First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - A First Date Follow Up where they spent all weekend together!?

Episode Date: May 6, 2021

Sasha hung out with Stephanie and they hung out ALL weekend then went on a date later that week... Now Stephanie isn't calling Sasha back he has no idea why! The Jubal Show calls and finds out what happened!Let us know what you think on social!Follow us at: @thejubalshow @jubalfresh @thatdreas @evanontheradioSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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No, no, no, really. It could be a look they give you or a twinge of human intuition where you clue into the other person's energy and you know you're going to link up. Or it could be such a sure thing because it's two o'clock in the morning and you're on the wrong side of town with 60 bucks in your pocket.

Sometimes you just know, is what I'm saying. And apparently, Sasha, who was on the phone to do a first date follow-up, met a girl named Stephanie. And he says he just knew that they were going to hook up as soon as he met her. Oh, wow. What's up, Sasha? How are you? Hey, I'm good. How are you guys doing? Not too bad. So she just looks like a hoe?

No, no, she's so beautiful, and she just had this energy about her, and I just knew immediately when I saw her that we were going to vibe and that we were going to hook up. Oh, so, I mean, did she feel the same? Well, we did hook up, so I guess my intuition was correct. Oh. Okay.

And was it because you talked to her and you guys vibed, or was it the $60 thing, wrong side of town thing like I brought up before? We just vibed. It was like, you know, when you meet someone and everything flows it's easy where did you meet her um we uh we met at a friend's party and uh the thing is is that we ended up after hooking up spending all weekend after that party so spending all weekend doing each other uh yeah we had brunch in the morning after we had hooked up the night before and then we hung out that whole day we went to the park we had dinner i even came back to her house wow so you spent the weekend together

yeah ah okay because you just said we spent the weekend together. Yeah. Ah, okay. Because you just said we spent the weekend. Yeah. Oh, no, no. Okay. So you spent the weekend together with her. And is that the last time you saw her? No, we actually hung out the week after with a group of her friends at a restaurant. She's not calling you back though, right?

No. Okay. not at all. Was there anything that happened during the date that maybe turned her off that you could tell? The only thing I could think of is we have a mutual friend and they were talking that last time we were together and she might've said something to her. I'm not sure.

I mean, is there something bad to say to her? Yeah. I don't think there's anything. I don't know. Someone can always say something. I'm always saying something about my friends, but not in a mean way, just like teasing people. Okay, so that's the only thing you think of, though, is maybe this person that you knew might have said something to her, but you can't think of anything that they would have said.

Yeah, honestly, I can't figure it out. Okay. And well, how long has it been since your guys' last time seeing each other? And also how many times have you tried reaching out to her? Been a month. That's a long time. You're definitely getting blown off. So how many times

have you tried to text or call her? This is embarrassing, but probably, let's say every other day. Every other day for a month. And nothing. Nothing. Yeah, I'd hate to say this, but it might be time to give up. She is amazing, and I've thought of giving up, but I really don't want to, because I think we could have some expression.

Okay, and you don't think maybe you overdid it by texting and calling every other day for the last... Yeah, exactly. I don't know. I think if something really means something to you, you should really try. That's true. Yeah.

If it's worth it, you got to go get it. Yep. She might actually appreciate it. Some guys who are persistent then end up getting the girl that they want. Is the time frame usually shorter than a month? Not necessarily. Sometimes it's years.

Sometimes it's decades. Guys on social media will try and DMs for years and years and years. Just, hey, hey, hey. Oh, yeah, they'll have conversations with themselves. How often does that work? Not for me. All right, well, it is weird

that somebody could hang out with someone and hook up with them all weekend and then go on another date the week after and after that they just stop calling them for a whole month like they just ghost them after that i mean strange that is very strange i want to know why usually at three dates you're at the point where someone might be like hey um i like you i like you or hey i don't like you right you know and not just disappear and that's what happened to sasha who's on the phone right now he went out with a girl I like you. I like you or hey, I don't like you. Right. You know, and not just disappear. And that's what happened to Sasha who's on the phone right now. He went out with a girl named Stephanie.

He actually met her at a friend's house. They hooked up that night and then spent the whole weekend together. And then they had another date with some friends out in public. That sounds weird to say, but like at a restaurant. And after that, she kind of dropped off the face of the earth. It's been a month since he's talked to her. It's a long time. He says that he's tried to call her or text her every other day for a month, so she's probably pretty annoyed.

And he has no idea why. The only thing you can think of is that they have a mutual friend and he thinks maybe the mutual friend might have said something bad about him, but... Are you sure, Sasha, that there's nothing that person could have said about you that would be bad and make Stephanie not want to date you? Not that I know.

Well, I'm going to dial her phone right now so we can get her on the phone and figure out what happened, okay? Hello? Hi, may I speak to Stephanie, please? This is she. Stephanie, how are you? This is Jubal from The Jubal Show. I'm okay.

Can I help you? Yes, you can. Are you familiar with the show? I've heard of it. Yes, actually. That's good. We do a segment on our show called The First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go out on a date with someone and then end up not calling them back,

they can email us to get you on the phone to try to figure out what happened. So we got an email about you from one of our listeners. Oh, okay. Do you know who we're talking about? Um, I might have an idea, maybe. You want to take a guess and we'll tell you if you're right? No. All right, that's fair, I'll just tell you then

His name is Sasha Okay Okay, do you remember that guy? Yeah Yeah, no, I do What's wrong with Sasha? Why did you stop talking to him? Yeah, he said that you guys hung out For like a whole weekend

And then had another date And he had a lot of nice things to say about you. And now he's having a very hard time getting a hold of you. Yeah. Have you been getting his text messages? Every other day? Well, it's kind of hard not to. He says that he's reached out to you a lot and he's wondering why you're not getting back to him.

Well, first of all, I don't really understand the couple of dates. Like, yeah, we hung out for a weekend, but I mean, that's pretty much it. It wasn't anything crazy. Like, in all honesty, I think Sasha's a little clingy, if I can say that in a nice way. Clingy? Okay. Is it because he called? Since you haven't talked to him, he's texted or called you every other day

for the past month? Actually, like, before that, it's kind of when I was a little turned off by him. What do you mean, before that? Well, honestly, like, yeah, we had, like, a connection in the beginning, but

the whole weekend, like, I kind of got stuck with him for the weekend. Oh, no. You got stuck with him for the weekend? I literally had that, like, instinct. Really? Like, I wonder if she, like, didn't have a choice. Really?

So how did you get stuck with him? Oh, I hate to say this in a mean way. Like, I, you know, we were drinking the night before, and, you you know I may or may not have stayed over and you know forgot a lot of the night but you know the next day you know just going and getting brunch and I was like sure and then I was like you know I gotta go to my house and he kind of like followed me I don't know he was creepy and I got kind of stuck with him for the weekend until my girlfriend, I finally got out of it, you know, getting in contact with somebody to just, you know, make up an excuse and be like, well, I got to go, you know. So he said that you guys also hung out the week after. We were out with friends.

We were at a friend's, like, gathering at a restaurant. We were not with friends. We were at a friend's gathering at a restaurant. We were not there together. Oh, so it was like a mutual friend thing. But he said it was with your friends. Yeah. Yeah, it was. And I guess he knew somebody and I guess got a pity invite. You didn't invite him?

Oh, God, no. Okay. All right, so his story doesn't really match up with yours because he says that you invited him there, or at least you guys planned to go there together. No, I mentioned of it, but we have maybe one or two people that, you know, might know each other, but like he doesn't know my friends like that so he ended up posting a photo of him me and a couple of my friends that were at that restaurant that night and he had this hashtag under there that said relationship goals oh well oh god that's not okay definitely don't tell us about that either yeah he left a couple things out just a couple uh Misrepresented a couple things. Sasha is actually on the line

listening and wants to talk to you. Oh my god. Are you serious? So, I've been on the phone the whole time and I've heard everything and I'm sorry Stephanie, but your story is completely fabricated.

It's fabricated. How is my story fabricated? I haven't made anything up in my head or verbally. How many times do I hear, oh, I don't remember what we did last night. Like, come on. Even when we're drunk, like, we remember stuff. Like, you remember us having a good time. You remember the next morning wanting to go to brunch.

And you're the one who even asked me, like, do you want to get breakfast? Like, let's not finish this day. Like, come on. Oh, my. I did not say any of those things. We just kind of hung out, and you lingered. And I was trying to shoo you away in a nice way, and I thought maybe after brunch we would go our separate ways, but no.

You followed me to my house. These are two very different stories. Very different stories. And I don't know, I'm kind of leaning toward believing Stephanie, Sasha. Yeah, this is not true. You're probably just feeling shy on the radio. I get it. She's not responding, though.

Yeah, dumbass. Like, I haven't talked to you in, like, almost a month now. Fine. I'm going to prove to all of you guys that she was lying. How? Okay, yeah. Show me the proof, please. Okay.

Okay. So that photo, I did post it on Instagram, but I never hashtagged relationship goals. I hashtagged couple goals. I hashtagged couple goals so she's making stuff up. Oh my gosh. It's like the same thing. No, she's lying. You're really clutching at straws here.

Yeah, you are. I mean, either way, you shouldn't be putting that after meeting someone, you know, for three dates. Have you taken your medication lately? Yeah, I did this morning. Why? I like Sasha. Yeah, I like Sasha too.

Sasha, I like you, man, but I don't think this is going to work out for you. I still have to ask, though. Stephanie, would you like to go out with Sasha on another date? We will pay for it. Oh, my God, no, please. Don't. It's too much money.

Are you sure about that? Yes, I'm so sure. And if you need a hashtag for that, hashtag oops. Ugh, we're so done with new year, new you. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want.

And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. The Indicator is a podcast where daily economic news is about what matters to you. And we're guessing most days that's money. Workers have been feeling the sting of inflation. So as a new administration promises action on the cost of living, taxes, and home prices.

The S&P 500 biggest post-election day spike ever. Follow all the big changes and what they mean for you. Make America affordable again. Listen to The Indicator from NPR on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get podcasts. This week on the R&B Money Podcast, Tank and Jay Valentine sit down with the one and only Snoop Dogg. I wanted to be here personally to come give y'all flowers and let y'all know y'all doing an amazing job. I love the outlet. I love how y'all treat the artists that come on here. I love how y'all speak to the realization of R&B music and R&B money.