Financial Feminist - 212. Finance For College Students (Scholarships, Investing, Saving, AND Life Advice!) with Cherie Animashaun

Episode Date: February 3, 2025

College students or parents, friends of college students, if you're trying to graduate debt-free, or if you're trying to become financially literate, this is the episode for you! In this episode, I’...m talking to teen activist and nonprofit founder, Cherie Animashaun, about all things scholarships, saving, investing, and carving out a life you love—especially when the world expects you to have it all figured out by graduation. I believe money is our best form of protest, and Cherie’s determined to help young women rise into leadership by making financial literacy and personal development more accessible. We’re talking top scholarship tips, how to juggle side hustles, balancing your own needs with service to others, and so much more. If your goal is to graduate debt-free, build wealth, and still leave room for your passions, you’ve found the right episode! Cherie’s Links: Website: https://her-rising.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/her.risingg/ Her Rising Compass Journal: https://shopherrising.com/ Read transcripts, learn more about our guests and sponsors, and get more resources at https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/212-finance-for-college-students-scholarships-investing-saving-and-life-advice-with-cherie-animashaun/ Not sure where to start on your financial journey? Take our FREE money personality quiz! https://herfirst100k.com/quiz Looking for accountability, live coaching, and deeper financial education? Check out our exclusive community, The $100k Club: http://herfirst100k.com/100K-pod Special thanks to our sponsors: Squarespace Go to www.squarespace.com/FFPOD to save 10% off your first website or domain purchase. Rocket Money Stop wasting money on things you don’t use. Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to RocketMoney.com/FFPOD. Quince Get cozy in Quince's high-quality wardrobe essentials. Go to Quince.com/FFPOD for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Netsuite Download the CFO’s Guide to AI and Machine Learning at NetSuite.com/FFPOD. Gusto Run your first payroll with Gusto and get three months free at gusto.com/ffpod. Public Fund your account in five minutes or less at public.com/ffpod and get up to $10,000 when you transfer your old portfolio. (see disclosures: https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/212-finance-for-college-students-scholarships-investing-saving-and-life-advice-with-cherie-animashaun/) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:00 College students or parents, friends of college students. If you're trying to graduate debt free, if you're trying to become financially literate, this is the episode for you. Let's talk about it. Hi team. Welcome back to the show. I am so excited to be here with you. Thank you for being here with us. My name is Tori.
Starting point is 00:00:33 I run Her First 100K, which is a money and career platform for women. And I believe I was put on this earth to fight for women's financial rights. We help women all over the world save money, pay off debt, start investing, start businesses and feel financially confident because we know that money and a financial education is our best form of protest. Today's episode is really, really fun and we're excited to dive in. But before we do so, if you need personalized guidance around managing your money, you can go to herfirsthundredk.com slash quiz to get a free personalized money plan
Starting point is 00:01:02 for wherever you're at in your financial life. Again, that's herfirsth 100k.com slash quiz. Okay. Today's episode is perfect to send to anyone who is in high school or early college. We get a lot of requests of, can we do an episode about how to manage your money and how to navigate the cost of college and life after college? Well, here you go, babes. Here we go. Sheree Animashan is a teen activist, author, and CEO. Published author at the age of 12, Sheree is now using her love of writing in order to empower women and youth alike.
Starting point is 00:01:32 Through her nonprofit, Her Rising Initiative, Sheree is connecting hundreds of girls to resources, programming, funding, and mentors to help them ascend into leadership. She is also currently a sophomore at Cornell University, ever heard of it, studying public policy and government, and she aspires to continue her advocacy journey through a future career in public service.
Starting point is 00:01:52 We talk about personal finance for college students, both what Sheree is learning as she's navigating herself, but she also brought some questions for me to answer, which was a fun little between two ferns reversal moment. We also got into scholarships, including the resource that helped her get tens of thousands of dollars toward her tuition and how to stand out on applications for scholarships.
Starting point is 00:02:10 We talk about her nonprofit, Her Rising, and how you can get more involved in supporting organizations that work with young women. So without further ado, let's get into it. But first, a word from our sponsors. This episode of Financial Feminist is sponsored in part by Squarespace, But first, a word from our sponsors. This episode of Financial Feminist is sponsored in part by Squarespace, Quince, Gusto, Rocket Money, Public and NetSuite.
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Starting point is 00:03:57 Yeah, Cornell. Ever heard of it? I can't not say it. I'm sorry. I can't not say it. You know, you've seen The Office. Yeah, it's a classic. Is that what everybody, you say, oh, you're from Cornell,
Starting point is 00:04:08 and it says everybody say that? Like you went, yeah. It's either that one or, oh, where is that again? Oh, got it. Yep. Cool. I had a friend from high school go to Cornell, but way before your time. Yeah. It's cold. Is it still cold? Is it cold now? Has it gotten cold yet? It's usually cold, but it's 80 degrees right now, so I don't know how to feel. What?
Starting point is 00:04:27 Exactly. Yeah. I was wondering, because if you're not watching the video, she is in a tank top, and I was like, it's got to be cold. Yeah, 80 degrees. Like, it's not normal. We were at 40 degrees two days ago, and now I can wear a tank top, so I'm not sure how we got here. Oh, climate change. That's fine. Boy, oh boy. Okay. Well, we're just so excited to have you on the show. You and I met at our mutual friend, Erin Gallagher's Fairway Dinners, which if anybody has the opportunity, we will link them down below. They are the most badass dinners of a bunch of women getting together
Starting point is 00:05:00 and supporting each other's work. And as soon as I found out who you were and what you do, I was like, do you want to come on the show? And you were very kind enough to say yes. You have a crazy resume, period, but especially for your age. You were a congressional intern, you're a published author, president of the Black Student Union, a Giffords fellow,
Starting point is 00:05:18 and now you run a nonprofit. All of this leads back to this mindset of service. Where did that start for you? Yeah, I mean, that's a great question. I think definitely my faith has a place apart in this, but I mean, I think definitely the family and the community I grew up in. I grew up in a single mom household and it was my community that raised me. All the afterschool programs, all the summer camps, all of those are kind of made me who I am today. And I think just those one-on-one conversations with women,
Starting point is 00:05:46 I feel like whether it was a sure you need to get your life together or sure you need to do this or don't do what I did, I think really early on I realized how important service was. And there's this quote on Pinterest that I love. It's like, you've been assigned this mountain to show that it can be moved. So I feel like everything that I've had to go through,
Starting point is 00:06:03 whether it was like heartbreak or just daddy issues, I feel like all of that has made me better connect with young kids. And once I realized that I could connect with young kids, I was like, I want to do more of this. So I just kind of tried to get myself in any space where I could do that full time. And that like took form in like Black Student Union and took form in my nonprofit. But yeah, I think it leads back to my community, Evanston in Chicago. Those programs definitely made me who I am today. Yeah, I am just barely millennial. I was born in 94, so I like miss the Gen Z cutoff. I love watching the way every single generation
Starting point is 00:06:40 that comes after the generation before gets even more involved. And I think, you know, millennials were the most involved generation, and now it feels like Gen Z are even more. When we're talking about the issues you care about and the issues that anybody listening cares about, what advice do you have to give someone who's starting where you did, maybe with an idea they want to take action, but they're unsure how to start or take the initiative to get things rolling. Yeah, I think growing up, there's so many moments, like I can't even count on my hands,
Starting point is 00:07:11 where I would like be complaining to my mom because I had so many freaking ideas, but I just didn't have the funds to get it out there. I didn't know any famous, there was no one famous in my family that I could call, was not an epo baby at all. And I remember just having like a list of ideas. I wanted to start these different businesses. I wanted to write these different books. I wanted to start these different initiatives. So I definitely know how it feels to not either feel heard, supported or have the funds or the resources.
Starting point is 00:07:38 The first thing I had to do was kind of just fight my way in. And with that is kind of making connections. So I think the first thing is finding someone who can kind of sponsor you and speak for you in rooms that you don't have access to. For me, that was actually my volleyball coach. She had a nonprofit and just knew a lot of people who ran the city.
Starting point is 00:07:55 She knew so many people and inter workings that I had no knowledge of. And when I told her my idea, she was actually able to kind of talk to them about it and see what grants that I could apply to. And mind you, when it came to like starting my nonprofit, I think I was a sophomore in high school, so I had no clue what a grant was. I was just trying to figure out how to do like homework stuff. So figuring out grant applications was like foreign to me, and I know that's foreign to a lot of people who are young, but she actually kind of led me through that process. So I think for
Starting point is 00:08:22 someone who has an idea, if it's like a nonprofit, I think looking at grants first and not the technical grants that are like, you need a 5-1-C-3, you'd be surprised. If you search up your city, you could probably find a pretty good grant that doesn't need a 5-1-C-3 status, whether it's like a community service grant,
Starting point is 00:08:39 it might start small. My first grant that I ever got was like $100. But I mean, we made it work. And now like four years later, we're operating on like $25,000 grants, which is insane. But I think starting small, finding a person that can really get you into that space. And then also Google. I feel like a lot of us like we use Google for everything but our ideas. You'd be surprised how many different like funding avenues there are on Google. So definitely searching it up as well. I want to talk more about your work in a second. But I, when I met you and, you know, found out
Starting point is 00:09:10 you're a college student, one of the things that I think you really wanted to speak to was like getting into college, figuring out your finances. College wasn't that long ago for me, but I was literally looking the other day, it's already $25,000 more expensive than it was when I was there. And my freshman year was 2012. So not, you know, not that long ago, I would love to level set like what financial education did, if any, did you have growing up? And then what was that experience like of like, oh my god, okay, I'm going to try to figure out how I can afford four years of college, especially at Cornell.
Starting point is 00:09:49 Yeah, that's a great question. When it comes to college, college just keeps growing. The tuition like every year, even at Cornell is increasing while I'm here. Yeah, insane. I think the first kind of introduction I had to financial education was my mom. She actually has been in finance for most of her life as a banker and she kind of helps people with their relationships when it comes to money and accounting. The biggest thing she taught me was like, you need to save. I think that's something she talks about every single day. Like out of everything I've ever learned from her when it comes to money, it's always been
Starting point is 00:10:19 you need to save, don't spend, just save, save, save, save, save. So when it came to college, I was looking, I think junior year, I looked at the cost of a school just to see randomly because I had never like known how expensive it was. And I saw that most schools that I was interested in were from like 90,000 to 100,000 a year, which I will never forget my reaction. Like my jaw dropped, I closed the computer. I was like, mom, either I need to become rich overnight, or I need to like win a Nobel Prize. Because in addition to the insane price,
Starting point is 00:10:52 just getting into college now is a battle because there's so many highly qualified applicants. And I think colleges continue to kind of raise that bar when it comes to admissions. There's always something they're looking for. My mom also, a lot of people in my family have debt, which I know is a common thing, especially for families of color. So she was really telling me like, choose the school that's the cheapest. Don't go into debt. Those were kind of the advice that she was kind
Starting point is 00:11:16 of equipping me with when I came to the whole college application process. And also she wanted me to stay in state. So the person that I am, if someone tells me no, I'm going to find a way to make it a yes. And I did not want to spend the next four years at home. So I was like, I'm going to find a way to pay for college so my mom doesn't have to touch it. No one in my family will have to be burdened by it. And I'm going to find a way to go out of state. So that became my little challenge for the rest of my high school career. No one in my family thought I was really going to be able to make it happen just because of the cost of college.
Starting point is 00:11:46 But yeah, I guess that volition kind of led me. I would be on Google every single day just searching up scholarships and that paid off because now I'm not paying a dime for Cornell, which is insane. Cornell right now we're at like 90K per year. And I think with a lot of Ivy league schools, it's merit-based financial aid.
Starting point is 00:12:07 So they get to decide who deserves this much, which can be kind of wonky. I know for low-income students, some hope though, a lot of merit-based financial aid tend to give you a bit more than another school would. So if you are on like the low-income scale, that definitely pays off. That was something that also factored into where I was looking for college. I wanted a school that would take into account the family I had and like the income we had and kind of factor that into the finances.
Starting point is 00:12:34 So that was a big thing when I was looking for colleges. But the Coca-Cola scholarship, the Cameron Impact scholarship, Taco Bell scholarship, so many companies you would never believe have a scholarship program that don't even look at your GPA or SAT scores. And that's what like enabled me to go to the school that I am today and study the program that I'm doing. Coca-Cola gave me 25,000, Taco Bell gave me like 30,000. When all of this was not looking at my SAT scores, I do not believe in the whole standardized testing thing, but
Starting point is 00:13:05 I think scholarships like that can really change your life. And a lot of them have stuff you can do as an alumni. So if you're not in college right now, but you want to go into grad school, a lot of different programs are open. So talk to me a bit about, let's first talk about the discovery of those scholarships. You're talking about like Google, what other resources are you using to find those out? And I remember for me, rightfully so, my options were limited because I am a white person. And so I remember looking at all these scholarships, which are again, rightfully as they should be, typically amplifying students of color. And I remember finding it to be a little tricky, because I did have good grades. And so I was trying to find the scholarships. I didn't care
Starting point is 00:13:44 if they looked at my SAT scores. I was fine with that. But I remember it's just like, the list is so long, which is great. But then you're trying to figure out, okay, there's some that want me to write this brand new essay. There's some that want me to record a five minute video. So like, first of all, let's just talk about discovery.
Starting point is 00:14:00 How do you find the ones that are worth your time? Yeah, you bring up a really good point. And I think the best scholarship kind of indicator or locator for me was going mary.com, which sounds silly, but it actually has like every scholarship in the country, even in the world, I want to say. And you can actually just filter it to your identity. So if you're a person of color or not a person of color, if you identify as a woman or don't identify as a woman, you can put all of that in there and they'll just narrow it down, which kind
Starting point is 00:14:27 of saved my life because there's so many scholarships out there, but no one has the time to read every single like eligibility letter and thing. But Going Mary does that work for you. I fully endorse Going Mary. That's where I found like every single scholarship that I applied to, just because I could narrow it down. So like you're saying your SAT score, your grades, you can put all of that in there and they'll narrow it down for you. So I think going marry all the girls, I highly recommend. Bold.org is another scholarship platform,
Starting point is 00:14:54 but I know they tend to like favor high school seniors. So if you're like a junior or a grad student, it might not be the best for you, but going marry.com is top tier. When we're talking about the actual application process, both for scholarships as well as like getting into college, what are you doing to stand out in those applications? What are you doing to make sure you're memorable? Talk to me a bit more about both applying for scholarships as well as actually getting into some of the colleges you're applying for.
Starting point is 00:15:21 Yeah, when it came to scholarships and just essay and application writing, I learned like my biggest lesson through that actually. And that was the lesson of authenticity. I feel like girls are told so many times and women are told so many times that we kind of have to have this perfect story. We need to please everyone. We don't want to make anyone mad.
Starting point is 00:15:39 Don't want to step on anyone's toes and kind of put on this filter. So I remember the first set of application essays I did for college and for scholarships was kind of put on this filter. So I remember the first set of application essays I did for college and for scholarships was kind of this like perfect version of Sheree, which was not my actual coming of age story. My coming of age story is not perfect or like glamorous
Starting point is 00:15:54 in any way or shape or form. But I remember trying to just kind of fit into this narrative. And I remember having people read it and they were like, well, I mean, the words are great. You obviously use like great vocabulary, but this is not who you really are. The person that I am is definitely more bubbly. It's more outgoing, more realistic.
Starting point is 00:16:13 I'm very blunt. So the kind of papers that I was producing just didn't really reflect who I was. And I'm sure, yeah, it could have gone places, but I don't think it would have really reflected who I am. And I mean, with scholarships, I actually started applying in sophomore year and I got rejected from every single one. And when I look back at those sophomore year essays, it's just not who I am at all. I don't know who was trying. I was really trying to fit a narrative that was in mind. So I think authenticity is going to be your best bet. The essays that got me into my dream schools, like Howard University,
Starting point is 00:16:44 Cornell University, and then some California schools were actually when I talked about the hardships that I had with my father, that relationship, finding my worth. When I talked about insecurities, when I talked about stuff that was really challenging and how I grew from that, that's what actually took me much farther than just talking about how I did well in a class or how I started a club. Really sharing the story of what made me who I am, that went a lot farther. But I think honestly, as long as you can create a story, like not an essay, but a story that kind of shows people instead of like just tells people, because it's one thing to like list off your accomplishments, but what admissions readers and anyone who's reading an essay wants to see is like, how can you make me feel? And I think with the essay that I ended up crafting at the end of the day
Starting point is 00:17:29 that I submitted to the scholarships like Coca-Cola scholarship, the Taco Bell scholarship, all of it was just a story about who I am and what I went through. And I think that's a million times more interesting than just like the perfect good girl kind of narrative that we try to put out. I couldn't agree more. And I think this is directly related to how you apply for jobs. It's related to so much of what you're doing
Starting point is 00:17:53 in a cover letter or an essay. They already, they see the resume, right? They know where you've worked or they know what clubs you've, you know, they can see your GPA. You don't need, it's a waste of space, frankly, to repeat that. They already have that information. So this is need, it's a waste of space, frankly, to repeat that. They already have that information.
Starting point is 00:18:07 So this is more talking about who you are as a person or what your passions are or your story. And I think of cover letters in the same way. Like they have your resume, a cover letter is more talking about like why this is a fit for you or what your story is or what you're passionate about. And I think that like that's right on the money, pun intended, but I think it's so easy to exactly what you said, start listening at your accomplishments
Starting point is 00:18:30 or start feeling like you have to prove something. The essay is not really about proving something, it's about telling them who you are and what they get out of having you as a student, right? Like what you're offering to the student body if you were to attend that university. When you're a business owner, it requires you to try to predict the future. But that's
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Starting point is 00:21:13 Can you talk about first, how was it adjusting financially from high school to college, and then college now into your early 20s? And then also if the know the stressing about like, what is the life after college looking like? Yeah. I mean, one of the transitions that I don't even, I think let's start here. I didn't really have to transition that much when it comes to, I think saving just because of what my mom has always told me. And I think something that she tried to instill in me was also like the multiple streams of income. I think I kind of heard that while I was transitioning
Starting point is 00:21:49 almost, but I didn't realize how important it was until I got to here. Being in college and then when you're just like traveling, I did like four trips last week and just seeing all the expenses pile up, like I never would have been able to cover that if it wasn't for multiple streams of income. So I think having that kind of concept and understanding that, yes, it's one thing to
Starting point is 00:22:08 like work an on-campus job or to have a little side hustle, but when you kind of pair that with a lot of different things, it's really, really nice. And I think also just growing up with a single mom as well, I always kind of had this mindset where I wanted to make money. I mean, this kind of led me to do like so many different ventures when I was a kid. So I think I've always kind of had the entrepreneurial mindset. I didn't necessarily have to transition in that way because when I was a kid, I started like a rainbow loom business. I started a knitting business.
Starting point is 00:22:37 Literally any way I could generate a profit or income. That's kind of what I was trying to do just so I could help take that kind of weight off my mom But growing into my 20s, I think saving yes setting a budget has been big with college I've seen it's kind of crazy when you come to a school like this and you see people who have never had to budget in Their life. It's definitely a culture shock But I think saving budgeting budgeting has been something that I put a lot more emphasis than when I was in high school Because in high school what you're budgeting maybe $20. But in college, budgeting on a whole other level, especially even when it comes to scholarships, you have the scholarships now, but it's like, how are you going to pay them?
Starting point is 00:23:14 How are you going to disperse them and all of that? Multiple streams of income. But I think right now, something I'm really curious about is kind of like investing. It's something I've heard about. I know you're like the expert when it comes to it. Everyone, every college student should read your book because I think we hear about investing very loosely, typically from like white males. And we're kind of like, okay, that's not for us. But I think that's something I definitely want to get into now.
Starting point is 00:23:36 Having a business, having a nonprofit, I feel like that kind of concept of having money work for you and not having to put in the hours would be like amazing to learn. But I think for now, kind of adjusting the transition has been more on budgeting and then making sure those multiple streams are actually streaming and not just like kind of there and passive. Dude, I speak at colleges. Can you come to Cornell? Come speak. We'll do it.
Starting point is 00:23:59 Let's talk about outside of personal finance. What is the transition more on your life and like your work Ben as you have gone older? Like you talk about, and I was the same way growing up, I had a million different ideas, I had a million different passions. And although you can continue doing some of that, you sometimes have to focus, right? You have to focus on the one thing. You have to pick a major, right? Or you have to pick this certain job. And of course, jobs, majors, they're always pretty diverse in terms of what you can do and what you can study and what you can learn. But maybe talk to me about that transition of having so many passions
Starting point is 00:24:37 and now navigating that as you get older. Navigating that has been... Every day I'm learning. I think one of the biggest things I've had to focus on, especially in high school and middle school, I think I was so focused on like doing and doing and doing. But I think my birthday is about to come up. So now I've kind of been in this space where I'm trying to reflect more on like who I want to be. And I think that necessarily has been like a really deep reflection and conversation I've just tried to have with myself because it's like, yeah, if you're doing a million things, but like not really
Starting point is 00:25:08 focusing on who you are and also like you can't even pour from an empty cup. I had to learn that I think May of just senior year of high school, you cannot pour from an empty cup. Yes, you have a million ideas, but like you're going to burn out. And getting to a space where I almost burned out, I really had to have a conversation with myself and be like, my worth is not based on everything that I can do. It just depends on who I am as a person. I'm worthy without having to run like five different things at once. So I think learning that, understanding that, and then boundaries has been something really big. Funny enough, Worth Horizon, we made like this book series. I designed it, wrote it,
Starting point is 00:25:44 and it was for girls. And a lot of the, I designed it, wrote it, and it was for girls. And a lot of the advice I was telling them was about boundaries and stuff. But I feel like now that I'm approaching like this new era or new decade, I feel like the boundaries lesson is not talked enough, especially when you're young, when you're a woman. That's something that I've kind of had to learn every single day. Because when you've been in service for so long, forced or willingly, I think we tend to kind of manage our relationships or our friendships also like a nonprofit.
Starting point is 00:26:12 That's something I'm still trying to figure out, kind of setting a balance. Because yeah, your relationships are meant to serve you and you kind of serve them. It's meant to be like reciprocated. It shouldn't be you doing all the work. So I think that's been one of the biggest things entering my 20s that I'm still trying to figure out.
Starting point is 00:26:28 But it's something I'm putting a lot more attention on, like choosing myself, showing up for myself, pouring into myself. Cause yes, I can pour into others really well, but it won't last for very long if I'm empty. Well, and what you're talking about is what we spend a huge chunk of the show talking about, which is we are often as women so generous to others at the expense of ourselves. And so, whether that is, you know, someone else's expectations for us, weighing our decisions or putting everybody else's needs before our own, I think I learned that lesson and continued to learn that lesson probably too late. So I learned that lesson and continued to learn that lesson
Starting point is 00:27:05 probably too late. So I love that you're having that conversation very early. What did that look like when you were teaching young girls? How are we teaching or how should we be teaching young girls to set boundaries? Yeah, that's a great, great question. I mean, we try to do it in a variety of ways. I talked about my book. Some of the favorite things that I love to do, I kind of like to put things into little activities. I was a Sunday school teacher. So one of the little pages that we have is one, you have to kind of write out all your standards, like whether it comes to relationships or friendships, you have to visually like write that out. And of course, you know, we have all the pretty pink designs and everything you could think of on the page.
Starting point is 00:27:42 But one, writing out your standards and two, also looking at yourself. I mean, girls is one of the favorite, like the best things I love about women are how we treat others on the most part. We typically treat our friends like they're our partners almost. We cherish them. So kind of re-shifting your mindset to give that appreciation back to yourself. So there's even like a affirmations part, but also like you have to check the way you speak to yourself. Like would you be okay with saying that to your mom? Would you be okay with saying that to your younger sister, your cousin, your best friend? And if that language you would not tolerate, then do not say that to yourself. That's one thing we definitely stress when it comes to girls. But even in person, which is my favorite
Starting point is 00:28:23 aspect of the work that I'm doing, like girls who lead, we really emphasize that you cannot lead if you're burnt out. You can't lead if you're always doubting yourselves. I like to do this little activity to like close this out every time. I get all of them on the stage and I actually stay on the floor
Starting point is 00:28:37 because I, you know, we elevate them. And I actually pass the mic around and we each take time just saying an affirmation about ourselves. We affirm ourselves with the mic and we say it out loud about like boldly and proudly, which I used to be shy when I was younger. So that would have been my worst nightmare, but you kind of see like this shift in the girls
Starting point is 00:28:57 when they're doing that. And then all the girls in the crowd, they have to affirm her as well. We've done things like I am amazing or I am like, I am amazing, or I am successful, or I will be successful, or I am smart. Something as simple as that, you say it boldly, you say confidently, no stutter, no, I'm kind of smart. You say it fully, you take up that space, and everyone claps for you, we snap for you, we say period. And just really showing these girls that they can take up space early on, because I know for me, like I saw women taking up space, but I kind of needed permission
Starting point is 00:29:30 to take up space. I was like, I don't know if I can do that. I don't know if that's the appropriate space or she's the leader, so she should do that. But I don't think I'm a leader, so I don't think I'm capable of doing that. I think really working on their confidence and how they view themselves, because I think once you build that up, build up that perception of you and have a healthy perception of your worth and who you are and your capabilities, then it's a lot easier to set boundaries. We set boundaries for things we like treasure, your cell phone. You don't let a stranger on the street just hold your phone. We set boundaries for things that we value. So I think really trying to instill in people, not even just girls, just people, but especially young women that you are valuable and you're treasured.
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Starting point is 00:32:48 So for all the young professionals, college students listening, this one is for you. And I'm also just really curious to hear this too. I'd also put in my order for the book. So I'm sure I would send you a book. Okay, thank you. That's very nice. So this is for all of you.
Starting point is 00:33:06 Highly recommend that everyone gets a copy of your book, Financial Feminist. I ordered mine, look forward to read. But I'm wondering. You've only gotten into host mode and that's why I'm giggling, because it's so good. Go ahead.
Starting point is 00:33:18 I'm wondering what is one piece of advice that you have for girls in college who want to build wealth? I know so many of them. Like speaking to them, this one's for you. I'm going to tell them to listen. So all of you who are listening to this, Tori, what do you recommend and how can we start early? Okay. I'm going to give you financial advice and then we're going to give you life advice. My financial advice is to do everything that you're doing, which is just to have a better
Starting point is 00:33:44 understanding of what things cost, how much things are, because I feel like that was my big revelation in college is usually for most people, college is the first time you're tasting some independence, you're starting to use your own credit card. I remember very similar to you just thinking, oh, I don't know exactly how much $50,000 is, but that feels like a lot of money and that's what college costs. It's just like starting to understand what these things cost. And if you can get out of college debt-free, if you can have jobs on campus, that's what I did is I worked three jobs on campus. I also
Starting point is 00:34:23 I was lucky enough to have parents who did save money for college for me. I got scholarships where I could. If you can graduate debt-free, that is a leg up on so much of your personal finance journey. So if you can manage that, I would, if you can figure that out, please do so because it's going to make the rest of your financial life a whole lot easier. My life advice though, stop asking yourself, what do I want to do with my life? Even though everybody's asking you that. You've been asked since you were a kid, like, what do you want to be when you grow up?
Starting point is 00:34:53 You know, I feel like high school, you're trying to get into a good college. College, you're trying to do well, so you get a good job. I guess you work forever so that you can eventually retire and then you die, right? It's always like, it's like, what are you going to do with your life? What are you, and no one at 19, 20,
Starting point is 00:35:09 no one at 30 has the idea of what they're gonna do for the rest of their lives. So instead of asking yourself, what do I wanna do with my life? Or what is like my big broad passion? Just ask yourself, what do I wanna do next? That's the only question you need to have an answer for. Just like, what do I wanna do next? Because's the only question you need to have an answer for. Just like, what do I want to do next? Because I want to look back at my life and have a lot of
Starting point is 00:35:28 different varied experiences. You're not going to find a dream job. It does not exist. You're just going to find a job that you hopefully feel passionate enough about. And then you're going to find your passion or your purpose in other places. So just ask yourself, what am I interested in next? Because your life is going to change, you're going to evolve, your career is going to evolve, your interests are going to change, your life circumstances are going to alter. So what am I going to do next? That's the only answer you need right now. That is incredible. I'm literally like needed to hear that. And then to that point, just building off of that,
Starting point is 00:36:07 I mean, a lot of us, we have this joke at Cornell. A lot of us are like, if we're gonna sell out and just like kind of go in the consulting pipeline, cause that's the only way we'll like live. Cause most of us kind of come in with like the social justice kind of buzz. I'm still holding stuff. Okay, here's the deal though.
Starting point is 00:36:22 Can I debunk that really hard? Because like I get it's a joke, right? It's like a little satirical. Here's the deal though. If you are a woman, if you're a person of color, if you're a member of a marginalized group, getting your bag is not selling out. That's actually like one of the most radical things
Starting point is 00:36:39 you can do is like get a really good paying job and then use that money to fund your life, to make sure you're well rested, to make sure that you're healthy and that you're taking care of, and then go and change the world for everybody else. Like I truly believe that getting a good job as long as it's, you know, not like super evil, it's fine. And then you do what you can do to change the culture, you do what you do to make a positive impact and you get a lot of money and then you do good things with that money. I think that we've talked about actually on the show is the fallacy of nonprofit or service based work that I am not doing purpose driven work or I feel guilty unless I am suffering.
Starting point is 00:37:24 You don't have to suffer. I don't want you actually to suffer because if you're suffering, one, it's just contributing to the suffering of your people or other women. It's continuous that cycle of suffering, one. And then two, you don't have any sort of energy for anybody else. So I know there was a question there, but I felt that I know people feel that guilt of like, Oh yeah, do I sell out? Do I take a corporate job? Do I go work at Amazon? And it's like, sometimes, yeah, you don't work at Amazon and you get your good paycheck and you get your good benefits and you take care of yourself and you use that money and that access to opportunity to change
Starting point is 00:38:04 the world for everybody else and also to make sure that like like you being healthy is a radical active protest you being rested is a radical active protest you having financial independence in a society in a system that does not want that for you that wants to maintain its control over you that is a radical active protest anyway sorry go ahead that's all right I'm about to go back to campus and anytime I hear control over you. That is a radical active protest. Anyway, sorry. Go ahead. That's a word. I'm about to go back to campus and anytime I hear that joke, I'm going to be like, well, actually.
Starting point is 00:38:30 I know, I know, I know it's a joke, but it's also like, it's true. And like, I don't want you to feel guilty. Yeah. For taking a job, I guess, if you're going to work for, you know, the, the GOP, sure. Now we have some issues, but like, okay, if it's this corporate tech job, sure. Fine, great, do what you gotta do. And it doesn't have to be the thing that you're most passionate about and that you bleed for, arguably it shouldn't be.
Starting point is 00:38:56 And you use that money and you use the stability it gives you to go do cool shit. Yeah, I love that. I feel like I needed to hear that. I definitely did. Because right now I'm in this like weird intersection of like, yeah, I would love to like change the world and just not make any money and just help people.
Starting point is 00:39:13 But it like, also family got to take care of, also have a life I want to live. We literally just recorded an episode this morning with another guest about how like you being the fullest version of yourself gives everybody else permission to do it too. an episode this morning with another guest about how like, you being the fullest version of yourself gives everybody else permission to do it too. So like, especially for you as a black woman, and again, I cannot speak from personal experience, but I know that, you know, if you're in a minority, if you're a woman, person of color, queer, disabled,
Starting point is 00:39:36 like you showing up as the fullest, most well rested, healthiest version of yourself, that is the most like progressive thing you can do because it demonstrates that sort of behavior for everybody else. And so if that's all quote unquote all you do, that is enough. That's more than enough because it means that you remain true to yourself and it means that you took care of yourself so that you can take care of others too, you know? Yeah, that's just wow. That is wow. Yeah. I'm just so tired of women being tired because we feel like we have to carry the entire weight of the world. We don't. Like, we don't. And yet we will continue to. So we have to make sure
Starting point is 00:40:16 that we're okay before anything else. Yeah. No, that's, I'm so glad I asked. And I mean, the rest of that question was just, do you believe that you have to choose between money or happiness? And how have you been able to combine the two? I feel like you kind of alluded to that, but I'm kind of curious with the whole money versus happiness kind of thing. The whole narrative that money can't buy you happiness is complete bullshit.
Starting point is 00:40:38 Money can buy you safety and stability and ease and healthy food and therapy and a stable car and the ability to leave unhealthy situations or abusive situations. And I would argue for the vast majority of us that's happiness. We've talked about it on the show before, but like you can't, if you're going out to buy a nice car and thinking, I'm this nice car is going to make me happy. Yeah, of course not. But again, if you're a member of a marginalized group, it can buy you options, it can buy you safety. And like that is happiness. So I don't feel like you have to choose. I feel like also like what is happiness if happiness is purpose. And again, we I want you to listen to the episode we just recorded this morning. Like if happiness is purpose, great. I think that you can find purpose in many things outside
Starting point is 00:41:23 of your work. So you you can go and you can make really good money even if you don't feel like this is the absolute best job and you absolutely love it and the passion's so great, that's okay. Do other things that give you purpose. Do other things outside of your work. And you can also find work that is purpose-driven and that also compensates you well. You can have both. Love. And then my last question. I love this little switcheroo. This is fun.
Starting point is 00:41:52 I mean, I've been looking at your story as we all have. And I saw when I saw that you pivoted completely, like in your 20s, going from like the corporate space you were and just kind of pivoting to the business that you have now. I mean, I was inspired because I feel like you talked about this too a lot being told your whole life Like what do you want to be? What do you want to be and kind of going on that path? I'm kind of curious for a woman or a young woman or just a teenager or someone who's in their 20s What advice do you have for girls who are in their 20s and scared to pivot like they kind of have an idea or they know
Starting point is 00:42:21 They want to leave the job They know they want to switch their career but because of of so many different factors, they're a little too scared to kind of just make that leap. Yeah. I mean, I'll give you really practical advice. The reason I was able to grow her first 100K was because I didn't ask the business to support me before it was ready. Does that make sense? Like I wasn't asking it to pay for my rent when it wasn't really making money. I wasn't putting pressure on the business to support my life and my lifestyle before it was ready to do so because I didn't want to become resentful of the business. I wanted to be able to make decisions that were not fear driven or were not like scarcity driven decisions. And so I waited arguably too long before I quit my job.
Starting point is 00:43:06 And I was able to grow her first 100K on the side, the pace that felt comfortable where I could, ramp up when I wanted to and scale back when I didn't. And it was also like testing while I still had the stability of a job. So I joke, we didn't take outside investment. I didn't take venture capital. We didn't, you know, get a $10,000 loan from a bank
Starting point is 00:43:30 or from a like a rich uncle. But I used the money I was making in my nine to five as like my investment. That was the security I needed so that I could allow the business to grow on its own. So if you do have an idea, well, you can be all in emotionally, I would not necessarily tell you to go all in financially, or to go all in with, you know, all of your energy at this point, because one, you might realize this
Starting point is 00:43:58 idea doesn't really have legs, or that you're actually passionate about something else. You don't want to burn this bridge down and not be able to get it back, right? So I maintained what I was doing in my nine to five, slowly built the business. And then when it was clear that the business had momentum, I had money, it was doing okay and could support me and then some, then it felt like time for me to leave. And I think also, again, very, very practically, you can test the efficacy of
Starting point is 00:44:27 an idea before, you know, going all in on it. And also indent new paragraph, I do want to make sure that like, you are actually taking action. Because this is something that plagues women regardless of age, is we say, oh, I want to do this thing, but then you put barriers in front of yourself. Like, oh, I want to start business, but I don't know how to make a website, or I don't know what it'd be called, or I don't know what the logo would be, or I don't know what the brand color is. And you think by thinking about your to-do list, it is getting you further. Like you're like, oh, but I'm thinking about this, but you're not taking
Starting point is 00:45:05 action. You're not doing anything. And so the most successful, any sort of business that you have heard of exists because it exists. Like it only exists and you only know about it because somebody got started. So while I think it is important to test your idea to make sure this works, to not go all in and potentially burn your financial house down, you just have to also start. I did not know I wanted to talk about money until I'd already started a business where I was blogging as a 20-something woman because it was like peak Tumblr era. That's what I thought I wanted to do. And then Trump got elected.
Starting point is 00:45:47 I was starting to have conversations about women, about money. I was realizing in my own life that I was really passionate about money and personal finance for the choices and the options it gave me. So her first 100K, one was not even called her first 100K
Starting point is 00:46:00 when it first started. Two, it was a blog for 20 something women that was not specifically focused on money. And three, I had no idea what the fuck I was doing. But I learned how to do it by doing it. I learned what I wanted to talk about or what my niche was only because I was figuring it out. So test the efficacy of an idea. Don't burn your financial house down to do it. But also get started. You're going to figure it out as you go. Period.
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Starting point is 00:48:47 rocketmoney.com slash FF pod. Talk to me about your work with Her Rising. Like what drove you to start? Yeah. I mean, the funniest thing, it was a mix of, hmm, I remember the day I thought of the idea and my mom was looking at me like, oh, this is another one of those ideas.
Starting point is 00:49:07 All right, well, we'll laugh it off. But I remember that day I came home from school. I think it was also the day that I had learned the cost of college. So I had a lot on my mind. I was like, I need to make it in life or it's over. And I remember I also had gone over, you know, like the 16 year old heartbreak that you think the whole world is gonna end. And I remember that night just journaling and I started to think like how many other girls are going through the same thing. And for me when I came to journaling, journaling was
Starting point is 00:49:36 always kind of like my outlet and I'm very particular when it comes to journaling. Like I have the whole questions like what is making me feel this way? Will this matter in five years? Like I always come up with these kind of prompts to kind of get me out of a funk. And I was like, how can I help girls who are going through similar things? Because I know there's a million nonprofits when it comes for girls, but I was like, what about the girls who are heartbroken or who have the ambition but don't know quite yet what to do with that? So I was kind of thinking of like the girls who are kind of in this crack. They don't necessarily fit the box when it comes to what typical nonprofits
Starting point is 00:50:10 are catering to. So I thought, how do I create some kind of service that tackles mental health, that tackles leadership, that tackles entrepreneurship, and also gives educational resources? How do I kind of make that kind of niche almost? And then I was coming up with a name and I knew I wanted to have rising in it because of I heard Maya Angelou's poem and I was yeah the whole rise thing I was like I don't know what it's going to be but I need rise to be in there and then I was like we rise or they rise or and then I was like wait I think I just want to stick to kind of girls who are going through what I've gone through like I said you've been assigned this mountain to show
Starting point is 00:50:48 that it could be moved and I knew for a fact that I could connect with young girls so her rising and then initiative just came out of wanting to do a lot of different work and helping girls who have initiative like investing in that so then we had her rising initiative. I was a sophomore in high school and you probably would not support our financial strategy that we started off with. But for some reason I thought, okay, let me just make books and sell that and that'll fund the whole nonprofit and we'll do stuff all over the world. And I learned really quickly that's not exactly how you fund a nonprofit, but I ended up taking some of my money out making these books. We self-published it, which is another story, but that led to like me getting a part of like a publishing company.
Starting point is 00:51:29 Now I'm a co-owner in that. So that's been super cool. But we made the books, we sold it, and then I think we made like a couple hundred dollars and that's what funded our first ever Girls Who Lead Conference. But since then, in the span of four years, our mission is helping women and youth rise into leadership. So that looks like any industry you can think of, any industry where women are not at the top, we're just trying to push them up there. So we've done scholarships, we've done Girls Who Leave conferences,
Starting point is 00:51:56 which are completely free to participants, and we have free workshops. So girls can come in, if you're like a STEM girly, if you're a writer, if you're interested in law, if you're interested in engineering, computer science, any industry, I kind of bring in women who are at the head of that field and they come in and they lead the workshop with the girls. And it's been one of the cutest things ever. But we're expanding our programming to different states across the country. But the biggest thing is just speaking to those girls who like me,
Starting point is 00:52:22 just kind of need that permission or that extra step to kind of go into their dream, their passion. And we also do some work with older women as well. It's not just kids. We're working on these things called Rising Dinners, which I'm really excited, kind of similar to like what Erin's doing, but for young professionals in particular. So women in their twenties who don't necessarily know
Starting point is 00:52:40 like what they want to go into, or maybe they want to transition in their career, we're just going to bring all of them together. It's a super cute space worthy of TikToking and everything, but we'll have some networking aspects, and it's just a community. I think the biggest thing, you can use all the words you want.
Starting point is 00:52:55 I just love bringing people together. That's kind of the work that I love to do the most. So, Herarizing is kind of my excuse to do that every day. Can I come and teach an entrepreneurship workshop? Yes, 100%. You're on our list for like everything. We're like, we're just going to set up one thing. I would love that. I've been wanting to do something similar, but I haven't had the bandwidth in terms of
Starting point is 00:53:15 building out my own thing. So we're just, yeah, cool. Can you share like a particular story of someone who's been impacted by Her Rising? Do you have an especially juicy, good win? I think yes. I won't say her name, but she's incredible. I think one of the coolest things about rising, just like who I am, I'm very chill. Like if someone of the girls come up to me and they're like, I have a boyfriend problem,
Starting point is 00:53:40 I just give them my number and we just text. Like it's very casual when it comes to me. But I think one of the best things ever was Girls Who Lead. There's a girl and she was a little shy but I remember her coming up to me and she was like, Shuri I have so many ideas but I never thought I could do them until I met you. And like there's actually a picture. It's crazy. Someone, one of the photographers caught a picture because I'm like this and she's like so short so it's like me here and I'm like looking like this. Like, oh my god. And she said that to me. I gave her my number. And one of the coolest things, like we still
Starting point is 00:54:13 stay in touch. She went to the business workshop that day, the engineering workshop and the fashion workshop. And there was also a law workshop that she went to. And then we were talking, we texted like maybe once a month, I want to say. But the coolest thing was I think like four months later, her mom like calls me and her mom's like, hey, so my daughter set up this whole like program to help young kids in her community. She started like a summer camp.
Starting point is 00:54:42 I was like, what? She started a summer camp and she, it's so cute. Like she had like 10 to 15, really little, like I think kindergarten through second grade come in and they like made art over the summer. And then at the end of the summer in August, they had like an art show, like a gallery. And she invited me to be the keynote speaker of the event. I was like, of course I will do anything this little girl tells me to do. And it was so amazing because just seeing her go from where she was on that day and then going through the workshops.
Starting point is 00:55:10 I remember that day I was telling them, like my little keynote session for them was, what do you want to be remembered by? I was like, yeah, you're young, but if people were to talk about you in 40 years from now, what do you want them to say? And I think a lot of people's eyes opened at that point because I know when you're in middle school, you're like thinking of the only thing you're thinking about is next week and the day after you're not thinking any farther than that. But I think that really resonated with them.
Starting point is 00:55:35 And for her to start a summer camp, she's a fifth grader. So I was shocked that she did that. And like to this day, she's doing incredible things. There's so many different stories because one of the biggest things I've realized is that every kid, like every single kid, even the kid that you would doubt or the kid you would say is a troublemaker, I used to be called a troublemaker by a teacher, they have incredible ideas. You really just have to listen to them. Oh, I have one more. This one's a lot more sentimental too. It was actually, it wasn't my event, but I was on there on behalf of Her Rising and it was like a conference for young teens and I was one of like the volunteers, I guess.
Starting point is 00:56:14 And there was a kid sitting by themselves and I was like, you know what, I'm just gonna sit next to them. It was like whatever. And it was lunch. I was like, okay, we have our sandwiches, we're together. And I was just asking them about their life and just hearing what they were talking about. They were interested in like comic books. I don't know a thing about comic books, but I was like, yeah, yeah, yeah. And I was willing to just hear them out. We ended up talking for like 30 to 45 minutes and I just thought it was a casual conversation. I didn't really think much of it.
Starting point is 00:56:40 I wasn't really trying to perform. I was just yapping. And then we actually did this activity at the end and it was like a reflection thing. And you had to write a note for somebody and just put it in their jar. And I didn't think much of it. Like I ended up writing one for them and I was like, I love love talking to you. Really excited. I hope like you have a good day at school and stuff like that, because they told me about what was going on at school. And then I looked at my jar like two nights later when I had finally unpacked.
Starting point is 00:57:03 And they were talking about how that day they Actually like wanted to commit because they were feeling just really really down Like they had a lot of things going on at home and they hadn't been heard For so long like they had so much going on at home that they had no one to talk to and that just talking to them for 30 minutes just felt like an angel sent and I don't know that day shook shook me. Like I have that actually, it's the note that they wrote because it was really long. I actually have it taped on my wallet back home. So every time I want to like give up, we're like, just give like the nonprofit
Starting point is 00:57:36 a break. I think of people like that and I'm really excited for what we're going to do. Because if we could just help that one person in so many different states. Like that really adds up. But I think I'll never forget the person who left me that note. I still keep in touch with them today. That note changed my life hands down. And it was really just a reminder to just go up to people and to talk to people and to just do the basic human things that are so like they'll see. Yeah, it's so controversial.
Starting point is 00:58:01 Like I feel like there's so much hate in the world that a small act of love kind of seems radical but something as small as that saved a life. So I think with Her Rising, I'm definitely trying to train more people to do the same. So we can just have those pockets of love everywhere. I need people to find out where they can find out more about you and Her Rising and everything.
Starting point is 00:58:20 So plug away my friend. Yes, so if you want to follow us on Instagram, that will be her.rising with two G's, cause we're extra. And then if you want to find out more about me on Instagram, it's Cherie, but it's C-H-E-R-I-I.A. So you'll find me that way. And then Her Rising's website is just her with a dash rising.com.
Starting point is 00:58:42 And yeah, if you want to support or partner in any way, if anything I said resonated and you were like, I would love to talk to young girls and kind of have that aha moment with them too, then you can also email us, which is once again, just her.risingwith2g's at gmail.com. Thank you for being here. Thanks for your work.
Starting point is 00:58:58 Thank you for everything you're doing. Like I can't even explain. Like when I first saw your Instagram for the first time, the amount of mutuals, like the amount of like team A's that were following you, I was like, yeah. When I first saw your Instagram for the first time, the amount of mutuals, the amount of teenagers and the aides that were following you, I was like, yeah. That's really sweet. She's going to change the world.
Starting point is 00:59:10 She's already changing. Thank you. Right back at you, man. Thank you. That's really kind. Thanks for being here. Thank you so much to Cherie for joining us. You can go to her-rising.com to learn more about the incredible work she's doing and
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