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In those times
moderns,
it seems to be
to live in Piloto
Automatic to say,
Oye, how is that?
I'm very well.
I'm very well.
I'm very active.
I'm,
I'm very
because there's chamba.
There's a
time.
I'm doing.
I'm doing.
It's a mal
of our times.
It's a lot of
many connections
real.
Today we're going to
talk,
how to start
from the
pilot automatic, how
to live,
how accept when
we're doing,
how we're doing,
how we're
doing it.
Today we're
a inviteado
special to
Jorge Cantero,
psychologist,
and author of
the fin of
chaos and
other books.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you.
And in the
second part of the
program,
we'll be
about the
thing of the
masculinity.
Me,
I'm not.
Me,
reality,
that we're
only the
only the
people who are
we're not
when we
we're not.
The
women are
being
are bad or
not
are so
not so
they're
not quite.
For
that's
that's
a
modern
of this
hyper-productive
hyper-productivity
hyper-
hyper-trap
hyper-
function-mient
all
all-mood
in a
grand
dimension
his
your
loss,
your
heart,
your
fear and
you know
we
we've got
also
our
desire
to
our
It's been a
kind of a
privilege
to have a
good job,
to have a
good
work,
well,
to have,
to have
a kind of
a special
of a
privilege that
you have
said,
but
whoever
would be
any good
job,
whoever
would be
people,
and so,
and then
we don't know
we're
not even
we're saying,
I'm
too,
I'm
need a
space,
need a
moment,
we're
we're feeling
of
We have a
We have a
feeling of
a fracassau
like if
not we're
sufficiently
good,
as if we
have gotten
our
our right
to be
because
there's
problems,
there's
there
there's
there
money,
there's
there,
so,
all,
men,
young,
we're
we're
we're
our
desperation,
our
desperation,
our
stress,
our
that,
there's
this persecution
social.
And a
a
of
the
I'd say a
very is
a lot of
a culture
vorace and
and a
way of
some of
our own
our own
our own
our own
to us
us pass
the way?
Yes,
although the
motives
can be different
just because
men's and
women are
different
biologically
and we
we're socialized
also also
the way
different for
each one of
us.
So what
what I can
say
is that
the methods, the
reasons,
the form
to occulting
what we're
going to be
different,
although we're
going to
get a
way,
is to see,
you're going to
get to
women's and
women's that
very semifante
and there
and there
are very
a lot of
but
this is an
this is an
impact
social that
we're playing
to all
I think you
you're
you're
you're
you've seen
the face
a moment
when I
said specifically
this
of
you know
you're
a good
I'm a job.
You'd be
very content.
And I'm sure
that a rathos
you can't
can't say,
no?
I'm saying,
Basta?
I'm sure
that's
you've been saying
what I'm doing
and then you
say, oh,
sure,
it's a
perfect.
A me
all the time.
I'm going to
talk consulta,
I'm going to
talk about
talking to
but there's
moments that
I'm going,
I'm
so I'm
no, no,
no, no,
no, for
suppose that no,
and for
suppose that
not,
because it
a good idea.
You know, when
I was a little
when I was chiqued
and I didn't
want to come
me, I'm
saying, there are
kids in Africa
that's just
more getting
to get a
man, Mark
Antonio.
Come and
and agree with
that you have
something.
I'm saying,
I'm saying
I'm too
I'm a
I'm what
I'm going,
but I'm
I'm just
I'm just
a little
and even
a fear of
even a
and if this
is a rach
and tomorrow
no there
that's a
those
there are anxiety, no? And of
we're just, like,
the philosopher, Buell Shun Khan, in the
society of the rendiment, in
the tragedy of this rendiment,
of this, you know,
you know, if you're not vales,
if no, no, no, no,
and so, and, since then
there's emotions, like,
, tristence, fear,
mal-start, general,
well, the
counsel in general is that
so, that's, no, that
the pass. The
men receive
in particular
much this
embate
public of
oh,
for favor,
no is for
a lot of
a lot of
you know,
the classic
no you're,
you know,
we're not
a cliché,
but because
it's true
because it's
a lot of
no,
no,
you're
not you're
not getting
much
embate
at a
level of
well,
the
empowerment,
no,
the
the liberty
the,
the,
he,
it's
what you
was what
you,
but
But, wait, me, tantito, no.
So, yeah, sure.
For sure, for suppose,
that was demanded,
it was required,
urgia,
liberty,
equality,
opportunities.
But,
of course,
there's a lot of
there's a little
very,
very,
very,
too,
is that's
very chuechito,
in-
quite to
to keep
to give
the
al-a-a-
to the
people for the
job,
for the
economy,
a change
of dignity.
Only
you're
just
you're
if rinds, if you're not,
it's supposed
that the dignity
was not,
no, no,
it's supposed to
know,
now I'm going to
runeating
eight hours
all day,
10 or 12,
no?
Because if I'm
a joron
or a devil.
Or malagredecedo.
Well,
also,
yeah,
because what is
that's cool
today, is
saying,
I'm active,
I'm gratitude,
I'm having
my work,
I'm doing,
but,
but the things
are good,
but the things too,
I'm doing,
I'm,
I'm,
I don't see, oh yeah, not is to say,
I'm going to, I'm going to get a got out.
I'm really agotado and I'm going to send
all carambas.
I need a month sabbatical?
You know, when the athlete
Simon Bielz
said, no.
Point.
No, I'm going to participate.
How many voices
were to say,
mediocre?
How is possible
that with that privilege
is letting it
voted, how is possible that
has been
to get to be
to have done
to make a
particular,
a part of particular,
to partying the
people, or the
personalities, the
tragedy, the
suffering, the
pain, the
person could have
been having been
going to
the necessity to
stop.
And what
is just
when one,
you know,
is an athlete
of a
high-rendment
and you know
know what
is that
is a story
that after
is a story that
after
is a bandera
of a
health mental. And that
I love because
if we'd have
to be able to
contain in our
various options at the
same time and not
go to get us
not going to
be always always
right,
right,
right,
right,
it's like,
I'm a
athlete of
high-reendiment
and can't
me.
I'm going to
the Olympics and
say,
this is
too,
it's too
does,
it's all the
both things,
but why not?
Until
you you're
to runpas.
Because,
a
who?
entretien, to
who's
it's a
time?
Now,
this is an
apology
of,
ah,
the job,
we're going
to be able to
work,
we're going to
do you,
no, no,
no, no.
It's an
apology
of the
health.
It's a
apology
to, we
going to
look at
that
that's a
configuration
exact,
that me
has a
happy,
content,
satisfied,
that my
body,
that my
mind,
that my
mind, that I'm,
that I'm,
that I'm,
that I'm
that I'm
that I'm
that I'm
in the mornings
without
without
without,
because
at the more
I'm going to
a little bit of
a little bit
with the
I'm,
that I'm
can't read me
when it's
conducent,
that I'm
that I'm
that I'm
parted with
my family.
That's what
we should
we're going to
not say,
ah,
it's a
privilege,
if you have
those things
that I've
said,
that's a
thing,
that should be
that's a
not that
and it's
and it's
and it
was a
projection
because
all we
we're
critic us, we're
what we're thinking
into us.
So,
as we're,
as we're
a problem,
as a period,
it's evidently,
so,
only in a crisis
you can't runeer
and you can't
say,
a lot.
She put a
little after
the crisis.
That's like
we're going to
have to have
to have been the
attack of panic,
no?
Ah, then
is valid.
So,
so,
so, but we're
doing what we
have to
we're doing
the regals,
that I'm
the reason,
that I'm
a better
emergency,
no can't
par,
until
that I have an
emergency.
Only a
emergency justifies
that you
say,
I'm not a
unrar my
health,
I'm going to
get to be able to
get to be able to
that.
That's not
not very
seen.
No,
not is very
different.
And so it
different,
a little
expressions.
But it would
be a
mean to say
that only
he's a
one of
two because
is a
woman,
no?
The tristesse
feminine and the
stress
masculine is
not there.
That's a
good question.
If we
about
of neurochimica and
we're about
about.
They're exactly
exactly
equal.
They're the
same
centers
cerebrale.
They're the
same
substances
involved.
If we're
about
there
have variations.
If we
about
expectative
cultural,
totally
distinct.
And there
you see
a
data
interesting,
no,
because in
essence
biologic,
the emotion
of the
tristesa is
the
same
for the
two.
There's
five
emotions
basic.
Yeah,
all
us,
and asco or desagrado.
All the five.
All the series
humans and,
of the animals,
we're actually, all the mammophers,
our cat,
also those are
exactly the same.
And the
tristesse,
we experimented because
there's a
pernida,
because there
something that
a little
to get a
to get to
and to be
to be a
energy.
That's the
tristesse.
The tristesse
is the necessity
of the
person to
a problem
important,
a perdi
important,
to get to
get to
get to
conchita
and
And to feel and permit and to
you can't do something,
to teach to leave, etc., etc.
That is an experience universal.
Homs and women's and women, we're exactly
equal.
But, we're going to
take, for example, a man.
Probably you know, I know, the majority of
the men, we know, we've been
cultivated to think
that the tristesse is vulnerable.
It's debilitating.
The truthness
put the woman in a position
of a
bad competitivity
in a position
of risk
in a position
to be a
victim to
a more of
other men
more of
more than
a society
inclement or
of a
perguenza
or descarnio
fuf
occultal
and transform
it in
other
our emotion
of election
is the
enoho
almost
we're
in enojo
now
now the
woman
for
disgrace or for
fortune,
well,
it's
cultivated and
socialized
in a
way way
different.
For her
also the
tristesse
is vulnerable.
And for
her also
the
and it
sometimes
is a
bad
and the
society
also is
very fey
with the
woman.
Also,
it's
he said,
hangate
the
because you
have a
function to
do,
because you're
a
because you're
the
sustain of
this family
at
level emotional,
because
you're
the
pegament. Also, also
also he's
much in
car.
But it
like it's
more
admitted.
There's
there are
groups that
are being
very
satisfied with
to think
that the
woman
has to
be a
misrised,
for example.
Sumisa
and devil
to be
so much
of the
discourse
continue
saying,
well,
if you
are
so you
don't
not because
someone
will be
a
person to
a
person to
a
protect
you
know
but
you can
show
as a
kind of
what I'm
what I'm
what I'm
saying I'm
saying it's
so I'm
a signal
natural of
a body
that needs
time to
and get a
time to
get to
all these
things
and repressions
probably
if I'm
put the
sombero
the
sombrino
what I'm
to
say
here is
repression
what the
culture
is to
repriming
the
Tristesse for
motives
different and
of forms
different.
But,
yeah, the
tristesse is
a
emotion
very inconvenient
of a
problem.
Because I'll
repeat it.
Obligue
to stop,
to make
a pause,
to pay
a help
too.
You know,
the
that's
would be
to be
to be
to be
our group
and express
with our
character,
that we
that's
that we
have the
language
verbal,
this is
what we
we're
we're
doing,
and turn
the
sejas,
back
the
book,
manned
a
single
unequivocal
to
the group
and the
people,
and if
the things
were the
work,
the group
would be
and
you know,
and there
I'm
to say,
there's a
difference.
It's
much more
probably
statistically
that a
group of
women
to get
to a
woman
to be
to
and ask
to
how is
and
how it
and how
it's
that a
group of
women
is
probably
that a
group of
of a
person is a
person's,
if a
man is a
really,
if a man
probably
is probably will
be a
person who are
to be able to
say to
say to make a
man,
you know,
you're going,
you're
a little
something,
you know,
is much
more than
how times
you've been
that you
have occurred to
you,
that a group
of people
that's
a group of
people of
people of
people of
people of
people
to ask you
to ask you
you're
you're
I'm,
you know,
I'm,
I'm,
I'm
of the error.
Only
a man
very
very
that's
a lot of
that's
really in
contact with his
emotions.
Yeah,
I do
I'm a
group of
people of
people who
do you
do that.
Right.
Right.
Because
during
almost
my life
not was
so that
no,
you know,
the immense
majority
no, the
no,
no,
no,
no,
no,
no,
no,
no,
no,
like,
we're,
we're
we're like,
since
the license
for,
to express
our
more than,
we're
we're
we're
you,
cackety and resolve.
Be productive.
Cair you
do it.
A woman
is going to
the same.
The woman
has changed
so the
thing has changed.
The woman
has to
have been
the license
to be asking
help?
For the dynamics
that we're living
now?
I think
that license
never
there never
never.
I think
what there
was a
place
a group
secure, a
something.
I mean,
something
is that
Any,
any person,
a woman,
he will cost to
express a
question,
the way of
whether it's not,
if no,
there's a group
that's not,
there's a group
and they're in,
and they're doing.
And I think
we're not,
because here
there's a grave error,
that's a group
replicando
until the
day of
today.
If we
have to
the
paleolitical,
if the
men
we're not
a great
necessity
to get
to be
a
very
unostenable
for the
old
to be
to be
to be
people,
to be
to
not you
family,
to be
to be
to be
another
other
other
other
to be
much
care
because
also
also
those
most
men
with
those
you
can
robes
you
robart
resources
could
robart
space,
they'd
robart
family.
So,
always
there was
to have to
this
kind of
aspect,
aggerridden,
competent,
and
the
and forth to
make a
not you
metas.
It was
in that
then
for the
needs
that
for the
time
in the
time in the
time,
about,
many
years
after
years after
we're
going to
continue
being
being
being
to be
be concerned because
any
man can be a
competitor.
You can
be a competitor.
Here I'm
here I'm
to show me
to show me
to show me
to get me
yeah,
man,
just it's
all right
so it
was a lot
that's
those needs
were very
relevantes
but the
women
not the
so much
and then
so
equality
of opportunities
also
also
also
implicate
equality
of
demandas
and
me
and I
think
terribly
unrater
insist
because
the
woman
still
being
submitted
today, to double
jobs,
dobles efforts
in house, in the
office.
And you said,
well,
is that the
conditions
have been obligated
in a world
in the
women in the
women are
in the
numbers to
their families
and to the
families,
and then,
but they
have to be
like,
to be a
world of
women,
to be able
to be
the pass
to codasos
between
men.
There are
there
stories of
terror.
I mean
I'm
I'm
I'm
I'm
I'm
I'm
I'm
to
think,
no,
no,
now it's a
world of
men.
There are many
many
there are
many people.
A me
is a man
that are you
a reality
fantastic,
defending
points that
not they
don't
so I can
not know
I can't
give you
know,
but I
hearerer
all the
days in my
questions.
The reality is that
are the
infaties
in certain
corporations
great corporations.
So,
corporations
of grand
number,
right?
Because
not only
they're
not only are
done
that's the
that's the
that's not
that's
not there's
the person
more than
the person
more
and woman
that's
not would
be the
problem
the problem
continues
the
the
question
a
through the
power
because
you're
a woman
for your
body
for your
character
for your
beauty
because I
can't
I'm
I'm
I'm
I'm
because I
can't
do you
because you
don't do
you're
probably
you have to ascend.
And if you just
you're going to
say that
you're going to
do you're
because what you're
good little
you're going to
get the catawatt
and to me
that's not
that's really
that's all the
days,
all the time.
Now,
moving to the
time of
to start
working,
working and
producing,
when we
we're
workaholics
or workaholics
what is what
we're doing
we're trying
to adorme
or to
doorme
when we're
doing,
just,
working,
working,
being
productive,
and only
we're not
we're seeing
men, we're
not really,
we're doing,
in the measure in
what we're
we're doing,
to give us,
to give us,
to what
we're doing,
what we're
what we're
what we're
to be,
the, or, to
do we're
to be able to
be a person,
but in general,
I'd say,
I'd say,
I'd say,
I'd say,
I'd be,
a feeling
that,
not, to be
or be stroped
to not be
sufficiently
good.
A fear
persistent
of that if
you were
more,
you'd
more.
Could you
access to
acceder to
ascending in
scales
major of
success,
could you
have more
resources,
could you
have
less
difficulties.
There's
there much
fear
too
of disillusioned,
of
deceptioner.
Deception to
our
parents,
that
they's
for
our career,
to our
students,
deception to
our family,
that's
a person,
to beckon
to get to
a new person,
there's much
a much
fear of
deception.
A my
father
he costed
the life,
Marco,
a my
father
to cost
the life
to the
masculinity
of the
what?
What?
My father
was
my father's
married to
the
six and
because
although it
was a
great
type and
not a
man,
it was a
man
of the
that only
it was
recognized
to us
himself
as he
a way
my father
only
serve
for the
work.
The
thing is
a character
that's a
characteristica
in my
family.
All the
world is
a
person.
He
had also
also
also.
I'm
so I'm
much
times
writing with me
saying
me,
when I
get
Jorge,
we're
to do you
say so
I'm saying
so
I'm saying
I'm
my father,
that was
that
you know?
What?
So it was, that he'd
very bad,
not did
exercise,
fumable
like a
whole time,
because all the
time was
preoccupied for the
money, for the
business,
for the
economy,
for all the
time.
So, first
he does
hemisema
pulmonar.
And then
then as a
consequence of
that's
to have
problems of
sanguineo
into the
case,
he has a
problem
of acerosclorosis,
engrosamient
of the
heartaries,
blah,
blah,
and he gets
a
symptoms of
dementia that
we don't
we didn't
we're a
confusion with depression
and anxiety
but not the
the story
about the
man not
could conceivice
as he
himself as
someone who
had to get
to get to
get to the
to get to
get to
not he
was a
person who
not produced
that no
he was
not could and
the promise
of when
me retire
we're
going to
never
never came
because one
he did
a
he did a
infart
and he
did a
So this model of rendiment to ultranza
in which an woman
not is productive,
he costed the life to my father.
And me cost to me to get me
without him without my 15 years.
I'm sorry.
I'd like much,
thank you.
I'd like much
that you'd be necessary.
Because then I've
knew another model
of masculinity
very different,
which was my
son,
of my wife,
I've always always.
I know my spouse
at the 22 years
and of this
man, that is
capable of
to be able to
to get us to
get a
to get a
and say,
and then you
get a little
and say,
oh,
George, with the
voice,
and is capable
to give us
but at the
time,
look at the
same time,
and make a
thing that
this combination
marvellousousa,
this combination
of suavit, of
a carieue,
and so,
not,
these are
these of the
night,
out of the
night,
this.
It was a
combination
perfect
of carino
with order.
So,
sure,
my
son-
was made my
second
father and
I'm
in the
skin in the
skin in the
question.
He was
not more
than my
better than my
father.
Only,
I would
say,
my son
was a
man more
actual.
And my
father
was a
man
more
atormentado
for
what
suppose that
has to be
a good
provider.
And it was
a
probeer
fantastic.
I'm
I'm
would be a
day
to say
he's
all right
all right
so don't
you know
you know
you're going to
let's do
let's do
let's
let's a
let's learn
a book
we're going
to tell me
stories of
the
war civil
of Spain
and
tell me
stories
no
I'm
talkicam
no
poor
all the
time
atormentated
for
no
I'm
no
I'm
I'm
I can't
I can't
It's a horror, no?
If they were two systems
operatives completely different.
Yes, my son and my
father, yes.
Very good
men, those two,
eh?
So, of really,
very good.
My father was a
caballero.
It was of these
men, he said,
you're the
woman.
That's, my papa,
that, of the
I was on a
man caballieroso
that he'd
cut a rosas
of his garden and
he'd
and he'd
let me ama
and prepare
the day.
A man
manousous and
amable and
and simpatic
and hisueue
and charismatic
but
rigid.
And with a obligation
enormous
to be productive
and exitoso
and to provide.
There's a number
impensable
of persons
that don't
have sufficient
resources for
to survive.
That's just
they're doing.
So,
they're doing
to do you
say,
I'm going to
say,
I'm going to
go to some
I'm going to
go to my
consultory
but I'm
all the day
but when
I'm going to
go in the
coach and
I'm
and I
see the
part of
the
buses,
At how many hours
he took a
person
to get to
your job?
And for when
he got it,
you know,
two or three
hours in the
transport,
he's a risked
to you
or they're
aftar.
Yeah,
maduged,
no desaluned,
he,
he's assinated,
spaces
terrible,
a transport
public,
espantoso,
and on
it's got to
run-
because he's
fear.
As my
my grand
friend,
David,
Pastor Biko,
is very
difficult
to do
philosophy with
a
right.
So,
they're
they're
thinking to
they're
they're in
this level
of suffering
they're not
even they're
thinking
that they're
not even
that's
what you
say,
moveete
even if you
you're
you're
even if you
make sure
you're
going to
do you're
supervien
supervience
supervien
supervience
that
that now
it's
become
in a
time to
you have
you have
to
have to
you're
to have
I remember one of the
moments in
therapy more
powerful that
I've been in my
life was when
my therapist
to a woman
I know
what I'm
what I'm
what I'm
a bit of
me to be
me to be
my eyes
and I
want to
me go
and I
think you
think you
you know
you
know you
you're
a more
even
you know
you
don't
think you
don't
produce
you
don't
don't
don't
salves
to
nobody
if you
and I remember
that I put
to worry.
For sure.
Because
never
me had
done that
reflection.
I felt
that my
value
was a
100
to live
to make
to produce
and to
be useful
for someone
more and
to be a
something
and I
said,
if you have
done
that you
know,
no.
No.
And he said
we're going
to be
to talk
in
that
all
the
stories
that
me
you
want to
you
do you
do you
to show
to show
to the
world
to the
life,
a God,
to your
mom,
a
your life.
You know,
you're
doing to
do you
do you
and you
do that's
clear.
And if
was like
an epiphany
an
an before.
For so
I always
I think
the
therapy is
a
great.
With a
good therapy,
with a
very good
well,
yes,
but
And what beautiful is the therapy.
It's beautiful.
Yes, because I did I,
a carrie.
So I remember that,
I'm going to be a project
where you're going to
do a lot,
no-importance,
an amor no-conditional
to your exit or
to your productivity.
Oh,
passing to other
the theme,
the thing of
the individualism
and the
love modern.
For one
is very positive
that we know,
we're going to
learn to
be able to
not need to
a
person more.
But in
what moment
we're
We started to cross the raleigh-a
between
amarn us and
be able to
to be able to
be vulnerable and
be with someone
we're doing
that we're doing that.
In the moment
in the
that's
that we don't
exist a
a party
incomoda
there is the
point in the
point in the
point in the
point in the
point in the
point in the
point in the
point we're
we can't
a power to
a problem
that not is
difficult
that not require
a certain
friction, that no require
affination,
that no requires
equilibrium.
There, because
then we're in
the fantasia
infantile, because
is a fantasy
infantil, to
create that
exists a
form of life
in where I
am going to
stress, not
me going to
complicate,
I'm going to
live in
peace,
no,
it's going to
be to
do you're
to be
my
dreams,
my desires,
my
things,
as I'm
like I
want,
I'm going to
do my
expectations
and dreams,
as
those I want, as I
do you
those
designe,
as me
like them
or
for example
when I
have been
a series
of demand,
efforts,
then then
for fin
I'm able to
make to
love,
to the
love, to
the
family.
And this
is a
very
because, because,
I'm sure,
no exist a
relationship,
carinousas,
sympathetic,
very satisfactory.
There are
relations that
do you
we pass
re-being,
and I
see
that the
best of
a person
is accompanied.
I don't
know it
for romantic,
but
it's not
the evidence.
The evidence
scientific is
contundentent
in this
respect.
The evidence
scientific is
that there's
that there's
the
health
emotional.
And
none of
all of
all
has to
be
directly
with
therapy.
The
first pillar
of the
health
emotional
are the
vincul
interpersonals, of quality,
preferably
a pairha,
but also they're
also,
they're both,
amist,
and family,
and quads,
also, also,
also,
but for much
a relation
of a
relationship,
is still the day
of the day of
the day of
the reina
of the
different personal
and say,
saludable.
Saludable.
Saludable.
A lot.
A lot.
A relation
of a
relationship,
a couple.
A male.
That is
can be,
if they exist.
and if they can
do that's
with a good
communication
I'm going to
I'm in
I'm trying to
the cynism
modern that
says,
no,
the love
romantic is
a
mental and
you have to
abolish it.
The love
romantic
can be of
the
things that
has been
also that
was that
was that
was a
little
like we
know,
like we
know,
like we
like we
we're
like we
not the
little
so it's
there was
not it was
not was
very good
idea. And the crisis of soledad
that we're living in the
era of the time
modern, does
know, and the
data are right to
the audience, to
look to us.
We're in a
crisis of soledat.
People of 30 and 40
years, no has
been a couple of
long and
they're sitting solos
and they're
isolated and
not is that
is a bad
what we're doing.
But, well,
that's a
markable.
But let's
one thing,
the amor,
the amoromomartic
is temporal
caduca.
It's the
is the
true love. Depend.
You have to
build the
realerable
after the
attraction initial
precious,
the mariposites
and all.
But why
that's not
not could
be romantic?
Because the
love real,
the
the end up
the enaboration,
or what in
English is
called infatuation
or the infatuation.
Why can
be romantic?
Or you can
play the romance?
For
suppose.
You know,
you know,
the fact,
you have to
have to
a cliche and
a mentira
fabulosa
that the
men are
enamorados, we
say to
our
spouses
every day.
You're the
woman
most
her most
a woman.
A minute
a tremendous.
Because I'm
say a
thing.
For me,
my
my wife
is the
woman
and I
don't know
without any
empacho.
30
years,
almost
with her
22
casted
with her.
I'm
don't know
without any
end much.
But also
I'd
be a
idiot
to be
that you
think you
no
a woman
on
a
because my
my
woman,
because of the
like if she
said she
is the
wuerito
you're the wuerito
well.
Well,
there's a brat p.
well, I mean,
there's a form.
No?
But so,
but so
so you see
to see you.
Exactly.
When I liens to
your perrito
too,
oh, you're
the real
and what's the
person.
And what's
it's a
moor
to get oxytocin
to the way
and then
so it's what
to do you.
Well, that's what
we're the
other
that's the
woman most
of the
world.
You adore.
I don't
I would
have
been
without you.
That's
beautiful.
The fact
is that I
can't
be sure.
I'm the
woman
more
more than you.
I'm the
thing that's
with the
intention, with
sentiment, she
or he
has a
great that
a series of
substances
that make
a magic
neurophysi
that is
the enganche.
So,
so he
so poin'
exactly,
the desire.
And you
do I'm
always
I'm going
renovating
the desire.
I'm
not so
I'm not
so
or not,
like the aburriment and the
routine is impone
over the
couple.
The remedy
against the
aburriment and
the routine is
the desire.
It's record that
that person
that you
is the person that
you, has a
new, that's
a new thing
that's a contact
every time
you're
you're
you,
you'reas,
you,
you'reas,
you
accurucas.
But,
but,
that's,
it implies
to go
to the
love.
And that's
romantic
of a madres,
no?
Super romantic,
but you know,
but you know,
but what's
a good
game.
It's very
good.
But in
a change,
is to
assume that the
relationship of
a couple of
a lot of
a lot of
this,
oh, yeah,
yeah,
no,
because we're
we're not
there's a
phrase,
there's a
question,
there's a
thing,
there's a
question,
there's
I'm
not you're
not really
problems
abstracts
for
methods
concretes,
and vice versa.
Is
that if I
have hungry,
no there
no idea
no idea
there's enough
that I'm
to make
the world
not a
love,
I'm going to
need to eat
to eat
work, I need
need to
work,
I need to
materiality
but the
love
the love
of the
love
of the
self-estim
the
self-o
the
thing,
the purpose of
it can
it's
no matter
how
you do
no matter
the
the
things
you
know
never
you
never
you
never
can
the
of the medium material.
So what happens?
When you have a thing
marvellousa
like the love
and the relation
of a pair of
and you're
you're going to
you've seen this
stupidness
of the women and
the women of
the other.
That's put
one on the
other and then
then if I
do so you
do so you
do you have to
do you
get a stupid
negotiation
like if
we're just
we're trying
tamletes
tamas.
No manches
it's
it's amor is
reciprocity
how we're
to put
the same
in the
mess.
But at the
way of the
not you
not the
naturalness
of the same
matrimonial
not the
kind of a
transaction?
No,
you know,
they get necessarily
there.
If you're
in a
life, then it's
other thing,
but you're
to get to
do you know,
you know,
you know,
you know,
you know,
you know,
to complicate
the separation.
It's the
only that is
the matrimor.
It's
complicate the
separation,
no?
If you
you're in
a relation
without
a
matrimonio,
without
paper,
since ritual,
because,
oh,
we're talking
here at the
paper,
but there's
a lot of
people who
think in the
ritual
religious.
Yes,
no,
for
a question.
You can't
be said a
religion,
me cased for,
the religion,
me caste
and all
people
always
me have
asked,
but for
what the
people?
Because me
it's incredible
to do
a ritual
in the
in the
family,
your family,
there's a
figure
religious
that is
a potent
for
some
and there
a ceremony
in
where
you say,
I promise
to love
and respect
you're
and respectate
during
all the
life.
That's
a promise
of honor
I'm
I'm
what you
you're
not only
only a
time
is the dignity
to your
stature
as a
human
so
so
someone
can say
me
what you
are
you're
what you
think
if
we're
a
more
this
world
this world
would
would
have
an institution, that
not had a father or
a mother fictitious
to force you to
do not do
not the only
pleasure of
a good person,
everything, all
then I'm going to
your question,
pardon, because I
have a much
direction.
Yes,
there's a
question, we
have to be
parted, so
there's a
but how do
those repartes
from the envidia,
from the angustia,
from the ego,
from the
property, or
from the
of the
good
to share.
A one
a whole
oya,
Mark.
A one
one
where I
go to
put all my
resources
and you
going to
put all your
and you
and you're
to do
that this
does
to make a
to do
that it.
Ah,
is different.
That's
I'm
to be
protecting
my
time.
And you
your
time.
You can
not you
don't
you're
to get
to be
to
to get
to be to
to be to
to
keep to
to
I'm
oh,
that
that's
that I'm
that
I'm
I do think in the
amor
maduro
and I think
in the
romantic and
I think
it's important
to rescat
it's important
that's
individuality.
So I'm
used to
say.
So,
turbo individuality.
A bit
elaborate
in that.
The individuality
is
a good.
It's a
socialological.
The
human has
to individualize
a point.
A man.
A man
who has
got got
to be
separated
to the
parents when
is adult.
That's
not got to
be able
to be
to be
to see
to see
the same
to make
the things that
caner
generate
life and
not
murder.
To
make
what he
produces
results
of
the
of the
good
of
suffering
is a
person that
has a
person who
has a person
that continues a
little bit more
a manned
a mediator
in the
person to
somebody to make
to the
person.
But if you
do you
this proece
is because
you've
you're doing
you're
I'm
and a
whole
for all the
question to
who's
to us
to all of
all of the
but for the
least you
know
you know
you
know you
know
you're
that's
When I am,
he's
the other
with the other
with O-ma-ma-scula,
that is this
person,
this figure
philosophic
of all those
who we're
all the
then there
is when it
you are
an accessory
for my
projects.
You are
only a
fin
for that I
do me
really,
you know
you are
a person,
an entity
of the
which I obtain,
gozo,
vincul,
interest,
and a
through the
which I'm
because this
is the
this is the
chiste.
I don't
me
I'm
because you
see,
because you
interactuas
with me
because you
me devuelves
a sonrisa
or no,
because you
have a
conversation
with me or
no,
because you
reactionas
because
you can
you.
And so
I'm
so I
mean I
I exist. No. It's different to say, exist, I'm
reconnoxed. Exist. I exist. I exist because
I exist because I'm nassi. I exist because I'm
arrojured there. Because I have principles,
values, because I have a life. But
me recognize
there in the interaction with you, in the
interaction with you, in the way you devolves
things. Or could you
devolver me things different? Jorge, this
no me liked. Jorge, for
favor,
this
do
do the
way
different.
Jorge,
this was
incomodo.
Ah,
you know,
what do you
know,
that's
a favor,
what I'm
doing this
I'm
there's a
turbo
individuality
saying,
the other
no value.
Valgo
I.
And my
intentions and
my
desires,
you are
an
accessory for
that I
do you
do you
do.
It's
we're
we're
living
a
one
a
time
in the
form in
the form of
the
and how we
we're
in the
way we're
doing
that the
love
is so important
as it's so
in the
car being in the
car being in the
carer,
put you
the mask
first and then
the next
the first time.
So we know
that we
know our
ourselves is
the first
before
to love
to love
to be
but
where we
put us
the ral
between
the
love
and the
lack of
capacity
of
connection
profound
and
vulnerable
with
or another else,
I don't
I don't know
who said,
but they're
saying that the
love is
to be a
and then
to give a
other person
the other person
the other
and then
to be able to
and then
to be able to
be it.
Begissimo.
Because it's
here I'm
I'm going to
I'm just.
Nothing to
adder.
Here's
I'm not
to come in
that you're
to run per
the car.
But you
you're doing
all the
things.
So,
so it's
that's interesting
no?
That's interesting.
Yeah,
where
where we
We put a raleet between the
love
and the
that's a
way to be a
pretext to
not connectar and not
be able to
guarantee that not
me run for the
because it's
the frugated
that they're
in the
point in the
you know,
in the point
that you're
that existir,
that being
human is frixionart
that,
that being
human is exist
in the
conflict,
that being
is to
be to
to be that
they're going to
be able to
that they're
to say,
No, that they're
to rechazzar.
No,
it's not
what good
that's
but they're
to be
to be able to
accept,
if you
do you're
a moment
in the
moment in
we're
to get
to be
that all
that's
personal,
that all
what is
a fron
that's a
thing,
that all
that's
because
the world
that's
because the
mind that
the world
a world,
a good
a question,
a cario
that no
to be.
The
Deve the
recognition of
your dignity
Yes,
you debe
the recognition
of your
autonomy,
you know,
the recognition
of your
liberty.
Of course,
not it's
like you
do you know,
and the
other than
the people
we're
what I
do you know
to be
to be
to be
to be
to be a
person.
That horror,
that's
that's
terrible.
That's
terrible.
Because,
well,
I mean,
I'm
know,
I'm
don't know,
I'm
know,
That we'll tell us.
Look, I'll
tell you
a story
rapidism.
That's not
a level
spiritual,
we know,
no,
no,
no,
I know.
My father
had a
one was
when they were
when I
went to
and my
mother,
40.
In 1997
five,
five,
for when
they're
so,
yeah,
you know,
you know,
you know,
you know,
what,
but what's,
what,
so they're
not,
so they're
so they're
so there
don't,
don't know,
Oh, that great surprise.
They're going to be able to, you know,
that's when you
when you're doing
thinking that the rhythm
is all.
Well, in fin.
And I,
and I,
I'm going to,
no?
We're going to
abortartart.
Oh, man,
I'm going to
I'm going to,
I'm going to
get to the
age in the
that my father
said,
you're going to
have to
have a
other child.
No,
no,
I'm not,
no,
no,
but now,
imagine it,
the 50,
551.
It's,
but
But, for other
other
other
other
I said
I'm
okay,
but I'm
thank you're going to
the factina
someone would say to
somebody would say to
you fascin to be able,
because you're a lot of
my response. I mean, it's
ominous and terrible, but it's
marvellous. The word
debitas
comes of, I received
something, so I have to
give other thing, a change.
What kind of would be that
we'd have a better with the progimo,
with the other, just for
exist, in other than to start
thinking, the world
me debe to me.
And then,
I'm offending for all,
me lastimed for all,
me nojo for
and I'm sorry
that's always I'm sorry
that's not
that's a bit of
that's not
that's a more
and I'm
like I'm in
I'm sorry
I'm sorry
that I'm
think it's terrible
I'm
it's a
problem and I
think there's
that there's
there's a
love proper
is the
self
of your
dignity and
your value
for the
simple
of existir
without
no matter
what you
do you
don't know what
you workes
no matter what
you
you getas
you
the autoestim is another beastia.
The autoestim is another
thing totally
different.
The autoestim is
how you put
that you
to work to
to get to the
person that
ideally can be.
And the
autoestim is
so, look,
you know,
you're gonna
you're gonna
and then
the autoestim
and then the
little bit more
little bit.
And that's
the life.
It's a
little,
it's aggrat
and you're,
and you're,
but your
value inerent
not you can't
take anybody.
And even
even even
even they
they're
like if
they're
like
I'm talking of abuses.
I'm talking
of things
grave.
But in reality
when you
think you
think you
can't get to
that dignity.
Yeah,
no, there's
more than
to accept.
Here I'm.
Here's to be.
Why?
Why?
Why?
I'm, why?
I'm,
I'm, because I'm
going to do.
I'm going to do.
And I'm
to bring,
so,
it's a problem
it's a
thing, it's a
thing of
a problem
to accept
and to
do you
and to
what is.
Because it's
the only
is and
no,
I'm
can't
to change.
And from there
then I can
build.
Sure.
No, no,
there's a
story
alternative where
is distinct.
It's what
is.
They're not,
that there's
there's other
dimensions
where there
various
Jorghs and
various
Marcos,
there's
living things.
Yes, but
for me
is irrelevant.
I live in the
third
dimension.
I'm living in
the third
dimension and
I'm just
irrelevant.
In other
reality,
I'm not really,
I'm a
dream,
being,
that's a
book,
you're beautiful,
you know,
the
person,
the
masculinity
as a
way
more than the
other than
and the
world of
things
and there's
that's
the bestriles
to get to
get to
this episode
we're
being a
change
great.
Ser
a man,
today,
2026
that we're
doing this
episode,
not is the
same
in 2005
or in
the 80
or in the
70 or
or in the
40
and also
being
being a
woman
is very
different
and there
there's
a
revolveder
there
very
interesting
where
there
there
there
people who
want
to
have
that are
we're
doing
to the present
and the
future, but
we're doing
to be the
women,
and also the
women are
doing what
doing what's
doing what's
new role as
women.
We're just
are redefining
the papers
as well
never in
the history
they've
been done
to redefine
correct?
I think
yeah,
I think.
Of that
you know,
you know,
you're not
in your
book?
I'm a
question,
but no is
where I'm
to say
for me
to be
give me a long
rato to
to say to
the men
that's
so I'm
this is a
masculineity
could be the
most of the
much of the
way,
so far far,
so,
that's not to
think that
what you can
aspire to
to be a
not to beinous,
no,
not be toxic,
at contrary.
I think
if you
want to
you're
really a
question of
a good
for the
world.
But for
that you
need to
what rations
is the
masculinity
because
probably
probably not
is what
you
they were
they're
probably
not is
dominion
and status
and competition
to the
and the
gorilla
and so
the gorilla
it's a
true of
a lot of
you know
and the
gorilla that's
a man
macho alpha
man,
man,
the most probable is
that
when you install
this
system
operative in your
head,
then you're
going to
start to
feel.
Satisfaction,
alagia,
and the most
beautiful of
that you're
a lot of
because
the men
have a
time
that we're
that we're
that we're
we don't
we're not
we're
not we
basically
we'regams
and now
the
we're just
we're
we're not
and
that's
not it
also,
that's
not quite
a good
idea
if it's
is generating
problems
emotional
is
is
generating
problems
of
a very
vinclusive.
And in
certain
these groups
reactionaries
ultra-conservators,
machosfer
and company,
it may
be a reaction
very severe to
that.
A man,
no is
necessary,
a man,
no me
interests,
you know,
you know,
you have
the
cause you
this is madre,
then the
really,
the
really,
I'm interested
that's being
the opportunity,
all this
groupito
of resentidos,
all this
groupito
of
devilichos
that what
they're
not
to get
and not
only the
control,
autoestim.
They're
to sustain
the
self-estim
to be
a better
to a
no
functioned.
No
functioned
before
and for
course
still
still
still
still
now
but it's
a
model
common
is a
model
simple.
Now?
A
see
there
there
has something
and has
much of
stupidness.
Depend to
the context.
It's
when no
you're
a signal
of templanza
of equanimity
of calm.
And you
know because
you know
you know
you know
you know
you know
you can't
you
know
to the
regulation
of your
emotions
concentrate
to
you know
when you
have to
when you
have to
So,
surely
it's
trained and
you've
practiced.
So,
so you're
not you're
an instruction
to maintain the
calm,
because this is
a moment
in the
time in the
this is a
moment in the
because you
have to
protect a
someone,
because you
have you
to give
a response,
it's a
time,
but it's
so it's
so it
can't be
in,
never you're
never you're
because
you're doing
because you're
because
you're
feminine
because
you're
you're
vulnerable
because
you're
you're
you're
it's
it's
not you
know,
in what
we're
in the
moment we're
not
not
not you
know,
not
not
not
command of
if
you
you're
so
you're
you're
you're
you
know
and
it's
terrible
but
probably
probably
is a
form
very
simple
a
through
the
people
were
when
people
you, cabron,
to maintain
tempered
so you're
what you.
What we're
what we.
What we're
not only is a
update,
but more
language,
more study,
more
temperance,
more calm
to say
where an
emotion is
convenient and
where not.
But,
of these
cliches
are repitient
and these
commands
are transmitting
to generation
and generation
and of
the point
when
a more
for a
mother
to say to
a
child,
calmate. Generation
trans generation,
trans generation
is a new.
You're a nina
if you're
no.
Well,
well,
good business.
No,
we have to
be much more
intelligent
to make a
change to
the masculinity
to be a
betterer
system
of protection
of the
life.
That's
that is what
we're
that's what we
do you
know?
It's,
I don't
see if
for what
we're
not I'm
I'm
I'm saying
that we
love.
We're
to
protect
the
But what
means
to protect the
and the
life?
What is
exactly
what
it's exactly
a situation
standard
that we
have been
heard of
and regularly
they're
when I
think you
know,
the man
no,
the
man no,
it's
not,
no,
it's that
the
men,
when they
when
are
when they're
not
when they
are
men,
they're
they
in the
person,
and if
we're
a situation
has a much more ability
than I
for the
task in question.
We're going to
suppose that my
woman is much
more able
for the
businesses.
We're going to
my woman is
much more
able to do
make a number,
to generate
economy.
You know what
means to
protect?
Deharm me
to tonteries
and
try a
place a
place sure
in where
she can
prosperer,
in where she
can be
in leader,
in authority,
and in
force and I
put on
the mess
the conditions
for
that she
not
not
to do it.
For that she
not
have
a
fear of
all the
what
implic a
force
to be
the
four hundred
million
the
and the
total
with what
that you
do you
that's
that you
protect.
Proteges
that your
kids
can get
to
say
pa
I don't
get
a
idiot,
you know
you know
you know
you're
you're
when you
don't
you
don't
never
to be
to
put to
the
things
to
put
to
your
you
you
How do you put
the example?
The kids
have an
urgency
brutal
of that
their parents
those
accoja
and they're
and they're
to be
to be strong.
To have
power,
but power
to be
a de
very
no?
Poder
means
I'm
I'm
I need
my
mission.
Power
signify
I have
I'm
I'm
I'm
I'm
the
children
that the
parents
let
say,
you can't.
Why?
Because you have
your
tools,
because you
have your
because I'm
because I'm
because I'm
doing.
That's the
type of
masculinity that
I'm,
I don't
want to
do you
know what is
the problem
of the
women
moderns?
You and we
want to
say it
with all
those letters.
We're
men
men
people
in a
education
superior.
No me
I'm
But I mean, we've gone to the school,
we've gone to the university,
probably we've been a postgrad,
a master's, et cetera, et cetera.
We've leased a lot.
We've been a lot.
It has to certain logic
that we understand
all these things.
But what what is
with the
human and current
of those days
that are there
from those that
we're described
at the first,
those who don't
have time
to learn because
they're over-
those who were
educated by
the men of
the entire,
those who
really think
that only
they're
a value
for a
function.
What is?
So,
they're not
can't
access to
these values,
not can
access to
these
there's
there's
a bogg
much and
is for
the
the
thing we
we have,
we
I hope
the
people,
I'm
I'm going
this
podcast,
I'm
I'm
people,
I'm
that
we're
doing this,
we're doing
we're
we're doing,
we're
the
people,
and say
it's orangutan
tarado
basic,
primitive
and more
be able to
look at
us and
ask us
what are
here.
The feminism
has done
things
marvellousas
for the
human
and for the
society
because the
feminism
was the
first
that said
this
no
function.
The
men
need
also
also
that
are
doing
that's
so that
those
over this world
that changed
we've been,
we've got,
some of
us can't have,
I have,
I'm some
conflicts with
some precepts
of the feminism
more modern,
but that's
a little
like a
Picasso and say,
no me
doesn't know
to not
recognize,
that is a
genie,
that's an
great-
to me
not I'm
good,
there are
things that
not I
want,
but it's
a idiot
to not
recognize
that came
the
world
I think
that all
the systems
need
updates.
All.
Ditcho
that,
I think
that now
we're not
we're
that we're
to look at
all the
other
people and
say,
and then
and start
to influing
in
new generations,
in
new generations
of the
young
and give
good
good
and be
good
and be
people
that can
be
referent
for them.
There
an orphaned
brutal
between the
young
of figures
masculine
of quality
and to
you're in
a machosphra
to the
videos of
t-tok
absurdos
that they're
that they're
that they're
that they're
they're
because you
have done
that you
don't
because
they're
not because
you're in a
that the value of a
human has to be
to be able to
how many people
that's
a cost of
this stupid.
No,
no,
but it's
that's
his biology.
Not those
stupides.
A bit,
I'm
I'm sure.
I'm too
of those
things.
But there
are the
men who
have the
people who
are the
people who
are the
people,
because there's
a response
can't be
good,
you can't be
good, you
can't be
a woman
to make
a woman
that you
want to
submissa
is
a
woman more
feminine
is a
woman
only a
woman only is
feminine
when it's
a
because you
have to
be the
authority.
And there
men
orphans
that are
that they're
that's
that's
that's
not because
they're
those
not because
they're not
those
were not
the
man who's
the
man's
the
man who's
ambe
that's
ambreated
of
contact
of a
vincu
of a
man
that he
says
a
way to be a
a caballero
for favor
we need to
you'll
want to be
you're in
that's
you're going to
get to
get to
get to
you're
going to
you're going to
not me
no me
no
you
do you
do you
do this
of the
courtes
honorable
servicial
that
always
that's
no
it doesn't
no
it doesn't
no import
who does
do you
that's
that's
responsibility
that
is to
to
all the
other
people
that
have
to say there's
there's a
model
better to
start us
burlling
of them
all the time
in the
time to be
people
just that's
not they're
they're not
they're
let's get
a call
let's get
the money
let's go to
let's go to
let's
go to
we're
that we're
that we're
we're talking
we're talking
to this
we're
we're
we're going to
we're
going to
say a
old.
I mean it was
an video in a
internet
the characteristics
of a
good
father are
the characteristics
of a
good
home.
What are the
turn.
Ternura,
when it's
necessary, but
at the
same time,
authority,
when you have
to put
limits, the
capacity to
give a
little bit of
and say,
I'm sure,
you know,
and you
have to
have got
more
more than you,
you're
going to
do you,
I'm
the
good
is to
bring a
paradoja.
Because it's
a paradox,
being a
a part of
a matter,
need to
know when
be
soft and
amable and
carinoes
and when
be a
strong
and confrontative
that's
a sort of
a paradox
that requires
to be in
a vigilance
continuals
of the
impulses,
then when
you're
a bad
you,
also
you have
that
that's
that you
that's
the time
not the
love you
does the
does
you're
always
the thing
most
the
most
more.
No,
it's
me
You know, but...
Ben for
here.
We're going to
a little more
more than I'm
pretty much
and I'm
but...
Ben for
not the
conditional of,
if not are
sufficiently
good, then
I'm not
talking of that.
I'm not
I'm talking
of that's
saying,
I'm going to
always the
I'm always
you know, but
I need.
Because I need
to teach you
the world,
I need to
the world
of the
effort,
I need to
the world
of the
world of
the
reason,
the
a man modern,
not to tolerate the
rechazz.
Like,
like the
women have to
say,
if you're
good and good
and exitoso
and you're
oh, yeah,
you're doing
with me?
No,
there's a
perr.
What?
What?
No.
Nobody
you know
that they
can't
say that.
Oh,
oh,
it's part of
the
game.
Who,
you know?
You're?
No.
Oh,
well,
no.
The
thing of
the machos
was,
I'm
fan of
Star Wars.
I can't
avoid.
Chocall it.
That's all.
That's all.
Ooh.
Oh,
you just not
going to
get to
get to be
going to
see.
I'm going to
see.
Before
to
start Dater,
which is
the grand
villain
of the
series,
when
Palpatin
is the
man,
he says,
I can
do the
dark, the
side of
the
light of the
world of
the world
is doing
that the
light
that the
light
the light
Anakin
Koe in the
side
of the
world
initially.
Exactly.
For
protect a
his
Parenthood
Patme.
Exactly.
Because the
Jedi's
not they
didn't
give the
power because
not he
was able to
and he
was not
he could
protect him
so the
side of
the force
he said,
he says,
I'd
do you
do the power.
I
do the
power and
it's
then it
after
in,
there's
the
the
of the
those who
don't have
seen the
series,
then we're
to see the
the maratone
of all.
Yes,
but it's
just what
what's the
thing about
with the
machosphra.
So, there's
these young,
men,
that you know,
they can
see the
format of
the administration
pastada,
no?
And they
have to learn
to learn
to do those
men,
but
then they're
not being
what the
administration
pastada
and the
machoster
says,
Ben,
I can
do it
do
do you
I'm going to
give the
power
of the
power where the
women
we're going to
we're going to
see a
and the woman
and say you're
saying,
yes,
and they're in
there because
they're in
there.
Because the
other way
apart,
we're not
we're trying
we're trying
to, we're
to live in
a form
distinct and
in the
side of
the force.
That's the
side
the light
luminous of
the
person of
the
person of
because it's
not
the side
is that
we're
destructors
to
The naturalise.
We're going to
we're
we're
we're
we're
we're
we're
we're
the
thing we're
the world
there's
there's
a lot of
a stasis
incoomoda
but this
is real
I mean
I'm
me
I'm gonna
get me
to make
me
to
get us
let's
let's
when you
see
studies
of
the IQ
for
example
of the
talent
of the
intelligence
of the
abilities
of the
women
and
you
you
you
can't
you
you
the curve for
the majority of the women,
the majority of the
women are
in a center
marvellously
comod,
with the
few deviations
standard.
It's a
curve,
a carpani-
a campanita
almost perfect.
But when
you overpone
the curve
of the
men,
it's more
interesting.
It's
more
long, it's
less
a campanada.
What
is that
there is that
there
a grand
number of
men
in both
extrems. You're a
number of
men's geniuses,
but you're
a number of
people,
literally,
idiotas,
violent, psychopathic,
agressive,
without talent.
And in
middle there's a
little less
than the
woman.
The distribution
statistical of
the woman is
less extreme.
So,
of a
point someone
can say,
what are
saying,
what are you
saying, that
you're
saying,
that's
that's
it's not.
But,
also there
also many
women,
violentas,
salvages,
destructive.
Why the natural
that's not
me ask you,
I'm just
just saying,
if this is
being said,
I mean,
the
is the
is more
intelligent,
there's more
there's more
more
people,
there's
not much,
we're
not socialistic
balanced,
balanced,
balancas.
And the
men or
those
men or
or genius
or idiot.
Or Hitler.
Now,
now,
also the majority of the
men are the middle
does it.
It's not
not I'm trying to
say,
I'm not going to say
I'm not
not going to say
that's just
there's not
no, no,
also the
people are
not too,
but if you
look as
the curves,
is that's
more interesting
are the
man, it's
less,
because they
are more
because they
do you're
a certain
number of
men,
they're
they're
now.
Now,
why the
naturalness
so,
well,
the psychology
evaluative
offers
various
hypotheses,
I don't know if
are in
whether or not.
Necessities
of exploration,
of civilization,
in fin,
be it
be a
way.
This explains
because
there's
many many
there's
un-agradable
between
us because
it's much
more probable
to find
assassins
men than
women,
because it's
much more
probable
encounter
psychopaths
that
men,
nurses,
narcissists
perversos,
men,
than women,
it's
it's a
way,
because I'm
a stardistic
incoomoda,
because,
of the other
other side,
a nobody
he's
to be able to
do it.
But there's
not so
noise.
No, they
do that's
really that
one little
idiot,
can make a
lot of
a lot of
damage.
And then
so,
I think
that,
for the
much
many,
many people,
so many
people,
so have
been
in their
people,
and the
a creencia
that all the
people are
some of the
people are the
people of
those people
of those
for
supposed to
so you
so there
there
there's much
there
there's a
work
and it's
a work
and it's a
thing I
do it
and I
really a
dignity
a good
with honor
with
with dignity
with dignity
yeah
that's
that's
that for
another
program
it
has to
do
another
episode
so
about
about
about this
specifically
I particularly
I'm
particularly
perverso at
the same time.
At the same time.
At the same time.
But brilliant,
brilliant, brilliant,
and super,
super-enfermo.
Super-enfermo.
And we're also,
now,
now,
as adults,
millions of
women,
that are kids
of those
women,
and of the
women who
don't get
us taken
us, we're
a generation
that's a
great-
for women.
For women,
and we're
we're seeing
to our
mothers,
luching,
rompient
to the
car to
get
in a woman in a world of
machos and we're
very allied to our mom
to the woman. There's a statistic
that's put very of moda and that
utilizes the influencers of the machosphra.
And I'm just, I'm
I'm just. The majority of the
divorcese moderns are impulsed
for the women. But for
why? But for what?
But for what? To make the decision.
The other part of the statistics is the
that we don't see. Oh, for what? Why?
For you to talk about the decision
to divorceeate? Right. Because then we
we just put us to
see the numbers
of abandoners
of the
home.
We put them
to see the
numbers of violence
we're going to
see the
the number of
the number of
people in
house,
oh yeah,
we know,
yeah,
we know?
My mom
did you know
my mom
put the
because I was
because,
you know,
because,
you know,
you know,
this sarcasm
no,
no,
no,
he's back to
know,
you know,
because it
did not
because she
did much
because she
didn't even
it's a
And I'm
And I'm, and me, I'm, I
Ceree, I'm, I
didn't, I'm, okay,
It's very
Very, very?
Very exigent.
What's exigent.
That's a little
Yeah.
That's, yeah.
That's, what I'm,
that's,
what's,
what's,
what's,
what's,
that's,
what's,
and she said,
in their
time, Irma,
you're going to
do you're going to
do you're going to
do you're going,
how you're going to,
you're,
you're not,
that's bad,
the truth,
that you have
to do you
to learn,
a,
to learn to
to support that.
Exactly.
So,
so one
thinks,
is that
those times
are the
people are
going to be able to
there.
There's a
very
very strong
to get to
get to
the past.
The
machism
is a
safe.
It's
sure and
a
safe.
The only
that is
that during
a time
is that
was
unpopular
and
inconvenient.
But
unfortunately
conforms
the
time,
the
machism
he
found a
form
to mutar.
De Mutar.
He
found a
a way
to
mutter and
now
present
to
modernity.
I
know
And I'm not the only, there are other authors that
are they call it, more or less
equal.
But it's this neomachism.
Now, now,
now,
it's disfraza
of psychology
volutative,
she disfraza
of motivation,
it's disfraza
of actuality,
it's defraza
of biology,
it's defraza
of the excuse
of the naturalness.
No,
you've heard of
your quats,
to say,
is that that's
naturalness.
No,
my, that's
a sexgo,
sexgo naturalista.
to think that
certain
applications
biologics
say how
the culture
no my friend
there's
to learn
there's
so the light
dark
so
yeah
yeah
yeah
yeah
muta
muta and
muta
muta and
there
there
there's a new
there
there's a new
movement
there
there's
agarran
to
now
I can
I can't
I
can't
I can't
I know
I'm
I'm
that
this
of this
about this
of Anakin
and,
you know,
about you
know,
like,
I'm not
they're doing
this
he's not,
so I'm
to record
yeah,
there's
but
also in the
way in the
way he
he's
not, no,
he's not,
he's not
to make a
matter of a
matter
and he's
because he's
he's not,
he's
because
he's because
not was
sufficiently
very very much
to care
he's
he's been
he's been
sufficiently
strong he
had been
present,
no have been
pasted.
Corte B
has these
peserousas
in where
he's being
a woman
to die
and other
that the
jerais
they say
that the
being
individual is
less important
than the
human
and that he
has been
to let's
let's
let's
in the
thing common
and abandoning
his
his
necessity
but he
but he
see that
his
mother
is
to
Adora.
So, he's going Joda.
Yodda and Jodda.
Trenate in the disapegro.
The last.
The last thing is
train me in the disapego.
But the Yedites
not so can't
teach because no
exists.
It's that what he
wants,
no,
the promise of
no-dolor,
no pernida,
no auscencia,
no exists.
We're going to
do what we
do.
All what we
have us,
all what we
we have us,
all what we
valoram,
all what we
we're going to
to have to
have
a time
is
protect him
and
keep it
and live it
you know,
he's
so
so obsesionate
that he
they're
that they're
they're
a way,
when it was
a manned,
the emperor
no,
he had
that's
that you're
not the
people,
they're not
the way,
when they're
when they're
when they're
like they're
they're
they're
not exactly
how an
king
I'm not.
But the
the
machosphor
is
the
And then there's a...
Everyone's ried
of this
scene, but in
the case
I'm parted
the
heart of me
when I'm
desgraciated
that me
cuted
all,
now result
that I don't
have anything.
No,
I'm not
my wife,
only I'm
my wife,
only I'm
got the
other more.
But, you know,
in your odio,
you're
he let's have
the way,
that's in the
way to be the
light, because
I'm saying,
I said,
I'm,
I'm,
made a my
problem,
to my
own own
a new
wife,
and that's
what are
the
machoosphere.
Exactly.
They're
they're
destruinging
systematically
his vincuals,
his amos,
to his
children,
to their
parents,
thinking that the
way of the
domination and the
authority is
that's it.
And what they're
to do you
is destroy all
that they're
doing they're
they're trying
and they're
that's the
false?
Yes.
But if
not you
have worked
in you,
no,
you know,
for
supposed.
Because seduce.
There's
there's the
spejito.
Look,
here's the
power,
here's the
I'm here,
it's a
woman.
the woman,
not you can't say
that's the
woman has to
say,
the woman's
they say,
they're saying
to the
go to be
and I'm going
to get a
handbittal
like in the
agreds.
Like in the
headress.
Because
here are
because here
the man
I'm doing,
to you
would be
to have a
relationship
with a
woman
like this
I'm
like this
I'm
a person,
a man of
a man of
a honor,
a man,
a man
a man,
a cablererer
and he
put the
interests of
the family,
of his
a pair,
before
the
other
that's
that's
that they're
that's
not.
Yeah.
Every
when no
no domine,
no put the
end up
not the
male.
masculinity.
masculinity is that
that's what
I've
described.
Mascolinidad
is an
individual
that's a
individual that
does a
power with
luminosity
to protect
the bien and
the life.
I know
a woman
that no
I'd
have a
person to
a
person.
So,
so,
I don't
understand
to
the
I mean the
I don't know
the
people
we're
we're
saying
we're
like this
we're
not,
but
protect
not it's
not
it's not
it's
with the
force
the force
that the
that the
nature
you know
the
but
the
power
the force of
the
the force of
the
the power
the
of the
that's
you know
that's
you
don't
I'm
I'm
I'm
I'm
there
there
there
there
there
there
when
when
you
want
you
want to
you
are
and this
is prestated
a legend
Sen.
If you
want to
a plant
and do you
do it's
the way.
The
only
way in the
plant can
grow is if
you have
the
delicacy
sufficient
to put her
water
and then
observe
and then
to be
and
protect her
and let her
and
let her
to be
to live
if you
if you
want
that the
plant
is to
do you
want to
you
want to
to
you
to make
the
saliv
you
done what
they're
there.
There's a
very common.
Cosechas
what you
plantas.
Cosechas
what germina.
Uh-huh.
A
little
no germina
what you
want to
do you
do you
do you
do you
will do
do something
and it
is a
good.
And it's
to be a
and
care it
and care
we're,
we're,
we're
that's
that's
masculinity
that.
That's
that is masculinity.
That's
that is
masculinity.
That's
masculinity.
And you
remember what
Gandhi?
The liberty
of the India
is a cause
for the
way I'm sure.
He was
he was a
life for
to protect
to the
India and the
people and the
injustice
of the
people.
But no
there's a
cause
for the
the cause
for the
the
because I'm
goody
that's
that's
masculinity
that's
I'm supposed
to do
my
life
for protect
what I'm
but
I'm
but I'm
to
do you
to
do this
that cause.
I'm going to
but I destroy
the philosophy of
the AIMSA or Aimsa
or Aimsa, no?
How little, no?
It's very
really little.
Well, if we're
philosophando in another
episode, for
the prongue.
Go ahead and
come and
this book
of Jorge Cantero
Ser Humber
in Mexico
in where they
can't even
they can't
in the
social.
Where you can't
we're
Instagram J.
Cantero L.
Well, if
they put in Google
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there's
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therapy, but if
someone
to go to
get a therapy
with you
and get a
call.
Let's get me
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In one
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There's
there's
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how I think
is directly
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If I'm
my page,
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m.m.
There's a
my podcast
also, to
my podcast, too,
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