First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Amira & Theo - The Urban Beekeeper Who Ghosted Amira

Episode Date: September 17, 2025

Amira thought her romantic honey-tasting date with Theo was straight out of an indie rom-com—but then he vanished. Why would an urban beekeeper suddenly ghost after such a sweet night? The Jubal Show calls him to find out, and the reason might sting more than the bees. Listen now to this First Date Follow Up on The Jubal Show! Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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First date of follow-up, powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys, online at Advocateslaw.com. Amira is on the phone today for a first day follow-up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Theo. So in a few minutes, we'll call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second. date but first amira how long has it been since you heard from theo it's been a week and a half how did you guys leave it after the date well i thought we would see each other again for sure because it was such an amazing date but he hasn't you know i tried texting him after the date i didn't hear anything i was like oh people get busy but i still haven't heard anything so i don't know okay well why don't you tell us about the date and let's see if we can

find some holes. Okay, so we met up, and we went to go to this, like, really cute, like, honey tasting. Money taste. That's interesting. Yeah. It was a picnic, like, sunset picnic with, um, honey tasting. And, you know, we've never heard that before. I know.

It was so cute and fun. And he's also the reason, like, he suggested it because he's, uh, an urban beekeeper. Oh. Which thought that was cool. So he's pretty hipstery then. Sounds like that. Yeah, for sure. But also like rugged.

He's outdoorsy and he's like, you know, a gentle poet type. He was like quoting Roomy while drizzling honey into my tea. It was like very cute. My gosh, that's my favorite poet. Roomy? Yeah, he's a Persian poet. It's amazing. And we met like we met in person.

We didn't meet online. We met at like a weekend pop-up bar. And anyway, the date, super romantic, very, like, indie rom-com vibes. There was one point where, like, a bee landed on my nose, and I sneezed mid-lath, which, like, sprayed honey across the blanket and onto the honeycombs, and, like, he nervously laughed, so I thought, okay, maybe I've recovered this, but then I also knocked over a jar of lavender honey onto his shoes. Oh.

And, but that's the only weird thing that happened. Everything else was great. We had amazing batch, a constant laugh, just great vibes. That was the only, like, weird mishap. He's probably still trying to get honey off him, because once you get honey on, like, multiplies and gets sticky everywhere. I know. It was sticky.

And then you sneezed on the honeycomb? Well, my sneeze, like, spray, yeah, sprayed honey kind of, like, on the blanket and onto the honeycomb. of a weird like uncomfortable is moment for just a moment but that's the only thing I can think of that like kind of went awry everything else was really romantic and cute but I'm thinking maybe he thought I was like clumsy or unhygienic with my sneeze I don't know this only thing I can think of that like went south everything was so romantic and cute well maybe if he's an urban beekeeper he really like honey is his thing right so maybe he did take that a little bit seriously I don't know

would hope not. Yeah. Did you guys kiss or anything? Well, we didn't, we didn't kiss, but, like, it was a very, like, romantic intimate date. Like, at the end, like, we cleaned up. We watched the skyline. We shared, like, a very, like, spark-filled moment.

Like, it felt like a movie ending. Like, it was really romantic, and it sort of felt like, oh, this is something we're going to take our time with. So that's kind of why it felt like it didn't go to the physical route. Sure, sure, sure. It's even more romantic, you know? Yeah. Did he say anything about going out again?

It was sort of insinuated. It was like, you know, we kind of left it as like, you know, love to see you again. And I just figured like it would flow and continue to flow. Like I thought when I didn't hear from him, I'm like, oh, he's busy. So I'll reach out and leave a little text. But then when I, now when I'm not hearing, I'm like, okay, this is obviously there's a reason he's not messaging back. And I'm just so confused because I just thought it went really great. All right. Well, we'll play a song, come back, and then call him and see if I'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you a second date, okay?

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Amira is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Theo. So in a second, we're going to call him and see if I tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But first, Amira, why don't you break down your situation for us again real quick? Yeah, I went on an amazing date with this urban beekeeper, rugged, poet, outdoors men, really cute. We had an amazing date. Everything was wonderful. The only thing I can think of on this cute, neat, cute, honey tasting date was that I did sneeze at one point, like mid-lap, and I sprayed honey and kind of got honey on his shoes. It was like a whole thing. But aside

from that, the date was so great, but it's been complete silence since. All right. Well, are you ready for us to call him? Yes. Okay, here we go. Hi, me, I'm asking to Theo, please. Yes. Hey, Theo, how are you? This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, I'm Victoria.

And my name's Jubal. What's up? Oh, hi. Hi. Hi. How's it going? Have you ever listened to the show before? Yeah, once or twice.

Once or twice? Great. Well, guess what? Oh, it's just the thing with the date and the thing. Hey! Yes, it is. It's a first date follow-up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them,

that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. Do you know who would email us about you? Oh, man. Okay. This is awkward. This is a girl, Amira, that I went on a day. with recently. Yes, that's who emailed us.

And she says she really liked your date and thought you guys really hit it off, but doesn't know why you're ghosting her. Would you mind telling us? I mean, look, she was like a great person and all. I feel like the date went well, but, like, I don't know. Like, she talked a lot about her job, and, like, she says she works, like, 70 hours a week, and she checks her emails a lot, like, at Mindy, like, pretty much, like, 24-7. And, like, I don't know, it just felt like she was just, like,

really, really into her job. Is that a bad thing? I mean, I don't know. I just, I dated a girl that was like that, and it's just like, I wasn't into it. Like, it just wasn't my thing. And, like, nothing against her is just, you know, I prefer not to deal with that. So did that girl that you saw before just not have enough time for you? Or was it just the email checking that was bothering you?

Well, it was kind of everything, like a culmination of everything between the email. Like, it was like she always had her phone on her and it was like blue to her, like, pocket and she was always checking it and she always had little reminders and stuff like really really obsessive and like a whole thing and like I don't know I just felt like that whole thing uh really interfered with like me getting to just connect with her because it was always like the job was always first and I was like second it's basically just because she works a lot I no look I just would prefer someone to give me the undivided attention like I get work's important it on like whatever it puts food in the table and all that stuff blah blah blah but you know

just turn off your phone you're on a date like just the person in front of you should be the most important thing not the phone okay so you're all about being in the moment yeah okay all right well thank you for telling us now i'll let you know that amira is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you okay hi hi seriously work ethic is the deal breaker here Uh, you, I mean, you, well, you heard all the stuff I said. I mean, I think I made a pretty good case, you know, like I, I, just saying. I mean, I do. I love what I do. It's a passion, but it's not a prison. Like, I'm single. I have the time and the things get serious. I can build in boundaries. Like, I can schedule date nights and vacations and more spontaneous rooftop bee parties, whatever. Like, I run my life on. Right now I'm single, though, so I run it in a particular. particular way. I mean, that's a good point. You can't give somebody your undivided attention until they earn it. I mean, that, that's fair. But, you know, it's kind of more like a boss

with like a Google calendar and like a bodyguard and like, you know, like set appointments. And you know, I don't know, I don't know. And then you show me your schedule. That's a really packed schedule. And I don't know how you fit so many things in one day. You're just scared of a woman with ambition. Scared? No, no, no. It's like, no, it's like, it's like cautiously allergic. like, I need to take a cert tech, and then, like, I'm good. Like, literally, that's it. What?

I'm not just ambitious. I'm hot and I'm not broke. That's basically the dating jackpot. Like, I don't understand what's wrong with this. Okay, Amira. Not broke. All right, facts. All right.

So, super hot, you know, not broke. You know, I'm just a dude that's, like, really in touch with nature. And I don't have a, I don't, I don't, I'm not on my phone all the time. I don't really rely on. technology, it's just me and trees and bees and honey. And that's kind of it. Yeah, but don't you think that opposites attract? Like, I am not going to be on my phone 24-7 when we're on dates together. Like, yes, work is important to me, but I can make time for my person if I'm dating someone. But it's like, I don't know, you're going to introduce your urban beekeeper boyfriend

to all your corporate, like, dudes at your event, like, oh, here's my boyfriend. He takes care of bees like I don't know that just doesn't really go together I think that's crazy I think it's really interesting what you do I don't know anyone else who does that I think other people would be interested and have questions too it's not like you're doing something like only fans or something you're doing an interesting job yeah I mean it's kind of weird you know it's like I don't know I'd be keeping it would be like a novelty to you and it'd be like oh how cute he takes care of peace he's a beekeeper oh like I don't know like that's I don't know like that's I don't know how I feel about that. That makes you really uncomfortable and I don't own a lot of suits and

ties, so that would also be a problem. Um, and you know, you're, you're making up this whole story that doesn't even exist. I mean, like, no, I, no, look, I, I, okay, maybe I'm like over anticipating this, but I don't know. I, I just, well, Theo, would you like another date with a mirror? We'll pay for it. You know, yeah. Sure. You will? Why not? Okay, I guess I, like, overreacted, but can we just do this again? Can we just, like, press the reset button and, like, do this again? Yeah, I mean, I'm open to that. I just don't want you projecting other things on to me.

Like, I never told you you have to wear a suit. I never, like, you know, I'm not going to, I think you're just projecting from past experiences on to me. And I just hope you, like, look at you with fresh eyes when we go on this second date. Let's just, like, see where it goes. Also, Theo, be proud of yourself, man. Urban beekeepers are dope. Thank you. I appreciate that. I wish more people would think that. But, um... Great, Amira, you got another date. Congratulations.

Hey! Thank you. Jubel's first date follow-up. All right, Wes West, Prop here from Hood Politics with Prop Podcast. You know I get down. You come from the urban areas. You understand politics more than you giving credit for. Between Jerry out here, Mandarin all over the place, hop-out boys, snatching up family members and two wars that was supposed to be done in 24 hours. Not to mention Epstein. We had to reach out to the homie, Jamel Hill,

because she's going to keep it a century. The American public is used to being entertained. We're a consumption society. So what Trump figured out is entertain them, and they'll never question you. Listen to the hood politics with prop podcasts on the IHard Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast.

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