Extra Dirty with Hallie Batchelder - The story of Mr. Prince Charming *solo!*

Episode Date: June 25, 2026

BAM BABE, we're back! 🤸‍♀️ This week Hallie sits down solo to break down everything: coming to terms with only wanting casual dates, almost getting matching tattoos on a first date, sexual shrooms, and the story of her most recent conquest: Mr. Prince Charming. Hallie opens up about her journey on peptides, if she would ever move to LA, and reflects on realizing that your mom has always been right... Then Hallie gets into YOUR submitted hot or nots: sucking toes, ballet flats, diva cups, and more. BESOS! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

I think saying yes is back. Like, just say fucking yes. But like, don't be naive about it. Hey, do you want to get into this van? No. Hey, do you want, can I come into your apartment? All it depends if they're hot. Let's get extra dirty.

And welcome back to Extra Dirty. I am doing a solo today. And I'm really excited about it, honestly, because there are some life updates. I'm double fisting. right now. I went out last night on a date, took shrooms on the date. And guys who take shrooms on a first date, I guess I do. But they were like sexual shrooms, if that makes any sense. There's like this brand of shrooms that I found in my fridge because Avey I brought him home after

our date. And it said like for sexual pleasure and like they're supposed to make you like really horny and shit. And they did. They worked. And it was an insane night. But I'm extremely hungover today. But we got shit to talk about. So I'm having a little bit of the hair of the dog. I was just trying to explain what that meant and I looked it up and it still doesn't make any sense to me. So having a little bit of Bloody Mary and a little bit of a Diet Coke. This is my dream duo here. And yeah, what am I pre-gaming today?

I'm pre-gaming the fact that it's summer. I'm pre-gaming the fact that I got laid last night by a really sexy guy. And I'm also pre-gaming. I'm going to a rooftop party after this. because it is the Knicks. Which, by the way, can we just talk about this for a second? The Knicks. They lost the other day.

And guys think we're women. We're dramatic. People were literally attempting murder in the streets of New York because they lost a fucking football game or basketball? Basketball game. Like the drama. They're willing to literally go to prison for the rest of their lives because their team lost.

Like, can we pull it together for a minute? It's ridiculous. I just had to like say that quickly. I'm trying to think what other updates. Oh yeah. Let's talk about what you date quickly and then I'll get into like the rest of the shit. So I have been trying to proactively date a bit more just because I'm not going to lie. Like I don't really get stressed out by other people's timelines.

But recently I feel like I've been finding out a lot of my friends are pregnant and a lot of my friends are getting engaged and like, you know, I'm so excited and happy for them. But like I looked in the mirror the other day and I was like, I do not take this part of my life seriously. Like I don't take my romantic life seriously. And I think I've gotten to a point where like I'm so okay with casual things. Like I commitment really freaks me out. I can barely commit to like an outfit before going to dinner. And, you know, like just like the thought of a forever man still really scares me. I don't know what's going to help change my perspective on that.

I think it'll take the right guy. I mean, that guy I hooked up with last night was really hot. But, like, I'm sure I'm going to find something I don't with him about. Like, I don't know. Like, I'm going to find something. I'm very, like, I look for tits on an ant. I look for, like, a little thing, and then I get the ick, and then it's all gone for me. I also don't like when guys like me too much.

And he seemed, like, really into me last night. And he's beautiful. He looks like a Disney prince. But, like, I didn't like the fact. that he was like really into me. I like kind of like one of guys look a little mean to me. That's where we, you know, I think I need a therapist, honestly. Not a man.

But anyways, I went out last Sunday. And my one of my best friends, Lauren, a different Lauren, Lauren Kirk. She asked me and my best friend Margot, we all went to college together. She asked us to be in her wedding. So obviously we're going to celebrate with drinks. It's a beautiful day. We're on the West Side Highway.

We're having oysters. and Rose and just like the vibes are up. And if you guys know one thing about me, and I'll say this right here, I'm not a big Sunday fun day. Like I don't like to drink on Sundays. I hate starting my week like that. You know, I hate starting my Monday hungover.

So I tend not to do it. But I was like, oh, my God, we're celebrating something like, let's have some drinks and blah, blah, blah. My friend Margo was like, wait, there's this block party. I'm like, wait, that's so fun and wholesome. Let's go to it.

It wasn't wholesome at all. Like there was a DJ and we had some more drinks. So we bought a bottle of wine. It was B-Y-O-B. Our responsible friend, Lauren, leaves us to go pack. And when me and Margo are just together, us too, it's like two brain, like the last two brain cells just like feeding off of each other. Like we can't call it quits and we're like very lethal together.

Like we need a babysitter at all times. So I was like, should we go to a bar? Like the block party's over. The sun is setting. and I could keep going. So we go to this bar. There's a guy working the door. And every f***ing female in this restaurant was just staring at him, like, literally drooling over this man.

But he's like a host. He's like a matriety. I don't really know what they call the male version of that. A matrodi, like matri-d-de. Don't call me on that. Anyways, this man is so fucking sexy. And I'm like giddy nervous. And I'm like, we have to stay here until closing.

Like, I'm getting this man's number. Girls are literally coming up to him and, like, giving out their phone number to this band. It kind of felt like that scene in Sex and the City when Samantha is, like, eyeing, what's his name, Jerry Derrett or whatever, at that really janky-ass, like, vegetarian restaurant. And it's like the last woman standing and, like, she finally goes home with him. It was literally exactly that.

So I'm like, eye another bitch is, like, in the restaurant. I'm like, you know, like he's going home with me. Like, that's how it's going to happen. Anyways, I go up to him eventually after like nine glasses of wine. I'm cross-eyed. I'm not wearing a lick of makeup. Although, like, my skin is glowing from the peptides of an injecting into my body every day. I go up to him and I'm like, hey, like, you must get, like, hit on a lot here.

Like, do you give out your number to, like, all these girls? And he was like, no, I don't usually give out my number. And I was like, can I be the exception? and he was like, wow, that's so smooth. And he was like, I was going to ask you on your way out. And I was like, well, when are you off work? And I'm with like five girls. And I was like, winning off work.

And he's like, I can leave whenever I want. I was like, okay. So me and all my girlfriends and this man, we leave the bar with him. And like all the hostesses and waitresses and like everyone's just like kind of laughing at the situation because it was actually so absurd. I was like, you're coming home with us. So we leave us a pack. We go to a different bar.

And he's like, we go to Dante and he's cutting me up steak and he's feeding it to me. He's feeding it to my friends. And then we're like kind of fucked up. We're making out in front of everyone. And then like I literally had the idea. I was like, let's get tattoos. And Margo, like this is where me and Margo go wrong. Like instead of Margo being a friend being like, you know, that's probably not a smart idea.

Like we're all fucked up. You guys should not get matching tattoos. Like you shouldn't get a matching tattoo with a stranger. She texts John Boy tattoos and like it was like midnight at this point and she's like hey like Hallie and this guy I want to get matching tattoos and he literally thank God he responded the next day because I literally would have done it and I like probably still would anyways I go back to his place it's just us now and I was like I'm not sleeping with you like I just met you like two hours ago like this is too absurd although like I've done crazier shit so I mean we did literally basically everything else like

I still have a hicky from the situation on my neck and I we yeah we did everything besides have sex at that point like might as well just have sex and then we went out last night and I brought him to Shea Margot and we were and then Margot showed up on the date and sat like two tables away from us and then we combined tables and drink two bottles of wine and then went back to mine and took rooms and we were like tripping and I put it on track and we smashed and now I'm in love I have like a lot of ADHD when it comes to men so I get distracted and I lose interest really quickly so we'll see how long at last I am going to Barcelona, Majorca, Nantucket in the next few weeks and like who knows maybe I'll find a Disney prince over there yeah so what gives me the confidence to be able to

like go up to like a hot guy that like everyone's drooling over at a bar. I mean a couple of things give me the confidence too. The fact that I'm confident in the fact that I'm a good looking person, I fully believe that with my fake chest. My skin was extra glowy that day. Also alcohol. Alcohol helped. I'm not going to lie to you guys. Like I had some liquid courage going up to him, but it took me a couple of glasses to get there. I mean, but like going up to a guy, you have to like think in your head what is the worst outcome like he's not going to punch him in the throat he's not going to reject you in an insane way i was like maybe he has a girlfriend or like maybe he can't do that at work like i was preparing myself for every outcome it just turned out it worked out in my favor

like he was so hot and i was like i will be so mad at myself if i don't like i would regret it it and in my head i was like maybe i can find out his last name and look at come up on Instagram and DM him. But then I was like, I'm not a pussy-ass bitch because that's what a man would do. Okay. A man would do that. I feel like that has happened to me a significant amount of times where like a guy would be like, oh, I saw you out and blah, blah, blah.

I'm like, oh, well, why didn't you come over and say hi? Like, you sound like a fucking loser right off the bat. Like, just go up and say hi. Like literally, what's the worst that could happen? Thank God I did because he's amazing in bed. he was like tie me up and blindfolding me and feeding me strawberries with boot cream i was like damn let's make a movie all right that was my dating story but like the whole point of this and the whole point of the show is like talk about this shit and just i'm young still like i'm in my

20s and i decided i need to be more proactive about my dating life and i'm going to start dating and just like sharing it with you guys. I just want to have like a single bun in the sun, summer, and just like shake my fake tits that don't really move much. They don't have really much recoil, but you know what I mean and find boats to go on in yachts and private jets and just suck some guys off. And that's the vibe with the summer ladies.

And I can feel my, like, I just want to get it out. me and then maybe I'll start being more serious about commitment in the fall, but definitely not starting before the summer. Oh yeah, let's talk about my peptides a little bit. I feel like, you know, when it comes to like ozempic and peptides and anything you can like really inject in your body, like people kind of lie about it, like influencers, like pretty much everyone I know is either on a gLP one or some sort of peptide or both. I'm on peptides and I'm on gHK, blah, blah, blah, blah, like it's all the letters of the alpha bed essentially and it helps with recovery and I will say like I'm wearing little makeup right now my skin is glowing it looks like even Marshall said my producer he was

like it looks like you have a full beat on I'm like it's the GHK yo and I'm obsessed with it my hangovers aren't as bad when I work out I'm not as sore and my skin feels like more like plump and dewy I've also switched up my skincare routine a little bit. I've been really taking a lot of Metacube. Shout out MediCube. I'm obsessed with MediCube. And honestly, anything Korean skincare, life-changing. Life-changing.

People in Korea, they know how to do skincare, and it's true. So yeah, and I just got Botox. I just got my top lip refilled per gradin's request. I didn't get it fully refilled with filler because I'm really scared to go back to that era of my life. But it does look less deflated and dehydrated now. I feel like I got one-fourth of a syringe, and I'm really happy with the results. Okay, that was fun. Now let's get into a segment questions for the girls.

I will be answering them, giving my full, honest, and unfiltered opinion on all of it. The first question being, who has the best travel companion you've ever been on a trip with? Who has been? The best travel companion you've ever been on a trip with. I think Graydon's my best travel companion. I mean, I feel like the most low maintenance person is the best travel companion. Also, someone that, like, says yes to most experiences. I think saying yes is back.

Like, just say fucking yes. Like, do you want to go skydiving? Yes. Do you want to go on a double date with me? Yes. Like, I don't even ask follow-up questions. I just say yes. And I feel like any person that is, like, willing to take on life like that is.

a vibe. But like don't be naive about it. Hey, do you want to get into this van? No. Hey, do you want, can I come into your apartment? Well, it depends if they're hot and then yeah, like no to a random stranger. You know, like have some common sense, but saying yes is back and I fully believe that. What are the top three essentials to have in your bag this summer? slash what bag do you carry around in the summer? I mean, usually Prada or like what kind of bag, like a tote? Like I don't like to really carry bags. I'm not like a big bag person.

I'm not like a typical bag. Like all my friends have like this obsession with buying new designer bags. I would rather like spend it on like Ubers and shit like that. I don't know travel. I spend money on. But bags I'm just like not that into. But when am I keeping my bag? Like if I'm going to the beach, I think you keep a, you know,

I've been really into the coddily grape water. Just like spray it on your face. It's super hydrating and it's super glowy. So codily has a couple good. They have an elixir and they also have this grape water spray. They come in travel size, duo set and you just spray it on and you look like a ray of sunshine. You look rejuvenated, hydrated, and. fucking sexy and also smells like spot water so but anyways that an spf i think we need there's this

meta cube spf i use also this keels spf i use that makes your skin like really glowy has like kind of like a light shimmer to it and any lip gloss slash lip liner combo i always have in my bag i've been really into morphi products lately and maybe like my keys my id my passport a condom you know any of those have you gone out recently and realized the vibes were off and just went home early no I usually get too drunk

to realize that like the vibes are off but I'm usually the vibe bringer but I know friends that do that and I've always been like if you think your vibes off then just like see yourself out

like I don't really get mad when my friends do that I'm not like one of those girls that like will beg someone to stay Like if you feel like you need to go home Like that you're an adult Like you can go home Like I never under some people that get mad at their friends Like and force them to stay out

Because like if you force someone to stay out They're just gonna get even more annoyed with that situation I just feel like that's kind of like an immature move But yeah I mean my vibe is rarely off But sometimes it's off in the beginning And then I can 180 pivot So

There's that How many unread text messages do you have currently? 12. Not bad. It gives me anxiety for people that have over 50. I don't understand that. But I will say that I do open a lot of texts and forget to reply and people clock me for that. I'm very ADHD. Like I will reply in my head, but then I like, I won't. I didn't reply. If you had to move out the city tomorrow, where would you go? Could you see yourself raising a family in New York City? I don't think I would do LA, unless I, like, had a house like Matt and Alex. Like, then maybe I would consider L.A.

They have a fucking sick pad. But I can never do, like, an apartment in L.A., I think. But, like, who's to say? Like, I don't really predict the future like that. People always ask me, like, where do you see yourself in five years? I'm always, like, hopefully alive. That's, like, all I could really ask for right now. And, like, maybe, you know, hotter.

I always, I'm trying to level up in some sort of way. But I don't think I could see myself raising a family in New York City just because of the space issue and how expensive it is. I don't have toddlers when you're on my one bed. I also don't want to live with a guy unless we have at least enough money to have a house and we can have like two bedrooms. Like I need my own space. I need my own vanity and I need my own bathroom. And I don't care if you call me a snobby bitch for saying that, but that's just how I feel. So until those boxes are checked, I will not be sharing.

space with a man. But I could see myself raising a family in Boston or Connecticut, suburb somewhere. I don't seem to myself really living in a city. But I grew up in Boston, like in the city of, but like in a brownstone. It's like basically just a vertical house with a bunch of, like it was five stories. Five or six? I don't know. You still have space in that. But yeah, maybe Miami I could see myself moving to if I didn't live in New York. But I don't think I would ever do Chicago or Nashville. I went to recently and I had fun, but I could never live there. I was in a snow globe.

It kind of reminded me of Vegas in a lot of ways. They're going to hate me for saying that, but it did. What's one thing your mom told you about dating that you now believe? I mean, everything my mom says she's right about. 99% of the time. So, you know, when you're a kid and you're your mom and you like think that you just like broke up with the love of your life and you got dumped, you're like, I'm never going to love again. And your mom's like, trust me, babe, like, you'll be fine in two months. Yeah. And then she ends up being right. And you like find another schmuck that you breaks her heart too. Like your

mom's usually right about dating because she's experienced what it is to date in every era of your life, whether that's middle school, high school, college, your early 20s, your late 20s. And the thing my mom has probably been the most right about is, like, men your own age are typically a lot more emotionally unintelligent than you are. She also has been right about just like timing is everything. And I think timing is everything for dating. I think when you're supposed to like meet your person, you just meet them.

I don't know. She just tells me to be patient with it. And I am extremely patient with it. And she always tells me not to settle. Because, like, yeah, I tell, I say mom. Like, if I wanted a boyfriend right now, I could land one. I could, like, secure one of the guys of my roster. And I could have a boyfriend if I really wanted one.

But, like, I just, like, don't feel it in me right now. It's, like, I don't crave that. She's also right about the fact that men, like, need their ego strokes at all times. Like, just, like, you know, compliment them. and like men like need their egos stroked like honestly probably more than woman and i don't know when they thought that that was okay but that's just how it is so just like a compliment here and there goes a long way with a man which is like thought of that is disgusting i'm not complimenting men what does your couch rot itinerary look like do you have a delivery hyperfixation meal right now

what show are you binging let me paint you picture. When I am hungover, I am on my couch. It makes me feel less guilty to be on a couch than in my bed, like shades drawn and everything. Like I need to be like in a living room. So I go to my couch and I put on usually reality TV. It calms me down to see other women bicker. I don't know why. Like I love real housewives. Any show that surrounds drama or dating, like I'm watching Love Island right now. I don't feel like I'm obsessed with it. I don't know how to feel about Love Island. Like usually you know like a standout star. Maybe it's too early on to tell. But like usually like there's that one person like each season like Leah, for instance, or Rob or Huda. Like there was

people are like, okay, this person's going to be extremely famous from the show. I just don't know who that is yet. Like maybe Kenzie I fuck with. I also think. Trinity is really funny but other than that I don't know Keda is the most beautiful person I've ever seen need to her to drop the skincare routine but other than that I do not know like the guys none of them are really doing it for me they're also extremely young I think the latest bombshell was 21 years old when I am hung over my go-to order is Joe Shanghai the soup dumplings are my favorite thing in the world. Like, I'm obsessed with the soup dumpling.

It could be, like, literally 100 degrees outside and, like, super, like, muggy, but, like, I would still order soup dumplings. And then I crack the window, and then, like, sometimes, you know, like, when you're hungover and you get, like, super horny, like, sometimes I'll, like, text everyone and, like, start sexting random people,

and then I go to bed. I take a let me sleep, and I knock the fuck out. that's usually the program. Is there a fashion trend you're seeing around New York that you're scared to try? Caprize kind of intimidate me. I don't like ballet flats either. I don't know. What other trends are going on?

I do fuck with jorts. I think jorts are very cool and hip. And I've seen a lot of like shin length like baggy shorts. Like Bermuda shorts, but they're like a little longer and like sweatpants material. I'm seeing a lot of that. And I'm seeing like the milk made had bandana thing. That's a big fashion trend right now, like where you look like, I just think I'm like too much of a slot to pull that off, honestly.

Like if I put that on, people will be like, this is like a little performative. Like, I don't know what you're doing. The only person I know that can like pull that off or like, is like Paige Lorenz and Olivia Jade. Like those, they can pull that off and it looks really good on them. But I don't think I could pull that off. I also, like, don't have much hair, so, like, I think I have to show the hair that I have,

if that makes sense. A lot of people wearing flip-flops right now, exactly. Javierna's, like, blah, blah, blah. But, like, not in New York. Like, maybe when I go to Nantucket and I get a pedicure, but, like, I don't get how people do open toe in New York City. I mean, I get it. Carrie Bradshaw did it and pulled it off. But, like, it just scares me a little bit.

Like, what if I, like, step on a needle? If it was a peptide. I would welcome it, but like, I'm scared of needles a little bit in New York City. They're out for sure. And sometimes you'll see a needle on the floor, like a little syringe, and you're like, that's definitely not being used for a GLP1 or GHK. So no open toe for me. What is something you need to buy for your apartment right now?

That's a good question. I think I need a piece of art above my bed. People keep saying it looks like a psych ward. But my apartment doesn't. doesn't have great feng shui, I will say, like my bedroom especially. It makes no sense because the door is open to the foot of my bed. So I put my TV slash frame TV, whatever. I put it on the right side of my bed. So I kind of have to like look like that to watch TV. It makes no sense, but it works for me because I was like, well, if I'm sleeping on my side like this and I'm spooning a guy

or he's entering me from behind, I can still watch a movie. Or Real Housewives. Like, it made sense when I did it, but I think I need some art above my bed. So if anyone, like, knows a good interior designer. I also probably sheeted some groceries for my apartment. I don't have any of that right now.

But I go puff all my groceries, honestly. That's what I've been doing recently. I haven't been to a grocery store. store in probably three years. Fun fact about me. I don't like them and I don't know if it's because my relationship with food is horrible. The thought of going into a store that has so much food kind of scares me a little bit. So I order it when I need it, but I don't like the, it stresses me out to grocery shop. It always has, but I've always been pretty fucked up. So like mentally, so that's probably just a me issue.

Is there a scent that immediately triggers a memory from your past? Victoria's Secret perfume. There's one perfume, body spray, mist that unlocks a lot of middle school makeouts for me. Also, the smell of Axeotrient reminds me of my middle school boyfriend. He used to pack that shit on so heavy. And at the time, I'm like, wow, this guy's so hot. He's wearing Axe body spray. But now I'm like, I'm so anyone wearing that, I'm like, you're so vintage for that.

Because, like, I don't know. He still does that. Extremely vintage. Also, that's like my new thing. I'm like, oh, my God, that's so vintage. Like, I got a hickie the other day, and I'm like, that is extremely vintage. Like, look at me. Who gets hickie?

Like, who gets hickies at the age of 29? I rounded up. I don't know why I did that. That was fucking weird. Like, I'm 28. Don't claim that. But hickies are so vintage, and I love it. Like, grinding, vintage.

Dance 4 makeouts? Vintage. Everything's vintage. We are in June. How do you feel like things have changed since the beginning of the year? As an influencer, I feel like I had a slow start to the year with brand deals. Things are definitely picking up right now. I'm busy and I'm so happy about that.

But it was apparently like a really slow beginning to the year for a lot of people. So that kind of made me feel better. But, you know, it's not like my rent changed or anything like that. So I was a bit stressed out about it. And I feel like I was being really angry and combative with like people on my team and like people I work with. And I was just kind of like an angrier version of myself, which I didn't love. And I feel like I have softened up a little bit and just like kind of changed my approach of how I talk to people. I have a very like short fuse.

So when I'm frustrated, I can't like communicate. My communication skills are pretty abrasive. So I've kind of changed how I approach feeling like feeling frustrated. And for me it's like I have to take a beat and not act on impulse and definitely don't text on impulse. I feel like I've brought in that approach also to like my friendships. So, like, if I get annoyed with a friend, instead of, like, immediately snapping at them, I try to just create some space until I feel like I can express how I feel in an appropriate adult way.

So, yeah, I guess that's something that's changed a little bit. And what else? I mean, my skincare routine's probably gotten a lot better. And my love for peptides has grown and grown and grown. I will say like I feel like I've been doing well with the men lately. Like I don't remember my last dry spell and I'm definitely not. I'm not in a dry spell at all right now. I feel like I'm in a wet spell.

I'm just attracting all the dick. It's like blah, blah, blah, blah. And I'm loving it. I'm here for it. Finally. And like they're kind of hot. Like I was talking to Dylan about this the other day. I was like, I not to chew my own horn, but like I'd be getting with hot guys.

And that doesn't always happen. And sometimes I get fucked up and you get like beer goggles and I get with some interesting characters. But I feel like I've been on like a generational run of like good looking men. And I'm like happy about that. But like still respectable woman. I'm not getting with that many guys. I also got an aura ring and I meant to talk about this. I feel like this is very important to me.

Like I've been talking about this or ring so much on TikTok. Like I'm honestly shocked. I, they haven't reached out and like. corrected me on a couple things because I keep comparing their like they have a readiness score and a sleep score and I keep thinking that they're grading me like a test so like I'll be like your sleep score was it like a 72 I'm like why would they give me a C minus like I wasn't even drinking last night but apparently that's not how it works but I'm learning and I'm trying to like take my health a bit more seriously I do drink so much but like I don't care

about that like i have to like i have to have a vice i'm sorry but yeah i've been working out a lot more i started going to barry's classes and i think this summer i really want to like get a fucking hot body and actually just like i feel like if i put a little more work in i could get like shredded but i just don't try or care so what is your absolute favorite solo day activity in new york city honestly like i just sometimes i like love going to lunch alone i don't really like to go to dinner alone, I feel like that can be like a little depressing, especially if it's on like a Thursday, Friday, Saturday night. But like a solo lunch date or a coffee date,

there's this coffee shop that's like right near me that I bring my laptop to and I like will pretend like I'm getting work done and like be like a little bit performative and like order like a nice latte and like a chia seed pudding and I honestly am in heaven. But like I besides doing work, like I do like some like email shit, but like I probably am watching TV on my computer. But yeah, that's like my favorite thing to do. But I do want to branch out with hobbies. I want my new nickname to be Hallie Hoppies by the end of the year.

Like, oh my God, Hallie just has so many hobbies and she's so wholesome. And she's so brand safe and perfect. That's kind of the vibe I'm on. Like I kind of want to take up knitting or like I just bought like a water coloring book. We brought that actually out the other day when we went on Sunday. And we were just like watercalling. water coloring while drinking wine and I honestly hit a flow state.

It was perfect. Have you ever had a friend breakup? What happened and how did you get over it? I never had like a big friend breakup where it's like this happened and we need to like break up because honestly friend breakups from what I hear like a lot worse

than like real breakups, romantic relationships. But I do have friendships that just like fizzle out and I think that's okay and people should welcome that. Some people just go in different directions. as you get older and you know you got to take your own path in life and I think that's okay and you should just embrace that because it happens and you can't control that that's just how life goes and it happens to everyone it's not an original experience and you kind of just have to

mourn that sometimes friends only fit that error of your life and it only makes sense to have them in your life at that point in time like there's a bunch of people I went to high school with that I'm not still in touch with. Do I have anything against them? No, but just like we're in two different paths of lives in that path. Pass of life. You know what the fuck I'm trying to say.

Also, you don't, I have, like, kind of gone different ways with people I don't live in the same city with because I am a bad taxer and a bad FaceTimer and I'm bad, like, keeping in touch. And that's a lot of it's on me. Most of the time it's on me. you know, it just happens and don't beat yourself up about it. What clothing item in your rotation is multiple times a week right now?

Honestly, any sweatshirt from Diet Starts Monday. I mean, that was a funny bit when Graydon, Link wore that shirt at Coachella, but like they sent me a bunch of sweatshirts and they're all like the sickest hoodies I've ever seen in my whole entire life. Like I wear a Diet Starts Monday hoodie pretty much every day. Like at some point, whether I'm sleeping in it or working out, in it, I'm going to the gym, like they have the sickest hudies ever. Like, this is Dietzors Monday right now.

Shout out. I also am a very base. I wear basic pieces a lot. I love a denim moment. I mean, my denim, my jean closet is, I probably have over 200 pairs of jeans. I'm not kidding. I love a denim moment. And just like a black or white tank.

So like I keep a basic with a cool pair of jeans. And that's pretty very, very. which my uniform. I really want to start switching it up. I'm trying to wear more shorts. To be honest, I kind of don't like how skinny my legs are. So I kind of like hide the parts of my body. I don't like love all the time, which I need to start being better at. I always feel like people are like staring at how skinny my legs are. That sounds pick me, but like I get a lot of hate for what my legs look like on the internet. So I feel like I've kind of internalized that. And that's just like my honest answer. I'm not going to sit here in line to you. Never have. Never will.

But yeah, I need to start working on just like embracing and like loving every part of my body. But like that's a whole journey within itself. Like it sounds like a lot of work needs to be put in to achieve that, but it's definitely something I'm working on. You asked me like what piece of clothing I like to wear. I don't know how we got from that to that. But like that kind of got deep. Anyways, okay. Advice for girls who want to be more sexual and freaky in the bedroom but are bad at initiating and leading.

You guys have to remember like when you're having to remember like when you're having to be. having sex with the man, they're just happy to be fucking there. Like, you can literally do and say whatever you want and it will land. You could like start meowing at them and then be like, that is so hot. This happened to me last night because, like, usually when it comes like freakier shit, usually if you suggest something or like, especially when I got it was at my apartment, I do have an extensive bedside drawer lineup. Like I have everything you possibly think of.

And I usually just like have them. I'm like, take something from my drawer and like just surprise me. And it's a different thing every time. It's like, I think you just like suggest it. I don't understand like, especially like the simplest freakest shit to suggest is like of adding a vibrator when you're having sex. And like if a guy is offended by that, then he's like an immature pussy. But I feel like that's like the one of like a very simple way to start getting into the freakier shit.

like just a vibrator it's so fun I honestly don't have sex without them no next what episode of Extra Dirty has been your favorite so far so this year my favorite episode has probably been

with my dad or one of my siblings I just like thought my dad was my first guest when I got into the new set and I was really excited about that and the clips did really well and I thought he was extremely well spoken

and just the way my my dad like talks about my mother. I find extremely admirable like he's so in love with her and just like hearing him talk about her and how much he loves her and the way he talks about itibati and I don't know for some reason that episode to me was extremely like healing in a lot of ways but also like reminiscent on childhood and and just like reminded me that there are good men out there. The way he just talked about my mom and just like still after 30 years. It's just so in love. To me, I just look up to that so much. And it makes me want to be, like, a bit more patient

when it comes to, like, finding my person in life. So I feel like that episode I appreciated it in more ways than one. So probably that episode. That was fun. I feel like that's a good place to end that segment. I think our next segment is going to be hot or nots. And these are from you guys. These are from the listeners.

So the first one is hot or not. And it's sucking toes. Some guys have this fetish when it comes to sucking toes. I never understood it. I also think I would be super ticklish. Also, like, I don't get it. Some people, like, love stinky feet and want to, like, suck on them. And I think it's kind of fucking weird, honestly.

It's, like, a very weird kink that I never really understood. But, like, I don't know. There's something about a man just, like, being at my feet, like, that I probably would find hot. Like, I've sucked toes before. Like, once I, like, stuck a jar. Like, you know, like, cheese and crackers? There's, like, that vague jam stuff. I put it on a guy's toe when I sucked it off.

And then I put it back in my parents' fridge. That was probably fucked up at me. That's not hot. But I thought it was funny and I was drunk, so whatever. Anyways, lower back tattoos, hot or not. I think they're kind of hot. And they're vintage. Vintage.

Hi. It reminds me of, like, Christina Aguilera and, like, Megan Fox. Like, I think it's, like, the hottest woman figure. I can think of from the early to mid-2000s. I feel like had a sexy ass back tattoo. On a guy, I don't know. I feel about it. But on a woman, fucking sexy. So I'm going to say that's hot.

Dot cakes. I mean, I don't know how we'd sexualize dot cakes, but I will try. I mean, I just don't fucking get it. I've seen the lines on TikTok to Butterfield Market. It's like a two-hour wait to get a fucking dot cake. Maybe because I'm not like that much of a foodie, but like I'll try anything once, but I'm not waiting in line for a jar with like I can make it. I could probably make a dot cake at home.

I sound like a dot cake hater, but like I just don't get it. Like we hop on these trends so quickly. Like remember Labuboos? How vintage is that? People forgot about them really quickly. But the lobooboo thing was fucking nuts and it really freaked me out when people were putting Labibu's on their beautiful product bags. I'm like, can we get a grip?

This is weird, but like vintage. Dot cakes will be vintage probably in two weeks. Short kings. I mean, I have hooked up with them for sure, but I wouldn't call them kings. They were like more short plebeians. I don't know. Like there's this guy I'm thinking of that is British, that's not the tallest that I have like a huge crush on. Like still to this day, I would call him a short king and I would date him tomorrow.

So yeah, I do think there are short kings out there, but like, I tend to go for the taller guy. I like love to wear heels. Like, I don't want to be taller than my man. But like, no shade, no hate. I don't know. Martha's Vineyard, hot or not? Not, it's because I'm biased. Also, my tax guy called me today, because I have taxes due or some shit like that.

And he told me, he goes, have you heard about the tick issue on Martha's Vineyard? I go, what do you fucking mean? the tick issue on Martha's Vineyard because you just assumed that they were on Antoccut as well. Apparently there's these ticks that are biting people and 50% of the people that had gotten bit by those ticks now have an allergic reaction, an allergy to meat and dairy. Like what? What do you mean? That's like, I've never heard of anything like that.

So I won't be hiking anytime soon or playing in the dunes. Not that I had that planned, but like still kind of freaky and I did not like that. I could have gone my whole summer without knowing that information. Now I'm freaked out. But anyways, Martha's Vineyard, not hot for that reason, but like also I am Nantucket biased. Ballet flats. Not, but they look good on like girls that can like pull shit off like that. But I don't think they're my thing personally.

My boyfriend has a girl best friend and they went on a friend's trip And they just went on a friend's trip Europe You gotta dump him babe, they're fucking That's not hot and I don't get, that's not your friend either Oh wait, it's his friend Guys like, I don't believe in guys having like hot girl best friends Like guys want to smash everything Like I'm sorry, that's just how I see them

I don't really believe that They're not smashing I'm sorry babe I'm gonna hold your hand when I tell you this self-tan summer. Honestly, hot because everyone knows the scar I have on my chest from getting burnt on antibiotics, and people are really mean to me about it on the internet. So I am going to have an SPF heavy summer. I'm going to be wearing a lot of sunscreen and self-taining a lot.

I'm just like not good at self-tank. I have someone that spray tans me. Shout out Golden Girls, New York, and she's the only person I trust is. like spray tan me. She's amazing. And you guys should look her up. She's the best. And she'll come right to your home,

set up a little tent, spray you really quickly, and she's the nicest girl ever. Mary Jane heals. Hot or not. Who's Mary Jane, bro? What's that? Oh, I mean, not my thing.

Sorry, Mary Jane. It's a no for me, babe. Boyfriends, in and out. Boyfriends are... multiple boyfriends plural, I think, are in. Like, I am trying to have a few boyfriends, and I feel like that's fun. And just, but, like, I feel like summer is for being single and, like, letting your hair down and, like, meeting hot sexy men, like, being mysterious and, you know,

not settling down. I feel like the fall when it becomes, like, sweater weather and you, like, want to cuddle with someone, then we can get a boyfriend. But, like, for now, like, have your fucking tits out and stick your tongue down everyone's throat. Sluddy mustache, hot or not. Hot. Like literally my type to a T is a slutty mustache. Recently, I've been really mustache maxing and I just like love sitting on a guy's face when he has a mustache. There's something about it that just tickles me in more ways than one. I'm obsessed. Like if you put all the guys have

hooked up with in a room together from the past two years, I think 80% of them would have a slutty mustache. So I think they're hot. Recindling things with an ex. Is it bad? I don't say that's hot. Like, having sex with your ex is, like, the hottest thing ever. I'm sorry. Like, there's so much emotion and hate and disdain for each other. And it just makes for, like, really passionate hot sex. But, like, I would never, I would never fuck either of my exes.

They're too far gone. I think they're, like, in other relationships, too. I also don't think if, like, I pass my ex on the street, I would find them necessarily attractive right now. But, like, back then, they were the moment. But I just feel like my taste has. changed just a little bit. Yeah, so killing things to the next.

It's hot, but it'll be hot for like three seconds before it's like really not hot. And then you're like, fuck, this is disgusting and gross. Mullet, it's hot or not? I love a fucking little sexy mullet with a little slutty ass mustache. There's like a guy I have a crush on right now that has both of those and I would move to LA to be with him. I'm not even kidding. I like Loki have like a ton of crushes right now.

I feel like I'm just in heat or something. If he's a twin, hot or not? Hot. I mean, I've hooked up with a couple pairs of twins, and I always thought it was hot. They were hot. I was hot and we're all hot together. I mean, brothers in general, like, I've done that before, and it's definitely time to be alive and I'm reminiscent on it. And I still think they're hot, honestly.

Finance guys, hot or not? I typically find finance guys kind of full of it, but they will be. but they will bring you out to a nice dinner. I feel like finance guys are so performative in a lot of ways, and they all look alike, and they tend to be a little dry when it comes to humor. I don't know, like, they're stressed out from work or, like, whatever. But I don't think they have much style. Maybe I'm just thinking of one guy in particular,

but I don't think I've really given a finance guy the full chance. I also think finance guys are hotter when they're, like, a little, older like a 40 year old 35 to 40 a hot finance guy like say don't like make out with me I get it but like guys my age that are finance guys I feel like that's their whole personality is to tell everyone that they're in finance and like babe I don't give a fuck what you do for work I hate that when that's like the first question a guy asks ever what do you do like what do you care what I do I'm influencer maxing and podcast maxing and I'll probably talk about this on the internet goodbye.

Buzz cuts. Hot or not? This beautiful girl wrote not. I mean, I don't know. It depends. Like, it kind of reminds me of like, juice darky with the buzz cut. So hot.

I also saw that Rob Roush recently got a buzz cut. Respectfully, he looks very fucking hot. Like, I get it. I didn't always get it with him, but with the buzz cut. I get it. Okay, yeah.

So I think they are hot, but like situationally and circumstantially. A fuck ton of chest hair, hot or not? I don't think that's hot. I'm sorry, I know you can't control it, but you know what's worse than that is when they shave it. And they're like stubbly. Like at that point, just get laser. But I don't think it's hot. But like a little in the middle, kind of fucking sexy.

I don't know. But that's just me. Doing Molly in Abiza. Hot or not? I'm trying to be a little bit more brand-sing. here but I would say that's hot I would say that's hot girls having rosters hot but like I'm biased and I think I have like I've been definitely I mean I don't know like how many people are on the roster if you have a whole football team that's not that hot but if you have a few guys that you're

entertaining and casually talking to and seeing hot if they're all hot then it's hot okay but if they're all not hot then it's not hot does that make sense to you Okay. Diva cups. What the fuck? What the fuck's a diva cup? I for, is it like, is it a, it's a menstrual cup? I'm not putting a red solo cup in my fucking pussy. Like, that's not a thing. That sounds so uncomfortable. I mean, I'd give everything a try, but I think I'm going to stick to tampons, which by the way, I recently started using this brand male, R-A-E-L. It's holistic. cycle care for essentials, pads, tampons, supplements, skincare, and more. They offer clean, effective ingredients, blah, blah, blah. So, like, these tampons are probably the most, like, comfortable tampons I've ever used in my life. And you know when tampons can be, like, really fucking uncomfortable and, like, chalky, like, blah, blah, blah, like, kind of just, like, feels like there's a cardboard, you know, pole in your snatch. Like, these are, like, the most comfortable ever.

and they are, I would say they're like the most effective tampon I've ever used. So putting them on. I got to put my people on. Timothy Shalameh, hot or not? I mean, he is swaggy. That guy is like some, like, he dresses really well. So I think he is hot. Also, he's dating a fucking batty.

So that makes him even hotter. So I would say he's hot for those reasons. but like Timothy Shalame seven years ago when he had different hair and I feel like he dressed a little differently. I never got it why girls would like be like obsessed with him. But I think he's got some motion now for sure. Love Island, Newcast, Hot or Not, I think it's too soon to tell. And I was saying that earlier.

I think it's a bit too soon to tell. I do think the girls are hot. Like Ceda's hot. Kenzie, Melanie, Trinity, I think is really hot. I don't know why, but Trinity is like my favorite. She, like, cracks me the fuck up. Club 11, hot or not. It can be super hot when you're with the right group,

but it can also be super not hot when you accidentally go upstairs with the guy that you met on Miami Beach at the Faina and you go up to a private room with a stripper and then end up blowing him. Actually, that was hot. I don't even know why I was saying that's not hot. That was fun, and he was rich.

It can be not hot sometimes. It can be like a little over-stimulating for sure. All right. Last one being socks with heels. I think it's kind of cool. Like, I think it can be cool if you do it right and you're hot. So I'm going to give that a hot. But I think it depends on like the whole outfit at the end of the day.

Okay. Well, anyways, that was fun. And this is fun. Like, I really fucking love my solos. And I feel like I was a bit more articulate today than I have been. and some of my other solos. Like I was, I came here,

like, super excited to, like, do these because sometimes when I have a guest on, I feel like I'm, like, not catching people up on, like,

my actual life and my day to day because I'm, like, talking to a guest about other shit, which I do love doing. I think a mix is great. And I've been trying to, like, figure out,

like, that balance. Also, like, trying to figure out, like, what guests on are, like, like,

like, like, and like I can have shared experiences with. I'm just like trying to get in the flow of like what's working for the show and what's not working for the show. But you know what? I'm still learning and doing my best, but I will say that I feel like trying to do these solos

is like my favorite way to connect with you guys. And I really enjoyed doing this one. But as always, I love you guys. I will see you next Thursday. You know where to find me. You can watch me on YouTube. You can listen to me on any other platform. tell your friends, your family, your grandpa, your mama, your ex-boyfriend.

Tell them all about the show. And as always, my DMs are always open for any questions or whatever. Just you want advice. I'm always here. And I'm going to use my solos, honestly, to answer those things. But as I always, love you guys. M-la-la-la-w.