El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 375.- ¿Cómo sanar a tu niño interior herido y superar la herida de abandono? - Anamar Orihuela
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If in a matrimonio, there are
an eras of abandon and of rechazzo,
then when there's a separation or an
absence absolute of one of those two,
it's much more complex.
Here, no important
if you've had a infancy incredible
and if your papas
were the maximums and what
whatever, in reality,
we have the heredities
of recasaso and abandon.
I'm going to for the
life without
not feeling that I'm sufficient.
Preferer is
the who's the
bad qualifications,
the that he pega
the people,
the person,
the person,
to be seen as
you're
you're
ignorant.
Samandono
of a
father,
a rechazo
of mom.
Sientes
that you
see you're,
you know
you're not
you're
not going to
you're
about, you
do you
know, the
he's about,
the father,
the father that
is a
great provoer,
maybe
not you know
that's
never has
been able
for them
in a
level of
that
that's
that we're
going to
do you
with our
great-o-
Anamar
Origuel.
Psycho-Trapeo
Specialist in
New Interior
and a
book
that's
good good
and it's
how transform
the
things of your
infancy
and other
like
Doniauebottes
that's
me like
a much
to me
but well
that's
other
time.
We're here
our studios
of Alamamarsh
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and we
have invited
to our
students and
our students
and our students
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and with much
and with much
love
You're just
you're
you're gonna
to talk
to donauevote
but we're
to the
children of
Donauevote
Yes
exactly
of the polytos of Doña Webote.
We're going to talk about
of the eras
that the poyitos,
look, and you
come as to the
poytos and the poytas
get to those
eras that come
of the father and
mom, the abandono
and the retchase.
Because in the special,
I know that in special
you like
to talk about
these two
heriders and
how sonarlas.
Yes,
well, I
think are the
things what I
know neuralhikas
because are just
the errors
that are
related with
father and mom
are
related with
a
loss of
your
absence,
with your
incapacity,
to be
us,
to be
to give us,
to give us
to give us
this
incapacity
that took
each one
in your
energy
has to
have to
these two
areas
and without
all
we all
all
here.
So,
we don't
important
if you
have
a infancy
and
your
parents
were
the
most
and what
all
we all
we
all
the
And it's important to observe in where,
how,
what are the questions
that sabotage,
how are,
how they're
these,
these characters
internal of our
areas.
And this can
affect even
our health
physical.
It's correct.
No,
all of our
quibres
emotional,
all what we
do we
do we,
the emotions
that the emotions
that reprimed
the,
the fantasies
in our
case,
of me
are abandoning,
no,
not I'm going to
invite,
no
I'm part of,
well,
that all
that has
has a
memory and
aparted
in our
entire,
that we're
so young,
and so
anxiety,
insomnius
according
some of
the forms
physical in
that repercuting
those
issues.
Yes,
we're
always in
a state
in a
lot of
Marko,
in
a state
where
there is
to defenders
and
have to
be sufficient,
have
to
pass
deserceived because
the life is a
a bigger and I
need to
play and battalier
with the life.
And I'm going
for the
life without
not sure that
is sufficient.
Soufficient,
merceder,
valioso.
I am to
talk of the
areas because
because,
when you
sanas your
your
carbages,
your
your
comportamint
to be to
the same.
It's
because if
you have
a
baddon or
the
rethacy,
then
to
to defender you
are the
you are the
you're the
you're the
or you're the
you're the
you're the
you're
you're not
you're saying
you know,
that's what you
do you
do you
exactly that's
the first is the
really
really,
what is a
what is a
what is a
what is a
thing?
What is a
thing?
An erita is a
is a
problem infringed
your
relation
with you
and with
the
life and that you
do
develop mechanisms
of defense
to not
repeat that
but those
mechanisms
you're all
they're trapped
in conducts
that they
they're
without
the possibility
to
to fill
the necessities
affectivas
that's
unconflusas
so
of the
need you
needst
that someone
to be
that
valider to
valida
your
necessities
was
very dolorous
being
so
not
seen.
So this
the
dolor of
not
being
not
been taken
in
account,
you're
a mechanism
of defense
that
they made
to be
not a
way,
a way
negative
like the
little
the
child, the
man,
the
rebel,
and that
that
did
be seen
being
not that
that
today,
in your
life
adult,
it
is
a
barrier
to
get
your
necessities
affect
So, that if you know you want, you want to see you, then no
it's not even putting me in problems.
Problems legal, problems of mal-comportamination,
abuse, just so I'm just to, just, just, just, just,
just, just, just, just for me be.
And then-mast, I'm going to be.
Sure.
Because as a new, I prefer, as, as,
as, as, as, you know, prefer, as,
as, you know, to be able to be made.
I mean, here
I'm not
not a way
to lead
the no
mirrored or the
no presence
or the no
contention of
our not
prefere you
the same,
the one of the
people,
the person who is
the person
to be seen
if you're
you're still
I'm sure
I remember that
I'm
remember that you
don't make a
exactly.
They were
they're laughing
they're doing
they're
they're doing
they're
saying, I
was saying
I was
I'm
And I got her a quarter, right.
I remember I, I got a one
and I was wronged
and they're nojured.
And I said,
is that you're not
you're taking
in serious.
Yes.
I'm the
I'm the first,
I'm going to make
you see you.
I'm going to be
being rebel,
taking the
comportments of crisis,
a little
infermating,
to the more
out of the
califications,
or trying to
be perfect,
comporting me
like an adultito.
So,
all,
we all we have
forms of
that our
fathers
and they're
in great
ambrates in
our life.
Metying them
in problems,
endorminging,
things very
very fertes.
And as well,
and as
and as we
do it.
So, for
that the
people,
my wife
me be a,
for the
people,
me be in the
job.
Comportamites
autodututivus,
no?
When a
young,
for example,
does a
perrinche and
rompe
something,
it's common,
this is common.
So,
it's a
way
to be a
car much
that's the
that's
you don't know
so you
your
your mukeco
amado
so you
you're rompiste
because you
was so
you're so
you're so
you're
a mom or with
mom that
he put a
limit
that's
that's
it's a
form
also to
call the
question
or me
or no
that's
peor.
Here I have
an
studio
of the
center
of control
and
prevention of
the
United,
that says that
more of the
60% of
of the
adults experimented
some type of
abandon
emotional in the
infancy.
Although
no they're
not they're
a way
conscientious,
you can't
try this
erie.
It's more
rarer that
has these
these
has been.
Yes,
I think
we're all
we're all.
We're all
we're just
those who
they're
those who are
those
they're
those
consienters,
those
are the
those that are
not being
material
radioactive
because
they're
on
the
of a rechase and abandono, but
since
know it.
60% of
of the lastimados
do it, he's
the rest
no know the rest
no know it.
But even you
have you've been
good papas,
a good mom,
a good papa,
so all,
we're all
we're doing this
area?
Yes, because
if you want,
we can't
let us talk,
we've got a
one, me said that
one of the
mother of
a man,
a bit of
the mother,
what hered is
the one is the
motherita?
Yeah,
the arida
of her chas
the erita
the redchaste.
And Papito
that celebrate
in June
in the abandon.
Rechase.
And abandon.
Abandono affective.
For that
the grand majority
of the
women in a
culture
Latin,
the papa
not, the
father no,
the papa no
so the
grand majority,
I mean,
I mean,
I mean, I'm
mean, I'm
mean, I'm
mean,
I'm very
all right,
we're all right
we have
abandon.
So,
abandoning of
pap,
rechazo
of mom.
Rechazo
of mama.
So,
when you
you have
this
absence of
a
child,
he has
a clear
a way,
so it
is that
difficult.
It's that
I don't
mean
I'm
not in
my
time.
It's
that I
did it
all the
scenes.
No,
it's necessary
to
get to
my mom
no
me
abandoneded
but
or my
papah
no
he
more
more
more than
more
but in
reality
so
it can
pass
but
the
rechazzo
has
to be
to be
a
error
of
a lack
of
a
lack of
the
reason,
the
no,
the
no
existence
the
pain,
the
not
to be
not
to be
having
seen
never
never
ever
ever
ever
talked
is
the
mind
the
mind
of
the
people
that
they
they
are
so
so
you
have
that
this
mind
your
parents
your
parents
were
there
are
are there are available
a level affective.
You sentiste
part of the
family.
You're seen,
reconnoce in your
your qualities.
Your mom and your
father were in
your position for
you, then
you know,
is a lot of
a job.
It's much chamba.
For a
mom, that apart
to starti
the car,
working and
trying to
do you,
resolving
problems, and
more if they're
a lot of
people,
it's a lot of
that you,
and that's much
time,
and that's
not,
so,
it's much
a lot,
so,
even
they can
be able
to be
lastiming.
The
is that the
grand
majority
we've
grew
with
not much
that's
not much
that
they're
in
the
people
in the
house
in the
food
in the
supervien
not
not
were
not
not
people
and
they're
taking
courses
and
they're
doing
doing
the
people
really
many
of
many
many
of
they're
more
more
carent
more
abusers
if
you
you want
many
times
or with
much
ignorance.
So,
really
we're
going to
going to
conformed
the generations
are
growing,
then
are changing.
For example,
now we
are a
generation
more
more
but not for
so we
don't for
us.
All
those
we have
children
we know
we're
we're
doing
getting
her
because
we
see
in Mexico
the
system
national
of
protection
integral
of
and adolescents,
children and
teenagers,
says that in
Mexico,
practically the
half of the
children report
in form
conscientious, in form
conscientious,
report an
having seen to
have seen
a absence
emotional
of his
parents,
even the
parents
were physically
present.
So,
that's,
that's,
that's,
they're
being
abandoneded,
or
rechasasas
although the
not the
not
so it.
So,
is.
It's an
interpretation
of what
was happening.
Yes, because
we thought we
were able
at a level
affective, because
was doing the
food, because
she was in
the way of
the job,
to get us to
get us to
but in reality,
if she was
in depression,
was not
was nothered
for what
was doing,
if not
she was
she was
she was able
for us.
I'm doing
to come.
I'm living
the rope.
I'm saying
I'm saying,
I'm,
I'm going to
playes
with me.
And as
you know
when you
do you,
I'm
I'm not
so I'm
you, you're
absent. And the
poor mom
says,
but I'm
I'm starting
the car
to put up
to do that
and part of
and I'm
to have to
do you know
and do
and I'm
just so
just you
you can't
be in that
your mom
was the
provider because
your mom
your papa
and she
she always
worked for
to us
and she
was always
always
she was
always
never felt
to the
house but
she was
she ever
was
working
providing
providing
always
was in
his
issues and
no
there's a
feeling
and you
don't know
you know
and the
you know it's
you know
but you
know you
know you
in the
US
says that
the
people who
did the
people who
did you
feel
abandon emotional
what you
are saying
they're
the
double
of possibilities
to
suffer
anxiety
bad
autoestim
difficulties
in
relations
and
sensation
of
emotional
that
is very
very
we're we've
we're trying to
a level even
a good
a
disposition to
a
soledity
to the
and the
nojo
to the
and the
and for
so it's
very important
observe
that the
form in
the life
in the
life
where we
we're
always with
many
we're
we're
we're
we're
we're
we
we're
we're
we're
we're
we're
so all
this
no
no
to normalize
it.
No,
we have to
do not
to get
for the fact
that the
way in the
way we've
our way
is our life
is our
is the thing.
It's the
thing.
It's the
way we're going
to be talking
the problem
about the
problem
to dimensionar
it.
So,
for that
you know,
you're just
you're just
you're just
you.
No, no,
no,
it's the
immense majority
of the
people.
No.
Marr said
that
others.
Yes,
it's
It's not a trebid.
But I don't know
They're a different
proportion.
Yes.
Now,
figgott
there's a
book of a
doctor
Bessel van der Kulk
that's called.
It's called?
Yes,
it's called.
The body keeps the score.
The body
gives the marker.
The court.
The country.
The court
has the
country.
The body
is a
psychiatrist.
And it's a
anxiety,
so that the
people that have
these
areas of
abandon,
of retchason,
can't have anxiety chronic,
insomnia,
sensation of constance of soledity,
even standing
accompanied.
How strong is not
not to be alone.
It's total and absolute.
A me me
to be servandecal
because just
has investigated
how it's
the trauma in the
Cerebro.
And has
and has
been the
most difficult
of this is
to get the
the
kind of
investigations,
not,
of the health
emotional,
the
health mental.
And,
So, we're not
We can't
We can't have
a good
Parraiser
but in
our minds
if our
characters
primaries were
abandoners,
malos,
and ausentes,
not you
will be
to be used to
your
relationship
from your
child,
you're born,
you're used,
you're casted
with your
person,
and not
available.
But what
you're saying
in the
studies is
not only
only if
you've been
a
father
abandonator or
a
mom
that
rechasable,
but if you
interpretast
Yeah,
ah, yeah,
is that the,
a bit,
is that the
history
is that
each one,
for example,
I have seen
six
brothers,
and the
three we
have a
mother different
and a
father different
and a
story
very different,
pese
to that
we're living
the
same
mother and
the same
history.
So,
each
one,
there are
various
aspects
that
us
make
parrness
front to
the reality
of our
infancy and
interpreter that
from the
force,
from the
debility
or from
the
and this
has to
what was
the temperament
that was the
that was a
that was
a good
that had
a temperament
where he
he got
to rescue
to the
papas
or he
he was
to be
to
for the
situation
or to
disconnectar
of what
what's
a
way to
or to
go to
get to
the family.
So,
that
that
was the
temperament
that was
the
kind of
how was
how was
about
a
level
genetic
not
not only
only
not
you
don't
do
and
how
you're
your
parents,
how do you
do you
can
be
project
in
those
their
people
and
they
they're
in
them
in
those
when
you
when you
you have
various
brothers,
there are
people who are
more to
the parents and
there are more
projection.
But when
you're one or
two,
then your
your papas
are going to
project to
his children
so the
people are
the eyes of
the people
and of
who can the
is the
sense of
a rechasing or
abandono
no,
they have
necessarily
an event
dramatic,
like this
so said,
but this is
a fact,
it's a
fact, it's a
fact
dramatic,
or they're divorcing.
It's a
dramatic.
But not necessarily
it has been
like a
so,
but it can
be like
some little
actions
constantes
that the
child or the
child
or the
person,
or the
absolutely.
Absolutely.
So,
pieces.
Like,
vocadillos.
As you.
So,
it's,
gotitas,
I'm nothered,
or I'm
situations
very
fervent,
or a
divorcee,
a
situation that, you
always you always
you never,
it was a man,
he was a young
than you.
So,
that's,
they were
so, I'm
that you're
substituted.
Or the
your brotherito
has a
disability, a
disability, a
problem, or
problem of
apprenticeship,
then they require
more attention,
and you
they're just
your manito,
your manita
is the
that's the
person, and you
do you,
well,
and you,
well, there
a lot of,
that's a
that's very
common.
So,
when you
when you
when there
when there
when,
that needs more than you
because it has a necessity
major in any
the displacement,
the enojo,
the pain of
the child of
the child that
is very great.
And there's a relation
love,
or odio,
with that,
with that,
because he
loves and you
know, but
also he's
robo to your
papas.
It's very
and very dolorous.
And for
a good,
and to be an
childed,
and approved
me
I'm going to
give to him
as
the rest of
the family
to the rest of the
yeah.
and also I'm
to generate a conducts of
another. It's not. It's not. It'ser, inunding,
to make a lot. I'm sorry,
don't or
of a
rechazo
or to
be
a very
controler
like a
problem
to be
to find
and you
do a
kind of a
kind of
a
kind of
what is the
control
so the
control
is a
state
of not
confi
in the
life
so you
need you
you need
all
you need
all
mentalized
that
nothing
that
not out
of
the
know
that
all
be a pre-decible,
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to the life?
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a life
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And
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not
no
no
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so
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in
all
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we
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connection
with
the
life
when
we
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have
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child
the
the
The child not only is
our
pain.
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part that
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a color,
enthusiasm,
connection.
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do it
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adult,
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disposition
to the
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to connecter,
to talk,
to feel,
to do you,
do you
do you
do you know?
So,
if we don't
have,
not we
had a
new
interior,
our life
would be
very
very
very.
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pesed
to
try
to try
to
that
you
know,
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that's
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what you're
trying
to
do
to
do
that's
Yes, yes, exactly.
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end of the
fond of the
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final you're in
the final
the 80%
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conformation,
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the 80%
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connections
cerebral
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the first
seven years
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eight years
of our
years of
the 80%
of the
conformation
of our
the
of what is the
people, the love, the
the pair of,
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inserted in the first
eight years of
our life.
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confirming that
script, no?
So, that's a
guion where
I'm not
a merceder,
where the
life is dura,
where I'm
what you
and many
what happened
what happened
comes from
the vintre,
where the
mom was
deprimed,
where someone
was
where you
an
embarazzo
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the
more
you're
a major
not, the
grand majority,
we don't
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our
and that
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of your
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all in
your
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where
you
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and so
and that
that's
that's
that's
that's
that's
very in the
front,
because,
the
the new
is something
is that
I think,
is that I
think it's
an experience
a real
it's a
experience
total and
absolute
or when
they're
when you
an
child,
you're
you're
you're
you're
inadequate
and you
don't
pertenees
You know, you're saying that you
You know, you're not
That's a bit
Because what's
That's not capable
So, it's a
It's a experience
That's a
That's a corpoural
That's
That's not can't
Yeah, you
The Sientes in
all you.
A bit,
And explain us a
A bit of this
How is that
The Erida
Rechase comes
to mom
And the abandono
It's of
Papa?
Why?
No can be
The other?
Yeah.
I'll be here
I'll be here to
I'll be
the
I'm going to
the rechation
affective.
So,
the vincal
is a form
of apego.
An appell
that
we need
when we're
when we're
the
connection with
the
mom,
this maternage
of the
mom,
this disposition
to the
breast
or this
callidness,
this connection
with,
this also
this also
the papa,
so the
pap,
the capacity to put to put to the baby in the
body, to abrassar it.
This disposition affective, this is
the vincal, the connection.
That has to be with the herida of rechazzos.
When the papas no have this disposition,
then the child
begins to generate a erida of retchase
that is baynading all its
comportment
to a mechanism
of defense
that's
a mechanism
that's
disonection
disociation
this
this is a
year is
the young
are the
people who are
they're in
they're
that don't
cause
problems
that are
always
always
that's
that are
they're not
they're
when we're
we're
alliseless
solitarious
infirmisos
no
pertenecients
silencios
silenciosos,
esconded,
insimimimed,
we're seeing
the representation
of the erida
of rechazz.
Because this
child no
has no
any of the
mom,
nor the
but for the
role that
we have the
women,
for the
connection that
we have
with our
children,
for the
maternage
that we
do the
lactance
for the
importance
that has
the mom
in the
life of
the
babies,
is that
is that's
the
mother
because the
the child
needs to
the first
years of the
first seven years of
the life.
This connection
primary
with the
mother is the
that we
have used.
So,
us,
we're not
our
disposition to
the
love and
the connection
is that
we're
we're able to
our
children to
receive
the
but if
as
as
you're
connected,
not
I'm
preoccupated
because
you
not
you
the figure
that
you had because
you've
up
a
person,
because
you
got to
get a
depression,
because
what you
can't
be more,
or because
you're
a
mom,
you're
you're
a
little
you,
you're
not you
don't have
that
connection.
So,
so
it's
to generate
in
this
no
disposition
to
contacto.
Even
there
there's
there
there's
that
a
child
that
a
connection
with
this
vicar,
this
apego,
you
do you
do
you
fourth, you're
with him
and the
mom's
and the
people have
a single,
and they're
people are
when the
mom
regressa,
they're going
to establish
the contact
with her
without
any problem.
But the
children who
don't have
that
that are
that are
people,
they're getting
andojated,
and
when he gets
the
papa or
the
mom,
you know
they're
they're
they're
not even
if they
are
they're
concerned or
immutant
because the
mom
is that
connection
primary that
that we're
that's about
to be
with the
reality of
and it's
that's a
man.
That's a
little
that she
has a
man that's
really to get
a kind of
a special
of a
when mom
is a
woman's
when mom's
aucent?
Well,
more
than the
delus and
of a
of a
of a
so
not is a mom.
You went to your
work,
you went with your
friends,
or you went to
someone more
and you're
or you're
or you're
disconnected
of the connection
Marko.
Uh-huh.
So,
because when
you have
kids,
you're connected
with your
kids,
not when
you're in
your
house,
lavando the
when you
when you
see,
to get,
when you
when you're
when you
want you
when you
put music,
they put
to do
You go to the park when you
you're going to play with
on the bike
or when you
amamantas
when you're
being too
and then
you're a
disposition
and it's
more than a
act,
is an experience
internal
of connection.
And the
moms
who have
much or
have many
kids
who are
without
doing something
of this
absolutely.
So,
I would
have to
be a
super
mamas
to
put to
to have this
disposition
affective
with his
six
and also
be a
providerer,
as the
case of my
mom,
or imagine
to a
mom that
has a
child,
that's
really,
that's,
really,
also,
when the
mom is
provider,
is playing
more a
role
masculine.
So,
she is
more operative.
Yeah,
and then
does the
launch,
and you
have the
time,
we're going
to prepare
the things
of
the
The mom that is
Provedora
not establishes
the vincal
the woman
like the
mom that has
a provider
but also
has a
companyer who
also has
provided.
Ambos
are the
roles that
that's
that
every person
to distribute
to the
house
not has
not a
car
and can
play
his role
his role
feminine
and
the
also the
also
can
play
his role
feminine
and this
there
is
a
great
equilibrium, no? Because if
it's certain that the mom
we're not
us introduce to the world
of the love,
also it's
certain that the
father has
that's a channel
where also
also not
not only is
that figure
of limits of
authority,
who you can't
for the
life,
who can't
do the
person to be
super-poweros
not only
that role has
the father.
The papa
also the papa
also the
pap a part
feminine.
There are
some
there are
the parents
that
have more
connection
affective
and more
capacity
and more
to connect
with the
affect
that's
that's
so
that's,
so that
that has
that has
that has
that has
yeah,
yeah,
if it's
more
more
the mother,
yeah,
of the
of that
we're
more
dwe
the
mothernid
in the
first
years
and
the
years of
the
and then
there's
more
the
role of
a
a
little
to
separate a
two,
a mom,
that's a
fun that
does the
mom,
the
father,
he's
a
little,
and he
went to
to
let him
to put
the limit,
that other
function
to go to
to go
to the
world,
to
to,
and to
be a
busy,
to have
and,
and,
and,
and,
and,
and,
but
never
we're,
we're
never,
we're
the
connection of the
mother, the
affect of the
mother,
the protection of
the mother
that's,
so are two
amos different.
For more
enthusiasm,
you know,
that's more,
that's,
a more,
that's,
when one of
those two
is all the
two fall and
in a
time and a
time in the
mother,
or the
time in the
family with
the father,
and the
time,
the time,
the end of
the day,
if in a
matrimonial
there,
there are
thereiders of
abandon and
the rethason,
then
when there
a
separation
or an
absence
absolute
of one
of the two.
It's much
more complex.
It's a
mom, or the
father
never can
to be able to
do you
what's
what you're
what you
know, what
they're going to
get back, but
they're not
well,
it's all
all,
all depends
of the
quality of
the relation
that they
have some
this
this is important
standing
together
but also
being
being
separate
because
if they
are
separated
and have
good
accords,
respect them
the rules,
and are
a good
team to
create a
their
children.
And this,
this is
interesting.
Because when
the
young,
he's got
with his
papa,
and put you,
that's
a second
with a
couple
different with
him,
that no
always
is a
more,
or less,
or
difficult.
So,
it's
can be
that the
time
that the
man
not,
the
one-a-one and interact
and connect to other way
that not do you
do it,
if it would be
a mother.
So, in
reality,
no has to
be so
the forms,
but with the
funds.
So, that
that's a
day,
to the
house of
the mom,
but the
mom's in
the same
the same,
it's
all the
day,
not he's
doesn't,
then he's
a problem,
and not for
the dynamic
7-7,
but for
the
a fault of
disposition
that you
generate the
erida
of a
so a
person
that has
ariety
a rechase
no
doesn't
have a
affective
not know
how
connect to
open the
heart
and make
that connection
that
does that
the
and the
end of
the
difference
the difference
is
one is
one is
one is
I know
connect
me
is a
rechase
and the
other
is
we're
a
figure
Ascent.
I mean
I abandon
to me
myself,
me abandon
in my
necessities,
no
I'm a
need of
a need of
a
great,
I'm a
victim,
I don't
to put
limits,
the
difference
is like
a
infantilized
permanent
where you
you
you know
you
did you
did
you
an year
and
we're
and we
can't
find
with
the
absolutely, no?
Because,
because,
because,
if you
when you
have,
all we're,
all we're,
we're,
all we're,
but there
are things
that are
that are
that are
more your
, you're, like,
for the conformation,
and then, for example, right, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and,
to be the
heart,
vinculart,
to have
apego.
Are you
these people
are these
people who
are in reality
not have
relations
permanent,
that have
relationships,
but not
precisely
be a victim
of that's
un-structurated,
no.
So,
at the contrary,
almost
the people
that have
been
herrida
of rechassos
for not
be
rechasas
other
again,
they're
perfectionists,
very
structured
very
very
very
very
very
for not to
not be
to be
not a
so
so in
really
not
we're
a
person
a
personality of
so
solitary
isolated
we
we
see a
personality
a
social
so
isolated
so
that
that
that
doesn't
that
not
he doesn't
that
not
is pertene
but
also
we can
see
the
other
polarity
to
someone
that
in a
enormous
necessity
to
not
be rechasado,
to be sufficient,
of being,
of being,
so,
so,
so, then I'm
going to
that all of
me,
that nobody
say, that's,
I mean,
I recognize,
and I'm,
and I'm,
and I'm going
to do all,
wow,
how little
San Amar.
San Amar
is the
maximum,
super
little,
calida,
marvellousous,
complacent.
I'll
do, so I
do all,
so I'm
to be
to me,
for that
to be
to rechasing.
That's,
that's,
That's in the
Rechase.
And what would
be the polarity
in the abandon,
in the guay
of abandon?
In the abandoner
would be,
I mean,
I abandon,
no,
I don't even
tonne muscular,
I'm an
eternal
a new,
an interna
that needs
a a
a man,
a woman,
victim,
no,
not,
doesn't,
not,
not,
doesn't,
not,
so,
it's like
a,
a,
a,
a,
a,
a,
a,
fact,
of,
a,
all,
all,
the
contrary. Iper rigid,
structured,
severed. So,
like, like,
a position,
I've
so much
abandon, and
was so
destructurated
my infancia,
and nobody
put a limit
and I,
I don't,
I don't
have any
authority when
was a
year, so,
I,
there are,
there's,
my father or
my mom
if I,
didn't,
any,
how'd
they'd say that
I'd
get to the
or passable a
one year I don't
or not me
badi-a-moneyed,
or not-laping,
my mom-and-a-terecterable
and so,
my mom-it-o-to-missue or not
or the abandoner total
that's the other polarity
Or the absolute desistructura
of I never
I see sotener
I'm going to
I'm going to
I'm going to
something, I can't
start with
I'm trying
a project
all over
but then
I'm
defunco
I'm
I'm aburro
I'm
I abandoning
I abandoning
no
in this polarity
no
I go
I'm very
rigid
no me
do you
if you're
on the
channel
of YouTube
you
you know,
they're going to
with what they're
identifying,
because I think
all of the
one of the most
I don't know
I'm not
I don't know
I'm not
and I'm in a
part I'm saying
you're saying
you're going to
but I think
to all us
should be
going to be
going to be
yeah
yeah,
yeah,
you know,
let's be to
write on
the channel
of YouTube
they're
more identifications
or identifical
with the
way,
with the
deatho or
with the
abandono
and with
what of
the two polarities.
It's very interesting.
Yeah, because, well,
those,
who are,
who are,
who we've got
no-disponible
at level affective,
we can do
all, so,
what we're going to
do ever
is to do this
because that
that's horrible.
Yeah,
and it's profound.
And it's
profound.
Nobody wants
a,
it's an angustia
very profound.
So,
I'm going to
do the,
or the grand
that all
accept,
that all
want
the charismatic
the
amiga of
the people
the person
the person
the
that's all
a good
moneyita
or the
or the
better
I'm
I'm
disofficed
I'm
disocean
me
Iislo
me
I'm
not I'm
not I'm
not I'm
so I'm
so you're
so I'm
so practically
I'm
don't give
I'm
no
they're
I'm going to put me in the
place where
they're
doing the
way of the
way to be
a position of
no existence
that's a
very.
Firtisimo
and dolorousy
and more
when it's
inconsient
when you know
when you know
when you
know you're
when you're
you're
that's
that the
that's
that's a
that's
all and
that's a
great provider
and that
maybe not
that's
that never
has been
that never has
been
there
at a level affective,
that has been
always disconnected
in his
own world,
in his
in this
that he has
created that is
what he
communicates his
his children,
but in reality
never has
been available
at the
level affective.
And that
has great
consequences.
Grands
consequences in
the life
of our
children.
Because when
you don't
have
a
or the
life of
the
life of
any
of your
person,
no?
Because
when
you don't
you don't you
feel sustained a
level
affective and
you don't
you feel
with the
you're in
then you
have you
have to
conducts
disociativas
or destructive
no
we're
we're
we're
very complex
and very
susceptible
yes
very vulnerable
very vulnerable
and we
have much
and we're
much dolor
and we're
and we're
we're
important, for
so
to do you
know
to know
to know
it's so
important.
So,
for so
me,
I'm
it's very
important
that we're
in this era
of the
transformation,
of the
transformation,
of the
development,
we'll
we'll
our
growth
our
respect
to the
we're
because a
very,
in this
affand
to be
more,
a better
a better
person,
someone
different,
someone,
it's more
from
a
auto-persecution,
you know,
we don't
we don't
we're trying
us,
we've been
people who are
people who are
people who are
so much,
of the papas
disocied,
of situations
of alcoholism
of situations
of situations
of
who who is
who's,
so,
of really,
your papas
have been
been to have
been the
budd,
no,
this,
like for
that you
those
those of
the
people,
the
life, the
life
is a
a life not perfect.
No, no, no.
And in a reality
in where the whole
day,
it's going to be
to be a lot of
people,
us do you know,
we're doing a
lot of things,
but not us
educates for the
problems real
that we're going to
the
abilities
blandas,
the communication,
the entomium
the compassion,
the manho of
a crisis,
no, no,
no, no,
there's psychology
in the canast
basic,
no, no,
no, no.
The master's
those are,
and the
the teachers,
the,
the master,
well,
can't
do it
they're doing it,
they're not
we're doing
we're in a necessity
of a reform
educational
where the
where the
development
where the
social human is the
problem number one.
Not so much
not so much
to focus us in
aprendet
and find out
and the
battle of
what's the
thing of the
thing, a lot of
things that
you know
to learnes
to makehetito
to pass
the exam
and then
then they
then they'll
then
in the
more than
an education
in the
sanation in your
in your
self-know-
know,
Mark,
if you don't
have to be
those apart
in you
integrated,
you can't
you can't
do you
and from,
and from,
and from
a great,
a great
weco,
you know,
from the
formation of
who,
as like
psychologists
or
psychiatras
are
accompanying
the
the health
and
mental of
other.
I mean,
I
think there
there
are
great
in the
way of the
and the
and I
I think I
think profoundly
I think profoundly
I think
25 years
is that
I'm
so much
I'm
started with
this
of
self-knowing
of a
buskeda
of a
nonation
in fact
all what I
have
never ever
I've
never been
in the
school
so I
have
learned
in
all these
process
to
to chars
that
that
our
own
infirons,
to my
own
my own
infirons,
to the
validation
of this
that I'm
that I'm
that I'm
that I'm
never
never so
never
because
are situations
that are
that they
are
those
that they
don't
profoundly
and that
when the
life
we talk
that's
that
we're going
to do
but the
great
difference
and that
is something
of what
we
about
is that
you're
you're
conscious of
that you
have that
that's a
great of
that's
that you're
that you're
to have to
you
and that you
you honor
and you
you're in
that you
want to
to do you
to do
to do it
because that
that's the
sanation in
reality
and me
it's fundamental
and there
there's
there's
always
yeah
I think
I think
I think
we're
we're saying
we're
we're
we're
we're
Of course.
I'm going to say.
I'm going to say.
I'm going to
tips to start
to solution to
it.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
For,
where I'm
where I'm
so.
So,
can sanar
these
redhaces of
un-a
Marriguel
is with
us on the
podcast.
We're
back.
And I'm
not is a
luxury.
Your
body is
your
home.
Alcancas
your
maximum
potential.
Lunes
on
Wednesday
of the
time
of the
central
of Mexico
in
the
Lupo Formula.
Mara Uruguella, with
us on the podcast.
Well,
my name, we're
to talk about
of the solutions.
Yes.
And right
we're in the
pause,
Anamar,
I want to
talk about
how it,
how it's
present, how I
see if I'm
a reason,
I don't,
or abandoner or
those?
So,
so why not
we don't
about the
solutions
as the
how it's
the problem
and how
solution to
see,
see,
see.
I'm
I'm
really,
we're
we're
we've
talked
of the
Rechase.
Like this
erida
of the
no
vinculation,
the
disconnection,
the no
existence, and
how this
can generate
a personality
or hypercomplacient
that always
want to be
a lot of
that they
want to
that nobody
that does
do it
does
get in
wow,
no?
What
marvilla
of a
woman?
To be
what
that man
that's
or that
is
disconnected
and it
disocied
the
life.
So,
that
is in
the
own
own
own
your
own
his
and the
same
activity
laboral,
it's
in some
mismismated
disconnected,
no?
So this is
the
reflexe
in the
personality
of the
idea of
the
family,
with the
children,
with the
children,
with the
people.
Exactly.
Because
imagine
talking to
the
rechance,
imagine
the
father
that is
a papa
that is a
person
that
is a
complacient
he's
a good,
amado and applauded
no put limits
no will put
limits.
No is good
educating.
No,
it's a
popular.
Exactly.
He's be
a good.
He's a
carey.
He's a
so,
and it's
and it's
so,
not going to
do it
to do you.
No,
he's
to be accepted.
And not
it's.
And no
know what
is your
personality?
So,
it's
going to
do you're
like we're
like
a chef
barco,
papah,
mom
barco,
You're just,
you know,
complacient
because I want to
I'm here.
And really
not he's
going to put
limits to
his kids,
not going to
have a
structure.
And it's
a person
that has a
good connection.
Uh-huh.
Uh-huh.
So,
we want to
want to be
present,
but
from the,
from the
over-protection.
Sure.
So,
I'm,
I'm going to
over-proteger
and not
you're going to
get a
and I'm
and you protect you, and nobody
to do you, and you'll create a burbuck of crystal.
But that sobreprotection
terminate generating
rechase.
Because that
that's a new-or-as-a-nean-saver-proteged
not took the possibility
to develop its own capacities,
of their own force,
and at final,
she's feeling incapacitada
for the life,
because mom-law,
he resolved,
mom-or-pap-a-poh-lose-or-pro-protegi-sion,
and then
it's
with
a sense
with the
sense of
the same
because
no took
that's
a
place to
these are
these are
these are
the two parts.
At the
at the
final of
a mama
present
if they
in the
polarity
of the
dolor
or he
to rechazer
to
go
to be
to
his
own
his own
and
that
the
also the
absent,
so the
there's
like
there's
my
papa
who
Who knows?
I mean,
or not,
or,
uh,
this,
or he put in
a place,
so,
is the
that's,
or the
no,
of the
no,
we've been
pasted to
the abandono.
In the
rechaste.
In the
polarity.
Uh,
and in the
abandon, or
is the
papo,
or is a
destructurated,
that's a
new new
eternal,
that wants,
that you
want,
like it,
like a
golden retriever.
Exactly,
no.
I mean,
care me,
I want,
I want,
I want to,
I want to,
you want to
that you
ames.
And here
is different
because
this is a
young.
Uh,
so the
mom
superprotectorer
is a
mom,
is a
mom,
or,
is a
father
very overprotector
very present,
no.
But here
the mom
in abandon
or the
father in
abandono,
so,
so your
his son
has a
year
and you
you're
talking
your
problems
or
you're
you
just
this
so
I'm,
so
I'm
suen
me
I mean, really
Yeah,
well,
imagineate a
a mom
that's talking
or a man who's
a man who's
a question of the
family, questions
of the money,
questions of the
questions of their
emotional.
So are really
really,
young or
that are,
that are,
that's,
that's,
then,
but I'm,
no,
no,
no me know.
Entient,
I'm very
very well
of what
is so.
Okay.
And that
a child
is
a
father of
his
father of
exactly.
No.
I'm
because what
does a
mom
that's
a woman
is
is
to build
kids
that they
rescatter
or children
or
children or
children
or
many
who we
we're
we're
we're
we're
we're
and
protect her
to
our
and
she's
to
do you
so
many
those
did
this
was
a
one
a
a
called
that she
did.
As they're
like
they're
abandoned
or they're
abandoned.
So they're
in the
children,
what the
people are
they're
not they're
so they're
and what
they're
not they're
to do
to do
to be to
themselves.
No it
is a
common
that the
papas
Characob
Miao
Miao
Miao
Miao
Miao
Miao
Miao
Miao
Miao
Miao
Miao
Miao
Miao
Miao
Miao
Miao
Miao
Miao
Miao
Miao.
So
Yeah, meow, meow.
It's moment
of doing a therapy.
Let's start a lot.
Yeah, give us the solutions,
Anabar.
If, if you can't
go,
never is too
to say it.
How, how we
to sanar?
A bit,
I would put it in
in, in passes.
So,
the first
pass,
to know your
personality
erida.
Uh,
to know her.
Conocerla,
how it
is a
how it's
in your
relations,
in the relationship,
with your
your kids,
with the
food, with
the food, with
the
food, with
the world,
with all
the areas of
our life
with the
food also.
With the
other
so it's
not,
we're doing
more
for a
so it's
so there
can be
a chance
that there
can't
that they
don't get
bad,
that they can't
or come
or come more.
Or come
to more
to comeer
to come
to come
to be accompanied
accompanied,
yeah
acaced
the life
is
dulces,
good,
compensated.
The food
has a lot
about with mom.
Pass one.
Autoconocinient.
Uh-huh.
Ver,
how's express
these personalities
in your
life in the
relation with the
money, with
your food,
with your
kids, with
all.
For example,
a question classic
of therapy
that you
say,
me,
I'm going to
my
and you
ask you
like,
when was the
first time
that you
said that's
so,
right?
Exactly.
For not
not
to not
to be
the
part of the
part of,
oh,
that is that my pair,
no, no.
So the good
therapist, or the
good therapist
is to go to
the origin,
he's,
what was the
first time
when was the first
first time
when it's
like this?
So,
you're just
like,
and then you
like,
and then you're
and you're
so,
that's a
beautiful.
It's a
beautiful.
It's a
beautiful.
It's a
because,
the
thing,
because they were
in a
therapy
very well.
The,
so when
you consults
the emotion,
the emotion is
very chismosa
and the emotion
is a
messageer
of the message
primary
of when
was the
and the only
that you need
in a
therapy
a level
more
so if your
therapist
you take
to your
emotion
and to
your
body
to your
sensations
and to
your world
then
that
therapy
is
more
profound.
Sure, because there are
many people
that are just
in the analysis.
That's.
That's not
no.
No.
No.
So, you know
to know.
But one
is to know
and other thing is
sanar.
It's another
thing very
different.
A
sometimes we need
that step
one.
As a first
thing.
And it's
the
one of a
process
long,
where then
we're going
to be able to
for example,
I have
groups
of sanation.
Those
groups
during
six
months. There are people who
are the six months
understanding and never
to talk their
and then they're
other six months
of the same
group,
now if you,
I've got to
but it's normal,
it's not a
fear.
It's a
pain, it's a
heart, and
it's a lot of the
way more hard and the
way does
feel it.
Of course,
it's very
suspicious that
someone will
to talk those
hered
without that
precaution.
So,
without that
fear.
Because that
mechanism
of fear
is a
same.
You know,
we're not
we're not
to be
our
disorders,
without
that we
have that
that
that's
that's
that's
so important
because
it's a
process
sacred.
Every
who
my
my
masters
of my
teachers
psychology
spiritual,
every
we're
our
own
the
and the respect
of our own
process.
I'm irritate
a little
when I go
to go to
get to
some
some more
very much
very passionate
that I'm
I'm not really
I'm in
a intention
but they're
like things
like,
how you're
going to
you're
to do you
and you
will be
to make
that you
and until
when you
you're going to
you
wait,
wait,
wait,
wait,
wait,
wait,
after I'm,
because,
because you
need to
and question
me,
question,
to question
to
when,
until
me
because
every
who we have
a person
a good
and is a
more so
and is amorous
and start
me obliging
to be able to
because you
say you
you know
you're going to
to come to
say to get to
say to
when?
So,
until I
get you
still,
it's like
it's like
to keep in
the latigo
with the
we're
so,
so yeah
and when
you're going
to give
you're doing
to your
mother?
When
someone
to
say, when
someone
you know,
you know,
you know,
you know,
don't know,
you know,
pardon a word,
is a,
no,
and then is a
process.
It's a process.
But then
then they're
put it in
a cause,
and then they're
saying, and God,
he's got
saying,
you know,
he's been
the braos
for,
yeah,
yeah,
that me don't
be able to
give the
brother the
abasasom
over,
hold them,
I'm lastimated.
And you
know,
and you
know,
and you know
a word,
but no,
that even
not is
good.
Cursions,
Cormosos.
Cureations,
Temu?
Temu,
like the platform
this day.
You know,
is that
many are much
the memes
that said,
you know,
so,
you know,
to come to
your chanclas
Temu.
So,
the platform
is more
chaffas,
no?
So,
like,
more chaffas
of what,
it was,
they were
pretty,
they were
not so,
not they're
not so.
The Salation
Temu.
It's the
Sanation Temu.
Where you
put it.
That's a
good
example.
where you put
a parche
a chaffa
to the
when in reality
no,
you know,
has done
the chamba
is really
to know,
ignore what
there is
in the
final of our
and puter
a parche
fictitious to
our dolor.
That's a
chaffa.
Yeah,
I've done
to my
mom.
If I
did I,
I'm,
I'm
just,
I'm
in a session
of therapy
in a
course that
I'm
listening,
I go,
for
favor,
I mean
Sanar
and pardoner
is a
process
long,
comprometied
very
alecionator
the process
is in reality
what is
it's a
capitas
yeah,
has some
capitas
and so
they're
having to
have
so it's
a process
very
beautiful.
And if
you
and you
take
you're
and you
startas
a process.
As you
start
you.
You're
you
start
where
there's my
mera,
I'm
comprending,
and I'm
connecting and I
keep up
and then they're
to be able
to be able to
why I'm
and I'm sure
and then
you're going to
get to
get up
so it
so it's
something
something so
I'm
so I'm
so
no prisa but
without
and that's
really
a philosophy
of life
a practice
a practical
a practical
a
particular
where
all in the
life
be a possibility
to be
you.
The
stages not
the time.
The auto-conocimient
no is
to,
yeah me super
know-
now pass away
the
time of
I'm going to
see.
So,
of the
there are
things that
you know
you know
a little
more.
The
auto-conocimient
never
never is
never.
But then
then then
then you
just you
not only
just
not
to understand
to
and that
that's
that gives
the
things
to
other
level.
And a
But sometimes you advance
and then
you're going to
you're going to
a pass
back.
Ah,
yeah.
I think I
thought that you
have done
a plan to
because the
way of the
not really,
the cresimian
not so
so it's a
circle.
Circ,
it's a circle.
It's a
circle.
It's a
circle.
No, no,
it's a
cacos and
it's a
no.
Because it's
a circle.
Where is a
circle.
Where is a
so you're
those infirons
if those
if those
do you
do you
are you're conscious and
sands,
they're
to get a
level of
a level,
to a cuspide,
and then
another
other way is a
desenso
where other
aspects of
the life
you get to
get to
get a
vulnerability.
So,
it's like
the spring,
the winter
and the
winter,
no.
Those are
our cycles
also are
not always
we're not
we're always
we're
not even
we're
very,
we're
there's
confos,
there
confunded,
confundied,
confundied,
that
us
not
a
a person
we're
no important
the information
that we're
the work
the work
we're doing.
But it's
part of
because we're
because a
because of us
we're going to
we're
we're going to
we're not
we're not
we're not
we're not
people who
not want or
not want to
not bring,
nor
say there's
there's
there's very
very well
because we
need to
that we're
we need
we're getting
we're
we're not
we're
And there are
we're
we're
there's
cycles of our
life,
there are cycles of
everything,
you're going to
you're doing,
you're doing,
you're doing,
you know,
there are
there's not
there's
sort of
situations like
the autumn,
no?
And a
sometimes
you're
that you
superast
or that
you're
you're
you're
you're
you
know?
Amor
Man,
you just
you're
a lot
but
you're
that you know
that's
completely
sanated
and re-cares.
And in
instead of
I'm going,
no.
Because I paid
$100
dollars and the
motivator me
and said,
that's abhorra
therapy,
no,
that's
not.
No, so
then I'm,
so what,
so I'm,
I'm,
I thought,
I was sanated,
I'm sanated,
and the
first step is
love,
and love is
accepter,
and
amarm me
and I'm
to be,
and not
start me
and not
coming to
you're,
because that
is what
they're
they're
these
jurations
temu.
Where you
where you
promise that
there you're
not going to
you're going to
you're
not going to
your own
no,
if you're
going to be
going to
have to
have to
get a
you're going
that you're
going to
you're
going to
you're
to finder
you're
going to be
more
more
we're not we
don't de
we're
we're going to
get to
go
the
no
the
life
you
will
be
going to be
your
life you're
the difference
is
with how
you're
that you're
and you're
to ignore
to go
to get to
interpretate
that's
your
and when
you know
you're
that's
you're
the universe
god
god's
the world
of the
nature
is pervers
amorously
to be
to be
to be
a personita
that
that you
that
that you
think
that you
you're
that's
you
you're
you're
No is sanado.
Yes,
yes,
yeah,
you know,
and I was
of retach.
Yeah,
I'm really,
a little,
I think that
the parents,
for so
to have a
partner is
that confrontant
because
our,
our partner
is the
diablo
perfect to
to go to
those
infirmes
that we
we're
superados.
And that,
but
if you
are,
if you're
there's
there
are
there
then you
you're going to
abrassar
and
approach all
what a
sometimes
the relations
us can't
connect and access
to really
transform it in
other levels
because
because we
can't transform
us in the
control.
If you
want to control
the pariah
controllable,
the
job controllable,
the
childrenable,
the house
controlable,
total controllable.
Predeceible.
All of
all you can
do you can't
make a
not
Creser
Not you know,
or you're going to
you're going to
you're going to
you're going to
you're doing the
when you're doing the
real, you know,
you know,
you're doing,
what you
do you know,
so there are
people who are
that's
that's when
not I'm going to
listen about
the podcast
of Regil
ha ha ha.
For a
that I'm
hear I'm
don't know
I'm going to
live in the
ignoranceia
and you
and you
I'm
well,
it's,
well
is an example,
No?
Yeah,
yeah,
it's all
all right,
all
all right,
but
how?
How are
to do you
and you're going to
do you
exactly?
Exactly.
Because,
how?
How many?
For what?
For sanar
and
to get to
that position
of victim?
How many
times more
have to
have to
do you
to say,
that's
that's
to sanar
the limit
to
the person.
No.
So,
so
I was
with a
part to,
Yes, yes, castigador,
the judgeer,
persegidor,
that's,
inquisitor.
Yeah, I,
I'm,
you know,
you're not sanes
now, you're
culpable.
You know,
you know,
to make to
let me be
to make us
to us and we're
to get us
so, or
less,
or less,
to pay a
a lot of
no,
and also
to end up
to end up
to do that,
to do that
to do that
to do that,
alborota?
Yes,
you can't
alborot,
but that
so that
not the
Sanation.
No, that's a
Sanation Temus.
No,
not you're going to
the same.
Well,
a lot of
sometimes you
know, a
way to get to
you know,
that's not
the sanation.
The sanation is
a process
internal,
a bit of
very much,
but part
of the formula
is that
you do it
always
and the
love is
to have a
patience.
Symptoms
of
sanation.
Symptoms
of sanation.
The first
symptom is
that you
can you
can't
choose
from
the
food
from the
relations with more
health.
So,
if you
had to
you had to
put your
pastel
complete,
now
you know,
you're
and you're
when,
if you
had to
chuter to
your
friend
toxic,
that's
that was
about
about
a
man,
that's,
you know,
you know,
you're
really,
you're
you're
not,
you know,
you're not,
you know,
you're,
you're
where it's
not,
you're
not you
don't you
see,
you're
No,
without
Culp.
Dices,
no,
without
your
disposition
to the
health in the
different
things,
is major.
O'ian,
how
how do you
know,
what's the
not something,
without an
thing,
exactly.
No,
I want to
go to
go to that
I'm,
no,
no me let
tell you.
Sinator.
Sin Tendor.
Is that
I'm going to
is that I
am sure, is that
my
oldie, is that
is that
my abuelita
I,
I don't know who's got
a guy that has
made a
three times
and it's
all over
and they're
to get
my abelina
my abelita.
Yeah.
No,
I'm going to
I'm
like I'm
the plan.
Exactly.
No, I
don't have
to do
do that's
when we
don't know
we're justific
us,
without justificarned,
without
pardon,
we know,
we know,
we can't
without us
without us
without
a grand
history
behind
of my
decision.
So, really
is so sanador.
It's to say,
no,
I'm entoja.
No,
in reality,
no,
no, is what
what I'm going to,
I need to.
So,
is so sanador
because there
a part of
you,
that,
all doing it,
is like
is like,
is a
other,
but other
symptom of
sanation,
Mark,
is that,
is that you
is that you
have more
disposition
to the
conservation of
the
life.
So,
you know, you
more respect for
the naturalness,
more respect for
the water,
more respect,
for the animals,
more respect for
the life,
you know?
More compassion,
when you
when you're
recuperating,
to be,
so,
that's,
to be,
a bit,
our trauma,
our
diseases,
us congelan
the humanity.
That we
are.
And when
we're sanando,
you're going
to be
connecting
more at
level
affective
with
your
your children,
you're
connecting more
a level
affective to
the final
with the
life,
you're
feeling
part of the
life,
you're
going to
the sano
in all the
things.
I mean,
I'm,
I'm just,
I'm just
never
to get to
start you,
yeah no,
I'm going to
do you're
a jurament
no?
Until when?
When you
you'll
get to
a day
to get to
a man
toxic, a
day
he'll
because
you
don't you
you have to enfoccur in
to change
the forms
without
the suner
the funds.
Of the
all sanar
you know
you need to
that the
cigar you need to
doormeceer
the dolor
because the
because in
reality that
is a symptom
of a
of a
problem of a
problem
or a
something that
not
so you
don't get
well
when you
go and you
go and
that's
Marko
and include
connect with
the
pain with
the
experience.
So, not
only
when we
go to
when we're
going to
connect to
with a
eye,
no,
a dolor
catartic
of,
pegal to
your mother,
mientale
the mother,
to the
mother,
who,
who recommend
to pegle to
there.
There was a
current
many years,
no,
of therapy
psychocorporal
that is,
imagine to
to your mom
in the
cohing
and let
and get
and d'all
and,
no,
or pattea
your father
and mient,
tell him,
and the mother
or he
and he'll
and he
a lot,
I'm
I'm sorry,
I'm sorry
of those catarsis
because in
reality
you're getting
totally a reptilian
and
your adult
or your
neocortesa
is
yeah
devorated
for those
catarsis
so is
simply
to make
that the
little
make a
beretta,
darreienda
a lot of
a good
a good
a good
a good
a good
not a good
because it's
retramatisa.
Ah, retramatisa
because there
there are
where you pay
to get a
to runper
to get a
and you
make a marty
and you're
and you're
protect you
you're putting
there's a
a team
so you
and you
pay to runper
something
like therapy
I'm
if you're
going to
let's
runper
maybe you
don't in
your
car
well
but yeah
but imagine
imagineate
the
position
that's
that you adopt
front of
the violence
you're not
a favor of
that I'm
not I'm
a favor of
that I'm
we need
we need
our emotions
in a
way conscientious
and feel
them with
an adult
internal that
that's
not like
a little
you know
not you
not you
don't you
never
nobody
me never
me
me
never
me
my kids
were
and here
mom
come
because
never
me
I'm
okay I
I think
that if you want
to feel you
feel you
validate that
has to
always your
neocorteza
or your
part
conscientious
accompanying
that process
emotional
because there
there are
there
there are
many
aspects that
you have
to integrate
to your
neocortez
not
not
discard it
from a
part
primitive
so
you for
example
you can
you can
you can
you
he,
because your
brother
you called
for something.
And so
you,
you always
he has
got a
much resentment
because your
brother,
he said that
you did
that you
did you.
So,
if you
go to that
to repeat
and then
you,
why me
did you,
and no
there's a
adult who
say,
okay,
so in
reality,
this
me noja
me dole,
I'm
really,
I'm,
I'm
did this
to do it, not
was just
I don't
do you
do you
do you
do you
you're in
the reparation
of that
scene
you're going
to integrate
things
interesting
lessons
situations that
you
generated
you
you
did you
questions that
had to
your
father
with your
mom
so
always
in the
therapy
we
we have
to
have
an
adult
we
accompanying
the
process
or
the
different
or these
The Greeks
said in the
infamund.
That's a
way to be
accompanied to be
accompanied
to be accompanied
to be a
catartic
without any
adult who
go by
pardoning,
integrating,
connecting,
connecting,
learning,
so the
the one of
the
adult,
in all the
areas and
in all the
moments of
our life.
So,
if you
you're going to
say,
if you
go to
get to
the
adult.
And
then
you
do you
but the
adult's
what you
think you
what you
think you're
in the
opinion you
say it's
free
free form
writing
so
to write
so I'm
without a
form
a structure
specific
where I
remember
we're
we're
I was
I was I
never I
never I'm
never
never I
never
never
never I
never
and I
never
and I
never
I'm
not I'm
not you
the grammar
right
and the
order
being
and the
letter
beautiful,
and nothing
and I was
and I washugged
and I was
I'm just over
I'm sure of
shudis,
grosser,
like in a cartita
blah blah blah
back,
sacral,
sacer,
sacral,
sacer,
nobody,
nobody,
nobody,
nor I was
to learn,
and I was to
conserve, and
he was to
and then
we were
we made
a ballita,
the depositable
in a
one,
a thing
there's
there's
that I'm
all,
I'd
would be
util,
uter because
you know
you're
you're
there
there are
there
there's
that we
And there are
things that
we need to
pronounce and
that we need to
you know,
you can't
say to a
or not a, a
therapist or you
can't talk
or not
that form,
it's a
kind of an
energetic
of a
sometimes.
It's a
let's say,
me doleo,
you know,
I'm sent it
and I'm sent it
and I'm
and then after
that was
obviously,
obviously,
of a process,
of an
exercise of
integration,
but
it was like
add.
Also, it's
interesting
because you're
writing.
And,
and in a
way, there's
a process
adult there,
no?
Yeah.
A
sometimes, if,
if you were
diestro,
we'd
with the
right,
because if you're
a process
of a
new interior,
because if
you're
with the
hand,
you're
not that
is ambivestro
and you
and you're
doing the
and you
start you,
when you
when you
when you're
in my
case,
in my
my hand
and I,
I'm
like, I
so,
and then
then to
say it
to
to take it as a
like a
like,
for so no
it was,
or with the
way,
no, it
no,
no,
it was the
not the
thing,
no,
it was called
free form
writing,
so,
is a
scriptural
free,
and say,
to get,
to get,
to,
and,
to,
sack,
accompanied,
of professionals
with a
process
pre,
it was like
the donor,
it was a
sandwich,
it was a
process
previo,
yeah,
sacar,
and then
and then
and then,
and so,
and it
was
very
liberator,
but it
a process.
Yeah, and I also think
that there are many
many ways to
some ways to
only have to
really,
we're really
to make the
and resonar
with the way.
Because not
to all of
all of us
not all of
all of us
going to be
to do
a group of
sanation,
a more in a
therapy
individual.
There are
there in the
spirituality.
The gestal,
no,
the
sill of the
to talk to
talk to
not everyone
to do you
know,
to do you
know,
it's a
another great
changes
real.
Thank you,
Anna Mara
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Well,
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