El Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil - No estás bien: solo aprendiste a funcionar así - Jorge Cantero - 446

Episode Date: September 5, 2026

Sentir que vales solo cuando produces, ayudas, resuelves o haces algo por los demás termina pesando más de lo que imaginasJorge Cantero, psicólogo clínico y autor de El fin del caos y Ser Hombre, ...habla sobre la ansiedad, el agotamiento emocional, la autoestima y esa necesidad constante de demostrar que eres suficiente, qué hay detrás de esa exigencia y cómo puede terminar afectando la forma en que te ves, te relacionas y vives.Entre tanta prisa, también se nos olvida valorar lo que sí tenemos. Por eso quiero invitarte a cambiar el enfoque, reconectar y reconocer todo lo bueno que ya está en tu vida con 21 días de Gratitud.Inscríbete aquí 👇🏻https://almamatters.com/gratitud*Importante: Nuestros invitados son expertos en sus temas y reflejan su conocimiento y su punto de vista, siendo conscientes de que cada una de las opiniones es totalmente personal. La información, datos, comentarios, estadísticas que se presenten en el Podcast de Marco Antonio Regil, son de exclusiva responsabilidad de quienes las emiten y no representan, necesariamente, el pensamiento de Marco Antonio Regil o de la producción del podcast. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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Starting point is 00:00:01 The podcast of Mark Antonio Regil is a production of RGEL Entertainment and all his rights are reserved. In those times moderns, it seems to be
Starting point is 00:00:13 to live in Piloto Automatic to say, Oye, how is that? I'm very well. I'm very well. I'm very active. I'm, I'm very
Starting point is 00:00:21 because there's chamba. There's a time. I'm doing. I'm doing. It's a mal of our times. It's a lot of
Starting point is 00:00:28 many connections real. Today we're going to talk, how to start from the pilot automatic, how to live,
Starting point is 00:00:34 how accept when we're doing, how we're doing, how we're doing it. Today we're a inviteado special to
Starting point is 00:00:40 Jorge Cantero, psychologist, and author of the fin of chaos and other books. Thank you. Thank you.
Starting point is 00:00:46 Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. And in the second part of the program, we'll be about the
Starting point is 00:00:51 thing of the masculinity. Me, I'm not. Me, reality, that we're only the
Starting point is 00:00:56 only the people who are we're not when we we're not. The women are being
Starting point is 00:01:00 are bad or not are so not so they're not quite. For that's
Starting point is 00:01:04 that's a modern of this hyper-productive hyper-productivity hyper- hyper-trap
Starting point is 00:01:10 hyper- function-mient all all-mood in a grand dimension his
Starting point is 00:01:16 your loss, your heart, your fear and you know we
Starting point is 00:01:20 we've got also our desire to our It's been a kind of a
Starting point is 00:01:30 privilege to have a good job, to have a good work, well, to have,
Starting point is 00:01:36 to have a kind of a special of a privilege that you have said, but
Starting point is 00:01:41 whoever would be any good job, whoever would be people, and so,
Starting point is 00:01:47 and then we don't know we're not even we're saying, I'm too, I'm
Starting point is 00:01:52 need a space, need a moment, we're we're feeling of We have a
Starting point is 00:01:56 We have a feeling of a fracassau like if not we're sufficiently good, as if we
Starting point is 00:02:01 have gotten our our right to be because there's problems, there's
Starting point is 00:02:06 there there's there money, there's there, so, all,
Starting point is 00:02:10 men, young, we're we're we're our desperation, our
Starting point is 00:02:16 desperation, our stress, our that, there's this persecution social.
Starting point is 00:02:23 And a a of the I'd say a very is a lot of a culture
Starting point is 00:02:28 vorace and and a way of some of our own our own our own our own
Starting point is 00:02:36 to us us pass the way? Yes, although the motives can be different just because
Starting point is 00:02:41 men's and women are different biologically and we we're socialized also also the way
Starting point is 00:02:49 different for each one of us. So what what I can say is that the methods, the
Starting point is 00:02:55 reasons, the form to occulting what we're going to be different, although we're going to
Starting point is 00:03:01 get a way, is to see, you're going to get to women's and women's that very semifante
Starting point is 00:03:06 and there and there are very a lot of but this is an this is an impact
Starting point is 00:03:13 social that we're playing to all I think you you're you're you're you've seen
Starting point is 00:03:18 the face a moment when I said specifically this of you know you're
Starting point is 00:03:22 a good I'm a job. You'd be very content. And I'm sure that a rathos you can't can't say,
Starting point is 00:03:30 no? I'm saying, Basta? I'm sure that's you've been saying what I'm doing and then you
Starting point is 00:03:35 say, oh, sure, it's a perfect. A me all the time. I'm going to talk consulta,
Starting point is 00:03:41 I'm going to talk about talking to but there's moments that I'm going, I'm so I'm
Starting point is 00:03:47 no, no, no, no, no, for suppose that no, and for suppose that not, because it
Starting point is 00:03:50 a good idea. You know, when I was a little when I was chiqued and I didn't want to come me, I'm saying, there are
Starting point is 00:03:57 kids in Africa that's just more getting to get a man, Mark Antonio. Come and and agree with
Starting point is 00:04:03 that you have something. I'm saying, I'm saying I'm too I'm a I'm what I'm going,
Starting point is 00:04:09 but I'm I'm just I'm just a little and even a fear of even a and if this
Starting point is 00:04:16 is a rach and tomorrow no there that's a those there are anxiety, no? And of we're just, like, the philosopher, Buell Shun Khan, in the
Starting point is 00:04:25 society of the rendiment, in the tragedy of this rendiment, of this, you know, you know, if you're not vales, if no, no, no, no, and so, and, since then there's emotions, like, , tristence, fear,
Starting point is 00:04:39 mal-start, general, well, the counsel in general is that so, that's, no, that the pass. The men receive in particular much this
Starting point is 00:04:49 embate public of oh, for favor, no is for a lot of a lot of you know,
Starting point is 00:04:55 the classic no you're, you know, we're not a cliché, but because it's true because it's
Starting point is 00:05:00 a lot of no, no, you're not you're not getting much embate
Starting point is 00:05:05 at a level of well, the empowerment, no, the the liberty
Starting point is 00:05:09 the, the, he, it's what you was what you, but
Starting point is 00:05:14 But, wait, me, tantito, no. So, yeah, sure. For sure, for suppose, that was demanded, it was required, urgia, liberty, equality,
Starting point is 00:05:23 opportunities. But, of course, there's a lot of there's a little very, very, very,
Starting point is 00:05:29 too, is that's very chuechito, in- quite to to keep to give the
Starting point is 00:05:35 al-a-a- to the people for the job, for the economy, a change of dignity.
Starting point is 00:05:41 Only you're just you're if rinds, if you're not, it's supposed that the dignity was not,
Starting point is 00:05:48 no, no, it's supposed to know, now I'm going to runeating eight hours all day, 10 or 12,
Starting point is 00:05:54 no? Because if I'm a joron or a devil. Or malagredecedo. Well, also, yeah,
Starting point is 00:06:00 because what is that's cool today, is saying, I'm active, I'm gratitude, I'm having my work,
Starting point is 00:06:06 I'm doing, but, but the things are good, but the things too, I'm doing, I'm, I'm,
Starting point is 00:06:12 I don't see, oh yeah, not is to say, I'm going to, I'm going to get a got out. I'm really agotado and I'm going to send all carambas. I need a month sabbatical? You know, when the athlete Simon Bielz said, no.
Starting point is 00:06:27 Point. No, I'm going to participate. How many voices were to say, mediocre? How is possible that with that privilege is letting it
Starting point is 00:06:37 voted, how is possible that has been to get to be to have done to make a particular, a part of particular, to partying the
Starting point is 00:06:47 people, or the personalities, the tragedy, the suffering, the pain, the person could have been having been going to
Starting point is 00:06:53 the necessity to stop. And what is just when one, you know, is an athlete of a
Starting point is 00:06:57 high-rendment and you know know what is that is a story that after is a story that after
Starting point is 00:07:03 is a bandera of a health mental. And that I love because if we'd have to be able to contain in our various options at the
Starting point is 00:07:13 same time and not go to get us not going to be always always right, right, right, right,
Starting point is 00:07:19 it's like, I'm a athlete of high-reendiment and can't me. I'm going to the Olympics and
Starting point is 00:07:25 say, this is too, it's too does, it's all the both things, but why not?
Starting point is 00:07:31 Until you you're to runpas. Because, a who? entretien, to who's
Starting point is 00:07:34 it's a time? Now, this is an apology of, ah, the job,
Starting point is 00:07:40 we're going to be able to work, we're going to do you, no, no, no, no. It's an
Starting point is 00:07:43 apology of the health. It's a apology to, we going to look at
Starting point is 00:07:48 that that's a configuration exact, that me has a happy, content,
Starting point is 00:07:53 satisfied, that my body, that my mind, that my mind, that I'm, that I'm,
Starting point is 00:07:58 that I'm, that I'm that I'm that I'm that I'm in the mornings without without
Starting point is 00:08:05 without, because at the more I'm going to a little bit of a little bit with the I'm,
Starting point is 00:08:11 that I'm can't read me when it's conducent, that I'm that I'm that I'm parted with
Starting point is 00:08:16 my family. That's what we should we're going to not say, ah, it's a privilege,
Starting point is 00:08:21 if you have those things that I've said, that's a thing, that should be that's a
Starting point is 00:08:26 not that and it's and it's and it was a projection because all we
Starting point is 00:08:31 we're critic us, we're what we're thinking into us. So, as we're, as we're a problem,
Starting point is 00:08:37 as a period, it's evidently, so, only in a crisis you can't runeer and you can't say, a lot.
Starting point is 00:08:43 She put a little after the crisis. That's like we're going to have to have to have been the attack of panic,
Starting point is 00:08:49 no? Ah, then is valid. So, so, so, but we're doing what we have to
Starting point is 00:08:55 we're doing the regals, that I'm the reason, that I'm a better emergency, no can't
Starting point is 00:09:00 par, until that I have an emergency. Only a emergency justifies that you say,
Starting point is 00:09:04 I'm not a unrar my health, I'm going to get to be able to get to be able to that. That's not
Starting point is 00:09:10 not very seen. No, not is very different. And so it different, a little
Starting point is 00:09:16 expressions. But it would be a mean to say that only he's a one of two because
Starting point is 00:09:21 is a woman, no? The tristesse feminine and the stress masculine is not there.
Starting point is 00:09:26 That's a good question. If we about of neurochimica and we're about about. They're exactly
Starting point is 00:09:33 exactly equal. They're the same centers cerebrale. They're the same
Starting point is 00:09:36 substances involved. If we're about there have variations. If we about
Starting point is 00:09:42 expectative cultural, totally distinct. And there you see a data
Starting point is 00:09:47 interesting, no, because in essence biologic, the emotion of the tristesa is
Starting point is 00:09:51 the same for the two. There's five emotions basic.
Starting point is 00:09:55 Yeah, all us, and asco or desagrado. All the five. All the series humans and, of the animals,
Starting point is 00:10:04 we're actually, all the mammophers, our cat, also those are exactly the same. And the tristesse, we experimented because there's a
Starting point is 00:10:11 pernida, because there something that a little to get a to get to and to be to be a
Starting point is 00:10:18 energy. That's the tristesse. The tristesse is the necessity of the person to a problem
Starting point is 00:10:22 important, a perdi important, to get to get to get to conchita and
Starting point is 00:10:28 And to feel and permit and to you can't do something, to teach to leave, etc., etc. That is an experience universal. Homs and women's and women, we're exactly equal. But, we're going to take, for example, a man.
Starting point is 00:10:42 Probably you know, I know, the majority of the men, we know, we've been cultivated to think that the tristesse is vulnerable. It's debilitating. The truthness put the woman in a position of a
Starting point is 00:10:56 bad competitivity in a position of risk in a position to be a victim to a more of other men
Starting point is 00:11:03 more of more than a society inclement or of a perguenza or descarnio fuf
Starting point is 00:11:10 occultal and transform it in other our emotion of election is the enoho
Starting point is 00:11:16 almost we're in enojo now now the woman for disgrace or for
Starting point is 00:11:23 fortune, well, it's cultivated and socialized in a way way different.
Starting point is 00:11:28 For her also the tristesse is vulnerable. And for her also the and it
Starting point is 00:11:33 sometimes is a bad and the society also is very fey with the
Starting point is 00:11:38 woman. Also, it's he said, hangate the because you have a
Starting point is 00:11:43 function to do, because you're a because you're the sustain of this family
Starting point is 00:11:48 at level emotional, because you're the pegament. Also, also also he's much in
Starting point is 00:11:52 car. But it like it's more admitted. There's there are groups that
Starting point is 00:12:02 are being very satisfied with to think that the woman has to be a
Starting point is 00:12:08 misrised, for example. Sumisa and devil to be so much of the discourse
Starting point is 00:12:13 continue saying, well, if you are so you don't not because
Starting point is 00:12:17 someone will be a person to a person to a protect
Starting point is 00:12:20 you know but you can show as a kind of what I'm
Starting point is 00:12:28 what I'm what I'm saying I'm saying it's so I'm a signal natural of a body
Starting point is 00:12:33 that needs time to and get a time to get to all these things and repressions
Starting point is 00:12:41 probably if I'm put the sombero the sombrino what I'm to
Starting point is 00:12:44 say here is repression what the culture is to repriming the
Starting point is 00:12:49 Tristesse for motives different and of forms different. But, yeah, the tristesse is
Starting point is 00:12:54 a emotion very inconvenient of a problem. Because I'll repeat it. Obligue
Starting point is 00:12:58 to stop, to make a pause, to pay a help too. You know, the
Starting point is 00:13:02 that's would be to be to be to be our group and express with our
Starting point is 00:13:08 character, that we that's that we have the language verbal, this is
Starting point is 00:13:13 what we we're we're doing, and turn the sejas, back
Starting point is 00:13:17 the book, manned a single unequivocal to the group
Starting point is 00:13:19 and the people, and if the things were the work, the group would be
Starting point is 00:13:25 and you know, and there I'm to say, there's a difference. It's
Starting point is 00:13:30 much more probably statistically that a group of women to get to a
Starting point is 00:13:36 woman to be to and ask to how is and how it
Starting point is 00:13:40 and how it's that a group of women is probably that a
Starting point is 00:13:45 group of of a person is a person's, if a man is a really, if a man
Starting point is 00:13:50 probably is probably will be a person who are to be able to say to say to make a man,
Starting point is 00:13:55 you know, you're going, you're a little something, you know, is much more than
Starting point is 00:14:00 how times you've been that you have occurred to you, that a group of people that's
Starting point is 00:14:04 a group of people of people of people of people of people to ask you to ask you
Starting point is 00:14:09 you're you're I'm, you know, I'm, I'm, I'm of the error.
Starting point is 00:14:16 Only a man very very that's a lot of that's really in
Starting point is 00:14:20 contact with his emotions. Yeah, I do I'm a group of people of people who
Starting point is 00:14:23 do you do that. Right. Right. Because during almost my life
Starting point is 00:14:27 not was so that no, you know, the immense majority no, the no,
Starting point is 00:14:33 no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
Starting point is 00:14:36 like, we're, we're we're like, since the license for, to express
Starting point is 00:14:41 our more than, we're we're we're you, cackety and resolve. Be productive.
Starting point is 00:14:47 Cair you do it. A woman is going to the same. The woman has changed so the
Starting point is 00:14:53 thing has changed. The woman has to have been the license to be asking help? For the dynamics
Starting point is 00:15:02 that we're living now? I think that license never there never never. I think
Starting point is 00:15:07 what there was a place a group secure, a something. I mean, something
Starting point is 00:15:12 is that Any, any person, a woman, he will cost to express a question, the way of
Starting point is 00:15:18 whether it's not, if no, there's a group that's not, there's a group and they're in, and they're doing. And I think
Starting point is 00:15:36 we're not, because here there's a grave error, that's a group replicando until the day of today.
Starting point is 00:15:42 If we have to the paleolitical, if the men we're not a great
Starting point is 00:15:47 necessity to get to be a very unostenable for the old
Starting point is 00:15:53 to be to be to be people, to be to not you family,
Starting point is 00:15:57 to be to be to be another other other other to be
Starting point is 00:16:01 much care because also also those most men
Starting point is 00:16:05 with those you can robes you robart resources
Starting point is 00:16:09 could robart space, they'd robart family. So, always
Starting point is 00:16:14 there was to have to this kind of aspect, aggerridden, competent, and
Starting point is 00:16:19 the and forth to make a not you metas. It was in that then
Starting point is 00:16:24 for the needs that for the time in the time in the time,
Starting point is 00:16:30 about, many years after years after we're going to continue
Starting point is 00:16:34 being being being to be be concerned because any man can be a competitor.
Starting point is 00:16:39 You can be a competitor. Here I'm here I'm to show me to show me to show me to get me
Starting point is 00:16:44 yeah, man, just it's all right so it was a lot that's those needs
Starting point is 00:16:49 were very relevantes but the women not the so much and then so
Starting point is 00:16:53 equality of opportunities also also also implicate equality of
Starting point is 00:16:58 demandas and me and I think terribly unrater insist
Starting point is 00:17:02 because the woman still being submitted today, to double jobs,
Starting point is 00:17:08 dobles efforts in house, in the office. And you said, well, is that the conditions have been obligated
Starting point is 00:17:13 in a world in the women in the women are in the numbers to their families and to the
Starting point is 00:17:19 families, and then, but they have to be like, to be a world of women,
Starting point is 00:17:25 to be able to be the pass to codasos between men. There are there
Starting point is 00:17:30 stories of terror. I mean I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm
Starting point is 00:17:31 I'm I'm to think, no, no, now it's a world of
Starting point is 00:17:35 men. There are many many there are many people. A me is a man that are you
Starting point is 00:17:40 a reality fantastic, defending points that not they don't so I can not know
Starting point is 00:17:48 I can't give you know, but I hearerer all the days in my questions.
Starting point is 00:17:56 The reality is that are the infaties in certain corporations great corporations. So, corporations
Starting point is 00:18:02 of grand number, right? Because not only they're not only are done
Starting point is 00:18:06 that's the that's the that's not that's not there's the person more than the person
Starting point is 00:18:12 more and woman that's not would be the problem the problem continues
Starting point is 00:18:16 the the question a through the power because you're
Starting point is 00:18:20 a woman for your body for your character for your beauty because I
Starting point is 00:18:26 can't I'm I'm I'm I'm because I can't do you
Starting point is 00:18:29 because you don't do you're probably you have to ascend. And if you just you're going to say that
Starting point is 00:18:37 you're going to do you're because what you're good little you're going to get the catawatt and to me that's not
Starting point is 00:18:44 that's really that's all the days, all the time. Now, moving to the time of to start
Starting point is 00:18:50 working, working and producing, when we we're workaholics or workaholics what is what
Starting point is 00:18:56 we're doing we're trying to adorme or to doorme when we're doing, just,
Starting point is 00:19:02 working, working, being productive, and only we're not we're seeing men, we're
Starting point is 00:19:06 not really, we're doing, in the measure in what we're we're doing, to give us, to give us, to what
Starting point is 00:19:13 we're doing, what we're what we're what we're to be, the, or, to do we're to be able to
Starting point is 00:19:21 be a person, but in general, I'd say, I'd say, I'd say, I'd say, I'd be, a feeling
Starting point is 00:19:25 that, not, to be or be stroped to not be sufficiently good. A fear persistent
Starting point is 00:19:33 of that if you were more, you'd more. Could you access to acceder to
Starting point is 00:19:43 ascending in scales major of success, could you have more resources, could you
Starting point is 00:19:47 have less difficulties. There's there much fear too of disillusioned,
Starting point is 00:19:52 of deceptioner. Deception to our parents, that they's for
Starting point is 00:19:57 our career, to our students, deception to our family, that's a person, to beckon
Starting point is 00:20:02 to get to a new person, there's much a much fear of deception. A my father
Starting point is 00:20:07 he costed the life, Marco, a my father to cost the life to the
Starting point is 00:20:11 masculinity of the what? What? My father was my father's married to
Starting point is 00:20:15 the six and because although it was a great type and not a
Starting point is 00:20:21 man, it was a man of the that only it was recognized to us
Starting point is 00:20:26 himself as he a way my father only serve for the work.
Starting point is 00:20:31 The thing is a character that's a characteristica in my family. All the
Starting point is 00:20:36 world is a person. He had also also also. I'm
Starting point is 00:20:41 so I'm much times writing with me saying me, when I get
Starting point is 00:20:45 Jorge, we're to do you say so I'm saying so I'm saying I'm
Starting point is 00:20:51 my father, that was that you know? What? So it was, that he'd very bad, not did
Starting point is 00:20:56 exercise, fumable like a whole time, because all the time was preoccupied for the money, for the
Starting point is 00:21:02 business, for the economy, for all the time. So, first he does hemisema
Starting point is 00:21:08 pulmonar. And then then as a consequence of that's to have problems of sanguineo
Starting point is 00:21:14 into the case, he has a problem of acerosclorosis, engrosamient of the heartaries,
Starting point is 00:21:19 blah, blah, and he gets a symptoms of dementia that we don't we didn't
Starting point is 00:21:23 we're a confusion with depression and anxiety but not the the story about the man not could conceivice
Starting point is 00:21:30 as he himself as someone who had to get to get to get to the to get to get to
Starting point is 00:21:36 not he was a person who not produced that no he was not could and the promise
Starting point is 00:21:42 of when me retire we're going to never never came because one he did
Starting point is 00:21:45 a he did a infart and he did a So this model of rendiment to ultranza in which an woman not is productive,
Starting point is 00:21:56 he costed the life to my father. And me cost to me to get me without him without my 15 years. I'm sorry. I'd like much, thank you. I'd like much that you'd be necessary.
Starting point is 00:22:08 Because then I've knew another model of masculinity very different, which was my son, of my wife, I've always always.
Starting point is 00:22:13 I know my spouse at the 22 years and of this man, that is capable of to be able to to get us to get a
Starting point is 00:22:19 to get a and say, and then you get a little and say, oh, George, with the voice,
Starting point is 00:22:25 and is capable to give us but at the time, look at the same time, and make a thing that
Starting point is 00:22:31 this combination marvellousousa, this combination of suavit, of a carieue, and so, not, these are
Starting point is 00:22:41 these of the night, out of the night, this. It was a combination perfect
Starting point is 00:22:48 of carino with order. So, sure, my son- was made my second
Starting point is 00:22:54 father and I'm in the skin in the skin in the question. He was not more
Starting point is 00:23:02 than my better than my father. Only, I would say, my son was a
Starting point is 00:23:05 man more actual. And my father was a man more atormentado
Starting point is 00:23:13 for what suppose that has to be a good provider. And it was a
Starting point is 00:23:18 probeer fantastic. I'm I'm would be a day to say he's
Starting point is 00:23:22 all right all right so don't you know you know you're going to let's do let's do
Starting point is 00:23:28 let's let's a let's learn a book we're going to tell me stories of the
Starting point is 00:23:33 war civil of Spain and tell me stories no I'm talkicam
Starting point is 00:23:37 no poor all the time atormentated for no I'm
Starting point is 00:23:40 no I'm I'm I can't I can't It's a horror, no? If they were two systems operatives completely different.
Starting point is 00:23:49 Yes, my son and my father, yes. Very good men, those two, eh? So, of really, very good. My father was a
Starting point is 00:23:53 caballero. It was of these men, he said, you're the woman. That's, my papa, that, of the I was on a
Starting point is 00:24:00 man caballieroso that he'd cut a rosas of his garden and he'd and he'd let me ama and prepare
Starting point is 00:24:05 the day. A man manousous and amable and and simpatic and hisueue and charismatic but
Starting point is 00:24:11 rigid. And with a obligation enormous to be productive and exitoso and to provide. There's a number impensable
Starting point is 00:24:20 of persons that don't have sufficient resources for to survive. That's just they're doing. So,
Starting point is 00:24:26 they're doing to do you say, I'm going to say, I'm going to go to some I'm going to
Starting point is 00:24:35 go to my consultory but I'm all the day but when I'm going to go in the coach and
Starting point is 00:24:39 I'm and I see the part of the buses, At how many hours he took a
Starting point is 00:24:45 person to get to your job? And for when he got it, you know, two or three hours in the
Starting point is 00:24:51 transport, he's a risked to you or they're aftar. Yeah, maduged, no desaluned,
Starting point is 00:24:57 he, he's assinated, spaces terrible, a transport public, espantoso, and on
Starting point is 00:25:04 it's got to run- because he's fear. As my my grand friend, David,
Starting point is 00:25:09 Pastor Biko, is very difficult to do philosophy with a right. So,
Starting point is 00:25:13 they're they're thinking to they're they're in this level of suffering they're not
Starting point is 00:25:19 even they're thinking that they're not even that's what you say, moveete
Starting point is 00:25:24 even if you you're you're even if you make sure you're going to do you're
Starting point is 00:25:30 supervien supervience supervien supervience that that now it's become
Starting point is 00:25:36 in a time to you have you have to have to you're to have
Starting point is 00:25:40 I remember one of the moments in therapy more powerful that I've been in my life was when my therapist to a woman
Starting point is 00:25:46 I know what I'm what I'm what I'm a bit of me to be me to be my eyes
Starting point is 00:25:53 and I want to me go and I think you think you you know you
Starting point is 00:25:59 know you you're a more even you know you don't think you
Starting point is 00:26:03 don't produce you don't don't don't salves to
Starting point is 00:26:08 nobody if you and I remember that I put to worry. For sure. Because never
Starting point is 00:26:13 me had done that reflection. I felt that my value was a 100
Starting point is 00:26:20 to live to make to produce and to be useful for someone more and to be a
Starting point is 00:26:27 something and I said, if you have done that you know, no.
Starting point is 00:26:33 No. And he said we're going to be to talk in that all
Starting point is 00:26:37 the stories that me you want to you do you
Starting point is 00:26:39 do you to show to show to the world to the life, a God,
Starting point is 00:26:44 to your mom, a your life. You know, you're doing to do you
Starting point is 00:26:49 do you and you do that's clear. And if was like an epiphany an
Starting point is 00:26:57 an before. For so I always I think the therapy is a great.
Starting point is 00:27:03 With a good therapy, with a very good well, yes, but And what beautiful is the therapy.
Starting point is 00:27:08 It's beautiful. Yes, because I did I, a carrie. So I remember that, I'm going to be a project where you're going to do a lot, no-importance,
Starting point is 00:27:18 an amor no-conditional to your exit or to your productivity. Oh, passing to other the theme, the thing of the individualism
Starting point is 00:27:26 and the love modern. For one is very positive that we know, we're going to learn to be able to
Starting point is 00:27:32 not need to a person more. But in what moment we're We started to cross the raleigh-a between
Starting point is 00:27:38 amarn us and be able to to be able to be vulnerable and be with someone we're doing that we're doing that. In the moment
Starting point is 00:27:48 in the that's that we don't exist a a party incomoda there is the point in the
Starting point is 00:27:55 point in the point in the point in the point in the point in the point in the point we're we can't
Starting point is 00:28:00 a power to a problem that not is difficult that not require a certain friction, that no require affination,
Starting point is 00:28:07 that no requires equilibrium. There, because then we're in the fantasia infantile, because is a fantasy infantil, to
Starting point is 00:28:14 create that exists a form of life in where I am going to stress, not me going to complicate,
Starting point is 00:28:21 I'm going to live in peace, no, it's going to be to do you're to be
Starting point is 00:28:25 my dreams, my desires, my things, as I'm like I want,
Starting point is 00:28:31 I'm going to do my expectations and dreams, as those I want, as I do you those
Starting point is 00:28:35 designe, as me like them or for example when I have been a series
Starting point is 00:28:40 of demand, efforts, then then for fin I'm able to make to love, to the
Starting point is 00:28:47 love, to the family. And this is a very because, because, I'm sure,
Starting point is 00:28:54 no exist a relationship, carinousas, sympathetic, very satisfactory. There are relations that do you
Starting point is 00:29:03 we pass re-being, and I see that the best of a person is accompanied.
Starting point is 00:29:09 I don't know it for romantic, but it's not the evidence. The evidence scientific is
Starting point is 00:29:16 contundentent in this respect. The evidence scientific is that there's that there's the
Starting point is 00:29:23 health emotional. And none of all of all has to be
Starting point is 00:29:26 directly with therapy. The first pillar of the health emotional
Starting point is 00:29:30 are the vincul interpersonals, of quality, preferably a pairha, but also they're also, they're both,
Starting point is 00:29:39 amist, and family, and quads, also, also, also, but for much a relation of a
Starting point is 00:29:46 relationship, is still the day of the day of the day of the reina of the different personal and say,
Starting point is 00:29:52 saludable. Saludable. Saludable. A lot. A lot. A relation of a relationship,
Starting point is 00:29:56 a couple. A male. That is can be, if they exist. and if they can do that's with a good
Starting point is 00:30:03 communication I'm going to I'm in I'm trying to the cynism modern that says, no,
Starting point is 00:30:08 the love romantic is a mental and you have to abolish it. The love romantic
Starting point is 00:30:14 can be of the things that has been also that was that was that was a
Starting point is 00:30:19 little like we know, like we know, like we like we we're
Starting point is 00:30:25 like we not the little so it's there was not it was not was very good
Starting point is 00:30:30 idea. And the crisis of soledad that we're living in the era of the time modern, does know, and the data are right to the audience, to look to us.
Starting point is 00:30:39 We're in a crisis of soledat. People of 30 and 40 years, no has been a couple of long and they're sitting solos and they're
Starting point is 00:30:48 isolated and not is that is a bad what we're doing. But, well, that's a markable. But let's
Starting point is 00:30:54 one thing, the amor, the amoromomartic is temporal caduca. It's the is the true love. Depend.
Starting point is 00:30:59 You have to build the realerable after the attraction initial precious, the mariposites and all.
Starting point is 00:31:05 But why that's not not could be romantic? Because the love real, the the end up
Starting point is 00:31:10 the enaboration, or what in English is called infatuation or the infatuation. Why can be romantic? Or you can
Starting point is 00:31:16 play the romance? For suppose. You know, you know, the fact, you have to have to
Starting point is 00:31:22 a cliche and a mentira fabulosa that the men are enamorados, we say to our
Starting point is 00:31:27 spouses every day. You're the woman most her most a woman. A minute
Starting point is 00:31:34 a tremendous. Because I'm say a thing. For me, my my wife is the
Starting point is 00:31:40 woman and I don't know without any empacho. 30 years, almost
Starting point is 00:31:44 with her 22 casted with her. I'm don't know without any end much.
Starting point is 00:31:49 But also I'd be a idiot to be that you think you no
Starting point is 00:31:52 a woman on a because my my woman, because of the like if she
Starting point is 00:31:56 said she is the wuerito you're the wuerito well. Well, there's a brat p. well, I mean,
Starting point is 00:32:03 there's a form. No? But so, but so so you see to see you. Exactly. When I liens to
Starting point is 00:32:08 your perrito too, oh, you're the real and what's the person. And what's it's a
Starting point is 00:32:14 moor to get oxytocin to the way and then so it's what to do you. Well, that's what we're the
Starting point is 00:32:20 other that's the woman most of the world. You adore. I don't I would
Starting point is 00:32:24 have been without you. That's beautiful. The fact is that I can't
Starting point is 00:32:26 be sure. I'm the woman more more than you. I'm the thing that's with the
Starting point is 00:32:32 intention, with sentiment, she or he has a great that a series of substances that make
Starting point is 00:32:39 a magic neurophysi that is the enganche. So, so he so poin' exactly,
Starting point is 00:32:46 the desire. And you do I'm always I'm going renovating the desire. I'm
Starting point is 00:32:52 not so I'm not so or not, like the aburriment and the routine is impone over the couple.
Starting point is 00:32:57 The remedy against the aburriment and the routine is the desire. It's record that that person that you
Starting point is 00:33:06 is the person that you, has a new, that's a new thing that's a contact every time you're you're
Starting point is 00:33:13 you, you'reas, you, you'reas, you accurucas. But, but,
Starting point is 00:33:18 that's, it implies to go to the love. And that's romantic of a madres,
Starting point is 00:33:25 no? Super romantic, but you know, but you know, but what's a good game. It's very
Starting point is 00:33:29 good. But in a change, is to assume that the relationship of a couple of a lot of
Starting point is 00:33:34 a lot of this, oh, yeah, yeah, no, because we're we're not there's a
Starting point is 00:33:42 phrase, there's a question, there's a thing, there's a question, there's
Starting point is 00:33:47 I'm not you're not really problems abstracts for methods concretes,
Starting point is 00:33:51 and vice versa. Is that if I have hungry, no there no idea no idea there's enough
Starting point is 00:33:56 that I'm to make the world not a love, I'm going to need to eat to eat
Starting point is 00:34:02 work, I need need to work, I need to materiality but the love the love
Starting point is 00:34:07 of the love of the self-estim the self-o the thing,
Starting point is 00:34:11 the purpose of it can it's no matter how you do no matter the
Starting point is 00:34:15 the things you know never you never you
Starting point is 00:34:18 never can the of the medium material. So what happens? When you have a thing marvellousa like the love
Starting point is 00:34:26 and the relation of a pair of and you're you're going to you've seen this stupidness of the women and the women of
Starting point is 00:34:33 the other. That's put one on the other and then then if I do so you do so you do you have to
Starting point is 00:34:39 do you get a stupid negotiation like if we're just we're trying tamletes tamas.
Starting point is 00:34:45 No manches it's it's amor is reciprocity how we're to put the same in the
Starting point is 00:34:50 mess. But at the way of the not you not the naturalness of the same matrimonial
Starting point is 00:34:56 not the kind of a transaction? No, you know, they get necessarily there. If you're
Starting point is 00:35:02 in a life, then it's other thing, but you're to get to do you know, you know, you know,
Starting point is 00:35:08 you know, you know, you know, to complicate the separation. It's the only that is the matrimor.
Starting point is 00:35:13 It's complicate the separation, no? If you you're in a relation without
Starting point is 00:35:17 a matrimonio, without paper, since ritual, because, oh, we're talking
Starting point is 00:35:21 here at the paper, but there's a lot of people who think in the ritual religious.
Starting point is 00:35:25 Yes, no, for a question. You can't be said a religion, me cased for,
Starting point is 00:35:31 the religion, me caste and all people always me have asked, but for
Starting point is 00:35:34 what the people? Because me it's incredible to do a ritual in the in the
Starting point is 00:35:39 family, your family, there's a figure religious that is a potent for
Starting point is 00:35:44 some and there a ceremony in where you say, I promise to love
Starting point is 00:35:49 and respect you're and respectate during all the life. That's a promise
Starting point is 00:35:57 of honor I'm I'm what you you're not only only a time
Starting point is 00:36:02 is the dignity to your stature as a human so so someone
Starting point is 00:36:08 can say me what you are you're what you think if
Starting point is 00:36:10 we're a more this world this world would would
Starting point is 00:36:14 have an institution, that not had a father or a mother fictitious to force you to do not do not the only pleasure of
Starting point is 00:36:26 a good person, everything, all then I'm going to your question, pardon, because I have a much direction. Yes,
Starting point is 00:36:32 there's a question, we have to be parted, so there's a but how do those repartes from the envidia,
Starting point is 00:36:41 from the angustia, from the ego, from the property, or from the of the good to share.
Starting point is 00:36:47 A one a whole oya, Mark. A one one where I go to
Starting point is 00:36:50 put all my resources and you going to put all your and you and you're to do
Starting point is 00:36:54 that this does to make a to do that it. Ah, is different. That's
Starting point is 00:37:00 I'm to be protecting my time. And you your time.
Starting point is 00:37:03 You can not you don't you're to get to be to to get
Starting point is 00:37:07 to be to to be to to keep to to I'm oh, that
Starting point is 00:37:11 that's that I'm that I'm I do think in the amor maduro and I think
Starting point is 00:37:15 in the romantic and I think it's important to rescat it's important that's individuality.
Starting point is 00:37:44 So I'm used to say. So, turbo individuality. A bit elaborate in that.
Starting point is 00:37:47 The individuality is a good. It's a socialological. The human has to individualize
Starting point is 00:37:52 a point. A man. A man who has got got to be separated to the
Starting point is 00:37:55 parents when is adult. That's not got to be able to be to be to see
Starting point is 00:38:01 to see the same to make the things that caner generate life and not
Starting point is 00:38:05 murder. To make what he produces results of the
Starting point is 00:38:09 of the good of suffering is a person that has a person who
Starting point is 00:38:15 has a person that continues a little bit more a manned a mediator in the person to somebody to make
Starting point is 00:38:22 to the person. But if you do you this proece is because you've you're doing
Starting point is 00:38:27 you're I'm and a whole for all the question to who's to us
Starting point is 00:38:33 to all of all of the but for the least you know you know you know you
Starting point is 00:38:37 know you're that's When I am, he's the other with the other with O-ma-ma-scula,
Starting point is 00:38:46 that is this person, this figure philosophic of all those who we're all the then there
Starting point is 00:38:53 is when it you are an accessory for my projects. You are only a fin
Starting point is 00:39:02 for that I do me really, you know you are a person, an entity of the
Starting point is 00:39:08 which I obtain, gozo, vincul, interest, and a through the which I'm because this
Starting point is 00:39:16 is the this is the chiste. I don't me I'm because you see,
Starting point is 00:39:22 because you interactuas with me because you me devuelves a sonrisa or no, because you
Starting point is 00:39:27 have a conversation with me or no, because you reactionas because you can
Starting point is 00:39:32 you. And so I'm so I mean I I exist. No. It's different to say, exist, I'm reconnoxed. Exist. I exist. I exist because I exist because I'm nassi. I exist because I'm
Starting point is 00:39:46 arrojured there. Because I have principles, values, because I have a life. But me recognize there in the interaction with you, in the interaction with you, in the way you devolves things. Or could you devolver me things different? Jorge, this no me liked. Jorge, for
Starting point is 00:40:01 favor, this do do the way different. Jorge, this was
Starting point is 00:40:04 incomodo. Ah, you know, what do you know, that's a favor, what I'm
Starting point is 00:40:10 doing this I'm there's a turbo individuality saying, the other no value.
Starting point is 00:40:16 Valgo I. And my intentions and my desires, you are an
Starting point is 00:40:21 accessory for that I do you do you do. It's we're we're
Starting point is 00:40:25 living a one a time in the form in the form of
Starting point is 00:40:30 the and how we we're in the way we're doing that the love
Starting point is 00:40:35 is so important as it's so in the car being in the car being in the carer, put you the mask
Starting point is 00:40:41 first and then the next the first time. So we know that we know our ourselves is the first
Starting point is 00:40:46 before to love to love to be but where we put us the ral
Starting point is 00:40:51 between the love and the lack of capacity of connection
Starting point is 00:40:57 profound and vulnerable with or another else, I don't I don't know who said,
Starting point is 00:41:03 but they're saying that the love is to be a and then to give a other person the other person
Starting point is 00:41:09 the other and then to be able to and then to be able to be it. Begissimo. Because it's
Starting point is 00:41:16 here I'm I'm going to I'm just. Nothing to adder. Here's I'm not to come in
Starting point is 00:41:21 that you're to run per the car. But you you're doing all the things. So,
Starting point is 00:41:26 so it's that's interesting no? That's interesting. Yeah, where where we We put a raleet between the
Starting point is 00:41:31 love and the that's a way to be a pretext to not connectar and not be able to guarantee that not
Starting point is 00:41:39 me run for the because it's the frugated that they're in the point in the you know, in the point
Starting point is 00:41:46 that you're that existir, that being human is frixionart that, that being human is exist in the
Starting point is 00:41:52 conflict, that being is to be to to be that they're going to be able to that they're
Starting point is 00:41:59 to say, No, that they're to rechazzar. No, it's not what good that's but they're
Starting point is 00:42:03 to be to be able to accept, if you do you're a moment in the moment in
Starting point is 00:42:07 we're to get to be that all that's personal, that all what is
Starting point is 00:42:13 a fron that's a thing, that all that's because the world that's
Starting point is 00:42:16 because the mind that the world a world, a good a question, a cario that no
Starting point is 00:42:25 to be. The Deve the recognition of your dignity Yes, you debe the recognition
Starting point is 00:42:30 of your autonomy, you know, the recognition of your liberty. Of course, not it's
Starting point is 00:42:36 like you do you know, and the other than the people we're what I do you know
Starting point is 00:42:42 to be to be to be to be to be a person. That horror, that's
Starting point is 00:42:48 that's terrible. That's terrible. Because, well, I mean, I'm
Starting point is 00:42:52 know, I'm don't know, I'm know, That we'll tell us. Look, I'll tell you
Starting point is 00:42:56 a story rapidism. That's not a level spiritual, we know, no, no,
Starting point is 00:43:01 no, I know. My father had a one was when they were when I went to
Starting point is 00:43:06 and my mother, 40. In 1997 five, five, for when they're
Starting point is 00:43:12 so, yeah, you know, you know, you know, you know, what, but what's,
Starting point is 00:43:18 what, so they're not, so they're so they're so there don't, don't know,
Starting point is 00:43:20 Oh, that great surprise. They're going to be able to, you know, that's when you when you're doing thinking that the rhythm is all. Well, in fin. And I,
Starting point is 00:43:28 and I, I'm going to, no? We're going to abortartart. Oh, man, I'm going to I'm going to,
Starting point is 00:43:36 I'm going to get to the age in the that my father said, you're going to have to have a
Starting point is 00:43:42 other child. No, no, I'm not, no, no, but now, imagine it,
Starting point is 00:43:47 the 50, 551. It's, but But, for other other other other
Starting point is 00:43:51 I said I'm okay, but I'm thank you're going to the factina someone would say to somebody would say to
Starting point is 00:44:11 you fascin to be able, because you're a lot of my response. I mean, it's ominous and terrible, but it's marvellous. The word debitas comes of, I received something, so I have to
Starting point is 00:44:29 give other thing, a change. What kind of would be that we'd have a better with the progimo, with the other, just for exist, in other than to start thinking, the world me debe to me. And then,
Starting point is 00:44:44 I'm offending for all, me lastimed for all, me nojo for and I'm sorry that's always I'm sorry that's not that's a bit of that's not
Starting point is 00:44:52 that's a more and I'm like I'm in I'm sorry I'm sorry that I'm think it's terrible I'm
Starting point is 00:45:00 it's a problem and I think there's that there's there's a love proper is the self
Starting point is 00:45:06 of your dignity and your value for the simple of existir without no matter
Starting point is 00:45:11 what you do you don't know what you workes no matter what you you getas you
Starting point is 00:45:15 the autoestim is another beastia. The autoestim is another thing totally different. The autoestim is how you put that you to work to
Starting point is 00:45:22 to get to the person that ideally can be. And the autoestim is so, look, you know, you're gonna
Starting point is 00:45:29 you're gonna and then the autoestim and then the little bit more little bit. And that's the life.
Starting point is 00:45:34 It's a little, it's aggrat and you're, and you're, but your value inerent not you can't
Starting point is 00:45:38 take anybody. And even even even even they they're like if they're like
Starting point is 00:45:44 I'm talking of abuses. I'm talking of things grave. But in reality when you think you think you
Starting point is 00:45:49 can't get to that dignity. Yeah, no, there's more than to accept. Here I'm. Here's to be.
Starting point is 00:45:55 Why? Why? Why? I'm, why? I'm, I'm, because I'm going to do. I'm going to do.
Starting point is 00:46:02 And I'm to bring, so, it's a problem it's a thing, it's a thing of a problem
Starting point is 00:46:06 to accept and to do you and to what is. Because it's the only is and
Starting point is 00:46:11 no, I'm can't to change. And from there then I can build. Sure.
Starting point is 00:46:16 No, no, there's a story alternative where is distinct. It's what is. They're not,
Starting point is 00:46:20 that there's there's other dimensions where there various Jorghs and various Marcos,
Starting point is 00:46:23 there's living things. Yes, but for me is irrelevant. I live in the third dimension.
Starting point is 00:46:29 I'm living in the third dimension and I'm just irrelevant. In other reality, I'm not really,
Starting point is 00:46:34 I'm a dream, being, that's a book, you're beautiful, you know, the
Starting point is 00:46:39 person, the masculinity as a way more than the other than and the
Starting point is 00:46:43 world of things and there's that's the bestriles to get to get to this episode
Starting point is 00:46:48 we're being a change great. Ser a man, today, 2026
Starting point is 00:46:53 that we're doing this episode, not is the same in 2005 or in the 80
Starting point is 00:46:58 or in the 70 or or in the 40 and also being being a woman
Starting point is 00:47:01 is very different and there there's a revolveder there very
Starting point is 00:47:06 interesting where there there there people who want to
Starting point is 00:47:09 have that are we're doing to the present and the future, but we're doing
Starting point is 00:47:16 to be the women, and also the women are doing what doing what's doing what's new role as
Starting point is 00:47:22 women. We're just are redefining the papers as well never in the history they've
Starting point is 00:47:27 been done to redefine correct? I think yeah, I think. Of that you know,
Starting point is 00:47:32 you know, you're not in your book? I'm a question, but no is where I'm
Starting point is 00:47:36 to say for me to be give me a long rato to to say to the men that's
Starting point is 00:47:43 so I'm this is a masculineity could be the most of the much of the way, so far far,
Starting point is 00:47:50 so, that's not to think that what you can aspire to to be a not to beinous, no,
Starting point is 00:47:57 not be toxic, at contrary. I think if you want to you're really a question of
Starting point is 00:48:02 a good for the world. But for that you need to what rations is the
Starting point is 00:48:06 masculinity because probably probably not is what you they were they're
Starting point is 00:48:09 probably not is dominion and status and competition to the and the gorilla
Starting point is 00:48:18 and so the gorilla it's a true of a lot of you know and the gorilla that's
Starting point is 00:48:32 a man macho alpha man, man, the most probable is that when you install this
Starting point is 00:48:37 system operative in your head, then you're going to start to feel. Satisfaction,
Starting point is 00:48:43 alagia, and the most beautiful of that you're a lot of because the men have a
Starting point is 00:48:47 time that we're that we're that we're we don't we're not we're not we
Starting point is 00:48:54 basically we'regams and now the we're just we're we're not and
Starting point is 00:48:59 that's not it also, that's not quite a good idea if it's
Starting point is 00:49:03 is generating problems emotional is is generating problems of
Starting point is 00:49:06 a very vinclusive. And in certain these groups reactionaries ultra-conservators, machosfer
Starting point is 00:49:13 and company, it may be a reaction very severe to that. A man, no is necessary,
Starting point is 00:49:21 a man, no me interests, you know, you know, you have the cause you
Starting point is 00:49:25 this is madre, then the really, the really, I'm interested that's being the opportunity,
Starting point is 00:49:30 all this groupito of resentidos, all this groupito of devilichos that what
Starting point is 00:49:37 they're not to get and not only the control, autoestim. They're
Starting point is 00:49:44 to sustain the self-estim to be a better to a no functioned.
Starting point is 00:49:50 No functioned before and for course still still still
Starting point is 00:49:52 still now but it's a model common is a model
Starting point is 00:49:58 simple. Now? A see there there has something and has
Starting point is 00:50:08 much of stupidness. Depend to the context. It's when no you're a signal
Starting point is 00:50:16 of templanza of equanimity of calm. And you know because you know you know you know
Starting point is 00:50:23 you know you know you can't you know to the regulation of your
Starting point is 00:50:28 emotions concentrate to you know when you have to when you have to
Starting point is 00:50:33 So, surely it's trained and you've practiced. So, so you're
Starting point is 00:50:38 not you're an instruction to maintain the calm, because this is a moment in the time in the
Starting point is 00:50:45 this is a moment in the because you have to protect a someone, because you have you
Starting point is 00:50:49 to give a response, it's a time, but it's so it's so it can't be
Starting point is 00:50:57 in, never you're never you're because you're doing because you're because you're
Starting point is 00:51:02 feminine because you're you're vulnerable because you're you're
Starting point is 00:51:05 you're it's it's not you know, in what we're in the
Starting point is 00:51:09 moment we're not not not you know, not not not
Starting point is 00:51:15 command of if you you're so you're you're you're
Starting point is 00:51:22 you know and it's terrible but probably probably
Starting point is 00:51:26 is a form very simple a through the people
Starting point is 00:51:29 were when people you, cabron, to maintain tempered so you're what you.
Starting point is 00:51:34 What we're what we. What we're not only is a update, but more language, more study,
Starting point is 00:51:42 more temperance, more calm to say where an emotion is convenient and where not.
Starting point is 00:51:49 But, of these cliches are repitient and these commands are transmitting to generation
Starting point is 00:51:55 and generation and of the point when a more for a mother to say to
Starting point is 00:51:59 a child, calmate. Generation trans generation, trans generation is a new. You're a nina if you're
Starting point is 00:52:05 no. Well, well, good business. No, we have to be much more intelligent
Starting point is 00:52:11 to make a change to the masculinity to be a betterer system of protection of the
Starting point is 00:52:18 life. That's that is what we're that's what we do you know? It's,
Starting point is 00:52:23 I don't see if for what we're not I'm I'm I'm saying that we
Starting point is 00:52:27 love. We're to protect the But what means to protect the
Starting point is 00:52:32 and the life? What is exactly what it's exactly a situation standard
Starting point is 00:52:37 that we have been heard of and regularly they're when I think you know,
Starting point is 00:52:43 the man no, the man no, it's not, no, it's that
Starting point is 00:52:48 the men, when they when are when they're not when they
Starting point is 00:52:51 are men, they're they in the person, and if we're
Starting point is 00:52:56 a situation has a much more ability than I for the task in question. We're going to suppose that my woman is much
Starting point is 00:53:04 more able for the businesses. We're going to my woman is much more able to do make a number,
Starting point is 00:53:09 to generate economy. You know what means to protect? Deharm me to tonteries and
Starting point is 00:53:14 try a place a place sure in where she can prosperer, in where she can be
Starting point is 00:53:18 in leader, in authority, and in force and I put on the mess the conditions for
Starting point is 00:53:25 that she not not to do it. For that she not have a
Starting point is 00:53:29 fear of all the what implic a force to be the four hundred
Starting point is 00:53:34 million the and the total with what that you do you that's
Starting point is 00:53:38 that you protect. Proteges that your kids can get to say
Starting point is 00:53:42 pa I don't get a idiot, you know you know you know
Starting point is 00:53:46 you're you're when you don't you don't never to be
Starting point is 00:53:49 to put to the things to put to your
Starting point is 00:53:53 you you How do you put the example? The kids have an urgency brutal
Starting point is 00:53:59 of that their parents those accoja and they're and they're to be to be strong.
Starting point is 00:54:07 To have power, but power to be a de very no? Poder
Starting point is 00:54:12 means I'm I'm I need my mission. Power signify
Starting point is 00:54:19 I have I'm I'm I'm I'm the children that the
Starting point is 00:54:23 parents let say, you can't. Why? Because you have your tools,
Starting point is 00:54:28 because you have your because I'm because I'm because I'm doing. That's the type of
Starting point is 00:54:36 masculinity that I'm, I don't want to do you know what is the problem of the
Starting point is 00:54:41 women moderns? You and we want to say it with all those letters. We're
Starting point is 00:54:46 men men people in a education superior. No me I'm
Starting point is 00:54:54 But I mean, we've gone to the school, we've gone to the university, probably we've been a postgrad, a master's, et cetera, et cetera. We've leased a lot. We've been a lot. It has to certain logic that we understand
Starting point is 00:55:07 all these things. But what what is with the human and current of those days that are there from those that we're described
Starting point is 00:55:15 at the first, those who don't have time to learn because they're over- those who were educated by the men of
Starting point is 00:55:20 the entire, those who really think that only they're a value for a function.
Starting point is 00:55:28 What is? So, they're not can't access to these values, not can access to
Starting point is 00:55:32 these there's there's a bogg much and is for the the
Starting point is 00:55:37 thing we we have, we I hope the people, I'm I'm going
Starting point is 00:55:41 this podcast, I'm I'm people, I'm that we're
Starting point is 00:55:45 doing this, we're doing we're we're doing, we're the people, and say
Starting point is 00:55:50 it's orangutan tarado basic, primitive and more be able to look at us and
Starting point is 00:55:57 ask us what are here. The feminism has done things marvellousas for the
Starting point is 00:56:05 human and for the society because the feminism was the first that said
Starting point is 00:56:09 this no function. The men need also also
Starting point is 00:56:14 that are doing that's so that those over this world that changed
Starting point is 00:56:21 we've been, we've got, some of us can't have, I have, I'm some conflicts with some precepts
Starting point is 00:56:31 of the feminism more modern, but that's a little like a Picasso and say, no me doesn't know
Starting point is 00:56:40 to not recognize, that is a genie, that's an great- to me not I'm
Starting point is 00:56:43 good, there are things that not I want, but it's a idiot to not
Starting point is 00:56:47 recognize that came the world I think that all the systems need
Starting point is 00:56:53 updates. All. Ditcho that, I think that now we're not we're
Starting point is 00:56:59 that we're to look at all the other people and say, and then and start
Starting point is 00:57:06 to influing in new generations, in new generations of the young and give
Starting point is 00:57:11 good good and be good and be people that can be
Starting point is 00:57:16 referent for them. There an orphaned brutal between the young of figures
Starting point is 00:57:21 masculine of quality and to you're in a machosphra to the videos of t-tok
Starting point is 00:57:27 absurdos that they're that they're that they're that they're they're because you have done
Starting point is 00:57:32 that you don't because they're not because you're in a that the value of a human has to be
Starting point is 00:57:49 to be able to how many people that's a cost of this stupid. No, no, but it's
Starting point is 00:57:52 that's his biology. Not those stupides. A bit, I'm I'm sure. I'm too
Starting point is 00:57:56 of those things. But there are the men who have the people who are the
Starting point is 00:58:02 people who are the people, because there's a response can't be good, you can't be
Starting point is 00:58:09 good, you can't be a woman to make a woman that you want to submissa
Starting point is 00:58:16 is a woman more feminine is a woman only a woman only is
Starting point is 00:58:21 feminine when it's a because you have to be the authority. And there
Starting point is 00:58:25 men orphans that are that they're that's that's that's not because
Starting point is 00:58:32 they're those not because they're not those were not the man who's
Starting point is 00:58:36 the man's the man who's ambe that's ambreated of
Starting point is 00:58:41 contact of a vincu of a man that he says a
Starting point is 00:58:45 way to be a a caballero for favor we need to you'll want to be you're in that's
Starting point is 00:58:49 you're going to get to get to get to you're going to you're going to not me
Starting point is 00:58:54 no me no you do you do you do this of the courtes
Starting point is 00:58:59 honorable servicial that always that's no it doesn't no
Starting point is 00:59:04 it doesn't no import who does do you that's that's responsibility that
Starting point is 00:59:09 is to to all the other people that have to say there's
Starting point is 00:59:14 there's a model better to start us burlling of them all the time in the
Starting point is 00:59:18 time to be people just that's not they're they're not they're let's get a call
Starting point is 00:59:24 let's get the money let's go to let's go to let's go to we're that we're
Starting point is 00:59:29 that we're we're talking we're talking to this we're we're we're going to we're
Starting point is 00:59:35 going to say a old. I mean it was an video in a internet the characteristics of a
Starting point is 00:59:40 good father are the characteristics of a good home. What are the turn.
Starting point is 00:59:45 Ternura, when it's necessary, but at the same time, authority, when you have to put
Starting point is 00:59:49 limits, the capacity to give a little bit of and say, I'm sure, you know, and you
Starting point is 00:59:56 have to have got more more than you, you're going to do you, I'm
Starting point is 01:00:02 the good is to bring a paradoja. Because it's a paradox, being a
Starting point is 01:00:07 a part of a matter, need to know when be soft and amable and carinoes
Starting point is 01:00:13 and when be a strong and confrontative that's a sort of a paradox that requires
Starting point is 01:00:20 to be in a vigilance continuals of the impulses, then when you're a bad
Starting point is 01:00:25 you, also you have that that's that you that's the time
Starting point is 01:00:31 not the love you does the does you're always the thing most
Starting point is 01:00:36 the most more. No, it's me You know, but... Ben for
Starting point is 01:00:42 here. We're going to a little more more than I'm pretty much and I'm but... Ben for
Starting point is 01:00:49 not the conditional of, if not are sufficiently good, then I'm not talking of that. I'm not
Starting point is 01:00:54 I'm talking of that's saying, I'm going to always the I'm always you know, but I need.
Starting point is 01:01:00 Because I need to teach you the world, I need to the world of the effort, I need to
Starting point is 01:01:04 the world of the world of the reason, the a man modern, not to tolerate the
Starting point is 01:01:08 rechazz. Like, like the women have to say, if you're good and good and exitoso
Starting point is 01:01:14 and you're oh, yeah, you're doing with me? No, there's a perr. What?
Starting point is 01:01:20 What? No. Nobody you know that they can't say that. Oh,
Starting point is 01:01:27 oh, it's part of the game. Who, you know? You're? No.
Starting point is 01:01:31 Oh, well, no. The thing of the machos was, I'm
Starting point is 01:01:36 fan of Star Wars. I can't avoid. Chocall it. That's all. That's all. Ooh.
Starting point is 01:01:41 Oh, you just not going to get to get to be going to see. I'm going to
Starting point is 01:01:45 see. Before to start Dater, which is the grand villain of the
Starting point is 01:01:50 series, when Palpatin is the man, he says, I can do the
Starting point is 01:01:57 dark, the side of the light of the world of the world is doing that the
Starting point is 01:02:02 light that the light the light Anakin Koe in the side of the
Starting point is 01:02:08 world initially. Exactly. For protect a his Parenthood Patme.
Starting point is 01:02:15 Exactly. Because the Jedi's not they didn't give the power because not he
Starting point is 01:02:20 was able to and he was not he could protect him so the side of the force
Starting point is 01:02:25 he said, he says, I'd do you do the power. I do the power and
Starting point is 01:02:30 it's then it after in, there's the the of the
Starting point is 01:02:34 those who don't have seen the series, then we're to see the the maratone of all.
Starting point is 01:02:39 Yes, but it's just what what's the thing about with the machosphra. So, there's
Starting point is 01:02:45 these young, men, that you know, they can see the format of the administration pastada,
Starting point is 01:02:50 no? And they have to learn to learn to do those men, but then they're
Starting point is 01:02:56 not being what the administration pastada and the machoster says, Ben,
Starting point is 01:03:00 I can do it do do you I'm going to give the power of the
Starting point is 01:03:05 power where the women we're going to we're going to see a and the woman and say you're saying,
Starting point is 01:03:10 yes, and they're in there because they're in there. Because the other way apart,
Starting point is 01:03:17 we're not we're trying we're trying to, we're to live in a form distinct and in the
Starting point is 01:03:24 side of the force. That's the side the light luminous of the person of
Starting point is 01:03:27 the person of because it's not the side is that we're destructors
Starting point is 01:03:31 to The naturalise. We're going to we're we're we're we're we're
Starting point is 01:03:35 we're we're the thing we're the world there's there's a lot of
Starting point is 01:03:41 a stasis incoomoda but this is real I mean I'm me I'm gonna
Starting point is 01:03:46 get me to make me to get us let's let's when you
Starting point is 01:03:50 see studies of the IQ for example of the talent
Starting point is 01:03:55 of the intelligence of the abilities of the women and you
Starting point is 01:03:59 you you can't you you the curve for the majority of the women, the majority of the
Starting point is 01:04:05 women are in a center marvellously comod, with the few deviations standard. It's a
Starting point is 01:04:12 curve, a carpani- a campanita almost perfect. But when you overpone the curve of the
Starting point is 01:04:17 men, it's more interesting. It's more long, it's less a campanada.
Starting point is 01:04:24 What is that there is that there a grand number of men in both
Starting point is 01:04:29 extrems. You're a number of men's geniuses, but you're a number of people, literally, idiotas,
Starting point is 01:04:39 violent, psychopathic, agressive, without talent. And in middle there's a little less than the woman.
Starting point is 01:04:47 The distribution statistical of the woman is less extreme. So, of a point someone can say,
Starting point is 01:04:54 what are saying, what are you saying, that you're saying, that's that's
Starting point is 01:04:59 it's not. But, also there also many women, violentas, salvages, destructive.
Starting point is 01:05:07 Why the natural that's not me ask you, I'm just just saying, if this is being said, I mean,
Starting point is 01:05:13 the is the is more intelligent, there's more there's more more people,
Starting point is 01:05:16 there's not much, we're not socialistic balanced, balanced, balancas. And the
Starting point is 01:05:22 men or those men or or genius or idiot. Or Hitler. Now, now,
Starting point is 01:05:27 also the majority of the men are the middle does it. It's not not I'm trying to say, I'm not going to say I'm not
Starting point is 01:05:36 not going to say that's just there's not no, no, also the people are not too, but if you
Starting point is 01:05:42 look as the curves, is that's more interesting are the man, it's less, because they
Starting point is 01:05:47 are more because they do you're a certain number of men, they're they're
Starting point is 01:05:50 now. Now, why the naturalness so, well, the psychology evaluative
Starting point is 01:05:54 offers various hypotheses, I don't know if are in whether or not. Necessities of exploration,
Starting point is 01:06:00 of civilization, in fin, be it be a way. This explains because there's
Starting point is 01:06:08 many many there's un-agradable between us because it's much more probable to find
Starting point is 01:06:15 assassins men than women, because it's much more probable encounter psychopaths
Starting point is 01:06:21 that men, nurses, narcissists perversos, men, than women, it's
Starting point is 01:06:26 it's a way, because I'm a stardistic incoomoda, because, of the other other side,
Starting point is 01:06:30 a nobody he's to be able to do it. But there's not so noise. No, they
Starting point is 01:06:37 do that's really that one little idiot, can make a lot of a lot of damage.
Starting point is 01:06:42 And then so, I think that, for the much many, many people,
Starting point is 01:06:48 so many people, so have been in their people, and the a creencia
Starting point is 01:06:54 that all the people are some of the people are the people of those people of those for
Starting point is 01:06:58 supposed to so you so there there there's much there there's a work
Starting point is 01:07:03 and it's a work and it's a thing I do it and I really a dignity
Starting point is 01:07:09 a good with honor with with dignity with dignity yeah that's that's
Starting point is 01:07:14 that for another program it has to do another episode
Starting point is 01:07:16 so about about about this specifically I particularly I'm particularly
Starting point is 01:07:22 perverso at the same time. At the same time. At the same time. But brilliant, brilliant, brilliant, and super, super-enfermo.
Starting point is 01:07:30 Super-enfermo. And we're also, now, now, as adults, millions of women, that are kids
Starting point is 01:07:37 of those women, and of the women who don't get us taken us, we're a generation
Starting point is 01:07:43 that's a great- for women. For women, and we're we're seeing to our mothers,
Starting point is 01:07:48 luching, rompient to the car to get in a woman in a world of machos and we're very allied to our mom
Starting point is 01:07:57 to the woman. There's a statistic that's put very of moda and that utilizes the influencers of the machosphra. And I'm just, I'm I'm just. The majority of the divorcese moderns are impulsed for the women. But for why? But for what?
Starting point is 01:08:12 But for what? To make the decision. The other part of the statistics is the that we don't see. Oh, for what? Why? For you to talk about the decision to divorceeate? Right. Because then we we just put us to see the numbers of abandoners
Starting point is 01:08:22 of the home. We put them to see the numbers of violence we're going to see the the number of
Starting point is 01:08:27 the number of people in house, oh yeah, we know, yeah, we know? My mom
Starting point is 01:08:32 did you know my mom put the because I was because, you know, because, you know,
Starting point is 01:08:38 you know, this sarcasm no, no, no, he's back to know, you know,
Starting point is 01:08:42 because it did not because she did much because she didn't even it's a And I'm
Starting point is 01:08:50 And I'm, and me, I'm, I Ceree, I'm, I didn't, I'm, okay, It's very Very, very? Very exigent. What's exigent. That's a little
Starting point is 01:08:59 Yeah. That's, yeah. That's, what I'm, that's, what's, what's, what's, what's,
Starting point is 01:09:05 that's, what's, and she said, in their time, Irma, you're going to do you're going to do you're going to
Starting point is 01:09:10 do you're going, how you're going to, you're, you're not, that's bad, the truth, that you have to do you
Starting point is 01:09:15 to learn, a, to learn to to support that. Exactly. So, so one thinks,
Starting point is 01:09:20 is that those times are the people are going to be able to there. There's a very
Starting point is 01:09:24 very strong to get to get to the past. The machism is a safe.
Starting point is 01:09:28 It's sure and a safe. The only that is that during a time
Starting point is 01:09:31 is that was unpopular and inconvenient. But unfortunately conforms
Starting point is 01:09:36 the time, the machism he found a form to mutar.
Starting point is 01:09:39 De Mutar. He found a a way to mutter and now present
Starting point is 01:09:42 to modernity. I know And I'm not the only, there are other authors that are they call it, more or less equal. But it's this neomachism.
Starting point is 01:09:53 Now, now, now, it's disfraza of psychology volutative, she disfraza of motivation, it's disfraza
Starting point is 01:09:59 of actuality, it's defraza of biology, it's defraza of the excuse of the naturalness. No, you've heard of
Starting point is 01:10:07 your quats, to say, is that that's naturalness. No, my, that's a sexgo, sexgo naturalista.
Starting point is 01:10:13 to think that certain applications biologics say how the culture no my friend there's
Starting point is 01:10:22 to learn there's so the light dark so yeah yeah yeah
Starting point is 01:10:27 yeah muta muta and muta muta and there there there's a new
Starting point is 01:10:32 there there's a new movement there there's agarran to now
Starting point is 01:10:36 I can I can't I can't I can't I know I'm I'm
Starting point is 01:10:40 that this of this about this of Anakin and, you know, about you
Starting point is 01:10:45 know, like, I'm not they're doing this he's not, so I'm to record
Starting point is 01:10:50 yeah, there's but also in the way in the way he he's not, no,
Starting point is 01:11:03 he's not, he's not to make a matter of a matter and he's because he's he's not,
Starting point is 01:11:08 he's because he's because not was sufficiently very very much to care he's
Starting point is 01:11:13 he's been he's been sufficiently strong he had been present, no have been pasted.
Starting point is 01:11:19 Corte B has these peserousas in where he's being a woman to die and other
Starting point is 01:11:24 that the jerais they say that the being individual is less important than the
Starting point is 01:11:29 human and that he has been to let's let's let's in the thing common
Starting point is 01:11:34 and abandoning his his necessity but he but he see that his
Starting point is 01:11:38 mother is to Adora. So, he's going Joda. Yodda and Jodda. Trenate in the disapegro. The last.
Starting point is 01:11:45 The last thing is train me in the disapego. But the Yedites not so can't teach because no exists. It's that what he wants,
Starting point is 01:11:53 no, the promise of no-dolor, no pernida, no auscencia, no exists. We're going to do what we
Starting point is 01:12:01 do. All what we have us, all what we we have us, all what we valoram, all what we
Starting point is 01:12:07 we're going to to have to have a time is protect him and keep it
Starting point is 01:12:13 and live it you know, he's so so obsesionate that he they're that they're
Starting point is 01:12:19 they're a way, when it was a manned, the emperor no, he had that's
Starting point is 01:12:25 that you're not the people, they're not the way, when they're when they're when they're
Starting point is 01:12:31 like they're they're they're not exactly how an king I'm not. But the
Starting point is 01:12:36 the machosphor is the And then there's a... Everyone's ried of this scene, but in
Starting point is 01:12:42 the case I'm parted the heart of me when I'm desgraciated that me cuted
Starting point is 01:13:10 all, now result that I don't have anything. No, I'm not my wife, only I'm
Starting point is 01:13:16 my wife, only I'm got the other more. But, you know, in your odio, you're he let's have
Starting point is 01:13:21 the way, that's in the way to be the light, because I'm saying, I said, I'm, I'm,
Starting point is 01:13:29 made a my problem, to my own own a new wife, and that's what are
Starting point is 01:13:33 the machoosphere. Exactly. They're they're destruinging systematically his vincuals,
Starting point is 01:13:38 his amos, to his children, to their parents, thinking that the way of the domination and the
Starting point is 01:13:44 authority is that's it. And what they're to do you is destroy all that they're doing they're they're trying
Starting point is 01:13:50 and they're that's the false? Yes. But if not you have worked in you,
Starting point is 01:13:56 no, you know, for supposed. Because seduce. There's there's the spejito.
Starting point is 01:14:00 Look, here's the power, here's the I'm here, it's a woman. the woman,
Starting point is 01:14:07 not you can't say that's the woman has to say, the woman's they say, they're saying to the
Starting point is 01:14:12 go to be and I'm going to get a handbittal like in the agreds. Like in the headress.
Starting point is 01:14:17 Because here are because here the man I'm doing, to you would be to have a
Starting point is 01:14:24 relationship with a woman like this I'm like this I'm a person,
Starting point is 01:14:28 a man of a man of a honor, a man, a man a man, a cablererer and he
Starting point is 01:14:32 put the interests of the family, of his a pair, before the other
Starting point is 01:14:36 that's that's that they're that's not. Yeah. Every when no
Starting point is 01:14:42 no domine, no put the end up not the male. masculinity. masculinity is that that's what
Starting point is 01:14:47 I've described. Mascolinidad is an individual that's a individual that does a
Starting point is 01:14:53 power with luminosity to protect the bien and the life. I know a woman that no
Starting point is 01:14:58 I'd have a person to a person. So, so, I don't
Starting point is 01:15:02 understand to the I mean the I don't know the people we're
Starting point is 01:15:05 we're saying we're like this we're not, but protect
Starting point is 01:15:09 not it's not it's not it's with the force the force that the
Starting point is 01:15:15 that the nature you know the but the power the force of
Starting point is 01:15:20 the the force of the the power the of the that's you know
Starting point is 01:15:23 that's you don't I'm I'm I'm I'm there
Starting point is 01:15:26 there there there there there when when you
Starting point is 01:15:29 want you want to you are and this is prestated a legend
Starting point is 01:15:33 Sen. If you want to a plant and do you do it's the way. The
Starting point is 01:15:37 only way in the plant can grow is if you have the delicacy sufficient
Starting point is 01:15:43 to put her water and then observe and then to be and protect her
Starting point is 01:15:49 and let her and let her to be to live if you if you want
Starting point is 01:15:53 that the plant is to do you want to you want to to
Starting point is 01:15:57 you to make the saliv you done what they're there.
Starting point is 01:16:04 There's a very common. Cosechas what you plantas. Cosechas what germina. Uh-huh.
Starting point is 01:16:12 A little no germina what you want to do you do you do you
Starting point is 01:16:17 do you will do do something and it is a good. And it's to be a
Starting point is 01:16:22 and care it and care we're, we're, we're that's that's
Starting point is 01:16:27 masculinity that. That's that is masculinity. That's that is masculinity. That's
Starting point is 01:16:31 masculinity. And you remember what Gandhi? The liberty of the India is a cause for the
Starting point is 01:16:38 way I'm sure. He was he was a life for to protect to the India and the people and the
Starting point is 01:16:43 injustice of the people. But no there's a cause for the the cause
Starting point is 01:16:46 for the the because I'm goody that's that's masculinity that's
Starting point is 01:16:52 I'm supposed to do my life for protect what I'm but I'm
Starting point is 01:16:56 but I'm to do you to do this that cause. I'm going to but I destroy
Starting point is 01:17:02 the philosophy of the AIMSA or Aimsa or Aimsa, no? How little, no? It's very really little. Well, if we're philosophando in another
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