El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 380.- Los SECRETOS del CEREBRO en el AMOR, ATRACCIÓN y DESEO - Dr. Eduardo Calixto

Episode Date: June 16, 2025

¿Y si no puedes soltar a tu ex no porque era “el amor de tu vida”… sino porque tu cerebro quedó enganchado como si fuera una adicción?En este episodio, el Dr. Eduardo Calixto, neurocientífico, explica cómo tu mente procesa el amor, el apego y las rupturas… y por qué a veces es más tu sistema de recompensa que tu corazón el que no quiere soltar.Y si quieres entenderte mejor, romper ciclos y conectar con lo que sí te impulsa, te invito a mi Masterclass gratuita: Descubre tu potencial y alcanza tus sueños.👇🏻Inscríbete aquí: https://marcoantonioregil.com/potencial-pod/ *Importante: Nuestros invitados son expertos en sus temas y reflejan su conocimiento y su punto de vista, siendo conscientes de que cada una de las opiniones es totalmente personal. La información, datos, comentarios, estadísticas que se presenten en el Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil, son de exclusiva responsabilidad de quienes las emiten y no representan, necesariamente, el pensamiento de Marco Antonio Regil o de la producción del podcast.

In where the love? The love, the love, the love is in a place of the brain? No, 89% of the relations when the termina the woman is irreversible the process. Literally, if I can't be addict to love.

How long do you do? This is of three to four years. Because the dopamine mutas. A lot of a woman a question more work the perid of a

pariah than a woman. The more testosterone to connections neuronal. What? It costs more to the woman to understand the

Cerebro or the form of a person to a woman. No, there's a region cerebral that about about a monogamia. An man

who has the dilemma, I don't understand the women. In the time you can enabor

seven times. If you do you do you know, what you do you feel is the expectation

of that I have to have to you can't have to a person and not have a

person and that person and that doesn't that means that you want to you want

because you do you is a production of RGiel Entertainment and all

all of his rights are reserved 780. Oh, yeah, the theme will be so

because what are saying, the movies, the theater, the cinema, the television, the

songs romantics. The love is in the heart, but it is it in the heart. I'm sorry

to romper the car but we have to our super expert with the sense

that came to say us to say the love and the women we feel

or we've the love, what is what is the thing that's you're going to you're in

your life, and they're going to make you're to get to we're going. We're not, we're

not the thing, it's that the love is in the world, and not in the

great to the greatestim, Edward, Calisto. Here's a doctor in neurosciences

for the UNAM, scientific, actor, professor, who has dedicated to his life to study the cerebral with lupa

and a promoter of orgasms as a tool. Physiological and necessary and marvellous. What does

the neurociency? The love is a necessity, is an addiction, is a sentiment, the love is in the heart or the

love is in the brain. We're at we're going to the first because are questions complicated.

The heart has never neuronas, but no more than 30,000 neurons. And it's part of the termination

nervosal of the nerve vaguely the communication that has and the regulation that has, the system nervos is sympathetic and parasympathic and specifically for active to. If we see a person that we we're going to act, we're going to

we're just going to be the time, we're having a when we're a shust, when we're we're having conditions, the heart needs to those neurons. So imagine to make a person where we're we're in trying to

we're in 1,000, 1,000, 200 million neurons. With 30,000, Don Corrason, the Cerebril real the heart and it's a turnurita, no?

No, it can't generate pensions. And then, then you say, well, you need to more neurons,

Don't you have those neurons. And I'm very careful because there more of 24 millions of

neurons. In a part just about of the intestino, imagineate, nothing more. The intestine

has more than the heart. So, that's, that the that's a that's a

person, that's a real. And there's a function, there's a, say, there's a, let, because when someone us say, yeah, no, I'm here, it's a key in the region

of the cerebral that's called inus, and automatically it's a process a door in the pecho. And there's the theory cardiocentric of that the amor is in the core.

But not is, they're not, they're not, the next time is that you say, is that I'm with all my car, no,

I'm, I'm recuards with the hippocampo and I'm doing to the amygdala the cerebral. But, oh, of there

that you say, that is the the heart, well, no. So, that I'm in my

carousel my heart. So, I'm in the heart respond. In the Cerebrose and in the microbiota.

In the part of the microbiota, fiatte, and it's a very interesting. In part, yes, it's a

romantic to say, my intestine is so I get in the collar, no. Imagine you. There's

it would be terrible because in that moment, I think they're not they're not they're

not they're in a person in a person in a marauda in a 12 areas different

of the Cerebrose? Enemorrhoves, they're a little more, are to 29 areas cerebral. And just when we're almost close to the orgasm,

are 32. Difficilment we're going to an activation, like this, in series and in parallel, so they're

to activate. Areas of activations specificas for register, memorization, emosion, and the

characteristic general is that we're the part more intelligent of the Cerebron. So,

the 29 to when we're enamorated. When you say, pardon me, I get tired, is that I don't I don't believe that's the other

person that you're in a woman who is you're going to you're going to I'm going to love. Enamorated.

Yeah, when four years, clear, then you're to get your stupid, right, at the hour that

you want to and thence one says are the same people, the same time,

time different what happened, what happened, yeah regress the corte prefrontal.

When we're without corteza profrontal, we've been wonderful, no we've no we're we're not

we're not doing the things, we're we're doing the different and then we're still we're doing this is a

particularity that has the enumoramination and when you're all more beautiful not only to the person

all is more it's possible and you have a capacity more more important to get involved

with much but it's a part of the brain the region more intelligent

of our Cerebell, the objectivity, the limits, the projection, our life biographical, all what we've done is the corestasy prefrontal. There is the way that you say, no, do you know, but he says in other regions,

but I like it, but no, it's to do. So, the corteza prefrontal, well connected, yeah with elements, and it's very important

when someone we're and now we're ex, no, has to say, ex, but experiences. experience. Because it's a

and then that's a regular to the corteza prefrontal. What is the problem? That when

we're inamorated major liberation of dopamine and here the point. The dopamine has five types of receptors.

Yeah, well, the doctor. D1, of two, of three, D. But the D1,

and D. D.1 and C they're they're not they're not capacity to activate a group of neurons

but inhibitor other. Okay. So, the corteza prefrontal has receptors

of two. For that the more dopamine diminue the activity of the neuronas.

In change, all the process of the process of doing, to make

things, are the are the are the so that we're doing that we

know, we're going to the limits. This is what explains

because someone inamor that is a process totally totally

illogical you can still doing it. And then and still more, I go and I know,

I'm going to let me talk to talk about to you. That's doing what you're doing, it's more

you and you do you know, and I'm inamorado, I'm sorry. Now, now it's different. The

love. I'm I'm inamorated. This is the particular idea. When this starts

to disminue and here there's there's there's a question because they don't do

the endomomom this is of three to four years. Because

the dopamine neutrons. Imagine just in this process. No, you can't maintain it so,

you know, you know, you know, you know, all you know, all the time all right, so,

how you're, well, be a duntary. The, so the, love you atonted, the amor does it

for a per se, no, and then so is a is a, is a literal, it's a,

It's a limit that put the neurobiology in the sense strict of the activity of the cerebrough to say, oh, yeah, no can't

be able to be so you're to continue in this you're going to get a dopamine for that you connectes, think just in

this perspective because if no, card enamelamintos us matter in neuronas. This is the explanation

because the publicities are shorted for natural because we can't not want to imagine

you can't you just say I the same Chistee, four, five, six,

seven, eight times, you know, you're saying, the same the same but it's good.

Yeah. After the the second yeah, it's too that's too. And then where does it

the love? So, the love in a place, no, that's a question. And this is

a article of February, the 2012 of 2025, I, recently, recently, recently,

I've in where it doesn't, there's no, there's a zone specific of

there, there's but the way how they can't, the emotion, the projection, the connection, the limit, the process of

of the pain, all of the whole, I know that's going to say, how, of the pain, every that we're going to say, because I don't know if, you know, the people that are in the podcast, they're saying? Yes, sure. Yeah, well, when they're,

in that moment, in that exact, in that moment, in that moment, so, it's a, it's the single and the insula. The what? The single and the insula. The singul.

And the insular. Imagine it. It's like a Albuhr. But no. There's a structure that's a general in the

Ciro of the part of the front and does a turn of the single. The end of the finger of the back and then.

To the way. That's the zone are the neurons of interpretation of the life and at the

same time of relives of many of the processes logics congruents and objectives with those

we're we're doing no, look, two more two, and you know,

wait, you're saying, no, you're saying a trotteria. Two more two more than four. No, and the question

to, the fact, two, two, and two, and all, so, yeah,

in a process to know what we have to do that information, the single is the one,

no, no, a bit, me are, they're doing a drama. The single is the

is the that he is the person when a person I think that I feel

when I'm when I don't, there's that structure of neurons are the that also

also have the neurons speculares or neurons spejo. Okay. So when someone I'm smile and I say

who is this no say, I'm sorry no, it's the single. So there can't the single.

These areas cerebral is when we're saying they're and they're something are something are the

neurons spejo for so the most of the first are the those that

are the those can't And then you're basing other labos, but you remember you

a person and then to give us and then you're going to be no, no, be that person. That's in that

single. At the same time that you do you generate oxytocin and here Iteris

this point. This is what he does what does, that we give us to the

people that more we we're more, that you bring usitocin, but that's When you me Preguntary,

how it's it. And then this process and lastimusame I'm to say,

we're we're doing a person for that when we're to do the insula and the singular.

And that's very interesting to say, is that I'm a question. My love,

for what is it? My love so it does it. So, then in that you

don't know, you know, that the people that most have given, in the that's the

most has been that's the and the insula. And it's something quite this article that I mentioned

in the 2025 in the 2025 totally beautiful and wonderful, does something, no there's a whole

structure but like the way that's that's the that's a feeling very but when not it's

you make a very bad. And in that context we're that's when we're nine to

when we're when we transcendence to the time we talk about we are approximately

to 12 to 15, you know you need to all the brain to activate if only only some it's more

efficient and the structureation neurochimic is still more more tranquil. For that we have to

change certain sequels because to do the same the same the same the same

and the moment, is an experience necessary and marvell in our experience

in the world to come to get to this planet to not,

no, no no, no, no no, no, no, no, And I want to say to one of the stigmas

very important is that I mark this article. I'm here you know that you're seeing this podcast. He's said, the love no is necessary that's a lot of two persons. No, to know.

I mean me, I'm cruised. I said, no, no, no, no. This no, no, no, no. This is not true. And he says, no, you can't love a person and not have retroalimentation

of that person. That's not. That's not means that love because you want to that person. So when I see this article I'm going to

revisit, has all the analysis of the neurochemics of the neurochemics, of the neuroanatomia, but at the same time, it depends

also also depending much of the construction that we're doing the one of us, the first is the

love not is diadico. It's it's a wonderful that's it's a true.

But under this circumstance we have we have we're we're to plantial

that's a great That's interesting because that is the philosophy of the corienses in the Taoism, the Hinduism, in the Buddhism, in the Buddhism you're saying justly this, since many years.

For living the love, no you have to be corresponded, this is an idea very limiting. If you do amas, ama and enjoy amando, what does it

is the expectation of that me has to be to love to do that. And it's then when you get your insula,

your impocampo, your amygdala, is when you say, then the The love is, is an emotion? Yes, but it's also a sentiment. And it's more a sentiment.

The emotion is transitory. The sentiment is constructed with more areas of cerebrals. Sure, sure. Very interesting. So, love, attraction, desire, the same of all of that, so, live in the cerebrough. Not in the heart.

And if at a casso, in the intestines. And, well, and a little bit more above of a second in when you

when you're to say what you do you know, because I know that I

know that not I'm going to a situation in where it's not a problem, but

also there also. Sure. For the way. The love is more a

process chemical that's that as a consequence of the

consequences so of the experiences that are generating

sensations placenteras and that this can get to get to get a addictive. I'm there you know,

me adivinates the question. Literally literally, I can't be addicted to to the love.

Yes. To the the experiences. And there are chemicals. Sure. And here here comes

a point that also I want to plan to my dear Marko my dear my dear

my friends, is in the one says, is that is that

is that is that is that is that when it explication biological is when one

is when one it's a real. Because why, doctor? Because

not it's monogam. No, no, I'm I'm got to my

partner, you know, the brain, the brain to do you to do a more

to do you. That's a decision and gerarchize the caro to be to say, no,

well, the Cerebrough is monogam for the experience biological. No,

there no no region cerebral that about monogamia. Ningona.

It's the apprenticeship that we have to but that you say, no, is that if we see it's the real real

this, we're a manmifero. It would be more easy if the brain a monogical.

It would be more easy. Like, like you. Like, you know, like, other animals,

is so, other animals is so, and the structureation of the facility and the maintenance

of the food and the care social. A we're not we

talk this for experience social, to make a monogamu but for gainance because we

say we're not, because this is the covevee and it is the case it's very difficult

and we're very we're we're we're this terrain is my and eventually this process

so he's got to make that's that were controlling more more

the event but that you say Dr. Calisto is that it should

be more more biological the monogamia, no. We have conditions to defend from the point of view of our monogamia,

that depends much of an hormone, that is parent of the oxytocinia, which is the name is supresina, which is the that I make to feel selos.

And so, I'm going, I'm going with my partner and you let's go, and I say, I'll see, what's going to

see what's going. What's going? So, is my friend, is, oh, no, but it's is a guy and it's

and it's famous, and you, and I'll, no, No, not do that. And then I do,

but why me do you know, but why we're doing this? What's our or is our? Uh-huh.

So, because if I do you, it's your husband, this is your and where he's,

how? In where we basing that's a process biologic? Uh-huh. It's a

hormone that's called vasopresina. It's, they're in some ratitas that's called

Conejos of the parterer, uh, that are and they're they're

and those protect them to their cras. But they're going to get to

another nid. But are what more more so much is the lot of

the loty in the human this is the chromosome that is

the R.S. 3,3, 4,2. This gene specific libera

more vasopresina. And this makes that many men are more so

for their naturalness of what you like you that

you do it that they are more more more

So, more celos, more promiscuous. And of relations superficial. So, the men, celos are more promiscuous and there's a

relationship. There's a real a real life. When it's a prenuptial. So imagineate, now that you say,

you're going to get to say, yeah, this is the result. Salio, R.C. 3,

this is 4 positive. Celoso, promiscco. I so I'm so I'm going to get it. But the other

thing is the person that's a person that's a no determina conduct, that's you have to recognize and not to be

so determinist in science because then what are the people are you, you know, and it's what you have to be saying, no, I'm

I'm talking to the 74% of the thing that that's and that's and that's and that's

publiced in revista so I, what I do is, what I do is the most frequent,

not it's not say that is the thing that's that we're that we're that's that's

that's there's there's there's neuronal. Wow. Super interesting. Yes. I'm doing the exam. Before, this is not just

for the men. To the women, not, because they're in the chromosome Y of us the barons. They're in the chromosome Y. So, to them not

we can't mapia to this. To us, but also. But also, there are many women, so, but

she doesn't here. Here the point is that no's the point is that not the factor biologic that we have the

person, so that the woman not can't be detected and to I mean, I go, the tendency

to that point. And if still you want to a woman, you want to see, you know,

in this point? So, then you have to maybe need to maybe the testosterone.

The more testosterone, yeah, yeah, but the more testosterone to be less

connections neuronal. What? So, as much machete, more bruto?

When it when you in the gymnasio, my coach is by yeah.

And, and you know, and then you know, all and all they're and almost like so, no. In this moment they're saying,

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on the podcast. The testosterone disconnects neuronal. But the connection of neurons is more intelligent.

Exactly. So, if it's real real. Yes, testosterone, more brutal. And this

explains, well, no, I said I. But this explains because the men

we're not five or six years more, we're in connect our corteza prefrontal when they

are to the 21, 22 years You know, and you know, my my mom, is that no

I've connected the men and the is that I'm my mom is that I'm it's the thing,

we're going to go to the house of Marko and so yeah we're to runnors to do this

to do you my mom you're twenty eight years tomorrow is our anniversary

that's you're going to go to your kids quit to the clatter

to get the that let's no no no it's

no it's all this process when when you you see orders, I go, pardon,

of the people, thinking that what they're doing they're in the color of their people,

those levels of testosterone, disminuiting this connectivity neuronal. That's that's why that they,

they're they, those others, those men, we're, we're not we understanders,

we don't we're just a time, even the zones to talk, I mean, you,

you're, you, those, then, we're, we're, there men's that

they're the but in terms general we're more monosyllabos and the more testosterone how it'stou well?

But tell me what's what you, you know, and what so? Yeah, too.

Yeah, he said, yeah, and then you're asking to say to my love,

he said, no, it was good he'd be done it when you when we're when we're

when we and then we and then a little the police and then we asked for the

in the elevator, three pieces. My mom, I just I just asked you I'm going to how you that's a context of more connectivity

those estrogenos don't make a neurogenital and for that's a woman maddued more rapid. In the process

of enamoramination she looks a certain type of interaction but there's a moment in where she

says she she's where she's where she does she I'm trying to say I think that

this no me convien or a woman can can predecy more easily for where

we're going to exactly. The the man is more basic. For that the person the person

to get more to the brain to understand a woman. And a woman no, he says, ah,

yeah, I know. I have to do it with much good. No, do you know, do you know.

No, then you do that. No, then you're not. No, no, no, no. Well,

but look at , put in the comments there. When a woman is in

a step estrogenica elevated, she is the middle of the cycle and is the

starting to increase those estrogens more. She liberate the stroh

no doesn't allow a major liberation of the thing so she

she's she he's the man, he's Raoul let's we're

all we all we we're we're so so that's so

that's that that that that's that that's she's

she's she's she's she's the put the she's the

he said, Raoul, what isque? You're ridiculous with that playier. And Raul, he said, but the last,

the week about the time of the best of espantoso. One is thinking, how is

possible that being the same person, no, there's then to understand.

And these studies of the University of Harvard published in the 80s

indicate clearly that the woman with more extragen liberate more

dopamine and is the alcohol, 100 militutes of alcohol promenadeo incrementa this liberation

independently of the cycle. For that a thing pharmacological can induce an process hormonal

biochemical, in where a woman can start to see what is, no, wait a you know,

you know, you've got a lot of alcohol and liberate and if also had you been in the

phase of volation in all respect in that the moment, the the man is

the man is the man most wonderful of the universe So,

the cycle hormonal, also is the attraction that they're seeing. The women experimented more of orgasms

in this time. He has all the possible, even in other stages when he gets

the time when the opulation is when she has when she experimented more exitation

and more orgasms, for example. And the other part essential is that the the cerebr of

their can o' an protein that we can't allow a

complex major of this compatibility. when this protein is different to the she, she's a certain by the individual. Yeah,

you know, in that moment the individual can say, hey, yeah, no, but no me say to God, give you a cellophon, no?

And there are people, but give me the opportunity, look, see, bette, yeah, go to the other, no? Oh, yeah,

there's a, raoul, this, from the three of the time, you're all the time, you're going, and it's all over

the poorstito, it's a year, and it's, and one says, what's what? Because of these people

are the people are and others it's a completable they're the they're the they're the

for so in an enamoramoramination of those intense and then you'll talk how is possible that this type

this with this hermose so intelligent so so beautiful and that's

the complex that the complex is the complexe is the they're

they're that's the recasas that that's the Cerebro that

says, I'm this is the explanation because women are the people are the women of

being women, you're not my manna, you're my manna, you're my supermana.

Because, because it I want to my family and they're very well a complex to the

compatibility is a different. That when they're they're no, well you're

you presentas your partner to my partner and so let's let's

let's me call mal the woman. but why not even

you know, I'm quite and then you keep up but what's this, this is the process,

even is, at the first years, they're saying, after here there's no, I'm more,

I'm so, I'm not, no, no, independently, and this allor, is the

light of the perfume, no, is like in this complex, in this compelelial,

the traducion, they're they're using biologically genetet, genes distinct, and they're they're

they're not to humans, that will be to the first infection and are more

to be more to be more to be the planet. The woman, as you have done it's

much more more complex. From the point of view of it and it's a neurobiological and she

and she and she and she even, even this is a marker distinct of because she

when she when she decides to be with a more more intelligent one of

one's he said, it's that he said, he said me he abandoned no, pardon,

she eligio she was with a better. And she went with a more completable. And in the other you, well,

you, you, did not just, you know, olid. And this is a marker more.

So, that the form in that we know we do that what we know we,

in the brain, and in our body, is completely different in a man

in a woman? In some different? In some the motivation, is different. For that, imagine

just, we have a years of evolution. We're a species that connect neurons and never we're

to connect neurons of the corteas prefrontal. We're not a experience marvellousa. We're really that we're

super-intelligence because we have to get the logic to congruence and the other way we don't

interactionary you. You imagine that I want that I want so, and until that you get

and the day that you you're going to be a defecto. When you you're not the fact you

do you're the form of the mother of that's reproduce for For favor.

For favor. And we get to be it. And we'll talk about it. And then we'll, after the enumoramontment, if they're going to function. And really they're

going to be able to the world of the world. The thing of being to get us with someone for the life, that we've got to

that's the gen is egoist. The gen. The gen. The gen. I want to keep us the intelligence,

we're not we're the species that we're wow, how interesting. About of

intelligence Here are a pair of studies interesting. This says Fisher H. Aaron and Brown. Romantic Love, Amor Romantic. Study about the mechanism neurological published in the Journal

of a Comparative Neurology. The Diary of Comparations Neurologic. When a woman see the image of her pair is active with more intensity to the regions cerebral associated to the vincul and the memory

emotional. In the women, the major activation not occur in the areas related with the sexual. So, so, is the

fact that's, Alan Fisher, is an article yeah knowidissimo. Conocidism. And that we can't

photographia to the cerebral in time real. An anecdote very interesting is that one one of us, it's that when

we're not we're not, we're not, we're not, we're doing 20, 36, so, he's nocue

me that. You know, you can't how, how many neuronal are, no,

no, no, I'm, no, no, so when it's when it

so I'm a decomodod so, and when we were in the photo of your and we got

the photo of the bookshel. Uh, to him, in those times, in those

times. Yes, see, we've seen, we've so, oh, no,

I'm saying, oh, no, I'm a mother, he'd be a more of the stuff,

the, one, two, three, four, ten. this without determinism

it is that the cerebe is more but in terms of concretes those

men are most basic we're more we're to say it is your a process biological

of reproduction and this is it's going to change with the time if no there

modifications we we're we're we're going to the monotonia and that's

one of the one one neuron, to be the monoton. Giral the same process

always of the same magnitude, the neurona after the time of the efficiency will be diminue and say, but then

we'll be we're to have sex oral. How? If we never we're talking and we're talking about when you're

when you're you're in this activity of initial, no, well, are three to four

the day. Activity sexual. And then three to four at four at the month, not three to four

all year. And then you're going to get thinking, how is possible if the Cerebrose you're doing the same dopamine? It's a case. And in this context, it's part of the

entenement. And the liberation of dopamine in the same. It's the same the enabomeration to, I'm-gusts and the mariposites in the stomach that we say,

to the love profound, the love that's that that's the great Nila Chalabiglio about all the time the

love no appears, you know, you know, you know, the brain, the brain, you know,

the brain, so, the process of apassonement of the enamorament, is a

liberation, and is very egoist in the process of liberation and of pleasure. There are

people who one, you know, well, what a woman or that man,

no, depending on that they're not I, you, but there people that,

but there people that, no, no, no, no, no, neurochymica, no

we'll we'll do the of the two of the people, we're going to put them to

a number two, which is this studio that is the Institute Canaloneska in Stockholm, Soce.

That's we can't love seven times in a medium? In promontio? Is it is really

that only we can't we can't see? No. No. In it's a

middle. In promos there are there are people. There are who are there are

four. In And the is the is that we're not we're not we're not we're in

we're not we're in 19, but well, so the point is we're not so the point is, we're

but here this circumstance when one when one does the when one and says no,

and this we can't do we're an exercise in the clandestinidad of your

so so you you can you can't you can you can't you put a

example no and is that the three besable and the orgasms of

the two no, no the two is apart no, the five no, well,

that was of chocolate and he went to then it then we thinking, a bit

wait, but all those those those those those those

relations mantuvian historically and we think we we thought

we're we when when one when one plant this

every of us we're going to do that a good degree of a person or less

or we're we're saying we're saying when there is when you say you're you're you know

how to my mom you're that's that story they're in the super

when we we did we're we're doing yeah is that how you how you're

how you you're five years after after after yeah

and she she said no is that this man was that my life.

And this was the woman that we've we've done. And for one or other things separated.

And that condition we have to recognize that not everyone not all they're in the

same quantity of dopamine. And to confront this, it's clearly that when we're saying, we say,

is that I want to you'd be a point. Here, we have to recognize

something that the science he's a part of and that is the support

and the the sense of that we want to we're going to we're going to when most dopamine liberate them.

When I took a photographia in the moment it's to remember me of the moment and then to get back.

But it's a thing of the past. But I'm I'm doing, I'm so so you're so very

and then they're in the cellular and the ex. The ex. Well, that's

all we're to do this. And all we don't know never to never you never to be a

never to say to So, it's because the dopamine that you get you know,

it's so that you put you have to you know, it's that you're really,

I'm really a lot of you know, I'm know, I'm a bit of this me a

because I need more dopamine. You know, I'm sure. No, no, 12 would be a

love. No, when you get to 29, 32, no, I want to

get to get to get to the 32. That's that is the enamoramoram

that. The am so. When we are There are many areas. And when we're in love,

it's 12, 16, but it's 30-tenths. So, now it's very, it's there's a key the journal of

neuropsychology in an article that's that the maromoramination that's the same zones

cerebral than the that cocaine. In part, and it's process of the addiction. But,

let's a let's be to be able to do it mean it's not mean the same magnitude from the

point of the point of the point of the same zones. There's some areas there

there the other that's that's that's that's that's that's

that's the that's when you get a goal of the selection is to see a

your part of the last little is the food that's the bono after the

end of the end of that that's those the but but when

you see that you see that let's let's let's let's let's

let's let's this studio and the public was style in the

2001 let me to I don't know. Is it the valueations of how dopamine

we're doing in different situations. Consten, not we don't to say, to give

recommendations, but here the point is very concrete. When we come we like a example,

a pizza of these is the pizza the most the most compo. You know,

you're you're to be to be about a 50% of dopamine,

the level that you try you but that will do not more to

40 minutes the diminution. You, at the hour that you said, you were to eat pizza, it's all the good, but you

just are more quite. When you're you're just ecstated, you know, the moment in that you're

delicious, no? Now, we're, pass us, a cigar of marijuana is around of 175% more than the

pizza. More than the pizza. And it has a more of two hours. Yeah.

100,000 of alcohol, that's it's a hundred percent. 100,000. because then the inhibition

gavaephica and then it's, it's that it's that my my own the muscles

of the language yeah, then it's but it's a but a but a little bit of a becky

a wheyla and they're and they're and they're yeah, he's very two hundred percent

but but there you go a a cigar that's end in

225 percent wow so when when you compare you for that

to someone who fuma marijuana with respect to the market that's the that's the marijuana not a dopamine and not even

not addictive. No, not is tan addictive but they're notating neuronas because

the window of time is more prolonged. We're more there's more there's a there's a

there's a there's actually there's a pizza, the tequila and the cigarette no,

well yeah that that's but now see it's a sumative but now see

nothing more, the process You're not you're not you're doing, no, in the moment and at this

point of the quantity that's the kind of the amount of the 600 and 900 and 900%

So, the cocoa is that's an addictive to know well and for so

I'm this this is this no, this is not no no, so they're

like 20 pizzas so that what's what you know I'm I'm

desensivis I'm I'm practically, all what you put you in front, for this,

I want this. And to the first exposition yeah generate the addiction. If you generate a process that's

that's the secretories of dopamine, that's going to say, I want to try this. And so is the only

that is, cocaine, and then they're also they're metencephalinas. Okay. And so they're in

1,200%. When one you see in summa of this, for that, for so a condition

via semehanes but quantitatively different. Here, here is there an analysis. And when one says,

doctor, then the carbohydrates, generate an addiction. Yes, but your liberation of dopamine not is so large,

not as far, not far as as far as, and then the time. And then the thing, the love,

no, no, the more, no, no, no, no, it's 100, 120%. The orgasm?

The orgasm, the orgasm, the, the, so, the, like, the,

the, the, drugs, the, Like, it's, for this, oh, the problem.

No, you know, yeah, it's a, yeah, no, yeah, no,

yeah, yeah, no, yeah, no, yeah, it's about the part

intelligent of the cerebral. For that's, and you start to get to, neurons. Yeah,

me understand, it's an addiction, it's a level of the level of the neuron that

in a proportion semehant. Okay, so, for it. You know, but you

it's, but you're getting this analogy. There may For example, you say, no,

I don't do I do do that's, I don't do you, I don't do that's, no, I'm moneo. Me moneo.

The muna. The muna. The cemento. The garras. So, they put in here, she met,

pass by the lamin acrobosa of the edmoides, and gets directly to the coltese to get to blotas and liberate dopamine.

So, so they're generating liberation of dopamine expenses Mourte neuronal direct.

The death of the new neuronal generates dopamine. Yes, and the

dopamine muttoning so it's a caro. It's a caro. For that reason.

We have to say, for that that's because not you not would be not.

You can't you know, you can't you can't. You know, because you don't because they're

in the story of they were they're that they're that's that's that's chisof

that they liberated a lot of dopamine and the domestic opamina and the amount and the brain it's not done with a

matter of interactive and reading us but these studies and done us make sure the natural neurobiolugic

of these relations and that is necessary to understand that is going to change yeah no is a

life your body your home the maximum potential Lunes to

Friday, 10 of the time of the center in the channel of YouTube of the group

for you. Because a a man a question a cost more the a part of

a person not a not not they not they're not to do

but the fallacy of someone because the brain the person

the person in part that the yeah that the what's that the

first time that I think the first time that I'm of these studies, in where,

first the man has more the migra the brain to the middle of the mother. This is clearly that the

process of emotional for moments is very strong. And we're those other the men, we're,

we're doing the process of communication of the gangles basal is much more more intense.

We're more more more than the things. So, the process of the

emotion with the respect to that we we're doing the When the

testosterone still are elevated well, still we're still it's to make

this process connective. For that's a man can't be a time in recuperation

in the process of therapy and the process of the process. I'm saying

determinists, I'm, you're, I'm, you're, I'm, you're, and I'm, you're, and I'm, and, you're, and, you're, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, and, you, but I can't think that you're with another person. That is a

moral moral very great for the woman. The second is the period of a person

yeah in a form definitive and in a way irreversible

it. It can adapt to contraste with the woman. The woman

can say that's actually about I'm when I commented this

I said this this explains this 89% of the

relationships when the women is irreversible the process

for more that he maria chis for more that he gives the give the gals he says

yeah no you know you know in the men only that only that

are approximately the 10% he he can he can go back to

again and we don't go to do you not I'm to do you

so the fact of the 80% so are so

are so some are so you don't you

can be you but they've separated of the verb, I like to be able, I'm going to

get her. And she didn't, but she's me quix. In the other she said,

no, this man, yeah, no, this is one of the aspects of the process of the process

of how he, to go to a woman. And this is very interesting. When

a man decided, not, to be someone, is a process more for the

event of the event of but they are more, they make, make, so,

not only that that that transcends, in this and in the concept of psychological of the conceptualization of the

of the pair that is more complete in the women. And that's for testosterone and estrogens? Or because we're cabledos completely different? That is one. Anatomia, rapidism. They're the most grand the hippocampo.

The site of memory and apprenticeship is 30% more grand in them. They detects rapidly for where the thing is more of details, and of processes that one is the way of you guys how you can't do that?

If you had to try it the same stupid corbata when you know? For example, at level atentive for perception attentive is to

to be 15 to 21 minutes the women in that in that process very ample we're in

those barons if she she has the voice aguda us can't the voice she's

the voice is very aguda so when you're you know you you have

the voice aguda for please not you do not he

do let you let's let's try to this this was this was

this was so Because in the moment So, no, questionle what happened in minute 25.

So, then what we we're doing? Of what? No, well, of that's, no,

because for that's, in that the first minutes, the third factor. They have major

communication, the Cerebro feminine, has the brain, the mespe of the right,

the body in the body was 25% more greater. They've had a more communication

of the area of Guarnique of Broca, see, and the as that's that the ass that

is the more connected in the brain of the brain is the left of the women's right but that's

but that history but that's they do a connectivity, because they they're all about 42,000 words. In the 16

hours that are that's they're just down to 16,000 the man the man is the man is

very basic now. Now I know they're saying, no, I'm doctor,

in my car, I'm going to say a baron, I'm more I more I'm

more I'm this a measure that's what we do you do do you do do you do you

can modify. But in terms of general is the baron promedious is more monosyllable. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah.

Free, and cold and it's a thing, it's like, so it's, so it's, it's,

it's, it's a more, or more, because there are more, you know, more, because there's

a woman like the voice, so good, but the voice very a good, it's,

so that's a voice like the Maria Felix, that in pass, descance,

that's like, a little, a little, that's a lot of that's a question, so,

but now, for example, Blind Spears, uh, guapisim, the woman, but with the voice aguda

that has is very complicated for a baron a promedue to, and to and to the tone

of the voice of the women, he likes much, and now see, the voice that's the

that's the that's the that's the that's a process of detection. A woman to the

woman, no, no, no, no, no, but under the women could but they're more time

for the way to put more attention. So the woman has the more range of attention exactly.

More more more than the camp more more more than more

more connection more more more than that's a single more more than

the insular for that yeah that you say you say you yeah six of

six of the time six of the six of the last of the morning still no

oh yeah I said well is that I'm no to you no

to be And yeah passed a year. You remember when you said that you said that me caller no?

Yeah, but yeah passed no, you know I'm pardoned. That's that of the pardoned

and the old old is very very much for them. They're they're they're

they're and we don't they're and we don't know we about you

we're we're but we we're we're more basic now in the

process of the liberation of the emotion we we're more

in the point of a violent, no, for example.

Right. Now, is it reprogrammar the form in that we we're in a way,

yeah, well, I'm going, the therapy function, we're doing, we're doing, so it's

that I'm, no, the inferno, it's the same devil, but it's different to the inferno.

Or there are people are people, it's that is that you're, it's that you can't

get the it's always always, so, so, so, what I'm to be

a B, I've, it he was the other. and it was the other. How's how do you do you look at a prototype?

There's a lot of practice of important. The therapy function. What is our detonant? And there's a point essential. Much of what we we do we love we learn about

the 7 and 14 years. It's an aspect that, for example, I would like that also, because he'd like to the people that you say

that you like? Uh-huh. to have, they're rubies, they're they're moreno, they're

because they like they do they're to do you know that's that they're to learn to look at a

different type of prototypes. For one one side, between the seven and 14 years.

That's a point of a part of practically of the good and what a way of

what a way. So I'm to put an example, no, I've seen the

novelas that's what's they'll send them, those the labios and I'm

seven, eight years and what is that's a process social, biological

that's that's the desire I had I had I seven and my mom

me said, look, that's Fannick no, yeah, I'm very

very no, oh, my doctor, so you have been much time,

so Faniac no, that's is a woman, he's that's you're

so you, and I, so then you know when one you know

in the moment of the life, I know, I'm a company that's a fanica, no?

And you do you do you, see her, but I'm not a problem to the

compatibility that she had you and then I'll and then this is part of

the essence in where one is just a type of of interest and a

level of the kind of what influed seven 14 years,

the liberation of the hormones, and let me tell you a story that's a little

little there's a there's a thing. Kispeptina. Kis peptina. Kis,

a kiss, the Besso? It's a bese. Because it was discovered by the University of

Hershey's Pennsylvania, in where is the fabric of the chocolates. Ah, of the

kises. And this hormone when it libera, libera, the hormones to see

in the hypotalam is the detonant to the for that the

character sexual and the baron the same they're not the barb and they're

when they're the voice to change you know you know you know you're all the

all parts and they and she and she starts yeah the process of the

change of the cycle the the chisp is the markor that

the part of the moment that not is the if a woman

live the the middle of the kispeptina the Ecuador, the

Kispeptina is the liberate more and for this reason the women that are in Colombia,

in Panama, in this Marcage of Ecuador, madruns sexually more than the those

in the Polos of the United, of Argentina to be back. And they

start in their menstruation approximately between the 5 and 7 years.

And in Mexico, we we're on the ones, but if you're

to go to Newue there are you are the special that we

pertainceesemes, depends much of the of the light solar that we're and the liberation of

the chispeptina and the hormone that's saying, no, no, not you say, is the melatonin.

The that we're making us to do the change to children to adolescents is that

the melatonina is that is that so the melatonina begins to continue our

our patterns of the chispeptina and then the kid is a

is when when he's when starts to have erections the barons and the women

start to get to get attraction for the children and then it's

all this process hormonal that depends much of the place where

we're and finally this situation is involved with

the aspect social a woman that can live

with more in their family brothers friends and

men sexually more more than a woman that

one with women. And these are one of the process that one is the way, doctor, then, because she she's comporting

more than a process of what, the process of of what, to have learned. And you, why is it more like a

woman? Because you lived with mom and for his sister and in that aspect, you have

a certain type of that's that also that can't in the way we've in the

way. Super interesting. A what you do you a man that has been

the and right we're a an man that has the dilemma of the

I don't understand I'm a I'm trying to learn and he has been to have to

and he's a solid very rapid to say it you know you have to understand that you

is a baron a that has a manarone of

it not not so you you're going to be so

I'm that I'm imagine to imagine at so you

you're going to asker. Or, portese well, have good modalities, get a

chocolate, no he'll be a because to you're going to go to do you do you

do you're exactly, be a fiel, condenado and and also when he casse

always always always that you that's that you know, that you let's

what we say to the people I'm I'm to get your gallinits

because my gallito and my gaitit's that the worst message. The poor message,

no, my son, is a man, no, no, no, he's not, he's not,

he's not his, his mother, that's his mother, you're, you know, you're a

person, you know, that's the machisms and to make chimes, and of violence, yes,

that's, that's that's, that's then you're so, I'm, then you're

that you know, that's a question, to learn. I always I always when one

is going because then one yorando in the clandestine of the coche and why

he said he's with the magistrat and you go and you go and you're going

wait wait that it's not it was for what it

was for what and and if you understand you

you know you you're you you have you

So we'd understand, we'd understand, that the woman is the that he and we need.

And we're to do good things for that you know, to do you to do you to do you

to the women, is that I'm that I'm that I'm that I want to understand the

person, I'd would be an excellent this series of words and arguments,

but I say, it's is not quite that's being in adequately because it's

you're that you are making and for moments you pretend that they are like

you're you're you're you're you're the effect but eventually you know

this is one of the most of the main of the process so I think I say I'd

say to you're going to continue to you're going to say but until

when that's so is very complicated but that that means that means

that it's that will be And is that Mark, in the moment when a

partner when a is that is that we're in we're in there's there's there's

there's there's but when she's in terms concretes in the knowledge

of the process biologic and when it's when it's when you

when you say when you say when you feel to learn many many

many of many and what you say I'm going to I'm going to this is

a good project I'm going to I'm going to I'm going to you're going to you're going to you're going to be much tolerances

and say that in all this process of frustration that sometimes you know to say you said you

said you that apart of this event no so it was going to change

totally like you didn't because to change as one wants

in that context is, they have to adapt to those. If you say,

saying that it's that you're going to accept, and adapt to what you do it's the other and

what is the other person. I'm Mark, I do I, I don't know about the science

met here. This side, is that one of our grave tragedies that we

have passed as a kind of is to be to be things to be

expenses of our own the own the day that we don't

we're to be to be happy because he did a good to

the people because I'm not. If I want to be

happy and I want to be so so in that

in this moment is much of the practice to

this point is I say we let's we

let's we I you I I took in the

there I don't like but we're adapt to and change for the

two. And I'm disposed to also. In that magnitude the love, the difference

of the love is a construction in where they're they're both. The enamoramoramation

is a process more neurobiologico egoistic, egoist, of projections egolatras that's that's over

the pair. The enormonement is egoist. But the love is more altruistic and

more of empathy. So, At the first is egoism. Yes. Then

it's a woman a more a more more. That's a focus in dar.

But at the principle is, that's ego to, you know, not this I'm a

to give to me, I'm doing I'm this, I'm going to this, I'm going to

do, and I'm going to do. And I'm the part of the final is to say, the definition is

a privative amor-mortis. without death. It's a sentiment and a sensation

that no should have a matter. We've casted that in many people in many people.

And, and I'm me it's in the secondary when I my master,

we said, we said, we said, although you know, you're not present, the love

is that you can, you can exist in me even in your absence. Today, we'd

be more responsible to say to say to say, I'm, he's the love.

And I'm going to this, dear a friend, yes, saying, Doctor,

then the love of your life, I would say, no. Because precisely for this

series that you did you, the love of your is the is the

that's the when you you're when you know, I'm I'm, condenado

because no it's how you you're not you're But it's the

way to this part of this part of this part of because you're the first on the first you need to

to learn to to do, to do you, to do, to to doormir, to take pardon but also to

do you and to you're the life but you, you, to do you and you

and you know, you're talking that's that's there's there's there's

there's there when a number when when someone is a accept and

and has of I'm the love of my life and from this sufficiency I'm going to connect to

someone more versus I'm not no matter no valgo I'm incomplete I need to need a

person if there's a difference in the brain I'm I'm saying what does when the when the

brain is more more time this is more time this this can't have a

good message but also not not that not when one is

responsible and I say I'm going to create more and I want to

learn more and I do do the but but also

I'm to know where it's the and I'm responsible of what I'm in I'm going to ask you to

give to the but also I'm doing what I'm doing what I'm in that you're saying okay,

that's okay, that I'm so I'm don't know, we'll be we're doing much corte

so the so the so the same so the self and it and it

makes more more more emphatic more resilient okay and you say so well yeah

It's, it's just, it's And you knowjas T'clock, and you know, at a certain more intelligent, you know more more possibilities

to survive. Yes. Intelligence has seen in the process natural, because one says, how do you know, more intelligent?

When's it time in, in a problem or resolve a situation, uh, you're less. When you

are less that's, that's, the same the world you're more more intelligent. That's,

and evidently you make a person more to do a person more to do a person more than,

and then you you're enamorars, yes, after the 45, 50 years, you know,

you start to get to get to get a bit more a lot of, you know, you know,

you know, you know, the first enormonements between the 16 to 20 years are the

tremendous, but eventually at the life, we're going to know how this can't

how this does this, because I did this when I'm had passed, you felt more

more front but, but well, yeah, now we're we're have to be more venemolos with us.

And in the zones of the world one of the characteristics that we're saying who are people see enamorando. So, I'm 80 years, 90 years.

So, never is tardy to love to love to someone. Yeah, then they say, no, when they say,

no, it's that, no, it's that what's going to why don't you don't you? No, it's that's what,

no. There's when the new, the seven, 14 years. Pena. Let me go to you

go to go to see a I'm going to go to be to hear a little bit of not he said

to be there was a manned and they're and they're and they're and they're saying, ah

you're don't chenchit ah and the you know you know you know you know

I'm going to when I'm going to get to when I got to no well I

I'm went to so so so I'm I don't know what I'll know about it.

To see, if we know and we know the message but it was a man who was a manned just had just

a little but the history is this, this, we know we we need to we're going to

keep us too and continue us enamoring. Very well. Oye, then conclusions if we we're not

something, we're we're going with the mind, not in the heart. The

The love is a process mental. Some chemicals, are areas of of the brain areas the world is.

So the love is. Or in the intestine and more above. In part, and a bit of but they're reforzators.

But basically here. This is a myth. Yes. The is more a myth. It's more

a myth. It's a beautiful. But it's a beautiful. And the message is we're using our soul

for many things to to be to say it for the metaphor. but the Cerebr is

the Cereo is the is the there is the there's a there's a okay of all the books that

you have you know you're doing you're so you're you're you're for someone

that's for someone that's specifically there's there's there's a love

and this love and this is you're love yeah yeah well I

well I know well I so I it I'm I remember when

I remember when it I was to write I was to write 20 stories of love. 20.

And the grand majority of stories, I'm asked, oh, yeah,

Dr. Duk, I, wrote, I, never, I've never put a

story of a good, and I said, and then, and then the, the,

the, well, the last about, the last more more, more,

more, but it's in the soul in the the brain. This,

this this book, tell the story of the people,

and at the terminal to the story I do an analysis neurobiological of what happened in the

brain of both so the the people infieles those enojured

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but you you're just you can't back we're we leticam we

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people that are to be to be a person and the and the last

story all are and the last the last story is the of a

a one of a that lived many many things

together and they mentioned in where they they

they they They were children And when it was the moment to be able

to do do you and he's he's and he's he's and he he went

and he he went to 42 minutes in a lanchita to tear his

suns to and the history I don't tell you in the book

this because he can't what he can't in that he he went

with his children to to have Abarasarles. This book

is a trucked in Turkey. So when me came to the book in Turko said that

says, I know, I think I think I'm I think I know that I'm in the mind that

the brain in the first book. There's one of some there's

no stories but I mention what are the series of love and the

love and some of those one of the one of the one of the one of the

from the beginning, it's the perid, the separation, or the celos. It's like the price that

you're paying. I'm in a love and all it's beautiful, but I'm eventually, depending on you've been to

get to be to get to the separation. And part of our own to separate us to separate us to be able

to be able to be able to be able to be there. It's a for someone to be able to be able to

understand to understand to learn how to get to how to like to think of

the or the ex. And also understand what you did you do you have done

you know it's a you know to do you have to pass and you have to learn and then's to learn

and then you know, the books are in the books in the in where they want to do you want to

your your your your social your your records

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thank you all the heart to say, Edward, Calixto, our consentido, Doctor. Thank you.

Thank you, thank, thank you, thank you, Thank you, I, thank you. Thank you. Thanks. Thank you.