First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Are all people named Nataly bad people?

Episode Date: June 21, 2023

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Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. James is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and unfortunately he's getting ghosted by a date he went on with a Natalie. James, before we get into your date, man,

how long has it been since you heard from the Natalie? It's been almost three days. Are you sure you're getting ghosted? Yeah. Well, you know, I would have got back in touch with somebody before now if I was interested.

So yeah, I kind of get that feeling. I just didn't feel like it was going to be that long when we left things so i was just a little surprised okay so tell us about that what happened on your date we uh met at a sports bar um you know the reason that i suggested that we meet there was um you know i saw on her uh profile that she was at a baseball game and she was having a great time so i'm like oh okay she likes sports and we'll go to a sports bar i thought that'd be good was she drinking in the picture you saw because then you would also know she also likes to drink put those two things together it looked like she was having a beer and of course sports bars there's a lot of good beer options so

i'm like okay you know that's her vibe that's her that's her um you know that's her kind of environment so i was like all right this will be good and yeah i thought it really did go well um told some jokes you know she laughed a little bit here and there um you know i mean it was a little loud there and the game was on and you know we were watching the game and things but uh but yeah i mean i just uh she's just beautiful She's beautiful. And I kind of felt a really good connection. And I just felt like we'd be texting or talking by now. And what did I miss? I mean, there wasn't anything that was standing out to me like, oh, and I really screwed this up or that she wasn't really interested. So I'm curious, like what, what was it? I think maybe because I don't know if it's maybe because I, you know, we split an appetizer, maybe I ate a little too much of it. Maybe that

like we got one of those pretzels where you like dip it in the, you know, and I thought it was pretty good. You know, a person's appetizer etiquette, I believe can tell you a lot about their personality. It does, actually. Yeah. Maybe because she wasn't eating that half, and I started to pick away at that a little when mine was done. You can tell a lot. You can tell a lot, James, based off of an appetizer etiquette. Because if somebody is really taking over the appetizer, you know how they're going to be in a relationship. It's going to be their relationship, right?

You know? But I didn't want to be wasteful though I think that might be a good sign I don't think it's a bad thing that you were eating so much of the pretzel but it's more like how you communicate that like are you going to eat that are you cool because you know I want to eat that it was kind of chilling there on the plate for a good while

so I figured okay it's fair game and we kind of moved on from there I can tell you from experience this is a red flag if somebody if you're having if you're sharing an appetizer with someone and then they throw like their napkin on it before you're even done you know they don't care about you at all the appetizer test wait what do you mean throw a napkin on it it means like they're done right they're done eating uh-huh with the appetizer it's their appetizer an appetizer, if it's for two people, you're splitting it. So they throw like maybe their used ranch and a napkin on it like, I'm done. But you're not done yet.

They didn't check with you. It shows they have no regard for humankind at all. Wow. I don't think James did that, though. No, you didn't do that, did you, James? No, no. Yeah, you don't sound like a sociopath to me. Okay.

Oh, thank you. All right. We'll play a song, come back and call her and see if we can find out why you're getting ghosted and maybe try to get you another date next, all right? All right. All right, play a song, come back, get your first date follow-up right after this.

First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. James is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and James isn't getting either of the T's that he wants. He wants to be talking and texting with Natalie, but he's not getting either of those T's. So we're going to try to figure out why he's getting ghosted and then see if we can get him another date. We're about to call her in a second. James, real quick, refresh everybody's memory on your date with Natalie. Well, I

thought it went really great. We went out and met at a sports bar, which I had suggested. I figured maybe she was into sports because I saw on her profile pic she was at a ball game, having fun. So we got there, it was a little noisy, the game was on, but

I thought it was going well. Talked about some cool stuff, had an, but, you know, I thought it was going well. You know, talked about some cool stuff. Had an appetizer. And, yeah, you know, I didn't get any indication at all that it went poorly. In fact, I thought I'd be, you know, hearing from her the next day. I was really excited to kind of keep things rolling. And I just never did. So I don't know if there's something missing or what.

You got to find out if it's because you ate too much of the pretzel. Right, right. I don't know if there's something missing or what you gotta find out if it's because you ate too much of the pretzel right right i don't know split an appetizer and i yeah i'm thinking yeah eat more than half of it was that offensive i don't know i really have no clue all right we're gonna call her right now and see if we can figure out here we go ready yep let's do it let's do it. Let's do it. Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Natalie, please? This is she.

Hey, what's up, Natalie? How are you? My name is Jubal. I host a radio show. It's on the radio, and it's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Natalie. I do that, too, with Jubal. And I'm Victoria. Hi, everyone. Hi, there. So there's three of us on the phone. I do that too with Jubal. And I'm Victoria.

Hi, everyone. Hi, there's three of us on the phone. I'm not sure if you've ever heard the show before. I've dabbled into your show here and there. We're calling you today because we actually got an email about you from somebody who dabbles with our show a lot. Oh, okay. Who might that be?

Well, it's also a guy that you dabbled with for a second, but now you're ghosting him. His name is James. Oh, yeah. Yeah, James emailed us because he wants to know why you're ghosting him. Oh, well, there's plenty of reasons why I'm ghosting him. Oh, what are they? Do you mind telling us?

Well, we went to a sports bar bar and he wanted to watch the game and you know it was loud it was noisy he wanted to share an appetizer and he ate most of it and didn't really ask if i wanted the last part of it or anything how'd you feel about that just curious oh here we go oh my god like everyone should know like hey like it's great to ask the person other person that you're sharing with first to make sure it's you know good to go you know i think that's a a rule that everyone should know you know if it's just sitting there though do we really care well i'm a slow eater so like i like to savor my food and such so he just didn't really give you a shot to eat much of the appetizer he kind of took too much of the appetizer yeah that why you're ghosting him there's more to it

um so we barely had conversation he would make lame sports jokes and puns, but not much conversation. And I felt like he just really wanted to watch the game versus really get to know me. Oh, all right. So you don't feel like he really paid much attention to you, even though he asked you on a date? Yes, exactly. So did you guys talk about anything he said you guys had great conversation I mean he talked about the stats and such of the team but that's really

it and I don't really like I don't really like sports that much so there's that so for me like I'm not going to care about stats I definitely was like going to sports games because, you know, there's a great atmosphere. You get to dress up. You're with your friends. You have a drink. And then also he did try to order my drink, too. He did tell me that.

Did he get it right? I'm not much of a beer person, more of like a hard cider person. So I had to step in and stand for myself, too. So, you know, wait a minute. Wait a minute. That was the same drink you had in the photo on your profile. So, I mean, I don't know how I could have gotten that wrong. I thought that was the right choice. Natalie, that's James. He's on the phone listening, been listening this whole time.

Wants to talk to you. I am so sorry. I thought you wanted to watch the game. That's why I wasn't saying anything. I thought you wanted to watch the game that's why I wasn't saying anything I thought you were into it no I wasn't it was just I rather have conversation and also that beer that was in my hand was the first time I ever tried

it and I didn't like it oh my gosh I'm so sorry I kind of based a lot off of that profile picture you were at a game it looked like you were having fun but oh you know you love sports so I. I kind of based a lot off of that profile picture. You were at a game. It looked like you were having fun. But I thought, oh, you know, you love sports. So I thought I was being polite by letting you watch the game.

And I am so embarrassed because now I'm remembering all the sports jokes I made. And those probably came off really lame. I'm really sorry. I'm really sorry. James, let me interrupt real quick. I basically asked you, hey hey let's not talk about the game anymore let's get to know each other you know I'm I don't have an explanation for that I may have just been a little nervous you know because I don't know you're you're you're a

beautiful woman and I was having a great time and I thought things were going well and I might have been a little a little nervous and I yeah I really kind of misjudged this I'm sorry Natalie doesn't he get points for actually paying attention to the photo though like he really tried to do this for you yeah well he could have asked me like what things I like to do versus just face off with a photo i'm really sorry natalie it's just i am kind of nervous because you're really pretty i mean it's better than what other people have told me before but sure you're beautiful you. I mean, how can anybody say anything contrary to that? I mean, totally, I mean, absolutely, my impression was beautiful inside and out. You know, I mean, on the inside, too. I mean, I just really got that impression about you.

And, yeah, I mean, that maybe just threw me a little bit. No, I think you're a great person. I really, really do. You don't know me. Like, we didn't spend a lot of time to talk about anything. I would like to get to know you. I really would. And I'm just really sorry that I kind of misjudged some things

or thought I was really super slick by making a lot of assumptions based on your photo. That was not the way to go. I mean, the advertiser wasn't that great either. Yeah, I was worried that might have been one of the reasons that I didn't hear from you, and I regret that. Well, Natalie, would you like to go out with James again on another date? We'll pay for it. I just want to add, Natalie, before you answer that,

if you agree to go out on another date with me, we can go wherever you want. You order whatever you like, any drink, any food, as many pretzels as you want. I want you to take the lead on that. You can even order my drink, my food if you want. You can choose what I wear, any of it, all of it. It is completely in your hands. Just a little thirsty. Pull back.

Sounds like James really wants to go out with you again. What do you think? I mean, that was a dangerous statement that I will hold him to. So, yeah, I will go on a second date with him. Yay. Wow, that worked? All right.

James might be showing up to his next date in a tutu. Whatever Natalie wants. Natalie gets. Congratulations. Jubal's, Natalie gets. Congratulations. Jubal's first date follow-up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch,

right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about?

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