El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - 443.- La VERDAD OCULTA sobre el AMOR y las RELACIONES de pareja - Nilda Chiaraviglio

Episode Date: August 12, 2026

Nos dijeron que si hay amor, todo se puede arreglar,  pero algunas de esas creencias podrían estar haciéndonos sufrir de más. En este episodio Nilda Chiaraviglio, cuestiona  todo eso que aprendimos en las películas, las canciones y hasta de nuestra propia familia. ¿Tu pareja debe sanar tus heridas? ¿El enamoramiento está hecho para durar? ¿La fidelidad es natural o una elección? Muchas veces sufrimos porque estamos tan enfocados en lo que falta que dejamos de ver todo lo que sí hay en nuestra vida. Por eso creé 21 Días de Gratitud, un programa para ayudarte a cambiar la forma en la que ves las cosas  y disfrutar más tu presente.  Inscríbete aquí 👇🏻https://almamatters.com/gratitud   *Importante: Nuestros invitados son expertos en sus temas y reflejan su conocimiento y su punto de vista, siendo conscientes de que cada una de las opiniones es totalmente personal. La información, datos, comentarios, estadísticas que se presenten en el Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil, son de exclusiva responsabilidad de quienes las emiten y no representan, necesariamente, el pensamiento de Marco Antonio Regil o de la producción del podcast.

The podcast of Mark Antonio Regil is a production of RGEL Entertainment and all his rights are reserved. Today we're going to about 10 things maybe more

that have seen about the relations of the marriage, the love, things that can be real, things that maybe not be a

and when not are bad or are many reddardes, then it's it's a lot in jabonada.

And for enjabonarned is with us, Nilda Chalaviglii. Santa Nilda Chalavigliu here in the precious hotel Devotion in Playa, the Carmen,

that's divine, when we receive for this episode. The people always ask, when will Nilda, the program, for that you enjabone, Mark, Antony. So, here we're,

how are you, a beautiful, Nilda? Acabonar. To enjabonar and to clean us. Of those accords,

equivocados over the love. Well, to start. What does do you? Where we learn or who does

program with respect to the love. Maybe the question is the reverse.

Who is the person that there there's that there that's that's

overgated, suffering well, with all the symptoms psychics and physical terrible.

Who is there? There's someone who's someone? When you

you're all when you do you do you do you do you do

the gata under the Juvia. One of Juan Gabriel, of Vicente

Fernandez. I don't I'm, I'm, consume, yes, sure. And this culture,

this society in the we've been in the consumer. If not consums, then there

there's crisis. No, there's in who can't benefit. If we think we

in who can't we have found that there a structure a political, economic, social,

religious, where it's structuring the control of the people for that they adapt

to what it generates consumption. Wow, it's a certain. So, if there's

a system that's benefit, that we have got myths and errors about the

relations, over the people that's beneficia of the of the instability. A world

where the major part of the population would be a population manipulable. It's a documental

very interesting that's called, I think Happy. And it's very interesting because

there are definitions of the felicity, not? What is being is?

How do you make you feel how it should be their life. And also of how

it's your life, how one says that is your life. This

difference is your degree of infelicity. When your life

is, is, is the same than what you say that you say you

should be your life, then there is the grade of the

degree of the Felicidad is maximum. No? Something I repeat much and that is a bit of is to say,

do you know, because when one does it grow, it's what there, what there is, what there is, and it's not

there's more, there's more. Disrutal. And in the change, when one and they're looking always

what's always, no, every there, no, every there's more, because you're insufficent

because you sufficient, but also, makes sense sufficient to the people that you know, and

you know, what's the person that someone is insufficient? What does? It's more more.

Sure. For what I do? If you don't, so, so far, then,

then, the love, it's all. If you you're not, you're not, there's a problem,

there's problems, but if they're, the love, the love the love it's you don't

you worry that the love is the love it's a whole, the love the love

the world the world the world I'm going to be able to do you know? The love

is an idea a idea universal and the idea not does the idea not what does the life

is the conduct or so for so I'm so I'm so I'm so you know

that the first episode that What you've been You? What what is

the love, no, the conduct amorosa and the human is biologically this

demonstrated the the master maturana it was very scientifically the

the human is a human amoroso so when when we when we

we're we're like idea not like rollo as a conduct so

that's that's that's that that's all you only if it's

directed because that that that that that says

something something like the love inconditional and that is

that is that is what you that was what you that the love

inconditional the that is the Amor inconditional no I'm how you? No

exist because to be, you you're you're a bit of a person that's

a great a great family and a great family and all what you want and

it result that they're not they can manage those emotions

for something tragic and it is a alcoholical how how much

time you you're to you're or or any type of addiction, of drugs legal and illegals.

Or you don't you feel like the respect, or you humiliate, the love between adults is conditional. Sure. Always has conditions. Distintas conditions,

no, depending on who, but always it's conditional. So, if you mix, the love the world, the world, with that

we've, we'd love us inconditional it's a bomb Mata me. Mattame. Because if me

you're happy, Mattam. We have the example of Romeo and Julietta that I think is spantoso.

Because neither they had seen never, nor they've been done a bit of

never, but they're they're so, but they to that that class

of love is to the we give the hierarchy And I see, how if the

love not, no, the love not and the love romantic not can't do. The love that would be the love that would be, the love, the habits, compromises.

The love. The love, the verb to love. That love, from, that love, we're, we're,

the responsibility of our being-stair. And from From that that love we're

and from that that we're we're we're we

the love not constructs the love is that

for so that to let me sit to and I'm

to you see you think you that this is so

this is so this is so people, people or philosophers, that

you don't amas a person that you amas the

story that you tell you know that you know that you're

in your mind what you think you what you what you

you you you that person not that person is like

the idea in your mind in your person yeah what

you think that is that is so because the

human the reality no The only that exists is the interpretation. So,

of that is what's going to out of what is a movie, a movie, that's the

thing, that's what that's that's to get to our to the brain,

a through the way, the way, all the sense, no,

it's process here in our software personal, right, that is

our story of the story of the and there And there's a

interpretation. So, of the same movie, I'm going to have an opinion,

a very and you will have another different. Because you because you

have a history of a different of my name. And the fact, there's

no, there are the world that have the same story of life,

nor the mechisos, if they're a lot of studies on a

many no there's no they have a way to interpret

the reality different so okay so so so

as interpretation when I I I I I

because you because you do I interpret that

is good for me and in this culture

Look, we're we're we're we're we're we're we're

we're we're we're so we're you're you're a or a

disconocino because to talk not is sufficient not and a a basis

well a a a bit and for a bit a bit a

At least for a little bit, but not for a project of a life. But not for a project of a marriage. But we have a lot of resources where we can

see the auto-connociment and the knowledge of the other and then see if it's factible that we're

that we're there are projects incompatible really incompatible. Today, this has studied I've been very much because with internet and these things

are people of different cultures, different races, different cultures, different religions, different to all. I've talked various, women, no me took on the human, women Mexican that were married with people of the Middle Orient. A little bit of here, they're Catholic or more or less,

and there are Muslims or more or more then when these women are and they're to live

under those reglas, customs and et cetera they're and they're to feel very

isolated. So, so they're going with all the fantasy of that

that it's a good person and then and no. Why?

Because no, because no there's a election conscientious. It's a

election fantasiosa that of that you know, I'm do you make a person and

me I'm with that with my fantasy, with my invento of what

is the other person and I would say that you never coincide because

you you're you're you're your your fantasy your ideal

but between the ideal that you you imagine and the reality when the two think you can't. Tard or

the reality will gain. And not will be to be in the fantasy. So then we tend to

love in the enomomomient or the real love, the that's

the non- the un-mortem not I'm, I'm I'm,

I'm not- I'm- am- of the idea of the fantasy of the expectation

that I think that I are that that's The end up The end up

The issue There's The end up The enamoramient is something that's something that's not we

plan we, we don't we know we don't we to choose to the person This is very curious

has done many investigations about this The enamoramient is something that we do something

when we we're really jodied The enamoram the enumeration we docent when we're

jodied. Let's I said that they were to put a injabonada. You can

be be so to be a lot to be to be so yeah.

That's that's that's why? Because, because when when the

the enamoramomito are com so you do you do you do this master

Leonardo Galix and this is marvelous and he he he's

he he's perfect. These are chemics, you know, that's of who you enamelas? You enamelas of the

best version of you myself. When you're in a moment, look, this is in the

adolescence and in the 40s. In the adolescence and in the 40s? Yes. They're the two

eddies where more enaboramations there. There are other people that's every rata

but these two are typical. Why? In adolescence, you're in a

quantity of questions of what I'm to do, where I'm to go, or I'm, always that you

are in a bifurcation, or so, decisions radically different, but you know you know

not you the clarity, nor the impet, you, and you have the resources

sufficient to to choose between here and here, you know, you know,

you know, and then it's so it is the most luminous, the more

clear, the most marvellous, the more adventurer, the most, so,

the best of you will go to this cocktail chemical chitit

of oxytocin and serotonin and you You enamorahua of that through the eyes of the other you, you

enamouras of the best of you. Ah, I'mma. Yes. I'm enamored of the best of my

best one. So, you you're not you're doing you, you do you inspire to do you.

Contigues with you with you. But in the adolescence is in all this and it

you're full of a clarity and of a power where you take the

decision. If it is for Or is here? But why the 40 another other way? At the

adolescence well, I'm an adult okay. What's to the 40s? Much

people to the 40s yeah had a noviour a nobio and he got to

he took his chito yeah he worked he he bought the car the car

the car of the caro and the and the and he's put in

Instagram when they go and they're He's He's making photos. I mean, he's all.

The dream. But not it's very. And then he's so he doesn't

I want to live so the next years and there is a question very difficult.

Very. There are some of no, no, no, no I'm don't me

don't ask, so I want to say the thing is the

life and no it's what is let's let's let's,

but but in reality it It's a question inconscient It's a

question that that's you can't do not you get to you're in a

cyfrated or you know, you're looking by the window and it appears

in this type of of things, so, yeah, you're to live

in the rest of your life? And so then there is there again

this bifurcation. See, a crisis of new. The same crisis of the adolescence. Equivalent

is like a second adolescence to the 40. Something like. So, if you're are living, those that are you hear, they're still, so can't, that's normal. And what's it? And so, and then there, well, in the consultory,

no, you know what I'm what you're going to. What's on Facebook? Me, I found to my love of the prepa. And? And I sent me the the same

than before. Yeah casas with children. Yeah casas

with his and with all. The recalentated the love recalentated

for it because. Because here in there there's there in the

the head no time no there so you know the

same person with those years and your your

your brain your is to vote you will

to be to think and to feel and act as in that time

because you're going to look to let's those can't those things that were in

that's you're so you you're going to you and then you

you're you or of 18 years? So, well, there are many questions

to do some some they're a bathroom a whole

a life constructed for a fantasy because then

they're going that they're not the other person, the other person, the

circumstances are totally different for both. So, it's all. It's a other fantasy

also. So, you're also, you're going to love to

an idea, the idea of when you was the love of my life,

at the more, at the more, if I would have been

different, and I would be a and I , that's Enamoramination.

Now, you know what has said here, but this, this is a myth, this is a reality. The enamoramint, the passion that comes

of the enamoramient, that terminate because it's, it's a termina, because the receptors of

oxytocin so it terminate chemically. It's going to be to do. When? When you're when you're

taking decisions? Or, here, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's,

it's, going to the quantity of these hormones. And then you're going to and then you he's vegan.

No, you know, no, no, no, you know, I don't know to be

to be that I'm to say, I'm saying. You know that other thing, no

know, no, God, God, God, God, God, that's

that's that pego, that that's it I'll you're I'm

you're you're you're you're you're you're to find out of the effects

defects yeah between commas that that's that's when you

when you when you when you're when you don't know you've seen no because when

the emotion sub the intelligence down under the oxytocina and

it's there there's there people there's there people there's like there

what moment it's me occurred to elective to this person?

In the time? In what moment? In that moment when you

in a in a in a in a case? What what is?

What are? What are? What are? Those are the normal the controls of the function of the

So that is That's a real That's not Mito, the love is Siego So the enamoramient

is a The enamoramiento is siener No is a phrase in positive So have to reinterpreted to say wow

I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm but you have to

love your own your own because you discover of you things mariviosas

a force internal marvell the most the most of

those of the those of the the The environment of the of the vera of the adolescents

No, because you know, because you know, because you know, then one is going to one's the other to the other

no? So, as it's going to get to that experience without limits. And then

then then you're really everything all, all, all the more of you, the more

the more the most all of you. Amor to make a movie? So,

really, we have to appreciate the enaboramient because it's an auto-connocement wonderful. And so,

they've done many many many times about the time. Not only about the love's of

but we're going to do that because the person has a family terminal,

for example, and me there's a year of a year, and then it's then it's

a lovemion and an adventure because you know in a year

it's all an year to understand that it can be precious, but not is a love real, is enamoramination. And it's perfect. And it's perfect. And it's perfect. And it's

perfect. And it's to live it. Because the auto-connociment that you do an anomoramination is immense. Right. Inclusive, when you're in the lona, for

some reason, because something you're out of the Navo, you remember to you, know, and you know, you're in that person. Sure. And that

can you, it's a so little that's so little that's so you're so you're

to get to get what is what is and that is and that it's good that's

there's there are two or three phrases that's that's the

other the enaboram is a a state of a self

that that that if that if if if

if if if permanence in the time, they're

in a no-kker in a in a manicomium. If you were you ever you're inamor

you're you're a lot of it's a it's a trance yeah yeah

yeah there's and there and so there's things things things very

beautiful things very even even even even some

they're even all of your power to to put to

for to to, I know, can't, or, I mean, discovering things

marvellousous that were without, then they're without, yes, yeah, you know.

You see, a little a good, you know, the time, exactly, I remember to have

done things incredible in the enamoramient. But the little is you know, you know,

you know, you know, you know, it's that it's a no, no, no, no,

the conscience is that, you can't be so. If me interest, I'm interested. If something

if you can't you know, you know, you know, you can't see that you know, so how you'll

be there an amortezing a manoramination? It's been very negatively in the enamoraminted many times

but right that you're talking in the positive of no you have to give a and you have

to be and have to have to have to live when when you when you when you

have been that you that's that's present. No. The people not

the people are that you say, because I'm a good time. The people

never get that's the enormon the people love. And it's very beautiful,

much more more beautiful than the love so you don't have to so you not the

if you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, you know, you know,

you know how it's how you do you know it's a problem that you not the

yeah even even I'm many people of the that I'm consults

and says, Nilda, I think that I'm a lot of I'm going to to be how,

I'm going to see, I'm saying, I'm saying, let me say, am it as a

unawramp conscientious. But no let's the way, how would

how would describe you? That you can't you're that you're that's in that's

but that in bed to never to say, no, no, no,

you know, you're you, you're you're you, with the objective that the enumoramination that is the

auto-concimient. And you know to do you know and you know does your five sense and you know you not have a grand

expectative that you're going to because you know but you're going to do you know, but you know, it's a story.

It's a story but a story a story notritiv. Sure. See? And it's

because it is good it's it's very nutritive, very inspirational, very, very motivational,

no, so it's very very strong. The hormones make their work. Yes, and it

is very well. We're very in mythos, not only in the classics, but in the mythos

also in the new today, and I think we've talked to the other podcasts,

the expectations of what is a a pair are very different to what was the

I remember my abuel and my abuel and my after she did a and they thought very different, and that's not

a problem. He said a lot of political, he had no, and that's not a problem. His expectations

were very different. We're going to live our love, we've got family, we've

children, and they were very separated. And they were like, and they were like, two years.

Today, we're not other things of the pair of a person a person religious

I'd say, no, no, no I'm, he has to have to be like like

or the we're doing, we're doing, we're, we're doing, we're, and we're is that our partner,

is that our therapist, us listen, and us and us and does solutions, or us help

to transit or to gesturing our emotions. Dentro of all the expectations that we have our

part of a species of a therapist, be a woman, is an expectative

intelligent, Look, there was a transformation historical. I think was the violinist

in the Tejado Ros. I don't I can well of this movie,

he said to the child, you know, you can't get to him. The

wife, he said, but Papa, I'm I'm I'm and he

he's he's he's saying, no? So, he to go,

he he's he says, oh, you you're a more?

No? Uh-huh. And then the wife, the wife's like like to say of what

you're and then he says look, I know but it's 30 years

that I do I do, I've the I'm the planch the

I'm I'm my my same I'm I'm I think that

that's a love he said the person when the

when the roles were totally complementaries. This, he had this,

and the other did it, and every people, and every people, and they

were in to do those roles, then, so, all the other functions,

of pertenances, of the, of, the, of, the, other

functions, was, the, other functions, the, the community, the the church,

the family, the parents, we're a ton of people that were with all

those necessities human. Now, all we have asked to one person.

It's a difficult. So, that person has to be of all,

no, has to be the the, the person, the he said, or the

therapist, no? You know, so you have to hear you know, but also also the also the

thing is the thing that's the not you don't you make the community in a

Kermis, no, it has to be the person that's and also and also

has to think to think to think it's because we're because we

do together a lot so obscciate we're an affixient. The relation of a

relationship the relationship the he pere a a person what the other

a whole people. It's difficult. You have to vote for the same party, you have to

the same team of football, to have the same hobbies, the same religion, to listen the same

podcast. We want we're almost to go to we're going to be we're

the only way to find and then you're because you can You can't change.

Your your pariah not has to be your therapist. No. It's valid to say in a relationship,

my love, you know, but with all care, with all respect, you need to a professional or a professional

of a professional of the health. I don't be that person. I don't continue to

you, I'm not only you can't, it's a good, it's not good, you know, I'm talking,

we can't, we can, we can't, we can't, but yeah at the therapy is to

to take and to get a at a question when the people when the

people are they're playing and cantalette and and they're talking about and

saying to what they're going to do you and all so me they say

Nilda what I do I'm say you're so how

me call you so I'm so all that you

all you don't you don't you can you can

to say to me, you can't say a me, but to him no, to him not,

to him, but why no, because he no, he's not, no,

not it's your lucura. And he can't say nothing with those.

Nothing. So, what is the poor, no can't say nothing.

So, so, no is because he not he does he's not. You

have a where his your comportment those active, or you get the

hand the leg, okay, well, but it's your yaga. So,

you're responsible of your and if you're really, really sanas,

cicatrises, then you can't put to doleer, but those herrida are your

and the other person no can do do you can do not with

nothing. Because, because not can get and recabbleer what is here. So, the only thing that's

put into your head into your head into your head is you. And you have the 100% of the power to get into your head to resignificate and change all the synapses neuronal

until that you give your regalada and transform your life in what you designes. But it's your

work personal. The other no can do because no can get to get here into. you

and if you know you want to do you do you your your life no to you

know look if you don't you you know you your

life your your friends your your work your

his your his your parents still do your

so all so still in the life all still

still all still you one or two another, he'll throw out

the moco there but the the life is that the if you, if you

don't you don't do you know no, no you really

you really, you do you to design your life as

you do your and get to and you

know that the conduct has consequences and you

have to look the consequences before to develop

the conduct the second the conduct is that is that is that it's a

function anticipation before to ask you question what are the consequences

these consequences these consequences are are are aligns

with your model of no? Oh no, well, and if you

do you do you do you think what are the consequences

well Jodate. The responsibility brutal. You like to live like reactionariously and, well, it's a good,

I mean, it's your life, no. I mean, it's that other is very mental. No,

what mental? I mean, yeah, yes, it's mental. I mean, you have to turn the peter

and you have to transform many things. But not is sufficient. She? The you have to put

in the life. Because that it's pure rollo for so,

look, there are many people there's there I'm not you're saying

that this was a way of more. Curses, retiros, encounters, people who

have done people who have done 20 things during years and all

so they are because we're because we're because we're not If you don't

pass to transform your conduct to do something different every day the life is the way is equal It's still in theory

We're talking But we're Doing it's Purs rollo Ryo How will change your life?

This is we did you This you just You me You made You made You're You me and you're

You me You're You're You're No? Me. Me. No? And then you

know with what person you're you're going with a person that grita, not you

grita, grita. A person that you insults, no, no, no,

you know, no, you know, that's a person that you do, no,

no, he agred, agred, so, then you see the person that grita,

humili, agrede and you, because you, for you do you to be

to be to a person to do that you, it's not, it's

a person, who gets so, so you so, so, simply with that

you keep the miss to your discurs your life can be

other, the at times that sometimes, I get, I

I'm I'm I'm I'm the A-Bes I'm always, you know,

you're an ego because yeah, at least no, I'm at the discussion

That's incongruent in I'm yeah, yeah sometimes yeah, yeah

sometimes yeah, that's that's that's yeah, sometimes me

it's all yeah, yeah, he's he's he's he's he's

the haula of the I'm in the character, the camis of force. Exactly. Salis,

you know, not are great things. See, not are the very liberators. A little a little

of a little bit of a conscience no, no, you know, you have to change

of a country and no, it's much more more easy. And you you're going

to be to be to be to say I'm to say, I'm that,

I have to do something. I'd have to be. I'd, takele that just that. Reemplasal, the child, decide.

Your life I'm going to. I'm going to be my marido. The child was my marital. The child was to

dinner to the house. Elicic to be able to do you. And your life can't. You're going to

be your proper therapist. Sure. Put your in the one or one a professional

of the health, to learn to to learn to to get a to get to get your

and not to be the person, you don't have the obligation to be your therapist, no,

you know, even, even the even, you know, you know, you know, you're not,

I can imagine, I can imagine that no, no, your principal no no no

no no no no, no, no. No. No.

No, but no. No, but no. No, even your partner has the preparation professional and the experience, no,

no is there. So, that's expectation, we're going to do a lot. We're exigued a lot of a relationship.

It's natural or not natural to be monogamous? It's something natural in the are

humans or we inventing it's an expectative real, be monogamous or that never we

never know the attention nobody more because I'm so I'm not my more

because I'm I'm not I'm no I'm just you only you

just you since you you get to my life all all the

others the others the other so how this

intention or expectation well we can We'll start for the

principle. We're doing a podcast complete of that the thing.

We can start for the principle the sexuality exclusive to

that's we're a nonogamia but the the thinking

monogamico is much more than sexual exclusive but well

in reality the human biologically and and for

the supposed that we're we so so so

so so so the is a part that we have to have to be in the conscience

the human is bisexual and polygamam biologically the human is an animal bisexual

and polygamous that is our naturalness being bisexuals and polygamos but we're not animals we're not animals we're not

we're humans what we distinguish of being an animal the conscience so you can't

you can't choose an object sexual specific and you can have sexual with a

one one person or with but it's an election and that depends

of the system of the concept of the model romantic

which is you for you for me what but if the sexuality exclusive exclusive is put

from from the initial of the relation will fallar will terminate in infidelit in traition or

in auto-castration and abutriment chronic the crisis will be there at the final of this

history okay for the type of creencers that we have talked in

other podcasts but the type of creedions are asphyxiant you

you know you can have the right to be being you're being

you not you you have you you have you you have for

love to do do to do I'm to sacrifice me

and you and you're so you're so you're

you're going to go your identity. To see, to feel a big

of new. It's the model conventional, the model of love romantic, of the

telenovelas and the movies romantic and the bowleros and the tgos

and the etc. And of the religion and the religion and the model,

I promise to be to be feel in the properer and in

the adverse in the health and the a disease, and respect

to restate all the days of my life until the death not when I'm

a so I'm a guy. And so many of many of many bodes.

So, Nilda, this me have said many times. Then the sexuality

exclusive is impossible? No, no, not it's impossible. But it has to be the

result of a relationship of a relationship where if if you if you

do you know all the you're going to know what you're to know what you're going to know

you know that after after a if you're not to you're going to you're you're

and if not you know there's too that's there's if not it

and you know and it and it fortalece the matrimon

how how so How? Milda, now is. How will fortaleigh a infidelity of the matrimonial?

As I don't be there, as I go to go there to find my identity and to feel me

and feel me and feeling and I'm happy, when I come to my house, I'm

that person many many times when you enter the other person and it It's all

everything. It's the matrimonial but also the amazate because it had a

function different. That amaciato was to to help this. If it was this

this, this is this too doesn't have done. They're not the cases and

are many are manipulated the cases that are the love. That is

the illusion of the amant or the man to leave your pariah

for you but that's terrible because then the aunt or the mann't know that

that person does that person does that is that when you're going to be like that when you're

not to do you exactly it's a but it's a good of that gender but then so

if not they're in a relationship to revive for so there some

that they do, a lot they're, a sometimes they're, or a veces, but of some they're not, they're saying, you, that I

know, that I know me know, or some, even, if, if, they're getting to to say, okay, but I'm,

but I'm, but I'm too. And there's where it's where it's difficult the thing. Sure, yeah,

it's going to because for that that's and if it works, because I don't I don't you I don't know much, but

I'm a good number of parishes, of how it's when the concept of love and the concept of relation of a pair, can't function.

How? The love conventional, first is love, not to love. So, no, so,

I don't I'll tell all the days, no I'm, I'm I'm, I invite

all the days to do all the days to do No, I mean, it's the thing of the love us, no?

I mean, how? Well, who knows? Who, who knows? But, but we don't love. If we don't

know what are your conducts and my conducts to cultivate the relationship of a marriage, if we're

not we're not there's going, no pego Tavik is of love to do the days

to build the relation, to cultivate the relationship. No, no, no,

I'm the end of, and then it's it's because, oh, because it's

a lot, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

no, so, because you have loved, because you've never, no,

okay, to build, to cultivate a relationship to have to be to be all the

day, have to do the other all the day, not is a

mascot, is a person that's an evolution, that can't. There's, there's to elective, diary. All this

that we have we accept the differences and honor them, to learn to learn to learn to

the differences. There are many resources, if I recommend the diplomat, the pleasure

of Mark. That's the diplomat that you have. The pleasure of amar.

The pleasure of Nilda.com. M.X. There's all the months I'm in vivo. All the

questions and responses. Two hours. The question and response all the questions and every time.

But there to be a relation for that. I need a no novi because I'm

going to get to the course of Nilda and I need to put a practice and I'm

pure a theory. I don't have problems to resolve no, no, you know,

because you because you're to D'clock that the only that we

need to we need are that we're to manage our life and to manage what

we're what we have we're the power you're is infinite

because the the marriage no exists what what

does that if the if if if is the

the relationship the relationship of that is a

so it's it is what you So, I mean, I do something that affects to you, to me, you to be, this, that's

that wege, between both, is the relation of a correct. So, so, if I change my 50%, you're going to continue doing

the same as well as no, because you came after, you, you've changed, so you, going to start to start to do a way

different of before? because what is different many times I'm a therapy of a pair of a person

one person and everything and everything so you're so no you need to take your course

no okay those we can't and there you know and there you do you

think we think we I'm that I'm that we're we're thinking we're not we need to

we're we're about the two different models of different models of different models for decision, for conviction,

parishes parishes, polyamorosas, swingers, and we're met us very, well, in all this. Because right

now we're so we're going to end the time. And I think that's a episode complete and we get them to

get us there. Yes, I think the fifth book is called Amar Distinto. And

and the module 8 and 9 and 10 of the Diplomado is the analysis of all these

other models of we're going to let's dedicate models of a model of an episode complete. We'll

give us a passadita and the book we can get to and nilda. And nilda.com mx

we can't write us to give to do that to be a wonderful nilda much thanks

to you to be to be a honor to be to be we're getting we're

we're we're you're you're you're the the the

Fidre and me Gire, and of those it's to question to question our and question us,

what I get clear is that not those models function are not. And we have the

right to the model that's a model that does work. Exactly. A model a

measure. But in another episode we can't about to how to

keep us the culpe and the perguenza to make a one of

a maybe not not be a because many you can say, if you

let's tell the the Nobody will be going to be a little. But always

there's people. Always there's a next episode. I said my mother, always there's a rote

for a decoscel to know. Sigerna. Nilda.com m.x there are you find all those

courses. There are all the Chiraviglo or Kiaraviglo as you can't pronounce.

Much of all the thank you. And then we'll see them we're a episode

with this other another below in the podcast, in the channel of YouTube if you want to give in this episode. It's more, degen us, for Nilda, what would you like that we'd like to you? We're going to let us and the models not traditional.

Because, also, there's a huge, enormous. Yeah, every more. And every more, exactly. And what's the time and how to find the, the, that's it, you know, thank you, Milda. To be your mind. Thanks. Also, thank you.

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