EntreLeadership - I’m Going to Be the New CEO (Will the Old One Be a Problem?)

Episode Date: December 8, 2025

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Starting point is 00:00:09 From the headquarters of Ramsey Solutions, this is Entree Leadership, where I take calls from leaders like you about what it takes to win at any stage of business and leadership. I'm Dave Ramsey, your host with over 30 years of experience leading in the trenches right alongside you. If you've got a question you want to ask on the show, fill out the form on entreleadership.com slash ask or call and leave us a voicemail. We'll get back to you and get you on at 844-944-1070. 844-944-1070. Roscoe's with us in Charleston, South Carolina. Hey, Roscoe, how are you? Hey, I am the operations officer for a 12-person managed service provider and IT company.
Starting point is 00:00:56 We did about $1.3 million in revenue last year. And my question is, is in your experience, how have you defined owner versus CEO roles when those are two different people? Well, in our case, they were one person, but we still kept them very separate. So I did 99% of the operational decisions around here as the CEO, meaning that me and the leadership team would have a problem or an opportunity in the middle of the table. We would wrestle, fight, fuss, argue whatever we do, that's how we process stuff around here until we wrestle to the ground, the issue. and as a group of leaders that trust each other, and we would grow a consensus on how we were going to deal with that thing in the middle of the table. And once we wrestle it enough, the rest of us, some of us that are on one side of the table,
Starting point is 00:01:54 one of them, some of us on the other, and I led the group discussion without manipulation to get to the best answer, not to what I wanted. And the, you know, that's where we were taking it. And so that's the CEO role. Sometimes the arguments in there would get so forceful, including me, that the team with the leadership team might take a step back. I might have pushed so hard they were back on their heels and they would say, hey, that sounds very forceful and passionate.
Starting point is 00:02:25 Are you speaking as the owner and saying this is what we are going to do? Or are you just arguing the point? And 99% of the time I'm just arguing the point. I generally do not play the Trump card, so to speak, of owner. and say, you will do what I say because I'm the daddy. Sure, if I may. So the current owner is stepping down as CEO next year, and I am transitioning into the CEO role.
Starting point is 00:02:56 Well, he'll maintain ownership. And so that's kind of where I was going to. That means he's operationally out. He's not going to argue with you about where are you by copier paper. I appreciate that. I guess some of my fears were, you know, is he going to be, you know, looking over my shoulder sometimes? Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
Starting point is 00:03:16 He doesn't need to be. The only thing he needs to be involved in is something so big that it's tilting the whole room and you want his advice as the owner. What is your direction to me on this super large thing? But the hiring and firing of somebody working there, he doesn't need to be involved in anymore. The product decisions, he doesn't need to be involved in anymore. or is no longer working there.
Starting point is 00:03:44 That's pretty much what has been communicated. I just wondered if, you know, if in your experience, or however much you've done this, if you've documented that or contracted that, you know, hey, this is Elaine, I'll stay in, and this is Elaine, I want you to move forward in, or something like that. Yeah, I think you say,
Starting point is 00:04:05 you lean into him with honor and say, you have built this, It's a legitimate million three business with 12 team members. You're stepping back. You want me to run it on a day-to-day basis. I need your input on the big things, but you're going to hamper me being able to run it if you get involved in all the little things. So let's make a clear written agreement. It doesn't have to be a contract, but lots of communication of what the lanes are.
Starting point is 00:04:37 This is out of bounds. This is not out of bounds. and I want to honor what you think is in bounds or out of bounds, but if you step back but you don't step back, then you're not stepping back. I appreciate that. Yeah, and that's the thing. So, you know, my son is the president of Ramsey. I'm the CEO, but today he runs about 80% of Ramsey.
Starting point is 00:05:02 And that means I don't. I would say we don't sound all that different today, except that, you know, he's not my dad. I know, but I'm just saying, other than that, that's the only difference is the family connection, which makes it even more difficult than what you have. So what I'm asking for, if I'm you, how can I, I think I can best honor you and serve you and serve this place. Well, if I have very clear lanes that I can run in. And I don't want to take on more than you want me to take on. you tell me where out of bounds is, and I want to honor you by respecting that out of bounds marker, and if I get up next to that out of bounds marker, I'm going to pick up the phone
Starting point is 00:05:46 and call and say, hey, as the owner, how do you want your CEO to do this? So how, I have two questions, if I may. So how soon do we do that, or how late in the game do we do that? And then, you know, I think he's planning on retaining his office here in the building. For what? I don't know for his advisory role. Okay, then we need to know what the percentages are and where the lanes are. Because the children, you know, if you've ever had kids or your brothers and sisters may have pulled this off,
Starting point is 00:06:21 where if mama says no, you run to daddy? Absolutely. Yeah, you're going to have that if you're not real careful here. So the team needs to know where the lines are. Yeah. I will keep an office in here when I am no longer the CEO. but only because, not as an owner, but as a Ramsey personality, because I'll still be doing all these shows.
Starting point is 00:06:45 Because I intend to do those until I don't make sense, which some say has already happened. But anyway, we're going to continue to do that. So, yeah, I think you're going to have to have just some clear lines for the team to know. Otherwise, they're going to run to daddy and run to mommy and try to play one of you against the other one. And you're going to, it's a small team. If they don't have real clear things, you know, you guys are just going to have, to pretend like he's not here anymore. He still has an office here, but he's really only here for me.
Starting point is 00:07:13 The rest of you, you got no access to him or whatever, you know, but if he wants them to still run in there and tell him stuff on the side, you're not really in a CEO role. You're more of a vice president at that point. And let's just call things what they is. If you're going to stick around and still be run the place, then you're sticking around still be running the place. I mean, we can give it a name, but if, you know, if it walks and talks like a duck, it's probably a duck. So, you know, that's what you've got to get into and figure out. But I think you guys need, the two of you need to spend more time together as to exactly what these boundaries are.
Starting point is 00:07:52 And if you'll approach it, I want to honor you. I don't have any desire here to take over. I'm not trying to throw my weight around. I don't have any weight. I'm just trying to say, how can I serve you and how can I honor you? and until I know exactly what my lane is, exactly where the boundaries are, what you don't want me to do, what you are okay with me doing, and you're not going to bother me about,
Starting point is 00:08:14 then I can run real efficiently and run this place for you as the owner, how you want it run. But we need to spend some time on that. Y'all need to do an off-site and just sitting with yellow pads and whiteboards and just fill them up and then jell them down and then talk about it some more and then jell them down. And then the first two or three months you're doing it, you need to test against that document.
Starting point is 00:08:36 Say, are we sticking to this document? Again, it's not a contract. It's just a term sheet in terms of we are communicating what we've agreed about so that I can continue to do what you want me to do. No harder, no easier than that all the way around. And, yeah, very clear lanes, very clear rolls. All of you out there, guys, you've got to have clear lanes. You've got to have clear roles.
Starting point is 00:09:01 And then we know if we're interfering. and we have to know why we're interfering. Oh, wait a minute, somebody's being incompetent. Somebody stepped outside of bounds. Oh, okay. But you don't know, unless you have an out of bounds marker, you don't know that. You got into leadership because you wanted more. More freedom, more flexibility, more impact.
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Starting point is 00:10:22 Hey, Nick, how are you? Be home well, thanks, Dave. How are you? Better than I deserve. How can we help? Sure, thanks for taking my call. I'll lead a team of eight people in an operations department in a business that imports and sells. industrial equipment. We have a total of 23 staff, including the owner of the business.
Starting point is 00:10:44 My question is, how can I address the longstanding poor timekeeping of a fellow department leader? Their poor timekeeping and attitude towards it create in-house jokes. I attempt to stop the in-house jokes, but I feel like by stopping the in-house jokes, I'm defending the poor timekeeping. What can I do that I haven't already tried, or do I just have to accept the tardiness and the jokes? Well, what you're saying is that one of your peers in leadership is incompetent, right? Yeah, yep. He's not leading by example.
Starting point is 00:11:32 Oh, he's tardy. Is that what you said? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, it's not his team this tardy, it's him. It's him, yeah. Hmm. So why is the owner or the president or the CEO allowing a leader to misbehave at that level? I'm not 100% sure. I have talked directly with the owner and I can't seem to get a good enough. So you told the owner this guy's tardy all the time and he's like the laughing stock of the place and he said what?
Starting point is 00:12:17 He said, I know I'm talking to him about it. he says it's going to get better. And that's obviously not true. But there's been small improvements, but not, like, the guy's 30 minutes late, 30 to 40 minutes late every day. He still stops for his regular breaks and still leaves on time. Well, that's demoralizing to everybody else. I agree with you.
Starting point is 00:12:48 It's disrespectful and aggravating. And the owner being a wuss and not do anything about it is also a dismal. respectful. John Maxwell calls this sanctioned incompetence where the owner or the leader knows that someone is incompetent and is sanctioning it by allowing it to continue. And we all know in business or in life, we get what we allow. And so if I allow you to do this continually, we're going to continue to get it. Obviously, the owner is not as concerned about it as you are or I am. me and you would have already done something about it. And I don't think,
Starting point is 00:13:27 I think the jokes are a natural byproduct because the guy is a joke. So, I mean, I don't know how hard you want to push it. Apparently the owner isn't worried about it enough to do something about it. I'm guessing, I'm guessing that they have a close relationship and that guy that's late has been there a long, long time. Yes, yep, he's a long-standing employee.
Starting point is 00:13:55 We're both long-standing employees of the company. Yeah. And so it's a small organization at the jokes are an issue, you know. Yeah. There's something that people talk about that I don't need to be talking about. Yeah. And I don't know what to try next. I was hoping you might have some gold nuggets for me.
Starting point is 00:14:23 It starts and ends at the top. so I don't know what to try next you know I guess you sit down with the owner and just tell him that and say hey the jokes are this is demoralizing to the team the fact that you haven't done anything about it everybody's kind of laughing at all of us and their leaders because they think we're doofuses and I can't really stop them from doing it because this guy is coming in late and you know as long as we sanction that
Starting point is 00:14:53 as long as he keeps doing that, you know, we really can't enforce anything and stop the jokes, but people don't respect him because of that, and they don't respect the company because of that because of this continued thing. So how can I help you with that? And ask the leader, how can I help? Because this is what I'm observing, and I'm one of your leaders. And, you know, I'm not mad personally at the guy, but this behavior, it's pretty bad. And, you know, how can I help you? And do you want help or do you You want me shut up and leave it alone. I mean, because if you do, then we're going to just keep getting more of what we've always gotten. And just see what your owner says.
Starting point is 00:15:33 Yeah. You can't, you're not in a position to fix this, and there's not any persuasive phrase you could just throw around that makes the guy not come in late, other than if you do it again, you don't get to work here. But, um. Yeah, which I, yeah, I can't say. Yeah, you're not in a position to say that. So the owner is, but the, and the owner could lean in and go, but I don't want to, you. the owner turn around blaming it on you either. I want him to have a backbone, have enough
Starting point is 00:16:00 to, enough courage to deal with this himself, but he hasn't exhibited that so far. So I don't know how to get him, you know, run him over to the local store and pick him up a backbone. But I don't know how to get him to do it. Maybe he just is not concerned about it as much as you and me. It drives me nuts, just listening to it. Yeah. If the answer stays, the same. Yeah. If the answer stays the same, the product is going to continue to be the same. And then you've got to decide, is that an environment you want to spend your life in?
Starting point is 00:16:34 And he's going to end up because when you demoralize the place, the thoroughbreds don't stick around long term. I mean, I'm not suggesting you jet tomorrow over this, but I am suggesting your frustration level is rising and your owner is getting ready to lose a thoroughbred because he won't deal with a donkey. And so I, you know, it has forced me to become stronger, more firm as a leader because I'm, it's not just me and that guy that I'm dealing with. It's all the other people watching me and that guy. And they're watching to see what that guy does.
Starting point is 00:17:14 And they're watching to see what I do or what one of our leaders does in relation to that guy being late. What are you going to sanction? what's okay here and behavior is a language and if you say this is okay then by not dealing with it then it's okay and you're going to have a whole organization that says take it easy and by God they mean it and that is a problem that's a problem so nick i'm frustrated with you brother the only answer is you and the owner in his office um i mean you might try to confront the other guy but i don't think the other guy cares um i don't think he's going to turn around by because you front of him in the office with the owner or not one-on-one. I don't think he cares what anybody
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Starting point is 00:19:49 In under 30 minutes, you'll learn how to define the future you want, your desired future, and build a plan. to go towards it, to grow your business, so you can be, well, you can get out in front instead of being reactive. No more flying by the seat of your plant, pants, just to be clear, practical steps that take you from putting out fires to actually growing. Get the strategic planning template for free today, entreeleadership.com slash strategy or click the link in the show notes. Question of the day from Daniel in Houston. Dave, I got about 70 team members and we're growing like crazy. I used to know everyone personally, but now I feel disconnected from the culture. How do you stay engaged as a leader when your company outgrows your direct reach?
Starting point is 00:20:35 You don't. I don't even know everyone's name that works here now. There's 1100 of them. I used to know everyone's name, their spouse's name, and their dog's name. I knew everyone's illness and their freaking birthdays. And I, but there's no, it's impossible when there's 1100. Oh, and by the way, 150 leave every year. and we hire another 175 or 200 with our growth curve.
Starting point is 00:21:00 And so just about the time I did get it figured out, they'd screw it up again. So, no, you can't keep up. What you can keep up with and what you do need to do is to make sure that their immediate leaders. One of your leadership principles is the leader that they are reporting to knows them, knows their spouse, knows their problems, knows their personal things, everything. and is very involved and loving them and caring about their future and wondering how they can grow and how they can do better and correcting them and all of that. That leader needs to have a real pastoral, pastor-like involvement with their team and deeply caring. So what I can do is I can hold my leaders accountable to hold their leaders accountable
Starting point is 00:21:50 to create that kind of one-on-one environment. And then I know it's happening, but I don't personally know so-and-so who broke their leg and were praying for them. Okay? I really don't. You know, I mean, that's happened unless I happen to work near them. Actually, a guy that does work here in the booth broke his leg, so they're all in there laughing right now. And I do know him. But that's not what I'm talking about.
Starting point is 00:22:17 But, I mean, there's people on the other side of the building. I don't know what the flip's going on with them. unless it's something major, life-threatening or whatever. And so we worked on this so hard for so long. At one point, we had 512 people, and I had the entire operating board. We made up flashcards with people's names and faces and position. And we'd hold it up with a, you know, I had their name and their position on the back of the card and their face on the other side.
Starting point is 00:22:49 and we memorized everyone's names in the whole company when there was 512 of us all the operating board did and that lasted about four months and then there was enough change that we couldn't keep up with it it's just freaking impossible i was so distressed i couldn't stand it i wanted to keep knowing everybody i wanted to always do that and um and now you know i'm standing line getting a hamburger in our cafe today and i'm talking to a guy and he's like hey good to meet you finally hadn't run into you And I'm like, hey, how long you've been here? Seven months. You know, I didn't even met the guy.
Starting point is 00:23:21 He'd been in the building seven months. That's just the way it is. There's 1100 of us. I can't keep up with all of it. And I'm gone a lot. And that's, you know, oh, well. So it's just, but it does kind of break your heart. It is a thing.
Starting point is 00:23:33 And the way you handle it and keep the culture to be maintained, a caring culture, a culture of involvement of engagement with the team, is you make sure that the leaders are doing that. They're direct leaders. have to make sure your leaders are leading the direct leaders to do that, however many layers of leadership that you have. So in my case, I laid it in place as a cultural icon among the leadership team that that's how we treat folks. And if you're not, if you've got 10 people on your team and you don't know every one of them and you don't know their spouse's name and what's going on in their lives, then you're not leading well at Ramsey. But if you've got 1100, you're not expected to.
Starting point is 00:24:14 and so, you know, that's the breakdown on that. But the way you stay engaged is you make sure that the leadership layers are fully engaged. And that way you create a culture of caring, a culture of prayer, a culture of direct involvement, of course correction, accountability, encouragement, recognition. All of those things happen at that level of direct relationship. They do not happen from a CEO of a company that has, you know, if you're the top guy out of 70 people, you probably ought to know all 70 and there's only 70, but it's not that big a deal. At 70, I did know everybody. At 500, I had memorized all of them and it lasted four months.
Starting point is 00:25:01 I just told you the story. So it was just too much. And we actually had a board retreat and had a contest. And me and one of the other board members squared off and were the two winners. and one of the lady board members actually beat me. I missed one out of a hundred and something times we went through the thing, and she got them all straight. She had them all dialed in.
Starting point is 00:25:22 But she's actually smarter than me, so it's not fair. I'm a victim, actually, which is not a position I very often take. So, yeah, you teach people to love, you teach people to love inside the organization, and it is a condition to be a leader here that you love your team and that you know what's going on with your team. That's how we do it. That's the whole process. You wouldn't build a house without a blueprint,
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Starting point is 00:26:56 wonderful we are and all that kind of malarkey and share the show click the share button if you got one if you don't cut the link out send it to somebody go hey this youtube podcast thing here you ought to check it out we would appreciate it we know you're doing that because the numbers on this uh this leadership thing is taken off we appreciate you being with us very, very much. Jeff is in Salt Lake City. Hi, Jeff. How are you? Doing well. Thank you. Good. How can we help? Dave, long-time listener. Love your show. Love what you're doing here. So thank you. Thank you. I'm running a handyman service in the area. And I'm the owner. And we're a team of about five people. And last year we did about 750,000. Our goal is to hit a million dollars this year.
Starting point is 00:27:46 Good for you. One of the biggest problems that I've been having is hiring people to in key positions as I'm growing and watching them fall short and not being able to figure out how to get them to step in their role or to fulfill the obligations that they need. Or, even managing their time the way that I can, right? Like, I'm in the position that I've done everything, so I know what it takes to get it done, but I can't ever seem to get employees to even operate at half what I can and wanting to get your opinion on how to manage that. Well, I mean, there would be two reasons that they can't operate at that level. One is they don't care enough, and two is they don't know how. They're not.
Starting point is 00:28:41 not competent at the level you are. So, for instance, they could do X repair in twice the amount of time you do it, but it's not because they didn't care, not because they weren't working hard, not because they, you know, were slacking off or something. It's just because they weren't as good as you at it. It's not as easy for them. And so that's just a competency thing. That should increase over time.
Starting point is 00:29:05 I can't really fix somebody that doesn't care except giving them like one or two opportunities to care and then I'll let them work somewhere else. Okay. And then what I'm doing there is I'm hiring for that. I'm hiring for both the talent, the technical talent, but I'm also hiring for the passion. And so working for us means you work really, really hard, you work really fast, and you're really kind to the customer, you're clean, you clean up after yourself, before yourself, and during yourself.
Starting point is 00:29:40 And so this is how we expect. And, you know, you may not want to do that. If you don't, this is a good time to figure it out. Because if you want to work here, this is how we're going to do it. We're going to really be at it. We go for touchdowns here. We don't go for field goals. Okay.
Starting point is 00:29:58 And that's the interviewing process. I have found myself back when I had five or six people. It is a long time ago, but I do remember it feeling like I had to talk them into coming to work with us. No kidding. Oh, okay. Good. I read your mail. Okay, good. So, yeah, me, I remember that. Like, I need the help, and it looks like you're a cool guy. And so then I spend my time, like, trying to talk you into doing something. And I've never talked anybody into being a good employee, being a good team member. You know, they already came loaded with that. And it's like somebody said, how do you motivate your people? I don't. I hire motivated people. Yeah. And so now I'm just really, really clear. I'm like, this is not for everyone. And it's going to be painful you and painful for me if we don't decide on the front end that it's not for you. And so let's figure it out. If you want to do this, this is what it looks like. And gosh, I'd love to have some help. I need some help. That's why I'm talking to you. But I also don't want to go through the pain of somebody that I'm not aligned with on the value system. And this is what it works. This is how it works. This is who we are. We work really, really hard. We care deeply about the customer.
Starting point is 00:31:14 Everything's clean, I'm clean, and it's fast, and we get our work done, and we're not trying to see how little work we can do, and we're going to see how much work we can do. And, you know, I want to reward you. I want to partner up with you. If we all make a lot of money, I'm going to share some of it with you. I'm not trying to do that. But, you know, if you're looking for a J.O.B.
Starting point is 00:31:35 To mail it in, I'm not your guy. How do you know if you have more? more a higher expectation than what is realistic. Like, because the thing I've been, again, fighting with is like, no, I've been able to do your job while doing this other job at the same time. And you can't even keep up with this. Like, at what point do you feel like, you know, the person just can't do it or I just have too much, too many expectations for it? I think that was a bad higher. Your expectation is that they can do something similar to yourself.
Starting point is 00:32:13 speed within a reasonable period of time. Now, if, like, what's your, one of your top repairs that you do as a handyman? Well, that's the hard thing about a handyman is a handyman has to be skilled enough enough to do a lot of different things. But I mean, let's say, let's say something that occurs often. Just give me an example. Basin case, doing base molding in a home and door casing. It's a, you know, the finish trim. Okay, so a little bit of trim, a little bit of trim work. Okay. Yeah. All right. And so trim work is a bit of an art form.
Starting point is 00:32:47 It's not a hatchet job. And so it is slow for someone that's not done a bunch of trim work. So I would say, you know, if you've not done a bunch of trim work and you get some trim work, you can expect them to be slow a few times. But if they're slow because they're learning and they're getting faster, that's okay. That is unrealistic for them to be caught up with you if they're not a trim carpenter. Okay? You've done a bunch of trim work.
Starting point is 00:33:12 And trim work is, let me tell you, you know, you know, measure three times and cut once, baby, you know. Right. And you know the rule. And other people know the rule, but they don't live that rule. You try to do trim work fast. You get to do it three times if you're not good at it, right? Right. And so, because the trim carpenters are the artists in the building.
Starting point is 00:33:33 So anyway, the, yeah, that's a good example. So what I'm thinking about if I'm you there is I'm going to say, say, okay, how much trim work have you done? Not a lot, but I like it, and I'd like to learn. Well, you can expect that person to be half the speed of you initially, but in a year, they ought to be about, you know, 80% of you. Yeah, okay. If they're doing it pretty regularly. If they're not, it's either because you haven't taught them a little bit.
Starting point is 00:34:00 I said, okay, here's a, here's a shortcut on that, making sure that angle works. And no pun intended on the cut, but yeah. But anyway, the, here's a, you know, here's a way to. do this that works and you could coach them a little. But at the end of a year, if they're not, then they're either just physically not capable of doing that kind of work, which would be bad, or they don't care. And I don't know what you're running into. But yeah, I mean, something like that, something that has a little bit of technicality to it, you know, that, you should be able to show somebody, most of the stuff you do
Starting point is 00:34:41 how to do it one or two times, then they ought to be able to do it, agreed? Agreed? 100%. Yeah. And so it's not you know, how do I do this? You know, well, don't lay around on that dishwasher for 45 minutes. I can show you how to do it in three minutes and then next time you can do it in 10. And then the next time you can do it in seven. And then after that it better
Starting point is 00:34:59 be three because it's just a simple, we're just changing out of valve here. Come on. And this is how you handle that sleeve and all that chunk. So whatever the thing is, right and um but but and i do think they'll get faster but they've got to take pride in their work and the speed of their work and the cleanliness of their work the quality of their work like you do and you're not doing anything the superhuman you're not like a savant you're just good at it and so other people ought to be as good as you and so i'll give you an example over here okay i'm i'm 30 something years on this microphone, answering questions off the cuff. I had a guy in here that day. He said,
Starting point is 00:35:41 how do you do show prep? 30 years. We don't do show prep because we don't know what you guys are going to ask when you call. So I don't have a bunch of heads up. I got about three sentences on a screen. That's it. So how do you train somebody for that? Well, it's, you know, the Ramsey personalities teaching them to sit on a microphone has taken five years to get them to where they not only knew the answers, but answered them with some sass and answer. And them with some humor and answered them the way Ramsey answers them. And the sad truth is is that some of them have actually gotten better than me now because the ratings are up when I'm not here. It's distressing. But yeah, you know, but that means I did a great job training and I did
Starting point is 00:36:24 a great job hiring somebody that was trainable and that cares and that leans into a pretty technical thing and they learn the technical aspects of it from a performance standpoint as well. as well as the actual academic answer. And the same thing goes for you. You can find somebody, but I also have hired people that they just didn't have the it factor on the microphone, and I couldn't, they didn't work out. They just weren't, you know, they're just like a wet blanket on the microphone. So that's the thing you're looking at.
Starting point is 00:36:56 So you can find people that are even better than you someday, as my point. And that is not an unrealistic expectation. What might be an unrealistic expectation is the first time they do it, they might not be that good. And it might take a year to train them up and get them to where they're running at 75% of you instead of 10% of you. But I have an expectation that they're going to catch me or we got a problem. And it's not like I'm slowing down for them to catch me. I want them to catch me or we got a problem. That's where we're going.
Starting point is 00:37:31 So that's the kind of thing that I'm after. there and I think you can do that but it's um it's a matter of hiring the right people interviewing with strength rather than begging and I'm not trying to beg everybody to come to work here you don't need to be here if you don't need to be here but you've got to be fired up and wired up man we're trying to score touchdowns here we're not just trying to make playoffs I want to go to the freaking Super Bowl so bring it baby bring it and plan on leaving it on the field or you ain't going to fit in and you know we talk about this stuff in the interview and some people are motivated by that and some people are run off by that and it's a
Starting point is 00:38:09 little bit distressing sometimes when they run off is they got to start again on the whole interview thing but it's a whole lot better than having to rehire after I got rid of a donkey later because they really didn't want to be here so that's what you're looking at and that's how we'll play it through so good stuff guys good stuff good show today this was great hey folks remember better a weary warrior than a quivering critic. This world needs more high-quality leaders, so take courage and lead. I'm Dave Ramsey, your host.
Starting point is 00:38:39 Thanks for joining us on Entree Leadership.

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