Erotic Stories from Wylde in Bed - Unveilings The Depths: Christie's Journey Into Sensual Awakening
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Hi, it's Devlin and welcome to this bonus episode.
Now, this one's a little different.
You see, when I hear people talking about conscious sensuality and tantra,
it's generally misunderstood.
People assume tantra is about strange sexual positions,
but it's really not.
It's about a connection with your deeper sensuality.
It's about building confidence.
It's about being the person you are and being proud of it, just as you are.
The essence of conscious sensuality covers many bases.
It's a deeply powerful technique.
So today I'd like to share a story with you.
One that's quietly powerful, deeply human.
It's about a woman that I will call Christy to protect her privacy.
All the details in the story are true.
So if you're in a place where you'd prefer not to listen to stories about intimate life and sexuality,
you might want to skip this one.
For everyone else, just take a nice, deep breath and let it go with a sigh.
Listening with an open heart and mind.
Christy first came to me at 46.
She'd been in a long-term relationship for many years.
To the outside world, everything looked well ordinary.
They shed her home routines, responsibilities, even children.
But inside, she felt invisible, she felt neglected.
She told me she felt unwanted, undesired,
like the person everyone relied on,
to keep the home together.
She did the dishes,
but she wasn't seen as a sensual, vibrant person.
She wasn't seen as a complete human.
So over time she'd lost confidence.
Not overnight, but bit by bit.
The intimacy in the relationship had dwindled.
When sex did happen, it was cold and prescriptive,
something they did on a Sunday morning.
and she thought sensual pleasure was something given by someone else
if her partner wasn't present or didn't meet her there
she thought she had no access to it
we began with small steps nothing dramatic
christie told me later that the idea of relearning how to feel
sounded almost silly at first
as if sensation and desire were both basic instincts
that should just be there
but life had trained
to look outward for validation
and that inner connection
had gone quiet
so that's where we started
sensual presence
that took no more than five or ten minutes
it helped to realise
that her sensuality was still there
it had just become ignored and distant
We also worked with her in a voice.
Christy had internalised messages,
small unhelpful messages like you'll pass that.
Or that's not for people like you.
We tracked those stories, name them and gently rewrote them.
Instead of waiting for someone to say you're desirable,
she practiced saying it to herself quietly.
One word at a time.
Another gentle shift was reframing pleasure.
as something that lives inside her not granted by someone else something not to be embarrassed by but to
embrace as a beautiful part of her that idea landed for her like a door opening pleasure as an
available lived experience not a reward to be earned or a prize to be given away it was hers to give
to enjoy.
Within about three weeks,
Christy began to notice a significant change.
It wasn't sudden fireworks at first.
It was little steady things.
She said there were nights when she went to bed
feeling a warm glow in her body,
just from paying attention to her breath.
She'd find herself smiling unexpectedly,
noticing the way sunlight looked
on her arms or how gentle self-touch felt after a long hard day.
These were the small reclamations on the journey of conscious sensuality.
And then something she hadn't expected.
She experienced her first sustained accessible organ.
At 46 she told me she'd assumed that that moment had passed.
for her. She believed those experiences were only for other people, but through constant presence
breathwork and giving herself permission to fill without shame or performance, her body remembered,
or perhaps learned anew how to enjoy her deeper pleasure.
Once she had opened the gateway to her newfound sensuality, it just kept growing.
She said that she could become aroused in everyday sense.
situations, dusting the table, grocery shopping or even walking.
Not the kind of arousal that made her desperate for an orgasm, but the kind of growing, gentle warmth
that swelled inside her, reminding her just how sensual she was.
In the few moments her and her partner were intimate.
The change was dramatic.
Not because of anything he did, he hadn't changed, but because she had connected.
to her in the sensuality.
Now every touch was electric.
Every sensation was an avalanche of pleasure.
And her satisfaction became mind-blowing
as her sensual confidence grew further.
As she became more and more present in her own sensual moments,
her mind and body began opening to new experiences,
realizing the inhibitions she felt were imposed on her by other people.
They were never hers and she began living her authentic sensual life.
She was truly satisfied on every level and all because she took ownership of her natural sensuality.
She described it to me like this.
She was discovering an inner flame.
Not a flash of eroticism that needed someone else to light it,
but a steady warmth she could return to.
a resource she could draw on when she wanted.
And that resource changed how she related to her partner, her life, everything around her.
She didn't need him to create her pleasure.
She could bring more of herself to their connection, more presence, more invitation.
The difference opened new possibilities for communication and for a tenderness between them.
Now, this is important and I want to be clear on this.
Everybody's journey is their own.
Uniquely so.
Christie's timeline was hers.
People come to this with different histories, different bodies,
different layers of nervous system response.
So how you will experience a deeper pleasure will be uniquely yours.
But I do know that by learning how to be.
be present in your senses by restoring your permission to fill and deepening your connection
with your natural sensuality and practicing simple consistent exercises can create a meaningful shift
sometimes sooner than we expect so if christie's story resonates with you if you recognize that
feeling of being unattractive unsexual unsensual
and you want to reclaim your sensuality as your own.
I have a small complimentary audio
that can help you begin.
It's a gentle guided meditation
called the Inner Flame Gateway
about 15 minutes long
and it's designed to guide you
into a restful state
where we can safely open your senses
to your deeper sensuality.
Now you can find the download link in this episode's notes
Or you can come and see me at Inaflame.com
It's a free invitation
To give yourself a moment of focus sensual pleasure
So if you are ready to go deeper
Then you can take your inner fire even further
As we will take you through step-by-step guided audios
To reclaim your sensual present
to indulge in a deeper level of pleasure
not just in the bedroom but in daily life
in the world around you
and intensify the pleasure that you can experience
every single time
so if you'd like to learn more
you'll find a link in the show's notes
remember
christie's story is a reminder
that sensuality is not an external
luxury is not a thing you have to earn or be given. It's a part of you, waiting for permission
to be felt. If you're listening today and something inside you have softened, that's the
beginning. Be kind to yourself, start small, notice, breathe. But for now, thank you for
listening and sharing this time with me. And if this episode has touched you,
somewhere deep inside, and the inner flame gateway is waiting for you.
Or maybe you'd like to share this episode,
with someone who might need a gentle reminder that there in the flame it's always there.
