First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - A First Date Follow Up with a different point of view!

Episode Date: July 15, 2021

Jessica thinks Sam isn't calling her back because she almost choked to death on their first date. The Jubal Show finds out that the two weren't seeing eye to eye in this First Date Follow Up!Let us know what you think on social!Follow us at: @thejubalshow @jubalfresh @thatdreas @evanontheradioSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date follow-up. Apparently, Jessica, who's on the phone for a first date follow-up, almost choked on her first date. That's a memorable one. I mean, that could be a good thing sometimes. Well, I don't know if she means

choke like I don't know if she means choke like didn't don't know if she means choke like, like didn't do a good job. Like, oh, I choked like a sports type choke. Or choked like if she was in bed. That is a good kind of choking for sure. I wonder if that happened on the first date. That's a good first date. It probably has happened on a lot of first dates.

I think, yeah, definitely has happened on a lot of first dates. Several different ways. So how did she choke? Yeah, so Jessica, your email said that you choked on your first date. That could be an awesome thing. Could be a not awesome thing. In most of my experience with that, it's been an awesome thing.

Was it a not awesome thing? We'll get to that in a second. Did you need to get the high on look maneuver? Yeah. Before we get into what your email was talking about with you choked on the date, first of all, what's the guy's name that you want to call? His name is Sean. Sean. All right.

And where did you meet Sean? We actually just met online and decided to meet up in person for dinner. And did you meet on some weird website about choking, like chokematch.com or something? No. No, no, no. The choking is not what you guys think at all. Well, what did you guys do for your first date? What did you and Sean do for your first date? Um, it was pretty standard. We, we just met up for dinner. I mean, we met online and wanted to meet in person and thought, let's go have some food and just meet up. And how was the meetup? I mean, I thought it was great, to be honest. The only hiccup or choke up was when I choked, which was, you know, we were eating and I

took a bite of my food and it kind of went down the wrong hole. So I just kind of like coughed and like, what, what did you choke on? It was just, it was an asparagus, but I guess it was like, it was spicy and I wasn't expecting it to be spicy.

And it was just one of those moments, you know, where you're swallowing, you're just like, and I had to spit it out onto my napkin. Oh, that's awkward. Yeah. Yeah. I was not onto my napkin. Oh, that's awkward. I needed to be as discreet as possible.

Yeah. I was not expecting an asparagus. No. I was expecting like an Italian meatball or something. Yeah, something. Something with some cheese. I feel like I choke on cheese a lot. Cheese items.

Pasta items are chokeables. I don't know what happened. I just think the spice threw me off. And if I didn't take it out, I was just going to be coughing and coughing. I was going to say, yeah, like, you know, sometimes you'll do that and you'll kind of choke it down, but you couldn't do that. So you had't take it out, I was just going to be coughing and coughing. I was going to say, yeah, sometimes you'll do that and you'll kind of choke it down, but you couldn't do that so you had to spit it out.

Yeah, exactly. I was like, it was horrifying, of course. I'm like, oh my God, you're seeing all this. I mean, choking is already bad enough, but then having to spit it out, that's got to be embarrassing. I mean, that wouldn't turn me off.

If that happened on a day, I'd be like, okay, that happens with food you know yeah I mean but you know people can be particular so I just

I didn't get that type of vibe he was very nice about it he just was like have some water but okay that's the only thing

I can think of really why he's not calling you back but was the date good I mean did it seem like he liked you other than that? Yeah. I mean, we were laughing and, you know, just talking about random things and getting to know each other. We had already kind of covered the basics online.

I don't think there was much awkwardness other than that, really. Right. He was just really personable and like funny and um when he would talk about like his job and like his his eyes would just like light up he was very passionate about it and it was just something really refreshing you know then other than to hear somebody like oh i hate my job and blah so it was just like really nice to to see and like i would want to be around that you know yeah people who are passionate about what they do and enjoy what they do that's usually an attractive thing yeah exactly and we we actually

have the same dog oh that's cute he has a golden retriever like me um and I just thought that was really great because it's like oh let's go on a puppy date. Oh, yeah. Yeah, that's cool. That is a good thing to bond over. People, I mean, that's right there probably tells you subtly that you guys are meant to be if you have the same dog. Well, we'll figure it out. We'll play a song, come back, and then call him and see if the choking on food is what did you in and why he's not calling you back. Okay?

Okay, great. It's a Jubal show. Right in the middle of your first date follow-up, and if you're just joining us, Jessica is on the phone, and Jessica went out with a guy named Sean on her first date. She thinks that he might not be calling back

because she accidentally choked on an asparagus in the middle of their date, and I guess it was an awkward moment because she had to spit it back out. Did you spit it into a napkin, or did you spit it on the table? Where'd you spit it? Oh, God, spit it into a napkin or did you spit it on the table? Where'd you spit it? Oh God, no, into a napkin.

I think we should spit it on the table right here in front of us. Yeah, what the heck? I would have spit it right in his lap. Oh no. Gross. It was a napkin. I knuckled at it and put it away.

The polite thing to do. Right. But other than that, she can't think of another reason that he wouldn't be calling her back. At the end of your date, I didn't ask you in the first part, at the end of your date, did you guys kiss?

Did you guys make plans to go out again? Anything? No, there was no first kiss, but he did say like, okay, we'll talk soon. So, I mean, I was the first one that texted him and yeah, he hasn't responded. Okay. Okay. How long has it been since you guys's date it's been two weeks oh wow that's a while okay yeah i'd want to know yeah me

too i'd be curious all right well we're gonna dial this phone right now see if we can figure it out okay okay all right here we go Hello Hi man speak to Sean please Yeah I'm speaking Sean how are you This is the Jubal show My name's Jubal Mine's Alex

What's up What is this The Jubal show It's a radio show sounds like you haven't heard of it no sorry what's up

why are you guys calling me well we're calling you because we do a segment on our show called the first date follow up that's where if you go out on a date with someone and then end up ghosting them,

they can email us to get you on the phone and try to figure out what happened. And you recently ghosted somebody. Do you have any idea who could have emailed us? Is this Jessica? Correct. Congratulations. You got it right. Jessica emailed us because she said that you're not calling her back.

She told us about your date. She said that she had a really good time with you and she doesn't know what happened. Am I telling us? All right. Yeah, we went out. Uh, we got a little bite and a couple of drinks. It was cool. Um, I liked her.

I mean, she was pretty. She looked like her picture. Rave review. It sounds like you didn't really like it. Like, it sounds like, I don't know, just the way that you said that. Hey, you know, you want me to be honest? I didn't fall in love on the first date.

She was pretty. Okay. She didn't use trick photography. She looked like her picture. So, cool. I mean, you know, worse things have happened in my career. So, you know, I liked her and everything like that. Good to talk to, I would say. And we were laughing. The date was good. So, if it was good, then why not try again? Yeah.

A brutal truth is we're talking before the date, and she's telling me about herself. I'm telling her about me, and there's kind of like one detail. She's like, oh, yeah, I have green eyes and all this. And as we're sitting there looking and I'm noticing, the more I looked, I was like, those are false contacts. You can tell. And then once you notice it, once you see it, you see it. Right.

And I was like, they were not green. She's wearing. I'm like, you know, what's next? Wait, so then, wait,

you're not calling her back because she's wearing, because she lied about her eye color and that she was wearing contacts? Yeah, yeah. Okay, so.

That's it? No, no, that's not it because she's lying. She, you know, it's kind of a big deal.

It's like a big part of who you are, your face. A lot of people wear colored contacts, I think. What color do you think her eyes are then? Probably brown, right?

But there's nothing wrong with that eye brown eyes. But it's like, be real. She's lying about that. It's like, what kind of a cheese ball, you know, is like, oh, green eyes. And then they roll up.

They've got like bionic implant eyes. It's like so stupid. So it's more the fact that she lied about her eye color than the fact that she was wearing. It's lame, you know? I mean, like, be you. Be your best self, right? You know what's also lame? Is that we didn't

tell you that she's been on the phone the whole time oh god I don't care hi hey wait so you don't have green eyes and you said you have green what color of eyes do you have um I have hazel eyes. They may look a little green in the sunlight, but it's more brownish than green. I wear contacts to bring out the green, I guess. Why do you have to lie about it? You know, I've been wearing contacts for such a long part of my life that it's not really that I'm trying to lie, blatantly lie. It's what I say. It's just an everyday thing. I mean, it sounds to me like you're insecure about it

because you listed on your stuff that he's talking about, like your eye color, and then you're wearing the contacts, which is fine, but you're trying to pretend like it's not that you're not wearing contacts you should just own it i think yeah yeah it is a big insecurity it's not something that you know you guys again like saying like you're beautiful you don't even know what i look like first but that's not really helping um i appreciate it but it's not going to be solved in just one day. But you are though,

you are though, if you think you are, you will be. All right, look, now I kind of feel bad now. You heard me say, I thought you were pretty. I mean, I don't think anybody wouldn't think you're pretty. You're, you're very good looking, but I'm just like, why, why the lie? That's weird. I mean, it shouldn't have to be so screwed up. Just like be yourself, like they said, you know, I don't want to beat up on you. Would you like to go on a second date with Jessica? We will pay for it. Now that you've come clean about the eye color and Jessica, there's nothing more to hide. I don't think maybe, but who knows? Hopefully not. Would you like to go out with Jessica again on another date? You know, Jessica, you're beautiful just the way you are. And I would like to see you again.

I just didn't like the dishonesty about the eye color. That's all. All right. That's a start. That's good. I'd like to go out with you again. Yay. Nice.

That's exciting. Yeah. Congratulations, Jessica. you got another date all right i'm glad i'm glad you reached out thank you thank you for giving me another chance i'm really looking forward to it i can't wait to see you again awesome i guess if we're being real honest um one thing you should know is um i don't really like italian food so if we could just kind of not go Italian, that'd be great.

Jubal's First Date Follow-Up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out,

like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever

you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, Ears Edition, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid.

Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional

patriarchal norms. Tune in and join the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.