El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 381.-La CRISIS SILENCIOSA de ser HOMBRE - Nilda Chiaraviglio

Episode Date: June 23, 2025

La presión de ser siempre fuertes, de no fallar, de “aguantar como hombre”, está quebrando a muchos en silencio.Ansiedad, enojo, enfermedades… y un dolor que casi nunca se dice, pero se siente... todos los días.En este episodio, junto con Nilda Chiaraviglio, psicoterapeuta, hablamos de la salud mental y emocional masculina, el peso de los estereotipos… y cómo empezar a sanar, porque sanar también es cosa de hombres.Y si además de todo… también cargas con la presión económica, quiero invitarte a mi masterclass gratuita: Cómo generar más ingresos con menos estrés.👇🏻Inscríbete aquí: http://almamatters.com/dinero-audio*Importante: Nuestros invitados son expertos en sus temas y reflejan su conocimiento y su punto de vista, siendo conscientes de que cada una de las opiniones es totalmente personal. La información, datos, comentarios, estadísticas que se presenten en el Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil, son de exclusiva responsabilidad de quienes las emiten y no representan, necesariamente, el pensamiento de Marco Antonio Regil o de la producción del podcast.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 What's a man that they say that has to sustainer all, that's the traditional, but nobody does it. So, be like my vis-a-souel you can't
Starting point is 00:00:09 an person in an adaptate, you can't a person a little functional. What is the price that pays a man that
Starting point is 00:00:17 not transmite what you feel? When one gets to get to insufficient, then what is the ira?
Starting point is 00:00:24 You, as a woman, what does, when you're when you're when you that's a that's a
Starting point is 00:00:29 woman that and he's about of his emotions. So, they're very very difficult
Starting point is 00:00:37 for those are the many are many many of resentied us we're we're
Starting point is 00:00:45 we're we're we're the etiquette of the the object of the role traditionalism
Starting point is 00:00:53 of being a man is a production of RGEL Entertainment and all his their rights are reserved San Pablo Natural No,
Starting point is 00:01:11 Bages the Guardia Reforses your defenses, Presentat. Episode 381 Today we're seeing a every more
Starting point is 00:01:20 people in media social that is going to say how being men, and there are many people
Starting point is 00:01:24 who are the response. What are the version of the past? It's the version modern, what is the
Starting point is 00:01:33 person? not so expressa, no can't feel like to feel like the only place where
Starting point is 00:01:40 maybe he's a little bit of a little bit of his his in his
Starting point is 00:01:45 his time and he's some beers but he has a house and he has to
Starting point is 00:01:49 come with a role well Nilda Chalabil our our
Starting point is 00:01:52 great great friend our great guy that is for
Starting point is 00:01:56 the question and this is the reason for that
Starting point is 00:01:58 we we we could we we Canta. Being a man
Starting point is 00:02:04 I'm a man. What good title, Nila, the good And I think that a
Starting point is 00:02:34 call of conscience is that the crisis of the masculinity not is a book
Starting point is 00:02:41 that's in the books, but that really the women are going
Starting point is 00:02:46 and that are very bad and that also to attend to this sector with
Starting point is 00:02:51 all the love, with the and from the experience, no,
Starting point is 00:02:56 from the experience I work with many people,
Starting point is 00:03:01 and I know the the pain that there, the disconcerted, the confusion. And I think that valid it, and have to give a response to all this.
Starting point is 00:03:12 There are statistics very fifties. In Mexico, eight of every 10 suicidios are women. In Colombia and Chile, the tassas of
Starting point is 00:03:18 suicide masculine duplicates the tases feminines. In all America Latina, less of the 30% of the women with symptoms
Starting point is 00:03:25 depressive are there are many people are many people resentive. And there many
Starting point is 00:03:32 people who are in platforms how are there and there platforms that
Starting point is 00:03:38 are you are doing this a version very traditional of being in the personal I think that
Starting point is 00:03:45 it's not it doesn't or if it's the form traditional of the
Starting point is 00:03:50 man the man feo and that has to be a person and that
Starting point is 00:03:55 that version does that yeah it does? Yes, it's because there
Starting point is 00:04:00 many women that they want that. Okay. As all it's complementary.
Starting point is 00:04:04 There are many women who are looking the Prisip Azul, the Prater, and et cetera,
Starting point is 00:04:11 et cetera, so that that they maintain and that and that and well the
Starting point is 00:04:18 love romantic, the love conventional and the love of the principle of the
Starting point is 00:04:23 future still is a model in more with with with finales
Starting point is 00:04:32 more dramatic but finally we're not we don't we're
Starting point is 00:04:41 not we're there there a current more more
Starting point is 00:04:45 great cultural that says we've provem other alternatives
Starting point is 00:04:50 but it's important to profundize a little so
Starting point is 00:04:57 I mean I think I think that the violence that we produce not only
Starting point is 00:05:03 the women these barons that are not know how are men because because because
Starting point is 00:05:11 the other and care and contendors and contendidores and blah blah blah they have
Starting point is 00:05:17 been to be sensible and they're to know they're to know they're they're
Starting point is 00:05:24 flexible in the tasks of the other people to and to the and the and the
Starting point is 00:05:31 whole that you communicate directly with the impotency
Starting point is 00:05:36 with the feeling insufficient and in our culture a
Starting point is 00:05:40 baron that is insufficient is very very and
Starting point is 00:05:46 no there no there those those people can
Starting point is 00:05:51 express all this because if express all this
Starting point is 00:05:56 then not are men are because you're and because
Starting point is 00:06:00 they're and because that's a that's that's not a man so
Starting point is 00:06:05 where where can listen where you can reflect about
Starting point is 00:06:10 about what what means what is very very very
Starting point is 00:06:17 difficult really is very difficult so so so so
Starting point is 00:06:21 so so after a crisis always always always always
Starting point is 00:06:25 always say, extremists, in an extreme, we'll go back to the other
Starting point is 00:06:34 end of the other end not the other not. Well, for supposed that the
Starting point is 00:06:41 processes are individual not. I go notro because this course
Starting point is 00:06:45 I'm going to do another person that's where we want to we're
Starting point is 00:06:50 we're this space of reflection. And say, look, what is what is
Starting point is 00:06:56 what is of that point of the iceberg. The ninguneo. The ninguneo the two the day
Starting point is 00:07:02 that the women are that they're doing the women are with the women. For example?
Starting point is 00:07:07 For example no, you know, you know, you know, you know, this is a rune of
Starting point is 00:07:13 men, you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, not, you can be the
Starting point is 00:07:19 the car I'm sure that then you're to get to get the yandah. There's
Starting point is 00:07:23 an omission with menopreces of the possibilities that have a woman to be able to be like a person but the woman also
Starting point is 00:07:34 you know you know me makes a good you know you don't not you know you know you know
Starting point is 00:07:46 you no you no you no you know you know me see and when one gets to get to
Starting point is 00:07:53 feel insufficient more from the baron than from the woman then
Starting point is 00:07:58 what is the ira and the ira the enojo and a
Starting point is 00:08:06 a and a a chance are the mother of
Starting point is 00:08:11 another emotion that is impotency so I don't
Starting point is 00:08:18 I feel with the power to resolve this
Starting point is 00:08:21 problem so so so so So how can resolve the problems? Well, putting
Starting point is 00:08:28 resources, abilities, reflections to transcend and disolver the problem. In the desperation,
Starting point is 00:08:39 the men say, we're like my abel or my vis-avuel that there no
Starting point is 00:08:45 was to not, so they were the things and that that was a good,
Starting point is 00:08:50 it was a good, What is the problem of now? That all has changed so around our
Starting point is 00:08:58 that we've in the intelligence artificial that is possible to be able to be
Starting point is 00:09:05 my is an person in an adaptated to you can't a person
Starting point is 00:09:11 a little in our culture and also the women of today
Starting point is 00:09:18 even the people who want the that and the that's the
Starting point is 00:09:22 that's not your vis-a-a-vuel no also also they're in their
Starting point is 00:09:30 role of a little and then they're and they want to the man
Starting point is 00:09:36 is sensible and all these other things and that the man so
Starting point is 00:09:40 communicate, communicate those and you know yeah yeah oh
Starting point is 00:09:43 but also also also I also I'm that
Starting point is 00:09:50 you have to decide. No? Or you protect or you're because in
Starting point is 00:09:58 our culture these things are not compatible. But in our culture they're they're seeing
Starting point is 00:10:05 and they are like incompatible. Yes. I can cry and also protect.
Starting point is 00:10:11 What is the price? What is the price that does the price that does the
Starting point is 00:10:16 price that pays him and the price that the price of a a man that
Starting point is 00:10:20 not transmitting what he's not a well, he's the number of
Starting point is 00:10:38 the quantity of infartes, not the number of infartes, but the quantity of infartes, that there's a murder of an coffradia. Okay.
Starting point is 00:10:47 The man's they have to to demonstrate to other men that are men. And when a man demuestra
Starting point is 00:10:56 that's a woman, then the others are to palmear his, he's a now.
Starting point is 00:11:01 Now, so, you're a man. It's this thing to have to demonstrate
Starting point is 00:11:07 that you are a man, it is very can't it's very can't and just
Starting point is 00:11:12 these influencers, that are many and that are who are who
Starting point is 00:11:17 are who are who are they're saying being being a man
Starting point is 00:11:20 means to you're to be a man, know of a mechanic, know of a new
Starting point is 00:11:25 a lot of to make a electricity, to bring to the house, to be a man,
Starting point is 00:11:31 vesty with a man, move you and are attracting a much people.
Starting point is 00:11:36 I think that's logical in a world in a world of a
Starting point is 00:11:40 confusion that that someone to say how you have
Starting point is 00:11:43 to do give to give you know this
Starting point is 00:11:46 is something that in situations of crisis grand, women, women, etc.,
Starting point is 00:11:53 where is the people, to the religions or sects or etc. more
Starting point is 00:12:02 rigid. Because because that chaos it's a cargita and he says how
Starting point is 00:12:10 it has to put to part then so it structure the chaos that's
Starting point is 00:12:17 that's that's that's that the person that's the person has to
Starting point is 00:12:26 get to the carjita but yeah from a certain evolutioned if I
Starting point is 00:12:30 am so I so I so so I think that are movements
Starting point is 00:12:36 that are even in this to put in the end of the
Starting point is 00:12:41 end of social. I don't I'm not I'm in contra. There are movements
Starting point is 00:12:49 feminines in the same sense. But there other movement in the States that says
Starting point is 00:12:55 the same you have to serve to the man. Yes, yes, the movement
Starting point is 00:13:00 of the women of that are saying, I want a man that's you want to
Starting point is 00:13:06 you're that you say, I'm and the because, well, the
Starting point is 00:13:14 in this to do you have to do you have to do the roles traditional
Starting point is 00:13:18 but also you're to be a good an business but also
Starting point is 00:13:23 have to get money and you and you and be a mom
Starting point is 00:13:27 and be and be and be all and all the
Starting point is 00:13:32 drama and I'm to put in rapid uh uh
Starting point is 00:13:36 uh um let me call a little doming but
Starting point is 00:13:41 it the penchant binary. What is that? When we're
Starting point is 00:13:49 the doctor abe the doctor, he says, man, mark registered. She,
Starting point is 00:14:00 has to think so, and to do this. The cune is a blue, the roba
Starting point is 00:14:07 is a blue, and he is a, he's, he's, he, to go to
Starting point is 00:14:11 that, that's that's that, Now, if I be a vulva, ah, is a woman, a mark registered, has to think
Starting point is 00:14:22 so, and feel like this, and make of this. Rosita, Rosita, Rosita, Rosita. Rosita, Rosita. Sir Barbie. No, not only
Starting point is 00:14:32 only not only not only they're not, but also not they're to come. To what he's called a new modernity?
Starting point is 00:14:40 A that many men have many roles that they correspond
Starting point is 00:14:46 to the market registered of the women and there many many people
Starting point is 00:14:51 who are doing to have conducts to have conducts that they correspond
Starting point is 00:14:55 to the market registered of the men what is the
Starting point is 00:14:59 alternative? I mean it is that there there there for
Starting point is 00:15:03 the women for the women. And is that the man
Starting point is 00:15:07 is that the woman and that the woman is much more than a woman
Starting point is 00:15:13 that are men are men are completeos without role of gender
Starting point is 00:15:21 that that everyone develop his potential their resources his
Starting point is 00:15:27 abilities his talents and that we we we're
Starting point is 00:15:32 we we're we I think I think there always
Starting point is 00:15:38 there an alternative, like, we're humanist, a alternative that, that's
Starting point is 00:15:46 that's to do the origin the origin of the violence that has these
Starting point is 00:15:52 separations, these roles rigid, where suffer the women, as well did you
Starting point is 00:15:58 and they are the women of these and they also, and also, because
Starting point is 00:16:04 these men, these men, who are they're also also they're
Starting point is 00:16:08 and the women of those women of those women of those other
Starting point is 00:16:13 those other who are so that for being for being a
Starting point is 00:16:20 man they're misgued mal-mirated and maltratas also also
Starting point is 00:16:29 also it's very difficult for those who are alpha
Starting point is 00:16:31 no you can be a Alpha. And be very a man
Starting point is 00:16:39 and be a alpha. Sure. But then the women of those women have
Starting point is 00:16:46 to have a grad more or less than evolution equivalent for that these
Starting point is 00:16:55 these sensibilities can be coordinating or can be amalgamando
Starting point is 00:17:04 complementing. And, well, and, I know, many zombies, many women, and many marriages, and much a couple of, and they're doing that, they're doing that,
Starting point is 00:17:20 amando the complementaried of the talents individual. See, salientoes from the marks registered. The marks registered, sure.
Starting point is 00:17:31 And it's to go to a place new that still not we're not we're doing.
Starting point is 00:17:35 What you're doing, is that we're starting from from the market registered. And what
Starting point is 00:17:43 would be to abandoning is the mark registered to build a new. But it's very difficult
Starting point is 00:17:49 because the market registered we have taken that we're tattooed. Sure. No,
Starting point is 00:17:53 we're not we're not to think of the market registered. It's because now we have to be like the other
Starting point is 00:18:04 mark registered, without the mark registered, I'm going to do you have to do everything. And then the soresexigencies and the perfectionism and all these latigos that we're debilites
Starting point is 00:18:16 terribly and that and that are infernos that's intolerable, well, we've got to, augment the suicide, augmenta the drug addiction, augmenta the violence
Starting point is 00:18:28 massiva, then it's complicated. Let's get a little pause and continue with Nilda Chiraviglio to see
Starting point is 00:18:34 how we can get there how we can get there and what is the price that's new a person
Starting point is 00:18:43 for example we're in this case we're going of the people, we're going to we're talking
Starting point is 00:18:49 in the man but obviously that it to affect to the woman what's
Starting point is 00:18:52 what he says to have to sustain it's the traditional but nobody no What, what happens?
Starting point is 00:19:01 What happens when a man not is connected with these emotions because it has to be the man the person, the sustain? What is?
Starting point is 00:19:09 What is? You cancans? Te recientes? That's what you can't get to be violent even if you do you?
Starting point is 00:19:16 What is the solution? What are the alternatives? A pause-a and we continue with the grand Nilda Chalabiglio that's.
Starting point is 00:19:25 You have done that that's done that just cause more stress and agotament? You know, you work, if you're extra, but it's
Starting point is 00:19:33 that never is sufficient. And your life personal is suffering. Even your perro has forgotten and you think that you're a visitant occasional?
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Starting point is 00:19:56 know that the clave not that the clave not to do not to work and to work more, but to change your mentality over the money. And if you're living the same and you'd like to solution it,
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Starting point is 00:21:11 with Nilda Chalabiglo with the grand Nilda Chalaviglo here in the podcast.
Starting point is 00:21:16 For certain, in the channel of YouTube if are you are watching
Starting point is 00:21:19 this podcast, commenten here about what what is what you're what you
Starting point is 00:21:24 mark registered, what is the price of a name of a marker registered,
Starting point is 00:21:30 you're a woman or you're a woman. To me if someone who wants to say,
Starting point is 00:21:36 I'm saying that I'm to know to make a mechanic, electricity to, arreclar the motor
Starting point is 00:21:40 of the auto, to get quadros, arreclal mueles, well, you know
Starting point is 00:21:46 I'm not I'm sure, because I know I'm not so, so, what are
Starting point is 00:21:52 my alternatives? The movement that you're talking, Lin, the same traditional wives, Trad Wives, spouses traditionales that are defending
Starting point is 00:21:59 their right to a renunciar a job out of house and to give us to do you know, and the other day me, I talked about
Starting point is 00:22:06 a friend of Toluca, Danny, you know a brand a brother, and me said, a me, when my friends are womenists
Starting point is 00:22:12 me say, that don't want to the men, and all, I'm, I'm, I'm, because I,
Starting point is 00:22:18 want them to me, because I, I want them want them to be them, I want to want to be
Starting point is 00:22:22 my house and I have the right to do do that I'm doing this and I'm going to the other there's much
Starting point is 00:22:29 there's much people who says no I know I'm not this new proposal I'm sure what traditional
Starting point is 00:22:35 and I imagine that are disposed to pay the price of the traditional because as it's
Starting point is 00:22:42 not is gratis it's it's not it's not it's with it's with the price of that you
Starting point is 00:22:47 you don't be you you have you have to be obedient the the The man is a
Starting point is 00:22:53 moral. The human is a conventional is a moral. A man
Starting point is 00:22:58 like a man. As a man. The mark registra of a woman.
Starting point is 00:23:02 Yes. Because distinguishes perfectly well the good and the bad.
Starting point is 00:23:07 And the good is possess dominion, controlling, and disciplinar. Posser,
Starting point is 00:23:16 domine, control, disciplinar. That's what is what is what is the traditional
Starting point is 00:23:20 energy as like the Well. That's what is what is the woman
Starting point is 00:23:25 has to pay the price of to have to be the same you know. You know
Starting point is 00:23:30 that the movie of my big fat Greek wedding the the wedding,
Starting point is 00:23:35 where it's a comedy very famous where it's a family traditional Greek and then
Starting point is 00:23:40 the mom and the mother and they're they're doing, and they're we're
Starting point is 00:23:44 we're we're we're we're to do we're a bit there's
Starting point is 00:23:49 there's a part of they're going and to him and all they do and the two do and they're like, oh, okay,
Starting point is 00:23:55 okay, and that's they're what they're like they're so they're in this role of the woman, where they're
Starting point is 00:24:01 to feel like he's, to be a man and they do they're like to do that that's a ability, to
Starting point is 00:24:08 that's, ability, so like to be like to to be able to get to the time,
Starting point is 00:24:13 but officially then, so it's to do you what your father, is what you do you,
Starting point is 00:24:19 That's what we're not what we're not. Yes, there are abilities of manipulation very subtiles, and there are some of the chantages, no? But, well, I mean, I go, both ones as others that are in a cajita where no there are many liberties.
Starting point is 00:24:37 No, it's like a paper, a role very strict. Yes, it's a case where you have to do you have to do. And what is the problem? has a a single a year
Starting point is 00:24:48 a year a year a year of a year was a functional in the culture the problem
Starting point is 00:24:56 of now is that that that in that in that in a moment
Starting point is 00:25:04 evolution to that all that the that the rigidesses so they're
Starting point is 00:25:09 because not are flexible are rigides so so so
Starting point is 00:25:14 so so So, for example, the children in this type of matrimonial, when they get to the
Starting point is 00:25:21 adolescence, it's the car. And then they're with the mom, for being
Starting point is 00:25:29 a mom, with the father, for being a dominant and then the parents try to
Starting point is 00:25:37 control it, but, for supposed, that the human is controllable. So,
Starting point is 00:25:42 there's a moment in that, they're they're in the
Starting point is 00:25:45 man and I'm a man that's he's a
Starting point is 00:25:50 son he's internaed for consumption excessive of drugs and
Starting point is 00:25:56 they're and they're and they're depending depending that
Starting point is 00:26:02 so so they're so they're they're so they're
Starting point is 00:26:06 and now they they're going to see there there
Starting point is 00:26:10 there internet there there and the young have access to
Starting point is 00:26:16 all that thank to God I mean the young I don't not not
Starting point is 00:26:22 it's not it's motivator reproducing the life of the
Starting point is 00:26:29 parents because if repit in that life then then
Starting point is 00:26:36 they don't work the the type of the type of values
Starting point is 00:26:41 that has that life today not is functional
Starting point is 00:26:45 with the context so there are ruptures generational
Starting point is 00:26:54 and then the adolescents are so so the parents
Starting point is 00:27:00 don't understand all this in what they failed
Starting point is 00:27:04 if are if are good parents and I
Starting point is 00:27:09 think that well us the people us we've
Starting point is 00:27:15 given to the young an world invivable a world invivable
Starting point is 00:27:20 because this world not the young the world did
Starting point is 00:27:26 our values and they they're they're they they
Starting point is 00:27:32 destroyed they practically the planet and so and
Starting point is 00:27:37 then they they're they they and you those
Starting point is 00:27:40 I'm solicit. Because they have to inventing values new. But in this
Starting point is 00:27:48 buskedom of inventing a guide, is where can, the women, the time
Starting point is 00:27:53 to talk to talk with these groups that they're to the thing of
Starting point is 00:27:59 the series of adolescence that we have been talking that we
Starting point is 00:28:03 know, groups that they're people who they're they're they're they're
Starting point is 00:28:08 models that are that are is a clear, that's a
Starting point is 00:28:13 clear, and they're going to to have to be in that they're that they're not going to have a
Starting point is 00:28:20 woman, they're going to have to get alone because the women, as much that's
Starting point is 00:28:27 that's the other type of group of women that's a lott about, the strad wipes
Starting point is 00:28:33 well, well, well, there, because the world is changing. Yes,
Starting point is 00:28:39 and, and, and, It's very very can't to live demonstrating that you're
Starting point is 00:28:44 a man. And what what's what's the person, what's a man who has to be
Starting point is 00:28:49 to be able to but nobody does not he's fatal. And then all this
Starting point is 00:28:55 generates a what I said a little a special of an kind of of insufficiency, of nojo
Starting point is 00:29:03 to a sometimes even even even even a gas a a chaos
Starting point is 00:29:09 where a chaos why he's not why he's sent to be so bad. And when that's yet, when that's yet to get the impotency, I'm sent to see, without power, women, young, women, and these and this role
Starting point is 00:29:35 that strict and traditional also create rencour and violence to the women. The man
Starting point is 00:29:41 is infiel because it needs a man but it's but many times, many times,
Starting point is 00:29:49 both men, men, not to look to other person, salen to find to be to
Starting point is 00:29:55 themselves. Salen afuer to be because because the structure of the
Starting point is 00:30:02 structures of relations of a pair and matrimoniales and family that the society generates, you're just you. So, you
Starting point is 00:30:15 get a respirate, oxygen, and I'm not I'm looking to another, I'm going to the I'm looking at the I was,
Starting point is 00:30:24 or the I'm a someone that not what other wants or what the other she's not being
Starting point is 00:30:34 from a from a from a out of what exactly. Exactly. So there's many
Starting point is 00:30:43 infidialities that have to be with that? Homes and women? Hes and women?
Starting point is 00:30:46 It's a thing, are not not and the women are not. No, no,
Starting point is 00:30:52 no, no. No. Or, so, so, many men, when they
Starting point is 00:30:56 feel in some way insecure, if this power is very
Starting point is 00:31:00 delicate, but well, I'm going to to get there. They're going to get a and they're a car
Starting point is 00:31:05 of a carer, yeah. If they cassering, even no, there's a
Starting point is 00:31:11 coit but cacher, a cellar, a ball, castar, a
Starting point is 00:31:19 food, a dinner, uh, something, uh, something, so, so,
Starting point is 00:31:25 then, they're there, they're they're they're, and they they're
Starting point is 00:31:29 they're They still are being men Exactly. Exactly. In this idea that the
Starting point is 00:31:33 man has to the woman and not be elected but I'm elective
Starting point is 00:31:40 and that the woman the woman let me say, so I would say, so
Starting point is 00:31:45 so, so, so many times it's always to be a person to be
Starting point is 00:31:50 other other times is what we said a to be to be
Starting point is 00:31:56 to be he's same and the he and he doesn't know
Starting point is 00:32:00 what he says but he's a something to
Starting point is 00:32:04 be something to be a different of the and the woman
Starting point is 00:32:09 is that is that is in the structure traditional
Starting point is 00:32:15 not not she doesn't because well I'm going
Starting point is 00:32:20 to get in other things but many many
Starting point is 00:32:23 the woman when has and his he has a woman to
Starting point is 00:32:29 convert yourself to become in a mother and he has a man he
Starting point is 00:32:35 he's he's in a man he not a man he
Starting point is 00:32:41 and then the father he has to desire to the
Starting point is 00:32:47 mom and the woman that not is like not
Starting point is 00:32:51 she is complete I is pure culture, but well, and then so it's
Starting point is 00:32:57 a coquetier because many times not get to nothing, but to be desired for other
Starting point is 00:33:06 men. And so, and so is a manner particular, and it's in a manner
Starting point is 00:33:11 particular, and it's particular, to be to be desired also, to be sure to be
Starting point is 00:33:18 the circumstances of asphyxia that much times it's generated within the family
Starting point is 00:33:26 and some relations in a relationship rigid, traditional of roles traditional with
Starting point is 00:33:34 the marcus with the two two at the final of the day are looking
Starting point is 00:33:37 the same they're trying to get a vacio of
Starting point is 00:33:42 adorme to do don't and very very and
Starting point is 00:33:45 there a guide a professional psychological that that
Starting point is 00:33:50 you help to to understand what what's going to be going to you, you're
Starting point is 00:33:54 to be able to be able of some out of the way to be in form inconsient. But the
Starting point is 00:34:01 two are in a dolor. Yes. In the the pain of the no adaptation to the
Starting point is 00:34:09 conditions external, of the poor functionality. And the creencia that only is
Starting point is 00:34:14 the woman that is false. The man also that's the woman also
Starting point is 00:34:19 And, also, the woman has many forums where it has been to talk to and to the man
Starting point is 00:34:24 has done those where you know that's able to expresser, if it he's
Starting point is 00:34:30 because the area of broca can be inived. So, you know, he's
Starting point is 00:34:39 he knows, but not know how express it because it's he's
Starting point is 00:34:43 he's he prohibited from that he can express it.
Starting point is 00:34:46 So, so when And this is the intention of the conversation that we're having with Sashiba, to open these spaces where any type of
Starting point is 00:34:59 human can express what what he has and reflectioner about that and to decide about that. But these spaces
Starting point is 00:35:14 have to open those barons. And I want to give us that that's that's that's that you you're going to
Starting point is 00:35:24 more in detail what is what is there's the because that the part final of the podcast
Starting point is 00:35:30 of okay what are the solutions because if I think I'm to understand
Starting point is 00:35:35 what you say what you say you're saying is that a woman if a
Starting point is 00:35:41 person if she's not a person, can go other to be to
Starting point is 00:35:48 say I'm I'm sitting solo. Yeah, we don't have like a woman. Yeah, we're doing
Starting point is 00:35:53 I'm going to be like a mom, and the other women, and the other women, they're having, they're doing,
Starting point is 00:36:01 and it's, right. It's very rare, in a circle of men, a man, a man that
Starting point is 00:36:08 really, he'll be that form. What, what is, is well, and well, is that
Starting point is 00:36:13 that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that she, you,
Starting point is 00:36:17 oh, you, you let's you've got it. No, figgated that's the way that's the way that's the way that's
Starting point is 00:36:24 the way to and so he's the same to the circle masculine. No, he'll say, I'm
Starting point is 00:36:28 really, I'm really much because my mother, yeah, like I'm like I'm like my
Starting point is 00:36:33 way, it's very to be a to the women between women, speaking.
Starting point is 00:36:37 Yeah. That's that is the idea of this is the conversation with Zajiva
Starting point is 00:36:44 is generate a space where the women any
Starting point is 00:36:51 any baron could express what he does, what he does,
Starting point is 00:36:58 what they're what he noja what he did but without
Starting point is 00:37:05 being so and be and and reflect to
Starting point is 00:37:10 think and that every can have the opportunity
Starting point is 00:37:15 to to to to be to be here, to understand, to, accept, and respect us,
Starting point is 00:37:19 and respect, and to be human. Right. And from there, the horizon is a
Starting point is 00:37:26 amplia much it's a way. It's a way of the feeling, and starting
Starting point is 00:37:33 for understanding that you're a man, it's a right, exactly, so,
Starting point is 00:37:37 it's to be, and that's they're not there, where, so, so,
Starting point is 00:37:42 so, so, to, open, so, so we can. Okay. We'll make a pause-it. And you'll be a Posit, and
Starting point is 00:37:48 you're going to tell you, of this course of, being a man, me-stam-mattando. That you're going to start, yeah, very pronto. Let's ask you to make comments here in the channel of YouTube.
Starting point is 00:37:58 Commenten us. If are men, comment-en-n-us, have seen-en-a-bos-custom, in-n-n-n-n-n-n-n-n-n-n- -n't-n-n-n-n-n-n-n-n-n-n't-llllory. I don't know-vvvvvvvvvvvvv, I'm trying to make memory of, well,
Starting point is 00:38:10 some of those, no, I'm circled, some of them. Some of them have worked much in them, with them, can't be able to be able to say. But so, circles general of men, is very rare, is very rare, is very rare to find them. And that's if this course is
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Starting point is 00:39:17 and I'm much interest in reading the comments that the people that people are going to be going to be a man
Starting point is 00:39:24 is a man that not, that no he doesn't a good is a single, without being
Starting point is 00:39:30 about their emotions, well, he will start to be going to start communities.
Starting point is 00:39:34 And there many communities that are, that are that they are, how
Starting point is 00:39:38 be a woman, and they are how to try to a woman and they're like
Starting point is 00:39:42 going to back to go to find out a woman that's that's that way
Starting point is 00:39:48 and that's a man, and you see a man and so is a man and
Starting point is 00:39:53 that's the woman that's the woman that's people who they're getting
Starting point is 00:39:59 and they're being being very really really so we're
Starting point is 00:40:02 so we we're very polarized, Nilda. Yeah I
Starting point is 00:40:06 think there Various things. One, all this we mentioned at the initial
Starting point is 00:40:10 to front of the chaos the extremes and the conventionalism of the
Starting point is 00:40:19 women's and the other side the radical opposite no
Starting point is 00:40:23 what is the rebel the very very very very
Starting point is 00:40:28 very very very now what is the problem of
Starting point is 00:40:33 this and this that to a one of the two legered the one of the
Starting point is 00:40:41 two if they're if if this reactioning to the chaos that is in the
Starting point is 00:40:48 feminine in that this de-tramp absolute so then it's the
Starting point is 00:40:55 opposite that is the control absolute but that is that is simply the contrary
Starting point is 00:41:02 that is that is the that is that be that between this and this there are
Starting point is 00:41:07 a million of alternatives and that each one according their personal can be
Starting point is 00:41:15 put in some of these alternatives and also going to move and
Starting point is 00:41:21 this and try a little of this and to see what in my moment
Starting point is 00:41:27 of the because the other the cycle of the life also
Starting point is 00:41:32 is also is different things well, at maybe when I'm very young-cito
Starting point is 00:41:37 I'm more in this chaos and at me just I'm just my hope,
Starting point is 00:41:44 when I feel very, very, very, confused, I'm going to this other extreme.
Starting point is 00:41:50 But, but, but, you know, the two extremes, are the ,
Starting point is 00:41:54 you know, I have a opportunity to ask to ask us to ask, if you are in the
Starting point is 00:41:58 channel of YouTube, that we say, that you know, how express and how
Starting point is 00:42:03 you're emotions. You're going to therapy, you're a circle of friends or friends where
Starting point is 00:42:08 you're going to you're going your emotions or how you manage your emotions if you're a woman, it would be
Starting point is 00:42:17 interesting that they're saying, what you do you do you know, that's a person that makes to be vulnerable
Starting point is 00:42:23 and he starts to talk of your emotions? You, as a woman, what does, when an
Starting point is 00:42:28 woman when a year, you're interesting. Yeah, a little. To the
Starting point is 00:42:35 man that's express a I'm in a particular she says a her, oh, no you're
Starting point is 00:42:41 a nana. She, the woman says to be a manna. Nena. That's dramatic. I mean,
Starting point is 00:42:47 there's a there's a no, for that is that it's all the expression of the
Starting point is 00:42:54 barons in particular. Of the the women we have we're many spaces
Starting point is 00:42:58 where we're we're much things with the women But this space
Starting point is 00:43:04 is only for women, because the idea is to bring this to that that's that can express and for
Starting point is 00:43:13 that can know, today, today, there are every more circles of men,
Starting point is 00:43:22 that are making efforts important to be to to be to be
Starting point is 00:43:29 to be alphas and be more beings and this movement also is very valioso. So, so, so, so, so. So, also, also, if here, in this this you say, comment, there are, there are there who are these circles of men, that are today, that they're in, where they can reflect on how they can, decide,
Starting point is 00:43:58 that that's a life as human no? I think
Starting point is 00:44:05 I know I'm a bit optimistic maybe but I'm sure that's possible
Starting point is 00:44:13 yeah apart almost they're always when there when there
Starting point is 00:44:16 when the pendulum is going the problem but we're in that we're
Starting point is 00:44:23 in the problem with the ultra traditional and super conservative
Starting point is 00:44:27 and is the in that transition, we can start going to be from an extreme to the other
Starting point is 00:44:32 extreme, without the equilibrium. We're learning to be men, and be women, and be women. And that
Starting point is 00:44:38 equilibrium, in reality, is going when we're when we're when we can't admire our life
Starting point is 00:44:50 what is and what we would be and what we're difference is, well, it's it's my
Starting point is 00:45:01 man, I can transform if this with this I'm going to know, I'm going to
Starting point is 00:45:07 your life is the result of your conduct. So, you disgust your
Starting point is 00:45:14 life, well, or some pedacito of your life, well, I'm
Starting point is 00:45:19 to transform what I think and then then will to be to
Starting point is 00:45:23 my life. See? To transform my conduct, I have to reflectioner and see how I choose I, to go, and I'm going to,
Starting point is 00:45:37 finally, it's difficult. It's difficult, but it's simple. It's to trainer to the cerebrough that, that I'm aburried, me cance
Starting point is 00:45:50 of my results Antiguos and my my ser, grita, Basta, many times at the infirmat.
Starting point is 00:46:00 And then I go, okay, and if this, how? And the how, the how, the
Starting point is 00:46:06 how, is that equivocate. It's preferable that you keep- to make
Starting point is 00:46:15 more of the same. And and every error is a savagery
Starting point is 00:46:21 and the you're and you know, and you find your manner, that will
Starting point is 00:46:28 be a different to the manner of all the other. And that is the
Starting point is 00:46:33 the beauty of the life. So, so if you can
Starting point is 00:46:37 be sanar and continue being a man. A man can
Starting point is 00:46:41 can a role traditional or the etiquetta, the mark registered
Starting point is 00:46:46 of being being a man. No, it's not that it's it's going to
Starting point is 00:46:51 in what no, but, but, but, it's going to something more
Starting point is 00:46:56 more than a man, that is a man, is being more than the
Starting point is 00:47:02 a little the what you have you and the what we have we let us
Starting point is 00:47:06 limit to do to be to be the human so, so,
Starting point is 00:47:12 so, so, so, so, so, then we do you do you
Starting point is 00:47:14 do you do and to do your a pair what that a
Starting point is 00:47:18 that's a that's a a kind of the kind of the
Starting point is 00:47:23 thing that's a model of the matter and it's not you know I'm not really
Starting point is 00:47:29 to do it exactly, exactly and me it's that you do you do it
Starting point is 00:47:34 so there there's there there's there of talent and complementarieter
Starting point is 00:47:37 of abilities of resources no I think very rich your
Starting point is 00:47:43 your my man being being being man is matant
Starting point is 00:47:46 because you put you to the course? It's good goody the title.
Starting point is 00:47:50 Ser a man, me is not a man who because there is a man of
Starting point is 00:47:55 day. Muchissim of that that's that's that's about. No,
Starting point is 00:48:01 he's not, I don't in the books, but but no there's
Starting point is 00:48:06 the space for that the baron about that the man.
Starting point is 00:48:09 And that so that the person, and does suffer to the
Starting point is 00:48:14 woman? Yeah, to the matter. Yes, exactly. Because a man who suffer and
Starting point is 00:48:20 know can't be able being aggressive with a woman. And when a woman
Starting point is 00:48:24 needs to show to show to his condition, how is the macho alpha,
Starting point is 00:48:31 can get to those levels of extreme of violence. In the cofradia masculine
Starting point is 00:48:37 is something in the women, we don't we have other things, but
Starting point is 00:48:42 that no that we have been, and is that when one demuester
Starting point is 00:48:46 to be the alpha, all the other people they're they're they're encorban
Starting point is 00:48:51 and not they're so so so then so these these
Starting point is 00:48:57 these these these these these these response to that
Starting point is 00:49:02 yeah to who is the leader and the other and the other
Starting point is 00:49:10 they're in the question the the course in which
Starting point is 00:49:13 in June In June, 2025. Yes. The inscriptions are you are open? In list of
Starting point is 00:49:20 in the list of for the list of to be able to inscriptions? So, okay. So, for, more information about this
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Starting point is 00:49:44 or listening this podcast, it's like the list of the first of the pre-inscription, or that's open to the
Starting point is 00:49:49 inscriptions, or if it's or if you know, or if you're going to get to the information of when it's going to
Starting point is 00:49:56 get to this. Because I'm imagine you going to be going to be. So, are the
Starting point is 00:50:03 things, so, how you do you do do you do? We'd want to be there to know that
Starting point is 00:50:07 for the people that is the people that's you've You've seen and you've seen
Starting point is 00:50:12 a time that's a time that's a time to keep a matter of this things. Alma Matters or alma matters.com
Starting point is 00:50:16 with double-t diagonal Nilda you can say now what are to learn in this course and it's
Starting point is 00:50:22 just for men? Just for only for Horms? Only for Hors? Okay.
Starting point is 00:50:26 I'm going inscribire what we're going to learn? This, that there is a space
Starting point is 00:50:31 where you can be you can't you can't express with all what you see
Starting point is 00:50:36 where nobody you can and where where you're going to bring reflections of many types, also exercises of many classes, actually was an expert in all this,
Starting point is 00:50:51 and you're going to start, so, you're going to be that you can't be who's going. So, there are spaces of communication with other people. Yes, yes. There's circles of communication. So, could, for many times, could be, for many times
Starting point is 00:51:07 that experimented a conversation, open, where no there's and if there vulnerability, without with a man with other
Starting point is 00:51:17 men, with other women. Exactly. So, not is the circle of alpha, the macho
Starting point is 00:51:22 alpha. No. It's the circle of women and with the and with
Starting point is 00:51:25 the people, that are that need a space to say, being being a
Starting point is 00:51:33 man is not doing, and nobody is the etiquette of the obligation, the obligation
Starting point is 00:51:38 of the role traditionalissimo of a man me is a matter of and this not means
Starting point is 00:51:45 that you're not quite you because there is the confusion we're going we're going to we're going to we're going to
Starting point is 00:51:55 convert it in sabidurias to find what for you mean to be being without that nobody
Starting point is 00:52:01 to be saying how you you're going to be or not being stereotypical when you
Starting point is 00:52:09 when you when you You know, the critics that's the kids were the child of Shakira for
Starting point is 00:52:13 to do you see the video and I'm he's a baby, he's a little bit not of
Starting point is 00:52:19 rare, but they're not that's all right that's like a man, he's like to be to do that
Starting point is 00:52:27 way, I think that I think of that I'm I don't I don't know I don't know what is
Starting point is 00:52:32 the conflict that the little the man the time. The rigidess the mark registered
Starting point is 00:52:38 that's the conflict. When other person does what does what he does a woman, to the mark registered, they put in
Starting point is 00:52:51 a spejo a little that it makes a that's a very incomod because in
Starting point is 00:52:56 the rigidity is it's soffes much more than the flexibility. So,
Starting point is 00:53:01 so if that he not can't do a reason, it's
Starting point is 00:53:05 a because I do I can't I Basso of the Nabo. Yes. So, okay. So,
Starting point is 00:53:14 so the contra-cultural is a spejo pulid that we can't. And then we critic us.
Starting point is 00:53:22 The liberty of other human, you know, when you try's a scheme rigid. Tras
Starting point is 00:53:29 your camisa of force. And so it's all what you do you do you don't,
Starting point is 00:53:35 for mark registered. Yes. No. Abla as a man, move it like a man,
Starting point is 00:53:41 comportate as a man, work as a man, or not you don't you know, no, no,
Starting point is 00:53:46 you can't because that not be a man. Yes, so in the world of that's not
Starting point is 00:53:51 not the animals, so the animals are embritas or machos and then are not not conscious
Starting point is 00:53:56 of that are men and they're they're in reproduction of species. Well, there we
Starting point is 00:54:01 we enter in other thing but in the world the world the embers
Starting point is 00:54:07 have estro or they're a time of a
Starting point is 00:54:10 time of a reproduce the species but the woman
Starting point is 00:54:15 has so so 24 7 is is is
Starting point is 00:54:18 that is the pleasure and that the man not
Starting point is 00:54:26 is not is disposed in the the woman
Starting point is 00:54:30 because the woman no has a woman has a
Starting point is 00:54:35 Mm-hmm. Yeah. There's a total thing. There's a little bit. I mentioned about the animals, because a animal not we'd say,
Starting point is 00:54:45 I'd say, my perro, come in a machito. No, you don't you put so back up upro and say a pyrrito
Starting point is 00:54:52 macho. A, a mbrieta also you say a one, we know, we're accept as we're on.
Starting point is 00:54:58 And yeah? Yeah. But, but between the Cres humans, if we have the mark
Starting point is 00:55:04 registered that has much damage. But every less because the contra
Starting point is 00:55:09 culture is supported by the chaos that's generating in the
Starting point is 00:55:19 system socioeconomic, cultural, religious etc. So, there's a
Starting point is 00:55:25 change in the context very great where all those rigideses
Starting point is 00:55:31 are they're they're they're to be funcialalels. So, so. So, so.
Starting point is 00:55:35 So, so, so, it's easy. No, no, for the rigid not easy, because they're desadapted,
Starting point is 00:55:43 sure. And so, and they're amazasas. If someone is different to me, they're
Starting point is 00:55:48 not going to no, no, if you're a good, so it's a rigid, and be a really, and
Starting point is 00:55:53 yeah, and he'll let those no rigid, but yeah. But there's, but there no,
Starting point is 00:55:58 they're going to have to be like you. Because if if they're not like I, then it's just
Starting point is 00:56:03 I'm going to say I'm not I'm not, I'm not, I am very. And cabaria the possibility in a mind
Starting point is 00:56:09 more developed, in an intelligence more advanced, of you're doing, you are doing, you're doing,
Starting point is 00:56:14 and I'm more flexible. More flexible. More flexible. More flexible. More flexible. More flexible. You're not
Starting point is 00:56:21 your way and you're the way. That you're doing or means that you mean? You're doing?
Starting point is 00:56:26 I'm fine. And every to do you all the every to all the Now, how practicate
Starting point is 00:56:31 that's a being a man, me's a matter with Nilda Chalabiglio and Sashiva. The two are both
Starting point is 00:56:38 are in this course, that obviously in our community of AlmaMarch com, recommend us, with the
Starting point is 00:56:44 eyes with the eyes that Nilda Chalabitio do anything, make a, put a
Starting point is 00:56:49 his manita, your heart, his mind in, because we know your objective
Starting point is 00:56:53 Nilda is is sanar, is to us to us to usanar. And as Osceiva, he says,
Starting point is 00:57:00 we're we're trying we're going. There's AlmaMarish.com diagonal, Nilda, there's,
Starting point is 00:57:07 we're going to the Liga here about in any of the Ligas in the channel of
Starting point is 00:57:12 YouTube. It would be very, very interesting. So, and there's all the information
Starting point is 00:57:18 of the course. Thank you. Thanks to you, Nilda. Something that you
Starting point is 00:57:22 to have asked to do you to give or some message final
Starting point is 00:57:25 that you can be is a beautiful. Thank you. To you. To see.
Starting point is 00:57:30 To see. Santa Nilda Charaviglio of the podcast. Thank you. To adoramous. To you. Thank you.
Starting point is 00:57:37 Thank you. It's a privilege of the truth. Coincid to contigued with you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
Starting point is 00:57:42 Thank you. Thank you. Well, thank you. There, Nilda, us do options, us do alternatives. And I what I'm kept
Starting point is 00:57:50 is with a sensation very bea of liberty, of flexibility. of power and create the version masculine or of a woman that I'm
Starting point is 00:58:01 a commode and to me and to be and that we can be working in that we don't not we need the the judge of the other.
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