First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Benthany & Jeremy - Bro’s Bro
Episode Date: May 7, 2024➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow UpWhat happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get... roasted, when you really just want a second date.======This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here… ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts======The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshow YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh ======Meet The Jubal Show Cast:====== Jubal Fresh - https://jubalshow.com/featured/jubal-fresh/ Nina - https://thejubalshow.com/featured/ninaontheair/ Victoria - https://jubalshow.com/featured/victoria-ramirez/ Brad Nolan - https://jubalshow.com/featured/brad-nolan/ Sharkey - https://jubalshow.com/featured/richard-sharkey/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Bethany is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and she's getting ghosted by a guy
named Jeremy. So in a second, we'll call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date.
But first, Bethany, how long has it been since you heard from Jeremy?
It's been a few weeks.
I haven't heard anything from him.
And it's weird because I thought the date went really well.
What did y'all do?
We went and got dinner.
Sort of like a happy hour type thing.
We got a couple of different plates of stuff. We shared both got dinner. It was sort of like a happy hour type thing. We got, like, a couple different plates of stuff.
We shared both of them.
And I really liked him.
Like, we have a lot in common.
We both just recently moved here.
We're both originally from small towns.
And we're both really, like, career motivated and excited about our job and things like that.
So, I don't know i thought it
was a really good match did you feel like he liked you i thought he did i know it's a weird question
because when you get so caught up in liking somebody you're not really paying attention to
if like wait a minute yeah that's true yeah i thought he liked me but i haven't heard from him
so i'm not sure okay well i made that a very terrible narrative I'm not saying that he doesn't
like you maybe something happened
did you guys kiss at all
did you hug how did the date end
um we didn't kiss at all
um we just like hugged and said goodnight
but the vibe
was really positive like
we had a really good time we were
talking a lot um to
the point where I thought we were going to have a second date.
So, yeah, I don't really know what happened.
Is there anything you can think of that might be a reason that he's ghosting you?
I don't know.
The only thing I can think of is that, like, I feel like I definitely ate more food than him.
We shared some plates, and I feel like now i'm kind of worried that i just like
ate a lot more of the food is that actually a thing what do you mean like do guys actually
like not like that i don't know does it happen it's definitely a thing where girls feel self-conscious
about it women feel self-conscious about it yeah i hear them feel self-conscious but i didn't know
if like i don't know if i know any guys that would want to ghost somebody
after they went on a date with them
and they ate a bunch.
I actually think it's cool
because it's like,
oh, you're relaxed enough to just eat a bunch.
Yeah.
I would get annoyed
if it's go to a really nice steakhouse or something
and then somebody's self-conscious about eating a lot
so then they order a salad
because a salad's like 50 bucks anyway.
So it's like,
just go ahead and spend the money on a steak
and enjoy yourself.
So hopefully that's not it because that would be ridiculous yeah so like he just like walked me to my car and we said good night and we hugged just sort of i don't know there's an
implication that he was gonna call or text or something and i didn't hear anything. Did you reach out to him? I did reach out to him.
I texted him once
and I didn't get a response.
I didn't want to text him too much
because I didn't want to like
overwhelm him or anything and I really
I just thought he was
going to text me
or call me.
Alright and you literally have no idea why
he's ghosting.
Yeah.
I mean, it's just like, I guess the only thing I can think of is the food thing.
I don't know.
Maybe I was eating too loud or I was like being too messy.
All right.
I don't know.
Okay.
Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you.
We'll play a song, come back and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date if you still want one.
Okay.
Sounds good.
All right.
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Right in the middle
of your first date, follow up if you're just joining us,
Bethany is on the phone, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jeremy.
So in a second, we're going to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her
and maybe get her another date if she still wants one.
But before we do that, Bethany, why don't you catch everybody up on your situation?
Yeah, so basically I went on a date with this guy a week or so ago.
We had a great time, got drinks, dinner.
I thought it went really well.
We have a lot in common.
I was really into him.
He walked me in my car.
We said goodnight, and I just didn't hear from him at all.
And I texted him, and he just didn't respond.
So now I'm just not sure what's going on.
And I would really like to know.
Okay.
Make sure it's not because you ate a lot.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And I would like to know it's not because I ate a lot.
All right.
We're about to call him right now.
Are you ready?
Yep.
Okay, here we go.
Hello?
Hey, is this Jeremy?
Yeah, this is you.
Jeremy, what's up, man?
How are you?
My name is Jubal and I host a radio show.
It's called The Jubal Show.
Hi, Jeremy.
I'm Nina, also on the show.
Hi, and I'm Victoria.
How are you?
Hi, I'm doing fine.
Sweet.
Do you listen to the show ever?
I mean, I'm familiar, yeah.
Okay.
I don't know if you're familiar or not with the segment we do.
It's called the First Date Follow-Up.
That's where if you go on a date with somebody and then you ghost them,
that person can ask us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an email about you from somebody.
Oh, okay.
Can you think of anybody that you're ghosting currently?
Uh,
I'm afraid not.
Have you gone on any dates recently?
This is Bethany.
I take it.
Yes. Bethany emailed
us and then we talked to her about your day a little bit
and she said it's been like a few weeks
and you haven't talked to her so she's wondering
if you would mind telling us why you're ghosting her well i mean i had a great time with her we we i
really liked it because we went out we had food and then she's she's nice to talk to uh but i got
really excited and so i was starting to show my bros you know like pictures from the night and
i was telling her about her and you know one
of them my my guy uh rob he actually he said wait a minute no i i know who this is i know bethany
okay actually i went out with her for a while a few weeks ago I actually went out with her and we ended up, we slept together.
And every day afterward, she kept just trying to get a hold of me.
It was like this constant, hey, what's up?
And I couldn't, I couldn't like get her.
I couldn't drop a hint that she would understand.
So I eventually texted her on like, I don't know, like the third or fourth day just to
say that, hey, we're not a good match and then then she stopped bugging me so i was like
oh i do not want to get into that you know i do i don't want to wade into any of that well it sounds
like communication i'm not sure what wading into that means but because to me he finally nipped it
in the butt by telling her what was what so really it was his fault that it got weird if you think about it so you actually would have had the power to
communicate with her what you wanted from her and especially if you were excited
doesn't mean that you guys would have the same situation i don't know i feel a little triggered
by that excuse i'm sorry i guess i just i didn't i don't want to even get involved with any of that.
Like, I'm not going to I don't want it to get to the point where I've got to send out a text of like, hey, don't do this anymore.
I just I know.
Well, why are you dating?
Like, are you dating to be casual or are you dating to meet someone?
So why are you anticipating telling somebody I don't want to hear from you?
I mean, like, I just I want to meet people and hang out.
And I don't want to keep it kind of casual, which is nice.
But I just, I'm not going to be with someone who's going to be.
Who likes you?
Who wants to talk to you?
Are you kidding me?
I'm sorry.
Well, Jeremy, thanks for being honest with us. I will also let you know that Bethany is actually on the phone and wants to talk to you.
And she's been listening.
Hi.
Okay, I gotta say I'm like a little bit shocked by what I'm hearing right now.
Like I do, I know, I know exactly what you're talking about.
I remember Rob, obviously. Okay, so he was really nice at first. We had a really good date. We talked about going on a second date. And that's like kind of the reason I slept with him. And we slept together. And then he just completely ghosted me again. It just keeps happening to me.
And, yeah, I texted him a few times.
We had just slept together.
But I didn't text him like crazy.
I literally texted him a couple times.
And then he messaged back saying he didn't want to see me anymore.
I, yeah, I mean, I was bummed.
I trust Rob's
judgment and if it was
too much for him then it's
going to be too much for me you know
I gotta go
it was not too much I literally texted
him like a few times
because we had like maybe I'm old fashioned
but I feel like if you
sleep with someone
I gotta trust Rob's judgment
on this one. Jeremy how many friends do you
have? Like how many is in your
inner circle and can we have all of their names
so Bethany knows not to date any single
one of them because you guys have interesting
bro rules.
I don't know just I think you know we're tight
we like to make sure that we're all on the same page
about this kind of stuff. Your friends are all
on the same page about like how you date yeah i mean aren't yours
yeah they don't tell me who to see and not well yes they do
yeah but different jeremy but different okay i think we've worked out a really nice sort of
system you know i talk about my date now well when my friend goes, hey, don't don't do that.
And I'm like, OK, well, hi, Rob.
I go in.
I talked about what kind of what kind of girls to see.
I trust Rob if he says, hey, that's not that's not a good one.
And like, that's not a good one.
You know?
Yeah.
I mean, look, with us, it's dogs before broads, you know?
What?
Yes.
Dogs before broads. Eww? What? Yes, thoughts before broads.
Eww, eww.
It's a red flag alert.
It's like even worse than broads before f***.
Listen, Jeremy, I respect your friend circle,
but Bethany?
It's time to get out.
It's time to go.
Yeah, I am not about this at all.
I do not like that mentality from a grown man.
So I'm good.
I'm not bad.
I still haven't asked yet.
Jeremy, would you like to go on another date with Bethany?
We'll pay for it.
Dogs before...
No, no.
I got to listen to the dogs.
All right.
Do you guys bark when you see each other?
Who was that?
That was a young dog.
That was a bulldog.
And Bethany, I'm assuming you're cool.
You don't want another date?
Yeah, I would like to never see either of them again, to be honest.
It is rough in these streets.
Jubal's first date follow-up.
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friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the
God. We're going to take some
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