Extra Dirty with Hallie Batchelder - Everyone is getting married, I'm getting bad martinis *solo!*

Episode Date: August 13, 2026

Welcome back babe! 💋 This solo episode is a wild one! Hallie recaps her recent chaotic Ibiza trip, how she feels about her upcoming birthday, Acquired Style's Bridget's wedding, and why straight married men should NOT be allowed in Ibiza... Hallie breaks down her health anxiety and how the recent string of friends' weddings have made her reflect on her own life timeline. Hallie breaks down relationship stereotypes in a new segment "Red Light / Green Light" and then exposes herself with the questions you have been dying to know: Nantucket, male style, & Peter Pan men! Muah! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See https://pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

I thought that Abiza would be a walk in the park. I prepared myself for, yes, hangovers, but I did not prepare myself for the things I saw and the things I did in the program that was run there. I respect the sanctity of marriage. My mom needs to see me because I think she thinks my limbs are falling off. My body at this point just because I've been jester maxing

and island magging way too much. Let's get Extra Dirty. Okay guys, welcome back to Extra Dirty. I am fresh off of my Abiza trip. and I feel like we should start there because I haven't sat down with you guys in a minute and just like caught up and went over everything that's going on the summer.

I unintentionally had a Euro summer. And like I have always stood ground on being against Euro summer. I'm a Nantucket girlie. In the summer is where I dedicate my time to Nantucket when I get to spend time with my families. But I've just really been in the mood where I don't know if it's because I'm turning 29,

I'm pushing 30 quite literally. And I was just like, I feel like this is the time to do these things before I am like, one, in a serious relationship and two, before it's like deemed not inappropriate because I guess you can do this at any age. But like I feel like I'll get the less shit this year more so than when I'm in my 30s. I don't know how to put it in my head. I've been like low-key spiraling about my age recently, maybe because my birthday's next month. But I'll get to that in a few minutes. Let's start with Abiza, okay? Abiza, the fucking craziest place on the planet Earth.

I thought me, Hallie, my brand being partying, my brand being going to the afterparties, my brand being a fucking chaotic mess, I thought that Abiza would be a walk in the park. I thought it would be light work. I thought it would be easy. I prepared myself for, yes, hangovers, but I did not prepare myself for the things I saw and the things I did in the program that was run there. So I went with my good friend Mike. he brought me. We're great friends. I've known him for 10 plus years. Maybe not 10 plus years.

Maybe seven plus years. He brought me and he was like, let's go on this trip. It'll be a good group. And I trust this man. Like anything he says, I'm like, okay, like, I feel like you're responsible for me. So I'm just going to follow you into like whatever situation we get ourselves into. So I was like, fine. I'll do this thought trip. That's how I look at them. They look at, to me, like, thought trips where like it's a bunch of wealthy guys. And then they fly a bunch of girls out and then they basically have these girls like as like arm candy for when we like go out to the sick parties and the clubs and etc which is exactly what that was so we got there and i was only there for three nights and let me just preface it with this

before that i was in santa pay for a full week left europe to go back to new york city for two days to shoot this podcast. And then after two days, I went back to Europe and went to Abiza for three nights. Came back from Abiza, connecting flight, lost my luggage, I'll get into that too. Landed at 1 a.m., 10 a.m. I am in an Uber to Rhode Island for Bridget Fulong's wedding. So it was a lot of travel in the past, you know, week or so, but it was all in good fun. Anyways, Abiza, beautiful. I was just in Majorca, which is like kind of the opposite of Abiza. I think if I go out there again, I'm going to go Abiza for three nights and then, you know, recover in Majorca for a few nights because it's a lot more wholesome. So we get there. And it seemed like everyone under the sun was in Abiza for that week.

Celebrities, friends, your uncle, like everyone was in fucking Abiza. And basically, the whole week was set up with major house parties. But like not a typical house party. Like, billionaires house parties where like they would fly in all these it was the most insane thing I've ever seen like there was the first time we went out there was like an orchestra that was all edm it was probably like a five million dollar party it was nuts they would have tables there and tables there would go for 30 between 30 to 60 thousand dollars like it was something that I couldn't even imagine in my head I wasn't even mentally prepared for it it wasn't like celebrities like like I'm talking like Leo and like those types of celebrities

but also like oligarchs kids like oil money people that like the you know ambassadors children like lots of fucking money there everyone had security i've never seen so much security guards just walking around like protecting people at once it was actually bonkers anyways let's talk about sleeping arrangements i am not a ho i'm a reformed ho by my definition of ho the definition of ho is subjective. I think if you were to ask a lot of other people, they would say, yeah, Hallie, she's a hoe. But to me, I think I am a reformed hoe.

I used to be a lot worse. We discussed this on last week's episode. And so, like, I went into this trip and I said, Mike, I am not sucking, I am not fucking, I'm not even kissing anyone. I am just there for, I'm a personality higher on this trip. I want to be there. I want to make people laugh.

I want to have a good time. I want to bring the vibes. I want to bring the energy. And honestly, I did exactly that. Because I can party. I can get down. But there was some, like, behavior on the trip where it did feel like if you weren't sucking or fucking or doing something salacious that you felt like you couldn't sleep in a normal bed. Like, I was demoted at one point.

I was put down in the dungeon into this little Harry Potter closet at one point because they knew at that point I was not sucking nor fucking. But, you know, there were some girls in the trip that were doing things with the guys, you know. The guys were all really nice. They were fun. You know, I don't want to like say much about that because I don't want to get in trouble with them, you know. But everyone had a great time. I'll just put it with that.

So Abiza was a blast. We went to this place called the universe. What's it called? The universe? Which apparently is like the oldest, most big club on the planet earth is what Mike said. By the way, Mike, I have to give it my flowers. Put the whole program together, executed it perfectly.

Everything was pretty much with ease, getting in places, getting out of places, cars, dinners, reservations, etc. He handled everything, so I have to give my flowers for that. But Universe, let's go for that. So I went there, and I've never been, obviously I've never been to Abiza before. Universe is the biggest club in the world, I guess. Like, it's insane. I'll put a picture in the screen when this episode comes out.

But we went and saw Fisher there. We had the best table set up. And this place is like a literal maze. Like there's clubs within clubs. Like there was the main stage and we had the best table right front and center up top. Fisher was right there. Then we went backstage and then we're behind Fisher, which is fun. I love being a backstage bitch.

And then there's this thing called the apartment or the library or something. And it's like this sequestered back area room where apparently I don't know if this is like common knowledge. I think it might be. But it was like kind of like a side. like post-game party, kind of like a, you know, curated group of people. But apparently, normally, it's like where people have orgies and shit. Like, everyone's just, like, sucking and fucking out in the open. And you have to, like, give your phone away. Like, when you get to the door, they check you in, they take your phone. They put it in, like, a little

drawer up top. And it's, like, really spooky, but it was really fun. I'd have lost. We went to Chipriani. They gave me the smallest martini I've ever seen. It was actually a crime. I was disgusted. I want to sue. I want to sue. It was this. malls like a shot glass, it was $30 and it was a dirty martini. And I was like, why it should be in a martini glass? This is a crime against humanity. I don't know, like, I don't know if that's a chippriani. I think it is a chippriani thing.

It was a shot, but they were trying to tell me that there was the same amount of alcohol in a normal martini than in that shot. I'm like, I know, but now it's like hitting different. You want to like be kunti. You just look like an alcoholic if you're sipping a shot. It just doesn't aesthetically look good, in my opinion. Yeah. Let me just say, there's a lot of gesture.

I never, I don't know if I've talked much about married men on my show. But there were some things I saw on a visa on this trip. Everywhere I went, a man with a wedding ring that had young girls around him that I just knew that they weren't married to them. There was like a lot of cheating going on with these married guys. And they looked like wealthy merry guys and I don't know what their situation is, whether it's open or not. But honestly, it made me feel like I could never trust a married man in my life. Also, like, I would never let my husband go to a visa, unless I'm coming with them. But, like, there was a lot of jester activity going on, and I did not like it.

People might think of me as, like, oh, like, I don't know, like, I respect the sanctity of marriage. I do not fuck with married men, and I never will fuck with married men. I don't understand a girl that looks at a man with a wedding ring on is, like, that's hot. I think a lot of girls do that because I think, you know, they see it as kind of like a challenge, like the forbidden fruit, which is fucked up, but I'm trying to like get into the psyche of it all and it makes no sense to me. I'm like, that man is taken. There's so much other cock out here. Go for someone that's single and there's a fucking ring on their finger. What else is new? So Abiza was sick. I'll definitely be going back next year, but I definitely need

my mom and I should probably go to urgent care or something just to make sure like my health is okay. I've been having a ton of health anxiety and I don't know if it's because, I've been go, go, go. But I've been thinking that there's something seriously wrong with me, which probably is. But I always thought that was just mentally. But I feel like physically, like, I'm decaying or something. I need a, like, I'm not drinking all this week.

I'm drinking, the drink of the day is a water. So it is quite good, honestly, sparkly. I was saying this in one of my TikToks recently. I was like, I don't know if I'm having the best summer ever where I'm saying yes to everything. and I'm like on a high and I'm boozing and I'm meeting new people and I'm doing like the most insane things like trips that people dream of and like I'm should be I'm so blessed but I'm so like go go go and kind of all over the place in fucking ripping it while I still can I sound like I'm dying but like you know what I mean

while I'm still young in my 20s and single I don't know if I'm like having the best summer ever from like loki like kind of crashing out and try to like, I'd probably mix of both, but I don't know if I'm go, go, because I'm trying to avoid feeling something. It almost feels like internally I'm running away from feeling something. The only thing I can possibly think of is like there's been a ton of weddings this summer and a ton of people in my life that I love have just either gotten married or have gotten pregnant. And I've always said on this show like comparison is a thief of joy and you're on your own

timeline and all that. but it just weird, it just feels like it's hitting home a bit different this summer for some reason because just like everyone in my life. I kind of feel like I'm on my island alone and everyone else is just like, you know, moving forward the way they feel like they should. And I know I'm going to be fine, but I'm like, it kind of makes me feel like what's wrong with me? Like, why am I so scared to like enter that phase of my life? And then I think about commitment and, you know, getting into relationship, which is something I feel like I actually want to start taking seriously in the fall when all the summer fun is over.

But the thought of commitment in getting my feelings hurt makes me so upset and I'm not even like in it, if that makes any sense. Like I'm already mourning a heartbreak that I don't even know existed yet. I feel like I'm not explaining that well, but I'm trying to. Like for instance, I have a crush right now. I do. and I never get crushes. And they don't take me seriously.

They, like, think I'm full of shit. This one in particular actually says to my face, I think you're full of shit, just based off of, like, my content. I think he thinks I, like, move kind of salaciously and, like, slutty, honestly. And he keeps me, like, prove it. Like, you're going to have to prove yourself.

And I'm like, I don't want to have to feel like I have to prove myself. You should just be taking my word for it. But then on the flip of that, why should he be taking my word for it? Because all I do is talk about partying and like, suck a dick. So, like, I get his point, but, like, also, like, I've put myself in a really shitty position for, like, entering a serious anything with someone because of the way I speak.

But then again, I don't want to change the way I speak. These are all my experiences. This is my life. I'm honest about these experiences. A lot of hoes out there that are wifie material that come, like, you know, are on paper, wify material. Yeah, I've partied with them, too. Like, not everyone is as honest and transparent about the shit they've been up to as I am.

And maybe that will bite me in the ass one day. Maybe it's biting me in the ass right now. But, like, I'm never not going to not be true to myself just to, like, please, you know, a future relationship or anyone, to be honest. I mean, if you don't like me, you don't like me. But the prove it shit really pissed me off. So now I'm icing out. I'm like, over it. I'm like, okay, I don't have the time.

energy to prove shit to you. I told you I liked you. Take that at face value or fuck off, you know? And I get it. A lot of guys don't like what I do for work, honestly. The amount of guys that just think I'm a ho is shocking. It shocks me sometimes because I'm like, I talk about other things. I feel like I have depth. I talk about my mental health. I talk about, you know, my friends. I talk about, you know, a lot of things. I do talk about partying a lot. And I do talk about my Escapades with men. I mean, I do have lore. I do have stories But this is just like my life. I can't rewrite history at this point and also It's for entertainment value like people want to hear these stories, right? This is why I have a podcast

It's when there's microphone right in front of me right now. So it's gonna take a very specific guy I mean this guy in particular I don't know how it's gonna go like we haven't spoken and honestly a few days Maybe he's over it but like I don't want to have to like keep like, you know, making, like, I've already laid out the cards, balls in his court, I guess. And I hate that. I hate when a ball is in a man's court. It makes me feel so self-conscious and, like, my Achilles heel has been injured or something. Like, it, like, makes me feel vulnerable.

I think that's the thing I hate about relationships the most, or even liking someone, is I get so in my head. Like, I get so in my head about it. I analyze everything. I'm taking screenshots of conversations and having chat, GPT, analyze what, you know, this means sending it to my friends what does this mean because i'm so out of the game with all this shit but then i think about it and i reflect and i'm like why the fuck do i care like this and then i remember who i am and then i get back down to earth and then we're fine but i kind of spiral it's like liking someone it brings out this version of me that feels like needy and not bad bitch

I feel like a sad bitch almost like kind of pathetic almost but luckily for me I have ADHD so some new situation will distract me eventually I've been getting so many comments recently being like me and my boyfriend just broke up I'm 26 like I feel like behind now from my friends I've always preach like don't compare but like that's such a relatable feeling you know like your friends are like there and you feel like you're behind but I just instead of looking at that I'm as like they're ahead and you're behind. I just think about it as like, you know, different paths. You're taking different paths to the same, you know, location eventually.

Some paths take longer. You know, I always told my brother Chad, this has nothing to do with relationships, but he was a, you know, slow burn when it came to, like, success in his life. And right now he's fucking crushing it right now. But he was the type of person that would, like, I would be vowing him for Uber's or, like, you know, Mother's Day cards, you know, not too long ago. And now he's texting me asking, like who my financial advisor is because he's crushing it. So, you know, it just takes people

different times and everything will settle when it's supposed to settle. So that is my TED talk of today. I feel like that was a pretty solid intro. Might I add, it's Monday and when I'm recording this, and I thought my brain would be a lot more mashed potatoes than it is right now. But maybe it's this water stuff people keep talking about. Okay, let's transition to a segment. I'd like to call red light, green light. So basically, I'm going to read a prompt and I would basically decide whether I would do it, which would be green light, or if I would never do it, which would be red light. And we're going to go through them and see how the fuck this plays out. Oh, there's a yellow light too, sorry, which is like teetering on the middle, like on the fence, which I feel like could be the

case with a lot of these. Okay, so going on a vacation with a guy you've only been seeing for three weeks, green light, red light, or yellow light. Absolutely fucking send it. If you like this guy, Like if you like a guy and he's like not a serial killer and he's vetted by mutuals, I feel like he has to have some mutual friends for you to be able to actually go through with this. But absolutely, if you like him, why not? Say yes. Say yes to fun things like that. Vacation sex is the best.

I would say yes to that. Like I'm like without hesitation. I'm trying to think about a guy asked me right now if I wanted to go on like a cute vacation in a few weeks. I would say fuck. Yes, let's get married. Okay, a guy asks you out with the second date and suggests watching a movie at his apartment. Yes, I would do that, Greenlight.

If the first date went well, I mean, it depends. If you're asking me, I would do that because I would probably smash on the second date if I didn't already smash on the first date. But, you know, some people like to wait, and if you think a guy inviting you over is, you know, him trying to like Netflix and chill, then maybe I would hold off and say no.

But me, if you're asking me, I would probably do it. Because that's like cute. Like, what if he makes you dinner before the movie? And then you guys get to cuddle and then smash. Okay, use ChachyBT or AI to draft a text during a fight. 100%. So this is what I usually do. I usually type out my thoughts and then I ask ChachyBT to clean it up

and to make it and then I'll be like use a more aggressive tone. And then I'll go back and read through it and add like cuss words because chat won't do that for me. So that's how I argue, usually. Soft-launching a guy on your story. I've been thinking about this recently. I just, like, want to keep whoever I'm sleeping with or smashing, completely private until, like, there's a ring on my finger.

I just feel like, I don't know, that's, like, one part of my life. I don't think I want anyone else's input on. Because I see these girls, you know, and guys, have such public relationships and then God forbid there's an argument or a break or a breakup, the internet has always so much to say and because you expose that part of your life with them,

the audience feels like they're owed to their opinion on it, like in their owed an explanation and et cetera. And I don't ever want to be in a situation where I feel like I have to like be dealing with a shitty breakup but also like on the flip of that, like owing my audience, you know, a play by play of what happened. So soft launching, I feel like it depends on like, this is like a situation, a situation question, I believe,

but for me, no, red light. Like, I don't even tell a lot of my friends like who I hooked up with. I'm like a vault. It's like kind of scary. The post-breakup wellness glow-up era. Usually for women, I feel like we, in my opinion, are a lot more emotionally intelligent than men.

So I feel like we proper, really mourn breakups. Whereas, like, I feel like a guy when he goes through a breakup, it's like a delayed reaction to it. So, like, they'll be like, fuck it. I don't care. And then they'll rip it and, like, fuck other girls. And then, like, three months in, they'll be like, I miss you.

Whereas girls, I feel like they're right off the bat. They're mourning it. And then three months in, they're like, okay, I'm over it. And I feel healed. Do I think the post-breakup glow exists? Yeah, I feel like, you know, when you go through a breakup, obviously, you want to feel like you want to invest more time into you and, like, looking better. and be like kind of like a fuck you to the guy,

but also just like feeling better about yourself, whether that means like, you know, having a healthier routine or changing your hair, like something that makes you feel like a bit more confident in a shitty situation. Like I totally believe in that. But I also feel like referring to like a post breakup glow up, I think a lot of people like lose some weight

when they're like mourning sad things. That would be me. Like I would be going through an unwellness era before I reached like a wellness. glow-up era. So, yeah, do I believe in it? Yes, green light. I feel like everyone wants to look a little bit better after an ex-boyfriend.

I just haven't had one in so long. So, like, I feel like I'm not a really good person to ask. But am I hotter than the last boyfriend I had? Yes, when I look at him twice and out, if you pass me on the street? No. Unless it was to flip him off. He'd probably slip me off first, though. Unfollowing a guy's friend's sister and mom after a bad breakup.

Yeah, green light. I'm a petty fucking bitch. But I actually probably still follow the sisters just to like keep tabs. Or the mom. I don't know. Friends, yes, immediately. I always unfollow the friends. Like I don't want to see them having fun on their socials.

You know, like you kind of want to be like out of say, out of mind. But I don't really believe in unfalling anymore. Muting's the way to go. Unfalling is aggressive. It's like a checkable thing. Whereas muting someone, you can't check if they've muted you. You just don't view their shit. And like, who's to say why that is?

Like, it's kind of more like mysterious and chic. Muting is chic. Unfalling, not sheik. Okay? So I'd probably mute them. So what is this yellow light? I don't know, I forget. Green light, yellow light, maybe.

A guy whose Instagram grid is half gym selfies. Red light. Like, I don't care if you have muscles. I also, like, don't even like really vascular men. It kind of freaks me out, bro. Like, why are you lifting all the time? Like, why are you always in the gym? I mean, I'm never in the gym.

Like, what do we have in common? That's, like, also a big thing. Like, what are we going to talk about? Gains? Please, spare me. I just, like, feel like a guy with half his grade being the gym selfies. One, like, babe, stop looking in the mirror. That's, like, for the girls.

And two, what are we going to have to talk about? Like, why are you lifting so many things that are heavy all the time? Like, what's wrong with you? Sending 2 a.m. Are you a wig texts? I mean, I do that to guys. I don't know. It depends what the guy is. I have guys do that that I keep really casual situations with.

It doesn't offend me. But if I were to like a guy, say the crush was only sending me like 2 a.m., what do you, like where are you at text? That would piss me the fuck off. I'd be like nowhere near you. Goodbye. But I feel like it depends.

Maybe yellow light for that one. responding to someone's IG story when you know you haven't texted them back. I mean, like, who's really on their phone that much? I feel like that's fine. Greenlight, mellow light, maybe? I don't know. Like, I forget to text people back all the time. Like, if you ask any of my friends, like, I am the worst textor ever.

I'm only a good texter when I'm into someone romantically. That's it. Or work. And even that, like, Marshall, my producer will probably tell you, like, I'm not the the best text. I've gotten better, but like I used to be bad. Like I'm kind of dodgy. Sometimes I'll get texts like and I'll be like in Abitha or like San Chappelle and I'll be in different time zones and like I'll just forget to text because I'll be fucked up. Like I'm just like not a good texter and I try to be present when I'm drinking. Taking your heels

off inside the club. Depends what club. Like would I do that at universe in GA? No. But it depends. Like if I had a little table situation and was a really clean club like say we're like at Chey Margo in the back and like there was a nice table setup 100% I would take my shoes off but like it has to be the right establishment so I'm gonna give that one yellow light because I feel like it really depends and it's circumstantial like take your shoes off shoes I fucking hate being uncomfortable bro like like when I have like heels that fucking are digging into my sides like fuck that shit I'd rather be comfortable and maybe a

little ratchet barefoot running around like a fucking menace dating a sober guy I mean what would we have in common I'm a fucking drinker I drink like a fish. My family drinks like a fish. My show is called, it's named after a drink, bro. Like I just don't know like how much we'd have in common, but maybe a sober guy would calm me down all a bit. I've hooked up with a lot of sober guys.

But like ex-addict sober, which is different. They weren't like, oh, I'm gonna be healthy and be sober. They were like, I have to be sober to stay alive because I'm an addict. And those guys are fire in bed because they have like demons to work out inside of you. I would fuck a sober guy.

I wouldn't date a sober guy. But like never say never. Never say never. Are you blocking X's? Absolute green light. Unless they're like really kind. Like I just have never experienced. I mean, my last boyfriend was a sweetheart,

but he was blocked for a couple of reasons. And then unblocked and then re-blocked and then I think unblocked now. Okay, that was a fun segment, ladies and gentlemen, or ladies and gays or whoever listens to the show. The next segment, I'm going to be doing a exposing myself segment because we haven't done one of these in a while. I feel like whenever I do a solo, I like to, you know, just really let it rip.

Like, why not? This is what we're here for. How many unread texts you have right now? Actually, zero, because I just got a new phone. But on my old phone, I had like 300 and something. I could tell you how many unread emails I have, and that's something. 8,957. on one account and then my work account, 2,126.

Oopsies. How deep do you go for an internet researching a man before hanging out? Do the research after because usually I'm meeting these guys out. Or if someone shows me, I'll stock them, I'll look up their LinkedIn, I'll look up their employer. If I can find their house, I'll zillow it. I'll compare, like, do the whole, you know, what block they live on. I'll look at the comps, you know, try to find their bedroom. I'm just kidding.

But yeah, I've gone as far as zillowing, but that's like my favorite thing to do. Like if I get their address, I'm zillowing it immediately. Sorry. Not a creepy way, I just want to see your digs. Have you ever muted a friend's Instagram stories or posts? Yeah, I mean, there's definitely influencers I have muted just because I can't sometimes.

Sometimes I just can't get on board. I like them. I like them as human beings. I'm not going to say who because that'll just open a whole can of worms. But yeah, there's some influencers that I deem to be a bit insufferable. And they probably think the same of me. None of my friends, no. Who is someone saved in your phone contacts under a fake or coded name?

And what is the story behind it? I have a few guys that I have saved my phone as different names just because I could never have that come out. I almost like to change their names just so it's like not real in my mind. not real in my own mind. So usually most of the guys have hooked up with, or I have like on retainer, aren't under the same,

aren't under a real name. Yeah, I definitely have some fake numbers saved. Rank the following, Hampton's, New York, Nantucket, L.A. I mean, Nantucket and New York City, I feel like are apples to oranges a little bit. I can't really compare the two, but I'll go New York, Nantucket,

Hampton, L.A. I feel like that's a no-brainer. It depends. Would I want New York City in the summer or Nantuck in the summer? Obviously Nantuck it would override that. But New York City in the fall, it's way better than Nantuck in the fall. And then I just don't fuck with L.A. Like L.A. would always come in and last when it comes to all this shit. Like, I just don't like L.A. I think it's slow-paced. It's like a lot of like granola bars and like a lot of like smoothies and, you know, hiking and like, just like earthy stuff. The only possible thing about L.A. I can think of is that you can try.

drive there. But like it doesn't feel safe. I don't know. There's a couple things. I always hear but my friend's getting robbed. It kind of freaks me out. So yeah, Ellie's last. Sorry, Ellie. It does have nicer weather sometimes than New York. If you met someone briefly out on a party once, do you follow them back on Instagram? So this is a problem I have. I'll meet someone out and be like, what's your IG? And sometimes I'll be like, what's your ID to get out of the combo? I think, oh my gosh, we should really hang out. What's your Instagram? Or sometimes I'll just get drunk and super friendly and be like, what's your IG? Like, we should be besties.

And then I, like, see them the next day. And they're like, oh, my God, remember when you invited me in Kentucky? Like, I can't wait to come. I'm like, who are you? Who are you? I don't understand. But, yeah, if you meet someone and really kicky with someone, I feel like you should follow them back.

I don't give a fuck about my ratio at this point. I used to. I used to be like, I need to follow under 1,000 people. But now I'm just like, it's at 1,400. I don't give a fuck. It's like whatever. Whatever. What is a beauty or fashion trend right now that you secretly dislike?

I don't know. I feel like I like the beauty trends right now. They're kind of like sexier and like less quiet luxury-esque. You know, like kind of like Charlie X-X-Exy and like smudgy eyeliner and like statement pieces and stuff like that. So I feel like I'm like into like the fashion right now. I guess statement accessories, like brooches. Fuck out of here with a brooch. What is this? What are you a pilot?

No. I don't get that or like headscarves. I'm seeing that a lot. The head scarves are like with the... I'm like not a big fan of that. I like buy this hair so I like want to show people like it's on my head. So I don't like to cover my head with things. I hate one bitches DM me and they're like,

Hey girl, I'm blocked on TikTok. I don't know why. It's I think you know why. It's because you said some fuck-ass shit that pissed me the fuck off and I'm not unblocking you on Instagram. What is your laziest bedrock habit? I don't know, I turn my alarm off, like, all the time in the morning, and I can sleep to, like, 11 sometimes. I also think it's so lazy in me that I positioned my TV on my wall just so I can, like, lay, I can just lay on my side and look at it instead of, like, having to move my neck.

I feel like that's pretty lazy. What is your best habit? I think I'm really good at maintenance, like when it comes to nails and stuff, like nails, nails, hair, skin, facials, all that stuff. I also have a fire skincare routine. Like, I am glowy, and I know that. And people are shocked because I drink a lot. And they're like, how are you so glowy? I'm like, well, peptides, but also like, I'm probably glowing, honestly.

And I'm like a little sweaty or something. I don't know. But like I feel like I do have a good skincare routine. What is something messier, chaotic that happened on a recent night out that you haven't posted about or talked about on social media yet? If I haven't talked about it on TikTok, I'm certainly not going to talk about it on here. Are you on dating apps? Which ones?

I'm on Raya, just Raya, but I don't really use it, to be honest. So like, I wish there was more normal people on Raya, but they all live, like, across the country, or they're, like, AI, or they look gay. And, you know, I love a gay man. Which, by the way, I haven't seen Graden in a fucking month or something. Like, you know, I love a gay man, but I don't like to sleep with them. So, unless it was great, and I would probably smash.

But, yeah, I don't really date on Raya. I think my favorite dating app is Instagram and, like, DMing through that. What is the craziest piece of gossip or rumor you heard about yourself recently? Um, I saw. all this article about me that I like, it was honestly kind of like a slam piece on me. I actually just saw this morning where it was like Hallie Batchel their X-rated video of her like doing something in public, doing something X-rated.

And I like clicked on the article and I was just like regurgitated shit from my show when my dad came on. And I was like, what? Now everyone's going to think I'm like doing some whack-ass shit. public if you don't like pay the 99 cents to get the article. So I'm kind of pissed off at that, but to clear the air, I didn't do any whack-ass shit in public and I know better not to. Like what am I like slang in D like on stage?

Like please, like I know better. This hoe kind of went in on me in this article. I'm not going to lie. And like all my siblings and family members got streets, but whatever. Whatever makes this hoe happy. It must be a slow day in the news circuit. All right. Fuck Mary Kill.

Chase, McWhorther, Mike Malek, Mr. Prince Charming. I'd probably marry Mr. Prince Charming. Sorry, Mike. You're getting killed, and then I'd smash Chase again. I mean, I never did it to begin with, but, like, I would smash Chase. Not again for the first time. All right, segment, Q&A from listeners from Your Beautiful Faces. Let's see what we have today.

As a man, what kind of style draws you towards them? clothing wise i like street style but i also like the handsome like i don't know any style that's not like copy and paste from a fucking catalog if it's a personal style like i fuck with that so much more than like a guy being like where you can tell it's like not like it's something that they think girls will find attractive instead of like what they think they feel confident in you can just tell when a guy's not viping with his own swag you got a vibe with your own swag okay um but for me personally i love street style unique street style you know the baggy or clothes like cool like how many times am i got a street street style yeah street style

but i also like you know the dressed up look you know if you're going out to a nice dinner you have like a nice button up on but like honestly whatever makes them the most confident whatever makes them most nice to me because if you're not confident you're not feeling confident you're gonna be a fucking dickhead is it okay for me to make a guy who lied to me all last summer long think he might actually have a chance to me just to mess with them and take advantage This is a slippery slope, honey bunny Because I too Have gone down this road

And you think you have all the power Until they give in a little bit And then you start to like it When you're back to square one And then you then get your feeling syrup It's like a bait and switch So I would just be careful with messing with the guys had Because then sometimes you get caught up on it

And then you're like Wait, when did he bamboosom me again? And then you're sad and depressed And you know You gotta go through the whole shebang again. So just be careful with that if you're head strong enough, I'm personally not. If you're head strong enough, then I would fucking rip it. But if you're not, then just proceed with caution. What is your favorite restaurant ever? Such a hard question, especially

being someone that lives in New York City. I mean, ZZ's is up there. It's a carbone major food group restaurant. It's like one of my favorite places to go with my family. That's definitely up there. Nautilus on Nantucket's up there. Tucci is up there. for Italian food. That's like near Zerobon. That's really good. Bond Street's one of my favorites for sushi and stuff like that.

Currently talking up with a daddy who behaves like your Peter Pan guy. Any advice? Run for the hills, girl. Run for the hills. It's just not gonna end well. To be honest, she's, you know,

the thing is with these Peter Pan guys, they get older and they get more successful and they get more money. They will always have access to the younger, shinier, prettier girl. That's how I felt at least. They could have anyone they wanted because of their status and because of their, you know, they didn't even have to be that good looking. But like money gets a man very far in life. And they just feel like they have too many options. Like any 25 year old they want.

And you don't want to be in a situation like that because then you just feel insecure and gross and icky. We stay away from the Peter Pan guys. It's great for the lore. It's great for the stories. and it's great to build for your own character development, but that is not the guy you're going to marry, and I promise that. How are you dealing with the Nantucketra drama? I'm not dealing with that shit. Like that shit, I forgot about it at this point.

I'm going to Nantucket this weekend, and trust me, I will carry on as if this bullshit drama didn't even exist. It is the dumbest shit I have ever seen my whole entire life. And it just makes me want to, like, what about my phone? a little bit more there, to be honest. But trust me, I'm not worried about those baskets and, you know, the people that don't like influencers. A lot of people don't like influencers, just not just the people on Nantucket.

Let's be real. You say the word influencer is so stigmatized at this point. Like people just hate it. But you know what? It's the world we live in. We can't change it, babe. I can't wait to be on Nantucket this weekend. That's all I'll say.

And trust me, I'll keep you posted. I will be spamming your feeds. I'll be there with Chad, Sam, we're bringing Keon. We're going to have a fucking blast. So I'm very excited to go and I honestly need to see my mom. And to be honest, my mom needs to see me because I think she thinks my limbs are falling off. My body at this point just because I've been jester maxing and island magging way too much this summer and she needs to like see me in real life to make sure that I have a beating heart still.

But anyways, I love you all. This is a great segment. I feel like I really checked all the boxes. We hit everything. And I'm trying to do more of these, and I'm excited to do more of these in the fall. And we're going to have some fun guests on coming up soon, some reoccurring, some new,

and it's going to be all fun. Anyways, I hope everyone is a great weekend. As always, you can watch me on YouTube and listen to me on any other platform. Tell your friends, tell your family members, tell Mama, tell anyone that will fucking listen. But anyways, I appreciate you all and have the best weekend ever.

XO, XO. XO. Bye.