El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 429.- Lenguaje corporal, dinero y relaciones, qué revela tu cuerpo | Bárbara Tijerina

Episode Date: May 4, 2026

¿Cuántas oportunidades has perdido sin saber por qué? La respuesta puede estar en algo que nunca te enseñaron: tu lenguaje corporal. Bárbara Tijerina, experta en comunicación n...o verbal y autora de El Poder del Lenguaje Sin Palabras, revela cómo tu cuerpo toma decisiones por ti antes de que abras la boca. Comunicarte mejor abre puertas. Pero si sientes que algo más grande te está frenando, te invito a mi masterclass gratuita Rompe las barreras y diseña la vida que deseas. 👇🏻https://marcoantonioregil.com/vida-podcast/ *Importante: Nuestros invitados son expertos en sus temas y reflejan su conocimiento y su punto de vista, siendo conscientes de que cada una de las opiniones es totalmente personal. La información, datos, comentarios, estadísticas que se presenten en el Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil, son de exclusiva responsabilidad de quienes las emiten y no representan, necesariamente, el pensamiento de Marco Antonio Regil o de la producción del podcast.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 What is What is our language Corporal. To put to persuade, Vendend, you have to
Starting point is 00:00:05 aligner what you're doing, because there's there's a people to the people who are we're doing to see how much.
Starting point is 00:00:11 Nobody can't to learn to the person. What I'm to say? I'll be your
Starting point is 00:00:15 and you have your time. The interview of the time when you're when you
Starting point is 00:00:19 start to my know, I'm not to know more. The sonrisa
Starting point is 00:00:23 is a movement of some mission. That's you can block your
Starting point is 00:00:27 your career, your Exit. You know who is the is the people are the
Starting point is 00:00:31 people will be a bit of the people? And no there's that's not a
Starting point is 00:00:36 security. The podcast of Mark Antonio Regil is a production of RGial Entertainment and
Starting point is 00:00:43 all his rights are reserved and the power of the
Starting point is 00:00:50 we say we're because a sometimes we don't we're not I'm going to
Starting point is 00:00:53 not I don't use the words incorrectas and what is our language
Starting point is 00:00:59 is our language corporal. the fact, the statistics say that what we say we're only the
Starting point is 00:01:04 7% of the piece of the communication. Only the 7% are the words. What the other, what we don't
Starting point is 00:01:10 do we say with the is what you really communicate. Because of you know, you know, you know,
Starting point is 00:01:17 or you have confidence and you know you know what you? And because at the reverse, you see, this
Starting point is 00:01:22 person, like, no me lat, no me and I've used a word about it. Well,
Starting point is 00:01:27 so, today we're we're going to be Muchissimo. With our great Barbara Tigerina that's
Starting point is 00:01:31 in the program. Welcome. Thank you, Mark. A good of good to be with me to be here. Barbara,
Starting point is 00:01:35 thanks for to be with us to get to let us. We'll get for there. Because automatically
Starting point is 00:01:40 there's people to the we want to we're going to we're going and we want to be we're going to
Starting point is 00:01:47 see. It's not about the dissonance that between what they do you say, that
Starting point is 00:01:55 they're saying, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I'm very
Starting point is 00:01:57 emotional in this project. And says, is, is he holly. Dicelo to do it, because no, no, no
Starting point is 00:02:03 see. So, so, to be to do you, to be to help to be
Starting point is 00:02:10 to beend, for you, you know, you have to aligner what you say, with what you do you
Starting point is 00:02:17 do you do you know, when it's authentic, you get the message. Yes.
Starting point is 00:02:21 One of the factors more important, fiat, is the voice. The voice.
Starting point is 00:02:26 The voice is the most difficult to finging. In the tone of voice of the people
Starting point is 00:02:30 you can know how real is what you're saying. The voice is directly connected with
Starting point is 00:02:36 the system limbical, so if you're still, so you're a lot, it's a voice,
Starting point is 00:02:42 it's a start, and if you start, how is the voice? More Lenta,
Starting point is 00:02:46 more less, but not it doesn't do you know, it's a statistic
Starting point is 00:02:51 says, and this this is this, I'm learned when I'm taught class with
Starting point is 00:02:55 Robert Kiosaki and Blair Singer, and, dear myesters, the 7% of the communication
Starting point is 00:02:59 are the words. The tone of voice that's saying is the 38% and the 55%
Starting point is 00:03:05 are the gestures, the mind, the language. All the language corporal. So, the no verbal.
Starting point is 00:03:11 So, no, not a preoccupated for what I say, no, and so.
Starting point is 00:03:14 And so, you do you, do you, do you, do you're getting a power and
Starting point is 00:03:20 changing the other, and at the final, you know, what did the people,
Starting point is 00:03:23 the people, just that's that's the language corporal, the posture
Starting point is 00:03:28 of the world, the world of the head of the thing, is what you do you know
Starting point is 00:03:34 to do you want to be about or not I'm going to do you do you know, and you know,
Starting point is 00:03:38 and you are very superiors, Marko, you that you do you're to know,
Starting point is 00:03:44 you're going, a lot of you're saying, and they're saying, and you're a little and you
Starting point is 00:03:48 do you and the little bit and the the ball gets. Sure. The same
Starting point is 00:03:53 in the language corporal. A sometimes I've talked to assorated
Starting point is 00:03:56 to start to make a lot of if you say I'm to say it and if you say
Starting point is 00:04:01 to you do you do it. But it's a tonteria it's like the the
Starting point is 00:04:06 racquet. But it is that you know, in a barbara me know,
Starting point is 00:04:10 with a with the end of an hand. It's like an
Starting point is 00:04:13 other. It's like a power passel to passel by
Starting point is 00:04:17 with is an invitation, welcome. You're just to like a regano. It's like a little.
Starting point is 00:04:24 So, it's like you're to do you're in to do that to make a character, for say it to some way.
Starting point is 00:04:32 Now, in the world of the ventas, because all we have people, there's a little bit of a little bit
Starting point is 00:04:37 to do it, but all the world of the business, that's basic. You have to get to a little bit,
Starting point is 00:04:44 you get to a new new a new thing of the book, and this book, the power of is it's good.
Starting point is 00:04:51 Sylvendor me says, yes, it's good. No, I've read it, but me it's it.
Starting point is 00:04:54 So, we're or do you? Do you? Or do you? Exactly. And that's the power. But nobody
Starting point is 00:05:00 to teach a learn to the people. Because of when you're talking with someone, it's mured
Starting point is 00:05:07 the labo. Because of the right? Because of a barba and it's a little massacito. All right.
Starting point is 00:05:14 What do you when you're talking when I'm talking about and you I'm talking of the language corporal, and of a bit of the
Starting point is 00:05:20 book, but I'm in the hand of the hands behind. Something you're not about. Something I'm not doing the other. When you're doing the
Starting point is 00:05:27 things, you're doing the things you're doing that you're not. Well, that's the time of the people take a pistol or a
Starting point is 00:05:31 a piece of a piece of a thing, I'm not, I'm not so I'm no, I'm no, I'm not I'm not trying in the,
Starting point is 00:05:36 I'm not, I'm not, yeah, and the origin is from the Romanos, so the saludo, for example, the origin of
Starting point is 00:05:43 the origin of the salud was to be you have the hand. So for that you never to have the
Starting point is 00:05:48 hand. In the antebrassau you know to make you to make you a little you're not
Starting point is 00:05:52 that's a little bit of the importance of the saluted when they saluted the politicians in front
Starting point is 00:05:59 there are 500 cameras making like like like chosh so so
Starting point is 00:06:03 so and taking who is the one who he's the time
Starting point is 00:06:09 does it because a more with you I'm I'm of eight. If I do you
Starting point is 00:06:15 the hand and I put my my man up up to do you know, it's dominance or submission. If you put
Starting point is 00:06:20 the palm as a back, let's describe it very well for the those you're the the palm
Starting point is 00:06:26 to the bottom is dominance the palm to the palm to the arm or when no they're in the
Starting point is 00:06:33 arm and they're and they're doing, Donald Trump has that's so does that do you
Starting point is 00:06:37 do it's a way, it's a way to say it's a way to Macron he's
Starting point is 00:06:43 he's stabilisa. And then you have to reactionate, there's a there's a lot of far out. For that
Starting point is 00:06:50 for that's, in one occasion, he took to say, Macron, he was to get to the
Starting point is 00:06:56 president of France, yeah. And so I've talked with various, I've talked about
Starting point is 00:07:01 with Trudeau, I'm knew that he said, hey, what we're what we're doing this
Starting point is 00:07:06 with this quater. And then the second the second he was the
Starting point is 00:07:11 he, he pared to the hand, so, and with the whole of
Starting point is 00:07:14 the whole of the orange, and he was black, blank, blank, of how
Starting point is 00:07:18 he was he and he he said, Macron, and he says, Macron,
Starting point is 00:07:24 in politics, no, we can give concessions, nor the symbolics. Okay.
Starting point is 00:07:30 So, we have to mark limits, yeah, so, okay, so all
Starting point is 00:07:33 all you do, so you look, as you are, if you're, you're
Starting point is 00:07:38 with the Hombos Abirtos. What I always say the body is that the mind
Starting point is 00:07:42 and there's there's a communication all the time. The insula of the Cerebrose this posture
Starting point is 00:07:49 with what associates this Corbidita with depression with a depression and that's not
Starting point is 00:07:54 about that's all that is the issue the Cereverver. When you adoptes a
Starting point is 00:08:01 position corporal, the insula we're all right we're so we're allados exactly the
Starting point is 00:08:07 Cerebris imita what the what the body is mark. The body is the the person
Starting point is 00:08:12 and how it is a question. And the postura is a specialist in language in verbal,
Starting point is 00:08:19 that has a TED Talk that has I think 75 million of views of she, she
Starting point is 00:08:24 put to study in Stanford, what we can we can't do we can do that postura
Starting point is 00:08:30 or the woman or the woman maravita that is the hands of the hairra
Starting point is 00:08:34 this is the The Cuello, the Cuello, the front. Peachter. This is power. And what she says
Starting point is 00:08:44 is that augmenting your levels of testosterone, which is the hormone that you make risk, and it's the levels of cortisol,
Starting point is 00:08:51 which is the hormone of the stress. Unfortunately, the language corporal, they're in the studies advancing and
Starting point is 00:08:57 advancing and now they're not so because, imagineate that I'm to get to something,
Starting point is 00:09:03 Mark. And you you're so. Hello, Mark. Oh, I mean, I'd
Starting point is 00:09:06 laugh. Well, with your sonrissota me would be a rizabeth if it's a little
Starting point is 00:09:10 that's a little I'm doing what you're so. So, then what they is that
Starting point is 00:09:16 mark the distance to the armor is security but so under woman.
Starting point is 00:09:22 Sin, without the hand of the carer because they're doing doing
Starting point is 00:09:35 before you attack, you take the callmills, we're doing. We're going to do this. All this. The language
Starting point is 00:10:03 is corporal, we're doing in form inconscient. he said, is that the switch of charisma and glamour of marilyn Monroe is a
Starting point is 00:10:08 switch that I'm I'm going or ap the photographer he said, he's not you're
Starting point is 00:10:13 you're not we're going to go, we're going to go to and with a sack and any
Starting point is 00:10:21 who'd have to see, and then when it goes to Lexington Avenue
Starting point is 00:10:26 and they put in the vestido of rayon and and it
Starting point is 00:10:30 and he the A lot of the Adopted the posture of Marilyn Monroe and the character, the character
Starting point is 00:10:35 and the image, no? So, so many times our words are saying something and our
Starting point is 00:10:39 person and there a incongruency and we're getting, convincing, trying to be leaders in our family,
Starting point is 00:10:46 with the family, with the family, with the company, there, there's a problem, and that you can't
Starting point is 00:10:51 block your your your career, your your success, your no, they're
Starting point is 00:10:55 not, they're part, it's, in advertido. In theater, it's always in actuation,
Starting point is 00:11:00 like you know, like you know, the text and the text, no, so it's, one thing I'm what I'm doing,
Starting point is 00:11:04 the fact I'm saying, oh, I'm, hey, I'm, to say, oh, what I'm, that's just two things different.
Starting point is 00:11:12 I said, I said, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm, but I know, I'm, exactly, your tone of
Starting point is 00:11:17 voice was another language, completely different. And the majority of the people in the planet
Starting point is 00:11:21 no, has, so, no, no, know, know, know,
Starting point is 00:11:24 know how you know how how the language corporal what is that you know how you know how you know what you
Starting point is 00:11:30 know what you can't say you but I'm going to you know how you see a lot of a lot of let me talk about let me talk about
Starting point is 00:11:37 let me make for the whole or not they take in serious or you or they're they're not they're trying
Starting point is 00:11:45 your idea or your product what are those are basic one one move
Starting point is 00:11:49 you get nervous to get to get to get to get to the
Starting point is 00:11:53 rapidness, a calm. Aster do you to be the own to the first. Nott one of the
Starting point is 00:12:00 great errors is the nods that's to feel a lot of like the tachis
Starting point is 00:12:08 that's, that's, that's, and then then they say, and then you come in
Starting point is 00:12:12 you're coming so, so. So, movements rapid, are like, I'm like, I'm sorry, I'm, I'm sorry,
Starting point is 00:12:20 you, contagions, the emotions are, So if you get a interviewer of and you get in that state
Starting point is 00:12:26 how you get to get a question, you're saying you're a person insecure. Or you're an person
Starting point is 00:12:32 a vendor or is a vendor, you're doing it you're doing a job to or you're to offerciending to a
Starting point is 00:12:36 company or you want to convince her to get you movements like intermitent shortitos rapid
Starting point is 00:12:43 Oh, oh, so very do you do you. Yeah, so. Oh,
Starting point is 00:12:46 thank you. I said you know, but no no, no, it's but I'm
Starting point is 00:12:48 not But, fifted, the changes are subtle. Because at the way, it's a
Starting point is 00:12:54 way, it was a good that that were a signiaring. For so, there's to mark the
Starting point is 00:13:00 difference. So, fiftate, Marcos, if I'm talking, you're you're telling
Starting point is 00:13:05 to the doctor, that's that's a but that in the night, and the doctor
Starting point is 00:13:10 to be and he's doing so, and you just being so, asintient despis,
Starting point is 00:13:13 what you see, confidence, I'm saying, is to be reasoning what I'm going to do you do you know
Starting point is 00:13:19 if you're going to do a situation, to do you a child to do you call to say,
Starting point is 00:13:25 yeah, yeah, tomorrow we're so we're no, no, no, no, no,
Starting point is 00:13:30 no, no, for favor. Imagineate. Another thing important, is the appearance or
Starting point is 00:13:37 the role. The rope the rope about. When you you enter to an
Starting point is 00:13:40 place, before you're the book, your she said, me
Starting point is 00:13:44 I'm I was, the Pell, the health of the skin, the health of the teeth, the appearance.
Starting point is 00:13:50 There are people that I'm saying, oh, it's that in the politicians, not the people are
Starting point is 00:13:54 not the put it, and for what they're doing, and I want to do you know says, how it's
Starting point is 00:14:00 Fiatty, he, the other day in a lot of a lot of a political, the
Starting point is 00:14:06 role, the role, does it does it, I'm, if I'm a man, it's a
Starting point is 00:14:10 language. If it the arremango, is another language. If a a chava let's I'm, I'm,
Starting point is 00:14:16 if I'm, if I'm over, it's another language. As a new language, as my mom, to do it, first you have to
Starting point is 00:14:23 do it. Well, and the politicians are super-studiedos. The politicians, when they get at levels important, or when
Starting point is 00:14:29 are candidates, they're a people like you and a lot of experts to see, how they're going to do, how they
Starting point is 00:14:35 to be to how they're to do you do something, what you sit and do you do like simulations
Starting point is 00:14:40 of interviews, and they're a corrupt and no I don't know and they're so they're so
Starting point is 00:14:44 they're so they're they're so much there's time time there's a lot of and they're not trained and and for example Margaret Thatcher Margaret Thatcher
Starting point is 00:15:05 the dame of Yerro Yeah, she's She had a tone of original or so your voice Orrose of voice piyudo. It's a good, it's a good.
Starting point is 00:15:15 Very, very alto. Never I've heard that but I'm good. I'm going pillood.
Starting point is 00:15:21 Ah, carrie. It's like of Monterey. It's like of Monterey. It's like very high
Starting point is 00:15:26 that's very old, that's very that's that's studied is that for example if you
Starting point is 00:15:31 you're going to be a conference a political a one of a a vendor or whatever
Starting point is 00:15:35 if you have voice of these pillude are some are so much
Starting point is 00:15:38 persuasive and also I'm say another. After 20, 25 seconds,
Starting point is 00:15:43 you're saying no point you're like this voice. It's like Sergio Jimenez, grand actor,
Starting point is 00:15:48 director of theater, a master of actuation. When one of the time I'm a question, it
Starting point is 00:16:01 was a melody of a music, or it's a music that you're saying, and he said, if you want to
Starting point is 00:16:08 say, if you're a person a personage, it's a person put in the voice shillona and nerviosa,
Starting point is 00:16:13 etc. And also, and also, if I'm going to do a person, if the person is a
Starting point is 00:16:19 person important, about this talk about and it's that's a time, because is a person that
Starting point is 00:16:27 not has a person who is a person who is to be able to talk about that I'm desperate because he's afraid
Starting point is 00:16:34 that you don't have to have to say so what you're to say. And so,
Starting point is 00:16:37 and so just in the pure rhythm, you just PURRITM. In the pure rhythm. And that you
Starting point is 00:16:43 have said of the voice, of a lot to move nervous, yes. It's also with the
Starting point is 00:16:48 coming. There's people who have done a time to come in and to get authority
Starting point is 00:16:55 to come in the same. And the same is you can't see the people who are the
Starting point is 00:17:04 homebrose of the work the language of no valgo nothing. How it's
Starting point is 00:17:07 James Bond? T. Very secure. Very sure. He's going No, they're going to but he
Starting point is 00:17:15 tranquill. The trie He's not. And they're sure And they're And they're They're
Starting point is 00:17:22 They're They're The same The Of course The men It's sexy No
Starting point is 00:17:27 In the Women's is the It's the It's the One of The I'm
Starting point is 00:17:33 I'm to put to example No to the He studied language no verbal since much.
Starting point is 00:17:38 With Alan Peace, an Australian was Vladimir Putin. Okay. Of how to show
Starting point is 00:17:43 power. It's much things bad. But camin' do you do very well.
Starting point is 00:17:47 With his training in the KGB, has the hand right always a place.
Starting point is 00:17:52 The pistol. The hand left. And you can't be a people,
Starting point is 00:17:58 and you're getting pausable, and he's important. Because it's important, because me, I
Starting point is 00:18:05 time. I'm saying I'm going to I'm going. Meresco that time. And when you're
Starting point is 00:18:09 trying to and you're you're saying, you don't I'm important, no I'm going to make the
Starting point is 00:18:15 time. So I'm going to get to go and you're going to put attention. So, is.
Starting point is 00:18:21 And Margaret Tacher just to her last, the voice the voice, she was to go to
Starting point is 00:18:24 go to go to go to the doctor, to be to be a voice for that were
Starting point is 00:18:29 more more tolerable his voice. The other thing is she was, she was,
Starting point is 00:18:35 No, there were women, leaders in that era. And then, so, so, to be vestia with more space, more power. And she used a gestus very very durous. In a world of women, used the dead, indice, accuser, and it was her
Starting point is 00:18:49 way to impone. So, so the language, the language no-verbal also, is changing in the time. Right, for example, Hassinda Arden, who was the first
Starting point is 00:18:59 minister of New Zealand, she says, the amability, not is debilidad. She can be amable and mandar. So,
Starting point is 00:19:08 so she, in the pandemic was there was a lot of colors, that were the women, of colors,
Starting point is 00:19:14 that's all that's she painted the box of the rojo, Muestra the palms. She always when she says,
Starting point is 00:19:21 she says, daba the order of the pandemic, guardens, you know, what I had to say, and at the final
Starting point is 00:19:27 say, be amables. Be kind. Be kind. Be kind. Be kind. Be kind. Be kind.
Starting point is 00:19:31 Be kind. Sean am amable. . It's the new leadership female. That's a matter.
Starting point is 00:19:34 That's a matter. And all of you can't get a question a interviewer from Morgan
Starting point is 00:19:40 Freeman. We've got to Morgan Freeman, actor of Hollywood, Afro-American that has made the
Starting point is 00:19:46 voice of literally. It's the best voice that in Hollywood I'd say I don't
Starting point is 00:19:51 hear a voice more interesting, more more more... If you you can't
Starting point is 00:19:57 be a documental of National Geographic to these omnisateastro and it's the
Starting point is 00:20:02 classic voice that's narrating that the penguin came to go and so you are getting fascinated. And you're
Starting point is 00:20:08 saying he said he said that he learned to talk that he was in a country in the United
Starting point is 00:20:13 that no he was like a member of a of a bandilla and that he was,
Starting point is 00:20:19 he learned to learn to do his tone to voice to enunciate to talk to talk
Starting point is 00:20:24 to he's he's he turned for to make the Morgan Freeman
Starting point is 00:20:29 that there is the message of today for everyone. Nobody
Starting point is 00:20:33 nace knowing and can be changing, the voice, the position, the
Starting point is 00:20:39 way of the form of the way of the way. Before to continue with the
Starting point is 00:20:45 podcast, I want to ask you something you're you're you're
Starting point is 00:20:51 your life that you're that you think you think you think you you're
Starting point is 00:20:55 you're you're your routine and you go to one
Starting point is 00:20:58 to one and you don't you You don't find time or motivation to manifest those dreams that you have in your car-in-your-can-can-questioning the voice-a-in-tou-mente, you say, because you're
Starting point is 00:21:08 asking that's too, it's tardy, you know, there's time for dreams, and metas? I'm very old, very-year to start a little new. No, I don't have time, no I'm money. I'm Mark-Ontonio Regal.
Starting point is 00:21:20 I'm Mark-O-O-Rigil, and for so I want to invite to come to a master class gratuit in that we can more about that time. The class is Rompel the Barredas and Designa the
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Starting point is 00:21:47 other of the things said that is the lack of contact visual that when
Starting point is 00:21:56 no there no there reduce to more of the 40% of the perception of your own.
Starting point is 00:22:02 You get a someone and you say it's a look at the people who are people who are going to do you know they're doing
Starting point is 00:22:09 like you know what you're doing and you know to talk about being to the eyes and a sometimes not it's not even to
Starting point is 00:22:16 get to see your eyes in your tusses in your tusses of our tenses and we're doing our own we're doing to
Starting point is 00:22:24 see to the eyes and it's the thing more incomodable at the principle they're So they're in the risa.
Starting point is 00:22:29 They're going to be in the risk. I'm just, the exercise is, no, the exercise is no, do you know, the exercise is no, and see a lot, and you know, how suffer the people?
Starting point is 00:22:39 But it's a connection. Yeah, yeah, yeah, they're going to be in, in minus a media hour, yeah, we've seen a new year,
Starting point is 00:22:45 it's that is that the person that's not the person that the eyes, it's necessarily to be honestity, is that we're
Starting point is 00:22:50 not we're in security, but one once that you trainas, mark a next time that
Starting point is 00:22:58 you're going to get to see the and see the same and see the the time and they're
Starting point is 00:23:03 not just to see how they they're you're doing because if they're in the first
Starting point is 00:23:08 etapas well, they're they're so long and if yeah is that
Starting point is 00:23:13 is a very deteriorated the there there there's there I'm
Starting point is 00:23:19 I'm I'm I'm my way not a suggestion so
Starting point is 00:23:23 if you to see health with the cup is is being to a lot. If you do you know,
Starting point is 00:23:29 if you're going to get a night between the people that's you know, and you know, you know, we're not,
Starting point is 00:23:33 we know, we're doing a little yeah, the best of six seconds. Nothing, that good
Starting point is 00:23:40 nights, but you know, but it's horrible to be no, no, no, don't get to all the same.
Starting point is 00:23:43 No, no, join the two. No, no, those so those, so on the
Starting point is 00:23:49 two seconds, no, that's no, come back. No, Then, six, can't pass whatever
Starting point is 00:23:56 But, but well. Oh, also they're doing the do a braus, not a un-
Starting point is 00:24:01 un-known but a person that wants, but a person that gives, the that's a while, that's a that's a
Starting point is 00:24:09 for that's to get with a guy, and they're not the way, I'm going to
Starting point is 00:24:15 go to the way to get back. I'm going to because you know, I'm going to let's do the
Starting point is 00:24:18 person, that's a reason, no sostiening the mind. I'm not social with insecurity.
Starting point is 00:24:25 Now, there are people that to think to think to have been to get to look to the memory
Starting point is 00:24:30 and that's not you can't be able to be able to think, but what I have studied is that the
Starting point is 00:24:38 people who are the people who are to the memory but the most important they're looking to the
Starting point is 00:24:46 eyes. And that's going to be that you do you do you do what you're
Starting point is 00:24:50 that's you're more facile that that's the way it's obscured when somebody
Starting point is 00:24:56 when somebody has seen when people try light there's it's a defuneration no say
Starting point is 00:24:59 for this they're not that's the window of the arm the the window the
Starting point is 00:25:05 the endana of the honesty so that is a ability that's a school and that
Starting point is 00:25:11 we can't learn to learn to make in the life and for that you
Starting point is 00:25:13 think to put attention is you to put attention and to
Starting point is 00:25:17 see and in the zoom is that it's that there was that
Starting point is 00:25:22 that had to be in the Zoom in the 100% of the time viewing a camera. That is the classic that when you're you're saying, oh, bend it's of God,
Starting point is 00:25:31 that's a cabo. No, no, no. So, the 60%, so, if they're seeing
Starting point is 00:25:35 a camera. Yes. If you're a camera, for favor, or so. Sure, no, that's obvious.
Starting point is 00:25:41 No. There in the book, I'm in the book, I'm, that's called Nobody, nobody,
Starting point is 00:25:48 who's been to see, and it's the series in Netflix. Yes, yeah. She had proposed. She had the producer and all, and those of Pingwin
Starting point is 00:25:55 he said, hey, could you could you hear this other chava that wants to produce your novel? He said, well,
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Starting point is 00:26:08 you know, you know, you know, so, you know, you know, and the other chaba never
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Starting point is 00:26:18 a gran or I'm that's a bit of a show, but I'm
Starting point is 00:26:22 not the because he's not really that's that you know, canceling.
Starting point is 00:26:27 You know, so it's so much people, many, we think we know, but it's
Starting point is 00:26:32 so much that's very very in, in comidas, in in, in,
Starting point is 00:26:36 in, in, when someone is when you know, you know, you know, and then
Starting point is 00:26:41 you've to make a great-a- to whom consider us how you you have to say?
Starting point is 00:27:17 So, we have to reparting the mirate, you have to have to be a like the way to do you
Starting point is 00:27:23 know, Alejandra Guzman, a Luis Miguel and the those of the back, those of us
Starting point is 00:27:29 include me, for favor, no? Yeah, when we're doing conferences, if you are well,
Starting point is 00:27:33 in doing conferences, you know, you're doing you know, you're doing to the public of
Starting point is 00:27:38 the public of the center, the public of the public of the front, and you back, you're,
Starting point is 00:27:42 you, you, cover, you, To all the auditorium. And I've got to have to have a person
Starting point is 00:27:48 to make a error. Because if he tried to do that'ser he said, he said, he said, he's
Starting point is 00:27:53 like the asspersor of the manguer, you know, to see, but a good rato of your
Starting point is 00:28:00 conference, he was going the back to a 10% but those also also also they're not
Starting point is 00:28:06 they're not even you can't do you can't there's that there's there
Starting point is 00:28:11 are many people around like in a circle those are the most difficult. Like a play of gullas.
Starting point is 00:28:16 Or you put in these like tarimas like in front, then you have to get to do you. And so there's people to do your left,
Starting point is 00:28:22 at the right, at last. There's there's scenarios difficult. But it's the same concept. You're with
Starting point is 00:28:29 two friends, have to the two friends. You're with two collaborators, have to the two collaborators. You're doing
Starting point is 00:28:35 something, to all right to all the people in the mess. What are what you're saying to
Starting point is 00:28:40 what you're no no me I don't me No, me you know, you don't know, you're important.
Starting point is 00:28:46 And in in front of the mind, just to do you know, something, something, you know, put you in the
Starting point is 00:28:51 same level. Uh-huh. So, if you're a medical and you have the patient to be the
Starting point is 00:28:57 question, you know, the moment of that's the same level. Now, if you're a mom,
Starting point is 00:29:03 and you're a little, and imagine, let me, let me, what you're seeing, so,
Starting point is 00:29:08 looking to down, looking to down, put to level of the eyes. It's a
Starting point is 00:29:14 way that's in the photographia. A bad a bad photo of a little bit a man who want to a man who's
Starting point is 00:29:19 not a man you know, you know, you know, a good photo, you're back at the level of his eyes and
Starting point is 00:29:25 you're talking the photo here. Sure. For the because here you're not, you're not, you're doing
Starting point is 00:29:30 his reality, not you're from a per person, that's that's in photography. You know, you did
Starting point is 00:29:37 lady did, Lady Di. Uh-huh. Lady Di did he was agach- now. The princess
Starting point is 00:29:41 a Kate, the the wife of William, it's a she has she has gotcha and she put at the level of the
Starting point is 00:29:47 children. Now, there's much people who can't learn this or want to learn to make mechanically,
Starting point is 00:29:54 no? I mean that we have to have to work in the origin of, so for example,
Starting point is 00:29:58 a me nobody me did class of marco, abre the hands when you're so,
Starting point is 00:30:02 I'm, I'm, I'm, because I'm honest, in what I'm saying, and I'm transparent,
Starting point is 00:30:07 and I'm am sure real. So, no I have to start thinking in Abrile the Manos. So, much
Starting point is 00:30:12 times I'm on YouTube, not you've talked about, that there's there's a lot of videos of teachers,
Starting point is 00:30:17 the oratoria and no-se that's, then they're they're they're making things, and they're
Starting point is 00:30:23 falsisimus. Falsisisimus. Right? And falsisisisimus and I'll say, because because the movements of
Starting point is 00:30:30 the man, look, yeah, it's to the man, and I don't don't say a little,
Starting point is 00:30:33 I don't know, the moment, the those movements of little bit before that I'm going to and so
Starting point is 00:30:39 when they're actually, although you have studied, there's there's a retraso there in the
Starting point is 00:30:44 hands. And, and what the mentality, the brain, the brain, the brain between imagination
Starting point is 00:30:51 or reality. A bit, Mark, think in a can't a song that you want,
Starting point is 00:30:58 give me what? Living on a prayer of Bon Jovi. Okay, your Cerebron
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Starting point is 00:31:29 so the first you that you do where you put the mind the
Starting point is 00:31:34 minding is where If you're minting no it's not that you know
Starting point is 00:31:38 that's the video in the video of or in the course of the people
Starting point is 00:31:45 will be able to see that in the majority of the most in the majority of the
Starting point is 00:31:49 people who are professional people they're that is those politicians there are
Starting point is 00:31:54 there are there there are some well to the well to the
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Starting point is 00:32:11 I'm like, so. I mean, so. I'm just like, I'm like, I do this. No, I do this, but, but, yeah. To me serve, a lot of sometimes when I don't encounter, and I want to say the most important, but it's during 30 seconds. There's one, there, of a
Starting point is 00:32:27 state, well, a state of the Republic of Mexican. That's that, and then move a man to the right and then then then to join
Starting point is 00:32:35 like like that mother mother adored mother adored you yes me no in serious
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Starting point is 00:32:52 me's and apart is that the mind um the mind um can't even the
Starting point is 00:33:00 we're to know to detects to detectar the Mentira and the amazza.
Starting point is 00:33:05 Yes. And for here there a natuador right me said. Ara, our
Starting point is 00:33:09 this, strategia of the social social well, A Michael Phelps, for example,
Starting point is 00:33:15 and well, Michael Phelps and a quakerer no serve much the visualization. A.
Starting point is 00:33:20 him were not he said that said that he said that he had lived, yeah,
Starting point is 00:33:25 he was also, Federer. Federer said, before before to have
Starting point is 00:33:30 used. I think that that you can't help more than use the hands actuades when you know
Starting point is 00:33:39 when you're a retort of going to go to go to talk to this person that I'm a nervous
Starting point is 00:33:45 visualizing I'm going to enter I'm going to do it and be contentes the
Starting point is 00:33:51 having it has been being before that's with Robert Kyosaki in the
Starting point is 00:33:56 tarrer in the we did we're we're we're you're you're
Starting point is 00:34:01 of the group, you had a lapis, a plume to a right up, so there's in the
Starting point is 00:34:06 book, or if there's, in your piece, no, or in your libretta, what you
Starting point is 00:34:09 have to have the thing. So, you were, you had to have a
Starting point is 00:34:14 contact visual with all and all of the people, and you know,
Starting point is 00:34:18 you know, you know, that the person, you know, the he knew a look,
Starting point is 00:34:23 and it was a look up nothing, you know, it's very, it's, it's,
Starting point is 00:34:29 it's, is that you There's a distinction very important that you see it really authentically. A me
Starting point is 00:34:35 a lot of when I'm going to go to an interview or something that's a lot of many times the talk,
Starting point is 00:34:42 has the next thing and the question. So, they're being with eyes of pecera because they're thinking what I
Starting point is 00:34:49 going to ask them and they're not even listening. No, they're an good
Starting point is 00:34:53 an good interviewer like you go, but it is the question to the question.
Starting point is 00:34:58 But me the mirada so that they're thinking in the question. Yeah,
Starting point is 00:35:03 no is a real thing. I'm a thing. I remember in this exercise,
Starting point is 00:35:08 a friend, never made that they never got to the plume a problem rapid issue. I said,
Starting point is 00:35:14 yeah, yeah, me, yeah, me be, yeah, me be able, and there was
Starting point is 00:35:18 a friend in special that never did it, the majority that people, the majority of
Starting point is 00:35:23 the problem, and the people said they were they're that they was that you be
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Starting point is 00:35:36 a little I'm going to the barbilla and the back to have seen the back in the pecho we said it
Starting point is 00:35:40 is like you is like arrogant condescient you have an air of superiority you're
Starting point is 00:35:46 good a way we we're but you always you're just you're you're
Starting point is 00:35:50 you're so you're so you're so that we're we're the problem it's
Starting point is 00:35:54 it's very strong and arrogancia. Sure. Yes, because, apart,
Starting point is 00:36:01 not it's to be a real, you know, to be a contact visual, authentic with the people. Right,
Starting point is 00:36:09 right you know, that's the sonrisa, is that just about Kathleen Collins, a interview of CNN,
Starting point is 00:36:15 is with Trump and he is about the Epstein Files, no? One a question that no
Starting point is 00:36:22 he doesn't. No, but, but, but, but, but, the response
Starting point is 00:36:24 that he said, is that you are a very a reporter. And, and, also, why not don't you know
Starting point is 00:36:29 , and then the sonrisa, or so, it's arrogance of the power, sonrime. The
Starting point is 00:36:36 sonrisa is a kind of a movement of some mission for the etologists. Sonrien
Starting point is 00:36:42 more the employees and we're doing more the women than the women than the
Starting point is 00:36:47 I'm sure. The sonrisa is, I'm sure when it's authentic, but to say, but to
Starting point is 00:36:53 give me, is an act very arrogant. Sometete. Sommetete. And, and look at the
Starting point is 00:36:59 sonrisa, in a place in a town in the city, there's a super, but a super medium local,
Starting point is 00:37:07 all they were so, so he said, that's the why not don't say, and if they were,
Starting point is 00:37:14 they said, they were, they said, what, what did you think, what happened? What,
Starting point is 00:37:18 they, they were, and the husband, and the person, he said, to have
Starting point is 00:37:26 many conflict. Because the women, the women, they're
Starting point is 00:37:31 they're he's he's and he's and he's not. No. No,
Starting point is 00:37:35 not never. No, no, never. Now, no, never. So,
Starting point is 00:37:40 so, so, so, can be a mission. The jeff
Starting point is 00:37:43 sonry less than the person, the man, that's a
Starting point is 00:37:45 woman. It's very when it's not you don't it is there all the
Starting point is 00:37:49 time forced but that, it's autentic is power
Starting point is 00:37:54 it You know, Mark, I see, with your team, all you're trying. How do you see, that's the people that's onry? Also, you know,
Starting point is 00:38:02 we'll be more creatives when we're when we're because you do you give permission? Yes, yes, and the
Starting point is 00:38:08 people, I went to go to do a particular, and I said, even if it's a false, but sonrian,
Starting point is 00:38:15 for favor, to the maestros. Oh, I'm having a managerado, and I said the directora,
Starting point is 00:38:21 although it's a false, but sonria. Before to continue with the podcast I want to
Starting point is 00:38:28 when it when was the last time that you think you really about that's a calm
Starting point is 00:38:34 internal that to help to be to be creative to dream to learn more to find solutions
Starting point is 00:38:41 and to make a better version of the the science says clearly that
Starting point is 00:38:46 there's a super thing that you help to do and practice
Starting point is 00:38:50 the gratitude the people that They are they are they are more felicit. It's very
Starting point is 00:38:55 simple. Venn opportunities where before only only were complications or problems. It's a
Starting point is 00:39:00 quote. It's neuroscience. For that we have created a program that only 21 days can help to create
Starting point is 00:39:07 that that great that's a good. The program is a time 21 days of gratitude
Starting point is 00:39:14 and include 21 meditations where I do you do you do and 21 practices for
Starting point is 00:39:18 that you can't be the gratitude and those meditations in your style of
Starting point is 00:39:22 life. Come, I'm now right now right right and then for only a
Starting point is 00:39:28 dollar at all day. Repito, Markontonioregil com diagonal gratitude. And now continue us
Starting point is 00:39:34 on the podcast. Dice Princeton University, the area of science psychological, says that the Cerebro
Starting point is 00:39:41 decides if he confia, not confia in other human in maximum one second.
Starting point is 00:39:47 It's that the seconds and in a very brief time. Exactly.
Starting point is 00:39:51 Exactly. It's very brief. It's almost instantaneous. There's a study that's an al-Baddy and Rosenthal in a university. And then, then they'd pass down to the videos of the maestro during 10
Starting point is 00:40:05 seconds, they'd passable in the master of the deport, the mathematics, and after those 10 seconds you, how does this maestro? No, man, that's that's a B, that's a man, that's
Starting point is 00:40:17 that's very good a person. That's a be, that is very easy-simmy. Passed the year. And they've put it, and with a 93% they've been acedated.
Starting point is 00:40:26 After to have them seen, 10 seconds. So, that first impression is precise,
Starting point is 00:40:33 powerful, permanent. And Helen Fisher, that's a book that's called Anatomia of the
Starting point is 00:40:38 love, because you know, you're you know, she says that in the first
Starting point is 00:40:42 three minutes of an interaction with someone, decide if you can establish a relation or
Starting point is 00:40:48 no with that person. Yeah. Of the work, the love,
Starting point is 00:40:52 the first in the first minutes. It's correct. Here I have another data of Harvard Business School.
Starting point is 00:40:57 It's a postura corporal abirated, so not encorbated, not serabient, it's,
Starting point is 00:41:02 it's, even before that one of a person speak. So you know, you're going to you know,
Starting point is 00:41:09 you're going to you're going to say, what you're going to say, you have you, you know, and you're
Starting point is 00:41:14 you, you're and you're getting the confidence to be being to be being to
Starting point is 00:41:19 to pass in the radio, that there's a someone that a lot of a lot of not a lot of
Starting point is 00:41:24 not sure, or the other more more more than the most more than our people, we've been in the media
Starting point is 00:41:30 social, that are very good in social and when they're in live to radio and they're a nerveio
Starting point is 00:41:36 and you know, like, tell me what you're you're in your videos, for so you're not saying
Starting point is 00:41:43 that's a dissonance that's that's that's that's you know, icons and caritas and and then
Starting point is 00:41:50 and then person oh la what happened what's let me give me a question let me let's say
Starting point is 00:41:56 let's say we're let's say another code also also another study that's a incongruency between what you're saying
Starting point is 00:42:05 your body that's that's it's and that you're and that it affects
Starting point is 00:42:09 in ventas in the minding that's you're that's that's terrible
Starting point is 00:42:15 and there's there's the problem and a Sometimes we're We're going to ourselves that's
Starting point is 00:42:19 like that's like the third power. Because the first is observe to
Starting point is 00:42:23 how it's how it's it's the second is execute what you do you your
Starting point is 00:42:29 your shoulders in where are the feet, the and the third is the
Starting point is 00:42:33 self- know, and a sometimes the person and you know you know
Starting point is 00:42:38 you're you're not you see in this work and you're
Starting point is 00:42:42 to make to hear the car you you have to You know, many
Starting point is 00:42:48 times when when I ask classic, no, it's like to pass to you, no, that's like you
Starting point is 00:42:51 know, Marco, you know, you know, you know, I'm going to presentar I'm super nervous,
Starting point is 00:42:58 super nervos. How do I do you do? I'm what I'm going, because they're going, because they're
Starting point is 00:43:04 going to the rope, very important. Yeah, I mean, me don't ask you. But,
Starting point is 00:43:10 but if the role is important because you have to feel like, you know, a child, for example,
Starting point is 00:43:15 I want to a the interview and, oh, how do you, how do you, normally you, normally you,
Starting point is 00:43:19 you, normally you, you're, you're, you know, it's the good moment. It's that
Starting point is 00:43:23 me want to get a empowered. No. The chite is to get yourself. But what
Starting point is 00:43:27 I'm saying is that the interview the time when you know, what you do you
Starting point is 00:43:32 say you say you say, you say, ah, I'm sure they're going to be
Starting point is 00:43:36 someone more. Ah, we're going to be going to be to be,
Starting point is 00:43:42 this is going to know in the body. So, the mentality the you know,
Starting point is 00:43:49 and no there's a makeythe that's a good of a lot of no more nobody's
Starting point is 00:43:54 know that's a lot of you know, but if you say, They're going to say, no, no, I'll try. And if they're trying, they're going to and then, they're going to look at exactly
Starting point is 00:44:19 to where they're. In serious? The body is a person. If you say to someone, something, like you know, like you know, the body, the body is true. The body will reactionate.
Starting point is 00:44:28 What does the person? Look, the menitosos like the cochinillas. It's that no, but yes, but a year, but like the chilindrina.
Starting point is 00:44:39 Ah, okay, okay, if the body how it's a start in a short-circuit in general
Starting point is 00:44:45 it's that everything is that's it's super well when you
Starting point is 00:44:51 when you you're you're you're you're I'm an a great
Starting point is 00:44:56 a Jane Johnson that also she also she's she used a word
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Starting point is 00:45:04 not it is it as is as is as is as is as is so you
Starting point is 00:45:10 you know is in English is very easy to convert to whatever thing in verb I said
Starting point is 00:45:13 as is it or so like it did it do it so I'm so the first
Starting point is 00:45:19 first step to to romper the barrier and and desacert of the fear
Starting point is 00:45:25 of the or of what it's that's that's that's being absolutely
Starting point is 00:45:30 transparent and say it so do it this is in Spanish is net net
Starting point is 00:45:37 exactly as it did the say the net so Exactly. So, for example, if I'm going to
Starting point is 00:45:41 a conference and a sometimes you have to pass to you, depending on the group and of who there's a occasion. There's a
Starting point is 00:45:48 time you're used to a certain market, but in a a sudden you have a special. That's what you, and where you're
Starting point is 00:45:54 and where you don't know you're less experience or you know know how you're going to reactionate.
Starting point is 00:45:59 So if I have no no, I think I'm I'm going to talk to my nerves so they're
Starting point is 00:46:05 to know more my nervous. Now are the experts that not you don't you say,
Starting point is 00:46:10 oh, I'm very nervous. No, no, no, pardon. Because the, well, because the people what try with your
Starting point is 00:46:16 mind is to come to say, then they're saying, oh, yeah, see, look, the sapo. Oh, no, no, no. But there are
Starting point is 00:46:21 forms of saying it's, okay, I'm sorry, I'm very nervous. No. Dises, good days. I'm very
Starting point is 00:46:28 emotional. I'm very very emosionado. I'm much emotions in me. Because I see that you are a group
Starting point is 00:46:33 of people very important. For me it's an honor to be, I'm not, I'm taking a
Starting point is 00:46:38 of you know, I mean, so, that's, that's, that's, you know,
Starting point is 00:46:42 I'm sorry, I'm sorry, so I'm so you know, so when someone you're doing, what's,
Starting point is 00:46:48 what's, what's, yeah, well, an interview of that's, or what you do you?
Starting point is 00:46:53 The fact, you know, is that's a motion, no? I mean, so, I'm, so I'm not, you're not,
Starting point is 00:47:00 I'm sorry, I'm, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, because of being to because of because of
Starting point is 00:47:04 the really you're really you're because, the job. Or do you want it for the money or do you want it because of a dream of a year. So, well, in some form we'd have to say the truth. Because the
Starting point is 00:47:14 thing is like the fact, what does the Bible, no, the truth, and then, as well you're not occulting, ah, you're relaxes. And yeah, flue. That's just like the concept. To me have functioned. It's been good. You think is of that? You know what I'm going to acquire you. And I'll adder to be a word, start present. That's
Starting point is 00:47:30 is the retort. Our attention is dispersa. You're thinking, morning, past, a year, the cellular, the column, the column,
Starting point is 00:47:40 being present. No, there's another second opportunity of that's a time, so, it's a
Starting point is 00:47:47 moment, it's not, it doesn't, but be present with your senses in that moment.
Starting point is 00:47:54 But being just to be present with the emotion that's you're feeling,
Starting point is 00:47:59 to be your life, I'm really, to be, I'm very emotional, but I'm I've been soigned to
Starting point is 00:48:05 do you. And you'll say, for what? And, well, you know, you know, and I'm going to ask, I'm sorry,
Starting point is 00:48:11 to ask, no talk to more, no talk, not, not say, to more, no, not say, to say, all the same, no.
Starting point is 00:48:18 Because the same the same, because the sameer, that's the same, that's been doing. Yeah, yeah, call you. I just got to see in Shark Tank,
Starting point is 00:48:36 someone who still said you talking about and said, okay, perfect, you're still you're still
Starting point is 00:48:40 okay, we're going to to sign the contract, perfect, you're going to buy to your product.
Starting point is 00:48:46 Di, perfect, thank you, thank you. Thank you, because my taza is good. Yeah,
Starting point is 00:48:52 shh, shh, yeah, you're just, you know, yeah, you're saying, yeah,
Starting point is 00:48:57 want to be my new new year. Ah, yeah. Well, in Shark Tank you know who is
Starting point is 00:49:02 the who is the parpade less. Ah, why parapet less? Because it's
Starting point is 00:49:07 because you want to something. I'm doing it I'm doing with the eyes. Yeah, to be interesting.
Starting point is 00:49:14 If I'm so I'm thinking, well and who's the is the person who is the time. Versus, here is a
Starting point is 00:49:21 something that's I'm interested so I'm so much. Well, it's like when you're in a date and
Starting point is 00:49:26 you're interested to a little like the baby to be to be better. To be better. Sure.
Starting point is 00:49:32 Yeah. In In case, if not you interested the person Well, and if
Starting point is 00:49:37 you interest you know, you know, you know, you know, for the information. To have,
Starting point is 00:49:41 to be signals that you know, you know, what you're to do you know what you're
Starting point is 00:49:46 you're what you're saying, you're saying, you're you're getting the contact visual.
Starting point is 00:49:52 I think that's the first no, so you're to let's get to the other of the
Starting point is 00:49:56 other other I, I'm the REL the REL the REL
Starting point is 00:50:02 the omligo Barbara Tigger. It's that you dispones your obligo to your object of interest. So,
Starting point is 00:50:10 we're just, we're we're going to get a and so you get to get to get a and it
Starting point is 00:50:16 and no me interest much, hello, how you're how you're and no me
Starting point is 00:50:20 I'm here. If if I want to do you to put the omel to the
Starting point is 00:50:25 person. Sure. You do my omligo. Well, yeah. For
Starting point is 00:50:30 there Yeah, it's really. The signal of the umbrug is very important. The contact
Starting point is 00:50:38 visual and one of the main of the main qualities that we're to learn
Starting point is 00:50:43 to learn to learn we're so we're and what and what I'm going to say and
Starting point is 00:50:49 what I'm to say. Cackety listen. Aprende to learn to listen. Because
Starting point is 00:50:55 we don't the people that we listen. We don't that the doctor us
Starting point is 00:50:59 we're And, and, also, you're going to better because you're exactly what your
Starting point is 00:51:07 client needs. That's they're doing, that they understand, that not that's not mean,
Starting point is 00:51:13 but they're what you're doing what you're doing what you're doing? But if you are you don't,
Starting point is 00:51:19 no, no, you're not you're not you're thinking what you're going to say,
Starting point is 00:51:23 like, you're going to want to want to be going to so you're so you're so you
Starting point is 00:51:28 just making the other is trying to I sometimes I say, no me you're saying, you're trying
Starting point is 00:51:35 you're trying to be caught to rebatting. No, you're doing what I'm saying. And so you're not
Starting point is 00:51:39 frustrated. And the most important, fiatty, I'd say, is to hear your but not with the
Starting point is 00:51:44 or the o'clock, with the o'clock. See, it's a question about one of them, I'm talking, when I get with the patient,
Starting point is 00:52:03 I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm a little bit of a bad boss, I'm here, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, no, I'm, I'm sorry, I'm, I'm acerco. And I said,
Starting point is 00:52:13 here's the magic of the language no-verbal. No, there's a, there's to do a measure, there's a
Starting point is 00:52:21 person, that will be that you'll talkes, there'll be someone who will be a person that you'll be a lot of,
Starting point is 00:52:28 and this what's oncologists, it's all it's all past in the best in
Starting point is 00:52:32 ventas. If you do you do you know, there's people who like you
Starting point is 00:52:37 know, and there's people and I'm just soho. So, so,
Starting point is 00:52:42 so, so. So, there's to learn to the people to to be to come
Starting point is 00:52:47 to come to because no there's a language with a master of the
Starting point is 00:52:53 piano a before that's doing the question to me,
Starting point is 00:52:56 I took the the of the and I put the end up to the table. And I'm
Starting point is 00:53:00 like it's like four times, five times and I'm a good good maestro but I'm to communicate
Starting point is 00:53:06 because if no I'm going to want to care to make a question. And he's I'm not I'm not
Starting point is 00:53:10 I'm not I'm not me know what is do or fa or la yeah, just me let's just say
Starting point is 00:53:17 yeah, he back the the dead a little a la or the me explain me, I never I've
Starting point is 00:53:23 liked to that me took in my permission for me television too me
Starting point is 00:53:26 It would have a lot of the person to grab up. And then the director said, a bit, Mark, he said, to be, the mark. He said, and then, you know, I'm going to be able to do it. I'm going to be. I'm going to be. I'm a bit. You can't get a little bit. You're going to be a barrow and then to move it to the right. And then, I said, for that is assertivity, what you did you. I mean, you know,
Starting point is 00:53:58 you know, you know, what you're you know, you know, to a way that's not emotional, no?
Starting point is 00:54:05 Oh, yeah, you, because me to talk. No, no, no. No. No. No.
Starting point is 00:54:08 No. So, and for so durraster many. Well, that's at principle,
Starting point is 00:54:15 yeah, when you have a certain level in the career, you know, but we
Starting point is 00:54:19 don't know, we've all, we're, we're to learn, to do it,
Starting point is 00:54:24 because the other is, I'm going to. You're just right? Yeah. And it's saying, oh, yeah,
Starting point is 00:54:29 no, no function so, it's communication. So, so it's communication. So, we want to
Starting point is 00:54:35 we need some we're we're doing more our leadership, we're we're doing, develop the power of,
Starting point is 00:54:41 to convinceer, to sender, to persuade, to do to work, to change a no for a need.
Starting point is 00:54:47 We need we need. We need confidence. Confian. Confian. Confiance. And,
Starting point is 00:54:52 Presence. A, a presence. authentic, that that's the that's the that's the time,
Starting point is 00:54:57 the present, of being the moment present and not distracted and not distracted, with the cellular,
Starting point is 00:55:03 presence, in what you said to your master, in your net, what you what you're,
Starting point is 00:55:07 what you think, dill what is. Is that, how you know, how you do it's, I'm,
Starting point is 00:55:13 so say, sincere, what's going, you're doing you do you're a little does vultas,
Starting point is 00:55:17 d' the line more the line right, then there there's a and he has some figures.
Starting point is 00:55:23 And it's like in security and that's not a confidence. No, you know, to be with people that not show to get to get a person, no see, a new choffer
Starting point is 00:55:33 that's going to get a to get up to do you, and it's in the door. No. Or the doctor that you said, no,
Starting point is 00:55:40 we're going to operate the marty and you know, that's in the door. You know, let's operate. Yeah,
Starting point is 00:55:47 no. We know, we'll see. We're going to. Yeah, No, thank you. Imagineate a pilot that's a
Starting point is 00:55:52 well to say, I'm going to do you know, I'm going to do you know, how the more effort? No.
Starting point is 00:55:59 So, you're the security, and that's what is a leader, no? To give the certainty. The confidence
Starting point is 00:56:04 of that I know I'm going to do you do a lot of possible. And that you're going to do you
Starting point is 00:56:09 do you do that you do you do the other day in a conference I'm a year
Starting point is 00:56:13 to talk a year. Because all people want to put the hands to show where I
Starting point is 00:56:18 put the coo. And me a question a young of 14 years, Oye, how do I
Starting point is 00:56:23 do you do you do this I'm and I say, well, Veltete the
Starting point is 00:56:28 better in something you want you do you do you do you did you
Starting point is 00:56:33 did it very well because you did you did you did you do you
Starting point is 00:56:37 all we all we all we're because you know because you have
Starting point is 00:56:43 the practice or because you have the money to transform it
Starting point is 00:56:47 but you a power. You have to know what is your power and use it.
Starting point is 00:56:52 So, the power of language without the language corporal is a power, is a power. Darte
Starting point is 00:56:58 to get a understand and develop and do you know, if you think different, but when me me says,
Starting point is 00:57:04 and where I'm going the only reason for that you're thinking in where you put your
Starting point is 00:57:09 mind, is because you're thinking in where you're the putting the message
Starting point is 00:57:13 authentically connected or connected, with the message that you you're going to you
Starting point is 00:57:18 want to to do you it's important for you you know you're going to you're going to in the way
Starting point is 00:57:24 in the in the best of the case. In the good. Because there people who
Starting point is 00:57:29 really really want to do and he he's a little but it's timid and then you know
Starting point is 00:57:37 it's not the money but because they're thinking in the message. It's true. It's
Starting point is 00:57:45 certain. It's certain. They're thinking in the hands in not in the other than the
Starting point is 00:57:47 thing. They're, I'm going to go a lot of about it about and I'm
Starting point is 00:57:50 going to talk about when you're when you're when you're when you know, the heart and
Starting point is 00:57:55 the heart and they're all right. Now, if you can't say that there's a
Starting point is 00:58:01 place that the area. That's like a one we put here, that if
Starting point is 00:58:06 I'm put here, uh, already we're sitting so it doesn't so it
Starting point is 00:58:12 but if if it's a foot, you would say that the hands are
Starting point is 00:58:15 here, and it's in where I'm going to you know, I'm saying, you're
Starting point is 00:58:20 good enough the book of the language no-verbal and be it. Or, or,
Starting point is 00:58:25 or, some politicians that are with the confidence. That's a confidence.
Starting point is 00:58:30 They're just, they're like loquitos. Yeah, yeah so you see like
Starting point is 00:58:34 as a like, as the kind of the people, those who have
Starting point is 00:58:39 much, much power, they're engrandes there's a very much
Starting point is 00:58:43 there's a syndrome of ubris. The syndrome what is the syndrome of ubris? It's a problem of
Starting point is 00:58:49 you have a kind of, so much you know so the people who people who want to be
Starting point is 00:58:55 a dictator or they're talking much with the hands around. Yes, yes, very interesting
Starting point is 00:59:01 but well then so in that coincidimus when you when you talk authentically of something
Starting point is 00:59:05 that really really that really concentrated, concentrated, focused in the message in what you
Starting point is 00:59:13 think you're in this that you really you know, the other and the most it's very good to
Starting point is 00:59:19 understand these things. That you can help and that they're using some, Steve Jobs, for example,
Starting point is 00:59:25 he not was charismatic before, his conferences were their conferences, they were and he was
Starting point is 00:59:31 all, all we can do you do this and be more more more
Starting point is 00:59:35 more a master that me I said in television, when they said to be said to talk about
Starting point is 00:59:40 something, my body was really my body was really and I said, I put to laver trastes. I said, I said, let me go to
Starting point is 00:59:47 and I'll go to see, every every time you that you know that you know, but like you are like you are saying
Starting point is 00:59:53 that you're that's battling to explain something that you know, lavastrace and you start this
Starting point is 00:59:59 so like if me stugating the hands and I'm doing the and I've seen in the I've seen the
Starting point is 01:00:03 and that I'm looking but what I'm talking, of something that's I'm like, I'm doing
Starting point is 01:00:09 doing a effort. It's a adaptator, the adrenaline has to get to get there.
Starting point is 01:00:13 There's people, for example, the camis and the carbata and so, you know,
Starting point is 01:00:18 like the little bit, they're the hair, and those tics normally are, are the
Starting point is 01:00:23 movements adaptate of stress. When something, when something when something when something
Starting point is 01:00:27 you know, when something, you know, but a sometimes talk about to talk about to
Starting point is 01:00:32 know what you don't know sometimes. And so So there is when when you get the
Starting point is 01:00:36 movements adaptable that is the auto-massackito, the women a lot of we're using
Starting point is 01:00:42 the collars, the pelusa imaginary. Or I've seen a YouTuberer very commonly that they're
Starting point is 01:00:48 they're talking and they're like if they're like they're like they're so they're
Starting point is 01:00:55 so they're so they get to some they're with the language no word of the
Starting point is 01:01:03 the naris 25 times when he said that's I did not have sex with that woman.
Starting point is 01:01:08 But no there's a not a non there's no there no, no,
Starting point is 01:01:14 no, but when you know you know you're you do the fear, the
Starting point is 01:01:21 fear produces adrenaline and the adrenaline and the adrenaline produce catecolamines that generate
Starting point is 01:01:27 comestone in the car. For example, you Marko, you're what is what you do you when you're stressed? What I'm?
Starting point is 01:01:34 But no, but do you know, but do you know, your foot? If you're sure, me agrasty. Yes, it's true. My foot.
Starting point is 01:01:41 Your feet is eleva. Uh-huh. It's a salida of adrenaline. It's an adaptator. Because you know, you know, you know, you know
Starting point is 01:01:47 knows, the other, you know, the other other, you know, you know, you know, that's the you know, so you know,
Starting point is 01:01:53 is the person is the person. And the key, and come esone in the Cuele, a little, so,
Starting point is 01:01:58 yeah. All right. All we have, but the those two are those. The world perfect. Well, Barbara Tigerina,
Starting point is 01:02:05 much thanks. Thanks to you, Marcos. A good to be a good. A good. Thank you, your
Starting point is 01:02:10 books. The power of languages and languages and without the books are the in all the places in
Starting point is 01:02:16 where there are books. They're not only in not only in other places of America Latina
Starting point is 01:02:21 and in the other places in other Chirina. And I'm a page a page that is www.
Starting point is 01:02:27 www. www. www. www. www. orgasinsinsensipalabras. com.m. Perfect.
Starting point is 01:02:34 And you have courses in line? What what is go to do a conference with businesses. That's what
Starting point is 01:02:38 I've talked. And I do assesorias personales. Ah. You've assorated
Starting point is 01:02:42 to various politicians, I imagine. Some. Some. And so. And then. And classes
Starting point is 01:02:48 of TAP to Hugenio Dervas. And to you? And to me approximately. Thank you.
Starting point is 01:02:53 Thank you. Barbara. Thank you. We'll give us an applause with a carino Barbara Tigerina with this
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Starting point is 01:03:15 we're when we we're very much because we we're to know I'm
Starting point is 01:03:21 I'm I'm no say, what every who every do you know, I'm going to
Starting point is 01:03:26 do it. The first is to know, I'm going to you la botry you la botan if you're doing a interview
Starting point is 01:03:32 in an interview doing it. Is that not I'm like the interview. In the tour.
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