El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 347 - ¿Por qué me va mal en el amor? - Marco Antonio Regil y Nilda Chiaraviglio

Episode Date: November 4, 2024

¿Alguna vez te has preguntado por qué a veces parece que el amor se nos escapa de las manos? ¿O quizás por qué repetimos patrones en nuestras relaciones?En lugar de preguntarnos “¿por qué no funciona?” o “¿por qué no encuentro a la persona correcta?”, la psicoterapeuta Nilda Chiaraviglio nos reta a reflexionar sobre los retos que enfrentamos en cuestión del amor..Acompáñanos a explorar cómo nuestras heridas y la forma en que nos vemos a nosotros mismos impactan en nuestras relaciones. Este es un episodio para abrir los ojos, asumir responsabilidad y transformar nuestras preguntas hacia el amor consciente y auténtico.Conocerte para ser tu mejor versión no solo aplica para nuestras relaciones de pareja, también puede cambiar el sentido de tu vida.Regálate un par de horas para descubrir tu potencial y alcanzar tus sueños con mi clase gratuita. Regístrate aquí y, ¡te veo en la clase!marcoantonioregil.com/potencial-pod Mira el episodio en YouTube: https://youtu.be/0xakpunkpRI Sigue a Nilda Chiaraviglio: https://www.instagram.com/nildachiaraviglio/ En mi canal de Telegram, accede a contenido e invitaciones solo para fans. Únete en: marcoantonioregil.com/telegramDescarga GRATIS nuestra revista digital y encuentra información inédita del episodio de la semana. Da click en https://marcoantonioregil.com/aprendamos *Importante: Nuestros invitados son expertos en sus temas y reflejan su conocimiento y su punto de vista, siendo conscientes de que cada una de las opiniones es totalmente personal. La información, datos, comentarios, estadísticas que se presenten en el Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil, son de exclusiva responsabilidad de quienes las emiten y no representan, necesariamente, el pensamiento de Marco Antonio Regil o de la producción del podcast.

It's more difficult to to support something that you can't start matting in life. Nobody can not need

what is not really the situation. The mental human prefer to get to that's in that in that

toxicity than that's what would if you would be if you ask you? For

what? For what? Do you? No, they're not, the real.

I mean, I'm do it to do and me do it if you don't

do you, you You don't you know you You think you're able to Amar a alien? I'm I'm not I'm accept as I'm

simply for that me reflect that I'm in what contribute this to treasar with the in your

process of evolution as a human? And all those of other other form have to be with

the usencia of self my own so that you don't know you

repeat a one a provadita that is a a little proadita

of this podcast because for us it's a luxury every every time that's a

number one our great Santa Nilda Charaville of the Caribbean because now live there in Cancun

us visit in the program. And the time of all what much people say and it says and

ask, why not he's got a relation? Why, God, my, why not

me don't me get the things? Why it's why I'm maybe I can't

me escape into the mind? Why not I can I'm something? And a

a for why, why, why, why, why no encounter the person correct. In other than enfocars in being the person correct, as always Nilda, it's, but, well, for those who are

for there, asking us, why, why, why? Today, Nilda Chalabiglio came to give us responses very interesting, but abroches in Cituron because you know

that she's a duro, direct, and without anesthesia. So, we're ready to start, to learn and to get together to get our maximum

potential. Comeensame. Episode 347 Podcast of Mark Antonio Regile is a production of RGAL Entertainment and all his

their rights are reserved Santa Linda Charabilio the Santa of the people of the Mio

How you're how you're very well to be there always I'm just to be here to be

because your people really is people really is people really is people really is people That's all right.

At any-gier that I go and always me say, I'm a love your podcast, Nilda. I'm like you know I'm saying

Nilda. And even the other other people say, Nilda. Although I know that you know that you don't

like that we'll talk about Nilda, but the message, of the of the transformation.

I know, I know, but we're we're not, we're not. A, but to questionas, a

past of that questionas, a past that you're that I'm that's the am sure that the amor inconditional

and you no, that's, What is that? Who's that? And that's what I've been to go to therapy? Well,

Oye, to be, why? Why, because so many in the world want to find

a marriage, a relationship a relationship a person and a person who's his life? But,

no, no, they're doing the things and and she's he's why?

It's that is that bad. When one when one is a question for

Why, what is a out of your brain is a justification. So,

why you, to you, did you did you did you say that the human is the

human that's a two times with the same one of the other times, three,

four, five, yes, I, so, I, those of two, I'm totally

in so- no matter is capable to tropeas with the same pieter

500 million of the best. 500, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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now are a blandita. Now, now are a lot of no. No, now.

I'm going to churn more more. I'm going to try to try to do that

so, yeah, yeah, I'll do you know, no, no, no, a,

boom! no. Is-ke, because the because the because the because is-ke,

is-ke, is that, and there is a question is that he was a narcissist, is that it was a a phantasmal of these that's what they're that's going

is that is that was a gordo back, old, little, big,

big, black, burrow, I'm, I mean, is that the other no? Tata,

ta, tat, ta, ta, ta, ta, ta, There's always There's a justification of why no it's not

what you would be if you ask you you're for what to be no

not not me don't let's for what for what

but but in what in what what what contribute my

life the that not so that I'm going to that I'm doing the

experience of that not to be in the relations? Uh-huh. Because

my my, until that you know, so that's you know, so I'm

in 5th of primary no? But no learned you to learn, repites. But not

you know to learn, repites. But no learn to read, repites. But no

you know to learn, You know, repites, and you're 60 years, and you repitest, fifth of primary. Every time that repite, it's dule more. No? For what you, repites? A little bit, you interest to think of a new,

a little bit you're going to be with creatures, at the most, uh, uh, Cres is very dangerous. If your parents were from the

Navo and you gave an example of that being an adult is from the

then you don't you want? What? What does mean? Ser a child means

that mom and papa or who are who are who are those who

are to resolve your problems. No? Okay. And so a

a is that is that was that was that was that was that was

that he is that is that is because we're we're we're when

when one when one he a question to to your own to

what me to this to be good because when I

when I say for tont or for a or the latic no, so

like, ah, no, no, de good. In what contribute this,

to trepess with the same in your process of evolution as a human.

And I me no me there's no that's evolutioning because

if you not you're you're not, so, since we're

from we're we're we're process in transformation. Okay.

So, okay. So, this what you're happening is what is adequate that is adequate that pass, for that you still are

growing, you're still transforming and you. And transform those, because, why, because,

Mommy, for what, I'm not, I'm not, a, let, see? Okay.

Yes, so, yeah, no, so, you know, so, no.

No, No? Yes. Well, but they're going with the same. And we

have to us as we're not a boy for we're a boy. Exactly. Exactly.

Why not they're what I need what I need to? As me the miracle. Exactly.

And they are of the rodillas not. So, so can be more victims still

still. So, they're still they're on the rodisha. Well, I don't,

I don't, are other questions. is. For what? For what? In for what, there's a possible

take of responsibility, for the least a level basic? A level basic. And if you combine with that every time that you knowges,

or that you dole, or that you want to make a in front, in in any

type of reclap you, you call you? Never. And for no reason to

open your vocota to to say to the other person that is that you

you you you you can you can't even even

even you have to you or an ovario or or what

whatever or what cance What can't you? There's things that no can't.

Well, okay, then when when one does it, the silence me doleo, me noj,

I'm going to you know, but no I don't you know, I'm call you,

that's it's plot to, and to where you've to you have? A,

for what you're You're living that you're living. Because no has

nothing to with the other. They're your things. To you dole? My

man, if I to talk the armory? You dole? Do you? Do you? To dole or not?

No, is? If you if you'd have a on the armory and I would,

you'd talk? You'd dole? Obviously me duels. Yes, right? Okay, okay, my my man or your

Ombro? My armory? No? So, what one is the one no, no,

no the other so, no? Correct. Well, so, all that

that's all that you dole, that you doha, that's, what you want to what you

want to that's, and you are doing in that you're trying, in that you're You're replying,

you're looking that you make the the end up the same yaga to see some

a long day to dole dolear? No. You? You know? You know?

You're that's, for you? For what? For you? What do you do? What I'm

to do? What I'm doing? I'm doing to do and me do it Count.

Exactly. I mean, at a level inconscient, I'm looking. Sure. And, and he's a

relation and me it and he's a question. It's the he, or is that he, yeah,

is that's out the problem. No, not there's a not, out of the error number one is not

to understand that what me dole is something that has a thing to do with me. And that

if you can't call you the box, then that implosion in instead of

explotar and start fastidating your relation with the other person what is implosion

and enter to what are your are your and to can't you can't you

will be going to keep and you and all those areas of one

or other form have to be with the the absence of self-esteem?

No. No. That is like a ram of the area. It's a consequence.

A consequence. Not is the origin. No, never. Look, the autoestima is

how you you're like you see, how you see? How you see? But at past of the

autoestim, what does origin the autoestimation, is the autoimaging. Okay? No,

no, no no your to be to you. What do? What do

the autoimaging? It's what me to me to me that's

the question that's the I'm to be to me and there that's

that you do do you do love that's if you

don't that you you think you you you

you can't No. No. And if you not you know, you think you're able to

know a person? No, less. No, less. And if you not, you know,

not you don't, you can't you think you're going to be to be in the

self-estim? No. Yes. There's to start for the origins, so.

So, when one is a question, what I

like to be to be to be my my my my

my my . My feet too. Ah is that

I'm that is that a high black, black black,

black, black, black, black, black, black, black, red,

so, so, you, you know, and you should be different,

you're going to to be to look at people that you say, you'd be able to be able to

be able to be able to be able to do you to be a other or other, but in

reality I'm trying to be doing to because I think that is fair in me.

I'm I'm going to be that's simply for that I reflecte that I

don't me accept how I that applause so. But no I'm

what I'm doing because if if you knew it, I know I'm not I'm I'm not

I'm and I'm and from I'm not I'm not I'm not the origin the origin of

the tropios of all and so and then to evolution and the

personal I'm I'm a question I'm I'm I'm I'm

I'm I'm to get to reflect what I try go

and I try to change I'm I'm and I'm for the other person,

but more it's what does the mind with this game? What is

what is the is the ego or the mind? Okay, okay.

The mind of the human, the brain of the brain

is constructed in that that the perfect, that

we can survive. Okay? So, always they're in a situation of alert

for that we have to all the newness, retortmation, change, this,

any, any, whatever something new, this, this, appears this

fear of, oh, yeah, of, see, I'll let me to think

what is marvellous because if not we'd be much more

impulsives no okay this and let more care

so okay well so so so for what is that

the the brain is designed for that we

we we we have so so so so

When we're living, it's fundamental. Because the child is what it's what I'm going to do, and when I go what I say is the things horrible also, or things of the super-chistosal, the super-intellectual, the super-deportist, the super, no,

with tal to guarantee-sarantized their care. Because if not they're not they, they're not. okay, so it's so it's it's it's

it's that's in the in the mind if I'm so I'm so I'm

all right and then all they're they're so they're I'm valgo, I'm in a

something so I'm so I'm so I'm so, I'm so, so I'm so,

soovive. So, so Cerebro. All this manner to be seen

in the in the in the adolescence you get a run of

a range of a engust. So, one learn to

do that that you call here a in

the thing so all what he does that

they can they want to This is a new a

way to if suffering you did you did you do you do you

do you you're going to be you're going you're going to be able to be able to

and so anything anything so okay so function

the brain is trained in that so so

you get a many you don't say adult

because the It's the truth that we're going to to be kids until many years more

a lot of a lot of the time but say they're going to the years and the

brain still doing the same for to this you're a system

it's a systemita that functioned and it's it's it's it's

it's it's it's when you're when you do what you

did you're Repite what works. What that's what has functioned always,

so what's what we're of the of the so I'm that I'm that you're that's not

that's because the brain, that's what you're that's what you don't you

know, to you to do you to do to do to do to do other

and it's your responsibility to to to teach to to

to live. Okay? And until you know it's important to know it's important to know.

Or do you do, or I repeat because the brain the brain you know, but you have to know what you

are doing, because you're doing, and what you're doing? And what you do the result that

I always want to but there a part of that that's that's that's

that's satisfactory for you, that you you're aburrished of those results,

etc, etc. So, you have to train to your brain, as if

was that train, like you want to do you to play to play the

the first day they're to be to the ball to the second.

The second, the decim, at the one, no, and then we're

going to go to but there is a man master. If you're After

after some months, no, well, you're going to have to have to be in

because, because you're because you know, you're a little you're

and then you're and then you're trainas. It's the ballot

and the brain no, it was to play to the polota not.

No, me are not being they're getting a put you it's

like a racquet. No? Yeah, me explo. Reprogramation. Of one to one. And, and, and, also, it's a

training. It's a trainment. The cerebrose, to train. To what you do your gain. With repetition, repetition, repetition. Let's in a pause-ta, because that repetition,

obviously, all advance, it's very normalizing, but at the principle is very incommod. So, what is, Nilda, Chara Viglio, Santa Nilda, after a pause,

and us says, how gestionar that resistance, that incommodity of the mind, the voice-a-n't-n't-n't- to-mend to, no-we-to-do-

I-the-gare, I know-weigh-a-mere, but I don't want to change, and you do 20,000 pretexts to not change.

How gestionar-l. Volve-Mos, after a pause. How many years have that you've done to do that you're

that you're to do you, you know, to do to be to do you, to get more money, to

get to get to get to a but you but you but you

you get a you or a and you you can't you things that there are

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Look, even to hear here the podcast. He's, I'm going to talk about, I'm saying, I'm sure.

Simba, that I'm going about the incommodity of change. The mind, the cerebral, a boceita,

the loca of the car, as we want to say, to the mind human, although we know, even

we know that we're a little more, it's incomodidissimo to change. Yeah. The,

the mental human preferrere in the same place in the same in the same

in the same in the same in the same in the same so is the comod is incoomode although it's

horrible the situation the mind the mind human prefer to get to that's in

that toxicity than that it's more more difficult to be more difficult to support something

something that you can be something when you know when you are in a

one is in a one in a you know, that you're in a species of bunker. You have great,

no see, murallias around your and you and you know, what are that are

that a muralla? Of fear. Miero. Okay? To do what?

Because the Cerebron was, said Edgar Moran, one of my great masters,

said the Cerebron is in the prehistoria. because all out evolution

and it every evolution and every more rapid, but the head not. The head

still designed for that we're soverevives so so. So,

before there was not problem because the things came

very very long then the adaptation of the people

were a new was much more more measured,

more more more more more more gradual to

do that to the way to do what new is new

no is new. If no there is because something

something is something so yeah yeah what the

everyday is what new what can know if

if not we don't we adaptable to that we're going to in the prehistoria we're going to see. Defendiuming us

with the garretas of the different. Of all the new, all the different all the no,

well, okay, so what we're doing? Entrenar to the Cerebrough and when

appears the incommodity of the new, sottenern in the incomodididate. There

are in all the anxieties. But no important. The anxiety has to the future.

So, so the Cerebron me says that in the future can pass

things horrible, because it's the new. It's part of the mechanism. But we

have to talk with our to say, look, it's it's, but

it's not it's, because if we're we're we're to get this,

this, and this and the other. No? We have to conversal with one and say,

I'm doing this to get this to get to do not quite time, and if I will get to change the

rumbo, we have to talk with us we have to have to have to our cerebrito

for to say an objective and a time. Objective and time.

Because there are people who say, well, my objective was to be able to this and

I've been passing bad. Like, the objective was passersel mal.

And why someone could be to be bad? Because you know, you know,

because that's because that maybe, at the whole, I've had a case

interesting. When in your house you're the princesses you're like princesses it's all love and carino and all the family

you allava and etc etc to to who you're going to to be a

to be a a unceronty a to a person that no does not that's

a lot of your family. Well, also to be not because they're the

end up and I'm sure, and I'm seeparro. So, the distinct is,

the that's that you're how value I'm to put

to this mama rachada to be a princess and and

and all all. You? You You valorizes in that? Okay. So, then you're going to go to look at the contrary

to know that that is one of the forms of living, but that you limit. See? The princesses no have erotism. The princesses only can

pretender a prince prince. One princesses are very limited. Yeah, it has to be perfected, has been impeccable all the time, has to have to

move, and to be in all the aspects in all the things, it's a

guion very limited. It's a question. It's a guy to go to

to look to a company or a companyero to something

to make a or at the principle that you can

you do to someone that to get completely

the format? Yes. This person that He had a sub-principe. But he

hegio to the bastard The rebel The man The man is the A manorpeze Topeze

Al Thatte de All that He was Yeah Okay Why? Because

Because the human is evolution So So if So if no Evolutions in form

Conscient good-a-a-amorosa, amorto, intelligent, informed, educated, you know, you're going,

and you create a chaos in your life? A little a pinche, Nilda. Or something that's a marre.

Wow. No? Okay. And this is marvellousos. Because, then, the reflection

to, that you converses with you converses with you saying, okay, what I'm doing to do?

And there no matter what is the decision or if you decide every year a different,

it doesn't but it is the reflection, the to go to think, the

to look to what I live, what you can't the the expansion

of the conscience. So, that more valid to do do it with an education

and care of because if not it is a present to a form inconsient

and it is a cause. And there is very different to learn in a

way a way, because there's a matter because there is a

way to say so. The human has two two.

Two. One, two. Reflexion. what you do you, and all the people that you see and that

you admire and you're going and you're and you're the other you're going to that will doleer

that's to change. That's a change. And it can be a great bendition

in the because maybe is what you need you. Exactly. But but there

will be a chaos. And if no, you're you're die. Because what

no evolution, even the people, see, they're they're

to ask to be how they go to see. If I am a person

conscientious, like who who can you see, we we're

we're we're we're a party saying that's that

that is part of the process of the form

conscient I'm I know I'm I say that to

to be to get my zone of comfort, I'm to questioner there will be

roces, will have chispas I'm to be not a questiontally I'm

not the I'm going to do this and it is a more a more

more different in a more than moderately yeah because

every every that every we're saying say say

yeah I'm I'm been I'm I'm I was going to be that every

when I talk a peddrable person I'm I'm I'm I'm called

many then then I'm then I'm let's talk about when when

one is when one is that you're conscientious and inconsientemate the you're

you because if you know you'd not would be there

I'm that you the that you the you know okay

well So, if you it's for a tonto. If you the if you're because

you're because you need to that's the first is the first to say for what

she was to say, nobody can not need to what is what you need,

you sobro in your history of the life of children,

and adolescence, and then you're going to have to resolve. No It's not even if the princess or the maltratado, no, no it's not going to have to evolution to

live. No? OK, well. So when one is conscious of this type of things, the first one's or not, I said, and this? Yes. That's he?

That's he? to be, no? Yes. And then immediately to the enderately to the ender and I

for what I need to that I'm that's that I'm really? No, me it's not

no, I don't know to this but no me, no more no I'm just. Because one

one is that not something is that is that does. Two things. Totally different.

If you disgusts, it has to be with the definition of your quality of life. Imagineate that to me life gets a person, no, sealous or dependent. No? Oh, that way. Yeah, flochera. But not is a dolor. No. Simply, flochera.

Next. To what it's going. No. Okay. But if it's due. If it's So, then

what dole? From what age me dole this? What he did or he

did sobrough? Because all the world think in the dolores infantile like

to be what you have to do you do? For example? All

the overprotection can have the children in in in invalids

in invalids. So, so it sobro of that and you

no did not have not not a mechanism of defense or

or analysis cognitive or many things your your mind analytical

your own beta of the brain is well

is very so so so so so so

what's what's so to be you're responsible no? For what?

For what you do your life what's your do you do because

no, no? No? Because no say I'm saying I'm saying but what you're

saying in the first segment I think you're always I'm saying me serve

to something I think to I'm we're we're we're

the other was talking a mess redonded of neuroscientifices

and there an astrophysical. They're with Neil degrass Tyson, no,

that's this astrophic the actual, the version new of the series Cosmos

that he did Carl Sagan and in a big a

big a mess redonded. And they're to say, I'm a thing, that the

love no exist that the love that's that no exists.

That all what we do is convenience And, of course, that started there the

people, because there were public, how, that the love no is, of what are

about, and so those scientists, they said, that no, that the love was a

was a form of supervvency. If I I'm, and I do you do a

donation, a work of carid or I listen to someone that I need,

and I know, in the fund, in the phone, in the some day I'm

need to then I for convenience. And this is sero-romantic and more of a person right now is going to I'm going to say a real-scientifico,

I'm not a neuro-scientifico nor astrophysico or not. But if I really made much the attention because they said that even

the generosity that we've developed as an instinct of supervivency, the support a partner to help us

because we're to start or time, we're going to be vulnerable and we want to be we're going to

we're going to inspiration of God or or what you can't? You what you think about about that mess around?

Because you're saying something and me, and I said I'm thinking about you think of that.

But what's that's just that's the same. Ah, and then, I know, I know,

I said, no, there's a word. Look, it's is out the feto for

the canal vaginal, no? Uh-huh. And there an an someone

that receive the fetto. and that and that's a baby no

that's that that receive mom papas father abel

or whatever that any that you mean it's

that you don't you because if they're they're

they parier and the other is you're you're you're

you you're you you're you're you The human not is like the

cabo or the vaca that are going and start and start coming out of the

man who gets there and he gets there so we're so we're completely dependent.

Totally dependent. Or we do we do we do we do we're we

we're that we have a great a cerebral that we're that he

we're so very so not we don't important. This is that the mother, that's the

father. If there's if there someone that's that I can't that's

that I will care, if me receive, it's because something will be

going to make, I'm I'm in an stofado but I'm

that's that's that what? Oh, well, well Okay

No you imagine what you're saying There's a There's a There's a No, but no

a man Mvuelto What is The man Aomuel A row of A can pan Or entocin

Ah, clara Yeah, well Oh, forget it Leth-o Okay If someone

If you If you So, So, So that that someone you

receive and that the first the first experience to survive

to us, in the Romanticism vulgar we call us that

me want and because me they are they can

me and here is the first fantasy is that they're that's

that they're much me they're much when we know

that we're that you recontracur they does an

invalid so so so so not any any

no any to to others those don't in the

medium that are in the media that are others those maltrapan

you know that in the hospital of the child of you're chenna

of the fathers so for the parents so so so

so so the that someone the you receive

to care to you can you a person

to for that you do you do what that personage wants to that's that's care to keep

to be to survive. And that's what you did you to survive in your adultess

is going to be the most talents to you. An example. I always

I'm just I'm really, I'm a family Venezuelana has three children.

And And then, like, 15 years, or more, I don't I remember, nace the fourth. But the parents were, they were. So these three, trailed this chiquet, of mascot,

say, am this, to, me, to, let's, let's, let's do, the other, sopap-de-a-a-cat, pat-a-da-a-ya, this, no? Yes, well, this creature, He learned to do what he wanted to each one of his brothers, and, also, when he came to mom and papa,

to be content and to do what mom and papa wanted. He learned to be, let's say, a man, orchestra. He could representer any paper. And be servicial, and to beir, or to show, or do what they'd be did. today is

an excellent actor Venezuelan. Why? Because he learned to represent to

any part from so that that you permitted so very times it's

become in your talent fundamental what is the problem that can

come here that you can represent to represent

to whatever paper then when you go to the world affective, you're representing papers. And in the world

affective, that's not well. Because they're to be a one only only only. Not various.

That a talent is of an area no implicate that is equal

of efficient in other day of your life. And there will be your your

development, you evolution, your retortunity, right, so? Now is

politically correct, your area of opportunity? Your area of opportunity? Exactly.

Okay. Decia said Moran, Moran was an anthropologist. He said that

the people had relations of or we'd or we we'd

we'd we'd we'd we're we're simply to guarantee us

the supervivence that's the line that you you've just because

only the human not live only if not to ask

the pandemic the person isolated is and the

person human is a individual social and needs the

community to exist health and even a perro what

whatever whatever so you need you need you need you need to

so so what yeah but we need we need a

another to another so for that we're we're we're

in a class of community and you you are in this

community marvell that has been creating pass a

path of sure so okay so Areas of talent, expanded, and others of opportunity to to continue evolutioning.

Until when? After when you're not to die? No, no, no, there's antes. No, you know, never in any other place. Okay, so, we generate us, in the terms of your mess, vincus convenient

and are adequate for every stage of evolution it's like a account of

aorros yeah so I do and I do enjoy or do or

or or or or or instinctively even even I don't

know I'm also I'm still in my future but

but not only only not only you you're you're consolidating

consolidating your day-a-day. Because the beings grow to the world. But we're validamos at the eyes of the

eyes. The person human can take to a eye and look to be see? The person

human can look to see to see? So, the eyes of those

people are giving an idea of all the things that the others

they're in us. So, so it is consolidating your process not at

final. All the days. And the pair of the is the space

more you can't have there. All right, we're doing we do. We do,

we're doing a pauseita, I'll give some some some of the podcast of

what is what I should I'm before to enter in a

relation. Okay. before to enter a a relation, this is what this is, this is,

this is, this is, this are the questions that would be commendry to make in a relation.

I'm not saying before the matrimon, before having children, before having into any any kind of

any kind of a talk about and we'll hear of the podcast. You want to get

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Well, my dear Nilda, when I was doing the question in the segment anterior, while you explained, me,

they're like epiphanies, no? And as you always, I always, I'm, the time of my mom,

because, I was, I'd doly to what she I had I I had I, the, you,

those guys and I get her to help her to get her to get her to see her and I'm

that I'm not quite in that you. But at the same time I kept thinking while you

when you explained what you did the first I kept a question. Because the more

more than I know the is that she me abandoning. She was going to work all the days. I was going to

go to see to work. I'm with my brothers more more than the friends, so I'm doing that you

would be a person in the life of the life of my life. So, I'm

thinking, if the love, that we're that we're saying, that the word,

more, there's just there, more of some other than to protect her simply because it was my

mother, also, look, look, how you want to to be to be

to to be to be a important in your life? There's a benefit no

conscientious that one really and so that's with the empathy, with the

compassion because it's entretegito not, it's a problem. But, so,

obviously, no. For that my question of when we're we're not

and we we're we're we're we're we're trying we're we're

we're and so and so you as you're you you're

And, surely it was so great the necessity that your mother to see, that then you'd devibious for her. Sure. See? At least, your men, very distinct of you, every who had got ridden. See? Yes.

And then, the that you de-vivis for her, he'd call her attention, and you'd guarantee-savs that you'd be able. or that simply or that simply me would have that is the that is the that is the

that is the that you to be a exact, to not be to be there. There's no

there's there's basic. One is that that you want to in this sense

that not they don't they can't that's so I'm exist so exactly

and the other is to do is to do this two fears

are for Freud, so that's a the murder, because if

someone not you do you know, so then then

to generate vincul where we're in this care

in any of their form , oh, so

that so, and the other is the being insufficient because

if I insufficient then if me pel they

will be a little. And I know if I would to survive. Is the same meadow, but

diminished. Well, in the commas, diminuished, because at times is very very strong. So,

these two things make that the human always be looking to be sufficient,

see, and be seen, in the sense of the taken in

the sense, is seen in the sense of that mirro that's that's that's that's

a little the love no exists but the those vincal because the human

is social the love no exists but the and if we

don't we're we're we're but the vincul is a more

but put the number that you want the it's that the

medulla the connection The connection? Pertenesser. When I say, Mark, you want to be much, it's because there's a

very you and you. Reciproco. So, okay? So when I go to my house and at least pass in three, six months that I don't see, Marko is here

there's here, is here, is here there, is here there. So I, I don't am I, I know, I'm the same I,

without Marko. Okay? And we're In Nilda. Okay. So, that's so,

we're to what we call us a lot of that we're exactly. And the title we

put it's the but the the vincru is real. Sure. Because it's what we constructs.

Right. And a and a a few those vincolos more or more well,

from, from my experience, the the vincor most beautiful is when

you need to the other person but you're much to be with the

other person. In the two, in the couple I'm the same phrase,

the important is that no you need for absolutely nothing

and that you you do you do to all those

areas of your different to you need, they

they motivate, etc. Not for To all No, for all Not, if the other If you want

If you're To play golf If you're Better that Goalph because I can't Patinar

in the Pasto. Sure Yeah. For some, there are some, but

you're not. But you elizho to to share to share all these areas of

my life because because me inspire, me nutre, me motivates,

me makes feel that it's worth to grow all the days and

to share it with you see? Contartes what I'm doing, sharetlet to read me

with you know? Comparting what I see you know the same natural the same

art the same the same food, the same something that the two

they're something is something is a something so So if one is centra in

do you have to in bed to be to be looking what there, then what there is every way grows more. And so what there has, no, it has to

do it. What there is that is that is that. And no has to be more of what there.

No, it has to be more of what there, and that is it, you make, you make,

this evolution, Well, you're there. Yeah. There's much people, and I mean I do an allergy. What do you do, Nilda?

That's, that's they're passing a bomb? Mm-hmm. Like, a person? And, Nilda,

that's, what, what, what, is it? Me, you're telling that you're passing

bomb, that's, that's, that's, yeah, but, but, but,

so, but, so, where, we're, that's, where we're,

where we're where, where where we're where we're Well, the same, no? You're going to be. What's going to be?

Well, more of the same. No? Because it's to perfectioner the perfect. I mean, what? Ah, no. But the expectativa? First is to put a titular. Uh-huh.

What are we? What are we? Because if we don't we put a titular, then it's a relation serious. You know what is a relation Seria? A relation

where nobody is a aburried You're You're sure that you

want a relationship Yeah Well Well Well And And then

And I'm You're You're You're My No My

Nobue My husband My My husband. My, my, my, my. Okay. What does your

Cerebr when you when you say you know what you do? What does it? What does your when you say my

my, my house, my my, my, my, my, my. What is the Cerever of

who does it? No, no, no, no. Your Cerebr, the Tue. All to say it. All to say it.

This is my cellular. This is my Taza. This is my, microphone. And it's a possession, is

a position, it's a position me pertainse. And I'm doing to do what I'm what I'm

not. So, when I do you do that it's me, then I do so I do so I

do so I do it, then I'm do that I'm a good, that's the is what you

can't be we're not we're not we're not because for nobody or nothing exactly

exactly no? because when when someone you possess you can get in object I'm

no my liberty no your subjective you you know you you're

the characteristics of a person and you you transforms in a thing

that the other person will decide what does that I have to pay permission

even inclusive inclusive no yes okay okay okay

Also, you need to think how he likes, to feel what he likes, to do you want to be to the hour

that he and the time that he doesn't. No. No. No. Next.

No, no, no. No. No. And that is a drama of because, I repeat. Because the

other says next. Sure. No? So, so. So, so. neither you, nor you, or I,

nor any a not a support that will be to be able to you know,

because much you can't accept it, knowing that you're your object, you are the my,

or you're the mott. So, we're not, so I do my liberty, you're just

you're doing your and you're you're doing your no, no, no, I've,

for so you know, I'm just I'm But, but question to any of

any of any of any of the question, how do you know, there there's there's

there's saying, I'm saying, so there is, what you mean, in what?

No? In what you? In what? Because they're something, not the

parkees like those, like stable, traditional, serious as,

as you just, you've to say they're, they're an sensation,

because not, not real, it's a sensation of a

a project of a family, a house a house we're going to invest in a casita

we're going to get a certain setes a sensation of a certain and there people who

the certainty is a and not they don't they're interchamial their freedom for

the certainty and then we're not we're not even uncertainty but we're the

freedom I think you're the club yeah yeah yeah

yeah yeah I've 20 years with the same person but

because they can do the two things together. Okay, vena.

Okay. Okay? Vena, no, you know, no your independence nor

economic, nor sexual, nor social, nor any of any of

any of class, and a person, I'm in a class. No?

No? So, we can we can, that's some, are two things,

is the best of the world of the world. And if no, no,

no, that's not the money, that's not, that's, that's,

no, no, no, not, you're not, you're of your

prince and your little is, you're talking, you're talking,

you're, where, where, where you where you're where, where, where,

you, and you, and you, because about, 20 years, you're going to you're going,

you're going. So, you go, well, all we're seeing, see, a time,

and the other also, no? So, this, this thing that every that's

every time that you're different the day anterior, so, then you have to go to look

to the other. Sure, to, the day the next. This is always, I do,

the first act of amoroso, not, the first act of love, see,

look who you have to say, and you want to do you, no. There's

to be to do you all the day. But know, but know that's a election and

an obligation, there is a key, there's a clave very important. Yes.

Because if you know, you know, it's that means that's that you do.

And it can say that's a can't get or can go. Correct.

the vincals that not see they're they're disappear they're

it's it's belda it's and it's it's a so it's a great

from your without to do you do this vincal with your family with your

friends with your and you're like you as because if you

don't assume the auto care because you do you

you what you do to do is discuid to look to

you'll you're you're you're you're now to start before

to enter in a in a relation if we're to have a

intelligence artificial of Nilda Charyaviglio not create that

to you're to be to be and when you you're you

when you know you're in the mariposite and oh oh

that one person, I like, we're we're really,

oh, oh, what thing, oh, that's the intelligence artificial of Nilda

Chara Viglo to the idea, you could recommend to make certain questions in middle of

your, of your life, okay, of the before, before, before,

so, when you're seeing, you're, you're in that person, and they're taking,

a manita, and they're, you're in the car, you and you're to get, you're, you're gonna,

with children and the and the life and via all Europe and South America with your corrito in the Inca

in Peru That's pathetic Yeah No, no And every One, every, one,

in the castillo of Chapultepe Tomandote a photo, no see, adoptando a per no see that's the

that's that the mind that is it, it's that's that that's

that's every time that is an expectative you're planning the next frustration. Repeat

this, say we'll let's say, let's be you know, that you planter you

or so that you fantasize with a expectation, you're planning your next

frustration. Sufferiment. It's part of sufferer, start of to start to

expect. So what questions? Our application of Santa Nila Charaviglio to take this button in

case of enumoramination and the application me would be said. There are three questions

that are to do you. Three. Three. Three questions and I'm to go to my cajorn.

First question. That never more you'd permit you to a person in

relation of a that's that never more you'd to the other person

in a a relation of a relationship. These are you have to start to think

from the relation that's the first relationship in the kinder not the

only the other but all the what's what is what is what I know

what is my story What is what never more, what never more you permit you. This is what I'm in the past

but not is concurrent with me. This is what I'm going to permit. So, those are the those are the disorders that

are the examples, no, I'm going to let me want to get to be able to make me to do not

where I'm not going to let me dominn financially that's the list. That's the and then what

I do with that list? Okay. You're going to do Another list That's a That's a

You're going to What I'm What I'm What I'm What I'm In a In a relationship Oh,

That's a question What is this? Dolores DeLorrs From Outentro From, the other

were from to be out to the are from to be out, to be out. So,

something something that you did you well for you and you out of Nabo.

Okay? Yeah, so. No, I'll go to robar the contraeanor

of your telephone. It's an example. I don't know. For example. I was a of the

phone of the phone no existian. And she me robbed the me. And then he made a

message from his account. Well, that's that. That's not. That's not.

I don't see. If it's when you you ask the Well, well, yes. Well, so, well, and there you have to

do to do your list of all the things that you did, in all your relations that you've got to and you're out of the Navo. And I have two lists. Two.

And can be extensive. Yes. The most extensive possible, because it's all to know your own own to know. See?

Okay. A one third list. Three lists. How I'm to me myself when I'm in a relation of a

marriage. Sh, how I'm really? How I'm myself when I'm lastime to when I'm when I'm in a

relationship that's a more profound? Sure. So, we're going to go to out of the

to the way, to and from to get into to be to get into to the to the

deep to the center of the earth. For example, I want a relation with a sexuality

exclusive. And then you go and you put the cairno. So, so, another

but you're, you're, you're to be, you, is incongruent with you

and you know, and that that's your self-confidence. Because if your

power not, it's, then it's to be to nobody. Yes, so,

so. So, so, so, so. So, so, there

there a deterioro even of the autoimaging. Because I'm in my

eyes, I'm a untyous infiel Cucaracho as George Losan. Cucarach

and also. And also could be the reverse. How I my lastime to me

myself when I'm a relationship of a person, we're a person that's a

person that's and that's an relation and you you're you're you're

you're you're and you're So, you're you're you're

to come to get to get to castrartre no? More more because you

don't you know, because you want to I want to hear much to she

I'm I don't I'm so you know I'm so that so is the thing

so I'm so I'm so I'm okay okay well okay

then the list of examples I have been I've been I'm going to now now now now

I'm going to start to let's say that they're that's a three lists ah

okay for example violence violence violence dependency of dependency, what I

know, every everyone, no? Every who can encounter

a a sometimes three, a a a four

things in common in the three lists. Okay? Those

are your filters gross so we're going to suppose that

my filters that said never more violence in my

life because those three or four things is your

compromise with you to selection your vincal your

vincal if there a person that not a person

that's a so after other but those that's

that is your compromise of never repeat the past

so then then the auto castigo will be

not the natural so so so so so

those four three four things are your compromise with your life

so so I put I don't I didn't I wanted and I came to the principal

and he does all and I'm to do and we're to dinner and the mecero

and he he's and he he'll maltrat next so so

Because the day that you is, that's if you go to go to because if that person

has a permission to maltrata to other human, you will to be to be

to be and this permission to come to come into. No, no,

only, only, only, no, that's no, that's no, so no

so- un-gainers. Okay? But, then so, so so,

so, If you know, pass as these filters cruises, no are selectional or not for the first round. Okay? It can be selectable

as a manate, can be selectionable as an friend intellectual or artistical or, I mean,

can be selectionable for other things, but not to build a relationship of a

relationship. We understand that? We understand that. It's very clear. Well, you can say amen. Amen. Amen.

Allelu. Alabado, I said. It's the miracle. If you've been living the miracle, an note here in the comments of YouTube, I'm going to go to be able to get the campanita and say,

Nilda Chalabigl, me has sanado. The Obispa, Nilda. The Obispa. Me going to get these three. Oh, because these three lists can,

I'll be, let me if I'm in the correct. These are, I'm going to, I'm not not I'm

like, I'm feeling mariposita, but but these is like, I'd like, I'm just

I'm sorry, because this me prepare a better for the possibility to connecter with an

level more transcendent. With any, but first with you me. Sure,

it's a auto-cuitado. Mm-hmm. Yes. Yeah, it's marvellous I'm so,

I'm so, selectioning to my vincoling to this manner. Yes,

is a compromise with you. Contigues. Okay. Repetimus the list. What

never more let's a other person in a relation of a relationship? You know,

that's the that's the that's the that's not to be to someone to be to do

a further then. Second list, what is what I more more would I

in a relation of a relationship. That's that's that's the and then

how I lastimed to my myself when I'm when I'm when I'm my listes

I'm know, I'm denominator common. Denominational like a denominator

and that's what I do, this is my no. It's you put in a

cardetita and you mickas and you do you do you do it Permitem.

You know, you put us to bend and say, Permiss, the account, for for a minute, and we're and we're going. And it's no, no, no, no. But,

about about the incommodities, we're talking of incommodities, it's normal that we're seeing resistance to this list,

because we know that if we're we're not we're going to eliminate a number of possibilities

in our lives and the mental human says, no, no, no, eliminate

nothing, that's we're going to be able to this person and this person, and the,

better, or, no, we don't we're we're doing to nobody,

but not to create a relationship. Right, exactly. For other things.

For other other thing. No, for this. No, because the relation

of a relationship is the relationship more more than after the they're

when they you know, in a restaurant, in a Cita Romantic that they've got a paper little. You know, what a paper is?

The Ensealsions, the Evangelio is, in Nilda. The Evangelio of the relations,

according Santa Nilda. Chara Viglio. Much of Grasius. Nilda. Let us an applause to Nilda. Chalabiglo

that regress that's a podcast. What a thing. Oh, yeah, Nila, you always you're trying

things, and you go ands and you concurses and retos, where we can get to

the new to do the new, to be more to learn more to you. Look, for all this, there's a

classecita a quite a course that's called Volver to me. Volver to me. Where have these

variables centrales for that what you pass, if you dole, I always, I'm

enojo, I'll I'm I'm ingristew, I'm, if I'm I'm always, I'm always I

why? Because the the sabiduria is in our not out all the all of all over.

It's retro-elementation to to know and for my auto-cuitation as a form of

This is this is the topic of another podcast Yeah So, the auto is as

as a or is as for more than to be for asphyxiety Okay? Yes That I'm

to do yoga That I'm to meditate That I have to do I have I'm

that I I'm That I So In the day You have You have a million

of things To do And And, and also, and you need to keep up

for a minute, I'm going to get in the way, but the auto care, the auto-cuitado

starts something that's that's just you're because for much that you

do you, it's not it can't. Yes, no it's an obligation, no

a not a task, or a a machine in the back in the

shoulder in the thing, exactly. Or it's a form of a

Or, or more, no you know your time. And where we can find that class,

even more than you go back to talk about in the platform of nilda. com.m. m.

Always is to, I'm going to me. Well, there's a lot of them. Nilda.com.

Mm-hmm. Yeah. Maribious. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Much my dear

Markonon. We have a vincueroero with you. A little. A little To not say that you am we

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