First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Avery is getting ghosted by Toby... let's find out why

Episode Date: September 25, 2023

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But first, Avery, tell us about Toby. How long has it been since you talked to him? Hi, sure. So we talked online for a while before our date and we ended up going hiking. It's been a couple weeks and I just haven't heard from him, which I don't know. I kind of feel like it's weird. Okay, so a couple weeks. That is a long time. Yeah, I would feel weird about that too. Yeah. I was kind of giving it time. We're both really

busy. He had mentioned work a couple times. I didn't know if he was busy, but I thought it went well, so I just kind of want to see what's up. Did you try reaching out to him at all in between that time? times i didn't know if he was busy but i thought it went well so i was just kind of you know want to see what's up did you try reaching out to him at all in between that time um i didn't i did text him like a phone i went on the same hike like later so i texted him a photo of the hike like oh my god this is where we were and he just never responded to that photo but so it's kind of benign like i didn't want to be too forward but yeah i didn't even respond it's like completely ghosted

so yeah that's a big one too like if you went to the same place you were at and sent a picture you would think you would get a response i love how we do that to ourselves though we send text messages and tell ourselves it's okay this one doesn't require a response so i'm just going to send it and whatever happens happens right and then really you're like dang it you should have responded yeah yeah i was like opening i was like opening the door and it didn't well let's see what happened tell us more about the date and the hike then uh yeah so well we both had on our like online profiles that we like to hike so i thought it would kind of be a good date you know not awkward at all and fun um yeah i brought my dog um

because the dog needs to get outside and get exercise and um i just thought it would be fun and we hiked for a few miles and then afterward we were still having good times we went to get a bite to eat and he was really nice and um he was really sweet to my dog too like he looked around trying to make sure we could find a patio where the dog could sit with us outside while we ate um and yeah i don't know we had like a great afternoon did you tell him ahead of time that you're bringing the dog on the date uh i don't think so i don't know i didn't really think because it was a hike we were outside i didn't really think about it but i don't think i don't i don't think i did um but he didn't seem to mind i mean who doesn't love dogs i don't't know. I mean, yeah, must love dogs.

I mean, there are some people that don't. He didn't seem like he minded it? Not that I noticed, no. I mean, he doesn't have a dog himself, but, like, it didn't seem, he didn't seem offended or scared at the dog or anything. Okay, good. Was there anything that happened during the hike or maybe afterwards that could be the reason why he's not hitting you back? Um, I don't know i mean something did kind of seem off after lunch but you know like at the end of the day he kind of left not abruptly but like you know i thought we might continue hanging out but

i didn't know if he just didn't like his food um he ended up giving the rest of his meal to my dog so i i thought it was kind of cute but um what did you guys eat it was a lasagna i hope not no it's like tacos like tacos yeah yeah um yeah i don't know i guess i just thought he got caught up with work or something or maybe the hike was like maybe he liked not strenuous hikes and it was too much i don't know okay i'm honestly just i'm baffled when you say it was different after you ate like or yeah how was he different um like he he just kind of said he had to go and you know i kept making suggestions of like oh we could walk back to our cars together or like i could drop the dog back at my house and we could go do something else and he just kind of shut everything down and was like no i have to go

um whereas earlier we had been talking about like not making plans for the future you know but i mean like kind of talking about ideas of other things that we could do you know yeah okay well we'll see if we can figure it out for you we'll play a song come back and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you. And then see if you also want another date after you find out why. And maybe get you another date, okay? Okay. All right.

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So we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her. But before we do that, Avery, why don't you refresh everybody's memory on your date with Toby? Sure. So we went hiking a couple weeks ago with my dog and went really well. Conversation was going fine. We got food afterwards. Seemed to have a good time. But since then, he's kind of ghosted me and I'm not sure why he doesn't want to get together again. You ready to call him?

Yeah. All right, here we go. hello hi may i speak to toby please hey yeah this is toby toby how are you my name is jubel i host a radio show and it's called the jubel show hi toby the show's here too i'm nina hi i'm victoria hey how's it going how's it going? How's it going? I'm doing good. Thanks for asking. Do you listen to the show? Yeah, I've heard you guys show. I love it.

Oh, okay. We love that. Probably heard a first day follow up before then. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Sweet.

Well, guess what? Tobes. Oh, Hey, is this for, uh, the last date I have?

Well, yeah, you're a smart guy, Tobes. Yeah. You seem pretty casual about this. Did you expect us to call? No, I just, yeah. I mean, that was the last one I went on,

so that's what we're talking about, yeah. It is what we're talking about. So Avery told us about your date and stuff. She said she really liked you. It's been a few weeks, and you haven't gotten back to her. She doesn't know why you're ghosting her so she wanted us to ask you would you tell us

please tell us yeah I feel bad but like I just couldn't stand her dog that she brought along the date so it was a dog I mean she didn't mention it you know

and I don't know it's not that big of a problem but I mean she didn't mention it you know and I don't know it's it's not that big of a problem but I mean like just kind of like a heads up would have been nice you know like hey I'm gonna bring my dog on the hike you know we asked her if she asked you or told you that the dog was gonna come yeah she said she didn't because she just figured it was an outside hike but she also mentioned that you're really great to her dog you fed her dog you're giving the dog love so i mean somebody kind of had to i mean the dog is not like well behaved at all i mean the whole time it was like pulling her along and i was like all right i'm gonna have to take over this leash because you're getting like yanked uh so it's kind of annoying you know and then uh i I mean, we got lunch,

and the dog just was like sitting there like begging for food constantly, and I mean, she didn't do anything to like stop it. She just kind of was like, oh, that's so cute. Like, isn't she cute? And I was like, no, I mean, it's staring at my food, like I'm trying to eat, and I eventually just like gave the dog the rest at my food like i'm trying to eat and i just i eventually just like gave the dog

the food the rest of my food because i was like it's just salivating like looking at my food so she told us that you gave the dog the food she thought maybe you that you wanted to but you just gave it because it wouldn't stop sucka i was like it was like judging me you know like judging my order of tacos i was like okay here i have it you my order of talking. I was like, okay, here, have it. You like dogs, but you just didn't like this one, the way it acted. So you felt like you were on a date with a dog. Yeah, I mean, no, I love dogs. I love animals, but I mean, not that dog.

I mean, if that dog behaves the way it does, it says a lot about its owner. Oh, okay. What? Are you crazy? My dog is really well behaved. I honestly can't believe you have a problem with her. I'm super offended right now, actually. Toby, that's Avery.

That's part of the deal. Hi. Hi there. Hi. Yeah, I would disagree. If you had a problem with dogs or didn't like dogs i didn't have to bring the dog on the hike but he had talked about them before and she's really really well behaved she's completely trained we did training classes and everything and yeah we were outside she was having

fun and running around while we were hiking but that's literally what dogs do so i didn't realize you had a problem with dogs i don't have a problem with dogs uh your dog is not trained i think you should get a refund because whatever training you've had that dog is like wild so i i'm i'm sorry but that's not the case i've never had anyone tell me that before and i brought my dog on other dates before i she she comes and hangs out with my friends and we go to restaurants and no one's ever had a problem with her. She's super cute and I don't know, maybe she just got a weird vibe from you.

Oh, that does happen. I think other friends might not be telling you the truth. That's all I'm saying because you got to wrangle the dog in. Well, I don't think we'll be hanging out again then because I trust my dog. She has a really good sense of character and she clearly didn't take you, so I don't have any interest either.

Are you sure? Toby, would you like to go out again with Avery on a second date? We'll pay for it. No. I have to ask. No, it's okay. I'll pass. She can have a date with her dog.

I would much rather hang out with my dog any day, truly. Cool. I will take my dog on the date. It's the dog test. Yeah, and maybe I'll see you on that hike again sometime, and she'll pee on your foot or something. Okay. Okay.

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