Finding Peak w/ Ryan Hanley - Why You Keep Stopping at 90% | Arturo Nuñez
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I did not appreciate Kobe Bryant enough when he was alive.
I got the privilege of spending four and a half years working with that guy directly and we became friends.
So I got to know the man, not the legend, not the legendary basketball player.
I got to know the man.
His objective, his legacy project was he wanted to do what he called bottling better.
Colby used to say like this, greatness is a choice.
Not some far from one day I'm going to be great choice, a daily choice.
What is one of the unwritten rules that you think most people who either haven't lived,
the life or read your book run into the most often.
The quality of your life is a quality of relationships.
Full stop.
Point blank.
I did not appreciate Kobe Bryant enough when he was alive.
And I think some of that was because I don't think he talked as much about this stuff
while he was playing.
He was just so focused on the work.
But man, and it's, I mean, obviously it's just a tragedy upon tragedies
what happened to him and his family and etc.
But the work that he did from retirement until his unfortunate passing,
I mean, there is just mountains of value and insight that like,
it was like he had been storing up.
And I feel like we were almost robbed up because it couldn't have been everything he had.
You know what I mean?
Like, but just being able to get out there, you know,
once he stopped playing and do these interviews and create this stuff and share these stories,
I just, I look at him like, I did not appreciate who this man was and his mentality and mindset
enough when he was here with us.
Man, you know, I got the privilege of spending four and a half years working with that guy
directly and we became friends in that process.
So I got to know the man, not the legend, not the legendary basketball player, not the incredible
athlete, not the, you know, a perfection-obsessed athlete.
I got to know the man.
And, man, I learned so much.
I learned so much.
And a lot of the stuff is in my book.
Well, some of the stuff is in my book.
But I can tell you stories for days about this guy and what he meant to me and what he
meant to young people, just a visionary guy.
And it all started with, you know, when I first met cold ride, the first thing that
strikes you about him is just how damn curious he is.
He's curious about everything.
Everything.
Hey, the gas prices went up.
Get me the guy from Chevron on the phone.
What do you mean the guy from Chevron?
Give me the CEO.
I want to talk to him about the gas price because I don't understand what's going on.
He was that guy.
And the guy, when the CEO of Chevron would get on the call because it's Kobe Bryant, right?
Kobe Bryant's calling me.
Let me get on the call.
He would do that about anything he was curious about.
Give me the world's foremost expert on that on the phone.
I want to understand that.
I don't understand that.
What's going on there?
Wait, what's happening in Brazil?
Yeah, he would do that all the time.
So incredible curiosity, incredible curiosity.
And I think that was a superpower for him
that allowed him to become great at what he was doing.
But I'll say this.
His objective, his legacy project was
he wanted to do what he called bottling better.
I want to bottle better.
What do you mean bottle better?
What does that mean?
I want to show young people
that you can achieve the standard of excellence
that I achieved in basketball
at anything that you should desire to do
if you just use the qualities of curiosity,
obsession of detail,
honing the craft of what you're doing,
watching the masters do what you want to do,
anything that you want to do,
you can achieve that level of greatness
just by following the formula.
And that's what he called bodily better.
And that's what he wanted to leave behind for young people.
Was it about playing basketball?
You need to be a basketball player.
You want to be a poet?
Here's how you do.
Here's how you do poetry.
You obsess the dictionary.
You obsess Maya Angelou.
That's how you get into it.
And that's what he wanted to leave behind for folks,
which I thought was really amazing.
Do you think we culturally have lost our respect or appreciation for excellence the way we used to?
Like, and not just to take like a basketball example, but like you look at Jordan,
you look at Kobe.
Let's just take those two.
Obviously, incredibly successful from a championship perspective, a points.
But when we think about them, like, I don't think Michael Jordan's six titles.
I think someone who literally,
like the example, my son,
my son's basketball player, he loves Jordan.
He's like, dad.
He was dead.
I think the most incredible thing about Michael Jordan
is that when the Detroit Pistons
beat the crap out of him,
he went out and went to the gym
and put on 40 pounds of muscle
and came back the next year.
You know what I mean?
He's like, you know what I mean?
And he's like, when we think about these guys,
we think about the fact that
they were unyieldable,
buildingly committed to excellence.
And it seems like today, not that there aren't people.
Yeah, it's not like there aren't people who are excellent,
but I feel like we don't put that on the pedestal that we used to.
Do you think that's fair?
I think that's a fair assessment.
I want to say two things about that.
One time I was with Kobe, and he said, you know,
Michael and I, Michael Jackson and I are good friends.
Michael Jackson, I said, what are you talking about?
What are you and Michael Jackson having condoms?
I don't talk all the time.
we're both obsessed with craft, obsessed with it, obsessed with the idea of getting better today
than we were yesterday at our craft.
And it's cost us everything.
We've sacrificed everything to be able to do this.
And we talk about that sacrifice.
And we talk about that obsession with craft.
And the one thing that he said, which relates directly to the question which you asked me is,
you know, one day he said, Arturo, are you curious or are you committed?
So what do you mean, Cog?
It's like, you know, the curious, right?
when they see potholes, landmines, obstacles, challenges, roadblocks, they turn back.
The committed not only expected the landmines, roadblocks, obstacles, and challenges,
they were prepared to trudge through them towards greatness and success.
They were committed to greatness and success.
A lot of people today are curious about a lot of stuff.
We got a lot of access to information.
We get real curious about stuff.
And you can reach anything, which is amazing.
Technology has allowed us to find out about things that we've got our fingertips.
We get curious a lot.
What I fail to see a lot is committing it.
You're curious, but are you committed?
Are you prepared to go the distance?
Are you prepared to trudge through the unpleasantry,
the uncomfortable bits to get to greatness?
You've got to be prepared to go through the uncomfortable part.
Greatness is not comfortable.
It's the uncomfortable.
And by the way, our Instagram, Snapchat, TikTok culture
has us wanting to take the picture at the top of Mount Everest.
I use this an example all the time when I do public speaking.
If I could magically transport you to the top of mine ever to take the picture,
a lot of people would choose that overtaking the journey.
The greatness is in the journey.
The greatness is the trotting and the altitude and the altitude sickness and printing a tent
and your colleagues and the camaraderie and teamwork and cannot make it and the storm is coming
and damn, it's cold.
That's the greatness.
That's where the greatness is.
The greatness is not in the snapshot shot at the top.
Colby said, I don't do this for championships.
I don't do this for records.
I don't do it for trophies.
I do this because I get the privilege of playing basketball for a living,
a game that I love.
I get the privilege of every day getting up in the morning and decided how I work on my body,
how I work on my game, what I did yesterday, getting better for tomorrow,
what that guy did, how I come back.
He would say crazy things to me like, oh, I'm playing against such and such.
I won't name name.
Playing against such and such.
Yeah, I studied his game.
I got him.
Oh, you studied his game?
Yeah, when it's left heel goes down, I'm blowing right by.
Wait, what?
I've looked at the film.
He drops his left heel.
Once he does that, there's no way he can stop me going left.
I'm blowing by him.
Who's studying the game with that?
He's studying the game.
He's studying the angles to the game.
And I think that there is a certain level.
I know this is a long-winded answer,
but I think we have a narrow definition of genius.
I'm going someplace else for a second.
When I was a kid growing up,
Dary Casper,
was the chess champion.
Gary Kasparov, Russian guy, a chess champion.
And he could beat anybody. Nobody could beat the guy.
Eventually, the machine could beat him.
But first he beat the machines, too, and then he started losing one out of a thousand
with the machines, and the machines probably beat him.
But he was the guy.
And I was like, man, that's genius.
Nobody can beat this guy.
That is absolute genius.
He's literally on that chessboard.
He goes all the dimensions of the board.
He's moving fast.
You know, you've got the little clock.
You've got to move with the clock.
He's moving fast.
That's genius.
But I never thought about for a second that Alan Iverson,
at a five foot 11 maybe, 10 on a good day, level,
would drive through the paint, jump up,
and there'd be like Elijah Wan and other seven-foot people in front of him,
giants that also jumped.
And in mid-air, he has to make a decision to get under this arm
and around this one and across the other one
and then put the ball up against the glass at the perfect angle for it to go in.
And nobody ever told me that was genius.
How is that not genius?
You know what?
There's not a clock.
It's not timed.
There's not a clock. He does that instantaneously in mid-air. How is that not genius? To me,
that's genius. And to your point, not enough people are trying to reach the maximum expression
of genius by going through the pitfalls, the challenge, the obstacles, the roadblocks, right,
to get there. We're curious today about a lot of things, jack of all trades even, but not committed.
And I think that makes a huge difference. How do you go from curious to committed?
making a decision that you want to be a master at something,
striving for success.
By the way, striving for perfection.
And anyone who's ever strived for profession
knows that it is and will always be around the corner
because there is no perfection.
Not even Michael Jordan himself was perfect, right?
There is no profession.
Are you willing to take that journey knowing you'll never reach it,
knowing it's always right a corner,
knowing it's always another workout away.
Are you willing to take that journey?
Many people are not willing to take that journey.
Commitment, sacrifice, consistency.
Kobe Bryant said,
what have you done today to be better than you were yesterday?
And if you stack enough days in a row like that,
you end up at greatness.
One of my favorite Kobe stories is they had just lost,
I can't remember if it was the Western Conference Championship or the finals,
but they had just lost.
Season's over.
And he's on the bench, and his legs are out,
and he's got the ice on his knees,
and he's got a towel over his face.
Game ends.
He gets up.
He's walking off the court,
and one of the court side reporters comes up and says,
Kobe, you seem really emotional.
What's going through your head?
are you okay?
And he kind of like straightens up and looks at her and goes,
what?
Like that's not,
I'm paraphrasing,
but essentially his like response is essentially,
I'm not emotional.
I was thinking about what I need to work on tomorrow
when I get to the gym
so that this doesn't happen again next year.
She goes,
you should,
the look on her face is like,
what are you talking about?
And he's like, yeah,
I had the towel over my face
because I was thinking about
what I wanted to do with the gym tomorrow
to make sure that next year we're not in this position.
And like, it's when, it's like moments like that
when you realize just how, and to your word, committed,
he was literally going to the gym the day after he lost
and his season was over,
and he was thinking on the bench about what he wanted to do the next day.
Like, it's just another day in the journey.
Not planning a vacation, not thinking about the breeze.
He told me, getting to do this as a privilege.
I love getting to do this.
to do this for a living. I don't have to do anything else but this for a living. And I love this game.
You know, I'll tell you another funny, a coding story, just so you know the mentality of Kobe Bryant.
Kobe said to me one day, he said, you know, Arturo, I like playing away game more than a home game.
Oh, you're one of the world famous Los Angeles Lakers. You play in the most beautiful building,
you know, in L.A. The celebrities come out, the celebrity role, you know. You got the vibration,
the artists, the actors, the musicians, the rapper. Everyone's, what do you mean? You like playing
away game more than all game. He said, Arturo, nothing makes me more excited than watching a father
with his child in a Minnesota Timberwolves, Jersey, leaving the building with four minutes left
because they have no chance to win. Nothing gets me more excited than that. I was like, wow,
you are a savage, sir. You're an absolute sad. He's like, he described everything. The fun finger,
they're walking out.
They've got no chance.
There's four minutes left.
Nothing.
Nothing gets me that excited.
You used to use the word that I think, unfortunately, in today's current environment is used
in its negative capacity, but you just used it in its positive capacity, and that's the word
privilege.
One, maybe what is for the audience kind of the difference between the two and why how
you use that term, I believe, is so incredibly.
powerful from a mindset perspective to be able to think of something as like I get to talk to you
today I sat down and and I was like I'm watching your clips on on online and I'm going I can't wait
to talk to this guy today like what a privilege to be able to speak to a human being who has your
insights your knowledge your personality your your energy right like but we don't often frame
these things as privileges and and we use it in a way of like oh he's privileged
or she's privileged or in this negative capacity.
So maybe what is the difference in what does it actually mean to think of the way Kobe did
about the privilege of being able to do the job?
No, imagine, imagine, you know, everybody, you were growing up probably like when I was going
up, you know, parish wanted to be, want you to be doctor, lawyer, Indian chief, you know the story, right?
Everybody wanted to be.
That was what greatness looked like, hey, I want you to go and be your best, be a doctor, be a lawyer,
whatever.
That's what my parents told me at me, you know.
Imagine telling your parents, no, I want to play games for the rest of my life, I want to play a game.
Wait, what?
No, no, stop.
Games are for school yard.
Games for kids.
Come off the school yard.
And we're out playing games for a living.
He gets to play a game that he loves for a living.
What an incredible privilege that is.
You know, I talk to young people all the time and I say, you know, what I like to think about my life as is moving from a picture, picture a pyramid in your mind.
Picture a pyramid, right?
Have to do, want to do, get to do, blessed to do, call to do.
How do you say when you have to do something, man, I got to have to do this, man, oh, man.
You know, I don't really want to do it, but I have to do it, right?
That's one feeling.
When you get to do something, that's kind of cool.
And I get to do that.
Or when you want to do something, when you get to, yo, man, you have to take out the garbage today or do you want to take out the garbage?
Well, it depends on your perspective, right?
That's a matter of perspective.
Some people will say, I have to take out the garbage.
Well, I don't want my place to stink, you know, and there's food in there.
I'm going to take out the garbage.
I have my place.
I have my garbage.
I'm going to take the garbage out.
Have to do versus want to do versus what you get to do versus what you're blessed to be able to do versus what you're called to do.
What you're called to do is you couldn't not do it if you tried.
That's the purpose that you were put here.
A life of purpose is I was put here to do this.
There's no way I can do anything out other than this.
That's what I'm blessed to do, right?
Blessed to do.
A call to do.
But for Kobe, the privilege was, no, man, I get to play a game that I love for the rest of my life.
He provides for my life for my family's life, garage my children's lines, and I get to exercise myself at this game.
And if I continue to play it at the highest level, who knows how long can play it?
So I work on my body and I work on my game and I watch film where I get to do all of that.
It's a game.
It's a bunch of guys in short players playing the game.
He gets to do that for the rest of his life.
It's a really powerful privilege, you know?
You know, think about, you know, I've had so many people that are related to work.
You know, you get to work and, you know, sometimes you're lucky you're working, you know, your dream job or you work on something that you really want to do.
When I worked at Nike, it was a great opportunity for me, a great job.
And I did a lot of really cool things at Nike.
That's why I met Kobe, even though I worked at the NBA before, but I worked at Nike.
It was kind of a dream come true.
And I would interview people who were like, man, my dream job is Nike.
My dream.
My dream is to work at Nike.
I interviewed.
They'd say this in an interview verbally.
You know, and if they had the qualifications and they were talented and they passed the classes and all that, they'd get that job.
That same person, eight months later would be like, oh, man.
And I'd be like, hey, what's going on, man, you're good?
Yeah, man, I got to fly to L.A. to do the Kobe commercial.
We got to shoot it today.
And, you know, it starts at 6 a.m. tomorrow and I got to fly there and I got to take this conference.
Wait, are you talking about your dream job?
Because it sounds to me like this is the same job.
You were begging eight months ago to do.
I'm sorry, you want me to play a violin
because you get to fly to L.A.
to go to a photo shoot
and shoot a commercial
with one of the world's greatest basketball legends.
Kobe Bryant,
but you got to be up at six.
What are you talking about?
Remember when you pray for the things you have today, right?
That's the privilege.
Remember when you, well, Kobe prayed
to be able to play the game of basketball as long as possible.
You got to do that.
And that's the privilege.
Remember when you prayed for the things that you have today?
And today, a lot of people take him for granted, right?
The privilege is in getting what you want and wanting what you get.
And Kobe wanted to play a game that he loved for a living.
He got to do that.
And he believed every part of that for him was a privilege.
The workouts in the gym, the running was a privilege, the training sessions with his team.
By the way, he not only trained with the Lakers, he had his own session.
Because I do, I don't just work out with the Lakers.
I have my own session.
I can't show anybody what I'm doing.
I got my own workouts.
Every day I have my own workout.
Then I have my Laker workout.
Those were all a privilege for him.
Those are all what he playing for.
Yeah.
I remember Kevin Garnett was doing an interview one time.
And they asked him, the question was like a generic general question about Kobe.
And he's like, he shakes his head and he's like, Kobe was different.
And that he stopped there.
And the interviewer was like kind of prompt.
him to go on. He goes, all right, we're in the Olympics. We're in, I think it was Barcelona.
I can't remember exactly. It doesn't matter. One of the Olympics that they were in together.
Yeah, no, no, this is the one, this is before they go, he goes, he goes, we get there.
He goes, we get there the first night. We got two days for our first game. And, and, you know,
everybody goes out on the town. He goes, it's 3 a.m. I got a few drinks in me. I'm sitting in the
hotel lobby. We're just coming back. He goes, Kobe's got ice on his knees. He's already done
his first workout for the day. He's like, we haven't even got going to bed yet. He's already
got his first workout. And he goes, that's when I knew this guy was just different than everybody
else. And you think about that, like, it's a conversation I used to have with my children. So I think
I may have told you before we went live. I got two kids, two boys, 12 and 10, both play sports.
football, baseball,
golf, basketball,
different sports.
And one of the things
that we talk a lot about
is the difference
between kids
who are talented
but only willing to go 90%
and the kids
who are willing to go 100%.
And the mental hurdle
that it is
to go all the way.
Because if I go all the way,
if Ryan Hanley says,
I want to be a professional speaker,
I want to be
the best speaker in the world on, you know, X topic, and I go all in.
I work at it every day.
I think about it, blah, blah, blah.
I go 100% into this thing I want to do and I don't make it.
Well, now, now I'm a failure right now in my mind, right?
I don't believe that, but that's what goes on head right now.
Oh my God, I didn't do it.
But if I go 90%, if I go 90%, and I don't make it, then I can go, well, you know,
I was almost there. I almost got there. You know, I was, you know, I have that outlet. How do we
cross, one, do you believe this mentality is real? And two, how do we cross that chasm? How do we,
if we find ourselves, and I think a lot of people do this unconsciously, I don't always think
that this, it's like a self-defense mechanism. It's not even something they're aware of, but they're
stuck at 90%. And how do we make that jump to 100? How do we, how do we give ourselves? How do we give
ourselves permission to go all in, to be fully committed, as we talked about before.
I think there's a few things, man. I talk a lot about burning the boats, and I use that expression.
I don't know if you've heard that expression before, but it really derives from the, you know,
the Spanish and the Portuguese conquistadors that came to the new world. They weren't the nicest guys.
You know, they were colonizers and they came to ravage and define what they could and to take advantage
in the situation that they found. But if there's anything we can learn from them, many times when
they got to a new land, they actually burned the boat.
Like going back is not an option.
We're burning the boat.
And I think too often, too Austin, we don't burn the bolts.
We have a plan B and a plan C and a plan D.
This doesn't work out that I'm going to do that.
And that doesn't work out, but I'm going to do it.
I think sometimes if you focus on just plan A and you burn the boats and there's no option but success.
I don't think we do that enough.
You know, you talked about your kids.
You know, my son played baseball and he played basketball in high school.
And, you know, like any parent, I'm sure you did too.
you do too. I'm trying to give them every opportunity. If you really want to do that,
you know, here's the trainers, there's the facility, I'll go with you, I'll take you,
the other thing, you know, parents go through innumerable sacrifices, costs, expenses, etc.
To get you what you want so you can and sell at that, you know. And my son did okay,
my son may rush your basketball and all that. He quit baseball a little earlier, but he enjoyed it
while he played it, whatever. And again, I gave him every opportunity to succeed.
Having said that, three of his friends,
one plays for the Orlando Magic
Jet Howard and played on his team with him
the other one plays for the Houston Texans
he's a wide receiver the number one
wide receiver on the Texans
Jaden Higgins
and the third South Stewart
is the NL MVP this year
rookie year in the league
all three is buddy
those are buddies
all no these guys are the guys on his
basketball team
Jesus
yeah that plus
You know, three professional athletes, did you play?
Yes, I was in the locker room with them.
Yes, I played ball with them.
Yo, they were doing something.
You know, they say, you know, do what others won't do today.
So you have it.
Others won't have tomorrow.
They were doing something everybody else wasn't doing.
You know what I mean?
They took it to a hundred of the level.
There was a whole other gear.
Maybe they didn't socialize as much.
Maybe they didn't go out as much.
Maybe they didn't date as much.
Maybe there was another gear and they put it in that gear and look where they are now.
you know, the Sal Stewart story is incredible because he's, you know, he's going to be at L MVP this season.
He's got 32 home runs and over 100 RBIs and his freshman year, his rookie year in the MLB, which is insane.
And that kid, you know, there was something about that kid, man.
We didn't have to talk about this too in this conversation, but you watched that kid play basketball.
He was on my son's basketball team, varsity basketball team.
He didn't look like a great basketball player.
but he was really confident out there.
He was confident out there
because he was the best baseball player
in the school on his team.
It was like, if I can do that at the highest level,
I can do this too, you know what I mean?
So he wasn't built like a basketball player.
He didn't look naturally talented
to play basketball.
What I didn't contribute?
He was tough.
He was aggressive.
He'd give you 10 or 12 a game.
You know what I'm saying?
He was a distributor.
He made the right pass, made the right play,
studying the game.
But he wasn't a basketball player.
He was just so confident as that,
as his athletic ability as a baseball player
that it translated to anything that he tried to do.
That guy walked into the major league baseball
and hit 30 homers on 100 rubies in his first year.
It's insane that someone would do that.
Figured it out.
There's a different gear.
He put it at different gear.
He was willing to do what some won't
to get what most won't have ever.
You know what I mean?
And I think it goes back to,
I think the biggest word
we talked about earlier today is commitment.
Are you really committed or are you just curious?
Does it seem cool? Does that look cool?
Does that look like something cool to do?
Are you really committed to doing what it takes to being proficient at that,
to being the best at that, to be superior at that?
Comey was trying to be the best basketball player.
He wasn't trying to be second to Jordan.
He was trying to be the best basketball player, full stop.
You know what I mean?
LeBron wasn't going for, oh, you know, maybe if I play a few years,
I'd give me a few truck, no, no, no, no.
He was trying to be the best basketball player ever of all time, history.
That's an intention that's driven.
my intention. Commitment, that's intentional commitment. Colby used to say it like this,
greatness is a choice. Greatness is a choice. Not some far-flung one day I'm going to be great
choice. A daily choice. Greatness is a choice. What am I doing today to be better than I was
yesterday? That's the choice I'm making. That's how you choose greatness. And you have to do it
daily to achieve it.
And even then,
it's elusive.
Right? It's not guarantee.
No guarantees. Everybody doesn't make it to top of Everest.
Everybody doesn't make it, unfortunately.
So let's tie this back to the culture compass.
How do we take these ideas, excellence, commitment, confidence,
greatness, how do we put them in a pot in a corporate environment?
and actually turn it into success.
The culture conference is really the book that I wish I had
when I got into corporate America.
Because there were so many things I didn't know.
I didn't have any of my family who was a corporate executive.
There were so many things I didn't know.
And there's a ton of things that are not in the employee manual.
They literally aren't going to tell you how the rules work,
how the game actually works, how to succeed in the game.
They're not going to tell you.
You have to figure that out.
And unfortunately, for me, I had to figure.
out through trial and error.
So my book is designed to give people the tools to be able to succeed
without making the same mistakes that I made.
So I talk about failure.
And I talk about failure as a part of the learning process.
By the way, anyone who succeeded at anything knows that failure is part of the process.
Right.
If you haven't failed, you're not going to get to greatness.
If you haven't failed, matter of fact, Kobe, we were talking about Kobe before,
said his first summer league, he didn't score a bucket, not one, zero, nothing.
Lusag, his first summer league.
He said, I sucked.
And I need to figure out how to get better fast.
And I need to train harder than anybody else fast so I can get there, right?
So failure is a part of success.
How resilient you are to get back up after you've been knocked down after you failed,
that's the measure of whether you're really going to be successful or not.
Are you really committed to this?
Are you really willing to fail and then come back from that failure?
You know, take the lessons and implement the lessons.
And so in the book, I talk about a lot of lessons that I've had over time.
I talk about some failures that I've had in my corporate life.
And I talk about the unwritten rules,
the things that nobody will tell you about to just figure it out.
You know, you have to figure out on your own,
hoping that people will learn from my mistakes
and it'll help them their paths, move their path a little bit.
What is one of the unwritten rules that you think most people
who either haven't lived the life or read your book run into the most often?
I can give you a few.
The first one I think, and the first one was important one, I heard this quote that's attributed to Tony Robbins.
I don't know if Tony Robbins said it first or not. It doesn't really matter.
The quality of your life is a quality of your relationships, full stop, point blank.
If you're not a relationship builder, if you're not building with their colleagues and your peers and your superior subordinates,
if you're not building situations that are win-win for folks, you're not going to succeed.
If people come to your office, if I come to your office as a business person,
and every time I come to your office, I lose.
I'm going to stop company your office.
That's just how the way works, right?
So if you're not able to build collaborative win-win situations
and build relationships, you're never going to be successful, right?
People are looking for that from their leaders,
people are looking for that from their subordinates,
people are looking for that from their peers and collaborators.
They want you to be invested in both parties winning,
not just you getting your way.
Super important.
And most people think that winning is just me getting my way.
Not just you getting your way.
is creating win-win situations such that people are invested in your vision and people want to
collaborate with you going forward, right?
That's what success looks like in that space.
People learn that lesson the hard way, and that it's hard to, you know, you don't get a second
chance to make a first impression, right?
So if you make a first impression as someone who's not collaborative, who's not a team player,
who's not relationship-oriented, who doesn't care about your winning two, it's hard to
overcome that, right?
That's one big lesson.
That's a really fundamental one that kind of undergrids everything in the book really is related to the importance of relationships, the power of relationship.
My second lesson I think would be, you know, you get that one time of year when you sit down with your leader or your manager, when you talk about your performance, your performance review, so critical, so essential, so important to level set with who you're working with, what success looks like.
A lot of people get to that reading
and they're surprised by the feedback they get.
You shouldn't really be surprised.
You should have been talking to the person
who's setting your objectives
and working with your objectives
to understand where you are in the process
if you're doing well or not.
I'll tell you a quick story.
I had a friend who called me one morning.
He said, Arturo, I think I'm going to be let go today.
I said, wow, worked at a big company in New York.
And I said, wow, how'd you get that impression?
What's going on?
He said, man, I've got a meeting with my boss's boss today
that rarely happens.
I don't think it's going to go well.
You know, they're laying people off.
I think this is it.
I know, listen, you know, keep your head up.
Whatever happens, you know, I'll help you, you know,
is one of my mentees.
I'll help me figure out how to get you back on track,
find you new opportunity, et cetera, et cetera.
Keep me ahead of them.
You never know.
You know, just going and do your best.
He goes to work that day.
I don't hear back from him.
7, 8 p.m. that night, I still haven't heard from him.
I give him a call.
Hey, man, what's going on?
What happened today?
He said, oh, you know what?
I got promoted.
New job.
I'm the new director.
through such and such and so and so.
And I was like, oh, that's great.
Congratulations.
That's amazing.
But something was uneasy in my mind when I went to bed that night.
And I said, what must it feel like to be working in a place where from one day to
the other, you don't know if you're being fired or promoting?
To me, that sounds like terrible leadership.
To me, that sounds like I'm nervous all the time.
To me, that sounds like I can't do my best work because I don't know where I stand.
It's great to know where you stand.
And that employment, you know, review that one.
year annual review is an opportunity to know when you stand in the organization. Are you seeing
my contributions? Did you witness what I just did? Are you following? Am I doing, am I following up
on the things that you think are most important for our business? Most people use that as a checkbox.
And I'm just trying to get through this review. No, no, no, no, no. This is your opportunity to revel
sex with the person who's responsible for your career, right? And make sure, you know, I walk into that
meeting, you know what I'll say, even at the end of the meeting, whether it goes well or not,
hey man if we're going to sit here next year 12 months from now and i was going to get the maximum
rating possible what would that look like what would i need to do to do that detail that for me
you didn't need the maximum rating which means the maximum bonus the maximum salary inquis
the full benes what does that look like what would i need to accomplish to do that because once you
and i agree on that and i write that down and you write that down i'm going for that's the that's the
that's the ring that's the new bar that i'm going for and i don't want to have any conversation
12 months from now, where I've done all that.
And you tell me, yeah, you know, well, whoa, whoa, whoa, my friend, pause.
I wrote down what you told me I needed to do so that we wouldn't have any questionable conversations.
Now, 12 months later, here it is.
And here's how I take over so much so, if you'll bear with me.
When I was up Nike, hopefully you could see this on the camera.
See that?
I brought that with me to my review.
Here's what I've been working on.
Here's what's been successful.
Here's some things you didn't ask me to do that I've done.
Here's what I've been focused on.
And here's the plan for next year.
Every review.
Yeah, I did the template.
Yeah, I did the document.
Yeah, the stuff review.
I did that for sure.
I walk in with a full colored brochure.
Here's what our objectives are.
Here's how I'm doing against them.
Here's the things you asked me to do and how I'm doing against them.
Here's some things who didn't ask me to do that I did anyway.
Here's my plan for the next year.
You did with this?
If you're good with this, let's go.
Every year.
That's how seriously I took the performance process, right?
Because that was my opportunity to put a stake in the ground about what I deliver and who I am and what my value is.
That's the following.
Yeah, I love that.
Do you think that people don't track their own accomplishments throughout the year enough?
You are supposed to be your number one hype man.
There's a way to do that without looking egocentric.
But if you don't track your accomplishments, no one else will.
So your boss is too busy trying to win his game, by the way.
Your supervisor is trying to figure out how to win his game, right?
So if you're not going to talk about your accomplishments, no one else is going to eat.
You need to be your number one cheerleader.
And by the way, that doesn't mean that you're egomaniac, right?
Because part of what you accomplish is what you've done with your team,
how you've led other people, how you've mentored and sponsored other people,
how you built collaboration, how you innovated with your team.
That's part of the process too, right?
Absolutely, tutored.
It's your job to tutor.
and particularly at that critical juncture where your boss is saying so.
Because really what your boss is saying, your boss is not saying, tell me what you did.
Your boss is saying, tell me how I can support my argument for you.
When I go in that room, we're going to split the money up and we decide who gets what rating.
We decide who gets what bonus.
Give me the support.
Give me the ammo to put your name up in that room.
I want to make sure you're fully loaded when you go in that room.
on by behalf.
How do you tell your own story as your number one hype man, as you said,
without breaking Robert Green's first power rule,
which is never outshine the master,
which I have had a few people that I've mentored and worked with
or just call me for advice or whatever,
where they've been in situations,
where they've gotten into conflict with their superior in an organization
because the way they come off, the way they present themselves,
or even just the work that they're actually doing
is almost making that boss or mental manager look, you know,
maybe in their own eyes, bad or some sort of perception.
And now there's conflict there.
And they're like, I just thought I was doing my job.
And now all of a sudden I got conflict with my boss and I don't understand.
That's the challenge that happens quite frequently.
But I think that people need to understand that part of your role in an organization,
if you have a superior in your organization,
If you have a boss or the manager, part of your job is to make that person look good too.
You're a team with that person.
You're a member of that person's team.
Part of your job is to make that person look good too.
So how do you deliver on your work?
But when called to, you know, you ever listen to a ballplayer of any, you know,
repute, any superstar in NFL, NBA, whatever, after a game where they completely crushed it?
What do they say?
Well, team effort, the guy come out here.
Team effort, yeah.
We had been trained.
for this, you know. You scored 60 tonight, sir. You're Kobe Bryant. You scored 82. And you're
talking about, no, it was a team effort. We came out of here. We gave it all. You know, they gave it a great
shout. This is what teamwork is like. This is what collaboration is like. So you can apply that
same principle in the work that you do. Yeah, I crushed it. Absolutely. I over delivered for sure.
I over deliver for us to make us look good. To make our division win. Right. So that our division
gets all the, I told, I used to tell my teams, yeah, man, you know Shark Tank. Yeah, man, we know
Shark Tank. No. Every time we go talk to senior leadership, it's Shark Tank.
Arturo, what do you mean? We are making a pitch to the senior leaders on our organization.
Why? Another dollar spent on our division, another dollar spent our objective, another employee
hired to our division, another computer buff our division is worth more than one spent on another group.
We're a shark tank here. We got to win. You know, it's not a competition, but win anyway.
That's the more that I told my team. It's not a competition, but win anyway. We're going
going in there to fend for ourselves and tell the company why we have the right plan, we
have the right vision, we have the right assets, we have the right people to get the resources,
the manpower, the equipment, the technology to be able to go after this thing that we're going
at this goal that we're going after.
And part of that is we believe in our leader's vision and we're driving towards that vision.
If you could tell that story, you shouldn't actually, your boss, your superior, your civilized
your boss or manager shouldn't feel threatened by you.
Did you feel like you hope them look good?
Man, I'm glad I had that personality.
That person makes me look good.
Helps me look good.
On every team that I've been on,
I've had at least one or two rock stars on my team
that I could have done it without.
I could have done it without.
They're amazing.
The people that I say, yo, jump and they're like,
let's get it.
How high are we jumping?
You know, that wall needs to come down.
Immediately, let's get after it.
Love those guys.
I'm not mad at those guys.
I'm not jealous little guys.
I want to support them.
I want to see them laying there.
Now, I'm not in competition.
with them. I want to see them win. And by the way, I have mentored and supported people
that have been promoted to every organization that I've been in with my help and my leadership.
Because they deliver. Because they deliver. So it's not a competition between you and your
superior or you and your union manager. You're there to help them look good. How can you be
collaborative, building an environment where you help them look good and also get credit for what
you've done and get credit for the work you've done? It's not about giving away the credit for the
work you've done, right? Eventually, Kobe gets around and talks about the 82 points.
right? Yeah, after he says it was team effort and all that right. And what he said, by the way,
that interview was, what he said in that interview was, or I interviewed him on a sane subject
at one point at Nike's campus. And he said, to be honest with you, Artura, I don't
going to sound crazy. I wasn't surprised when I scored 82 points. Call, what do you mean? You
weren't surprised? Well, those were moves that I had been practicing all summer. And if you look
back to the prior five weeks of the NBA, I scored 62 the week before, I scored 59 the week before
that at 61.
Go back and look at the numbers.
That was on its way. That was coming. He knew it was coming.
Right. So he wasn't surprised when it happened.
How do you create an environment where you can deliver your best, your maximum potential
without being a threat to your manager?
Having your manager understand that you're there to help them achieve their objectives
as well. At the end of the day, you should make your manager look better and they should
reward you for the amazing work that you've done.
in the best world.
Now, there's also crappy managers, right?
This is the best world scenario.
There's also bad managers or bad management.
I mentioned the story by my friend.
You don't know if you fired or promoted.
That's bad management, right?
There's bad managers.
But in the best world, you and your partner,
you and your manager are collaborators
on a mission of the vision to get things done.
You helped him look great.
He supports you in your career.
He or she.
A question I get a lot,
and I'm very interested in your take on this
from, we'll call it relatively new,
leaders, a few years in the job, is managing the breadth of talent, commitment, you know,
you have A players, B players, C players across the board.
How on one team do you properly manage an A player that's also sitting next to, say,
a B player who's also got a C player in their team?
And now, you know, maybe they all work useful for.
functions, but you have all different personalities.
How do you pull that together and get them all pointed in the same direction
without some of the jealousy or, you know, other things that may come, you know,
when an A player is doing epic things and maybe getting the appropriate, you know,
airtime or spotlight?
Yeah.
That's tough to do.
And I think in many ways as a leader, you're kind of functioning like a coach, you know what I'm
saying?
So Jackson didn't have five MJs, you know what I'm saying?
or even five Kobe's, right?
So Jackson had a team and they had different strengths.
Let's understand what everybody's strengths.
First of all, not contributing is not an option.
So that's not a thing.
We're not going to get to the point where we had Ds and whatever team mineral.
My contribution is not an option.
Everybody's a contribute.
If I allow you to be on my team and not contribute, it's offensive to those who are, right?
You're getting paid too and you're getting sound.
That's unacceptable.
So everybody's got to contribute.
But anybody has to contribute equally.
You have different role players for different roles,
just like there was a Dennis Rodman,
just like there was a Byron Scott,
just like whatever.
He has different roleplay for different roles within the team,
and as a leader,
you have to know how to harness the best of each player.
I've had guys on my team that were like the mailman.
I joke about them.
I think my book.
You know, guys who like,
hey man, they're going to be there from nine to five.
They're going to take lunch at 12-01
and come back at one and be at their desk, whatever.
And if they're delivering to a certain level,
I'm cool with that.
I know what you can be counted on.
to do. You're not going to burn the midnight oil with me. You're not staying to one in the
morning with me. I'm not expecting you there at 6 a.m. You're going to come in and give me a full
solid day's work. By 8.45, he's in the office by 9. He or she is sitting up their desk and they're
grinding. And they don't pick their head up until noon when it's lunch time. And they go for exactly
an hour for lunch. And they come back, that's not normal. Right. That's not normal. Nine to five is a
misnomer. Anyone making, working 9 to 5 is not going to win, right, win the game. Because
games not 9 to 5. The 9 to 5 most of the time gets eaten up in meetings, and every meeting
has takeaways and deliverables. So at what point do you do the takeaways and the deliverables?
Well, that doesn't happen from 9 to 5. I have the lack of 5 in the 4-9. But like a good coach,
you're assessing the weaknesses and strengths of your team. You're trying to make sure your
team has complementary weaknesses and strengths, and you're making sure that everyone's recognized.
Not just the A guy, you know, I guarantee you Phil Jackson didn't walk into the locker room every
night and say, NJ, you did it again. You were the top score or dead with 43 points.
No, sometimes he walked in and said, Rodman, that 18 rebounds.
Holy shit, that's amazing. Right? Or he walked in and said, man, that pass, Steve Kerr,
bro, when you hit him in a corner, are you kidding me? Brilliant. Right. So you have to recognize
all the players, recognize their contributions, understand their strengths and weaknesses,
and try to build a team that's compatible towards achieving your objective. And that doesn't
mean that, you know, you allow, you know, slacking, that's not a thing. You don't allow people
to not get to work. Everybody's got to be delivering, but everybody has got to deliver exactly
to say. People have a role to play in the organization. And as long as they're delivering to
their role, by the way, if those people are interested, if somebody's looking, listen, MJ did a thing
called the Breakfast Club where he was up at five in the morning working out in the gym when he got
to the Chicago Bulls, you know, and nobody was doing that. And one by one, everybody joined
the Breaches Club with MJ, right? If you got people who are like, man, that guy on our
team is the best presenter.
You know, the way he delivers is unbelievable.
Hey, man, you want to work on that?
Hey, you know, let's get you to the speakers class.
You want to work with me on that?
You got a presentation coming.
You want tips?
I'm helping my people get better, right?
Not about jealousy or envy.
That guy's great.
Yeah, he's amazing at presenting.
Yeah, he really delivers.
You want to learn that?
You can learn that too.
You can be that too if you really committed to him.
Here's how that process works to get there.
Right?
So I think as a coach, as a manager, you're an enabler.
Your job is to clear all the barriers, obstacles, challenges, road mines, landmines,
fall on the grenades to allow your team to do the best work of their allowance.
And if you can do that, your team will be grateful to you.
They'll feel recognized and rewarded to run through Wall Street.
That's been my experience.
I completely agree with that.
And I love the way you described it, how I always talked to.
to, you know, my primary industry is the insurance industry.
That's what I kind of grew up in and moved into more of the tech side as I go.
So I have a lot of young tech entrepreneur startups.
You know, they get that it will call me and I'll talk to them.
And, you know, the way I've always described it is like the traditional leadership structure is a pyramid, right?
With you, the boss, the leader, the entrepreneur, the founder at the top.
I said, and that is literally the worst way to look at it.
I was like you literally have to flip it upside down,
where you actually become the foundation of the organization
who supports your, you know,
I refer to them as generals or whatever,
your next level up.
Then their primary job is to support the people who report to them and so on.
And literally the top of the pyramid,
the new top is actually your foot soldiers
and the people who are doing the on the ground work every day,
touching, you know, feeling and the tangible product, etc.
And it's like when you think about it,
that way. It's funny how like, for some people, that just clicks, right? They listen to you,
describe it, and they're like, yes. And then there's a whole other person who just is like,
nah, that's, I, I need to control. I need to manage. I need to know what's going on. If you're
not clocked in, if your Slack avatar doesn't have a little green dot next to it, you're not
working and like I just find like this idea of it well let me put it this way with the amount of
content that has been released on the interweb and in books around how performance based cultures
versus time punching cultures like you can't even compare them and how many organizations
still count card punch for card punch is your contribution to an organization is scary
and bewildering to me.
It's a lot of personal.
By the way, if you learned anything very
comfortable that people could be just as productive
away from the worksite
as they can at the work site, right?
A lot of companies lost nothing
in perpetuity over COVID.
People were working their butts off,
working just working at home,
working in an environment that so many people
was more comfortable
or more amenable to doing the work they do
for many people, not for everybody, right?
But I think it's a fundamental lack of trust.
And I think that's a cultural issue
in the organization.
Like, do you have a culture
where you trust your people
and respect them
and accept the idea that they're grown with people and adults and they're going to go and do the best job they can?
Or are you constantly worrying that someone's slacking, you know, abusing their power, abusing their authority, abusing the time, abusing, you know, the privilege given to them, the responsibility is given to them.
How do you want to look at your world?
You know, I prefer to look at people as adults who make choices.
I talk to my son all the time, my daughter all the time too.
I talk about, you know, decisions, choices, actions, consequences.
Decisions, choices, actions, consequences.
That string is unbeatable, right?
And I think that if you're working on a team,
you got to know that your decisions you make,
the choices that you accept, you know,
the actions that you take have consequences.
You want to deliver at your best?
You want to do, you know, you want to go above and beyond.
You'll be recognizing reward for that.
You want to slack off, today's a number.
That's the way that it is, right?
You know, I think somebody at Amazon said,
You know, we've got to get off this notion that we're family.
We're not family.
Not family.
This is a job side.
We're working.
Right?
We're not family.
We're working.
You know, you don't fire family members.
You know, both family members still get invited to the barbecue and all that.
Right.
That's not what we're doing.
But we can build an environment that's positive, where you feel rewarded, where you feel
recognized, right?
Where everybody feels part of the team, where everybody believes in the mission,
where everybody wants to work together on the mission, where we help each other out when we're struggling.
You know, that idea.
Oh, that people can bring your full self to work.
Yeah, of course, everyone brings their full self to work.
What are the chances that you're going through a monumental thing in your personal life
and you just leave it, parked somewhere outside the building when you go to work?
Of course we bring out full selves to work, right?
But if you're working in an environment where people care about each other and they want to collaborate
and want to get the best from people, people are willing to help you.
Hey man, what are you going, whatever you're going to?
I'm here for you.
I'm here to support you.
I feel in, you know, thousands of inquiries in my time as a leader and a manager that had
nothing to do with work in my office.
because I had human beings working for me.
And human beings have human being problems.
And I had great respect for the human beings
that took the time and the energy
and put the effort in to get the work done,
to make our team successful.
So I see them as whole human beings.
I'm here for that, right?
So I think if you create a collaborative environment
where everybody's trying to pull their weight
and do the best that they can
to deliver an objective,
that you can create, you know,
a little bit of the family sensation
without being family, right?
Everybody needs to pull their work,
their weight and everybody needs to get the work done.
We have a mission and a vision.
By the way,
a leader is the leader is responsible
for creating a compelling and inspiring mission
and vision,
a galvanizing vision that everybody can get behind.
When I walk into my job as the head of Nike basketball worldwide,
marketing,
my first meeting with that team,
about 30 people, I never forget.
I put a slide on the board.
It was a picture.
I don't know if you've ever been
to West Forth or Rucker Park in New York, the big basketball mecas in New York City Street
basketball. I put a picture of the crowd at Rucker Park. And the photographer that took the picture,
the crowd had just erupted. So all you're seeing is this crowd of people, a hundred people,
in the stands, going crazy because something just happened. And I put that up. And I said,
hey, I have a question for you guys. What do you guys think that is? You know, that's probably
West 4th Street or the Rucker Park. That's good. That's good answer.
That's not a. Hey, what do you think that is? Well, that's people, you know, really excited.
Probably a don't cap. No, no. What do you think that is?
You know, maybe a crossover. A guy fell down on a crossover. Everybody jumped up and went crazy
in it.
Those are all great guesses. Thank you, sir, very much. I appreciate those. Great guesses.
That is, that is the new global marketing plan for Nike basketball.
That's it. One page. One image. One slide. No world.
Arturo, what do you mean? If we're not doing. If we're not doing,
something to inspire that reaction from 17 and 18 year old basketball playing kids worldwide,
we need to be doing something else.
Whatever we're doing, they'll do that.
If it doesn't elicit this response from our consumer, let's do something else.
That's what we're going for.
That's the most start.
We want every kid that's 17 or 18 year old who plays basketball to feel that way about
what Nike just did.
That's our goal.
And if we can deliver on that time and time again,
will be their favorite brand.
We're going to do incredible storytelling.
We have the greatest athletes on earth on our side, on our team to tell stories about.
And every story that we tell, everything that we do is going to elicit that response from kids that play basketball.
You got it?
Everybody was committed to the vision.
Got it, Arturo.
Let's go.
Shock and delight.
Shock and all.
That's what we're doing.
Ladies and gentlemen, Arturo Nunez.
My friend, my friend, absolutely fantastic.
Absolutely fantastic.
The book is the culture compass, a bold leadership philosophy on why staying true to yourself is the secret to success in corporate America.
We'll have links to book goes live October 6th.
We'll have links to the book, all of that.
Where else can people dive into your world and follow along with your journey?
The book or the audio book, I just actually recorded the audio book myself, which was really,
hard. I thought that would be easy. I saw your message about this where it was in the same
recording studio that Jay Z and was, Jay Z and who?
Jay Z and Timberlund did dirt off her shoulder, right in the same.
That's right. That's right. Jay Z. Timberland.
Oh, that's pretty cool, man. That's pretty cool.
So you can listen to the audio book on Audible, wherever you listen to your podcast is available.
The book, October Siss. I'm really excited, man. It's a legacy project for me.
excited to give young people these gems
that have really helped me throughout my career
and thank you, man.
Thank you for making the time.
Thank you for having me.
Thank you for sharing your audience with me.
I really, really appreciate it.
Let's do part two and part three and part four.
There's more coming.
I'll be honest with you.
You have an open invitation
anytime you want to come back, my friend.
You just let me know and we'll do it again.
I could do five more hours with you,
but we both got things to do
and I appreciate you.
So thank you so much and have a wonderful day.
