Fake Doctors, Real Friends with Zach and Donald - Judy Reyes, Queen of TV

Episode Date: March 11, 2025

All hail the return of our Queen! Judy Reyes, known to many of you as Carla, never stays off TV too long. She tells Zach and Donald about her latest hit, High Potential. She also relays her fears abou...t raising a trans child and shares her hopes for a new season of Scrubs. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Starting point is 00:01:54 Sam Hunt, Megan Moroney, Bailey Zimmerman, Nate Smith. Tickets are on sale now at Ticketmaster.com. Hello. Oh boy. I just got to let you know. Do or do not. There is no try. We did an episode where I never spoke.
Starting point is 00:02:18 I just spoke with the sound machine. Like all of my comments were that episode. Really? I would hate that episode with the passions. Well let's just try a quick experiment. Like you say, comments were the same. I would hate that episode. Really? I would hate that episode with the passion. Well let's just try a quick experiment. Like you say, like ask me a question. How was your weekend, Zach? Mm hmm.
Starting point is 00:02:35 Wait, one more. Ask me a good question. Wait, hold on. I gotta get this part set up. Okay, go ahead. You digging the new T-Mobile commercials that are coming out? They haven't gone for a while. Wait, no, that doesn't make sense. Yeah, because it's commercial related.
Starting point is 00:02:55 Them T-Mobile commercials are funny. They're very funny. I know we're biased, but I think they're funny. Holy cow, we did it again, guys. We did it again. They're playing them a lot. Yeah, they are. I hope people don't get sick of us.
Starting point is 00:03:08 Me too. Please don't, don't, don't run away. It's not our fault. We don't put them, we're not the ones who say put it on every single commercial break, sorry. But it literally, literal, literal, literal, it literally, literal, literal, literal, like Daffy Duck. It's literally on like all the time. Literally, literally, literally, literally. Literally. Literally. Literally.
Starting point is 00:03:25 Like Daffy Duck. It's literally on like all the time. I know. I know, but I think it's funny at least, you know, at least it's not a dumb commercial. It makes me giggle every time I see it. Every time. But again, I realize I'm biased.
Starting point is 00:03:39 Well, you know. When you say the gum was under your seat, Joelle, you seen it yet? I haven't seen the newest one yet, no. But I don't watch the TV like you or the sports. I bet you watch Zoe Deschanel's commercials. I have not seen a new commercial from her either. I don't know.
Starting point is 00:03:56 I'm on the streaming. I don't have the ads there. Oh, right. Yeah, I mean, in your defense, Joelle, they mostly play, I mean, when you see, you gotta be someone who watches live events, like sports and- Oh, every time my grandpa calls me,
Starting point is 00:04:09 he tells me about it. I saw your guys. The SNL, it was the first commercial on NBC of the SNL anniversary, and that was the first time- It was like we were part of the SNL. In our minds, we got to be a part of the SNL. You know what I mean? And it came on like every commercial.
Starting point is 00:04:27 How funny was Eddie Murphy doing Tracy Morgan? That was hilarious. That was my favorite part, I think. No, my favorite part was Will Ferrell and Anna Gostyer doing, They Not Like Us. They Not Like Us. Yeah. Do do do do.
Starting point is 00:04:43 What about, I think that was the music one though. Wasn't that the music one? And the other one that was funny was Sabrina Carpenter and them doing the wedding reception thing with the bridesmaids sing to the bride. Yeah, the bridesmaids and then Molly Shannon, the mom. And, and, and, and, and, dang. How much are you getting? What about Eddie doing scared straight? That was funny.
Starting point is 00:05:14 That was hilarious too. With Will Ferrell. Yeah, I knew Will Ferrell. You know, he's a, he's a, both of them Gs, straight up Gs of comedy. They're both like the biggest, you know, two of the biggest success stories that came out of SNL. Yeah. I'd like to see them do a movie together.
Starting point is 00:05:32 Yeah, me too. I'm sure everyone was thinking like finally together, those guys gotta do something. Yeah. What's going on, Joelle? Not much, man. Saturday, getting excited for concert season. You have a big show coming up.. You have a big show coming up.
Starting point is 00:05:46 I do have a big show coming up. When does this air by the way? Cause I have an announcement to make, but I'm worried that I'll be ruining it. Oh my. You'll tell me. Yeah, March 29th, we have the big Garden State concert, all going to charity for the Midnight Mission.
Starting point is 00:05:59 And Donald Faison has agreed to introduce a band with me. I'm introducing Coldplay, ladies and gentlemen. No, that's not true. We're probably going to introduce Carrie Brothers. Because Carrie Brothers requested that you and I introduce him. Carrie Brothers, I just want to sing a song for you. Yeah, I remember, look, man, I still don't think he knows the song. It's Tracy Morgan. I still believe he doesn't know the song. Wish enough a wise man to tell you a lie.
Starting point is 00:06:36 What's he say after that? The only thing true. When the brod tongs spring. That's what it sounds like he says. When the brods bring, that's what it sounds like he says. When the bro tongs bring. Now, listen, we're going to be in front of 6000 people. I need you to hold it together. You can't go rogue. We don't have Daniel there to be like, cut that Daniel.
Starting point is 00:06:58 So I can't say nothing crazy. Yeah. Joel, are you coming? You're invited, you know. I didn't know I was invited. I would absolutely show up. Sounds amazing. I think Mark, my assistant, made sure that you had a seat because, Daniel, you would have been invited,
Starting point is 00:07:12 but you don't live here. But Joelle, I think Mark has got you. I'll follow up with Mark then. If you would have said to Daniel, come through, I bet you he would have made it. Well, I don't want to ask Daniel to fly in, and I don't think I have any more seats anyway, but Mark was looking out for you, Joelle.
Starting point is 00:07:28 Oh, shit. Mark was looking out for you, Joelle. I had a woman who works for Bill's company who I needed her to get me an answer on something. And she was like, because the tickets are just all gone. And she's like, I'll give you that answer like tomorrow if you get me two tickets for me and my husband
Starting point is 00:07:45 to the Garden State concert. And I was kind of flipping. I was kind of flippantly like, yeah, I actually, I can't plan my spring until you tell me the dates of X, Y, and Z. And she's like, I'm on it. Literally an hour later is like, here's all the information, it's confirmed.
Starting point is 00:07:58 These are the dates, two tickets, please. Yep, that's how it goes. That's how it goes, Brody. Wow, Brody. In demand. Brody McDoody, you got a hot ticket. Wait, so wait, I can make it. Your concert is a hot ticket.
Starting point is 00:08:13 I can make a big announcement here, Joel, if you tell me when this airs. March 11th. Oh, then guys, you'll have known this if you really follow us on social media. But, so we did this amazing deal with this company called Veep's
Starting point is 00:08:33 and they shoot the event with 10 cameras, beautiful cranes, drones, like steady cam, it's like incredibly shot. And then a week later, anywhere in the world, you can stream the concert. It's 19 bucks or so. And here's the great thing. Thanks to our partners at T-Mobile, every single cent of your ticket price
Starting point is 00:09:00 goes to the Midnight Mission, our charity partner for the event. Oh, I love that. Isn't that amazing? Wish enough. No, it's so great because there were so many people who wanted to go, who couldn't go. The venue only seats 6,000 people and there was such incredible interest from all over the world and this enables people to see the show.
Starting point is 00:09:23 And then I was really, thanks to T-Mobile for real, like they came through because it's expensive to shoot it and with 10 cameras and a huge crew, but they are covering all the production costs, which means that every single cent of your ticket price goes to the charity. That's amazing. Shout out to T-Mobile.
Starting point is 00:09:42 Tell people what the charity is. The charity is the Midnight Mission, which is for those of you who don't live in LA, it's like the oldest mission in downtown LA, takes care of anyone with any needs who are living on the street, whether it be food, whether a bed, whether it's drug rehabilitation, mental illness.
Starting point is 00:10:01 They guarantee everyone food and a place to sleep and they will take care of you if you are in need, an unhoused in Los Angeles. And now more than ever, they're helping people with all these fires, people who have been devastated by the fires and need a meal or need a bed. It's just an incredible organization. They have like a hundred, a rating of a hundred on Charity Navigator, all those sites that rate charities. They're just incredible. And we have a real problem with people
Starting point is 00:10:36 not having housing in Los Angeles. So it just felt like the most appropriate charity to me. I love that. That's beautiful. What a great way to share it. And it'll be available now. Where can people get tickets, remind them? If everyone goes to veeps.com,
Starting point is 00:10:52 V-E-E-P-S.com, I don't have the, and just search for the Garden State Concert, I'm sure it'll be up there, but V-E-E-P-S.com. And the show's March 29th. It won't be up there because we're not streaming it live. That we didn't have the capacity to do, but it'll be up there as of April 6th,
Starting point is 00:11:12 which is my birthday, coincidentally. Happy motherfucking birthday. Wait, it's not yet. Not yet. Your birthday's coming soon now, bro. I know, and I don't even think I'm gonna be able to have a shin dig. My shin dig's gonna have to be belated or something. No, you're gonna have to shin dig something or another, bro, do you agree? No, brother, though, bro. I know, and I don't even think I'm gonna be able to have a shin dig. My shin dig's gonna have to be belated or something.
Starting point is 00:11:26 No, you're gonna have to shin dig something or another, bro, you only turned 50 once. I know, but I'm very blessed to have a bit of a traffic jam with work, and I'm so grateful for that, and I don't really see how I'm going to throw it right now. You know what the best thing ever is? Go ahead. Working on your birthday.
Starting point is 00:11:44 A lot of people poo poo on that shit. I think that's the best thing ever is? Go ahead. Working on your birthday. A lot of people poo poo on that shit. I think that's the best gig ever. You have to add the caveat that you love what you do. A lot of people don't get the luxury of loving what they do, so working on their birthday sucks, but you happen to be someone who loves your job. I love to work on my birthday.
Starting point is 00:11:59 It means, I like to work on my birthday and I like to work around the new year. You know what I mean? Cause it sets the year off right. And then it also sets your trip around the sun, your next trip around the sun. You're setting it off with a bang. I've been hanging out with your buddy, Harrison Ford.
Starting point is 00:12:16 I don't like you right now. Directing Shrinking. It's so good this season. My goodness. I don't like you right now for saying that to me. Jessica Williams, she just brought it the other day. That cast is so good. Yeah, it's so talented. They're winning awards finally. They're finally winning. Yeah, Michael Urie won the critics
Starting point is 00:12:34 choice award. I'm really happy for him. And just everyone is on this cast is so talented. And Jessica had a monologue the other day. Everyone was just like jaws on the floor like fucking hell these these people are so talented. I love work on the show. It's so fun. You got two episodes this season, right? I'm directing episodes three and four this season.
Starting point is 00:12:54 Has Harrison never come to the set with a fedora on? Do you mean like the Raiders one? Like Indiana Jones? Oh, no, he wears sort of a bit of a fedora-esque hat in some scenes when he's giving therapy on the bench. That's a bit of a running joke on the show. But no, he does never want an Indiana Jones style hat. What about a bullwhip?
Starting point is 00:13:14 Y'all ever put a bullwhip in his hand? No, I don't think there's been any scenes where the elderly psychologist has a bullwhip. Does he still have that scar on his chin? Why does he... He has a scar on his chin? I never noticed that he has a scar on his chin. Well, yeah, you know, that's a very iconic scar. Is it still there?
Starting point is 00:13:36 I don't know, Donald. I personally have not. Does he still point a lot when he's talking to people? Does he still do the point? The point? No, but... He doesn't do the point? No, but he's very funny and he's talking to people. Does he still do the point? The point? No. But- He doesn't do the point? No, but he's very funny and he's very nice and he loves working on the show. It's great because he just, he's not doing, it's not like he's there like,
Starting point is 00:13:56 like, ah, this is just a job. He like loves it. He loves being funny. He loves when he get laughs. He's just an awesome dude. All right, you know, I love him. Did you end up watching the Red Hulk movie or no? I've not seen the Red Hulk. That's exactly what I hear it is. I hear it's not a Captain America. It's a Hulk movie.
Starting point is 00:14:16 Yes, a hundred percent. Oh, really? Oh yeah. Okay. Yeah. All right. Well, I haven't seen that. That's what I'm learning, which is very interesting.
Starting point is 00:14:27 And also, you know, a lot of people poo-pooed on it when it came out. And then there are a lot of people that are saying, see it again, it's a lot better the second time, is what I've heard. But you haven't been yet once, and you love the Marvel-verse. It just sounds, you know, it just sounds like...
Starting point is 00:14:48 Here's the thing. I want Anthony Mackie to be a dope Captain America. And if I go to this movie and he's not a dope Captain America, I'm going to be pissed off. You know what I mean? And that's just what it is. I think it's a very awesome mantle to have, you know, or opportunity. However you want to look at it, it's a great role to have. And I just don't want them to do him dirty, man. Like, I personally feel like he should be just as dope as the Chris Evans version of Captain America. But, you know, the fact that they're saying that the movie isn't that good or people are hating on the movie makes me not want to go see it
Starting point is 00:15:31 because I like to believe that Anthony Mackie is a great Captain America. All right. There's Donald's thoughts on that. Just me. It has nothing to do that with him being black. 100 percent like maybe 75 percent is the reason why I'm saying that, but not 100%. I also like him as a person. Got it. I once hung out with Anthony Mackie
Starting point is 00:15:53 in Prince's Hotel Suite. See, this is what I'm talking about. Why'd you have to trump what I just said, man? Why'd you have to go ahead and trump what the fuck I just said, huh? No, my brain goes like, Anthony Mackie, when have I met him? And I was like, oh, I once had that random ass night
Starting point is 00:16:06 hanging out with him in a Prince's hotel suite. Was Prince there? Tavis Smiley was there. Yeah, Prince was there. It was me, Prince, Tavis Smiley. Captain America, Captain America. Oh, and also, what's his name? The professor with the crazy hair. Cornel West.
Starting point is 00:16:29 Cornel West. Prince invited us back to his hotel suite and there was a limousine there and they said, just go with these guys. And I got in and it was me, Tavis Smiley and Cornel West. That sounds like a great fucking car ride. No, it was great. We had a nice chat and then we went up to the hotel suite and Prince was kind of coming in and out
Starting point is 00:16:48 of the dining room area, but that's where he was like, I think eating or something. And I just sat in like the living room area with Cornell West, Tavis Smiley and Anthony Mackie. It's a good hangout. That sounds like a lot of fun. That's a random story I forgot about. That sounds like a lot of fun.
Starting point is 00:17:06 We have Judy Reyes here today, everybody, which is so exciting, because we haven't spoken to Judy in a long time. It's been almost a year or two. Longer probably, right? No, because we did the, no. I think it's been at least two years since she's been on the pod.
Starting point is 00:17:23 Yeah. Really. We haven't, because we didn't have her for the ninth season. And then we've pivoted to just talking to interesting people. So we haven't really had her yet. This is our first moment to grill her about what it was like to fake make out with you. No, we talked about that. Well, I'd like to talk about it again. I mean, we could totally,
Starting point is 00:17:47 we could talk about that all day. You see my puppy? Knocked out on the couch. I took her on a walk this morning, so she's toasted. I had the funniest, craziest coincidence. We were shooting Shrinking in Griffith Park, doing a hiking scene. And I got my dog into this, that's my Jersey accent,
Starting point is 00:18:08 you hear that, my dog? I got my dog into this, into this guy, this dog pack, you know, he walks dogs in a pack, which is great for them, and gets her exercise when I'm working. And of all places in all of Los Angeles, I'm shooting this scene with Harrison Ford and Jason and other cast members.
Starting point is 00:18:28 And I see this big dog pack and my brain goes, oh, what a cute dog pack. And then I look closer, I'm like, that's my dog pack. And I saw my dog of all places in the world. My dog accidentally visited me on set. I love that. Did she come running at you? Did she come running at you?
Starting point is 00:18:43 Yeah, she like lit up and he was like, hold on, hold on, let me just get this pack of dogs past this film crew. And then we had cuddles. That's awesome. It was just so funny. It was like, people were like, did you tell him to bring the dogs where you were working?
Starting point is 00:18:58 I was like, no, this is a hundred percent a coincidence. And Griffith Park is huge, by the way. Did you get the dogs in the show? That's such a good idea that I didn't even think of. I think that he was like, you know, he's on a mission. He's on a schedule. He couldn't be like stop and wait to be like. Plus it would have been distracting. It would have been distracting though if like, you know, the dialogue and all of a sudden you see a big ass pack of dogs going by.
Starting point is 00:19:22 No doubt. I hear Neil Flynn is on Shrinking. Yeah, you'd know that if you watched the show. Never watched an episode, except for yours. Really? Yeah. I don't think you've even, oh, you watched the one I showed you on an iPhone
Starting point is 00:19:34 in the parking lot? Yeah, I did. God, if I could ask Jesus for one of many things, God, you know, Yahweh. Really, you would ask that, not world peace or? No, I'm doing a bit, but I really wish that I could convince you to watch things. Like I get so excited and I go, oh, Donald would love this.
Starting point is 00:19:56 And I just have no chance of you getting to watch it. The only person I can get to watch anything in your household is Casey, because I watch something else. She watches a lot of your requests. She watched that damn documentary. I mean, it's not a damn documentary. It's a very sad documentary.
Starting point is 00:20:10 It's the saddest thing I've ever seen. Did she just watch it? Well, we watched, it's very disturbing, man. It's very upsetting. You talking about Gabby Petito? Yes, it is very upsetting. Did you watch it? Yeah, the first episode.
Starting point is 00:20:21 It's very, very, very upsetting. It's the saddest thing I've ever seen. It's so, it's the number one thing on Netflix. I don't know if it'll be when this airs, but audience, I warn you, it's very upsetting. But it's a story of Gabby Petito who was murdered by her boyfriend. And what's so insane about it
Starting point is 00:20:40 is because she was aspiring to be a YouTuber, there's so much footage of them because she was shooting their whole van life. And it's just absolutely upsetting from a domestic violence point of view. But I did think it was really useful to highlight for people who don't know and for maybe some police officers
Starting point is 00:21:02 will now have a new perspective on trying to spot domestic violence because I don't know that for maybe some police officers will now have a new perspective on trying to spot domestic violence because I don't know that the cops that encountered them handled it right. The thing to remember about abuse victims is like you're essentially, you're love bombed, you're emotionally manipulated, you're to some extent brainwashed by your partner and also often dependent upon them. Oftentimes they're gonna be more violent
Starting point is 00:21:31 if you try to press charges or escape. I think women are like six times more likely to be attacked after they file for a restraining order. There's not a lot of good answers and our system isn't set up to actually help these people. And it's difficult. I don't know that those cops, I don't know, again, I'm not an expert.
Starting point is 00:21:49 I don't know that the cops handled it wrong. I just know that if they had handled it right, she'd probably be alive. Yeah. Anyway, let's get happy. Let's get happy. Come on, let's get happy. But I do think that doc is worth your time, everybody.
Starting point is 00:22:02 It's really, really well done and informative about this horrible issue. And then the last thing I'll say is The Pit remains the best show ever. So fucking good. You need to watch it. It got renewed, didn't it? Yeah. It did, thank God.
Starting point is 00:22:17 They shoot it on the Warner Brothers lot. I'm fixing to get a tour of that set. Yeah, Zach, get it. You got to direct an episode. I don't know if I'll get an episode, but I got some ins to get a tour of that set. Yeah, Zach, get it. You got to direct an episode. I don't know if I'll get an episode, but I got some ins to get a tour of the huge set they built with that ER. See if they can get pictures of that leg up close.
Starting point is 00:22:32 By the way, Randall, what's that? I said I want pictures of the leg up close, the prosthetic one that exploded. Maybe showing me pictures of it, and Randall Winston, our friend, was on the set. I go, why does Randall get a tour? They were like, oh, he wanted to see it too. I was like, I need a tour. Oh, I love Randall., our friend, was on the set. I go, why does Randall get a tour? They were like, oh, he wanted to see it too.
Starting point is 00:22:45 I was like, I need a tour. Oh, I love Randall. It's huge, it's like the size of the whole soundstage. Wow. All right, is Judy here? Yes. Bring in Judy Reyes. Five, six, seven, eight.
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Starting point is 00:23:56 You see the back? Can you read it? Sheeshies. Sheeshies. It's a strip club called she she's. I do love, I do love the days of the strip club. I haven't been to one in a very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very long time.
Starting point is 00:24:15 That's too many verys to be true. That's too many verys to be true. That's an excess number of verys. I was doing it in years. Every very just represent the years that it's been since I've been to one. Have you played a character who visits a strip club? Because then you can get rid of one of those verys. No, not in a very long time.
Starting point is 00:24:35 And I've been to Vegas a few times recently too, but no, no, no. Judy, it's so good to see you. I've missed you so much. It's good to see you. It's good to see you. It's good to see you guys. Hello, Joelle. We're still doing this podcast if you can believe it. I can, I can believe it.
Starting point is 00:24:53 And I'm so thrilled that you've gone just beyond talking about the show and just being your fabulous selves and interviewing people. Yeah, now we just have people we like talking to on the show, that's all we do. How long has that been going on? Is that new? Joelle, Dom, about a year. Joelle's how long has that been going on? Is that new?
Starting point is 00:25:08 About a year You guys are like, you know, I see you all the time during sports events on your T-mobile commercials Yeah, I see you are your trailer for a movie you did with De Niro. I did a movie. Oh, I should plug that Thank you, Judy De Niro, right? I did a movie called, oh, I should plug that. Thank you, Judy. I did this movie called The Comeback Trail and everyone, it's on wherever you buy movies. It's on Apple and Amazon and any place else you buy movies.
Starting point is 00:25:32 It's De Niro, Morgan Freeman, Tommy Lee Jones and Zach Braff. So nobody really big or famous. It's really fun. Just a bunch of old guys. And Emil Hirsch, Emil Hirsch. And Emil Hirsch too. And there's lots of funny people in it. It's great. It's really fun. Just a bunch of old guys. And Emil Hirsch. And Emil Hirsch. And Emil Hirsch too. And there's lots of funny people in it. It's great.
Starting point is 00:25:47 It's very silly. It's written by the guy who wrote Midnight Run. So it's very funny. Oh, I love Midnight Run too. I do love me some Midnight Run. That was a really well-made movie. That's something that introduced my kid too. My kid, you know, he gets to be in the age where
Starting point is 00:26:01 he gets to be in the age where he gets to be in the age. How is your kid doing? You have such a very adorable child. My kid is 15. Okay Can you believe that my kid is 15? Wow Yeah, and they're on their way. They're gonna meet a friend at the Science Museum today But my kid is an artist as well guys. They're into musical theater to
Starting point is 00:26:24 Buddy here we go guys, they're into musical theater. To do. Buddy, here we go. Oh, here we go. Have you been audition? Have you been going to auditions and stuff? No, but they did do their first film. They did a small part of a film like a period 80s film. I can't even remember the name of it where they played.
Starting point is 00:26:39 They just played this this kid who is playing Space Invaders the whole time in a roller rink. So like the kids would come through. Are you vaping? No, no, it's a pen. I would never. Oh, okay. Hell no.
Starting point is 00:26:53 I do it in my thoughts. This is my thoughtful listening. I haven't vaped in a very, very, very, very, very, very, very long time. Did you give up ganja? No. Oh, I did. Cause Donald did.
Starting point is 00:27:04 I was like. I did, because Donald did. I was like- I did. I haven't smoked weed in like, since November. Longer than you haven't been in a while. No, no, no, no, no. I was just done with it. I was doing it every five minutes and I developed this little cough and everything like that. And I was like, I don't want to smoke weed anymore.
Starting point is 00:27:23 He was fully addicted. He wasn't enjoying weed anymore. He was fully addicted. He wasn't like enjoying weed anymore. It was bad, like, you know, it was a type of habit where I was always at the ATM machine. I was always at the freaking dispensary. I was always, you know, I was, I graduated, I wasn't smoking joints or blunts anymore. I graduated to the bong because I felt like
Starting point is 00:27:43 you could get higher with the bong. I was buying all types of wax and all types of freaking, you know, I was dabbing all of that shit trying to reach a level that, you know, that you couldn't reach that I couldn't reach. And I was like, so you could only reach with meditation. Well, I don't know about the meditation part, but I just and then what sucks is once I quit, that about the meditation part, but I just, and then what sucks is once I quit, that was the worst part. After I quit, then all of a sudden the anxiety kicked in and, you know, I went on this, this, there's something wrong with me run where I got every test I could possibly get, blood
Starting point is 00:28:22 tests, et cetera, et cetera, to find out if I was dying or not because it had to be something. Wow, you were dying even. Yeah, dude. Well, I mean, he had such withdrawal symptoms that then he then start, you know, because he had been smoking so much. And so he definitely went through withdrawal. And because he's a bit of a hychic chondriac, he assumed those withdrawal symptoms meant
Starting point is 00:28:42 he was dying. And so every blood test, I got a colonoscopy, I got an endoscopy, I got all of these things. All the scopies. Yeah, all the scopies. You gotta get all the scopies after 50 anyway. Well, that's true, but I went extra hard. So how's your rectum, all good?
Starting point is 00:29:00 My rectum's good, my chest and all of that stuff is good. I'm cleaned out. Joelle's is good. I'm cleaned out. Joelle's covering her. You're cleaned out. I'm all cleaned out. No, no, no, you don't do the smoking. Do you do drinking? Do you drink?
Starting point is 00:29:13 That's the one thing that has fallen back into play, and that's more dangerous than smoking. I thought you said you were just drinking once in a while, like on an occasion. Yeah, well, once in a while on occasion's an occasion. Yeah, well once in a while on occasions turned into quite a bit right now. That's stupid, come on. Yeah, it is, it is a little stupid. But I made a pact with myself, I said, you know what?
Starting point is 00:29:34 February, today's the 22nd of 2026, is the next time I'll... You'll have a smoke weed again? No, I'll drink. I'll have a drink. Wait, you're gonna go for a year? You just committed to a year? Yeah, because I'm not. Just now?
Starting point is 00:29:52 No, not just now, I did that. I did it earlier after waking up, hungover. And I was like, yeah, you know what? This is stupid. What am I doing? I mean, just, I want to. I threw away one vice to pick up another. I wanna support you, but you can bite off a smaller chunk.
Starting point is 00:30:06 You could say I'm going to do six months. OK, how about we'll let's do one month to. How often do you drink down? Is it an everyday thing? No, it's not every day, but it's enough to where it's like, you know, it got to a point where it was like, wait a second, you had a drink three days ago, man. You don't need to fucking. But also that hangover at 50 doesn't fuck around.
Starting point is 00:30:28 It sucks ass, man. Like my face is all swollen, my hands are swollen, all of that stuff. I was like, I'm... And then also, you know, I'm a hypochondriac, so immediately I'm like, diabetes. I'm dying. I'm dying. I'm definitely dying. I'm dying. See, you gotta drink vodka because there's no sugar in vodka. I don't want to drink it all. We're trying to be healthy around here.
Starting point is 00:30:50 I think so too. We're trying to live as long as we can. That's our new goal. I just had a, I got a hip replacement seven weeks ago. How do you feel? I feel good today. You know, I have a little bit, I had one four years ago. I had my right hip replaced and now,
Starting point is 00:31:08 because I have RCO arthritis, so I had to get this one done. And I don't know if it's because I don't remember how much that shit hurt, but my recovery is taking longer. But- What do you do? What's the recovery? You have to do PT and stuff? You have to do PT.
Starting point is 00:31:24 I just started PT this week., they move your leg around, you have to massage the wound, then you gotta get stronger. Um, and at this age, you literally see like one leg is like hanging when the other one is stronger because the muscles aren't working. But all that to say that I started doing, um, edibles and sleep CBD because the the oxy was scaring the shit out of me. Oh. So I was I was doing the edibles. Oh yeah. They gave you oxy for your hip replacement? They do. It's so bad. It's like the first two three weeks, like really small milligrams and I got out of the hospital the day after the fires.
Starting point is 00:32:05 And then when I try to go to the pharmacy, there's like a shortage of Oxy in all the pharmacies in town and shit. I'm so scared of that shit. I don't even want to take it once. It's very scary. I don't even want to take it once. They're trying to get you.
Starting point is 00:32:19 No, they're very, they're way more, they prescribe it way less these days, but I'm afraid that I would just fucking love it and be like, oh no. There's no way not to love it. There's no way not to love it. And that is the problem. You know, like you wanna, you just,
Starting point is 00:32:34 the world is a better place the minute you take one of the fucking pills. But it helps to cope with the pain. Yeah, it's very, very scary. Yeah, so how did you, you had to moderate yourself to not just keep taking it. I had to moderate myself. I refilled it. Uh, one time, um, I was doing okay with the pain and that's when I started to get,
Starting point is 00:32:53 get the CBD edibles. Cause I didn't want, I couldn't go to sleep unless I took an Oxy. So because the pain and the discomfort is really bad. Once that goes for me, I had to put myself in like a position. But of course I'm menopausal and I pee every five minutes. So the second I go to the bathroom in the middle of the night, then it's a whole procedure to get back in bed
Starting point is 00:33:15 in a position where it doesn't hurt. One of the menopausal things is that you pee a lot. Well, your bladder is not as strong. So you just pee a lot more. Do you all see the video of this African-American woman having a hot flash outside where the smoke is coming off her head? When the steam is coming off her head, yes.
Starting point is 00:33:36 That was amazing. They said that when she was having a menopausal hot flash. Yes. It's bad between night sweats and hot flashes on set. I literally have like we're doing a take and I'm like, hold on a second. Yeah. And here I make a runs over with fans just to cool me off.
Starting point is 00:33:54 How long does the hot flash last? It feels at least 60 seconds. Because it feels like, you know, when you watch water boil, it boils, it's boiling and then you turn it off and it goes back down. That's exactly what it's like. I remember Aloma saying while we were shooting, she was like something about,
Starting point is 00:34:11 I'm going through the changes or something. The change, back when you couldn't call it by its name, right? You couldn't say menopause. You couldn't say menopause. Was they say, I'm going through the change or the change? The change. Yeah, I'm going through the change, I feel like I remember doing I remember
Starting point is 00:34:28 Whoopi Goldberg going through the change. Oh my gosh when we were doing this movie and she was like you don't understand You have no idea. You just don't get it like the heat that comes over you is like You take your jacket off in the dead of winter Fuck it. It's zero degrees outside. I used to sleep with sweatpants. Now I'm like a tank top and my underwear or shorts because eventually I'm like freezing and then in the middle of the night it's like and I'm dripping and then you dry and then
Starting point is 00:35:03 you're freezing again. And then it's like then you're freezing again. And then it's like. Donald, what are you sleeping? What are you sleeping? I sleep in a sweat suit. Do you keep in your panties? No, but when you said you sleep in your tank top and panties, a visual just came over me
Starting point is 00:35:16 and I was like, well. Just Judy saying the word panties distracted you from whatever you're doing. Tank top, panties. How does it feel? Is it sexy when I say the change? No, but. I mean, not really. You were talking about the change. You were talking about the change.
Starting point is 00:35:30 So I'm surprised that when you said panties, I had a shift because I was not prepared. I was not thinking about the change anymore. You're not ready. You're not ready. Men go through, like, men don't have a manopause. Yes, you do. When you, look, man, do you know how many times I go to the bathroom and pee at night now? I know, but that's been going on for a while.
Starting point is 00:35:53 No, but it's also because of age and stuff like that. I don't get the hot flashes. Yeah, age just changes. No, you don't go through that. We have like a libido. Man, there's no way that you guys can claim to go through anything that's close. Most men other than Donald have a decrease in libido.
Starting point is 00:36:12 I mean, it's not as much as it used to be. I mean. Donald is an outlier. I still have a very high libido. If you looked at a graph, it'd be like most men along the line, and then Donald would be way outside the graph. I still do have a very high libido. Oh.
Starting point is 00:36:32 He never went through that change. No, which is unfortunate for- For Casey. For my wife. How is Casey? She's great. How does she deal with your unchanged libido? We've come to an agreement that, you know, I'm very respectful of her, period.
Starting point is 00:36:55 And so I am not, we had a couple of therapists on our podcast and we used ourselves as guinea pigs and they- Wow, that's's that's ballsy yeah they're very they're very open yeah and so I I am very aware of her feelings and it's also so much better when she really wants to then when I want to and so you know I find myself masturbating a lot, but I do wait for when she's ready to go. I'm very excited about it.
Starting point is 00:37:33 That's good. And granted, it's not as much as I'd like, but I don't give a shit. I love my wife, and if it makes her happy, then so be it. Are there any rules about when you can masturbate No, I can masturbate whenever I mean, I don't want to do it when the kids are up. No my friend told me that My friend told me a friend of mine told me do you masturbate next to her a bit? No, that's fucked up. I won't do that
Starting point is 00:37:58 My friend told me that his wife and he have a rule that he can't masturbate when she's home No I'll be out sometimes I'll be like, babe and he have a rule that he can't masturbate when she's home. Nah. Sometimes I'll be like, babe, do you wanna have sex? And she'll say no. And I'll be like, well, I'm gonna go practice real quick. I'll see. I'll see. I'll see.
Starting point is 00:38:17 I'll see. I'll see. And she's like, I'll be here. My husband's a really early riser. I'm talking, cause he does a lot of work in Europe. So he's up like 3.34 in the morning. So our sex life with our age has gone from almost every day to just like once a weekend.
Starting point is 00:38:36 But it's always at 3.34 in the fucking morning. Really? That's tough. That's tough. That's tough. But we've gotten into that routine now. So he wakes me up and I'm like, just give me another half an hour. Or sometimes I just turn over. I think to wake me up, I turn over.
Starting point is 00:38:53 Give it to him. That's so funny. I hear that. I hear that. Well, sometimes when I'm spooning my body pillow, I your body pillow, I just give it to it whenever I want it. All right. And it doesn't complain? No, it loves it.
Starting point is 00:39:12 It seems to love it no matter whenever I'm ready. That's a line from Scrubs, isn't it? Like as I lie there with my body pillow, Katya. That's the other thing you guys, like you remember everything from that show. Well, we just rewatched it. That's the other menopausal brain that I don't remember. I remember when I watch it,
Starting point is 00:39:34 but like the stuff that we did and all the stuff, how we hung out, I'm like, it's slipping my mind. I know, well, we just, we have the benefit of just having rewatched it, so we remember a ton of it. You know, I wouldn't- Well, even after rewatching it. I don't remember a lot of it. Like we could rewatch it again. I'm like, I don't remember this episode. Let's take a break. We'll be right back after these fine words.
Starting point is 00:39:56 I'm Mark Seal and I'm Nathan King. This is Leave the Gun, Take the Cannoli. The five families did not want us to shoot that picture. to Leave the Gun, Take the Canoli. The five families did not want us to shoot that picture. Leave the Gun, Take the Canoli is based on my co-host Mark's best-selling book of the same title. And on this show, we call upon his years of research to help unpack the story behind the godfather's birth from start to finish.
Starting point is 00:40:16 This is really the first interview I've done in bed. We sift through innumerable accounts. I shoot 35 pages, very much. Many of them conflicting, — That's nonsense. There were 60 pages. — and try to get to the truth of what really happened. — And they said, we're finished. This is over. They know this is not going to work.
Starting point is 00:40:33 You gotta get rid of those guys. This is a disaster. — Leave the Gun, Take the Cannoli features new and archival interviews with Francis Ford Coppola, Robert Evans, James Kahn, Tawiyah Shire, and many others. Yes, that was a real horse's head. Listen and subscribe to Leave the Gun, Take the Cannoli on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. loss in the music. I like to isolate each instrument. The rhythmic bass, the harmonies on the piano, the sticky melody. Hey, careful babe. There's someone crossing the street. Sorry, I didn't see him there.
Starting point is 00:41:17 If you feel different, you drive different. Don't drive high. It's dangerous and illegal everywhere. A message from NHTSA and the Ad Council. Do you remember what you said the first night I came over here? How goes lower? From Blumhouse TV, iHeart Podcasts, and Ember 20 comes an all new fictional comedy podcast series. Join the flighty Damien Hirst as he unravels the mystery of his vanished boyfriend. And Santi was gone. I've been spending all my time looking for answers
Starting point is 00:41:46 about what happened to Santi. And what's the way to find a missing person? Sleep with everyone he knew, obviously. Hmm, pillow talk. The most unwelcome window into the human psyche. Follow our out of his element hero as he engages in a series of ill-conceived, investigative hookups.
Starting point is 00:42:03 Mama always used to say, God gave me gumption in place of a gag reflex. And as I was about to learn, no amount of showering can wash your hands of a bad hookup. Now, take a big whiff, my brah. Listen to The Hookup on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.
Starting point is 00:42:27 Hey y'all, it's your girl, Cheeky's, and I'm back with a brand new season of your favorite podcast, Cheeky's and Chill. I'll be sharing even more personal stories with you guys. And I know a lot of people are going to attack me. Why are you going to go visit your dad? Your mom wouldn't be okay with it. I'm going to tell you guys right now, I know mother. And I know my mom had a very forgiving heart. That is my story on plastic surgery.
Starting point is 00:42:51 This is my truth. I think the last time I cried like that was when I lost my mom. Like that, like yelling. I was like, no. I was like, oh, and I thought, what did I do wrong? And as always, you'll get my exclusive take on topics like love, personal growth,
Starting point is 00:43:08 health, family ties, and more. And don't forget, I'll also be dishing out my best advice to you on episodes of Dear Cheekies. So my fiance and I have been together for 10 years. In the first two years of being together, I find out he is cheating on me, not only with women, but also with men. What should I do? Okay, where do I start? That's not love. He doesn't love you enough because if
Starting point is 00:43:31 he loved you he'd be faithful. It's going to be an exciting year and I hope that you can join me. Listen to Chiquis and Chill Season 4 as part of the My Cultura podcast network available on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Judy, we got to talk about your show because I just watched the trailer. I haven't seen the show yet, but it looked fucking amazing. It's really good. It's really fun. It's on ABC, right?
Starting point is 00:44:03 It's like the number one show on ABC. It's the, let me blow you up real quick. The number one show on ABC is a crime, I think it's a dramedy, right? It's a dramedy, yeah. Yeah, it's called High Potential. And with Caitlin Olson, who's just really, really funny, tell everyone who doesn't know about it yet about you.
Starting point is 00:44:24 Are you the chief? I play Lieutenant Soto. I'm the person in charge of all our police officers and I hired Caitlin's character Morgan because she's what they call a high potential intellectual. She's just ultra, ultra smart and her brain moves at a speed, at a rate that most people don't, and that's an actual thing. Yeah. She's like IQ of 160, right? Yes.
Starting point is 00:44:49 And it's based on a French series that has been a huge hit for seven years. And they've just adapted it and made it our own. And the response to it has been amazing. Our biggest fans, I find find are either 15 or like 50. You know, so it's like little kids and older women, my sister who's 62 fucking loves it. She never cared about anything. I was watching the trailer and it's so cool.
Starting point is 00:45:16 I love how much style it has. Like it really has a lot of style to it. It wasn't just like a procedural kind of thing. It was like when she starts going into how she thinks the crime happened, because she's like this genius. You see all the different ways, they flashed all the different ways that it could have gone down. And it was really well directed, really lots of cool style to the way it shot.
Starting point is 00:45:38 She's like a computer, right? She is. And then when you see what's going on in her head, when she's trying to put the crime together, they call it Morgan vision. So it's like a series of points of view that, that gives like them a really good chance to like mess with filmmaking and editing and stuff. It reminded me of Scrubs solely in that the camera got to be
Starting point is 00:45:59 a character in the show, which is my favorite kind of thing. You know, I'm directing Shrinking right now, which is so fun, but it's way more subdued camera than that. And so we have to pick my moments for any bit of flair. But in Scrubs and in High Potential, the camera is just as much a character. So there's all these really cool camera moves and stylistic choices.
Starting point is 00:46:20 The directors must have so much fun executing. They do, they have a lot of fun. They're really, really strong, experienced people, really bold. Caitlin is an awesome leader, really, really funny. Yeah, she's hysterical. Yeah. And a terrific actor as well, you know,
Starting point is 00:46:37 besides being funny, what a talented actor. And she's got a great opportunity to exploit both things. Where do you, which lot do you shoot it on? Fox. On Fox, okay. Fox, it's the first time I've actually worked in LA on a show, besides like a guest star, since Scrubs.
Starting point is 00:46:54 Really? Because everything's out of town these days. Everything's been Atlanta. Where was, that was Atlanta, huh? No, Claus was New Orleans. D.D.'s Maids was Atlanta, and I don't remember, it was in Vancouver, but that was a pilot that I was talking about. I was going to ask you what it's like to be on network television
Starting point is 00:47:09 again, but you never really got off of network television. You've been on network television. You're asking the wrong person. Judy's always on network television. Yeah. I mean, what was it like? DDS Maids was Lifetime, right? But the pilot was on ABC and then they sold it to Lifetime and the cause was TNT. Well, those are both network televisions though. That's a, you know. Well, cable. Yeah, but okay.
Starting point is 00:47:32 But now you're back on, now you're back, you're doing 22 an episode? How many episodes is it? This one was 13. Okay. Yeah, 13. And we got picked up so we'll probably be back for 13 again. Oh, you're just going to do 13. You're not going to jump to the 22 episode.
Starting point is 00:47:46 Does anyone do 22? Nobody. I think the most they do is 16. They don't do 22. No, Abbott does more than that. Abbott does way more than that, I'm sure. Really? Well, Abbott, I don't know. Joelle can look it up for me. I feel like because of all the different things that have happened in our society, strikes and COVID, they may have had abbreviated seasons, but I think they might have like one up.
Starting point is 00:48:06 And I thought that like Lopez Lopez or, or what's the other one? Well, sitcoms are probably doing 20, I'll bet. Two sitcoms on broadcast TV. Yeah. Right? Season two of Abbott had 22 episodes. There you go, look at that. Like us, right?
Starting point is 00:48:25 What did we do? We did 22, 24? The most we ever did was like 24. Uh-huh. Yeah. I mean, I'm not gonna lie. I would love to do that. I just feel like if we ever did a 20,
Starting point is 00:48:38 if I ever did a 22 episode season, I don't think I'd ever see my kids. I don't think I'd ever see my wife. It's different now, isn't it? Yeah, it's a lot different. You know, I want that money. Everybody wants that money, but don't nobody want that time. That time is like, ee, when do you see anybody? It also depends on what?
Starting point is 00:48:56 Is it a half hour? If it's a big cast, you won't necessarily work every single day, and if you're home. Because that's what I was like Manifesting in my meditation and shit. You like just want to work at home And I like please let me be at home because when the kid was turned For that's it. I had to leave I was leaving all the time and as wonderful as it is to work that shit is
Starting point is 00:49:22 It has an impact on your kids that, they're like this with my husband and I'm all jealous and shit. Yeah, and Donald, you know, Donald's very close with his kids. I mean, you're not gonna go do a long series in Atlanta. I said that to my agent. I was like, unless it's Star Wars or Marvel,
Starting point is 00:49:42 you know, I don't give, it has to be in LA. How old are your kids now, Donald? 11 and nine. or Marvel. You know, I don't give it has to be now. Eleven and nine. I'm in a nine. They still be. Yeah. Fifteen. They get mean.
Starting point is 00:49:54 Oh, no. My kids are mean already. My kids are mean. You have to ask permission to come hang out with his kids are precocious. They're mean already. They already mean why don They're already mean. Why don't you give them like, obviously they love their phones and shit.
Starting point is 00:50:10 Why don't you take the phones away? That's what I was going to say. That's what I do. That's my only weapon. I say, keep it up. I'm taking your phone. One more word. I take your phone.
Starting point is 00:50:18 And it's just- Tyrone, you don't do that? Oh no, of course. Absolutely. But that only, you take it and then they start annoying the fuck out of you and you're like, here, please take your phone. Just take your phone and shut the fuck up. Take your phone and shut the fuck up.
Starting point is 00:50:30 I got this lockbox thing that I, from when I'm writing. And you put your phone in here, right? And you put it in here and you put this on top and then you dial in the amount of time. I usually do 30 minutes so I can't look at my phone and I'm not gonna do anything for 30 minutes. You could do this with your kids' phones when they piss you off.
Starting point is 00:50:52 You'd be like, you know what? You just earn 24 hours in the lock box and you put the phone in there for 24 hours. Now we do days. You do days? Yeah. I do, I mean, it's such a problem with the phone, right? Especially when they're a teenager, it's kind of like an impossible thing to gauge.
Starting point is 00:51:10 You know, so I do have like two hours, no screens, but I don't have anything to do. I don't care what you do with your time. No screens for two hours. I take them, they get home two hours, no phone. You can have it later to talk to your friends, that kind of stuff, because it affects academically. It makes them depressed. They can't keep, it really, really is. It makes me depressed.
Starting point is 00:51:32 I can't imagine what it does to a teenager. And you can't escape everything that's happening in the world. You know what I mean? You're looking for anything, escape and resources. My kid is trans, so they're kind of terrified. So it's just all of us weaning ourselves away from all of the stuff that's really scary
Starting point is 00:51:49 so that you kind of like connect. Let's take a break. We'll be right back after these fine words. I'm Mark Seale. And I'm Nathan King. This is Leave the Gun, Take the Cannoli. The five families did not want us to shoot that picture. Leave the Gun, Take the Canoli. The five families did not want us to shoot that picture. Leave the Gun, Take the Canoli is based on my co-host Mark's best-selling book of the same title.
Starting point is 00:52:11 And on this show, we call upon his years of research to help unpack the story behind the godfather's birth from start to finish. This is really the first interview I've done in bed. Ha ha ha ha! We sift through innumerable accounts. I see 35 pages in the re-enactment. Many of them conflicting, and try to get to the truth of what really happened. And they said, we're finished, this is over. The gun is not going to work.
Starting point is 00:52:35 You gotta get rid of those guys. Leave the Gun, Take the Cannoli features new and archival interviews with Francis Ford Kobla, Robert Evans, James Kahn, Talia Shire and many others. Yes that was a real horse's head. Listen and subscribe to Leave the Gun Take the Canole on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. When I smoke weed I get lost in the music. I like to isolate each instrument. The rhythmic bass, the harmonies on the piano, the sticky melody.
Starting point is 00:53:10 Hey. Hey. Hey. Hey. Careful, babe. There's someone crossing the street. Sorry, I didn't see him there. If you feel different, you drive different. Don't drive high. It's dangerous and illegal everywhere. A message from NHTSA and the Ad Council. Do you remember what you said the first night I came over here?
Starting point is 00:53:31 How goes lower? From Blumhouse TV, iHeart Podcasts, and Ember 20 comes an all new fictional comedy podcast series. Join the flighty Damien Hirst as he unravels the mystery of his vanished boyfriend. And Santi was gone. I've been spending all my time looking for answers about what happened to Santi. And what's the way to find a missing person?
Starting point is 00:53:52 Sleep with everyone he knew, obviously. Pillow talk. The most unwelcome window into the human psyche. Follow our out of his element hero as he engages in a series of ill-conceived investigative hookups. Mama always used to say, God gave me gumption in place of a gag reflex. And as I was about to learn, no amount of showering can wash your hands of a bad hookup.
Starting point is 00:54:14 Now, take a big whiff, my brah. ["I Heart Radio"] Listen to The Hookup on the iHeart Radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. Welcome to Pod of Rebellion, our new Star Wars Rebels Rewatch podcast. I'm Vanessa Marshall. Hi, I'm Tia Sircar.
Starting point is 00:54:35 I'm Taylor Gray. And I'm John Lee Brody. But you may also know us as Harrison Dula, Spectre 2. Tabin Wren, Spectre 5. And Ezra Bridger, Spectre 6 from Star Wars Rebels. Wait, I wasn't on Star Wars Rebels. Am I in the right place? Absolutely.
Starting point is 00:54:50 Each week, we're going to re-watch and discuss an episode from the series. And share some fun behind the scenes stories. Sometimes we'll be visited by special guests like Steve Blum, voice of Zabarelio, Spectre 4, or Dante Bosco, voice of Jai Kell, and many others. Sometimes we'll even have a live way debate. And we'll have plenty of other fun surprises and trivia too.
Starting point is 00:55:08 Oh, and me? Well, I'm the lucky ghost, Kruse Stowaway, who gets to help moderate and guide the discussion each week. Kind of like how Kanan guided Ezra in the ways of the Force. You see what I did there? Nicely done, Jon. Thanks, Tia. So, hang on, because it's going to be a fun ride. Cue the music.
Starting point is 00:55:25 Listen to Potter Rebellion on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. How has that been for you, Judy, having a trans child? You seem to be such a great mom and was it an adjustment for you? How did you? You know what's so funny? In the fifth grade, my kid came out as gay. They said, mama, what would you do if I told you that I liked girls? And I was like, what? That's amazing. No, of course you have my support.
Starting point is 00:56:08 Me and George were like losing our minds and then COVID hit and then they'd go to middle school. I think it was the end of the sixth grade, the seventh grade. I said, I remember, I might cry. I come home, we're on our way. We picked them up from school. We're on our way home, I think it was.
Starting point is 00:56:24 And they said, they're really quiet. I said, what's wrong, Ray? I said, what if I told you that I'm really a boy? And it wasn't like when they were told me they were gay. I was like, well, I mean, you're so young. You don't understand. I mean, let's wait and see. Of course you can be whatever you want. And I still feel their heartbreak at me not react or respond.
Starting point is 00:56:55 And I, and I was overwhelmed by how challenging it was for me, like for that first six months a year. And then they were, then they're like, they want to change their name. They didn't want to use their dead name. And I remember, because my husband has a mouth, he's like Jersey mouth, like, fuck this, fuck that, fuck you, fuck everybody. And he's very, very supportive also. But then one day they said, I want to, I don't want to use my name anymore. I said, we want to, we want us to call you? And they called, I want you to call me Nico. And George is like, fuck that. I'm not going to call you fucking Nico. Fuck that shit. No. And they started screaming at each other because they're close like that.
Starting point is 00:57:37 And I was like, hold on, hold on, hold on. And that's when I said, why don't we use your middle name? I named them Ray. It was Layla Ray. We don't say Layla anymore. R-E-Y, which means king. I said, why don't we call you Ray until we decide what name you're going to be called. Okay. And it spelled like the first half of our last name and it means king. So that way it's still male. They were both really quiet. I said, I'll try. And then we picked them up the next day at school. Bye Ray, Ray, bye Ray. Yeah Ray, I'm gonna see you tomorrow Ray. So they just, and they've been Ray ever since.
Starting point is 00:58:13 Wow. That's such a pretty story. I love that it's a part of your maiden name or your name you go by. It was also to honor my dad, you know, at least, because he was very ill and dying and stuff. And the schools now, I believe that, you know, we're in Los Angeles, very progressive area. It's all, they feel okay in school, I imagine. They feel okay, they feel okay, but the reality of the world is we're always in front of them.
Starting point is 00:58:40 So they always wonder and they're always asking, you know, and when we travel, am I gonna be able to use the bathroom? Is somebody going to come and attack me? Things like that, because they don't have the non-binary bathrooms anymore as a result of this law, or they won't, you know, because they have to follow the law. I'm not sure how it's going to apply, but we travel enough to really consider those things. And the permission that people are feeling now to just verbally assault others because they're not what you want them to be is my point of concern. It's very interesting how people are starting to behave now. It's like, wait a second, you were always like this. That's what it is. You just freaking hit it for so long.
Starting point is 00:59:25 And now people have just no problem being offensive. They don't give a fuck who they're offending. You know what I mean? The sig-hiles are flying left and right. Left and right right now. And you know, my wife had an experience with somebody who used the R word, right? And my wife was like, please, special needs.
Starting point is 00:59:47 And they were like, no, Trump said it's okay now. Yeah, that's what it is. Everybody's being given permission. There's this permissive nature where people can go ahead and between doing the sickhiles and carrying their flags and calling people derogatory names for whatever their gender identity is or their race or you know what I mean? It's just... Sagan Hiles is crazy. I can't help every time I see this, I'm like, I'm so glad my father isn't alive to see this. That's the first thought that comes to my mind.
Starting point is 01:00:24 I can't imagine. I mean, we're real close to it, guys. I'm sorry, but it's starting to feel like there's going to be an explosion of some sort. You know what I mean? And I don't know. It just feels like we're getting close to the last of it. You know what I mean? I'm serious, bro. Like the last of it, you know what I mean? I'm serious, bro. Like the last of us? Yeah. It's gonna, something like that's gonna have to happen, right, and people are gonna blow up.
Starting point is 01:00:50 And what I also see is a lot of people coming together. Yeah. You know, which I think is key, right? Because we all know that that's, it's the divide and conquer, and then they can take over. When it does happen, Donald, that there is going to be an explosion, that's when you're gonna have like your civil rights
Starting point is 01:01:10 type of movement against what's happening right now. Well, let's pivot to a more positive conversation before we end. Judy, there's all these rumors of a Scrubs reboot. Nothing's confirmed, but you're on a hit show. So I hope that at least you will, if we do one, that you'll come be a part of it in some capacity. Excuse me, I will be there.
Starting point is 01:01:33 If you have me, I will be there. Well, it's not up to me. It's up to our Lord and Savior, Bill Lawrence, but- Our Lord and Savior has made it clear that I will be a part of it and some capacity. You have a high class problem that you're on a hit show. Poor me. Poor me.
Starting point is 01:01:51 I'm very happy for you. And I gotta tell you, the trailer sold me. I'm going to be totally checking out your show because I thought it was really, really awesome. Check it out. Maybe you could put some rough-up episode or something. I love the fact that you got two seasons out of it out. Maybe you could put the fact that you got something that would be dope, too. I love the fact that you got two seasons out of it, too. You got to go to three, maybe four.
Starting point is 01:02:09 Like, have you ever devious maids when how many seasons or Claus when how many seasons? Four. Yeah, I am, Junie. Yeah. Junie probably has a screen porch. Maybe she doesn't. She doesn't just have a regular porch. She's got screens on that shit. Keeps the mosquitoes out. Judy, we love you. Thank you for coming by. Love you guys.
Starting point is 01:02:29 Thanks for having me. I'll see you soon. I'll see you next season sometime. Yeah, you will. Yeah, you will. Yeah, you will. I'll see you next season sometime. Yeah, you will.
Starting point is 01:02:37 I'll see you next season sometime. Yeah, you will. I'll see you next season sometime. I'll see you next season sometime. I'll see you next season sometime. I'll see you next season sometime. I'll see you next season sometime. I'll see you next season sometime. I'll see you next season sometime. I'll see you next season sometime. I'll see you next season sometime love you. Thank you for coming by. Love you guys.
Starting point is 01:02:45 Thanks for having me. I'll see you soon. I'll see you next season sometime. Yeah, you will. Yeah, you will. Yeah, you will. Love yous. Love you too.
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Starting point is 01:03:09 to help unpack the story behind the godfather's birth from start to finish. This is really the first interview I've done in bed. We sift through innumerable accounts. I see 35 pages in real life. Many of them conflicting. That's nonsense. There were 60 pages. And try to get to the truth of what really happened. And they said of them conflicting. —That's nonsense. There were 60 pages.
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Starting point is 01:07:06 Like this? Sometimes. Would you do this? We would suck on each other's lips and everything. Oh, you got lip sucking. Oh yeah. Like when we kiss, it sounded like a smack. No, I don't like that noise, no.
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