First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Becca & Jason - The Tomato Baby Talk That Ended a Perfect First Date
Episode Date: October 21, 2025Becca thought her date with Jason was going great — coffee, a farmer’s market, even haggling for honey. But when Jason suddenly ghosted her, she was left wondering what went wrong… ...until we called him. Let’s just say talking to produce like a baby might not be everyone’s love language. Listen now to The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up to find out what really scared him off! Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Becca is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jason.
So in a few minutes, we're going to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghost.
singer and maybe get her a second date.
But first, Becca, how long has it been since you heard from Jason?
Yeah, it's been, oh my gosh, a week and a half.
Okay.
That's usually the sweet spot when you start to panic a little bit.
Have you reached out to him?
Yeah.
Well, I really wanted him to reach out to me, but I kind of gave in, and I did text him
and haven't heard back.
Okay.
Well, tell us about your date.
yeah i really liked jason um my first impressions he was tall uh scruffy like in a good way and just sort of
he smelled really good like smelled like this would be a good decision um yeah i love that smell
i know right um and something that stood out to me like he i could tell that he was really
listening to me like like actually really listened um um and something that stood out to me like he i could tell that he was really listening
to me like like actually really listened um i was telling him kind of some of my hobbies and how i
i love biking and all things outdoors and at one point he even googled american elm trees
when i told him that's my favorite kind of tree that's cool like he really showed an interest and
really cared yeah um and our date was fun it was it went really well we met at a coffee shop so it was like
you know, easy and cozy, good conversation.
We had pastries and coffee.
And then it was actually going so well that we decided there was a farmer's market that
was like around the corner.
So we continued the date even and walked the farmer's market.
And that's how you know it's a good date because, you know, caffeine basically turned into
produce.
So what's not.
Girl math.
I like it.
I know.
But I mean, clearly he was having a good time, you know, because he didn't want, you
He could have just ended it, right?
He could have just left.
Totally.
I don't know.
Maybe I've been trying to rack my brain over what I, what could have gone wrong.
I don't understand.
And all I can really think is, you know, we got, we were walking around in the farmer's
market and we stopped at this stand with like a really amazing honey.
And I don't know if the honey lady did me in.
I don't know.
She wanted $25 for one tiny jar of honey.
And I'm sorry, that's insane.
Like, is it infused with gold?
I don't know.
So I decided that I wanted to, like, haggle with this honey lady.
And, you know, I was like, oh, I'll do two for 25.
She's like, no, I'm like, fine, two for 20.
She's like, absolutely not.
And we sort of went back and forth.
And you know what?
I won.
I actually won.
And, yes, I got two jars for $20.
Nice.
Wow.
But when I looked at Jason, it kind of looked like he wanted to sort of like melt into the sidewalk.
Like you think he was embarrassing or something?
Yeah, yeah.
And I didn't mean to be cheap or anything.
It just, that was an insane.
It wasn't a good deal yet, you know?
And I wanted to kind of, yeah, right?
So I don't know if that did it.
I don't know.
I swear the rest of the date was great.
We laughed.
He was laughing.
We got kettle corn.
He carried my bag, like my tote bag.
I don't know.
I just, I really, I was shocked when I didn't get a text back from him because I really, really thought that he was interested.
And I was so shocked I thought maybe his phone died or maybe he even got recruited.
the honey cartel.
You know.
All right.
We'll see if we can figure it out for you.
We'll play a song, come back, and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you
and maybe get to a second date, okay?
I hope so because I need some answers because seriously, like, if I actually got ghosted
over trying to stay $5, that would be tragic.
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follow-up, and if you're just joining us,
Becca is on the phone,
and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jason,
so we're about to call him
and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her,
you get her a second date.
But first, Becca, before we call him, give us a breakdown of your date again real quick.
Sure.
Yeah, we had a great date at a coffee shop that went really well that we then extended to walking
around the farmer's market and everything seemed really great.
We were laughing and enjoying our time together.
Great conversation.
But I haven't heard back from him.
And I'm guessing it's maybe because he didn't like when I haggled with the hunting.
lady to try to get a better price for money um but honestly like i if that's not it i don't know what it
is and i i'm hoping i can get some answers people do get weird when it comes to money so i don't know
they do are you ready for us to call him let's do it okay here we go
Hello?
Hi, may I speak to Jason, please?
Yeah, this is Jason.
Hey, Jason, how are you?
This is a radio show.
It's called The Jubal Show.
Hi, Jason, I'm Nina.
Hi, I'm Victoria.
And my name's Jubal.
What's up?
Hey, wait, on the radio right now?
Yeah.
Have you ever listened to The Jubal show before?
Yeah, yeah, I have.
Oh, okay, cool.
Well, guess what?
Yeah, nice to meet you guys.
Nice to meet you.
You know, we do a segment called The First Date.
follow-up, that's where if you go on a date with somebody and you ghost them, that person can email us to ask you why you're ghosting them.
And we got an email about you, Jason.
Oh, God.
Okay.
Wow.
This is after you.
Yeah, it is.
You have any idea?
Who would email us?
Yeah, I think so.
Who?
You say the name first, because I don't want to...
Let's count to three and we'll both say it.
Ready?
One.
two, three, Becca.
Dang it, you were late.
Is that it?
Yeah, yeah.
Okay.
Well, yeah, Becca emailed us.
She said that she really liked you.
I thought you guys had a great date,
but now you're not calling her back.
Do you mind telling us why?
Yeah.
Damn, I don't know why I'm getting shy.
This is kind of awkward, I guess.
I'll just say it.
It was the baby voice.
No?
The baby voice.
I just, yeah, yeah, you know, she would do a baby voice and once heard it, I just couldn't
unhear it.
When did she do it?
Was she talking to you in a baby voice?
No, no.
I mean, I thought that's where it was headed at one point, but we were, we stopped at a
tomato stand, you know, air and tomatoes in every color there is.
And she started talking to the tomatoes, like, they were.
baby like how can you can you please give us an example and she just was like what she
did okay didn't you say again she was like oh this tiny tomato so little so shiny
fussy buddy juicy boy like that oh okay and she was like he's saying look at this
widow tomato man he's so feeding you and they just could squish him and you know one she did
did, and then she did, like, voices for, like, multiple tomatoes, but they were, like, different
creepy baby voices, and I, it just wouldn't end, and it was cute, maybe a little cute at first,
and then, and then they just kept co-ing, and I thought it was funny, and then, I don't know,
I just felt like I needed to come up with an escape plan, you know?
Okay.
You got a baby to know.
All right, so you didn't like the baby voice.
Nope, not a fan.
of the big point.
All right, well, thank you for telling us, Jason.
Also, I have to remind you that Becca is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Wait, she's here?
Yes.
Oh.
Okay.
Okay.
So it wasn't the honey?
Like, I had a whole speech prepared about supporting local beekeepers because I thought it was like you were mad at the honey.
The honey?
The honey?
No, no, no.
No.
Yeah, because, like, I was haggling with the lady about the price and I thought that I
maybe embarrassed you or offended you or something.
Like, I had no idea.
It was the tomatoes.
No, it wasn't the tomatoes.
It was the baby boys.
You used to talk to the tomatoes.
Okay, but they were adorable.
Like, one was literally the size of my pinky, okay?
I mean, it was just a fun.
Yeah.
You've called it a nuggie, buggy, juicy boy.
It's out loud in public.
Well, it was snuggy and juicy.
I stand by that.
Juicy boys.
People staring at us.
Like, we were filming an episode of, I don't know,
The Bachelor, Farmer's Market Edition.
So what?
I can't show enthusiasm, especially for produce?
You can.
You know, there's enthusiasm.
and then there's, you know, I don't know, full-on baby talk performance.
Like, you're doing, like, I don't know, a one-person show or something and cradling it.
It was, he caught weird.
It just got me worried of, like, is this what it's going to be like in the future?
Like, for little everyday interactions, like, if we're going to the coffee shop or getting our oil change,
or you're just going to be like, oh, what a little oil, you know?
What you don't want me saying like this?
little couch is too expensive oncey.
Oh, that's cute.
It's cute, but weird for me.
And no, like, yeah, I can see that getting on my nerves or just, I'm going to say it.
A turn off.
Oh, but it's just a little too much for a little sensitive Jason Waysen?
Come on, Jason.
I'm having fun with it.
Like, seriously, this is, I'm just trying to have fun and, like, lighten the
mood the world is a dark place and
I'm just trying to bring some light and joy
it like that's why you're not calling
me back
yeah it reminds me of an overbearing auntie
you know
like some East Coast auntie
that is just you know
I think you're really cute but
then that voice really is
not something that does it for me
and then you know it kind of ruins
the mood well Jason
would you like another day with Becca will pay for it
no i think i'm good i think my grocery trips have enough draw and lives so
well fine then more juicy boys for me
it's your loss agent i'm sorry i didn't i'm sorry i'm sorry i you could have even just
told me and i would have stopped but all good that's fair okay jubble's first day follow-up
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