El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 442.- Cuando el amor también significa soltar: Alzheimer - Alan Slim y Marco Antonio Regil

Episode Date: August 6, 2026

Alzheimer, demencia, pérdida de memoria, cuidadores y duelo anticipado: ¿qué pasa cuando alguien que amas empieza a irse poco a poco, aunque todavía esté frente a ti? El actor, Alan Slim, nos comparte su experiencia sobre el Alzheimer de su papá y el impacto profundo que esta enfermedad tiene en toda la familia. Una conversación íntima sobre las primeras señales del Alzheimer, el dolor de cuidar, la culpa de soltar, las decisiones difíciles y el amor que aprende a acompañar sin discutir, sin confrontar y sin romperse por dentro. Si tú o alguien que conoces está viviendo el Alzheimer, la demencia o el cuidado de un adulto mayor, este episodio puede ayudarte a mirar este proceso con más compasión, información y amor. Este episodio nos recuerda que nada está garantizado, ni la memoria, ni el tiempo, ni las personas que amamos. Por eso 21 Días de Gratitud es una invitación a hacer una pausa, volver al presente y agradecer hoy lo que ya forma parte de tu vida.👇🏻 https://almamatters.com/gratitud *Importante: Nuestros invitados son expertos en sus temas y reflejan su conocimiento y su punto de vista, siendo conscientes de que cada una de las opiniones es totalmente personal. La información, datos, comentarios, estadísticas que se presenten en el Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil, son de exclusiva responsabilidad de quienes las emiten y no representan, necesariamente, el pensamiento de Marco Antonio Regil o de la producción del podcast.

The podcast of Mark Antonio Regil is a production of RGEL Entertainment and and all his rights are reserved. Today we're going to talk to one of the other the most illnesses that exist, the Alzheimer. As you know, I have a story personal, because my mom has died after some years, justly, and it's an infirmative that you take,

for surprise, it's a disease cruel because you're going to your ser-kirited, and the most important is that when it appears, it's when it appears, no's recognized inmediate, and when you're down that your family in Alzheimer,

you know to do a applause with much carino to receive to our great Alan Slim that they're obviously for the sir of

the Lord of the Lord of the thank you thank you thank you very for invite me Alan you have a

tradition amazing obviously in television well you know you're not you're like you

you're like you're you're doing you're working as a psychologist yeah first of after being

actually I'm well it was my hobby to do that theater in Mexicali. But, well, you know,

the first of 18 years. I had to choose a career, I was a psychology, and I

dedicated to work with children with problems of development of the development during 10 years,

and I did a master in an education special. I'm also doing practices in the psychiatric.

So, I'm going to get a some time to write a story of a series of a

interesting. It would very interesting. Oye, but we're going to talk of a story that

that's that's going to be your father, your pap your father your father your

name a question, and how was he was diagnosed with with Alzheimer Amar

him? Has it about three years, more or less or we've had been

a busk constant about the diagnosis because it was a little confused

he was he diagnosed first Parkinson and and if he

he has a diagnosis like but then another neurolog

and other specialists got to the conclusion that my father had also Alzheimer. So my abuela,

his mom took Alzheimer also. So, was it was a diagnostic that we were not

we'd receive in some moment because just we had we had been the

story of my abel. We've all his process and we got a much

terror that he would get to that my father. It's a

very cruel as you know, I know, I do to be to be your care to be a person

in their faculties complete, my mom was a conferenceist and I was a championer national of ventas trainer of ventas and was conferences

the people the people had gone to get a lot of and it's a very difficult because you

go going going to the person to the person to knowces you're to learn to be a

person to be a person like someone because as you have been you're

used to have a person um strong, intelligent, that's really, I'm going to

resolve. My papa, the same, the same to be a person vicharachera as we're

and always braeating and always working and that man he was a dentist? He was dentista.

He was he was a man, he was retired and see, see, to be a person

to be a defuminarce in his personality and be more calliado all this

that is disvanace that's being, no, that's that's a ser that's that's the that's the you know,

in my case, in my case, as we're growing, we're seeing a figure of authority, that now

now you know, and now you see little, no, and susceptible, and now we have to

change the roles, no, we have to keep up, you, your father and you

have you had a life? My father and I never took us a good

relationship. I'm there was a my dad that we connected much

that's always was very chistos my my papa always always

about the time, after the time, or he know, my my

father's my so I'm always so I'm sokekeke she

forget that he has a he retom a personal his his

his his very lenta. It's when one when one starts to not the

symptoms in the person is because it's just advanced to the problem. How was

you're that you know, so what are those first symptoms that those are you do you

say, here there's there's a rare. I remember the first that I remember

that my my papa he had much fear of the COVID in

in the time of the time said, no, no, I think

I think me did this and like he was like a terror. he does

like all us and a after that there's a big change abysmal yeah

we've noticed that had been that had been kind of of a change of a time

for example in a family of a having of oh yeah

because the pastel was that was so he was and he

he he's he the he said the barco he went and

he's he's he's he went and And so, and so it's a silence abysmal.

I remember that was the first first time that I'm notte something that was a little to see a and we'll

we'll get and we're all the same time. And my dad also he said to say, oh,

I know, I know, no? And we're and we're all the rest of the conversation

normal, no? So, the first situation that I remember of my papa that just was a

foquet that we cause a and obviously the things started to pass the pandemic

and then it's more more this, he does a crisis to my papa

for the lack of oxygenation in the brain my father went a crisis

like a paranoia and started to happen to happen that

never never never never ever to have to

have the house two times he said how we're going to escape to he's

he was a he was a he was a little he's like the windows like the he's like

he's like he's a complete in his mind like a story and I do all all right

we're going to the door and we're we're going we're saying no we're not we're seeing

not we're going to go back so you so they're so so they're so they're

so they started like to think of situations, no? One in specific, that me no took, because I not was in Mexico,

Lee, was of the routine of the days, of his kids to get a school,

a day, went to to leave them, and I knew how he was to come to back to

a house. So, the only that he could do so he was to get

his cell and mark to his and say, oh, I don't where I'm

where I'm where I'm, you can come for me. So, what you see? There's,

there's a an ox or a tiendita of this or a little kind of she knew

to go to him and bring him to bring him to the most alarmante to all. That time

of the time of the same on the same was, it was something

something not, yeah. Would have been that someone to say,

oh yeah, So, your abuelsheimer, if your father got to get to get to have to get to get to the

symptoms. A me was exactly the one of the time my mom gotro the auto in San Diego

and it's a chouana with a chiquita and she per die in Tijuana. It's

per die and no there had a cell there's so you said,

so I'm the person my mom of Marko Antonio, Regil. It was a casualized to be

a lot of my Tijuana and it's a day. the hospital, desperto, he was

recuperating of a intervention and he said, he said, he said, and he's

arancocted the, the, the, the and they got to the doctors,

and it was horrible the scene. It was they were to get to get the

put up the the things to the and so she sent sequestered

and how permitists because you can't because when they

these scenes are are really are fernation. And you know

know you know not even how assimilar what you know. Obviously

it's very because they're living an episode of an issue of a

really very very and that they're like to make that they're

an understanding more but a sometimes is impossible because

they're an idea about a situation and they're

in some in some in some so something something

I'm a situation So, for that's that's the most want to be

is to be to get a person. But the most important is always to not to come a specialist.

No, no, not to make decisions, don't know so long we know we're doing. Oh, yeah, symptoms,

talking to the symptoms, he got to occurrary or he had gotten to that they think he's,

that's, that's a thing, I'm he said, me robbed my carterer, me robbered my carterer,

me robbering a photographia, me robbering a to start to ask the people of the

people of or not he has a little a lot of a paranoia conspirative in their

kind of like my is that my wife my wife and we're going to and we're going to

and so so they they're to pass many things my my

my abel that also also that's also also

so she also she was she was she was that we

had we've we had we had robbed money and that she had had been sure of

she had been to have a lot of a bit of was a really surrealist like a novel of

a novel of Gabriel Garcia Marquez we're we're a house of

my and there a a cup a cold in a but a blue

because he made a picture there so there so

there there sometimes things surreal or or of

I said passam my blusa then you grab

you you and you there was a hog-dog petrified of, who-s-said-quant-dice with the catsup and the moustazes, and yeah, do you?

Yeah, yeah, yeah. And what's it, and you know, and there's a logica. And they're just, to find out of her that's, my wife, to say, oh, yeah,

my jita, right at every time me limpias, you know, and you do your 500 pesos, I, thinking that was the

person of the service. And it was her his wife that had been years living with she I'm so they're

so they're so they're so it's a cause a great but at

the first when they start to get to get to get a compromise when really

when really you decide and it's and it's you're to start to try

to try to you need to start to get to the car and

they're they're they they're they're they're to get to the

target of credit, you quit your liberty and they're so you know much.

Has lived that's been a year. My father manage about my father was and he still

used the car and something that was a alarmante. His husband with the

same negation and the afferamient of the thing that he's that I'm that I'm

so if I start things or limiter things he will to do do some

and he will be atrophia that part cerebral. So he said yeah

but always when when not compromises the security of nobody, no? So, that's that I was

in the relationship of the brother's my brother's about my was my brother with my brother with his time, we're doing,

and a carteroomino, in a gasolier in a gasoline very very certain. And I, with my intention to know, and I

suburb, and I'm back, he said, oh, I'm pretty much got to manage. And in that

he said, oh, yeah, that's a man, who's the man? And he's the

he's, he's your son, he's got on the day of day of day, no?

So, things very very very, so, so, so,

so, so, he's, he's, he's, I'm, and I'll and I

say, that's the last that's the last time that my a danger for

you as a other person human so that's the last

last time. And, and she insisted much time with, and yeah give the

money to get to get to the house, you want, they're

doing their life but you can go for your

more for your miso and the always then they then they

then then you let say, you're to say, you can you

have been certain, but you can you can't be able to your own mind. That's the only

the only advantage. It's impresindable to have the support of a professional or a professional

of the health that the problem. The error is to start just to

discusses. I think you've talked to have been to people, we have

people, that not accept that the family your person, your

person, you're to get to get to get to you're not you can't you can't

you're to be and then you know, and they're and they're just, and it's a situation horrible. It's horrible, no. No, it's not. There's people very,

very prepared that know perfectly how get to give to every, and I think it's very important to informarn us, no, because,

because no, because no, it's a day-a-day of a luch constant with that person because then so, as you, as family,

or, what you are, you, you, you're going to to have , I'm going to do this

person also will be going to do a lot. So, there's

many strategies to do that and to do that and

the past mental of these people because in the

same ignorance many we sometimes we just I'm

a video a two days of a son

of a person with he's he was doing many

and just he started his papa because his papa because his papa and he's a

question to ask him so he's Gabby no? Yeah no yeah no yeah

yeah so generally it's the first that one he said a familiar no like realistically

well realistically was you was a he was he responded to the he said

yeah he's yeah he's more but he's he's still and he's and he's

more and the man of a mar I'm going to newmany. Because I'm

he's probably he's quite a time of the person in the in the

crisis because he got to know that his wife had fellicid and the and the

he said, is that is that is that more being being not,

not serve to do because that necessary because that need to know, I think

that's a lot of there there's there's important also have a little of an

or informarse more more to be more to be a little bit more what I'm going to do you know number one no discusses

not to talk about not to you not discuss with them is that they're doing to be you've done count or

you perceive so then so I think my mom said I'm going to go to a park or something we're going to

we're we're doing when we're when you were when you're No, I grew in the city of Mexico and in Tijuana, no? And you said, yes, ma'amita. See, you, that's the train-cito.

I was up, I was, I remember, the... I was the... Yeah, that's called, the Trennecito. Yes, it's like, yes, for sure. And you just, and you're... And you make a good moment. No, you're going to be able to start in shock. And, you, as you, and she...

They're... They're... Because if you're contradises, it's... It's... ...so, it's... ...or, how, no? Or, how, no?

Or, go, or enter in shock, or... who, who, you know, is to enter in a mal mood. It's good not to discuss. I mean, and to continue

intelligently in a conversation and pass it soft. And you get a conversation for other other side. The person

is one, no? You're not? You're not? Of course, for being two inconscientes in a same

conversation, not we're going to get to any other. So, so, be one, the one,

the one, the one, and get to always, to be, to be, I'm, I'm

as a example, for that you give you know what I'm doing about three episodes of the Alzheimer. The first

that was the most difficult that was when was going and she was doing and she was doing to do that

was going to so much me said when I made the error or my family we had made

the error to make you the before we're having we received the assoria of the

medical that was where you don't know they did they get they want to

try to bring to not to go to go back. I'm, my maquillage. It's that they

were going to get to be not? No, mamma, how are you? They're going to rob? For a

who's not? Who's not? Who's not we're going to a hotel and he's called a security and all.

I was going to go to this security and all. And the she's a sure, she's sure that

they're not sure that the woman that the same year, well, he's going to get in

problems and you, no, so, so then I'm so, then I'm, and then

like she was just she'd know and I'm saying, what you're saying,

I'm saying, I'm going to I'm going I'm sure so I'm so I'm so I'm thinking I'm

that she's getting the feeling the that's that's really that's the doctor. When you

you're when you're when you you're you're doing the notion of the reality and

they're so they're sofering much. So that that was the first the first

the first when when we we don't know we was not and there

no there was no way there's there and the other and the third

was that's that's that's that's that's that's he's

that he does that's saying or the conversation or that has

got that my father my papa my is in a

at a time in a time he's he has a he has

a language and he a volume, ...demaccio and it's

it's it's it's because it doesn't articulate well, and then

what he says doesn't it's complicated as, it's, it's complicated like, how to

continue a line, no, of a time with him, but a sometimes what we do we

do it and that he's he's and he listen, I'm in the

personal a me really much to things positive,

always commentaries positive, always I'm going and a sometimes my

father see perfectly that he's when he certain words or phrases,

that I know, that's that I know, and also when I know

and when I know, and I know, after the time. I feel that in those

moments is a shock where he he has a yearance or

has a conscience in that instant and it's my part of the heart of the question

and I do the I'm the I'm not I'm not you're doing you're saying you're

saying you're saying something you're not there I'm like I'm because I'm

a retro-alimentation of your part but the only that I'm to talk to talk to talk about

a conversation positive and I say all right we're we're

in a place you're in a place you're well, this, thanks. I like,

I like, I'm, and all the family that's, and that's, I'm, that I'm, that's,

that's things that can one, like, empaparle a little, like, like,

then, so, so, then, so, to be a sometimes with, even,

even, even, even, even, even, five minutes, five, a time,

a lot, we're, we're, we're, and now, what, what I'm, because,

but, what, what, not he, no, it's like a thing

rara, it's a thing, it's a really about, and to be a good

moment. And there was a moment where my father, too, after

after the many, he did that did you get a diagnosis, he got a

moment where he he was he was and all this why, no?

So, what, what's, what's, and in some moment someone he said,

is that we're we're we're Salzheimer. And, uh, I mean, I mean, I said, because, because for what, because,

for what, for you, it's a problem. Sobra. Yeah no, yeah, no, it was necessary. Because my father, yeah, yeah, yeah, I had perished, so then then, you know, a conscience, but in

that moment of a little lucidity, in where, and, evidently my, obviously, my father, clearly, took a, one, a reaction, well, of much impact, because he,

He didn't know, because he was He was a woman, so, so, he's transformed and, for sure, that is a, it's a, a lot of course, a news a short. A lot of course, to have had, to be, to have

been, to be able, so, yeah, in a, in a, at a time, so, for what, a, a, a, a, a lot of, you know, what, you're going to, oh, yeah, what, is it what, what, is, that, so, so, if, if, if, is, you want, how, I'm, , how, I'm, how, I'm, how, I'm, prepare.

But in a time a person well, no, no, no, no,

no, no, no, that's information. Is agregal suffering and necessary.

Yeah. Yeah, but, but, but, but, it's not know,

like, exactly, so, we know, so, we know, how act, to say,

a lot of result, the, result, the, the, and our, and our our

sense common a way is the well, so it's complicated. That's

an us not a question. No, there's no education. No, education.

For so we're doing this conversation and for so I'm thank you to come

to come to share this story because there many people that you need to you know,

that's living. That's that's correct the voice. That's exactly that's exactly that. So,

no, no, not discuss, not discuss, not say, not you don't let's say,

no, it's not, No, I'm going to help, right I mentioned the

moment of the diagnosis. For me, when I said, the geriatra us said, your mom has a Alzheimer

and no there's a cure and no there reversea. When he said that was one

of the three moments more more duros in that you remember that moment?

At the first, we're, no, what we we're going to let's we're

to do? We're I mean, we're to investigate, and we're going to do that's a lot of it's not important,

but what are to do, what are you to do, we're going to do, not, not not be able to

just with the hands crossed. I mean, my papa, every visit that I did a Mexical and how it

was, I'd, I'd, it was, it was, it was, it's like a shock,

every year, yeah, this, this, now, now, now, now, now,

now, no, no, no, still a platic I mean,

it was like like a like a good, um, and this what's what I

dole to me and no, no, no, no, no, a question

of because at this people, much people, it's, oh,

but not you're going to be to be you, but you're

going to be to be that's I'm I'm I'm I'm

so no matter if he's who I'm, it's a question like ego of I want to start

present, I know that's it's a no matter if he doesn't know if I'm your son what I'm

in your life no matter I'm not I'm not that my father and that when he

did the information that he's doing the examines to know and the reaction of

my father, there's that first that he he's he's he

made my, my, me, me, me, I'm parted

the Alma, I mean, I mean, I was suffering in that moment,

to know, to be knowing that he when we're when we're in the diagnostico is this? So,

also, I mean, because yeah I've lived with my abuel, no? I mean,

I said, I'm a story. You know, you know, you know, and it's repeat the

story. And now, the, the, the, the, the more because I

see in this case, uh, but now that my is, in a

a place, I know, to decide to a place to do you know, a place

a place has been a very very hard. So, so, so, you know,

you know, so at the first, you know, that's, that's, that's, that's,

that's, that's, that, that, to, I'm, I'm, I'm,

so, so, I'm, so, so, always one in, in, in,

in, in, some things inconceible, no, for one or for their family

and also this, this, this, this, this, this, it's been

like the third, the third goal to the heart, I mean, to the

mind, you know, you're a feeling in your family to take

to get to get to a place, I'm imagine, where they're

they're they're they're they're they're they're they're they're

they they're but for the Latin-American is a decision very difficult because we have

the idea of that's a mother-a-momat abelita and abelita and they're in our house for

always. Yeah. So, yeah, like I feel that the gringo are more you know,

sometimes even even they're a culture very different. They're they're not. Exactly.

They're just they're just they're just and we're wegano that we're we're family we have

that culture of always the family to the family is the family family first no

I mean, and no I don't know I have to have to be able to my family always before before I know.

So, culturallyly, has been a shock, evidently, this, is it's been complicated for

each one of us because, as I don't, no, no, no, you know, you know,

you know, this, never to be going to start things, no, they're,

they're going to do, they're to pass things in the system where we we're we're

we're physically there's a physical actually there's a not there's no there no there no

there no there's much and much understandinging and much analysis and over

analysis you you're you're the most so for that person and for one

and it's very egoistic to think that we're supererues and

that we're going to to save to the other. Not all it's not to try to one.

There's to think in the other and in reality the not

not physically to do not physically to do it not is the best

is the is it's better to and to and

to help to where you don't come to

your your person and your person with a

a so, it requires of your attention. So, no you can't, if a

sometimes you say, well, we'll have a a rato to the house and

that's not sufficient. And it's much money and so, are many things. So,

are many things economic, physical, of health, psychologics, no, so,

depression, is, much anxiety, and, and no. Yeah, No, I mean, I mean, I

know, I mean, to learn and help to our time. I mean, my papa not will

be able to that's a not quite, that's not because obviously not I'm saying, but abandoning the barco and

we'll just, no, all in whole, we can't help every one from their

from their and from his capacities, no, a basis economic, a basis physical,

a sometimes sometimes, someone can't in time, no, so,

we have, we, a family that we can put our granite of the arena. Yeah. Counts all of

that, Alan, and then I get much to get much of the course. Because I was exactly what is exactly

the way that's exactly the family that's all the time or mom with Alzheimer we pass us. I remember

that I was living in Arizona and I had a much for my career. So I don't, I don't

I don't, I was, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I was,

I was, I was, but my brother, I was a car had a I, so I

I mean, a wonderful idea. I said, I'm a house, you know, you know, the house

is my mom or I'm my mom, and I'm not they're in my mom, and my brother, my mom,

and my person, so, I'm going, there in Arizona and I'm back. And so I go and

go and I'm and I'm going and I'm going and I'm and I'm going, and I'm perfect. It was the

peerererer because just the person has described. When a person has allsheimer,

all they get, All they molesta, and it's normal. It's a, it's a new thing. The noise, if you move in the things of the place, you're just, you're going to do your tass and you're to move to other side. So, any, so,

any change, you know, whatever noise, you'rerita. So, yeah, imagineate. Two perros, three children. Grit, two, were, they were, they'd goreys,

and all right. My mom, and my mom, he was a ogre, and he was going to get to get, and he started, and I was there,

and obviously, my cunyada, defendia his children. Sure. And then I did my mom is, is like,

is a like, it's like, and when I'm going to be with the medical, I'm going to

do you know, everything, all is designed for them. Nothing, the music, the temperature,

what they come, so, she's respect. She, she, she's, she's, the reina.

In the house that you put for her, for the family of your brother, no is the

reina, it's a invitation. And I said, I'm going to get to

and I and I'd I'd and I'd and I'd play with my I'd play with my I'm playing with my

I'm putting a... I'm a man, a man, a man, a man, a, a, a, my sonnors, a my cuneada. Me would've

enchanted that someone would say that someone were two, three years of a yearn't, no, it were a few, years.

It was a period long until that the he put a a new year he put in a person

it's a good, it's a sound a plan ideal but it's a lot

and it a system of a family that then then starts to become to

so and that yeah that's to be to that is a person

that's that's some years that that's that's so in

play no? Why to have that that person. Why?

Why? For, why? For, manch that memory with a mal

relation of the last year. A lot of always was, it's very very so.

Because, because, for to be a good moment, the years,

was when I put in the house of retiro, in a house of a

particular for people for Alzheimer, and it was precious. It put they put

to do do their son choreographies, the bestian like she

could be And all the people that were the people that had had a passionia, they'd have to the church

and they were to get a lot of my wife. And I'd say, and so they'd all the people, the people were,

and they'd and they'd put their flowers and all, and all the kids that chiques that were back there,

ah, Irmite, they'd and they'd and they'd and they'd and they're those years

most bonito. The years most because the was plen, the was occupied,

the being she being she, But the clave is to understand that when when someone

has a Alzheimer is that you know it's difficult and not it's possible for everyone but the ideal is

that all is that all around of them for their experiences are beautiful for that not they

not they don't they I'm I'm worried I'm that they're saying the doctors

Mark Antonio he's going to go to whatever he's a human

is a human not we're we're going to eat food's I'm Refresco,

we'll do it, because it's the thing is not you don't you know it's not a

lot of the time. A lot of the time I'm cost to work to work to the because one

one, one, one, you want to get them to one want to

do it and you want to you know, you can't get a reversea and not

we're we're we're we're we're we the people we're

our people or our our and the we're we're not we're there's

there's be a very very not has to be with our ego

of I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm

I'm I'm I'm that's it's a a sometimes that

sometimes know to know to where it where we can't where we

get the right because there sometimes we don't

we we can't we don't we don't we don't

accept and look the result. A a it's

rare because okay, no I'm there. I'm sorry I'm not I'm not I'm

I'm not I'm not I'm happy because she was happy in her and in the person and

people new and so I was visit about I was like you and you guys you guys

you guys and I and me he'd and I had to I was in the

theater and I and I got to I'm I'm she'd me la

she'd they'd they'd It was she the star. No, there was more than the music that they'd want, with the volume that they'd that they'd.

So it was all. For them, something that in the house not is so. Dentro of the possible, the best final,

no? Is that. Alan, one of the moments more those moments that's been, you know,

and your mom, you know, and you're gonna you know, I'm, you know, you've been, you, you've,

you've, you've, you've, you've, you've been, Not with words, because my pap

not has much language, but, but, I can see, because I

do you do you do it sometimes when I visit I regularly, when I

visit I do, I get videos or photos of an album for not

to get the big, he took videos to the album. So,

I'm putting paus to the video with photos of him

when when he when we were we were we were in the

part of foot. And, and I'm asking, look, you know, you know, you know, because it's a person?

And me says, no, a way, a way, a sometimes, so, and a sometimes, so, and I'm,

I know when me recognize, because they're they're done the eyes of the light of the

, um, this, and because there's, there's a way, I don't know how to

describe it, but there an, like, something, something, an, a,

I know. A brillo like an like a kind of a little bit of a lot of

saying, oh, Alan. But, uh, sometimes I'm I'm a

question, uh, who is this person or so in photos? Um, and a other,

there's a photo me and I say, uh, Alan, no, and me,

me, me, me, and, and, and, it's a moment mackic,

is, is, is, is, is, is, is, is,

is, is, is, is, is, in those moments for her

my my abuela that my abel to my abel was his whole

his eyes and it's my my my abuela my

was in a a little she she's she's in his

in his last because that's because that the body is

the and the areas cerebral they start they

they're to how move how come how come

come and how to just it's like a bellita it's like a and my

my my I remember I remember I remember I remember we're a

a photo of my and she we were and she I was in front and he yeah yeah

no about nothing nothing nothing and you and you see

how his eyes so you see you're very beautiful

you you You know, Miro? You remember the movie this of Notebook?

The Diario of a passion when she had gone and had moments where she was a

a woman of her was his name of she, I don't remember of the person

but when they're going to pass those those those little moments

of lucid is a a great a beautiful. Yes so

is a person or the person that is there that's there's a

right I'm so you remember who is my my father

still this I'm I'm going to I'm going to I'm

well I'm well I'm well I'm still still

um um um um um this uh he's

uh is very and and I'm that I'm

I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm I mean, and she just he'll just put in the mehia, and he'll have to be able to beso in the mehia.

And there, I'm going to be he. He's always going to be he. So, then you know, and then we're going to be able to be and, well, there's people very major, I mean, my

papa, no, he wants to be to be there, he wants to to beal with us, the other, the end of us, then, he's always, we'll, we we, we'll,

we'll, we know, that's Kita, my coqueta no coqueta no there's

there's there's there's there's there's those moments in where you're

there's there's there's my puppy. But what that's that's that's

that's that's that's that can't listen the music that want to

want to see the people see the that's that's the maravita that's

if you have the possibilities that's the music. Or, I mean, there's things that my Papa, can be

about about or be able to be able to be able to be a lot of he's not he doesn't but he

put a music or he you know, then he wants a beer beer and he and he

really the people my papa always was very social so that so he's

in a time and that's he does life too. Versus to start

in a car there's the abuelito the abelita exactly

in a quarter, the kids, I mean, it's other thing. Here, here are

integrated. They're not normal in the place. Oh, I'm going to ask you.

I mean, I was going to my mom, that's the TV, and I was my and I

said, it's my my but no me I'm not I'm not I'm not

me, he said, look, my my son, Marko Antonio, and say, so,

you've you've been that you've been the TV in your series? Yes,

now not. I don't see television. Well, it's put in the television, but it's that my series then are of much

So, so, it's like that's so much. A series not really about us and they're

so much. But, but she, and the series sobecery for that can't be to be your

Papa. I'm I'm, I'm, you know, you know, you said, you said,

you're saying, and here I'm, and he he's done a photo, or an scene or

a scene or or something, and I looked to be like, like, so, Like it's like,

are new maybe for him but are good. So, why not revivir

those good new new new new a lot of So it's It's beautiful

But still But still there you You still Still still Yeah, I'm Yeah, I'm Yeah, I'm I'm sorry

More frequently than before Because I was Much more Spacied And well Well, well,

I want I'm just I'm I'm want to give him moments then of plenitude

too of felicit things so, so things that can take it a lot

or a service or for a lot are little things that are like to like a

like a to get a a little to get a he's he's a music and I'm

always I've always I'm and I put one of his songs and me and she

he gave the last strofa and he started to come to me

and me he he's he's he got a little so

so so so it's so so I'm so I'm so he's so

he's very for end but but I'll continue to get to get to the it's a

good, it's a little that I'm living to get a little bit to get a little and you know

it's a really a realtor you know it when you it's much much more more more more than

my mom I've got a I've been the doctor is that the most probably is that I know I'm sure I'm sure

I did oration and I put my intention and I said, I just want, one momentit more, one a little bit more, and I'll go back.

And it's soo and it was a lot of photos in your room my is of when I saw at the price, I was there

had been called and there there was a lotteria of the lottery in the lottery national in that I

had said, and then the the infirmary always said, look, see, yeah, my

and the The She was a woman who had to connect her a photo. With the person present in the video. No, no, no, connecta. So, yeah, I had clear that that photo was her own. But I never, never, I mean, me, I'm gonna'uette. And I said, me, I see, me put, the, I'm gonna'i'u't. And I got her, he's it. And a good idea. And I got her, I'm gonna go, Migeet, and I got her, my car. And I got her, my car. It was, it was a minute. My jit, me, my love, me, me, me, he gave a besos. The other, yeah. And it was, and it was the last time

that I was my mom, really. And so, some moments saggars, that if stills, gosalos, amigued. Yes. Gozalus. Gozal, enjoylot. Because, so, this

a of a little a little and a little, and it affects to the

family. It affects to the family. It affects to all the affect to all the

partial or partially of time complete. We just do we do you

do you have been your family? Yes, and no is correct we are

we're not we're we're we're we're we're we're we're

we're so we So, no we can despojarn of our lives and our roles and

our roles to save someone. We have to help that person, but to not comprometa

our integrity in many things. Thanks for to share because, because a sometimes I

think, and I go, I'm, when my papa, I'm going, when my

father, I'm not, I'm, I'm, I'm doing, I'm do the Cerveza, you know, but

But, but then I think, oh, la, this advanced more rapid, yeah, I mean, and one one of my friend me said, I'd say, I'd say, I'd want to be able to stay to be able to

be able to, for, for, to be a day more with him. There's, we need to and, to do you,

the time that we give, the universe or the life, no? A, a brother more,

a smile more. You understand. Perfect, you know. And that's, that is the

d'Uro of the Alzheimer that's that they are the physically. For years

they're going to be a life can be a long, the life can't. And they're

there's the body, or your mom, or your father, or your old, but

you know there no there no, yeah no there there there's

so, and then you, then you you, what what what

It's like if it's like it's like it's it's rarest it's rarestim

it's a very much it's a different to love to he's, but we're we're going to

forget to him and that's what you know, that we know, that we're

we know, and we we're not and we know how he's, a little he's

maybe we know those desktos of who we're we're we're we're we're

so we're so we're so we're to fras to frasar that's carol and that yeah

into. Fiatty, some, some the Alzheimer according the Alzheimer Association of

United says that can't start until 20 years before that appear

that can happen or conduct. Until 20 years? 20 years.

Wow. So, it could be the person with Alzheimer and still

not so it's Statistic fortisimous in the United of each one of

one of people will be affected directly or indirectly for the Alzheimer, you know,

that you have you have an person who has a person who the middle the

population. It's much in in the United one of three

adults major who's with Alzheimer or other dementia and

the Alzheimer Association. One of every three, 33 33%

of the population. Exist there the medicine is advanced All we'd want to be able to...

...avancers more rapid, no? Yeah, that would have a trotamintemates that were... Mm-hmm, never know. A lot more... A lot of more...

A lot of the medicine is very rapid. But between that are perils or manzana, there are to prepare to, we have to understand this infermed.

When we're children of people that have been Alzheimer, we have to keep to be to be used, especially.

Mm-hmm. So, a dream, exercise, activity, gymnasia mental. If it's

that we have, oh yeah, but if it's that we don't, but if it's to minimize the symptoms or

retrasar the problem, the most possible, but we have to be able to the gen, or the

probability or a prognostico certain, I'm I'm in my papa, I'm, I'm,

I'm not I'm going to be maybe, no? It's it's not it's inevitable,

but also what I have to do or what options or things or I'm trying to that I'm

that's not and for the most in me not be going to go to go to but at the most I'm

but for the rest of my life with with some supplements with with apprentices

new with exercise with many things that can do you can't to

do to avoid to the costa that in probabilities can't any, some future

like this. So, I've changed my life to start of this diagnostic of my

pap and, and ohia also, it's not many people who are not going to

get to a situation like the not but no it's a general, to look,

the statistics that are very fared to whatever us could pass, and, but

have to do exercise, have to Alimentar We can have to do many things.

They can do you can't do much things to be to be able to that this

so say. So, our day to do you is the that's the future. My

dear Alan, if could you could have the real of the world

of the person, to have a conversation with your father, so that

that that would be the he was a lucid and

you could have to you would you or that you have said?

Fittgette that I've kept with the time I'm never never that I'm

I'm a I'm a I'm and I think he was the good we're the

we're we're we're we're we're because we're one knows

a a family and we know and we know what is his

father's my father's so I'm so that the other to have when when

I'm talking about me said, I know know I have been a

very present I'm I'm very very absent and I know I'm not

I'm so you're you're incredible you're an grand papa you're

you're you're the father that we're we're never never

never never I've never never never to let's

because it's there there that that that that

I don't want that he he was he bivar with that that's that's

the so I'm so I'm in a place and I'm like I'm I'm

like I'm like I think he I'm we're doing we're we're we're

another other other way this is your house you're you're you're

you're you're with your so he's so he was he was

he was he and he he's this car too because he he

important the material, no? So, I do. So, I do listen the things that I do you know.

And as my son, I'm always I'm a good, I'm an great-y- I'm- an actor,

get on the TV, and you know and he really, and I'm not so I'll say, and

always that I'll say, and I'll say, your kids are good, your husband, all,

they're all, they're all- they're, we're, we're, we're, we're,

we're, we're, we're we, we're we, we're here, you. And no I'll just

I'll have to say, and when I go back to see, I'm going to find out

to him, I'm going to say the same, and I'm going to say the same. Always, always,

I'm, no, eternally I'm, that's so it's so I'm sure, I'm keep with the

guys, to say what we think we're to say, for what then after to say,

for the psycholo to, write, and write, and then if we can't

to do it right at the unless that's a person that's a person that

he's a lot of that's but, but things so so that's

like amorosas with people of our family friends, I'm parjas,

ex-perejas because no, no? No, I know, we don't we're not

we're we're what we we're we're we we're we're we're

we're in life in life. In we're we can have to

have in life. Amen. Amen. Thank you, Alan, that that's open, that you're talking about,

that's sure that episode of the podcast is going to serve to a much people. The magic of these podcasts that's that's kept in

here to live, while YouTube and the media, the radio, not disappear, the satellites there in the

space are, are going to continue, there's going to get, and a person today,

on six months, in five years, in 10 years, go to be the or the extraterrestres

in the future. Or the are, they're going to put a play a, look, there

a of a There's a thing that's like that's imagine what you imagineate,

what a marvellous that's that you're that way that's here in the time there

when there when the when the when the people were when those when the when the

people that's that's that's that's that's that the yeah,

ohhala that the level spiritual these these things, these those,

those not, who, who, who who would the people that who's

we're the people are we if the don't existier if the pern't know you imagine the insensibly

is that we're because not valor valoria so so so if we're we're

we're we're seeing the the dolor no I'm not I'm not saying the

but it's what you what you're so what you're so it's is something is something is

something is a beautiful and it's a Sentire. Triceness, melancholia, a yearnourana, this trestice

that we're trying to do you and I mean, we're not, we're going to we're doing, all right in your life,

all right, all right, yeah, that's, it's very human, we're so we're

human, it's inevitable, no, not pass for duels. With this situation or no, all we're all we're going to

do in some moment different forms, no, this is a situation very particular,

but So, all is very ephemero. Soltemes and abrace at the same time our present and to the people that we're doing,

and what we have nothing is for never. I don't know. I can't celebrate the because it's horrible, horrible,

and not so I don't want to anybody, but I do I do you know who I'm because

to the life. I've said one I'm saying, the the is

the the or the problem or the that you know when we're

a person is the equivalent to the love we

think that so that that's when when someone

is even a family or a or a death

to get a person for that person is exactly exactly exactly even

the great and the important as the love

that you see for that person. So, if you know you'd have

been able to so you're that's a beautiful, we're doing that we're doing. I'm sorry, it's horrible,

but nobody we want to do that. We'd want to let us pass us to that page

and that episode that is very amargo, but is what we do we're so much

during the first year that my mom did say, I said, the only way in

that I would be not could be feeling this is not have it never to

know it preferer not have it exactly exactly there is no no

no with good I'm I'm for having that if that's

the price I'll pay one and one and one and one and one

and a one and so so thank thank thank thank

thanks thank Alan thank to you. Thank you. Much love for Jorge,

for your papito, for all your family. Thank you. Thank you. For your your, for your,

for the time. For the your friend, you know, you have been you're going to you know, you know,

this is a little a friend, we're not a little a good, a coffee, a me scalel or what you

want. Or, some, or what you know, what you need. We're going to let's get

our tachita with the chocolate or what whatever so. My dear you

Well, Alan, then we'll see we're seeing in the series, in Netflix, in Amazon, in Prime, in HBO Max, in where you're in where you're

a little, a movie about, a movie over the Alzheimer. Oh, yeah. It would be a story, to tell them

story. There's a question. We'd have a co-coe and the two. It'd be a little. It'd be a little.

Well, thanks. It'd be something so maybe, maybe surrealist, no? Realism,

realism, magical, because this this A new Like, like, yeah,

like, yeah, like, yeah, like, like, how would it's,

like, from the point of the point of a person that's that's surreal,

because, because it's, there's, there's a movie, there's, yeah, with

Anthony Hopkins, uh, Bella. Very good. It's very good. You know,

he's, he's, he's, or, or, or, or, or,

I don't remember, if, is Alzheimer or no, but it's very interesting.

It's interesting. And it's just what you something. Something is the perspective. Of course, you're the

you're doing and you're not really because you're trying to understand the movie that's what's

that's changing the person and it's precisely for the same the same universe of the personage.

It's very very beautiful. The father is called. The father is called? Thank you. If you

has dementia in Yelberd or is Alzheimer? It's dementia. Some some type of

Perth of the is very interesting. It's very good. Radio social, where we we're going to

see you? Instagram, Alan Slim, and the of the palomita blue, yeah. Perfect. Well,

much love for your family, for your papito, for all of all. And here we're also. Thank you.

Thanks for this space and for this space and for the same. For the same.

You're also I'd like much. To me I'm like the question. If you

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there something there's something there something there's something there that's there something or profound

or spiritual there's there's a question that we can't because it's with what we

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give a good reason and then you do you do you know on Instagram etiquette us to

Alan and me. We'd want to see what's your opinion and we hope we

we're doing for you. So, thanks of all heart until the next. Until the

next time. So, Alain, thank you thank you. Thank you. Thank you.