Extra Dirty with Hallie Batchelder - My Brother Chad: basement parties, hangxiety & Batchelder Family Drama

Episode Date: July 31, 2025

This week on Extra Dirty, Hallie is joined by her younger brother Chad for a chaotic, heartfelt, and hilarious sibling episode. The two dive into childhood memories including evil babysitters and basement party scandals, all ending in a BONE CHILLING text from their parents. They unpack their shared talent for reckless decision making and reflect on unhinged Batchelder holiday stories that involve boyfriends, near-fights, and a very dramatic Thanksgiving. Chad opens up about insecurities, growing pains, and what it’s like being Hallie’s brother in the age of content. Lastly, Hallie asks Chad what kind of man she should end up with... and you'll want to stick around to hear his answer. It's Extra Brotherly! Follow @extradirty on socials to keep up with Hallie and if you love what you hear, leave a review and subscribe to keep the chaos coming. 

Do you Uber Eats a lot? Because I got cut off. Every day. I think he called the bang and said, not Hallie. Well, I think he knows, like, if I don't have Uber Eats, I might, like, die. Like, you would vanish. We're happy little freaks. Okay, guys, I'm doing something really stupid right now.

We have an emergency debrief situation. Hi, this is Hallie from the streets of New York. Guys, I had every intention of staying in last night. Oh my God. Hi, guys. Welcome back to Extra Dirty. We have a very, very special guest today. My other brother, Chad, welcome.

What's going on? How we doing? We've had Sammy on, which is my youngest brother. I feel like that was a bit more of like a serious episode. I feel like Chad, me and him are both like the middle children. I feel like we're the funnier one. I was just saying we trade off our shit shows for sure. No, we're chaotic.

Like, if you look good, then I look bad. If I look bad, then you look good. Like, we're always hoping someone else looks like worse. Shit, we capitalize on each other as low points. Yeah. Is that how we're starting? Yeah, I'm like, yeah. Have you ever listened to, like, any of these episodes?

It's, you know, a little tough as your brother to listen to all the episodes. But like the one with like Sammy on it, obviously I wanted to check out. I was just going to say, I hope you don't listen to any of that. Yeah, no, but I obviously respect what you're doing here. Do you? Yeah, money's money, baby. That's what dad says. And I'm like, that's kind of weird.

Cheers, by the way. Cheers, thanks for having me. Thanks for coming on. This will be a fun episode. I feel like we have so much to catch up on. We're the middle kid, so I'm one of four. I don't think I've ever said that. So it goes, Bryn, me, Chad, Sammy.

And we're the middle ones. How do you feel about being a middle child? I think we fucking rock. Do you think we're the favorite? Um, I wouldn't say all that, but I do think they love us for our personalities and our outgoingness. There was this like one story of us growing up, like that I always think of when I'm explaining like what kind of character you are in like the chaos that just ensued in our household.

So we used to grow up going to Lake Senepe and we'd ski and honestly some of the best memories. I still wish we were a skiing family. Great memories. happened? I don't know. Can we go to Aspen? I don't know. Bring it up with dad. Yeah, no, maybe not. You might be paying for that trip. No, loki. I got Airbnb credits. Yeah, you might need to help dad out with that one. No, yeah, I'll get dad on that, the front half. But anyways, we used to grow up going skiing, like Sonomi, some of the best times were obviously really young. My parents had. It was before we were all like drinking stuff. Yeah, we were like six. Um, my seven. Seven.

Obviously, things changed. So, like, my mom had four of us under the age of six. We're all very close in age. Like, I'm 27, Chad's 25, and we're like, you know, Libra's, Libra gang, whatever. So my mom would need babysitters, obviously, to take, like, a little weight off. They could go out to dinner and have a good time. But they would always hire the most janky-ass, random New Hampshire-ass-bitch babysitters. Yeah.

No offense to New Hampshire. But, like, I don't know where they looked, Craigslist maybe. I have no idea. It was a little suspect in sketch. I'd love to know though because some characters came through the house. So there was this one bitch, her name was Tara and I hope she's watching this now because you're a fucking weird crete. How do you know her name?

Tara, because she's ingrained in my memory, bro. Engrained. She came in, was really into gospel music, which respect. And so they left to go out to dinner and have like a romantic date night my parents and left us with the four of us. And usually we would just like watch Pirates of the Caribbean in the basement. but this bitch she did not want us to have fun no and you guys were bouncing off the walls how old were you like six years old

like yeah i was probably six and was four and there was this loft you tell the story yeah yeah yeah so this like crazy lady comes to babysit us and she like sends us all up to our rooms make sure she has shit under control she just wanted to listen to gospel yeah yeah so we hear her like listening to gospel and shit and um no remember she put you in the loft and took the ladder away yeah yeah so me and my younger brother were the two youngest so she wanted and we were like just out of control obviously like the two boys of the family like you said balancing off the walls and um she comes in and like locks puts me and sam up in a loft and takes the ladder away so it would be like a 10 foot drop so it was so

Yeah, yeah. Like looking back, it's like, all right, like, let's fight. But like now it's like, we did it. We handled it the right way. So we were like, okay, we need to take a piss. And she wouldn't let us get down to go to the bathroom. She sent up a bucket. And so she sent up a bucket. And we were like, oh word, like, let's do this thing. So me and Sam pissing this fucking bucket. And we're like, hey, Tara, like, we're done now. Can you come get the bucket she comes over all over her fucking head and it was honestly like one of my prouder moments dude honestly she deserved oh she does every part of that she was like horrified and she so she would like treat us poorly so we would like come back at her like she would be downstairs listen to her little

gospel music and we'd come down like sneakily we'd go in like the outside yeah yeah we'd go in like the pots and pans drawer, grab some pans and we're fucking bang, bang, bang, bang, bang. She's like, ah! We put her through hell. Oh my gosh, she deserved that. And the only babysitter I think I've ever liked is Carmina. Carmina's a go.

Camina's family. She's a go to, she's family. Carmina, if you're watching this, love you. I might need a bath later, so. That's crazy to say. Okay, my bad. Take that back. Like, Sammy might say that.

Yeah, yeah. I love Carmina. She does everything. Sammy was a Spanish major, I think partly because of Carmina's influence. Yeah. She, like, was our second mom. No, definitely. She raised us in a good way.

In a way, yeah. Yeah, it's her. Do you think we're more difficult now? Or do you think we're more difficult, like when we're younger? I don't know. Like, it's so tough to say because, like, when we're younger, it felt like the end of the world whenever we fucked up but now it's like actually the end of the world when we fuck up so I think I think now is um a little more difficult no what like mom always says like

kids problems but like adults adult problems like I feel like the problems get like as an adult they become more intense they become more intense and they like more of an impact yeah awkward sometimes I still think I'm a kid like I still think that I'm 17 oh no I will tell people I'm 17 Hi, I'm 17. Yeah. No, literally I, like, still sleep, like, especially in Nantucket in the summer. I feel like I'm literally going to rip Nobideur for the fourth and, like, go to the chicken box. See, when we were 17 and we did that, it was such like a thrill.

It was like, cute almost. Yeah, yeah. They were like, yeah, now they're like, now they look at us with disgust. Like getting, I would get arrested on the fourth on Nobadir Beach and now if I did that, it'd be the end of my life. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. But let's talk about that for a second. Chad used to go. So Nobadir is like one of the most popular beaches. Honestly, I feel like you're one of the reasons that it got shut down. Like you would get arrested every year. I played my part. Yeah. I played my part. So Chad would just like be thrown in the drunk tank or for underage drinking. How many times have you seen the inside of the Nantucket police station? Only three, but like three is my lucky number. So I had to. I like shocking. have never been in there.

Really? Remember when Bogger's mom accidentally hit mom's car parked in the street? And they had you on SpeedDow. They were like, yo, Chad, I think your mom's car got hit. They had my number for some reason. Like, it's my dad's car that got smashed up. They just called me. Yeah, they go, wait, Chad.

I'm like, who is this? What did I do? They had your number like on the wall. On speed die. Yeah. And I remember going to the scene of the crime when that happened. and I just wanted to get involved and like put my head in it

and they were like we'll arrest you right fucking now and I was like um yeah don't do that oh my gosh they're always fucking something with us by the way sick outfit yeah wait the sube jeans

suby jeans we got Prada vintage jacket you look like you're I'm ready to rock I'm ready to rock daytona 500 style people keep thinking these are Mew and they're not but I'm like saying they are

yeah do you know what Mue Mew is I just know the bags what are your favorite fashion brands that's a good question i feel like i like i'm a big mix of like super classy and super streetwear um so like i don't know i like a lot of rag and bone you know a lot of rag and bone yeah but i feel like you like um k subi as well and yeah sui stone island stone island yeah i rock a lot of stone island we drop bands there once a lot of Gucci yeah a lot of Gucci like a lot of product it's so yeah it's good stuff

No, but I like whatever looks good. Yeah. How did you get in real estate? Well, dad's been in real estate. So, I mean, I kind of saw it as like a little bit of a, you know, an opportunity to kind of learn about it myself. And granted, I didn't really go through dad to get my job. But I think definitely like down the road, I picture me and him doing business together. Yeah.

I mean, I always say this to you because. me and chat are just like so much alike in so many ways whether it's chaos or not we share a lot of similarities and I feel like we used to get along the best and we still do get along the best obviously we have our moments but you could do content I think you could do this yeah you could sit down every week and do something like this I think about a lot like so many things that I could be doing and I like always have this like level of creativity that I think is a lot like so many things that I could be doing and I like always have this like level of creativity that I think is only right to you know apply to my work life yeah um contents obviously the one way to do that these days and i think you had that one vlog where you're like your intro was like kicking the bag and then it was just like kind of like a work life but also like a swag yeah yeah yeah and i feel like no yeah i like yeah i want people like know me as you know a guy who can light up the room but also take me seriously or yeah we'll fuck you up you're definitely the funniest in the family i appreciate that i think i'm funny sometimes you're hilarious you're like like sneaky your delivery is spot on i have good like comedic timing absolutely yeah yeah right

yeah you're just like outwardly funny yeah well i'm just creative so like i'll you got yeah yeah yeah who's yeah i think dad's funny too that's hilarious i think we get it from dad probably yeah and also sammy's loki sneaky sneaky funny too seems hilarious yeah like if i were to pick a sibling to like go out party with like have a fucking three-day bender with it'd probably be you and sammy would be judging us for it yeah yeah i mean we've done that many times before so yeah so i was like saying how like sam he's like always been like the goody two shoes like he's always he's the fourth child he's the baby he's the favor he's like whatever he's a perfect child in a lot of ways but like growing up like

it was just me and chat against the world it felt like we would be the old because my older sister wasn't really a big partier she's always been like the mother figure she's yeah she's the oldest and she's a girl and she just always was like kind of locked in and kind of just like not a big drinker didn't really do any drug just didn't like have fun we know I'm just kidding but like she just like was always like kind of not doing that I think she took her first sip of alcohol when she was like 17 oh I thought you were going to say recently I was like damn she broke sobriety Oh no We got to check on her

I didn't hear about that But like me and Chad So our house in Boston Which you would think like Why are you throwing house parties in Boston But it was almost like One our parents like They were okay with it

Are we had cool like party parents They they would Well They weren't really okay with it Until like maybe our like You're a senior year in high school Yeah But like when we would throw down

It would just be like when they're in Paris or when they're like away for the weekend yeah and they would come back to like something broken something speakers blown out yeah speakers blown out fucking bleach on their carpet dude do you remember when you told that story before yeah that's a funny story I was gonna say do you remember when the fucking oh I was like trying to do a nice thing too it was like her birthday pregame and she invited all our fucking friends and I was like only fucking motherfucker yeah and I feel so bad because the girl like obviously like we're hiding from the cops which just why people ended up on like the third and four story yeah but who bleached the carpet is my

question who thought that was a good idea i i think i know who but i'm not gonna i you know what's funny about that story is like they threw up on the other carpet in the second living room really yeah but it was just cleaned up properly they were just hitting all the carpets they were just hitting all the carpets not only wasn't the carpet it was like this nice velvet couch in in mom and dad's room and then the carpet was like some material that wasn't just fucking carpet it was like a nun's hair oh my gosh and i just remember it was like father's day and we got the nastiest text and we were all just like curled up in a ball in our rooms waiting for him to come home second he came home fucking bomb went off no remember i went to nantucket

oh yeah oh yeah i made like the worst call of this entry yeah so we had this pre-year so we had this pregame and like what Thursday and I was like shit's gonna like go fucking down we're like we need to hire professional cleaners we need to like check all the boxes and I kind of just like left the next morning with Margo my roommate from college and just like left you guys at the mass and I was just like I can't fucking deal with this Sammy's like rage texting me being like you're a fucking contest sister I hate you blah blah blah blah blah we have to tell mom and dad and I was like okay well they're eventually going to find out but I'd rather be like on you and tuck it one of dude dad called me after i got back after he walked in because he was away in miami i think

yeah and he walked in after he saw the actual mess that was made and everything was broken and like the cost of the damage fuck i wish i could pull up that text because i know it's somewhere no we need to find the fucking text and clip it but it was the nasty i thought i was getting i signed it for seeking arrangements bro i thought it was cut off it's got to be here somewhere i know it was like fuck you you stupid little fuckers yeah yeah and then remember when he called me and he goes fuck you yeah yeah screaming i'm like broke black and i was like tanning and i was like what that's so fucking weird oh here we go i actually have it right here dude it's gonna like give me PTSD oh no read it this is crazy um read what the fuck nice party i guess but of course it's no one's fault

we just ask that you don't throw a party while we're away because your friends have proven to be so disrespectful and you do it anyway swearing we are unreasonable to not trust you so now you're going to pay to replace a carpet that we have to work our whole lives to be able to afford right that's at least a $10,000 bill by the way I hope you guys are proud happy Father's Day to a dad who does nothing but give to you guys what you treat him and you treat him this way I'm disgusted I'm like oh wait wait that was mom That wasn't even dad This is daddy This is daddy

Why do you say This is daddy Why do you say daddy This is daddy Dude what? No that's crazy That's like an ego thing Wait read dad

This is daddy Dude I'm like You all have to be fucking Yeah this is dad You all have to be fucking kidding me You all continue to use us And steal from us

Using unauthorized credit card purchases After we have given you everything the fucking game is over and I'm selling the Jeep and the evoke at the end of the summer and you guys can take the bus like the rest of the fucking maggots that you allow to come into my house and have a free for all you want money for your booze that you use my credit cards for go get a fucking job it's over strong letter to fall assholes and don't think I'm kidding hope you're proud of yourselves thanks very much dude I'm like retramatized

that was a crazy text that was mean kind of Yeah. I almost want to text him right now and say, sorry. Remember, I wrote him like a 19 page letter with pictures. Yeah. Oh, no, the amount of letters I've wrote to mom and dad just being like, hey, sorry, like slip it under their door. What was like the worst thing you've ever done that? You were like, this is letterworthy. I just feel like you like have bad luck to. I have terrible look. It's a mix of like bad luck, like with schools. I can feel like you didn't jive with that. I like to do things that like push the limits a little bit. Yeah. But like I know, maybe like I won't die from this but I get pretty fucking close yeah like they won't kill you

or like the whatever you're doing won't kill you whatever I'm doing won't kill you yeah I could feel that I mean like I know that like I'm aware enough to be like okay like let's calm down a little bit yeah but you're also like me though like you have a little bit of self-awareness and you get lots of anxiety over your actions like it's not like you're like going through life being like oh like I think this is really good. Like, I'm making a good decision there and there. Like, you know when you're, like, fucked up or, like, did something wrong? I'm, like, overly self-aware about it, you know?

Yeah. But, like, I'll still do it in the moment. Yeah. I don't think about consequences in the moment, too. It's almost like I see myself in a third person. Yeah. Like, when I have anxiety. And I feel like, yeah, just, like, from countless, like, mistakes, like, you build up

this anxiety that, like, you did something last night that you don't fucking know. Yeah. You know what I mean? It's like the worst. you wake up the world's mad at you and you tell them the thing you have on antucket oh my gosh i just like built up this fear that like it's like i wake up after like a night of drinking and like the world is mad at me and i start to like and you just like kind of like lift your phone you're like yeah and i just like i kind of use that like a defense mechanism against it just like

going at people's throats because i think they're mad at me yeah you know what i mean like I will say though like sometimes on Antarctica especially like when you're like back living with your parents again and you're we're under their roof you know it's so different now that we know like what it feels like to have our own apartments and it's like what that freedom feels like it's like when we're back in like the twin bed and like we're like back under the room's like I feel like I'm going to get grounded again they have us on a leash for sure yeah but you know what they do like I was thinking about it today like they do well a lot of people in our house that you know they haven't even met yet and you know they they do everything to like make sure we all have a good time like buy us dinners and shit yeah they're the best they are the best in that aspect but i feel like we also bring around a lot more like as we've gotten older like we've brought around one like less people into yeah more a more respectful in like people that they know and mom's always saying like you know how mom volunteers with like kids in the neighborhood like she like loves like you know cater to needs

and like I feel like she misses the chaos sometimes I mean she has four kids and then now she's like kind of an empty nester besides Sammy and I feel like she always says like she like loves the chaos sometimes well she misses it until it's Thanksgiving and we come home and someone's crying oh my god do Thanksgiving's wait guys our holidays they fun by the way can we tell the story about that one thanksgiving remember when auntie what's her face brought around what's his face and he tried to square up with sammy oh yeah he was like oh my god yeah he was this like new boyfriend came in super hot got hammered like started like giving sammy lip and then i'm like me and sammy are right there like we'll fucking rock this dude remember that one day

that person like blew down the door that dad of someone yeah oh that was um like Sammy and his buddies like confronted some kid about like talking to one of their girlfriends and he like came over to fight Sammy and he came over like the dad came over to like fight Sammy on Thanksgiving yes we have like gossip girl style thanksgivings we're like there's at least five people crying it's never ending glass is getting broken someone's trying to fight someone it's never ending I kind of enjoy it though it's good entertainment we like mom doesn't like it's good entertainment when I'm not involved Yeah, dad doesn't like to have holidays at the Boston House anymore because people spill wine all over the fucking carpet or they're just breaking someone.

We have some random boyfriend we've never met from one of my aunt. One aunt. Everyone else is married. Yeah, yeah. No, we like to have our fun and so does our extended family. Yeah, I wish they would come down in Kentucky more. Like those are like kind of the best memories. Well, they used to, but I feel like they stopped.

Did they not fuck with us anymore? No, remember that one summer? like everyone beefed in fucking like bags were getting packed like dude my popcorn was out though like I was entertained it was entertaining also takes the heat off from us yes exactly and for like going out to like 3am exactly also like the fact that we still like bring like people back after hours to like our parents basement at the right page of like 25 and 27 is crazy absolutely but be not at least we have someone back get our bigger get our bigger get our big your house

exactly oh yeah that basement's seen some shit remember that one time we were back and he was wheeling margot on the love sack yeah that love sack had so many stains on it that it was like flammable

like a whole like village of people you could like make a child throwing that love sack at someone's head you do not want to put a blue light to that but oh my god it would look like fucking mercury yeah fucking milky way

Round it, round it. Wait, we're crushing it right now, by the way. Are we drinking too fast? No, we're being hilarious. Really? I was like, fuck, what if I say some stupid shit? No, dude, loki, for the first 10 episodes, I was drinking heavily before every single one. Really?

And I'm like, still kind of scared up yassan because I'm like, what if we have like an awkward moment where I'm like, you're fucking hot. So how is it for you where like, because obviously you have to be like 100% on 100% of the time? yeah how like when you wake up hungover one day and whether you're shooting a podcast or like a fan's coming to take a picture with you i will say like i like i love when people come up to me and say hi yeah but when i'm hung over i'm like shaky yeah and i literally can't talk like i like or i'm saying the crazy shit i'm thinking about what's coming out of my mouth and they'll be like let's take a picture and I'm like yeah look like I'm choking also I don't look chic or when you're out and you're drunk people still want to take pictures I know but I always say yes and I love

that because you're really good at saying like because these people gave me a career you know like I like love the support I respect that and like that means a lot to me I'll never say no to that but I will just say it's like not as like fun of a moment when I'm super hungover or like there was this one time where I was like super hungover hopping on to a fair Yeah. And I was like this and like people were like pulling me in the ferry line and like creating traffic and I was just like yeah I like almost like lost my feeling in my legs. How about those little girls coming up to you at Sandbar the other day with braces on like oh I love your show like that was crazy. These girls had braces and they were nine years old. I was like what like what do you love about this show? I didn't want to ask. I was like where's your mom? Yeah. Where's your babysitter? Yeah. No my like. Like I'm 12 and I'm ready to get cream pieed. Yeah, they're like nine-year-olds being like, I had my first anal experience because of you. I'm like, wait, babe, what?

Where's your mom? Yeah. If you're like crazy. Crazy. Why do you have TikTok? You're not old enough. No. But that's awesome.

Like, you're hitting all the age groups. I know. Do people ever come up to you? Say hi, you're Chad. It's funny because like people will come up to me just like, oh, you're Hallie's brother. I'm like, well, I'm fucking way more than that, bitch. you say that you start saying that no but like obviously i eat it up and they're like let's take a picture and i'm like you take selfies to people oh my god it'll be like i was in we're in

Vegas in the elevator i was alone and like this girl was like behind me she's like chad oh like the fuck like then i guess twice in my life yeah and um she's just like oh my god like i love your family like can we please get a picture yeah i'm like fuck yeah Fuck, yeah. It's like her boyfriend taking the picture of us. I'm like, oh, that's probably an argument. Yeah. In Vegas too.

It's fucking shaking. Yeah, he's like, fuck. Dude, people come up to Sammy. Like, he came to like. Sammy gets a lot now, yeah. Well, because Sammy's like posted now. He's like hitting FYP, which I always say like if you just posted more consistently. Yeah.

Like all your, all your videos have over 100,000 views. So my thing is, like, I'd love to post consistently, but, like, me and you've talked about, I feel like I don't have, like, a specific vibe or theme that I would, you know. But that's the issue with posting, and that's what I think why a lot of people don't post is because they feel like they have to fill a certain niche or a certain vibe. When I came on and started posting on social media, I was like, my vibe is going to be, like, my private story myself without, like, getting canceled, of course. but like so like when you started like when you made that transition from going to like making like

funny tick talks to like talking would you have to like legit practice in the fucking mirror or like i mean i look back on my old videos i just like literally wasn't doing anything i like was super lost it was 25 still a hostess at crew no idea i had a classics major like i talked about this in one of my last episodes too i was like i did not know what i wanted to do and honestly COVID kind of gave me some leeway to figure that out and I kept seeing people online like doing the whole like thirst trap-y thing and like TikTok was really popping off but I wasn't seeing a bunch of like you know people talking to the camera and like personalities and like keeping it raw real and authentic people were acting like they don't get hung over like that's never been a thing people were acting

like they they film their good side of all yeah I mean you know they're saying like social media is like a highlight reel yeah I feel like it should also be like a low light reel and like room to grow you know which is why people who like you who will post literally their everyday life they're everything about me yeah like you're an open book and I think like people like resonate with that way more rather than like a day in the life I just think in today's age people like appreciate authenticity more absolutely even if it's like good bad and the ugly and I think it's because they're afraid to do it themselves you know I mean like yeah but like people want to feel like they can relate to something you know sometimes like the unremembered

relatable like clean girl aesthetic it's not super relatable like do you ever get like acne do you oh my god i have it right now have you ever like chewed on someone can we like face tune this like how's my acne look it looks better on camera does it look better on camera yeah fire because i got a couple of things going i can't even see it from here and it's funny because like i've been like clear skin i used to have really bad acne yeah and like i still will get flare-ups but like i used just like it was when I'm like the things that like makes me a lot less confident is acne yeah but like got like one facial got put on some French products like boom I acne's the worst I had really bad for at acne when I was like 14 like why like where's the pill that like clears your acne it's called acutane

but I know but like you have to you can't drink well you should have done it when you went did the 75 hard mm-hmm chad did 75 hard last year I did do 75 hard and that's when your skin cleared up actually yeah i say i say once i like cut out alcohol it definitely clear my skin up in sugar sugar cool i think sugar is what sugar is what does it alcohol because it causes inflammation so like when you're inflamed like that like you're likely to break out cucumbers probably don't help i think a lot a lot of the shit i do doesn't help i also like love like fucking five guys and oh really do you Uber Eats a lot. Because I got cut off.

Every day. On what card? My dad's. No, but like, it won't work on mine. Oh. I think he called the bang and said, not Hallie. Well, I think he knows, like, if I don't have Uber Eats, I might, like, die. Like, you would vanish.

No, and it's funny because, like, I'm on, like, a healthy meal plan. But, like, when I want to get, like, a fucking greasy cheeseburger and some fries, like, I'm doing it with him. hesitation it's the only here to hangover sometimes it is like a diet coke like i need it yeah i don't care i don't really care for a six-pack that much i like to do i don't i don't even care that uber eats is taken away for me uber taken away for me okay well that's a different story because that's like my life on the line no like dude and like once dad took away uber for me yeah this is such this is probably not going to be a relatable segment but once to That took away the Uber for me.

I had to start taking Uber X's. Zoom in on my face. Are you serious? No, I know, bro. It was crazy. No, I ripped an Uber X today, but it was like a fucking $120. Oh, because it was from the airport. Yeah, and the guy was super smooth with it, like, clean car.

I love them. Well, Uber comfort sometimes, but I still don't feel comfort in an Uber comfort sometimes. What is Uber comfort? It's like more like space, I guess. It's newer models? I don't know. It's like the newest Honest Civic. That's funny.

Like the year ahead. Yeah, it's like in 1999 instead of 97. That's hilarious. Yeah, fuck. I don't even know if we can keep all that in because I'm going to get ripped, but maybe keep it in. Because that's real and authentic to me. This is a really good episode. You know what's great is like me and how.

like have always gotten along so well and we share a lot of the same characteristics yeah we're also big empaths yeah are I think we get along those we have so many similarities but I also feel like I can't like I've gotten into your business way too much at certain times like when it comes to like relationship stuff I mean like I've just like felt so deeply for you yeah as sibling like I'd like I've definitely got involved with your ex-girlfriends. I think everyone gets involved with my stuff just because I think, you know,

people close to me care about me. Hopefully, yeah, you want with things. Yeah, sometimes you want your business, you know? Yeah, remember we went like five months without talking? Yeah, this time last summer. Yeah, that was really sketch. I know, I missed you. I missed you too, bro.

Look at us now. I'm so glad we're back. This is called Personal Grows. Yeah, absolutely. I feel like my frontal lobes developing a little bit. life has just been especially like 22 to 25 life has been such like a learning curve and like the way i navigate it is like trial and error you know like i fuck up but i'll learn from it but then i'll fuck up again and i'll learn from it and i feel like my fuck up specifically are definitely very um

open to the public yeah and maybe that's my fault but yeah i mean something Sometimes you want to deal with things on your own. Yeah, I just feel like... The situation you have in mind is very different, for sure. No, I was also thinking, I was even thinking about that. I was thinking about one of your first girlfriends. Oh, yeah. That was probably the most tumultuous shit.

This is... I don't even know what tumultuous means, but like... Like, you know turbulence? Yeah, like... It's like... Is that kind of a similar comparison? Thank you, Sonny. Tumultuous.

Yeah. I get exactly what you're saying. It was just like... Like, mom was involved. She was fucking crazy. She was, like, accusing you of X, Y, and Z, lying, like, through her teeth. Yeah. There was, like, things being thrown out windows and, like, we almost got a restraining order from her.

She was so crazy. I mean, granted, I played definitely my part in my past relationships and what is, you know. That's accountability right there. Yeah. I mean, like, I'm, like, a perfect person. I think relationship-wise, like, any mishaps that I've, ever had come from within and they come from how I feel about myself and I think just like being in a relationship that young like you're not going to like it's not going to work out you know

this is another place where I feel like we have a similarity I feel like when I'm in a relationship I feel like my insecurities own personal insecurities reflect the nature of that relationship exactly yeah and it's like come out even stronger it never shines a bright light on like them yeah yeah Yeah, and it never has anything to do with the other person. And, you know, like, sometimes the other person will catch some heat because I'm feeling a certain way and I'll take it on on her. And then boom, boom, boom, it gets to this person, this person. And, like, now it's like, okay, like, these people are not good for each other. And sometimes it's just, like, one of the parties that is fucking shit up.

Yeah. Also, like, I know for me when I'm, like, in a relationship, I'm thinking, like, about my college boy. different specifically he's such a nice guy like great guy we're sweetest nicest guy ever but like I feel like I treated him like fucking dog shit and was so mean to him because of my own problems yeah and I like you're like you're young you know like yeah but like we don't realize how young we are in that moment and like we're just we're human you know we deal with our own stuff and it's never fair to the other person if you're dealing with your own shit because it's going to come out on that person and it's going to ruin, you know, the possibility of you guys having anything in the future, you know?

Yeah. So. I mean, with him, we kind of just closed that door. I think that was too mean to him, for him. Yeah, I think it's just like two different, like, sometimes it's two different lifestyles. Like, you're just like... What kind of guy do you see me with? I don't know.

Like, I know, you have this, like, very, like, outgoing energy. You have this very cunt energy that's, like, a good thing. you know what I mean like I feel like people are intimidated by you guys included they should be but it's like who's the one that's gonna I think the one like it's like I've seen you be more obsessed with guys when they treat you like shit yeah you know what I mean like I've seen like and it's like the guy that will make you feel like you're on their level rather than above their level that like catches your attention yeah you know what I mean I know exactly the three people you're thinking of at least two no i'm thinking of like yeah one or two but like i'm not thinking of that

the one during covid i'm just like talking about like myself too like because then it's like why because then i'm like it's never the nice guy you're like honing on yeah or then the girl that's going to treat no it's the funny dick it's always like the one that like gives you a lot and then like kind of pulls away a little bit yeah it's the guy who's what's that about yeah what are you doing what do you up to he knows what he's doing you knows how to play his cards yeah yeah yeah You know, he's a manipulator and gaslider. He, like, outgames the game, like my own games. And then I feel stupid and insecure.

I know, but I see you with someone... Older. Someone, like, not even older. Just someone, like, who is confident in themselves, but also, like, will tell you when you're in the wrong. You know what I mean? I definitely need someone that's going to, like, put me in my place. Yeah, yeah.

Like, you can't just have someone that, like, you're able to walk all over you just because, like, you're the shit and he's a pussy, you know what I mean? Like, I think you need someone who, like, balance you out. Yeah. And, like, obviously, there's people like that out there, and you'll find them. But the way I appreciate the fact that you don't, like, rush it. Like, you chill and you're able to, like, take a... I always say, like, I'm doing them a favor.

Like, everyone's like, why have you been single for so long? I'm like, I can't put someone else through that. You have so... No, I wouldn't say that because you have so much to offer a relationship. And obviously, like, besides, like, obviously you're beautiful and you're hilarious and this and that but like you have so much like the more you grow up the more you're going to have to offer like someone else and like we're in our 20s like we're still fucking learning right from wrong we're still learning you know this and that

and I think you know the grass is always greener though I feel like whenever it's all about timing like it could be the right people but if the timing's wrong it's not going to work I feel like all my friends are like entering very serious eras of their lives right now and sometimes i feel like that's just because they feel like they need to rush that no i always say this i'm like i feel like society pushes like milestones on people for certain ages like okay like you're 27 you should be moving in with a girlfriend being serious with them oh you're 29 you should be getting engaged at least oh you're 31 you should start having kids getting married yeah you know like society like kind of puts you into different boxes

yeah and then i think people kind of panic so i always see these people just settle not i'm not talking about obviously Lauren and Jordan like they've been together forever and like there's exceptions that's different like Emma and Pey and like those are people who are successful relationships a big part of it those are people who are one financially ready yes yeah and that's a huge part of it and you know you can't do anything and if you can't provide for yourself you're not going to be able to provide for someone else exactly I'm more talking about like the people I went high like high school and yeah yeah with like some of those people I'm like what are we doing here like this no we didn't want to look out the fish bowl that much like what are we doing here yeah

the more you experience the more you'll learn how to do it better the next time 100% yeah this is a really deep combo yeah sonny did you like that yeah i fuck with it that was good bro it was unreal all right guys that was fucking fun and hilarious and so much came out of that that i didn't even expect so there's going to be a part due to this thank you all for next week's episode. It's going to be even fucking crazier and funnier. We're going to do a Q&A, more getting to know Chad, more getting to know the lore, getting to know the family, regardless. I honestly at this point, I think we need a fucking reality TV show. But anyways, stay tuned for that. And I fucking love you all. And see you then.