El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 377.- El poder oculto del lenguaje no verbal - Bárbara Tijerina

Episode Date: May 26, 2025

¿Has sentido que alguien dice una cosa, pero su cuerpo dice otra?El cuerpo también habla y muchas veces dice lo que la boca calla. En el amor, esas señales pueden ser la clave para entender lo que ...está pasando de verdad.En este episodio, Bárbara Tijerina, experta en lenguaje no verbal, te muestra cómo escuchar con los ojos, leer las emociones ocultas y mejorar tu forma de conectar.Porque cuando aprendes a leer entre gestos, también aprendes a elegir mejor a quién entregas tu corazón.El amor empieza contigo. Y así como puedes aprender a leer a los demás, también puedes empezar a escucharte y entenderte mejor.En mi clase ¡GRATUITA! “Descubre tu Potencial y Alcanza tus Sueños”, te comparto herramientas para dejar de procrastinar, construir hábitos poderosos y dar el primer paso para empezar a construir tus sueños.Inscríbete aquí:👇🏻https://marcoantonioregil.com/potencial-yt/¿Quieres profundizar más? Descarga GRATIS nuestra revista digital y encuentra contenido inédito del episodio de la semana. Da click en: https://marcoantonioregil.com/aprendamosSigue a Bárbara Tijerina en:https://www.instagram.com/barbara.tijerina/?hl=es ¡Conéctate con mi equipo y conmigo en nuestras redes sociales para no perderte ninguna novedad ni contenido exclusivo!Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MarcoAntonioRegil/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marcoantonioregil/    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marcoantonioregil   Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marco-antonio-regil-71784568/    En mi canal de Telegram, comparto contenido exclusivo e invitaciones solo para fans. Únete aquí: https://marcoantonioregil.com/telegram *Importante: Nuestros invitados son expertos en sus temas y reflejan su conocimiento y su punto de vista, siendo conscientes de que cada una de las opiniones es totalmente personal. La información, datos, comentarios, estadísticas que se presenten en el Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil, son de exclusiva responsabilidad de quienes las emiten y no representan, necesariamente, el pensamiento de Marco Antonio Regil o de la producción del podcast.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 What delata a person infiel? The language no verbal. The body grita what the book caleb. Ah, carie. Many partners do use them as well as I'm going to ignore. Ah, yeah, the law of yelon.
Starting point is 00:00:12 Yes, yeah, I'm going to say, with all my attitudes, that no me import. When the parties are disdanceance, or they're going to have problems, what it's
Starting point is 00:00:22 apart of the communication, are the miras. No, there's more more sad than to be with someone and feel that you are alone in the language
Starting point is 00:00:31 no verbal what you is what you is the thing that's a sign that's a question that
Starting point is 00:00:36 I'm saying you're saying that no me you know the the body
Starting point is 00:00:41 how the man to how many? To how much we're not would learn
Starting point is 00:00:51 the language not verbal the language corporal of the person that we're a person
Starting point is 00:00:58 we're intelligence emotional in the language corporal and the comportment human has been more of 10 years of experience, assesorando executives and a figure
Starting point is 00:01:09 of the sector public and private in abilities of communication, whose numbers omitimus for things ethical. But it's people very,
Starting point is 00:01:17 we're ready to start with the podcast. We've been invited here in our studios of Alma Matters to our central to
Starting point is 00:01:22 our center of production, to the public that is part of our courses in line of students. How are
Starting point is 00:01:28 chicas, chico? Welcome. we're ready. So, then we're going to that episode 375
Starting point is 00:01:37 The podcast of Mark Antonio Regil is a production of Argyll Entertainment and all his
Starting point is 00:01:43 rights and all the thing that Barbara Tigerina that's that's that's even is
Starting point is 00:01:54 that you know even though don't even you because when you're when you do you
Starting point is 00:01:58 when you do you be studying to be studying to me yeah to what
Starting point is 00:02:03 what I'll what you What's what I'm saying my language no verbal in this moment? Look, for the prontopening us
Starting point is 00:02:07 if you're a lot of the postures are exactly like if you're in my leg, right to be the same side. So, there's rapport.
Starting point is 00:02:14 What's rapport? Cintone. Connection. Good on. So when someone is in the same position than I
Starting point is 00:02:21 there's a good principle. It's a very good principle. What more? What more? What's is in
Starting point is 00:02:25 my language to say? I mean, I mean, I'm to say that the body says that the
Starting point is 00:02:29 body Kaya. And as you said, more than the 80% is no-verbal. And, also, if you put to see a bit to be, the human has many more years communicating to be a way no-verbal, than
Starting point is 00:02:41 verbal, because first we were signs, like the animals, and then we learned to talk. If we're we're going to be able to, because of babies, our moms or our cuirators, they're, they're, can learn our
Starting point is 00:02:53 language no-verbal. There's to know sensibilize. A At times we're very distraided, seeing papers, viewing the, oh, and the cellular. That is a sign, Clara.
Starting point is 00:03:03 If I'm talking with you, I'm doing the cellular, I'm saying, that no me important. That there's a
Starting point is 00:03:10 more important than you. A me pass after after when you know, and I'm going, and what you and the color I was the
Starting point is 00:03:17 person with the person with the person with you, no me I'm not. No. You know, a way,
Starting point is 00:03:23 you're going to you know, how you went to your You say, well, ah, to do that. Well, you know, he'sed his eyes
Starting point is 00:03:32 full of the larkreys, you know, was that with the hand was making massacito, you know the not parable to move us,
Starting point is 00:03:39 but he went and there a great big danger there there can't be a great picture. So if you
Starting point is 00:03:44 don't know verbal, you how do you can't you can't in many words? In
Starting point is 00:03:48 many words, are four things. Look, the the entorn communicate. Uh,
Starting point is 00:03:52 your coach, your officeina, how is you know,
Starting point is 00:03:56 or the way you get if you get a or you know, or the office when you go to have,
Starting point is 00:04:01 you're going full of folders and then you and then go the time and it's so the environment.
Starting point is 00:04:11 When you get to the medical, you get us and it's impossible not to get you and you're
Starting point is 00:04:16 and you're like you see it's there's a plantita if you have a cedula
Starting point is 00:04:21 if you have a and you see a a plantita and if you see the plantita and if you see the plant you'll have a better
Starting point is 00:04:28 suerty this, this no not salva not even one is the one thing. One thing is the
Starting point is 00:04:37 first thing is to get to or with a professional or is malvesto that's a bad
Starting point is 00:04:42 that's the second no the moustache the bat of the medical well and
Starting point is 00:04:47 you say the the ropopop but for example a me me took a dermatologist that
Starting point is 00:04:52 had the dead of padastros. And you were to revise and say, Wackala. I went to
Starting point is 00:05:00 a talk to a hospital and the director came to go and me said, hey, we know,
Starting point is 00:05:05 we're a man, is a medical exitoso that apesta. Oh, wow. Apesta cigar. And you
Starting point is 00:05:14 can't say you, you can't say, are things that nobody to say. So,
Starting point is 00:05:18 so it's the entorn, the the role, the are the thing
Starting point is 00:05:21 is the thing is language. All that is language no-verbal. And, and also the pointuality,
Starting point is 00:05:28 if someone gets a time or gets a time, it's a very important. The odor, the
Starting point is 00:05:34 is fundamental. I mean, there's a child that's this Chabes is a great-same, this,
Starting point is 00:05:40 we're going to get, and the and the and the and you know I'm going. Wuele a
Starting point is 00:05:45 tachos. Well, a more that's good for someone more. But there some
Starting point is 00:05:53 medical, some studiosos of the language no verbal that can be a
Starting point is 00:05:57 saying that you not are you know I'm not a way my spouse me is
Starting point is 00:06:03 prohibitive that your husband is scientific. He is very scientific and this and the
Starting point is 00:06:08 fact is the study of the language no verbal and in all the statistics
Starting point is 00:06:13 are relativas so they're they're doing a lot so
Starting point is 00:06:17 when you when you do you when you when you you when you you're
Starting point is 00:06:21 like Right. I mean, there can be the rechastor or the acceptation.
Starting point is 00:06:27 Sure, or you're or but it's that your DNA not is compatible with the
Starting point is 00:06:31 and the other are the the hands, the postura how you your
Starting point is 00:06:37 your tone of the tone of voice is directly connected with
Starting point is 00:06:43 your system emotional your your voice can be your voice is different
Starting point is 00:06:47 when you when you when you when you are when you You're nervous.
Starting point is 00:06:51 The voice, the voice, the voice can be. Sure. It's distinct to the voice of a mom with his kids, that when is a master, that when is executive. So, when you
Starting point is 00:07:00 do you do, or you do, someone, you know, to do you know, that's different? And, really?
Starting point is 00:07:06 And the people should be more conscious of the tone of voice that uses. Uh-huh. No, I don't know
Starting point is 00:07:12 has been, sure you have to have passed to the radio, that someone and that has a monoton. Monotone.
Starting point is 00:07:19 Yeah, monotonos, Or so, for more that you want to put attention, there's an instant in that the eyes you're doing like a peasant, because you're just you're going to be
Starting point is 00:07:29 a lot of year. So, I'd passable six, seven mises, two dominoes. Between the, the two, the world's between the Saturday and the
Starting point is 00:07:37 same evangelio and the, and the same sermon or omilia, then those parents they'd rompian, I said, they'd run to the people and the
Starting point is 00:07:45 missts were in all the mists, and there were some saints, but God those abandoning when they'd
Starting point is 00:07:51 when they in the microphone. What horror, what horror is to hear someone so hear of
Starting point is 00:07:57 so you know even in silence, I'm in there, even in silence, all we're saying,
Starting point is 00:08:05 who are we're doing, who we're we're not we're, how we we're the attention,
Starting point is 00:08:12 the parpadeo, the parpadeo when you when you're when you're when you're we're
Starting point is 00:08:17 we're talking, because we're talking the love and the language no-verbal. You're just you're going to you're going to
Starting point is 00:08:22 say, oh, we're going to go, we're, we're going to and you're so you're so nervous. So it's too
Starting point is 00:08:28 nervous or nervosa? Not parpola just it's just a bit of the eye that's the mind of a depredator.
Starting point is 00:08:35 Yes, is what you does it? It's a fear of the eyes, my chitter the yeah,
Starting point is 00:08:41 let me to see it. You know, you've passed that someone that's being that's that's,
Starting point is 00:08:46 that's not, of the she's the mind? Like, what? You know, you're going to? So, you're
Starting point is 00:08:51 like, you're seeing, and, how is it, how is that the eye? Well, the mirro, the mind
Starting point is 00:08:59 has a function and you a reaction physiological with the mind. So, for example, if you you're going to
Starting point is 00:09:05 your perrito and is with another perrito, and they're in this contact visual, in seconds,
Starting point is 00:09:11 in seconds, they're to be able to care, or they're to belear, sure. It's
Starting point is 00:09:16 active the physiology. did you're an experiment with changos in where there's a person and no I'll wait to
Starting point is 00:09:24 see a chango and then the chango shango is a haulita and when he's a looking and it gets a being
Starting point is 00:09:30 and it's he gets looking into the chango and gets to get that haula not support
Starting point is 00:09:35 that mirate because that that mirate that's a way that's when we're when we're when we're
Starting point is 00:09:40 when we're we're a much good but but what natural and me when you
Starting point is 00:09:47 to askorar to someone, they're saying, hey, but I'm going to have to be doing it all the time
Starting point is 00:09:51 so. No, no. No, no, no, no, not, no, what is important
Starting point is 00:09:55 and what do they're what they're those triumfators. The ganaders. The ligators. What are? The conquistadores.
Starting point is 00:10:02 The conquist and the conquistadores. What are? It's that is that they're they're going,
Starting point is 00:10:08 but the phrase final to let you they're they're trying and that's the grand final. Ah,
Starting point is 00:10:15 it's like a remate. It's like a remate. Right, to the reverse. Smash. There you go.
Starting point is 00:10:21 Yeah. The life. The philosophy. The love. Ah. And you, oh, my,
Starting point is 00:10:31 I'm embarrassed just to be me. I'm going to do you. Yes, because if you see,
Starting point is 00:10:38 the impact. Sientes the impact of the mind. Okay. So, let us to be what
Starting point is 00:10:43 is what we do we do we also. But first, what is what is what we're doing to do. What is what no. What is what we need to do.
Starting point is 00:10:53 I'm always saying, the truth is that I know where I learned, but me is very pointal. The love is attention. The love is attention and attention is mirroats,
Starting point is 00:11:02 listen, the love is to be all the time. So, attention, even to go to go to the super and I did the
Starting point is 00:11:13 and I agree with you and I got to do. That's the attention. The love is attention. And it's been in therapies that when the pairjas is enamored, there are a much
Starting point is 00:11:23 major contact visual. And when the parents are they're or they're to have problems, what the other from
Starting point is 00:11:31 the communication are the eyes. There's a therapy in that the when the is going to
Starting point is 00:11:38 be, they're going to be, they're going to look to look at the eyes to the
Starting point is 00:11:45 If there is something good in the pariah, in that mirab, there will be pardon,
Starting point is 00:11:51 will be there there no more there's there's that there all,
Starting point is 00:11:57 all of the all, so you as you as you can't identify if a
Starting point is 00:12:03 part of a person or is depending of the interaction between you?
Starting point is 00:12:07 Just, just just just, just no, no is that I'm
Starting point is 00:12:11 that I'm a broo, a little. A bit. My husband I'd say But, well All we have
Starting point is 00:12:19 that capacity Just have to develop it has to train the muscle of the observation So I mean
Starting point is 00:12:25 for example An airport is a day of camp A debate political is a delicia
Starting point is 00:12:32 Because for more that they're They're they're going to do you They're
Starting point is 00:12:36 a lot of things It's a set for example That the adrenaline
Starting point is 00:12:41 has that the the book or the women, for example,
Starting point is 00:12:45 when they're not very to come to get to come to make a
Starting point is 00:12:50 a palus imaginary. The women, the women we're going to the collar. The body
Starting point is 00:12:59 starts to have a series of language, a language. It's really that if you
Starting point is 00:13:04 like a woman, it's a, it's a person, is a is a
Starting point is 00:13:08 real? 100. If it's if it's if it's to grab the hair. Helen Fisher
Starting point is 00:13:12 wrote a book that's a anatomy of love. And she study the animals. So,
Starting point is 00:13:17 why this pacharito was enabored of this and what is what is the thing? And what's
Starting point is 00:13:22 what you do you? And why he's got to the and the other? And at
Starting point is 00:13:27 final, we're not animals, so we're we're doing the same. Between that's
Starting point is 00:13:32 that's we're like the same. We're talking about of aves, no? Yes,
Starting point is 00:13:37 yeah. This, I'm going to No, this, I'm saying, I'm going to have you, they've been,
Starting point is 00:13:45 they've been, they've been, those who have is a way of, it's a way that's a time you know, that's a
Starting point is 00:13:51 because it's seven isles and the most beautiful is, in some of the islands, is to be the
Starting point is 00:13:57 rituals that the birds, the species specific. To, exactly, to conquer. And what do?
Starting point is 00:14:03 And what are, there, there one, the, the, the, the, the,
Starting point is 00:14:05 , Supposedly, the most peces are are the others. So, so they're and they're in
Starting point is 00:14:14 peaces about and they're in a clavado. Macho, alpha. So, so, yeah, fah! And so,
Starting point is 00:14:19 the, they're, the fish, while the men, are the peskators are, the patitas
Starting point is 00:14:24 are more as they're alles. So, so they're in the pheritas, the, those, the,
Starting point is 00:14:28 the, and the piquero, does a do a ballet that's the balle of the bifier or the booby dance
Starting point is 00:14:35 that they're in English, And it's like, like, like, and it's like, my patitas azules. So,
Starting point is 00:14:40 so they're to show them, and the ambri- and thence he's chas and he's, he's a good pachor.
Starting point is 00:14:47 It's a good probeer. And there are others that have the cooceece and so they're so they're
Starting point is 00:14:55 and they're and they're they're the pacharita also, and that's the thing and that
Starting point is 00:15:01 and the pavoreal? The pavilion? The pavilion is the, he's, the human is the human is like. For example, in Tinder,
Starting point is 00:15:09 the women see, we're taking the photo, we're taking the photo, with the camera up. Because? Because we're
Starting point is 00:15:17 because we're this way, it's very famous. No. The trompa of patto is in a no, no, we're doing.
Starting point is 00:15:25 We do, we're like, that's like the little bit of the catito, also like the cat with botas? Me protectes,
Starting point is 00:15:33 for favor? Ah, chiquita. It's the mirrored. How is it? Vienned it. That's right. Ben and protect me?
Starting point is 00:15:41 And one of Brutto is going to be thinking that can't protect? Also. And the photos of Tinder of the
Starting point is 00:15:47 men are the other than they're going to see a great patas assules. I'm you're not
Starting point is 00:15:56 I'm sure, I'm not. So, so it's really, the woman, his language corporal when
Starting point is 00:16:01 you do you do you use the indefense? In the mirab as she, he does make
Starting point is 00:16:06 a real good, because like I'm in the , fiatte, what I said Helen Fischer,
Starting point is 00:16:11 in the first three minutes of a relation, you know, you know, you can be a pair
Starting point is 00:16:17 and you can't work, or no. In the first three minutes. And I
Starting point is 00:16:23 was about right, that you said, what you did you, the language no verbal
Starting point is 00:16:25 in the parents, my parents, they're they're, well, they're
Starting point is 00:16:29 they, well, they're, they, they, you know, In a place
Starting point is 00:16:35 Camin'amines The women in one direction And the other direction. Imagineate so decide your
Starting point is 00:16:42 your partner. So, just chandol eye. And my mom so and my mom did he made in
Starting point is 00:16:50 my eye. My abuel, I saw, my little came down in Campeche, and he he was going to
Starting point is 00:16:55 talk to answer and she. Imagineate all what you percives to see a person, how
Starting point is 00:17:01 it's Robert Green wrote a book that's about the 48 of the
Starting point is 00:17:07 power and he and he about the importance of the language
Starting point is 00:17:12 no verbal and he about a psychologist that's a he
Starting point is 00:17:17 he did polio he was a part of a little that
Starting point is 00:17:22 he could move were the was he being in this
Starting point is 00:17:25 situation of repos he was ultimately sensitive It's like when you have a
Starting point is 00:17:31 one of the five senses and the other and the other are more so he was he was in the he was gonna and he was
Starting point is 00:17:40 he was gonna when he said he said so but that was I didn't identify all right and then he said
Starting point is 00:17:48 then he went recuperating he studied psychology and what he did is that his work is that his work to
Starting point is 00:17:56 the mere front because he he liked to be when he when they'd the patients,
Starting point is 00:18:01 how they'd come down. And of how were coming and how these
Starting point is 00:18:05 pair of they'd say much of that person. Some people are like qualities of a
Starting point is 00:18:13 man, of psychico. No, so, no, so, no, the study of
Starting point is 00:18:19 the language no-verbal has to be with the psychology, with the sociology,
Starting point is 00:18:23 with the anthropology, with the study, etology, that is the comportment.
Starting point is 00:18:30 So, so we all we can develop that ability, the, the, the,
Starting point is 00:18:34 how they're coming, when you know, when you know, when you're saying, you know, and it's
Starting point is 00:18:40 been very, you've heard of the word, intelligence, intelligence, no-verbal. Now,
Starting point is 00:18:47 now it's about the intelligence, no verbal. Or, of, to know, to be
Starting point is 00:18:52 to know when to ask, the increment, so, if you say,
Starting point is 00:18:56 the Lune's I'm a good to get to the other and the first to get to
Starting point is 00:19:01 get to get to the cart that's you know to get to your your intelligence
Starting point is 00:19:06 no verbal you're saying it's a moment of the time to pay the thing to get to
Starting point is 00:19:12 the person and to find the moment for all so also then
Starting point is 00:19:16 when you you you're you're to put to you're to do
Starting point is 00:19:21 you want to you do it also you're you it's
Starting point is 00:19:24 like you I mean, I'm sorry. And the and the Juebys and the
Starting point is 00:19:32 Juebis something a lot to do it. And it's apachurrata but I said the yearnest
Starting point is 00:19:40 the day, well, you know, not you're going to do you know. What does do you know, language
Starting point is 00:19:46 attractive, language conquistador, language I'm going to say something that's very chemado,
Starting point is 00:19:52 but principally to be you you're not, because, I'm a very trillated,
Starting point is 00:19:57 no, I'm sure you're in the language no verbal what you bring a is what you
Starting point is 00:20:03 know it's when someone says, I'm going to be a very sympathetic and I get to
Starting point is 00:20:08 get to you know it and not you see, and the people know, so is horrible.
Starting point is 00:20:15 The people know that's for example the movements of the
Starting point is 00:20:18 movements of the move a fraction of a So, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so, so
Starting point is 00:20:25 are authentical, when are ensigned, you know, you know, you're saying, is that, is that, although I'm expert in language no-verbal, something, no-verbal, something, no, me quadra. So, if, somebody said, look, for example, the postura
Starting point is 00:20:39 of stiple, or this, of pyramid. Yes, jemas of the little bit, jemas of the other. Jemas of the other. Yemas of the other. It's, is a posture power. And it's a good
Starting point is 00:20:50 if you're going to a lot of a lot of a lot of things and you know, but the
Starting point is 00:20:55 language no verbal is the most important, fuf, he gave power. But also when it's enshrated,
Starting point is 00:21:02 imagineate that someone gets, oh yeah, my love, I want you get a much
Starting point is 00:21:05 and you get a man, with a form of pyramid because you know that
Starting point is 00:21:11 that was I think the authenticity is basic. So what what is what if you have to
Starting point is 00:21:16 do you authentic. Ser authentic. What more? Put more, to put attention. In where you can't see a
Starting point is 00:21:22 parke of a person, you know, you're going to be going to you're going to those feet. The feet.
Starting point is 00:21:29 Those feet. The feet. The feet are saying something? The feet are you? In the
Starting point is 00:21:33 love, the feet do you do they're in the zapato? But where are you going to
Starting point is 00:21:39 do they're in the love? Yes. There. There's to find in the
Starting point is 00:21:45 The face, you can't control. You can't do you. You can't do you. You know, you see, the barrages, these are so, you're doing, you know,
Starting point is 00:21:54 does it's car like like, um, not it's not. So, with the car you can't control, the hands, but
Starting point is 00:22:01 the feet are allegated of the Cerebr and have their own own rhythm. The feet,
Starting point is 00:22:06 when you interest to someone, the point of the feet are directed to your
Starting point is 00:22:10 object of the object of desire. I went very So, in the object of
Starting point is 00:22:15 of desire? No, no, not, no, not it's you know, you're you're up
Starting point is 00:22:17 you're to put you to do? To put it not, no, it's a dictionary,
Starting point is 00:22:24 that's, it's that me's, no, so it's not doesn't do it doesn't
Starting point is 00:22:30 know, he doesn't or at maybe, or at maybe he's someone more.
Starting point is 00:22:35 Yeah, or there's a guy, here's a put to no, but, but,
Starting point is 00:22:40 it's said, for example, the pieces like the anclage of the tibillos
Starting point is 00:22:45 generally generally communicate incommodity for example we're you we're doing something and we're going to
Starting point is 00:22:53 and you're going to do you know so you're so you're I'm going to I think that the that the
Starting point is 00:23:01 pay is tomorrow yeah not before that I'm I'm going to you know I can't be four
Starting point is 00:23:06 pavos okay we're still that's more complicated to learn because you're
Starting point is 00:23:11 in a date we're talking the We're talking of the love of the So in a sceneita that normally
Starting point is 00:23:14 the first you're going to you're going to about the bed at the feet but then you do you
Starting point is 00:23:20 like it's like you get to be to get the and you see if you see the if you've been the feet
Starting point is 00:23:27 in the feet of the yeah is that no no no not no you're
Starting point is 00:23:31 not not not going to not but you you're you're you're
Starting point is 00:23:34 you're you're you're this this night sene 10 in conduct
Starting point is 00:23:39 10 in conduct now Some some about the language no verbal
Starting point is 00:23:42 in the camera but that that's a podcast no no no no let me
Starting point is 00:23:46 let me let me say we're we're what you do you know what I'm what we need to
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Starting point is 00:25:29 language no verbal at the hour of the time you did you
Starting point is 00:25:35 took the camasut of No verbal. Oh, in what I in what I met with
Starting point is 00:25:41 the camera, right? No, I'm going to reduce just to the couple of the part of the part of the
Starting point is 00:25:48 language no verbal in the camera also does it? Yes. Well, if you're in the camera
Starting point is 00:25:52 with you you're saying something obviously. Yeah, yeah, there was a or a
Starting point is 00:25:58 little? But at a little, you know, you're doing with that person? You can't
Starting point is 00:26:05 know how many times there can't, if they're spalded with the spalda
Starting point is 00:26:09 and a armuade in no, no, well, that's this divorce. The perro in the middle.
Starting point is 00:26:16 The perro in middle. Well, that's in so you invite us. But, but the
Starting point is 00:26:20 parents that are you are changing their language in the in the camera and they're
Starting point is 00:26:25 in the way, that's that's a matter, that's that's that's
Starting point is 00:26:29 the thing the enormomom so it is a months and in a
Starting point is 00:26:33 first you want to be and you that son-on-combeau the carerousita
Starting point is 00:26:39 roja because, because, fift, in the parke, in the paris, the parochemica in the
Starting point is 00:26:46 language no-verbal is the study of the distance. There is distance intimate, personal, social,
Starting point is 00:26:53 and it depends the rank of the person, if someone is very very very to you
Starting point is 00:26:57 and it's to be a person, you're going to be a person, you put a
Starting point is 00:27:02 ball, you, put the term, or something. But when you're in a time,
Starting point is 00:27:08 the distance is a little. For what? Like I said the abelite to let'ser to make more.
Starting point is 00:27:15 For a loo is the lobo is the loo for you. To be yourself. For to talker you and to
Starting point is 00:27:23 get you to eat and to eat more. So, so if are the things
Starting point is 00:27:28 well, you know, you know, what's what you know the the time?
Starting point is 00:27:31 You can you There is much more rapport. There's much more more understanding. What is what not we need to when we're
Starting point is 00:27:42 when we're conquisting someone or in a, in a relation? Language no-verbal, errors. Errors. Look,
Starting point is 00:27:47 errors. There's an micro-expression that is the desprecrow. When you studied the language no verbal and Paul Leikman
Starting point is 00:27:55 established that in any place the world, the sonrisa can move the same muscles,
Starting point is 00:28:01 and the restes in Mexico, in any part. The like the joy, the
Starting point is 00:28:07 surprise, the surprise, the asco. The desprecise is an expression unilateral. A mueka. A mueca
Starting point is 00:28:16 in where is a side of the face. Tuorces the boca. The boca torsida.
Starting point is 00:28:22 If you see how photos of profiles of professional in LinkedIn are so with the
Starting point is 00:28:26 book of a look a look and why not they they're they're they're
Starting point is 00:28:32 so. So that is something that is something that is it's a very basic and there is and there. And look
Starting point is 00:28:41 to look to look to see about. So, that's right to be right to be a arrogance.
Starting point is 00:28:48 Arrogance so, so like, the barbilla. Levantando the barbilla, a barbilla, a one of
Starting point is 00:28:53 a man was I was thinking no, so I said, there's a right here rapport yeah,
Starting point is 00:28:59 there's a yeah, so yeah, so Donald Trump is just so you're seeing. That's so you have to evils. You have to avoid, you that's
Starting point is 00:29:06 anti-ojo. Yeah. I mean, I mean, we're just, we're going to see over the anteoho,
Starting point is 00:29:11 to be, uh, uh, a very, you'd like that would be, my therapist when I'm put
Starting point is 00:29:18 very loco, yeah, well, I'm inferment, so, what did you? No, or so,
Starting point is 00:29:25 so, so, I'm, like, a, it's a, it's, so,
Starting point is 00:29:28 I'm, so, so, I'm, so, so, so, so,
Starting point is 00:29:32 So, political Mexican for those who are those who are the people. Look, they're much
Starting point is 00:29:36 for the lens. It's that the mirate is fundamental to establishes connection. For that
Starting point is 00:29:42 when the people try the lightes obscures you generate like, what is
Starting point is 00:29:46 thinking? How is you're thinking? Now, these photos of Melania Trump
Starting point is 00:29:52 in the day of the time of a time of a way, there's there's
Starting point is 00:29:56 and we know we know if she was, she said that the power no
Starting point is 00:30:02 the power no the which is very very very. The power not look. The power
Starting point is 00:30:06 not look. I mean I'm to make a reference political because the fact that the way
Starting point is 00:30:13 the life of the artistes that's very much. The political those politicians those
Starting point is 00:30:18 are the people are the people who are so much that's because if you see to be the
Starting point is 00:30:23 president Argentina Milley no that that's like you
Starting point is 00:30:26 more more than you know you can't you know is a language
Starting point is 00:30:30 corporal very similar of Trump, very aggressive. It's like to be a bad or not not to be
Starting point is 00:30:37 not to not to be. No, not to be. Well, the photo of Donald Trump in 2017
Starting point is 00:30:43 when he was president in the period anterior. So, his photo official is
Starting point is 00:30:48 with the menton equilbrated right, right. Now, he back the and you
Starting point is 00:30:55 get to this mind and you see, and that's what he wants.
Starting point is 00:30:59 He He wants to transmit MEDO He said he's he seems a Churchill which
Starting point is 00:31:04 I think that nobody has been in that but there a photo very famous of Churchill
Starting point is 00:31:10 that came to he said we have to take a photo. He said I don't
Starting point is 00:31:15 I don't want to me take in photo he's he said he's
Starting point is 00:31:19 he said he's two minutes to come he's he's he he's
Starting point is 00:31:24 he let's say to say he he says to say the He rebutta the puro,
Starting point is 00:31:31 he's got caminand and pacatel. Take the photo. And there is where you have the photo of this man with a determination. How you tried you
Starting point is 00:31:40 try to try to get him the poor. It's a man that's a man who's a photo famous of Churchill
Starting point is 00:31:45 is the history that's the story of the photo. And after this photo he took a sonriente that no
Starting point is 00:31:49 has nothing to be. And Trump says that he wants that he that mirate
Starting point is 00:31:58 in the amor obviously. So, so what other error we have to evite? Look, the body
Starting point is 00:32:03 mustra how the mind. If you feel in the mind, if you
Starting point is 00:32:11 do you have insecurities, the body will show. You're going
Starting point is 00:32:17 to put barriers. In a pair when when function the
Starting point is 00:32:20 things well, the rapport is not in the movements
Starting point is 00:32:24 of the movements, the they are What other other thing
Starting point is 00:32:30 can do? There's a lot in the time, they're in a photo or in a reunion or they're with
Starting point is 00:32:36 the person that's put in the hands around of the genitales. Oh, that's, that is,
Starting point is 00:32:42 that's, I'm afraid. I'm afraid. I'm scared. The man... So, is sat down or
Starting point is 00:32:48 or parados. Or parados with the handitas with the and that that's... That's...
Starting point is 00:32:53 That's... That's... I'm talking already with a quater that He's in the news
Starting point is 00:32:58 and that's not there in any screen, nor a not you pass it too in the programs. And you know
Starting point is 00:33:05 you know what you do with the hands? But put them right in front is the
Starting point is 00:33:09 poor option. Mestra vulnerability. There are others that make the hands in the bolsas.
Starting point is 00:33:16 Tampocopo so. The hands in the bols is like that they're like they can't
Starting point is 00:33:20 like the people, not they're they're not to make the to put it
Starting point is 00:33:26 something. But to get the hand in the box is a bad. No, does a
Starting point is 00:33:31 confidence. Bill Gates, for example, has the custom of always the hands to get the
Starting point is 00:33:36 hands out of the bolsas. And he has been to give a president of Korea of South,
Starting point is 00:33:43 he left a hand in the bolsa and that was a grosseria for the culture in
Starting point is 00:33:49 Korea. If you you have been a one in a conference I remember
Starting point is 00:33:53 that I had a pantalon that I had a me, you know, you know,
Starting point is 00:33:58 you know, you know, you know, you're, you know, you're tap, because then you know,
Starting point is 00:34:05 the pancita, you know, what you know, what I'm, so I'm, and then I'm doing, and at the final,
Starting point is 00:34:12 someone, it's, like, that's, that's, I'm in a good, I'm, I'm
Starting point is 00:34:20 having problems with my barrigue, and the tally, but, you can't be, Lea, how this macho prepotentes
Starting point is 00:34:27 is here like a bocleros subiatings but it's very common tap us the insecurities
Starting point is 00:34:34 we're not we're we're old we're the blusa we're we're the back
Starting point is 00:34:38 the box the box they're saying there's that's a make sure a
Starting point is 00:34:43 sure you I'm I'm I'm gonna play padel and I always
Starting point is 00:34:47 take photos at the final the partido I'm my
Starting point is 00:34:49 I'm a back it's a padelero. So, like,
Starting point is 00:34:56 so I'm I'm going to do. I'm just in a photo with you. With me? I'm not.
Starting point is 00:35:01 I'm I'm not. I'm trying to put a sticker enormous there to tap the blusa arugated.
Starting point is 00:35:08 In in the social. In social. Oh, the differences cultural,
Starting point is 00:35:12 is, of this, of a language no verbal that in form inconsient I'm
Starting point is 00:35:17 doing something that in other culture can they can they can you know
Starting point is 00:35:22 when you know, of a repent, today, the Instagram and the Facebook, there's,
Starting point is 00:35:27 there's, with the colleagues international, then so, you know, a Mexican, to an Argentina,
Starting point is 00:35:32 or an, this, someone of a, a, Ecuadorian, there, there's,
Starting point is 00:35:38 there's, important to know the language no verbal, cultural. Look, for example,
Starting point is 00:35:42 the Arabes, they're to be very very close, and with much contact visual and to be
Starting point is 00:35:49 hard. The North American, his space vital, this burbuck in the
Starting point is 00:35:55 that nobody can't pass it's much more than than we're of not the not to talk and they
Starting point is 00:36:01 like to and if you pass you and if you pass you in the super and you don't you
Starting point is 00:36:05 say, and you excuse me excuse me so your space vital is so in
Starting point is 00:36:11 change in China you're in the in the metro and you're and they're
Starting point is 00:36:15 and you're also here too we're we we're we're
Starting point is 00:36:19 we're we're when we we're in the airport of the don't know, they're doing their tauts
Starting point is 00:36:25 and they're with the carlian and they're not in the same. You know, you know,
Starting point is 00:36:30 you know, the contacto visual, the contact visual in in the United they're saying that they
Starting point is 00:36:35 ignore them courtesmently. Uh-huh. So, not they're to be a time. I live in Texas,
Starting point is 00:36:42 a time, and I got to get to get to the restaurant and if you don't you see a
Starting point is 00:36:47 a woman or the saludes, they're they're they're they're And even
Starting point is 00:36:51 it's a, it's a it's a it's a a commas it's a good morning or good morning
Starting point is 00:36:57 or something or something like you like a man like any any other you're like
Starting point is 00:37:02 you're not you're not you're much careful with you get to all the Latino
Starting point is 00:37:07 hey hey good good days family in the in the in the in the
Starting point is 00:37:12 in the in the in the people we're we're we're and the
Starting point is 00:37:17 American is like so so so If you don't feel it's to feel
Starting point is 00:37:20 it's not verbal, there's a way to get for example, in Rome to say that's like
Starting point is 00:37:28 you know, you know, you're like, and you're like, so you're like, so you're
Starting point is 00:37:34 like? You're then. Yeah. Then, then Londres you put in the hand
Starting point is 00:37:38 like if were a disarmado and you do you like, so you're like,
Starting point is 00:37:43 so you're in Japan, in Japan, if you do you the dead indice in the
Starting point is 00:37:49 is that you're very intelligent. And if you let us for the back, it's like
Starting point is 00:37:52 you're like you have to have to have what you do you see, let's see,
Starting point is 00:37:58 yeah. And for example, in France this symbol in where is a
Starting point is 00:38:03 symbol in a thing like a okay. Yes, a okay for us that all
Starting point is 00:38:10 is a okay for us in France is zero. If you you say they're
Starting point is 00:38:13 saying, hey what's you do this sign, is zero. Zero, no's not so good. And for us, it's like, you're like,
Starting point is 00:38:22 it's very good. Now, in CERDEA, this is an orificio and it can present to a malinterpretation. Aha. Yeah, I'm I'm trying.
Starting point is 00:38:33 Now, for the cultures asiatical, signaled with the deado is something that's bad education. In Disney,
Starting point is 00:38:39 my son, he's going to say, oh, you, no, mal education. He was, he was
Starting point is 00:38:44 have in Disney, and they're clearly. If someone you're where's the banion, prohibit
Starting point is 00:38:50 to say with you know, you're to do you're to do you know, they're doing the thing.
Starting point is 00:38:55 There's there's the language no-verbal cultural. The Argentinus when they're
Starting point is 00:38:59 like, hey, che, no, like, what's, what's what tontary are so much
Starting point is 00:39:08 those superiors, put the little bit of the barbill, so, well, is that you talk to
Starting point is 00:39:12 It's not It's very difficult. And not it doesn't It's a hard to It's a
Starting point is 00:39:16 little to say I'm in Denmark those countries like those countries like Nordic The hands are not those
Starting point is 00:39:23 we're doing our hands So if if you want to someone and you want to be
Starting point is 00:39:28 and you make those those those those who study the endow
Starting point is 00:39:34 they're saying that is very difficult to mean and use
Starting point is 00:39:38 the so that I'm that I don't I'm I'm I mean,
Starting point is 00:39:43 it's a rare. Let me say, let's a pause. When we're going to let's hear you know that's how detectar, if it's
Starting point is 00:39:51 not verbal, if someone is being infield. If someone is there mancornaid, putting those caches, as the
Starting point is 00:40:00 callos, we'll be back, we're going to get back. You've done that you're doing more
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Starting point is 00:41:54 Continuamos with Barbara Tigerina, expert in language no-verbal. One of the great preoccupations when one one is in relation to a pair, or I don't know if they're a great preoccupation, but it's like a detail
Starting point is 00:42:08 important to know. is, is, me is feeling or not me is being able, what delata
Starting point is 00:42:15 a person infiel, the language no verbal. Vengah, and here there's a bit more
Starting point is 00:42:22 you know, the rating. First, I'm going to protect. No, there's a signal
Starting point is 00:42:28 with that that someone could say 100, this is a not a but there
Starting point is 00:42:33 there are various indicators that are socied on the
Starting point is 00:42:36 tension, nervousism, no, no there's a not a important pinotcho.
Starting point is 00:42:41 So, you know, so there's, you know, not that's a lot of the thing you're saying, oh, they're
Starting point is 00:42:46 mitting. So, so it's, it's, a point, but well, a bit, Mark,
Starting point is 00:42:52 for example, the polygraphs yeah no are 100 valid, so, because there just,
Starting point is 00:42:59 there's, I'm just to put a point a polygraph to, these are these are
Starting point is 00:43:03 the appartes, to detects the amount to the frequency cardiac, and you need to
Starting point is 00:43:07 more oxygen, and so is associate a a a I'm a but also
Starting point is 00:43:12 it's a right to be a point you and a lot of I'm
Starting point is 00:43:16 not I'm saying not I'm to make the error of Othello Othello he said
Starting point is 00:43:23 that's his sposa Desdemona he's he's and then he's gonna
Starting point is 00:43:28 and he says I'm gonna to let's because me start being
Starting point is 00:43:32 infiel with him and she's and she oh yeah you
Starting point is 00:43:38 cached. And no, it's, he put to you know, because it's going to get a nervous, because they're to get in the error of the
Starting point is 00:43:46 hotel. I'm going to protect here. I'm still trying. No, there's no definitive. But what signals?
Starting point is 00:43:52 What's that's, if you're asking? Where did you know, you're going to let's get
Starting point is 00:43:58 the question. You know, in where was there? To be there? To be there? You need to time to create
Starting point is 00:44:05 a story parallel. To what What do you refer to you? You're referring to You're? Ayer? Ayer?
Starting point is 00:44:11 Where was yesterday? Ayer. Ayer. Ayer. And yeah. In the morning or in the night. Oxygeno.
Starting point is 00:44:20 Tieno. Now, many say that will to disviar the mirada, but the most frequent and what
Starting point is 00:44:26 have seen the interrogators is that when someone he's going to be going to
Starting point is 00:44:32 and it to parpade less because he wants if in Cesto. If you if you
Starting point is 00:44:38 it's you're okay I'm not going to not so they're in hotels
Starting point is 00:44:42 not so they're so they're or tel so they're so they're so so it's
Starting point is 00:44:48 so that and not they're in neurolinguistic that if if you look
Starting point is 00:44:52 to be up the right and up the right or that's you're
Starting point is 00:44:57 you're you're you're but that but that but that's the
Starting point is 00:45:00 but that scientifically what you have to have to have to have to have
Starting point is 00:45:04 to have to of the person. I would have to you have to you have to
Starting point is 00:45:08 you know, I'm going to do you do you see in your year you're to look at where you're
Starting point is 00:45:14 generally. Generally we'll we'll turn to the because in our brain this is the past,
Starting point is 00:45:19 this is the present. Or something or something if I don't know, when you're when you're
Starting point is 00:45:25 seven years when you're when you're you're in and you look you and then you look you
Starting point is 00:45:30 there's your right right and that's a marion and if me says oh yeah
Starting point is 00:45:34 imagine I don't know so that's where you you know, it's the you know, and then
Starting point is 00:45:39 that's the right, so I'm to the other you know, I'm so I'm to do you
Starting point is 00:45:45 to Lume and if me I'm so you can't with the eyes like that
Starting point is 00:45:49 you can be creating a story a a or recording with who you're
Starting point is 00:45:55 there. There's there there's there's there the time the time
Starting point is 00:46:00 the little those people are very like, no. That's like of Charles Chaplin, no?
Starting point is 00:46:08 Yeah. No. The poor trai carri and you thinking that's infiel and the other is mucco.
Starting point is 00:46:14 It's moccoso. It's mocoso, exactly. The children are very honest. The children when those catched,
Starting point is 00:46:20 what is the first that do you? The top in the boquita. The car. The car. When you
Starting point is 00:46:28 when you're stressed when you're so you're that's stressed that that's that's a
Starting point is 00:46:33 common in this area. So, so it's normal the now.
Starting point is 00:46:37 Now, not say he took the nose, it's a no.
Starting point is 00:46:41 No. But he took the nose. She kept with the
Starting point is 00:46:44 plate. Repitio the question. The hands are tensed
Starting point is 00:46:48 tens of a chupeton in the Cuey Oh, no, well
Starting point is 00:46:53 that's elephant whewle elephant he's elephant. It's an elephant. So,
Starting point is 00:47:01 so are various signals, no can clavars with
Starting point is 00:47:03 a No, have to learn all the... There's to learn all the... There's a person who's
Starting point is 00:47:09 professional of the that's really that's there's there's there's that's
Starting point is 00:47:13 that's that's saying, you're saying, you're going to not to get the car and they're
Starting point is 00:47:20 to get a lot of a stod, nothing of that's. I've had a other
Starting point is 00:47:25 many years, I've asked, there's there, there are actors and actresses and
Starting point is 00:47:29 there's there's a different manner, and she she's a novel,
Starting point is 00:47:32 a movie, a woman, I'm a a ex-exapose to do you know, I'm gonna
Starting point is 00:47:38 really, I'm gonna like, you know, like you're in a play, in a theater,
Starting point is 00:47:42 you know, you know, but in the noveles is so, but in the noveles is you're,
Starting point is 00:47:51 I'm gonna, okay, right, I'm, right, he's, in what time? I'm,
Starting point is 00:47:56 I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, three seconds, five seconds,
Starting point is 00:47:59 six seconds, yeah, and I, respirer, and, of a laugh, I said, a little,
Starting point is 00:48:05 a little and I'm in the right, and I'm going to a little light, and said, and say,
Starting point is 00:48:10 yeah, that's a fear, what I'm sorry, to be your know, so imagineate, there's a
Starting point is 00:48:19 person, a person, a super professional, so I said, how did you, like, it's a thing a thing
Starting point is 00:48:22 a physical that's your and I'm doing, I'm, I'm doing, there, there's a
Starting point is 00:48:27 person there's there, there can't, that can control his car, his
Starting point is 00:48:32 body, the language, the tone of voice. Paul Aikman, when studied a
Starting point is 00:48:37 mentira, what he was that put a a infirmaries, for example, and they
Starting point is 00:48:41 had a lot of those images spantosas and it had to describe
Starting point is 00:48:45 to the patient, but to be a flower, oh, here there a lot,
Starting point is 00:48:50 there's a there's a there's a there a man a baratado, and he
Starting point is 00:48:55 had to mean, and then he everything was all to say, here there's another flower
Starting point is 00:49:01 with a little, but really was having an image terrible. The psychopaths, even they're
Starting point is 00:49:07 an image terrible, a manoe suffering, no, there's empathy. So, the neurons
Starting point is 00:49:12 are the are the are the other. For that when the in front bosteza,
Starting point is 00:49:20 it's very easy that you get to get a, or when the end the end of
Starting point is 00:49:24 a lot, a less that's a psychopath. A minus that a psychopath.
Starting point is 00:49:30 Or a narcissist. We'll come to Trump. No they're empathy.
Starting point is 00:49:35 That's that's that's that's someone, that's I'm saying,
Starting point is 00:49:39 I'm a show, there, but we're going to talk to me. The narcissist
Starting point is 00:49:44 no has empathy. And the narcissista is territorial. It's we came
Starting point is 00:49:52 the other day, you and the image of Melania Trump, and where put the two hands over the screener.
Starting point is 00:49:57 Abirtas. That is the the comportment of a narcissist. I don't say, I'm a
Starting point is 00:50:03 person, but we know we're people, there's people, the bully of the office that
Starting point is 00:50:08 put his foot on your on your your is like what you do you
Starting point is 00:50:13 perteneene your your coche and put the foot the on the defense
Starting point is 00:50:17 is a territoriality and it's like your coce me perteneene like your
Starting point is 00:50:23 story my is you Well, we'll even when you You know, even when you're in a car
Starting point is 00:50:29 straight and you're another person, I'm moving my body to not and there's a and I'm getting and I'm thinking wow,
Starting point is 00:50:35 what's grosser if I would if I would have done it's we'd have been chocked. So, our time is doing
Starting point is 00:50:45 the Primal and the Nobel of the one's different, one more elaborated, the logic, the rational. If you
Starting point is 00:50:53 you're going to decide what you're going to study now, surely you're going to start the system two. What study are? Neurociences,
Starting point is 00:51:00 that me will serve more. The system one is rapid because the brain no has done time to analyze all with a lot of
Starting point is 00:51:09 the can't do you. You see, you know, you're going to say, hey, I'm going to ask,
Starting point is 00:51:14 what are your things are that's a question, this quater is a this quater is a problem
Starting point is 00:51:19 for me, me quito. So, so we do the juicions. And so, for so it's so important also the appearance. When
Starting point is 00:51:25 they say, oh, I, I, I don't judge. Sure, that you know, we're all the time. And just, just to be a person, what
Starting point is 00:51:33 you can't say, just be it? Her life? Uh, his health, uh, and he was, so,
Starting point is 00:51:40 he was, he was, now, when someone is a regal to go to go to see to
Starting point is 00:51:46 get to someone bestido, depend your interlocutor, depending the occasion. So this of the language
Starting point is 00:51:54 no verbal is... In the citet, moving to the thing, in the cell, in the
Starting point is 00:51:58 coffee-sito, in the theater, where you but you know, there's a way a way
Starting point is 00:52:03 correct for all of it's like a stre, a matter. But when someone comes out of
Starting point is 00:52:11 you know, I know, when you're you're saying when you're disarriglating to the site,
Starting point is 00:52:16 it's like like if like to get to get to it's like you they're
Starting point is 00:52:19 saying, oh, they're saying no me you know, I'm just there a deception, because of the
Starting point is 00:52:22 morned, you're all you're you're and you're and you're and you're and you
Starting point is 00:52:27 perfumas and you're and get the person disarringlated and you don't me important.
Starting point is 00:52:33 No me important. When I was a arregladita and all the interesting is to
Starting point is 00:52:38 maintain that's in the time. Maintener in the time. Fiatte my
Starting point is 00:52:43 my papa for for example for for Navita he put a
Starting point is 00:52:46 car and no there but the to maintain that attention in the love
Starting point is 00:52:53 also. It's beautiful. It's I mean you're saying, me importas or no you know
Starting point is 00:52:59 you're saying how it's it's a empathy in the vestuary. And I'm going to the image political but also.
Starting point is 00:53:08 For example the President Obama he walked to be a time, and there was a bitormo
Starting point is 00:53:15 impeccable you know Italian, I don't I'm trying. President Obama without saco,
Starting point is 00:53:22 arremangado, not going to not even a one of the but he's saying me important, the apparent
Starting point is 00:53:30 with the appearance you're going to connectas. Sure. And also with the appearance you're trying
Starting point is 00:53:35 to say something. I go, I do you do you do this I'm 25, 27 years
Starting point is 00:53:41 and I was starting to work in television national I bestia to be more adult
Starting point is 00:53:47 and more more credible. Now, that I have 55, me a tennis to not to be so for not ever
Starting point is 00:53:57 different of the thing, you know, you're trying, you're trying, you're trying, you're trying to , you're
Starting point is 00:54:03 trying to I'm, I'm sure, is that Mark Antonio, is a chavo, and me
Starting point is 00:54:08 and he says, my mom, chavo, you, how's name your son, how's your name,
Starting point is 00:54:12 his name, how's how she , let your mom, he says, how he says,
Starting point is 00:54:16 Guillermo Delo he said very very well. What does? He goes to do a publicity
Starting point is 00:54:20 is that I'm a guy, I'm going to get a vestido of jeans and of a commisette
Starting point is 00:54:25 and they're to know what's important is the appearance in your job and all they're
Starting point is 00:54:30 not so I'm not so I'm I'm going to get to the show,
Starting point is 00:54:34 but when I do you when I'm when I define a person if I do you
Starting point is 00:54:40 a long is a language if it is other language
Starting point is 00:54:45 if If I seeer the scotte is a language. If it's over, it's another. And all of that's you can use deliberately. And with the pair is very special.
Starting point is 00:54:55 For your presence. And, you know, see, that Amy Cody, that is a specialist in language no-verbal, that has a TED Talk that has more than 70,
Starting point is 00:55:03 millions of vistas. She has been the importance of the presence. But not the presence physical, so, that's
Starting point is 00:55:11 the way, the presence of being being present. And I I think that that is fundamental in the work, in the love.
Starting point is 00:55:21 The being present, the being the 100% with your eyes, with your attention, listening, without just
Starting point is 00:55:28 I think is the best you know that you can bring to a, a, a relation of a
Starting point is 00:55:34 your presence in that in that to be, being, to be to be to use
Starting point is 00:55:39 or to do the most possible. That is the me a regalo more beautiful.
Starting point is 00:55:45 Because, is the real real. With who you know, with someone that's a person who's
Starting point is 00:55:50 someone who person who's not verbal you're saying, you're saying, you're important for me. Susan Sarandon
Starting point is 00:55:57 subio an interview on Instagram and they they're asking, but for what you want to
Starting point is 00:56:00 you want to you're a person? And it's because we need a testigo of our
Starting point is 00:56:06 life. Wow. Me Encant what? What powerful? A testigo
Starting point is 00:56:11 someone that's a, but a testigo present. Sure, supponying
Starting point is 00:56:15 that's putting attention. Suppon. The bulte there's, the bulte there, and that's, I don't
Starting point is 00:56:23 remember who said, one of our students in one of our students in one of our courses in
Starting point is 00:56:27 in live in line, I said, no, there's a thing that to be to be a
Starting point is 00:56:33 only, or only. The soled accompanied is the poor. The soled the soul
Starting point is 00:56:38 is a whole is to do that. Yes, but the soled but the soled
Starting point is 00:56:41 accompanied disconectart that's also that's also many many people do you use like to
Starting point is 00:56:48 I'm going to ignore Ah, yeah the law yeah you know and I'm
Starting point is 00:56:53 saying with all my attitudes that no me importas and here I'm
Starting point is 00:56:58 now in the part of the family I'm really a phrase of Dalie
Starting point is 00:57:02 that that I'm that I'm to to get to get to
Starting point is 00:57:06 get to you I'm I'm say you I do
Starting point is 00:57:09 to that you emotion, you're going to to put attention, you know, learn the emotions in the people. That's what
Starting point is 00:57:18 is what's the in the language no-verbal. Exactly. No, it's not the thought. But it's
Starting point is 00:57:23 in the emotions. And when you know the emotion in the other, you can't better. Sure,
Starting point is 00:57:30 100 I agree with one of the discrepancies more that I have with the people,
Starting point is 00:57:36 the orators, now, I think that's used much, but there , there,
Starting point is 00:57:39 there, there classes of oratoria. And I remember with one of the conseils that were up
Starting point is 00:57:43 the way up to the head up the and I'm that's justupy is so big so much imagineate the
Starting point is 00:57:49 encuerated for a say. Yeah, and I'm also when I do a conference or
Starting point is 00:57:54 something, I don't like that the light is very dark, if it's in my
Starting point is 00:57:58 possibilities, because at a very sometimes is a event and produced and you have certain
Starting point is 00:58:02 language, so it's all but I'm a little light because I mean
Starting point is 00:58:06 me to look to the people. and is according the people that I'm doing and his
Starting point is 00:58:11 reactions and I'm moving in the scenario and I'm a four or five people and I'm going to
Starting point is 00:58:18 and I'm going the reactions and so I'm if I'm bad, if I'm doing, if it's going to be doing what I'm
Starting point is 00:58:24 so that that's the language. And for me that's when me it's when I'm to give a
Starting point is 00:58:32 question of a public and connecta with the but in the oratoria you don't be
Starting point is 00:58:38 to the people, be the head up to the heads. And I, with all respect,
Starting point is 00:58:41 I'm in a bit of a lot of no, there's not a kind of to know,
Starting point is 00:58:46 but I'm doing the idea of the emotion of Moebius, that is, is that how important
Starting point is 00:58:54 is the sonrisa and the that someone mustre asco. There's a mal that's called
Starting point is 00:58:59 the mal that's like the mal that's like a paralysis a child. And I I just I'm just
Starting point is 00:59:09 I'm thinking a person that no a person that no a joy, nor a or a and that's
Starting point is 00:59:18 to get you to the and you get to the and the car, he did to this
Starting point is 00:59:24 nine, I think 36 operations. Ah, it's a condition. It's a
Starting point is 00:59:29 condition mal of Moebius. And they did syurgias and when said the
Starting point is 00:59:34 father, what would you'd for the sonrisa of your
Starting point is 00:59:38 little and if you don't you know you would be you're in you're
Starting point is 00:59:43 you're for express if you're because we're not there's normal it's a then it's
Starting point is 00:59:48 a general so you when we we're when the part of when you know
Starting point is 00:59:54 when you know the other there I'm in the pandemic I'm
Starting point is 00:59:57 a chava to a child that's not having many
Starting point is 01:00:03 problems with the but I don't about of that
Starting point is 01:00:05 with that And we're seeing how it was the joy, how it was the
Starting point is 01:00:09 fear of the and it's a lot of and I'm he said, oh, is that, I'm
Starting point is 01:00:15 that I'm that I'm change the thing of the thing that we're I'm to understand
Starting point is 01:00:19 what has my spouse? What has? He says, I'm he's been nojado all the time
Starting point is 01:00:23 but after the expression facial, I saw the other day, and I
Starting point is 01:00:29 did, to you do you have to get so the communication. And it's
Starting point is 01:00:34 opened the communication. I was he was he was he had encountered the channel in
Starting point is 01:00:39 where he had to he could talk about all the fear that he had.
Starting point is 01:00:44 So, the emotions have two functions. One is communicative we want,
Starting point is 01:00:49 we're we're getting the person, he's interesting, he's interesting, he's feeling,
Starting point is 01:00:54 is, he's happy, is, the person, the communicative, the elemental. But the other is
Starting point is 01:00:59 adaptative. A nobody he doesn't to start Tristan. But the Tristessa produces in the
Starting point is 01:01:06 body that can be the energy and that you know how to confront a perid. The enojo
Starting point is 01:01:13 says, you know, but the enojoojo you do with that that force vital to
Starting point is 01:01:18 put a limit. The asco to avoid something that could contaminate. So,
Starting point is 01:01:24 the emotions are good. And there have to read them. And when those
Starting point is 01:01:29 you can connecter better. So the emotions is express not only with words they express on every mind,
Starting point is 01:01:36 with every contact, with the respiration with the respiration with the respiration. With the respiration you know, the psychologists
Starting point is 01:01:45 look at the pancita not for to see has not to be able to how you're you're going
Starting point is 01:01:52 how you're if the respirations is of abdomen or is the diaphragm the amor is expressing
Starting point is 01:01:58 putting attention Oh, the The love of the Mirate, the momas that are
Starting point is 01:02:04 who are in the people, let's see they're or they're to be in me. The
Starting point is 01:02:09 mirada of the when you they're that you when you see the that's the
Starting point is 01:02:13 first and you and it I'm going to get to you, but not you're
Starting point is 01:02:19 to you're going to you're the the moma? Sure. You're
Starting point is 01:02:24 you're that that miras of your mom? For supposed. It's
Starting point is 01:02:27 indescriptible the connection And when yeah had Alzheimer advanced and yeah no yeah no
Starting point is 01:02:33 there no no over there's more powerful because it was the only the music and the music and
Starting point is 01:02:38 the was the only that was really that the relationship of her the other yeah
Starting point is 01:02:44 it was it was there's but you didn't you know you know you're going
Starting point is 01:02:50 to do you know when you you're you know you're of that you're
Starting point is 01:02:56 to get to get to get to you're no no No, no, no, no, I don't do you want to do.
Starting point is 01:03:02 No, no, I don't know. But it's a book. It's not, because, because I'm also I remember I much of the eyes of my mom. When I went to New York for a course of ballet, we're 15, like, how was it, chorus line? And, nothing more, they were to do three becas.
Starting point is 01:03:20 And I'm so I'm akees. And the first is bolted, and me I remember of the brillo of those eyes. I remember that the triumph The true triumph was the mirro of my mom of felicity
Starting point is 01:03:35 not the triumphs but the moment of it, or it did you The connection The connection And the connection And it was
Starting point is 01:03:42 And the Quixote Ficate I said Tantit And so much They're They're
Starting point is 01:03:46 a Carta with a messenger And he says For favor When you
Starting point is 01:03:52 when you The Carta Dime if the Pelo Dime
Starting point is 01:03:56 if he's Algebra. Dime if they put in the chaps rojas.
Starting point is 01:04:00 Because only you're going to know the secretes of your love. And so
Starting point is 01:04:04 for many years. The language no verbal and the study of the language no verbal
Starting point is 01:04:09 not. But every now it's in Harvard and in all the universities
Starting point is 01:04:15 of the importance of the importance of the language. And something
Starting point is 01:04:20 of the more that I learned in my life is to to be
Starting point is 01:04:26 to be able to a other person in silence of the way to see, of the other person
Starting point is 01:04:31 to the eyes in silence. Cosa that at the first when I started
Starting point is 01:04:37 was ridiculous, incomodod, my body was said, because we did it because
Starting point is 01:04:43 to do it and do it during years like a time, I'm I'm
Starting point is 01:04:48 to year to look at the eyes to someone that I
Starting point is 01:04:52 didn't I, the connection that can't be with other human
Starting point is 01:04:56 that you can't know you know this is profound now. Now imagine with someone
Starting point is 01:05:01 to someone with your wife, with your wife, with your mother, you know, you know,
Starting point is 01:05:06 it's a lot of things. It's not another thing. Imagineate that the power no mir.
Starting point is 01:05:11 The power no mirro. They're they're that connection human. But,
Starting point is 01:05:15 but not they're not being that that's looking that people. See,
Starting point is 01:05:19 you're looking to look a mind. See, me to me.
Starting point is 01:05:23 See, yeah, but I don't you. Admire me. And the and the is that there
Starting point is 01:05:27 is that you see a type of leaders. There's to ask us for you. A you not you
Starting point is 01:05:31 would be a person that's not to be. No, that me too. I think.
Starting point is 01:05:36 I think the majority of the people that's the person not we're not we don't
Starting point is 01:05:42 we're not us see, we'd inspire you to follow and vote for that person I think.
Starting point is 01:05:48 And I know, and me do that the people see the I don't I don't
Starting point is 01:05:51 I'm I don't Voltean to see? And what will what will that will that will be
Starting point is 01:05:56 that? In the people, in the politics, what are? Manipulation? Yes, but...
Starting point is 01:06:04 Well, Well, Hitler, how much people? Or what? Or what what?
Starting point is 01:06:08 It's not to you to see to someone that you see a see a look to?
Starting point is 01:06:13 It's a admiration. Admiration equivocated? There's a director of orchestra that's
Starting point is 01:06:19 called Benjamin Sandler. And he is director of orchestra and he entered in a crisis to his
Starting point is 01:06:26 45 years he was not he said I'm a so you're I'm a I'm going to the postages
Starting point is 01:06:34 of the discos so and but I do not emit any one only a only a single
Starting point is 01:06:41 he's a total he kept in the night all the night and thinking until he came
Starting point is 01:06:45 he came to he came to the house to the position to Coucharita because
Starting point is 01:06:50 if if she they were and he he said, you know, what happened?
Starting point is 01:06:54 What happened? The way how I direct the orchestra, depending that they bring the
Starting point is 01:07:02 eyes to the music. If I do it, the music not will the magic of when
Starting point is 01:07:10 I'm a question. So, it's important what you transmit, is all what you
Starting point is 01:07:15 can transmit with the movements, with the the That is a great example, a director of orchestra.
Starting point is 01:07:25 Because more than the moment in that when they're in the violins or the cello, the percussion, and it's, more than to do the moment,
Starting point is 01:07:34 the cues, you know, the emotion, and what that is the director is transmitting, and it's a even to be in-
Starting point is 01:07:40 back to the public that's... And he has to happen to before, that the pianist started to a piece,
Starting point is 01:07:48 and the pianist not had the not the notes of that. And then, I don't I'm not I'm trying.
Starting point is 01:07:55 He says, you know, you know, you know, you're going to do you're going. It's the leader,
Starting point is 01:07:59 clear. The leader. Oh, yeah, only for doing this, when we're saying those
Starting point is 01:08:03 are the Americanes blackos. Because the Staudinenses are very certain. The Statenes
Starting point is 01:08:12 Latinos are very certain and the Afro-American those are super so super so much
Starting point is 01:08:18 because it's very interesting to see within the same country
Starting point is 01:08:22 to see circles completely different in their language in the form in the form
Starting point is 01:08:28 in the way in they're in the black caucasical. And in general,
Starting point is 01:08:35 because there are others that are very very, there are there
Starting point is 01:08:38 people there that evade to the other people that
Starting point is 01:08:42 disconnected that and they like that they're in circles
Starting point is 01:08:44 latinos or Afro in things things interesting to
Starting point is 01:08:49 observe Barbara to ask you to have asked that you want to what we're or not you do it's
Starting point is 01:08:54 or not it's or not, or how to learn in your your pair of if the things are
Starting point is 01:08:58 bad, some advice that you give us give us. Nothing more, that's
Starting point is 01:09:01 they're in their presence, in being presentes and that they're, and they
Starting point is 01:09:08 they're not, because a sometimes they're saying, is that I'm much and you say,
Starting point is 01:09:11 there's that there is that there's that no. Yeah. Because you the posture,
Starting point is 01:09:21 things that you're that's captable that's you're not the you're, I'm sure, the time, you're not, you're trying,
Starting point is 01:09:50 There you, Towers, of a repent. Of a Repend. And your books? And the two
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