Experts of Experience - Breaking Through The LLM Filters & Designing The Offer They Can’t Refuse
Episode Date: June 18, 2025What happens to marketing when AI controls the entire purchase funnel?Steven Van Belleghem, global CX thought leader, keynote speaker, and author, joins us to unpack how AI isn’t just changing workf...lows, it’s rapidly transforming customer decision-making itself.Uncover how customer expectations are shifting, how brands can prepare for AI-powered shopping assistants, and why the brands of the future must be search-visible, review-backed, and emotionally resonant. Steven warns that most companies are only focused on internal AI efficiencies… while ignoring how customer journeys are being upended in real time.We also explore his framework for “The Offer You Can’t Refuse,” why authenticity is overrated, and what a 1% human experience should look like when everything else is automated. If you're a CX leader, marketer, or executive wondering what to do when the funnel disappears and your customers outsource their decisions to algorithms—this is the conversation you can't afford to miss. Key Moments:00:00 The Rise of LLMs in Search and Their Impact04:29 Introducing Steven Van Belleghem, CX Expert, Author, and Keynote Speaker07:22 Steven's Journey: From Family Business to AI Expert13:22 The Future of AI in Customer Experience and Branding34:55 Steven’s Four Pillars of Success37:26 Examples of European Companies Excelling in Customer Experience40:12 The Power of Small Changes in Customer Experience46:51 Authenticity vs. Artificial Experiences51:49 The Impact of AI on Customer Experience55:10 Leadership's Role in Customer-Centric Culture01:02:06 Lightning Round: Steven’s Personal Inspirations and Advice –Are your teams facing growing demands? Join CX leaders transforming their AI strategy with Agentforce. Start achieving your ambitious goals. Visit salesforce.com/agentforce Mission.org is a media studio producing content alongside world-class clients. Learn more at mission.org
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What kind of brands will get through the AI filter? What kind of brands will be blocked by the AI filter?
The role of branding will become more important than ever in this world of AI.
Do you think content creation is going to become more important for brands?
The models, they look more for external advice than self-promotion.
Absolutely.
What if the entire funnel happens on an AI platform where you don't have the possibility to advertise,
where you don't have control over the advertise, where you don't have control
over the kind of content that will show up about your brand or product.
This is fundamentally different than what we're used to.
Talk about loyalty builder though.
What if this changes?
And what if the entire funnel happens on one platform where you do not have influence on
those touch points?
I think that's the most radical change we're going to see with AI, if you ask me.
It's not about the big project. it's not about the big things, it's about the 1,000
small things that you improve for your customers, and that's how they start to love you.
Yeah, that's amazing.
Every company is now focused on AI.
All these AI projects are internally focused.
I haven't heard a lot of people talk about or want to tackle even the actual customer
experience with AI.
There's still this trust gap that people have where they're like, I don't trust
it to talk to my customers yet. How's that going to change their behavior?
The behavior of customers is changing rapidly. Imagine that tomorrow OpenAI tells the world,
hey, we're open for business, just share some money and we're going to have sponsored posts.
Billions will flow in on day one.
Do you think there's a place for sponsored content in these LLMs?
I'm afraid, Lacey, that sooner than later,
we're going to have an advertising-based model in AI platforms.
Yeah. And then everything changes.
Welcome back to Experts of Experience.
I'm Lacey Pease, your host,
and I have producer Rose on the other line with me.
I have one thing I want to share with you, Rose, and I think you'll find this super interesting.
There has been a 700% plus increase in LLM use for search since 2024.
So in a year, people's use of, you know, chat GPT, CLAWD, choose your LLM that you prefer,
has increased by more than 700%.
So here's the flip side of that statistic.
That only covers two to 3% of global search.
So like it's increased significantly,
but now it's at 3% in 2025.
So we're not talking about 90% of people
are using LLMs for search.
90% of people are still using Google for search.
It might have dipped slightly below.
Let's see, I think Google's at 89% of global search market,
but it's still a massive amount.
Though, that's the first time in a decade
that they've dipped below 90%.
So it is, times are changing.
It's significant.
I just want to say something to anyone listening 90%. So it is, you know, times are changing. It's significant. Yeah.
I just want to say something to anyone listening that primarily still uses Google. I really
recommend switching to an LLM for search. It's extremely sophisticated and I found it
very reliable. I mean, even compared to a year ago, Lacey and I were talking about this
earlier that a year ago, I remember kind of feeling like iffy about, it just felt like maybe chat GPT specifically was getting, it was misinterpreting
what I was saying.
It was getting a little confused sometimes.
I had to kind of really have a full conversation with it, give it a lot of context to get good
content from it.
Fast forward to now, I could probably give it a fragmented sentence with most of the
words misspelled
and it will understand what I'm asking it.
Well, and there's other options besides GPT
because I still find there are limits with GPT.
Like I was asking, and my husband and I had a day together
the other two weeks ago, and I was asking it
for the best Bloody Mary place in Austin.
And it presented all these options, but it didn't show me,
even though I said I needed to be open right now,
like Friday afternoon, it gave me options that were not open. So I had to go to Google because
Google sows if the restaurant's open or not. So there's definitely still some things missing
with GPT, but I think the thing that I find most fascinating and the kind of the point
of this is like, it's changing rapidly. People are adopting it at a rapid pace and it's improving
super quickly. So like, what does that mean for CX? What does that mean for sales? What does that mean for marketing?
What does that mean for this entire process of workflow that you maybe have optimized for Google?
You've optimized for SEO. You've created a bunch of content that performs well there.
And now this entire playbook that you've been using for years is changing and shifting. And
where you're going to be showing up and how people are going to be finding you and how your brand is going to be appearing to all your customers is changing
dramatically. Yeah, that's why it was so exciting to get to talk to Steven Van Belleghem. He was
our guest today. We talked about everything from search to the four pillars every company should
be paying attention to and hitting when it comes to excellent CX to how authenticity is a little
bit of a myth, maybe
something very overhyped in our culture right now.
He's a keynote speaker, he is a professor, and an author.
What I found so fascinating about what Stephen shared is he's been at these pivotal points
in technology with how customer behavior has changed.
So he was at the forefront, the front lines of the Y2K movement, whenever people went
from not having the internet to having the internet, how did that change customer behavior?
He was helping companies with social media management when social media started to come
out.
And now he's doing the same thing and asking questions around how is customer behavior
changing in the era of AI and AI agents.
So I think his through line of how customer behavior is being shaped
by the technologies that we have and what their expectations are and how things are changing
is super fascinating. And he shared a lot of amazing tips for brands who are trying to prepare
for the next couple of years as LLMs become maybe the number one search tool for the world where
personal AI agents exist and people are using
those to buy their products instead of like going into a store or doing search on their
own for a product.
Yeah, there's a lot of experts out there that understandably have trouble giving really
concrete advice when it comes to preparing for AI because the technology is evolving
so rapidly
that it's kind of all theory too.
Like it kind of feels like it's happening right now
and it's far away.
It all feels very futuristic.
So I found it really refreshing
that Stephen really got into the weeds of like,
no, this is what this looks like.
This is what preparing for AI
actually looks like in practice.
He also shared his four pillars
for an offer you can't refuse,
which I won't tease all
the pillars, but I guarantee two of them your business is probably struggling with and you
want to hear what he has to say about how to embrace those pillars and incorporate them in
your company culture. Before we let you guys get to the interview, please hit the like button,
hit the subscribe button, head to Lacey's LinkedIn and just spam her comment section. Let her know
exactly what questions you want answered.
It's such a privilege to be able to get to sit down
with these really cool executives and thought leaders
in the space every week.
So we want to hear from you.
And with that here's Stephen van Belghem.
Stephen, welcome to the show.
Thank you, Lacey.
It's a pleasure to be here.
Where are you calling in from?
I want our listeners to know.
I live in Belgium. I want our listeners to know. I live in Belgium.
I live very close to a wonderful city that is called Bruges. Beautiful, beautiful. I
want to visit Belgium so bad. It's been years since I've been. You're more than welcome.
So when I come visit, I'm going to expect an agenda. Yeah, exactly. Of course, I'll
be your private guide. Thank you. Thank you. So Steven, tell me, when did you first get
interested in CX?
Was there an aha moment for you when you were younger where you were like, I want to do
this for my career?
I think I started to focus my career on CX about 15, 20 years ago.
But when I do a deep dive in my personal history, I think I got that interest from my parents.
My parents owned a small photography store in a very small town in Belgium. They had like three people working for them and I was always in
that store so I heard their conversations. We had lunch together when I came back from
school. Looking back, I realized that they were always talking about their customers,
always thinking about how can we do more, what special thing could we organize here.
And for me, that was like a natural way of life. And they talked about that every single day,
every time we were together.
And it's only when I ended up in the real world
that I discovered that most people aren't like my parents
and that a great CX is actually something exceptional.
But I think I got that interest from them
and their entrepreneurship.
And I'm still very thankful for that.
I love that. Were you a photographer? Did you help with the still very thankful for that. I love that.
Were you a photographer?
Did you help with the business?
Most of the time I was not.
I studied economics.
But when I was in university, my dad
had back surgery that didn't go well.
So he was out for three to five months.
And then I had to step in and take some pictures.
Like in Belgium, you have the First Communion
and those kind of more Catholic kind of things.
And then people take photo shoots of their kids.
And that's when I stepped in to take some pictures
of beautiful looking children ready for their communion.
That was my first professional photographer experience.
Also my last professional photographer experience.
But I think I did well.
My dad was happy with the result.
Yeah, yeah, that's great.
Well, and take me through then from this experience
as a kid, witnessing your parents,
seeing them being not only great CX leaders,
but entrepreneurs.
Where did you go from there?
And kind of guide us to what you're doing right now.
So I was very lucky with my parents
to be part of their journey.
I was also very lucky with my aunt,
my dad's sister. She married a guy from California and then my grandfather wanted to visit his
daughter and there was no one from the family who wanted to go along or who could arrange things
with their job. So my parents said, why don't you take Steven? And I was 13 then and I spent four
weeks in the Bay area with my granddad and my aunt and uncle.
And I thought it was so cool. I really enjoyed it there so much that I came back to Belgium and I asked my parents if I could go back the next summer but then without my grandpa just by myself.
And they let me go and I spent about-
So when you were 14, you got to go to California by yourself. Wow.
By myself, yeah. I jumped on a plane and my family was waiting for me on the other side
of the ocean. And then I probably spent eight or nine summers between the age of 13 and
22 in California. And I got introduced to this whole Silicon Valley mindset and that
enthusiasm and that looking to the future in a positive way mindset. And I got
really into all that. So in the meantime, I was studying applied economics in Belgium,
but I started to do summer schools in UC Berkeley while I was in California. And there I did
marketing and high-tech marketing. That's how I got my interest in both the technology
and customer experience. I graduated, started in a business school in Belgium, the Flerik Business School, where I was a researcher. I'm still a part-time
marketing professor now in that business school. A few days a year I
teach there. And then I went into marketing research. So I started to study
consumer behavior linked to the internet. We're talking early 2000s now. So how
does buying behavior change? How do people build their perception because
of the arrival of websites and all that? Did that for 12 years. I was a partner in that
firm, became a co-owner. And about 10 years later, I had a story around social media and
how people use social media and how you could increase your customer experience through
social media. And after a presentation at a Microsoft event,
someone asked me,
why don't you write a book about this?
Because this is a really cool story.
That's what I did in summer of 2009, wrote a book.
In Europe, that became quite a hit.
That resulted in becoming part in the speaker circuit.
I enjoyed that. I wrote a second book.
I stopped
my career at the market research company, became a full-time speaker and alter, realizing
that my focus would be on inspiring companies to make their customers more happy. Then we
started another company together with a friend called Nextworks. Our goal with Nextworks
is to prepare companies for the day after tomorrow.
And we do that by organizing inspiration tours, learning journeys. So we take entrepreneurs,
mainly from Europe to Silicon Valley, New York, Boston, Shanghai, Singapore, to do a
deep dive into the innovation that is happening in those cities so that they can bring those
learnings back to their organization.
And yeah, in the past few years, that's been a little bit my journey, really focusing on this inspiration, my core customer experience. So I do keynotes, I write a lot of books,
we have Nextworks, I invest in companies that are linked to customer experience.
And I hope that I can continue this journey for a few more years because I really enjoy it.
Yeah, that's amazing. What a cool story and lots of different connection points there. And I hope that I can continue this journey for a few more years because I really enjoy it.
Yeah, that's amazing. What a cool story and lots of different connection points there.
What I find really fascinating is you've been at these pivot points.
You witnessed the change from consumer behavior when the internet came about,
when social media started to grow.
And so now we're kind of at another pivot point with AI, AI agents.
So I just kind of want to get a sense of what you're thinking around that change and where
your head's at with AI.
Yeah, perfect.
Happy to talk about that.
And that's, by the way, a very nice way to say that I'm pretty old in the meantime.
I went through all these difficult moments.
I mean it so lovingly.
In general, of course, every company is now focused on AI.
I meet a lot of companies, and usually they
do presentations before or after I do a talk.
And then I see their list of AI projects.
Every company has them.
But what I see is that 90% to 95% of all these AI projects
are internally focused.
It's mainly about the increase in productivity, the increase in
efficiency, which makes a lot of sense because there's a lot to be gained there.
But there's also the forgotten side of AI is my feeling and that's everything
linked to customers and that's where I try to focus on because I'm convinced
while companies are really focusing to improve their own productivity, the behavior
of customers is changing rapidly.
Just look at the way how people search today if they want to buy a new product.
A lot of people don't go to Google anymore.
A lot of people start their search on platforms like ChatGPT where you have a conversation
with a platform.
It's advising you what to buy or not to buy.
You have additional
questions.
It's like having a conversation with an expert salesperson that doesn't have a time limit
for you.
You can just talk with that system for hours.
You can come back the next day if your wife or your partner has some extra requests and
you keep on going until you know, okay, this is what I want to buy.
Now imagine that agents will work as we hope they will work in
the near future. Then you're not just going to inform yourself on these platforms, but you're
also actually going to do the purchase or ask the system to make a purchase for you. And I find this
really fascinating because this is a fundamental change in how people go through a sales funnel.
in how people go through a sales funnel.
A lot of companies still think in sales funnels. We have to build awareness and then interest
all the way down to conversion, which is fine.
But that was how we were trained before.
But what if the entire funnel happens on one platform?
What if the entire funnel happens on an AI platform
where you don't have the possibility to advertise,
where you don't have control over to advertise, where you don't have
control over the kind of content that will show up about your brand or product. This is fundamentally
different than what we're used to. We're used to having all these touch points, making sure that
we communicate at the right moment, at the right time. And then hopefully if we do the right things,
people will buy our product. But we can influence each touch point. We can do something ourselves on each of these touch points. What if this changes? And what
if the entire funnel happens on one platform where you do not have influence on those touch
points? I think that's the most radical change we're going to see with AI, if you ask me.
Yeah, yeah, for sure. So just to kind of like summarize that, basically your feeling is
that like 90% of AI projects that organizations are focusing on are internally focused. How
can I increase efficiency for my employees? How can I make them more effective? Maybe
how can I lower headcount or at least allocate, you know, the human resources that I do have
to like these higher creative projects. But and I've heard about that a lot on our show.
I haven't heard a lot of people talk about or want
to tackle even the actual customer experience with AI.
It seems to be a lot of people are
focusing on these employee initiatives
and not wanting to do, because there's still
this trust gap that people have with AI, where they're like,
I don't trust it to talk to my customers yet.
But you're not really thinking about what kind of AI tool can I make for my customers,
but how are they actually using AI outside of what I have?
What's the ecosystem of how they're consuming it?
And how is that gonna change their behavior?
Yeah.
And you know, for organizations,
it's pretty easy to buy software.
You can get software, you can make something
to increase that efficiency to lower head count and so on.
You can make something or create something to make customer service better instead of
your call center.
But at the end of the day, the customer service optimizations aren't always to make the customer's
life better.
Usually it's because they want to lower the costs of their contact center.
So again, it's an efficiency gain.
But if the decision-making flow of a customer is changing, that means you have to change your entire marketing and sales
philosophy to be successful in the future.
And that's the forgotten side of this AI revolution.
Well, how do you think it's going
to be changing customer behavior?
You touched on it a little bit, but I'd
like to get into some of those details of what
your predictions are of what can sales and marketing leaders
be thinking about or be doing or be planning
for over the next several years?
Well, imagine that you want to buy toothpaste, just a very simple product.
There's a big chance that maybe today you go to Amazon to get your toothpaste.
Maybe in the future you have your personal shopping assistant powered by OpenAI, for
instance, where you say, hey, Chachi PT, or maybe you will give it a personal name because
it becomes your personal shopping assistant.
Maybe it's Jeff or Jim that you say,
Hey Jim, I need new toothpaste.
Can you get it for me?
And then maybe the system will say,
Hey, Lacey, you want Colgate
as you always had in the past few months?
And you will say, yeah, of course.
Or you will say, I need Colgate toothpaste.
Can you get that for me?
So very simple.
Then the AI will give you the Colgate toothpaste because you you get that for me? So very simple, then the AI will
give you the Colgate toothpaste because you specifically asked for it. The real question
is what will happen if for the first time you need batteries and you say, Hey, AI platform,
I need batteries. Then the question is, what kind of brands will get through the AI filter?
What kind of brands will be blocked by the AI filter. So learning number one, under discussed, if you ask me,
is that the role of branding will become more important
than ever in this world of AI,
because you want people to specifically ask for your brand.
How do you build your brand in an age of AI?
By delivering better customer experience,
because the role of reviews, of influencers,
of people who promote
your brand will become more important because that will feed the LLMs so that they will
promote your brand and that you will get through the filter.
So you need to create this machinery of positive feedback so that the AI will pick up your
brand for that consumer.
This is also something that we underestimate today.
When it's about AI, it's only about the technology.
We should also talk about the role of branding,
which will become more important than ever.
We're gonna have two kinds of companies really soon.
We're gonna have companies that have the strongest lock-in
ever with their clients.
I take Nespresso, if you have a Nespresso machine,
you need Nespresso,
the machine will automatically reorder it for you
and you won't even think about buying a different brand.
So the lock-in is stronger than ever.
But for other brands,
it will almost be impossible to reach the customer
because the shortcut of advertising will become harder
and we will outsource our decision-making to a machine
that will use the information on the
internet to make a decision for us. It will filter it in a way that we don't really understand,
but we will trust it because we will start to see that the decisions that that machine takes for us
are pretty accurate and pretty good. So we will have more and more faith and more and more trust
in that platform, which means we're going to ask more, we're going to order more, and it's going to become an endless loop of trust building
if that algorithm does what it promises us that it will do.
So do you think content creation is going to become
more important for brands in this like era
where they need to be more front and center with branding?
So that way there's more content for the LLMs
to go search for and kind of discover
with these new companies?
Yeah, it's going to be important to have credible content. I don't think the answer here is to create more and more average quality content. What we're going to need is content created by
third parties that tell the world how great you are. Because the models, as you'll see it now, they look more for external advice than
self-promotion.
A lot of the content marketing that we've done in the past years is self-promotion
and that's an alternative form of advertising.
That's what it has become and it worked fine in the early days of let's say the first 10
years of social media.
Today, that's harder because the
LLMs will look for more credible sources to give their advice. So influencers will become more
important. Reviews, real reviews by customers, journalists that write articles about your brand
because you're doing something unique, that's going to be more important than ever.
And what do you think the timeline is for all of this? Especially like personal AI agents.
I don't feel like it's that far away. I already use, I've used GPT operator to order things for me before.
So like I don't think it's that far away that we've got our own personalized AI assistants that are doing most of the shopping for us.
Deciding what to buy, when to buy it, when, you know, what you might need, how you might like it.
Maybe there's like some specifications I can give it
of, I really like organic food.
I really like this kind of stuff.
And it just knows, OK, cool, this brand matches
those priorities that you have.
So what's your timeline for these different rollouts?
Even the idea that you had shared
about the Espresso machine that can automatically
order for you, how soon are those things for us?
Well, there are a number of things that need to happen
and that are starting to happen.
First of all, the AI will need a memory
that is stronger than today.
It's starting to have a memory,
but it needs a full-fledged memory
that it remembers everything that we share
if we allow it to do that.
Second thing is payment transactions
need to happen flawless. Super convenient.
I think in the past month, we had both PayPal, MasterCard, Visa saying that they will work
together with OpenAI with Operator to make sure that those payments just happen automatically.
And then we're going to have an offering of other companies that step into this to facilitate
it to make sure that Nespresso works together
with the platform so that it all happens in a flawless way.
My feeling is we're talking about two, three years maximum because things are happening
so rapidly.
If you look at the amount of money that is going into places there.
Last week, I think there was this memo that leaked from OpenAI where they shared their
vision.
It's exactly what we're discussing now that they hope will happen next year.
But it's not because the technology is there that it's mass adopted by the average population,
but the technology I think will be ready in a year, two, three years max.
Wow.
So what about sponsored content?
Because whenever we use Google, typically we've got little blurbs that pop up that say sponsored.
Or even on YouTube, you can see what's been promoted.
Do you think there's a place for sponsored content
in these LLMs?
Eventually, there might be.
I ask a question of GPT, and it says,
this message was sponsored by Colgate or whatever.
I really hope that they will not do that.
But I think I'm too naive there.
OpenAI already shared that they're investigating
sponsorship deals.
Really, okay.
But yeah, I'm super disappointed about that
because if you look back to the internet,
I think advertising completely messed up the internet.
It messed up social media.
The reason why it's so dangerous and so bad today
is because of that advertising business model.
But it's the easiest way to make a lot of money.
There are a zillion advertisers ready for that.
Imagine that tomorrow OpenAI tells the world,
hey, we're open for business, just share some money
and we're gonna have sponsored posts.
I mean, the billions will flow in on day one.
So it must be super, super tempting to do that,
but it would completely mess up the entire AI space again.
I really hope that we're gonna have a subscription-based
player in the market that has super high quality,
where you have an objective voice that really, you know,
has some trustworthy qualitative information for us
if we want to make decisions in our life or if we want to buy something.
I'm convinced that people are willing to pay for that.
There are already so many people who pay $20 a month now for ChachiPT.
I guess you can stretch that easily to a higher amount or reach more people if you have that trustworthy content.
Question is, of course, does that compensate for all the billions of advertising income that you will lose?
It must be very, very tempting for them.
So I'm afraid, Lacey, that sooner than later, we're going to have an advertising-based model in AI platforms.
Yeah, yeah.
And then everything changes.
Yeah, and I get why you want to monetize,
and I understand that 100%.
But I agree with you.
I hope that doesn't happen, but hope
may be naive since money flows in a certain direction, right?
I have another question kind of similar to this, though,
around small businesses.
So if I'm a small business and I decide
I'm going to start a toy company,
but now maybe in a couple of years
it'll be really hard to break into the market because I have to
like teach the AI to make my toys pop up on the service in a way that like maybe Target
or Walmart just, they're such a massive beast.
Their stuff's already popping up.
So I'm curious if small businesses are going to struggle whenever, especially product-based
businesses over the next couple of years to get in front of the AIs.
Yeah, it's going to be more challenging.
The shortcuts to finding new customers
will be tougher to find.
Maybe it will be gone forever.
It's going to lead to an interesting discussion.
Efficiency versus experience.
If you look at businesses today, most of them
are more into or putting more effort into efficiency
than into experience.
Look at airports.
Most of the airports in the world look exactly the same.
Look at fast food places.
They almost look exactly the same.
Take away the logos and you don't see the difference. So a lot of the things that we use every single day
are super focused on efficiency over experience. I think if you start a new business, you need
to turn that around and put more weight on the experience, less on the efficiency. And
by doing so, you will stand out. You will have people that start to talk about you.
Maybe a journalist will pick you up as the new hidden gem
that people need to discover.
And by doing so, you create content
and then people could say,
hey, what are new cool places for toys?
I need an original gift for my little girl.
And then you will pop up in that system.
But you need to do it differently than
how people used to start a business in the past. Yeah, that makes total sense. I went to a toys
store, again, I have a three-year-old son, a couple weeks ago. That was just amazing. Like you can get
lost in this store. The people were so sweet and nice and there's toys I'd never seen before and
classic toys that you're like, oh, I haven't seen that in years. So there's definitely will still be that desire to go out, go buy something,
go experience in, in a story, you know, something that is,
is organic and interesting. So, um, yeah, I definitely agree with you there.
One thing that we know for sure is that people love shopping.
Yeah. A lot of retailers are suffering,
but that has a lot to do with with price pressure because of e-commerce.
But in general, I mean, if you're in the streets of any major city, stores are very successful.
People love to spend time there, love to make it a family day out.
So it's not that we will stop going to stores.
We thought that would happen with e-commerce, did not happen, same with AI.
It's not because we have this AI platform
that we will not go to some beautiful stores
in a wonderful city.
Yeah, absolutely, absolutely.
Which brings me to kind of another side
of this equation, right?
When we talk about customer experience and customer service,
if let's say 90% of things can be handled by AI,
eventually maybe even 99% of things can be handled by AI, there, maybe even 99% of things can be handled by AI.
There's still gonna be the 1% like, something went wrong.
I need help, I need to speak to a human.
So what is that experience with an actual human
gonna look like in the future?
Like let's say I did order something online
and I didn't get what I needed or it came broken
and I can't get that solved with whatever chat bot or AI agent that I'm working with.
So I get on the phone or on a chat with a human.
What type of humans are we hiring at that point and what skills will matter the most
for those people?
Yeah, I love that question.
I follow your reasoning for 100%.
99% of the interactions will be online.
We focus on efficiency. 1%
when it's emotional, when it's super complex, when we're stuck, when a lot of money is involved,
we may look for the comfort of a human. That means that that human will have to focus more
on the emotional part of the conversation. Maybe the problem of that human is not so
difficult to solve, but the fact that they want to talk to a human means that they're
looking for emotion. It means that they go for experience over efficiency.
You will have humans that are available for an unlimited amount of time.
Today, in customer service, they try to limit the time because another person is waiting.
If 99% of the interactions are done digitally, it means the humans you have left have unlimited
amounts of time.
Probably the channel is going to be very diverse.
Maybe you would like someone to come to the comfort of your own house.
Maybe a phone call is not enough.
Maybe other people would like to have a video chat,
but we can let the customer decide for the for the channel.
So it's going to be completely different.
And basically, all KPIs that we used to have in contact centers like efficiency, time spent
on a call, and so on and so on, we can just put them aside and just ask for one new KPI,
how did you make someone feel after this conversation?
And basically, the goal is that people feel understood and heard and helped and that someone actually took the
time to listen to their problem.
That's the only KPI that is relevant at that moment when they want to talk to a human,
make sure that they have a feel good moment because of that.
How would you measure that?
Is that like a form after someone's had an experience or is there maybe a place for AI
to sort of analyze voice and tone and see if they're having a good experience?
If you want to measure it, I think you can just ask.
I still love the question that they used at Zappos.
I know this is a traditional cliche answer,
but when people call to the Zappos contact center
after a call, they didn't ask,
would you recommend or how satisfied are you?
They said, if you would be the boss of a company,
would you hire the person that just talked to you?
Oh, I love that.
I love that question because that tells you a lot more than,
yeah, I was satisfied because satisfaction is not enough
if they specifically want to go to a human.
Yep. No, that's great.
Well, and speaking of metrics, I'd like to ask this question
of everyone that we talked to about KPIs, standard CX KPIs. Which ones do you think are still going to be relevant in a couple of
years or which ones won't matter? And what new KPIs will we be looking at across the board,
not just in contact centers? In general, what AI will do is create, or should do, is create the
ultimate convenience. So if agents do things, if we have unlimited availability for help, it's the extreme form of
convenience. So we can measure the effort score and it should
be close to zero in terms of effort for a customer. I think
that one is very relevant to measure that specific part of AI's
value. The other one is about the power of the brand.
So to what extent do you see brand love?
To what extent do you see brand promotorship
is a crucial one because you want people
to actively promote your brand.
And I think those two will give you plenty of information.
If you add an open field under that and say,
what can we do better?
What are tips that you have for us? And you do an analysis on that. I think that that should
be plenty of information to improve everything.
Yeah, that's great. So switching gears a little bit, you had written up a structure called
the offer you can't refuse and it's four pillars. And I would love for you to share what those
four pillars are with the audience.
Of course. So if you want to create an offer, you can't refuse for your customers. They
expect a good product and good service. It's the bottom. They expect convenience. They
want things to be easy. That's number two. And those two together are no longer differentiators.
So those are like a minimum demand. People expect a good product and that they can buy it in a convenient way. Then you have two more that are different shaders. One is what
I call Partner in Life. That's about how to create positive change in the life of your customers. How
can you be valuable in their life? And the fourth one is how can you create positive change for the
world? How can you use the strength of your company to add value to society? That's number four. And if you bring those four together, good product service, convenience,
partner in life, adding value to society, then you have what I call an offer.
You can't refuse for a customer.
Can you give some examples of companies that have done this super well?
There are not that many that do all of this super well.
Maybe not everyone will agree with me, but a company like Nike is,
is I think a good example.
They have their cool products, good service,
their website works well,
their stores are very conveniently organized.
Partner in life, they're partner in sports.
Everyone can be an athlete if you look to the apps
that they develop, the content that they share,
the technology that they created
to help you with your workouts.
They're really a partner
in your healthy lifestyle and they're adding value to society on the one hand by making sure that
people have a healthier life which is value to society. They promote women in sports for
instance if you think about their last ad during the Super Bowl, I thought that was super, super
impressive where they put conversations on the table
that are sometimes hard to have, but are really valuable to have.
And they have the guts to do these things.
So they work on each four of these pillars to make a difference.
Yeah.
Oh, that's great.
Which pillar do you think most companies struggle with?
Is there like a standard of the four that you think people struggle with or is it all
four that people are having a hard time with? Is there like a standard of the four that you think people struggle with? Or is it all four that people are having a hard time with?
Now, I think companies spend less or the least amount of time on partner in life. Everyone's
working on their product. Everyone knows that convenience is important. They don't always
succeed in it, but at least it's on the agenda. But those two are transactional. They're rational,
right? It's about making sure that people can buy your product in an easy way.
That's a rational part of the relationship. Most of the energy goes into that. Adding value to
society. I mean, there are so many regulations, especially in Europe around, for instance,
sustainability that companies have to invest in it. And then they're communicating about it. So
they're trying to make a difference there.
Most of them are not succeeding, in my opinion, to link that back to their strength and to
their business so that customers see the value of that, but they're investing in it.
The partner-in-life thing is a forgotten side.
It's more emotional value.
It's more understanding how people live and what you could do in that journey.
And that seems to be very difficult for companies to understand because they're really focused
on rationality, selling, and they don't always see the value of creating this emotional link
or they don't know how to do it.
And that actually brings a form of belonging, a form of connection in your customer relationship
that creates real loyalty, that creates repeat sales,
and so on and so on.
Are there any other companies that you would like to share
that have a good partner in life story or good examples?
Yeah, can I give a few European examples, is that okay?
Yeah, I would love that.
Maybe some less known companies in the US.
One that I love to work with is a company called Centraal Beheer, which is an insurance company. It's an iconic insurance company in the Netherlands. It's 130 years old, always a focus on customers.
But now what they want to do is become a partner in mobility or a partner in living. So on top of their insurance products,
they help you with fixing your house.
If you have a problem in your house
and you need someone to come over and fix it,
they will facilitate that.
Solar panels, they will make sure that you can do that
in a way that it's safe and that it's okay.
So they bring value beyond the insurance.
And I love that because one of the problems with the insurance industry is that as a customer,
usually the only interaction or communication you get from them is your annual invoice.
Next to that, I mean, it's radio science.
If you don't have a claim, that's the only communication you get.
They want to go beyond that billing relationship and really add value into day-to-day life.
Another one that they have that I really like
is linked to their car insurance. They found out that a lot of people sometimes have a little dent
in their car or a tiny little scratch and then it's so small that they don't want to go to their
insurance company or they don't want to waste time or money on it. So after a while, your once
beautiful looking car is now less beautiful because you have
a dent here and there.
They organize, they call it the little dent days in the Netherlands and then their customers
can go with their car and for free they fix up to three little scratches or three little
dents because you're their client and they give you a snack.
Their company band is playing.
And the cool thing is everyone who welcomes you
and does the whole event, they're
all employees of that company.
It's not some event agency.
And it's not the sales or service people.
It's actually the people who are working in the back office
that are then invited to help customers
and to meet customers in real life.
So it brings value beyond the product.
It's feel good.
It creates a culture of empathy because everyone is involved
and, you know, they have plenty of those stories
and I just love it how they do that.
Talk about loyalty builder though.
Like if I had an insurance company that did that,
that, you know, had a dent day and I got to meet them
and I got to put faces with names
and kind of like have some laughs,
have some giggles, have some snacks with people. I mean, I'm never going to change from that
insurance company.
No, exactly. And they do you a favor by making your car look good again without additional
cost.
Yeah, that's just so thoughtful. I mean, how does a company go like change their culture
to kind of embrace that mindset? Because so many companies, especially in the US, have this like embedded mindset of like, you know,
profits, just get something built, make sure it's good,
get it out there, you know, that those first two points
of have a good product, make it convenient, right?
How do we get people to sort of flip the narrative,
think a little bit differently,
and get to those other two pillars that you've talked about?
Well, I was, this insurance company that I talked about.
I was there at that moment.
It was about five or six years ago.
They invited me to give a talk to their entire team.
And before me, their CEO spoke and he came on stage and he said, guys, I'm super disappointed.
This is our net promoter score here and it's seven, which makes us the most successful one
in the insurance company because typically insurance companies have a very bad net promoter score.
So they were best in class, but he said this is terrible, we're the best of the worst.
So what I want is I want to have a score that is as high as the most successful team park here in
the Netherlands, which is called the Efteling.
They had a net promoter score of plus 50. He says, I want to have that as well.
Wow.
And I looked at that audience. So you have to imagine there were like 3,000 people sitting there.
And I saw half of the room thinking, he's crazy. He's not fit for the job.
I work in an insurance company. we're not in a theme park. The other
half was super excited because they understood if we want to achieve that goal, I mean, he didn't
say we need to go from seven to 15. He said, I want to go to 50. So if we want to achieve that goal,
we radically have to rethink the way that we go to market. We will have to rethink everything.
And they became super excited and they just started that group of enthusiasts.
They started and they looked at every journey.
They started to change things, just small improvements.
And now we're five or six years further in time and they actually have a net promoter
score that is higher than 50.
And if you ask their CEO how did you do it, He will say, 300 to 1,000 small changes.
It's not about the big project.
It's not about the big things.
It's about the 1,000 small things
that you improve for your customers.
And that's how they start to love you.
Are there any examples that are top of mind for you
from that that you could share besides like the dent day,
which is amazing, but is there anything that maybe
just some smaller thing that they decided,
we're not going to have call centers do this or we're not going to communicate
with people like this.
What were the small changes that you might be able to share?
Yeah, they looked at all automated emails, for instance,
when people didn't pay the bill or when I don't know,
when all the automatic stuff that goes out.
Usually those are emails that have been used for years
and no one looks at them anymore,
no one receives them, it just happens.
And if you then look at them, you're like,
oh my God, this copy is terrible,
it's so aggressive or it's negative.
So they changed that.
That was one project, for instance.
They changed the narrative when people called them. They made
sure that people were not under pressure in terms of timing. They printed little note
cards that were just next to every contact center agent. And if they heard something
that they could talk about, they wrote a little handwritten card. And every day they send
out hundreds of these handwritten cards.
All these small things.
Wow.
Well, and that makes it so much more fun too,
as an employee to get to really think about,
oh, how can I connect with this customer?
How can I brighten their day?
And it just makes you feel more fulfilled.
It's positive energy.
I like to work with a concept
that I call symbols of customer experience.
For me, symbols of customer experience are small things that you do that don't cost a
lot of money, but they put a smile on people's face.
And if you do it in a smart way, you can even organize it and structure it that it almost
takes no effort for you as an organization.
And maybe the best in the world here is Disney.
And I know Disney is huge, and they make billions of dollars
and all of that.
But they are experts in symbols of customer experience.
Like the Disney ice cream rule.
You know what happens, right?
You go with your child to a Disney park.
They want an ice cream.
Of course, you buy that ice cream.
And then they drop it.
And then tragedy unfolds itself.
Yes, yes.
As a parent you don't know what to do, you look in the parent manual, you don't know
what the best solution is.
But in Disney they have this Disney ice cream rule that is very simple.
It says that every employee, no matter what your job is, every employee if you see a thing
like that happen in an incident like this, you only have one priority left in life, you
give that child a new free ice cream.
That's a symbol of customer experience.
Or like with the balloons.
Imagine that you buy a balloon for your three-year-old and then they carry the balloon, but they
want to go on Small World.
The balloon is not allowed on the right, so you have to leave the balloon there.
By the time that you come back, you don't just get the balloon back.
You will also have this little cart that will say, oh, while you were gone, the balloon had such
a wonderful time. He ate a snack. He played with other balloons. I even think they were
singing, let it go together with all the balloons. It was fantastic. See, small things that put
a smile on people's face and it's basically no effort. Or my favorite is the Disney hugging rule that says that if a child approaches a character,
the child will decide when the hug is over.
So if your three-year-old wants to hug Princess Elsa for 45 minutes, then that is exactly
what will happen because the child decides when the hug is over.
And those are all small things. They don't cost any money.
They don't cost any effort, but they put a smile on people's face.
And I invite every company to think about their own symbols of customer
experience. What are your symbols of customer experience?
And if you don't have them, create them,
structure it and you will be surprised what the impact is of those very small
organized measures.
Yeah. Oh, those are so good. Those are so good.
Well, speaking of Disney, this is a great segue to something that you shared with me
on the last time we chatted was about authenticity, right?
And you used Disney as an example, but you have a, I'd say strong, correct me if I'm
wrong, strong opinion about authenticity, that authenticity is overrated.
So tell me a bit about that and why you feel that way.
Yeah, this is a very sensitive topic because people can become angry because of that. Yeah,
I believe authenticity is overrated because authenticity has been a buzzword in marketing
for years and what I don't like about it is that authenticity is by definition a positive thing.
For me, authenticity is not by definition a positive thing. Like
Hitler was pretty authentic, but it wasn't a positive figure for the rest of the world. So
it's not by definition positive. That's the one thing. The second thing is, it's very rare
that you meet someone that is truly authentic and that creates positive energy and a great flow. There's an enormous
amount of scarcity if you only focus on authenticity. A few months ago, I was in Seoul in South
Korea and they talked about, and they're super proud of it, they talked about the K-Force
soft power where they wanted to make South Korea more popular in the world, both
for students and for tourists and everything. And they do it through Soft K Power. So it
started basically about 10 years ago with the song Gangnam Style. I don't know if you
remember this. I think this was the first video on YouTube with more than 1 billion
views. And this went all around the world.
And then they were like, oh, this seems to work.
We have this songwriter, he has a song and everyone's now singing in Korean.
We need to do something with this.
And then they start to organize it.
So basically they looked for people that were good looking, that could dance a little bit,
that could sing.
They trained them in specifically designed dance studios,
and then they made bands out of this.
Like TBS is a good example of that.
Super popular, but not authentic.
They were artificially created.
A huge, huge success, not just in Korea,
but Coldplay had a song with them
because they understood their popularity.
They have Squid Game, which is one of the most
popular shows on Netflix. The Moss Singer is created in Korea. All of these are examples of
artificially created experiences that a lot of people in the world actually love, but are not
authentic. And if you think about it, or I was thinking about it, some of the most successful
about it, or I was thinking about it, some of the most successful customer experience, things that can happen to you are usually artificially created.
Take Disney Park, there's nothing authentic about the Disney Park, but it's super, super
successful.
Take a Coldplay concert, you need to take a day off to buy tickets for their concert.
It's not authentic.
It's a very well-defined,
professionally created show that is state of the art. And because it's not authentic, it's so good.
If they would let Chris Martin just be authentic with his band, but no fireworks, no lights,
I mean, it would be super, super, yeah, not boring, but it wouldn't be the same impact
that it has now. Absolutely. Yeah. So because of that, I think authenticity is overrated.
It's good if you can have it, but it's so scarce
that it hardly ever happens that I
believe companies should focus more on artificially created
experiences because a lot of people seem to like that.
Yeah, well, and that kind of ties back to the CX rules
that you had shared that Disney has, right?
You've got a hug until the kid wants to let go.
That's artificial because it was something
that was told to the employee to do,
but it creates an authentic experience for the person.
Like whether or not that was authentic,
I authentically am experiencing it.
Yeah, and it's consistent.
And you could say, yeah, but that's so obvious, Steven,
that you tell them to
give them a new free ice cream. But it's not because if you don't explicitly tell your team
that, a lot of people will be afraid to give a free ice cream to a client because you're actually
giving away money from your employer to a customer and the customer made the mistake.
So a lot of people will be afraid to do it. So if you let things authentically happen,
half of your team will give a free ice cream,
the other half will not,
which is super confusing for a customer.
Yep, yep, yeah, for sure.
Rose, do you have any questions before I go on?
I do, yes.
Yay.
Authenticity is one of those buzzwords
that you hear all the time.
So, and this may be like an oversimplified question, but what word would you
replace? If you could remove authenticity from the zeitgeist in reference to CX, what word would you
want to replace it with? Consistency. I think customers value consistency of positive consistency
much more than authenticity.
The only other actually question I'm curious about,
I've been listening to a lot of these interviews
and I've heard a lot of people compare
the cultural reaction to AI to Y2K
and kind of the inception of the internet.
And I wanted to get your perspective on that.
If it feels like similar to you,
if it feels like it can even be compared,
or if it feels like this whole other,
and even with the fear that's kind of coming along
with a lot of the conversations around AI,
and similar to maybe what people thought,
how consumer behavior would change back in Y2K era.
How would you compare them or can they be compared?
There's a big difference between Y2K and what's happening now is my feeling. Back then,
most people did not believe that the internet would be something. You had, of course, the
believers and the hype, but then you had the dot-com crisis. So a lot of people lost a lot of money and the media was like the internet is gone, it's
not going to happen.
Most people didn't see the value because the access to it was difficult.
Most people didn't have broadband connections yet.
We didn't have mobile phones where we were connected with the internet.
Quality of websites was very, very low.
It was like a PDF file that was an online page.
So the amount of believers were very low.
The media was pretty negative.
If you look now, I mean, unless that has changed
in the past few months, but I believe that Chachipiti
is the tool that has the highest and fastest adoption
in the history of human beings.
The media is like, AI will not go away. This is it. Every company in the world understands if I'm
not doing AI, I'm going to be in trouble. Back in Y2K and also with social media,
a big part of what I did was convincing people that it was actually happening.
Now with AI, you don't have to convince people. They want to know, how do I need to do it?
What do I need to do?
Help me to do this faster, because if I don't,
I'm going to lose track of things.
So the wave, the belief, the urgency
is much, much higher than back then.
Have you seen more hope relative to AI rather than fear?
I see both.
I see, yeah, of course, the whole AI community, the tech community is super bullish,
is super excited. But I also see a lot of people who are super against it, who are afraid that
the human connectivity will disappear. A lot of people are afraid of jobs. A lot of people who
think I won't be able to keep up with this, how will I have to do this?
So because of the fact that everyone understands that this will become part of our day-to-day
life in the next couple of years and that it will be fundamental, creates more fear
than the fear of a website.
Back in the days when we said Amazon could be destructive for your business if you're
in retail, they said, I mean, people will buy books, but next to that, they won't buy anything.
I mean, that was the kind of tone of voice that you had.
Today, everyone is really vigilant and really worried that they will have a negative effect
if they don't do the right things, both individually as businesses.
So that's a big difference as well.
There was one other thing that you mentioned
last time we chatted about this trust deficit
in CX leadership.
So you have the CX leader come in
and they don't have much rapport or credibility
with their team.
So I would like to hear from you why you feel that way
and what it might take for a CX leader to appear strong and actually lead their
team well. Thanks for this question and I would broaden it a little bit. It goes beyond CX leaders,
it's about leaders. True. 70 to 80 percent of a customer culture is defined by the leaders of an
organization. Everyone who leads a team has an impact on how customers feel. And it doesn't matter what that team is.
It might as well be IT or accounting, invoicing.
Everyone plays a role there.
Most leaders believe that they're customer centric because once a year or every six months,
they give a presentation to the team or the organization where they say,
customer centricity is one of our key values.
And then they share the net promoter score or something like this,
and then they move on to the next value.
And then they believe that they gave the order or the message
that people need to be customer centric.
Doesn't work like this.
People will start to act in a customer centric way
because of the micro decisions and the micro communication
on the floor every single day.
It's when you have a conflict of interest. How will your leader decide? Will they look for the
short-term gains for themselves or are they willing to hurt themselves to gain trust in the long run?
The kind of decisions that you take on a moment like this, that defines how customer-centric your
team will be. Or imagine someone from a team did something extraordinary for a client.
They helped the client in need,
even compensated a little bit.
So great job.
That employee gets an email saying,
oh, fantastic, I'm super happy with this.
I'm your most loyal client ever.
That email gets spread in the organization.
The leader of the team sees this,
says, oh, this is a cool email.
Goes to the employee, says, congratulations, this is what we need.
Look, everyone, this email, amazing, congratulations.
Very well done.
Just one small thing, that compensation
that you gave that customer,
maybe you need to be careful there
because you understand we cannot give this to everyone.
But next to that, very well done.
The leader believes that he or she congratulated
the team member, the team member.
The team member only remembers,
ha, he or she is sad or angry with the compensation I gave,
so I'm never gonna do this again.
And leaders need to be very aware of that,
that micro communication and micro decision,
because if someone from the team has to choose
between having an angry customer or an angry boss, they will always prefer
an angry customer over an angry boss. Because an angry customer is annoying,
if they're really angry, you never see them again. An angry boss is dangerous. They stick around and
they can have a big influence on the future of your life. So there's no doubt in the employee's
mind if they are afraid that the boss will be angry at them for a certain decision they will never do it.
So the consistency in micro communication and micro decision-making
is crucial for customer happiness. But how do you learn that? Like if you're a
leader how do you realize oh I'm doing this wrong or I should be doing it this
way or how does an organization help train their leaders to think a certain
way? Yeah you have to grow into that. Some have it naturally, but that's a minimum,
because the reality is all of those leaders
get evaluated as well.
And usually, that's based on short-term financial gains
or efficiency gains and so on.
So they do whatever they can to achieve those goals,
because often that's linked to financial personal benefits.
So it's very human to follow that. So this is where the senior
leadership, the top management steps in. They need to make sure that the customer mindset is a
priority and train and coach the middle managers to make sure that they understand that and that they
move them in a certain behavior so that they will actually do that and lead by example
there, give work with concrete case studies like if this happens, what are we going to
do? If this happens, what are we going to do? A lot of companies follow this reasoning
that I'm sharing now, but they're afraid about the exceptions. They say, yeah, of course,
we want people to help and compensate clients when it makes sense, but sometimes there's
so much money involved and we cannot take that risk.
So that's why we don't do it.
And I get that.
You can organize that.
You can tell your team, look guys, for everything that is lower than $100 and in other businesses
lower than $5,000, depending on the ticket sizes that you sell, do whatever it takes
to protect the relationship.
We support you.
When it's more, we're still going to protect that relationship.
But let's have a five minute discussion here to see what we should do because there's so much
money involved. We don't want to risk the future of the company because of one incident we had,
of course. So sometimes they block because they want to tackle everything that could potentially
happen. Whereas you can make your life easier by just taking average and then having discussions discussed later on.
Well, and it's definitely so top down.
If your senior leadership and upper management are not thinking that same way, then the mid-level
management will not think that way because the incentive structure will be completely
flipped and wrong.
So I definitely feel that it needs to come from the top and trickle down and anything
that the top leadership is doing will eventually make its way to the people
that are communicating with customers.
Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
I work with what I call the 95-5% rule to help companies there.
It's the idea that every company has customers that are terrible people, that don't pay the
bills, that are toxic in their communication that
Cannot be trusted basically every every company has those but it's it's usually a very
Small part small portion of the customers maybe one or two or max five percent and the problem is not that five percent
Terrible people the problem is that our brain cannot deal with that five percent
We give a lot of weight to that kind of negativity. We talk about that with each other and so on. And
after a while, you start to think that the 5% equals the average customer. And then something
typically human happens. You want to protect yourself against the 5%. And you do that by
changing the rules and procedures to protect yourself against the 5%. You make it harder
to work with you.
But what you're actually doing is you're punishing the 95%.
So I try to invite leaders to understand that and to let them find the mental strength and
coach each other to focus on the 95% and take decisions and install procedures for the 95%
and deal differently with the 5%. But don't try to
protect yourself to the 5% by punishing the 95. That's a crucial mental strength that you need
to find to go to the next level. Yeah. Oh, for sure. For sure. Well, Stephen, this has been so
much fun. We have one more fun thing for you. I'm going to hand it back to Rose, who has our
lightning round and she's going to pepper you with a few questions. The goal of the lightning round
is to answer as fast as you can but feel free to take a minute if you need to
think about it or you have an explanation. And short I assume. Yeah I mean as
short as you can make it for sure. Yeah okay okay Rose I'm ready for you.
Alright awesome. So our first lightning round question is what's an everyday
customer experience you personally love? something that always puts a smile on your face as a customer?
Enthusiasm. I love it when you feel the enthusiasm of someone who works somewhere of their own business. And because the cool thing is, people can transfer positive energy. And if I can feel positive energy, that's what I love. Not perfection, but the intention to make a difference.
Do you have a good personal example of that? Like a company that you'd want to shout out?
I noticed that a lot with small entrepreneurs where you have the owner who has, you know,
we have this butcher here. They're also friends of mine, but they have the best quality meat
in a wide district. And I'm super happy that I have them in my life.
But every time when I go into their shop,
they're like, oh, Steven, we have something new.
You want to try it?
And I'm sure you're going to love this.
This is a recipe that could work well.
And then I'm like, I'm like the easiest customer in the world.
And I'm like, hey, Dominic, his name is Dominic.
Dominic, you know what I'm going to say.
Just add it to my list.
I want to try it.
But if they are enthusiastic and they come with special things
for me, I'm such an easy victim for all that. Yeah, personal connection is a hard thing to
say no to as a customer if you feel seen like that. Yeah, I love that.
All right, kind of on the flip side, is there a customer experience pet peeve that you have?
Like as a customer, something that might happen or maybe even a pattern that you've seen in
companies that struggle with customer experience or prioritizing it that's a particular pet
peeve of yours?
Yeah, well, it's super simple, but I hate it when I see it.
In gas stations, when there's a long line at one register and there's a second that is closed
and there's a person behind that doing something that I think is irrelevant at that moment
and is refusing to say, hey, you can come here as well and we're going to split the
line in two. Just that common sense of understanding my priority is now is to help those people.
My blood starts to boil when I see that.
Yeah, that's true.
The mentality of whatever task you're working on can wait.
What is your priority?
Right.
Yeah, people don't.
And the wave of busyness that you might experience, it's in the short term.
You'll have an opportunity to get back to your task.
Exactly.
Prioritize the people.
That makes sense.
All right.
Is there an app or technology that you're currently
obsessed with that's making your experience as a customer
more enjoyable or more convenient?
I think this is going to be a cliche answer,
but ChatGPT is the one thing I use all the time now.
I can't imagine not having that tool in my life anymore.
What's your top, like what do you go to ChatGPT for first?
Like I've been going to it a lot for my grocery list.
I'll give it a budget.
I'll give it a few recipe ideas.
I'm vegetarian, so I'll tell it that.
And then it'll give me a grocery list option at the grocery
store right by my house.
Yeah.
Well, I use it for recipes.
I'm an amateur chef.
I love to spend a lot of time in the kitchen.
So it's now my partner in the
kitchen. Also travel, we travel a lot. So itineraries, hotels, restaurants, activities.
So I spend a lot of time on our family vacations and now I have the best partner there. And also
professionally. So like every day I ask for the latest news in my area of expertise.
It's easier, faster, better than me spending hours on Google going through links, going
through news articles.
It's just, I get it on a plate in front of me.
So it's super, super convenient.
That's a good one.
I should do that every morning just kind of within your sector.
Just say what's going on?
What do I need to know?
What do I need to know? What do I need to know? Yeah. Who is someone in business or beyond that inspires your approach to be, well, to be
constantly focused on customer-centric innovation?
I'm a big fan of Brian Chesky. He's the founder and CEO of Airbnb. Unfortunately,
I haven't met him, but I listen to a lot of the podcasts where he's a guest and I really love
his approach.
He's like for me really an example of a customer leader.
He spends time on his own platform.
He lets people stay in his own apartment.
They have very cool, you know, mind-stretching exercises to go to the next level of customer
experience.
Yeah, I would love to meet him.
I think he's super inspirational.
I love his 11-star guest experience. We've done that as a company, the 11-star guest experience. Yeah, I would love to meet him. I think he's super inspirational. I love his 11 star guest experience. We've done that as a company, the 11 star guest experience.
So I love him. I love everything he has to share. Yeah, cool. Did you have a chance to interview him?
No, but we have to add him to the list, Rose. Not yet.
We'll add him to the list for sure. Yeah. All right. Last lightning run question. Okay.
If you had to describe the future of customer experience in just one word or
phrase, what would it be?
Very simple. People want to be heard, helped and seen.
And it's the conversation is way too often about the tools and the technology,
but in the essence, you know, and this is a crazy thing in the beginning,
Lacey and me, we talked a lot about AI and it feels like everything is changing,
but at the same time, nothing is changing.
The tools are changing, the platforms, but at the core, people want to be seen, heard,
and helped.
And if you figure out a way how to do that, even without AI, you're going to be good.
That's what people want.
And it's so simple, but a lot of companies fail in doing it.
Awesome.
That concludes the lightning round.
Thank you, Steven, so much.
That's awesome. Thanks, Rose. Thank you, Stephen, so much. That's awesome. Great.
Thanks, Rose.
Thank you, Rose.
All right, Stephen, thank you so much for joining us
on Experts of Experience today.
Where can our audience find you to follow you
so they can stay in touch?
Share a lot on LinkedIn, linkedin.com slash my name.
I share a lot on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube.
Yeah, those are my channels.
And my contact information can be found on
my own website, stevenvanbellagam.com.
Awesome. We'll drop all those links in the show notes for anyone that's curious to follow
Steven. Yeah. Awesome. Well, thank you so much, Steven.
No, it's been a pleasure. I'm honored that I was invited. So thank you. This is a very
cool show. I enjoyed our conversation. So I appreciate it. Thanks for having me.