El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 434.- Cómo influir en las personas y ganar cualquier negociación | Juan Manuel García, “Pincho”
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The promise of
today is that we're going to
learn to learn
a person and to
get a question.
Bearing the family,
with a client,
with the chief,
with the pariah.
How to learn
to the people
and gain
the negotiations?
Our invite is
an imminence.
He,
for the first,
he was a member
during 18 years
of the UCO.
also was formed directly
by the FBI in the States
Units. Has been accredited by
psychologists, has been in his
hands the negotiation of the
life of Ceres Human. And has
gone to, obviously. If not, no, we
don't know we'll have here. Juan Manuel
Garcia Pinchot, that's with us on the podcast.
Much thanks.
Of America for the
world. Well, we're going to.
What you ensued? What you
learned in the FBI? What you
would have used to? That would be
Well,
something that
never
ever before
I'm
ever
I'm in
I'm in
I'm in
think I'm
going to share
strategies,
techniques,
tricks, and
the first
what I'm
said it's
what more
important
for any
kind of
and I
just about
the schemas.
But absolutely
because
then I'm
thought that
they're
right.
No,
there's
more effective
in
any kind of
for
to find
a couple of
in a
letter, in
a site,
that's
to hear
that's
what?
What?
What?
What?
only only have
to listen
but the other
person has to
perceive that
effectively
you're going to
you're going to
it's like
it's like you're
how you're
how you're
physically that the other
what
what you mean
for your
is that I've
heard a
and also
I've seened
and then I'm
sure you
and you continue to
know it
that's a
sure that's
the worst
you can't
do a
question of
a question
and that other
person
to do you
know that
you're doing
that you
absolutely
that's
that's
that's
that's
that's
what you can
what could occur
because
because of
what can't
also
we're
to get
whatever
any
kind of
you
need
you know
and the
confidence
that's
the
It's not
if there's
not there's a
because if you
you know
you're in
not you're in
what you're
not going to
what you're
that's
where we're in the
debates
political.
Where they're
they're
not even
they're not
they're
they're not
I'm sure.
I'm sure.
I'm doing the
question.
The question is
very important
but still
more important is
and they're
what they're
a strategy of
we're doing this
we're doing this
but that's
we're doing
the class
political
is very
disperstretched
absolutely
yes,
So,
I mean to
a political
of the party
that's a
thing.
Sure, because
they're not
not really enough
so we're not
not really
because we're
doing a person
genuine.
Genuine.
Exactly.
Obviously,
we're not
we're doing
in all the
places of the
world,
if there are
people who
there's people,
there's a
people who are
people,
but chasso gordo,
the majority
generate
disconfianca
much, so
so.
So,
so,
more than
to say,
we're just
to say,
we're
sometimes
to hear,
like I'm
like,
we need to
we need to
we
certain silencers. You have to generate
a certain connection
between the two persons. We're saying, we're going to
listen with the body, not only only with the
earis, but that perception of the
has heard of recad to be regatta with much
things more, apart of what is to send, or
to say the last words. It's much more profound
than that. What other things?
For example, a paradeo emotional. A paradeo
and a soft, when, in the moment of the
adequate, indicates that what you've said,
for me, has to say, for me, has a lot
important for you, and I respond with a
sentiment and a paradeo, leanty and suave,
you perceives that for me,
it's important, and that's
generates an connection extra.
Very interesting.
What more?
When it gets a moment,
in the way, for you
to assure you that's
understood you've been to
and say,
excuse me,
to be,
let's see you've been.
What you want to
say is,
this, this,
and you're
you can't.
And in that
other person,
you say,
yes,
effectively.
So,
you'll,
you'll never
to generate a
a silence,
and the other
person needs to
continue, and,
and, also,
with a connection
more profound
because he
has heard of
that you've
heard of the
has heard of the
time you're
so you're doing this.
So,
is verificing the
information.
That's,
that's,
that's a
marvellousous
because when
when you start
to play with the
party,
what the
is the
part of the
part of the
other than
the sequestrador.
Yeah,
you know.
Literally.
There's a
component that,
even when the
negotiations that
we're doing
professionals,
when I'm
about
professionals,
I've talked to the police
and a
second it's a
business with
a lot of
there's a
no thing.
You can't
call any particular
something.
You can't
do you want to
do you're doing
what you're
but you're
nothing personal.
In the family, so
there's a
button rojo.
And when you
talk to the
other people
the profiles
social social
and not
you don't take
decisions
correct.
So if you
take a
person,
ah,
sure,
then what you
do you want
to say
is that
blah, blah,
blah, blah.
But,
but,
even we can
get to
to get
to say
things
that we
we don't know. And with a moment
determined, we're saying, but why I've said this?
If it's a very, well, it has a question.
Our own little bit of a half
of the same thing, in a state
normal. But what is what occurs? That when we
we're going to discusses with someone, we're putting
in a mode of menace. And the Cerebrough
is the lion, or is
a email that has taken of quixio, or
is a discussion with our partner? The amazza
is exactly the same. When there's an
thing, what does our brain is reparting the
the same
sobriety to
the extremities
to looker or
to be in the
little and a
little bit of
that rieg
the part,
let's make the
thing we're the
neocortex,
etc.
a little
a little
little bit of
that's the
minimum for that
the part
rational not is
working.
It's a
part more
primitiva
the reactiona.
So,
at the
other of
reactionar
we're
we're
not we're
we
we're
so many
so it's
so
reactions
and the
emotion
sub and the intelligence
not only
emotionally, it's
biologically.
I'm less
blood in the
tank.
I'm more.
I'm more.
It's
also, there's
there's that
there's that
there's a
one that's
about it's a
because the
cedaras
not there.
And it's
a little
this.
The cedar
is a
problem that
has a
problem that
has the
part rational that
is cronical.
The zebra
is that
when I'm
got to be a
little bit of
a leon.
But when the
leon has
been
that's
do not
more.
But the
human
that has a
human,
he's a
little bit more
and if he's
a good,
and if he's
and then we
know that's
a lot of the
end of the
thing you're
that's
that's a
little bit of
the last
human,
the penultime
that's the
last one
I'm so you.
So,
then the stress
is super
chronic.
Deh,
he has to
come to
get to
get to
don't know,
because it's
to be
the part
logic of the
brain the
Cerebrose, for
those
ulceras
have those
humans and not
the vertebrates.
Super interesting.
That's,
oh yeah,
a bit,
you have
you've had
literally
to negotiate with
delinquents,
you've had
to negotiate with
people who's
about to
suicide, or
that's menace
you're
that they're
in the
films,
as like the
house of
paper,
that's,
and he
was, and
you're,
you're going to
you, you,
you're going to
get to
get to
your
confidence.
The principal.
When
when we
get to a
place,
no
there's a
no way
there's a
there's a
lot of the
first of the
first of the
first we're
to do you
know,
we're doing that
the time
initially.
The first
they're
to perceive is
we're doing to
get to
help you
to get to
when you need
more gasoline
because probably
that person
me de
it's a
person,
I'd
be a
person who
will be
that's
that's in a
car well, it's
going to be
car well
I what I have to try
is to generate
silencers,
generate simply the
presence
for that your
mental
going to be
back down.
The neurociencia
day of
today to
us agree with
no more
than 90
seconds.
The rest is
that we
do you know,
I can't
make a
good
to eat
a state
emotional
that you
can't
cost to
a life
to get a
of a
person,
I'm
I've
and a
other person
has been
a
personal
and has
subpo
the
logic,
that is
when we
start
questions.
But
But you're always, and this is fundamental, this is very important.
Preguntas, that generate control in the other person,
that have the perception of control, and,
especially, that not be able to say, but,
but why is this?
But, no, is that very beautiful?
Because he can say, it's a lot of the time.
Because I don't know what he has occurred to this person
to stand in that situation.
So, you have to do this.
No.
Even valid, the, the, that's there are rare, no?
How you're going to validate a person that's going to get the
life? Well, at the
maybe we've
happened.
And at the
most we're going to
we're going to
we're not the
same circumstances
we're going to
we're not going to
say,
I know what
you've been to
be very important
for that you're
there.
And that's the
problem we
when we're
in a discussion.
Always.
That's we
start to
get to
get a
gasoline to
someone and people
you say something
you're doing
you're doing
a rinkor
or something
that's
and we're
we're doing
gasoline
the
fire,
thinking that
we're going to
do you know,
the way we
do it's a
way we're doing,
we're doing a
way to do
defensive,
for part of the
other person,
but of attack
our own.
So,
we know we
not we're
to know how
the person,
we're going to
say,
what I'm going to
get to do you.
It's a
question to
understand.
And that's the
great problem.
So, for that's
we're going to
get a nocese
when we're
when we're
going to get
no negotiations.
Never.
In the
work
with a
client with a
companyer,
with a
partner, with a
partner
less, etc.
There's what we
should be
we're going to
do you
know,
I've seen a
video of a
psychologist, I'm
very much,
difficult,
but brilliant,
that they
asked a
and you,
you're doing,
you're in
a middle of
a discussion
more great.
And I say,
I think,
I think we
we're going to
say is, I'm
sufficiently
enfahed
as far as
not to make
not to make
that way.
That the
theory is very
beautiful.
Now,
in plen a
o'g,
well, I
know if I
if I'm
I would be able to say that.
I'm trying.
From the point of
view of professional,
what is the error
that a agent
of the FBI
not could
commit a negotiator
like you?
No,
can't commit
what error?
Tratar to
attribute a
person from
my logic,
from the
mine.
And that's
a error
that's so
he's a
problem
interior and
internal
that we have
to do
a new
a negotiation
and I
see a person
and me
They'll tell you a little bit of the history and the because it's there. Normally, we
try to justific it. And we're, well, then, well,
decide if it's doing well, if it's doing well. And the problem is that we do
do from our logic. No, we do from the logic of the other person. And that, if, if
me permits, I can put an example real, right?
Yeah, yeah.
There was a negotiator of the police of New York that they
activated because there
a papa that
wanted to
get a
son.
So,
they said,
yeah,
look,
please,
displecate
a rapid
because the SWAT
will
be a lot of
minutes and
you're still
more
more than you
contact with
the father and
he says,
look,
if you do
do you
don't,
you know,
you can't
get
to get a
and the
father,
he said,
well,
you think you
you'll do
do you
do you think
what I'm
to make you
to me
to me
to make sure
like
like,
like,
like,
menaceant,
I'm in
doing quite,
so much
this police
said,
well,
I'm going to
work to
work,
I'm going to
try to put me
in the
suh.
Then I'm
he asked,
he said,
why,
why I'm
trying to
to make you
and he
said,
he's
he said,
because I'm
a
guy, and
he said,
oh,
well,
I'm,
I'm,
I'm,
I'm,
if you
you think you
is the
devil,
and,
and,
he's
he's
he's,
valid,
the situation
in the
of the
he said,
what you've
done to be
that you
know the
there's a
other way,
you're not there
I'm a
exorcism to
your
son, and if
not we
let him
we're not
we're
we're not
because it
was a
good
sounder,
it was a
easy for
a cellar
for his
he was
when he was
when he
was detained
but he
but he could
but he
he could be
the
life of the
he's
a lot of
a logic
disfraisedo
of a sastardote
but he
he came to
his side,
he's got to
he's
you want to do you
want to do you
want to get a
problem,
you're going to
get to find out of
you know,
even when you
know it
you know,
you know,
I'm not
important for
that's just
to be in
not right
to start,
yeah,
sure,
definitely.
So,
simply,
I'm trying
to do you
think you
this is the
diablo and
you're trying
to make
that you're
in this
tauter of
that's
that's
if you
I'm in your
place, and I
would be the
I'm probably
probably we're in
the same.
Probably we're in the
same. Okay. So, no
confronter.
Now, that is
a real problem
because the
man, human
the ego,
what you want
is confronter,
want to gain,
he wants to
to show to
that's a
bad and I
do you.
Look,
I always
happen in these
things,
I used to
say a phrase that
I've been
to Rike Eli
was one of
the passengers
that was
on the
carthson
when
when he
was streyo
in the
real
he,
he said
that when
he said,
And he said, oh, the commandant of the one inovic who
were to impactar against the river,
of a sudden, he said, he knew a
question that he had
preoccupied in the life for things that
had been preoccupied, in seconds, no,
when they felled and they, and he
he saw that he said, I'm going to
know that he had to beware of the
wine very, very, very, of luge, for
always, for some moment, and that
decided to escortchard.
And in the moment that he's done
of this
he said a
thing that I
have helped
much and that
I'm doing
and that's
I prefer
prefer to be
sure you
think that
when we
we're doing
we're not
a friend
with a
family or
something that
not that
not you
want to be
you're
to be a
question.
Our
is very
tendent
to have
to have
to have
to have
to have
to
something.
And that
is a
past
we're
we're
we're
to be
strategas
and
think
if
we're
it's worth.
We need the
really to do it
this way or
prefer you know
to do that
another person,
that's your
ego is to
get to get to
your and you
have to have much
conscience.
It's a
work that's
a work that
is a hard
to do it.
Sure,
because we
have to
renunciate
to the
idea of the
ego of
the brain
reptile
that is,
oh,
tell you
tell you
tell you.
It's
tell you.
You know,
show it's
about,
because there
a satisfaction
very
great.
But also
there's
a satisfaction
very
when you
that's a job
internal,
and you
know you've
done that's
a little
you know that's
you know,
resisting the
temptation of
destroy with your
words.
And, and
also,
I think we
think we're
to try it
my word that
I've
got got to
and that's
easy, because
you have to
do a
work
work in a
number and
you're
and you're
and you're
but one
once that
you're
you're
that you
see the
part.
It's,
you know,
because
then you
you're
you're
And conserve what
you really
you're always
you're
you're conscious
to find your
and that's
that's
that's a
sure,
because for
many people
we're not
our enemy
yeah,
you're your
your ego?
Because your
ego,
because your ego
will have
to open the
thing,
and the
people,
I'm sorry,
I'm sorry,
I'm,
I'm a
different,
I'm a daffo personal.
I'm
daffo personal.
And is what
is what is
what is a
fortelement?
What is the
thing?
And,
the people in general
but it's a percentage
very small
the point of the
whole thing is the
problem that the principal
barrier that
they're in
any kind of
any type of intervention
with persons is the
own ego
is the
barrier that we
we're the great
fortaleza
if we can't
get to get to
the other
to me
to think you
you think you
you're
you think you're
if you're
if you have
if you have a
if you have a
great ego
no you
don't you
do
I'm going to
absolutely
everything
is what you
want to do
it's the
it's the
no way
there's a
question in this
question.
I prefer
prefer to be
a lot of
the people who
is a lot
is a great
carval you're
a guy who's
a guy
with a
power of
that's a
you're going to
you want to
you're doing
you're
you're
you're
you're
a little
and the other
you're
like a
little bit
a little
that's
and then
then he's
to cede
and
start
to be
manageable.
That's.
And always
from a profile
of those.
You have to get
to get a superior?
Yes.
You know, too?
You want to be.
No,
you're going to
be it.
There's a
kind of.
How apparents?
Well,
because at
final, you
have to be
conscious of
how will
be able to
the other.
And the
strategy is always
to give
light to
be very
over the
very over the
is a strategy
for aure.
But a
brain that
really needs
to feel
that is
more than
is more
a person
that has
a person who
or even
even if you're
a person
very narcissistic
or with a
with a
profile
a person
and a
person who are
to think
they're very
to be over
the other
what you're
the reason.
The problem
of all this
is the
problem.
The problem,
is that if
no, it's
that I
do it.
Why?
Why?
Why?
What is
what you
really
you're the
question?
He's the
way to
get the
exactly.
It's very
simple.
And once you
you know
and a
one way
that's a
question,
it's a
question,
it's a
path.
You're about the importance of
to hear about
to hear about
there's
questions
many times
they're in the
people you're
not for the
responses that
does,
but the questions
that's
so you're
so you're
so you're
sure, the
questions can be
very strategicicous
if you're
and then
obviously there
an intelligence
or at least
a tactic
no,
at the hour
to ask
a person
that's a
person who has
not being
a strategy, we're
to make
a lot and
Intendid. Quantime,
how much longer
intended,
more I'm
going to
make a lot of
a story?
Well,
attacking a ego.
Attackando to
the ego,
for example,
I'm going to
I'm going to
you know,
how many years
you know,
you're probably
that you
say, because
you're going to
know,
I'm going to
say,
my age,
then very
probably not
you know
you're going to
do you go is
great,
and I go
a phrase
and I'm
going to
tend to
correct me.
And at
I mean, I could say,
ah, well,
I know, I didn't
say, oh, no,
I don't know, I've got
, I'm going to,
I'm 506,
okay.
So, yeah
you're just
correct, but I'm
correct, but
me said a little
good.
Well, but
you know,
to say,
the contrary,
depending on the
other than I
I think of 602.
You're saying,
no, no,
no, 62,
no, I'm 56.
And you know,
and you know,
no.
But it's the
ego, at final
if you're just
not only
not only a
level personal,
but a
level personal,
at a level
professional,
I can't
I don't know
I know that this
was too.
You say,
no, no,
if it's car
me have
costed this
and the other.
I never
I've asked
because if
I'm asked
you know,
you know,
you know,
you can't,
the information
that you
do you
never going to
you're going to
a necessity
because it's
what I'm
what I'm
that you're
making me that
you're
committing a
error,
adulandot
there,
there's many
strategies.
And this
serve in
a negotiation?
Yes,
with a
a client?
A,
an example,
a example.
A,
I can't say
I can't imagine
how much
how you can't
make a little
so you're going to
how you're going to
how big.
My company has
many people have
many people who
you're going to
because I've
to talk to your
ego as saying
your company
not so you
you're going to
give me
information
to justificate
that the
company is important
so.
So first
me you're going
to do a
lot of information
that before
it's a
money
you're going to
do you
do you're
not you're
the perception
that me
me me
really to be
you're
going to
to start to
talk much
and will
exist even
even
there's a
little bit of
a good at
a good at
it's a
little bit like
and then they're
saying,
and then they're
to present a
person.
No,
we've got to
this and we
don't know
this, we're
doing this, and
he's doing
they're doing
how they're
they're getting
the price
and you and
they're just
they're up
that's
that's right
that's
that's going to
I'm really
when I'm
when I'm
doing it
I'm doing
a taxi and
I was more
and more
and I
I said,
Madre
my
with the
little time
you have
you have
the taxi
very little
because you
see,
you know,
because you're
a final
is the pan
of your
kids,
I'm doing
a certain
and I
had a
whole.
All the
the life
but of the
children
that they
had,
of the
money
that they
got to
in a
day,
if you
do you know,
if you
do you
don't ask
to ask us
without
without
without
it's more
more
to
make
a
, that's
and
it
necessity of
responder.
By the
way?
For adulation,
for compromise,
for correction,
the correction
for me is of
the most potentes.
The necessity
of correction,
especially when
there's a
issue of the
issue of
that's a need.
And so you're
not you're
doing it.
Much of the
So when you
want to
you're doing,
it's too,
it's more
more complicated.
The time of
the
thing of the
thing of the
detection of
the mentira
because I
think in the
not you?
No, I
think in the
detections of
No, it's that
is that you're not.
But they're in
all the
movies and supposedly
No, no, no,
no, no,
no, no sirs
no, no
no,
a detector of
what is,
is a detector
of reactions
physiologics.
What that's
a matter.
Me,
I'm going to
make a
nervous because
you can't
a mental,
but you
can't be
nervous because
me
I'm very much
so.
So,
the polygraph
will do the
same thing.
It's a
amount of
frequency
cardiac,
more sudoration,
elevation of the temperature.
It's true or is
a matter or is
a lot of
it's a reaction
physiological.
So,
to say that
something is
a little bit
I'm,
I'm very
very dangerous.
But the
police
actually are
using the
detectors?
Depend of the
countries.
In
Spain,
no,
it's
not.
In Spain,
no.
For this
you're saying?
Exactly.
And because
there's
there's
many of
errors.
Okay.
That's
so you
always you
have to
ask
a
micro-expression
of
a
for a person or for the accident
of a person.
Imagineate that I'm going to say you're
you know, you've got to have
known that you've got, you
have a accident of traffic and he's
and you generate a micro-expression of
alegia.
I what I think?
That you're like that
is that he has died?
Or you're like to be
the two?
What is a micro-expression?
Let's define it
is an expression of
the energy.
The car of the other
eyes to be right,
like guinear the eyes
to get a legion of
dog, elevation of pommul,
phenomenal.
A micro-expression
of alexion of
like
we're going.
Micro-expression
subtle of
when I
feel like that's
when I'm going to
know that you
go to occur.
The most
muscles facial are
going to have that
necessarily of
because I'm
doing my part
conscientious but I'm
not all the
whole in many
it's a lot of
times.
It's going to
like an
intent of
a smile.
You know
Jose
has had
a student
of a coach and
and me
imagineate
that I
odio to
Jose
I go
povercillo.
But it's
And not you can't control
that?
You can't control?
You want to be a
real?
Yes, yes, a case real.
Amanda Knox.
Amanda Knox is a North American
an American
an Australian
that's a
American and
and he's
Kecher,
Britannica.
A good day
Madrid Ketcher
appears
brutally assassinated
in the
house where
the house
and the
police,
the commission
judicial,
forensic,
to get the
government of
the United
and they
started
a attitude
a suspectous and rarer in Amanda Knox.
The detiening,
she's a, well,
is in prison preventive,
she'll celebrate,
and the declarer no
culpable.
That's what
means,
no there's sufficient
proofs.
There are many
indices,
but no is sufficient
proofs
to say that
is a
publicable.
Then it's
a program of
television and
the presenter
and the presentator
he said,
did you kill
a Meredithskatcher,
you killed a Mardskiccher,
you did you
didger,
you didger,
no.
So,
to those
we're doing
to us
For us is something that
that's
that's
that's
because when
you're
when you're
you're
you're
you're
an
expression is a
micro-expression
of a
like that
the most
the most
they're
because
is culpable
I'm
I've
been a
time I've
been quite
because
is a
problem
she's
she's
probably
she's
not you
I'm
guilty
but I
have said
I'm
talking to
I'm
in a legia. But also can be because
for the fin respond in liberty.
And his sensation of
a legion of alexen, it's present.
It can't be. So, if
it can't be, I don't put a person.
No. No. No. Me too much
to get in the carcern. Correct. I know what has been
the detonate. That's really
the important. There's alexia.
There's a little bit of an expression contained.
Yes. But for what? No, why?
And then you have to go back
to question and ask you. Exactly.
You'll go to a case of real mine.
The trick would be,
to ask you
to ask you.
To ask you
see a while
I'm in
a second
in the second
one year of
nine of nine
years.
I know I
know I'm
I'm going to
so I'm
a house of his
tio
with the
sequestrators
and I
to you all
the man
I don't
you know
you never
you've
never you
never has
been a
micro-spensue
a contesto
a question
of not
to not want to
say nothing
and he says
no,
that's a
question.
And I'm going
this gesture.
This gesture
no, this gesture
no, this
after I've
asked him
and he's
thought to have
thought to
have been
a
time, I
know, I'm
in my
memory,
and at the
three or
four hours
I'll
do I'm
different.
Oh,
well,
I'm,
well,
I'm,
but I'm
not there
to be
a time
to be
a car
in case,
I'm
doing
the same
gesture. So I go
verifying.
It's a three times.
In a moment
of the
secuido,
register your
room.
You know what
I found?
A arm.
Exactly.
Because me
was saying to
his body.
Necessible
not to
not count it
because it was
an arm
illegal.
Sin embargo,
his
state,
a level
emotional,
respondio,
so there
are parts of
our
body that
can't
make.
A bit,
not is that
not can
mean,
is that
there
are
reactions,
that
are
reactions,
And look,
to us,
to us
know that we're
doing we're
doing this
a different
Daniel Kahnemal
that's a
very much
a new
different,
you know,
we're not
different.
System one,
system two.
System one,
is a system
rapid,
automatic,
that no
control,
that's
that's
the system
two,
that's the
I'm the
I'm
that I
want to
do.
So,
what I need,
always will be
the system
one.
Because is the
system that you
have been
a lot,
it's a
time.
In
system
one is
when
you're
when you
hear you
and encoges
the
arms and
in zones
vitales
that's a
reaction,
reaction,
no response.
We're
we're in
automatic.
When we
stacioning us
we do
we're
constantly.
So I
have to
know to
say
what reactions
what
are
the gests are
of the
system one and
if I
am able to
that has
been
one
or has
been
other
I
know
what really
me is doing to your
body.
So if I
detects
what is the
system
one and what
are the
things,
I know what
really is
what you're
doing
into you.
Another
other thing is
what you
then you
want to
do you.
So that's
vital
to do it.
If you
do you
do you
do you
do you
know,
is that
you're
the rostro
can
learn to
or
there
definitely
reactions
facials
that
even
you
can't
you
can
you
micro-expression,
if you can
provoke reactions in
conditions,
reactions.
What you can
is that we're
that we're
not going to
we're doing the
capacity to
to put up
for example,
how many times
we've
seen a person
that we
don't know.
Politically?
Diplomatically.
It's a
one of
a little bit of
a lot of
a lot of
the norma
with patas de
or with ruggitas
well, but it's
a sonrisa.
But it's
that the
rostro is that
the rostro
so much
poigneter.
So, as
how you have
reactions
physiological and
emotionales
very complicated,
we can't
do we've
seen to me
myself and a
much people
to talk
to a
family,
and at the
more to say,
hey,
do you know,
you know,
yeah,
yeah,
that's a
bad,
of asco.
But you
don't you
have done
to know,
and you
do you know,
so,
for example,
in the
judge of
the judge
who they
don't know of the
person who
yes.
And does this.
In the
nose,
does a
and fronce
the seo.
And he's not
a count.
It's Ekman
who's
he does a
point,
Polkman
who's
that
this micro-appresion.
So that's
what good,
that's
when you
you know,
it's
that's all
the language
corporal is
like the
95%
Well,
this is a
this is a
mytho
important.
Is a
bit?
A bit.
It's
a bit and
no.
Look,
Albert
Bian
made
a little
a little
studio
where does
some
percentage
to the
different
can't
the channel
verbal,
the parverbal
and the non-verbal.
So,
the no-verbal
I want to
think it's the
45%
the verbal, the
verbal, the
and the rest
were the parvalval
ton,
tone,
timbre,
volume,
etc.
So,
some,
like I'm
those
what they're
the part
most important
of the
communication is
the non-verbal
because it's
the 55%
not what
you're
not what you
but it's
not.
No,
the part
most important
is the
but
not they're
not
said that
Alvin Verabia, what
I say, in
in the
communication,
the three
can't be in
the most important,
the more information
is going to do
be a word,
I'm doing,
how I'm,
I'm going to
say,
the rest of
the rest of
the way.
Until there
we're having
clear.
Then Friesen
and Polickman
us say,
what is what
what is the
moment that I
want to
talk to talk
to the
part of
the verbal and
the no verbal,
here is
the more
the more
because it
because no
I control.
No,
I control the
gestures,
no
conscienties. No,
Conscientes. If I do
like this, Joama, how
you're doing? This means
that it's absolutely
of a real
because it's a gesture? No, because it's a
constant. I'm going to go, for example,
a gestures that occur in my part of the
right of the wristro-reskosk,
to make those, which are
risk, I'm going to control.
That's going to be in the same direction
than the part verbal. If it's
the one who's going to say more,
the other will be the part no-verbal.
Because the verbal
I can modify, how I'd be the
I don't want to
I'm going to
but the
gesture is much
more difficult.
The classic
that you
question to your
wife,
where you're
where you're
that's a
night.
That's,
you know,
yeah,
just the form
in that I'm
not seen,
oh yeah,
no it's
curiosity.
Oh,
where you're
a night?
Yeah,
let's be
pincho,
where you
know,
exactly.
Exactly.
For my
tone.
That's,
no,
for the
tone.
So,
how I'm
know
when the
person that
me respond
me,
me says,
the
really,
where
I'm
to
tell
you
not you
don't you
know
not you
not by
the micro
expression
is that
in the
micro-expression
imagine
to make
that's a
expression
of the
kind of
you know
you know
you know
you know
that's
what you
don't
you know
you
in the
I'm
going to
get a
no
we can
I think
it's
a little
prudent
to
make
to make
to
make sure
to
another
other
other
other
is that
we
don't
we
don't
we
let's
we
What we see
know we do
today of today
and this
we use
the policeis
and we're
we're using
when we're
when we're
when we're
when you're
you're doing the
last time
what I'm
the most
possible and the
most extensive
that's the
question.
My brain is that
before I think
in the
last time I'm
because
I'm a
person who's
I'm a
life in you
or I'm
or I'm
you're a
time of the
time
I'm the
question me
the same of
yeah
well that's
so it's
well it
me interested.
I mean, I'm going to
docent.
I mean,
I'm going to say,
you're going to
know, you're going to
get a alert.
So I'm
not really to
create a alert.
So if you
want to discover
the truth,
you know,
you know, you
never to
never, never,
never.
Look,
the information is
power,
while you know,
you know,
you know,
I know,
I'm going to
know, I'm
about you,
is power,
but the moment
that you
know,
you know,
I know a
time to
do you know
to be
a question
very simple,
very
very abired,
of,
well, hey, what is the end of the
second of the time?
Tell me you guys
past.
You're going to say,
well,
the yearniz, we've
done this, we're going to
we're going to
we're going to be
we're going to get in
business and so.
So if I'm
in some moment
I'm going to
say a favor,
me going to
you're going to
because I'm
doing what you
you've said.
So you
you're going to
you're going to
if you don't
you don't me
to ask you
to think that
you're going to
you're going to
you're going to
you're going to
you're going to
What is what
is what is
what is the
is about?
No, we can
tell from the
final at the
beginning?
What is
that if the
story is
long, you
have to say
the same thing
contrary, and if
is a
mean it's a
very difficult.
But not
only it's
very difficult and
you're going to
make a
real of rendiment
cognitive,
you're going to
start to
get to
start to
start to put yourself
because
you can't
make sure
that you can't
use that
you can't
use this
tool that
you're
that they can use
continue to
do you.
I don't
have to
do you know
my life
is a book
open.
My life is a
little bit.
This is
a technique
very good.
Counten it
the reverse.
That's,
but the
condition is
that has
that has been
a story
little
long.
I mean
I said,
I'm
to say,
I'm a
pizza and
I'm a
to see a
no,
no,
it has
no,
no,
you need to
need to
a really,
a effort
cognitive important.
So,
so it's
used much.
In police
it's
utilizes
for
a story
that's
a story that's
true.
Even in
the selection
of personal
when you
tell you
know,
it's a
very typical
inflate the
curriculum.
So,
tell me it
and you
go to be
and you're
going to be a
time in a
year to
put in the
2012,
that's the
type of
things.
Even
when you're
like you
because a
company is like
casartes
to get to
you know
to know your
son.
You're
children.
How's
you're
how you
the confidence
and the
authority
in an
team of
work,
for example.
The first
you have to be
a leader
and have to be
an authority
and I'm
like a
different to think the
that's the
authoritas.
And I'm
the authority
is the
example.
And I'm
who I'm
who I'm
going to be
behind, and
you're going to
you're going to
represent you,
authoritas,
authority.
Then you're
also the
potestas.
You're
to be
to me,
because if
you know me
because if you
do a figure
more
executoror
more of
to launch
a pen
contra you.
No
see
me
I'm explained. When
someone
you can't
castigar,
that's the
so I'm
so I'm
when you're a
question, because you're
because you're a
question, we're doing as
to the authoritative
to do you know, the
example, what you mean,
it's a, a person
what you need to
what is the FBA
and what is the
system
of negotiation of the FBI in
in terms of the negotiation and the
profilation of persons is like very engrossos.
I've got a figure
like very simple for that
all the world know.
And I profil to the person
depending on how they're
on respect to my objectives
to three ways different.
I'm saying, or difficult.
Or, as we say in Spain,
chungos.
Chungos are bad.
Falsil, difficult or chungos?
I want to a group
of fungues.
people who do
people who are
people who are they
that they're showing
but what is what
what occurs to
that if you're
to these people
not let's do
a play of
the ballmada in the
I don't
recognize publicly
the things
the things that
these
are people who
doieni
and the
people are
people who
do they pick depends
that they
think they're
and that's
what I'm
what I'm
should do that
normally
many people
however not
people who are
because Parks marginal
not
just those
thanks, no
they're
in the palmada
in the
back on the
way,
they're
not they're
not a
time,
they're
with a
team of
difficult.
And a
other
people of
not you
know we're
we're
we're
really
being genuine
with our
people,
question us
to make
a way
genuine,
to be
a level
personal,
give
thank you
about
public,
critiques
in a
private,
palmadas
in the
spalada
saying,
the
really
that you
have done,
and
we're
we're
we're
we
we're
and procurar not
to have
very difficult.
Because we can
have difficult
but we can
have the other.
It's a
type of person
that is a
lot of people.
Because,
we're going to
know that
are difficult.
We're going to
think that
are very.
Because the
chungo,
the malo.
The malo is
someone
that's a
but when you're
you're going to
we're going to
do that person
that's the
and with you
and with me,
and with me
and does
the same
with all the
people,
go and he's
in the middle.
And procura
that nobody
know that's
not that's
not a
way of the
way that's
that nobody
he's percibe
like somebody
he's got
to know that
is toxic,
it's capable
to get to
to get to
he's going to
but you
but you
going to
you're going to
that the
idea is
that's
that's the
complicated
because it
is indetectable
initially.
The
the,
the,
we're,
we're very
toxic with
the one
and the
other and
protested
much,
is
a
difficult.
And a difficult is
a difficult.
There's a technique
to be able to
a person
difficult.
But the I'm
chungo is,
is very
dangerous because
is indetectable.
You think
is good.
And by the
is more
complicated.
Yes, it's more
complicated.
The more
because to be
talking about
about the
people,
to be talking about
to all of
people,
you know,
you're trying,
and you
do it,
you know,
you know,
and so,
and so you
do you know,
so much,
because it's
very common
in an
group.
Yes,
very common.
It's
has a
solution because,
normally
the difficult
are the difficult
are they
to be able to
do you know,
so we're in
trying to be in
them to be in a
technique.
A new thing you
what you have to
do you know,
and offer them
options.
When I think you
are you
are a person
difficult and
you're making
my objectives,
I'm going to
put in the
tessitura
to choose.
But not
you're not
to put the
thing to
to do you,
but you're
the same
to you.
I'll tell you.
I'll tell
you can't
is that I'm thinking
that your attitude
has changed
much.
Not is the
you're going
those are the
things very
difficult.
So I think
you should be
to change the
attitude and
to be able to
do it
because of
the contrary
we're going to
have to
do a
different to
do a
option.
The A,
that is the
I want,
and the
B,
what you
want to
nobody.
Okay?
So,
I'm trying to
choose.
You'll
go to the
other
to
disciplinary, you've
done to the
company.
You're going to
say, but this
is unjust,
I don't know
I'm doing
no.
I'm not
because you're
not.
I'm not.
And now
it's
to make a
non-cooperation
and is
to plan to
the same.
You know,
to be the
level disciplinary
to go to
you, or
even to
despise,
in bed
to be
to do this?
For norm
general,
salvo that you
want to
you want to
you're
going to
do you
do you want to
do, because
your
Cerebrough
will be
to
If I elicicke,
is to go back the
way,
it's going to be
thanks to me.
Your brain will be
because I've
elected I'm.
But your
brain says,
if elicicke
the option
mal,
me are going to
give to my
because Juanma
has done the
option.
So your
brain,
that's going to
get always
to the
easy to
consume a
energy,
as I'm
you're doing
the way
good,
the normal is
that you
go to
you have to
get to
get to be
that's
that of
that's
that we're
what happens when
when there's a problem
constant
and you're not you're
saying
it never was easy
you never was easy
this problem that you
know this problem that you're
constant
it's from it's from
it's from it's from
well I'm
well I'm the optiona in
instead of what you
do you're
the optiona is I'm
I'm sure
I'm sure you
I'm not
to talk more of
the company
because I think
not you're doing
absolutely to
because of the
contrary
I'm going to
have to
do you
do you're
no this is in
you're
really
prefer you
to
do you
to
to talk about
bad
of the
company?
I mean,
I'm saying,
no me
you're not
another option.
Functioning
with the family?
No.
No.
So,
yeah,
but it's
it's a
different way.
For a
problem.
And what we
have said
before when
we're talking
because when
we're not
personal
in the
relationship.
And you
we can't
we can't
do you know
no professional
or not
personal.
I mean
I represent
the
the company
and I
do it
like what
you
do you
know
with my
with my
children,
I mean, I
know I'm trying
the button
rojo.
And that's
going to be in
contrae
always the
professional.
You,
to me
can't say
many people
I'm
know,
I'm percibo
that no
but my
mother,
my children,
know,
how to
talk about
to talk about
the
and I'm
alterer.
If I'm
to be
logical,
rational,
I'm
to be emotional.
And when
one is emotional,
the
decisions,
not you
don't know,
you're
never
you're
when you're
never
when you're
when you're
I'm excited.
Repet that.
Repita that,
for favor.
Three times
intertamudian.
Never
you never.
Never promise
nothing.
When you're
when you're
never,
when you're
when you're
never when you
make you
make any time
when you're
when you're
when you're
when you're
when we're
very important.
So here
not apply this
of the two
options.
No.
Here how
applicary?
With someone
a person
a man or
a family.
I try to
do it
exactly the
exactly the
same.
What the
one has
been to be
conscious
of the
attack
that's a
thing that
there's a
question
that can
make a
make a
because
we know
that we're
something.
And a
question
of my
wife or
of my
children,
it has
special
pain
when it
does a
person.
Because
at the
level
professional,
I
do I
do you
do you
do
do
when you
are
a level
professional
or you
dance
Tompats or
they're
a show
but it's a show
but
in the family
not a show
not is a
representation
so it's
much more
different than you
do you can't
exactly like
I do you
do with my
kids and
sometimes I'm
sometimes
me functioned
but
there's the
thing that
even more that
I'm going to
let's
no
but for
example
I'll say
you I'll
tell you
I'm
a case
my
examines is
you're
with the
play the
PlayStation,
Pond to study.
No,
Papa,
let me the
last.
A little,
let's do you.
The fact,
because as
you know,
I'm going to
do the play.
All the year.
No,
let me
play.
I'm going to,
but you're going
to study,
what you're
to do you
do you?
He's the
thing,
but you're
saying,
but you're
saying,
you're saying,
in this moment
you're
you're not,
because I'm
too,
no,
he has to
he,
because when he
he'll listen
he,
he's the
is the
is the
is the
that they're
I have you have got to do.
No, no,
of course,
sure,
right,
and so
when I'm in
the family.
That's what you
see, the
real of the
really, the
thing is the
right, the
woman,
well,
you know,
you know,
you know,
you're
you're a
good, you're
a negotiator
professional,
and your
mother
knows that you
know,
you're a
job over
negotiations
professionales.
Yeah.
Your
mother
knows that you
know,
you're still
and that's
listening.
Yeah,
no,
you know,
no me
you're,
that technique,
that technique
of the
page four of your book.
She has read
several times
the book,
something that
I'm preoccupied
a lot of
but
but...
Entrenando
the enemy.
When you
write a book
has to think
who can't
be able to
be very
very dangerous.
My
my wife
says that I'm
a great
ability,
is a
big of
a lot of
in Spain,
to give
the
that's
that you're
to do you
to do you
and then
to get to
the
to get the
to
the end of
what I've
observed that
I'm
that I'm
that's
that's dangerous
too.
And how do you
How do you
Well,
well,
as a final
As always
in the
life,
it's going to
win her.
Gana her
Amen.
Allelieu.
And you know
for what?
You know,
I prefer
I prefer.
I prefer.
A
applause.
A demonstration
of intelligence
emotional.
So,
when I was
studying in
the University
of Santa
Monica,
Ronnie
Cassados
were doctors in
psychology,
were our
masters
of psychology
spiritual.
and when there
a discussion
between
two,
of this
no, no, Ron, this
no,
this is not
we're not
and he said
and he's
cut him in the
microphone
and they were
like that
they said
Ron,
I'm going to
do a
a moucester
of intelligence
emotional
and how
prioritizing
the
my
love,
my love,
you're the
right,
perfect.
Perfecto
that's
and all the
women
here.
Yes,
very good
so so
so.
Okay,
now
let me
a
thing,
how,
obviously
we'd
we're
not
errors
grave.
And a
sometimes it's
horrible
to be
how,
about about
about the
person incorrect,
and you're
when a
complaint and when
the divorce.
There's a
there's a
person who
douchies and
some
these
battles
legales
horrible,
horrible.
Yeah.
Between
them,
a
sometimes is he,
a
sometimes is he
and a
sometimes are
those,
where you
see that
they're
that's
that's
that's
they're
and you
know the
person,
you know,
you know,
to be
a
grand problem or in the
no knowces a
your socio or a your
social,
until there's a
great problem.
I have an
friend of a
mansealano
that was an
company with his
people and
they robbed all
they were in
the carly
and they were
their
children.
So how can
you can't
see in
other person
in what you
you have
before you
before
to come
you know
to get a
business, a
level
personal
with
there
there's
some
there's
salvan
us
See, look,
I'll give
an information
that's
a question.
Nobody
we're doing
with the
person
that we're
we're going to
we're
we're in
we're not
we're not
we're in
I'm different
I'm different
that's a
I'm not
that I'm
going to be
I'm going to
I'm going to
and I'm a
different, I'm
that I'm a guy
I'm a guy
I've got to
I've got to
I've got to
I've got to
I've got to
the person of
the
person of the
one I know
we're doing the
what I'm doing the
we're doing the same. We're doing it. We're doing it. We're in all of the
of course. We're doing it. We're in
of a way
different.
We always
the attitudes.
The attitudes
we dole us
we're doing
in different
things.
Then we're
about we're
about the conducts,
which are the
patterns,
of the comportment
that's how
we're doing
always in the
work than the
job than my
house.
And a
grand tyrano
can be a
great person
in your
house.
So,
what we have to
do we're
to do
to do the
people,
to try to
the
when I
want to do
a person,
no I'm
doing things with
the
business with the
individual, the real.
So I'm going to
perfilarer in situations
no professional.
So I'm going to
eat to come to
you know how
you're going to
as the person
of the limpecies,
how you're
when you're in
an imprevisto,
when not they
try in the
plate you've
paid you.
There's when I
perfil
how you're
because we're
not much
we're not
we're not
we're who we're
who we're
when we're
when really there
and when
you're really
you're in the
problem and
in what
you're
being being
and there
is really
how it's a
person.
So there's
when we have to
put a focus.
We can't
do a way
strategic.
We can't
provide those
situations to
see how the
people.
That's the
ideal.
So,
me
I'm
to see a
any person
that's
person who's
person who
people,
and when
not they're
not in
when really
you can't
be able to
how they're
the person.
The problem
is those
who's
who
know they
know
no
he's,
so he
and he
doesn't
of
the
company
or how are
in a bar,
for how
they're in the
person,
but then the
reality is
completely different,
because really it's
like it.
We're inamoram
we're in
the person
social.
You're in
the person
with the
cell,
to the
show, but
not you know
you know
in crisis.
That's,
and not
only only
in crisis,
but I
always say
that's
my joe individual,
my
joe individual
of Juan
Manuel
he's,
my wife,
my
children,
no no
no more.
And nobody
more.
And it can be
very
very different
to what
is
very.
So,
so,
where really is the person
and I'm going to
So how you know
you know this?
You have to say
I'm,
before me,
before me,
I'm,
before I'm,
we're going to
we're in
other circumstances.
And you
have the situations
where the
attention of
this person
is going
of the
way social
and be more
in the resolution
of that
situation where
has to
take that
the I
interior real.
And the
socio,
how do you
know,
so they're in
where to
give to
a place
in the
United,
in Europe
is
a
golf.
Because in the golf
they're in
in the golf,
you know,
how you're
you're actually
when you're
when you're
when you're
when you're
when you're
because the golf
and other
sports tend to
get to get
much who
who are you.
And not
not necessarily
even I
I'd
I'd like
to the city
of Mexico
in a task
to manage
a little
a rachito
who
who's
in the traffic
after
after three hours
of an
emotellement
you
you're
you're
a lot
And one
and you get,
and pita and
you say,
how reactionas?
Gritas,
not gritas?
Roses.
Roses the
rules,
you know,
you know,
you preferre
to be a
feeling to have
a reason?
So I mean
that's the
actually,
the way of
the way to
do it,
and do
how it's
when it's
to make a
traffic and
they're in
a lot,
to make,
it's of the
parts
more important
where more
you can be
a person.
You're
a lot of
a tautel
I'm
a car
and I'm
carry that
to you, but not
justifies to
the other
the same.
If you
get in the
policeia,
offers you
an money,
you know,
an money
there's a
perfilable.
All right.
All right.
So,
there's to
get to
get to be
better.
Yeah,
I'm sure.
I'll
tell you the
ideal.
Yeah,
I'd
try to
use the
traffic of
a great
city to
go to
and then
then I
would
to come
to
and then
if you
can't
take a
a
part of
a
better
after.
When they take them, you're
When you're going to be able to see if you.
Flueges more,
you desenies,
a little more.
Salen the things.
And a social,
an socio, an associate,
a little.
Iggy, a guy who,
have to be able.
Yes,
yes, but what the
is very difficult.
Because,
you know,
we're going to
say, or more than
our brain,
it's very
unjust.
And is that the reality
that we're
not is the reality
that we're
we're not,
we're the maximum
of the 10%
of the reality.
So,
the information
that we're
the information that
is the
10% of what
there. But my 10% is different
to the
and I'm
the 10% that's
that's
different to be
different to
the 10%
that I'm
to know that I
know that I'm
put to the
person.
Percibo
other information,
and it's the
same person.
And I said,
is that
I've seen,
it's that
because your 10%
of attention
not that
was that.
Not the attention,
of perception
not that's,
it was another.
So,
I'm 90%
of information
of all that
we're
that's a problem.
It's a problem.
It's a
It's hard.
Casartre and, de
a repent,
and start
that you
casas with a
person who
you know,
I'm doing,
yeah, I'm,
I've done
my time,
no, I know
I know I
know, and now
what I'm,
it's a
good, it's
sure, what I
have to do,
for example,
how I said I,
that much
years,
many,
many years,
with a person,
that you
have gone,
and then you
know,
so they're
so,
were friends,
so,
When in a
business,
if I'm in
we've got to
know, we're
we're doing,
we're doing
we're doing a
no,
no,
in a society.
No.
No.
No.
I know and then
we know.
Yes,
yes, yeah.
And you'd
give a million
excuses for
that you
don't know
other option.
Because is that
when you
when you're
you're not
really that's
that's not really
is that
I'm sure
yeah,
and I'm
yeah.
And I'm
that you know
that's a question.
Before you
you take you
is the same to
to say,
I'm going to
know you?
Because you're going to
say,
you're going to
do you?
No, no, no,
the contrary.
I'm going to
you know that's
a decision
correct.
It's other
thing.
Very different.
Very different.
Very different.
Very different.
Very subtle.
But,
it's that's
it's quite.
It's quite.
Because it's like,
because you
want to do you?
No, no,
you know, that
presuppes.
That's true.
No,
no, you
peruseuse
despot.
There's people.
There's a
question.
The problem
of the
negotiations
previously.
And with, and,
also,
you know,
it's,
also
do you know
, you know,
not you
know, you
know, the
predisposition
to lose,
not, you
go to the
person, no,
not so it's
the no.
So, all
this is a
period of
absolutely,
because normally
the negotiations
have to
have to be
a very
to be in,
the first,
and much
less,
no,
no,
no,
no,
no,
any,
in a primary
reunion.
Yeah,
no,
has to,
so one
has to
have to
have to be
resistant to
to the
frustration,
it's
not only the things
like
you want to
you're in the
things like you
have to go
to the rest of
the other
then you know
who has a
capacity,
you know,
he has to
you know,
you've been
you know
absolutely
yes.
Absolutely, so.
There's many
strategies,
no, a
level cognitive
doing a
tribune
that I'm
for example,
you know
I'm sure
to find out
everything
you're going to
you and
you're
just to
do you
and parted
a
Castiano,
Yes, in
English,
what's going to
say is,
a level of
neuroscience has
demonstrated that
when one person
mentally
generate three
sies,
for questions that I
do you do,
the quarter
the assume.
And that's a
mental.
I'll explain
to you.
Imagineate that I'm
your chief.
I get a
time that you assumeas,
that I'm
the capacity to
do you know the
thing, I'm
to generate three
yes in
your
mind.
So I
you
to say,
you
you know, you know,
at the time are you to try to
at the 9.
And you have
so you've got to get to last time. So, you're just a
you're a bad jober and you assume. This is a
little bit of you, you're a mal-traumptus. No, no, no. I get you
get it. And you're going to get you. I'm going to get you. I'm going to
the manita for the
way.
So this is
this is the
in neuroscience
is it's just
I'm a real
thing I'm a
realtoral,
and then I'm
the realtoral
and then you
see that
that's a red
neuronal
of the si.
The fourth
you assume
because it's
the red
neuronal
of the si
so you
assumees.
Those are
encuctions
when I
know at
the government
I want
that a
question
me do
a little
I'm
to design
this question
I'm
to design
the
anterior
to generate
this
principle of
ignition and
reverberation at
the level
of the
neurons and
to do you
do a
question.
So your
woman
you could
say,
my
love,
you know,
you know,
if me
says that
no?
Well,
my
love,
you want,
you want to
we're
so you
value a
much,
valoring
to your
family.
Yes.
And you
do you
do you
anything
because
we're
exactly
so.
So,
so.
then it's
it's a
way that
I'm going to
go to
Las Vegas
that's
that's much
to risk
yeah
it's a
much to risk
but it
would be a
way
to try to
do it
very long
but there
that thing
yeah
yeah
yeah
yeah
okay perfect
okay perfect
now
always
we say
the communication
correct
depends
much
to
choose
the moment
that
for example
for the
people
that's
for
people that's
for
or to negotiate something or renegotiate a relationship.
How do we distinguish us
what is a good moment and a bad moment
for pedir something?
The ideal is try to
know in what moment you are absolutely necessary
or, of what way you can't affect it
if you not stuier in that moment.
For example, imagine, in my company
we're three negotiators,
because we negotiate most.
And two can't enderms,
it's my moment of negotiate.
Because you
because you
get a
single
negotiator.
Sure.
So,
there we
we know,
we know,
we're,
we know,
our brain
interprets the
decision is
with two
variants or
with two
edges,
no,
the necessity
and the
interest.
When you
negotiates with
someone,
you have
to ask
if you
need a
interest or
or no
of the
two or
has two.
When,
in this
case,
of the
three
negotiators,
you have
two,
you have
need
to
more
of more
negotiators. Imagine
if on
you say,
I'm going.
You know,
you know,
it's a
name a desperation.
Yes.
And if you're
desperated,
I'm going to.
Yeah.
Because I'm
to get practically
everything to
what I'm
like.
Like the
controlators
auree
to come to
get a
wuelg?
Sure.
At a point of
the
world of football.
For example.
There's a
necessity.
There's a
absolute.
That's
is.
Absolutely.
And it's
and it's
that they're
it's that we're
us
They don't
because no
there's
a need to
but now that
really we
need to be in
they're in
a lot of course
that's around
a newport
now we're
now we're
so that's
so that's
for that you
have events
a world
of football
an Olympic
an event
historically
in Mexico and
in the world
in all the
places
there's a
world
or the
people say to
someone
or someone
at a
moment that's
it's the
moment of
that's
that's
that's
and value
that's
so that
whatever
whatever
whatever
we can
we can't
to do you have to do,
valorate the
or the interest
that has a person
about a little.
Because if I
have to negotiate
with you,
I want to
you know,
you know,
you don't have
any necessity,
nor do you,
I don't have
to negotiate.
Salvo that
that's what you
like that.
So,
you know,
you'd have
to find you
need to be
need to
interest?
That's
normally,
normally interest,
more than
necessity.
Well,
a basis.
Well,
yeah,
depends.
Depend for
where you
move as
that's
that's
true.
Yes,
so
You've got a rata
well-attended
Right,
there's
a necessity
There's a
Yeah, but I'm
a caritian.
No?
But it's
to make
an inform
previous
of the
thing.
To tell,
no.
If someone
to say,
no,
because I
have a
year I
I've got
I'm
a year
I'm
that there
there's a
need a
need a
there's
you start
so,
so,
so so
so,
so.
Okay,
then so
then you
need to
ask
to
ask,
so
okay,
so
to
I think I do
questions and
we'll share in
the image for
who are people
we're doing in the
channel of YouTube
we're doing
we're doing people
and this case
are going to be
political and you
can do you can't
do you know
people that you know
we're going to
an image of
all the other
ways to
do you know
and that you
know you
you're not
you're
expert in
learning in
question of
a second
to someone
to do
a person
as a
person of the
and now
as a master
that is
coach
also
of this. Then
me you say, what is in this person and why?
So, let's talk about
to politics in the States
for not met us in problems in Mexico.
Venga. I'm very well.
We'll talk about the States
United.
Saluda to all the people that we're in the States.
For example, a president
to which many longaramos,
Barack Obama, no?
That's, that's,
it's, he's, he's, he's
like a person
educated,
a, intelligent,
logical,
with a sense of the humor.
It's like the
the postal ideal
of a president
for many.
So,
you what is
in a Barack Obama?
What I do
is authenticity
tactical.
Authenticity
tactical.
Let's explain.
No,
that's autentical
that's autoticity
that's about
his poros
really is a
strategy.
And it's also
that I do
the number of
authenticity
tactical.
I mean
we're really
we're really
we're
really because
it's very
very
materialized,
it has
worked much
and then he
also he
has a
character
a problem that
it makes
that all
that's a
much more
more than
he's a
way he's
in photographs
of the way
that any
person,
any person,
any person,
would be
a real
but in reality
it's,
it's imposted
because it's
a sonrisa
social.
It's,
is a postand
for a
photographia.
And
any person
practically
all the
world,
would be
a sonrisa
social.
He has
a sonrisa
Dusen.
So,
is magistral.
It's
goodissimo.
Because what
is what
what is what
occurs?
That the
people
that we
are
that
and automatically perceivings
that those
are real.
So,
it's a carism
because one of
of the premises
of the generation
of the confidence
is the
way.
There is a
way.
Not be able to
say good
days or to
offer a coffee,
but we're
to be
because we're
because we're
because we're
there's
evidence of
that the
brain
on the
reales
of the
people.
If I
not is real
my
sonrisa,
but it
the brain
the
of who
me
observe,
the
the
And Obama, it does.
And it's very
good.
And apart, it's
very logical.
But even
when it's
encirpaving,
or someone
protested,
he's, he
has a
sound a lot of
the thing.
At the level
of the
language
corporal,
no there
incongruences,
no,
incoherences,
has a fluidness,
a hypotonyia
in articulations
that is
very normal
of a person
that's
with a
self-confidence,
and an
auto-estime
important.
So,
we'll look
to the
same. It's a question of what Obama
is the thing of what Obama
wants, but it's of what he perceives
in the other. And he does it
so much that the Cerebrod
of the audience
perceive a person
affable,
a good. And for that
he's the better.
Now, a woman
controvertida, Hillary Clinton.
Yeah, Bill Clinton
or not, the
thing of,
never took sex
with that woman.
Horrible.
That video is
demoled.
Fidate the
the dead
that's
not even
any force,
he's going
to see a
the
right of the
right
to be in
a lot of
the part
the right
of the
right
is a more
that's a
question of
the poor
there.
Yeah,
and Hillary,
highly
critically,
what is
in Hillary
Clinton?
Well,
Hillary
has had
an
positive
of when
was a
time,
when then
was a
time,
and he
had a
better.
But what
is
that
the
thing is
the
technique
and that
are
strategies
communicative.
I'm going to
do you know,
I'm going to
start to start
to start
to see a lot of
really.
It's a strategy.
It's a strategy.
It's a strategy.
And the
non-
No, no.
No, no.
It's a
real reason.
It's a
no more
than it.
And then it's
that, for example,
I,
Obama never
I've seen,
but to this
woman
is that he
has been
a lot-
when he gets
when he
comes to
and
he's,
and he
says to
talk,
there,
the car
is a
poem.
So,
I see
very to the
legua,
that no
could contain
that
that's a
real time,
but she
had a
question of the
middle of
the middle of
that's very
very much of
that's all
that he was
that's
still,
I'm sure,
I'm
and then
so,
well.
Let me
the
little
the
what he's of
Donald Trump.
Well,
Donald Trump
go to
his own
to do what
he has the
he has
got to
the
we've been
about
the
authenticity
The authenticity, well, the authenticity,
well, the authenticity,
like,
Obama,
is a
way of a
way of success
practically
but the
authenticity type
Donald Trump
also.
It's an
authenticity that
is a
orthodox,
of what
dicta the
norm.
And that
in some
situations
generate
that
credibility
as a
other.
It's a
little
like the
figure of
Javier
Milley.
It's very
very
very
very.
It's very
of the norm, is
it's,
it's,
it's,
and it's
,
and it's
even
sympathy
specifically for
that's,
I think,
I'm
think they're
that you're
not a
more,
no,
no,
what it's
what you're
that's
your strategy
of
communication is
good,
you're
going,
you're
going to
a little
more,
the people,
the people,
that's
what you're
what they
want,
that's what they're
a lot,
I'm sure,
I'm
clear,
that a
question
that we
we
we need
of this podcast
is,
we're
we're going to
we're in
peace,
we're in
peace,
in having peace,
in having stability,
in having the
reason.
Correct.
You,
prioritizes your
pass in
this moment?
There's
something that
is a
or there
something that
you're not
you're supposed
to be
versus the
pass or
the past
or the
part of
your priority,
with all the
I'm doing
I do many
do many
things.
I do
many things.
And I
the negotiations that
I do with
different
organisms and
different businesses,
I'm doing
with all
to be able to
you know,
and I'm very
happy so.
Ganas less
with a
time to be able to
but that's
going to gain more
at the final
of the day.
Ah, yeah,
I'm less
money, but I
gain much more
health mental.
And that's the
council that
that's, in
where we're
talking about about
infoproducts
and talking
of your
class and
you know,
a book,
a book,
a book,
how you're
the Comportament.
Yeah,
it's a lot of the
Ciencies of the Comportamintes. It's a good. It's not that you're in the
of advantage.
So, okay.
And your
courses, what is
what you're
what you're
what you're
in the courses?
Well,
what we're
about.
Not only to
all the way
to the person
that's the
obviously the first
thing we're
to do.
As we're
we're doing
our own
language
corporal and
strategies
of persuasion,
of influence.
Fifate
what I'm saying,
to make you
to make you
that the
people who
are they're
that they're
they're
some sure
that they're
in reality
are
in
different
in
your courses.
In
on the networks,
on Instagram,
as TikTok,
like this,
and I'm like
things like the
social and then
the page
website of the
Institute of European
of Sciences
of the Comportamintos
where, well,
we know,
Institute of Europe
of Sciences
of the Comfort
there.
Any person
can't write
and write
and make the
and talk.
There's a
little.
There's a
little.
Very well.
We're going to
visit them
to learn more.
You're
thank you
much.
We're very
a pleasure.
We'll give us
a lot
to hear
Juan Manuel
Garcia,
Pinch.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you.
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thank you,
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