Extra Dirty with Hallie Batchelder - I geotagged to capture a man *solo!*

Episode Date: February 26, 2026

Welcome back cookies! 🤸‍♀️ This week, Hallie discusses what ANNOYED her with New York Fashion Week, the new boy that is scaring her currently, and how badly she needs a tan. Then Hallie reviews the street style TRENDS spotted during NYFW, giving her takes on suede, FAUX, ballet flats, "utility" and more! Then, Hallie exposes herself again, addressing what she FAKES being chill about, if she hate stalks people, how much money she spends on a night out, and more. Enjoy the epiiii! 💋 Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Okay, the next one is mixed motifs. I don't even know what a fucking motif was. I'm not an English major. Like if someone was like, I'm wearing a mixed motif outfit, I would be like, shut the fuck up. Like, what does that even mean? I'd be like, all right, babe. Okay, guys, I'm doing something really stupid right now.

We have an emergency debrief situation. Hi, this is Hallie from the streets of New York. Guys, I had every intention of staying in last night. Hello all and welcome back to Extrager's. It's me again sitting here alone just speaking to you guys. Where did we leave off? What, where did we leave off? I feel like last week was a really fun episode.

I, it's been like a whirlwind of the past few days, just dealing with Fashion Week and whatnot. I feel like someone compared the February Fashion Week to like Cocholah Week and I couldn't get that out of my head all week. It literally just felt like a lot of of parties, but just like, why am I here kind of vibes. The thing is with the week that is fashion week, there's just like a lot of like comparison and a lot of like, you know, people want to go to like all the good shows and there's like, it just feels very exclusive for no reason. And like,

I feel like the brands just get super picky, pickier each and every year. Like there's shows that I were, that I was invited to last year that I wasn't invited to this year. But that's, just like happens. It is what it is. It's fine. I guess not getting your feelings hurt or whatever, but like I just kind of felt annoyed the whole week, but it is fine. I just think it was just too much. It was too much and I didn't want to do any of it. And I told people I didn't want to do any of it, but I still do it every fucking year. Anyways, enough about that. What else happened to me last week? I went to Chey Margo on Thursday night and they have DJs sometimes. Like we're like, it's a ticketed event, the tables like started at like 20K. Somehow we got ourselves on the list without

having to spend money, which is always the goal. But there was obviously a lot of like rich men there, which I loved. And I met a boy. We found love, but he's kind of really scaring me. He's being too much. He's French and it just, I feel like Frenchmen kind of wear their hearts, what's it called, what's the saying? They wear their hearts on their sleeves. And it's just feeling a bit suffocating to me because that's not really my vibe. I don't wear my heart on my sleeve at all. Like it just coming off a little bit too strong. It's giving like kind of desperate. It's giving a lot. He's very, very sweet. He sent me flowers the next day, like a massive bouquet of beautiful flowers. And it was just like a little bit much. But I thought it was really sweet and kind of him.

He also sent me soup because I haven't been feeling well. I've been dealing with a FI for two weeks now. And I was like, okay, UTIs are not something to be f***ed with. Like, if that shit gets backed up into your kidneys, it can be a real issue. That's like a lot of old men. That's how they dies from UTIs. Fun fact. Because once you're like kidneys are fucked, you're fucked.

So I've been on antibiotics for the past week in, I haven't been taking them probably like I should be. There's probably like rules when it comes to antibiotics. You're probably not supposed to like, you know, drink on them. I stayed up for 48 hours one night this week and I just never went to sleep. I like probably those things didn't mesh well with the antibiotics very good. But alas, I'm still standing here. So yeah, it's just been one of those weeks.

And now I go to Miami tomorrow and then the Bahamas this weekend for a brand trip, which I'm actually really excited about because I can. I feel like all I need is some vitamin D to like clear my head. Although it's technically a work trip, it is just going to be nice to get out of New York. I just feel like a little bit Newarked out right now and we need to take a break. It's like a toxic relationship. Like I need just some space, some time to like reflect and think and then I'll come back a better person for it. But for now, I just need a tan, honestly.

That was like one of my ins for 2026 is to never be pale. And I don't think I've ever been more pale in my whole entire life. Like, I feel like you can see through me. I'm not even kidding. So hopefully, like, it'll be really nice weather there. I don't know what the Bahamas looks like this time of year, but I feel like it'll be nice and warm. I need a UV above an A and I'll be fucking happy.

But I need to take a break from drinking this week because this week was just all too much. I bruises all over my body. And while we're on the topic of fashion week, I thought we'd just go over some of the best New York City. Fashion Week trends that we saw this week. I feel like particularly street style stuff because I feel like that's a little bit more interesting. And I've been like trying to like make an effort this year to like be wearing real clothes when I go outside opposed to just wearing like sweats, which is what I

want to be doing. But I'm just trying to be like a bit more intentional. So let's rate these outfits and let's go through them. The best New York City Fashion Week street style looks are a masterclass in winter dressing. Swade in overdrive. You know I like suede. I like love the matching of suede. Swade's really expensive actually. It's like the most expensive thing out. I think it's more expensive than leather. During my birthday week, you know, my parents always come out here and we go shopping, we go to Bergdorf and sacks, and we just like have a time uptown and then we drink partinis. And it's like we do it every year and it's amazing. So we were shopping in Bergdorf. We went the floor that has like the really high-end brands like meo-moo and like all those other

brands whatever so I picked out this like cute meo-meo suede skirt and we didn't look at the price tag and that was a I've never had my dad like look at me and be like you need to go back and return that but he looked at me and said you need to go back and return it I never did but like he wanted me to it was like six grand or something for a fucking skirt it's ridiculous So I know suede's expensive and I like the matching of suede with like a brown boot. This is how she's wearing it right here. I'm not mad at it. With a shirling collar, that's really cute actually.

I like this outfit. The modern girl fit. A gray outfit in full monochrome continues to be the power move. Starting with a faux fur jacket styled over a simple charcoal turtleneck. I've been wearing a lot of turtlenecks and sweaters this year. I feel like this outfit in particular that she's willing. wearing right now, I hate, honestly. I also don't like ballet flats. I know people are like really into that right now and it's like very quirky and energy and quirky, but I don't like it at all. Like,

you're never going to catch me in ballet flats, I think. And I don't know why you'd be wearing like an open ankle with a ballet flat while there's like snow banks in the background. That makes no sense at all to me. But like no hate or no shade to her, although I just completely threw a lot of shade and hate towards her, but yeah, this can be a no for me, but I do like her pants, I guess. I'll give her that. And like, I love a turtleneck. It's, like, very classy, very chic, but, like, still, like, accentuates the tits. We like all those things. Okay, the next one is mixed motifs. I don't even know what a fucking motif was. I'm not an English major. What's a motif? Like, a theme? Like, if someone was like, I'm wearing a mix motif outfit.

I would be like, shut the fuck up. Like, what does that even mean? I'd be like, all right, babe. So fair aisle and snakes, can two patterns you might not instantly think of mixing together. However, this showgoer proves that they can be worn in tandem

just keep to a similar color palette. Okay, I kind of get it, but that just like sounds like a word salad to me. Like, just so you're not matching without saying it, that's kind of what the vibe it's giving here. I do like this sweater. But like I don't like long skirts, like bin, straight leather, long skirt. Like, I don't think I would ever wear that. It's cute. It's chic, but I would only wear this if, like, someone was styling me in it. I don't know. Like, I don't

think I could, I'm bad at, like, I have, like, a lot of good pieces, pieces, but when I go shopping, I kind of just, like, rabbit things I really like that catch my eye. But I'm bad at, like, looking at something and being, oh, like, I need that in my wardrobe. I'm about piecing things together in my head. But I'm very impulsive and I'll just like it if I like it and see it in front of me and then I'm not wearing it ever. But okay, pops to texture. Winter outputting is all about blending, contrasting fabrics. A seemingly neutral look feels fresh and alive. Where there are additional tactile elements. Here a faux fur, here we go with the fucking foe again. Calf hair, middy skirt. in smooth other boots result on a masterclass for layering

while a pop of purple knitwear adds an element of surprise around the neck. Yeah. I hate this outfit, no offense to this chick. But like, I don't like the color of purple, really. I don't like the skirt here. These boots look like something Shakespeare would probably wear. And I don't like wearing colors that much.

I'm trying to be better about that because I wear a lot of neutral tones and like darker colors, but I just feel like the purple is like a lot. The faux jacket again. I'm just not by being with it. All right. The next one is a cardigan as a jacket. I do this a lot. I honestly don't hate this as much as the last few we just looked at. I don't love the buttons.

It's kind of giving uniform, but I like her jeans. it says as temperatures start to slightly turn except for in here start thinking about transitional dressing the apri ski cardigan just bought for cozy nights by the fire is going to make the ideal outer place outerwear piece

at top black trouser pants yeah I mean I think that's cute I've definitely worn a cardigan as a jacket I think that's okay to do in like April I think it's still way too fucking cold to be doing this now I don't hate it I'm not mad at it.

I'm not mad at her. I think it's fine. I like the trouser pants. Another outfit I really don't like. I don't like animal prints, though. Let me get into this one. This next trend is called the leopard topper. It says, it's no secret animal prints are everywhere.

In the leopard coat is the hero item of Newark Fashion Week this season. I don't agree with that at all, but, okay. Play with it as wardrobe neutral styling with a knit skirt, set and camel for easy everyday wear, add accessories for extra polish, such as a mixed metal belt and knee-high leather boots. I mean, the jacket's not terrible. Like, I love a trench.

It's like the long fucking skirt that's throwing me off. Maybe it's because it's too, like, conservative, something I wouldn't really wear. But I don't really like wearing skirts. I wear, like, pants most of the time. I've been trying to be better about wearing more dresses, but like I would wear a dress over a skirt. I don't know.

I don't love skirts, especially ones that make you look like, I don't know. The long skirt just like kind of reminds me of like Catholic school. And I don't like that. It's like PTSD almost. I mean, so far, reading through this article,

I really, maybe I'm completely missing the mark here, but I haven't agreed with much that I've seen here. And I feel bad even saying that, but that's just my honest truth. And I have to be true to myself on here. Let's go to the next one. Maybe we can regime ourselves, but okay. Utility standards.

Start working utility. Like, what does that mean working utility? Like, a corporate job? What does utility mean? Is that like, what does working utility mean, Marshall? It kind of feels utility. It kind of feels like you work in like a factory. Why would I want to do?

dressed like I worked in a factory. No, yeah, it's like I could get on board with the utility pant, but I, the utility jacket seems like you're working like on an oil rig. Yeah, like, I don't, nothing about my outfit wants to scream manual labor. Like, I don't subscribe to that. I don't hate it. It's kind of even barber jacket, but like more like, no, I don't know. So a big trend, blah, blah, blah, blah.

It adds an element of downtown cool, a top wardrobe staple such as a black trouser pant. We're with the fucking black trouser pant in leather ankle boots, the cozy triangle scarf, tiger print handbag. It ensures this one truly stands out with on tread finishes. Oh my God, that sounds like a word. Like, I don't, maybe. I just like, okay, I don't want my outfit to. scream like I just came from work. I don't know. Maybe that's me, but I don't want to be screaming manual labor. And that's just a personal preference. The faux fur in denim formula. All right, this one's

cute, but like maybe they have to say faux for the article, but I just feel like faux kind of looks cheap. This doesn't look like a faux fur jacket, though. It looks like real fur. Yeah, I feel like this is like giving elevated, but like also like effortless in a way. Like it's so easy to just like throw in a pant Get your nice little product bagget bag And like put on a cute fur coat Like I did that Saturday when I went to brunch Like it's an easy outfit

It doesn't take much time And you look like dressed up It's cute Okay, I approve of that High implant Oh I read I was a Freudian slipped Um high impact leather What?

All right, leather is always a sleek choice, but rendered in burgundy. I do like the color of burgundy for this season. I feel like it's been popping. A streamlined coat becomes the vocal point while printed boots and tactile accessories like a leather scarf and gloves inject personality without overwhelming the look. I get what they were trying to do here, but I don't like the finishes of this jacket, to be honest. And what is this leather scarf? I'm confused. Like, I don't like the hidden buttons.

It's not horrible, but it's just like not saying I would pick out. All right, the next one's caped and draped. Okay, I like a cape. I feel like capes are in. It's like a scarf coat. It offsets the dramatic proportion with slouchy denim and muted accessories to let the silhouette shine without feeling overworked. Yeah, I feel like this is cool. I'm into this.

It's easy to throw on like a nice pair of denim pants. And yeah, it's chic. I feel like Lauren wears a lot of capes. I think that's how I know it's chic. The oversized bomber effect is the next one. I actually do love an oversized bomber. This is more of my style. And I feel like it's just like good for the winter.

Like I think the oversized look is very New York. It's very cool girl. It's very like chic. and I feel like you can find different ways to like add personality to it. I don't, anyone that can pull off anything oversized is doing something correct in my opinion, but that's just me. Okay, what's next?

The ladylike leather. I'm into this whole out of it. Head to toe leather can read ladylike when you pair separates, like a colorless jacket and a full middy skirt. Here we go with the middy skirt. I feel like middy skirts would only work if they were leather though. Like I feel like that would be the only situation where I'd be like, that would be a really cool look.

Yeah, but leather on leather, I feel like it's very, like, feminine, but also, like, kind of, like, sexy, like, dominatrix vibes. So I think it's hot. I think it's a good vibe. Kind of feel like I just clocked every single one of those outfits. Hopefully, bizarre doesn't, like, come from my neck. All right, that was fun.

I feel like I was kind of harsh, but, you know, fashion is subjective. And that's okay. I wasn't clocking anyone that was wearing the clothes. I was just clocking the outfits. But, like, maybe I need to get on, like I need to fix my, I don't know. I feel like, as long as you feel confident, it works for you, you know.

All right, next segment. Last episode or a couple episodes ago, I did a sipper spill kind of like segment where I was kind of exposing myself in my life. And I thought that was really fun and it was received pretty well. So I thought we'd just like get into that again. So like if I don't want to answer it, I'll just sip, I guess. I wish I had a martini, but a Diet Coke will be sufficient enough. Okay. What's the most embarrassing thing you've done to get a guy's attention?

I don't really have to work that hard to get guys attention. I feel like I just, like, I'm just, like, kind of loud and, like, in their faces about, like, and I don't really get embarrassed by it. Like, if he, I don't know, I just, I think the embarrassing part is really having to work that hard for it, which we've all been there. But, I don't know, the most embarrassing thing I've done, I post almost. my story like where I am when I like want to get a guy's attention depending on what city I'm in. It's like if Miami, like the first thing I do when I land is like geotag that at Miami and I'll hope like Joe Schmo text me about oh my god let's link up later. It usually works honestly but I don't even know if I would call that embarrassing. I just feel like that's just part of girlhood at the end of the day. Have you ever faked being chill about something that actually ruined your week all the time?

All the time. But like, As I've gotten older, I've, like, lost patience. So, like, I, faking chill is just a lot more energy than to just, like, have, like, a freak out. And, like, I'd rather just freak out, I guess. It's more fun. Like, yeah, I guess, like, when you're, like, in a situation with a guy and he does something, as he probably will, you want to pretend, like, you're coy about it and then it's, like, not that big of a deal. but obviously, you know, you gotta play cool sometimes.

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before I even followed them back. Just because if they follow certain people, it's a red flag to me. those people are usually like, like you can just tell if someone's like a clout chaser based off of like who they follow. So like if they like follow like, you know, Graden and like Alex and like Paige, I'm like, okay.

So like what is this man's intentions? Like you follow like everyone I know and work with. I just feel like to me that's a red flag. But like I don't know. You know what I mean? Does that make sense? Am I making sense over here? Okay. So what's the longest you've gone without sex in last five years?

Like, sex, sex, like oral sex, anything? Sex, sex, I think I've gone like nine months, eight months in the past year, six months. Between six to eight months, which I feel like it's like a long time for me. I feel like people just based off the way I talk, especially on the show or on TikTok. I think people think I'm getting railed like every day. I'm not. I go through phases where we all have like a dry spell, although I hooked up with someone this weekend,

but like I'm not in a dry spell right now. Usually during the winter, I go through a dry spell. Last summer was a dry spell. It just ebbs and flows. But I think six, eight months, that's okay. It's not bad, but it's not great. Have you ever doubled back to someone you swore off? I do that literally every week.

I do that all the time. I mean, it happens to the best of us. I feel like those are like the most famous last words. Like, I'm never going to see you again. Buck you. And then you're like with them the following night. Like, I do that all the time. But I don't feel really that bad about that.

Have you ever compared a guy's performances in bed to another guy's? Have you ever compared a guy's performances in bed to another guy? Parentheses to him, question mark. Yeah. I have. But, like, they probably are doing the same to me. So, but, like, comparison is the thief of joy. So I try to just really lock in in the moment and ignore, like, act like he's the only guy I've ever gone with ever.

But it's hard not to compare, especially if you are trying to get over someone that you'd like having sex with. And then you hook up with another guy and he has a micropenus. And it's like a whole thing. So, yeah, I've done that before. When was the last time you hate stalk someone? Why? I guess I'll sip. I don't like love to hate stock people.

Some people like follow people just to like hate them, which I'm sure in a lot of cases, people do that with me. But like if I hate someone or I hate seeing someone pop up my free page, I don't want to see them. So I block them or mute them. Like some people get a rise out of hate stalking people. I like get annoyed with the person on my face.

screen them. I feel like I'm giving them like engagement in screen time. So I try not to do it. There's definitely people have like stalkinging like this bitch is fucking crazy. Maybe Ashtra Bino. I don't hate her, but like I'm just like in awe of her. Do you guys know what that is? Ashtra Bino. It's like watching a car accident. Like you can't look away. It's it's so entertaining though. But like is she probably a bad person? Yeah. She should be in jail. But, like, entertaining as fuck. I guess I'm cool with answering Ashab, you know.

She won't come from me. What makes you feel instantly competitive? I don't know. I'm not a super competitive person. This will unfold in a few weeks after that secret project that I did. In Park City, you can tell, like, I'm just kind of, like, lackadaisical. Is that a word? Yeah, laxidaisical.

And I kind of just, like, love. Lollyag and I'm like, I don't really like to exert myself and my energy and I get like, you know, like I'm not super competitive. I was never a competitive sport player growing up either. So I don't really have that instilled in me. But I could say men make me pretty competitive. Like if there's like two girls, if there's other girls interested in one guy, I feel like I was recently in the situation where like you're kind of just like fighting over that person's

attention, which you don't want to be in a position where you're doing that, but like it happens sometimes and like is annoying. But I don't know. I'm trying to think what else makes me feel competitive. I'm very competitive with myself. Like I always am trying to like level up in some sort of way and I'm hard on myself when I don't. So I guess, you know, that's a competitive side of me. But like with other people, not so much. Have you ever pretended not to know who someone was when you absolutely did. Yeah, I do this with the celebrities I meet. Not to, like, knock them down a notch.

Just because it's just, like, I feel like it's kind of, like, not rude, but, like, when you're meeting someone, like, I feel like the polite thing to do is, like, introduce yourself and ask their name. Like, that's a normal human interaction. And I feel like a lot of celebrities kind of crave that out of people instead of just, like, getting fangirls.

Like, I would, I'm never going to, like, fan girl anyone. Maybe, like, say, like, I love their work. but I would never like really toot their horn not much. Maybe that's, I don't know, I'm just like, I wouldn't want to be, I don't know, I'm just like cautious of overstepping in that way. So I just treat everyone the same,

which I think is a good thing. What's something you think you deserve that you haven't gotten yet? Like a plane, like when someone gonna get me a plane, I want a plane. Or like a nice bag, you know, respect, love. These are all things I think I deserve.

Maybe not today. I don't feel that well today, but like in general, in the grand scheme of things, a plain respect, love, and gifts. Period. Do you believe woman can propose to men? No. I hate to like, I know that's like a very,

I don't want to even say it's trendy. I've only seen a couple people do it. And whenever I see it, I'm like, this is really fucking weird. That's just my opinion, though. Like, do whatever the fuck you want. I don't really actually give a shit what you do in your own house. But, like, no, this is, like, one of the things where I feel like we should keep it.

I don't even, no, I'm just going to go with no. That's just my opinion, though. How much money do you spend on a night out in New York City? The goal is none and just to gather a bunch of men and buy me drinks and food. but if I'm going on to dinner with my girlfriends, I'll, it depends. Like, if we're ordering nice wine. Like, I went out to dinner the other night with my friend Dylan, and we got two nice bottles of wine.

I think I paid like $1,200 bucks at dinner. It was like a whole thing. But I try not to do that that much. It just happened sometimes when I get excited. But an average night, I don't know, like $100, 200, $200. Maybe if there's no hot men around. What's a brand deal you'd kill to get? It's a good question.

I really want to work with Ugs. I feel like Ugs is like a cool one for some reason. I've been so hyper-fixated on Ugs for like a hot minute now. I wear a lot of Ugs and I think they're cozy and chic, so I would love to work with them. I feel like it would be like a seamless brand partnership. So Ugs, if you're watching, like hit me up, please. But I think ugs would be a good one to work with.

What's something you've deleted offline because you were scared of the reaction? I don't really delete things because I'm scared of a reaction. I usually delete things after I get a negative reaction, which happens to me often. Although sometimes I don't really care. Like, I've gotten in a lot of trouble before for, you know, things I've said. And I post about it, and I've doubled down on it and gotten completely canceled for it. you know, and I never deleted that video.

I just kept it up because, you know, that was just my opinion at the time. So it just really depends what kind of mood I'm in, but I don't think I, like, I'm pretty bold when it comes to what I post online and like what I say. So I just get a little nervous if I'm getting a big general negative reaction and I still have time to delete something

and then I'll delete it. But for the most part, I feel like I don't do that. Name someone you've muted on your Instagram. You have muted on your Instagram right now. I have any... Any guy I've ever hooked up with is muted on my Instagram. It's weird, though, because I have every guy that I've hooked up with muted on Instagram,

but they're also all my close friends because I want to make sure they're watching my shit. It's kind of brilliant if you ask me. But, yeah, every guy I've ever gotten with... And some, like, New York City influencers just, yeah, I don't know, but I'm not going to name those people. I'd rather not get my head chopped off by them. Okay, next.

Would you rather fall in love with a broke creative or a boring millionaire? I don't know. Probably the broke creative because we can like, I don't know. This is like, I'd rather fucking put a gun on my mouth. It just like sounds like, rather be single. Because I don't even think I would like a creative broke guy either. But boring, millionaire, and I couldn't cheat on him with the broke creative.

I don't know. There's definitely a loophole in here somewhere. Okay, would you rather, would you rather your ex write a tell all about you or your best friend? I mean, probably me. It'd be a really interesting New York bestseller. I feel like it'd be a great tell-all to write about, you know, our antics. But I don't know.

Why would he write about my best friend? That would be kind of mean. What does he have against my best friend? Like, what would he say about me that was that bad? And who's to say anyone would read it? Like, what if he's a shitty writer? Like, I don't think my either of Max's, like, can really string a sentence together. So I don't know.

That's an interesting. Okay, next. Open your Instagram search history and read the first three names that pop up. No, I'm good on that. I'll sit my diet Coke. Show a video or a photo in your drafts that you were too scared to actually post. I post everything. I post too much.

I have one draft and it is just me absolutely devouring a selfie. but I think I put this in a dump. I don't even know why it's drafted, to be honest. Delete draft. Have you ever paid for one of the apps that tracks who unfollows you? Yeah, in college, I would do this. But so many people, like, unfollow me now, it's just, like, why even do that to myself? It's, like, self-inflicting pain.

But I would love, like, you know how, like, on TikTok you can see if it says follow back or follow? Like, I wish you would get notified when people you follow unfulfulful. follow you. You know what I mean? Like I wish there was like a friend's folder. But usually I look, I'm like an avid looker to see people still follow me. But I don't know. What's the shortest amount of time you've waited after a breakup to sleep with someone else? Six hours, I guess. Maybe less? I don't know. I'm like pretty bad about like going through breakups because I feel like I'm like I immediately try to distract myself with someone else which is like you know putting a bandit on like an open wound and just like doesn't really do

anything and you just feel like more shit the next day but I've definitely felt I've definitely fell victim to hooking up with someone pretty quickly but that's okay if you had to cut one person out of your inner circle for $250,000, who would it be? I'm not answering that. I don't even know how I would answer that. We'll sit. That would be crazy for me to answer. I don't even know if I have an answer to that

because, like, I wouldn't cut anyone out. I have to do a lot more than $200K. But, okay, that was really fun. I don't think I sit much, but I definitely expose myself. but you win some you lose some next let's do a quick segment of Q&A before we wrap the episode and I like these because it's something new every time we do it so all right let's start with this queen okay this isn't for the pod but you should really try the app field having the time

of my life hot sexual daddies of all shapes and sizes and net worths Okay, hot single daddies. That kind of sounds like seeking arrangements, but I'm going to have to look into that because who doesn't love a hot daddy? All shapes and sizes and net worth. That's beautiful and poetic. I'll look into it. I'm like so scared to go on dating apps like that now.

Do they even vet these guys? Like when I did seeking arrangements back in the day, when I thought I was getting kicked out of my house and taken out of the way, because they threw a house party and she threw a ball over the carpet. The men definitely were predators, like some of them. Like, just, like, really sketchy, those kind of apps. I never went on any dates, but I once sent feetpicks for, like, 500 bucks. That was a quick cash grab.

But I'll look into it. I'll look into it. Okay, next. How do you regain confidence, no loss? It's a good question. It's a deep question. I feel like confidence just kind of ebbs and flows. I mean, I go through phases where I'm super confident,

and then like the next week I'll be super not. It's really seasonal for me. I get really bad seasonal depression. And then I kind of spiral, which I feel like I'm in the middle of right now. And it all depends how pale I am, like the UV. Like there's a lot of things that go into confidence for me specifically. But I feel like if a good thing,

good, you got it like a good beat on and a good outfit on. That's a quick and easy way to like boost your confidence a little bit. I also like, you know, go through Raya, see who I've matched with. That also kind of strokes my ego. But the confidence thing, I feel like, is kind of a person to person thing. But those be my quick fixes. Sun, moon rising. I'm a double Libra.

Wait, let me look at my co-star. I'm a Libra. I've also recently really gotten into this. I'm a Libra, Virgo, Libro. Wait, whoa. My son's in Libra. My moon's in Virgo. And my ascendant is in Libra.

Which is kind of interesting. I don't really know much about Virgo though. I'm a Virgo. It says your moon is in Virgo, meaning your emotional self is analytical, responsible, and pacifying. A bundle. of nerves you struggle with a need to be pure that may come out in self-sacrificing or nitpicking tendencies. Okay. That came for me. Um, yeah. I mean, astrology's so crazy. Like, I don't really know. I was kind of skeptical about it for a while, but like after I downloaded co-star and I like

read all of it, it like is really interesting. Like, it's interesting stuff. Okay, next. Is it bad at this point I don't even know my body count. I mean it's over 50 under 100. Same and that's okay. I do keep track though in the notes app and I don't know recently I just stopped keeping track because I just I don't I don't want to know also like what if I get hacked one day and like it's just like my whole list in there it's like a burn buck some of these people on here if I pass them the street like I say this all time if I pass some of these guys in my notes app on the street I wouldn't be able to pick them out in a lineup, which is really scary. But, like, that was college.

I was a nutcase in college. No, the answer is I don't think that's bad. But, like, I'm the one telling you that, so I don't even know what that means. How do you feel about having sex with friends? I mean, mentally, I think if you can, like, handle it, then it's fine. If you're, like, very clear about your boundaries, but, you know, once, like, you get sex involved, that can be like kind of confusing. You like have like the pillow talk and like the feeling this can get there.

But if it's just pure sex and then friendship, then that sounds like a great relationship, honestly. But do I do this probably more than I'd like to admit. But like for some reason recently, I feel like emotionally I've been just like so closed off. I can make, I feel like I'm okay with just like having. very casual no-strings things at this point in my life right now, which is, I don't know if that's good or bad,

because I feel like I should be going in the other direction of, like, wanting to, like, find something more serious, but I feel like, if anything, I want, like, the least serious thing, things ever. What do I do? I hooked up with two roommates by accident. Sounds like you're just in college having fun. I've done this. There was this hall called Davidson in my, in my college back in the day.

And there was a guy that had a room in the basement level. And then there was a guy that had a room in the second floor. And I remember I used to like bounce between those two rooms. And they were like in the same frat and everything. And it took like the months to find out about each other. But they did. But I think it's okay. I mean, who fucking cares?

Like they're probably doing it. so not that big of a deal okay guys as always I love you all and I will see you next week you can watch me on YouTube you're not doing that listen to me on any other platform like comment subscribe tell your friends etc I appreciate you all and I will see you next week love yeah