First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Are they both ghosting eachother?

Episode Date: September 16, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".Ava is on the phone today for a Frist Date Follow Up and she is getting ghosted by a guy named Billy. It has been about a week since their first date and she has been waiting for him to call her back and he is probably also waiting for her to call him. They are ghosting each other!Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Ava is on the phone today for a first date follow-up. She's getting ghosted by a guy named Billy. What's up, Ava? How are you? Hi. Hi. How are you? Not too bad.

Thank you for asking. So before we get into your date and try to figure out why Billy's ghosting you and before we call him to ask him straight up, Billy, why you ghost? And how long has it been since your date with Billy? It's been about a week. Okay. How many times have you reached out or have you reached out? Well, I was waiting for him to call me back.

I know. That's right. So you haven't hit him up at all. It's just been a week and you've heard nothing after your date. Yes. And you haven't hit him up at all either. No, not yet. Okay. You guys are ghosting each other, but you just really want to know why you're ghosting

each other. Yeah. Okay. We're both just waiting on each other. It could be that. Maybe both of you guys are like, who's going to text who first? Well, well he said he was gonna call me back so that's why i'm waiting okay well tell us about your date then um maybe we can figure it out okay so um i met billy on tinder and um we were talking for about a week or so. And then like all of a sudden things just started to get really, really like more flirty.

And we started texting and sending pictures. And, you know, the conversation was just like really, really hot and steamy. And it was just everything. And I don't know, like I haven't been dating for like a year and a half. And, and, um, and so I told him that and I, I,

you know, I let him know everything that was going on. And like I said, we got like, are we just got real intense? And then we decided to meet up and we both live there like this dive bar and that I love. And it's dark and it's sexy and it's good.

And it's like a good warmup for what like I knew was going to be like a good night. Okay. Because you guys had already chatted like that. You know what you basically know where the date's going to end up. Yeah, exactly. Like that's me. Like once we started sexting that was it, you know.

Alright. So like our conversation leading up to like both of you know to us meeting everything was like very sexual and then we both stated that we couldn't wait to rip each other's clothes off. so um yeah the date was great the bar was great it was pretty much just an appetizer for the night and right afterwards we went to his place okay did what you guys talked about happen oh my goodness did it it was like it, it was, it was amazing. Like we just like everything happened. We got super freaky,

dirty, talking, biting, scratching his back. I was loud as hell. Oh wow. Okay. So basically though,

you both had a one night stand. Um, well, I mean, what was it supposed to be that? That's what it's turning out to be. Did you guys talk about that? Or do you think that that's all he wanted to do? Because I mean, what's it supposed to be that? That's what it's turning out to be. Did you guys talk about that? Or do you think that that's all he wanted to do?

Because, I mean, you said he would text you, but did you say, hey, let's do this more often? Well, yeah, he said he was going to call me back. When we were speaking, we spoke about, you know, starting to date and continuing. I started in a relationship, you know, getting to know each other and all of that. And then all of a sudden, like at the end of the night, like I said, we were biting, the kissing, the scratching, the spanking. Like it was just everything.

And then in the morning, you know, we did it like twice a day. And then like once again in the morning before I left. And then we shared this really, really long kiss before I left. And he said he'll call me later on that night. And that was a week ago. Maybe wore them out maybe you're still sleeping yeah i don't know but i'm so torn because like i don't yeah i don't know like i'm so torn because

like i don't know if it was maybe i was way too into it or maybe i was too loud i mean like i usually don't just let go like that but i thought thought that, you know, I felt safe with him. And, you know, considering that he was just as much into it as I was. And, like, I definitely had to cover up bite marks on my neck and my shoulder and everything. So I just definitely, like, thought that I would hear from him again. Like, everything went great. And I don't understand. All right.

Well, we'll try to figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and then call him and find out why he's not calling you back and if he can walk yet. This is your first day follow-up. Just joining us for today's first day follow-up. Ava is on the phone and she's

getting ghosted by a guy named Billy. Although, I think she might have killed Billy. And not known it. It's a homicide case. If you heard the first part of the first day follow-up Ava met Billy on Tinder and they really

just wanted to hook up. They were talking dirty on Tinder. They met up for drinks and then they ended up hooking up a lot. A couple times and it was, how would you describe it again Ava? It was amazing. Super freaky.

Amazing. We were biting, scratching, spanking, kissing. If it wasn't that you guys had agreed to hook up, you would be fighting. That's basically what it was. You guys are terrible in a relationship. I can imagine. But now Ava's not getting a call back and she doesn't know why.

And they didn't agree to just make it a one night thing. So she's really confused. It's been a week and she's heard nothing. And so we're going to call Billy right now and see if we can figure out why he's not calling Ava back. Ava, you ready? Yes, I'm ready. All right.

Here we go. Here we go. hello hey may I speak to Billy please uh yeah this is him hey Billy how are you this is the Jubal show it's a radio show my name is Jubal mine is Alex I'm Christian Grace now how are you I'm all right, I guess. So we do a segment on the show called The First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go out on a date with someone and then end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you've been ghosting them. So we got an email about you from a woman named Ava.

Yep. Ring a bell? Yeah, that girl's a lunatic nymphomaniac. Whoa! Did you say nymphomaniac? Lunatic nympho. Lunatic nympho. Sounds like a band. Yeah.

I mean, like, we had a good time on the date, and, you know, obviously, it got sexual. Yeah, she told us about that. She said that you guys had a really good time. Yeah, but I guess, like, I'm thinking, like, a girl like that who would have sex on the first date like that has probably done it a bunch of times. Of course. And what's wrong with that?

Exactly. Why not? Like, I say that all the time. People complain about somebody who's got a lot of experience, right? But then people also complain about having bad relations like that. Right. If you want the best, you've got to you've got to have someone who's seasoned, to last very long and she's only going to want sex and that's it. And I don't really have time for that. I want something realer.

I think lunatic nymphos want relationships too. But the scratch marks on my back are just now healing. What? Probably stung to shower for the last week. Oh, I thought that sounded like it would hurt. Yeah.

Yeah. I can't like keep doing that. How sustainable is it? Like if I'm on the fast track to getting CTE, you know what I mean? Oh, wow. All right. So that's the reason then. It's just you're not really sure how sustainable a longer relationship

with her could be. Right. Okay. Right. Well, thank you for being honest with me. I appreciate it. And I'm glad your wounds are healing. And I do want to let you know though, that Ava is actually on the phone listening to

this and wants to talk to you. Oh, yeah. Like what the Billy? Are you kidding me me you were just as into it as i was are you kidding me like i don't understand yeah i was into it but it was just a little too much you know you know what i mean no i don't because this is the first time in a while that I've been physical with anyone, and I felt safe with you. I mean, you just seemed too comfortable with it. It was way too thirsty. And he didn't seem to mind when he was spanking me and begging me to call him dad.

Okay. Yeah. Say it, girl. All right. No, you're a psycho. Whoa, whoa, whoa. Okay, that was me. What? That's not what I'm called for

way too much oh my god are you kidding me if you felt that way about her you shouldn't have done that with her like if that's a turn off for you for some people a turn off is somebody who's not relaxed in the bedroom like I'm willing to do whatever they like to do or let you know right out of the gate

yeah I enjoyed it at the time but are you going to always be like that? Because it just sounds hazardous to my health. Oh, my God. I mean, I wouldn't want to have open wounds all the time. Yeah, no. I don't have to scratch you every time. We both were into it.

I mean, you bit me. I had bite marks on my shoulders and my neck. Like, I don't, I wasn't the only one. And I bled. Yeah, I was just getting you back a little. Yeah, you were. Yeah, it's like you scratch me, I bite you. That's kind of how it happens.

Okay, I don't know where this is going. Yeah. Well, you know, you can try again, and I can be softer, or just to see if I can be softer with you. I think we have to end this before it goes too far. Billy, would you like to go on another date with Ava? We'll pay for it. Yep. You will? Yeah, but not the emergency room visit.

Or the news forum. Yeah. Yeah, you are a lot of fun, Ava. Yeah, I'd be down. Really? I have Neosporin and gauze at my house. Oh, okay. Just say hey, thank you.

See you soon. Leave it there. Okay, well then I guess I'm going to see you soon. it there okay see you well then I guess I'm gonna see you soon I'm sure you will yeah do it um

yeah I can't wait uh I'm glad you did this well have fun you guys thank you have fun enjoy yourself enjoy yourself

thank you guys yeah thank you bye bye see you bye the Jubal show on demand hey everyone Thank you, guys. Thank you. Bye. Bye. See you. Bye.

The Jubal Show on demand. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast. Next question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app,

Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, ears edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. You are cordially invited to... The hottest party in professional sports. I'm Tisha Allen, former golf professional and the host of Welcome to the Party,

your newest obsession about the wonderful world that is women's golf. Featuring interviews with top players on tour, tips to help improve your swing, and the craziest stories to come out of your friendly neighborhood country club. Welcome to the Party with Tisha Allen is an iHeart Women's Sports production

in partnership with Deep Blue Sports and Entertainment. Listen to Welcome to the Party, that's P-A-R-T-E-E, on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.