Epic Real Estate Investing - Encore - Alex Mehr - Virtual Mentorship | 574

Episode Date: January 24, 2019

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This is Terio Media. Hello, I am Matt Terrio of the Epic Real Estate Investing Show, and this is Thought Leader Thursday. And today I'm joined by Mr. Alex Merr. So please help me welcome Alex to Epic Real Estate Investing Show. Welcome to the show. Thanks for having me. Glad to be here. Yeah, no, I'm glad to have you too.

You know, I stumbled upon you on Instagram on one of your ads, and I was very intrigued and It's very effective. I got my attention right away. It did its job. It did do his job. It's perfect. So I didn't really know too much about you until I started researching who you were and what you did. And you're kind of a big deal. Thank you. Yeah. So I really appreciate you being so accessible. I want to talk about MentorBox today. But what were you doing just before you started MentorBox?

I did a bunch of things. I advised a few companies to start a few companies. My biggest company is an online dating company called Zusk. I don't know if you've heard of it or not. It's, yeah, it is to this day the third largest online dating company in the world. So I did okay. Yes, I'll say. Anytime you got a household name attest to your company, that's good. Yeah, right?

Yes. I noticed one thing I was going to ask you about, you have a, I think it was a silver medal in physics. Yes. If we're here during the Olympics right now, how do you win a silver medal in physics? So it's international physics Olympiads. It is a competition among high school students worldwide. And, yeah, I was a nerd growing up, let's put it this way. I wanted to become a physicist.

I didn't fulfill my destiny, but, you know, I was really interested in physics growing up. Seemingly, you're in something totally different than that now. That's right. Tell me about MentorBox. What inspired you to start that? So MentorBox is interesting. I went through years of education. I got my PhD in mechanical engineering, aerospace engineering.

None of the things that I learned into school were actually applicable in real life. So I had to start kind of from scratch. So I had to read a lot of books, learn things like leadership, teamwork, inspiration, business, marketing, all these things. And then, you know, as I grew as a person and became successful, naturally I started gifting books to a lot of my friends, the best books that I knew. I was like, you've got to read this. You've got to read this. But then I realized most of my friends, they appreciate the gift, but they don't actually read the book. In other words, they like the idea of the book.

They know, they know it's good for them, but they just don't have time. Right. Or eating is not the primary method for people to read the book. So I decided to just, you know, create an alternative, a faster, easier, more effective way, which is basically video and audio. and who's better than the author of the book to actually teach their own books, and that's where the idea came from. I get the time thing, because who has time to read a book anymore? And even now, my Audible app is starting to really pile up.

So I was like, I don't drive that much to get all that in. Yeah, because that is one way to learn, but the best way to think about it is audible is linear. It reads through the book. And there's no point. A book has a lot of fluff things that are, you know, not really relevant. plus you take a format for transfer of knowledge called books and you just read it. It doesn't do the job. If you're going to an audio format or a video format, you want to create content that is built specifically for that format.

Doesn't make sense. It's as if you go to the movies and instead of them creating a movie, they read the novel to you. You know what I mean? It just doesn't make any sense. So they turn a novel into a movie follows the plot. Right. But it's not word for word. Does that make sense?

Yeah, not totally. Yeah. I just signed up. I'm very excited to really dig into it. So you got a new customer too. Yeah. Welcome. Welcome for it.

What am I not asking? What else do I need to know? What does everybody else need to know? Because I think it's really cool, but it's pretty self-explanatory. What's the one thing or area that you think you should, be better at that you, that somebody or a book or an expert can bring you up to date in that area. The rapidly growing world of technology and communication and how people engage and interact. So the fact that you're able to actually pinpoint that, that is a step one.

That's one of the things that I tell people is that I go through this rotation. Every few months, I come up with an area where I feel like I need to improve it. Literally what I do is that every couple of months, I basically pick that area and then start researching and getting really better at it. I used to do it primarily through books. So I would go and buy three books in that area. I would read through it, like stock market trading. Like I did that like six, seven years ago.

I just went like I read five or six books on it and then I started doing it. One of the things that people ask me is how can I effectively, how can I get ahead in life? And my answer is just divide your life into chapters. So say, this is 2018. One year is a long time. So divide it into three chapters or four. So let's say three chapters. Each chapter is four months.

And you say, you know, in the first four months, I want to master my communication skills. and then intentionally work on that. And then the next four months, you can work on entrepreneurship. Then after that you can work on marketing. Does that make sense? That's how I think of my life. I've lived many different chapters of my life exactly that way. Like there was a period of time where I was a scientist.

So I was becoming really good in physics, like you mentioned. And then I decided, okay, I like engineering better. So I became a really good engineering. engineer and went and work for NASA. But then I said, well, you know what? I want to try entrepreneurship. And then I started, that was a whole new journey for me. So I went and learned, you know, a lot of things that goes into entrepreneurship.

One of the things I tell people is don't try to live one chapter in your life. Imagine a book that only has one chapter. You know, don't be that book. Have many, many chapters. and the best way to do it is like allocate time to each chapter. Yeah, and this definitely allows you to do that and empowers you to do it, right? Yeah, yeah. For sure.

So my audience consists of real estate investors. Right. And we have an educational platform. We have a mentorship platform and coaching. And I really pride myself on I think we're the best out there what we do. And so we see a gap, though, that, you know, it takes me, I don't know, 10 minutes to show somebody how to fill out a purchase agreement, so to speak. Right.

You know, but why they don't get up every day and do it every day, you know, that's kind of between their ears. What would be a good path to for really help? Because people with their self-motivation, like what would you say it was a good path through mentor box, but they might want to follow? Yeah, so motivation is actually an interesting thing. Motivation, most things in life, motivation, one of them, there are different methods to improve them. For motivation, a trick that I use is that I don't think of what I need to do.

I think of the reward. So let's say I want to launch, you know, a new product or I want to, that's too big of a goal. Let's say I want to launch a marketing campaign for my product, right? So it's one or two days of intensively focusing on Instagram ads that you mentioned, right? So what do I think, I don't think of what I need to do. I think of what would be on the other side. So I'm like three days later, my ads are running, and I'm getting a lot of new customers, and I'm happy. So that happiness gets me going for the next two days

to intensely focus on the task that I have on my hand. So the time frame doesn't have to be two days. It can be weeks. It can be, don't go much longer than that. But if it is like a real estate deal, think of the feeling you will have once that deal is done. So the other side, that would automatically motivate you. Imagine like you're going up the mountain, right?

Don't think of the first step. You have to take the first step. But before you take the first step, think of that moment when you're taking the last step and you just make it to the peak. Right, right. And just kind of look around, right? Use that emotion, that feeling to inspire the next steps. Feel it, yeah.

Right. There's a clip by Connor McGregor, the UFC fighter. they asked him once he became the champion. They asked him, how does it feel to be a champion? And he said, I have imagined this moment so many times in my head the way it would look, the way it would feel, the way the world would look like once I have achieved this, and it's exactly, it's like a dream that I have dreamt many, many times just became reality. Does that make sense?

100%. So he first imagined it. and then took the first step. What's the best book you've read in the last 12 months and how did it impact you? The best book I've read in general across all categories is pre-suation by Robert Chaldeen. He talks about when you are entering a conversation, because let me put it this way, what is the most important thing that we do in life? For most people, it is convincing other people, inspiring other people to do something

because none of us can do things on our own. Do you agree with that? Oh, very close. Very much so, yeah. So being persuasive and, you know, being able to inspire others, I think it's an art. Some people have it more than others because of the way they're born. But regardless of what's your starting level, there are a ton of techniques that can actually help make you more persuasive. and pre-suasion by Robert Chaldeenie literally cuts to it.

I don't know if you've read his other book, Influence. He wrote it 15 years ago. That's a classic. So I think anybody should read both of these books, honestly. Yeah, I've read both of them, so it was nice for you to say a book that I've actually read, so that was good. Okay, awesome. Super. So if people want to learn more about you and your service and this great product that you have,

they should go to. mentorbox.com. Very good. Think of it as Netflix for books. We bring the authors to teach their books in video and audio format with a simple subscription of less than 10 bucks a month. It's great. Fantastic.

I signed up as an affiliate, by the way. Awesome. Yeah. So if you want to help me keep the lights on over here, go to virtual mentorship.com. And that I'll take you right to mentorbox.com. Yes. All right. It's been a pleasure.

Let's do it again sometime. Sounds good. All right. Good luck, team. God bless. And to your success, I'm Matt Terrio, living the dream. Take care. This podcast is a part of the C-suite Radio Network. For more top business podcasts, visit c-sweetradio.com.