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What's the wildest thing you've ever seen or done at a wedding?
Love this, bro.
And it seems like there's something that happens at every wedding I've been to.
Man, I think I've done the best.
I've done the best job of not going to weddings.
Like if there's a guy who's dipping, ducking, dodging weddings,
I need a gold medal, bro.
I'm not going!
dude i honestly almost didn't go to my dad's second wedding i mean that's kind of a stretch too right
he was like hey if you don't have anything going on getting married tomorrow
i was like all right
to who no i'm just kidding no but uh it was like five minutes till tea time at his wedding
he's like hey we're getting married in like ten you got you you free
so stupid
um
but i'm not one time
i don't know i kind of feel like a dick
but
i don't i don't i still don't think deep down
anybody wants to go you're like literally
you're a dick
i don't think if i got married
tomorrow
if i got married to the love of my life
i i know deep in my heart and soul
that my family members
would be like, God damn it.
You know what I mean?
When they open the envelope,
Jesus, fuck, we got to...
All right, hold on.
And that right there
makes me not ever want to have a wedding, ever.
I know the first reaction...
The first reaction cannot be...
Oh my God, babe!
There's no way.
It's...
Ah, shit.
We got to buy this dude,
some glow-in-the-dark.
rocks I don't know but I usually don't go but when I when I have gone there has been some
stuff that's gone down um and somebody always passes out somebody has a heart attack somebody
can't walk you know what I mean I was in the bridal party one time and you know how
everybody comes out with the dance and the reception hey mr. DJ put a record on everybody
had a choreo. Dude, that on wedding day, my biggest fear, dude, the whole day, I'm not even
think about anything else, but what's our handshake going to be? I'm with this girl. She wants to
like, you know, do something fun and cool. And it all lands on my shoulders. Like, she's not
going to help. So let me just take like two days of brainstorming to figure out a little dance
so we can all be happy. And I was just like, you know what, I'm not doing it this time. Just
just walk up to me, look at me, face to face, in my eyes, wait three seconds, and then just
smacked a shooter to me. And she did. And it was, I think it was the, it was the best
wedding entrance of a lot. Got some people in the crowd. It was so good. I was like,
before we went out for the reception, before she said, they said our names, because we're like
behind a curtain and they did our thing. I was like, you have to hit me like, you, like, if it's
not going to work if you like shy shy away like you have to slap the piss out of me and she did
forever grateful oh it was good mr sir red cheek for the rest of the night loved it and then another
time cringe moment of the week i was doing the same thing at a reception the girl's like aren't you
comedian you're supposed to be like funny can you like make up a cool funny thing for us i was like
oh my go
so I tried to run it back
cringe moment of the week
and I was like okay
um how about this
we walk out there
five steps
boom boom boom boom boom boom
boom boom
you turn to me
I turn to you
you spit on your hand
and smack me across the face
she goes I have a boyfriend
and he's going to be at the wedding
I was like oh so we can't do anything fun
I forgot when you have a boyfriend
all bets are all
Craziest thing ever
I'm like
And you can't smack me in the face
Wouldn't he like that
Crazy
Let's hear yours
It's a wildest thing you've ever seen
Or done at a wedding
It was my uncle's third wedding
Me and my brother got absolutely hammer fucked
And started talking smack to each other
Five minutes later
everybody's at the bar
they got married
everybody's at the bar
and we just start
drawing
throwing
tables
and fucking slashing each other
just hitting
each other
it was pretty cool
but I ended up going to the hospital
because I slashed my
wrist open
there's got to be a fight
babe
if there's not a fight
it wasn't a good
wedding open bar everybody's first question open bar you know if people don't want to go
to your wedding when that's the first thing I ask you open bar though just want to get
fucked all always a little bit of a fight or someone's girl oh my god you know how many times have
you oh my how many times has your girlfriend been mad at you at a wedding
with your girlfriend. Well, possible fight
occurring tonight. Forecasts looking
like maybe a fight for absolutely no reason.
Oh, to not get in a fight,
I'm just going to have to be the biggest stiff
of all time at this wedding. Cool, yeah,
I can't wait. Let's go.
Well, like, I know you know her and you like
looked at her. So like,
we.
Sorry, I'm at the same
place at the same time as another
person I know.
Always a fight at a wedding, bro.
But like a fist fight, that's kind of lit.
As long as it didn't go down at the reception where like grandparents can see it, little
kids.
How about when you're at, when you're at a wedding reception, you still don't like the other,
like the person you're there for.
for you don't you don't like their family like the other person's family at all right
every time i'm at a wedding i'm like well it's us versus them i'm like ew dude why are they
like all their cousins on the dance floor this is this is our this is our this is our
we must protect this house baby this is our shit all her cousins are ugly ew that's her
You know, that's all you're doing at wedding reception.
Maybe my family's different,
but we always hate everybody on the other side of the wedding reception.
We're like, yo, dude, they're so ugly.
That kid's weird.
Just roasting them the whole time.
I don't know.
Do other people, like, get along at weddings?
I'm like, yo, this is crazy.
You can't tell me
you like the person.
and your best friend married.
You can't tell me that.
You can't.
There's no way deep in your soul that you're like,
they're perfect.
Shut up.
You're like so bitter and you're just like,
you're mad at yourself.
Shut up, Ash.
So this was actually my wedding.
I was marrying my husband at the time,
not married to him anymore.
Maybe there's a reason for that.
So the ceremony is going on.
The priest is saying, he's still a little spiel.
And I'm looking at my husband and I'm like, are you okay?
Because he's starting to look a little bit pale.
This motherfucker was so hungover.
I know.
And it was so hot outside.
And this was an Indian wedding.
So he was wearing like layers of just really, really thick clothing.
So then his eyes roll back and he starts to faint.
So I grab him.
and there's like this kind of like
there's like this really big chair
like during Indian weddings and so I like grab him
and I throw him in the chair
and then I had to like call someone to get him water
and then like a doctor was in the crowd
and they like brought him orange juice and stuff
it was embarrassing and crazy and weird
I don't know though
I mean if you're gonna have a wedding
you kind of want something I mean I hope he's okay
but like if something like that
happens at your wedding. I mean, you got something to remember, you know? Like down the road,
remember your dumbass fainted and we had to make you sip orange juice in the throne on stage? Like,
that's kind of sick. If I have a wedding, that's what, yeah, your eyes rolled back in your head.
That's what I want. You see that viral clip of that dude, that dude and that girl? And he was like,
last thing everybody we are expecting what everyone to have a great time tonight like some at that
something like that i've never seen that before am i like a am i like a boomer that i because i've
never seen anyone do that before that was that that dude crushed it got to have something
weird happening somebody feints this is this my show's on right when somebody faints at a wedding
Here we go. The good parts on. Everybody lock in.
I swear, if I have a wedding one day, I want everybody, everybody listening to this,
I want you to come, you're invited. And I want you to object. Stand in the back.
Don't do it!
That's my type of wedding right there. You want me to go to weddings? Bring back objections.
Yep. Don't care who.
you are.
Come one,
come all.
Who's not going
to that wedding?
Yeah, I was going
to start humming that
wedding song
that they always
play,
but I forgot how it goes.
Oh,
da,
da,
with us nationally.
Anyway,
yeah,
I haven't been
a ton of weddings.
It was not
present at my parents'
wedding,
so that's good.
That's definitely
the sign of a dirtball.
But I wasn't, thankfully.
More of my sisters.
Neither are that's worth.
So that's good.
It's wonderful.
It's a wonderful thing.
The most wild thing I've seen in a wedding.
That's a good question, bro.
What is, though?
Oh, yeah.
Oh, it's getting saucy.
Wait, do I have to be present at-said wedding?
If not, I'll start ripping lights from wedding crashers.
But if it's one that I was at.
Okay, probably.
So, you know, they always say.
You can have the chicken.
The steak or whatever.
Oh, my God.
It's just like they're taking a healthy choice meals, the frozen dins, or at the fur dins, if you will, the firmed a bag thing.
Burdins.
Anyway.
And they're just freaking whipping those up, you know what I mean?
Gross.
Like, I've been a few, I've been a few where it was good, but that I'm like, eh, it's like me in hospital.
Okay, let's get to the point.
So, you know, I'm like one of the chicken.
I'm like, you know what?
No, I don't actually want that.
a mistake.
They're like, but you ordered this.
I'm like, I know, but I'm changing my mind.
It's not like you don't have 58 versions of every file.
That's what I'm saying.
Yes, like, it's not like they have a limited supply, like they do, but they also don't.
You know what I mean?
It's not like they have, you know, only one of each or only one chicken for this guy.
They probably have one of each, right?
at least it's got two of each.
You know what I mean?
So,
and they were like, well, you're going to have to check.
And I'm like, oh, really?
You're calling me?
Station, I should know about this?
This roof, I'll tell you, it can think of beatings.
I've been knocked out for ages.
But anyway, yeah, no, nothing really crazy.
I would have seen at a wedding.
Oh, maybe a fight between the bride's father of the group.
But other than that,
Nah, not even that.
Yeah, just that or just a horrendous area soon, probably.
But that's all, kiss and test.
Tassah.
There it is.
Stuck to landing!
Milky Boys' SUV's been rolling off the side of a highway and a cornfield for two years.
Dude, he's always in the car.
There hasn't been one Milky Boy voice message where he's not...
I'm so over wedding food
I'm so glad we're talking about this
chicken steak or fish
I'd like to slap this shit out of everybody
just anything but those three
the sides
even the wedding cake man
the most
underwhelming thing
I'm kind of hype
I'm kind of hype for wedding cake at weddings
never been more disappointed
and nobody's eating it
usually I'm the only one
eating 45 pieces of like
mid cake
you ever notice that
nobody's eating the wedding cake
like during the reception
when the the dust is cleared
everybody's all full they've eaten
I'm like now's my time to shine
there's a whole ass cake there still
I'm like nobody touched it
am I allowed to have some
oh my god when you cut the cake
put the cake in your
her face. Am I a bitter person? Just all that seems like who hasn't done that? Every
wedding. Same thing. Can't remember one of them. Same thing. Oh, your wedding? Oh, it was the same
as my, okay. Oh, your wedding was the same thing as ring. Okay, it was the same thing.
One time I just declined being a groomsman. I didn't know. I was like young. If it happened now,
probably just do it, probably not. But I did just tell my homie like, hey, man, sorry. And I didn't
even have a reason. We were just at his house. And I was like, why is he inviting me over? It was like,
he's like, yo, should we like go to the baseball game? I was like, why are we like,
are you going to ask to marry me? I was like, well, we don't ever really hang out like this.
And I just went over at his house. Yeah, check it out. And he started talking about getting married.
and I was just like, hey, dog, before you invite me to be a groomsman, I just, I'm not, I'm good.
Like, nothing on you?
I can't believe I said it.
Oh, my God.
I don't think he cared.
I still went to the wedding.
I'm a big go to the wedding and then not to the reception guy.
And they're always like, oh my God, you're a dickhead because like they accounted for your food.
Okay, one piece of fish
Shut up
You're a deck
So my husband has this uncle
Who at every family wedding
He always does the
Gator dance from Animal House
Where he gets down on the ground
And like flops around
And then people basically like hop over him
He's known for this
Our wedding
there was a guest there who I had seen earlier when she dropped it low,
wasn't wearing any underwear.
Okay.
And later when the uncle goes to do the gator dance,
I see her hopping across him and I immediately realize what's happening.
And I see his eyes widen.
And it was absolutely hilarious.
Something that we laugh about still to this day, six years later.
dude you got to retire the dance after that you have to who's a who's going commando like that
at a wedding how freaky you got to be you know you already know i am but girls go in
commando under dresses what's the percentage because trust me i've i've looked
I mean, it's just a reaction.
No, I'm not looking up people's dresses,
but like you see, you know what I mean?
They're never not.
They always have something on.
At a wedding?
Like, short, like, she noticed the girl didn't have anything on.
You always kind of can tell, but like, bro,
10 out of 10 times got some spanks on.
Why is everybody so horny at weddings?
It's got fucked up.
Okay, I started over like four times because I started with a couple different stories
and I was like, I just need to go with the G-rated one.
Okay, G-rated.
So this wedding, it was an outside wedding.
And with outside weddings, there is a lot to consider.
You have to consider how the weather is going to be.
You have to consider, you know, lighting.
You have to consider noises, distractions, all these things, right?
So this particular wedding that we were at, ceremony starts, you know, everyone gets down the aisle, the officiant starts talk, all of a sudden, ambulance, fire truck, all the things go by, right?
So they had to stop the ceremony for like probably a minute and a half, which if you're just like sitting there, it's very awkward.
So then he starts again, and then another five minutes go by.
I kid you not
a train comes by
so now we're sitting there
for probably at least three
three and a half four minutes
whatever it is I love this story
again it seems like an eternity
train stuffs
fishing keeps going
kid you not
grandma was in like the front row
so I couldn't see exactly what happened
but I think she like reached down
to like because she dropped her like program
and she falls out of her chair
and there was like this loud thud
and like gasps and like everyone like turns and looks
no one's like helping her
so finally one of the gruisman is like
looks like I'll help her
and he gets out of line
goes help goes to help grandma
gets her back in her chair
and then like finally at the very end
like kiss happens
they announce the couple
we go in
and kind of from there like there was just more just odd weird crazy stuff that happened throughout
the entire reception it was just it was actually kind of more cringe than anything so like the
outside was really wild but the inside was just cringe so that was just the wildest wedding that
I've really witnessed and been a part of I would think that it wasn't meant to be if I was literally
the guy getting married I'd be like I don't
I don't know. Oh my God. That's my worst feeling of all time. Being up there and being like, I don't really know if I want to do this. Oh! I can't be the only one that's thinking that. That's where you guys come in from the back. Don't do it! Telling you, bro. Need you back there.
too many sirens.
I think every 15 seconds where I live,
a police and firefighter screams down the road.
I don't know.
I had a wedding.
Just got to be so hot.
outside. What about inside weddings? What are we doing there? Is it because it's always outside
and all the reasons everything sucks about weddings is everybody's like, well, like, it was just
cheaper. It was just cheaper. Well, yeah, we had it outside at this barn in the middle of absolutely
nowhere because, and it was 97 degrees in August, because it was cheaper. I'm like, dog,
you shouldn't have got married when you were poor. What's the
I just, I just got to know, man.
I know I'm like, I probably sound annoying, but why, what's the hurry?
I just really want to know what the hurry is.
Now, dude, when girls are 25 in their head, they have like, that's the siren.
They have, oh, woo, got to get married alarm.
Girls will pick just the near.
guy.
Type into Google.
A girl when she turns 25.
Guy near me.
When I was like, right after college, I was seeing people get married and I was like,
I know she doesn't even like him.
Right?
You know those people?
There's no way.
I'm like, in my friends, I'm like, I know you, bro.
You don't really want to do that.
Then they get divorced.
And I'm like, I mean.
yeah good for you when they get divorced dude when people get divorced i've never been happier am i satan
when people get divorced i'm like good move being divorced got to be getting divorce got to be the
funniest thing of all time hey yeah let's get married let's have a family a couple kids
and then uh one day you know i'm just going to be like i'm just just kidding
I didn't really like you that much.
Oh shit.
After 14 years, hey, you know what?
I'm just messing with you.
Wasn't really into it.
Whoops.
News flash, babe.
I don't know.
Okay, I'm a wedding coordinator.
So I feel like this is right at my alley.
There was one wedding that I did at our venue where the...
There's only one person that hates weddings more than me.
It's got to be here.
A couple spent the majority.
of their wedding budget on our actual venue and chose not to follow any of the recommendations
that we had for food or anything like that. And they had it over the dinner hour, but they didn't
serve dinner. And they only had one piece of appetizer per person. So they ordered four
different appetizers and each person only got one piece and they had brought in donuts to
substitute for their wedding cake and because there was no dinner oh my god there was only one
appetizer per person passing out they um the guests went and ate all of the donuts during
cocktail hour oh yeah when they opened up the dance floor for dancing at like 7 p.m
everybody was like door dashing jimmy john's table side and everybody left by 830 maybe i'll be
right back with another one oh my god i love this dude i need some wedding planner dirt
i i have to i i know wedding planners hate weddings more than anybody else i know it it's so
dude doesn't make any sense to me when people have a wedding and then the reception like
two hours away. I'm like, honestly, who planned this? Like, I'm not the guy that should plan
anything, but I know, I know that this is inconvenient. Like, if I know one thing, bro,
going to a wedding and then driving somewhere else for the reception, keep in mind, nobody cares
about either thing is a huge, the whole day. Bye day. Bye, bye, by day.
So another wedding I coordinated, I could tell that the wedding party was going to be a bit of a handful.
And I was right, just kind of based on the rehearsal.
It was very loud, very disorganized.
Probably me and five my friends.
And the entire groomsman party showed up wearing shoes with Playboy bunnies printed all over.
them to their wedding day, which was great. And then another wedding that I did, they were openly
snorting, crushed Adderall in the bridal suite and pairing it with alcohol. That one I did
let my manager know about because I didn't like the idea of pairing Adderall and alcohol and potentially
getting into some kind of crazy psychiatric crisis.
But I could tell wedding stories all day.
Keep them coming, babe.
Okay.
Bye.
That just seems like every wedding I've ever been to, dude.
I hate to be this guy, but every wedding I've been to, me and my friends, again, we're
like 23, not ready to do anything.
frontal lobe not even developed yet
let's get them married
we're getting trashed in the
in the groomsman little room
in a church
bro that was the first thing
hey you know why everybody wants to get so drunk
at a wedding because nobody wants to be there
I'm so sorry
I just I can't
I can't deal with it anymore
sneaking
beers into a wedding
in the church
it just doesn't make any sense
I'm like I'm going to the whole wedding
I was like I'm going to hell dude
I've got four beers in my
men's warehouse
rental jacket right now
there's no way this checks out
I've got beer breath
by a baptismal font
and we got
we gotta go all day
I got 99 bananas
shooters in my back pockets
just standing in
there. How you doing? How you doing? Oh, you're her dad? Oh, my God. Yeah. That's a beautiful church.
Beautiful. Me, haven't slept in 48 hours. White stuff in the corners of my mouth.
Yeah. You'll be lucky to have them. What am I saying? Uh-huh.
My left eye doesn't work.
Uh-huh. Exactly. I know, right? Yeah, the priest for a minute, I didn't even,
uh-huh. Fake wedding voice. You got to put on your fake wedding voice. Masking your drunk
breath. Uh-huh. Oh my God, you're her cousin. I don't know. Every time I'm at wedding,
I'm just, I'm just totally against the other family that's getting married. I'm like, I hate them all.
I hate them all.
Every one of them. I don't want to see them ever again. Hey, they're getting married and you have to, the families are joining. I don't like them even more now.
Okay, so I was at one of my best friends' weddings and I wasn't a bridesmaid. She didn't really have like a wedding party, but she gave me a dress that she wanted me to wear to kind of match the whole vibe and ambiance she was going for.
I like it.
So anyway, usually when, you know, a dance breaks out.
The drinks are flowing
My go-to move
Is doing the worm
In the middle of the dance floor
So
You know the party's going
The dances going
The drinks are flowing
And I'm buzzing
And I'm like
It's go time
So I jump in to the middle
Of the dance floor
Circle, you know, opens up
And there I go
doing the worm
and doesn't my dress
come all the way up
and my entire ass
was exposed to
everybody
all the family kids
bridegroom
everybody saw my butt
um yeah
so
pretty sure someone got a video of it too
but yeah
oh yeah so many picks
that was that was memorable
Her big moment.
Oh, what's she going to do?
Dumber.
Dumpy.com.
Dumpy on the dance floor.
So we're going to Commando.
We're going to Commando at weddings.
Figured it out that is the place to go Commando.
You know the boys are.
You know the bros are going to Commando.
Didn't know the girls were.
At least, I hope.
at least you were doing the worm
forwards so white though
so white but it also kind of hits
when somebody can hit the worm and do it right
you're like wow
dude's kind of getting some elevation
bro's got a little hang time down there
smooth worm upper body strength
but when somebody does
the worm backwards
cut his head off
The worm backwards got to be the dumbest thing.
Wait, what?
The worm backwards or the fish hook in the mouth?
Me at every wedding, though.
Fish hook guy?
Hey.
To a girl I think I like.
To a girl that has no idea I exist.
Hey.
Me.
Me at every wedding.
Hey, me at every wedding.
She doesn't even move closer to me.
I was really, really young, and I was at a wedding.
And they did the whole tap-in-the-glass thing with your silverware.
Oh, yeah.
Big speech or whatever to get everybody's attention.
They tapped the glass, like with a fork or knife or whatever.
So they give their speech.
And at the end of the speech, I thought it was really cool how they made that noise
with the glass
and it's everywhere.
So I went ahead
and I tapped the glass
with mine and I tapped it so hard
that I broke it
and like the contents
of the glass guy everywhere.
So yeah.
So
tap in the glass.
Or for me it was always
they tap the glass
and the bride and groom kiss
bro.
I was on that.
That's all I wanted the whole time.
Ding,
ding, ding, ding, ding.
They kiss.
Ding, ding, ding.
They kiss.
Ding, ding, ding, ding.
somebody shoots me in the neck sorry every second hey make him kiss again dude make
him kiss make him kiss make him kiss you won't hey you want me at every wedding hey kisser
kiss her pussy he always this sweaty at a wedding do kisser kisser
I'm not surprised you broke the glass dog every single thing they serve it's like plastic glass
it's not real glass at a wedding it's plastic glass plastic plates plastic knives every
I'm convinced every wedding I've been to has been like it's it's not a it's not a good
financial situation
yeah
I mean there's a couple I've been to
they've always been Barnes in the middle of nowhere
why is it always that
big ass hoe down four hours away
why are we in Tennessee
a destination wedding
you got to be kidding me
for what
we're going to cancun
dog i mean
you better pay for absolutely everything
everything
uber to get me every like
come on man
so
the most right thing i've done at a wedding
i went to my ex's
wedding but it wasn't like a x it was like
the x but to be fair
he sent the group text to
like all of our friends.
And I purposely respond and it was like,
I don't know if I'm going to be able to go just in case he forgot to take me out.
So we kept a side combo about it.
He did a side combo and he just said, let me know.
So I just pulled up to the wedding in my classyish,
hope for show dress that I could wear.
And I got checked out three times while he was dancing with his break.
So, but I'm no longer toxic like that anymore because that's just like not nice karma.
That's got to be.
that's that might have to be
a guy's worst fear
right
you're getting married
you kind of don't even like
guys when guys get married
are they 100% sure they want to do it
I know that sounds that sounds like weird
but like I think
maybe it's me
I think there's like a 10%
like you know
if this got rained out
really wouldn't be mad
am I insane
it's always 90-10
girls it's like 200 over zero
even if they don't want to do it
they're still going to do it
but guys it's like there is a there's a little
percent in there that's like
don't know
and then on top of that
the girl you probably should have
married is there. Hey, having fun. No! Dude, when you're in a relationship and you see a girl that
you actually kind of like more and she's having fun, yo! I gotta excuse myself. Bro,
bro, nothing, nothing worse in that moment as a dude. Why are you in a relationship if you don't
really like her because sometimes in relationship things happen or you know what you know what it is
you're in a relationship with somebody and it's like you know it's a good relationship but then you
just it doesn't even have to be a girl you just see your friends like having fun and you're like
oh my god oh my god i can't go to that because i have a girlfriend uh uh uh uh
I always get caught up.
Because if I'm in a relationship, I'm like,
what if I wasn't?
I know.
I know that sounds bad.
I know it sounds bad.
But every time I'm in a relationship,
I think of myself, not in a relationship.
But I'm like, man, I kind of kind of had it going on.
What up?
so I don't know how wild this is to see you at a wedding
but I believe it's just super corny
but I was put at a table
where there was a guy who was prepping for a bodybuilder competition
and he literally brought all his meals
and ate them at the table
like he didn't drink the whole night
he didn't have any of the appetizers
not even the main meal.
He had literally like three meals and, you know, when you're at a wedding, you're there
for a couple hours and he ate them all at the table.
Like, he could just went to his car because you know that motherfucker didn't drink that
night, but he didn't.
And to not be corny, just go into your car and eat those meals.
And I have to show everybody like, oh, you're prepping for a bodybuilder competition.
Yeah.
Like, those guys are just crazy.
it's like of course you want to look good and be fit but to be at that level and like you're not
really competing at like some crazy mr olympia level it's not even worth it one day of eating
the stupid plain chicken and vegetables that they give you at a wedding anyway which is kind of healthy
yeah i mean just eat it and don't be cornball
dude go to the car
to show. He's trying to make it about him. How can I make this about me? Got your little meal
prep, clear plastic, little locks on the side. Rice, chicken, veggies. Yeah, I eat it every day.
I am that guy. I am that guy. But I would, uh, I would definitely just eat the wedding food.
Because the wedding food is low key is healthy. It's fake.
but like in theory
vegetables and chicken
you're eating
that's the same thing
you're eating
and how nice
would it be
going out to the car
during that
how many breaks
during a wedding
do you need
13, 14
hey let's go outside
for a second
that's when I want
to pick up smoking
why did you start smoking
weddings
how did I just had to get out of there
Jesus Christ
let's keep going
Last one
So about three years ago
At my cousin's wedding
I was swiping on this app
That's like purely meant for hooking up
It's called Field
And match with this girl
And
You know we make plans for after the wedding
To get together
And spend about an hour
Walking around the town
You know
smoking, getting to know each other, and then, you know, maybe 45 minutes or another hour
and air quotes, you know, hanging out, and air quotes.
And having, you know, talked to her since then, but fast forward to now my younger cousin's
getting married in three weeks, and I hit her up after not talking to her for the last
three years, and she's going to be my plus one at the wedding.
So, yeah, maybe not too wild, but no one really there will know the back story.
So anonymously, all your listeners will.
Kind of player.
There's just a hookup only app, you dirty dog.
Who knew?
Isn't that every app, though?
Every app is a hookup app.
Are people really getting into relationships?
from apps.
How desperate are you?
How desperate are you?
You had to download an app
to find somebody you love.
What?
I don't know.
I mean, I guess that's pretty much
what Instagram is.
You just find people on there
you want to like be friends with and stuff.
Your Instagram's more of a dating app
than dating apps.
Hey, you want to know who you like?
Who's popping up on your story?
story first.
Jesus Christ.
I looked at my story the other day,
or I looked up with the people that were like had stories active the other day.
I was like,
oh my God.
What is this?
All of them have sternum tattoos.
Just kidding.
Is he kidding?
Is he kidding?
What kills me is so funny to me is when girls find like other dudes that have like a tinder.
You know what I mean?
like they're in a relationship
when a girl's in a relationship
with a dude and that dude has like a secret
Tinder oh my god
bro
you didn't think
she'd find that out
what
bro every girl probably has a password to your
email account every girl has all your passwords
I'm convinced
you didn't think she was going to find your
fake dating profile
dog
I've seen so many people that are like
Oh my God
He activated his Tinder after we got in one fight
And he thought I would know
Girls
Oh my God
It's amazing
I don't know how you guys do it
But you have a secret group chat
That has every girl in the world in it
And you know everything about everything
Dudes would have no idea
if I did a girl
and she had a secret tinder
who's telling me?
Who's telling me?
Guys don't say
anything about girls
after they like
do anything with them.
Maybe in like sixth grade
but after that I'm like dog
I don't want to know any of your business.
Girls are like,
let me, I want to know
how big is this dick?
I'm like, Jesus.
what happened to like personal info
bros are just like yeah i mean
bros are like guys don't even want to like tell you what happened
they're like uh we just like kind of we we we were
I saw for like a second that's that's how much detail guys are given
you hung out with that girl last night yeah we just like uh
got food that was it
they could have spent the whole 24 hours together that's what the guy's saying
where'd you guys say where'd you guys
go? I don't really. I mean, I don't know.
Some place. She like showed me.
That's it. That's it. And that's, that's it.
That's it. They could be married in five years.
Wouldn't know anything about it.
How the hell do we wind up like this?
Why were we waiting?
Just keep kind.
Just do days.
Days. Days of the way.
week Thursday
today
IPA day
IPA day
IPA lot
God
Gumblehead
you know you just tell
when people drink IPAs
that's the funniest part about IPAs
it's so obvious
oh you drink you drink
It's either 100%
You've never had one or that's all you drink
All right, cool
Yeah, I'll take like a zombie dust
What a thing
What an idea
And we just pounced on it
And they're
They are so popular
At restaurants
All IPAs
What do you guys have on
we guys have on tap
I haven't drank in a hot minute
but yo
I don't even know if this counts as an IPA
but boy
the best beer I've ever had
probably not a surprise
but that
I shouldn't even be talking about this
but that blue moon
with that
with half of
an orange in it? I mean, come on. Is that an IPA? I don't know. But just an orange juice
with some pizza? Get out of town! Crispy crust. Just shoving oranges in that thing.
Half the reason I'm drinking anything is for the fruit. Wittress has got to be so pissed.
I'm sorry. Yep. Yeah, I'm the guy that orders a club soda and gets 14 limes and 14 lemons around the rim. Mm-hmm. Yeah. You're going to talk shit about me behind my back to the rest of the wait staff. And that's fine. That's fine. I just got to, I just have to have all the fruit you had. And when I worked at a restaurant, I was eating all the fruit. I thought it was so crazy that they just had oranges, cherries, lemons, and limes.
Hey, will you cut the fruit before we open?
I had an orange peel over my mouth like a monkey.
Who's not eating all that?
If you work at a restaurant,
you eat so much crap.
And you won't turn it down either.
Pass by those little, you know how every restaurant
has like those little like dull dull pineapple like cans for the bartender to make like
mixed drinks with pineapple bro i was clapping those where's all the pineapple cans where's
all the canned pineapple going me 13 cans rattling around in my cargo pockets
i don't know don't know don't know down in it and like cruise
Routons, bro.
Oh.
Oh.
Get over here.
We just had it in our,
in the restaurant I worked in,
we just had a huge,
huge, huge,
Cambrough of raisins.
Shut up.
Golden raisins.
Every time I come downstairs,
Oh.
Oh.
Just tractor size handful.
holes.
Don't care.
We had a big one of almonds too.
I was like, is this a trick?
Am I going to be on like punked?
Don't leave any food around me, boy.
All that little shit during the day.
Just fries.
You know what I mean?
Just fries.
Fries on the side of a plague.
Yeah, I'll take four.
Are you kidding me?
Everybody's doing that.
And if you're not secretly eating the food that people don't eat,
you're disgusting!
I don't even know if we can talk.
So this kid ate,
ordered 13 chicken wings, had two.
You don't think I'm going to take down 11 chicken wings real quick,
that he didn't even touch.
He might have sneezed on him.
Good.
all that.
Dude, I was eating carbs that you couldn't even believe.
Spoon bread?
Just a big fluffy pancake with butter on it.
Hey, we got a spoon bread.
If anybody want,
before they could even end the sentence, bro.
What?
Oh my God.
That restaurant life is so wild.
The way you hated it,
but the way like,
if you put me in tomorrow
I could still probably do it
the way you hated it
but you kind of miss it at the same time
starts crying
gets a job at Buffalo Wild Wings
Sea Serpent Day
so can snakes be
under water and in the air
I'm still kind of not understanding
one.
I always see
videos of snakes
in the water
and I'm like
okay so they can just
be in there
for how long?
For how long?
If you ask me
we really need to put
I know I know
nobody asked
but
can we just put
a little more
respect on
electric eels
can we think about electric eels for a second
big snakes that electrify you
and we're not talking about that
oh yeah floaty thing terrifying teeth
uh huh like a snake uh probably faster
yep oh it's disgusting yeah that's scary looking
comes at you quick uh huh
what else does it do it can electrify you
what
there's so many animals
that I'm like
are we sure
do we
is that a myth
are those really not electric
do they call them that
was that like a
god dang
saw a video of an eagle
that picked up a goat
and just dropped it
from like a really high mountain
and killed it
I didn't know
Eagles were doing that.
I know Eagles are fierce, but
bro, if your dog
got scooped up by an eagle,
I would be like,
nothing you can do
about that, baby.
You know what's happening, but can you stop it?
Just keep going.
Pickled all day.
Friday. Pickleball Day.
Can't hate on pickleball.
Can't hate on it because we played it my freshman year in PE class
and it was the best week I've ever had my life.
Oh my God.
I had so much fun.
And I didn't know if it was an actual game or it was just like a game my PE teacher
made up in his head with his dad or something.
I'm like pickleball.
This is a game you and your.
brother played when you're in your dad's garage one day when you're 12 and 13 and you're we're
we're just playing it i had so much fun i had so much fun and it was we had such a good class all
week everybody was so happy the teacher was it do you know you when your p.e teacher's having
fun with you you're like yes yes mrs hayling was even having fun with us
yes she was playing
Yeah, because every, I don't know, every PE class I've ever been to,
we're always getting in trouble the whole time.
I'm like, oh my God.
Like, is there one thing we can do without getting yelled at?
Jesus Christ.
Yeah, we're playing dodgeball and I threw the ball at the girl's face
and like now I'm getting yelled at for it.
We're playing dodgeball though.
Bro, when your PE teacher starts getting in the action with the dog,
too, you don't, you, nothing, nothing.
more hype than that. Oh yeah, we're going in. Like your boys get excited. You're trying to get the
teacher out. Oh. Or when your coach starts kind of coach at practice starts going in a little bit.
You've never been more excited than when you're scrimaging and one of the coaches starts playing
QB and he starts running the ball. Oh my God. I thought I was in fantasy land. We're playing real
defense. Our real coach
who's probably like 30
gets under center, runs the option.
He's like, hit me!
Oh my God, dude. Doing fake pitches.
I've never
that's when I turned gay.
Nah, but when your PE teacher
starts going ham with you.
Beautiful feeling. I'm like, you do.
You do like me.
All those times you yelled at me, you were looking out for me.
It's a, it's a moment, bro.
Yeah, Coach K, he yelled at me earlier today.
But then he picked me on his ultimate frisbee team.
He told me, he told me I should try out for the, like, the college team.
Dude, there's always ultimate frisbee.
Like, how come there's always every college camp is,
I've ever even stepped foot on in my entire life.
There's immediately an ultimate frisbee game going on
in front of my face.
Can't go anywhere without finding an ultimate frisbee team.
CBD day.
Did anybody ever actually buy into that?
I don't think that,
I don't think they got me one time.
Oh, CBD.
I was like, okay, dude.
Like, you just know,
when something's fake.
CBD-infused coffee.
Shut up.
I don't think I ever took one hit of anything, CBD.
Yeah, I probably would have died or something.
Did they even do CBD anymore?
You know what it is now?
It's freaking Brazilian.
Wait, what?
buy chocolate.
Okay.
I've had enough.
It's pickle everything.
It's Dubai,
Dubai chocolate,
and I don't,
it's not good.
It looks like the stuff you,
the crust on the edge of your lawnmower
when you get done cutting the grass.
That's on the lawnmower
and you got to like bang it off
like with your foot.
You got to kick it off.
That's Dubai chocolate.
It's just a bunch of nothing.
You know when they start selling like stuff on the side of the road that it's just such a scam.
Dubai, I saw a Dubai chocolate tent.
Get the, get out!
Dubai chocolate cookie.
Hey, I fell for it.
Come on.
He's buying 12 cookies at a Dubai chocolate chocolate.
one, I was like, this is the time I tried to buy chocolate.
Tasted like nothing.
Dubai chocolate.
Dubai, bye.
I got to see you later.
Come on.
It's got.
It was pretty good.
a rice pudding day oh why does that sound kind of good oh why is that rice
or why is rice pudding sound kind of good though i don't even know if i've had it unless
it was at a buffet but i've had it it it's kind of warm oh my god what's going on with
rice pudding am i pregnant
garage sale day
a mom in the car
during a garage sale day
most dangerous woman
in the world
you've never seen more fury
behind someone's eyes
than a mom on a garage sale day
your mom on garage sale day
just to get nothing too
oh my god oh my god oh my
did you see oh my god $9
oh we need to go to their house on the corner
they're having one
they're having one
all to get nothing
maybe a chair
maybe a chair for the patio
it's cute it's cute
that's a deal
it's cute
trying to convince you
I'm like
what a load of crap
at every garage sale
what a scam
yeah
we don't want to
crap
yeah
do it
we're gonna throw it
out
see if they want it
yeah
a tub of baseball
cards
2002
Mark Tashara
put all our
in the garage
and then you go in the
dude
you start
you start
asking if stuff
in the garage
is for sale
you ever do that
it's not
for sale you're like what about that leaf blower is that for sale you start like making things up
in your head you're like if that leaf blow is for sale I might actually last one I had died
a couple weeks ago you got to pee in their house too hey do you guys have a bathroom I know I'm really
sorry peeing in somebody else's house that you've never been in before I'm like this is how
you decorate this good lord bathroom always smells like like flowers like wait
too much. You're like, Jesus Christ.
A lot of furry stuff in the bathroom. You ever notice that?
You pee in somebody else's house, like unannounced.
They always have like, um, it seems real busy.
Like there's a lot of, like the rug is like shaggy. There's like a lot of rugs.
There's like a thing on top of the toilet. That's a rug. There's like a rug on the toilet seat.
There's a rug but below the toilet seat. There's so many towels, extra, extra.
extra extra, extra towels, towel by this, towel by that.
I'm like, has anyone ever been in here before?
This seems like, it seems like you, you decorated this bathroom when he moved in,
then lock the door for seven years.
I'm like, there's like little angel statues and figurines.
I'm like, this bathroom is so much.
God forbid, I move a half inch.
My elbow knocks over 13 little angel baby statues.
Sunday
Smoor's Day
Smoor's Day
I just
They've just never done anything for me
I'm sorry
I'm sorry Smoor community
but I don't want anymore
um even s'mores like s'm more even on fourth of july with the actual smore i'm like
it's good but you really got it you really got to dress this thing up
smores teddy grams smores pop tarts
I think, I think they got us.
You know what I mean?
It's nothing.
I need more chocolate and it's a lot of,
it's a lot of,
it's a lot of marshmallow and gram cracker.
And that really doesn't do anything for me.
It's more as this, more is that, it's too much.
It's not that good.
We're overhyping.
it. Somebody tell them we're done.
I had a s'm cooking. It was kind of good.
I mean, that's like one out of every 20 things.
I think I overstayed my s'mer welcome one time.
I mean, I was looking for trouble.
I was starving.
And you know when you're like on the go and you don't have anything to eat,
so you have to go to the grocery store
because it's the only place open
so I was like
I guess I'll just go to the grocery store
and get something to eat
but like it can't be hot
because it's like you know what I mean
I'm just like on the move
in my head I'm like I'm probably just gonna
like buy some granola bars or something
and just like house a box of granola bars
I was starving
but instead I just got a box of six s'mores
pop tarts and I'm like these have to be gas
like these have to be good
took them all out
I don't know how many
Pop-Tarts that is
individually
12
all on the way
to some idiot's house
best Pop-Tart flavor
not a Pop-Tart podcast
but best Pop-Tart flavor
it's probably going to be
like kind of a
kind of a hot take
it's hot fudge Sunday
it's hot foot sunday
like
I don't know if I would eat that in the morning for breakfast
but like at night
at night
you telling me you're gonna rock
with a strawberry oh gee at night
at night
it's time to get naughty
that Sunday
and I dare you to
put that thing in a microwave put that put that thing on 10 in the microwave ew you put in the
microwave yes yeah let me pull out the toaster this takes 30 minutes i'll forget about it i'll burn my
finger it's just a nightmare in a toaster microwave 10 seconds boom perfect still intact
remember the first time i put my pop tarts in a toaster i was like these are going to be amazing
they're folded like this burnt weird i was like this is not a pop tart anymore i i kind of i almost
prefer my pop tarts raw right out of the pack no don't even warm them up babe
babe i want my pop tarts on default settings
that hot fudge sunday at night
hitting so hard.
Oh, the chocolate Pop-Tart, too.
Brown sugar cinnamon at night?
It's not doing it, man.
It's not doing it.
Even Hot Fudge Sunday in the morning, you're like, whoa, there's sprinkles on it.
They were in their bag when they made Hot Fudge Sunday Pop-Tarts.
Wild, Wildberry,
I feel like I couldn't have those
unless I want to sweep steaks or something.
I was like, oh my God.
And I feel like a lot of people still don't even have them.
Like, I've never even seen wild.
I kind of haven't really seen Wildberry Pop-Tarts
at my friend's house growing up.
I haven't seen them, like, I only see them in the store
and I'm like, whoa, those are like forbidden.
HFS, babe.
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