Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley - From Professional Baseball to Inspiring Young Minds | Cole Freeman

Episode Date: November 19, 2024

Spartan philosophy, built in the black-ops lab of business: https://www.findingpeak.comFinding Peak podcast: https://linktr.ee/ryan_hanley Join us for an engaging episode with Cole Freeman, a former LSU baseball star whose career took an unexpected turn during the COVID-19 pandemic.Connect with Cole Freeman:Website: https://www.hearthasnolimitfoundation.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coledrank/ Sponsors: Get a FREE trial of unlimited access and an additional 20% discount on Shortform through my special link: https://shortform.com/ryanhanley Take your podcasting journey to new heights. Get booked on high-influence podcasts with That 1 Agency: https://bit.ly/that1podcasttour Episodes You Might Enjoy: From $2 Million Loss to World-Class Entrepreneur: https://lnk.to/delk From One Man Shop to $200M in Revenue: https://lnk.to/tommymello Is Psilocybin the Gateway to Self-Mastery? https://lnk.to/80upZ9  Get in Touch: https://linktr.ee/ryan_hanleyInstead of succumbing to setbacks, Cole channeled his energy into founding the Heart Has No Limit Foundation, a nonprofit aimed at empowering youth to overcome challenges and achieve their dreams.Through personal anecdotes and lessons learned on and off the field, Cole shares his insights on mental resilience, positivity, and faith as foundational elements in shaping one’s journey to success.Cole opens up about his faith-driven upbringing and the profound impact it had on his personal development and life choices. His story reveals a moving journey from a simple tattoo to a motivational symbol that sparked the creation of his nonprofit.Navigating the complexities of establishing the Heart Has No Limit Foundation, Cole discusses obtaining 501c3 status and the ways his personal experiences have inspired him to make a positive impact through faith, family, and entrepreneurial pursuits.The episode also explores an innovative educational initiative aimed at inspiring resilience and self-belief in today's youth. Collaborating with experts, Cole is developing a curriculum that highlights the traits of historical figures who have overcome fear and failure.Designed for kids aged 10 to 16, the program is set to pilot with organizations like the Boys and Girls Club. As the conversation unfolds, we underscore the importance of optimism, trust, and faith in helping young people navigate their unique challenges, ultimately building a brighter future for all.--Recommended Tools for GrowthOpusClip: #1 AI video clipping and editing tool: https://link.ryanhanley.com/opusRiverside: HD Podcast & Video Software | Free Recording & Editing: https://link.ryanhanley.com/riversideWhisperFlow: Never waste time typing on your keyboard again: https://link.ryanhanley.com/whisperflowCaptionsApp: One app for all your social media video creation: https://link.ryanhanley.com/captionsappGoHighLevel: It's time to take your business workflow to the Next Level: https://link.ryanhanley.com/gohighlevelPerspective.co: The #1 funnel builder for lead generation: https://link.ryanhanley.com/perspective--Episodes You Might Enjoy:From $2 Million Loss to World-Class Entrepreneur: https://lnk.to/delkFrom One Man Shop to $200M in Revenue: https://lnk.to/tommymelloIs Psilocybin the Gateway to Self-Mastery? https://lnk.to/80upZ9This show is part of the Unplugged Studios Network — the infrastructure layer for serious creators. 👉 Learn more at https://unpluggedstudios.fm.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Happy holidays. Want to give your host a gift? Consider subscribing, rating, and reviewing the show this holiday season. It really helps the show grow. From all of us at believe, have a Merry Christmas, everyone, and a happy holiday. Hello, everyone, and welcome back to the show. Today we have a tremendous conversation for you with Cole Freeman. Cole is a former LSU baseball star-turned professional player who made it all the way to AAA before

COVID derailed his career. Unlike many who would become bitter, regretful, maybe shame, doubt associated with having their dream torn away from them because of an external force that they couldn't control. Cole refocused his energy on a not-for-profit called Heart Has No No Limit Foundation. It is the Heart Has No Limit Foundation where he is going into youth communities and helping them understand what it takes to be successful, how to overcome the chance, challenges that we're presented with as young individuals, young adults in this world and how we can put ourselves on a path to success regardless of where we start. This is an awesome conversation. And Cole really digs into some details about his life and how he sets and

resets his mindset to be positive, be focused, be energized, be determined, and ultimately reach some incredible goals. You're going to love this conversation. And if you are enjoying this podcast, if you want to support what we do here, friends, subscribe to the show, tell a friend about the show. I don't advertise the show.

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With that, no further ado. Let's get on to Cole Freeman. In a crude laboratory in the basement of his home. Cole, it's great to have you on the show, man. Appreciate you taking the time. appreciate you working with me too. Sorry about last week, too, having every schedule like that. Oh, it's all good. Well, you know, for the audience, I mean, I realize this, but for two guys that probably at face value look like they should know what they're doing with recording a podcast,

it took us about 10 minutes to get it to get everything working. It's, I can see why, you know, there's like a trend in podcasting where everyone's moving to these in studio formats, right? And, you know, I think there's a lot of value in them and, you know, especially, for all these people that live like in Austin, Texas or New York City or L.A. where people are just dropping by all the time. That's very convenient. But I live in Albany, New York. People don't even wish their enemies come to Albany, New York.

So like, no one visits. No one visits. Like, there's no pop-ins for guests here. That's what you call me. It popped up as Albany. And I was like, damn, Albany, all right. So we have to use technology, which most of the, the time works good, but today decided not to. And all of that really horrible podcast banter

guys is to share with you that we have a tremendous guest. And Cole, I'd love maybe just break down a little bit of, you know, I guess when I was researching you and your story, one of the things that popped out to me that I, that I couldn't get my head around was, and I want to get into your sports career and that transition. I want to talk a little bit about that. But I'd love to start kind of right in the, right in the heart of it, which is, You have this not-for-profit. It focuses on mental health. It focuses on overcoming adversity, et cetera.

Like, what was the catalyst? What was the moment? What was the event that maybe stuck in you from when you were a kid or even when you were older that said, you know, this is kind of what I want to do. These are the, this is the problem I want to help solve. These are the people that I want to help support. Yeah. I really think that started happening once I got to LSU, once I was able to achieve my dream and really have that opportunity.

And especially after I got drafted and looking back at those two years that, you know, I was fortunate enough to have, I think I just kind of started reminisce on like, I always said the question, why not me for me to get that position? But then I started kind of asking, okay, like, why me? And I was just so grateful for me to get that chance to go out there and live my dream that, you know, I started thinking, I'm like, what is it that I can do to start helping people? And one of the things I looked at was what was a separator for me? And obviously it was in my height, it was a separator. And I kept leaning back on it was kind of my mindset growing up and then getting to LSU. It was just that I can do attitude that I'm not going to listen to that. outside noise. And that was one of the things I recognized after going through college and all was

how many kids that I met or how many friends I had that definitely had the talent, but the circumstances weren't there. And the mental side of the game wasn't there, the taking care of the schoolwork, going to do extra work off the field. That really wasn't there. And when I was sitting back, you know, my last couple years of pro ball, I was thinking, you know, what is I was so thankful for what I had. I was like, what can I do to give other kids the opportunity to feel the way I feel, to experience what I got to experience? And honestly, there was a broad spectrum. You know, there was financially supporting people, you know, finding mentors for them. And there's this big spectrum that we were going off of, but obviously honing down on,

okay, where are we going to start? And I think being the mental health game, especially nowadays, is there's just epidemic crisis in the United States and really worldwide with it. And once I got partnered up with my partner's, an old-time friend of mine and one of his friends out of Nashville, we kind of honed in on, hey, if we've got one opportunity at these kids and we will never get a chance of touching them, what can we leave them with? And really, this is what we've kind of landed on, these tools that, you know, they can hopefully take for the rest of our lives. So you had a very successful baseball career.

you get drafted, you make it to AAA. You talk about how grateful you are. Now, I played baseball in college. I played a little bit after as well. And I've met hundreds of dudes who make it to double A, triple A. And they don't come away grateful. They come away bitter, right? I didn't make it to the show.

I didn't get that my cup of coffee. I never got to look. Right. So they come away from that experience and they're bitter. Like they didn't hit their goal. And you're telling me that you got to that same place. And I, you know, I looked at your career. I know how successful you were.

Like you got to that same place. You came away. You were grateful. How, what do you think is different, special, unique about your mindset and the way you view the world that you go through this experience and you come away grateful. And so many of your peers come away. And at least at the beginning, they're bitter, right? I'm not saying eventually over time they don't come to appreciate what they had in the experience.

But like they often, their initial take is. this bitterness of not getting to the show. And I'm just interested in that difference for you. Yeah, I mean, I think it's just perspective for me. And honestly, one of our core pieces, it's reframing. It's reframing the situation in my mind. I'd be lying if I say I wasn't bitter in some aspects for sure. But, I mean, I feel like that's just anything when you go, anybody going after

or something they're trying to achieve it and it doesn't work out in their favor. I think that's kind of just a natural instinct in humans. But what does it do for you? What is being bitter do besides bring me down and remind me of something I didn't achieve? And really my main goal in life was to play for LSU.

I knew how much that meant to me, I knew how much that meant to my family, my entire family. And I wanted to not only give that experience to me, but I wanted to give it to them. as well. And that once I got to see the reaction of my parents, of them getting to live out our dream, I mean, that was that was everything for me. So after I get drafted after my junior year going in the 18th round, I turn it down best decision of my life coming back from my senior year at

LSU and then I get drafted in the fourth round. And when you say like, okay, bitter, I didn't have a place to go play baseball after college. I mean, after high school. I didn't, I didn't have any place. So I got another four years, two at Delgado, two at LSU. And now I'm drafted in the fourth round. Okay, so I go out and I have a great first two years. I get to the fall league. Then we have this thing called COVID hit after my greatest year of baseball, top 15, 20, and all the minor leagues. You know, I'm knocking on the door. I'm thinking I'm getting that big league invite, this and that will, there's an uncontrollable. COVID ended up in the middle. that up pretty bad for me. All right. It messed up my career a little bit, slowed it down.

But how many lives did COVID actually mess up? So in the grand scheme of things, is it really that big of a deal to me? It is to me, but in the vast reality of the world, no, it is not. People lost their jobs. People lost their livelihoods. People lost their families. People couldn't say by to their grandparents for the last time because they're in the hospital. What? It messed up my career a little bit? Okay, poor pitiful me. No, it's the perspective on everything is I think how you can navigate through life the correct way or feeling out of control. You know, I end up coming back in 2021 and I'm not starting the first two games. And I'm thinking I just possibly won minor league player of the year, base run of the year in 2019.

I went to the fall league, started off bad and got better. And then now I'm not starting over somebody that wasn't, didn't even play below, above low A. And so I fight my way back. I get in the start a line of them, we start of the rest of the year. And then next thing, you know, I go into AAA the next year. And I'm like rolling. I'm like, dude, I'm one step away right here. We had a new GM come in, which obviously just like any company, a boss comes in.

You know, they're going to get their people. And then, you know, they got to put food on the table. And I just wasn't one of his guys that he wanted. So I end up getting released, August 8th of 2022. And that time was tough for sure. but when I started looking back at it, I'm like, and just to bring back to question, how can I be bitter? I got another almost nine years of playing baseball after I was told I wasn't playing after high school. I love the dream.

Yeah, my last goal was to just get one day in the MLB. My biggest thing is I wanted my dad to say my son was a big leader. That would hurt not being able to achieve. But why focus on that one thing that brings me so much heartache? When look at everything I did before, look at what we accomplished as a family. And obviously, you know, there's times that you're dealing with you. You're like, this is tough. And, you know, damn, what should I go back?

Could I have done this better? It's all what I could or should have. You know, it doesn't do anything. And I just choose to look back on everything that, you know, God has given us. and the opportunities that, you know, 99.9% of baseball players will never experience. And I don't see any way to be bitter about that. Yeah, I think that's a wonderful way of you in the world.

I see that you wear a cross. Does you think Faith plays a role in that? I mean... A massive, massive part. I'll tell you one thing about Faith that I struggled with up until about a year, year ago, maybe shoot, maybe even about eight months ago. we never were a big like church family but from the day i can remember my dad's got a cross

just kind of like this and i've got uh it in my uh in my bag i just didn't i used to rock three of them uh but he gave me a cross and said i'm catholic please call a priest just in case anything were to happen when i was gone and they always preach you know god and god gives us this this opportunity but we never were that family that went to church because me and my sister were playing ball left and right we could not then stop and that was one thing obviously as I was matured you know I see people go to church they're doing this and I'm like are they do they have a better belief than me like am I not doing the right things but in my mind every good bad scenario that happens is because of God God already knows what I'm doing he's giving me a path I've got a thousand different ways I can

go with it and it's just my choice which I'm going to pick but he knows which way it's going every single time. And so I started like struggling with that. I'm like, do I need to be better? And I'm like, I started talking actually one of my partners, Brendan Hitzman, actually our curriculum writer Luke. And I tell him how I was struggling with that. And I'm like, but I feel like my faith is as strong as anything. Like I talk to God in my head throughout the day of bad things happening. It could have been worse. Thank God. God was watching out for me. Like, and as of the last like eight months to a year i've really i guess if you want to call it confidence in it you know i know i am good with god i know a fact i know he's watching over me the only thing i ever pray upon is that

my family has health everything else is land yeah yeah i want i want i want i want we all want but i don't need anything but my family and that's the one thing that i need to make sure is good um so yeah i God is a massive factor and he always will be. I appreciate you sharing that part. I took some of that from how you were describing your experience as what we achieved. And I think that is a very unique way. I mean, I've interviewed thousands of people.

I haven't heard too many people talk through their achievements in terms of the role they played in the larger scheme of the family. And I think, you know, and going all the way back to my initial question around gratefulness versus bitterness, to me, if you're living a faith-based life and you're focused on your family, it's very easy to be grateful. So that's a wonderful thing. No doubt. Now, so you get done with your career. Did you start the organization before your career was over or after? So the brand itself was started in 2017.

It was right after we lost to Florida in the National Championship. They didn't have NIL at that point. That would have been nice. But the brand started then. It was just me and my mom, just kind of figuring it out. And it literally just kind of fell in my lap. We won't get too far into it right now. We can run back into it.

But it was just a tattoo. Then I ended up getting all my ribs and article came out. Kids were making shirts. And I'm like, wow, I can do something with this. Started getting a bunch of responses. back from kids saying you motivated me to go do this and I'm like what is going on like this is just this was just a tattoo for me and now it's blown up into something so we started that I just wanted to make it as like a motivational movement to go out there and achieve you know whatever your goal was

in life it didn't even have to be in sports by no means um but after we I ended up retiring I knew I wanted to do a nonprofit but when I tell you I knew zero about what a nonprofit was I thought if you brought in a million dollars, a million dollars went out. Obviously, that's not how it goes. You've seen your whole operations on the backside. But I didn't even know what I wanted to do. Obviously, I wanted to help people go after their dreams. But like, okay, how do you do that?

So we ended up starting it. I took about two months off after baseball, really just kind of reflect on my career, really trying to figure out what's next for me, what should I do. And that's when I called one of my partners now, one of my longtime friend, Brendan Hitzman. and I'm driving across the causeway, just getting back from Scottsdale, and I call him like, hey, you want to do a shirt with me just for like fun? You know, whatever we make on the end, I'll break you off. And he's like, yeah, then he asks me, obviously, the big question.

What do you want to do with the rest of your life? And I'm like, I don't know, dude, that's what I'm trying to figure out here. And I brought up the nonprofit. He's like, oh, he's like, well, my business partner, Joel does a bunch of stuff with the nonprofit world. He's like, why don't we get on a call, see if it's something, you know, that intrigued you. we'll take it from there. We jumped on a call the following Monday. And right after that, I was like, I'm all in. I'm all in on this. So, you know, we started the process and we got our 501c3 status on September 27th of 2023. So nice. So talk a little bit about exactly what you're doing.

So what we're doing is we hired a doctor and a curriculum writer. And our curriculum writer and doctor, of they've studied historical figures over the years all the way down for abraham lincoln Winston Churchill and we read about these guys all the time and girls all the time but why why are we reading about these specific people so what we did was we studied them and we ended up pulling out these common traits that they all have all these similarities and it was all based off the mindset deleting the fear of failure learning how to be resilient being a major one reframing like I spoke on earlier, finding that call and passion, finding that identity, learning how to trust, all of these things that accumulated to them getting the opportunity

to be that historical figure that we talk about. So what we did was we pulled all those key points out and we wrote our own curriculum on, you know, how what the definition is, what the word actually means, how you actually apply it, where you can apply it. And what we're going to do is, we're going to actually film it. Obviously, the video world is the biggest thing, especially with the younger generation. And we're going to make a film up in Tulsa, Oklahoma, with one of our other partners, Cody Jefferson,

world-renowned speaker and what he has lived through. And we're going to have them in about eight, seven to nine modules. And we'll run them through. They'll be about an hour and they'll go through about 10 or 15 minutes, and then it'll stop and they'll do a worksheet, work through that process. And it'll be all those modules like trust, identity, all those things that I touched on. And so once we do that, we believe this stuff works

because we've lived it, we've studied it. But our biggest thing is we don't want to have to tell you this. We want to show you it works on a piece of paper. So what we were going to do is we partnered with the Boys and Girls Club down in Lafayette, the juvenile correction center, the jail itself, extra mile and a couple of other organizations down there. And we've set up a pilot program. So we're going to run these kids through a pilot program, ages 10 to 16. We'll have two subgroups in that 10 to 13, 14 to 16, and then one will be with a facilitator or one without. Obviously, our hypothesis is that one with the facilitator is going to do much better, but for scalability-wise, then you have to start training the facilitator for everything. Not a problem. We can get it done.

We've even started to look into AI LMSs to start trying to help these kids a little bit. But we'll run through that program and hopefully at the end the data shows that they are in a much mental a much better mental state than they were before the program and at that point if we've got actually hard data showing that these kids are getting better you know we become a different animal there so and as a recent we've actually been in talks with lSU the obviously the school i went to uh we have a meeting with them on thursday to actually try and see if we can get their student athletes through this so we'd have to change up the verbiage change up the four months that in a little bit in the production obviously because it won't be based from 10 to 16 year

old. It'll be more 18 to 25. But yeah, I mean, we just want to make sure that it is working. And if it's not, it's not a total failure. We just got to change up our delivery a little bit. Okay. That didn't work. This kind of hit. Take that and go. So there is no failing in this. It's only learning. How do you measure success in these scenarios? Like what or what looks like progress? Progress is a kid saying I feel better than when I was or than before I was in this program. Success is to get that data back showing percentage points that they are doing much better. I want to see the kids head high.

And the ultimate success for me and the words I can't wait to hear and I know my team can't wait to hear is for us to work with one kid and then to achieve their dream or get that job or be that father. and then to say, I don't think I'd be where I am without heart has no limit. That is the ultimate success because not only do we change that kid's life, that kid is we're going to reciprocate this to all these other people. So it's not even just us reaching out to them. They are going to start reaching out to other people. So it's this chain reaction. But those words I cannot wait to hear.

Yeah. I mean, I love it. I think that, you know, I got a couple. I'm going to take this a slightly different direction. just because I have a couple interesting questions questions that are interesting to me. So I've been doing motivational content for a long time and it's funny.

There are people that get it. And then I have a lot of other people that be like, oh, what are you just trying to be like a YouTube celebrity or whatever? And I'm like, no. One, no one gives a shit about a 43-year-old white guy who, you know, no one cares. But I said, too, I do it for like you said,

if there's one person who picks up on whatever. But I feel like, and I know what you're doing has educational components and it's based in research and science and all that kind of stuff too. So don't take this as diminishing what you're doing. But at its core, you're motivating these kids to believe in themselves and giving them research and data to support that,

but you're motivating them. How do you work past, my belief is you have to be very optimistic to be in the world that you're in. You have to wake up every day believing, you know, this kid's life may be, maybe a little fucked, or this kid over here might be having a hard time, or his dad left him and, you know, whatever, and all these terrible things that we know happen in childhood. And you have to be optimistic that if you sit with them,

if you show them something, if you get them with a group of kids over here, you can, you can, but there's so much cynicism around this type of stuff. How do you, especially like with TikTok and Instagram reels and all this kind of like real time and there's just as much negativity as there is positivity. And how do you start to win that battle, I guess? How do you win that battle personally? Well, I think everything's based off of faith for me for sure. That's where that's the bottom line. That's the foundation.

You know, that's one of the things that I've thought about more and more is it's easy to be optimistic in my mind, I think, because of where I came from. I never struggled for a meal. I never thought I might not have a roof over my head. So it's hard for me to put in perspective what they are truly going through. but then something I've been kind of tinkering with a little bit is everybody's reality is their reality. So my worst day is maybe not getting a meal at the end of the day. Okay, that might be my ultimate worst day. Well, this kid over here's worst day is not having any friends, not having a roof to sleep under and hadn't had a meal all day.

Okay, well, that sounds a lot worse. But in my mind, this is as bad as it gets that I know of. This is as bad as it gets over here that they know of. Whose is worse? From whose perspective? Like that's this hard thing I'm trying to find out. The thing I always try to do is put myself in their shoes. I need to know how they're feeling.

If they're trying to, like for a cop situation, put yourself in their shoes. They're walking up to a car. They have no idea. They don't know what's in the car. They're nothing. And they possibly. could lose their life. But then somebody gets the cop walks up and then they throw an attitude. It's like, well, that cop might have lost his friend the week before. You've got to try and

see their side of it. The trust part is the biggest thing. And I think that's one of the first modules we're going to start with is because in order for you to try and get better at life or take that next step or be optimistic, you've got to trust something. You've got to trust something. You've to trust somebody you've got to trust yourself more than anything and I think that's the biggest part with the kids that we're going to be dealing with is they don't trust themselves they don't trust their judgment they don't trust this and that because they're struggling they go like you say online and they're seeing this and that and you know they're living in a house with five other siblings and they're fighting for one meal a day and how how are they going to trust a decision

that it's like okay well maybe I should be looking and trying to make these decisions over there well what is what are those decisions what maybe i should just try and go get this job oh i don't trust myself enough to even know what to do for it and i think the trust part is the biggest thing is i trust god with whatever i with whatever i'm doing if it goes south it goes south because it was supposed to go south it's i trust that he's going to leave me on the path and i i mean for me that's everything um i think that's the hard part that that we're gonna have to find is because we don't wanna base it all off of faith. Because if they don't believe in that, then I still wanna help them.

I don't shun them because, oh, you don't believe in God? Like, no, that's, you have your belief. But I wanna get on the same side of the table with you. I wanna figure out how we can learn or get you to learn to trust or believe in whatever you wanna believe in, and then we start building off of there. But if you don't have that foundation, it's gonna be a tough road.

Yeah. love that perspective. I live a very similar way. I am a believer, have been my entire life, was raised Catholic and kind of Methodist, I guess. So very confusing. You couldn't get two more opposite Sunday experiences. But then similar to you as well. I played sports my entire life and um sundays are there's games on sundays and you know and and i i've heard people say well you know you should go to church instead of play the game and i always said to my i you know in my mind if if god wanted me to go to church he wouldn't have made me a baseball player and i don't i think that sounds trite and i there's smoke coming out of the years of all the

purists listening to this right now but my point is like You know, if you believe that God puts you on the path and it's your job to walk that path, and this is where I'm at and there's a baseball game on the Sunday, you're telling me he's omnipotent, but he didn't realize that East Greenbush Little League was going to have a game at 10 a.m. on Sunday morning in, you know, 1993. You know, like, to me, it's going to be as long as I'm doing my work and my connection. And I have a point to this. So my point is the reason that I love your perspective.

perspective on this particular topic is I do believe spirituality is vital. I think especially in today's day and age where you see women cutting their hair off and refusing to have sex because Donald Trump won the presidency, which to me is religious fervor, right? My belief is all this crazy, you know, take the super right wing and super left wing, these are people with a God-sized hole in their heart that are dying for a relationship with a higher power and they grab onto these causes because they have nothing else to grab onto, right? If you're an atheist or a nihilist, you have nothing to grab onto. So you grab onto these causes.

Okay. So my point saying, I've said this three times now, but I'm trying to wrap my head around how I want to finish is I think it is our job as believers to believe. and then accept everyone else for exactly the way they come. And the thing that drives me nuts about specifically Christians is there, is there, this desire to put their faith on other people, right?

Like, like your faith is yours, mine is mine. I don't even care if you're not a believer, right? It doesn't matter to me because I believe. And that should be, that's supposed to be enough. And I think that when we can bring people into faith in general, right, maybe they're introduced to Christianity, but then they want to become a Jew or maybe Islam is the right player, wherever they want to go, right? But I think bringing them in in a way where you accept them, you are open about who you are and what you believe, but completely accepting them in the state in which you receive them is how we bring people back to the faith versus this.

finger pointing, if you don't do it the way I do it, then you're wrong or you don't understand. And like, no one wants that shit. That just turns everybody off and is in my way, in my belief structure, not how God intended us to spread the faith. So I love that.

I love your take, especially getting in front of kids that probably, you know, a lot of kids that come from either inner cities or there's a lot of rural, a lot of white rural, downtrotic communities where I'm from. So it's a really weird we have these very old dense urban areas, small city urban areas that are a lot of African-American

and Latino poor. And then 15 miles down the road, you have the same experience but in a trailer park or in some sort of mountain community or whatever happening as well. And it's like how do you speak to these groups? oftentimes like you said they're so they're so caught up and like I don't want to get beat by my dad or or in a fight with the gang

that's running through my street or my trailer park or whatever right like like the idea of some sort of peace and even giving the idea of God a second thought is like you know I'm trying to survive they don't have time for it yeah it's a wonderful thing what you're doing man I'm so happy they're doing

you're out there doing it. I think it's grace, kindness, and confidence. I think that's the biggest thing is you can go and talk to people. Don't throw it in anybody's face. That's not going to do anything. They don't want it thrown in their face. Give them grace. Be kind to them.

Talk to them as if you wanted to be how you would want to be talked to. And be confident in your faith. And let them wonder, why does he look like that? why does he have his chest so far out his head so far high what what is that aura that is coming and i'm a big believer in energy well have them wonder the only way they're going to convert or want to start down that path is if they wonder you can't force somebody to be helped if they don't want to be helped and that's again getting back to the trusting it's not like with these kids we're going to be like hey let's go delete the fear of failure i'm going to teach how to be resilient

Well, if they don't trust themselves, how can they trust that they are being resilient? Yeah, they can't. So be kind to the people. Make them wonder, okay, what is it that that dude has or that girl has? What is it? Let them start questioning. That's a great spot. That is the foundation of everything.

They're brainstorming. What is this? What is this feeling? Why haven't I not seen that? Can I get that? What do I have to do to get that? All these are questions that are perfect. Those are the questions that I want to start popping up in their heads.

Because like you said, they probably weren't even thinking of that stuff before. They're trying to just fight for their next meal or not get shot here or do this and that. I want them to start brainstorming. I want them to start dreaming. Some of these kids haven't even dreamt. I dreamt my whole life because I had a roof overhead. I got the greatest parents in the world. I never had to worry about a thing besides dreaming.

Very easy for me. Not for them. I want them to feel that. I want them to think of stuff that never even remotely. thought of. And we're going to get there. I promise you that. I, dude, I believe it. And I love that you're starting. The idea of starting with trust, not just in you as a facilitator, but, but in themselves, I think is where you have to be. I grew up with, I had a buddy growing up and his dad used to beat the living shit out of him.

And, you know, you look at the way his life played out. He's got himself straightened out now. but man, he was just trying to survive. And, you know, survival oftentimes was not being in his house and hanging out with kids that are five years older than him because they got a flop house and are selling drugs. And he's, you know, he just does. And all he knows is if I go there and deal with their bullshit, I don't get beat by my dad at home, right?

And like, you know, that kind of, that kind of scenario, you know, and he had to deal with a lot of nonsense. in his life that, you know, some of which he brought on himself, but like when you're coming from that place of like, I just, I just need something to eat, or I don't want to get the crap beat out of me, or I don't want to watch my mom get the crap beat out of me or whatever. You can't, like you said, you can't,

you don't have time for dreams. You don't have time to slow down. And I've watched buddies go through it growing up where I grew up. I grew up in a town in 900 in the middle of nowhere, where we used to say you could leave your doors open because the criminals lived in our town. They didn't rob in our town. So like their home base,

like they had to go rob people and then they come back. No, that's a joke. But it was a pretty little town. But my point in saying all that is, I think where you're coming from this idea of starting with trust, not just in you or your organization or the facilitator that you've paired them up with,

but in helping them start to trust themselves and their own ability to make decisions. Because, you know, you can see it even in sports, obviously this is a more, more shallow example, but if you're coaching a team, you know, they can trust you and that's great and they'll work hard for you, but they don't become elite until they believe that they can do it themselves. And that's what every coach is trying to get to, is how do I turn this kid from trusting the process to trusting him or herself? And that's where the real change happens. So where do you see like, okay, so you're building it out,

sounds like west coast, southwest, Louisiana, some deep south. Like, I heard you mentioned Scottsdale. Like, if someone's listening to this and they're like, I'm interested in this program, either as a supporter or maybe a partnership or something, like, where do you see this growing and in what areas of the country are you able to do these type of programs today? So we're really, as of today, really nowhere, because we haven't filmed the actual filming part. The curriculum is fully finished. We should be shooting the curriculum around mid-January it's looking like. It's obviously tough getting eight different speakers, excuse me, eight different

speakers all lined up for two days, you know, to just go in fully. But once the curriculum is filmed and finished, we're going to start it in Lafayette, Louisiana. We'll do that whole thing. And we've already got confirmation. Sorry again. We've very. We've very, got confirmation from the boys and girls club that if everything goes as planned as well, they'll take this to the boys and girls club of USA, which is a nationwide thing. So obviously, hopefully we're hoping that. And then we'll, like I said, we're in conversations with LSU right now on getting the student athletes down or the student athletes going through it as well. Paul Menary, who is my coach at LSU, who's signed with South Carolina now with coaching over there. He's on

our board and they're a big believer in mental health up there at South Carolina as well. So as soon as we can finish up the red tape with the IRB and ARB side of LSU, we'll see if we can get them in joint study as well. But yeah, really, I mean, once we get the filming and everything done and this actual curriculum done, the way people are going to be able to access the full curriculum is actually going to be ran through our for-profit side as well on our clothing brand. We're actually going to do something really new. I'm super stoked about it. I think it's going to be a massive game changer, but it's called some NFC tech, the same stuff that's in your credit cards.

We're going to actually intertwine it into our clothing, so where that kids will be able to tap in and get full access to the curriculum so that they can start working through, helping their mental side. We'll obviously give them other community things that drive more community-based events and stuff through that. So if you've got a shirt, you've got the curriculum, you can get access to it. But if you want to get involved in stuff, you can just go to Heart Hasn't a Limit Foundation.com. And then we've got, you know, our full website there. And then we've got our donor link that's got a very good description of our summary of what we're actually doing, who's all involved. And then other ways you can get involved as well. Guys, I'll have the link to Heart Hasn'telimit Foundation.com and show notes and descriptions.

So whatever you're listening or watching in, you can just scroll down and find that. Cole, I appreciate you, man. I appreciate your approach. I love that you're helping kids. I think that the way you view the world is incredible. And thank you for your time. No, thank you, Ron. I appreciate it.

It's some fun. Let's go. Yeah, make it look. Make it look. Thank you for listening to the Ryan Hanley show. Be sure to subscribe and leave us a comment or review wherever you listen to podcasts. Game in a game for me. I never switched to no change in me.

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