El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 428.- Seducción y atracción: qué hace realmente atractiva a una persona | Nilda Chiaraviglio

Episode Date: April 27, 2026

Seducción, atracción y amor propio: ¿por qué algunas personas conectan sin esfuerzo y otras no, aunque “lo intenten todo”? ¿Te ha pasado que alguien no es “tu tipo” y au...n así no puedes dejar de pensar en esa persona? En este episodio, Nilda Chiaraviglio, explica por qué la verdadera seducción no tiene nada que ver con la apariencia o la conquista y qué hay detrás de ese magnetismo de la gente, que sin importar que sea atractiva o no, sencillamente te cautiva.  Y todo eso empieza contigo, así que, si quieres trabajar esa base, te invito a mi programa de 21 días de gratitud, para dejar de sentir que te falta algo y empezar a sentirte bien contigo. Son 21 dólares, solo 1 al día.👇🏻https://marcoantonioregil.com/gratitud *Importante: Nuestros invitados son expertos en sus temas y reflejan su conocimiento y su punto de vista, siendo conscientes de que cada una de las opiniones es totalmente personal. La información, datos, comentarios, estadísticas que se presenten en el Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil, son de exclusiva responsabilidad de quienes las emiten y no representan, necesariamente, el pensamiento de Marco Antonio Regil o de la producción del podcast.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Is it attractive or is a result? The seducion is an art. Physicically, it was the most attractive, but it was the most ligabye. No, has absolutely
Starting point is 00:00:08 nothing to be with the conquist. And always one more wapo, more exitoso, and when you when you're when you're
Starting point is 00:00:16 when we're about seducion, we're not the contrary of the conquest. The man conquistador, normally will
Starting point is 00:00:23 be a manor but the conquista is manipulation. A seductor respect to who is, a conquistador
Starting point is 00:00:30 to care you for you and you're a frasquito and he he's a trapa to the word of
Starting point is 00:00:37 the podcast of Antonio Regil is a production of RGiel Entertainment and all his rights
Starting point is 00:00:40 are reserved episode 428 certainly you know to someone that maybe
Starting point is 00:00:50 physically not would not be the stereotype of the beauty universal or would
Starting point is 00:00:55 a concurs of a masculine or feminine but that's a person very attractive
Starting point is 00:01:01 of this theme, we've invited to our very and of the consent of the most consentida,
Starting point is 00:01:07 Chalaviglio. Welcome to the program, my name. Much of the great, my good to be here to you're going to you're
Starting point is 00:01:13 to be here. It's a beautiful of the Rove here in Playa, Kintana Rokke, and we're we're doing this
Starting point is 00:01:21 special and we're just we're saying that Nilda, it's not not I'm not to be to Rasgues
Starting point is 00:01:27 Fisks, it's not attractive or it Attraction. It's What is what is what is
Starting point is 00:01:33 attractive a person? The seducion is an art so as a so as as a more you
Starting point is 00:01:40 do you more more more facile and in the in the
Starting point is 00:01:48 in the sonrises of the but there no there not there not
Starting point is 00:01:53 to be part of the story of other person even I put
Starting point is 00:01:59 an example you You go in the auto, he's a a camera
Starting point is 00:02:03 and appears a mim and with his signs and I know that's finally I'm running
Starting point is 00:02:10 to get a smile and doing it and you will be going to you will be a
Starting point is 00:02:15 time that you that's that is the sensation of a person seductor
Starting point is 00:02:20 a person that's a person that a time to the of the spontane of the
Starting point is 00:02:27 gracia, of the ludic, of that you ask the day, or a Thailandese with a flower in my hair, you know, it's a lot of the same. And it's not it's just that
Starting point is 00:02:39 beautiful are, so the fact of putting a flower here, you look at this and you see, what that's beautiful,
Starting point is 00:02:48 no, that's put a flower in the head. The seducion is this, is the intention to pertain
Starting point is 00:02:55 to pertaince to the story of the other person a through a through a
Starting point is 00:02:58 ludic and no it's absolutely nothing nothing to be with the
Starting point is 00:03:04 conquest the conquest is a violence where you go to see
Starting point is 00:03:11 how you can how you get to your position that's
Starting point is 00:03:17 that's manipulation is to chantage and it's violence the
Starting point is 00:03:22 conquest is violence in the in the All know, we know, we know, we know that the conquist is this someto. When we're talking, we're talking about the contrary
Starting point is 00:03:32 of the conquest. And this is very important. Because the seduction, it's a part of you. The first thing is to seducing is to you. For you, be attractive for someone more or seducing someone more, first I have to be attractive for me
Starting point is 00:03:46 and seducing me. How is experimented that? Things very simple. But the aligia has to come to be there into your. And it's a mix of, I'm like, acceptation of you, as you're as,
Starting point is 00:03:59 and it's being, and also, this sensation of that nothing you have done. So, that's not, you know,
Starting point is 00:04:07 you can't show the authenticity without caretas of any class, so, so, so, it's always,
Starting point is 00:04:16 but secutivate because if no there's, a more self-concept, a, auto-conceptive, a auto-conceptive that you
Starting point is 00:04:24 make a sorreying to you with you and so it's very difficult transmit it that's that it's
Starting point is 00:04:30 that's it's not it's it's it's it's from the neuroscience
Starting point is 00:04:38 we know we know that when we're we're not the heartions
Starting point is 00:04:43 the harmonized with the heart with the heartions the heartions
Starting point is 00:04:48 so there's no there need to start there a a distance
Starting point is 00:04:53 sufficient, it also also happens. So, the that the latino of your heart
Starting point is 00:04:59 influence in the person that's because that that's the last time to fascina to you
Starting point is 00:05:05 first. Yes. So, so if that latino, is harmonico, is amoroso, is
Starting point is 00:05:12 ludic, is a veradero in the sense without masks, that
Starting point is 00:05:17 that vibrations, that your your heart, you're you know, it's a gift of
Starting point is 00:05:23 a gift of love. All the story, from the initial, at the final is
Starting point is 00:05:27 I'm seducco to the life, I'm I'm, I invite to the
Starting point is 00:05:34 life to and then I'm to do you but it's more than
Starting point is 00:05:40 to be more than to contagia to the of the people. But
Starting point is 00:05:47 not you don't you're trying. is that you vibras so. Sure.
Starting point is 00:05:51 So, so you you're and the people want to because what iras
Starting point is 00:05:57 is love, authenticity ludic, with zero necessity. I think that we're a
Starting point is 00:06:07 friend, a friend, in my case, is an friend who now, well,
Starting point is 00:06:09 yeah, he's now is in the market to end the that in the
Starting point is 00:06:13 group of people, that maybe physically was the most, the most more
Starting point is 00:06:17 the most ligaba. The most secure, the more different, and he said, he said, figgate,
Starting point is 00:06:24 first I'll do you know, and when I don't know he's done he's doing in my house.
Starting point is 00:06:30 But he said that I'm my clave is to make it. And he was to get to get and galanear
Starting point is 00:06:37 or presumed or impressionar. No, he'd get to talk to make to make the to make the
Starting point is 00:06:44 that's that they'd to be the same, I remember that I mean, Aluna
Starting point is 00:06:48 ever is that is that is he ligo a a girl a girl a woman
Starting point is 00:06:51 and that and they're going to during some time and she he said, I'm
Starting point is 00:06:58 you know, I'm you know, you know, because no you know nothing to and he
Starting point is 00:07:03 says he he's the good pirop that's the person very sure. It's a person
Starting point is 00:07:09 very sure, even you never you could classific as you can
Starting point is 00:07:13 put and has a woman and has a a family and has a very attractive and that is
Starting point is 00:07:25 it's a great security a charisma and it's that you you know when you're that's the
Starting point is 00:07:31 art of the seduction that is the art and it is the and it can learn
Starting point is 00:07:35 yeah and it can learn and it is a contrary to the seduction what is
Starting point is 00:07:42 the thing a person a person anciosa, a person oroconica, a person amalgamation, a person that he
Starting point is 00:07:54 loves to tell your problems to all the world, and, and, also, the same problem many times, or a person that, well, , he passed a little a disgrace in the life, no?
Starting point is 00:08:04 A divorce. A-tropel. A-tropel. I know what I see. A trai-sion. These things horrible, no? Horribles. And every time that is with someone, say, a year or new,
Starting point is 00:08:14 will be to tell that. And how he overpues to that? But not that one that one
Starting point is 00:08:21 that one that's that you did you know, I'm doing it's how it
Starting point is 00:08:26 you're going to hear a rath you sometimes you know, but you know
Starting point is 00:08:31 you're not you know, no, no. Or for example a person of a
Starting point is 00:08:37 conducts narcissistic no so you do you don't you Well, there's
Starting point is 00:08:47 people that in that. For example, all the people who need to be needed to be attracted by
Starting point is 00:08:54 that's but it's because it's a great seduction, but there there is other type
Starting point is 00:09:00 of pathologies. But then the love so you do you if you acceptas
Starting point is 00:09:06 is very attractive and it's flatito gourdito and so it's a
Starting point is 00:09:12 how it's a time of the the naris, the color of the other, nothing to be. Nothing. There's a
Starting point is 00:09:19 phrase that is he's very comfortable in his own skin, no? He's very comfortable in his own skin like he's like to be in his
Starting point is 00:09:27 body, and that's very attractive. And if no, well, think in the people that you're going to you're going to
Starting point is 00:09:34 you're going to get some people that you're and others that they're not they're and generally is these
Starting point is 00:09:40 people that you need to you need. Now, the beauty physical, what we know we know we
Starting point is 00:09:45 know we're the stereotype of the beauty that's that's there's, so there so at the
Starting point is 00:09:51 moment, you can't see a woman to be a a man similar and a person, and the entire you can
Starting point is 00:09:58 attract. But if no there's, if no, there's a same there there's a security,
Starting point is 00:10:03 it's got very rapidly the attraction of the beauty of the realness what really
Starting point is 00:10:08 generally generate this desire of this desire of a person,
Starting point is 00:10:13 not in the reality of the physical. I'm going to say, oh, that's great, I'm going to say, oh, so, that's up, so,
Starting point is 00:10:19 so, no. But it's the same when you're a little picture, but you're not
Starting point is 00:10:26 you're going to get with my quadro, no. That's, yeah, I'm that way in the museum.
Starting point is 00:10:31 If that person no, no, transmitting, this pleasure to live, this pleasure of living, yeah,
Starting point is 00:10:37 it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, that attraction for the be the beauty
Starting point is 00:10:41 physical, when the person not has the love and the security, it's
Starting point is 00:10:45 a way, and the other way can't be a way that a person that's not a
Starting point is 00:10:50 time, not you didn't be very attractive, not you don't you don't get to get to
Starting point is 00:10:56 get to you, I think the key, that's in this society, where we
Starting point is 00:11:03 don't know we're in this, we've been that we've talked much, that is, me you
Starting point is 00:11:09 have to do, me you have to feel like as a culture we're a kind of kind of
Starting point is 00:11:15 to have to have to be to be in the service of the other I don't know there's
Starting point is 00:11:21 a lot of the people the people more or more than good to be able to be
Starting point is 00:11:27 the service of the but not for you need to when we when we when we're
Starting point is 00:11:32 that that's also that's that so that so that is what
Starting point is 00:11:35 that's that not me need that is content to be she's and to
Starting point is 00:11:44 be being being being so that it's respect it as a process that not
Starting point is 00:11:49 is the 15 that the 60, but that it's respect that,
Starting point is 00:11:55 that is that's that's that's that's that's that's that
Starting point is 00:12:01 that's that does that's that he's that's that's
Starting point is 00:12:05 that that's that has no, that has apego
Starting point is 00:12:08 All that All that's because the heart of that person will be to synchronize with your and you
Starting point is 00:12:18 will be a sense of the innerciences. That's that's demonstrated in neurosciences The
Starting point is 00:12:24 so the heart the so when you're at a person that is
Starting point is 00:12:29 content of living and that is disposed to but not like a
Starting point is 00:12:35 decision but not like a form of life, well, that's
Starting point is 00:12:39 that's that's that's a rata. You're going to you're saying you're
Starting point is 00:12:44 because I'm a mark prior to the previ of the therapy and previ to the I wanted to
Starting point is 00:12:50 I'm need to I'm that I'm very important for that person, that I was
Starting point is 00:12:54 the center of the life of that person and if no it was I, I'm
Starting point is 00:12:58 really really sure, I'm very time, I'm talking my tap, my top super
Starting point is 00:13:04 toxic where I'm how you were? Terrible. for that I'm
Starting point is 00:13:09 terrible it was a it's a a angustia because then all the world is competition
Starting point is 00:13:15 yeah all is competition me they can getar me they can get them they're able one more
Starting point is 00:13:21 one more more exitoso one more impressive that's that's it's
Starting point is 00:13:27 so it's so it so it so I'm I'm I'm to make
Starting point is 00:13:30 to what you when I when I go to a woman that has a
Starting point is 00:13:35 life has no me needs that no depends to me to be and that
Starting point is 00:13:40 does it and that's like, ah, that liby she, she, she.
Starting point is 00:13:45 She's very good. I'm very attractive. So, it's because one can be. So,
Starting point is 00:13:51 because one is the, the base of the power to do the self-sucion in art
Starting point is 00:13:57 to seducing. And always it's always it's for the art of the
Starting point is 00:14:03 auto-acceptation, no, the pleasure of living. This is this. I'm going to
Starting point is 00:14:10 have to say it. It's a question. No. We have to say it because
Starting point is 00:14:14 when one person that's a life, it's not. And that's very attractive
Starting point is 00:14:20 for the other than us. See me no. But not teach me with the
Starting point is 00:14:26 rojo. No. No? No, but with the life, with
Starting point is 00:14:28 example. Now, well, there many, there's saying that
Starting point is 00:14:32 not I'm saying not they're I'm asking. There are much people, especially women, that I'm
Starting point is 00:14:37 saying, no, is that me like, I'm like me conquists. A me me like me conquisten. And what's the reason to, that's
Starting point is 00:14:44 that they're doing that they're to make the people, that's asking, that the man, that the man, that's
Starting point is 00:14:51 a man, I'm going to get me, and I know, when I call me, oh, prima, because in my experience, it's a person,
Starting point is 00:15:04 And, car, because if they're conquistartes, it's because you're disposed or disposed to submit to the conquist. The conquest has no has nothing to be with the seduction.
Starting point is 00:15:18 It's the contrary. The contrary. The conquistador is to look at the hermientas and the conduct as tal that you atrape and you a trap for what to do
Starting point is 00:15:32 with you what he does a good. I mean the
Starting point is 00:15:35 conquistador the submete to his strategies. It's all the contrary
Starting point is 00:15:42 of a seductor a seductor. A seductor a seductor respect to who is not
Starting point is 00:15:48 want to change. An conquistador to want to be a so you
Starting point is 00:15:52 to so for a frasquito in the and also correct
Starting point is 00:15:56 me if I am what I have with his a
Starting point is 00:15:59 man can can talk better of other other people,
Starting point is 00:16:02 no, because we know we're a people who people who are the people who
Starting point is 00:16:06 they're they're they're to go to get to get to another. So the
Starting point is 00:16:12 the conquist never to get to conquister. So, to that I mean, I'm
Starting point is 00:16:16 really a relationship monogama and you're very romantic at the
Starting point is 00:16:20 but you're they're going to keep to be. Look, all the
Starting point is 00:16:24 days in the consultory is what is what we're what you so it.
Starting point is 00:16:29 So to you, I don't know a lot of things to get you
Starting point is 00:16:33 you're you're sufficient you're you're it's a bad it's a repute
Starting point is 00:16:41 it's a rule there's a right it's right because because
Starting point is 00:16:45 so with that with that with that's they're but that doesn't
Starting point is 00:16:51 do you all the all that all the all it's not durer the only
Starting point is 00:16:56 that you do you do you you you develop you're in the you know
Starting point is 00:17:00 and you do you know it's it's inversed if you
Starting point is 00:17:04 need to you need to you feel like you you're in a little
Starting point is 00:17:10 and then then you because the because the hole is there and not and it
Starting point is 00:17:16 doesn't with the and not it's we're in the infidelity we've
Starting point is 00:17:22 the traditions of all type and many many
Starting point is 00:17:25 many times the infidelity not comes so to come to who can't, and if it's your prima, your brother, your friend, your, no what, it's, it's, it, it's, it's going to, so, there's, so, there's traditions that are double, triples, no,
Starting point is 00:17:41 because it's at least, you know, things very thrice. Very, very, very fortes. And they're turning in arroin' the life of the people. The conquistadors really have a life of
Starting point is 00:17:56 a much a lot of and they're with people or women who are the other other
Starting point is 00:18:01 other than they're they're they're not that the conquist the conquist the conquist
Starting point is 00:18:06 the does it has a bad because they're a suffering constant
Starting point is 00:18:10 of a that's that I'm I'm you know you're you're
Starting point is 00:18:14 you don't you know you're you because you have a problem
Starting point is 00:18:19 so there's The people, the pairjas, that have a good matrimonial, a good marriage, appears the infidelity. The culture says, no, no, if you, in your matrimonial to go very bad, then it appears the infidelity. Or the other that says the culture is, no, is that the man has an instinctual animal that can't contain it. And are two things totally in mentiras.
Starting point is 00:18:47 No, is certain that. Yeah. See? The, the infidelity comes from more to the more
Starting point is 00:18:53 to be in a day. A person that had been a couple in a couple, a good
Starting point is 00:19:01 a good family, a family, coffee, and, and so, and so, and they're
Starting point is 00:19:10 getting redounged with a cup, and it gets a lot, and it's stroza all. And then
Starting point is 00:19:17 in the therapy, he said, it's the only that I said in 20 years, and for this
Starting point is 00:19:22 this time all this will be to get and a one is little little
Starting point is 00:19:26 because all so so they have to think. And so there have to
Starting point is 00:19:32 the motivations, the significance of the type of events that has
Starting point is 00:19:38 that has been with the way in the question. If you're a person
Starting point is 00:19:43 that systematically that constantly is infiel the solution is another
Starting point is 00:19:47 conquist and another conquest, another conquest, the solution is to get with a work
Starting point is 00:19:50 personal, with a knowledge, with a word, you're doing that's looking at
Starting point is 00:19:56 the way and the person, it's not the people. No, no no way.
Starting point is 00:20:01 For the time, it's always about more of this, and there's people
Starting point is 00:20:05 that they interest to hear, but, but, but, so, if you
Starting point is 00:20:09 you're in a seducion permanent, every every day, you seduces to you, to do
Starting point is 00:20:14 you, to do a life, and to a and to your friends, and to your
Starting point is 00:20:18 employees, and to your family, and to your family, all you know, you know, you need to
Starting point is 00:20:25 you know, you know, and validate the instinct, nor, not, because you're valuable. Sure.
Starting point is 00:20:32 You're going to decide what is good for you, not you don't you want to self-traicioner
Starting point is 00:20:37 with an infidelity with a true or with the other conquest as a other conquest,
Starting point is 00:20:44 as a much more beautiful for one myself. Before to continue with the
Starting point is 00:20:51 podcast, I want to when was the last time that you felt really about
Starting point is 00:20:56 and I refer to that help to help to to
Starting point is 00:21:00 do to make to make sure to find solutions and to
Starting point is 00:21:05 find solutions and the same the science says clearly that there's
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Starting point is 00:22:01 me I'm a time that you're a part important of the solution of the
Starting point is 00:22:07 sufferments human. Sure. Very important. Yeah. It's like when you would
Starting point is 00:22:14 say a little a to do you a supermarket with a great you're going to you're going to
Starting point is 00:22:19 you're going to but in but in case if you're well as well you're being eaten, you're going to
Starting point is 00:22:24 you're going to you're to get to you're in tentations because you because you're well
Starting point is 00:22:29 if you're if you're so you're to be used to buy you you're whatever whatever thing
Starting point is 00:22:33 is is changing the mentality of conquistadores or conquistadores to seductor but the
Starting point is 00:22:40 seductor but the seduction starts when me I'm going to not to give a more,
Starting point is 00:22:44 I'm going to work to not have a way to start complete I'm going to seducing because I
Starting point is 00:22:52 have a very good relationship and there and there can't the infidilities and
Starting point is 00:22:58 the terrible decisions that can destroy something that you've you've done you're with a
Starting point is 00:23:04 bad decision. Because the conducta always has always has always to be aligned
Starting point is 00:23:08 to your objectives not to your emotions But then, a person that's
Starting point is 00:23:13 a person that's a person that's not a not necessarily not necessarily go to go to
Starting point is 00:23:18 do you, no needs these conducts desperated. When one is full of one
Starting point is 00:23:26 of one before to do something, he's he's question, what
Starting point is 00:23:31 I'm going to do with this, what I'm and that the vaccine the vaccine,
Starting point is 00:23:38 the vaccine that you that's that you affect the infidelity and the
Starting point is 00:23:46 and the tradition of any so how to do you know there's a lot
Starting point is 00:23:51 of the you need to keep up all the day the pleasure to
Starting point is 00:23:54 and you have to cultivate in the art of the seduction you
Starting point is 00:23:59 have you know that the desire is a
Starting point is 00:24:02 way a beautiful of self satisfac to from
Starting point is 00:24:08 from from the life has another color other color, I'm even in the
Starting point is 00:24:15 call in the call you you're going you're doing the people normally you're the majority
Starting point is 00:24:20 the majority well there another other that is being that is smiling the same
Starting point is 00:24:26 the that's the unarmarked no no no another
Starting point is 00:24:30 another another there's another there's but in general that
Starting point is 00:24:35 so it does that so it's it when you're soltero, but not
Starting point is 00:24:42 soltero because you're going to be soltero, but he's bads, soltero and sovice unciated, solterer,
Starting point is 00:24:49 you know, so it's not a person, and in a relationship, you're in a relation and
Starting point is 00:24:55 you're going to get a complete, complete, you're going to start all the ex-novios and the
Starting point is 00:24:59 ex-novias and of you're you're always for the other? It's just for that? I think it's
Starting point is 00:25:05 an element so, I think it's an element. There are others. For that type of things there are more variables than to analyze.
Starting point is 00:25:13 There's an expression that I me me like. The people are little. People little. I'm the little of the inside. It's beautiful. It's a little. It's attractive, wapo, wapo. Many of the
Starting point is 00:25:26 word, wapo, wapa, you're interesting, what gina, what's intelligent. It has something, has a little, has a-se-you- that's-you-trave. Yeah, no, that's attract. And it's your
Starting point is 00:25:36 your heart, vibrating in a one a on a one of your heart. And not
Starting point is 00:25:43 is metaphor what I'm not a metaphor is physical. Real, so like. Biological. But for
Starting point is 00:25:50 so sometimes when you're in a relation and you are a relation, because you're in
Starting point is 00:25:55 a relationship and is an relationship, but you're in a relation and you are real
Starting point is 00:25:58 you, you radias that feeling and you're not trying, and you are more attractive.
Starting point is 00:26:05 And you And you're in especially to the people that's like the like the
Starting point is 00:26:08 kind of the thing like the thing like and they're and they're so those and they're
Starting point is 00:26:14 so it's so little is being being a realel is that maybe energy that you
Starting point is 00:26:20 have that you're with a partner and that's a attractive or attractive
Starting point is 00:26:25 too. I always I think there's a difference very great in being
Starting point is 00:26:28 just just so and start don't tell us Tell us, what is the difference between being
Starting point is 00:26:36 alone and desoled, Nilda? Desolated is to be needed. No? It's that's the last porqueria of there, and then nobody
Starting point is 00:26:45 you want, and nobody's nothing, and nobody to do nothing. And then you're desolated, so just you just want
Starting point is 00:26:51 that someone to be and embrace and no. Poveitita. No? In the change,
Starting point is 00:26:57 being just a decision, if it's a decision conscientious, then you're going to have much time to cultivate. And for what you serve? I've cultivated here,
Starting point is 00:27:11 until when? No, no, it's certain. All we're just only, but we retro-alimenting. Our cresciminging
Starting point is 00:27:22 is retroalimented in the interaction with persons. I'm just like a way to interact with the people, with much people,
Starting point is 00:27:33 or with a lot of people, but with people. With the idea of the idea of, no, the system or of perttenencia, or a
Starting point is 00:27:42 a work, a club, or a a, a sport, or a family, or a religion,
Starting point is 00:27:49 or a, so I, pertenesco. So, I'm going solo, but not I'm alone.
Starting point is 00:27:56 Sure, it's complete. So I'm I'm I'm I'm retroalimented I'm consoled
Starting point is 00:28:03 in the mind I'm sure I'm remember a friend of that I'm that I'm know I'm
Starting point is 00:28:11 I'm and I'm I'm I'm because all I'm saying is that
Starting point is 00:28:16 Francisco is the man my friend my manchito I he's
Starting point is 00:28:20 he's presentable and he he don't me he didn't he he was
Starting point is 00:28:23 he was he was he was he was super seductor he'd be and bromia
Starting point is 00:28:29 and he'd turn to to be there nobody and then tell you tell you let me come
Starting point is 00:28:34 to get to try it another time I'm a good I'm he said Marko
Starting point is 00:28:38 is that you you're you're what I'm what I'm what I'm interested
Starting point is 00:28:42 are your am a you you're not you're you're not you're to present me
Starting point is 00:28:48 to me to me and I oh oh with that so I'm I'm
Starting point is 00:28:51 I'm that part of the art of the seducion was that he
Starting point is 00:28:55 was he was conquisting. He no had any intention. So the chicas, then the chas
Starting point is 00:29:00 were in, brawomen with him, balled them, they were they were not he was not,
Starting point is 00:29:05 he was to give us and talk, and get them to get us to get us to the camera,
Starting point is 00:29:10 and then they were to there was there's a ch'est, I'm just that's a
Starting point is 00:29:16 manchita I'm I'm just how I'm so that so I'm so that when I'm
Starting point is 00:29:19 coming to me and I know, oh, yeah, when you when you're
Starting point is 00:29:23 when you you're when you're when you're when you're you're you're you're you're
Starting point is 00:29:29 you're all the worst you're when you try when you intendas a men's
Starting point is 00:29:36 a conducts of a narcissist there in the strategies that
Starting point is 00:29:42 uses that type of people always always always always
Starting point is 00:29:47 always so then then then you to you're
Starting point is 00:29:51 to you will be the The better hear of the world
Starting point is 00:29:56 and be to be to be a close to you until you
Starting point is 00:30:00 really can't in their not anyone who who
Starting point is 00:30:05 who can be in the people need the people so
Starting point is 00:30:09 so this person what is conquist to do
Starting point is 00:30:14 so to to to to to through to
Starting point is 00:30:16 to think to some and today today there
Starting point is 00:30:22 many of this type? It's a mental free. That's in the mind free.
Starting point is 00:30:26 It's it's a thing in the first health mental wow,
Starting point is 00:30:33 the first health mental in the United in the narcissism so I have to
Starting point is 00:30:37 have to have to be care it grew much in the
Starting point is 00:30:41 pandemic for? For? The level of the level of the
Starting point is 00:30:47 people need in isolation really really But in Narciso, always what is to make it.
Starting point is 00:30:56 It's a bit. It's a new. In what you need is. In darts what is, you know, in a lot of, and one way that you pesco,
Starting point is 00:31:06 then now you're going to try to destroy to destroy you? For what? For that no you can't say? For that
Starting point is 00:31:15 every you need more. It's a pathology. Yes. But there, all this, when we're all because many
Starting point is 00:31:24 a lot of the person is a narcissist is a no, no, it's a no, it's a no, it's a
Starting point is 00:31:28 no, it's a lot of a conquest and a unquest and a conquest so, I mean, I'm,
Starting point is 00:31:35 I'm quite, I'm going to and the man. And the narcissist is it's a problem also,
Starting point is 00:31:42 it's not in a form very very in a form more more than
Starting point is 00:31:47 more It's It's true that the most that's a
Starting point is 00:31:50 attractive and when you're when you know you when you put it like a
Starting point is 00:31:54 carasa that's not a not true? No, no is not true? It's a
Starting point is 00:31:59 myth? It's a myth. It's a myth. There is a question
Starting point is 00:32:04 between vulnerable and need to that's that's a attractive
Starting point is 00:32:09 but vulnerable is a problem because vulnerable can
Starting point is 00:32:14 be you need so So that trap, that's a fixia, that's... There's a grad of
Starting point is 00:32:20 vulnerability, that is when you're when you're sensible. Amuestras your emotions? Exactly.
Starting point is 00:32:27 You're, you're doing a question and you're with a authenticity, no? So it would
Starting point is 00:32:33 more than the authenticity is what is what is attractive, not the vulnerability. Yes, the authenticity
Starting point is 00:32:38 being vulnerable to certain things, but without even to expect that the other
Starting point is 00:32:44 see the obligation or the obligation to contain to contain to no.
Starting point is 00:32:49 So, no, that's no. So if you're to show your fact that you're in the
Starting point is 00:32:57 expectation of that's very well. You've already, you've been much. The
Starting point is 00:33:03 those gulfs amygdened, the gulfs, the gropes. Oye, myth or reality of that the
Starting point is 00:33:09 opposites be attract those opposites are seductor a A few. A A few. The word
Starting point is 00:33:17 favorite a termino a favorite. A few. One of a conference of these presenciales
Starting point is 00:33:23 and a child and me says, well, Ninda, but if we can't pay nothing
Starting point is 00:33:28 and if we can do do, to make to make a feeling in the
Starting point is 00:33:34 other and no we can do you have said. For what is the Parenth?
Starting point is 00:33:40 A student frustrated. For what that's what I said to do you do this. To goadertie. How to goadette? How to goadette?
Starting point is 00:33:50 Sure. Because in this of the opposites, no? That no, there's no the differences, but of the
Starting point is 00:33:56 differences and at times of the different differences, and differences of religions, differences of
Starting point is 00:34:02 races, differences of cultures, different, of the stil of life. A a lot of
Starting point is 00:34:07 those things and it has a idea evolutionary, because are the differences those that are the ones that are
Starting point is 00:34:14 when you they're getting to grow to get to exactly. When you look when you say,
Starting point is 00:34:22 but what things, but how? I mean, I like the person. It's really I, I'll
Starting point is 00:34:30 do you know, but what I'm with this? Well, you can say that the other is so-local not?
Starting point is 00:34:36 It's all but that's makes that we turn the and we find out of our
Starting point is 00:34:43 for what we serve that's a difference is a trick a little for the little
Starting point is 00:34:50 to invite to get to get to get to because you know that's the other
Starting point is 00:34:56 can't you know you're you're to be to be to nobody's
Starting point is 00:35:01 to be to always we need that the other has more than
Starting point is 00:35:07 women that's the man, that are so manipulatory, so good manipulators that are, that the man are to do the and when they're doing
Starting point is 00:35:20 enough, they're doing they're doing another. You're domestic and then they're because they're a new.
Starting point is 00:35:27 Needsitin someone for that's a for that they're a different. A person that you obeysse that is clavo.
Starting point is 00:35:33 Sure. Your assistant, your esclabo, your, no. You someto, then I'm aburres, me aburres, me
Starting point is 00:35:39 I'm also the equivalent to the man conquistate of and deseched, conquista, conquest and desech. Here,
Starting point is 00:35:47 I'm going to say, ah, I'm saying, ah, I'm saying, that's saidying to make a problem, cede to me
Starting point is 00:35:56 care, cede, for me be, ced me be, no? And you're caving, and you're caving,
Starting point is 00:36:02 and you're, and you're, and you're, if you're, because the relationship is a negotiation constant,
Starting point is 00:36:06 but no, no, not not a negotiation constant? No. No? No. No. How no? A me,
Starting point is 00:36:13 all the people that are in a pair me say, the clave of the relationship is negotiate, is, no? No.
Starting point is 00:36:19 No. No. First, the negotiation and your partner not can be your business.
Starting point is 00:36:28 Well, well, yes, it can be, but, but it's very, not very very
Starting point is 00:36:36 No, but that's accountability. That's not to do with with the love to be and a see,
Starting point is 00:36:42 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
Starting point is 00:36:44 no, go to every way, every there's a difference, so, my cards,
Starting point is 00:36:50 and the twoas, we're to come, we're to a dialogue, you, you,
Starting point is 00:36:54 for you, you're, you're, you're using, and how you to get, to get, and what you
Starting point is 00:36:59 do you do you, and both, put them, all these responses, that many
Starting point is 00:37:05 times not we're and the question is the question
Starting point is 00:37:07 is the question that's that both understand what the other
Starting point is 00:37:12 has in the other in the person, the dialogue abirto
Starting point is 00:37:17 is so long as as necessary for that
Starting point is 00:37:22 that we're in that we're very content to have
Starting point is 00:37:27 gotten to the point to get a exactly
Starting point is 00:37:31 the contrary. A negotiation is try to to lose the less possible and gain the
Starting point is 00:37:37 more possible and for one cede to the other to the other to have more lavia or more money
Starting point is 00:37:44 or more energy more more want so then so so
Starting point is 00:37:50 sode but it's so the that's the the
Starting point is 00:37:56 he's the the negotiation and the ced all all
Starting point is 00:38:00 all this has all very car in the relations, very car, because the accountability is going to
Starting point is 00:38:07 replace to the love. If I did this, now to you have to do this
Starting point is 00:38:14 other, because I do it for you. So now to you to take for me,
Starting point is 00:38:19 you know, you're going and the right. And there is the factura? Yes, sir.
Starting point is 00:38:25 No. So, no, no. There is to dialogue. Dialogar. Dialogar.
Starting point is 00:38:31 Entendent. To understand, accept, and respecter that the other is another different of me and that if dialogue we can't, I can't understand,
Starting point is 00:38:42 you can't with the head, I can't understand how is that it's that it occurs to think that you think.
Starting point is 00:38:50 If I know, know, how you think the life, that's the story of life, and he used
Starting point is 00:38:56 a system of creencers specific. And that can be changed totally. Well, the that I have there
Starting point is 00:39:03 is the that has the thing is the he has the way, when I'm putting in your system
Starting point is 00:39:08 of the credences, I can't feel the other. And when I'm understand
Starting point is 00:39:15 and I understand, then, in the book of stomach, and I can't always
Starting point is 00:39:19 I can accept to the other, accepter that, that is different and that
Starting point is 00:39:27 has a different, has a different. Because, has a story of different to my.
Starting point is 00:39:35 That's a respect that's different and you feel different and is different and it's different
Starting point is 00:39:41 and it and it's different than what I would this is a kind of a kind of and the
Starting point is 00:39:48 relationship is fundamental to eliminate the decision of the relationship that
Starting point is 00:39:54 I'm understand, I'm understand, I accept and I'm do,
Starting point is 00:39:57 I'm I don't I coincide with you. No, I don't have to be but I'm
Starting point is 00:40:05 to be able but I'm but also I'm just going and I'm and I'm and I'm that I'm
Starting point is 00:40:11 that I'm you can't you can't do you but I'm in that I'm not I'm still
Starting point is 00:40:18 you do do you do I'm I'm but I'm do you do you know do this
Starting point is 00:40:24 this process is not it's not can't be from the condescension I'm superior to you
Starting point is 00:40:29 and I'm superior to you that's sub-deseroyated and that you know what I know that's not no respect, no, that's not to be able
Starting point is 00:40:38 to be able that's overbervia exact, so you have to you have to you're going to you're too you're not
Starting point is 00:40:43 that's not that's too incommod but it because it generates a lot that's it's
Starting point is 00:40:49 at the principle is incommu but after it's turned in an exercise
Starting point is 00:40:53 that you know you know you you know you If you mixlas this type of resources with the
Starting point is 00:41:01 seducion permanent, the human is a human for being to be used to be said, for being used, or chuped, or lamid, or what you want to.
Starting point is 00:41:11 Oh,olid. No, what you want. But we need to the contact. So, then you mixl these type of resources,
Starting point is 00:41:20 of the pleasure of living and the seducion permanent, all the resources, and it's very sympathetic. Yes,
Starting point is 00:41:26 Yeah, so if your intention is clear, for what I'm in a relation? Right. For what I'm why I'm
Starting point is 00:41:35 my life? If your intention is to grow, and be really happy, that felicity that's the feeling of the
Starting point is 00:41:42 complete, then then so all the out of the other I'm see you're in other eyes.
Starting point is 00:41:46 And those things are doing you're doing all the sense. And nothing to gocear, nothing to
Starting point is 00:41:52 cedder, nothing of sacrifice, nothing of that. Nothing of that. All that, so everything,
Starting point is 00:41:57 always it's pure myths. And then the love is going in
Starting point is 00:42:04 countability. I'm you know, now go I'm so, here, here,
Starting point is 00:42:10 here, oh, no you've not, you know, you know, you know,
Starting point is 00:42:13 I'm well, you know, I'm going to the or the reverse? Oh,
Starting point is 00:42:20 oh, I'm, I'm going to get the the Basura. If you're you're
Starting point is 00:42:26 you're saying very limitanties, stereotypes, stereotypes, you know, you want to you say Santa.
Starting point is 00:42:33 And if can't and it's a beautiful. Yes, so you can and it's beautiful. Thank you.
Starting point is 00:42:37 Mielde, thank you, thank you, you're doing, until the end of the year of April, almost
Starting point is 00:42:43 the beginning of May, 2026, you're starting a new course. Renoved a course
Starting point is 00:42:48 that I put two , let's classicita more, that's that's sanating the infidelity
Starting point is 00:42:55 I'm to get a time or something or something like a day or for a
Starting point is 00:43:00 open, a bit of questions and questions of all the those who have taken the
Starting point is 00:43:04 course, for if there are still still and because the
Starting point is 00:43:09 traisions the infidelity is a true and as a trauma
Starting point is 00:43:14 not, and it is a only not because the time. The time
Starting point is 00:43:19 not because the It's all the locura, all. No, never. And you know why? Because the
Starting point is 00:43:26 Cerebrose no has time. Let's know. We have two great memories, no,
Starting point is 00:43:32 Nipuco and the amygd, all the that's all the memory, enter to a kind of
Starting point is 00:43:38 a sort of a bit of time. So, we're supposed to put in a year
Starting point is 00:43:44 before a year, but today, for whatever you, you've got
Starting point is 00:43:48 very too or not you're in the you know it's going to the same
Starting point is 00:43:52 it's not for the same because here's there's there's still in the it's
Starting point is 00:43:58 still in it's even that's so that's that's me still I'm going to because the
Starting point is 00:44:04 trauma is real because the problem to learn to learn to learn and also
Starting point is 00:44:09 and also it's also it's to be to work much the
Starting point is 00:44:13 love the self concept the self self-confidence. The self-confidence is fundamental because in a
Starting point is 00:44:19 tradition, you get to lose all the confidence. You're living in a world hostile, terribly-demeanly doloroso, where no has passed, and present, any future. The course is for who was traditioned and has a dolor, or also for the traditioners, that want to have to transioners?
Starting point is 00:44:35 Yes, because also the time can't contemplate the dolores of the who transioner. Because the who traitiona, like this person that's a little, 7, that
Starting point is 00:44:45 per die of all for a thing without but if yet to say that other person says, but you're
Starting point is 00:44:53 you're going to 20 years to the basura for one thing without a and he per die the relationship,
Starting point is 00:44:59 perjure the relationship, but also the family, but also the patrimonial and the and he
Starting point is 00:45:05 and it and it really. The plan of life, all, the
Starting point is 00:45:12 people, the people, the people, the he's, it's a bit,
Starting point is 00:45:14 it's no, because they're many, they're many, so they're always
Starting point is 00:45:21 to look at all the sides. And also, a question frequent is that,
Starting point is 00:45:26 no, if we were so we were perfect, why me passed
Starting point is 00:45:31 this, well, well, there's to reflection and salarro.
Starting point is 00:45:35 So, if they've been infieles, or if that has
Starting point is 00:45:39 been infiel if you want to the course is for
Starting point is 00:45:43 you or if you want to do to prevent to
Starting point is 00:45:48 that they do do that to get that and
Starting point is 00:45:52 that and for all those people that people
Starting point is 00:45:56 that are thinking that only you for me
Starting point is 00:46:00 and you for you a sexual exclusive that
Starting point is 00:46:05 that is that the infidelity is a mechanism that has the model of love romantic
Starting point is 00:46:14 to give the relations asphyxiant. It's part of the model. It's part of the model. No, it's part of the model. As you refer to this, you're a level biologic,
Starting point is 00:46:29 a level psychological, to level... At level... At a level... No, it's... All systems of systems of creencia where you actuas
Starting point is 00:46:36 generating I don't know what expectatives, because if you do, the other, or other, you're going to do it, and it's a
Starting point is 00:46:44 no, because it's a system of a creed to human, and this that you have to be
Starting point is 00:46:50 to make, and I, you, to get to , you, to get to to fixi to the
Starting point is 00:46:54 relationships and when you get asphyxied, you, you're going to go to the way,
Starting point is 00:47:00 to look at another person, you're going to get to be to be to your
Starting point is 00:47:05 identity a part of your identity affixied. The other person is circumstantial. But when you feel is a real.
Starting point is 00:47:12 This is what I'm what I'm what you see? I'm feeling me felt me real
Starting point is 00:47:18 I'm normal again I'm I'm I'm I'm my same
Starting point is 00:47:24 and this is a problem of the model that affixia to the love
Starting point is 00:47:29 and the love wow, it's going to be good the course
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