Erotic Stories from Wylde in Bed - The Threesome interview with Ams and Kat of 2HotWives....

Episode Date: January 24, 2021

The Interview with Ams and Kat from 2HotWives podcastLike Wylde Desires and Wylde in Bed, 2HotWives is all about helping women explore the discover the desires that really make them buzz with excitement, and enhance their sensual pleasures in the bedroom.In this zoom interview, Ams and Kat discuss their experiences with their podcast, where the ideas come from and their experiences in 'the lifetyle'.This is not one to be missed, two fantastic ladies on a mission to improve your pleasure in the bedroom.You can catch up with Ams and Kat at...https://www.instagram.com/2hotwives/http://twitter.com/2hotwives/https://www.2hotwives.com/

Please remember this is an adult's only podcast and does contain some very sensual themes. So please only listen to this podcast if you are happy to explore your deepest sensual fantasies with me and are of a suitable age. Hi, it's Devlin and welcome to another episode of Wild in Bed. Your destination for salacious stories, sensual satisfaction. and finger-licking good fantasies. Now tonight I'm interviewing the two ladies, from two hot wives, right here on Wild in bed.

You can know this podcast is best enjoyed laying on your bed. Just put your earbuds in, close your eyes, and surrender to the pleasure of my voice, moving over and inside you. Just relax back. listen to our manage interview. Hi, it's Devlin from Wild and Bed, and I would like to welcome Ams and Kat

from Two Hot Wives podcast. Hi, Devlin. Two Hot Wives has been growing rapidly since when you started, which was October of 2020. Yeah, 2020. Fantastic. How many listeners are you getting a month at the moment? We are coming up on close to.

10,000 downloads for the month of January across our library. We're really excited. I don't think we anticipated that it would be growing this quickly. Yes. Especially over the holidays. Yes. And people aren't commuting, so they're not able to listen to more explicit podcasts as frequently as they used to.

So we're thrilled with the level of growth that we've encountered. That's fantastic. Obviously, one of the big things on the show is the chemistry. between you two and the magic that you two have between you. How long have you been friends for? We are coming up. Actually, not that long. Yeah, we're coming up once. Two years. Yeah. Yeah, two years. And you're both married and in open relationships? Yes. That's right. That's how we met. Okay. Okay. Go on. Tell me. You've got to tell me. Well, we met because we were both on a couple's dating site. And Ams and Mr. Ams were going on a particular vacation that Mr. Kat and I had been on before.

And so we felt like this urgency for us to meet. We had, the guys had been talking back and forth on the site a little bit. And there was a mutual. And by like dating site, we mean a site designed for lifestyle or swinger couples to meet each other. So it was a couple's date to couples getting together to get to know each other. And we were heading to a resort in Mexico that's sort of known to be a lifestyle friendly resort. And we had gone on that vacation. So I was saying to Mr. Kat, like, we need to meet them before they go because I have information.

So much advice. Great advice. So we did get together before they went and I spilled all of my good stuff. And we just hit it off. We just, you know, we just immediately clicked. Yeah. You go on a lot of these dates. If you're in an open marriage, you're looking for other.

couples to potentially play with. The chemistry is not always there. So it was kind of unusual where all four of us just clicked immediately. We actually did something very unusual in the lifestyle community. We hung out the next day at an art festival. Yeah. Yeah. We got a text like, hey, what are you guys doing today?

Let's hang out. And it was a great day. It's a friends with benefits model. Yeah. Yes. So it's a lot more. Casual. Casual.

much more of a casual relationship between the four of you than that's excellent so who came up with the idea of the podcast where did that come from hard to say who yeah because we we talk with each other like girlfriends do right but it's a more sexy fun conversation yeah i've always been a fan of podcast and it's such a great resource for people who want to learn more about whatever they're interested in. Well, and in fact, I think we both listened to We Got a Thing. Yeah. Yes, there's a lot of lifestyle podcasts. But a lot of regular podcasts as well. Like, sure, Vanilla Podcasts. Right. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So, but, you know, I found that there wasn't a podcast that was focused on sex positive content for women who are in committed relationships that was hosted by women. So we really wanted to fill that

gap and give women a place to explore their sexuality without judgment, without men kind of listening in on the experience. I think we can just be a lot more candid and open if it's just women. Really, it's like a group of women sat around in a bar. And they get to listen in. We know we have a lot of male listeners. Sure. But as we are talking and we are doing the podcast, we are in our own room where our husbands are not present at the time. And so we're just free to let the conversation flow.

And I think it definitely represents who we are. Okay. So where did you get your ideas from for the episodes? Are they personal experience? Are they curiosities? Yeah. We, I mean, right now, we're still early in launching the podcast, but we have plenty of our own experiences and our own desires and fantasies that we can still dig into all of that. But every time that we do research for an episode, if something new and intriguing comes up that doesn't quite fit the narrative of a particular episode, we write it down on a little Google Doc sheet as an idea for a future episode. Yeah, you just wait. Season two. Ooh. But we also felt that it was important to start from the beginning. Like the beginning of sort of our

awakening, so to speak. I mean, what made us decide to do this? And what's the beginning of like exploring how to have more fun in the bedroom, right? Yeah. I think a lot of women get to a certain age and they're married, they have children, they have like that happily ever after. And sex doesn't seem to be part of the narrative anymore. But most of us still want to have phenomenal. nominal sex. And there's just no place to go and explore that that doesn't feel like a weird, skeevy male version of sexuality. So it's just trying to, you know, create a space where women can explore their version of their own cool, kinky, curious sexuality. Yeah, they can, they can experience their desires and discuss them openly. Without judgment. Without judgment. And that's important,

you know, because everybody's got desires, male or female. They've all. They've always. We've all got fantasies and it's bringing those out and feeling okay with whatever they are. Exactly. However, kinky they are, it doesn't matter. It doesn't. So you invite questions from your listeners. So have you ever had one that was just like, wow, that is pretty weird? So we believe very strongly that everybody deserves great sex.

It doesn't matter who you are. doesn't matter what great sex looks like for you, as long as everybody's a consenting adult, we're not going to yuck someone else's yump, right? Right. I know that phrase. I do like that. I'm going to have to work that down. That's going into a story, I tell you.

What's this place? I'm recording tomorrow's story tomorrow. So, yes. You know, for the most part, though, it's not that we've encountered questions about any sort of sexual activities as much as we've encountered questions about relationship issues. Like, you know, we have a lot of male listeners and they are reaching out to us about how do they help their wives, you know, explore more fulfilling sexual experiences. How do they, how do they make her feel amazing, which is really sweet. It is. It's very heartfelt. And we do get,

we get some questions from women who are like, well, mostly we get women who are, who are just excited that there's a place for them to sort of, you know. Have a community. Yes. Yeah. So we're safe for them to go and just be themselves. Yeah, exactly. We've been really touched by all of the emails that we've received,

mostly all positive and just, you know, wanting to know the backstories and wanting the little extra tidbits of information that they think we might have. Yeah. And we're an open book. Yeah, we are. I know when I started at Wild Embed Bair and Wild Desirees, I was quite surprised how many couples listen. Oh, yeah.

I could absolutely see that. We get that a lot. A lot of the emails say we've been listening and we love the podcast and they listen together. Yeah. Which is cool. Were you surprised by that? Did you expect that?

We did expect it. I had anticipated that because we come from a perspective of being in an open marriage and lifestyle couples, that the couples might be the ones who listen. And, you know, that the men, as Kat was saying, that the men are really interested in making sure their wives are sexually fulfilled. So it doesn't surprise me that they're the ones who find us first sometimes. And I've been of the thought that even if a lot of men are listening to us, well, then we're helping women by helping their men. Right? Yes.

If we help men understand women better, they're going to be better lovers, better partners. Yeah. For sure. And the women are going to benefit from that. So going back to the open relationship thing, when did that question raise itself, raise itself within your relationships? Yeah. For both of us, it's been a few years, but it really came from a place of being with our husbands and saying, how do we have more fun together in bed? It's a couple activity or a group activity. You can't do it all on your own. And so, you know, it starts as an open conversation. Neither one of us, you know, approached our husbands or had our husbands approach us and said, let's open up our marriage.

Right. The answer might be what the fuck. Right. But, you know, for Mr. Ams and I, we started looking into BDSM and Kink. And that's where we explored. and it was through that community that we kind of learned about the lifestyle community, the swinger community, and that's how we approached it. And with Mr. Kat and I, we approached it with erotica, actually. We started, in the beginning, he would read to me these erotic stories in bed. And my husband also has a very sexy voice and a deep sexy voice. And so that was great.

And then we would start sending messages back. and forth, there was a site, well, it's still there, ex-confessions, super hot. And it's little short stories that he could send me throughout the day. And I could read in, you know, a few minutes, maybe five, ten minutes. And so it just sort of set the stage for more conversations and the stories got a little hotter and a little hotter and the conversation got a little hotter. So, yeah, it just sort of took that direction. And yeah, here we are.

So for women, for women listening, who are thinking, well, hold it, you know, I want to embrace my sexuality. I want to embrace this sensuality. I want to discover more about what's inside me. Obviously, confidence is a big step towards that. And obviously, you two are very confident within yourselves. What steps would you advise they take with their partners or on their own? It's such a great question.

And I would say there are some short-term solutions and there are some long-term solutions. So if you find yourself in the middle of a sexual experience and you're not feeling good and confident and sexy about yourself, it's because you're in your head and you've got to get out of your head a little bit and enjoy what's happening. And there are a lot of different little tools that you can play around with that can help you get out of your head. Blindfolds are a great tool to like stop you know focusing on what you look like and just get you know into a different head space flattering lighting good music a glass of wine whatever you need to relax a little bit and get out of your head will make the experience better for you and you will not get so caught up in your

own sort of self-criticism i think of too like the more long-term um issues of feeling confident is that we tend to, at least for women who've had babies and we're on that other side of that. Yes. We take care of everybody else, but we don't take care of ourselves. And I would say to women who want to feel more confident, take care of yourself as well as you take care of those that you love. Take that time to think about what makes you feel good. What makes you feel healthy? I think of health.

Like, you know, eat a good diet, exercise. And don't think about it as a way to make yourself look good. Think about it as a way to make yourself feel good. When you exercise, when you eat well, when you get enough sleep, you feel more energized, more sexy. You feel better about yourself. When you take the time to care for yourself, you're going to start to feel more confident. Because you can't just say, like, I need to feel more confident and then pretend. and, you know, try to fake it till you make it. There's, it just doesn't work. You need to do the long-term things that, that make you feel confident from the inside. Healthy is the way I think to start. Yeah, and you don't have to look like a Barbie doll. We don't look like Barbie dolls. Nobody does.

Right. Even Barbie doesn't look like a Barbie doll. So don't be so worried about what's on the scale or just take the time to be your best self, you know. Put on pretty underwear every day. Give yourself a manicure. Do the things that you think would be caring for yourself. Yeah.

For yourself. My mother used to boast that she did not shave her legs for seven years because she had so many children to take care of. That's crazy. Don't be. My mother, shave your legs, right? It just makes you. You feel better.

Yes. I feel a lot better if you shave your legs. I think there's a perception. I'm speaking from a man's viewpoint that men just want Barbie dolls. And that's so untrue. Right. Speaking from a man's perspective, it's not what you want. I would say that's awesome because I've noticed that Mr. Cat loves women in general.

He loves them all, like all shapes and sizes. And I have been pleasantly. I won't say surprise, but pleasantly, you know, intrigued that he has a wide variety of women, that he just thinks are sexy for different reasons. Yeah. Yeah. And on the flip side of that, you know, one of the funny little bonuses of opening up your marriage, if that's something that your listeners are considering, is you do get to see yourself through the eyes of many different men.

and maybe sometimes what your husband says, oh, you look really beautiful, you look really sexy, you start to not necessarily believe them or feel like, you know, they just have to say that. But when you hear that kind of over and over again from different men in different walks of life, you start to believe it yourself. And I found that was a huge confidence boost for me.

I do too. Yeah. Yeah. Yes, it would be, wouldn't it? I mean, different people giving up, rather than the same person that sees, it almost becomes like what you want. Obligatory. Right. It becomes a habit rather than something they're saying because they're actually feeling it.

Right. Yeah, even if they are feeling it. Right. Sure. But, you know, we... Well, we start to believe them more. Yeah. Yeah, maybe they're not just making it up and...

Right. They really do believe that. Yes. Okay. Do you feel there's still a reluctance among women to... open up about their desires? Yes. Yes. Definitely. The narrative in this country around women's sexuality is so incredibly fucked up.

Women are taught from a very young age to be good girls, to not want sex, to not be interested in sex. And you also have to have phenomenal oral skills by the time you're 16 years old. Like, it just doesn't make any sense whatsoever. If you think about, like, what young women are exposed to, it's not healthy. It's not good. And all of us, I don't care how amazing the woman is, how enlightened and sexually woke she is, all of us are coming into the bedroom with a certain amount of baggage. And we're not, you know, we haven't reached the path of enlightenment on this stuff.

We're still on a journey. We're still working on it. We're still working through all of this. But acknowledging that you might have some weird negative feelings about sex and just examining them and figuring out how to move on is part of why we're doing this. But we know it's a really tall hill to climb. Do you think there's too much focus on if like just the physicality of sex rather than the pleasure? Yes. Because it's like that.

It's like, I mean, I know I'm not going to go on about tantra and things, but they're teaching tantra that. Yeah. There's too much focus on the physical orgasm rather than the whole pleasure surrounding the orgasm. Yes. Yeah. There's a lot. Women have a lot of performance anxiety and am I going to come and am I going to come fast enough and is this taking too long? And I think men are very visual creatures and the sex industry is very focused.

on making men orgasm. And so we see, you know, pornography, which is an art, right? That's a visual art. It's not how real people have sex. And it sets some very unrealistic expectations. There was a movie that came out quite a while ago. Don John? Yes.

Do you know it? Yes. Where he was fixated on porn. and the perfection and the nuts and bolts of it all. And what a great movie because towards the end, he met a woman and they started the relationship and just the whole feeling of sex. He had to change his whole mindset.

It was really... I got to check that one now. I know. It was really great movie. It just came to mind when you were talking about, like, the physicality of it and the visual of it. And he... I think that we, for a long time, with the technology, you know, it's so easy to just find porn all the time, right?

And you can take care of yourself. And so why do you need a woman? Why do you need that intimacy? And so learning to go from the physicality of sex acts to actual intimacy and closeness with another person is a big. It's a huge step. It's a huge step for many people, I think, especially given the common situation. intimacy is very much lacking. Yes.

Yes. You know, with coronavirus and everything, there's a natural distance between people. And that, even the normal intimacy, we would get with friends and family. The interesting thing about that is I think that that has, I mean,

we sort of formed our own little, like, quarantine, we call it, where we weren't doing anything outside and they weren't doing anything outside. So the four of us, it created this sort of cocoon where we just became very, very close. And I would say more intimate because of it. It forces you together more, doesn't it? Right. I mean, the conversations that the four of us have are unbelievable. Yeah. Yes. And, I mean, 2020 has forced us to all examine the relationships in our lives.

and the ones that are sort of more frivolous, less important, have had to take a back seat because that feels dangerous, to spend time with a lot of people. So it's sort of forced a greater level of intimacy with a smaller number of people. If you are fortunate enough to have that. And of course, there are many people out there who can't have that right now.

And they're struggling, which is tough. Yeah, it makes it a lot more difficult. So, okay, so if you guys were going to have an ology, if you're going to organize, who would you invite? And why? Hmm. Uh-huh. Well, I have a laminated list. But they're all men, and I think that's a gang bang.

I think that's a gang bang. I don't think that's good. I mean, I can tell you who's on my laminated list, but, you know, I love, love, talk. Edelston because he likes to dance. Okay. Right? I love to dance and that man can dance. Damn.

Yeah. And I love Paul Rudd. I mean, if we're talking celebrity craziness, right? He makes me laugh. He's so adorable. I just want to. Yeah. And, oh, Hugh Jackman.

Wolverine. Yes, a dancer too. Yes. He's got rhythm. He can sing. And he's hot as hell. Right? Bradley Cooper, I'm sorry, they're all men.

You want them all in the same time. Girl, you'll be exhausted. I would be famous. Hello. I would be like, I would have to write a book on that. Yes. For sure. But yeah, those blue eyes and that wavy hair, oh, just, mm-hmm, for sure.

But yeah, I mean, my guys are like, you know, they like to dance. They like to have fun. They're fucking hot with the whole Wolverine thing. He's my favorite. Maybe. But yeah, my dream is not an orgy. No. It's a gangbigh. That does that make me bad girl? No.

No. No, right? No judgment. But yeah, I would totally do that. I would totally do that. Maybe. So do you feel that there is anything that is misunderstood about either of you? Yes. Well, possibly. Yeah. I mean, I feel like, you know, we're doing this podcast and we're putting our best foot forward. And it may seem that we are perfect and we have these perfect lives and everything is just amazing all the time. I think I use that word a lot, amazing, fun, great, phenomenal.

Yeah. You know, but really, we're just regular women. We're real girls who have real problems and real things that we have to deal with every day. We have kids and they have activities or no activities and they're home all the time. I mean, we, you know, we don't have. I think that it may be thought that we have this perfect life or that we're trying to say we have a perfect life and we're not. We're just, you know, we're at the beginning of this amazing podcast.

Sarah, you know, we're the word amazing again. And we do want to put our best foot forward, but we're just regular, regular girls with regular lives. Yeah. Yeah. We are not perfect. Our lives are not on rails or if they are, they get derailed all the time. frequently. So we're, we are literally figuring all this shit out along with our listeners.

Okay. So do you feel like there's anything I should have asked you that if I'd known more about you, I would have asked? Any dirty little secrets? I should have. You know, pretty much an open book. We really dish. Put it all out there. We'll dish on anything. And it's all in the podcast, right? If you are curious about what makes us tick, we are figuring it out as we're talking in front of the microphone. So if people are interested in that, we are the two hot wives that's to the number. The number two. Yeah. And you can find us on anywhere you listen to podcasts.

We're also on social media at the number two hot wives. I'll put all your social media links into the notes. We've been having a lot of fun with social media lately. Yes, I noticed. We're sort of new, to be honest, new to Twitter. I mean, this is, I didn't have a personal account before this. And we're having a lot of fun with it. It's a lot of fun.

Yeah. It's like naughty, naughty Facebook. Instead of, you know, posting pictures of little Jojo got the soccer trophy. We're like, ooh, we had an MFFM last night. So that's every, the first and third. Wednesday of every month. That's right. A new episodes out.

That's right. Okay. Okay, well thank you, Ams and Kat. Thank you, Devlin. We had so much fun. And I'm sure if any of my listeners would like to explore their sexuality a little more and maybe get more of a female view on it, then they'll be over to see you. We would welcome them.

No, on Monday, we're going to get dirtier and darker. Something very salacious, something very filthy. So come and join me tomorrow night. But for now and always with your pleasure in mind, this is Devlin Wilde. Wishing you salacious dreams. Now, as you have enjoyed this show this evening, you can go ahead and subscribe to my podcast

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