El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 434.- Cómo influir en las personas y ganar cualquier negociación | Juan Manuel García, “Pincho”

Episode Date: June 8, 2026

Negociación, persuasión, lenguaje corporal e inteligencia emocional para conversaciones difíciles. Una discusión con tu pareja, tu jefe, un cliente o tu familia puede cambiar cua...ndo aprendes a escuchar, leer señales y controlar el ego antes de reaccionar. Juan Manuel García “Pincho”, experto en negociación y comportamiento humano, exmiembro de la UCO de la Guardia Civil y formado por el FBI, nos enseña cómo negociar desde la calma, con estrategia y claridad. Un episodio maravilloso para dejar de pelear por tener la razón y aprender a ganar sin romper o dañar  tus relaciones. Negociar con otros empieza por aprender a negociar contigo: con tus miedos, tu duda, tu ego y esa voz que te frena. En mi masterclass gratuita “Rompe las barreras y diseña la vida que deseas”, te doy herramientas para recuperar claridad, confianza y dejar de sabotearte.👇🏻https://marcoantonioregil.com/vida-podcast/ *Importante: Nuestros invitados son expertos en sus temas y reflejan su conocimiento y su punto de vista, siendo conscientes de que cada una de las opiniones es totalmente personal. La información, datos, comentarios, estadísticas que se presenten en el Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil, son de exclusiva responsabilidad de quienes las emiten y no representan, necesariamente, el pensamiento de Marco Antonio Regil o de la producción del podcast.

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Starting point is 00:00:01 The podcast of Mark Antonio Regil is a production of RGEL Entertainment and all his their rights are reserved. The promise of today is that we're going to learn to learn
Starting point is 00:00:13 a person and to get a question. Bearing the family, with a client, with the chief, with the pariah. How to learn to the people
Starting point is 00:00:21 and gain the negotiations? Our invite is an imminence. He, for the first, he was a member during 18 years
Starting point is 00:00:29 of the UCO. also was formed directly by the FBI in the States Units. Has been accredited by psychologists, has been in his hands the negotiation of the life of Ceres Human. And has gone to, obviously. If not, no, we
Starting point is 00:00:44 don't know we'll have here. Juan Manuel Garcia Pinchot, that's with us on the podcast. Much thanks. Of America for the world. Well, we're going to. What you ensued? What you learned in the FBI? What you would have used to? That would be
Starting point is 00:00:58 Well, something that never ever before I'm ever I'm in I'm in
Starting point is 00:01:02 I'm in think I'm going to share strategies, techniques, tricks, and the first what I'm
Starting point is 00:01:07 said it's what more important for any kind of and I just about the schemas.
Starting point is 00:01:13 But absolutely because then I'm thought that they're right. No, there's
Starting point is 00:01:16 more effective in any kind of for to find a couple of in a letter, in
Starting point is 00:01:23 a site, that's to hear that's what? What? What? What?
Starting point is 00:01:26 only only have to listen but the other person has to perceive that effectively you're going to you're going to
Starting point is 00:01:31 it's like it's like you're how you're how you're physically that the other what what you mean for your
Starting point is 00:01:56 is that I've heard a and also I've seened and then I'm sure you and you continue to know it
Starting point is 00:02:01 that's a sure that's the worst you can't do a question of a question and that other
Starting point is 00:02:07 person to do you know that you're doing that you absolutely that's that's
Starting point is 00:02:10 that's that's that's what you can what could occur because because of what can't
Starting point is 00:02:16 also we're to get whatever any kind of you need
Starting point is 00:02:20 you know and the confidence that's the It's not if there's not there's a
Starting point is 00:02:25 because if you you know you're in not you're in what you're not going to what you're that's
Starting point is 00:02:30 where we're in the debates political. Where they're they're not even they're not they're
Starting point is 00:02:35 they're not I'm sure. I'm sure. I'm doing the question. The question is very important but still
Starting point is 00:02:40 more important is and they're what they're a strategy of we're doing this we're doing this but that's we're doing
Starting point is 00:02:51 the class political is very disperstretched absolutely yes, So, I mean to
Starting point is 00:02:53 a political of the party that's a thing. Sure, because they're not not really enough so we're not
Starting point is 00:02:58 not really because we're doing a person genuine. Genuine. Exactly. Obviously, we're not
Starting point is 00:03:04 we're doing in all the places of the world, if there are people who there's people, there's a
Starting point is 00:03:07 people who are people, but chasso gordo, the majority generate disconfianca much, so so.
Starting point is 00:03:13 So, so, more than to say, we're just to say, we're sometimes
Starting point is 00:03:18 to hear, like I'm like, we need to we need to we certain silencers. You have to generate a certain connection
Starting point is 00:03:27 between the two persons. We're saying, we're going to listen with the body, not only only with the earis, but that perception of the has heard of recad to be regatta with much things more, apart of what is to send, or to say the last words. It's much more profound than that. What other things? For example, a paradeo emotional. A paradeo
Starting point is 00:03:42 and a soft, when, in the moment of the adequate, indicates that what you've said, for me, has to say, for me, has a lot important for you, and I respond with a sentiment and a paradeo, leanty and suave, you perceives that for me, it's important, and that's generates an connection extra.
Starting point is 00:03:56 Very interesting. What more? When it gets a moment, in the way, for you to assure you that's understood you've been to and say, excuse me,
Starting point is 00:04:05 to be, let's see you've been. What you want to say is, this, this, and you're you can't. And in that
Starting point is 00:04:11 other person, you say, yes, effectively. So, you'll, you'll never to generate a
Starting point is 00:04:13 a silence, and the other person needs to continue, and, and, also, with a connection more profound because he
Starting point is 00:04:19 has heard of that you've heard of the has heard of the time you're so you're doing this. So, is verificing the
Starting point is 00:04:26 information. That's, that's, that's a marvellousous because when when you start to play with the
Starting point is 00:04:30 party, what the is the part of the part of the other than the sequestrador. Yeah,
Starting point is 00:04:35 you know. Literally. There's a component that, even when the negotiations that we're doing professionals,
Starting point is 00:04:44 when I'm about professionals, I've talked to the police and a second it's a business with a lot of
Starting point is 00:04:48 there's a no thing. You can't call any particular something. You can't do you want to do you're doing
Starting point is 00:04:54 what you're but you're nothing personal. In the family, so there's a button rojo. And when you talk to the
Starting point is 00:05:00 other people the profiles social social and not you don't take decisions correct. So if you
Starting point is 00:05:05 take a person, ah, sure, then what you do you want to say is that
Starting point is 00:05:09 blah, blah, blah, blah. But, but, even we can get to to get to say
Starting point is 00:05:13 things that we we don't know. And with a moment determined, we're saying, but why I've said this? If it's a very, well, it has a question. Our own little bit of a half of the same thing, in a state normal. But what is what occurs? That when we
Starting point is 00:05:26 we're going to discusses with someone, we're putting in a mode of menace. And the Cerebrough is the lion, or is a email that has taken of quixio, or is a discussion with our partner? The amazza is exactly the same. When there's an thing, what does our brain is reparting the the same
Starting point is 00:05:40 sobriety to the extremities to looker or to be in the little and a little bit of that rieg the part,
Starting point is 00:05:46 let's make the thing we're the neocortex, etc. a little a little little bit of that's the
Starting point is 00:05:54 minimum for that the part rational not is working. It's a part more primitiva the reactiona.
Starting point is 00:06:00 So, at the other of reactionar we're we're not we're we
Starting point is 00:06:04 we're so many so it's so reactions and the emotion sub and the intelligence
Starting point is 00:06:10 not only emotionally, it's biologically. I'm less blood in the tank. I'm more. I'm more.
Starting point is 00:06:17 It's also, there's there's that there's that there's a one that's about it's a because the
Starting point is 00:06:22 cedaras not there. And it's a little this. The cedar is a problem that
Starting point is 00:06:27 has a problem that has the part rational that is cronical. The zebra is that when I'm
Starting point is 00:06:35 got to be a little bit of a leon. But when the leon has been that's do not
Starting point is 00:06:39 more. But the human that has a human, he's a little bit more and if he's
Starting point is 00:06:44 a good, and if he's and then we know that's a lot of the end of the thing you're that's
Starting point is 00:06:51 that's a little bit of the last human, the penultime that's the last one I'm so you.
Starting point is 00:06:58 So, then the stress is super chronic. Deh, he has to come to get to
Starting point is 00:07:01 get to don't know, because it's to be the part logic of the brain the Cerebrose, for
Starting point is 00:07:07 those ulceras have those humans and not the vertebrates. Super interesting. That's, oh yeah,
Starting point is 00:07:12 a bit, you have you've had literally to negotiate with delinquents, you've had to negotiate with
Starting point is 00:07:19 people who's about to suicide, or that's menace you're that they're in the films,
Starting point is 00:07:24 as like the house of paper, that's, and he was, and you're, you're going to
Starting point is 00:07:29 you, you, you're going to get to get to your confidence. The principal. When
Starting point is 00:07:36 when we get to a place, no there's a no way there's a there's a
Starting point is 00:07:40 lot of the first of the first of the first we're to do you know, we're doing that the time
Starting point is 00:07:46 initially. The first they're to perceive is we're doing to get to help you to get to
Starting point is 00:07:52 when you need more gasoline because probably that person me de it's a person, I'd
Starting point is 00:07:58 be a person who will be that's that's in a car well, it's going to be car well
Starting point is 00:08:04 I what I have to try is to generate silencers, generate simply the presence for that your mental going to be
Starting point is 00:08:09 back down. The neurociencia day of today to us agree with no more than 90 seconds.
Starting point is 00:08:15 The rest is that we do you know, I can't make a good to eat a state
Starting point is 00:08:19 emotional that you can't cost to a life to get a of a person,
Starting point is 00:08:25 I'm I've and a other person has been a personal and has
Starting point is 00:08:29 subpo the logic, that is when we start questions. But
Starting point is 00:08:32 But you're always, and this is fundamental, this is very important. Preguntas, that generate control in the other person, that have the perception of control, and, especially, that not be able to say, but, but why is this? But, no, is that very beautiful? Because he can say, it's a lot of the time. Because I don't know what he has occurred to this person
Starting point is 00:08:50 to stand in that situation. So, you have to do this. No. Even valid, the, the, that's there are rare, no? How you're going to validate a person that's going to get the life? Well, at the maybe we've happened.
Starting point is 00:09:03 And at the most we're going to we're going to we're not the same circumstances we're going to we're not going to say,
Starting point is 00:09:08 I know what you've been to be very important for that you're there. And that's the problem we when we're
Starting point is 00:09:14 in a discussion. Always. That's we start to get to get a gasoline to someone and people
Starting point is 00:09:21 you say something you're doing you're doing a rinkor or something that's and we're we're doing
Starting point is 00:09:26 gasoline the fire, thinking that we're going to do you know, the way we do it's a
Starting point is 00:09:31 way we're doing, we're doing a way to do defensive, for part of the other person, but of attack our own.
Starting point is 00:09:36 So, we know we not we're to know how the person, we're going to say, what I'm going to
Starting point is 00:09:43 get to do you. It's a question to understand. And that's the great problem. So, for that's we're going to
Starting point is 00:09:50 get a nocese when we're when we're going to get no negotiations. Never. In the work
Starting point is 00:09:54 with a client with a companyer, with a partner, with a partner less, etc. There's what we
Starting point is 00:10:00 should be we're going to do you know, I've seen a video of a psychologist, I'm very much,
Starting point is 00:10:05 difficult, but brilliant, that they asked a and you, you're doing, you're in a middle of
Starting point is 00:10:08 a discussion more great. And I say, I think, I think we we're going to say is, I'm sufficiently
Starting point is 00:10:15 enfahed as far as not to make not to make that way. That the theory is very beautiful.
Starting point is 00:10:20 Now, in plen a o'g, well, I know if I if I'm I would be able to say that. I'm trying.
Starting point is 00:10:24 From the point of view of professional, what is the error that a agent of the FBI not could commit a negotiator like you?
Starting point is 00:10:31 No, can't commit what error? Tratar to attribute a person from my logic, from the
Starting point is 00:10:39 mine. And that's a error that's so he's a problem interior and internal
Starting point is 00:10:45 that we have to do a new a negotiation and I see a person and me They'll tell you a little bit of the history and the because it's there. Normally, we
Starting point is 00:10:53 try to justific it. And we're, well, then, well, decide if it's doing well, if it's doing well. And the problem is that we do do from our logic. No, we do from the logic of the other person. And that, if, if me permits, I can put an example real, right? Yeah, yeah. There was a negotiator of the police of New York that they activated because there a papa that
Starting point is 00:11:12 wanted to get a son. So, they said, yeah, look, please,
Starting point is 00:11:18 displecate a rapid because the SWAT will be a lot of minutes and you're still more
Starting point is 00:11:21 more than you contact with the father and he says, look, if you do do you don't,
Starting point is 00:11:28 you know, you can't get to get a and the father, he said, well,
Starting point is 00:11:32 you think you you'll do do you do you think what I'm to make you to me to me
Starting point is 00:11:37 to make sure like like, like, like, menaceant, I'm in doing quite,
Starting point is 00:11:41 so much this police said, well, I'm going to work to work, I'm going to
Starting point is 00:11:48 try to put me in the suh. Then I'm he asked, he said, why, why I'm
Starting point is 00:11:52 trying to to make you and he said, he's he said, because I'm a
Starting point is 00:11:55 guy, and he said, oh, well, I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm,
Starting point is 00:12:00 if you you think you is the devil, and, and, he's he's
Starting point is 00:12:03 he's, valid, the situation in the of the he said, what you've done to be
Starting point is 00:12:08 that you know the there's a other way, you're not there I'm a exorcism to your
Starting point is 00:12:15 son, and if not we let him we're not we're we're not because it was a
Starting point is 00:12:21 good sounder, it was a easy for a cellar for his he was when he was
Starting point is 00:12:26 when he was detained but he but he could but he he could be the life of the
Starting point is 00:12:31 he's a lot of a logic disfraisedo of a sastardote but he he came to his side,
Starting point is 00:12:37 he's got to he's you want to do you want to do you want to get a problem, you're going to get to find out of
Starting point is 00:12:45 you know, even when you know it you know, you know, I'm not important for that's just
Starting point is 00:12:51 to be in not right to start, yeah, sure, definitely. So, simply,
Starting point is 00:12:55 I'm trying to do you think you this is the diablo and you're trying to make that you're
Starting point is 00:13:01 in this tauter of that's that's if you I'm in your place, and I would be the
Starting point is 00:13:05 I'm probably probably we're in the same. Probably we're in the same. Okay. So, no confronter. Now, that is a real problem
Starting point is 00:13:11 because the man, human the ego, what you want is confronter, want to gain, he wants to to show to
Starting point is 00:13:17 that's a bad and I do you. Look, I always happen in these things, I used to
Starting point is 00:13:23 say a phrase that I've been to Rike Eli was one of the passengers that was on the carthson
Starting point is 00:13:28 when when he was streyo in the real he, he said that when
Starting point is 00:13:31 he said, And he said, oh, the commandant of the one inovic who were to impactar against the river, of a sudden, he said, he knew a question that he had preoccupied in the life for things that had been preoccupied, in seconds, no, when they felled and they, and he
Starting point is 00:13:49 he saw that he said, I'm going to know that he had to beware of the wine very, very, very, of luge, for always, for some moment, and that decided to escortchard. And in the moment that he's done of this he said a
Starting point is 00:14:02 thing that I have helped much and that I'm doing and that's I prefer prefer to be sure you
Starting point is 00:14:06 think that when we we're doing we're not a friend with a family or something that
Starting point is 00:14:13 not that not you want to be you're to be a question. Our is very
Starting point is 00:14:20 tendent to have to have to have to have to have to something.
Starting point is 00:14:23 And that is a past we're we're we're to be strategas
Starting point is 00:14:27 and think if we're it's worth. We need the really to do it this way or
Starting point is 00:14:31 prefer you know to do that another person, that's your ego is to get to get to your and you have to have much
Starting point is 00:14:38 conscience. It's a work that's a work that is a hard to do it. Sure, because we
Starting point is 00:14:42 have to renunciate to the idea of the ego of the brain reptile that is,
Starting point is 00:14:46 oh, tell you tell you tell you. It's tell you. You know, show it's
Starting point is 00:14:50 about, because there a satisfaction very great. But also there's a satisfaction
Starting point is 00:14:55 very when you that's a job internal, and you know you've done that's a little
Starting point is 00:14:59 you know that's you know, resisting the temptation of destroy with your words. And, and also,
Starting point is 00:15:07 I think we think we're to try it my word that I've got got to and that's easy, because
Starting point is 00:15:12 you have to do a work work in a number and you're and you're and you're
Starting point is 00:15:18 but one once that you're you're that you see the part. It's,
Starting point is 00:15:23 you know, because then you you're you're And conserve what you really you're always
Starting point is 00:15:27 you're you're conscious to find your and that's that's that's a sure, because for
Starting point is 00:15:34 many people we're not our enemy yeah, you're your your ego? Because your ego,
Starting point is 00:15:39 because your ego will have to open the thing, and the people, I'm sorry, I'm sorry,
Starting point is 00:15:44 I'm, I'm a different, I'm a daffo personal. I'm daffo personal. And is what is what is
Starting point is 00:15:50 what is a fortelement? What is the thing? And, the people in general but it's a percentage very small
Starting point is 00:15:58 the point of the whole thing is the problem that the principal barrier that they're in any kind of any type of intervention with persons is the
Starting point is 00:16:06 own ego is the barrier that we we're the great fortaleza if we can't get to get to the other
Starting point is 00:16:14 to me to think you you think you you're you think you're if you're if you have if you have a
Starting point is 00:16:19 if you have a great ego no you don't you do I'm going to absolutely everything
Starting point is 00:16:23 is what you want to do it's the it's the no way there's a question in this question.
Starting point is 00:16:28 I prefer prefer to be a lot of the people who is a lot is a great carval you're a guy who's
Starting point is 00:16:35 a guy with a power of that's a you're going to you want to you're doing you're
Starting point is 00:16:42 you're you're you're a little and the other you're like a little bit
Starting point is 00:16:47 a little that's and then then he's to cede and start to be
Starting point is 00:16:51 manageable. That's. And always from a profile of those. You have to get to get a superior? Yes.
Starting point is 00:16:58 You know, too? You want to be. No, you're going to be it. There's a kind of. How apparents?
Starting point is 00:17:03 Well, because at final, you have to be conscious of how will be able to the other.
Starting point is 00:17:06 And the strategy is always to give light to be very over the very over the is a strategy
Starting point is 00:17:13 for aure. But a brain that really needs to feel that is more than is more
Starting point is 00:17:18 a person that has a person who or even even if you're a person very narcissistic or with a
Starting point is 00:17:23 with a profile a person and a person who are to think they're very to be over
Starting point is 00:17:27 the other what you're the reason. The problem of all this is the problem. The problem,
Starting point is 00:17:32 is that if no, it's that I do it. Why? Why? Why? What is
Starting point is 00:17:36 what you really you're the question? He's the way to get the exactly.
Starting point is 00:17:42 It's very simple. And once you you know and a one way that's a question,
Starting point is 00:17:46 it's a question, it's a path. You're about the importance of to hear about to hear about there's
Starting point is 00:17:53 questions many times they're in the people you're not for the responses that does, but the questions
Starting point is 00:18:00 that's so you're so you're so you're sure, the questions can be very strategicicous if you're
Starting point is 00:18:05 and then obviously there an intelligence or at least a tactic no, at the hour to ask
Starting point is 00:18:11 a person that's a person who has not being a strategy, we're to make a lot and Intendid. Quantime,
Starting point is 00:18:20 how much longer intended, more I'm going to make a lot of a story? Well, attacking a ego.
Starting point is 00:18:28 Attackando to the ego, for example, I'm going to I'm going to you know, how many years you know,
Starting point is 00:18:33 you're probably that you say, because you're going to know, I'm going to say, my age,
Starting point is 00:18:37 then very probably not you know you're going to do you go is great, and I go a phrase
Starting point is 00:18:43 and I'm going to tend to correct me. And at I mean, I could say, ah, well, I know, I didn't
Starting point is 00:18:49 say, oh, no, I don't know, I've got , I'm going to, I'm 506, okay. So, yeah you're just correct, but I'm
Starting point is 00:18:55 correct, but me said a little good. Well, but you know, to say, the contrary, depending on the
Starting point is 00:19:00 other than I I think of 602. You're saying, no, no, no, 62, no, I'm 56. And you know, and you know,
Starting point is 00:19:08 no. But it's the ego, at final if you're just not only not only a level personal, but a
Starting point is 00:19:13 level personal, at a level professional, I can't I don't know I know that this was too. You say,
Starting point is 00:19:19 no, no, if it's car me have costed this and the other. I never I've asked because if
Starting point is 00:19:22 I'm asked you know, you know, you know, you can't, the information that you do you
Starting point is 00:19:28 never going to you're going to a necessity because it's what I'm what I'm that you're making me that
Starting point is 00:19:35 you're committing a error, adulandot there, there's many strategies. And this
Starting point is 00:19:39 serve in a negotiation? Yes, with a a client? A, an example, a example.
Starting point is 00:19:43 A, I can't say I can't imagine how much how you can't make a little so you're going to how you're going to
Starting point is 00:19:51 how big. My company has many people have many people who you're going to because I've to talk to your ego as saying
Starting point is 00:19:58 your company not so you you're going to give me information to justificate that the company is important
Starting point is 00:20:03 so. So first me you're going to do a lot of information that before it's a money
Starting point is 00:20:07 you're going to do you do you're not you're the perception that me me me really to be
Starting point is 00:20:11 you're going to to start to talk much and will exist even even there's a
Starting point is 00:20:15 little bit of a good at a good at it's a little bit like and then they're saying, and then they're
Starting point is 00:20:22 to present a person. No, we've got to this and we don't know this, we're doing this, and
Starting point is 00:20:27 he's doing they're doing how they're they're getting the price and you and they're just they're up
Starting point is 00:20:32 that's that's right that's that's going to I'm really when I'm when I'm doing it
Starting point is 00:20:37 I'm doing a taxi and I was more and more and I I said, Madre my
Starting point is 00:20:42 with the little time you have you have the taxi very little because you see,
Starting point is 00:20:47 you know, because you're a final is the pan of your kids, I'm doing a certain
Starting point is 00:20:52 and I had a whole. All the the life but of the children that they
Starting point is 00:20:57 had, of the money that they got to in a day, if you
Starting point is 00:21:02 do you know, if you do you don't ask to ask us without without without
Starting point is 00:21:06 it's more more to make a , that's and it
Starting point is 00:21:11 necessity of responder. By the way? For adulation, for compromise, for correction, the correction
Starting point is 00:21:17 for me is of the most potentes. The necessity of correction, especially when there's a issue of the issue of
Starting point is 00:21:22 that's a need. And so you're not you're doing it. Much of the So when you want to you're doing,
Starting point is 00:21:28 it's too, it's more more complicated. The time of the thing of the thing of the detection of
Starting point is 00:21:34 the mentira because I think in the not you? No, I think in the detections of No, it's that
Starting point is 00:21:42 is that you're not. But they're in all the movies and supposedly No, no, no, no, no, no, no sirs no, no
Starting point is 00:21:48 no, a detector of what is, is a detector of reactions physiologics. What that's a matter.
Starting point is 00:21:54 Me, I'm going to make a nervous because you can't a mental, but you can't be
Starting point is 00:22:01 nervous because me I'm very much so. So, the polygraph will do the same thing.
Starting point is 00:22:07 It's a amount of frequency cardiac, more sudoration, elevation of the temperature. It's true or is a matter or is
Starting point is 00:22:12 a lot of it's a reaction physiological. So, to say that something is a little bit I'm,
Starting point is 00:22:18 I'm very very dangerous. But the police actually are using the detectors? Depend of the
Starting point is 00:22:25 countries. In Spain, no, it's not. In Spain, no.
Starting point is 00:22:29 For this you're saying? Exactly. And because there's there's many of errors.
Starting point is 00:22:33 Okay. That's so you always you have to ask a micro-expression
Starting point is 00:22:37 of a for a person or for the accident of a person. Imagineate that I'm going to say you're you know, you've got to have known that you've got, you have a accident of traffic and he's
Starting point is 00:22:49 and you generate a micro-expression of alegia. I what I think? That you're like that is that he has died? Or you're like to be the two? What is a micro-expression?
Starting point is 00:23:00 Let's define it is an expression of the energy. The car of the other eyes to be right, like guinear the eyes to get a legion of dog, elevation of pommul,
Starting point is 00:23:07 phenomenal. A micro-expression of alexion of like we're going. Micro-expression subtle of when I
Starting point is 00:23:12 feel like that's when I'm going to know that you go to occur. The most muscles facial are going to have that necessarily of
Starting point is 00:23:21 because I'm doing my part conscientious but I'm not all the whole in many it's a lot of times. It's going to
Starting point is 00:23:31 like an intent of a smile. You know Jose has had a student of a coach and
Starting point is 00:23:36 and me imagineate that I odio to Jose I go povercillo. But it's
Starting point is 00:23:40 And not you can't control that? You can't control? You want to be a real? Yes, yes, a case real. Amanda Knox. Amanda Knox is a North American
Starting point is 00:23:49 an American an Australian that's a American and and he's Kecher, Britannica. A good day
Starting point is 00:23:55 Madrid Ketcher appears brutally assassinated in the house where the house and the police,
Starting point is 00:24:00 the commission judicial, forensic, to get the government of the United and they started
Starting point is 00:24:05 a attitude a suspectous and rarer in Amanda Knox. The detiening, she's a, well, is in prison preventive, she'll celebrate, and the declarer no culpable.
Starting point is 00:24:15 That's what means, no there's sufficient proofs. There are many indices, but no is sufficient proofs
Starting point is 00:24:19 to say that is a publicable. Then it's a program of television and the presenter and the presentator
Starting point is 00:24:24 he said, did you kill a Meredithskatcher, you killed a Mardskiccher, you did you didger, you didger, no.
Starting point is 00:24:30 So, to those we're doing to us For us is something that that's that's that's
Starting point is 00:24:36 because when you're when you're you're you're you're an expression is a
Starting point is 00:24:42 micro-expression of a like that the most the most they're because is culpable
Starting point is 00:24:47 I'm I've been a time I've been quite because is a problem
Starting point is 00:24:54 she's she's probably she's not you I'm guilty but I
Starting point is 00:24:59 have said I'm talking to I'm in a legia. But also can be because for the fin respond in liberty. And his sensation of a legion of alexen, it's present.
Starting point is 00:25:07 It can't be. So, if it can't be, I don't put a person. No. No. No. Me too much to get in the carcern. Correct. I know what has been the detonate. That's really the important. There's alexia. There's a little bit of an expression contained. Yes. But for what? No, why?
Starting point is 00:25:24 And then you have to go back to question and ask you. Exactly. You'll go to a case of real mine. The trick would be, to ask you to ask you. To ask you see a while
Starting point is 00:25:33 I'm in a second in the second one year of nine of nine years. I know I know I'm
Starting point is 00:25:42 I'm going to so I'm a house of his tio with the sequestrators and I to you all
Starting point is 00:25:47 the man I don't you know you never you've never you never has been a
Starting point is 00:25:55 micro-spensue a contesto a question of not to not want to say nothing and he says no,
Starting point is 00:26:03 that's a question. And I'm going this gesture. This gesture no, this gesture no, this after I've
Starting point is 00:26:10 asked him and he's thought to have thought to have been a time, I know, I'm
Starting point is 00:26:15 in my memory, and at the three or four hours I'll do I'm different.
Starting point is 00:26:20 Oh, well, I'm, well, I'm, but I'm not there to be
Starting point is 00:26:23 a time to be a car in case, I'm doing the same gesture. So I go
Starting point is 00:26:28 verifying. It's a three times. In a moment of the secuido, register your room. You know what
Starting point is 00:26:35 I found? A arm. Exactly. Because me was saying to his body. Necessible not to
Starting point is 00:26:41 not count it because it was an arm illegal. Sin embargo, his state, a level
Starting point is 00:26:45 emotional, respondio, so there are parts of our body that can't make.
Starting point is 00:26:51 A bit, not is that not can mean, is that there are reactions,
Starting point is 00:26:54 that are reactions, And look, to us, to us know that we're doing we're
Starting point is 00:26:58 doing this a different Daniel Kahnemal that's a very much a new different, you know,
Starting point is 00:27:01 we're not different. System one, system two. System one, is a system rapid, automatic,
Starting point is 00:27:08 that no control, that's that's the system two, that's the I'm the
Starting point is 00:27:12 I'm that I want to do. So, what I need, always will be the system
Starting point is 00:27:18 one. Because is the system that you have been a lot, it's a time. In
Starting point is 00:27:24 system one is when you're when you hear you and encoges the
Starting point is 00:27:29 arms and in zones vitales that's a reaction, reaction, no response. We're
Starting point is 00:27:37 we're in automatic. When we stacioning us we do we're constantly. So I
Starting point is 00:27:45 have to know to say what reactions what are the gests are of the
Starting point is 00:27:50 system one and if I am able to that has been one or has been
Starting point is 00:27:53 other I know what really me is doing to your body. So if I detects
Starting point is 00:27:58 what is the system one and what are the things, I know what really is what you're
Starting point is 00:28:01 doing into you. Another other thing is what you then you want to do you.
Starting point is 00:28:06 So that's vital to do it. If you do you do you do you do you
Starting point is 00:28:10 know, is that you're the rostro can learn to or there
Starting point is 00:28:15 definitely reactions facials that even you can't you
Starting point is 00:28:21 can you micro-expression, if you can provoke reactions in conditions, reactions. What you can
Starting point is 00:28:27 is that we're that we're not going to we're doing the capacity to to put up for example, how many times
Starting point is 00:28:34 we've seen a person that we don't know. Politically? Diplomatically. It's a one of
Starting point is 00:28:40 a little bit of a lot of a lot of the norma with patas de or with ruggitas well, but it's a sonrisa.
Starting point is 00:28:48 But it's that the rostro is that the rostro so much poigneter. So, as how you have
Starting point is 00:28:51 reactions physiological and emotionales very complicated, we can't do we've seen to me myself and a
Starting point is 00:28:58 much people to talk to a family, and at the more to say, hey, do you know,
Starting point is 00:29:04 you know, yeah, yeah, that's a bad, of asco. But you don't you
Starting point is 00:29:10 have done to know, and you do you know, so, for example, in the judge of
Starting point is 00:29:15 the judge who they don't know of the person who yes. And does this. In the nose,
Starting point is 00:29:22 does a and fronce the seo. And he's not a count. It's Ekman who's he does a
Starting point is 00:29:27 point, Polkman who's that this micro-appresion. So that's what good, that's
Starting point is 00:29:32 when you you know, it's that's all the language corporal is like the 95%
Starting point is 00:29:38 Well, this is a this is a mytho important. Is a bit? A bit.
Starting point is 00:29:42 It's a bit and no. Look, Albert Bian made a little
Starting point is 00:29:45 a little studio where does some percentage to the different can't
Starting point is 00:29:50 the channel verbal, the parverbal and the non-verbal. So, the no-verbal I want to think it's the
Starting point is 00:29:56 45% the verbal, the verbal, the and the rest were the parvalval ton, tone, timbre,
Starting point is 00:30:01 volume, etc. So, some, like I'm those what they're the part
Starting point is 00:30:06 most important of the communication is the non-verbal because it's the 55% not what you're
Starting point is 00:30:10 not what you but it's not. No, the part most important is the but
Starting point is 00:30:14 not they're not said that Alvin Verabia, what I say, in in the communication, the three
Starting point is 00:30:19 can't be in the most important, the more information is going to do be a word, I'm doing, how I'm, I'm going to
Starting point is 00:30:26 say, the rest of the rest of the way. Until there we're having clear. Then Friesen
Starting point is 00:30:33 and Polickman us say, what is what what is the moment that I want to talk to talk to the
Starting point is 00:30:38 part of the verbal and the no verbal, here is the more the more because it because no
Starting point is 00:30:42 I control. No, I control the gestures, no conscienties. No, Conscientes. If I do like this, Joama, how
Starting point is 00:30:49 you're doing? This means that it's absolutely of a real because it's a gesture? No, because it's a constant. I'm going to go, for example, a gestures that occur in my part of the right of the wristro-reskosk, to make those, which are
Starting point is 00:30:59 risk, I'm going to control. That's going to be in the same direction than the part verbal. If it's the one who's going to say more, the other will be the part no-verbal. Because the verbal I can modify, how I'd be the I don't want to
Starting point is 00:31:14 I'm going to but the gesture is much more difficult. The classic that you question to your wife,
Starting point is 00:31:19 where you're where you're that's a night. That's, you know, yeah, just the form
Starting point is 00:31:24 in that I'm not seen, oh yeah, no it's curiosity. Oh, where you're a night?
Starting point is 00:31:29 Yeah, let's be pincho, where you know, exactly. Exactly. For my
Starting point is 00:31:34 tone. That's, no, for the tone. So, how I'm know
Starting point is 00:31:38 when the person that me respond me, me says, the really, where
Starting point is 00:31:42 I'm to tell you not you don't you know not you
Starting point is 00:31:46 not by the micro expression is that in the micro-expression imagine to make
Starting point is 00:31:49 that's a expression of the kind of you know you know you know you know
Starting point is 00:31:54 that's what you don't you know you in the I'm going to
Starting point is 00:31:59 get a no we can I think it's a little prudent to
Starting point is 00:32:04 make to make to make sure to another other other
Starting point is 00:32:07 other is that we don't we don't we let's
Starting point is 00:32:11 we What we see know we do today of today and this we use the policeis and we're
Starting point is 00:32:15 we're using when we're when we're when we're when you're you're doing the last time what I'm
Starting point is 00:32:21 the most possible and the most extensive that's the question. My brain is that before I think in the
Starting point is 00:32:29 last time I'm because I'm a person who's I'm a life in you or I'm or I'm
Starting point is 00:32:35 you're a time of the time I'm the question me the same of yeah well that's
Starting point is 00:32:39 so it's well it me interested. I mean, I'm going to docent. I mean, I'm going to say, you're going to
Starting point is 00:32:45 know, you're going to get a alert. So I'm not really to create a alert. So if you want to discover the truth,
Starting point is 00:32:49 you know, you know, you never to never, never, never. Look, the information is power,
Starting point is 00:32:55 while you know, you know, you know, I know, I'm going to know, I'm about you, is power,
Starting point is 00:33:01 but the moment that you know, you know, I know a time to do you know to be
Starting point is 00:33:06 a question very simple, very very abired, of, well, hey, what is the end of the second of the time? Tell me you guys
Starting point is 00:33:11 past. You're going to say, well, the yearniz, we've done this, we're going to we're going to we're going to be we're going to get in
Starting point is 00:33:18 business and so. So if I'm in some moment I'm going to say a favor, me going to you're going to because I'm
Starting point is 00:33:26 doing what you you've said. So you you're going to you're going to if you don't you don't me to ask you
Starting point is 00:33:31 to think that you're going to you're going to you're going to you're going to you're going to What is what is what is
Starting point is 00:33:38 what is the is about? No, we can tell from the final at the beginning? What is that if the
Starting point is 00:33:44 story is long, you have to say the same thing contrary, and if is a mean it's a very difficult.
Starting point is 00:33:52 But not only it's very difficult and you're going to make a real of rendiment cognitive, you're going to
Starting point is 00:33:57 start to get to start to start to put yourself because you can't make sure that you can't
Starting point is 00:34:03 use that you can't use this tool that you're that they can use continue to do you.
Starting point is 00:34:08 I don't have to do you know my life is a book open. My life is a little bit.
Starting point is 00:34:14 This is a technique very good. Counten it the reverse. That's, but the condition is
Starting point is 00:34:19 that has that has been a story little long. I mean I said, I'm
Starting point is 00:34:23 to say, I'm a pizza and I'm a to see a no, no, it has
Starting point is 00:34:26 no, no, you need to need to a really, a effort cognitive important. So,
Starting point is 00:34:32 so it's used much. In police it's utilizes for a story that's
Starting point is 00:34:35 a story that's true. Even in the selection of personal when you tell you know,
Starting point is 00:34:39 it's a very typical inflate the curriculum. So, tell me it and you go to be
Starting point is 00:34:45 and you're going to be a time in a year to put in the 2012, that's the type of
Starting point is 00:34:51 things. Even when you're like you because a company is like casartes to get to
Starting point is 00:34:56 you know to know your son. You're children. How's you're how you
Starting point is 00:35:00 the confidence and the authority in an team of work, for example. The first
Starting point is 00:35:04 you have to be a leader and have to be an authority and I'm like a different to think the that's the
Starting point is 00:35:07 authoritas. And I'm the authority is the example. And I'm who I'm who I'm
Starting point is 00:35:13 going to be behind, and you're going to you're going to represent you, authoritas, authority. Then you're
Starting point is 00:35:21 also the potestas. You're to be to me, because if you know me because if you
Starting point is 00:35:25 do a figure more executoror more of to launch a pen contra you. No
Starting point is 00:35:31 see me I'm explained. When someone you can't castigar, that's the so I'm
Starting point is 00:35:34 so I'm when you're a question, because you're because you're a question, we're doing as to the authoritative to do you know, the example, what you mean,
Starting point is 00:35:56 it's a, a person what you need to what is the FBA and what is the system of negotiation of the FBI in in terms of the negotiation and the profilation of persons is like very engrossos.
Starting point is 00:36:06 I've got a figure like very simple for that all the world know. And I profil to the person depending on how they're on respect to my objectives to three ways different. I'm saying, or difficult.
Starting point is 00:36:20 Or, as we say in Spain, chungos. Chungos are bad. Falsil, difficult or chungos? I want to a group of fungues. people who do people who are
Starting point is 00:36:31 people who are they that they're showing but what is what what occurs to that if you're to these people not let's do a play of
Starting point is 00:36:38 the ballmada in the I don't recognize publicly the things the things that these are people who doieni
Starting point is 00:36:43 and the people are people who do they pick depends that they think they're and that's what I'm
Starting point is 00:36:51 what I'm should do that normally many people however not people who are because Parks marginal not
Starting point is 00:36:57 just those thanks, no they're in the palmada in the back on the way, they're
Starting point is 00:37:01 not they're not a time, they're with a team of difficult. And a
Starting point is 00:37:05 other people of not you know we're we're we're really being genuine
Starting point is 00:37:11 with our people, question us to make a way genuine, to be a level
Starting point is 00:37:15 personal, give thank you about public, critiques in a private,
Starting point is 00:37:20 palmadas in the spalada saying, the really that you have done,
Starting point is 00:37:22 and we're we're we're we we're and procurar not to have
Starting point is 00:37:27 very difficult. Because we can have difficult but we can have the other. It's a type of person that is a
Starting point is 00:37:33 lot of people. Because, we're going to know that are difficult. We're going to think that are very.
Starting point is 00:37:39 Because the chungo, the malo. The malo is someone that's a but when you're you're going to
Starting point is 00:37:48 we're going to do that person that's the and with you and with me, and with me and does the same
Starting point is 00:37:54 with all the people, go and he's in the middle. And procura that nobody know that's not that's
Starting point is 00:38:00 not a way of the way that's that nobody he's percibe like somebody he's got to know that
Starting point is 00:38:09 is toxic, it's capable to get to to get to he's going to but you but you going to
Starting point is 00:38:13 you're going to that the idea is that's that's the complicated because it is indetectable
Starting point is 00:38:17 initially. The the, the, we're, we're very toxic with the one
Starting point is 00:38:21 and the other and protested much, is a difficult. And a difficult is
Starting point is 00:38:24 a difficult. There's a technique to be able to a person difficult. But the I'm chungo is, is very
Starting point is 00:38:31 dangerous because is indetectable. You think is good. And by the is more complicated. Yes, it's more
Starting point is 00:38:36 complicated. The more because to be talking about about the people, to be talking about to all of
Starting point is 00:38:42 people, you know, you're trying, and you do it, you know, you know, and so,
Starting point is 00:38:45 and so you do you know, so much, because it's very common in an group. Yes,
Starting point is 00:38:49 very common. It's has a solution because, normally the difficult are the difficult are they
Starting point is 00:38:52 to be able to do you know, so we're in trying to be in them to be in a technique. A new thing you what you have to
Starting point is 00:38:59 do you know, and offer them options. When I think you are you are a person difficult and you're making
Starting point is 00:39:07 my objectives, I'm going to put in the tessitura to choose. But not you're not to put the
Starting point is 00:39:13 thing to to do you, but you're the same to you. I'll tell you. I'll tell you can't
Starting point is 00:39:19 is that I'm thinking that your attitude has changed much. Not is the you're going those are the things very
Starting point is 00:39:27 difficult. So I think you should be to change the attitude and to be able to do it because of
Starting point is 00:39:33 the contrary we're going to have to do a different to do a option. The A,
Starting point is 00:39:40 that is the I want, and the B, what you want to nobody. Okay?
Starting point is 00:39:45 So, I'm trying to choose. You'll go to the other to disciplinary, you've
Starting point is 00:39:49 done to the company. You're going to say, but this is unjust, I don't know I'm doing no.
Starting point is 00:39:53 I'm not because you're not. I'm not. And now it's to make a non-cooperation
Starting point is 00:39:58 and is to plan to the same. You know, to be the level disciplinary to go to you, or
Starting point is 00:40:05 even to despise, in bed to be to do this? For norm general, salvo that you
Starting point is 00:40:11 want to you want to you're going to do you do you want to do, because your
Starting point is 00:40:16 Cerebrough will be to If I elicicke, is to go back the way, it's going to be thanks to me.
Starting point is 00:40:23 Your brain will be because I've elected I'm. But your brain says, if elicicke the option mal,
Starting point is 00:40:29 me are going to give to my because Juanma has done the option. So your brain, that's going to
Starting point is 00:40:35 get always to the easy to consume a energy, as I'm you're doing the way
Starting point is 00:40:38 good, the normal is that you go to you have to get to get to be that's
Starting point is 00:40:44 that of that's that we're what happens when when there's a problem constant and you're not you're saying
Starting point is 00:40:54 it never was easy you never was easy this problem that you know this problem that you're constant it's from it's from it's from it's from well I'm
Starting point is 00:41:02 well I'm the optiona in instead of what you do you're the optiona is I'm I'm sure I'm sure you I'm not to talk more of
Starting point is 00:41:08 the company because I think not you're doing absolutely to because of the contrary I'm going to have to
Starting point is 00:41:12 do you do you're no this is in you're really prefer you to do you
Starting point is 00:41:16 to to talk about bad of the company? I mean, I'm saying, no me
Starting point is 00:41:20 you're not another option. Functioning with the family? No. No. So, yeah,
Starting point is 00:41:26 but it's it's a different way. For a problem. And what we have said before when
Starting point is 00:41:31 we're talking because when we're not personal in the relationship. And you we can't
Starting point is 00:41:35 we can't do you know no professional or not personal. I mean I represent the
Starting point is 00:41:39 the company and I do it like what you do you know with my
Starting point is 00:41:43 with my children, I mean, I know I'm trying the button rojo. And that's going to be in
Starting point is 00:41:48 contrae always the professional. You, to me can't say many people I'm
Starting point is 00:41:53 know, I'm percibo that no but my mother, my children, know, how to
Starting point is 00:41:58 talk about to talk about the and I'm alterer. If I'm to be logical,
Starting point is 00:42:01 rational, I'm to be emotional. And when one is emotional, the decisions, not you
Starting point is 00:42:05 don't know, you're never you're when you're never when you're when you're
Starting point is 00:42:10 I'm excited. Repet that. Repita that, for favor. Three times intertamudian. Never you never.
Starting point is 00:42:16 Never promise nothing. When you're when you're never, when you're when you're never when you
Starting point is 00:42:20 make you make any time when you're when you're when you're when you're when we're very important.
Starting point is 00:42:29 So here not apply this of the two options. No. Here how applicary? With someone
Starting point is 00:42:34 a person a man or a family. I try to do it exactly the exactly the same.
Starting point is 00:42:39 What the one has been to be conscious of the attack that's a thing that
Starting point is 00:42:42 there's a question that can make a make a because we know that we're
Starting point is 00:42:48 something. And a question of my wife or of my children, it has
Starting point is 00:42:53 special pain when it does a person. Because at the level
Starting point is 00:42:58 professional, I do I do you do you do do when you
Starting point is 00:43:03 are a level professional or you dance Tompats or they're a show
Starting point is 00:43:09 but it's a show but in the family not a show not is a representation so it's much more
Starting point is 00:43:17 different than you do you can't exactly like I do you do with my kids and sometimes I'm sometimes
Starting point is 00:43:23 me functioned but there's the thing that even more that I'm going to let's no
Starting point is 00:43:27 but for example I'll say you I'll tell you I'm a case my
Starting point is 00:43:33 examines is you're with the play the PlayStation, Pond to study. No, Papa,
Starting point is 00:43:38 let me the last. A little, let's do you. The fact, because as you know, I'm going to
Starting point is 00:43:43 do the play. All the year. No, let me play. I'm going to, but you're going to study,
Starting point is 00:43:49 what you're to do you do you? He's the thing, but you're saying, but you're
Starting point is 00:43:54 saying, you're saying, in this moment you're you're not, because I'm too, no,
Starting point is 00:43:59 he has to he, because when he he'll listen he, he's the is the is the
Starting point is 00:44:04 is the that they're I have you have got to do. No, no, of course, sure, right, and so
Starting point is 00:44:08 when I'm in the family. That's what you see, the real of the really, the thing is the right, the
Starting point is 00:44:14 woman, well, you know, you know, you know, you're you're a good, you're
Starting point is 00:44:18 a negotiator professional, and your mother knows that you know, you're a job over
Starting point is 00:44:23 negotiations professionales. Yeah. Your mother knows that you know, you're still
Starting point is 00:44:27 and that's listening. Yeah, no, you know, no me you're, that technique,
Starting point is 00:44:32 that technique of the page four of your book. She has read several times the book, something that I'm preoccupied
Starting point is 00:44:37 a lot of but but... Entrenando the enemy. When you write a book has to think
Starting point is 00:44:44 who can't be able to be very very dangerous. My my wife says that I'm a great
Starting point is 00:44:50 ability, is a big of a lot of in Spain, to give the that's
Starting point is 00:44:55 that you're to do you to do you and then to get to the to get the to
Starting point is 00:44:57 the end of what I've observed that I'm that I'm that's that's dangerous too.
Starting point is 00:45:02 And how do you How do you Well, well, as a final As always in the life,
Starting point is 00:45:07 it's going to win her. Gana her Amen. Allelieu. And you know for what? You know,
Starting point is 00:45:13 I prefer I prefer. I prefer. A applause. A demonstration of intelligence emotional.
Starting point is 00:45:22 So, when I was studying in the University of Santa Monica, Ronnie Cassados
Starting point is 00:45:27 were doctors in psychology, were our masters of psychology spiritual. and when there a discussion
Starting point is 00:45:32 between two, of this no, no, Ron, this no, this is not we're not and he said
Starting point is 00:45:37 and he's cut him in the microphone and they were like that they said Ron, I'm going to
Starting point is 00:45:42 do a a moucester of intelligence emotional and how prioritizing the my
Starting point is 00:45:47 love, my love, you're the right, perfect. Perfecto that's and all the
Starting point is 00:45:52 women here. Yes, very good so so so. Okay, now
Starting point is 00:45:56 let me a thing, how, obviously we'd we're not
Starting point is 00:46:01 errors grave. And a sometimes it's horrible to be how, about about
Starting point is 00:46:06 about the person incorrect, and you're when a complaint and when the divorce. There's a there's a
Starting point is 00:46:13 person who douchies and some these battles legales horrible, horrible.
Starting point is 00:46:19 Yeah. Between them, a sometimes is he, a sometimes is he and a
Starting point is 00:46:21 sometimes are those, where you see that they're that's that's that's
Starting point is 00:46:23 they're and you know the person, you know, you know, to be a
Starting point is 00:46:30 grand problem or in the no knowces a your socio or a your social, until there's a great problem. I have an friend of a
Starting point is 00:46:37 mansealano that was an company with his people and they robbed all they were in the carly and they were
Starting point is 00:46:44 their children. So how can you can't see in other person in what you you have
Starting point is 00:46:52 before you before to come you know to get a business, a level personal
Starting point is 00:46:54 with there there's some there's salvan us See, look,
Starting point is 00:47:00 I'll give an information that's a question. Nobody we're doing with the person
Starting point is 00:47:04 that we're we're going to we're we're in we're not we're not we're in I'm different
Starting point is 00:47:11 I'm different that's a I'm not that I'm going to be I'm going to I'm going to and I'm a
Starting point is 00:47:25 different, I'm that I'm a guy I'm a guy I've got to I've got to I've got to I've got to I've got to
Starting point is 00:47:29 the person of the person of the one I know we're doing the what I'm doing the we're doing the same. We're doing it. We're doing it. We're in all of the of course. We're doing it. We're in
Starting point is 00:47:59 of a way different. We always the attitudes. The attitudes we dole us we're doing in different
Starting point is 00:48:04 things. Then we're about we're about the conducts, which are the patterns, of the comportment that's how
Starting point is 00:48:11 we're doing always in the work than the job than my house. And a grand tyrano can be a
Starting point is 00:48:17 great person in your house. So, what we have to do we're to do to do the
Starting point is 00:48:20 people, to try to the when I want to do a person, no I'm doing things with
Starting point is 00:48:26 the business with the individual, the real. So I'm going to perfilarer in situations no professional. So I'm going to eat to come to
Starting point is 00:48:34 you know how you're going to as the person of the limpecies, how you're when you're in an imprevisto, when not they
Starting point is 00:48:41 try in the plate you've paid you. There's when I perfil how you're because we're not much
Starting point is 00:48:47 we're not we're not we're who we're who we're when we're when really there and when you're really
Starting point is 00:48:53 you're in the problem and in what you're being being and there is really how it's a
Starting point is 00:48:58 person. So there's when we have to put a focus. We can't do a way strategic. We can't
Starting point is 00:49:03 provide those situations to see how the people. That's the ideal. So, me
Starting point is 00:49:08 I'm to see a any person that's person who's person who people, and when
Starting point is 00:49:17 not they're not in when really you can't be able to how they're the person. The problem
Starting point is 00:49:20 is those who's who know they know no he's, so he
Starting point is 00:49:22 and he doesn't of the company or how are in a bar, for how
Starting point is 00:49:28 they're in the person, but then the reality is completely different, because really it's like it. We're inamoram
Starting point is 00:49:34 we're in the person social. You're in the person with the cell, to the
Starting point is 00:49:40 show, but not you know you know in crisis. That's, and not only only in crisis,
Starting point is 00:49:46 but I always say that's my joe individual, my joe individual of Juan Manuel
Starting point is 00:49:49 he's, my wife, my children, no no no more. And nobody more.
Starting point is 00:49:53 And it can be very very different to what is very. So, so,
Starting point is 00:49:57 where really is the person and I'm going to So how you know you know this? You have to say I'm, before me, before me,
Starting point is 00:50:02 I'm, before I'm, we're going to we're in other circumstances. And you have the situations where the
Starting point is 00:50:10 attention of this person is going of the way social and be more in the resolution of that
Starting point is 00:50:17 situation where has to take that the I interior real. And the socio, how do you
Starting point is 00:50:21 know, so they're in where to give to a place in the United, in Europe
Starting point is 00:50:25 is a golf. Because in the golf they're in in the golf, you know, how you're
Starting point is 00:50:31 you're actually when you're when you're when you're when you're when you're because the golf and other
Starting point is 00:50:38 sports tend to get to get much who who are you. And not not necessarily even I I'd
Starting point is 00:50:45 I'd like to the city of Mexico in a task to manage a little a rachito who
Starting point is 00:50:50 who's in the traffic after after three hours of an emotellement you you're
Starting point is 00:50:55 you're a lot And one and you get, and pita and you say, how reactionas? Gritas,
Starting point is 00:51:01 not gritas? Roses. Roses the rules, you know, you know, you preferre to be a
Starting point is 00:51:05 feeling to have a reason? So I mean that's the actually, the way of the way to do it,
Starting point is 00:51:10 and do how it's when it's to make a traffic and they're in a lot, to make,
Starting point is 00:51:15 it's of the parts more important where more you can be a person. You're a lot of
Starting point is 00:51:22 a tautel I'm a car and I'm carry that to you, but not justifies to the other
Starting point is 00:51:28 the same. If you get in the policeia, offers you an money, you know, an money
Starting point is 00:51:34 there's a perfilable. All right. All right. So, there's to get to get to be
Starting point is 00:51:39 better. Yeah, I'm sure. I'll tell you the ideal. Yeah, I'd
Starting point is 00:51:45 try to use the traffic of a great city to go to and then then I
Starting point is 00:51:50 would to come to and then if you can't take a a
Starting point is 00:51:53 part of a better after. When they take them, you're When you're going to be able to see if you. Flueges more, you desenies,
Starting point is 00:51:59 a little more. Salen the things. And a social, an socio, an associate, a little. Iggy, a guy who, have to be able. Yes,
Starting point is 00:52:09 yes, but what the is very difficult. Because, you know, we're going to say, or more than our brain, it's very
Starting point is 00:52:15 unjust. And is that the reality that we're not is the reality that we're we're not, we're the maximum of the 10%
Starting point is 00:52:22 of the reality. So, the information that we're the information that is the 10% of what there. But my 10% is different
Starting point is 00:52:27 to the and I'm the 10% that's that's different to be different to the 10% that I'm
Starting point is 00:52:35 to know that I know that I'm put to the person. Percibo other information, and it's the same person.
Starting point is 00:52:39 And I said, is that I've seen, it's that because your 10% of attention not that was that.
Starting point is 00:52:45 Not the attention, of perception not that's, it was another. So, I'm 90% of information of all that
Starting point is 00:52:49 we're that's a problem. It's a problem. It's a It's hard. Casartre and, de a repent, and start
Starting point is 00:52:57 that you casas with a person who you know, I'm doing, yeah, I'm, I've done my time,
Starting point is 00:53:07 no, I know I know I know, and now what I'm, it's a good, it's sure, what I have to do,
Starting point is 00:53:12 for example, how I said I, that much years, many, many years, with a person, that you
Starting point is 00:53:17 have gone, and then you know, so they're so, were friends, so, When in a
Starting point is 00:53:22 business, if I'm in we've got to know, we're we're doing, we're doing we're doing a no,
Starting point is 00:53:27 no, in a society. No. No. No. I know and then we know. Yes,
Starting point is 00:53:33 yes, yeah. And you'd give a million excuses for that you don't know other option. Because is that
Starting point is 00:53:38 when you when you're you're not really that's that's not really is that I'm sure yeah,
Starting point is 00:53:43 and I'm yeah. And I'm that you know that's a question. Before you you take you is the same to
Starting point is 00:53:51 to say, I'm going to know you? Because you're going to say, you're going to do you? No, no, no,
Starting point is 00:53:55 the contrary. I'm going to you know that's a decision correct. It's other thing. Very different.
Starting point is 00:54:00 Very different. Very different. Very different. Very subtle. But, it's that's it's quite. It's quite.
Starting point is 00:54:06 Because it's like, because you want to do you? No, no, you know, that presuppes. That's true. No,
Starting point is 00:54:11 no, you peruseuse despot. There's people. There's a question. The problem of the
Starting point is 00:54:17 negotiations previously. And with, and, also, you know, it's, also do you know
Starting point is 00:54:24 , you know, not you know, you know, the predisposition to lose, not, you go to the
Starting point is 00:54:29 person, no, not so it's the no. So, all this is a period of absolutely, because normally
Starting point is 00:54:35 the negotiations have to have to be a very to be in, the first, and much less,
Starting point is 00:54:37 no, no, no, no, no, any, in a primary reunion.
Starting point is 00:54:42 Yeah, no, has to, so one has to have to have to be resistant to
Starting point is 00:54:46 to the frustration, it's not only the things like you want to you're in the things like you
Starting point is 00:54:54 have to go to the rest of the other then you know who has a capacity, you know, he has to
Starting point is 00:54:59 you know, you've been you know absolutely yes. Absolutely, so. There's many strategies,
Starting point is 00:55:08 no, a level cognitive doing a tribune that I'm for example, you know I'm sure
Starting point is 00:55:14 to find out everything you're going to you and you're just to do you and parted
Starting point is 00:55:18 a Castiano, Yes, in English, what's going to say is, a level of neuroscience has
Starting point is 00:55:26 demonstrated that when one person mentally generate three sies, for questions that I do you do, the quarter
Starting point is 00:55:33 the assume. And that's a mental. I'll explain to you. Imagineate that I'm your chief. I get a
Starting point is 00:55:43 time that you assumeas, that I'm the capacity to do you know the thing, I'm to generate three yes in your
Starting point is 00:55:47 mind. So I you to say, you you know, you know, at the time are you to try to at the 9.
Starting point is 00:55:52 And you have so you've got to get to last time. So, you're just a you're a bad jober and you assume. This is a little bit of you, you're a mal-traumptus. No, no, no. I get you get it. And you're going to get you. I'm going to get you. I'm going to the manita for the way. So this is
Starting point is 00:56:19 this is the in neuroscience is it's just I'm a real thing I'm a realtoral, and then I'm the realtoral
Starting point is 00:56:26 and then you see that that's a red neuronal of the si. The fourth you assume because it's
Starting point is 00:56:31 the red neuronal of the si so you assumees. Those are encuctions when I
Starting point is 00:56:37 know at the government I want that a question me do a little I'm
Starting point is 00:56:41 to design this question I'm to design the anterior to generate this
Starting point is 00:56:46 principle of ignition and reverberation at the level of the neurons and to do you do a
Starting point is 00:56:52 question. So your woman you could say, my love, you know,
Starting point is 00:56:59 you know, if me says that no? Well, my love, you want,
Starting point is 00:57:05 you want to we're so you value a much, valoring to your family.
Starting point is 00:57:10 Yes. And you do you do you anything because we're exactly
Starting point is 00:57:13 so. So, so. then it's it's a way that I'm going to go to
Starting point is 00:57:15 Las Vegas that's that's much to risk yeah it's a much to risk but it
Starting point is 00:57:21 would be a way to try to do it very long but there that thing yeah
Starting point is 00:57:26 yeah yeah yeah okay perfect okay perfect now always we say
Starting point is 00:57:30 the communication correct depends much to choose the moment that
Starting point is 00:57:36 for example for the people that's for people that's for or to negotiate something or renegotiate a relationship.
Starting point is 00:57:46 How do we distinguish us what is a good moment and a bad moment for pedir something? The ideal is try to know in what moment you are absolutely necessary or, of what way you can't affect it if you not stuier in that moment. For example, imagine, in my company
Starting point is 00:58:03 we're three negotiators, because we negotiate most. And two can't enderms, it's my moment of negotiate. Because you because you get a single
Starting point is 00:58:13 negotiator. Sure. So, there we we know, we know, we're, we know,
Starting point is 00:58:19 our brain interprets the decision is with two variants or with two edges, no,
Starting point is 00:58:24 the necessity and the interest. When you negotiates with someone, you have to ask
Starting point is 00:58:29 if you need a interest or or no of the two or has two. When,
Starting point is 00:58:34 in this case, of the three negotiators, you have two, you have
Starting point is 00:58:37 need to more of more negotiators. Imagine if on you say, I'm going.
Starting point is 00:58:42 You know, you know, it's a name a desperation. Yes. And if you're desperated, I'm going to.
Starting point is 00:58:50 Yeah. Because I'm to get practically everything to what I'm like. Like the controlators
Starting point is 00:58:53 auree to come to get a wuelg? Sure. At a point of the world of football.
Starting point is 00:58:58 For example. There's a necessity. There's a absolute. That's is. Absolutely.
Starting point is 00:59:04 And it's and it's that they're it's that we're us They don't because no there's
Starting point is 00:59:08 a need to but now that really we need to be in they're in a lot of course that's around a newport
Starting point is 00:59:15 now we're now we're so that's so that's for that you have events a world of football
Starting point is 00:59:20 an Olympic an event historically in Mexico and in the world in all the places there's a
Starting point is 00:59:25 world or the people say to someone or someone at a moment that's it's the
Starting point is 00:59:30 moment of that's that's that's and value that's so that whatever
Starting point is 00:59:35 whatever whatever we can we can't to do you have to do, valorate the or the interest that has a person
Starting point is 00:59:40 about a little. Because if I have to negotiate with you, I want to you know, you know, you don't have
Starting point is 00:59:45 any necessity, nor do you, I don't have to negotiate. Salvo that that's what you like that. So,
Starting point is 00:59:52 you know, you'd have to find you need to be need to interest? That's normally,
Starting point is 00:59:57 normally interest, more than necessity. Well, a basis. Well, yeah, depends.
Starting point is 01:00:02 Depend for where you move as that's that's true. Yes, so
Starting point is 01:00:05 You've got a rata well-attended Right, there's a necessity There's a Yeah, but I'm a caritian.
Starting point is 01:00:11 No? But it's to make an inform previous of the thing. To tell,
Starting point is 01:00:17 no. If someone to say, no, because I have a year I I've got
Starting point is 01:00:19 I'm a year I'm that there there's a need a need a there's
Starting point is 01:00:24 you start so, so, so so so, so. Okay, then so
Starting point is 01:00:28 then you need to ask to ask, so okay, so
Starting point is 01:00:30 to I think I do questions and we'll share in the image for who are people we're doing in the channel of YouTube
Starting point is 01:00:37 we're doing we're doing people and this case are going to be political and you can do you can't do you know people that you know
Starting point is 01:00:45 we're going to an image of all the other ways to do you know and that you know you you're not
Starting point is 01:00:49 you're expert in learning in question of a second to someone to do a person
Starting point is 01:00:56 as a person of the and now as a master that is coach also of this. Then
Starting point is 01:01:01 me you say, what is in this person and why? So, let's talk about to politics in the States for not met us in problems in Mexico. Venga. I'm very well. We'll talk about the States United. Saluda to all the people that we're in the States.
Starting point is 01:01:14 For example, a president to which many longaramos, Barack Obama, no? That's, that's, it's, he's, he's, he's like a person educated, a, intelligent,
Starting point is 01:01:25 logical, with a sense of the humor. It's like the the postal ideal of a president for many. So, you what is
Starting point is 01:01:33 in a Barack Obama? What I do is authenticity tactical. Authenticity tactical. Let's explain. No,
Starting point is 01:01:39 that's autentical that's autoticity that's about his poros really is a strategy. And it's also that I do
Starting point is 01:01:48 the number of authenticity tactical. I mean we're really we're really we're really because
Starting point is 01:01:52 it's very very materialized, it has worked much and then he also he has a
Starting point is 01:01:57 character a problem that it makes that all that's a much more more than he's a
Starting point is 01:02:02 way he's in photographs of the way that any person, any person, any person, would be
Starting point is 01:02:08 a real but in reality it's, it's imposted because it's a sonrisa social. It's,
Starting point is 01:02:13 is a postand for a photographia. And any person practically all the world,
Starting point is 01:02:18 would be a sonrisa social. He has a sonrisa Dusen. So, is magistral.
Starting point is 01:02:22 It's goodissimo. Because what is what what is what occurs? That the people
Starting point is 01:02:25 that we are that and automatically perceivings that those are real. So, it's a carism
Starting point is 01:02:32 because one of of the premises of the generation of the confidence is the way. There is a way.
Starting point is 01:02:40 Not be able to say good days or to offer a coffee, but we're to be because we're because we're
Starting point is 01:02:44 because we're there's evidence of that the brain on the reales of the
Starting point is 01:02:50 people. If I not is real my sonrisa, but it the brain the
Starting point is 01:02:54 of who me observe, the the And Obama, it does. And it's very good.
Starting point is 01:02:58 And apart, it's very logical. But even when it's encirpaving, or someone protested, he's, he
Starting point is 01:03:04 has a sound a lot of the thing. At the level of the language corporal, no there
Starting point is 01:03:10 incongruences, no, incoherences, has a fluidness, a hypotonyia in articulations that is very normal
Starting point is 01:03:19 of a person that's with a self-confidence, and an auto-estime important. So,
Starting point is 01:03:25 we'll look to the same. It's a question of what Obama is the thing of what Obama wants, but it's of what he perceives in the other. And he does it so much that the Cerebrod of the audience
Starting point is 01:03:32 perceive a person affable, a good. And for that he's the better. Now, a woman controvertida, Hillary Clinton. Yeah, Bill Clinton or not, the
Starting point is 01:03:44 thing of, never took sex with that woman. Horrible. That video is demoled. Fidate the the dead
Starting point is 01:03:53 that's not even any force, he's going to see a the right of the right
Starting point is 01:03:56 to be in a lot of the part the right of the right is a more that's a
Starting point is 01:04:02 question of the poor there. Yeah, and Hillary, highly critically, what is
Starting point is 01:04:07 in Hillary Clinton? Well, Hillary has had an positive of when
Starting point is 01:04:13 was a time, when then was a time, and he had a better.
Starting point is 01:04:16 But what is that the thing is the technique and that
Starting point is 01:04:20 are strategies communicative. I'm going to do you know, I'm going to start to start to start
Starting point is 01:04:26 to see a lot of really. It's a strategy. It's a strategy. It's a strategy. And the non- No, no.
Starting point is 01:04:33 No, no. It's a real reason. It's a no more than it. And then it's that, for example,
Starting point is 01:04:38 I, Obama never I've seen, but to this woman is that he has been a lot-
Starting point is 01:04:43 when he gets when he comes to and he's, and he says to talk,
Starting point is 01:04:48 there, the car is a poem. So, I see very to the legua,
Starting point is 01:04:53 that no could contain that that's a real time, but she had a question of the
Starting point is 01:04:58 middle of the middle of that's very very much of that's all that he was that's still,
Starting point is 01:05:03 I'm sure, I'm and then so, well. Let me the little
Starting point is 01:05:08 the what he's of Donald Trump. Well, Donald Trump go to his own to do what
Starting point is 01:05:14 he has the he has got to the we've been about the authenticity
Starting point is 01:05:19 The authenticity, well, the authenticity, well, the authenticity, like, Obama, is a way of a way of success practically
Starting point is 01:05:26 but the authenticity type Donald Trump also. It's an authenticity that is a orthodox,
Starting point is 01:05:34 of what dicta the norm. And that in some situations generate that
Starting point is 01:05:39 credibility as a other. It's a little like the figure of Javier
Starting point is 01:05:43 Milley. It's very very very very. It's very of the norm, is it's,
Starting point is 01:05:49 it's, it's, and it's , and it's even sympathy specifically for
Starting point is 01:05:53 that's, I think, I'm think they're that you're not a more, no,
Starting point is 01:05:58 no, what it's what you're that's your strategy of communication is good,
Starting point is 01:06:02 you're going, you're going to a little more, the people, the people,
Starting point is 01:06:07 that's what you're what they want, that's what they're a lot, I'm sure, I'm
Starting point is 01:06:14 clear, that a question that we we we need of this podcast is,
Starting point is 01:06:17 we're we're going to we're in peace, we're in peace, in having peace, in having stability,
Starting point is 01:06:25 in having the reason. Correct. You, prioritizes your pass in this moment? There's
Starting point is 01:06:30 something that is a or there something that you're not you're supposed to be versus the
Starting point is 01:06:36 pass or the past or the part of your priority, with all the I'm doing I do many
Starting point is 01:06:42 do many things. I do many things. And I the negotiations that I do with different
Starting point is 01:06:47 organisms and different businesses, I'm doing with all to be able to you know, and I'm very happy so.
Starting point is 01:06:55 Ganas less with a time to be able to but that's going to gain more at the final of the day. Ah, yeah,
Starting point is 01:06:59 I'm less money, but I gain much more health mental. And that's the council that that's, in where we're
Starting point is 01:07:07 talking about about infoproducts and talking of your class and you know, a book, a book,
Starting point is 01:07:11 a book, how you're the Comportament. Yeah, it's a lot of the Ciencies of the Comportamintes. It's a good. It's not that you're in the of advantage. So, okay.
Starting point is 01:07:46 And your courses, what is what you're what you're what you're in the courses? Well, what we're
Starting point is 01:07:50 about. Not only to all the way to the person that's the obviously the first thing we're to do.
Starting point is 01:07:55 As we're we're doing our own language corporal and strategies of persuasion, of influence.
Starting point is 01:08:02 Fifate what I'm saying, to make you to make you that the people who are they're that they're
Starting point is 01:08:06 they're some sure that they're in reality are in different in
Starting point is 01:08:10 your courses. In on the networks, on Instagram, as TikTok, like this, and I'm like things like the
Starting point is 01:08:15 social and then the page website of the Institute of European of Sciences of the Comportamintos where, well, we know,
Starting point is 01:08:22 Institute of Europe of Sciences of the Comfort there. Any person can't write and write and make the
Starting point is 01:08:26 and talk. There's a little. There's a little. Very well. We're going to visit them
Starting point is 01:08:31 to learn more. You're thank you much. We're very a pleasure. We'll give us a lot
Starting point is 01:08:35 to hear Juan Manuel Garcia, Pinch. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you, thank you,
Starting point is 01:08:40 thank you, I'm a contonio Regilla and I'm in all the social, remember if you like the episode,
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