Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley - The Power of Forced Innovation | Justin Freishtat
Episode Date: December 27, 2025Spartan philosophy, built in the black-ops lab of business: https://www.findingpeak.comFinding Peak podcast: https://linktr.ee/ryan_hanleyJoin our community of unreasonable leaders achieving undeniabl...e success: https://www.findingpeak.comWatch on YouTube: https://link.ryanhanley.com/youtubeJustin Freishtat, a serial entrepreneur and investor, joins Ryan Hanley to discuss his journey from running an $87M food business to the world of high-stakes finance.He shares his story of navigating a forced exit, battling imposter syndrome, and redesigning his life to achieve a new level of success.Connect with Justin FreishtatInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinfreishtat/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justin-freishtat-68063579/This show is sponsored by:Roam: The #1 Remote Office Software in the World: https://ro.am/ryan-hanley/OpusClip: #1 AI video clipping and editing tool: https://link.ryanhanley.com/opusRiverside: HD Podcast & Video Software | Free Recording & Editing: https://link.ryanhanley.com/riversideWhisperFlow: Never waste time typing on your keyboard again: https://link.ryanhanley.com/whisperflowCaptionsApp: One app for all your social media video creation: https://link.ryanhanley.com/captionsappPerspective.co: The #1 funnel builder for lead generation: https://link.ryanhanley.com/perspectiveThis show is part of the Unplugged Studios Network — the infrastructure layer for serious creators. 👉 Learn more at https://unpluggedstudios.fm.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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I've learned to trust my gut more than anything.
I used to ignore it.
You start making excuses for people.
And now when somebody shows me who they are, I believe them the first time.
I don't think it's ever happened one time that somebody showed me some sort of a red flag that I passed up on that it didn't get worse.
You have to get better at trusting the authenticity of the feelings that you get from people.
What do you got going today?
Man, I think it's the end of the year.
Lots of changes in several businesses.
Got new ones starting.
I think it's, I think what's on my mind mostly is just being able to handle change and
things that, you know, in the past, you know, if you do one thing for a long time like I did,
I did one thing for 12 years.
And then, you know, you exit that company and it's like a total panic of you have all
these thoughts of can I do this again?
Was I one trick pony?
Do I only know one thing very well?
And then here we are three or four years later.
And I've already been involved with like six other businesses that have outdone that.
So it's a season of change right now.
Like I left a board a couple days ago.
And I left another company that I was managing a private equity fund to go launch a new one that I'm starting in January.
So it's just like a season of like changes and used to like really be tough on me.
And now it's just exciting.
It's just a different mindset.
I don't know.
That's what's all my mind.
Yeah.
No, I love that.
And actually I went through that in 20, the end of 2023.
I exited from the company that.
I had started. And it's funny, you have these moments and, you know, they're happy,
you know, they're happy moments to a certain extent. But at the same time, there's like a loss of
identity. And I had the exact same thing happen. And, you know, we're getting close to
three years removed now. But it, man, it lasted. That lack of identity or loss of identity or
whatever you want to call it, that persisted for much longer than I thought it would have. I thought
that would be like a month or two and then you'd kind of find the next thing and roll.
And man, even, even though I was working and, you know, I had projects going and different
clients and, you know, at that point, because I wasn't really sure what I was doing, I was taking
client work.
And even six to 12 months later, I was still feeling this tinge of like, man, that was such a
great project.
We crushed it.
You know, this four year turnaround and, you know, what the hell do you do next?
Like, how did you start to recalibrate your identity and figure out where you wanted to spend
your time?
I think I just tried a lot of things.
I just kept moving.
The one thing that, you know, in hindsight, you think you're going to exit, you're going
to chill for a minute.
It was the opposite.
Like, I was in complete panic mode, like in startup mode.
But I think you just keep trying things.
You see what clicks.
And it's going to be super uncomfortable because you still feel like you're this other person.
Like when someone says, like, who are you?
What do you do?
You've been saying the same thing for 10 years.
It's like, that's not who I am anymore.
And you start to step into this new thing, even though it's working.
or you're having success right off the bat, it still doesn't feel right for a while.
Like, you've got to really settle into that thing.
And there's that imposter syndrome of like, you know, I had an organic food company for 10 years.
It's like now I'm a hedge fund manager.
It's like, like what qualifies me to do that?
Who am I to do this?
You have all these thoughts.
Even though you're having success.
I mean, we built a $20 million fund in less than 12 months, my first one.
And I still was feeling like, do I deserve to be here?
It's like a very strange thing to go through.
But I think the difference is everybody feels.
like this. And there's always somebody further along in the journey, but your ability to just
show up and do it anyways and fight through those thoughts is just the difference.
Where did you pick up that character trait? Because I think a lot of people stay places that,
well, I know for a fact that a lot of people stay places that they, they're unhappy. There's
this grinding daily dull friction that they deal with. And it comes out in all these different
places, whether they're overweight or the relationship with their spouse isn't great or their
kids or whatever, but, and they know they're not happy, but they won't make the move because of
what you just said, that identity part, you know what I mean? The lack of, you know, who am I?
How do I present myself? Like, how did you work through that to come out the other side and sit here
today? Obviously, you, you know, I know you said it's a time of change, but obviously you're also
very confident in where you are and the projects you're working on. So, so what was it that
allowed you to do that and work through it? I wish I could take credit for it, but this is, I'm going to
write a book about this. It's going to be called forced innovation. We had a pandemic that blew the
company up. You exit out of nowhere. I was forced to go figure it out. If that hadn't happened,
I would have just kept cruising, right? Like how many people lost their jobs during the pandemic
and then panicked and then found themselves in a way better place? People created generational wealth
out of being forced to innovate. So the concept is, if you get lucky enough to have forced innovation
happen on you, then you'll get it.
So it's like, how do I get myself now to force myself to innovate, even if the marketplace
isn't making me?
It's the hardest thing to do, right?
You max out a vehicle and now it's like, cool, let's coast here.
The hardest thing to do is to say, okay, I have a new skill set.
I can see a new mountaintop.
I'm going to burn this one down to go to a whole new level.
Most people will never be able to do that myself included unless the marketplace forces
you too.
So because I went through that experience, now I can feel it when it's time to just force
myself to innovate again and go for something that's a higher level.
Yeah.
One thing that I talk about a lot is there's this philosophy that I picked up from Jordan
Peterson called Act As If.
And it's probably not his original idea either, but it's who I took it from.
And in his case, he was referring to his relationship with God, but I think, you know,
for my own purposes, I've extended it to so many places.
Like, I wanted to move from being, you know, a relatively small, obscure podcast to
starting to rank in the top 200 for the U.S., right?
So I had to start acting differently.
I had to start asking questions differently.
I had to start approaching guests differently.
I had to start publishing differently,
right?
Acting as if I already had that show.
That exercise has allowed me to work through a lot of these things.
But I think so many people, they're just,
they're unwilling to take that step.
And this kind of leads me to my next question,
which is, do you think most people should, right?
I feel like when we're on,
having conversations like this, it's so easy to be like, take that next step, reach out into
the unknown, whatever. And I honestly believe, this is my take and I want to hear yours, is that
there is a large, and probably the majority of people, they are just better suited to deal with
the dull, you know, like a little bit of friction pain that they deal with every day versus
the nail in their hand that they might get if they go out into the real world.
Couldn't agree more. I think there's a big genetic component.
that we don't understand about brain wiring and why some of us are like this, if you don't
lose sleep over what potential you could unlock, like, if you're not willing to suffer at a deep
level and go through really hard things just to find out what's on the other side of it, it's kind
of a twisted, delusional confidence that some of us have against all odds. You literally have to be
able to flip statistics on their head and say, okay, I'm going to be the exception of the rule.
knowing you're going to go through so much pain and suffering to get there.
So no, most people, I think, would be much happier with stability, without crazy amounts of adversity.
You got to, like, literally want it that bad to go into it.
Because there's a lot of people who will dabble and then they get punched in the face once or twice.
And they're like, I'm out, you know.
So I think just knowing that that's what's going to happen.
And the higher you go, what I've noticed of all the people that I look up to, my biggest mentors,
anybody further along in the journey than me has more pain than me, more losses, has gone through
way harder things than I've gone through. And I've realized that every terrible piece of adversity
I've gone through is just the qualification of getting to this place that, you know, I was so obsessed
with getting to. So if you don't feel that way, like don't have the imposter syndrome. Like,
if you're not willing to go through what it takes to get there, like get rid of the goals. Like,
don't punish yourself. Just be happy with the life you have. Yeah. I think there's a
conversation that needs to happen more often, especially on shows that are geared towards
business or entrepreneurship, et cetera, around just like, maybe your purpose isn't your job.
That's completely okay.
Maybe you're just a great amateur golfer and you're part of the league and you play twice
a week and you're teaching your kids and you go out for love golf with your wife or whatever.
And like you hate your job or you're just mad on your job.
But it allows you to live this golf life that you.
that you love that makes you so happy.
So yeah, are you showing up every day and you're crushing it and selling big deals
and posting them on Instagram with your, you know, your Ferrari behind you and, you know,
no, right?
You're stamping TPS reports and sliding them across the table and, you know, whatever.
But you get to live this life that you actually love.
And there's nothing wrong with that.
And I feel far too often we kind of almost like backhandedly admonish that life.
Like, oh, you're choosing just to like be a state worker and play golf.
there's something wrong with you.
And there's literally nothing wrong with that.
And I feel like we just need to say it more often.
I shouldn't agree more.
I mean,
the happiest people in my life,
when I look at friends and family over the years
are people who are not complex in their thinking
of what they need to create in the world.
Like it's definitely a burden and it's okay.
It's okay for us to be like,
this is what we want to do with our lives.
Like it is what I want to do with my life.
Most people don't.
And that's, they shouldn't.
Like it's like the,
story of the guy, like the rich guy who goes on a trip, chartters the boat.
There's a guy there and takes some fishing.
He asked him, what's his favorite thing to do?
It's like, oh, I'd love to go out, do this, catch a fish, take it home, and, you know,
spend time with my family and cook the meal.
And he's like, well, if you, he's like, I'll invest in this.
I'll help you get more boats.
You can get more fish.
We can hire people.
And then you'll be able to sell it.
And then you'll be able to go spend time with your family.
And it's like, he already has that.
Yeah.
Right?
Yeah.
So it's like, you don't need to create.
create massive things to have the life you want.
And that's the problem with social media is it's like now it's like, okay, cool, you got an R8,
well, it's not a Huracan.
Oh, well, it's not an SVJ.
Well, it's not, you know, like there's no end to that game.
Yeah, it's funny.
You know, so that, that's a Mexican parable that you just share, which I think is really
powerful.
The part of that that I, that I think, this is just conjecture, I guess, but I've always found
lacking in that particular example.
I think it's very powerful.
It's like, I do think there's an argument to say,
living the non-scaled life, let's call that kind of option A,
what the Mexican fisherman is currently living,
and then the scaled life option B,
where ultimately you end up at the same point.
The difference between those two,
and I think this is an important part of this,
is the scaled life most likely has some sort of war chest.
So if you have a really bad day, right,
you get that life back,
where the unscaled life,
if you're not, if you don't at least have some sort of base, right, retirement or asset or something, right?
One bad day can take you out of the game.
So I do think there's an argument that like you got to handle your business.
I think today there's a lot of young men in particular that are not handling their business.
They're taking these half-hearted moonshots on some bullshit app or faceless YouTube video strategy.
It doesn't work.
They fall back.
They're unhappy.
No purpose.
And like it's, they're just.
not taking like in general i have this feeling that that this generation while well very interesting
and dynamic and i'm not one of those that they're all lazy or whatever so i think that's a stupid
argument i do however think that they they lack a long-term vision for life in general and and
that's that's where that the pressure of that scaled life to me is the is the option that i think
you should give more credence to only because even if you get part of the way that
there, you're still going to have some sort of backing, some sort of war chest or skill set that
allows you to live through your worst day. And maybe that's the insurance guy in me. I grew up
in the insurance industry. But like, I don't know. I think it's a conversation needs to be
having more often. Yep. You're hitting all the buttons of why I do this, right? Like that's,
but that's like the why is like not everybody's wired to say, well, nobody else in my family is
getting wealthy. So when someone gets cancer, who's going to pay the bill? Like,
these are the things I think about, right? Yeah, yeah, me too. You know, like there's
going to be no better reward for your hard work than when you can help people you love.
So for me, it's putting yourself in a position to do that. And then it's the how.
It's like, okay, we're going to get together for Christmas, but how are we going to do it?
You know, what experiences are we going to get to have because of what was built?
These are the reasons why I do it. It's for the experiences and the things that I can provide
for other people that are extremely fulfilling.
I love that. It's taken on responsibility in your place in the family and friend groups.
that you should rightly have and the pressure that comes with it.
But the reward is so good on the other side.
So you're an executive at Heartland Foods.
And as you said, COVID hits.
What?
Used to be.
We sold that company.
That's what I mean.
Used to be.
Right?
And COVID hits.
And that business gets sold.
And you decide to go from that life to venture capital.
Why?
What was the impetus to say, I'm going to become an investor.
I'm going to run a fund.
Like, this is what I want to do is the next stage of my life.
So Heartland Foods was a great business.
Don't get me wrong.
I mean, any business that gets sold is a good business.
But the biggest lessons from that were, you know, when you're dealing with food and trucks
on the road and monster utility bills, walk in freezers, you know, salespeople crashing cars
into people's homes, like you have logistical nightmares, small margins, and you can build
a very big business that is not very profitable.
So, and it was profitable, but I'm splitting hair.
It's like the PTSD that came out of that for me was, okay, what is the next vehicle I could choose?
That is much lower headache, much larger margins, better recurring revenue.
I wanted to squeeze the most, you know, juice for the effort.
And there's nothing better than the capital world, especially going fund to fund.
Someone else is managing everything or if I bring in partners that are great at real estate or
private equity and I raise the money to the deals and just manage the investors,
working from my laptop anywhere in the world with no employees and I'm making a ton more money than
I was before. So for me, it was how do I redesign a better lifestyle than being stuck in a brick and
mortar type business that's a logistical nightmare? Seven days a week in the office or in homes,
building sales teams, like all these things that were great to do in the first business because of the
skill sets that come with learning all of this positions you to do something. That's a better vehicle.
So for me, I just went into that world because it was, for me, the absolute best vehicle to create wealth fast with the least amount.
I don't know.
I think I identify as a lazy workaholic now.
I love that.
That's a fantastic way to describe yourself.
That is probably more often the truth of entrepreneurs.
But no one wants to admit to that because they don't want that lazy moniker.
That's probably because you're just kind of always working.
but maybe not, you know, not always grinding.
And I love that.
That's a great way to describe yourself.
So maybe just for the audience who isn't as familiar,
you know, I think a lot of people hear VC, PE, private,
you know, they hear all these different,
these capital mechanisms that we can,
that a business can raise money from.
But I don't think many people necessarily understand
exactly how those companies make money.
Like what is the actual mechanism in which that
business model because I think at a high level, I think the audience can understand the difference
between kind of that low margin, tons of physical assets, tons of people business at Heartland
versus the fun business. But maybe just break down that model a little bit more to kind of
juxtapose between the two. Yeah. So, I mean, there's so many different asset classes and they're all
different. Let's take the basic ones. Our first fund was a trading fund, right? So we're raising
capital into a fund. We're trading equities. We're trading currency pairings. There's no overhead,
literally no overhead except your accounting, you're auditing, the platforms, and you're taking
performance fees off of the growth of the money you're trading. So, you know, it's fast money.
It's also, you have a bad month. You make no money, right? So it's a different type of world.
But that's how, that's how trading funds make money and off an annual management fee of two
So, you know, you raise $100 million, you make $2 million for breakfast, whether you work or not
the whole year.
So these are, you know, things you think about when you build funds.
And there's a lot of money out there.
Private equity is a totally different thing.
Early stage, that's the venture side of things.
I don't play in that space.
It's just not my identity.
I don't want to make 100 investments for one to work out.
We do have a late stage private equity fund.
I like that sweet spot because you're getting in private.
private after all the big money has come in and the failure rate is very low.
And you're getting in at a discount before it goes public.
Like we were in, we go fund to fund with Innovation X.
We're talking pre-IPO on Palantir, Spotify, Airbnb, Lyft, SpaceX, Flexport, access to the
unicorn billion dollar companies privately before they go public.
I like that niche.
So raise a lot of capital into that.
And we make money off the exit.
So you don't make any money on the way in on.
one of those, whereas like a trading fund, you make money every month if you perform.
This is a longer game.
So, you know, we're talking two to five years for the exit, but it's a big chunk, right?
So I think when you're designing your fund strategy, you want to think about it as like fast money, medium money, slow money.
You know, you got to get paid today, but we want monster checks out of equity in the future.
And it's the same with real estate.
Yeah, I was going to be my next question is when you have a fund business, do you then layer
are you considering the payouts and how you're layering together these funds and putting
together your portfolio?
Because like you said, like, it's great to know you got into SpaceX at, you know, 200 million
or 200 billion and it's about to go public for over a trillion.
That's great.
But that still might not happen for another 18 to 24 months.
We'll see, you know, when it actually gets, when the regulars come through.
And, you know, that's a long time to wait to recoup your capital when there's no cash flow
coming in.
So that's a, that's a tricky strategy.
So it's just like, you know, if you go to a financial advisor as an individual and they put you in this diversified portfolio to build your retirement, that's how I build the fund structures, right?
It's we need to have these different buckets, different periods of time, like real estate's just been awful the past few years.
But, you know, our private equity, we have a debt fund.
We're paying out 16% to our investors with monthly cash flow.
And then we go buy ecom businesses that are spitting off 30, 40% and keep the spread.
And that's cash flow to the, you know, to the overall bigger picture while we wait for big exits.
So I think it's diversification within the different private placements.
Are you bullish on the roll up M&A business model still?
Yeah, people are crushing it.
I think I'm bullish on everything if you do it right.
Like we don't asset discriminate.
I think that's the most important highlight here is, you know, people are like,
is it a good time to buy stocks?
Is it a good time to buy real estate?
It's always a good time to buy all of it if you can buy it right.
Yeah.
And if your timeline's long enough, right?
Yeah, or sometimes it's a spread.
Like, we'll put something under contract here and then flip it to another P company and
we'll be in a deal for 30 days.
Huh.
So you don't always want to hold it, you know?
Yeah, yeah.
So you essentially are just packaging, like you found it, you packaged it up and said,
actually there's a better fund over here that's a better fit and you'll just flip it to
them and put a Vig on it.
Or you can get a piece of raw land.
Like we just got one on the water in Tennessee.
got it at half the value.
We decided we're going to do the horizontal development, just put in the water sewer,
chop off the lots.
It's next to a country club.
It's got a five-year wait list.
The builders want that land.
There's a $25 million house being built next to our four lots, which will sell off to builders.
It'll take about a year to develop the land.
So that's a quick exit in real estate.
You know, one-year development.
Probably net those investors somewhere between 25 and 50%.
Keep your head around all these different asset classes when you're making.
a decision? Partners. I don't underwrite. I don't source deals. Any deal flow that comes into me,
I send to the team. I don't deal with any of that. And I think that's why when people are like,
well, how can you, you know, be on the board of this company and, you know, you have a social media
marketing business and you have all these funds and different partners in each of the funds.
I think I'm just strategically, what I've realized my skill set is just stay good at what I'm good
at and then partner with the rest.
What explicitly would that be?
Operators.
Like I'm finding the niche best people at what they do.
We're launching a new equity swing trading fund in January.
And I believe that this quant team and these traders, I mean, they've got 25 years plus on Wall Street before leaving.
Their performance is audited and speaks for itself.
I mean, it's so good that I literally told them, I need you to like lower the returns because it's going to be really hard to raise capital into something.
that did over a thousand percent last year.
Yeah.
When you're examining a business and you're looking at the leadership team,
what are you looking for in their personalities, right?
Not necessarily what they say or do, but like, are there any personality traits
or quirks that either are immediate red flags or that, you know,
toss up a green light that says, man, this guy or gal, it may be go time with these.
This is the hardest thing in business, especially the higher up you go, the bigger the stakes, the sharkier it is.
And the problem is, is people that are don't have ethics and don't have integrity that are at the top are just as polished as the people who do.
And that is unfortunately what I've learned is you can do all the vetting in the world.
You can do all the due diligence.
Sometimes the people with the most integrity actually have blemishes on their record.
And what I've learned is if you've got a perfect track record, I don't really trust you.
Like, it's, you know, when I went through my first big loss, you know, awful, awful fraud that happened to us.
Some people didn't know if I did it or, you know, whatever.
It didn't really matter.
I thought it was going to ruin me.
I thought my reputation was done.
People were writing on Reddit and it was going around the internet and I'm like, I'm done.
Like, no one's ever going to do business with me ever again.
actually what it did is it qualified me to play at the level with the people who have actually built things and they got broken and they didn't do anything illegal and they recovered.
So it actually helped.
So I think that's a really positive principle to put into your brain.
Like if you haven't had any incredible life-changing losses that are just you think you're going to get destroyed and you're never coming back from it, there's an empowerment on the back end of that that's going to make you go further, faster, harder because you realize that.
There's just nobody who's built anything big that didn't have losses along.
Yeah, I used to say to my HR team, I only want us to hire people that walk with a limp.
Because like, when shit gets hectic, you have to be able to operate, speak, execute in a way that isn't always clear.
It isn't always politically correct.
It isn't always nice.
It doesn't mean you can't be those things.
or that you should strive to not be those things.
But when shit's going on and you're in the foxhole,
you need to know that you got someone else there
who's like been in the foxhole again.
You know, not that a first timer can't make their way out,
but man, you feel a lot more comfortable
when the person who's got your back,
you know, you know they've been there
and they've survived it already.
And I think your point about the people that you can't trust,
looking, feeling, dressing the exact same.
way as the people who are trustworthy are kind of on the up and up.
I think that's a really good point.
How do you know, what, how do you start to pull them apart?
Like, like if you have these two people, same suit, same look, good looking, you know,
good looking person, they got the thing.
They, you know, how do you figure out which one of them is the creep and which one of them
is the killer?
Number one, I've really learned to trust my gut more than anything.
I used to ignore it and say, oh, no, it's like you start making excuses for people.
And now when somebody shows me who they are, I believe them the first time.
I think that's enough principle in itself.
I don't think it's ever happened one time that somebody showed me some sort of a red flag that I passed up on that it didn't get worse.
So you got to trust your intuition there.
And, you know, give everybody a fair chance to show you who they are.
but they will.
And you have to get better at trusting the authenticity of the feelings that you get from people.
But at the end of the day, you just don't know what you have in a business partner, in a marriage, like anything, until you go through really hard times together.
And, you know, I've found rocks of partners that I will be with for life because of what we went through together and nobody bailed.
Everybody dug their heels in.
And that's where you really get to find out.
So in a weird way, people are going to hurt you.
You're going to lose money.
You're going to get stolen from.
I like going through those processes because without that,
I wouldn't be able to find the real ones.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And you couldn't have that gut feeling if you hadn't been through all the nasty shit
beforehand.
I was having this discussion with a friend of mine who's,
we were talking about, you know, good and evil.
And he's, we were talking about, in this case,
our relationship with God and our religion and that kind of stuff.
And I said to him, like, dude, you can't know good if you are incapable of evil.
Like, how do you know what good looks like if you don't know that inside you is also the ability to be a complete raging a hole that would screw someone over?
Like, if you've never had that thought in your head, then you can't know what good looks like.
It doesn't mean you act on it.
Being good is not acting on the murderous thought that that rolls through your head.
head, right? That's being good. But if you just sit there and you, you never take a chance and
you're always safe and you're always put together and you're always, you know, perfect in your
mind, you actually don't know what the world looks like. You don't know what it's like to just
get punched in the mouth, you know, and not know where it came from or, you know, you just
don't know. It was wild to me that he, he had never considered that. Right. In his mind,
he was this good, upstanding.
you know, two kids, my wife, we're still married.
And he's a great guy.
I love him that.
I mean, don't give you wrong,
he's probably listening and he's going,
you son of a gun.
Now you know what evil feels like is the way you're feeling
now that I've been talking about you, dude.
But this idea of like, it's almost like you want to,
like should it be early in your career?
Here's the question I want to ask you.
I have a lot of people will say 37 to 45
that will reach out to me who are in the same.
second or third phase of their career, right?
Like they had the first job, usually corporate or or some kind of kind of strict
family job. And now they're starting to explore entrepreneurship.
If that, if someone at that age, right, who I'm also going to assume has some sort of family,
some sort of obligations, probably a mortgage, they can't just live that couch life.
What are your recommendations for that individual who wants to start to get, who has that
entrepreneurial bug that they're not, they know they're not going to get
rid of. Let's say it's a real, they have a real entrepreneurial drive. They have the mentality
kind of that you discussed earlier to be an entrepreneur, but they're in that moment of, I haven't
done this before, but I also have a mortgage and a spouse and two kids and I can't just be living
on a couch if this doesn't work. Like, how does that person break into this life?
That's a family decision, in my opinion. It's a family decision, right?
what can you live with?
If you go to your spouse and say, hey, I'm going for it.
It might cost us our house.
It might, whatever, but it might also give us everything we've dreamed of.
Are those shared dreams?
Like, this is just a reality of why they call it a starter marriage.
A lot of times, you grow differently.
And that's a decision that the person, individual, has to make.
And if the other person's not down for that journey, you've got a decision to make, right?
I think there's no right answer to these things. It's hard. These are the hardest dichotomies of life.
you know are you growing together are you rowing together are you changing is it is it gonna work like
what can you live with you know and then maybe there's a threshold it's okay we've saved this much
we're willing to go like this if it doesn't work we're gonna stop here and I'm gonna get a job right
right there's that's one way of doing it and then save up the money again take another shot it's not
the way I would do it but I don't think there's a right or wrong way to do this stuff I think you
start your business while you keep your job like you want lower stress like that's the number one
thing it drives me nuts is when people reach out to me like that. And I'm like, why do you have to
change anything? Just start the business on top of it. Because if you can't work two nine to fives
on top of each other, you're not going to make it in this world anyways.
I had this guy reach out. He's a good guy. And I know he meant well, but he was asking
this question. He wasn't the impetus for this, but then when you were answering it hit me.
And I said to him, I kind of gave him not exact. I actually liked the way that you position
it better. But, you know, basically I said, look, like, if you, this thing that you're telling
me you want, based on what you've described, this is something you can at least start
either at night or in the morning. And he immediately jumped back with an excuse as to why he
couldn't work on it in the morning or at night. And I said, just so you know, like, my advice
is like the first couple months. One, if this thing works the way you're telling me you think
it's going to work, you're going to be working mornings all day and night on this business
in the very near future. So if you're telling me, you can't do that today.
like you said, this is a conversation you want to go back and have some thoughts about.
And I also think that there is an unfortunate reality that for some people, you just missed your window.
I'm not saying that's the case.
I'm not saying you can't.
That's not what I'm saying.
But I think if you're unwilling to make the sacrifice, you're unwilling to get rid of the country club membership,
or you're unwilling to downgrade from the, you know, suburban premier, you know, $85,000, you know,
SUV to a, you know, RAV 4 for a few years, you're, you've missed your window. You've missed your
window. I took a HELOC out of my house to start my first fund. I bet half the house on it, you know.
It's just, I think everybody wants to think they can live in both worlds, but if you want a new life,
it's going to cost you your old one, period. You can't have both. If you, if you, if you,
if you want a new life, it's going to cost you your old one. It's, it's so simple, so straightforward.
but it's 100% the case.
And I feel like it's a reality that we almost intentionally avoid.
Like when you say that logically, everyone who's listening to it goes, yes, that makes
complete sense.
If I want to be this and I'm this thing over here today, I got a change to get there.
But I think the emotional time, the time that you spend with what's actually going on in here,
we don't actually, we want to be the same person we are today.
We just want more freedom, more money, and more visibility or whatever.
whatever, right? It's like it doesn't work that way. Yeah, that's the disconnection of why most people are
unhappy. They can't accept what they have because they won't go for what they want. And it's,
it's the worst zone to be in. I spend some time there. And this is why you got to train your brain,
work on your personal development first. You got to become the person before you're going to go
create the thing. And that's the other thing too is everybody wants to like make their personal
brand after they did the thing. It's like you've never like if you haven't done something, you don't
know how to do it. None of us do until we go do it. So you're always going to be going in blind.
You're never going to have the answers. And if you can live in a perpetual state of comfort in that and
train your brain to identify what you're feeling and just push through it, like that's the only way to to
be an outlier in this world. Yeah. I want to get a little tactical for a second. So you are part of a lot
of different businesses. You've said that. You said that this is a time of change,
of evolution. You're considering new projects. Okay. How do, you know, one of the things that I've
spent a lot of time researching is around focus and staying focused during the day,
trying to optimize flow or your zone of genius, whatever you want to call it.
How do you structure your days or your time so that you're, you know, with all these
competing projects that you're able to give them kind of your full attention and effort
as much as that particular project needs without becoming, you know, overwhelmed or, you know, feeling like you're stressed out or you're not able to give the energy that you need to that project.
Yeah, it's, I think this is one of the hardest things to develop.
But the calendar is the most important thing to me.
I mean, if you don't have an organized calendar, you're never going to be able to increase your capacity and then the efficiency in the capacity that you have, right?
Because then it's like, okay, once we fill up the whole calendar, it's like, well, there's still more time, actually.
you just got to get more efficient in the blocks.
So if you don't schedule everything, it's not all in the calendar, you're just never going to get there.
You're going to be kind of just squandering time and confused and you don't know what to work on.
So I'm very simple with that.
It's just my calendar starts at 6 a.m. every day.
There's companies I'm involved with on the East Coast.
Those meetings are really early in the morning.
And then it's the central time and the mountain people and like wherever.
And then there's international, right?
So, I mean, I don't stop.
You know, I've just designed a life where I like to do this work.
I don't, I did in-home sales for a long time.
I don't like living in the car and living in people's kitchens selling knives,
even though I was the best in the world at it.
It's like, that vehicle max is out of 300K.
You can't make more than that.
But it's like, now I actually work a lot more and I enjoy it because I'm talking to people.
We're having conversations that are gigantic with a bunch of zeros.
It's just exciting.
It's like, what else would you rather be doing?
And I can do it on the beach.
I can do it here in my office, anywhere in the world.
So I've kind of just designed a life where I want to be in it all day long.
So I think that's what's important.
But yeah, you're going to have to grind skill sets.
Like this gets developed.
Nobody becomes this overnight.
It starts with just being able to handle your 9 to 5.
And then being like, okay, instead of from 5 to 9, instead of going out for beers every night
or, you know, playing golf or whatever.
Like, I did all these things.
And over time, it was the things I got rid of that made
space for the next level of capacity to add on to do more.
So it's just, I can't remember what the exact five are.
There's like five areas of your life.
It's like your friends, your family, your hobbies, your investments and whatever.
It's like everybody's trying to have an equal amount of everything in their life.
You can only be excellent at three categories at the same time.
So it's like every time I've gone to the next level, it's been okay, no friends for a year.
Or, you know, not going to be seeing family much.
you know, hobby's got to go, whatever it is.
One of the life lessons that I don't think is talked about enough
and it's certainly not taught to children is this idea of seasons.
We all have seasons, right?
And like there's a season where maybe you are that corporate professional
who has the, you know, Mercedes and the golf club membership
and that's what you do at that time
because all your friends do it, all your coworkers do it.
you go to the same restaurants and this is the life you live and that's the season you're in.
But if you find yourself with the entrepreneurial bug, right, you can't get this idea out of your head.
You feel like you cannot move forward in your life without trying to make this happen.
This is what you're going to do, right?
We have to categorize that as an entirely new season.
And in that season, you don't have the golf club or maybe you don't have the golf club membership.
Maybe you do, you know, your kids, you know, don't get to go to 17 different away camps.
this year, right? You aren't buying your wife, her annual Rolex that you give her, you know,
whatever these extravagant things are, right? It's just a different season. It doesn't mean
you're less of a person. It doesn't mean that you've failed. Like, we take on, I think when we
try to, we try to take one season and smash it into the next, that's where a lot of this
identity stuff comes into. It's like, I wish that I could go back to like the end of 2023.
and tell that version of myself, look, man,
like, that was a really good season.
Tons of fun.
You learned more than you could have ever learned about starting, running,
telling, exiting, all the things that you need to do
to start and get out of a business.
You know, and make a couple million bucks.
That season's over, bro.
Like, you know what I mean?
Like, I want to grab that guy by the collar and go,
you get a couple weeks of, like, not knowing who you are.
And then that season's over.
Go figure out what the next season is.
Like, you're a new person.
I just didn't, as crazy it sounds,
like I didn't have my hands around this concept of seasons.
And it's like, that's the one thing I wish I could go back.
Not do it differently, not change anything.
Just, hey, this is the period on this season of your life,
time to figure out what the next one is, go.
And then you can almost like, it's almost like this rejuvenating moment
where you get to kind of like rebuild yourself, right?
Like now you're, you're an investor.
You're, you know, you have the marketing stuff.
You have all these different things.
You have these projects.
You're international.
You know, you have all these international connections.
You're just completely different person.
Not completely different, but you're this different version of yourself,
which is allowed to have and do different things than the previous version.
Work out more.
Spend more time on peptides and shit, you know, like stuff that maybe wasn't in the previous season
that you wish it was there.
Things you couldn't afford at one point that now you can because of the work you did.
I mean, that's so beautifully said because that is the way to look at life as seasons and we're all trying to hold on to the season.
it's like if you can just understand that nothing lasts forever you know maybe you did have a job
for 10 years and then you get laid off like these things happen it's like okay great like it feels
terrible but you're being planted like it's always the case and you also for like the hard charging
entrepreneurs like a season of not working so much is nice too or not taking on so much you can travel and
you know we've like i i have the opposite like i get guilty when i'm not working really hard so it's
it's really hard to do that, but it's sacrifices.
It's just like, like when I was starting, you know, the Heartland days were very stable,
you know, Rangerover, Mercedes, house, all that stuff.
And then it was like, okay, like I want to start something.
It's, it's going to cost money.
I need marketing spend.
I'm going to be negative the first year, I'm sure.
So it's like I sold cars that I loved and like lost that like ego that people aren't
willing to do to go try and build the next thing.
When you, so you're coming across all these.
deals. And this is where I'd like to kind of spend our final minutes together.
You're coming across all these deals, talking entrepreneurs, running into, you know,
probably hundreds of just incredibly intelligent, well-connected people.
What are the areas of the marketplace that you're finding the most excitement around?
I mean, obviously, AI is a huge topic, but also, you know, crypto's kind of,
crypto's on a down swing. And now all these people who are trying to sell you their latest
crypto investing ebook or telling you to, you to,
you know, get into something else.
And so like, is it, is it energy?
Is it infrastructure?
Like, like when you're coming across these projects,
maybe what are the sectors that you're hearing the most excitement around?
There's just so many levels to this conversation.
At the highest levels, you know, people deploying in the billions,
energy is huge right now, nuclear, a lot of capital flooding towards,
how are we going to power all these data centers?
And, you know, the whole AI thing.
I mean, for me specifically, there's one specific company.
It's publicly traded.
It's called Safe Space Global.
The stock tickers SSGC.
I was on the board.
I just left.
And that company, to me, is positioned to be the next AI unicorn that nobody knows about right now.
So without giving away any, you know, private information, it's, I'm really excited about that space.
And what it is, it's a, it's multimodal AI that uses cameras.
So imagine, like we're solving some of the biggest problems in the world right now.
Imagine car drives into a parking lot at a school.
The license plate gets read.
It gets run across every database, registered sex offenders.
It scans social media to see if there was anything written angrily in the last week or whatever.
And then it can see through the car and see if there's any weapons in it.
And before someone can even get into a school, the AI uses maglocks and locks a school down.
sends an alert right to 911.
Like all that happens before somebody even gets to get close to shooting a school.
That's incredible.
Do they call that a world engine?
That's a, is that what they're calling?
Like, I know that's not the technical term, but like I've heard this kind of,
when we move from language models to video models,
they're like referring to them as world engines because they can see,
they can see like around corners and all this kind of crazy stuff.
Like so much can be done when they get to this level of understanding in these models.
Yeah, the tech's incredible. I mean, I'm not a tech guy. I'm on the capital stack. I was brought in to the company to help with investor relations and raise capital about a year ago for the seed round. But yeah, I think that is what it's called. I don't know. I'd have to ask the CTO. I mean, they've got a massive team of developers that are developing things not just for schools. I mean, they're in health care facilities, prison systems. You know, the addressable market for this is gigantic. I mean, we're talking any part.
public space in the world that could use a camera to be safer.
And then you look at of all the sectors in the public markets that you would want to be in with the highest multiple, SaaS companies are trading around 10.
You put AI on it.
You're like 25 times potentially or more if you're one of the big boys.
So I mean, these are the things that I look at.
Okay, what am I going to get involved with?
Like that's a company.
I want to be on that train.
Yeah.
I love that.
Justin, dude, I can talk to you all day about this stuff.
I love your journey.
I love the way you think about this and explain it.
You've got an incredible Instagram for people to follow.
Besides that spot, which we'll have linked up, where else should people connect with you to get deeper into your world?
Really just all the socials, you know?
Yeah, or from my Instagram, you can click into all the different things that we do.
But yeah, I mean, I just shoot me a message.
I love talking to people.
We run everything through social media.
Almost all the capital I raised for all of these companies and vent.
Ventures. Most of it comes through social media, with the exception of, you know, big checks that are
coming in from family offices or institutions. But I just, I love social media. I think people have
just completely forgot what it's about. It's not about spamming the platform with your content. It's
about talking to people. So if you land in my DMs, I will be the one answering it.
I think that's absolutely fantastic. I appreciate you, brother. Anything you got going on in the future,
if you want to come back, get an open invitation. And just thank you for your time today.
Absolutely. Thanks for having me.
