First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Allegra & Gary - Grave Danger

Episode Date: December 18, 2024

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Allegra is on the phone today for our first date follow-up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Gary. So in a few minutes, we're going to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Allegra, how long has it been since you heard from gary it has been five days who's keeping track or you know anything five days on the dot um what was your last interaction with him like uh it was great like he asked me to maybe go on a second date and I was looking forward to that just even a text from him and yeah now it's the fifth day I've been feeling I haven't been sleeping I know that's embarrassing

but I just really liked him a lot have you tried to reach out to him yeah I sent like I sent three texts and I think that's about it I'm not going to push it anymore what are you saying in the text? Are you just like, Hey, I'm just like, Hey, um, I had a great time. And then the other one was like, hope you're doing

well. Third one was like, Hey, um, do you want to go to six flags together or something? Okay. Well, let's try to figure it out. Why don't you tell us about your date? Yeah. So we had a picnic at the park and we went to a market got some sandwiches and i brought monopoly that was fun we went to go see a movie after so i thought like things were going really well there was chemistry in my opinion we just talked about like where we went to school like what our hobbies are and I feel like I really liked how quirky he was and and that like he had he was interested in like reptiles and I really tried to engage with him and telling how my him how my dad also has like like esoteric interests

and I was really nervous honestly so I don't I'm afraid if I messed up or anything, but I was just really anxious. Maybe I said something out of the blue or made him feel bad about liking reptiles. I'm not sure. Do you remember anything awkward that you might have said? Yeah, well, I think he told me before, like, on his previous relationship, he cheated on his last girlfriend. And so I kind of maybe said, like, yeah, like, that wasn't a good thing to do. Like, maybe I wasn't supportive to him, you know? It's a pretty bold thing to come out on a first date and tell the person that they cheated on their last person. How nice to meet you.

I have a track record of cheating in my relationship. Also, you probably don't want to be supportive of that. Like, I think it's okay to say that that was a bad decision. Yeah. Yeah, so I don't know what's happened since. And, yeah, we've been texting for two weeks from a dating app. So we were, like, we've already gone through the first stages of, like, icebreakers. So that's why we died pretty deep that day.

OK, well, we'll play a song, come back and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. OK, thank you so much. All right. We'll play a song, come back, get your first day follow up next. Hey, everyone, it's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch and I'm exhausted. But turns out the end is near, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. This podcast is for people like me who need a little perspective and insight. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Van Jones, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, even though these days fun and politics seems like an oxymoron. But we'll do that thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee, Roy Wood Jr.,

and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Power to the podcast for the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Power to the podcast for the people. So whether you're obsessed with the news or just trying to figure out what's going on, this season of Next Question is for you. Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Right in the middle of today's first day of follow-s, or wherever you get your podcasts. Right in the middle of today's first date follow-up, and if you're just joining us, Allegra is on the phone, and Allegra is getting ghosted by a guy named Gary, and we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and see if we can get her another

date. But first, Allegra, why don't you catch everybody up on your situation? Yes. It's been five days since he texted me, and I thought our first date went amazing. Maybe I hurt his feelings on something that was personal. And yeah, I'm just curious to see what he's up to. It's been a while. You ready?

Yeah. Okay, here we go. hello hi may i speak to gary please yeah this is gary gary how are you my name is jubal i'm calling from a radio show it's called the jubal show hi gary i'm nina also on the show hi i'm victoria hi everyone how are you? I'm good. What's going on? Do you ever listen to the radio show at all? Yeah, I have. Okay, great.

Have you ever heard a first date follow-up before? Yes, I have. Perfect. Well, then you know that that's the segment that we do where if you go on a date with someone and then end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. Yeah, that sounds right. So we got an email about you, Gary. Oh, did you?

Yes, we did. Any idea who would email us and say that you're ghosting them? I can think of one person, yeah. Okay. Does it start with an A? Does it end with Allegra? Yes, it is Allegra. She emailed us. We talked to her. She told us about your date.

She said she really liked you, but she's confused and wants to know why you're ghosting her. Would you mind telling us? Sure. Well, did she tell you about the date? She did. She said it was good. She said you guys went to a park and then... You like reptiles? Yeah, she said you guys talked about a bunch of stuff, including the fact that you like reptiles.

She said it was a really good date. Yeah, we went to a... I guess you could call it a park, but it was actually a graveyard. What? Yeah, she laid out a picnic blanket over a random person's grave and then she wanted us to eat on it okay so you guys met at the graveyard she took

you to the graveyard you took her to the graveyard how did you get to a graveyard well she said she wanted to have a picnic and so i i met her and she she took me to what she said was going to be a great spot for a picnic. And then she, like I said, she just brought me to a graveyard. I kind of thought we were walking through the graveyard to go to the next, you know, that there was a park on the other side. But no, no, it was like a whole picnic basket on top of someone, you know, someone who is decomposing. You didn't say anything about that? Like, hey, can we go to like where there's a picnic table? Yeah, that part.

And not dead people? I mean, I was shocked, frankly, and I was hungry. So I was too hungry to leave. She was just talking the whole time. So I maybe got like two words and I was i was just sort of in shock um it just felt like you know when you're running out the clock and it just couldn't move any slower did she address the fact that you guys were at a graveyard while she was talking to you and you were eating oh yeah she loved it she thought it was fantastic um isn't it so cool that this is here and that we can enjoy this sort of stuff?

My mom's like that. Your mom would go to a picnic at a graveyard? She totally would. My mom loves going to different graveyards and just celebrating people's lives and learning about them. I don't think that's what they were doing. I mean, I don't know. Maybe she's got a fascination with it, too. You know, I thought maybe it was someone that she loved.

But then she started talking about how she, you know, likes to go to different grave sites and do the same thing. Like have picnics at the graveyard. Yeah. And sometimes she goes by herself. She said sometimes it's just she likes to bring a blanket and sunbathe. My mom always says that the whole idea is that if you don't acknowledge them, then they are forgotten. I mean, for me, I would be very creeped out in a graveyard. I'm just wondering if her mentality is similar to my mother's where it's just she wants to honor people that she doesn't know.

It was if we weren't at a graveyard, it was just a picnic in a park, but it was on a grave. I just, I thought it was super weird, and if I'm being honest, it was probably the worst situation that I've ever been in. Okay, well, Allegra felt differently. She thought it was great. Oh, I know. Yeah, she made that very clear. It felt like maybe she was, at one point I was like, is this it? Is she wanting to leave me in the grave?

And is there a whole group of people? Okay, yeah. Come over here. Back behind this building. I mean, that's kind of smart. Well, Gary, Allegra is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh, yeah, that's right. That's right. I forgot that she

said that's what you do. She's right there on the phone. Hi, Allegra. Gary, you're a liar. You said you loved it. So I was uncomfortable when you kept saying, do you do you love it? Isn't this great? Don't you love it? And I said, yeah, like that? You think that's how somebody says yeah when they're excited about something? Well, you could be a little more honest because I didn't

get the cue. Once a cheater, always a cheater. I didn't know you were going to fall for that. Cheater? How did I, what? Yeah, you should feel guilty, like still to this day. So, yeah, you told me. What are you talking about?

You told me that. I cheated. For your last relationship. Absolutely not. I don't even, what are you talking, I never said that. Classic cheater mode. Oh. Honestly, I don't even know who you are, Gary.

I wish I never met you. Well, don't say that too quickly. Gary, would you like another date with Allegra? We'll pay for it. No. No, thank you. Yeah, f*** you, Gary. Jubal's first date follow-up.

Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast. Next question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. John Stewart is back in the host chair at The

Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews and more. Now, this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show Ears Edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. into one global business story that matters. You'll hear from Bloomberg journalists like Matt Levine. A lot of this meme stock stuff is, I think, embarrassing to the SEC. Follow The Big Take podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen. Welcome.

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