to do you go to go to

vacations and you're going to be in the time that's that's a new a new

a situation in where all they all respond. It's a carga. It's a carg

in where you know, for example, for us for us for us that we're we're

we're celebrating the 24 and the Navi the 25 really not is important.

No. In the No, No. And the 25, where you pass is the day 25, is the important. That's the important. But the thing is, in where you pass? How do you know, how do you know, a year and a year? That's why it

a year, I imagine, no? But there's people that no, there's people, for example, Latinos, the 24th, for example, Latinos, the 24 is important, well, the 24 so the 24th of the family of mom. And the 25, that is like the no important, with the family of there you're doing a message to

to your kids. Of the there, there's there's there's there.

There's there. Now, no it's like to have to tryioner

to the system. I mean it's like it is like to repair to the

new history, but no it's really and it's very and it's

very for that's really to get to put up those and the things

that they're family. Because also the next problem, no, that's,

okay, we're just we're just in a moment, a new, another, navit of one, not,

it's a little bit in the one of the two, well, no, no,

they can't be a mother, they're simply both, but, but we're,

we're, he, he says, no, I want that we're not, I'm,

I'm, I'm, we're not, we're, we're, and we, and we, and we're

with our No? No, no past so So, but who But who's But who's Aren't? No, but it's a problem Yeah

Because now How's it? Now, now it's One year Yeah, And then It's,

Or it's No, I want to I want to I want to I'm with you With this

God, but this year is the year is the last That's your

old That's That's The last So, you're the last You've been Placacacus.

You don't have lived. You don't my your patients your patients. Nothing more. My patients

me have told me the I don't know I don't have experience in this eternal. Chantage 101.

What is this is the last year? What is the last year? What? What? Oh,

oh, my, aye. Your abuela is so a man. Fidate. She,

she, she has got a lot of the two-and- the 24 and the 25 also

too. No? No? Yes, yes, so, and then So,

I can't say, no, I'm sorry. I always go a friend, a friend. So, so you know,

so it's a man, I'm a really a rabe, me do a frustration, because I

want to the Navidid with my husband and our children. But she came and me says,

is that my mom is my mom is that's a great, how is the last night, who can't

know what's all the kids are marvellous when I were little bit when I

my abuelos. And then he says, me do I have to drag because I have two. He says, or I exigeo, he'll say,

no, you and I, but if he gets to get to do the mom, no, me will be to be a relicionate

to the relationship. You never left us to my mom, and now that now that's the man's the person,

for, but, but a bit, it's a but it's, it's a what I'm to do you

have to do it's, adult because if you you're with me you're going to you're

going to get to know I'm not not much we're no Mark but my

mom but no so what there there are 365 days of year

I'm I'm so I go and my mom 360 I yeah

I'm I'm I'm you can't you know you know you

you're you're you you're you don't let's assume

the responsibility as an reality as an adult that I'm saying that we're going to and that's the matter that if something I'm going to

that's the clear that would be the ideal so the ideal would be that so you say your support in many support in

many situations and I'm you can't recargar in you. But there's that is where there's where

the idea is where the the is the child has the last night that's the last time more intimate

with the mom, that with the husband, no? Yeah, you're you.

Yeah, it's wrong. Exactly. Because even in the most conservative of the conservative, of the

conservative, that's the church, you know, I'm a manguillo professional, no? And the, and the

father-sito that's because he's not a cause of, he says, he says that your

priority is with your spouse or with your first, first, second, with your

first, with your father, then there then there would be to apply that super

conservative a priority. So, I mean, and then so, fiftate, with what you

have to put in the mess, that's very interesting, is, how many

matrimonious are not, or how matrimonies not are the sufficiently solid, like those

of your abelos, uh, for the simple of my, my, my,

my papas are more important than you. No, then, is that, no, and,

and, and, and, and, and, he, I, he,

he, he, he, he, he, he, that's, you know,

and he said, what's what you're, he's going, he's the , I'm, let's, see that

if that if you're a voice, what I'm no, no, Herstal, and me

said, no, what I'm, what I'm saying, is that I'm trying, I'm, my dream is to

be a person, for the priority and that she were the priority, and then so

I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, because I'm,

we're the thing, we're we're just, but that the major part of the time we're only, we're on that special, it's Naviata, I said, well, be, yeah

about, and he said. And he said. And he said. And he was. Well, the night of the 24 were a time, to the house of the mom and for there, and they were to have

and they were, a ganour. Yeah, it was a ganza. For the less, she got a medial. She got a half-sena. But, fick at it. There's not.

They were they were on to be a voyage. He wanted to go. He wanted to go. He's what he wanted to go. Let me go to Europe. We're going to Europe. For the most. For the most.

Yeah, Urupan. Let's go to some place. But, look, but finally with your partner is with the person with that you

is your soce. It's your socio. Imagineate to get to the 78. Sure. And

to doorming in quarters. No. Or say, see, see, see your

food. And you are there. And the little bit. No. Oh, yeah,

I'm here this. That's no, no, no. No. No. No.

No. No. That's parted the little do you do they're not only those do they're

to do not and it's a lot of when you're oh, oh, yeah, you know,

you're going to oh, no, but what little programation me you're doing.

No? Yes, is a photo. That's that's a something that is very very Trist. My, no,

my, my abuelos you're married, they're in casalsals and my abuel

felliecy, I'm made an embolea, arracklating and putting into the fah to get to get to

and he was out of and he was going to get over, because they're on the Saturday,

the domino was the the day, but the Saturday in the night they were to be

going to go and the and the recammer to the recamara of the abuelitos

was it was it was a word if the door was there means it was the door

was sure not they were not not you talk exactly exactly not you talkas exactly

there no there and the and the and the boyle was a yeah

you know you know but they're they're a they're a partja they were they're together

they're one with one point to the one they were they're novios so

for us as we're, we're not the boys, they're boys, they're a, and they're

always, no, there's a quieted at a minute of they're, it's, it was a

unidid, no, no, two bands that were, and they were, and they were,

and they're, and then, and then, and then, and then, and then, then, that's,

a, that's, a, that's, you, that's, when, that's the

model, for my good, a little traditional, but in that I think, I'm not,

I'm going to if you're going to if you're going to like you're not traditional like, like you know, you know,

you know, I'm going to I'm going to do you know, if you occurred a miracle and I'm

and I'd be a casted so I'd would be the model traditional well, okay, and because

apart you you're not because if the Vick it works that's if you're to enter

to enter to enterle well I'm not so I'm I'm I'm not going to

I'm trying to traditional but I think in this form of a is the form of the way that's if you're going to

it's like soo you're like to be a business you're going to be a business and then you're and then the part of the

so. So the thing here is if I'm I'm in agree that a woman can't do

a good that a child that can get to get a without without without a

a man if 100% that can to do you do a work stupendor? Yes.

But the Papa is very important. Very important. Oh, and you do do you do constellations

familiar? Yes. How, caramba, it's done the time? No, no, no,

no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, that's, no, but no, no, no,

that's been much people have said, many, I've said, to, the truth, yeah.

Like, like, I'm going to say, me say, me's going to see, maybe hippie the thing. Yeah,

much people have that it's a question, yeah, it's like, well, if you're

it's like, and if you did it's things that, but I'm like, I'm going to, but,

let's talk about, you know, well, I mean, I mean, I mean, that the work of constellations

familyers is a, a work, a work, a, very serious, uh, in what?

It's, is psychology? Yes, but, well, fifted, it's curious, family,

like the mouke. And you do those are and you're so much and they're and they're

so little. If you're so little, you know, it's like, no, it can't be people,

you know, you're going to say, you're my my mom, you're, you're, you're going to,

and you're, and you're, and you're saying, and then they're going so they're moving, and then they're going

to come to take to every person in the but how so you're in a salon?

See, here in a salon and then then they they're going moving as they're

they're in so, for this these these are they're they're going to be

and you're and you know, your mom is going to you see, and you are there.

But you this people know, they know. No, that's the magic of the constellation.

Nobody know. And so, and so you're going to things. It's a

time. It's a time. Now, I do it's one thing. I do do things,

but when those do, I'm my professors. and I'll do with my professors because I'm

a thing that's a very serious. Very serious, yes. No, I think that any person could do you

need a constellation. Okay. So, it's a much practice, much experience and be very professional in

that because you're going with emotions. Yes, you're going to put to put to put up under

that, but I'm to say, hey, I'm here, I'm going to put up to put us

to put on positions to things that, you is a process

sacred. And the sacred I refer to a very important. Yes. Who have

done? Who have you have done? A lot of a 30% of the group. Who has

not done have done? Okay. Like the 60% the group? Who has not done?

It's would be able to do to do constellations family. Like the kind of

the people who not have done. See, it's interesting. Now, to me

what more me more to this work is that I when I took to my two

my two kids, I did I think I'm a really a way, that they're

my sense of the and he started to do you I'm going to do you I'm going to

get to get to my life I'm I'm and I'm and I think that

that thing is a thing so I then I did I'm

to work a relationship much more with his children in

where the relationship is more more more more if you

you don't you don't with your your son, where is

more important the relationship that the is a very

very difficult that you can't you have a

because it's better that you see a and you know

and it a kind of a and then he will

and so I can I'm, you, I, you, I'm, you, and again, I'm, you, I'm, you, and I'm, and I'm, , and, and, and, and, and, and, and, you, ,

Missions, they present them, no, I don't, I don't say that's not really necessarily,

it's in a couple of different of age great, no? Where she a, where she a man

much more than she, because your absence of a father, then so, he's looking someone who,

exist, the theory that after the year, yeah is your papa. After the 10 years

is my papah? Or, or, or, less of 10 years is your

little, Like, if you you're with a woman that's a 11 years than you yeah is like

if you're a no, I've had been put your kids. That's been looking to a father.

From this a certain age. I was I was more younger than my age. But I

think your age not doesn't. Exactly. Exactly. So, so, yes.

Existe that theory. Now. Exist, but, uh, is real that every

is independent. And it It has been so. I mean, no, I mean, not like generalize.

Ah, is that she has a nobio 15 years major than she's his father.

And it's not. And it's not. No, no. And it can't

function. The problem of our society, I think, is that we're making a lot of

just, and we don't, no, we're not, we're very easy emitir a

question and about the other. No? When no, when you know you

don't for what the other is what the other is what is what's the only that is the only that can't

find your right is one is one more not more and for example a mom issue could

be a man issue can be a man who's because the same they're they're trying to to,

at the contrary not of not to get to them but to not even to be

to and you you're naturally with more more more

more more than so so for that that that that's not I'm very so,

then I go with the much of the if I'm going to sure, that's a question, that's a

question, me imagine, I imagine. He's a podcast. See? Oh, so curious.

Yes, very commonly me, me, he's, I'm, okay, I'm,

so good, so good. I'll tell you. So, I'll tell you, so you let's say, so,

yeah, oh, that's great, that good, that good, that good, yeah, that good,

yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Yes. No, no, but it's interesting. Yes.

It's very interesting. So, so I think. So, so. I think so. Got it's the right of all the reason of this. It got understood how if we

took the way of the way to be the mom's issues or in the children. And it's and the kids. And it's not

what'ser we're doing those daddy issues or mom issues. Kethel? Yes. If, if,

if so, so, so, so, I think is like like very important is libera

to your kids of your kids of that because we have to this to finar

very well our instinct because it can be it you know I'm that you

I'm I'm going to get a but in the front you're

I'm doing so I need I need to I to

not call me to because I'm to lastime

you you you you you're you don't you

You know, your paper. Your life here around of that role of your role, yeah, of mom or of pap. And tard or

time or so, they're going to do your life. Yes. I'm also that I'm really, I'm really, is that I'm

going to come to be me. I'm going to my hither. So, then you get a good. Yeah, because it's a good

my hither, my hither, my wife, when you're going to when you're going to come to? It's that, like,

like, here here I'm sorry, like nobody came to see me. And you're going to

go to be? Sure. It's in a car in a car in a loza and you and you get

and the attitude is like you and when you know you they're saying they're going to go to yeah,

no? Yeah. Yeah, yeah. So, what's like what's like? What do you

do? What do you do? What do you do? Yeah, I'm here. Yeah,

I'm here yeah I'm here yeah I'm here yeah, I'm for

so I'll ask to God to give you. You know, you know, you know, you know, to know,

no important to that's a matter of the thing that's a really hard. Sure. But apart not it's

because you alhals to a person, to nobody to get to get to the role of why not

you're not I'm going to say, oh, you make me the make me the right that I'm

that I'm not you not me make a not you know what other thing that I'm

not you God. And it's something that I would avoid in the life, but I know it's not to live the murder of my mom. And that's a problem very great for

everyone. I think that's a lot of the that's a lot of the that'scapable. Yeah. Nobody. At least that the, that the

that the, that's, that's, but if we know we know to do we, I think. And if we know to the system

in order, is marvelous. It's more easy to be a it's more more easy it's more

it's more I'm sure, I'm sure not the way I'm sure no, but I'm no,

prefer I'm I'm sorry I'm sure because that would be a for them the life also would

be able to the present the way to go out of that's that you never, never

never you never never never never is but it's but the most probably is that

you talk to Anna Maria. And if you get you're have been called.

I've talked about. Interviews that I've seen. The people that I know that I'm

that's a thing. It's a thing. But there's a little no it's for the

very. No, but no is for a but if you know but if you do you

do you do you're for a question? Have you have questions? Ah, well,

first question yeah I'm know, but what is your name? Sophie

Arrereyeye how so Thank you, so much Thank you. Much good. Much of thanks. Could you

elaborate a little more the part of cedar in the adolescence to the children to the father?

So, like, what means, cedar? So, what would be the father or the

mom, in that case? Sure, that's sofi, thanks for your question, because me laces,

uh, what you refer to cedar? Ceder is to have to control a papa in how he

educa to the children. Ah, very See? Cedere is that if Papa is to be to give to the child and you don't

go to go and you don't go to go and your moment of with my mom no, my Vida, for favor, no,

let's forget the blocker if are so much a mud, my love, the water, the little my name,

the child, you do you do you, do you, do you, do you, do you, do you,

not manage to more of 80, because then then you can be a have some

accident. My life, no you know the sweatres. You know

I'm you know a so I'm a lot of so when you when you

see the when you know if you're so that the father he's he'll

the blocker if they're the rodillas if she

fell of the car if a little a

little he he he he he he was the

the mother is the the father but we just

you put you like a Camarone. What a barbaridad is that your papa but you said that you'd

get to get the blockade. Look, not more. How many times we've seen it has been a

same? No, is that you're really, Marko? How is possible? Okay, perfect.

So, but better, because now they're they're going to be in middle, how are,

how are, how you're, how they're so they're, so they're so, so it's, so it's,

it would be a pre-adolescentes, let us the kids to Papa, and we're to go back,

or for no less a Kornavaka. Sure. Or a Sochi-Mil to the trachinera. Delicioso.

Okay. Perfect. But not we do. Because then we're just we're not I'm not

not doesn't. What do you go? You know, you're just function a better.

Comen pizzas. No, they're not, nobody la lava the but

then they don't know that's that's a good to the past.

Sure. Right. Right. So, those kids do you do they're

that they're like, I'm when we're when we're just in momas, how much

times you know, how much the chupon, the tapit the paial, the muda, many

times. The pomada for the rosada, no, Miles. Papa is also

is a part that's that's that's that also also also is also learning

to do those things. And that's good-you- don't know I'm not all those people

not all those are presentes. I don't don't present. I have many students who are those gorillas

spalda-plata macho alfa. Gorilla is that gory-gory. It's that in the course I manage

that theory. I have the question of that all a woman needs

a gorilla a falda plateer. Be how the gorilla in the manada. It's the one of the

person, is the one that's the one person, is the that's a good provetor, is the

that's the cras in order, and it's the that be that no that's the

that I that I'm to say, I'm not to the manh that's macho

imponent no. I mean, the that is the man in his energy

masculine. In your Energy masculine. Sin abuser, without, without, without,

without, without, so, so, so, giving the energy masculine,

yeah, that's a more and, not abusive, no abusive. And that is

rinded and the feminine of the woman. See? That's is the

beautiful. That's what, in that gorilla, I think, I'm so,

then let me let me let me get to your chico, sof? No,

I've got one 20. Oh, 20. That's your, man, that's here in the first

in the first in the first hello. Yeah, but I'm but I'm sure the of the

of the of the of the yeah, that's a good to be a matter

so. I mean, I said, I'm then I'm then I'm perfect. Thank you

thank you thank you thank you thank a applause a another another

question a and and what is your name? Erica. Erika.

Much good Erica. Thank thank What is what you can't when you say, well, no, I've arrived

to therapy to manage my daddy issues? But, but it's that I have a friend, no, that's not, that's okay, okay, okay, okay. It's like, your friend is my friend

to be, yeah, can be, yeah, I'm, I'm, yeah, I'm, so. Quistam, of your amiga. Well, it's result that

always, no, all the world question, well, but why you never

you've never you've never you've you've got to what is the theme? And certainly like the

life is that you have done that you're not, you know, you know, you know, until

that's a time, a podcast, what's you say, you know, I'm I'm doing

in every person that that's but is that's that No, no, is like he, the marvellous, of the provost,

of the , a dayist, no? And it's very difficult also when you're a

little, to be the sposita a little there, there are things, but one that you're

you're going, okay, I'm able to manage to do it in therapy, but in my day-a-

day, how I do, when I'm when I'm that I'm doing the of the brinche because no it's not,

or what it or whatever. And it's like my not my papa. No, it's like my my papa.

My papa never had never had never, exactly. My papa not had been made

so. My father not would be so much. My father would have said

that had been a time. And it's terrible to have that

that's that that's that you can be a sufficient because no

no no so you know. It's, you I'm, you

catching in the day-a-day. Not she, her a friend. To tell me. To tell me. Pardon me.

Necessito that you do you and you do you do you know, that is like important

that she be a when she makes a berinch. Okay. Yes? Because

you said something something is and me cacho and I'm catch doing like my

father. No? So, this am sure this of the brinche, is that, that's going

to be doing a lot, look, all what no, we're all the not,

it's repeated. So, we need to, it's like, it's like,

make a waykito, and give us to be so that then it would be a mom

because you felt, he, he, he felt, to do a mother, and,

and, and, and, and, to, to take a moma, because a

little your friend's very very emerald of the and it's a

part where I need to make a mom and to make the and make the and and do that

that's a time, that's a little but it does it okay, okay? Much thanks.

I'm glad your question. Yes, yes, yes, yeah, so,

yeah, and be and be and so and it's when we're we're a gorilla

the Spalded that we've been is to be we're going a girl

or also I'm going with Peter Pan that's that I'm never a yeah

or the more it's a more a mano that was it no it's the

not it a so we're a lothuton yeah there's there's

a lot in the sarahua in the you've been you've you know is that you

know my my Amos, my friends. My friends have many. Many of them many people.

The fact yeah, because me have met much to investigate how it's the gorilla spalda plateed out.

And I'm very but it's like to observe those parts and also if we're not

to get it and accept it with what is, with the little and with the not so

little. Yes, because when you're you know the image ideal, the gorilla

the gorilla spalda but in the car you know to Al-Saraguato.

Al-Saraguato. And, well, you know, just has to compare it with with the gorilla spalda-plata. And,

and so the Sarahua you'd be happy, as well, as I mean, like, as I said, Ricardo

Arjone in one of his songs, I mean, the songs where it about, the one is

with the, with the, with the, one is the idea, of this ideal of the woman that has

that she has that she has a de-a- the other is, the idea, the one that's-a-de- the time

in my noches, no I know, of the stuff, blah, blah, blah,

yeah. Oh, listen to record of Arjona, with that's, you know, yeah.

Yeah, with that. No, it's not your your friend therapy. Arjona

therapy. Arjona therapy. Argona therapy. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Well, no,

you're to vote here the cases. Also, another another friend, let's see. Hello,

hello, good, your name. Hello, good Jada. Yeah, yeah.

Yeah, much of Well, the I doubt that I is if the children not had a figure paternal, how

those could one to help? And more when you have crossed that time of the adolescence

and that at the maybe one now, listening podcast, or reading,

investigating, is one to do one that he committed some how we can't

help us? Never. Never. The adolescence is the second opportunity

that you have to do all what you did you when your kids

were more little and when they're more more adult

don't never is a time I'm that I think when

when when he was and then you you

do what I have to do I do

that I do what is what is what's the characteristics that

that and that the because a woman educa

from their energy feminine and a woman and a woman and a

woman there's we're very there's a lot of the they're themselves, that those

are some of the characteristics that educa so that not mean that you know, that's educing. But when

mom them does educate, it's educing from their energy masculine. We have to develop

our energy masculine. There are there are very very, very very, and that are

able to get a those children and that are in these gorillas that they're

going to them to be a cap and that's also also to educate

from that energy because a little my energy is very very female and the

energy and the energy female will be more to be more in the life

more in the not you don't you don't you don't and the

women is of my life we're let the bela red the bela

the bel red because you're going to have a good

but you go to pass to the capilla to and we're going to to bring the bell a verne.

Papa, many times has this security that comes to the energy masculine, that you look

to look at the eyes and you say, I'm sure in you, tomorrow you're going to be in the

exam. No, you're a force that's a very special. If Papa not

he's too, mom, too, mom, too, but when you're when you

know, what What the past is that I have a other year that I'm a kid that's just in the adolescence. Okay. To the that's... To the...

To get her, you know, like you're like you're like, and you're and you're and you're and you

can't do recommendations to your child, no? And at the more, I'm saying, I'm going to

be doing that I'm going to do that I'm going to have done different, to ask you to give a

a little bit to accept that no do we do we need no do anything it's like my mama my mom is

my mom is doing things different so that's so is very little because the kids like they say

ah look even even the relation starts and it's a change

and it's a important the form in how we're in how we're

well I've learned to be more assertive but but it's a

process in the process but in that process but in the process, but in that's so you know,

one of the first of the adolescence or another has passed my daughter, but never is a time.

No, never is a time, never, there's there, there's, there's,

and have been, and have been perlas. Very good. You'd say, I'd say,

thank you a question. Thank you. Aplauso for the question. And yeah to start

that's official the question. Tell us of your course, counten us where you know where

can go to the people to get the to get the to get the course. Thank you Marko.

Well, I'm anaharisti.com www. www. Anaaristi. com. There I have

my Instagram, my Facebook, YouTube, what you need I. I'm a course that's called

how I'm a how to your child and not more than the

very good because those adolescents. Oh, God, God.

Oh, God. Oh, God. I'm a true. I'm trying to do this course.

Because as my two kids of Rattas of the laboratory, and me it's really

really, I've had been a question of them. I'm to tell you to tell us

a other papas. What we can't we have to make us for that the

adolescence of our children are much more more more than that I

think that that's that's what we need. And this things those things we

And also you do you? Also. But those are sessions privates? Well, yes. We arm us a group and we're two

constellators. And it's a person or so that's one to one. No. That's not in line. No, that's on that's in a group

more or less of six to seven people. Wow. Ah, so, if you can't a six,

seven clients, we're going and you, and you, and you, and you're, all in the constellation of the

constellation. When you you constelas, constela. Fifate well, the observator, the participant, and the

that's doing your constellation. Yeah, interesting. Yes, because at the more I can't choose of my

father. Uh-huh. And if I do you go to my papa, to you want to be going to be

not going to say, that you me let's to say, at the more you don't know I don't know

I'm going to get to I'm going to you know, so you're being the father of being the

father of you're going to a lot of I want to to turn to to another and not go to

okay, okay, okay, okay, yeah, I'm sure. So, so all we're doing. I'm not

your father. No, I'm not your father. No, I'm not so another that's in the

conceder, and say, I'm a father. I'm a and so it's and it's arm. Yes, but in reality

is how this course is actually for that for that we can't have a good

relationship because we we first, first we're we're we

we decided to have children in the inconscience more than the world, because nobody us said,

we're to have a child, and when you get to you know, you're saying, you know, I'm not

I'm not but the chister is that we're we're going to get a little, so we're

we're doing when they're pre-adolescentes and adolescents. Marathios. Thank you. Thanks to thank you.

Regris and one of those me an time in a time to get a question. Good.

To be see me that's me quited. No, Not is incredulity simply that I know know

No, no No, no But it would be interesting There's a There's a series where about the constellations. In Netflix That's called

My other I My other I Yeah Well, I know A lot of I want to I'm a lot of I've said

things very positive. So, the constellations Yeah, and as I'm a person of mind-abirt

I'm a man of Renacimian We're Let's a Constellation Vena and you

are my kids are my Let us a applause. A Anna Maria Ariski. Ariski. Thank you.

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