Extra Dirty with Hallie Batchelder - Single Sammy Summer: TikTok fame & adjusting to post-grad life

Episode Date: August 28, 2025

It's a Single Sammy Summer! This week Hallie is joined once again by her youngest brother Sammy for a sibling catch-up full of family lore and post-grad happenings. Sammy opens up about adjusting to life after football, moving back in with their parents, his hopes of living on his own soon, and chasing new opportunities in New York. He spills on “Single Sammy Summer,” being recognized on Nantucket for his TikToks, and why it’s a red flag when girls he’s interested in follow Hallie and Alex... lol. Hallie and sammy debate if they could ever survive 75 Hard and play a messy round of “Who’s More Likely To.” From sibling-pressured peppermint shots and semi-formal after-parties, sibling snitching, and family drama, nothing is off-limits this week! Besos!!! Follow @extradirty on socials and don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review to keep the chaos coming. 💋

Who's most likely to be in a relationship next? I have no idea. Maybe me? I'll probably get married. I think you'll get married before me. Yeah, but like I'm just off on men right now. I keep hooking up with these bisexuals. Okay, so maybe me. Yeah.

Oh, you guys, I'm doing something really stupid right now. We have an emergency debrief situation. Hi, this is Hallie from the streets of New York. York. Guys, I had every intention of staying in last night. Welcome back to Extra Dirty. We have a very special guest today. He's been on before.

He's one of my siblings. Sammy, welcome back. Thank you. Are you happy to be here? I'm excited to be here. It's been a long time. I feel like I'm on a sibling like, I got a Bryn on now. I know.

I've been on like a sibling, just everyone's coming on. Did you watch the chat up? I watched the chat episode. It was hilarious. Yeah. What'd you think? I thought he told some good stories. He was kind of nervous to come on. I know, but he hasn't done it yet. No, he hasn't done it yet. I've done it a couple times. Do you know that the episode that you're in is one of my most popular episodes on YouTube? The bitches love Sammy. As it should be. All my DMs, which by the way, you guys like write into me all the time being like saying the most crazy shit about my brother. And I'm like, oh my God. Are your DMs fucking nuts right now? Um, yeah, sometimes. Sometimes. Depends. Like, I was just saying this to someone today. I was like, I feel like guys' DMs from girls

are a lot crazier than girls' DMs from guys. Because someone asked me today, it was like, how many men are in your DMs? And I was like, you would think more, but like really not that many. You're saying guys say crazier or shit? No, I think girls say crazier or shit. I would agree. Like, I read your comments.

Your comments are like raw eye contact, very passionate. I could post a picture of the sky and it'll be like some sort of outrageous comment about it. But they're kind of funny. Guys can't do that on girls' posts or don't do that. No, it's not as common, definitely not as common. Chad had some funny ones in his comments too. Yeah, yeah. His are hilarious.

I just think girls are just like a lot more bold and like sillier and just like get creative with the comments or in the comment section. I would agree. So Sammy, you've been posting a little bit more on. social media. I feel like since the last time you sat down with me. What are your thoughts? What your feels? Do you like it? What's going on? Yeah. I'm having fun with it for sure. I mean, I don't know. I'm kind of at a weird point in my life where like I have so much like time now that school and football's over that I can just kind of like post what I've been doing throughout the day. And I don't know. It's been fun. You know, trying to do different things with it and show different

things in my life. Yeah. It's been good though. It is funny. Enjoying it. Because I feel. I feel like you played football in college, which you probably had so much structure to your day. Right. So much structure. And now it's just a different kind of structure. And now you're just like, you're like, I feel like I see you yearning for structure. So you try to give yourself things to do or tasks, whether that side quest or not, you're just trying to fill up your time in the day. Yeah.

And I think this is the first time. And I mean, I forget how long where I haven't had like a season to look forward to. Yeah. So I'm kind of like, I don't really know what's going on. I'm like adjusting to that and that kind of feeling and trying to like fill my days with like. Are you having like an identity crisis? I wouldn't say that. I wouldn't say like football was ever my identity, but it was definitely something that was a part of my life and my lifestyle.

I mean, I was playing it forever and I was going to practice and doing meetings. And, you know, I was having this conversation with one of my friends the other day who I played with. And like, I don't know, today's August, whatever, but August, like to us, means like, oh my gosh, like camps coming up. Like we're almost like X amount of days out. Like, it's like ingrained in our memory. It's like muscle memory almost. So it's like, I don't know,

it's just weird that it's not part of my life right now. And I wouldn't say it's an identity crisis. You know, I'm very, you know, excited for what's next, whatever that is. Yeah. You know, I know whatever's next is gonna be fun, but. What's it like? Yeah, it's definitely.

Living under mom and dad's roof again. That has to be probably one of the toughest parts. Yeah. we uh it has its ups and downs has its pros and cons i mean listen i don't have to yeah exactly laundry and i don't have to worry about a meal at night but um you know it gets a little tense tense at times yeah you know it's tough it's time i like i think we both know that i love being around them but i think we both know it's like it's like i think they like love people in the house but then they like hate it at the same time right i like can't even remember a time when she had four

us under the same Ruth like how did she do it then I can't remember that I was probably in like seventh grade yeah not even like I mean I just now it's just so weird I feel like I'm in someone else's home now I know you know and I'm the last one so it's like it puts it probably puts them in a weird position because that's a feeling that they're not used to is everyone out of the house full-time yeah like I was always gonna come back in a summer but once I move out like I'm I'm gone like I'm it's just it's just that they're extremely routine as well they're very routine so are you but like yeah you just feel

like you're going with someone else's program when you're there you know like right they are so repetitive in the places to go the things yeah and like I feel like when you live on your own you have more decisions that you make on your own and more freedom and I mean I can play music if I were to live on my own like whenever I want yeah it's like the subtle yeah like I can put the channel on that I want you know they do like seven news every day which isn't my thing but yeah you know it is what it is we're getting there baby steps baby steps do you know if you want to stay close at home or if you want to live further away or like what's the deal i mean wherever the highest paying job takes these kind of vibes wherever not necessarily the highest paying just whatever the the job

that sets me up on the proper career path that feels right you know could it be the highest paying job maybe but honestly i'm just looking for any sort of opportunity anywhere You know, I'd like to get out of Boston. Which leaves you why you're in New York right now. Right. You're here for a modeling opportunity. Exactly. Here for a little modeling opportunity, which would be cool, you know, trying new things out.

You were a lot. I was a model signed here at one point. I know. Yeah. That's how you started. I don't know really what to expect. I'm, again, I'm just looking to have fun with it. It's another opportunity for me to explore something different.

Yeah. You know, challenge yourself. I don't know. If I were to guess, I'd probably stay on the East Coast. You know, like New York City and, South Florida, like Miami, West Palm. Like, those have been the three that I've kind of bounced around the most, but... You don't want to go too far?

No, I mean, L.A., like, I've thought about it. I don't know. Like, I just... I don't know. I love Boston, and I plan on coming back to Boston, no matter where I go. Same. I always say I'm going to go back to Boston. Like, I personally think Boston is the greatest city in America.

Yeah. I think it's just like a much more balanced New York. it's much more dummy down there's much more community you know cleaner there's a lot of it's cleaner it's just like a little more boring which is why i would come back later in life when i want to like raise a family they've got education system exactly best hospitals best education best sports i'm a huge sports fan like i don't know i just figured i've done boston for 23 years and i did new york for college like being in upstate obviously is way different than here but i don't know i figured if i'm ever going to switch it up like when will that be i know there's more of the world to see them

are about exploring trial and error just figuring it out right um did you watch any of the episode with chad like what were your thoughts i did i thought it was hilarious i thought he told some really good stories which were your favorite the son of peace story was hilarious see i don't even how know how he pulled that like that was a crazy like i was like talking about it with mom was like how do you even remember that like i don't i remember it so clear his day what is one of the stories that you remember from childhood that is like oh this is a fucking great story whether it's between me and you or me and chad or you and chad brin whether that's a nantucket story or like a holiday story yeah we've had like some really dramatic yeah well you told a couple

chad talked to he hinted on a little bit of some of those holiday stories with thanksgiving and we used to throw down we used to throw down we used to throw down what was that one holiday there was Thanksgiving at our house everyone was getting fucked up well you were telling the story about Auntie Jen's boyfriend oh yeah he wasn't he wasn't a big fan of me he wasn't a big fan of anyone like she was he was a crook yeah that was so ridiculous remember when he brought oysters and dad brought out red wine and he goes he goes to my dad in his own home goes those don't pair with the oysters no this is like blasphemy I was like who is this guy I was being like I must have been like 16 or 17 and I was just like messing with that guy like if chat and I have an opportunity

to like take advantage of someone like a guest like that we will like we'll jump on it and it'll be the best running joke of the night like no you guys were like bullying him I know but and like will's chiming in he's like 12 years old like our cousin will yeah and I remember there was at least like seven people that cried that night right and then I remember classic though that's classic it's honestly so entertaining we need cameras up we have holidays we yeah there's always some sort of either tears or some sort of argument or conflict whether it's like with the fam like the cousins you know what I mean I know I try to stay out of it I know but like can't just eat the turkey and call it a day you know there's always something it's always something I was

telling Chad or I don't know if you watched the whole episode but yeah we're talking about how like me and him were like the bad ones growing up yeah like we're like the middle child like we like to party like brinj didn't really like the party right you were too young and you were like blah blah and i used to have these like post games after semi after prom or just like when mom and dad were out of town yeah and you would like send pictures of the beer pong table i mean i was like 11 and wanted to like play xbox like i was just like a kid i don't know yeah i did do that i was like a little snitch There was that one time where you pulled out a bat, remember? Because there was people in your bed.

Do you remember that? Which problem was that? I think you might have been one of Brin's prom. I'm not doubting. I did, like, there's a very good chance I did do that. You were pissed. I used to get mad. Well, because when I was, like, growing up, I don't know.

You just want to play Fortnite. I just, like, wanted to, like, no, like, I don't even think Fortnite was out at the time. I'm like, I was young. You were so young. I was, like, throwing, sixth grade. We were throwing bangers. throwing bangers like I'm talking like on to the streets of Boston people are hanging out like yeah you guys are like 17 at the time but in my eyes like you're like I mean you're significantly

older I'm like looking up to you guys like yeah we're like blacked out like in the streets of Boston I know remember when St. Sebs you're off about something yeah and like Belmont Hill kids it was like this massive like rivalry yeah they were like brawling in the streets I remember that run out there and like die laugh like this is awesome yeah but do you remember that one time I think it was when I was in college and we made you take a shot. Yeah. I actually do remember. It was the peppermint shot.

Do you remember that? Yeah. With like the chocolate cereal? I was like, ew. I was so mad. I think you were in college at that point. I was in college because I was it. It was Margo who gave me the shot, I think.

Yeah. I had her on. Sam, you try this. Pepperman shots, by the way, they're really good. They're a bomb. If we had given you straight like T-dos. I mean, I was like 14, but like they were like, like they're now they're good as you were that young I don't think 14 I mean you were in

college actually yeah because you were 18 as a freshman I forget like I'm so much older than you I'm like an old fucking bitch no fuck it's all mentality it's all mentality you gets it sunny gets it yeah what is something that you did when you're younger that mom and dad still don't know about till today I feel like you were too good. I just like, no, the thing, I wasn't too good. It was like, I would always own up to it. And I'd always be, like, honest about my mistakes

because I felt so guilty all the time whenever I, like, made a mistake. I, like, can't even think about something I've done that I haven't owned up to my parents. Exactly. I feel like we've always... Besides, like, drugs. Sorry. Right. I've done it.

I mean, I feel like we've always, like, kind of owned up to our mistakes. Maybe not Chad. Maybe not I don't know And I don't know what Bryn does in our free time Brin used to be a bad Brin was sneaky

Brin was sneaky I heard about this Rin was bad Yeah Brin used to steal the fucking whip In the middle of the night And like go to Tyson's house See I didn't even know that

I actually didn't know that She was like 15 too She had just gotten her like permit And she's like I'm taking the car Yeah Mom used to freak out I know She and we'd like

We'd come back Like fucked up and crossfated And she'd be sitting down Like in the chair in the kitchen, she'd be like, it's 2 a.m. I'm like, yeah. Yeah. See, I didn't even know like any of that. Like I didn't know she would like sneak off or anything.

I was, I had that conversation like a month ago. Yeah. Did mom watch the episode with Chad? No, she saw a clip of her talk of you guys talking about your like ideal boyfriend or something. Like Chad, who Chad sees you with. Yeah. Did you agree with that? I forget what his opinion was.

What was it again? Something like. It was probably. someone like a bit older kinder wiser not someone that like someone who can keep you in check i think was yeah yeah i definitely like do agree to an extent do you think i'm mean to my ex-boyfriends i mean to my knowledge you're not really like in contact with them i don't and oh do you think i was when i was dating them no like i like means a strong word like i wouldn't say you were mean to them no yeah Absolutely not like I mean like you definitely like you're doing the most yeah like come on a little nicer yeah I guess but my delivery is not good ever

well you dated some like really sweet kids though I thought like one yeah but he's the only one I like really consider I mean you had a high school boyfriend who's like a nice guy but like was he great to you no but then the college boyfriend great guy was he good to you yeah You treat him like shit, maybe. No, he wasn't that great to me for reasons. Okay, so these are things I don't know. You know what I mean? But like from a third party perspective as like the younger brother. I was a bad. Yeah, I mean, let's just say it's not exactly what I would put up with.

The Brennan Peter kind of connection. Well, that took a lot of rel-Brin dated some fucking weirdos. She went through trial and error for sure. To say the least. Yeah. She went through trial and error. But I think that's what it's all about for you. I think you found out what you don't want in someone and what benefits you.

Brin's also sober. Yeah. So maybe if I was sober, I could, like, actually see straight to find a guy. That's true, too. Yeah. It's all about what you consider the standard, I think. I just don't know that yet. And that's fine.

I think that comes with, like, experience and stuff. Like, even at 23, I'm kind of still learning, like, you know, all right, this is definitely what I don't want to deal with. And this is something that I do. Like, this is something that does, you know, kind of work. Are you selective with the girls in your orbit? Yeah.

Why? Because you're scared they're like going to be fans of mine. Yeah. Like if I'd be lying if I said that wasn't like kind of on the back of my mind. Because you hate that. Because I do hate that. You said it's a red flag if they follow me. Red flag if they follow you.

Double red flag if it's Alex too. Triple red flag if it's Lauren. Like, fuck me. Yo, triple red flag. Yeah, exactly. We're just, just keep adding the flags the more you feel like like, you know, bring page in And you're also, like, I mean, Tommy Paul, it's over, like, you know. I'm blocking.

Right, exactly. No, I mean, no, all jokes aside, like, it's definitely something that I, like, kind of consider. But I don't know. I try and, like, I don't know how I'm going to, like, meet someone, like, you know what I mean? You'll meet someone. I'm not worried about you. I'm not worried about it. I'm worried about me.

Yeah, no. I wouldn't worry about you. I think these things just happen when you set up literally everything. else in your life. I think they just come along. You know what I mean? Yeah. I think like they just like start to fall into place and you start to like attract people that like will benefit you the more you do you. That makes sense. And I don't know. I think like I've come across some people where like at first it, you know, looked great and then it just didn't. And I think it's kind of just biting the bullet early in knowing that, all right, yeah, this isn't going to work out. You know,

Like, I don't like to, you know, respectfully, you know, lack of a better term, like, waste my time in a sense of, yeah, like, this isn't going to go anywhere. So, like, why keep pursuing this? Yeah. You know what I mean? So, and people have done that to me, you know, like, so. And that's honestly respectable. So. I just think, yeah.

Single for now is best. Single for now is best. Just trying to figure out what you're doing and just like. Yeah. I mean, at least for me. Keep it light. There's so much uncertainty in my near future that it's like. Like, you know, I don't know if I'm like ready for that.

You know what I mean? No, it's too much. And bitches are annoying. They can be for sure. Okay, wait. I think I covered everything. Have you done 75 hard? Have I done 75 hard?

No, but I was actually just talking about doing it. Chad did 75 hard. Chad did 75 hard. Would you do 75 hard? Fuck no. Maybe 75 seconds. I'll just, yeah. Not what I meant by that.

I'm of sobriety yeah yeah yeah I think I could do 75 seconds 75 hours do you want to do 75 hard I think doing anything like that to like in extreme feels like doing the most

I would do like 30 soft 30 soft like 75 hard consists of like journaling twice a day two workouts a day reading 10 books No, no, reading 10 pages, reading 10 pages a day. Oh, my God. Yeah, reading 10 pages a day.

You stick to a diet. I can't even see, bro. I can't even see. I'm so blind right now. I bet it would help, though. No. I bet if you locked in for like three weeks, it would help. What? I feel like a whole new, like if you did three weeks hard.

Yeah, I could do it. 21 days hard. It just seems like doing the most. It also kind of seems pick me. It's like pick me. I kind of agree. It's like, hi, I'm doing something. 55 hard. I don't give a fuck. Like, are you really doing 75 hard if you're not posting about it? You know what I mean? Yeah. It's like, does a tree, when a tree falls in the wood, does it make sound? I've never heard like someone like, yeah, that's true. That's the kind of vibe I'm getting from it. Like if you do 75 hard, you're talking about it. Yeah. Do you want to fucking cookie? Yeah. Do you want to fucking cookie? Yeah. I want to enjoy life and enjoy my hangovers and make mistakes. And I feel like 75 hard. You like, yeah. You're doing 75 hard. You can't eat the fucking cookie. Yeah. Like a salad. Yeah. I want to enjoy life and enjoy my hangovers and make mistakes. And I feel like 75 hard. And I feel like 75 hard.

is too rigid it's too serious and I'm not a serious person but I continue doing it and like loving it I mean maybe if it were like see there's such a I guess the best time to do it is like January I do like dry weeks there's nothing going on in January February you know unless you like go to Miami but then again like we went to Miami I'm not doing 75 hard in Miami no like we got after it but like i could pick i think what the kind of 75 hard i would want to do is like pick a habit a new habit i want in place or a habit i want to cut out and just be like i'm going to do 75 days hard of like lent yeah yeah that's what i would do maybe i'll do that in january yeah or in september like set like like like kind of like new year's resolutions but only do

it for like i don't know yeah for like a quarter of the year the thing about 75 hard too is like what are you going to like stick to your routine and then like once it's over it's like all right i'm done i'm just going to go back to doing what i was where the cigarettes at yeah exactly so that's what i never really understood about it that's why i don't think i really don't know if i would do it well maybe but chad like had to do it and he was talking about it and he was talking about but like he felt like so much better after he did it i know but then it's like yeah and i don't know i feel like you kind of what's the point yeah what's new in your love life we talked about your You had a single Sammy Summer.

I did have a single Sammy Summer. You worked at Gaslight, barbacking. Yeah, I barbacked that gaslight on Antucket, great bar. Where the bitch is going crazy for you? Was it annoying? I saw a couple of videos of people recording you. Yeah. Which, by the way, like, I like don't get the recording thing from afar,

like the sneaky recording thing. It never jive as well with me. Yeah. I'm like, just say hi to him. Yeah. Or just say hi. See, I don't know. Like I love meeting new people.

Same, which is why I'm like, say hi. I think it's funny. Yeah, I think it's great. Like, and some people do come into the bar, especially since I, you know, kind of started posting like a couple of kids have come in and, you know, this was cool for me. Like one kid came in and said like, you know, he's seen my videos and like I got him to start working out. And like that was the coolest moment for me, like ever.

Like that was the highlight of my summer. Yeah. And like meeting people like that is great. And then, yeah, there's the other end of it, you know, there were. a few instances where people come in and kind of try and push your buttons a little bit on purpose. And you kind of know what's going on. And I don't know. You just kind of have to be stoic about it and just keep going. The thing about the barbacking job is that you're always going. Like I couldn't even stop and talk to you guys when you guys came in. I know. So it was like

I remember when I was a hostess at crew when I was first starting social media, I didn't have like a massive following but like people were like especially on island kind of like right started to recognize me a little bit and people just like come in and like record me at the host of stand yeah so embarrassed like it was like an embarrassing thing yeah i don't know i was i get a little uncomfortable with it at times and i i notice it like a lot of people think they're being like slick about it but like yeah i mean you're at the bar and i work behind the bar so like i see so the camera's like in my job is to literally see everything yeah you know but uh But yeah, I mean, again, I kind of just, I don't really care.

I just keep moving and grab ice. Say, bitch, kick rocks, ho. Yeah, that wouldn't be too, like, you know, friendly. Yeah, no. But is it what I'm thinking? Absolutely. Yeah. But I'll just probably go grab, like, ice or like some buttlice.

Want to throw it at her? No, no, no. No, I wish. I wish. But, yeah, done with that job now, so. On to the next. On to the next, yeah. Okay, guys, for this next segment, Sammy, I thought we'd play, like, a little game.

Like, who's more likely to? Me or you? We're going to answer each prompt and then say who's more likely to. That's pretty straightforward. Let's go. Okay. Who got in more trouble growing up? Is it between me and Sammy or me, Sammy, and my siblings?

Because Chad. Chad would be the answer. Chad got in trouble the most. I was always apologetic. Chad was always just like out of sight, out of mind you know. Yeah. Yeah.

Yours were like, you did like some things that were like, that's tough to get behind. It's tough to defend that one. Yeah. But, and then Chad would just drop like noose. Like he would just drop bombs and like.

Yeah. Then I'd be like, look at him. Yeah. Yeah. I'd be like, distracting them from my stuff right that's kind of what we discussed right okay who tattled more between you and I yeah I mean probably me yeah I felt like a directed question yeah I was definitely directed for sure who cried more as a kid

ooh I didn't really cry I'm not a big crier probably me yeah I have a heart of steel I mean I used to get so mad at you guys yeah you and I like I don't think people understand like you and i used to go hate each chat like we had physically fight we had the yeah i remember and i was so mad it was like my sophomore year of high school you and i got into the uh like a fight the night before graduation at at dexter and you hit me so hard in the head with the uh with the remote i remember that and i had a massive bruise on my eye and people were asking me like what was going on because you have to go to graduation at dexter yeah so i'm like covering it up and i'm like trying to come up with like a cool story.

Other than like, oh, my sister took the remote and absolutely clocked me in the head. Like. Remember that time we were like at Easter, the parking lot in the car and you whacked me across the face? When? This is when you were like really young

so it wasn't like sketchy. Yeah. You were like eight. Oh. Yeah. I had like two massive waltz. We used to go ahead. No, we got out of it.

Like this is why like, I don't know. Like I have brothers. So like I can like, I don't know. Yeah. I handled the heat. Yeah. You and I definitely got, I think, in the most disagreements. Like, even more than Chad and I.

Like, as brothers fighting, Chad and I fought all the time. I just thought you were just like a tattle tail. Yeah. And I thought you were like just. The worst. Like got away with everything. Yeah. I did get away with everything.

You did. I was very smart and calculated. Very smart. I got away with everything. But now we're boys. Now we're boys. Who had the worst teenage phase? Me.

I don't know. I don't know, though. I had some moments. You remember when mom almost sent you to rehab for Fortnite? No. She, like, seriously considered. No, she banned me, like, junior year of high school, I would play non-stop. She thought you had a problem.

She thought I had a problem. She, like, printed out, like, addiction papers, and she was ready to, like, say. I didn't even know that. Yeah, she wanted you to, like, she was, like, talking to, like, Bryn's therapist about it. No. Yeah. She, like, wanted you to go to rehab. I mean for fortnight I'm like mom I was so good at that game my junior year

mom you don't even know rehab like yeah that's a freak I didn't even know that I'm gonna ask her about that yeah yeah no she like or like therapy or something like intense she put a ban on me I only could play for like an hour a day or something they thought you were like cooking me they thought you were like addicted because you would like freak out but I was like relax he lived I know but like everyone was doing it so I was like I lived I also had like good grades I was just going to ask, who had the better report cards? I would say, I think in high school, I did in college, you did. Really?

Yeah. Yeah, I actually did pretty well in college. Yeah, you did well in college. Yeah. I just, like, didn't give a fuck in high school. Yeah. I was busy. Yeah.

Yeah, high school, I had pretty good grades. Nothing crazy. Who started more fights at the dinner table? Probably you. I don't start fights at the dinner table. probably me because the thing with me is I'm confrontational in a way that like I don't care who it is I'm like I'm like brutally honest and I like I'm the you can't help that I'm the guy who addresses the elephant in the room yeah and it makes everyone uncomfortable but like I can't

sit there any longer and I don't yeah I mean you're like mom what the fuck blah blah but like I would bark at her and like every you guys are kind of look at me like no no no Not tonight. Not tonight. I would like get back from like just traveling all the way from New York to Boston. We'd sit down for a family meal and be like, can we confront the situation at hand? I'd be like, all right. Yeah, I mean, but there were, I mean, I feel like we all kind of had.

You just want to squash the beef. Yeah. Or like, make steps too. I like to address the situation. Like, okay, let's talk it out. I don't want to like keep walking around the house, you know, kind of on eggshells. Yeah. You know, I'll just get it over with.

Yeah, you're good at that. Who would be more likely to get arrested for doing something dumb? You? Yeah, okay, for something like partying related. I mean, my situation in the DR was ridiculous. You have a short fuse, and you'll fight a man. I'm level-headed to an extent, but if you go overboard, I can't just brawl bitches that piss me off.

I wish I could, but I can't. Yeah, but I don't like get in fights. Not really. You know? Didn't, like, you want to. You've come close. I've come close, but, like, I think fighting is kind of like, it looks ridiculous at our age.

Yeah, it does. It's just, like, avoid it out. Only bad can happen out of, like, fighting. Yeah, it's not going to resolve shit. Like, yeah. I'll make it worse. Yeah, you slam something. Like, you could, like, accidentally kill someone.

I'm not like, I could get her. her they could get like it's just like not worth it who would do better in prison me i would run fucking show me hi bitches line the fuck up please you think you would they would try to bend you over no like a fork in your ass that's what they do you think you would dominate in prison i would be had bitch in prison i was had bitch in prison within how much time a week are you comparing rehab to prison kind of kind of kind of am i had bitches drawing pictures of me i had girls coming up to my door in rehab drawing me like I was rose in the titanic and then slipping the image underneath my door and I would be like who wants to be in my knitting group who wants

color with me who wants to be and all that same stuff is going on in prison no but like in prison I would be like I need a shank made Becky do it for me or you'll see what's good Becky all right I can see that maybe as you I would run show in prison I might have to put on a couple pounds but like yeah but I'm not like I wouldn't be like some victim in prison though I don't think he'd be a victim in prison no no but I'm just saying I would run show in a female prison yeah that's fair yeah we both would do well in prison yeah we should go to prison let's go to prison yeah hi this podcast is done and we're gonna go to prison goodbye who's more likely to throw a drink at someone in public I would never do that I don't

think I don't do that either yeah unless I know someone unless she fuck my man I don't have a man though yeah i wouldn't i wouldn't do that but if i saw a becky that came for my man if i had a man be getting a drink thrown at her i lack some self-control sometimes when it comes to that stuff who has more unhinged exes i think we both have i've had unhinged situationships i mean like it depends what you define unhinged i would definitely say i've at least one x you have one i could think of that's unhinged oh yeah fucking nutcase yeah yeah yeah but again like I don't I don't know I feel like I'm on like good terms with them no I love her but she's like nutty you know I'm nutty for sure like I if like

someone to ask my exes do you have an unhinged ex they'd be like yeah Pally Batchelder she's fucking crazy and I would be like hey follow me okay so yeah yeah I don't think it's an insult who would lie under oath for the other I think I would do it for you yeah yeah i would do it for you too yeah hopefully we don't have to like get to that but like i would no i would do life in prison for you that's so nice i don't know if it meant you i would i'm not even joking why i don't know because what if i like killed someone well then i couldn't do life in prison because you killed someone yeah i but if it came down to it and i had to choose i'll be like damn that's loyalty yeah chad hallie or chad brin

Interesting. Yeah. Anyways. If I had to, yeah. I mean, I don't think he would be put... Who falls harder and faster? Who falls harder? Like for love, I'm assuming.

Me? I fall pretty hard too. See, I don't see that side of you ever, though. No, because you can never let him know. I get pretty bald in. Yeah. Maybe it's different when it's, like, coming from a man versus a girl, but, like, I can never let a man know how I feel until, like, it's a lock.

I've learned that the hard way. Who's most likely to be in a relationship next? That's a good question. Probably you. Also, like, who do you think will get married first kind of thing? Not me. Like, if you were to guess the order of the siblings, what would you say? Bryn?

I mean, I could see Chad doing this, like, crazy and fucking eloping. No, that's what I was going to say. Like, I could see him like doing some. Chad's like a loping being like, I love you. Yeah. Our love is forbidden. You know, like that kind of shit. I have no idea.

Maybe me? Yeah, I think it would go probably. I'll probably get married. I think you'll get married before me. Yeah. Yeah, that would make more sense. Yeah, but like I'm just off on men right now. I keep hooking up with these bisexuals.

Okay, so maybe me. Yeah. Yeah. I don't know what that says about me. There's a lot of bi men. Is that like a Gen Z then? Are your friends by? Not that I know of.

I can ask them. Yeah, you should text them. Yeah, we have like a group chat. Maybe I'll drop that text. Who has ghosted more people? Probably me. Probably you. Yeah.

I love a good ghosting situation. You do ghost people? I ghost everyone. If I don't give a fuck about them, no, yeah. See, I don't know. I feel guilty. I always say something. Yeah.

I'm learning that you should say something. But then again, I've also learned saying something is like almost just as bad. You can't win. Either way, they end up without a partner. Exactly. It's like there's no like nice, you know. I think the only thing that's good about not ghosting is that it eliminates the gray hair. So like you can always give someone the benefit of the doubt being like, oh, maybe they're busy. Like it's a busy summertime. Like they're going to get back to me in the fall. Or, oh, maybe like something came up for them. Like always giving that person like the next benefit of the doubt.

Right. I guess. Whereas you sent a text, you're like, hi. Right. I like you as a friend, but like just as a friend, goodbye. Goodbye, Kyle. I guess the reason why I don't ghost is because I'd rather someone just say straight up to my face. Like I want nothing to do with you. Then ghost me. that would like send me out a window but then it's like you said there's no grayer it's green or it's no it's black or white yeah i was gonna say it's purple or red you know i was gonna say green or red like go like go or stop yeah i get what you're saying um no but you know what i mean like there is it creates more clarity yeah we like clarity here we like clarity clarity's good who was more game at the bar you might be more extroverted at the bar not that I'm like sitting there like with my hands in my pockets but like I feel like the way we act in social settings is a little different yeah like I kind of like sit and hang

out and maybe both of us we got game we got game I think we have Riz Chad has the most Riz well Chad could you could lock him in a room and he could have a conversation with a wall he would do the best in prison he would do the guards and he's so charismatic and like Yeah, he's got the best personality. Who's more likely to rally after blackout? You. Yeah, Benner done that. Who's more likely to marry a celebrity?

Me. You? Yeah. I was saying I want to enter my wag era. It's a numbers game. You're around more of them? That is a numbers game. Yeah.

Who is most likely to just call and say hi? Me. You would never call me and say hi. I have once. like since I've had a phone yeah I call it twice take this to the most the nicest way possible but I'm not worse at my phone gun to my head if someone said you have to call someone right now and if they don't pick up like I'll give you a million dollars in cash you'd call me ringing you in a heartbeat your like pickup rate is like I don't know maybe like less than one percent yeah it's like

one every like 10 calls to 10% but you're busy you're busy I'm busy I'm busy I'm always on d&D because if it's not you bothering me it's like work emails someone hitting me online I don't know something

you do like a lot more like watching you in your day today like I was like damn like you're doing a ton of stuff No I know I had a busy day You're like busy yeah Is that what like a day in the life looks like for you? Like not as heavy as today I was on three podcasts today yeah and then I had two calls and now we're here I was like impressed I was

like geez yeah social battery's hot yeah I mean I feel like a lot of practice yeah hopefully that's another thing about Chad he has unlimited social battery yeah like he could go around the clock I mean I could do that too but like during the week I can't talk to anyone yeah unless it's work related then I like lock in but like when I'm out like I can fucking do I can make myself self do it. You got to. Yeah, exactly. You got to do it. Okay, next we're going to do like a little Q&A, Sammy. These are questions that listeners have entered via the X-Jirty story. And I'm sure a lot of them are going to be unhinged. I'm just going through them now and they're a mix for sure. But I will just pick a couple and see what your

thoughts are, your opinions. Do it. If a guy cheats once, do you think he will do it again? 100%. Really? Yeah. You don't think, you don't believe guys can change? No, I didn't say that. But like, based on what I've seen and like the people that I know, the guys that I know that have cheated, they've ended up doing it again.

Yeah. Usually the success rate of that is like, the success rate is that is probably higher. It's probably more likely than not. Yeah. It's a numbers game probably too. Favorite childhood memories. Of us? like of you and i just like in general i don't know we have so many like obviously in antucket we've

done we've had a bunch of memories growing up there like the summers when we were like i forget what that one year was in that summer yeah we had a blast we're like all like 10 12 years old like we just like meet up with every kid in the neighborhood oh yeah when we just play manhunt manhunt ding dong ditch no man yeah like it was every night like you just go around and just like We'd go to Force 5, go to the candy shop. Like, those were like peak days. Yeah, those are peak days. I feel like that's the best time to be alive on Nantucket.

You don't, like, social media wasn't a thing. No. None of us had phones. We didn't care about shit. Like, we literally just would like team up, manhunt, and then just like ding-dong ditch until like one in the morning and then watch, like, watch, like, go to bed. We would pack the basement and watch, like, some movie, like. Always a scary movie.

We always used, you and I always used to watch Friends. Like, we've seen every episode of Friends, like, a hundred times. No, I could, like, rest of, like, I'm not even kidding we would go back we have the CDs me you Jilly we would like all go to camps during the day on Antucket I would do surfing camp yeah you guys were at surfing camp I was looking nasty you were good and then I got scared of the ocean really yeah I didn't know that I'm like scared of the water no I see the sports camps the sharks everywhere and they want to eat me they just caught like a massive shark off the coast of and tug it don't even see that same it was like 1,400 pounds and 14 feet long or something

ridiculous jesus it was called like contender or something they named it yeah it like swam up yo that's contender yeah yeah oh that's just contender oh wait that's just contender he's good swam up from florida no worries yeah he's valid don't worry about contender he's like a mega like it's like great white it's like best family trip that we've ever been on it's got to be one of the Arruba trips. Yeah, I remember when you kicked. When I kicked the glass door. The glass door.

That definitely wasn't the best trip, but... He almost died. Yeah, I was eight, and Chad and I were... He was 10, and we got into a massive fight in the hotel lobby, and I remember he, like, did something, and he, like, pushed me or punch me or whatever, and I chased him all the way up to our room, and the hotel that we were staying, that we've been staying at for, I mean, since my parents were born they have like these glass doors they're like a wooden frame but there's like glass in the middle and he like slammed the door on my face so like i tried kicking the door open and i just

kicked right through the glass and cut my foot open and i like i guess i screamed so loud that like mom heard me like when she was on her run or something and like she ran up it was like centimeters yeah away from like your artery yeah it was a centimeter away from my artery and uh she carried me like into the rent-a-car and drove me to the hospital and I got like, went to the ER, they put stitches in and then the stitches came undone so mom took a sewing kit in our, yeah, that's why I still have, um, on the scar right here,

there's still like those little dots. Oh, those are from the stitches. Damn, she's a fucking badass. She sewed my, like, the stitches back together. And then we went to, uh, remember that water park? Yeah, that was fun. We went to that water park and they ripped out going down a slide. so my mom so mom did it again and I had to leave and it was covered up and she was just like on hand was like fucking like yeah I'm like that's one thing about mom is like she's like therapist doctor like she knows everything yeah you could literally go to her for anything and she'll know it she's so smart like did they take sewing class back in the day that's what I'm saying I'm like how do you know all this I can barely put a sticker on it I was sitting on that couch in that room it was room 1408 I'll never forget that I'm sitting on the couch in the living

room and she's sewing my foot and i couldn't even look i'm like crying like oh and she's like definitely not that trip but we've had but yeah some ruba trips were good yeah yeah favorite place to go out in boston for drinks well for for dinner girl 23 is the best restaurant hands down in boston i agree not even close like overall best food best vibe i think they mean like go out like go out that's what i thought you were getting at so i would say for that I don't know Like the Southie thing I think all the selfie bars

Are kind of the same in a sense You know like a lot of my friends Will go to like Playwright Like we'll go to Loco Lounge Like I don't I like Logo Lounge It can be fun Local Lounge is fun It's probably my favorite place

That's probably my favorite place Not a huge Lincoln fan Coppo Capo basement It's like hit or miss Playwright's fun though I've had fun there. Playwright is fun.

It's new, yeah. What was it like living with me? You don't remember? No, I mean, messy. No. No, you, I don't really remember again. No, I was messy. Yeah.

But you were, you went off to college when I was in, what, like eighth grade or something? Yeah, I forget. There's like a massive age gap there. Yeah, so. It's been a while, but... What's one thing having sisters has taught you? That's a good question. Bidges are crazy.

I don't know. I guess it's taught me, like, how to treat women properly. Yeah, be nice to girls. Because I'm very protective of you guys. Yeah. I don't know. The last thing I'd ever want to see is, like, you guys hurt or, like, somebody hurt you. So, like, I feel like I take from those lessons, and that's what I don't want to do to

someone, you know what I mean? Because, like, if a guy was mean to me, would you beat them up? I mean, and... yeah i wouldn't that wouldn't sit well with me yeah break their legs like if a guy like punched me in the face would you find them i'd be doing prison we'd be in prison yeah we'd be in prison yeah like that wouldn't sit well at all i don't know i'm very protective of you guys that's all i'll say well love you this next chapter is going to be your most exciting one yeah and be patient with yourself i feel like you want to be like successful like right now tomorrow yesterday and you have to

give yourself some like some grace yeah no i know i know i heard you chat said the same thing today chad gives himself a little too much grace but like somewhere in the middle yeah because it will get figured out try different things see what you like and just don't be too hard on yourself because yeah comparison is a thief of joy 100% you're comparing yourself to like what your friends are doing you're never going to be happy with yourself right so just like right go with the flow yeah i don't know like again i think a lot of it comes back from just being in a completely different situation than what i have been doing the last five years you know playing a sport and being so surrounded by like you know that team and that like environment i loved it so

much and how dedicated i was to it and you know how much i loved it yeah now i'm kind of trying to channel all that energy into something else and you know i've always been one of those people where like if things aren't going, you know, a certain way that I had imagined, then it's like the end of the world. And I'm like, yeah, I'm scrambling. Like, why isn't this? But again, I think it's all about perspective and, you know, appreciating kind of what you do have rather than what you don't have. And yeah, it's important to have that mindset to kind of, you know, chase the next thing. But also just the only thing that's guaranteed is the moment that you're in, you know, like tomorrow's not promise for anyone and it's important to kind of just live in the moment a little bit more and

it's easier said than done for sure yeah but yeah I'm definitely trying to practice that you know I got some exciting things that I've been working on and you know trying to build on you know talking to Darren a little bit more about you know potentially doing something and in the fitness industry and just trying new things out you know so I think that's what uh you know being 23 is all about figuring it out figuring it out exactly nobody has a plan well this is fun Sammy this is fun as always I know you should come back on you should just be a co-host I should yeah I know I know I'm literally anytime I know it's fun having it's so easy having like siblings on we can just yap we can like go down memory lane I had to go on recently and she just like it was just like going down memory lane

it was like the most fun thing ever yeah as always you can watch this episode on YouTube you can listen to me on any other platform like subscribe comment tell your friends say nice things and i love you guys so much i'll see you next week say bye sammy love you guys it was a blast it's fun all right bye