First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Ben & Riley - What is That??

Episode Date: January 22, 2025

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow UpWhat happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.======This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here… ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts======The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  ======Meet The Jubal Show Cast:====== Jubal Fresh - https://jubalshow.com/featured/jubal-fresh/  Nina - https://thejubalshow.com/featured/ninaontheair/ Victoria - https://jubalshow.com/featured/victoria-ramirez/  Brad Nolan - https://jubalshow.com/featured/brad-nolan/  Sharkey - https://jubalshow.com/featured/richard-sharkey/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Have you been trying to reach out to her? I'm sure not to be crazy, but you know, two messages. Okay. You just want to know how blatantly ghosted you are. Oh, I feel very good. It's so long. I know that sucks. I'm sorry. Okay. Let's talk about your date know that sucks. I'm sorry. Yeah. Um, okay. Let's talk about your date. How did you meet her?

What? How did you leave it? Personally, I think the date went, you know, there was a little bit of awkwardness, but it was like a good date. We're in the same field. So we've known each other forever, like, or not forever, but like professional lives. We've known each other. Okay. their professional lives we've known each other okay okay we've been talking just like like friends or co-worker or co-whatever and then one day like there was this like thing where we I noticed and I just was like what's trying to do

a date and so this was the first one of those okay well that's kind of an ideal situation yeah how was the date I wouldn't be calling it. I thought this was like a bad date. I thought the date was great. What did y'all do? She met up at my place, but then we walked to the really great restaurant near my, near me. And then so we walked there, had dinner, dinner was great. Came back, movie.

Was there any part of this that started to get a little awkward or off? The one thing that was awkward was on the TV was some dirty video content. Like when you turned on your TV? That was the last thing you were watching? Yeah. In my difference, it was the night before. It wasn't like that's what I was doing right before the day.

I got home, I brushed my teeth, I took a shower, I went. It was on for me. What the hell? What is that? Wait, either way. Okay. So you turned on the TV and she saw what you had been watching that you probably don't want people seeing what you were watching.

Oh gosh. It's definitely not on first day. The thing is though, we laughed it off. Okay. Because she noticed. Are you sure she noticed? Oh yeah. Okay.

I mean I didn't know how happy she was. Yeah. Yeah. You can't unsee what you saw. Okay. She laughed it off but did it seem like it bothered her? No. That's not.

That's what I was saying. It was like a hiccup. It didn't feel like a hiccup. OK, like it didn't know like she she was that's how cool she is, like she didn't make it a thing. Well, she's maybe being polite because also it kind of feels like

are you trying to drop a hand? Yeah, like is this what you want? That looks fun, huh? I just know that it's weird that we haven't talked in so many days. Well, how did you leave it? That is the, I guess the second thing up that I feel is I just didn't feel that we like the let's go in for the kiss moment. And so I just we didn't do that.

And so just like, let's leave it, but like not leave it and not a date okay yeah but and she has been ignoring all of your phone calls and texts and stuff yeah yeah yeah yeah okay well we'll try to figure it out we'll play a song come back and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, alright? Yeah, I'm pink. Alright, we'll play a song, come back, get your first date, follow up next. Ugh, we're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes.

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Yeah accidentally playing when we when she got back to my place. Accidentally. Yeah, accidentally. It was something playing the night before, but it could have been the thing. I don't think it is. Alright, well, we'll give her a call and see if we can figure it out for you. Ready? Yep, yep. Okay, here is she. Hey Riley, how are you?

My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Yeah, the show's here Riley. I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. How are you? Hi.

Hi. I'm the little cur. I'm the little cur. I'm the little cur. I'm the little cur. I'm the little cur. I'm the little cur. I'm the little cur.

I'm the little cur. I'm the little cur. I'm here. Riley, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. How are you? Hi. I'm a little confused. Why are you guys calling me? Have you ever listened to the show before? I mean, it's been a while, but I don't know why you guys are

calling me. Well, we do a segment on the show called the first date follow up. That's where if you go on a date with somebody and then end up ghosting them, we call you and ask why. And we got an email about you from somebody. Oh really?

Are you ghosting somebody? Uh huh. I mean... Yeah, just a little bit. Is his name Ben? Yeah. How does Ben say Ben? Just a little bit.

Yeah. Ben emailed us and told us a little bit about your date. He also said he likes you a lot and he's confused why he's getting ghosted. Would you mind telling us? I don't know if I should. That's okay. You can tell us. Yeah. Okay.

Well, I'm pretty sure he was high when we met up. Oh, why do you think so? So we stopped by at his apartment and it really stink of weed. It really did. Okay. And he just looked so disconnected. It was just like he was out in outer space and like, couldn't talk to him like the whole entire date. It was just like, couldn't get like full sentences from him

and you know, since we've known each other for a long time, it's the whole opposite of who I really know. I mean, maybe he was kind of nervous, you know, some people like to take a shot before they go on a date and then maybe like that's not his jam, but like, he just, you know, like smoked a little bowl real quick. I mean, maybe, but I just didn't know Ben was a loser. Oh.

So you don't like that if he was stoned Yeah, when it comes to bad like you just he's just not the same person You know, he's like full on sentences and such on our date. It was just like Yeah It's alright You felt like you're talking to a wall Yes a big stone wall. Okay. All alright. Well, thank you for telling us. Appreciate it. And now I'll let you know that Ben is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh, hey.

You have a weed? You don't, you have a problem with weed? That was your takeaway? How are you? Perfect. We're areliers like you. Our job is the creative. Yeah, it's I'm I'm I'm I'm, yeah, I'm baffled that like what we're we're adults. It's it's like people smoke weed.

So you are high. Yeah, I'm high right now. I'm high. I can't work. I have to work. Yeah, like what? I mean, yeah, I'm hiring out. I'm high. Yeah. Like what? Yeah. I'm an adult. This is just what I do through the day. I think everyone knew I, I'm high. I'm like, it's not a problem, but I am high. You are totally different from work and on a date.

So. Yeah, that's because there's work weed and then there's after work weed. And I, it's so weird. I don't even think I didn't even do much anymore. Like no, no, no one ever, this is the first person I ever checked me on. Like, Oh yeah, you were high. I mean, I don't know. I'm trying to follow you right now, Ben.

I only have a little bit flustered. This is not, I cannot believe this is the problem. I thought this was like, nah, just when we were in it, we understood each other. You're just not the person I thought you were. Like, I felt like I was talking to a wall on our date. Oh, yeah. Yeah. OK, that's that's OK.

That's that's chilling me, I guess. You know, I don't want this to be weird. Can we like still be friends? Is this like a really like done? Well, let me ask Riley, would you like to go on another date with Ben? We'll pay for it. I mean, I definitely don't want to go on a second date with Ben, but I'm cool with us being friends.

Okay. I, we're going to be friends. Like you want to come over and smoke weed and play some video games. This is what I do with all my other friends. No, I don't do that, but we can still be friends. All right. Well, Ben, I'm sorry. No second date and no video games. Yeah.

All right. Well, this is embarrassing. I'm going to have to go smoke some disappointment weed. Jubals first date follow up. I'll smoke some disappointment weed. Okay. Jubal's first date follow up. John Stewart is back at The Daily Show and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears with The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Dive into John's unique take on the biggest topics in politics, entertainment, sports, and more.

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