First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Bailey & Craig - Those Shoes Tho

Episode Date: July 5, 2024

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the sweet spot, you know, in that week, did you try to reach out to her at all? Yeah, I have. I don't know. I don't know what's going on what's happening i thought it went really well so i'm not sure why she's not getting back to me okay what'd y'all do um we went to uh we went to this restaurant on the water i would say it's a seafood place nice yeah they have like great appetizers and stuff and and then we talked a lot and i mean she did bring tarot cards to the date like to do a reading yeah but she really didn't know how to how to use them so it was kind of like fun and cute it was kind of like a like an icebreaker type deal okay and yeah we were both like making up stories about what our future would be like

and it was cool we kind of we kind of just like, making up stories about what our future would be like. And it was cool. We kind of just, like, you know, talked about how much kids we wanted and grew up on a farm. It was fun. It was like we both, she was saying something similar as well. And, yeah, then it was going, everything was going great. And we walked, I walked her to her car. And we kind of, you know, made it out of the parking lot. And we did it for a while and it was great.

And then, I don't know, and I want to get, you know, get a hold of her because she's like really, really fun. She's like a really fun, fun person, which I'm really like looking for right now. And I really like the excitement she brings. Did anything happen on the date that was awkward at all? Yeah, a little bit um because um okay the way he said that i'm like yeah there was this huge thing afterwards i realized um i actually i'm kind of embarrassed by it actually because when i got home i realized like i i spilled olive oil on my on my my pants like my my um from the bread from like my on my crotch area okay and i didn't notice at all until i until i got home so the only thing i'm thinking of

i'm afraid if she thought like you know i peed myself or like something worse from the makeout i got too excited oh my gosh so was this a so it's a big oil stain that was on your pants? Yeah. It's because I dropped bread on me and the bread was, had a lot of oil on it. Yeah. And, um, I didn't, I didn't even know. I would have talked, I would have mentioned that. I didn't even know. So that's the only thing I think why she would not be, might be, not be calling me back.

Especially if it's in a certain area. I mean, it can look awkward. Yeah. And I tried like on the next day, it could look awkward. Yeah. And I tried, like, on the next day, she didn't answer. Yeah, I don't know if it's the pants or if it's something else.

I don't know. I don't know. And you said you've texted her. What did you say? I was just like, hey, how's it going? I had fun. But, like,

I'd love to do that again. I like you a lot. Yeah, you can't really explain over text. I feel like if I got a message, like a guy trying to explain what that was i don't know how i'd react well especially if she didn't see it maybe she did i don't want to like take a picture of my pants like hey about this

all right well yeah that would be worse probably hey well i want to talk to you about this all right we'll play a song come back and then call her. See if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. OK? OK, great. All right. We'll play a song, come back, get your first day follow up next. Hey, everyone.

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yeah, I went off this girl, Kate Bailey. Um, we had a lot of fun. We went to a seafood place. We, uh,

you know, play tarot cards, messed around, joked around me a little bit. Um, I think it went well. I think everything went well until I got home and I realized I had some, uh,

oil from the bread and I spilled on my pants and it's in my crotch area and it doesn't look great. So I called, texted, I haven't heard back. So I don't know. She's kind of ghosting me. I'm so sorry I'm laughing, but I mean, come on. That's got to be kind of funny. Yeah, I mean, it is.

Even if she is ghosting you because of that, it's still pretty funny. I know it is. 100%. All right. You ready for us to call her? Yeah, sure. Yeah. Okay.

Here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Bailey, please? Yeah, she hi bailey how are you my name is jubal and this is a radio show it's called the jubal show hi the whole show's here i'm nina hi and i'm victoria oh hi um i'm good uh hi guys thanks for calling i guess yeah have you listened to the show before yeah cool so we're calling because this is a first date follow-up where if you go on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, they can have us get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them and you're currently ghosting somebody.

Okay. Maybe. Do you have any idea who would email us? Well, I mean, I'm casually, you know, I've met some people, so I'm not exactly sure. Okay. Bailey's busy. So it could be a number of people. You want to throw out a name? Okay, let's see.

Is it Craig? Yes, congratulations. You did win something. You got that right. It's Craig. He emailed us and told us about your date, and he says that you haven't talked to him for a week, and he's wondering if you'll tell us why. Um, I mean, it actually might kind of sound super stupid, but yeah, I guess I have been avoiding him.

So I didn't like his shoes. What was wrong with his shoes? He was wearing these, like, half-sneaker, kind of like half hiking boot kind of shoe. You know, to our date. And and he just felt a little too like, you know, crunchy granola for me. Crunchy granola. OK. You know, there's like that type, the granola guy.

I don't know. That shouldn't be a big deal. I know that sounds probably a lot of people think that sounds super stupid. But for me at this point in my life, like it just seems like that's his vibe. And I, I'm like way too tired and like getting older, like to try to change a man and like make a man fit into like the kind of

style in life that I would live and, and to change how he acts or how he dresses. So yeah, I just feel like I'm past that like teaching stage of my life and i just want to find a man who is like an already trained ready to be like the way that i like him so you don't want to have to train a dude again to get him to yeah like let's be real we all know we train our men i mean come on like you know the drastic like women kind of you know we train our dudes to be in the way that we like our dudes.

And it just seemed like I'd have to work too hard to try to change him. And I shouldn't want to have to change somebody from who they are. You shouldn't. Yeah, you're right there. You shouldn't want to do that. I mean, I get wanting to influence somebody. Like, if you really like somebody and you really hate their shoes, I mean, there's definitely a way to be like, babe, you know, you'd look really cute in. I know. And that that seems simple but it just

seems like the way of life i know i i guess i just felt like i was like oh this is gonna take like months years of like trying to like maybe make you be the dude that i'm usually into but this is not your style so at this point i was just like eh you know what forget it like he was actually super hot i had a great time with him i just yeah after that i was just like this isn't gonna go past the first date did you know that craig is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you uh no well he is well hi hello hi how's it going i'm good i'm sorry that you had to hear all that it's nothing personal I think it's kind of shallow to be honest especially like over shoes like I have other pairs of shoes I mean yeah I

mean I think it's I don't know how you judge someone based off one appearance one date but I guess that's your thing it's kind of what you So, well, I mean, I apologize if you were like confused. I mean, I know we had like an awesome kiss at the end of the night and that was great. It's just like, to me, of course they made out, you know, like I had two glasses of Chardonnay and you were there, you know, like make out. So just like innocent and fun. Like, I think maybe by us kissing, you probably thought it would be more serious after that. Like, I don't know. It didn't have to mean anything.

Like, I just thought it was a one great date and that was a great time. But that we just like leave it at that. Okay. I mean, that's, that's fine. I mean, I guess you had a lot of past trauma about training guys or whatever that means. Um, but it was just a pair of shoes. So, I mean, it's fine. It's cool.

No worries. I hope you, you know, bring a pair of shoes to your next date that you want the guy to wear so you'll feel more comfortable. Yeah, I mean, I wouldn't really need to bring the shoes. I was obviously looking for a man who just, like, knows how to dress on a date is what I kind of mean. Like, I mean, you do you. I'm sure you have plenty of other great shoes then like why was that like the choice to represent who you are on date one so i wouldn't say this is all on me just like

i don't think it has anything to do with trauma it's just called i don't want to waste my time on someone who like isn't really putting the thought in on a date i mean i think a lot of girls like what I wear. I mean, I didn't like your makeup. It was really crappy. But I wasn't trying to end the entire relationship because you didn't know how to put on makeup. I guess that's your thing. So, you know, I just thought you had a bad makeup day.

I want to see how well you did the next time. But I guess we're not doing that. No. And like you said, you you'll find you said there's plenty of girls who like your shoes so definitely go find one of them and you'll have a second date i'm sure are we sure about that bailey would you like another day with craig we'll pay for it no i'm good i you know i like somebody who really wants to bring it and wants to respect me on the date i'll pass uh no i'm good as well i I'd rather not go on a second date. Someone who's empty and

shallow has trauma over shoes and shirts and the very questionable makeup choices. Jubal's first date follow up. Hey, everyone, it's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast.

Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, Ears Edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. The forces shaping markets and the economy are often hiding behind a blur of numbers. So that's why we created The Big Take from Bloomberg Podcasts, to give you the context you need to make sense of it all. Every day in just 15 minutes, we dive into one global business story that matters.

You'll hear from Bloomberg journalists like Matt Levine. A lot of this meme stock stuff is, I think, embarrassing to the SEC. Follow The Big Take Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen.